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Oh,<00:12:51.049><c> they're</c><00:12:51.250><c> terrible.</c><00:12:51.929><c> We</c><00:12:52.090><c> don't</c><00:12:52.289><c> get</c><00:12:52.509><c> along.</c><00:12:53.070><c> We're</c><00:12:53.389><c> fighting</c><00:12:53.629><c> with</c>

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them.<00:12:53.870><c> We</c><00:12:53.970><c> don't</c><00:12:54.110><c> even</c><00:12:54.389><c> speak</c><00:12:54.570><c> sometimes.</c>

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He<00:12:54.929><c> said,</c><00:12:54.929><c> You're</c><00:12:55.990><c> going</c><00:12:56.070><c> to</c><00:12:56.070><c> have</c><00:12:56.190><c> the</c><00:12:56.389><c> same</c><00:12:56.970><c> kind</c><00:12:57.269><c> of</c><00:12:57.350><c> neighbors</c><00:12:57.629><c> here.</c>

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And<00:13:03.090><c> little</c><00:13:03.370><c> things</c><00:13:03.769><c> make</c><00:13:04.029><c> a</c><00:13:04.169><c> big</c><00:13:04.389><c> difference.</c>

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So<00:13:05.450><c> now</c><00:13:05.789><c> with</c><00:13:05.990><c> that</c><00:13:06.309><c> setting</c><00:13:06.710><c> of</c><00:13:07.269><c> the</c><00:13:07.389><c> little</c><00:13:07.610><c> foxes</c><00:13:08.070><c> spoil</c>

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the<00:13:08.490><c> vines,</c>

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now<00:13:09.070><c> come</c><00:13:09.409><c> to</c><00:13:09.710><c> Ephesians</c><00:13:10.389><c> chapter</c><00:13:10.850><c> 5.</c>

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Because<00:13:12.149><c> we're</c><00:13:12.330><c> going</c><00:13:12.470><c> to</c><00:13:12.750><c> read</c><00:13:13.070><c> about</c><00:13:13.309><c> some</c><00:13:13.549><c> little</c><00:13:13.889><c> foxes</c>

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that<00:13:15.350><c> spoil</c><00:13:15.570><c> the</c><00:13:15.909><c> vines.</c>

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Ephesians<00:13:17.909><c> chapter</c><00:13:18.389><c> 5,</c><00:13:20.070><c> verse</c><00:13:20.730><c> 15.</c>

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This<00:13:23.750><c> is</c><00:13:23.970><c> now</c><00:13:24.289><c> from</c><00:13:24.470><c> the</c><00:13:24.590><c> New</c><00:13:24.809><c> King</c><00:13:25.090><c> James</c><00:13:25.370><c> Version.</c>

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See<00:13:27.549><c> then</c><00:13:28.009><c> that</c><00:13:28.149><c> you</c><00:13:28.409><c> walk</c><00:13:28.730><c> circumspectly,</c><00:13:29.909><c> not</c><00:13:30.070><c> as</c><00:13:30.370><c> fools,</c>

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but<00:13:31.789><c> as</c><00:13:32.110><c> wise,</c>

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redeeming<00:13:34.769><c> the</c><00:13:35.110><c> time,</c><00:13:36.169><c> because</c><00:13:36.509><c> the</c><00:13:36.769><c> days</c><00:13:37.110><c> are</c><00:13:37.370><c> evil.</c>

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Therefore,<00:13:39.070><c> do</c><00:13:39.190><c> not</c><00:13:39.409><c> be</c><00:13:39.610><c> unwise,</c><00:13:40.289><c> but</c><00:13:40.450><c> understand</c><00:13:40.909><c> what</c><00:13:41.110><c> the</c>

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will<00:13:41.409><c> of</c><00:13:41.590><c> the</c><00:13:41.730><c> Lord</c><00:13:41.909><c> is.</c>

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And<00:13:42.649><c> do</c><00:13:42.830><c> not</c><00:13:43.029><c> be</c><00:13:43.309><c> drunk</c><00:13:43.529><c> with</c><00:13:43.809><c> wine,</c><00:13:44.470><c> in</c><00:13:44.690><c> which</c><00:13:44.850><c> is</c><00:13:45.070><c> dissipation,</c><00:13:45.730><c> but</c><00:13:45.909><c> be</c><00:13:46.169><c> filled</c><00:13:46.470><c> with</c><00:13:46.690><c> the</c><00:13:46.970><c> Spirit,</c>

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speaking<00:13:48.190><c> to</c><00:13:48.490><c> one</c><00:13:48.730><c> another</c><00:13:49.009><c> in</c><00:13:49.429><c> psalms</c><00:13:50.029><c> and</c><00:13:50.250><c> hymns</c><00:13:50.690><c> and</c>

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spiritual<00:13:51.370><c> songs,</c>

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singing<00:13:52.750><c> and</c><00:13:52.870><c> making</c><00:13:53.129><c> melody</c><00:13:53.570><c> in</c><00:13:53.769><c> your</c><00:13:53.950><c> heart</c><00:13:54.149><c> to</c><00:13:54.330><c> the</c><00:13:54.509><c> Lord,</c>

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giving<00:13:55.269><c> thanks</c><00:13:55.629><c> always</c><00:13:56.070><c> for</c><00:13:56.350><c> all</c><00:13:56.669><c> things</c><00:13:56.870><c> to</c><00:13:57.070><c> God</c><00:13:57.350><c> the</c><00:13:57.509><c> Father</c>

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in<00:13:57.970><c> the</c><00:13:58.049><c> name</c><00:13:58.470><c> of</c><00:13:58.750><c> our</c><00:13:58.889><c> Lord</c><00:13:59.049><c> Jesus</c><00:13:59.389><c> Christ,</c>

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submitting<00:14:00.529><c> to</c><00:14:00.769><c> one</c><00:14:00.990><c> another</c><00:14:01.350><c> in</c><00:14:01.830><c> the</c><00:14:02.110><c> fear</c><00:14:02.370><c> of</c><00:14:02.570><c> God.</c>

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So<00:14:04.490><c> now</c><00:14:04.629><c> we're</c><00:14:04.730><c> going</c><00:14:04.870><c> to</c><00:14:04.929><c> look</c><00:14:05.169><c> at</c><00:14:05.429><c> these</c><00:14:05.950><c> verses</c><00:14:06.350><c> and</c><00:14:06.730><c> look</c>

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for<00:14:07.190><c> the</c><00:14:07.429><c> foxes</c><00:14:08.029><c> that</c><00:14:08.250><c> spoil</c><00:14:08.629><c> the</c><00:14:08.909><c> vines.</c>

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Fox<00:14:10.730><c> number</c><00:14:11.070><c> one,</c><00:14:13.029><c> be</c><00:14:13.409><c> careful</c><00:14:13.990><c> how</c><00:14:14.750><c> you</c><00:14:15.049><c> walk,</c><00:14:15.590><c> verse</c><00:14:15.850><c> 15.</c>

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Not<00:14:17.309><c> as</c><00:14:17.610><c> fools,</c><00:14:18.230><c> but</c><00:14:19.210><c> as</c><00:14:19.509><c> wise.</c>

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We<00:14:22.210><c> frequently</c><00:14:22.629><c> talk</c><00:14:22.970><c> about</c><00:14:23.289><c> our</c><00:14:24.330><c> life</c><00:14:24.549><c> in</c><00:14:24.710><c> the</c><00:14:24.950><c> truth</c><00:14:25.149><c> as</c><00:14:25.429><c> our</c>

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walk<00:14:26.330><c> in</c><00:14:27.269><c> the</c><00:14:27.549><c> truth.</c>

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Be<00:14:29.070><c> careful</c><00:14:29.330><c> how</c><00:14:29.509><c> you</c><00:14:30.110><c> walk</c><00:14:30.509><c> with</c><00:14:30.909><c> your</c><00:14:31.169><c> mate,</c><00:14:32.570><c> and</c><00:14:32.669><c> with</c><00:14:32.830><c> your</c><00:14:33.070><c> family,</c>

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and<00:14:34.710><c> with</c><00:14:34.929><c> your</c><00:14:35.090><c> brothers</c><00:14:35.289><c> and</c><00:14:35.590><c> sisters</c><00:14:35.929><c> in</c><00:14:36.190><c> the</c><00:14:36.370><c> Ecclesia,</c>

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and<00:14:37.730><c> the</c><00:14:37.870><c> people</c><00:14:37.990><c> you</c><00:14:38.149><c> come</c><00:14:38.269><c> in</c><00:14:38.470><c> contact</c><00:14:38.789><c> with.</c>

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Confusion<00:14:40.429><c> can</c><00:14:40.870><c> cause</c><00:14:41.190><c> us</c><00:14:41.490><c> to</c><00:14:41.769><c> wander</c><00:14:41.990><c> around</c><00:14:42.470><c> in</c><00:14:42.909><c> circles.</c>

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When<00:14:44.610><c> someone</c><00:14:44.909><c> is</c><00:14:45.149><c> lost</c><00:14:45.429><c> in</c><00:14:45.610><c> the</c><00:14:45.789><c> woods,</c><00:14:46.210><c> they</c><00:14:46.210><c> frequently</c><00:14:46.629><c> get</c><00:14:47.230><c> so</c><00:14:47.549><c> confused,</c>

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they<00:14:48.289><c> walk</c><00:14:48.610><c> in</c><00:14:48.990><c> circles,</c><00:14:50.490><c> and</c><00:14:51.149><c> they</c><00:14:51.250><c> don't</c><00:14:51.370><c> even</c><00:14:51.629><c> realize</c>

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that<00:14:52.210><c> they</c><00:14:52.370><c> are.</c>

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Now<00:14:53.889><c> confusion</c><00:14:54.509><c> in</c><00:14:54.830><c> a</c><00:14:54.990><c> marriage</c><00:14:55.590><c> can</c><00:14:56.610><c> cause</c><00:14:56.830><c> us</c><00:14:57.129><c> to</c><00:14:57.470><c> walk</c><00:14:57.769><c> in</c><00:14:58.269><c> circles,</c>

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spending<00:14:59.549><c> a</c><00:14:59.769><c> lot</c><00:15:00.070><c> of</c><00:15:00.350><c> energy</c><00:15:00.769><c> and</c><00:15:01.009><c> effort,</c><00:15:02.230><c> but</c><00:15:02.429><c> getting</c><00:15:02.830><c> nowhere</c><00:15:03.490><c> in</c>

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our<00:15:04.389><c> personal</c><00:15:04.789><c> relationships.</c>

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Everywhere<00:15:08.429><c> you</c><00:15:08.809><c> go</c><00:15:09.210><c> now</c><00:15:10.370><c> in</c><00:15:11.009><c> the</c><00:15:11.149><c> world,</c><00:15:11.669><c> we</c><00:15:11.669><c> hear</c><00:15:13.110><c> disparaging</c><00:15:13.889><c> remarks</c>

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made<00:15:14.830><c> about</c><00:15:15.970><c> marriage.</c>

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Like<00:15:17.549><c> marriage</c><00:15:17.909><c> is</c><00:15:18.269><c> obsolete,</c><00:15:19.169><c> or</c><00:15:19.330><c> swingers</c><00:15:19.710><c> have</c><00:15:19.909><c> more</c><00:15:20.230><c> fun,</c>

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or<00:15:20.909><c> it's</c><00:15:21.309><c> degrading</c><00:15:21.809><c> for</c><00:15:22.049><c> a</c><00:15:22.190><c> woman</c><00:15:22.389><c> to</c><00:15:22.570><c> be</c><00:15:22.990><c> submissive</c><00:15:23.429><c> to</c><00:15:23.610><c> any</c><00:15:23.929><c> man,</c>

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or<00:15:24.610><c> you</c><00:15:24.809><c> can't</c><00:15:25.090><c> put</c><00:15:25.250><c> a</c><00:15:25.409><c> 50</c><00:15:25.750><c>-year</c><00:15:26.049><c>-old</c><00:15:26.289><c> contract</c><00:15:26.690><c> on</c><00:15:26.889><c> a</c><00:15:27.009><c> 20</c><00:15:27.230><c>-year</c>

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These<00:15:29.009><c> kind</c><00:15:29.190><c> of</c><00:15:29.330><c> things,</c><00:15:29.990><c> because</c><00:15:30.590><c> they're</c><00:15:30.769><c> all</c><00:15:30.990><c> around</c><00:15:31.190><c> us</c>

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in<00:15:31.450><c> the</c><00:15:31.610><c> world,</c>

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they<00:15:31.850><c> can</c><00:15:32.129><c> cause</c><00:15:32.289><c> us</c><00:15:32.529><c> to</c><00:15:32.730><c> become</c><00:15:32.970><c> confused.</c>

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We<00:15:34.690><c> get</c><00:15:35.009><c> floating</c><00:15:35.509><c> anxieties,</c><00:15:36.450><c> is</c><00:15:36.470><c> what</c><00:15:36.870><c> the</c><00:15:37.149><c> world</c><00:15:37.350><c> calls</c><00:15:37.710><c> it.</c>

