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01:08:30.180 --> 01:08:31.279
takes<01:08:30.479><c> courage</c><01:08:30.760><c> to</c><01:08:31.020><c> discuss</c>

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01:08:44.539 --> 01:08:47.140
we're<01:08:44.979><c> actually</c><01:08:45.180><c> going</c><01:08:45.340><c> to</c><01:08:45.420><c> do</c><01:08:45.560><c> two</c><01:08:45.880><c> exercises</c><01:08:46.399><c> the</c><01:08:46.659><c> first</c><01:08:46.880><c> one</c><01:08:47.020><c> is</c>

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you<01:08:49.800><c> can</c><01:08:50.039><c> see</c><01:08:50.220><c> the</c><01:08:50.640><c> instructions</c>

01:08:54.859 --> 01:08:57.380
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01:09:11.220 --> 01:09:12.859
and<01:09:11.680><c> uh</c><01:09:11.699><c> and</c><01:09:11.899><c> look</c><01:09:12.000><c> together</c>

01:09:13.960 --> 01:09:19.880
telling<01:09:14.600><c> each</c><01:09:14.899><c> other</c><01:09:15.199><c> your</c><01:09:15.640><c> uh</c><01:09:15.859><c> your</c><01:09:16.100><c> thoughts</c><01:09:16.760><c> and</c><01:09:17.840><c> uh</c><01:09:18.319><c> importance</c><01:09:18.840><c> of</c><01:09:19.380><c> of</c>

01:09:19.880 --> 01:09:21.180
sharing<01:09:20.279><c> feelings</c>

01:09:23.300 --> 01:09:28.680
sorry<01:09:23.939><c> i'm</c><01:09:24.260><c> on</c><01:09:24.720><c> uh</c>

01:09:28.680 --> 01:09:30.720
this<01:09:28.880><c> might</c><01:09:29.020><c> have</c><01:09:29.140><c> been</c><01:09:29.260><c> a</c><01:09:29.479><c> change</c><01:09:29.739><c> between</c><01:09:30.060><c> the</c><01:09:30.260><c> two</c><01:09:30.399><c> books</c>

01:09:30.720 --> 01:09:31.539
uh

01:09:35.399 --> 01:09:43.159
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01:09:43.159 --> 01:09:44.140
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01:09:44.140 --> 01:09:46.739
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01:09:54.000 --> 01:09:56.279
back<01:09:54.260><c> and</c><01:09:54.500><c> forth</c><01:09:54.739><c> and</c><01:09:55.180><c> share</c>

01:09:57.039 --> 01:09:58.899
your<01:09:57.600><c> own</c><01:09:57.880><c> thoughts</c>

01:10:07.460 --> 01:10:08.020
okay

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01:10:15.539 --> 01:10:15.939
your<01:10:15.739><c> own</c>

01:10:15.939 --> 01:10:21.140
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01:10:21.140 --> 01:10:22.159
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01:10:22.159 --> 01:10:25.460
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01:10:44.659 --> 01:10:48.380
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01:10:48.380 --> 01:10:49.619
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01:10:49.619 --> 01:10:52.300
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01:10:52.300 --> 01:10:56.180
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01:10:56.180 --> 01:11:03.840
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01:11:13.220 --> 01:11:15.579
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01:11:16.600 --> 01:11:21.060
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01:11:21.060 --> 01:11:22.380
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01:11:22.380 --> 01:11:24.399
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01:11:24.399 --> 01:11:26.180
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01:11:26.180 --> 01:11:28.479
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01:11:32.840 --> 01:11:37.199
and<01:11:33.359><c> what</c><01:11:33.600><c> makes</c><01:11:34.159><c> that</c><01:11:34.659><c> person</c><01:11:35.140><c> a</c><01:11:35.560><c> good</c><01:11:36.119><c> listener</c>

01:11:38.600 --> 01:11:42.640
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01:11:42.640 --> 01:11:44.779
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01:11:44.779 --> 01:11:45.420
okay

01:11:49.659 --> 01:11:56.880
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01:12:14.779 --> 01:12:15.319
you

