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so

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Judge<00:22:36.150><c> me</c><00:22:36.309><c> if</c><00:22:36.390><c> you</c><00:22:36.589><c> want,</c><00:22:36.910><c> but</c><00:22:37.589><c> you'll</c><00:22:37.910><c> see</c><00:22:38.089><c> that</c><00:22:38.269><c> there's</c><00:22:38.710><c> their</c><00:22:39.009><c> strengths</c><00:22:39.289><c> and</c>

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So<00:24:15.670><c> while</c><00:24:15.910><c> you</c><00:24:16.150><c> yourself</c><00:24:16.549><c> might</c><00:24:16.809><c> say</c><00:24:17.009><c> look</c><00:24:17.230><c> I'm</c><00:24:17.410><c> an</c><00:24:17.609><c> expressive</c><00:24:17.970><c> those</c><00:24:18.289><c> words</c><00:24:18.569><c> resonate</c><00:24:18.990><c> with</c><00:24:19.250><c> me</c>

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egotistical

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procrastinators

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indecisive

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And<00:26:05.890><c> I'm</c><00:26:06.089><c> trying</c><00:26:06.230><c> to</c><00:26:06.369><c> leave</c><00:26:06.450><c> it</c><00:26:06.609><c> in</c><00:26:06.670><c> the</c><00:26:06.829><c> rearview</c><00:26:07.150><c> mirror</c><00:26:07.450><c> and</c>

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I

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It's

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Marathon<00:26:18.509><c> yeah</c><00:26:19.130><c> Fenway.</c><00:26:20.569><c> Oh,</c><00:26:21.390><c> I've</c><00:26:21.609><c> got</c><00:26:21.690><c> like</c><00:26:21.930><c> PTSD</c><00:26:22.470><c> now.</c>

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Thanks,<00:26:23.329><c> brother</c>

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There's<00:26:26.809><c> a</c><00:26:27.049><c> year</c><00:26:27.230><c> of</c><00:26:27.529><c> therapy</c><00:26:27.910><c> and</c><00:26:28.190><c> retirement</c><00:26:28.569><c> all</c><00:26:28.950><c> out</c><00:26:29.150><c> the</c><00:26:29.309><c> window</c>

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Okay,<00:26:33.069><c> so</c><00:26:33.349><c> let's</c><00:26:33.789><c> let's</c><00:26:34.190><c> stay</c><00:26:34.250><c> on</c><00:26:34.369><c> this</c><00:26:34.549><c> first</c><00:26:34.829><c> page</c><00:26:35.329><c> so</c><00:26:36.130><c> on</c>

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this

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This<00:26:46.119><c> second</c><00:26:46.640><c> part</c><00:26:47.180><c> on</c><00:26:47.380><c> your</c><00:26:47.480><c> on</c><00:26:47.660><c> your</c><00:26:47.839><c> first</c><00:26:48.099><c> page</c><00:26:48.380><c> where</c>

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I've<00:26:48.720><c> left</c><00:26:48.839><c> some</c><00:26:49.119><c> blanks</c>

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them.<00:26:52.380><c> And</c><00:26:52.859><c> so</c><00:26:53.079><c> while</c><00:26:53.240><c> I</c><00:26:53.619><c> just</c><00:26:53.900><c> shared</c><00:26:54.140><c> how</c><00:26:54.500><c> you</c><00:26:54.839><c> may</c><00:26:55.039><c> be</c><00:26:55.259><c> viewed</c><00:26:55.420><c> by</c><00:26:55.740><c> others</c>

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Stress<00:26:58.480><c> is</c><00:26:58.960><c> a</c><00:26:59.200><c> whole</c><00:26:59.420><c> new</c><00:26:59.700><c> dimension</c><00:27:00.339><c> around</c><00:27:00.900><c> how</c><00:27:01.579><c> you</c><00:27:02.019><c> may</c><00:27:02.660><c> act</c><00:27:03.299><c> and</c><00:27:04.400><c> so</c>

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If<00:27:06.000><c> you're</c><00:27:06.299><c> an</c><00:27:06.619><c> expressive</c>

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When<00:27:08.180><c> you're</c><00:27:08.599><c> under</c><00:27:08.900><c> stress</c>

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What<00:27:10.880><c> you</c><00:27:11.099><c> may</c><00:27:11.339><c> do</c><00:27:11.880><c> is</c><00:27:12.480><c> you</c><00:27:12.660><c> may</c><00:27:12.940><c> actually</c><00:27:13.440><c> attack</c>

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You<00:27:15.940><c> go</c><00:27:16.140><c> on</c><00:27:16.299><c> the</c><00:27:16.500><c> attack</c>

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You've<00:27:18.920><c> got</c><00:27:19.180><c> some</c><00:27:19.559><c> of</c><00:27:19.700><c> the</c><00:27:19.920><c> inherit</c>

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behavioral<00:27:21.619><c> traits</c>

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We<00:27:25.400><c> talked</c><00:27:25.619><c> about</c><00:27:25.960><c> displaying</c><00:27:26.500><c> emotion</c>

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You<00:27:28.119><c> may</c><00:27:28.339><c> attack</c><00:27:28.839><c> you</c><00:27:29.299><c> may</c><00:27:29.519><c> attack</c>

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When<00:27:33.259><c> they're</c><00:27:33.519><c> under</c><00:27:33.799><c> stress</c>

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Again,<00:27:35.680><c> this</c><00:27:35.940><c> is</c><00:27:36.160><c> me,</c><00:27:36.660><c> you</c><00:27:36.759><c> know,</c><00:27:37.059><c> I'm</c><00:27:37.059><c> happy</c><00:27:37.259><c> to</c><00:27:38.200><c> self</c><00:27:38.480><c> disclose</c><00:27:39.039><c> and</c><00:27:39.460><c> I</c>

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But<00:27:41.039><c> she</c><00:27:41.200><c> would</c><00:27:41.319><c> be</c><00:27:41.539><c> nodding</c><00:27:41.799><c> her</c><00:27:41.940><c> head</c><00:27:42.099><c> vigorously</c>

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Under<00:27:44.960><c> stress</c><00:27:45.480><c> we</c><00:27:46.079><c> become</c><00:27:46.339><c> autocratic</c>

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We<00:27:48.160><c> may</c><00:27:48.380><c> bark</c><00:27:48.839><c> as</c><00:27:49.619><c> it</c><00:27:49.799><c> were</c>

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And<00:27:51.920><c> we</c><00:27:52.440><c> were</c><00:27:52.640><c> at</c><00:27:52.880><c> Staples</c><00:27:53.160><c> a</c><00:27:53.359><c> couple</c><00:27:53.559><c> of</c><00:27:53.720><c> days</c><00:27:53.920><c> ago</c><00:27:54.420><c> and</c><00:27:54.640><c> the</c><00:27:54.900><c> stress</c><00:27:55.160><c> level</c><00:27:55.460><c> was</c><00:27:55.720><c> rising</c><00:27:56.240><c> and</c><00:27:57.000><c> she's</c><00:27:57.420><c> not</c><00:27:57.559><c> a</c>

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Yeah,<00:28:00.160><c> I</c><00:28:00.319><c> was</c><00:28:00.519><c> like,</c><00:28:00.880><c> okay</c>

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I<00:28:01.640><c> met</c><00:28:01.859><c> the</c><00:28:02.259><c> photocopier</c><00:28:02.940><c> photocopying</c><00:28:03.779><c> this</c><00:28:04.079><c> stuff</c><00:28:04.279><c> and</c><00:28:04.460><c> I</c>

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know<00:28:05.279><c> how</c><00:28:05.640><c> I'm</c><00:28:05.859><c> gonna</c><00:28:06.000><c> show</c><00:28:06.339><c> up</c><00:28:06.579><c> under</c><00:28:06.900><c> stress</c><00:28:07.359><c> and</c><00:28:07.779><c> yet</c><00:28:07.920><c> I'm</c><00:28:08.180><c> still</c>

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becoming<00:28:09.220><c> autocratic</c>

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But<00:28:11.140><c> that's</c><00:28:11.660><c> that's</c><00:28:12.339><c> just</c><00:28:12.460><c> sort</c><00:28:12.539><c> of</c><00:28:12.599><c> who</c><00:28:12.740><c> we</c><00:28:12.859><c> are</c>

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Analytics<00:28:14.099><c> when</c><00:28:14.319><c> they're</c><00:28:14.500><c> under</c><00:28:14.740><c> stress,</c><00:28:15.299><c> they</c><00:28:15.720><c> tend</c><00:28:15.859><c> to</c><00:28:16.079><c> avoid</c>

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And<00:28:21.779><c> for</c><00:28:22.220><c> the</c><00:28:22.460><c> amyables</c><00:28:22.839><c> when</c><00:28:23.039><c> they're</c><00:28:23.319><c> under</c><00:28:23.579><c> stress</c><00:28:24.079><c> the</c><00:28:24.440><c> acquiesce</c>

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They<00:28:26.180><c> just</c><00:28:26.380><c> they</c><00:28:26.640><c> don't</c><00:28:26.880><c> want</c><00:28:27.059><c> to</c><00:28:27.200><c> they</c><00:28:27.339><c> don't</c><00:28:27.519><c> want</c><00:28:27.619><c> to</c><00:28:27.700><c> go</c><00:28:27.839><c> to</c>

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the<00:28:28.119><c> fight</c>

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Amiable<00:28:29.740><c> these</c><00:28:30.559><c> are</c><00:28:30.759><c> the</c><00:28:30.880><c> ones</c><00:28:31.059><c> that</c><00:28:31.299><c> like</c><00:28:31.420><c> to</c><00:28:31.619><c> ask</c><00:28:31.779><c> questions.</c><00:28:32.420><c> They</c><00:28:32.660><c> like</c>

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to<00:28:33.519><c> display</c><00:28:33.779><c> their</c><00:28:34.019><c> emotions.</c><00:28:34.579><c> They</c><00:28:34.900><c> like</c><00:28:35.180><c> to</c><00:28:35.519><c> ask</c>

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But<00:28:36.779><c> when</c><00:28:36.920><c> they're</c><00:28:37.140><c> under</c><00:28:37.339><c> stress</c>

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They<00:28:38.960><c> just</c><00:28:39.299><c> acquiesce</c>

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We<00:28:54.480><c> have</c><00:28:55.140><c> an</c><00:28:55.440><c> analytic</c><00:28:55.799><c> over</c><00:28:56.160><c> here</c>

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All<00:28:59.619><c> right</c>

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so

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That's<00:29:03.079><c> that's</c><00:29:03.319><c> how</c><00:29:03.460><c> we</c><00:29:03.599><c> might</c><00:29:03.940><c> show</c><00:29:04.180><c> up</c><00:29:04.420><c> when</c><00:29:04.559><c> we're</c><00:29:04.740><c> under</c>

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stress<00:29:05.400><c> and</c>

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It's<00:29:06.660><c> helpful</c><00:29:06.980><c> for</c><00:29:07.259><c> us</c><00:29:07.539><c> to</c><00:29:07.720><c> know</c><00:29:07.839><c> this</c><00:29:08.079><c> about</c><00:29:08.279><c> ourselves</c>

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And<00:29:09.299><c> it's</c><00:29:09.519><c> also</c><00:29:09.839><c> helpful</c><00:29:10.220><c> for</c><00:29:10.559><c> others</c><00:29:11.019><c> to</c><00:29:11.440><c> know</c><00:29:11.559><c> this</c><00:29:11.839><c> about</c>

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yourself<00:29:12.900><c> because</c><00:29:13.700><c> we're</c><00:29:14.099><c> working</c><00:29:14.299><c> together</c>

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now<00:29:16.039><c> the</c><00:29:16.220><c> good</c><00:29:16.359><c> news</c><00:29:16.640><c> is</c>

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Regardless<00:29:18.259><c> of</c><00:29:18.480><c> your</c><00:29:18.720><c> style.</c><00:29:19.099><c> There's</c><00:29:19.759><c> there's</c><00:29:20.420><c> always</c><00:29:20.759><c> room</c>

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for<00:29:21.240><c> growth</c><00:29:21.619><c> and</c><00:29:22.119><c> so</c><00:29:22.299><c> for</c><00:29:22.500><c> growth</c><00:29:23.039><c> the</c><00:29:24.039><c> expressives</c>

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Should<00:29:26.039><c> check</c>

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Stop<00:29:27.500><c> asking</c><00:29:27.859><c> questions</c>

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Stop<00:29:30.460><c> telling</c><00:29:31.079><c> check</c><00:29:31.740><c> in</c><00:29:31.880><c> with</c><00:29:32.180><c> others,</c><00:29:32.579><c> you</c><00:29:33.160><c> know</c>

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And<00:29:35.359><c> for</c><00:29:35.599><c> drivers</c>

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They<00:29:37.279><c> should</c><00:29:37.420><c> listen</c>

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So<00:29:39.119><c> it's</c><00:29:39.279><c> not</c><00:29:39.539><c> just</c><00:29:39.779><c> about</c><00:29:40.240><c> telling</c><00:29:40.700><c> controlling</c><00:29:41.440><c> directing</c>