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It's<00:15:38.129><c> another</c><00:15:38.370><c> fancy</c><00:15:38.850><c> word</c><00:15:39.350><c> for</c><00:15:39.970><c> confusion.</c>

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Confusion<00:15:42.590><c> is</c><00:15:42.850><c> compounded</c><00:15:43.509><c> because</c><00:15:44.409><c> when</c><00:15:45.330><c> we</c><00:15:45.590><c> marry,</c><00:15:46.370><c> sometimes</c><00:15:46.669><c> we're</c><00:15:47.909><c> immature.</c>

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Peggy<00:15:49.929><c> and</c><00:15:50.110><c> I</c><00:15:50.190><c> were</c><00:15:50.429><c> each</c><00:15:50.990><c> 19</c><00:15:51.730><c> when</c><00:15:52.649><c> we</c><00:15:52.830><c> were</c><00:15:53.009><c> married.</c>

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We<00:15:54.809><c> were</c><00:15:55.090><c> both</c><00:15:55.429><c> only</c><00:15:55.750><c> children,</c><00:15:57.490><c> two</c><00:15:57.710><c> spoiled</c><00:15:58.110><c> brats,</c><00:15:59.669><c> marrying</c><00:15:59.990><c> each</c><00:16:00.429><c> other.</c>

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And<00:16:03.350><c> so</c><00:16:03.649><c> we</c><00:16:04.450><c> had</c><00:16:04.929><c> a</c><00:16:05.009><c> lot</c><00:16:05.230><c> of</c><00:16:05.429><c> adjusting</c><00:16:05.769><c> to</c><00:16:06.049><c> do,</c><00:16:06.470><c> and</c><00:16:06.610><c> there</c><00:16:06.629><c> was</c>

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a<00:16:06.809><c> lot</c><00:16:06.990><c> of</c><00:16:07.269><c> confusion.</c>

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And<00:16:07.909><c> then</c><00:16:08.090><c> children</c><00:16:08.490><c> come,</c><00:16:09.009><c> and</c><00:16:09.169><c> children</c><00:16:09.549><c> add</c><00:16:09.889><c> to</c><00:16:10.029><c> the</c><00:16:10.190><c> confusion.</c>

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Because<00:16:11.809><c> now</c><00:16:12.110><c> you</c><00:16:12.309><c> have</c><00:16:12.970><c> a</c><00:16:13.149><c> number</c><00:16:13.370><c> of</c><00:16:13.730><c> relationships.</c>

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As<00:16:15.529><c> soon</c><00:16:15.629><c> as</c><00:16:15.769><c> the</c><00:16:15.870><c> first</c><00:16:16.070><c> baby</c><00:16:16.330><c> comes,</c><00:16:16.669><c> you</c><00:16:16.769><c> have</c><00:16:17.049><c> three.</c>

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You<00:16:17.669><c> have</c><00:16:18.350><c> husband</c><00:16:18.690><c> and</c><00:16:18.990><c> wife,</c><00:16:19.470><c> you</c><00:16:19.549><c> have</c><00:16:19.850><c> mother</c><00:16:20.210><c> and</c><00:16:20.470><c> baby,</c>

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and<00:16:20.950><c> you</c><00:16:21.009><c> have</c><00:16:21.269><c> father</c><00:16:21.669><c> and</c><00:16:21.950><c> baby.</c>

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When<00:16:23.429><c> the</c><00:16:23.570><c> second</c><00:16:23.789><c> child</c><00:16:24.110><c> comes,</c><00:16:24.590><c> it</c><00:16:24.610><c> jumps</c><00:16:24.889><c> to</c><00:16:25.190><c> six</c>

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interpersonal<00:16:27.049><c> relationships.</c>

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Four<00:16:31.169><c> children</c><00:16:31.429><c> make</c><00:16:31.649><c> it</c><00:16:31.789><c> 15,</c><00:16:32.309><c> five</c><00:16:32.570><c> children</c><00:16:32.750><c> make</c><00:16:32.929><c> it</c><00:16:33.129><c> 21.</c>

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It's<00:16:35.070><c> possible</c><00:16:35.570><c> to</c><00:16:36.289><c> make</c><00:16:36.450><c> children</c><00:16:36.669><c> without</c><00:16:36.870><c> knowing</c><00:16:37.129><c> how</c><00:16:37.350><c> to</c>

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think<00:16:37.570><c> about</c><00:16:37.809><c> how</c><00:16:37.929><c> to</c><00:16:38.090><c> raise</c><00:16:38.350><c> them.</c>

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And<00:16:39.129><c> confusion</c><00:16:39.529><c> can</c><00:16:39.970><c> begin</c><00:16:40.809><c> to</c><00:16:41.049><c> reign</c><00:16:41.269><c> supreme</c><00:16:41.830><c> in</c><00:16:42.169><c> our</c><00:16:42.610><c> home.</c>

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A<00:16:44.769><c> wife</c><00:16:45.269><c> has</c><00:16:45.789><c> so</c><00:16:46.049><c> many</c><00:16:46.370><c> hats</c><00:16:46.710><c> to</c><00:16:46.990><c> wear.</c>

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She's<00:16:47.570><c> the</c><00:16:47.750><c> cook,</c><00:16:48.929><c> the</c><00:16:49.149><c> laundry</c><00:16:49.470><c> woman,</c><00:16:49.789><c> the</c><00:16:49.970><c> chauffeur,</c><00:16:50.350><c> the</c>

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seamstress,<00:16:50.990><c> the</c><00:16:51.070><c> lover,</c><00:16:51.389><c> the</c><00:16:52.409><c> financial</c><00:16:52.409><c> planner,</c>

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trying<00:16:53.049><c> to</c><00:16:53.250><c> make</c><00:16:53.409><c> the</c><00:16:53.909><c> month</c><00:16:54.210><c> end</c><00:16:54.429><c> before</c><00:16:54.710><c> the</c><00:16:54.990><c> money</c><00:16:55.230><c> ends.</c>

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She's<00:16:55.710><c> a</c><00:16:56.230><c> doctor</c><00:16:56.710><c> of</c><00:16:56.990><c> scraped</c><00:16:57.289><c> knees</c><00:16:57.610><c> and</c><00:16:57.789><c> wounded</c><00:16:58.210><c> feelings.</c>

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Fathers,<00:17:00.309><c> too,</c><00:17:01.470><c> can</c><00:17:01.629><c> be</c><00:17:01.789><c> confused</c><00:17:02.389><c> by</c><00:17:02.750><c> trying</c><00:17:03.070><c> to</c><00:17:03.190><c> be</c><00:17:03.289><c> the</c><00:17:03.529><c> breadwinner,</c><00:17:04.130><c> the</c>

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plumber,<00:17:04.730><c> the</c><00:17:04.930><c> painter,</c>

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the<00:17:05.430><c> gardener,</c><00:17:05.849><c> the</c><00:17:05.990><c> fixer</c><00:17:06.349><c>-upper,</c><00:17:06.609><c> the</c><00:17:07.210><c> coach,</c><00:17:07.490><c> the</c><00:17:07.710><c> spiritual</c><00:17:08.049><c> leader.</c>

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And<00:17:09.509><c> so</c><00:17:09.710><c> confusion</c><00:17:10.450><c> can</c><00:17:11.529><c> be</c><00:17:11.670><c> a</c><00:17:11.789><c> little</c><00:17:12.069><c> fox</c><00:17:12.650><c> that</c><00:17:13.250><c> will</c><00:17:13.490><c> spoil</c>

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the<00:17:13.970><c> tender</c><00:17:14.250><c> plants</c><00:17:15.029><c> in</c><00:17:15.289><c> our</c><00:17:15.529><c> vineyard</c>

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of<00:17:16.690><c> loving,</c><00:17:17.430><c> personal</c><00:17:17.809><c> relationships.</c>

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We<00:17:19.589><c> need</c><00:17:20.069><c> to</c><00:17:20.650><c> make</c><00:17:20.869><c> sure</c><00:17:21.130><c> we're</c><00:17:21.549><c> walking</c><00:17:22.009><c> in</c><00:17:22.410><c> a</c><00:17:22.549><c> straight</c><00:17:22.710><c> line</c>

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and<00:17:23.430><c> not</c><00:17:23.650><c> in</c><00:17:23.950><c> circles.</c>

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When<00:17:25.390><c> we're</c><00:17:25.990><c> confused,</c><00:17:26.730><c> we</c><00:17:26.769><c> need</c><00:17:26.990><c> to</c><00:17:27.230><c> stop</c><00:17:27.650><c> and</c><00:17:28.670><c> get</c><00:17:28.970><c> our</c><00:17:29.250><c> bearings</c><00:17:29.630><c> and</c>

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find<00:17:30.250><c> out</c><00:17:30.470><c> where</c><00:17:30.589><c> we're</c><00:17:30.849><c> going</c>

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and<00:17:32.069><c> make</c><00:17:32.230><c> sure</c><00:17:32.410><c> we</c><00:17:32.630><c> walk</c><00:17:33.210><c> together</c><00:17:34.029><c> to</c><00:17:34.630><c> the</c><00:17:34.849><c> kingdom.</c>

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And<00:17:36.990><c> the</c><00:17:37.369><c> problem</c><00:17:37.630><c> of</c><00:17:37.829><c> confusion</c><00:17:38.269><c> can</c><00:17:38.549><c> lead</c><00:17:38.650><c> us</c><00:17:38.910><c> to</c><00:17:39.190><c> the</c><00:17:39.589><c> next</c>

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busy,<00:17:40.690><c> next</c><00:17:40.990><c> fox,</c><00:17:41.410><c> which</c><00:17:41.589><c> is</c><00:17:42.349><c> too</c><00:17:42.690><c> busy.</c>

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We<00:17:44.349><c> live</c><00:17:44.569><c> in</c><00:17:44.789><c> a</c><00:17:45.069><c> terribly</c><00:17:45.569><c> busy</c><00:17:46.250><c> world.</c>

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Verse<00:17:48.029><c> 16.</c>

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Make<00:17:48.950><c> the</c><00:17:49.210><c> most</c><00:17:49.529><c> of</c><00:17:49.730><c> the</c><00:17:50.029><c> time,</c><00:17:51.309><c> because</c><00:17:51.569><c> the</c><00:17:51.849><c> days</c><00:17:52.470><c> are</c><00:17:53.329><c> evil.</c>

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Each<00:17:56.130><c> one</c><00:17:56.369><c> of</c><00:17:56.470><c> us</c><00:17:56.609><c> have</c><00:17:56.849><c> all</c><00:17:57.609><c> the</c><00:17:57.930><c> time</c><00:17:58.269><c> there</c><00:17:58.549><c> is.</c>

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People<00:17:59.009><c> talk</c><00:17:59.230><c> about</c><00:17:59.529><c> saving</c><00:17:59.990><c> time.</c>

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You<00:18:01.569><c> cannot</c><00:18:01.910><c> save</c><00:18:02.309><c> time.</c>

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Did<00:18:03.650><c> you</c><00:18:03.769><c> spend</c><00:18:04.009><c> Thursday</c><00:18:04.369><c> afternoon?</c>

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It's<00:18:06.049><c> gone.</c>

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What<00:18:06.609><c> you</c><00:18:06.809><c> did,</c><00:18:07.089><c> you</c><00:18:07.230><c> probably</c><00:18:07.470><c> can't</c><00:18:07.609><c> remember</c><00:18:07.869><c> what</c><00:18:08.009><c> you</c>

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did<00:18:08.250><c> either</c><00:18:08.470><c> last</c><00:18:08.690><c> Thursday,</c><00:18:09.089><c> but</c><00:18:09.589><c> you</c><00:18:09.950><c> spent</c><00:18:10.190><c> it.</c>

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You<00:18:11.170><c> can't</c><00:18:11.470><c> accumulate</c><00:18:11.950><c> time.</c>

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So<00:18:13.289><c> we</c><00:18:13.410><c> have</c><00:18:13.650><c> to</c><00:18:13.869><c> learn</c><00:18:14.049><c> to</c><00:18:14.430><c> make</c><00:18:14.750><c> the</c><00:18:15.009><c> best</c><00:18:15.369><c> use</c><00:18:15.869><c> of</c><00:18:16.329><c> our</c><00:18:16.630><c> time.</c>

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There<00:18:18.430><c> was</c><00:18:18.589><c> a</c><00:18:18.730><c> book</c><00:18:18.950><c> by</c><00:18:19.930><c> Kenneth</c><00:18:20.450><c> Gangel</c><00:18:21.170><c> called</c><00:18:21.569><c> The</c><00:18:22.250><c> Family</c><00:18:22.670><c> First.</c>

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And<00:18:23.269><c> he</c><00:18:23.390><c> says,</c><00:18:23.609><c> a</c><00:18:23.609><c> man</c><00:18:23.970><c> who</c><00:18:24.150><c> must</c><00:18:24.390><c> travel</c><00:18:24.849><c> one</c><00:18:25.569><c> hour</c><00:18:25.849><c> each</c><00:18:26.269><c> way</c>