01:12:29.319 --> 01:12:33.659
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01:12:34.859 --> 01:12:38.250
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01:13:08.409 --> 01:13:10.909
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01:13:14.810 --> 01:13:15.649
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01:13:15.649 --> 01:13:18.550
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01:13:18.550 --> 01:13:20.750
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01:13:25.470 --> 01:13:30.170
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01:13:30.170 --> 01:13:35.130
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01:13:35.130 --> 01:13:42.949
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01:14:10.470 --> 01:14:15.869
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01:14:15.869 --> 01:14:17.369
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01:14:17.369 --> 01:14:21.270
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01:14:21.270 --> 01:14:23.750
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01:14:29.909 --> 01:14:33.090
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01:14:33.090 --> 01:14:35.449
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01:14:35.449 --> 01:14:38.050
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01:14:38.189 --> 01:14:43.189
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01:14:43.189 --> 01:14:44.449
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01:14:44.449 --> 01:14:48.170
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01:14:52.109 --> 01:14:57.949
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01:15:00.909 --> 01:15:05.729
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01:15:12.069 --> 01:15:12.670
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01:16:13.630 --> 01:16:16.930
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01:16:31.149 --> 01:16:32.550
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01:16:50.250 --> 01:16:51.260
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01:17:12.720 --> 01:17:13.659
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01:17:40.880 --> 01:17:44.039
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01:17:56.140 --> 01:17:57.060
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01:18:10.340 --> 01:18:18.520
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01:18:18.520 --> 01:18:21.640
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01:18:27.699 --> 01:18:30.159
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01:18:30.159 --> 01:18:35.399
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01:18:51.779 --> 01:18:53.720
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presented<01:19:08.420><c> to</c><01:19:08.680><c> me</c><01:19:09.039><c> without</c><01:19:09.420><c> spot</c><01:19:09.819><c> and</c><01:19:10.119><c> blemish</c><01:19:12.079><c> and</c><01:19:13.819><c> if</c><01:19:14.020><c> we</c><01:19:14.239><c> didn't</c>

01:19:17.039 --> 01:19:22.159
we<01:19:17.640><c> shouldn't</c><01:19:17.859><c> be</c><01:19:18.159><c> surprised</c><01:19:19.119><c> at</c><01:19:19.760><c> christ's</c><01:19:20.840><c> response</c><01:19:20.840><c> so</c><01:19:21.579><c> this</c><01:19:21.840><c> is</c>

01:19:22.159 --> 01:19:24.500
extremely<01:19:22.920><c> important</c>

01:19:25.119 --> 01:19:30.100
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01:19:30.319 --> 01:19:34.680
we<01:19:30.899><c> don't</c><01:19:31.199><c> love</c><01:19:31.439><c> her</c><01:19:31.659><c> because</c><01:19:31.960><c> she's</c><01:19:32.399><c> worthy</c><01:19:32.699><c> of</c><01:19:32.979><c> it</c><01:19:33.659><c> we</c><01:19:34.420><c> don't</c>

01:19:34.680 --> 01:19:36.779
love<01:19:34.939><c> her</c><01:19:35.100><c> that</c><01:19:35.399><c> way</c><01:19:35.539><c> because</c><01:19:35.840><c> she's</c><01:19:36.260><c> earned</c><01:19:36.479><c> it</c>

01:19:36.779 --> 01:19:39.539
it's<01:19:37.539><c> because</c><01:19:37.880><c> what</c><01:19:38.140><c> she</c><01:19:38.319><c> needs</c>

01:19:41.020 --> 01:19:44.060
again<01:19:41.560><c> brother</c><01:19:41.880><c> harry</c><01:19:42.239><c> tenant</c><01:19:42.600><c> had</c><01:19:42.840><c> a</c><01:19:43.159><c> simple</c><01:19:43.439><c> golden</c><01:19:43.779><c> rule</c>

01:19:44.060 --> 01:19:46.199
for<01:19:44.319><c> all</c><01:19:44.520><c> husbands</c><01:19:44.899><c> if</c><01:19:45.060><c> you</c><01:19:45.199><c> read</c><01:19:45.300><c> the</c><01:19:45.520><c> article</c>

01:19:46.199 --> 01:19:53.420
seek<01:19:47.140><c> your</c><01:19:47.560><c> wife's</c><01:19:48.340><c> salvation</c><01:19:49.079><c> above</c><01:19:50.220><c> all</c><01:19:50.520><c> else</c><01:19:51.199><c> so</c><01:19:52.800><c> in</c><01:19:52.979><c> the</c>

01:19:53.420 --> 01:19:55.300
the<01:19:53.640><c> time</c><01:19:53.819><c> remaining</c><01:19:54.159><c> till</c><01:19:54.380><c> lunch</c><01:19:54.600><c> which</c><01:19:54.800><c> is</c><01:19:55.079><c> fairly</c>

01:19:55.300 --> 01:19:57.800
soon<01:19:55.539><c> we</c><01:19:55.699><c> just</c><01:19:55.899><c> want</c><01:19:56.020><c> to</c><01:19:56.220><c> shift</c><01:19:56.359><c> our</c><01:19:56.579><c> attention</c><01:19:56.920><c> to</c><01:19:57.119><c> the</c><01:19:57.319><c> wives</c>

01:19:57.800 --> 01:20:01.039
again<01:19:59.439><c> there's</c><01:19:59.899><c> more</c><01:20:00.159><c> written</c><01:20:00.460><c> in</c><01:20:00.640><c> the</c><01:20:00.800><c> notes</c>

01:20:01.039 --> 01:20:06.479
we're<01:20:01.319><c> going</c><01:20:01.600><c> to</c><01:20:01.739><c> have</c><01:20:01.960><c> to</c><01:20:02.279><c> have</c><01:20:02.779><c> time</c><01:20:03.060><c> to</c><01:20:03.420><c> review</c><01:20:04.039><c> the</c><01:20:06.300><c> world</c>