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It's<00:29:43.579><c> you</c><00:29:43.779><c> know,</c><00:29:43.940><c> I</c><00:29:44.140><c> just</c><00:29:44.599><c> need</c><00:29:44.740><c> to</c><00:29:45.019><c> probably</c><00:29:45.420><c> stop</c><00:29:45.819><c> and</c><00:29:46.299><c> listen</c><00:29:46.539><c> a</c><00:29:46.779><c> little</c><00:29:46.940><c> bit</c>

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They<00:29:51.599><c> need</c><00:29:51.759><c> to</c><00:29:52.039><c> decide</c>

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my<00:29:53.720><c> brother</c><00:29:54.059><c>-in</c><00:29:54.339><c>-law</c><00:29:54.539><c> who's</c><00:29:55.119><c> a</c>

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Make<00:30:07.799><c> a</c><00:30:08.019><c> decision</c><00:30:08.500><c> and</c><00:30:09.319><c> so</c><00:30:09.519><c> that's</c><00:30:09.799><c> that's</c><00:30:10.099><c> the</c><00:30:10.259><c> growth</c><00:30:10.640><c> opportunity</c>

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And<00:30:16.680><c> so</c><00:30:16.859><c> it's</c><00:30:17.019><c> like</c><00:30:17.519><c> chop</c><00:30:18.059><c> chop,</c><00:30:18.319><c> especially</c><00:30:19.059><c> for</c><00:30:19.400><c> a</c><00:30:19.539><c> driver.</c>

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It's<00:30:20.099><c> like</c><00:30:20.299><c> chop</c><00:30:20.559><c> chop,</c><00:30:20.779><c> you</c><00:30:21.339><c> know</c><00:30:21.720><c> enough</c><00:30:22.119><c> for</c><00:30:22.259><c> the</c><00:30:22.420><c> analysis</c><00:30:22.799><c> paralysis</c>

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Make<00:30:23.599><c> a</c><00:30:23.720><c> decision</c><00:30:24.180><c> and</c><00:30:24.819><c> for</c><00:30:25.000><c> the</c><00:30:25.200><c> amiables</c>

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There<00:30:27.180><c> were</c><00:30:27.339><c> around</c><00:30:27.500><c> their</c><00:30:27.779><c> area</c><00:30:28.039><c> for</c><00:30:28.319><c> growth</c><00:30:28.500><c> is</c><00:30:28.700><c> to</c><00:30:28.839><c> confront</c>

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So<00:30:30.299><c> it's</c><00:30:30.619><c> not</c><00:30:30.900><c> just</c><00:30:31.200><c> about</c><00:30:31.819><c> you</c><00:30:32.380><c> know</c><00:30:32.799><c> going</c><00:30:33.140><c> along</c><00:30:33.619><c> with</c><00:30:33.819><c> it</c>

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trying<00:30:34.400><c> to</c><00:30:34.660><c> keep</c><00:30:34.839><c> the</c><00:30:35.099><c> peace</c><00:30:35.460><c> making</c><00:30:35.839><c> people</c><00:30:36.200><c> happy</c>

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acquiescing<00:30:38.140><c> when</c><00:30:38.380><c> things</c><00:30:38.740><c> get</c><00:30:39.440><c> get</c><00:30:39.740><c> a</c><00:30:39.920><c> little</c><00:30:40.039><c> bit</c><00:30:40.259><c> hairy,</c><00:30:41.339><c> but</c>

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But<00:30:42.400><c> to</c><00:30:42.720><c> actually</c><00:30:43.460><c> dig</c><00:30:43.660><c> in</c><00:30:43.740><c> their</c><00:30:43.900><c> heels</c><00:30:44.059><c> a</c><00:30:44.220><c> little</c><00:30:44.400><c> bit</c><00:30:44.799><c> and</c><00:30:45.319><c> and</c><00:30:45.880><c> be</c><00:30:46.119><c> a</c>

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That's<00:30:48.180><c> something</c><00:30:48.460><c> that</c><00:30:48.859><c> that</c><00:30:49.299><c> could</c><00:30:49.460><c> be</c><00:30:49.680><c> viewed</c><00:30:49.779><c> as</c><00:30:49.960><c> an</c><00:30:50.180><c> area</c>

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Okay

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Okay,<00:30:57.220><c> so</c><00:30:57.440><c> let's</c><00:30:57.940><c> some</c><00:30:58.180><c> let's</c><00:30:58.559><c> press</c><00:30:58.740><c> on</c><00:30:58.900><c> a</c><00:30:59.019><c> little</c><00:30:59.160><c> bit.</c><00:30:59.519><c> So</c>

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shift<00:31:03.180><c> now</c><00:31:03.940><c> from</c>

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focusing<00:31:05.579><c> on</c><00:31:05.779><c> ourselves</c><00:31:06.299><c> doing</c><00:31:06.579><c> this</c><00:31:06.980><c> this</c><00:31:07.359><c> exit</c><00:31:07.579><c> exercise</c>

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start<00:31:11.319><c> to</c><00:31:11.579><c> turn</c><00:31:11.720><c> our</c><00:31:11.980><c> attention</c><00:31:12.619><c> on</c><00:31:13.299><c> on</c><00:31:13.859><c> the</c><00:31:14.660><c> on</c><00:31:15.039><c> the</c><00:31:15.220><c> working</c>

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Ultimately<00:31:26.359><c> as</c><00:31:26.640><c> we</c><00:31:26.940><c> considered</c><00:31:27.279><c> in</c><00:31:27.440><c> our</c><00:31:27.599><c> first</c><00:31:27.819><c> class</c><00:31:28.160><c> that</c>

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Mutually<00:31:31.619><c> edify</c><00:31:32.359><c> one</c><00:31:32.660><c> another</c><00:31:33.059><c> in</c><00:31:33.640><c> our</c><00:31:33.900><c> walk</c><00:31:34.119><c> to</c><00:31:34.400><c> the</c><00:31:34.559><c> kingdom</c>

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Recognizing<00:31:36.000><c> that</c><00:31:36.319><c> there</c><00:31:36.579><c> are</c><00:31:36.740><c> many</c><00:31:36.940><c> many</c><00:31:37.200><c> differences</c><00:31:37.779><c> within</c><00:31:38.359><c> us</c>

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And<00:31:41.640><c> so</c><00:31:42.079><c> so</c><00:31:42.259><c> how</c><00:31:42.480><c> do</c><00:31:42.680><c> we</c><00:31:42.680><c> do</c><00:31:42.900><c> this?</c><00:31:43.200><c> Where</c><00:31:43.400><c> do</c><00:31:43.559><c> we</c><00:31:43.759><c> start?</c>

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Having<00:31:45.160><c> knowledge</c><00:31:45.640><c> is</c><00:31:46.460><c> is</c><00:31:46.640><c> a</c><00:31:46.799><c> fundamental</c><00:31:47.180><c> place</c><00:31:47.579><c> to</c><00:31:47.839><c> start</c>

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just<00:31:51.539><c> raise</c>

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awareness<00:31:52.339><c> and</c><00:31:52.819><c> and</c><00:31:53.160><c> provide</c><00:31:53.400><c> a</c><00:31:53.500><c> little</c><00:31:53.680><c> bit</c><00:31:53.839><c> of</c><00:31:53.980><c> knowledge</c>

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I'll<00:31:59.380><c> call</c><00:31:59.480><c> this</c><00:31:59.700><c> sort</c><00:31:59.900><c> of</c><00:31:59.940><c> like</c><00:32:00.099><c> a</c><00:32:00.380><c> rough</c><00:32:00.900><c> tool</c>

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To<00:32:02.640><c> help</c><00:32:03.000><c> us</c><00:32:03.220><c> get</c><00:32:03.519><c> started</c><00:32:04.200><c> on</c><00:32:04.759><c> on</c><00:32:05.180><c> thinking</c><00:32:05.480><c> about</c>

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Identifying<00:32:07.120><c> others,</c><00:32:08.099><c> you</c><00:32:08.099><c> know</c>

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We<00:32:08.259><c> didn't</c><00:32:08.480><c> have</c><00:32:08.640><c> a</c><00:32:08.900><c> sign</c><00:32:09.039><c> up</c><00:32:09.279><c> list</c><00:32:09.460><c> for</c><00:32:09.680><c> group</c><00:32:09.940><c> one</c><00:32:10.200><c> and</c><00:32:10.440><c> two</c>

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and<00:32:10.839><c> three</c><00:32:11.059><c> and</c><00:32:11.299><c> four</c>

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Now<00:32:12.299><c> everybody's</c><00:32:12.720><c> gonna</c><00:32:12.859><c> be</c><00:32:13.039><c> walking</c><00:32:13.240><c> around</c><00:32:13.539><c> the</c><00:32:13.759><c> Ecclesia</c>

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instead<00:32:14.599><c> of</c><00:32:14.779><c> saying</c><00:32:15.079><c> hi.</c><00:32:15.480><c> I'm</c><00:32:15.599><c> brother</c><00:32:15.859><c> Doug</c><00:32:16.180><c> saying</c><00:32:16.519><c> hi.</c><00:32:16.980><c> I'm</c>

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in<00:32:17.480><c> group</c><00:32:17.700><c> three</c>

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Or<00:32:20.079><c> I'm</c><00:32:20.319><c> in</c><00:32:20.480><c> group</c><00:32:20.740><c> two</c>

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These<00:32:21.720><c> are</c><00:32:21.900><c> the</c><00:32:22.039><c> things</c><00:32:22.220><c> to</c><00:32:22.400><c> watch</c><00:32:22.700><c> out</c><00:32:22.980><c> for</c><00:32:23.180><c> these</c><00:32:23.440><c> are</c><00:32:23.599><c> the</c>

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ways<00:32:23.900><c> to</c><00:32:24.140><c> work</c><00:32:24.319><c> with</c><00:32:24.559><c> me</c><00:32:25.140><c> be</c><00:32:25.460><c> bright</c><00:32:25.700><c> be</c><00:32:25.960><c> brief</c><00:32:26.180><c> be</c><00:32:26.460><c> gone</c>

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That's<00:32:27.420><c> how</c><00:32:27.640><c> I</c><00:32:27.839><c> like</c><00:32:28.079><c> it</c>

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Okay

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Enough<00:32:30.460><c> with</c><00:32:30.720><c> the</c><00:32:30.980><c> talk.</c><00:32:31.519><c> I'm</c><00:32:31.740><c> not</c><00:32:32.019><c> interested</c><00:32:32.519><c> in</c><00:32:32.900><c> socializing</c><00:32:33.619><c> like</c><00:32:34.000><c> chop</c>

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chop<00:32:34.640><c> chop</c>

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That's<00:32:36.420><c> what</c><00:32:36.619><c> I</c><00:32:36.880><c> like</c><00:32:37.180><c> as</c><00:32:37.480><c> a</c><00:32:37.700><c> driver</c>

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But<00:32:39.160><c> I</c><00:32:39.440><c> don't</c><00:32:39.759><c> walk</c><00:32:40.059><c> around</c><00:32:40.460><c> wearing</c><00:32:40.859><c> a</c><00:32:41.240><c> hi,</c><00:32:41.420><c> I'm</c><00:32:41.579><c> brother</c><00:32:41.839><c> Doug.</c><00:32:42.140><c> I'm</c>

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a<00:32:42.440><c> number</c><00:32:42.700><c> two.</c><00:32:43.279><c> This</c><00:32:43.559><c> is</c><00:32:43.740><c> how</c><00:32:43.880><c> you</c><00:32:44.039><c> deal</c><00:32:44.220><c> with</c><00:32:44.420><c> me</c>

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so<00:32:45.460><c> but</c><00:32:46.079><c> you</c><00:32:46.400><c> may</c>

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You<00:32:47.920><c> may</c><00:32:48.200><c> find</c><00:32:48.380><c> this</c><00:32:48.640><c> helpful</c><00:32:49.000><c> because</c><00:32:49.599><c> as</c><00:32:49.819><c> you're</c><00:32:50.019><c> sort</c><00:32:50.119><c> of</c>

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thinking<00:32:50.480><c> about</c><00:32:51.259><c> others</c>

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We<00:32:52.960><c> have</c><00:32:53.220><c> this</c><00:32:53.740><c> this</c><00:32:54.380><c> simple</c><00:32:54.900><c> tool</c><00:32:55.420><c> which</c><00:32:55.980><c> which</c><00:32:56.380><c> looks</c><00:32:56.660><c> at</c><00:32:57.359><c> so</c>

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I'll<00:32:58.099><c> say</c><00:32:58.299><c> five</c><00:32:58.759><c> different</c>

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Areas<00:33:00.400><c> that</c><00:33:00.579><c> you</c><00:33:00.759><c> might</c><00:33:01.039><c> form</c><00:33:01.380><c> an</c><00:33:01.619><c> initial</c><00:33:01.920><c> hypothesis</c><00:33:02.519><c> on</c>

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we've<00:33:03.579><c> got</c><00:33:04.019><c> speech</c>

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priorities<00:33:05.940><c> pace</c><00:33:06.599><c> stress</c><00:33:07.440><c> and</c>

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Verbal<00:33:08.359><c> and</c><00:33:08.880><c> you</c><00:33:08.980><c> can</c><00:33:09.279><c> see</c><00:33:09.500><c> and</c><00:33:09.619><c> you</c><00:33:09.720><c> can</c><00:33:09.880><c> see</c><00:33:10.000><c> this</c><00:33:10.200><c> probably</c>