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to<00:18:26.910><c> work</c><00:18:27.230><c> spends</c><00:18:27.650><c> eight</c><00:18:28.329><c> or</c><00:18:28.490><c> nine</c><00:18:28.670><c> hours</c><00:18:28.990><c> on</c><00:18:29.170><c> the</c><00:18:29.430><c> job</c>

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and<00:18:29.890><c> then</c><00:18:30.589><c> the</c><00:18:31.170><c> time</c><00:18:31.549><c> commuting.</c>

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And<00:18:32.410><c> when</c><00:18:32.529><c> he</c><00:18:32.690><c> gets</c><00:18:32.849><c> home,</c><00:18:33.710><c> he's</c><00:18:33.990><c> tired,</c><00:18:34.910><c> he's</c><00:18:35.190><c> grouchy</c><00:18:35.549><c> maybe.</c>

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The<00:18:36.690><c> children</c><00:18:36.869><c> have</c><00:18:37.029><c> been</c><00:18:37.170><c> looking</c><00:18:37.509><c> forward</c><00:18:37.750><c> to</c><00:18:37.930><c> his</c><00:18:38.170><c> return.</c>

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His<00:18:39.670><c> wife</c><00:18:39.970><c> has</c><00:18:40.170><c> been</c><00:18:40.349><c> talking</c><00:18:40.630><c> to</c><00:18:40.990><c> him,</c><00:18:41.410><c> no</c><00:18:41.849><c> adults</c><00:18:42.210><c> all</c><00:18:42.549><c> day,</c>

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and<00:18:44.190><c> he's</c><00:18:45.329><c> out</c><00:18:45.490><c> of</c><00:18:45.690><c> time.</c>

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We<00:18:47.910><c> have</c><00:18:48.150><c> to</c><00:18:49.109><c> make</c><00:18:49.490><c> sure</c><00:18:49.670><c> that</c><00:18:50.130><c> the</c><00:18:50.349><c> time</c><00:18:50.630><c> we</c><00:18:50.990><c> spend</c><00:18:51.230><c> as</c><00:18:51.509><c> a</c><00:18:51.789><c> family,</c><00:18:52.309><c> the</c>

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time<00:18:52.529><c> we</c><00:18:52.769><c> spend</c><00:18:52.890><c> with</c><00:18:53.109><c> our</c><00:18:53.369><c> loved</c><00:18:53.609><c> ones,</c>

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married<00:18:54.670><c> to</c><00:18:55.269><c> them</c><00:18:55.529><c> or</c><00:18:56.089><c> children</c><00:18:56.710><c> or</c><00:18:57.430><c> those</c><00:18:57.769><c> we're</c><00:18:58.049><c> in</c><00:18:58.269><c> contact</c>

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with,<00:18:59.630><c> is</c><00:18:59.990><c> quality</c><00:19:00.529><c> time.</c>

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He<00:19:02.970><c> who</c><00:19:03.190><c> chooses</c><00:19:03.490><c> to</c><00:19:03.869><c> spend</c><00:19:04.190><c> the</c><00:19:04.609><c> time</c><00:19:04.769><c> he</c><00:19:04.849><c> can</c><00:19:05.069><c> afford</c><00:19:05.589><c> to</c><00:19:05.950><c> invest,</c>

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wisely,<00:19:10.369><c> you</c><00:19:10.390><c> may</c><00:19:10.609><c> not</c><00:19:10.750><c> have</c><00:19:10.829><c> as</c><00:19:11.029><c> much</c><00:19:11.190><c> time</c><00:19:11.410><c> as</c><00:19:11.569><c> you</c><00:19:11.789><c> want,</c><00:19:12.049><c> so</c>

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you<00:19:12.269><c> have</c><00:19:12.430><c> to</c><00:19:12.589><c> make</c><00:19:12.690><c> the</c><00:19:12.829><c> time</c><00:19:13.109><c> you</c><00:19:13.269><c> have</c><00:19:13.970><c> count.</c>

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Quality<00:19:15.430><c> time</c><00:19:15.869><c> with</c><00:19:16.410><c> your</c><00:19:16.849><c> wife</c><00:19:17.130><c> and</c><00:19:17.390><c> with</c><00:19:17.569><c> your</c><00:19:17.809><c> children.</c>

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Don't<00:19:19.789><c> come</c><00:19:20.049><c> home</c><00:19:20.329><c> from</c><00:19:20.569><c> work</c><00:19:20.910><c> and</c><00:19:21.769><c> poke</c><00:19:21.910><c> yourself</c><00:19:22.309><c> down</c><00:19:22.630><c> and</c>

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watch<00:19:23.309><c> television</c><00:19:23.869><c> or</c><00:19:24.369><c> bury</c><00:19:24.710><c> your</c><00:19:25.369><c> head</c><00:19:26.150><c> in</c><00:19:26.349><c> a</c><00:19:26.509><c> newspaper.</c>

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The<00:19:28.230><c> wife</c><00:19:28.410><c> has</c><00:19:28.630><c> been</c><00:19:28.809><c> yearning</c><00:19:29.190><c> all</c><00:19:29.569><c> day</c><00:19:29.789><c> long</c><00:19:30.329><c> for</c><00:19:30.829><c> you</c><00:19:30.990><c> to</c><00:19:31.250><c> return.</c>

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And<00:19:32.089><c> why</c><00:19:32.369><c> be</c><00:19:32.829><c> looking</c><00:19:33.130><c> for</c><00:19:33.349><c> your</c><00:19:33.509><c> husband</c><00:19:33.769><c> and</c><00:19:34.289><c> make</c><00:19:34.509><c> him</c><00:19:35.130><c> feel</c>

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that<00:19:36.049><c> you're</c><00:19:36.369><c> glad</c><00:19:36.910><c> that</c><00:19:37.549><c> he</c><00:19:37.890><c> is</c><00:19:38.289><c> home.</c>

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You<00:19:38.849><c> know,</c><00:19:38.970><c> one</c><00:19:39.130><c> of</c><00:19:39.230><c> the</c><00:19:39.230><c> reasons</c><00:19:39.450><c> we</c><00:19:39.650><c> like</c><00:19:39.890><c> dogs</c><00:19:40.769><c> is</c><00:19:42.329><c> because</c>

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when<00:19:42.829><c> you</c><00:19:43.009><c> come</c><00:19:43.210><c> home,</c><00:19:43.490><c> a</c><00:19:43.650><c> dog</c><00:19:43.849><c> goes</c><00:19:44.109><c> crazy</c><00:19:44.529><c> greeting</c><00:19:44.990><c> you,</c>

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doesn't<00:19:45.470><c> he?</c>

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He<00:19:46.769><c> wiggles</c><00:19:46.970><c> and</c><00:19:47.190><c> waggles</c><00:19:47.470><c> and</c><00:19:47.609><c> he's</c><00:19:47.849><c> so</c><00:19:48.109><c> exciting.</c>

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And<00:19:49.650><c> the</c><00:19:49.789><c> husband</c><00:19:50.009><c> comes</c><00:19:50.289><c> in</c><00:19:50.450><c> the</c><00:19:50.589><c> door</c><00:19:50.789><c> and</c><00:19:50.950><c> she</c><00:19:51.049><c> says,</c><00:19:51.190><c> is</c>

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that<00:19:51.509><c> you?</c>

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You<00:19:53.029><c> know,</c><00:19:53.289><c> yeah,</c><00:19:54.309><c> I'm</c><00:19:54.430><c> here,</c><00:19:54.730><c> you</c><00:19:54.910><c> know.</c>

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These<00:19:58.849><c> are</c><00:19:59.109><c> little</c><00:19:59.450><c> things</c><00:19:59.829><c> that</c><00:20:00.109><c> make</c><00:20:00.630><c> big</c><00:20:01.210><c> differences</c><00:20:01.910><c> in</c>

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a<00:20:02.410><c> marriage.</c>

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And<00:20:03.789><c> in</c><00:20:03.950><c> our</c><00:20:04.109><c> relationship</c><00:20:04.589><c> with</c><00:20:04.950><c> those</c><00:20:05.210><c> that</c><00:20:05.470><c> we</c><00:20:05.650><c> aren't</c><00:20:06.150><c> around,</c><00:20:07.410><c> whatever</c><00:20:07.890><c> the</c>

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relationship<00:20:08.809><c> might</c><00:20:09.089><c> be.</c>

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So<00:20:10.470><c> we</c><00:20:11.130><c> may</c><00:20:11.490><c> be</c><00:20:11.730><c> very</c><00:20:12.150><c> busy,</c><00:20:13.910><c> but</c><00:20:14.009><c> we</c><00:20:14.150><c> must</c><00:20:14.390><c> never</c><00:20:14.730><c> be</c><00:20:15.150><c> too</c><00:20:15.509><c> busy</c>

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to<00:20:18.250><c> be</c><00:20:18.529><c> kind,</c><00:20:20.109><c> to</c><00:20:20.210><c> be</c><00:20:20.470><c> thoughtful,</c><00:20:22.130><c> to</c><00:20:22.410><c> care</c><00:20:23.069><c> about</c><00:20:24.890><c> others.</c>

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So<00:20:26.930><c> the</c><00:20:27.490><c> too</c><00:20:27.670><c> busy</c><00:20:27.950><c> fox</c><00:20:28.490><c> can</c><00:20:29.369><c> also</c><00:20:30.230><c> spoil</c><00:20:31.109><c> the</c><00:20:31.730><c> vines.</c>

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Ephesians<00:20:38.190><c> 5</c><00:20:38.829><c> verse</c><00:20:39.089><c> 17,</c><00:20:39.869><c> therefore</c><00:20:40.150><c> do</c><00:20:40.529><c> not</c><00:20:40.789><c> be</c><00:20:41.089><c> foolish,</c><00:20:41.450><c> but</c><00:20:41.609><c> understand</c><00:20:42.549><c> what</c><00:20:43.430><c> the</c><00:20:43.690><c> will</c><00:20:44.009><c> of</c>

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the<00:20:44.450><c> Lord</c><00:20:44.630><c> is.</c>

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So<00:20:46.049><c> the</c><00:20:46.329><c> busy</c><00:20:47.329><c> fox</c><00:20:47.930><c> leads</c><00:20:48.430><c> us</c><00:20:49.890><c> to</c><00:20:52.109><c> another</c><00:20:52.490><c> problem,</c><00:20:53.289><c> to</c><00:20:53.430><c> be</c><00:20:53.950><c> thoughtless,</c><00:20:56.250><c> to</c>

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gain<00:20:56.670><c> insight.</c>

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Centuries<00:20:57.910><c> before</c><00:20:58.369><c> Paul</c><00:20:58.710><c> wrote</c><00:20:59.049><c> these</c><00:20:59.349><c> words,</c><00:21:00.549><c> the</c><00:21:00.650><c> Hebrews</c>

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had<00:21:01.309><c> a</c><00:21:01.509><c> word</c><00:21:01.690><c> for</c><00:21:02.130><c> fool</c><00:21:02.529><c> or</c><00:21:02.950><c> thoughtlessness.</c>

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It<00:21:04.349><c> was</c><00:21:04.589><c> a</c><00:21:04.930><c> verb</c><00:21:05.269><c> which</c><00:21:05.529><c> meant</c><00:21:05.809><c> dull</c><00:21:06.309><c> or</c><00:21:06.569><c> insensitive.</c>

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The<00:21:08.390><c> idea</c><00:21:08.650><c> here</c><00:21:08.910><c> is</c><00:21:09.049><c> in</c><00:21:09.210><c> the</c><00:21:09.329><c> Ephesian</c><00:21:09.670><c> letter,</c><00:21:10.049><c> it</c><00:21:10.170><c> applies</c>

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to<00:21:10.710><c> marriage</c><00:21:11.109><c> as</c><00:21:11.470><c> well</c><00:21:11.670><c> as</c><00:21:11.809><c> to</c><00:21:12.009><c> all</c><00:21:12.210><c> our</c><00:21:12.430><c> lives.</c>

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God<00:21:13.470><c> is</c><00:21:13.650><c> saying,</c><00:21:15.829><c> quit</c><00:21:15.970><c> being</c><00:21:16.230><c> so</c><00:21:16.630><c> insensitive</c><00:21:17.269><c> and</c><00:21:17.589><c> inconsiderate</c><00:21:18.309><c> and</c><00:21:18.549><c> thoughtless</c><00:21:19.730><c> of</c>

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your<00:21:20.609><c> mate</c><00:21:21.029><c> and</c><00:21:21.690><c> of</c><00:21:21.849><c> your</c><00:21:22.109><c> children</c><00:21:22.549><c> and</c><00:21:23.430><c> of</c><00:21:23.670><c> others.</c>

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So<00:21:24.910><c> the</c><00:21:25.470><c> third</c><00:21:25.789><c> fox</c><00:21:26.069><c> is</c><00:21:26.430><c> insensitive</c><00:21:27.170><c> fox,</c><00:21:28.069><c> the</c><00:21:28.269><c> dull</c><00:21:28.569><c> fox</c><00:21:29.130><c> that</c><00:21:29.730><c> invades</c><00:21:30.230><c> the</c>