01:20:06.479 --> 01:20:09.100
looks<01:20:06.739><c> at</c><01:20:06.920><c> all</c><01:20:07.060><c> of</c><01:20:07.199><c> this</c><01:20:07.399><c> and</c><01:20:07.659><c> says</c><01:20:07.819><c> to</c><01:20:08.079><c> submit</c>

01:20:09.479 --> 01:20:15.520
what's<01:20:10.000><c> the</c><01:20:10.140><c> second</c><01:20:10.340><c> word</c><01:20:10.579><c> in</c><01:20:10.800><c> ephesians</c><01:20:11.140><c> five</c><01:20:12.199><c> one</c><01:20:13.039><c> is</c><01:20:13.779><c> submission</c><01:20:14.340><c> one</c><01:20:14.760><c> is</c>

01:20:19.079 --> 01:20:22.220
sorry<01:20:19.600><c> sorry</c><01:20:20.119><c> i'm</c><01:20:20.359><c> now</c><01:20:20.600><c> looking</c><01:20:20.840><c> at</c><01:20:21.020><c> the</c><01:20:21.239><c> responsibility</c><01:20:21.840><c> i</c>

01:20:22.220 --> 01:20:24.060
jumped<01:20:22.520><c> ahead</c><01:20:22.880><c> i'm</c><01:20:23.119><c> just</c><01:20:23.260><c> sorry</c><01:20:23.359><c> there's</c><01:20:23.600><c> three</c><01:20:23.819><c> words</c>

01:20:24.060 --> 01:20:30.460
that<01:20:24.819><c> describe</c><01:20:25.600><c> the</c><01:20:25.960><c> wife's</c><01:20:26.579><c> responsibilities</c><01:20:27.300><c> she</c><01:20:28.560><c> is</c><01:20:28.880><c> to</c>

01:20:30.460 --> 01:20:32.460
be<01:20:30.859><c> subject</c><01:20:31.180><c> to</c><01:20:31.380><c> her</c><01:20:31.520><c> husband</c>

01:20:32.539 --> 01:20:36.779
she<01:20:32.859><c> is</c><01:20:33.140><c> to</c><01:20:33.319><c> submit</c><01:20:33.560><c> to</c><01:20:33.779><c> her</c><01:20:33.939><c> husband</c><01:20:34.340><c> and</c><01:20:34.659><c> she</c><01:20:34.760><c> is</c><01:20:35.039><c> to</c><01:20:35.260><c> reverence</c><01:20:35.939><c> or</c><01:20:36.180><c> respect</c><01:20:36.579><c> her</c>

01:20:36.779 --> 01:20:39.140
husband<01:20:37.420><c> 22</c><01:20:38.060><c> 24</c><01:20:38.619><c> and</c><01:20:38.840><c> 31</c>

01:20:39.140 --> 01:20:42.680
i<01:20:39.260><c> think</c><01:20:39.479><c> it</c><01:20:39.600><c> is</c><01:20:39.699><c> so</c><01:20:39.899><c> those</c><01:20:40.359><c> those</c><01:20:41.079><c> are</c><01:20:41.279><c> her</c><01:20:41.539><c> responsibilities</c>

01:20:42.680 --> 01:20:45.579
in<01:20:43.500><c> ephesians</c><01:20:43.899><c> five</c><01:20:44.279><c> the</c><01:20:44.539><c> world</c><01:20:44.720><c> looks</c><01:20:44.939><c> like</c><01:20:45.159><c> this</c><01:20:45.340><c> and</c>

01:20:45.579 --> 01:20:49.560
says<01:20:45.699><c> it's</c><01:20:46.020><c> archaic</c><01:20:47.399><c> but</c><01:20:47.779><c> as</c><01:20:47.979><c> we</c><01:20:48.060><c> know</c><01:20:48.220><c> in</c><01:20:48.439><c> scripture</c><01:20:48.720><c> and</c><01:20:48.920><c> again</c><01:20:49.020><c> we've</c><01:20:49.260><c> given</c><01:20:49.359><c> you</c>

01:20:49.560 --> 01:20:50.680
the<01:20:49.739><c> references</c><01:20:50.060><c> in</c><01:20:50.260><c> the</c><01:20:50.420><c> handout</c>

01:20:50.680 --> 01:20:55.960
her<01:20:51.119><c> focus</c><01:20:51.880><c> is</c><01:20:52.859><c> to</c><01:20:53.000><c> be</c><01:20:53.199><c> on</c><01:20:53.279><c> her</c><01:20:53.500><c> home</c><01:20:53.939><c> titus</c><01:20:54.560><c> 2</c><01:20:54.760><c> verse</c><01:20:55.079><c> five</c><01:20:55.380><c> says</c><01:20:55.560><c> she's</c><01:20:55.859><c> to</c>