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better<00:33:10.700><c> in</c><00:33:10.839><c> your</c><00:33:11.079><c> handout</c><00:33:11.440><c> the</c><00:33:12.079><c> the</c><00:33:12.380><c> quadrants</c><00:33:12.839><c> that</c><00:33:13.119><c> are</c><00:33:13.299><c> showing</c><00:33:13.480><c> up</c><00:33:13.779><c> there</c>

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and<00:33:14.420><c> so</c><00:33:14.859><c> we</c><00:33:15.640><c> we</c><00:33:15.880><c> went</c><00:33:16.000><c> through</c><00:33:16.180><c> that</c><00:33:16.440><c> self</c>

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Examination<00:33:17.700><c> exercise</c><00:33:18.319><c> of</c><00:33:18.579><c> plotting</c><00:33:18.759><c> ourselves</c><00:33:19.240><c> on</c><00:33:19.420><c> the</c><00:33:19.599><c> X</c><00:33:19.819><c> and</c><00:33:19.980><c> Y</c>

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and<00:33:20.720><c> here's</c><00:33:21.039><c> where</c><00:33:21.160><c> you</c><00:33:21.319><c> can</c><00:33:21.440><c> start</c><00:33:21.640><c> to</c><00:33:21.839><c> say</c>

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Okay

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When<00:33:22.519><c> I</c><00:33:22.700><c> think</c><00:33:22.859><c> about</c><00:33:23.099><c> this</c><00:33:23.420><c> sister</c><00:33:23.759><c> or</c><00:33:23.920><c> this</c><00:33:24.099><c> young</c><00:33:24.279><c> person</c>

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or<00:33:24.759><c> this</c><00:33:25.039><c> brother</c><00:33:25.380><c> or</c><00:33:25.640><c> my</c><00:33:25.799><c> spouse</c><00:33:26.200><c> or</c><00:33:26.400><c> my</c><00:33:26.680><c> child</c>

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you<00:33:27.660><c> know</c><00:33:28.019><c> is</c><00:33:28.319><c> their</c><00:33:28.599><c> speech</c><00:33:28.920><c> when</c><00:33:29.079><c> it</c><00:33:29.240><c> comes</c><00:33:29.599><c> to</c>

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the<00:33:31.200><c> vocal</c><00:33:31.579><c> inflection</c><00:33:32.079><c> or</c><00:33:32.299><c> the</c><00:33:32.500><c> emotion</c><00:33:33.019><c> is</c><00:33:33.640><c> are</c><00:33:33.799><c> they</c><00:33:33.900><c> in</c><00:33:34.000><c> the</c><00:33:34.180><c> top</c><00:33:34.480><c> half</c><00:33:34.740><c> or</c>

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are<00:33:34.980><c> they</c><00:33:35.019><c> in</c><00:33:35.160><c> the</c><00:33:35.259><c> bottom</c><00:33:35.619><c> half</c><00:33:36.000><c> and</c><00:33:36.180><c> you</c><00:33:36.339><c> you</c><00:33:36.720><c> even</c><00:33:37.039><c> could</c><00:33:37.220><c> go</c>

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So<00:33:37.500><c> far</c><00:33:37.720><c> as</c><00:33:38.019><c> to</c><00:33:38.180><c> say</c><00:33:38.400><c> well</c>

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I'm<00:33:38.680><c> just</c><00:33:38.920><c> gonna</c><00:33:39.119><c> shade</c><00:33:39.460><c> this</c><00:33:39.819><c> in</c><00:33:40.019><c> because</c><00:33:40.180><c> I've</c><00:33:40.359><c> got</c><00:33:40.500><c> somebody</c><00:33:40.819><c> in</c><00:33:41.079><c> mind</c>

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They're<00:33:41.440><c> more</c><00:33:41.779><c> or</c><00:33:42.019><c> less</c><00:33:42.220><c> that</c><00:33:42.460><c> way</c><00:33:42.619><c> inclined</c><00:33:43.059><c> and</c><00:33:43.259><c> their</c><00:33:43.400><c> communication</c><00:33:44.119><c> style</c><00:33:44.579><c> is</c>

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is<00:33:45.339><c> more</c><00:33:45.539><c> direct</c><00:33:45.880><c> or</c><00:33:46.079><c> is</c><00:33:46.220><c> it</c><00:33:46.359><c> less</c><00:33:46.579><c> direct</c><00:33:47.000><c> and</c><00:33:47.519><c> that's</c><00:33:47.759><c> starting</c><00:33:48.019><c> to</c><00:33:48.220><c> give</c>

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You<00:33:48.440><c> a</c><00:33:48.519><c> bit</c><00:33:48.619><c> of</c><00:33:48.819><c> a</c><00:33:48.920><c> clue</c><00:33:49.299><c> priorities</c><00:33:49.980><c> the</c><00:33:50.460><c> same</c><00:33:50.720><c> thing</c>

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Relationship<00:33:52.500><c> thoughts</c><00:33:52.819><c> ideas</c><00:33:53.400><c> versus</c><00:33:54.180><c> tasks</c><00:33:54.779><c> facts</c><00:33:55.259><c> and</c><00:33:55.559><c> data</c><00:33:55.839><c> so</c>

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I'm<00:33:59.599><c> just</c><00:33:59.779><c> gonna</c><00:33:59.900><c> pick</c><00:34:00.119><c> on</c><00:34:00.740><c> on</c><00:34:01.240><c> brother</c><00:34:01.380><c> mark.</c><00:34:02.140><c> You</c><00:34:02.259><c> know</c><00:34:02.359><c> he</c>

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in<00:34:03.559><c> one</c><00:34:03.819><c> respect</c><00:34:04.240><c> thought</c><00:34:04.380><c> he</c><00:34:04.539><c> was</c><00:34:04.720><c> an</c><00:34:05.079><c> analytical</c>

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We're<00:34:05.740><c> gonna</c><00:34:05.940><c> discuss</c><00:34:06.279><c> that</c><00:34:06.519><c> over</c><00:34:06.680><c> lunch.</c><00:34:06.960><c> We're</c><00:34:07.079><c> gonna</c><00:34:07.180><c> have</c>

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an<00:34:07.480><c> intervention</c><00:34:07.819><c> if</c><00:34:08.019><c> anybody</c><00:34:08.239><c> wants</c><00:34:08.480><c> to</c><00:34:08.760><c> watch</c>

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We're<00:34:10.840><c> gonna</c><00:34:10.920><c> make</c><00:34:11.099><c> some</c><00:34:11.300><c> sense</c><00:34:11.559><c> of</c><00:34:11.719><c> brother</c><00:34:11.900><c> mark</c>

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And

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And<00:34:15.559><c> and</c><00:34:15.820><c> because</c><00:34:16.059><c> the</c><00:34:16.280><c> generally</c><00:34:16.599><c> they're</c><00:34:16.940><c> inclined</c><00:34:17.480><c> to</c><00:34:18.300><c> one</c>

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half<00:34:19.400><c> of</c><00:34:19.639><c> this</c>

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Quadrant<00:34:20.900><c> versus</c><00:34:21.219><c> the</c><00:34:21.480><c> other</c><00:34:21.760><c> and</c><00:34:22.519><c> and</c><00:34:23.019><c> that's</c><00:34:23.519><c> and</c><00:34:23.659><c> that's</c>

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so<00:34:24.519><c> true</c>

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the<00:34:25.800><c> pace</c><00:34:26.239><c> you</c><00:34:26.539><c> know</c><00:34:26.699><c> the</c>

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Some<00:34:28.219><c> of</c><00:34:28.420><c> you</c><00:34:28.599><c> and</c><00:34:29.019><c> I</c><00:34:29.280><c> get</c><00:34:29.420><c> this</c><00:34:29.659><c> feedback</c><00:34:29.960><c> from</c><00:34:30.159><c> my</c><00:34:30.340><c> parents</c>

00:34:30.539 --> 00:34:32.920
all<00:34:30.739><c> the</c><00:34:30.920><c> time</c><00:34:31.099><c> after</c><00:34:31.360><c> an</c><00:34:31.579><c> exhortation</c><00:34:31.960><c> boy</c><00:34:32.159><c> you</c><00:34:32.340><c> talk</c><00:34:32.480><c> so</c><00:34:32.760><c> quick</c>

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I'm<00:34:33.079><c> just</c><00:34:33.199><c> I</c><00:34:33.320><c> know</c><00:34:33.360><c> you</c><00:34:33.559><c> listen</c><00:34:33.820><c> too</c><00:34:34.079><c> slow</c>

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Like

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Turn<00:34:38.719><c> up</c><00:34:38.920><c> the</c><00:34:39.159><c> hearing</c><00:34:39.420><c> aid</c><00:34:39.579><c> and</c><00:34:39.760><c> put</c><00:34:39.880><c> it</c><00:34:40.019><c> on</c><00:34:40.239><c> 2x</c><00:34:40.800><c> because</c><00:34:41.579><c> like</c>

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I<00:34:42.360><c> don't</c><00:34:42.599><c> think</c><00:34:42.800><c> I</c><00:34:42.980><c> talk</c><00:34:43.179><c> quick</c>

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But<00:34:44.260><c> in</c><00:34:44.440><c> any</c><00:34:44.639><c> event</c><00:34:44.940><c> some</c><00:34:45.780><c> of</c><00:34:45.920><c> you</c><00:34:46.000><c> may</c><00:34:46.199><c> disagree,</c><00:34:46.619><c> but</c><00:34:46.980><c> that</c><00:34:47.380><c> this</c><00:34:47.920><c> is</c><00:34:48.139><c> sort</c><00:34:48.260><c> of</c><00:34:48.320><c> like</c><00:34:48.500><c> a</c>

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real<00:34:48.940><c> example</c><00:34:49.500><c> an</c><00:34:49.820><c> object</c><00:34:50.079><c> lesson</c><00:34:50.440><c> of</c><00:34:50.880><c> pace</c>

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You<00:34:51.639><c> know</c><00:34:51.760><c> somebody</c><00:34:52.079><c> who's</c><00:34:52.639><c> slower</c><00:34:52.739><c> versus</c><00:34:53.159><c> faster</c><00:34:53.579><c> decision</c><00:34:54.079><c>-making</c>

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If<00:34:55.820><c> anytime</c><00:34:56.079><c> we</c><00:34:56.260><c> take</c><00:34:56.420><c> a</c><00:34:56.639><c> family</c><00:34:56.900><c> trip,</c><00:34:57.280><c> we've</c><00:34:58.019><c> got</c><00:34:58.239><c> some</c><00:34:58.920><c> who</c>

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will<00:34:59.420><c> remain</c><00:34:59.659><c> nameless</c><00:35:00.659><c> who</c><00:35:00.960><c> aren't</c><00:35:01.059><c> in</c><00:35:01.239><c> the</c><00:35:01.340><c> room</c>

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Oh

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We'll<00:35:03.659><c> just</c><00:35:04.280><c> do</c><00:35:04.519><c> a</c><00:35:04.679><c> lot</c><00:35:04.860><c> of</c><00:35:05.079><c> research</c><00:35:05.440><c> around</c><00:35:05.780><c> things</c><00:35:06.119><c> doesn't</c>

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make<00:35:06.579><c> them</c><00:35:06.760><c> analytical</c>

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But<00:35:07.880><c> but</c><00:35:08.239><c> it</c><00:35:08.420><c> does</c><00:35:08.840><c> mean</c><00:35:09.059><c> that</c><00:35:09.340><c> maybe</c><00:35:09.599><c> the</c><00:35:09.900><c> decision</c><00:35:10.179><c>-making</c><00:35:10.440><c> pace</c><00:35:10.760><c> is</c><00:35:10.960><c> a</c>

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little<00:35:11.239><c> slower</c>

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And<00:35:12.679><c> whereas</c><00:35:12.900><c> I'm</c><00:35:13.179><c> like</c><00:35:13.300><c> a</c><00:35:13.500><c> deciding</c><00:35:13.760><c> go</c><00:35:14.059><c> as</c><00:35:14.300><c> I</c><00:35:14.519><c> said,</c><00:35:15.099><c> you</c><00:35:15.099><c> know</c><00:35:15.159><c> my</c>

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mantra<00:35:15.820><c> I</c><00:35:16.539><c> had</c><00:35:16.679><c> this</c>

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When<00:35:17.940><c> I</c><00:35:17.980><c> was</c><00:35:18.179><c> working</c><00:35:18.599><c> which</c><00:35:19.000><c> some</c><00:35:19.260><c> people</c><00:35:19.519><c> appreciated</c>

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particularly<00:35:21.599><c> drivers</c>

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Was<00:35:23.400><c> as</c><00:35:23.840><c> I</c><00:35:23.980><c> said</c><00:35:24.059><c> before</c><00:35:24.420><c> be</c><00:35:24.760><c> bright</c><00:35:25.059><c> be</c><00:35:25.360><c> brief</c><00:35:25.579><c> be</c><00:35:25.880><c> gone.</c><00:35:26.019><c> That</c>

00:35:26.420 --> 00:35:28.539
was<00:35:27.099><c> that</c><00:35:27.360><c> was</c><00:35:27.559><c> sort</c><00:35:27.679><c> of</c><00:35:27.780><c> how</c><00:35:27.900><c> I</c><00:35:28.099><c> worked</c>