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vineyard<00:21:31.130><c> of</c><00:21:31.329><c> marriage,</c><00:21:32.569><c> not</c><00:21:32.730><c> alert</c><00:21:33.289><c> to</c><00:21:34.009><c> the</c><00:21:34.309><c> feelings</c><00:21:34.829><c> of</c><00:21:35.849><c> each</c><00:21:36.289><c> other</c><00:21:36.970><c> and</c><00:21:37.450><c> of</c>

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the<00:21:37.769><c> children.</c>

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You<00:21:39.869><c> know</c><00:21:40.289><c> that</c><00:21:40.630><c> play,</c><00:21:41.069><c> My</c><00:21:41.230><c> Fair</c><00:21:41.470><c> Lady,</c><00:21:42.289><c> and</c><00:21:42.410><c> Professor</c><00:21:42.789><c> Henry</c>

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Higgins<00:21:43.809><c> is</c><00:21:44.250><c> so</c><00:21:44.670><c> dull,</c><00:21:45.630><c> he</c><00:21:45.849><c> doesn't</c><00:21:46.190><c> realize</c><00:21:46.630><c> the</c><00:21:46.930><c> pain</c><00:21:47.130><c> and</c>

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the<00:21:47.630><c> anguish</c><00:21:47.950><c> that</c><00:21:48.230><c> he's</c><00:21:48.630><c> causing</c><00:21:48.930><c> that</c><00:21:49.269><c> sweet</c><00:21:49.589><c> young</c><00:21:50.349><c> Eliza</c><00:21:50.950><c> Doolittle.</c>

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He's<00:21:52.190><c> so</c><00:21:52.390><c> impressed</c><00:21:52.690><c> with</c><00:21:52.990><c> his</c><00:21:53.390><c> accomplishments</c><00:21:54.029><c> in</c><00:21:54.490><c> getting</c>

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her<00:21:54.849><c> to</c><00:21:55.089><c> speak</c><00:21:55.630><c> with</c><00:21:56.009><c> a</c><00:21:56.769><c> beautiful</c><00:21:57.250><c> English</c><00:21:58.289><c> accent</c><00:21:58.710><c> instead</c>

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of<00:21:59.089><c> as</c><00:21:59.289><c> a</c><00:21:59.490><c> street</c><00:21:59.630><c> girl.</c>

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He's<00:22:01.029><c> taken</c><00:22:01.269><c> all</c><00:22:01.549><c> the</c><00:22:01.730><c> credit</c><00:22:01.930><c> for</c><00:22:02.269><c> it.</c>

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What's<00:22:04.029><c> wrong</c><00:22:04.109><c> with</c><00:22:04.309><c> you?</c>

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And<00:22:05.930><c> husbands</c><00:22:06.089><c> and</c><00:22:06.329><c> wives</c><00:22:06.470><c> can</c><00:22:06.670><c> be</c><00:22:06.769><c> that</c><00:22:06.950><c> way</c><00:22:07.049><c> with</c><00:22:07.230><c> each</c><00:22:07.470><c> other.</c>

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We<00:22:09.150><c> are</c><00:22:09.490><c> different</c><00:22:10.069><c> and</c><00:22:11.069><c> we</c><00:22:11.410><c> have</c><00:22:11.609><c> different</c><00:22:11.890><c> reactions.</c>

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And<00:22:15.049><c> we</c><00:22:15.569><c> need</c><00:22:16.109><c> to</c><00:22:17.329><c> study</c><00:22:17.869><c> our</c><00:22:18.609><c> mate</c><00:22:18.829><c> and</c><00:22:20.250><c> others</c><00:22:20.509><c> around</c><00:22:20.849><c> us</c><00:22:21.130><c> too.</c>

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See,<00:22:22.950><c> are</c><00:22:23.130><c> we</c><00:22:23.569><c> aware</c><00:22:24.049><c> of</c><00:22:24.829><c> hurting</c><00:22:25.130><c> them?</c>

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The<00:22:26.170><c> bull</c><00:22:26.309><c> in</c><00:22:26.509><c> the</c><00:22:26.630><c> china</c><00:22:26.809><c> shop</c><00:22:27.150><c> kind</c><00:22:27.410><c> of</c><00:22:27.549><c> thing.</c>

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A<00:22:28.769><c> great</c><00:22:28.910><c> big</c><00:22:29.190><c> bull</c><00:22:29.430><c> with</c><00:22:29.789><c> beautiful</c><00:22:30.190><c> brown</c><00:22:30.470><c> eyes</c><00:22:30.690><c> steps</c><00:22:30.950><c> on</c><00:22:31.349><c> dressed</c><00:22:31.569><c> in</c><00:22:31.809><c> china</c><00:22:32.009><c> and</c><00:22:32.390><c> says,</c><00:22:32.769><c> what</c><00:22:32.809><c> did</c><00:22:32.930><c> I</c><00:22:33.130><c> do?</c>

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And<00:22:34.549><c> a</c><00:22:35.069><c> husband</c><00:22:35.589><c> has</c><00:22:35.789><c> come</c><00:22:35.990><c> home</c><00:22:36.490><c> and</c><00:22:36.869><c> he's</c><00:22:37.369><c> made</c><00:22:37.609><c> a</c><00:22:38.170><c> remark</c><00:22:38.509><c> to</c>

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his<00:22:38.849><c> wife</c><00:22:39.049><c> that</c><00:22:39.190><c> he</c><00:22:39.269><c> didn't</c><00:22:39.529><c> think</c><00:22:39.650><c> was</c><00:22:39.890><c> offensive.</c>

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And<00:22:40.769><c> she</c><00:22:40.890><c> slams</c><00:22:41.230><c> the</c><00:22:41.430><c> door</c><00:22:41.569><c> and</c><00:22:41.829><c> screams</c><00:22:42.329><c> at</c><00:22:42.569><c> him</c><00:22:43.009><c> and</c><00:22:43.690><c> he</c><00:22:44.190><c> doesn't</c><00:22:44.430><c> even</c>

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aware<00:22:45.190><c> of</c><00:22:45.369><c> what</c><00:22:45.529><c> he</c><00:22:45.769><c> did.</c>

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But<00:22:47.509><c> he</c><00:22:47.670><c> should</c><00:22:47.809><c> be</c><00:22:48.109><c> aware.</c>

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We<00:22:49.349><c> need</c><00:22:49.609><c> to</c><00:22:49.890><c> try</c><00:22:50.150><c> to</c><00:22:50.569><c> put</c><00:22:50.769><c> ourselves</c><00:22:51.329><c> in</c><00:22:51.849><c> the</c><00:22:52.170><c> shoes</c><00:22:52.410><c> of</c><00:22:52.670><c> other</c>

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people<00:22:53.569><c> and</c><00:22:54.589><c> understand</c><00:22:55.309><c> how</c><00:22:55.670><c> they</c><00:22:56.009><c> feel.</c>

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I<00:22:58.470><c> think</c><00:22:58.710><c> husbands</c><00:22:59.049><c> have</c><00:22:59.269><c> more</c><00:22:59.529><c> of</c><00:22:59.650><c> this</c><00:22:59.809><c> problem</c><00:23:00.150><c> than</c><00:23:00.369><c> wives.</c>

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I<00:23:00.769><c> think</c><00:23:01.009><c> sisters</c><00:23:01.549><c> are</c><00:23:02.150><c> more</c><00:23:02.470><c> intuitive</c><00:23:02.910><c> after</c><00:23:03.410><c> the</c><00:23:03.710><c> feelings</c>

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of<00:23:04.309><c> others.</c>

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It<00:23:04.690><c> works</c><00:23:05.190><c> both</c><00:23:05.509><c> ways.</c>

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But<00:23:06.930><c> I'm</c><00:23:07.470><c> going</c><00:23:07.589><c> to</c><00:23:07.670><c> say</c><00:23:07.869><c> something</c><00:23:08.150><c> that</c><00:23:08.289><c> may</c><00:23:08.509><c> sound</c><00:23:08.750><c> like</c>

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heresy,<00:23:09.470><c> but</c><00:23:09.569><c> it's</c><00:23:09.789><c> true.</c>

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Feelings<00:23:15.049><c> are</c><00:23:15.529><c> more</c><00:23:15.769><c> important</c><00:23:16.470><c> than</c><00:23:18.029><c> facts.</c>

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You<00:23:20.329><c> can</c><00:23:20.430><c> say,</c><00:23:20.569><c> well,</c><00:23:20.970><c> that</c><00:23:21.029><c> can't</c><00:23:21.750><c> be</c><00:23:21.970><c> true.</c>

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Well,<00:23:24.410><c> I</c><00:23:24.509><c> don't</c><00:23:24.849><c> care.</c><00:23:25.130><c> This</c><00:23:25.349><c> is</c><00:23:25.390><c> how</c><00:23:25.609><c> I</c><00:23:25.849><c> feel.</c>

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So<00:23:27.650><c> when</c><00:23:27.890><c> a</c><00:23:27.990><c> husband</c><00:23:28.170><c> and</c><00:23:28.269><c> wife</c><00:23:28.509><c> are</c><00:23:28.650><c> sometimes</c><00:23:28.930><c> having</c><00:23:29.130><c> a</c><00:23:29.309><c> disagreement,</c><00:23:30.490><c> she</c>

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feels<00:23:31.390><c> neglected,</c><00:23:32.150><c> she</c><00:23:32.230><c> feels</c><00:23:32.529><c> left</c><00:23:32.789><c> out,</c><00:23:32.890><c> she</c><00:23:33.049><c> feels</c><00:23:33.289><c> this</c><00:23:33.509><c> way.</c>

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And<00:23:34.250><c> he's</c><00:23:34.450><c> trying</c><00:23:34.650><c> to</c><00:23:34.890><c> just</c><00:23:35.430><c> be</c><00:23:35.710><c> reasonable.</c>

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But<00:23:37.630><c> this</c><00:23:38.009><c> is</c><00:23:38.230><c> how</c><00:23:38.630><c> she</c><00:23:38.950><c> feels.</c>

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And<00:23:41.109><c> she</c><00:23:41.410><c> really</c><00:23:41.950><c> can't</c><00:23:42.250><c> help</c><00:23:42.809><c> that</c><00:23:43.190><c> she</c><00:23:43.430><c> feels</c><00:23:43.730><c> that</c><00:23:43.970><c> way</c><00:23:44.230><c> because</c><00:23:44.529><c> she</c>

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does<00:23:45.210><c> feel</c><00:23:45.470><c> that</c><00:23:45.769><c> way.</c>

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And<00:23:47.289><c> so</c><00:23:47.430><c> if</c><00:23:47.609><c> we</c><00:23:47.829><c> can</c><00:23:48.049><c> try</c><00:23:48.349><c> to</c><00:23:48.650><c> understand</c><00:23:49.069><c> how</c><00:23:49.329><c> the</c><00:23:49.529><c> other</c><00:23:49.690><c> one</c><00:23:49.910><c> feels,</c>

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because<00:23:52.009><c> no</c><00:23:52.730><c> matter</c><00:23:52.869><c> what</c><00:23:53.130><c> the</c><00:23:53.349><c> facts</c><00:23:53.549><c> are,</c><00:23:53.809><c> no</c><00:23:53.910><c> matter</c><00:23:54.049><c> how</c><00:23:54.529><c> plain</c><00:23:54.730><c> and</c><00:23:54.990><c> simple</c><00:23:55.130><c> it</c><00:23:55.289><c> is,</c><00:23:55.569><c> they</c><00:23:56.150><c> feel</c><00:23:56.650><c> a</c>

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different<00:23:57.369><c> way.</c>

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And<00:23:59.230><c> so</c><00:23:59.410><c> we</c><00:23:59.569><c> have</c><00:23:59.789><c> to</c><00:24:00.230><c> live</c><00:24:00.630><c> with</c><00:24:00.869><c> the</c><00:24:00.930><c> way</c><00:24:01.089><c> they</c><00:24:01.430><c> feel</c><00:24:01.750><c> and</c><00:24:01.970><c> not</c>

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with<00:24:02.390><c> the</c><00:24:02.650><c> facts</c><00:24:02.869><c> always.</c>

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We're<00:24:04.430><c> not</c><00:24:04.670><c> putting</c><00:24:04.930><c> down</c><00:24:05.349><c> facts.</c><00:24:05.690><c> Facts</c><00:24:05.930><c> are</c><00:24:06.210><c> real,</c><00:24:06.890><c> but</c><00:24:07.210><c> our</c>

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feelings<00:24:08.109><c> are</c><00:24:08.329><c> real</c><00:24:08.630><c> too.</c>

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And<00:24:09.750><c> when</c><00:24:09.890><c> you're</c><00:24:10.049><c> having</c><00:24:10.170><c> a</c><00:24:10.450><c> real</c><00:24:11.049><c> argument,</c><00:24:11.509><c> and</c><00:24:11.630><c> this</c><00:24:11.789><c> works</c><00:24:12.089><c> outside</c><00:24:12.630><c> the</c>

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truth<00:24:13.009><c> too.</c>

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I've<00:24:13.710><c> used</c><00:24:13.930><c> this</c><00:24:14.269><c> everywhere</c><00:24:14.549><c> I've</c><00:24:15.549><c> had</c><00:24:15.609><c> a</c><00:24:15.849><c> problem</c><00:24:16.049><c> with</c><00:24:16.269><c> a</c>

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person<00:24:16.890><c> who</c><00:24:16.930><c> was</c><00:24:17.529><c> unhappy</c><00:24:17.930><c> with</c><00:24:18.170><c> me.</c>

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If<00:24:18.930><c> they're</c><00:24:19.109><c> really</c><00:24:19.470><c> angry</c><00:24:19.789><c> with</c><00:24:20.009><c> you,</c><00:24:20.829><c> and</c><00:24:21.269><c> maybe</c><00:24:21.470><c> they're</c>

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getting<00:24:21.789><c> out</c><00:24:22.009><c> of</c><00:24:22.130><c> control,</c>

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and<00:24:23.950><c> if</c><00:24:24.069><c> you</c><00:24:24.269><c> just</c><00:24:24.849><c> lean</c><00:24:25.130><c> forward</c><00:24:25.569><c> and</c><00:24:25.869><c> smile</c><00:24:26.190><c> and</c><00:24:26.430><c> say,</c>

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if<00:24:27.950><c> I</c><00:24:28.289><c> were</c><00:24:28.470><c> you,</c><00:24:29.230><c> I</c><00:24:30.269><c> would</c><00:24:30.430><c> feel</c><00:24:30.670><c> the</c><00:24:31.029><c> same</c><00:24:31.329><c> way</c><00:24:31.890><c> you</c><00:24:32.450><c> do.</c>

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Really?