01:20:55.960 --> 01:20:57.720
be<01:20:56.060><c> a</c><01:20:56.199><c> keeper</c><01:20:56.420><c> at</c><01:20:56.619><c> home</c><01:20:57.020><c> her</c><01:20:57.359><c> focus</c>

01:20:57.720 --> 01:21:02.619
is<01:20:57.979><c> to</c><01:20:58.119><c> be</c><01:20:58.220><c> on</c><01:20:58.340><c> her</c><01:20:58.520><c> husband</c><01:20:58.920><c> and</c><01:20:59.220><c> her</c><01:20:59.439><c> children</c><01:21:00.180><c> and</c><01:21:02.199><c> in</c><01:21:02.380><c> first</c>

01:21:02.619 --> 01:21:05.539
peter<01:21:02.939><c> three</c><01:21:03.500><c> we</c><01:21:04.260><c> won't</c><01:21:04.640><c> go</c><01:21:04.899><c> back</c><01:21:05.159><c> there</c><01:21:05.319><c> but</c>

01:21:05.539 --> 01:21:08.300
remember<01:21:06.000><c> in</c><01:21:06.359><c> verse</c><01:21:06.640><c> one</c><01:21:06.880><c> of</c><01:21:07.079><c> first</c><01:21:07.279><c> peter</c><01:21:07.579><c> three</c><01:21:07.800><c> it</c><01:21:08.000><c> isn't</c>

01:21:08.300 --> 01:21:10.840
dependent<01:21:08.880><c> upon</c><01:21:09.300><c> the</c><01:21:09.560><c> husband</c><01:21:09.899><c> being</c><01:21:10.180><c> in</c><01:21:10.340><c> the</c><01:21:10.579><c> truth</c>

01:21:10.840 --> 01:21:14.300
this<01:21:11.239><c> principle</c><01:21:11.680><c> of</c><01:21:11.939><c> submission</c><01:21:12.300><c> so</c><01:21:12.600><c> even</c><01:21:12.899><c> those</c><01:21:13.279><c> wives</c><01:21:13.800><c> who</c>

01:21:14.300 --> 01:21:16.100
were<01:21:14.500><c> married</c><01:21:14.760><c> to</c><01:21:14.979><c> men</c><01:21:15.119><c> outside</c><01:21:15.500><c> the</c><01:21:15.800><c> truth</c><01:21:15.939><c> they</c>

01:21:16.100 --> 01:21:20.560
were<01:21:16.340><c> still</c><01:21:16.579><c> to</c><01:21:16.699><c> be</c><01:21:16.899><c> subject</c><01:21:17.260><c> to</c><01:21:17.479><c> them</c><01:21:18.500><c> and</c><01:21:19.979><c> you</c><01:21:20.119><c> sit</c><01:21:20.319><c> here</c><01:21:20.479><c> and</c>

01:21:20.560 --> 01:21:22.119
you<01:21:20.680><c> think</c><01:21:20.779><c> well</c><01:21:20.979><c> my</c><01:21:21.140><c> husband</c><01:21:21.460><c> is</c><01:21:21.640><c> not</c><01:21:21.800><c> outside</c>

01:21:22.119 --> 01:21:24.180
the<01:21:22.380><c> truth</c><01:21:22.479><c> so</c><01:21:22.699><c> that</c><01:21:22.880><c> verse</c><01:21:23.060><c> doesn't</c><01:21:23.359><c> apply</c><01:21:23.659><c> to</c><01:21:23.760><c> me</c><01:21:23.899><c> actually</c>

01:21:24.180 --> 01:21:27.979
it<01:21:24.500><c> does</c><01:21:25.000><c> because</c><01:21:26.079><c> if</c><01:21:26.340><c> a</c><01:21:26.520><c> wife</c><01:21:26.760><c> is</c><01:21:27.020><c> to</c><01:21:27.140><c> be</c><01:21:27.399><c> subject</c>

01:21:27.979 --> 01:21:33.020
to<01:21:28.380><c> her</c><01:21:28.680><c> husband</c><01:21:29.220><c> who's</c><01:21:29.539><c> not</c><01:21:29.840><c> in</c><01:21:30.020><c> the</c><01:21:30.260><c> truth</c><01:21:30.859><c> then</c><01:21:31.720><c> the</c><01:21:32.020><c> brother</c><01:21:32.300><c> sitting</c><01:21:32.619><c> next</c>

01:21:33.020 --> 01:21:35.069
to<01:21:33.260><c> you</c><01:21:33.439><c> who</c><01:21:33.680><c> is</c><01:21:33.920><c> in</c><01:21:34.060><c> the</c><01:21:34.300><c> truth</c>

01:21:35.359 --> 01:21:40.899
means<01:21:35.899><c> there</c><01:21:36.220><c> is</c><01:21:36.720><c> never</c><01:21:37.140><c> a</c><01:21:37.560><c> time</c><01:21:38.060><c> in</c><01:21:38.460><c> your</c><01:21:38.699><c> life</c><01:21:39.340><c> in</c><01:21:40.399><c> which</c><01:21:40.560><c> the</c>