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And<00:35:29.179><c> I</c><00:35:29.340><c> needed</c><00:35:29.519><c> to</c><00:35:29.760><c> focus</c><00:35:30.019><c> on</c><00:35:30.380><c> slowing</c><00:35:30.559><c> down</c><00:35:30.980><c> I'm</c><00:35:31.320><c> in</c><00:35:31.460><c> human</c><00:35:31.599><c> resources</c><00:35:32.099><c> I'm</c><00:35:32.360><c> supposed</c><00:35:32.480><c> to</c>

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care<00:35:32.860><c> about</c><00:35:33.099><c> people</c>

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Stress<00:35:40.740><c> the</c><00:35:41.260><c> whole</c><00:35:41.579><c> fight</c><00:35:41.780><c>-or</c><00:35:41.980><c>-flight</c><00:35:42.139><c> thing</c><00:35:42.380><c> remember</c><00:35:42.639><c> what</c>

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I<00:35:43.019><c> said</c><00:35:43.159><c> about</c><00:35:43.639><c> you</c><00:35:44.099><c> know,</c><00:35:44.599><c> the</c><00:35:44.599><c> driver</c><00:35:45.000><c> under</c><00:35:45.340><c> stress</c><00:35:45.880><c> they</c>

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they<00:35:46.760><c> become</c><00:35:46.940><c> autocratic</c><00:35:47.440><c> they</c><00:35:47.659><c> bark</c>

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Whereas<00:35:49.260><c> the</c><00:35:49.679><c> other</c><00:35:49.920><c> the</c><00:35:50.239><c> amiable</c><00:35:50.539><c> for</c><00:35:50.860><c> example</c><00:35:51.139><c> might</c><00:35:51.340><c> acquiesce</c><00:35:51.980><c> so</c>

00:35:52.219 --> 00:35:55.239
flight<00:35:52.380><c> versus</c><00:35:52.780><c> fight</c><00:35:53.059><c> and</c><00:35:53.760><c> then</c><00:35:54.000><c> the</c><00:35:54.219><c> nonverbal</c>

00:35:55.239 --> 00:35:58.800
You<00:35:55.980><c> know</c><00:35:56.119><c> the</c><00:35:56.300><c> body</c><00:35:56.579><c> language</c><00:35:57.260><c> I</c><00:35:57.559><c> don't</c><00:35:57.800><c> tend</c><00:35:58.000><c> to</c><00:35:58.280><c> do</c><00:35:58.539><c> a</c><00:35:58.699><c> lot</c>

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of<00:35:58.980><c> that</c><00:35:59.440><c> personally</c>

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When<00:36:01.440><c> I've</c><00:36:01.860><c> when</c><00:36:01.980><c> I</c><00:36:02.139><c> have</c><00:36:02.639><c> conversations</c><00:36:03.280><c> with</c><00:36:03.539><c> people</c><00:36:04.079><c> I</c><00:36:04.340><c> try</c>

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to<00:36:04.619><c> remember</c><00:36:04.860><c> their</c><00:36:05.079><c> names</c>

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I<00:36:05.440><c> try</c><00:36:05.639><c> to</c><00:36:05.780><c> look</c><00:36:05.920><c> them</c><00:36:06.039><c> in</c><00:36:06.179><c> the</c><00:36:06.380><c> eye</c><00:36:06.519><c> very</c><00:36:06.760><c> direct</c><00:36:07.139><c> as</c><00:36:07.440><c> opposed</c>

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to<00:36:08.179><c> you</c><00:36:08.340><c> know</c>

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Perhaps<00:36:08.900><c> eyes</c><00:36:09.559><c> wandering</c><00:36:09.920><c> all</c><00:36:10.179><c> over</c><00:36:10.340><c> the</c><00:36:10.519><c> place</c><00:36:10.679><c> because</c><00:36:10.860><c> my</c>

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brain's<00:36:11.460><c> wandering</c><00:36:11.679><c> all</c><00:36:11.920><c> over</c><00:36:12.079><c> the</c><00:36:12.260><c> place</c>

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so<00:36:12.940><c> this</c><00:36:13.159><c> this</c><00:36:13.460><c> is</c><00:36:14.000><c> really</c><00:36:14.340><c> just</c><00:36:14.980><c> something</c><00:36:15.420><c> for</c><00:36:15.739><c> you</c><00:36:15.940><c> to</c><00:36:16.139><c> take</c>

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away<00:36:16.699><c> if</c><00:36:16.860><c> you</c><00:36:17.039><c> started</c><00:36:17.219><c> to</c><00:36:17.460><c> think</c><00:36:17.579><c> about</c><00:36:17.820><c> this</c><00:36:18.119><c> after</c><00:36:18.460><c> today</c><00:36:18.980><c> and</c>

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Okay,<00:36:20.260><c> like</c><00:36:20.500><c> I've</c><00:36:20.699><c> got</c><00:36:20.800><c> to</c><00:36:21.039><c> spend</c><00:36:21.179><c> some</c><00:36:21.500><c> time</c><00:36:21.679><c> working</c><00:36:21.980><c> with</c>

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this<00:36:22.559><c> person</c><00:36:23.099><c> in</c><00:36:23.639><c> the</c><00:36:23.840><c> Ecclesia</c><00:36:24.280><c> or</c><00:36:24.579><c> even</c><00:36:24.820><c> within</c><00:36:25.000><c> my</c><00:36:25.320><c> family</c>

00:36:26.500 --> 00:36:29.940
Where<00:36:27.019><c> do</c><00:36:27.199><c> they</c><00:36:27.400><c> fall</c><00:36:27.739><c> and</c><00:36:28.480><c> and</c><00:36:28.820><c> what</c><00:36:28.940><c> do</c><00:36:29.099><c> I</c><00:36:29.219><c> need</c><00:36:29.340><c> to</c><00:36:29.539><c> think</c><00:36:29.699><c> about?</c>

00:36:30.019 --> 00:36:34.719
What<00:36:30.079><c> do</c><00:36:30.239><c> I</c><00:36:30.239><c> need</c><00:36:30.360><c> to</c><00:36:30.460><c> be</c><00:36:30.599><c> sensitive</c><00:36:31.079><c> to</c><00:36:31.619><c> as</c><00:36:32.079><c> it</c><00:36:32.340><c> relates</c><00:36:32.659><c> to</c><00:36:33.260><c> where</c><00:36:33.440><c> they</c><00:36:33.760><c> fall</c><00:36:33.960><c> versus</c><00:36:34.260><c> where</c><00:36:34.500><c> I</c>

00:36:34.719 --> 00:36:36.619
fall<00:36:35.039><c> and</c><00:36:35.519><c> how</c><00:36:35.760><c> we</c><00:36:36.019><c> need</c><00:36:36.239><c> to?</c>

00:36:36.760 --> 00:36:38.860
Just<00:36:37.039><c> through</c><00:36:37.260><c> this</c><00:36:37.559><c> knowledge</c><00:36:37.860><c> and</c><00:36:38.039><c> this</c><00:36:38.260><c> awareness</c>

00:36:38.860 --> 00:36:43.300
Work<00:36:39.500><c> together</c><00:36:40.340><c> more</c><00:36:40.980><c> effectively</c><00:36:41.739><c> to</c><00:36:42.380><c> their</c><00:36:42.579><c> edification</c>

00:36:43.300 --> 00:36:47.440
your<00:36:43.699><c> edification</c><00:36:44.420><c> and</c><00:36:44.880><c> to</c><00:36:45.079><c> the</c><00:36:45.300><c> glory</c><00:36:45.679><c> of</c><00:36:45.880><c> our</c><00:36:46.019><c> Heavenly</c><00:36:46.320><c> Father</c>

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So<00:36:48.699><c> yeah,</c><00:36:49.920><c> please</c>

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Yeah

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Yep

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Right

00:37:11.460 --> 00:37:20.360
Quadrants<00:37:12.019><c> there</c><00:37:12.579><c> and</c><00:37:17.340><c> each</c><00:37:17.579><c> one</c><00:37:17.719><c> of</c><00:37:17.820><c> those</c><00:37:18.099><c> quadrants</c><00:37:19.039><c> is</c>

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is

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Going<00:37:21.719><c> to</c><00:37:21.880><c> either</c><00:37:22.119><c> be</c><00:37:22.440><c> an</c><00:37:22.659><c> aggressive</c><00:37:22.940><c> a</c><00:37:23.739><c> driver</c><00:37:24.099><c> analytical</c>

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or<00:37:25.079><c> an</c><00:37:25.239><c> amiable</c>

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Is<00:37:26.599><c> that</c><00:37:26.780><c> how</c><00:37:26.960><c> we</c><00:37:27.199><c> are</c><00:37:27.320><c> to</c><00:37:27.519><c> understand</c><00:37:27.940><c> it?</c><00:37:28.159><c> It's</c><00:37:28.599><c> it's</c><00:37:28.960><c> a</c><00:37:29.019><c> good</c>

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question.<00:37:29.599><c> Thank</c><00:37:29.800><c> you</c>

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So<00:37:30.099><c> these</c><00:37:30.239><c> are</c><00:37:30.460><c> still</c><00:37:30.719><c> the</c><00:37:30.940><c> same</c><00:37:31.119><c> four</c><00:37:31.460><c> quadrants,</c><00:37:32.300><c> but</c><00:37:32.380><c> we</c><00:37:32.519><c> you're</c><00:37:32.679><c> not</c><00:37:32.940><c> thinking</c><00:37:33.199><c> about</c><00:37:33.480><c> this</c><00:37:33.719><c> from</c><00:37:33.900><c> a</c><00:37:34.219><c> quadrant</c>

00:37:34.880 --> 00:37:38.119
Assessment<00:37:35.639><c> tool</c><00:37:36.000><c> you're</c><00:37:36.380><c> thinking</c><00:37:36.599><c> about</c><00:37:36.940><c> this</c><00:37:37.400><c> in</c><00:37:37.780><c> halves.</c>

00:37:38.559 --> 00:37:40.960
So<00:37:38.800><c> when</c><00:37:38.960><c> we</c><00:37:39.219><c> did</c><00:37:39.360><c> that</c><00:37:39.780><c> XY</c><00:37:40.219><c> axis</c>

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Yeah

00:37:41.219 --> 00:37:44.900
We<00:37:41.440><c> sort</c><00:37:41.659><c> of</c><00:37:41.800><c> would</c><00:37:42.179><c> my</c><00:37:42.860><c> first</c><00:37:43.179><c> step</c><00:37:43.320><c> was</c><00:37:43.559><c> to</c><00:37:43.860><c> drive</c><00:37:44.119><c> you</c><00:37:44.380><c> towards</c><00:37:44.679><c> the</c>

00:37:44.900 --> 00:37:46.179
left<00:37:45.199><c> or</c><00:37:45.440><c> the</c><00:37:45.639><c> right</c>

00:37:46.179 --> 00:37:49.880
Or<00:37:46.840><c> towards</c><00:37:47.079><c> the</c><00:37:47.360><c> top</c><00:37:47.619><c> or</c><00:37:47.940><c> towards</c><00:37:48.219><c> the</c><00:37:48.420><c> bottom</c><00:37:48.840><c> and</c><00:37:49.400><c> so</c><00:37:49.579><c> this</c>

00:37:49.880 --> 00:37:51.760
tool<00:37:50.139><c> is</c><00:37:50.519><c> is</c><00:37:50.860><c> directing</c><00:37:51.199><c> you</c>

00:37:51.760 --> 00:37:57.140
towards<00:37:52.159><c> the</c><00:37:52.440><c> top</c><00:37:52.800><c> or</c><00:37:52.980><c> the</c><00:37:53.139><c> bottom</c><00:37:53.559><c> or</c><00:37:54.199><c> the</c><00:37:54.440><c> left</c><00:37:54.719><c> or</c><00:37:54.940><c> the</c><00:37:55.159><c> right</c><00:37:55.659><c> and</c><00:37:56.360><c> so</c>

00:37:57.440 --> 00:37:59.079
using<00:37:57.940><c> the</c><00:37:58.179><c> vocal</c><00:37:58.440><c> inflection</c>

00:37:59.079 --> 00:38:01.219
somebody<00:38:00.019><c> who's</c>

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You<00:38:01.760><c> know</c><00:38:02.079><c> demonstrates</c><00:38:02.599><c> more</c><00:38:03.079><c> of</c><00:38:03.300><c> that</c><00:38:03.500><c> or</c><00:38:03.780><c> more</c><00:38:04.079><c> emotion</c><00:38:04.559><c> in</c>

00:38:04.760 --> 00:38:07.639
their<00:38:04.960><c> communication</c><00:38:05.739><c> is</c><00:38:06.440><c> going</c><00:38:06.559><c> to</c><00:38:06.639><c> be</c><00:38:06.739><c> in</c><00:38:06.860><c> the</c><00:38:07.059><c> top</c><00:38:07.420><c> half</c>

00:38:07.639 --> 00:38:10.059
so<00:38:07.820><c> they're</c><00:38:08.139><c> probably</c><00:38:08.599><c> either</c><00:38:09.199><c> a</c>

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Expressive<00:38:11.880><c> or</c><00:38:12.059><c> an</c><00:38:12.239><c> amiable</c>

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Okay,<00:38:17.060><c> and</c><00:38:17.780><c> if</c><00:38:18.000><c> somebody</c><00:38:18.380><c> is</c><00:38:18.880><c> is</c><00:38:19.059><c> a</c><00:38:19.159><c> little</c><00:38:19.320><c> bit</c><00:38:19.480><c> more,</c><00:38:20.000><c> you</c>