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And<00:24:36.410><c> you</c><00:24:36.529><c> say,</c><00:24:36.630><c> well,</c><00:24:36.750><c> I</c><00:24:36.890><c> can't</c><00:24:37.130><c> say</c><00:24:37.230><c> that.</c><00:24:37.569><c> That's</c><00:24:37.730><c> hypocritical.</c>

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I<00:24:38.750><c> couldn't</c><00:24:39.069><c> say</c><00:24:39.250><c> that.</c><00:24:39.369><c> They're</c><00:24:39.609><c> acting</c><00:24:39.769><c> silly.</c>

00:24:41.410 --> 00:24:44.890
Well,<00:24:41.750><c> if</c><00:24:41.990><c> they're</c><00:24:42.250><c> acting</c><00:24:42.450><c> silly</c><00:24:43.089><c> and</c><00:24:43.589><c> you</c><00:24:43.789><c> were</c><00:24:44.009><c> them,</c><00:24:44.670><c> you</c>

00:24:44.890 --> 00:24:46.950
would<00:24:45.029><c> be</c><00:24:45.230><c> acting</c><00:24:45.430><c> silly,</c><00:24:45.910><c> wouldn't</c><00:24:46.009><c> you?</c>

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So<00:24:47.769><c> you</c><00:24:47.990><c> can</c><00:24:48.210><c> with</c><00:24:48.569><c> total</c><00:24:48.990><c> honesty</c><00:24:49.430><c> say,</c><00:24:50.170><c> if</c><00:24:50.190><c> I</c><00:24:50.569><c> were</c><00:24:50.769><c> you,</c><00:24:51.190><c> I</c>

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would<00:24:51.750><c> feel</c><00:24:52.089><c> just</c><00:24:52.410><c> like</c><00:24:52.630><c> you</c><00:24:52.890><c> do.</c>

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Of<00:24:54.109><c> course,</c><00:24:54.309><c> we're</c><00:24:54.509><c> not</c><00:24:54.809><c> them,</c><00:24:55.049><c> so</c><00:24:55.250><c> we</c><00:24:55.490><c> don't</c><00:24:55.769><c> feel</c><00:24:56.049><c> like</c><00:24:56.430><c> them.</c>

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But<00:24:57.410><c> the</c><00:24:57.609><c> point</c><00:24:57.769><c> is,</c><00:24:58.549><c> this</c><00:24:58.730><c> is</c><00:24:58.970><c> a</c><00:24:59.130><c> fox</c><00:24:59.309><c> that</c><00:24:59.609><c> destroys</c><00:25:00.690><c> the</c><00:25:01.109><c> vine.</c>

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We<00:25:01.890><c> need</c><00:25:02.109><c> to</c><00:25:02.509><c> try</c><00:25:02.890><c> to</c><00:25:03.329><c> understand</c><00:25:04.069><c> how</c><00:25:04.829><c> the</c><00:25:05.150><c> other</c><00:25:05.390><c> one</c><00:25:05.670><c> feels,</c>

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though<00:25:06.630><c> we</c><00:25:06.869><c> don't</c><00:25:07.130><c> feel</c><00:25:07.430><c> that</c><00:25:07.710><c> way.</c>

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Husbands<00:25:09.190><c> and</c><00:25:09.470><c> wives</c><00:25:09.690><c> don't</c><00:25:10.069><c> react</c><00:25:10.430><c> the</c><00:25:10.730><c> same</c><00:25:11.009><c> way.</c>

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And<00:25:12.650><c> so</c><00:25:13.130><c> we</c><00:25:13.630><c> need</c><00:25:13.930><c> to</c><00:25:14.210><c> try</c><00:25:15.150><c> to</c><00:25:16.069><c> be</c><00:25:16.730><c> understanding</c><00:25:17.289><c> and</c><00:25:17.490><c> not</c><00:25:17.750><c> to</c>

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be<00:25:18.250><c> dull</c>

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and<00:25:18.930><c> to</c><00:25:19.069><c> be</c><00:25:19.410><c> insensitive</c><00:25:20.210><c> of</c><00:25:21.089><c> the</c><00:25:21.450><c> feelings</c><00:25:22.009><c> of</c><00:25:22.430><c> other</c><00:25:22.730><c> people.</c>

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Chapter<00:25:25.569><c> 5,</c><00:25:26.589><c> Ephesians,</c><00:25:27.450><c> verse</c><00:25:27.630><c> 17.</c>

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Therefore,<00:25:29.910><c> do</c><00:25:30.029><c> not</c><00:25:30.250><c> be</c><00:25:30.569><c> foolish,</c><00:25:31.150><c> but</c><00:25:31.369><c> understand</c><00:25:32.269><c> what</c><00:25:32.990><c> the</c>

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will<00:25:33.670><c> of</c><00:25:33.990><c> the</c><00:25:34.230><c> Lord</c><00:25:34.470><c> is.</c>

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The<00:25:36.329><c> key</c><00:25:36.549><c> is</c><00:25:36.849><c> to</c><00:25:37.150><c> understand.</c>

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W<00:25:39.890><c>.E.</c><00:25:40.130><c> Vine</c><00:25:40.289><c> in</c><00:25:40.470><c> his</c><00:25:40.670><c> expository</c><00:25:41.430><c> dictionary</c><00:25:41.890><c> of</c><00:25:42.029><c> New</c><00:25:42.210><c> Testament</c><00:25:42.549><c> words</c><00:25:42.950><c> says,</c>

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regarding<00:25:44.289><c> the</c><00:25:44.589><c> problem</c><00:25:44.750><c> in</c><00:25:45.049><c> sensitivity,</c>

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the<00:25:46.890><c> lack</c><00:25:47.250><c> of</c><00:25:47.670><c> common</c><00:25:47.990><c> sense</c><00:25:48.630><c> and</c><00:25:49.009><c> perception</c><00:25:49.450><c> of</c><00:25:49.829><c> the</c><00:25:50.029><c> reality</c><00:25:50.410><c> of</c><00:25:50.710><c> things.</c>

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How<00:25:51.150><c> to</c><00:25:51.289><c> understand</c><00:25:51.809><c> what</c><00:25:52.109><c> the</c><00:25:52.250><c> will</c><00:25:52.369><c> of</c><00:25:52.509><c> the</c><00:25:52.569><c> Lord</c><00:25:52.710><c> is,</c><00:25:53.329><c> come</c>

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down<00:25:53.670><c> to</c><00:25:53.809><c> Ephesians,</c><00:25:54.410><c> verse</c><00:25:54.589><c> 21.</c>

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Be<00:25:55.509><c> subject</c><00:25:55.829><c> to</c><00:25:56.049><c> one</c><00:25:56.170><c> to</c><00:25:56.410><c> another</c><00:25:56.609><c> out</c><00:25:56.930><c> of</c><00:25:57.210><c> reverence</c><00:25:58.190><c> for</c><00:25:58.529><c> Christ.</c>

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Submit<00:26:00.849><c> yourselves</c><00:26:01.269><c> one</c><00:26:01.509><c> to</c><00:26:01.690><c> another</c><00:26:01.910><c> in</c><00:26:02.069><c> the</c><00:26:02.250><c> fear</c><00:26:02.369><c> of</c><00:26:02.569><c> God,</c>

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is<00:26:03.309><c> another</c><00:26:03.569><c> version.</c>

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Always<00:26:05.190><c> try</c><00:26:05.490><c> to</c><00:26:05.609><c> put</c><00:26:05.809><c> yourselves</c><00:26:06.329><c> in</c><00:26:06.569><c> the</c><00:26:06.730><c> other</c><00:26:06.950><c> person's</c><00:26:07.390><c> shoes.</c>

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How<00:26:07.950><c> would</c><00:26:08.250><c> I</c><00:26:08.470><c> feel</c><00:26:09.349><c> if</c><00:26:09.829><c> I</c><00:26:10.190><c> were</c><00:26:10.390><c> you?</c>

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Too<00:26:12.390><c> many</c><00:26:12.710><c> husbands</c><00:26:13.089><c> and</c><00:26:13.390><c> wives</c><00:26:13.609><c> get</c><00:26:13.849><c> caught</c><00:26:14.069><c> up</c><00:26:14.210><c> in</c><00:26:14.289><c> their</c>

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own<00:26:14.789><c> activities</c><00:26:15.230><c> and</c><00:26:15.490><c> their</c><00:26:15.650><c> own</c><00:26:16.009><c> thinking,</c>

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and<00:26:17.089><c> they're</c><00:26:17.230><c> not</c><00:26:17.490><c> aware</c><00:26:17.910><c> of</c><00:26:18.130><c> the</c><00:26:18.369><c> feelings</c><00:26:18.930><c> of</c><00:26:19.470><c> others.</c>

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Too<00:26:21.470><c> many</c><00:26:21.890><c> couples</c><00:26:22.710><c> model</c><00:26:23.509><c> the</c><00:26:24.349><c> words</c><00:26:24.630><c> of</c><00:26:24.849><c> the</c><00:26:25.049><c> song.</c>

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Two<00:26:26.529><c> different</c><00:26:26.890><c> worlds</c><00:26:27.529><c> we</c><00:26:28.490><c> live</c><00:26:28.750><c> in.</c>

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The<00:26:30.950><c> dull</c><00:26:31.349><c> and</c><00:26:31.710><c> sensitive</c><00:26:32.089><c> fox</c><00:26:32.990><c> can</c><00:26:34.230><c> wreck</c><00:26:34.750><c> the</c><00:26:35.109><c> marriage</c><00:26:35.450><c> vineyard</c>

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unless<00:26:36.849><c> we</c><00:26:37.730><c> catch</c><00:26:38.069><c> that</c><00:26:38.470><c> fox</c><00:26:38.910><c> and</c><00:26:39.809><c> subdue</c><00:26:40.250><c> it</c>

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by<00:26:40.630><c> being</c><00:26:41.309><c> loving</c><00:26:41.569><c> and</c><00:26:42.170><c> caring</c><00:26:42.549><c> and</c><00:26:43.150><c> thoughtful</c><00:26:43.670><c> of</c><00:26:44.549><c> the</c><00:26:44.809><c> other.</c>

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Now<00:26:47.170><c> here</c><00:26:47.349><c> comes</c><00:26:47.630><c> the</c><00:26:47.809><c> most</c><00:26:48.089><c> destructive</c><00:26:48.730><c> fox</c><00:26:49.730><c> of</c><00:26:50.029><c> all.</c>

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It's<00:26:52.329><c> plain</c><00:26:52.930><c> bullheaded</c><00:26:54.490><c> stubbornness.</c>

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This<00:26:58.430><c> fox</c><00:26:58.890><c> makes</c><00:26:59.609><c> a</c><00:26:59.910><c> shamble</c><00:27:00.529><c> of</c><00:27:01.329><c> a</c><00:27:01.549><c> beautiful</c><00:27:02.009><c> vineyard.</c>

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Many<00:27:04.630><c> a</c><00:27:04.990><c> mate</c><00:27:05.309><c> has</c><00:27:06.049><c> admitted</c><00:27:06.410><c> that</c><00:27:06.589><c> they</c><00:27:06.769><c> are</c><00:27:07.009><c> stubborn,</c>

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and<00:27:07.829><c> sometimes</c><00:27:08.289><c> they</c><00:27:08.789><c> even</c><00:27:09.890><c> describe</c><00:27:11.109><c> themselves,</c>

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well,<00:27:11.730><c> yes,</c><00:27:11.970><c> I'm</c><00:27:12.130><c> stubborn,</c><00:27:12.509><c> but</c><00:27:12.670><c> they</c><00:27:13.250><c> act</c><00:27:13.470><c> like</c><00:27:13.650><c> it</c><00:27:13.849><c> was</c><00:27:14.109><c> a</c>