01:21:40.899 --> 01:21:44.119
principle<01:21:41.479><c> of</c><01:21:41.840><c> subjection</c><01:21:42.520><c> does</c><01:21:42.880><c> not</c><01:21:43.119><c> apply</c>

01:21:44.260 --> 01:21:48.220
and<01:21:44.600><c> that's</c><01:21:44.939><c> why</c><01:21:45.180><c> back</c><01:21:45.420><c> in</c><01:21:45.619><c> ephesians</c><01:21:46.039><c> five</c><01:21:47.039><c> paul</c><01:21:47.380><c> says</c><01:21:47.779><c> wives</c>

01:21:48.220 --> 01:21:51.100
are<01:21:48.520><c> to</c><01:21:48.680><c> be</c><01:21:48.920><c> subject</c><01:21:49.340><c> to</c><01:21:49.520><c> their</c><01:21:49.720><c> husbands</c>

01:21:52.800 --> 01:21:57.720
in<01:21:53.479><c> everything</c><01:21:54.159><c> it's</c><01:21:55.840><c> a</c><01:21:56.079><c> blanket</c><01:21:56.659><c> principle</c>

01:22:02.380 --> 01:22:07.859
subjection<01:22:03.060><c> doesn't</c><01:22:03.340><c> mean</c><01:22:03.659><c> that</c><01:22:03.819><c> a</c><01:22:03.979><c> wife</c><01:22:04.140><c> is</c><01:22:04.439><c> to</c><01:22:04.640><c> be</c><01:22:05.319><c> extinguished</c><01:22:06.100><c> in</c><01:22:06.460><c> the</c><01:22:06.699><c> relationship</c>

01:22:09.460 --> 01:22:12.840
but<01:22:10.140><c> it</c><01:22:10.239><c> doesn't</c><01:22:10.560><c> come</c><01:22:10.779><c> easy</c><01:22:11.319><c> in</c><01:22:11.760><c> ephesians</c><01:22:12.199><c> five</c><01:22:12.460><c> you</c><01:22:12.579><c> don't</c>

01:22:12.840 --> 01:22:15.199
see<01:22:13.079><c> paul</c><01:22:13.380><c> saying</c><01:22:13.699><c> that</c><01:22:14.220><c> wives</c><01:22:14.500><c> are</c><01:22:14.779><c> supposed</c><01:22:15.060><c> to</c>

01:22:15.199 --> 01:22:19.640
love<01:22:15.359><c> their</c><01:22:15.579><c> husbands</c><01:22:16.460><c> like</c><01:22:17.579><c> paul</c><01:22:17.859><c> says</c><01:22:18.100><c> husbands</c><01:22:18.500><c> are</c><01:22:18.779><c> supposed</c><01:22:19.000><c> to</c>

01:22:19.640 --> 01:22:21.520
love<01:22:19.800><c> their</c><01:22:20.060><c> wives</c><01:22:20.380><c> four</c><01:22:20.659><c> different</c><01:22:20.960><c> times</c>

01:22:21.520 --> 01:22:26.779
but<01:22:22.420><c> submission</c><01:22:23.060><c> becomes</c><01:22:23.760><c> a</c><01:22:24.220><c> critical</c><01:22:24.560><c> issue</c><01:22:25.180><c> a</c><01:22:25.840><c> challenge</c>

01:22:26.779 --> 01:22:30.159
for<01:22:27.439><c> wives</c><01:22:27.859><c> because</c><01:22:28.239><c> it</c><01:22:28.420><c> doesn't</c><01:22:28.779><c> come</c><01:22:29.279><c> by</c><01:22:29.659><c> nature</c>

01:22:30.159 --> 01:22:34.420
and<01:22:30.659><c> there's</c><01:22:30.840><c> a</c><01:22:30.979><c> tendency</c><01:22:31.380><c> to</c><01:22:31.699><c> rebel</c><01:22:32.039><c> against</c><01:22:32.520><c> it</c><01:22:33.500><c> we</c><01:22:33.899><c> have</c><01:22:34.159><c> to</c>

01:22:34.420 --> 01:22:37.340
accept<01:22:34.880><c> the</c><01:22:35.220><c> command</c><01:22:35.560><c> by</c><01:22:35.979><c> faith</c><01:22:36.760><c> trust</c><01:22:37.340><c> the</c>

01:22:37.340 --> 01:22:42.140
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01:22:42.140 --> 01:22:44.800
tells<01:22:42.420><c> you</c><01:22:42.659><c> you</c><01:22:42.840><c> are</c><01:22:43.020><c> under</c><01:22:43.380><c> command</c>

01:22:46.239 --> 01:22:51.939
to<01:22:46.800><c> be</c><01:22:47.020><c> subject</c><01:22:47.399><c> to</c><01:22:47.640><c> your</c><01:22:47.800><c> husband</c><01:22:48.619><c> and</c><01:22:49.220><c> first</c><01:22:49.420><c> timothy</c><01:22:49.800><c> too</c><01:22:50.779><c> he</c><01:22:51.340><c> adds</c><01:22:51.579><c> let</c><01:22:51.760><c> a</c>