00:38:20.380 --> 00:38:23.039
know<00:38:20.960><c> little</c><00:38:21.300><c> less</c><00:38:21.619><c> emotive</c><00:38:22.079><c> and</c><00:38:22.219><c> they're</c><00:38:22.420><c> speaking</c>

00:38:23.039 --> 00:38:27.199
They're<00:38:23.800><c> probably</c><00:38:24.420><c> either</c><00:38:24.920><c> a</c><00:38:25.219><c> driver</c><00:38:25.579><c> or</c><00:38:26.079><c> an</c><00:38:26.300><c> analytic</c>

00:38:27.500 --> 00:38:31.260
And<00:38:28.119><c> the</c><00:38:28.340><c> same</c><00:38:28.440><c> would</c><00:38:28.619><c> be</c><00:38:28.860><c> true</c><00:38:29.420><c> with</c><00:38:30.059><c> the</c><00:38:30.260><c> left</c><00:38:30.460><c> versus</c><00:38:30.820><c> right</c>

00:38:31.260 --> 00:38:35.340
so<00:38:32.260><c> if</c><00:38:32.559><c> we</c><00:38:32.739><c> were</c><00:38:32.860><c> using</c><00:38:33.179><c> pace</c><00:38:33.780><c> for</c><00:38:34.260><c> example</c>

00:38:35.419 --> 00:38:38.920
We've<00:38:36.119><c> got</c><00:38:36.320><c> on</c><00:38:36.659><c> the</c><00:38:36.820><c> left</c><00:38:37.099><c> slower</c><00:38:37.519><c> and</c><00:38:37.860><c> on</c><00:38:37.980><c> the</c><00:38:38.099><c> right</c><00:38:38.300><c> faster</c>

00:38:38.920 --> 00:38:44.099
So<00:38:40.119><c> I</c><00:38:40.619><c> was</c><00:38:40.820><c> talking</c><00:38:41.099><c> about</c><00:38:41.280><c> myself</c><00:38:41.820><c> or</c><00:38:42.260><c> somebody</c><00:38:42.639><c> who's</c><00:38:43.300><c> a</c><00:38:43.719><c> expressive</c>

00:38:44.099 --> 00:38:50.159
they're<00:38:44.539><c> usually</c><00:38:44.800><c> at</c><00:38:44.940><c> a</c><00:38:45.019><c> quicker</c><00:38:45.179><c> pace</c><00:38:45.800><c> or</c><00:38:46.320><c> as</c><00:38:46.460><c> somebody</c><00:38:46.780><c> who's</c><00:38:47.380><c> perhaps</c><00:38:47.679><c> an</c><00:38:47.900><c> analytical</c><00:38:48.360><c> or</c><00:38:49.460><c> a</c>

00:38:50.159 --> 00:38:54.119
Amiable<00:38:50.659><c> they</c><00:38:51.300><c> might</c><00:38:51.460><c> be</c><00:38:51.739><c> slower</c><00:38:52.199><c> in</c><00:38:52.719><c> their</c><00:38:52.960><c> communication</c>

00:38:55.020 --> 00:38:57.000
style<00:38:55.760><c> and</c>

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That

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can<00:39:00.099><c> can</c>

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Can<00:39:01.960><c> be</c>

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Great

00:39:05.519 --> 00:39:08.940
If<00:39:06.280><c> you're</c><00:39:06.559><c> somebody</c><00:39:07.159><c> like</c><00:39:08.059><c> that</c>

00:39:09.439 --> 00:39:12.480
You're<00:39:10.199><c> analytical</c><00:39:10.800><c> you</c><00:39:11.139><c> can</c><00:39:11.380><c> take</c><00:39:11.599><c> notes</c>

00:39:12.519 --> 00:39:15.980
If<00:39:13.219><c> you're</c><00:39:13.380><c> an</c><00:39:13.480><c> amiable,</c><00:39:14.000><c> you</c><00:39:14.500><c> just</c><00:39:14.840><c> love</c><00:39:15.320><c> to</c><00:39:15.599><c> listen</c>

00:39:16.459 --> 00:39:19.239
If<00:39:17.219><c> you're</c><00:39:17.400><c> a</c><00:39:17.539><c> driver,</c><00:39:17.739><c> you're</c><00:39:18.099><c> expressive</c><00:39:18.340><c> you're</c><00:39:18.599><c> like</c><00:39:18.840><c> get</c>

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on<00:39:19.539><c> with</c><00:39:19.760><c> it</c>

00:39:23.300 --> 00:39:26.460
Other<00:39:23.699><c> questions</c><00:39:24.019><c> on</c><00:39:24.199><c> that</c><00:39:24.320><c> one.</c><00:39:25.179><c> Thanks</c><00:39:25.659><c> Steve</c>

00:39:28.460 --> 00:39:29.920
Okay,<00:39:28.940><c> so</c>

00:39:30.519 --> 00:39:31.000
let's

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Let's<00:39:31.500><c> let's</c><00:39:31.739><c> continue</c><00:39:32.099><c> to</c><00:39:32.300><c> build</c><00:39:32.420><c> on</c><00:39:32.639><c> this</c><00:39:32.820><c> then.</c><00:39:33.619><c> Oops.</c><00:39:34.179><c> I</c><00:39:34.199><c> know</c><00:39:34.280><c> did</c><00:39:34.500><c> I</c>

00:39:34.599 --> 00:39:38.440
miss<00:39:34.800><c> no</c><00:39:35.159><c> continue</c><00:39:35.900><c> to</c><00:39:36.079><c> build</c><00:39:36.179><c> this</c><00:39:36.380><c> so</c><00:39:36.900><c> so</c><00:39:37.260><c> recognizing</c><00:39:37.840><c> differences</c>

00:39:38.440 --> 00:39:41.480
I<00:39:38.980><c> mean</c><00:39:39.139><c> it</c><00:39:39.280><c> was</c><00:39:39.480><c> wonderful.</c><00:39:39.900><c> I</c><00:39:40.139><c> think</c><00:39:40.340><c> it's</c><00:39:40.599><c> beautiful</c><00:39:40.920><c> that</c>

00:39:41.480 --> 00:39:42.420
in<00:39:41.860><c> this</c><00:39:42.039><c> ekklesia</c>

00:39:42.420 --> 00:39:47.559
For<00:39:42.679><c> example,</c><00:39:43.619><c> we</c><00:39:43.880><c> had</c><00:39:44.219><c> almost</c><00:39:44.639><c> not</c><00:39:44.900><c> quite</c><00:39:45.300><c> the</c><00:39:46.000><c> analytics</c><00:39:46.380><c> will</c><00:39:46.619><c> know</c><00:39:46.800><c> because</c><00:39:46.980><c> they</c><00:39:47.139><c> probably</c><00:39:47.340><c> did</c><00:39:47.460><c> a</c>

00:39:47.559 --> 00:39:48.719
head<00:39:47.699><c> count</c>

00:39:49.800 --> 00:39:52.300
The<00:39:50.280><c> diversity</c><00:39:50.760><c> within</c><00:39:51.019><c> the</c><00:39:51.239><c> room</c><00:39:51.440><c> there</c><00:39:51.599><c> was</c><00:39:51.780><c> a</c><00:39:51.920><c> bunch</c><00:39:52.099><c> here</c>

00:39:52.300 --> 00:39:54.960
a<00:39:52.460><c> bunch</c><00:39:52.619><c> there</c><00:39:52.840><c> a</c><00:39:52.980><c> bunch</c><00:39:53.119><c> there</c><00:39:53.320><c> and</c><00:39:53.460><c> a</c><00:39:53.539><c> bunch</c><00:39:53.719><c> there</c><00:39:54.059><c> and</c><00:39:54.639><c> and</c>

00:39:54.960 --> 00:39:55.500
that's<00:39:55.219><c> awesome</c>

00:39:55.500 --> 00:39:58.920
So<00:39:55.760><c> what</c><00:39:56.159><c> that</c><00:39:56.400><c> says</c><00:39:56.599><c> is</c><00:39:56.940><c> there's</c><00:39:57.280><c> not</c><00:39:57.539><c> everybody's</c><00:39:58.079><c> the</c><00:39:58.219><c> same,</c><00:39:58.920><c> you</c><00:39:58.920><c> know</c>

00:39:58.920 --> 00:40:01.199
You're<00:39:59.360><c> you're</c><00:39:59.559><c> dealing</c><00:39:59.760><c> with</c><00:40:00.039><c> differences</c><00:40:00.460><c> and</c><00:40:00.760><c> different</c>

00:40:01.199 --> 00:40:05.159
people<00:40:01.760><c> have</c><00:40:02.099><c> different</c><00:40:02.519><c> needs</c><00:40:03.019><c> and</c><00:40:03.760><c> so</c><00:40:04.099><c> by</c><00:40:04.519><c> understanding</c>

00:40:05.159 --> 00:40:06.860
what<00:40:05.400><c> those</c><00:40:06.019><c> needs</c><00:40:06.320><c> are</c>

00:40:06.860 --> 00:40:10.460
We<00:40:07.480><c> can</c><00:40:07.679><c> become</c><00:40:07.880><c> aware</c><00:40:08.239><c> of</c><00:40:08.420><c> them</c><00:40:08.840><c> and</c><00:40:09.059><c> we</c><00:40:09.179><c> can</c><00:40:09.460><c> flex</c><00:40:09.820><c> ourself.</c>

00:40:10.500 --> 00:40:12.179
It's<00:40:10.820><c> not</c><00:40:11.039><c> about</c><00:40:11.219><c> well,</c><00:40:11.400><c> I</c><00:40:11.579><c> am</c><00:40:11.719><c> who</c><00:40:11.880><c> I</c><00:40:12.059><c> am</c>

00:40:12.179 --> 00:40:16.440
We<00:40:12.320><c> talked</c><00:40:12.559><c> about</c><00:40:12.760><c> this</c><00:40:12.980><c> in</c><00:40:13.119><c> our</c><00:40:13.300><c> first</c><00:40:13.579><c> first</c><00:40:14.099><c> class.</c><00:40:14.500><c> We</c><00:40:14.960><c> can't</c><00:40:15.340><c> just</c><00:40:15.519><c> resign</c><00:40:15.760><c> ourselves</c><00:40:16.219><c> to</c>

00:40:16.440 --> 00:40:17.780
well,<00:40:16.559><c> this</c><00:40:16.699><c> is</c><00:40:16.840><c> my</c><00:40:17.019><c> personality</c><00:40:17.500><c> type</c>

00:40:17.780 --> 00:40:21.780
So<00:40:17.980><c> tough</c><00:40:18.400><c> adapt.</c><00:40:19.380><c> No,</c><00:40:19.940><c> this</c><00:40:20.139><c> is</c><00:40:20.400><c> about</c><00:40:21.000><c> us</c>

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Flexing<00:40:22.699><c> to</c><00:40:23.179><c> adapt</c><00:40:23.619><c> to</c><00:40:24.039><c> others</c><00:40:24.500><c> to</c><00:40:24.940><c> work</c><00:40:25.260><c> with</c><00:40:25.599><c> others</c>

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For<00:40:26.860><c> for</c><00:40:27.340><c> our</c><00:40:27.559><c> mutual</c><00:40:27.900><c> edification</c><00:40:28.579><c> and</c><00:40:29.099><c> so</c><00:40:29.280><c> that</c><00:40:29.480><c> might</c><00:40:29.639><c> mean</c>

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Dealing<00:40:36.079><c> with</c><00:40:36.320><c> somebody</c><00:40:36.639><c> who's</c><00:40:36.960><c> a</c><00:40:37.139><c> fast</c><00:40:37.320><c> talker</c><00:40:37.820><c> and</c><00:40:38.000><c> you're</c><00:40:38.219><c> not</c>

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You<00:40:39.639><c> might</c><00:40:39.840><c> need</c><00:40:40.019><c> to</c><00:40:40.179><c> say</c><00:40:40.280><c> okay.</c><00:40:41.019><c> I</c><00:40:41.300><c> got</c><00:40:41.380><c> a</c><00:40:41.599><c> practice</c>

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Because<00:40:45.260><c> I</c><00:40:45.500><c> know</c><00:40:45.820><c> that</c><00:40:46.099><c> their</c><00:40:46.280><c> eyes</c><00:40:46.480><c> are</c><00:40:46.599><c> gonna</c><00:40:46.739><c> start</c><00:40:46.960><c> to</c><00:40:47.139><c> roll</c><00:40:47.239><c> back</c><00:40:47.460><c> in</c>

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And<00:40:49.840><c> similarly</c><00:40:50.260><c> for</c><00:40:50.519><c> me</c><00:40:50.760><c> if</c><00:40:51.159><c> I</c><00:40:51.280><c> know</c><00:40:51.480><c> that</c><00:40:51.619><c> I'm</c><00:40:51.760><c> gonna</c><00:40:51.860><c> be</c><00:40:52.079><c> dealing</c><00:40:52.199><c> with</c>

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somebody<00:40:52.840><c> who</c><00:40:53.699><c> likes</c><00:40:53.980><c> to</c><00:40:54.260><c> ask</c><00:40:54.440><c> questions</c>