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virtue,<00:27:15.529><c> something</c><00:27:15.809><c> to</c><00:27:16.069><c> be</c><00:27:16.329><c> admired.</c>

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Ephesians<00:27:18.829><c> 5,</c><00:27:19.809><c> verse</c><00:27:20.109><c> 5.</c>

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But<00:27:23.269><c> this</c><00:27:23.589><c> ye</c><00:27:23.789><c> know,</c><00:27:24.069><c> that</c><00:27:24.289><c> no</c><00:27:24.569><c> whoremonger,</c><00:27:26.089><c> nor</c><00:27:26.210><c> unclean</c>

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person,<00:27:27.150><c> nor</c><00:27:27.329><c> covetous</c><00:27:27.750><c> man,</c>

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who<00:27:28.390><c> is</c><00:27:28.650><c> an</c><00:27:28.849><c> idolater,</c><00:27:29.990><c> hath</c><00:27:30.130><c> any</c><00:27:30.470><c> inheritance</c><00:27:30.930><c> in</c><00:27:31.210><c> the</c><00:27:31.369><c> kingdom</c><00:27:31.690><c> of</c><00:27:31.970><c> Christ</c><00:27:32.470><c> and</c><00:27:32.690><c> of</c><00:27:32.910><c> God.</c>

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With<00:27:34.369><c> that</c><00:27:34.630><c> thought</c><00:27:34.789><c> in</c><00:27:34.950><c> mind,</c><00:27:35.109><c> we</c><00:27:35.210><c> go</c><00:27:35.390><c> back</c><00:27:35.670><c> to</c><00:27:36.630><c> Samuel,</c>

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where<00:27:37.690><c> Samuel</c><00:27:38.529><c> is</c><00:27:39.490><c> telling</c><00:27:39.829><c> Saul,</c>

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for<00:27:41.450><c> rebellion</c><00:27:42.329><c> is</c><00:27:43.390><c> as</c><00:27:43.650><c> the</c><00:27:43.829><c> sin</c><00:27:43.930><c> of</c><00:27:44.190><c> witchcraft,</c>

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and<00:27:45.710><c> stubbornness</c><00:27:46.630><c> is</c><00:27:47.329><c> as</c><00:27:47.589><c> iniquity</c><00:27:48.089><c> and</c><00:27:48.490><c> idolatry.</c>

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None<00:27:50.170><c> of</c><00:27:50.269><c> us</c><00:27:50.430><c> have</c><00:27:50.589><c> little</c><00:27:50.869><c> idols</c><00:27:51.230><c> in</c><00:27:51.470><c> our</c><00:27:51.670><c> houses.</c>

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We<00:27:52.369><c> know</c><00:27:52.549><c> people</c><00:27:52.829><c> who</c><00:27:53.029><c> do,</c><00:27:53.210><c> but</c><00:27:53.329><c> we</c><00:27:53.589><c> don't.</c>

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But<00:27:54.690><c> when</c><00:27:54.910><c> we're</c><00:27:55.130><c> being</c><00:27:55.549><c> stubborn,</c><00:27:56.549><c> Samuel</c><00:27:56.910><c> says</c><00:27:57.130><c> that's</c>

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like<00:27:57.609><c> being</c><00:27:57.950><c> idolatrous.</c>

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Because<00:27:59.630><c> thou</c><00:27:59.849><c> hast</c><00:28:00.009><c> rejected</c><00:28:00.470><c> the</c><00:28:00.650><c> word</c><00:28:00.849><c> of</c><00:28:01.009><c> the</c><00:28:01.170><c> Lord,</c><00:28:01.450><c> he</c>

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hath<00:28:01.670><c> rejected</c><00:28:02.130><c> thee</c><00:28:02.450><c> from</c><00:28:02.730><c> being</c><00:28:03.049><c> king,</c>

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said<00:28:04.369><c> Samuel</c><00:28:05.089><c> to</c><00:28:05.490><c> Saul.</c>

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So<00:28:08.809><c> that's</c><00:28:09.490><c> God's</c><00:28:09.950><c> opinion</c><00:28:10.410><c> of</c><00:28:10.809><c> stubbornness.</c>

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It's<00:28:12.569><c> not</c><00:28:12.750><c> a</c><00:28:12.930><c> virtue,</c><00:28:14.230><c> it's</c><00:28:14.410><c> an</c><00:28:14.589><c> iniquity,</c><00:28:15.750><c> it's</c><00:28:16.250><c> an</c><00:28:16.269><c> idolatry,</c><00:28:17.549><c> says</c><00:28:17.650><c> Samuel.</c>

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So,<00:28:21.029><c> I</c><00:28:21.130><c> think</c><00:28:21.289><c> this</c><00:28:21.509><c> is</c><00:28:21.690><c> a</c><00:28:21.750><c> good</c><00:28:21.950><c> place</c><00:28:22.470><c> for</c><00:28:23.369><c> me</c><00:28:23.589><c> to</c><00:28:23.849><c> plug</c><00:28:24.009><c> in</c>

00:28:24.309 --> 00:28:26.250
twelve<00:28:24.710><c> magic</c><00:28:25.190><c> words,</c>

00:28:26.789 --> 00:28:33.289
which<00:28:26.829><c> many</c><00:28:27.109><c> of</c><00:28:27.289><c> you</c><00:28:27.450><c> have</c><00:28:27.710><c> already</c><00:28:28.150><c> heard,</c><00:28:28.730><c> because</c><00:28:29.109><c> they</c><00:28:29.670><c> solve</c><00:28:30.009><c> this</c><00:28:30.269><c> problem</c><00:28:30.970><c> of</c><00:28:31.690><c> stubbornness.</c>

00:28:35.769 --> 00:28:38.750
There<00:28:36.369><c> was</c><00:28:36.970><c> a</c><00:28:37.170><c> talk</c><00:28:37.289><c> by</c><00:28:37.589><c> a</c><00:28:37.730><c> fellow,</c>

00:28:39.950 --> 00:28:45.269
and<00:28:40.029><c> he</c><00:28:40.150><c> described</c><00:28:41.109><c> a</c><00:28:42.690><c> plaque</c><00:28:43.009><c> on</c><00:28:44.029><c> the</c><00:28:44.230><c> wall</c><00:28:44.470><c> of</c><00:28:44.710><c> a</c><00:28:44.849><c> home.</c>

00:28:45.269 --> 00:28:48.930
You<00:28:45.910><c> probably</c><00:28:47.509><c> have</c><00:28:47.750><c> plaques</c><00:28:48.009><c> on</c><00:28:48.190><c> your</c><00:28:48.349><c> wall,</c><00:28:48.529><c> I</c><00:28:48.609><c> hope</c><00:28:48.789><c> you</c>

00:28:48.930 --> 00:28:51.009
don't<00:28:49.049><c> have</c><00:28:49.170><c> this</c><00:28:49.470><c> one.</c>

00:28:51.349 --> 00:28:55.369
The<00:28:51.690><c> plaque</c><00:28:51.890><c> said,</c><00:28:52.789><c> the</c><00:28:52.789><c> rules</c><00:28:53.289><c> of</c><00:28:53.670><c> this</c><00:28:53.970><c> house.</c>

00:28:56.210 --> 00:28:59.210
Rule<00:28:56.289><c> number</c><00:28:56.650><c> one,</c><00:28:57.210><c> father</c><00:28:57.509><c> is</c><00:28:57.809><c> always</c><00:28:58.170><c> right.</c>

00:29:00.529 --> 00:29:04.009
Rule<00:29:00.829><c> number</c><00:29:01.230><c> two,</c><00:29:01.710><c> when</c><00:29:01.950><c> father</c><00:29:02.230><c> is</c><00:29:02.509><c> wrong,</c><00:29:03.250><c> rule</c><00:29:03.369><c> number</c>

00:29:04.009 --> 00:29:05.769
one<00:29:04.670><c> applies.</c>

00:29:06.730 --> 00:29:08.509
Did<00:29:06.809><c> I</c><00:29:06.970><c> say</c><00:29:07.089><c> that</c><00:29:07.230><c> right?</c><00:29:07.490><c> Rule</c><00:29:07.650><c> number</c><00:29:07.869><c> one,</c><00:29:08.089><c> father</c><00:29:08.329><c> is</c>

00:29:08.509 --> 00:29:08.869
always<00:29:08.670><c> right.</c>

00:29:08.950 --> 00:29:10.490
Rule<00:29:09.089><c> number</c><00:29:09.289><c> two,</c><00:29:09.470><c> when</c><00:29:09.549><c> father</c><00:29:09.730><c> is</c><00:29:09.869><c> wrong,</c><00:29:10.130><c> rule</c><00:29:10.230><c> number</c>

00:29:10.490 --> 00:29:11.609
one<00:29:10.650><c> applies.</c>

00:29:11.930 --> 00:29:15.910
And<00:29:12.569><c> that's</c><00:29:13.109><c> the</c><00:29:13.250><c> attitude</c><00:29:13.650><c> of</c><00:29:14.009><c> some</c><00:29:14.430><c> men</c><00:29:14.849><c> in</c><00:29:15.250><c> their</c><00:29:15.549><c> home.</c>

00:29:16.170 --> 00:29:20.589
The<00:29:16.329><c> father</c><00:29:16.569><c> is</c><00:29:16.849><c> always</c><00:29:17.170><c> right,</c><00:29:18.230><c> and</c><00:29:18.309><c> he's</c><00:29:18.549><c> stubborn,</c><00:29:18.910><c> and</c><00:29:18.970><c> he's</c><00:29:19.190><c> going</c><00:29:19.329><c> to</c>

00:29:20.589 --> 00:29:22.390
let<00:29:20.910><c> everyone</c><00:29:21.369><c> know</c>

00:29:22.390 --> 00:29:28.089
that<00:29:23.109><c> he</c><00:29:23.650><c> is</c><00:29:24.269><c> king</c><00:29:25.309><c> of</c><00:29:26.730><c> the</c><00:29:26.990><c> house.</c>

00:29:29.150 --> 00:29:33.349
You<00:29:29.289><c> see,</c><00:29:29.970><c> if</c><00:29:30.369><c> the</c><00:29:30.549><c> father</c><00:29:30.890><c> is</c><00:29:31.450><c> trying</c><00:29:31.670><c> to</c><00:29:31.849><c> be</c><00:29:31.970><c> like</c><00:29:32.230><c> Christ,</c>

00:29:33.690 --> 00:29:36.670
he's<00:29:34.109><c> not</c><00:29:34.329><c> going</c><00:29:34.490><c> to</c><00:29:34.710><c> act</c><00:29:35.049><c> like</c><00:29:35.369><c> a</c><00:29:35.609><c> tyrant,</c>

00:29:37.109 --> 00:29:39.910
because<00:29:37.329><c> we</c><00:29:37.470><c> don't</c><00:29:37.609><c> want</c><00:29:37.789><c> Christ</c><00:29:38.069><c> to</c><00:29:38.269><c> act</c><00:29:38.369><c> like</c><00:29:38.630><c> that</c><00:29:38.990><c> to</c><00:29:39.210><c> us.</c>

00:29:39.910 --> 00:29:46.829
So,<00:29:41.630><c> there</c><00:29:41.849><c> are</c><00:29:42.150><c> twelve</c><00:29:42.470><c> words</c><00:29:43.130><c> which</c><00:29:43.970><c> I</c><00:29:44.809><c> believe</c><00:29:45.309><c> every</c><00:29:45.890><c> husband</c><00:29:46.430><c> and</c>

00:29:46.829 --> 00:29:49.589
wife<00:29:47.509><c> should</c><00:29:48.230><c> memorize,</c>

00:29:50.390 --> 00:29:54.549
and<00:29:50.410><c> they</c><00:29:50.569><c> should</c><00:29:50.829><c> say</c><00:29:51.109><c> them</c><00:29:51.309><c> to</c><00:29:51.470><c> each</c><00:29:51.769><c> other</c><00:29:52.710><c> many,</c><00:29:53.630><c> many</c><00:29:53.630><c> times.</c>

00:29:55.390 --> 00:29:58.450
Maybe<00:29:55.950><c> even</c><00:29:56.369><c> many</c><00:29:56.630><c> times</c><00:29:56.990><c> in</c><00:29:57.269><c> one</c><00:29:57.529><c> day.</c>

00:29:58.509 --> 00:30:00.970
And<00:29:58.630><c> the</c><00:29:58.789><c> twelve</c><00:29:58.990><c> words</c><00:29:59.390><c> are</c><00:29:59.730><c> these.</c>

00:30:01.990 --> 00:30:03.890
I<00:30:02.329><c> was</c><00:30:02.690><c> wrong.</c>

00:30:04.750 --> 00:30:06.450
I'm<00:30:05.329><c> sorry.</c>

00:30:07.369 --> 00:30:09.250
Please<00:30:07.690><c> forgive</c><00:30:08.089><c> me.</c>

00:30:09.789 --> 00:30:12.190
I<00:30:10.329><c> love</c><00:30:10.549><c> you.</c>