01:22:51.939 --> 01:22:53.460
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01:24:32.520 --> 01:24:33.659
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01:25:26.039 --> 01:25:28.300
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01:25:53.060 --> 01:25:57.819
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01:25:58.680 --> 01:26:05.479
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01:26:05.479 --> 01:26:07.239
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01:26:15.220 --> 01:26:16.520
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01:26:22.239 --> 01:26:24.359
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01:26:24.359 --> 01:26:30.000
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01:26:45.859 --> 01:26:47.100
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01:26:48.279 --> 01:26:51.380
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01:26:51.380 --> 01:26:55.180
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01:26:55.180 --> 01:26:59.439
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01:26:59.439 --> 01:27:01.500
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01:27:01.800 --> 01:27:05.680
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01:27:05.680 --> 01:27:08.199
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01:27:08.199 --> 01:27:13.439
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01:27:13.439 --> 01:27:16.960
you<01:27:14.520><c> see</c><01:27:14.760><c> husbands</c><01:27:15.340><c> spill</c><01:27:15.800><c> milk</c><01:27:16.119><c> too</c>

01:27:18.100 --> 01:27:28.100
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01:27:28.229 --> 01:27:33.840
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01:27:33.840 --> 01:27:35.260
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01:27:35.260 --> 01:27:42.579
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01:27:42.579 --> 01:27:46.170
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01:27:46.420 --> 01:27:51.939
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01:27:51.939 --> 01:27:57.140
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01:27:57.199 --> 01:28:04.680
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01:28:04.659 --> 01:28:10.079
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01:28:10.079 --> 01:28:12.000
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01:28:12.000 --> 01:28:18.359
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01:28:18.359 --> 01:28:20.840
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01:28:21.000 --> 01:28:24.479
and<01:28:21.399><c> yet</c><01:28:21.579><c> verse</c><01:28:21.979><c> six</c><01:28:22.539><c> says</c><01:28:23.079><c> in</c><01:28:23.159><c> first</c><01:28:23.500><c> peter</c><01:28:23.779><c> three</c><01:28:24.000><c> that</c><01:28:24.239><c> she</c>

01:28:24.479 --> 01:28:27.260
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01:28:27.420 --> 01:28:35.159
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01:28:35.159 --> 01:28:38.119
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01:28:38.399 --> 01:28:41.180
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01:28:41.180 --> 01:28:42.739
right<01:28:41.420><c> rightfully</c><01:28:42.000><c> portrayed</c>

01:28:42.739 --> 01:28:48.420
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01:28:48.420 --> 01:28:53.500
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01:28:54.439 --> 01:28:57.979
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01:28:57.979 --> 01:28:58.979
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01:28:59.460 --> 01:29:02.779
in<01:28:59.939><c> one</c><01:29:00.119><c> respect</c><01:29:00.500><c> god</c><01:29:00.760><c> is</c><01:29:01.020><c> telling</c><01:29:01.199><c> the</c><01:29:01.420><c> wife</c><01:29:01.720><c> or</c><01:29:02.420><c> telling</c><01:29:02.619><c> the</c>

01:29:02.779 --> 01:29:05.260
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01:29:05.260 --> 01:29:07.619
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01:29:07.619 --> 01:29:09.340
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01:29:09.340 --> 01:29:14.180
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01:29:14.180 --> 01:29:15.420
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01:29:15.420 --> 01:29:18.760
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01:29:18.760 --> 01:29:20.359
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01:29:20.359 --> 01:29:22.199
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01:29:22.199 --> 01:29:24.060
like<01:29:22.420><c> the</c><01:29:22.640><c> pieces</c><01:29:22.880><c> he's</c><01:29:23.260><c> selected</c>

01:29:24.279 --> 01:29:28.760
a<01:29:24.760><c> leader</c><01:29:25.060><c> ahead</c><01:29:25.640><c> needs</c><01:29:26.000><c> a</c><01:29:26.319><c> follower</c><01:29:26.640><c> he</c><01:29:27.640><c> does</c><01:29:27.960><c> he</c><01:29:28.239><c> needs</c><01:29:28.439><c> a</c>

01:29:28.760 --> 01:29:31.420
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01:29:31.420 --> 01:29:36.159
wives<01:29:31.800><c> to</c><01:29:32.140><c> to</c><01:29:32.479><c> play</c><01:29:32.760><c> we're</c><01:29:33.539><c> going</c><01:29:33.579><c> to</c><01:29:33.739><c> finish</c><01:29:33.920><c> with</c><01:29:34.100><c> a</c><01:29:34.479><c> five</c><01:29:34.979><c> minute</c><01:29:35.279><c> exercise</c><01:29:35.939><c> so</c>