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And<00:40:55.500><c> loves</c><00:40:55.920><c> to</c><00:40:56.239><c> spend</c><00:40:56.440><c> the</c><00:40:56.679><c> time</c><00:40:56.840><c> with</c><00:40:57.059><c> the</c><00:40:57.460><c> experience</c><00:40:58.360><c> of</c>

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being<00:40:58.860><c> together</c>

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It's<00:41:00.019><c> like</c><00:41:00.300><c> oh,</c><00:41:00.760><c> this</c><00:41:00.920><c> is</c><00:41:01.059><c> gonna</c><00:41:01.139><c> be</c><00:41:01.360><c> painful</c>

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But<00:41:02.659><c> I</c><00:41:02.940><c> know</c><00:41:03.059><c> who</c><00:41:03.199><c> they</c><00:41:03.460><c> are</c><00:41:03.719><c> what</c><00:41:03.960><c> they're</c><00:41:04.119><c> all</c><00:41:04.340><c> about</c><00:41:04.699><c> and</c><00:41:05.119><c> what</c><00:41:05.340><c> I</c>

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need<00:41:05.860><c> to</c><00:41:06.079><c> do</c><00:41:06.219><c> to</c><00:41:06.480><c> modify</c><00:41:07.019><c> my</c><00:41:07.639><c> behavioral</c><00:41:08.300><c> style</c>

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To<00:41:09.760><c> to</c><00:41:10.000><c> work</c><00:41:10.280><c> well</c><00:41:10.539><c> with</c><00:41:10.760><c> them.</c><00:41:11.519><c> And</c><00:41:11.900><c> so</c><00:41:12.139><c> on</c><00:41:12.380><c> page</c><00:41:12.639><c> four</c><00:41:13.400><c> of</c>

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your<00:41:14.480><c> handout</c>

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Intending<00:41:18.240><c> to</c><00:41:18.940><c> again</c><00:41:19.380><c> be</c><00:41:19.820><c> helpful</c><00:41:20.440><c> for</c><00:41:21.780><c> each</c><00:41:22.019><c> other</c>

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Raising<00:41:24.099><c> awareness</c>

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It's<00:41:25.840><c> it's</c><00:41:26.400><c> about</c><00:41:26.719><c> thinking</c><00:41:27.119><c> about</c><00:41:27.539><c> others</c><00:41:28.019><c> and</c><00:41:28.280><c> how</c><00:41:28.579><c> they're</c>

00:41:28.840 --> 00:41:31.110
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For<00:41:31.820><c> the</c><00:41:32.239><c> expressives,</c><00:41:32.880><c> you</c><00:41:32.940><c> know,</c><00:41:33.260><c> they're</c><00:41:33.960><c> they're</c><00:41:34.340><c> looking</c><00:41:34.519><c> for</c><00:41:34.619><c> you</c><00:41:34.760><c> to</c>

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be<00:41:34.900><c> entertaining</c>

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drivers

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for<00:41:39.239><c> you</c><00:41:39.340><c> to</c><00:41:39.400><c> be</c><00:41:39.579><c> efficient</c>

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Analytics<00:41:41.530><c> any</c><00:41:42.469><c> thoughts</c><00:41:42.869><c> on</c><00:41:43.050><c> what</c><00:41:43.210><c> the</c><00:41:43.769><c> analytics</c><00:41:44.210><c> are</c><00:41:45.050><c> looking</c><00:41:45.349><c> for</c>

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Expressives<00:41:49.190><c> entertaining</c><00:41:49.730><c> drivers</c><00:41:50.690><c> efficient.</c><00:41:53.610><c> Oh</c>

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Yeah,<00:41:55.590><c> you</c><00:41:55.829><c> guys</c><00:41:56.050><c> are</c><00:41:56.309><c> awesome</c>

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Accurate<00:41:58.170><c> right</c><00:41:59.130><c> detailed</c><00:41:59.829><c> accurate.</c><00:42:00.429><c> Yep,</c><00:42:01.030><c> and</c><00:42:01.230><c> the</c><00:42:01.389><c> amiables.</c><00:42:01.809><c> What</c>

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are<00:42:02.150><c> they</c><00:42:02.269><c> looking</c><00:42:02.469><c> for</c><00:42:02.650><c> you</c><00:42:02.730><c> to</c><00:42:02.869><c> be?</c>

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But

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Agreeable<00:42:09.070><c> amongst</c><00:42:09.530><c> other</c><00:42:09.809><c> things</c><00:42:10.250><c> right?</c><00:42:11.809><c> Yeah.</c><00:42:12.389><c> Yeah,</c><00:42:13.170><c> and</c>

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there's<00:42:13.690><c> there's</c><00:42:13.929><c> lots</c><00:42:14.150><c> of</c><00:42:14.389><c> different</c><00:42:14.690><c> synonyms</c>

00:42:15.090 --> 00:42:18.389
We<00:42:15.250><c> can</c><00:42:15.469><c> use</c><00:42:15.650><c> these</c><00:42:15.849><c> are</c><00:42:16.030><c> just</c><00:42:16.429><c> some</c><00:42:16.710><c> examples</c><00:42:17.110><c> that</c><00:42:17.269><c> I'm</c><00:42:17.449><c> giving</c><00:42:17.610><c> you</c>

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and<00:42:19.130><c> for</c><00:42:19.429><c> expressives</c>

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They're<00:42:20.349><c> interested</c><00:42:20.690><c> in</c><00:42:20.969><c> ideas</c><00:42:21.349><c> and</c><00:42:21.650><c> possibilities</c>

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Outcomes<00:42:30.650><c> right</c><00:42:31.289><c> finished</c><00:42:31.710><c> products</c>

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Yep

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Analytics,<00:42:35.489><c> what</c><00:42:35.929><c> are</c><00:42:36.469><c> they</c><00:42:36.809><c> interested</c><00:42:37.409><c> in?</c>

00:42:40.449 --> 00:42:42.289
Accuracy<00:42:41.170><c> out</c>

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What<00:42:43.369><c> else?</c>

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Answers<00:42:46.289><c> facts</c><00:42:47.269><c> data,</c><00:42:48.610><c> right</c>

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Because<00:42:51.630><c> they</c><00:42:51.829><c> want</c><00:42:51.949><c> to</c><00:42:52.090><c> do</c><00:42:52.170><c> their</c><00:42:52.369><c> own</c><00:42:52.530><c> analysis</c>

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They're<00:42:54.570><c> not</c><00:42:54.769><c> interested</c><00:42:55.170><c> in</c><00:42:55.349><c> your</c><00:42:55.570><c> conclusions.</c><00:42:56.050><c> They</c><00:42:56.309><c> want</c>

00:42:56.449 --> 00:42:58.769
to<00:42:56.590><c> do</c><00:42:56.710><c> their</c><00:42:56.969><c> own</c><00:42:57.150><c> analysis</c><00:42:57.789><c> and</c>

00:42:59.489 --> 00:43:02.909
Amiables<00:42:59.909><c> are</c><00:43:00.190><c> interested</c><00:43:00.550><c> in</c><00:43:00.869><c> relationships</c><00:43:01.469><c> and</c><00:43:01.789><c> communications</c>

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Okay,<00:43:04.030><c> think</c><00:43:04.289><c> back.</c><00:43:04.889><c> We</c><00:43:05.130><c> talked</c><00:43:05.289><c> about</c><00:43:05.530><c> this</c><00:43:05.750><c> a</c><00:43:05.869><c> little</c><00:43:06.050><c> bit</c><00:43:06.230><c> ago</c><00:43:06.429><c> on</c><00:43:06.710><c> that.</c><00:43:07.150><c> I</c>

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think<00:43:07.449><c> it</c><00:43:07.550><c> was</c><00:43:07.750><c> page</c><00:43:08.010><c> two</c>

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Expressives<00:43:10.289><c> their</c><00:43:10.570><c> pace</c><00:43:10.949><c> is</c>

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Faster<00:43:13.210><c> right</c><00:43:13.909><c> faster</c><00:43:14.610><c> and</c><00:43:15.269><c> spontaneous</c>

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Okay

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drivers<00:43:18.489><c> faster</c><00:43:19.230><c> decisive</c>

00:43:20.269 --> 00:43:23.030
analytics<00:43:21.329><c> a</c><00:43:21.849><c> little</c><00:43:22.030><c> slower</c>

00:43:23.030 --> 00:43:27.050
Sometimes<00:43:23.610><c> a</c><00:43:23.769><c> lot</c><00:43:23.969><c> slower</c><00:43:24.869><c> depending</c><00:43:25.309><c> on</c><00:43:25.489><c> your</c><00:43:25.690><c> own</c><00:43:25.969><c> personality</c><00:43:26.329><c> style</c>

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painfully<00:43:28.130><c> slower</c><00:43:28.929><c> and</c>

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Systematic<00:43:31.050><c> and</c><00:43:31.409><c> amiables</c><00:43:31.929><c> any</c><00:43:32.190><c> thoughts</c><00:43:32.449><c> on</c><00:43:32.710><c> them</c>

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Slower<00:43:36.590><c> yeah</c><00:43:37.130><c> slower</c><00:43:37.489><c> more</c><00:43:37.750><c> relaxed.</c><00:43:38.409><c> Yeah,</c><00:43:39.170><c> right</c>

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That's<00:43:45.569><c> good</c>

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If<00:43:49.170><c> I</c><00:43:49.550><c> sound</c><00:43:49.690><c> like</c><00:43:49.929><c> I'm</c><00:43:50.289><c> picking</c><00:43:50.489><c> on</c><00:43:50.769><c> any</c><00:43:51.110><c> groups,</c><00:43:51.869><c> I'm</c><00:43:52.429><c> really</c>

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not<00:43:53.110><c> I'm</c><00:43:53.389><c> just</c><00:43:53.690><c> showing</c><00:43:53.989><c> my</c><00:43:54.389><c> humanity</c><00:43:54.949><c> and</c><00:43:55.449><c> and</c><00:43:55.909><c> really</c>

00:43:56.250 --> 00:44:01.890
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Could<00:44:08.670><c> you</c><00:44:09.269><c> say</c><00:44:09.349><c> that</c><00:44:09.550><c> a</c><00:44:09.650><c> little</c><00:44:09.769><c> quicker</c>

00:44:16.990 --> 00:44:18.690
All<00:44:17.590><c> right</c>

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Drivers<00:44:19.570><c> yeah,</c><00:44:19.909><c> they're</c><00:44:20.170><c> seeking</c><00:44:20.429><c> results.</c><00:44:20.949><c> We</c><00:44:21.170><c> talked</c><00:44:21.389><c> a</c><00:44:21.550><c> little</c><00:44:21.710><c> bit</c><00:44:21.849><c> of</c>

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this<00:44:22.210><c> and</c><00:44:22.630><c> interested</c><00:44:22.989><c> in</c><00:44:23.250><c> outcomes</c><00:44:23.610><c> analytics</c>

00:44:24.349 --> 00:44:27.130
They<00:44:24.730><c> seek</c><00:44:25.250><c> to</c><00:44:26.050><c> be</c><00:44:26.230><c> right</c>

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You're<00:44:27.989><c> right,</c><00:44:28.250><c> right</c>

00:44:30.470 --> 00:44:34.170
And<00:44:31.070><c> there's</c><00:44:31.289><c> really</c><00:44:31.469><c> only</c><00:44:31.650><c> one</c><00:44:31.869><c> right,</c><00:44:33.070><c> right</c>

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Do<00:44:34.949><c> you</c><00:44:35.010><c> need</c><00:44:35.130><c> more</c><00:44:35.329><c> time</c><00:44:35.469><c> to</c><00:44:35.590><c> think</c><00:44:35.690><c> about</c><00:44:35.909><c> that?</c>

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There's<00:44:40.610><c> probably</c><00:44:40.849><c> more</c><00:44:41.389><c> analysis</c><00:44:41.869><c> that</c><00:44:42.070><c> you</c><00:44:42.230><c> can</c><00:44:42.409><c> conduct</c>

00:44:42.690 --> 00:44:44.010
to<00:44:42.949><c> get</c><00:44:43.210><c> right</c>

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All<00:44:46.670><c> right,</c><00:44:47.190><c> I</c>

00:44:50.710 --> 00:44:54.150
Love<00:44:51.050><c> it</c><00:44:51.550><c> and</c><00:44:51.909><c> Jen's</c><00:44:52.230><c> just</c><00:44:52.389><c> like</c><00:44:52.530><c> keep</c><00:44:52.769><c> picking</c><00:44:53.010><c> on</c><00:44:53.309><c> mark</c>

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Expresses<00:44:57.769><c> they</c><00:44:58.110><c> want</c><00:44:58.469><c> you</c><00:44:58.909><c> to</c><00:44:59.210><c> support</c><00:44:59.650><c> their</c><00:45:00.909><c> what?</c>

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Yeah

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They're<00:45:11.690><c> big</c><00:45:11.909><c> thinkers</c><00:45:12.610><c> big</c><00:45:13.389><c> thinkers,</c><00:45:13.889><c> and</c><00:45:14.590><c> they</c><00:45:14.730><c> want</c><00:45:14.889><c> support.</c><00:45:15.469><c> They</c>

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Too<00:45:20.449><c> soon</c><00:45:20.750><c> to</c><00:45:21.090><c> analyze</c><00:45:21.489><c> what</c><00:45:21.909><c> Ella</c><00:45:22.130><c> is</c><00:45:22.690><c> or</c><00:45:22.989><c> gonna</c><00:45:23.170><c> be</c>