00:30:12.769 --> 00:30:18.150
And<00:30:12.849><c> when</c><00:30:13.130><c> we</c><00:30:13.529><c> say</c><00:30:13.769><c> those</c><00:30:14.130><c> words,</c><00:30:15.890><c> a</c><00:30:16.009><c> wonderful</c><00:30:16.410><c> thing</c><00:30:16.730><c> takes</c><00:30:17.109><c> place.</c>

00:30:18.309 --> 00:30:20.490
If<00:30:18.369><c> you</c><00:30:18.470><c> don't</c><00:30:18.730><c> believe</c><00:30:18.890><c> it,</c><00:30:19.069><c> just</c><00:30:19.349><c> start</c><00:30:19.809><c> using</c><00:30:20.190><c> them,</c><00:30:20.430><c> and</c>

00:30:20.490 --> 00:30:22.430
you<00:30:20.650><c> will</c><00:30:20.970><c> find</c><00:30:21.369><c> out.</c>

00:30:22.509 --> 00:30:25.349
Because<00:30:22.910><c> you</c><00:30:23.210><c> are</c><00:30:23.670><c> sometimes</c><00:30:24.289><c> wrong.</c>

00:30:26.089 --> 00:30:28.410
And<00:30:26.329><c> when</c><00:30:26.450><c> you're</c><00:30:26.630><c> wrong,</c><00:30:26.930><c> you</c><00:30:26.950><c> should</c><00:30:27.109><c> be</c><00:30:27.390><c> sorry.</c>

00:30:29.089 --> 00:30:31.029
And<00:30:29.309><c> when</c><00:30:29.450><c> you</c><00:30:29.869><c> have</c><00:30:30.069><c> done</c><00:30:30.190><c> something</c><00:30:30.450><c> wrong,</c><00:30:30.789><c> you</c><00:30:30.829><c> should</c>

00:30:31.029 --> 00:30:32.509
ask<00:30:31.289><c> for</c><00:30:31.549><c> forgiveness.</c>

00:30:32.930 --> 00:30:34.410
And<00:30:33.089><c> certainly</c><00:30:33.309><c> you</c><00:30:33.549><c> love</c><00:30:33.829><c> your</c><00:30:34.109><c> mate.</c>

00:30:34.910 --> 00:30:38.269
So,<00:30:35.430><c> how</c><00:30:35.789><c> anyone</c><00:30:36.250><c> can</c><00:30:36.529><c> not</c><00:30:36.769><c> say</c><00:30:37.009><c> these</c><00:30:37.309><c> words,</c><00:30:37.670><c> I</c><00:30:37.890><c> don't</c><00:30:38.089><c> know.</c>

00:30:38.269 --> 00:30:44.970
And<00:30:38.349><c> yet,</c><00:30:40.950><c> some</c><00:30:41.250><c> husbands</c><00:30:41.809><c> have</c><00:30:42.410><c> never</c><00:30:42.950><c> said</c><00:30:43.430><c> they</c><00:30:44.549><c> were</c><00:30:44.789><c> wrong.</c>

00:30:45.450 --> 00:30:46.789
A<00:30:45.569><c> little</c><00:30:45.769><c> story</c><00:30:45.990><c> that</c><00:30:46.190><c> goes</c><00:30:46.309><c> with</c><00:30:46.569><c> this.</c>

00:30:47.210 --> 00:30:51.049
We<00:30:47.210><c> were</c><00:30:47.750><c> in</c><00:30:47.849><c> New</c><00:30:48.109><c> Zealand</c><00:30:48.369><c> at</c><00:30:49.289><c> a</c><00:30:49.369><c> Bible</c><00:30:49.670><c> school</c><00:30:49.930><c> many</c><00:30:50.309><c> years</c><00:30:50.609><c> ago,</c>

00:30:51.410 --> 00:30:53.109
and<00:30:51.549><c> the</c><00:30:51.710><c> committee</c><00:30:51.910><c> came</c><00:30:52.170><c> to</c><00:30:52.349><c> me</c><00:30:52.509><c> one</c><00:30:52.710><c> day</c><00:30:52.869><c> and</c><00:30:52.950><c> they</c><00:30:53.009><c> said,</c>

00:30:53.230 --> 00:30:56.569
would<00:30:53.309><c> you</c><00:30:53.490><c> have</c><00:30:53.609><c> a</c><00:30:53.849><c> special</c><00:30:54.170><c> class</c><00:30:54.769><c> just</c><00:30:55.650><c> for</c><00:30:55.950><c> parents</c><00:30:56.289><c> of</c>

00:30:56.569 --> 00:30:59.930
teenagers<00:30:57.049><c> after</c><00:30:57.509><c> the</c><00:30:57.690><c> evening</c><00:30:57.970><c> program</c><00:30:58.730><c> one</c><00:30:59.509><c> night?</c>

00:31:00.049 --> 00:31:01.549
And<00:31:00.089><c> I</c><00:31:00.329><c> said,</c><00:31:00.509><c> sure.</c>

00:31:01.710 --> 00:31:03.930
So,<00:31:02.730><c> we</c><00:31:02.910><c> announced</c><00:31:03.349><c> it</c><00:31:03.609><c> and</c><00:31:03.730><c> all.</c>

00:31:04.130 --> 00:31:07.309
You<00:31:04.210><c> had</c><00:31:04.369><c> to</c><00:31:04.470><c> be</c><00:31:04.650><c> a</c><00:31:04.769><c> parent</c><00:31:04.970><c> of</c><00:31:05.210><c> teenagers</c><00:31:05.769><c> to</c><00:31:06.450><c> come</c><00:31:06.609><c> to</c><00:31:06.769><c> this</c><00:31:06.910><c> meeting.</c>

00:31:07.309 --> 00:31:10.910
And<00:31:08.130><c> so,</c><00:31:09.569><c> you</c><00:31:09.650><c> know,</c><00:31:09.990><c> we</c><00:31:10.289><c> didn't</c><00:31:10.450><c> know</c><00:31:10.549><c> what</c><00:31:10.630><c> we</c><00:31:10.769><c> were</c><00:31:10.809><c> going</c>

00:31:10.910 --> 00:31:11.289
to<00:31:11.069><c> do.</c>

00:31:11.450 --> 00:31:13.650
We<00:31:11.670><c> were</c><00:31:11.930><c> flying</c><00:31:12.170><c> by</c><00:31:12.309><c> the</c><00:31:12.450><c> seat</c><00:31:12.529><c> of</c><00:31:12.650><c> our</c><00:31:12.849><c> pants.</c>

00:31:13.769 --> 00:31:17.369
But<00:31:13.990><c> we</c><00:31:14.950><c> remembered</c><00:31:15.309><c> these</c><00:31:15.589><c> twelve</c><00:31:15.849><c> words,</c><00:31:16.250><c> and</c><00:31:16.369><c> so</c><00:31:16.569><c> we</c><00:31:17.089><c> used</c>

00:31:17.369 --> 00:31:18.529
these<00:31:17.630><c> in</c><00:31:17.730><c> our</c><00:31:18.029><c> talk,</c>

00:31:19.029 --> 00:31:21.849
talking<00:31:19.470><c> to</c><00:31:19.670><c> these</c><00:31:19.930><c> parents</c><00:31:20.410><c> of</c><00:31:20.690><c> teenagers.</c>

00:31:22.589 --> 00:31:25.109
And<00:31:22.769><c> after</c><00:31:22.990><c> the</c><00:31:23.269><c> class</c><00:31:23.450><c> was</c><00:31:23.769><c> over,</c><00:31:24.210><c> this</c><00:31:24.349><c> one</c><00:31:24.549><c> sister</c><00:31:24.829><c> turned</c>

00:31:25.109 --> 00:31:25.529
to<00:31:25.269><c> her</c><00:31:25.329><c> husband,</c>

00:31:25.630 --> 00:31:28.210
and<00:31:25.650><c> she</c><00:31:25.769><c> said,</c><00:31:25.869><c> well,</c><00:31:26.049><c> honey,</c><00:31:26.329><c> what</c><00:31:26.490><c> did</c><00:31:26.690><c> you</c><00:31:26.970><c> think</c><00:31:27.250><c> of</c><00:31:27.809><c> what</c>

00:31:28.210 --> 00:31:29.069
Bob<00:31:28.509><c> said?</c>

00:31:29.109 --> 00:31:33.130
And<00:31:29.309><c> he</c><00:31:29.470><c> said,</c><00:31:29.650><c> I</c><00:31:29.869><c> liked</c><00:31:30.470><c> the</c><00:31:30.950><c> plaque</c><00:31:31.269><c> on</c><00:31:31.829><c> the</c><00:31:32.089><c> wall.</c>

00:31:35.309 --> 00:31:40.549
And<00:31:35.950><c> she</c><00:31:36.230><c> came</c><00:31:36.630><c> to</c><00:31:36.849><c> me</c><00:31:37.509><c> in</c><00:31:37.910><c> tears</c><00:31:38.450><c> later</c><00:31:39.269><c> on,</c><00:31:39.970><c> unbeknown</c><00:31:40.390><c> to</c>

00:31:40.549 --> 00:31:40.849
her<00:31:40.650><c> husband,</c>

00:31:41.049 --> 00:31:44.250
and<00:31:41.069><c> said,</c><00:31:41.329><c> we</c><00:31:41.329><c> have</c><00:31:41.549><c> been</c><00:31:41.670><c> married</c><00:31:41.950><c> for</c><00:31:42.230><c> twenty</c><00:31:42.809><c>-three</c><00:31:43.009><c> years.</c>

00:31:44.829 --> 00:31:51.490
And<00:31:45.009><c> my</c><00:31:45.190><c> husband</c><00:31:45.470><c> has</c><00:31:45.809><c> never</c><00:31:46.170><c> once</c><00:31:46.630><c> said</c><00:31:47.029><c> he</c><00:31:47.329><c> was</c><00:31:47.670><c> sorry,</c><00:31:49.210><c> never</c><00:31:49.430><c> once</c><00:31:49.910><c> apologized,</c>

00:31:51.589 --> 00:31:55.069
and<00:31:51.950><c> never</c><00:31:52.269><c> once</c><00:31:52.769><c> confessed</c><00:31:53.410><c> that</c><00:31:53.690><c> he</c><00:31:53.849><c> was</c><00:31:54.109><c> wrong.</c>

00:31:56.630 --> 00:31:59.309
She<00:31:56.990><c> either</c><00:31:57.289><c> got</c><00:31:57.490><c> the</c><00:31:57.630><c> greatest</c><00:31:58.049><c> husband</c><00:31:58.369><c> I've</c><00:31:58.609><c> ever</c><00:31:58.950><c> seen,</c>

00:31:59.609 --> 00:32:01.630
never<00:31:59.930><c> wrong</c><00:32:00.210><c> in</c><00:32:00.430><c> twenty</c><00:32:00.710><c>-three</c><00:32:00.869><c> years,</c>

00:32:01.630 --> 00:32:05.009
or<00:32:02.549><c> she</c><00:32:02.730><c> has</c><00:32:02.930><c> a</c><00:32:03.109><c> husband</c><00:32:03.410><c> who</c><00:32:03.589><c> has</c><00:32:03.809><c> a</c><00:32:03.950><c> problem.</c>

00:32:05.730 --> 00:32:08.230
And<00:32:05.910><c> I</c><00:32:05.990><c> think</c><00:32:06.109><c> you</c><00:32:06.269><c> know</c><00:32:06.430><c> which</c><00:32:06.750><c> one</c><00:32:06.930><c> it</c><00:32:07.150><c> is.</c>

00:32:08.549 --> 00:32:10.849
See,<00:32:08.769><c> if</c><00:32:08.990><c> we're</c><00:32:09.349><c> stubborn,</c><00:32:09.769><c> we're</c><00:32:10.049><c> not</c><00:32:10.230><c> going</c><00:32:10.470><c> to</c><00:32:10.549><c> admit</c>

00:32:10.849 --> 00:32:11.410
we're<00:32:11.170><c> wrong.</c>

00:32:11.809 --> 00:32:14.769
I<00:32:12.009><c> have</c><00:32:12.269><c> heard</c><00:32:12.910><c> husbands</c><00:32:13.349><c> say,</c><00:32:13.690><c> well,</c><00:32:13.950><c> I</c><00:32:14.130><c> was</c><00:32:14.410><c> wrong,</c>

00:32:14.809 --> 00:32:17.009
but<00:32:15.150><c> I'm</c><00:32:15.410><c> not</c><00:32:15.549><c> going</c><00:32:15.730><c> to</c><00:32:15.869><c> give</c><00:32:15.990><c> her</c><00:32:16.250><c> the</c><00:32:16.390><c> comfort</c><00:32:16.690><c> of</c><00:32:16.890><c> knowing</c>

00:32:17.009 --> 00:32:18.869
that<00:32:17.230><c> because</c><00:32:17.369><c> she</c><00:32:17.589><c> was</c><00:32:17.849><c> too.</c>

00:32:19.329 --> 00:32:20.869
Well,<00:32:19.529><c> of</c><00:32:19.670><c> course,</c><00:32:19.769><c> she</c><00:32:19.890><c> may</c><00:32:20.109><c> have</c><00:32:20.190><c> been</c><00:32:20.289><c> wrong.</c>