01:29:36.159 --> 01:29:37.939
we'll<01:29:36.300><c> give</c><01:29:36.479><c> word</c><01:29:36.739><c> to</c><01:29:36.979><c> the</c>

01:29:37.939 --> 01:29:41.819
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01:29:41.819 --> 01:29:43.979
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01:29:44.819 --> 01:29:49.680
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01:29:49.680 --> 01:29:52.619
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01:29:53.579 --> 01:29:56.560
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01:29:56.560 --> 01:29:58.119
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01:29:58.119 --> 01:30:00.479
it's<01:29:58.279><c> what</c><01:29:58.439><c> vashti</c><01:29:58.920><c> challenged</c><01:29:59.399><c> back</c><01:29:59.640><c> in</c><01:29:59.840><c> esther</c><01:30:00.100><c> one</c><01:30:00.300><c> when</c>

01:30:00.479 --> 01:30:02.340
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01:30:02.340 --> 01:30:05.199
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01:30:05.199 --> 01:30:07.300
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01:30:07.300 --> 01:30:12.380
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01:30:12.380 --> 01:30:13.020
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01:30:13.020 --> 01:30:17.920
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01:30:17.920 --> 01:30:19.340
we<01:30:18.100><c> don't</c><01:30:18.380><c> demean</c><01:30:18.739><c> our</c><01:30:19.000><c> husbands</c>

01:30:19.340 --> 01:30:24.340
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01:30:24.340 --> 01:30:26.359
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01:30:26.359 --> 01:30:30.579
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01:30:30.579 --> 01:30:36.579
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01:30:36.579 --> 01:30:38.859
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01:30:43.359 --> 01:30:47.000
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01:30:53.199 --> 01:30:56.899
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01:30:56.899 --> 01:30:57.600
me

01:31:01.000 --> 01:31:05.539
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01:31:05.539 --> 01:31:06.680
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01:31:09.220 --> 01:31:12.359
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01:31:13.680 --> 01:31:17.039
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01:31:17.039 --> 01:31:19.439
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01:31:19.439 --> 01:31:25.520
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01:31:25.520 --> 01:31:28.460
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01:31:28.460 --> 01:31:32.840
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01:31:32.840 --> 01:31:34.539
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01:31:34.539 --> 01:31:37.260
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01:31:37.260 --> 01:31:38.920
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01:31:38.920 --> 01:31:41.500
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01:31:41.500 --> 01:31:43.520
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01:31:43.520 --> 01:31:53.439
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01:31:53.439 --> 01:31:57.119
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01:31:57.119 --> 01:32:02.439
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01:32:02.439 --> 01:32:12.220
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01:32:14.140 --> 01:32:17.199
to<01:32:14.560><c> help</c><01:32:14.979><c> you</c><01:32:16.279><c> discuss</c>

01:32:19.699 --> 01:32:24.779
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01:32:24.779 --> 01:32:26.300
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01:32:27.159 --> 01:32:31.420
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01:32:31.420 --> 01:32:33.359
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01:32:33.359 --> 01:32:37.899
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01:32:40.140 --> 01:32:44.460
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01:32:44.460 --> 01:32:51.119
how<01:32:45.619><c> could</c><01:32:45.859><c> you</c><01:32:46.119><c> show</c><01:32:46.319><c> respect</c><01:32:46.939><c> or</c><01:32:47.319><c> reverence</c><01:32:47.680><c> to</c><01:32:47.880><c> your</c><01:32:48.079><c> husband</c><01:32:48.579><c> in</c><01:32:48.939><c> the</c><01:32:49.140><c> way</c><01:32:49.359><c> you</c><01:32:49.659><c> react</c><01:32:50.039><c> and</c><01:32:50.439><c> respond</c><01:32:50.760><c> to</c><01:32:50.979><c> this</c>

01:32:51.119 --> 01:32:58.920
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01:33:00.420 --> 01:33:03.899
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01:33:03.899 --> 01:33:06.899
the<01:33:04.199><c> mistake</c><01:33:04.920><c> husbands</c><01:33:05.739><c> you've</c><01:33:06.420><c> actually</c><01:33:06.680><c> got</c>

01:33:06.899 --> 01:33:11.779
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01:33:11.779 --> 01:33:16.640
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01:33:16.640 --> 01:33:20.399
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01:33:20.399 --> 01:33:22.659
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01:33:22.659 --> 01:33:28.279
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01:33:28.279 --> 01:33:34.600
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01:33:34.600 --> 01:33:36.739
she<01:33:34.840><c> maintains</c><01:33:35.399><c> respect</c><01:33:36.220><c> for</c><01:33:36.479><c> you</c>

01:33:36.739 --> 01:33:41.180
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01:33:41.180 --> 01:33:43.760
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01:33:43.760 --> 01:33:48.380
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01:33:48.380 --> 01:33:50.720
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01:33:50.720 --> 01:33:58.180
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01:33:58.180 --> 01:33:59.500
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01:33:59.500 --> 01:34:04.460
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01:34:04.460 --> 01:34:07.819
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01:34:09.199 --> 01:34:12.619
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01:34:12.619 --> 01:34:13.560
um