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That's

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totally<00:45:32.630><c> unqualified</c><00:45:33.289><c> for</c>

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Feelings<00:45:52.550><c> right</c><00:45:53.110><c> validation</c>

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validation

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They<00:45:58.789><c> want</c><00:45:59.010><c> to</c><00:45:59.190><c> save</c><00:45:59.349><c> effort.</c><00:46:00.690><c> It's</c><00:46:00.789><c> not</c><00:46:00.889><c> to</c><00:46:01.110><c> say</c><00:46:01.190><c> they're</c><00:46:01.489><c> slugs</c><00:46:02.070><c> brother</c><00:46:02.409><c> mark.</c><00:46:02.690><c> They</c><00:46:03.010><c> want</c><00:46:03.230><c> to</c>

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save<00:46:03.530><c> effort</c>

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drivers

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It's<00:46:27.309><c> not</c><00:46:27.429><c> to</c><00:46:27.590><c> say</c><00:46:27.610><c> they</c><00:46:27.730><c> don't</c><00:46:27.849><c> matter</c><00:46:28.070><c> to</c><00:46:28.269><c> others,</c><00:46:28.530><c> but</c><00:46:28.889><c> that's</c><00:46:29.210><c> that's</c><00:46:29.429><c> really</c><00:46:29.630><c> important</c><00:46:30.550><c> and</c>

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Right<00:46:45.889><c> on</c><00:46:46.349><c> right</c><00:46:47.369><c> so</c>

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When<00:46:49.730><c> you</c><00:46:49.929><c> think</c><00:46:50.150><c> again</c><00:46:50.389><c> about</c><00:46:50.570><c> yourself,</c><00:46:51.289><c> and</c><00:46:51.449><c> you</c><00:46:51.550><c> look</c>

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You<00:46:57.510><c> know</c><00:46:57.630><c> I've</c><00:46:58.070><c> I've</c><00:46:58.690><c> spent</c><00:46:58.869><c> a</c><00:46:59.050><c> lot</c><00:46:59.170><c> of</c><00:46:59.329><c> time</c><00:46:59.469><c> with</c><00:46:59.630><c> this</c><00:46:59.869><c> model</c><00:47:00.230><c> both</c>

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And<00:47:03.369><c> you</c><00:47:03.510><c> know</c><00:47:03.710><c> it's</c><00:47:04.050><c> that's</c><00:47:04.389><c> that's</c><00:47:04.630><c> one</c><00:47:04.769><c> of</c><00:47:04.889><c> the</c><00:47:05.010><c> beauties</c><00:47:05.329><c> of</c><00:47:05.469><c> being</c><00:47:05.630><c> a</c>

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disciple<00:47:06.090><c> in</c><00:47:06.309><c> Christ</c>

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You<00:47:06.829><c> know</c><00:47:06.949><c> what</c><00:47:07.170><c> regardless</c><00:47:07.789><c> of</c><00:47:07.969><c> our</c><00:47:08.170><c> occupation</c><00:47:08.849><c> regardless</c>

00:47:09.489 --> 00:47:12.170
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Ecclesia

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Workplace<00:47:15.170><c> school</c><00:47:15.610><c> whatever</c><00:47:15.949><c> it</c><00:47:16.150><c> is</c><00:47:16.269><c> that</c><00:47:16.449><c> we're</c><00:47:16.809><c> involved</c>

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And<00:47:19.469><c> these</c><00:47:19.750><c> things</c><00:47:20.510><c> resonate</c><00:47:21.010><c> with</c><00:47:21.230><c> us,</c><00:47:21.690><c> and</c><00:47:22.150><c> it's</c><00:47:22.449><c> human</c><00:47:22.650><c> nature</c><00:47:23.030><c> for</c>

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Yeah<00:47:38.289><c> fast</c><00:47:38.889><c> enough,</c><00:47:39.090><c> so</c><00:47:39.730><c> you</c><00:47:39.929><c> know</c><00:47:40.070><c> in</c><00:47:40.329><c> education</c>

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There<00:47:42.469><c> are</c><00:47:42.909><c> a</c><00:47:42.949><c> lot</c><00:47:43.190><c> of</c><00:47:43.489><c> agreeable</c><00:47:43.909><c> people</c><00:47:44.369><c> they</c><00:47:44.750><c> want</c><00:47:44.929><c> to</c><00:47:45.070><c> get</c><00:47:45.250><c> along</c>

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Relationships<00:47:46.989><c> are</c><00:47:47.170><c> very</c><00:47:47.389><c> important</c><00:47:47.769><c> communication</c><00:47:48.469><c> all</c><00:47:48.989><c> that</c><00:47:49.190><c> kind</c><00:47:49.329><c> of</c><00:47:49.489><c> stuff</c>

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We've<00:47:51.010><c> brought</c><00:47:51.250><c> in</c><00:47:51.610><c> we're</c><00:47:51.889><c> kind</c><00:47:52.070><c> of</c><00:47:52.230><c> building</c><00:47:52.489><c> out</c><00:47:52.989><c> our</c><00:47:53.550><c> technical</c><00:47:53.889><c> program,</c><00:47:54.369><c> so</c><00:47:54.610><c> we're</c><00:47:54.710><c> bringing</c><00:47:54.849><c> a</c>

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lot<00:47:55.170><c> of</c><00:47:55.369><c> people</c><00:47:55.570><c> from</c><00:47:55.869><c> industry</c>

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They've<00:47:57.429><c> worked</c><00:47:57.590><c> in</c><00:47:58.070><c> auto.</c><00:47:58.670><c> You</c><00:47:58.730><c> know</c><00:47:58.889><c> they've</c><00:47:59.230><c> worked</c><00:47:59.369><c> in</c>

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the<00:47:59.650><c> machine</c><00:48:00.010><c> shop</c>

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Those<00:48:01.489><c> are</c><00:48:01.769><c> two</c><00:48:02.230><c> very</c><00:48:02.829><c> different</c><00:48:03.309><c> environments,</c><00:48:04.010><c> and</c><00:48:04.469><c> there</c>

00:48:04.650 --> 00:48:07.010
have<00:48:04.829><c> been</c><00:48:05.130><c> clashes</c><00:48:05.849><c> with</c><00:48:06.369><c> like</c><00:48:06.710><c> parents</c>

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With<00:48:07.949><c> kids</c><00:48:08.489><c> where</c><00:48:08.969><c> you</c><00:48:09.190><c> know</c><00:48:09.349><c> mark</c><00:48:09.570><c> comes</c><00:48:09.829><c> in</c><00:48:09.989><c> he's</c><00:48:10.230><c> worked</c><00:48:10.369><c> in</c>

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an<00:48:10.730><c> auto</c><00:48:10.949><c> shop</c><00:48:11.150><c> for</c><00:48:11.349><c> 20</c><00:48:11.610><c> years</c>

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He<00:48:12.429><c> is</c><00:48:12.809><c> talking</c><00:48:13.210><c> to</c><00:48:13.449><c> these</c><00:48:13.630><c> kids</c><00:48:13.829><c> very</c><00:48:14.269><c> differently</c><00:48:14.789><c> than</c><00:48:15.590><c> a</c>

00:48:15.929 --> 00:48:18.050
teacher<00:48:16.210><c> would</c><00:48:16.449><c> in</c><00:48:16.730><c> say</c><00:48:17.090><c> an</c><00:48:17.389><c> English</c><00:48:17.650><c> class</c>

00:48:18.050 --> 00:48:21.909
And<00:48:18.650><c> so</c><00:48:18.949><c> I</c><00:48:19.150><c> think</c><00:48:19.550><c> you</c><00:48:19.809><c> know</c><00:48:20.070><c> our</c><00:48:20.469><c> backgrounds</c><00:48:21.110><c> are</c><00:48:21.309><c> gonna</c><00:48:21.429><c> play</c><00:48:21.710><c> a</c>

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But<00:48:23.849><c> there</c><00:48:24.070><c> can</c><00:48:24.269><c> be</c><00:48:24.449><c> some</c><00:48:24.690><c> friction</c><00:48:25.070><c> not</c><00:48:25.630><c> because</c><00:48:25.909><c> we</c><00:48:26.050><c> don't</c>

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like<00:48:26.550><c> each</c><00:48:26.789><c> other</c>

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It's<00:48:27.389><c> just</c><00:48:27.570><c> that</c><00:48:27.710><c> our</c><00:48:28.010><c> expectations</c><00:48:28.710><c> are</c><00:48:28.969><c> different</c><00:48:29.170><c> when</c><00:48:29.329><c> it</c>

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00:48:32.570 --> 00:48:36.429
And<00:48:32.750><c> so</c><00:48:32.929><c> it</c><00:48:33.309><c> it</c><00:48:33.449><c> does</c><00:48:33.630><c> take</c><00:48:33.829><c> some</c><00:48:34.130><c> time</c><00:48:34.650><c> to</c><00:48:34.909><c> kind</c><00:48:35.090><c> of</c><00:48:35.469><c> smooth</c><00:48:35.829><c> that</c><00:48:36.170><c> out</c><00:48:36.309><c> a</c>

00:48:36.429 --> 00:48:38.929
little<00:48:36.570><c> bit</c><00:48:36.690><c> where</c><00:48:36.909><c> everybody's</c><00:48:37.409><c> on</c><00:48:37.530><c> the</c><00:48:37.710><c> same</c><00:48:37.909><c> page</c><00:48:38.210><c> for</c><00:48:38.590><c> sure</c>

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And<00:48:39.630><c> and</c><00:48:39.750><c> to</c><00:48:39.929><c> help</c><00:48:40.190><c> smooth</c><00:48:40.409><c> it</c><00:48:40.630><c> out</c><00:48:40.869><c> whether</c><00:48:41.150><c> it</c><00:48:41.369><c> is</c><00:48:41.550><c> in</c><00:48:41.690><c> a</c><00:48:42.170><c> setting</c><00:48:42.429><c> like</c>

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you've<00:48:43.030><c> described</c><00:48:43.429><c> or</c><00:48:44.050><c> like</c><00:48:44.329><c> what</c><00:48:44.510><c> we're</c><00:48:44.650><c> trying</c><00:48:44.849><c> to</c><00:48:45.050><c> accomplish</c>

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that<00:48:46.230><c> the</c><00:48:46.369><c> ecclesial</c><00:48:46.730><c> retreat</c><00:48:47.030><c> is</c><00:48:47.449><c> is</c><00:48:48.150><c> to</c><00:48:48.590><c> raise</c><00:48:48.789><c> our</c><00:48:49.090><c> awareness</c><00:48:49.489><c> our</c>

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Things<00:48:53.190><c> like</c><00:48:53.570><c> this</c><00:48:54.050><c> because</c><00:48:54.550><c> you</c><00:48:54.730><c> know</c><00:48:54.809><c> for</c><00:48:55.050><c> some</c><00:48:55.190><c> of</c><00:48:55.329><c> you</c>

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But<00:48:55.530><c> this</c><00:48:55.769><c> might</c><00:48:55.949><c> be</c><00:48:56.230><c> totally</c><00:48:56.590><c> new</c><00:48:56.849><c> and</c><00:48:57.090><c> totally</c><00:48:57.389><c> foreign</c><00:48:57.730><c> and</c>

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eye<00:48:58.210><c>-opening</c><00:48:58.550><c> and</c><00:48:58.969><c> it's</c><00:48:59.130><c> not</c><00:48:59.230><c> to</c><00:48:59.389><c> say</c><00:48:59.429><c> it</c><00:48:59.550><c> doesn't</c><00:48:59.690><c> resonate</c>

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But<00:49:00.170><c> it's</c><00:49:00.289><c> just</c><00:49:00.429><c> like</c><00:49:00.590><c> wow</c><00:49:00.809><c> I'd</c><00:49:01.110><c> never</c><00:49:01.309><c> really</c><00:49:01.650><c> thought</c><00:49:01.829><c> about</c>

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I<00:49:05.570><c> I</c><00:49:05.949><c> guess</c><00:49:06.130><c> I</c><00:49:06.329><c> kind</c><00:49:06.449><c> of</c><00:49:06.590><c> understand</c><00:49:06.889><c> now</c><00:49:07.150><c> why</c><00:49:07.369><c> there's</c><00:49:07.690><c> friction</c><00:49:07.909><c> at</c><00:49:08.150><c> times</c><00:49:08.489><c> and</c>

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And<00:49:12.949><c> about</c><00:49:13.170><c> others,</c><00:49:13.849><c> but</c><00:49:13.849><c> what</c><00:49:14.070><c> do</c><00:49:14.170><c> we</c><00:49:14.349><c> do</c><00:49:14.550><c> with</c><00:49:14.750><c> this</c><00:49:14.969><c> information</c><00:49:15.550><c> so</c><00:49:15.849><c> that</c>

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Seek<00:49:18.269><c> to</c><00:49:18.429><c> mutually</c><00:49:18.789><c> edify</c><00:49:19.610><c> one</c><00:49:19.909><c> another</c><00:49:20.289><c> to</c><00:49:20.889><c> build</c><00:49:21.130><c> up</c><00:49:21.309><c> the</c><00:49:21.469><c> ecclesia</c><00:49:21.949><c> and</c><00:49:22.309><c> to</c>

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So<00:49:26.489><c> this</c><00:49:26.969><c> isn't</c><00:49:27.210><c> about</c><00:49:27.849><c> faking</c><00:49:28.210><c> it</c><00:49:28.449><c> this</c><00:49:28.630><c> is</c><00:49:28.849><c> about</c><00:49:29.150><c> being</c>

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Focused<00:49:30.530><c> on</c><00:49:30.909><c> on</c><00:49:31.150><c> ourselves</c><00:49:31.590><c> and</c><00:49:32.369><c> demonstrating</c><00:49:32.969><c> growth</c><00:49:33.409><c> within</c><00:49:33.650><c> ourselves</c><00:49:34.289><c> this</c>

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Five<00:49:38.909><c> we're</c><00:49:39.469><c> not</c><00:49:39.690><c> going</c><00:49:39.789><c> to</c><00:49:39.869><c> go</c><00:49:40.070><c> through</c><00:49:40.309><c> it</c>

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It's<00:49:41.269><c> it's</c><00:49:41.550><c> really</c><00:49:42.070><c> intended</c><00:49:42.690><c> again</c><00:49:43.449><c> like</c><00:49:43.789><c> some</c><00:49:43.969><c> of</c><00:49:44.050><c> the</c><00:49:44.170><c> other</c><00:49:44.389><c> stuff</c><00:49:44.630><c> in</c><00:49:44.750><c> the</c><00:49:44.949><c> in</c><00:49:45.150><c> the</c><00:49:45.289><c> materials.</c><00:49:45.670><c> I</c>

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gave<00:49:46.130><c> you</c>

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To<00:49:47.449><c> help</c><00:49:47.730><c> you</c><00:49:48.030><c> just</c><00:49:48.730><c> raise</c><00:49:49.210><c> your</c><00:49:49.530><c> awareness</c><00:49:50.030><c> and</c><00:49:50.230><c> to</c><00:49:50.409><c> think</c><00:49:50.570><c> about</c><00:49:51.010><c> you</c><00:49:51.210><c> know</c><00:49:51.329><c> if</c>

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this<00:49:54.369><c> young</c><00:49:54.590><c> person</c>

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What<00:49:56.010><c> are</c><00:49:56.429><c> what</c><00:49:56.630><c> are</c><00:49:56.789><c> some</c><00:49:56.969><c> of</c><00:49:57.110><c> the</c><00:49:57.190><c> things</c><00:49:57.409><c> that</c><00:49:57.650><c> maybe</c><00:49:57.849><c> I</c><00:49:58.050><c> need</c><00:49:58.150><c> to</c>

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think<00:49:58.469><c> about</c><00:49:58.769><c> doing</c><00:49:59.070><c> going</c><00:49:59.309><c> into</c><00:49:59.670><c> that</c><00:49:59.869><c> engagement</c><00:50:00.369><c> to</c>

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Either<00:50:01.989><c> flex</c><00:50:02.389><c> or</c><00:50:02.750><c> to</c><00:50:03.110><c> synchronize</c><00:50:03.789><c> my</c><00:50:04.210><c> style</c><00:50:04.570><c> to</c><00:50:04.889><c> better</c><00:50:05.210><c> relate</c><00:50:05.510><c> to</c>

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You<00:50:09.769><c> can</c><00:50:10.010><c> test</c><00:50:10.230><c> this</c><00:50:10.550><c> by</c><00:50:10.829><c> looking</c><00:50:11.190><c> in</c><00:50:11.409><c> your</c><00:50:11.710><c> own</c><00:50:12.010><c> quadrant</c><00:50:12.469><c> and</c>

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again.<00:50:13.250><c> I'll</c><00:50:13.429><c> sort</c><00:50:13.570><c> of</c><00:50:13.730><c> pick</c><00:50:13.829><c> on</c><00:50:14.030><c> myself</c>

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Using<00:50:15.269><c> this</c><00:50:15.550><c> as</c><00:50:15.730><c> a</c><00:50:15.849><c> for</c><00:50:16.010><c> example.</c><00:50:16.449><c> I've</c><00:50:16.590><c> already</c><00:50:16.809><c> disclosed</c>

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multiple<00:50:17.670><c> times</c>

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I'm<00:50:18.130><c> a</c><00:50:18.289><c> driver,</c><00:50:18.570><c> and</c><00:50:18.650><c> you're</c><00:50:18.849><c> probably</c><00:50:18.989><c> like</c><00:50:19.150><c> yeah</c>

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We<00:50:19.389><c> get</c><00:50:19.530><c> it</c><00:50:19.730><c> done</c><00:50:19.849><c> enough</c><00:50:20.329><c> the</c><00:50:20.610><c> other</c><00:50:20.750><c> drivers</c><00:50:21.010><c> in</c><00:50:21.150><c> the</c><00:50:21.230><c> room</c>

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we<00:50:23.170><c> needed</c>

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The<00:50:24.989><c> rest</c><00:50:25.210><c> of</c><00:50:25.690><c> the</c><00:50:26.469><c> amyables</c><00:50:27.050><c> and</c><00:50:27.289><c> the</c><00:50:27.590><c> expressives</c><00:50:27.929><c> are</c><00:50:28.150><c> like</c>

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poor<00:50:28.929><c> guy</c>

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poor<00:50:31.789><c> Carolyn</c>

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Right<00:50:34.349><c> now,</c><00:50:34.809><c> but</c><00:50:34.969><c> I</c><00:50:35.090><c> look</c><00:50:35.210><c> at</c><00:50:35.329><c> this</c><00:50:35.489><c> I</c><00:50:35.610><c> look</c><00:50:35.730><c> at</c><00:50:35.829><c> this</c><00:50:35.989><c> driver</c><00:50:36.269><c> box</c>

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And<00:50:37.110><c> I</c><00:50:37.489><c> would</c><00:50:37.889><c> say</c><00:50:38.389><c> you</c><00:50:38.789><c> this</c><00:50:38.929><c> is</c><00:50:39.070><c> how</c><00:50:39.170><c> you</c><00:50:39.349><c> could</c><00:50:39.489><c> engage</c><00:50:39.849><c> that</c><00:50:40.130><c> person</c>

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So<00:50:40.949><c> if</c><00:50:41.170><c> you</c><00:50:41.429><c> were</c><00:50:41.630><c> going</c><00:50:41.769><c> to</c><00:50:42.010><c> engage</c><00:50:42.329><c> me</c><00:50:42.949><c> as</c><00:50:43.289><c> a</c><00:50:43.489><c> driver</c>

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You<00:50:44.389><c> might</c><00:50:44.510><c> want</c><00:50:44.650><c> to</c><00:50:44.789><c> be</c><00:50:44.989><c> clear</c><00:50:45.230><c> specific</c><00:50:45.869><c> brief</c><00:50:46.329><c> to</c><00:50:46.489><c> the</c><00:50:46.710><c> point</c><00:50:46.949><c> stick</c><00:50:47.170><c> to</c>

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business<00:50:47.690><c> etc</c>

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These<00:50:49.210><c> are</c><00:50:49.469><c> things</c><00:50:49.969><c> that</c><00:50:50.369><c> you</c><00:50:50.510><c> might</c><00:50:50.650><c> want</c><00:50:50.789><c> to</c><00:50:50.909><c> think</c><00:50:51.090><c> about</c><00:50:51.349><c> doing</c><00:50:51.630><c> as</c><00:50:51.829><c> you</c><00:50:52.070><c> engage</c><00:50:52.510><c> with</c><00:50:52.750><c> somebody</c><00:50:53.010><c> who</c><00:50:53.489><c> is</c><00:50:53.869><c> a</c>

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driver<00:50:54.550><c> for</c><00:50:54.969><c> example</c>

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And<00:50:55.969><c> if</c><00:50:56.110><c> there's</c><00:50:56.289><c> other</c><00:50:56.489><c> drivers</c><00:50:56.809><c> in</c><00:50:57.030><c> the</c><00:50:57.230><c> room.</c><00:50:57.429><c> They're</c><00:50:57.650><c> just</c><00:50:57.929><c> thinking</c><00:50:58.130><c> like</c><00:50:58.389><c> I</c>

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can't<00:50:58.889><c> wait</c><00:50:59.030><c> spend</c><00:50:59.269><c> time</c><00:50:59.530><c> with</c><00:50:59.710><c> Doug.</c><00:50:59.889><c> It's</c><00:51:00.110><c> gonna</c><00:51:00.230><c> be</c><00:51:00.429><c> quick</c>

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It's<00:51:00.849><c> gonna</c><00:51:00.909><c> be</c><00:51:01.150><c> effective.</c><00:51:01.369><c> We</c><00:51:01.530><c> get</c><00:51:01.630><c> stuff</c><00:51:01.869><c> done</c><00:51:02.269><c> and</c><00:51:02.710><c> move</c>

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on<00:51:03.449><c> and</c><00:51:03.809><c> we</c><00:51:03.949><c> don't</c><00:51:04.090><c> have</c><00:51:04.190><c> to</c><00:51:04.349><c> talk</c><00:51:04.510><c> to</c><00:51:05.949><c> people</c>

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Things<00:51:07.269><c> that</c><00:51:07.429><c> will</c><00:51:07.570><c> create</c><00:51:07.829><c> tension</c><00:51:08.250><c> and</c><00:51:08.670><c> you</c><00:51:08.769><c> can</c><00:51:08.949><c> see</c><00:51:09.130><c> this</c>

00:51:09.309 --> 00:51:11.250
so<00:51:09.469><c> when</c><00:51:09.570><c> you</c><00:51:09.750><c> think</c><00:51:09.929><c> about</c><00:51:10.530><c> yourself</c>

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And<00:51:11.489><c> you</c><00:51:11.610><c> look</c><00:51:11.789><c> in</c><00:51:12.050><c> your</c><00:51:12.289><c> box.</c><00:51:12.929><c> It's</c><00:51:13.329><c> like</c><00:51:13.510><c> yeah,</c><00:51:13.869><c> that's</c>

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Like<00:51:15.070><c> would</c><00:51:15.250><c> be</c><00:51:15.449><c> so</c><00:51:15.650><c> much</c><00:51:15.869><c> easier</c><00:51:16.210><c> if</c><00:51:16.409><c> that's</c><00:51:16.730><c> how</c><00:51:16.929><c> I</c><00:51:17.070><c> was</c><00:51:17.269><c> able</c>

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to<00:51:17.789><c> interact</c><00:51:18.170><c> with</c><00:51:18.489><c> my</c><00:51:18.769><c> brother</c><00:51:19.070><c> or</c><00:51:19.230><c> my</c><00:51:19.489><c> sister</c>

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And<00:51:20.530><c> these</c><00:51:20.710><c> are</c><00:51:20.869><c> the</c><00:51:20.969><c> things</c><00:51:21.150><c> that</c><00:51:21.570><c> create</c><00:51:21.809><c> some</c><00:51:22.090><c> tension</c><00:51:22.550><c> when</c><00:51:22.829><c> I'm</c>

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dealing<00:51:23.329><c> with</c><00:51:23.710><c> that</c><00:51:23.929><c> brother</c><00:51:24.230><c> or</c><00:51:24.550><c> that</c><00:51:24.789><c> sister</c><00:51:25.309><c> so</c><00:51:26.030><c> so</c><00:51:26.349><c> this</c>

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is<00:51:26.789><c> just</c>

00:51:27.469 --> 00:51:30.789
Intended<00:51:28.130><c> to</c><00:51:28.610><c> really</c><00:51:29.010><c> be</c><00:51:29.610><c> a</c><00:51:29.969><c> tool</c>

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Okay

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now

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Last<00:51:34.230><c> thing</c><00:51:34.389><c> we</c><00:51:34.550><c> do</c><00:51:35.070><c> before</c><00:51:35.329><c> lunch</c>

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All<00:54:20.949><c> right,</c><00:54:21.309><c> so</c><00:54:21.550><c> I</c><00:54:22.010><c> said</c><00:54:22.309><c> I</c><00:54:22.530><c> did</c><00:54:22.710><c> this</c><00:54:22.869><c> I</c><00:54:23.030><c> went</c><00:54:23.170><c> through</c><00:54:23.369><c> this</c><00:54:23.510><c> and</c><00:54:23.630><c> I</c>

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accomplishments<00:56:12.750><c> and</c><00:56:13.170><c> giving</c><00:56:13.449><c> credit</c><00:56:13.829><c> where</c><00:56:14.070><c> credits</c><00:56:14.409><c> do</c><00:56:14.869><c> and</c><00:56:15.469><c> because</c><00:56:15.650><c> that's</c><00:56:15.909><c> that's</c><00:56:16.170><c> a</c>

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And<00:56:44.989><c> so</c><00:56:45.449><c> you</c><00:56:45.690><c> can</c><00:56:45.909><c> use</c><00:56:46.190><c> a</c><00:56:46.429><c> simple</c><00:56:47.230><c> grid</c><00:56:47.489><c> like</c><00:56:47.829><c> this</c><00:56:48.250><c> and</c><00:56:48.409><c> the</c>

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Mutual<00:57:05.650><c> edification</c><00:57:06.369><c> and</c><00:57:07.130><c> to</c><00:57:07.289><c> the</c><00:57:07.550><c> praise</c><00:57:07.969><c> and</c><00:57:08.369><c> glory</c><00:57:08.650><c> of</c><00:57:08.909><c> our</c>

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