01:34:21.779 --> 01:34:29.460
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01:34:33.359 --> 01:34:38.159
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01:34:38.159 --> 01:34:39.819
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01:34:39.819 --> 01:34:42.520
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01:34:42.520 --> 01:34:45.060
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01:34:45.060 --> 01:34:48.479
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01:34:48.479 --> 01:34:49.539
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01:34:49.539 --> 01:34:52.479
comfortable<01:34:50.079><c> with</c><01:34:50.300><c> the</c><01:34:50.420><c> financial</c><01:34:50.819><c> one</c><01:34:51.539><c> pick</c><01:34:52.079><c> a</c><01:34:52.260><c> different</c>

01:34:52.479 --> 01:34:54.960
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01:34:54.960 --> 01:34:57.640
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01:35:37.920 --> 01:35:43.000
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01:35:47.659 --> 01:35:50.439
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01:35:56.739 --> 01:35:57.920
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01:36:05.539 --> 01:36:07.119
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01:36:17.060 --> 01:36:19.300
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01:36:37.579 --> 01:36:39.180
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01:36:43.020 --> 01:36:48.119
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01:36:48.119 --> 01:36:49.119
um

01:36:55.140 --> 01:36:59.539
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01:36:59.539 --> 01:37:04.579
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01:37:05.180 --> 01:37:09.960
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01:37:09.960 --> 01:37:13.039
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01:37:13.039 --> 01:37:19.300
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01:37:19.300 --> 01:37:21.520
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01:37:21.520 --> 01:37:25.500
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01:37:25.500 --> 01:37:26.640
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01:37:26.640 --> 01:37:29.680
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01:37:29.680 --> 01:37:33.000
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01:37:33.000 --> 01:37:34.460
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01:37:36.319 --> 01:37:42.159
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01:37:42.159 --> 01:37:43.779
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01:37:43.779 --> 01:37:50.260
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01:37:50.260 --> 01:37:51.739
your<01:37:50.579><c> partner</c><01:37:51.140><c> could</c><01:37:51.479><c> help</c>

01:37:51.739 --> 01:37:53.119
you<01:37:51.859><c> meet</c><01:37:52.159><c> them</c>

01:37:58.039 --> 01:38:02.880
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01:38:05.760 --> 01:38:12.560
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01:38:12.560 --> 01:38:14.060
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01:38:14.180 --> 01:38:19.100
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01:38:19.100 --> 01:38:21.260
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01:38:21.260 --> 01:38:24.500
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01:38:24.500 --> 01:38:27.840
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01:38:27.840 --> 01:38:34.619
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01:38:34.619 --> 01:38:36.560
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01:38:36.560 --> 01:38:41.500
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01:38:41.500 --> 01:38:45.699
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01:38:46.079 --> 01:38:47.949
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01:38:50.229 --> 01:38:55.710
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01:38:55.710 --> 01:38:57.909
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01:39:04.189 --> 01:39:07.390
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01:39:50.850 --> 01:39:51.569
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01:40:00.890 --> 01:40:02.630
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01:40:08.289 --> 01:40:10.770
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01:40:10.770 --> 01:40:13.210
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01:40:13.210 --> 01:40:16.949
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01:40:16.949 --> 01:40:19.750
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01:40:19.750 --> 01:40:26.369
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01:40:26.369 --> 01:40:28.710
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01:40:28.710 --> 01:40:31.310
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01:40:31.310 --> 01:40:35.329
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01:40:35.329 --> 01:40:42.250
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01:40:42.250 --> 01:40:43.789
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01:40:48.750 --> 01:40:53.479
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01:40:53.750 --> 01:40:57.729
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01:40:57.729 --> 01:41:00.649
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01:41:05.149 --> 01:41:08.449
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01:41:08.449 --> 01:41:12.810
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01:41:12.810 --> 01:41:15.329
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01:41:15.869 --> 01:41:22.010
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01:41:29.750 --> 01:41:32.069
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01:41:32.069 --> 01:41:38.729
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01:41:38.729 --> 01:41:40.149
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01:41:40.149 --> 01:41:47.590
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01:41:47.590 --> 01:41:48.510
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01:41:56.270 --> 01:41:59.909
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01:41:59.909 --> 01:42:02.829
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01:42:03.189 --> 01:42:08.130
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01:42:10.590 --> 01:42:13.130
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01:42:13.130 --> 01:42:17.390
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01:42:18.510 --> 01:42:21.090
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01:42:21.090 --> 01:42:25.449
for<01:42:21.890><c> we</c><01:42:22.010><c> offer</c><01:42:22.270><c> it</c><01:42:22.430><c> to</c><01:42:22.489><c> your</c><01:42:22.590><c> son</c><01:42:22.989><c> our</c><01:42:23.170><c> lord</c><01:42:23.329><c> jesus</c><01:42:23.789><c> christ</c><01:42:24.329><c> amen</c>