00:32:21.670 --> 00:32:23.829
Usually<00:32:22.150><c> both</c><00:32:22.630><c> sides</c><00:32:22.890><c> have</c><00:32:23.069><c> some</c><00:32:23.309><c> wrong</c><00:32:23.490><c> in</c><00:32:23.630><c> them,</c>

00:32:23.849 --> 00:32:26.150
especially<00:32:24.170><c> once</c><00:32:24.450><c> the</c><00:32:24.670><c> argument</c><00:32:24.910><c> gets</c><00:32:25.210><c> going.</c>

00:32:26.210 --> 00:32:29.210
We<00:32:26.450><c> so</c><00:32:26.769><c> often</c><00:32:27.049><c> say</c><00:32:27.289><c> things</c><00:32:27.589><c> we</c><00:32:28.089><c> wish</c><00:32:28.329><c> we</c><00:32:28.549><c> hadn't</c><00:32:28.809><c> said.</c>

00:32:29.210 --> 00:32:31.809
So<00:32:30.250><c> one</c><00:32:30.430><c> of</c><00:32:30.490><c> the</c><00:32:30.529><c> things</c><00:32:30.650><c> is</c><00:32:30.829><c> to</c><00:32:30.950><c> always</c><00:32:31.269><c> delay.</c>

00:32:32.269 --> 00:32:36.210
Don't<00:32:32.609><c> say,</c><00:32:33.130><c> don't</c><00:32:33.450><c> act,</c><00:32:34.609><c> count</c><00:32:34.750><c> to</c><00:32:34.950><c> ten,</c><00:32:35.369><c> wait,</c>

00:32:36.390 --> 00:32:42.289
because<00:32:36.710><c> so</c><00:32:37.029><c> many</c><00:32:37.829><c> sins</c><00:32:38.289><c> can</c><00:32:38.670><c> be</c><00:32:38.970><c> avoided</c><00:32:39.710><c> if</c><00:32:41.210><c> we</c><00:32:41.509><c> would</c><00:32:41.730><c> just</c>

00:32:42.289 --> 00:32:44.730
wait<00:32:42.710><c> before</c><00:32:43.230><c> we</c><00:32:43.690><c> speak.</c>

00:32:45.970 --> 00:32:50.410
Even<00:32:46.369><c> dear</c><00:32:46.769><c> Moses,</c><00:32:47.829><c> the</c><00:32:47.829><c> meekest</c><00:32:48.250><c> man</c><00:32:48.529><c> on</c><00:32:48.809><c> the</c><00:32:48.950><c> face</c><00:32:49.190><c> of</c><00:32:49.329><c> the</c><00:32:49.470><c> earth,</c>

00:32:50.470 --> 00:32:54.950
spoke<00:32:50.789><c> unadvisedly</c><00:32:51.750><c> with</c><00:32:52.009><c> his</c><00:32:52.289><c> lips</c><00:32:52.829><c> when</c><00:32:53.490><c> he</c><00:32:53.630><c> was</c><00:32:53.869><c> angry.</c>

00:32:56.289 --> 00:32:58.750
He<00:32:56.930><c> was</c><00:32:57.109><c> kept</c><00:32:57.269><c> out</c><00:32:57.470><c> of</c><00:32:57.549><c> the</c><00:32:57.750><c> promised</c><00:32:57.970><c> land</c><00:32:58.190><c> for</c><00:32:58.410><c> this.</c>

00:32:58.750 --> 00:33:01.970
So<00:32:59.410><c> we</c><00:32:59.589><c> can't</c><00:32:59.789><c> say,</c><00:33:00.390><c> well,</c><00:33:00.630><c> I</c><00:33:00.829><c> was</c><00:33:01.089><c> sure</c><00:33:01.269><c> I</c><00:33:01.509><c> said</c><00:33:01.670><c> it,</c><00:33:01.789><c> but</c><00:33:01.869><c> I</c>

00:33:01.970 --> 00:33:02.569
was<00:33:02.230><c> mad,</c>

00:33:02.609 --> 00:33:03.990
so<00:33:02.750><c> that</c><00:33:02.930><c> makes</c><00:33:03.109><c> it</c><00:33:03.309><c> all</c><00:33:03.490><c> right.</c>

00:33:04.490 --> 00:33:06.390
No,<00:33:04.730><c> it</c><00:33:04.730><c> doesn't</c><00:33:05.029><c> make</c><00:33:05.230><c> it</c><00:33:05.390><c> all</c><00:33:05.589><c> right.</c>

00:33:06.569 --> 00:33:08.869
And<00:33:06.789><c> if</c><00:33:07.069><c> you</c><00:33:07.269><c> have</c><00:33:07.470><c> said</c><00:33:07.690><c> something</c><00:33:07.990><c> or</c><00:33:08.170><c> done</c><00:33:08.430><c> something</c><00:33:08.710><c> that</c>

00:33:08.869 --> 00:33:10.170
was<00:33:09.109><c> wrong,</c>

00:33:10.369 --> 00:33:11.190
go<00:33:10.569><c> to</c><00:33:10.789><c> your</c><00:33:10.990><c> maid.</c>

00:33:11.529 --> 00:33:14.630
I<00:33:11.789><c> was</c><00:33:12.150><c> wrong.</c><00:33:12.509><c> I'm</c><00:33:12.809><c> sorry.</c><00:33:13.089><c> Please</c><00:33:13.329><c> forgive</c><00:33:13.670><c> me.</c><00:33:13.890><c> I</c><00:33:14.009><c> love</c><00:33:14.269><c> you.</c>

00:33:15.049 --> 00:33:16.109
I'll<00:33:15.329><c> tell</c><00:33:15.329><c> you</c><00:33:15.470><c> a</c><00:33:15.529><c> little</c><00:33:15.690><c> story</c><00:33:15.869><c> about</c><00:33:15.970><c> it.</c>

00:33:16.109 --> 00:33:20.289
We<00:33:16.289><c> used</c><00:33:16.509><c> these</c><00:33:16.710><c> words</c><00:33:16.950><c> in</c><00:33:17.170><c> a</c><00:33:17.369><c> Florida</c><00:33:17.569><c> Bible</c><00:33:17.930><c> school</c><00:33:19.230><c> a</c><00:33:19.869><c> few</c>

00:33:20.289 --> 00:33:21.410
years<00:33:20.529><c> ago.</c>

00:33:21.470 --> 00:33:23.609
And<00:33:21.609><c> there</c><00:33:21.670><c> was</c><00:33:21.829><c> a</c><00:33:22.009><c> dear,</c><00:33:22.250><c> dear</c><00:33:22.369><c> couple</c><00:33:22.789><c> at</c><00:33:22.990><c> the</c><00:33:23.130><c> Bible</c><00:33:23.390><c> school.</c>

00:33:23.670 --> 00:33:25.869
They<00:33:23.789><c> were</c><00:33:24.089><c> up</c><00:33:24.329><c> in</c><00:33:24.470><c> their</c><00:33:24.730><c> 80s.</c>

00:33:25.869 --> 00:33:28.750
Of<00:33:26.390><c> course,</c><00:33:26.490><c> there</c><00:33:26.549><c> was</c><00:33:26.630><c> a</c><00:33:26.710><c> lot</c><00:33:26.849><c> of</c><00:33:26.930><c> people</c><00:33:27.130><c> in</c><00:33:27.250><c> their</c><00:33:27.390><c> 80s</c><00:33:27.690><c> in</c><00:33:27.829><c> Florida.</c>

00:33:29.569 --> 00:33:32.049
It's<00:33:29.710><c> sort</c><00:33:29.890><c> of</c><00:33:30.049><c> a</c><00:33:30.130><c> geriatric</c><00:33:30.650><c> Bible</c><00:33:31.029><c> school,</c><00:33:31.390><c> but</c><00:33:31.470><c> it's</c><00:33:32.009><c> a</c>

00:33:32.049 --> 00:33:33.930
wonderful<00:33:32.589><c> Bible</c><00:33:32.970><c> school.</c>

00:33:34.230 --> 00:33:36.690
But<00:33:34.410><c> the</c><00:33:34.809><c> Bible</c><00:33:35.069><c> school</c><00:33:35.329><c> ends,</c><00:33:35.769><c> and</c><00:33:35.910><c> then</c><00:33:36.029><c> there</c><00:33:36.109><c> was</c><00:33:36.190><c> a</c><00:33:36.309><c> couple</c><00:33:36.450><c> days,</c>

00:33:36.809 --> 00:33:40.029
and<00:33:36.809><c> we</c><00:33:36.950><c> had</c><00:33:37.690><c> a</c><00:33:38.150><c> meeting</c><00:33:38.309><c> at</c><00:33:38.470><c> one</c><00:33:38.630><c> of</c><00:33:38.769><c> the</c><00:33:38.849><c> Ecclesias.</c>

00:33:40.109 --> 00:33:44.529
And<00:33:40.390><c> this</c><00:33:40.690><c> very</c><00:33:41.269><c> genteel,</c><00:33:41.970><c> lovely</c><00:33:42.410><c> couple</c><00:33:42.829><c> came</c><00:33:43.130><c> up</c><00:33:43.349><c> to</c><00:33:43.529><c> me</c><00:33:44.089><c> at</c>

00:33:44.529 --> 00:33:45.589
the<00:33:44.690><c> meeting</c><00:33:44.930><c> on</c><00:33:45.150><c> the</c><00:33:45.349><c> Sunday</c>

00:33:45.589 --> 00:33:49.190
after<00:33:45.869><c> the</c><00:33:46.049><c> Bible</c><00:33:46.309><c> school</c><00:33:46.609><c> had</c><00:33:46.890><c> ended</c><00:33:47.150><c> on</c><00:33:47.849><c> Friday</c><00:33:48.150><c> or</c><00:33:48.349><c> Saturday.</c>

00:33:49.769 --> 00:33:53.089
And<00:33:49.910><c> they</c><00:33:49.970><c> said,</c><00:33:50.049><c> we</c><00:33:50.190><c> went</c><00:33:50.490><c> back</c><00:33:51.089><c> home</c><00:33:51.369><c> to</c><00:33:51.670><c> our</c><00:33:52.589><c> condominium</c>

00:33:53.089 --> 00:33:54.910
apartment<00:33:53.589><c> in</c><00:33:54.410><c> Florida,</c>

00:33:54.910 --> 00:34:04.170
and<00:33:55.809><c> the</c><00:33:59.369><c> smoke</c><00:34:00.369><c> detector</c><00:34:01.349><c> alarm</c><00:34:01.730><c> got</c><00:34:02.789><c> stuck</c><00:34:03.150><c> on.</c>

00:34:04.650 --> 00:34:06.470
And<00:34:04.650><c> of</c><00:34:04.809><c> course,</c><00:34:04.829><c> you</c><00:34:04.849><c> know</c><00:34:05.009><c> that</c><00:34:05.250><c> shrill</c><00:34:05.670><c> noise.</c>

00:34:07.430 --> 00:34:10.329
So<00:34:07.789><c> the</c><00:34:08.409><c> brother</c><00:34:08.610><c> gets</c><00:34:08.889><c> on</c><00:34:09.110><c> a</c><00:34:09.369><c> chair,</c>

00:34:10.690 --> 00:34:15.449
and<00:34:10.710><c> he's</c><00:34:10.989><c> trying</c><00:34:11.329><c> to</c><00:34:11.690><c> get</c><00:34:11.909><c> this</c><00:34:13.389><c> smoke</c><00:34:13.610><c> alarm</c><00:34:13.909><c> to</c><00:34:14.269><c> go</c><00:34:14.590><c> off.</c>

00:34:15.929 --> 00:34:18.170
And<00:34:16.329><c> it's</c><00:34:16.469><c> still</c><00:34:16.769><c> going,</c><00:34:17.090><c> and</c><00:34:17.210><c> of</c><00:34:17.269><c> course,</c><00:34:17.530><c> this</c><00:34:17.710><c> noise</c><00:34:17.989><c> is</c>

00:34:18.170 --> 00:34:19.690
really<00:34:18.469><c> jangling</c><00:34:19.110><c> her</c><00:34:19.349><c> ears.</c>

00:34:20.070 --> 00:34:22.510
And<00:34:20.150><c> she</c><00:34:20.329><c> said,</c><00:34:20.590><c> well,</c><00:34:20.769><c> hurry</c><00:34:21.050><c> up.</c><00:34:21.289><c> And</c><00:34:21.349><c> he</c><00:34:21.429><c> said,</c><00:34:21.590><c> I</c><00:34:21.750><c> am</c><00:34:22.050><c> hurrying.</c>

00:34:22.510 --> 00:34:27.210
And<00:34:23.170><c> finally,</c><00:34:24.329><c> he</c><00:34:24.469><c> got</c><00:34:24.650><c> it</c><00:34:24.889><c> off,</c><00:34:25.809><c> and</c><00:34:25.929><c> he</c><00:34:26.110><c> got</c><00:34:26.329><c> off</c><00:34:26.570><c> the</c><00:34:26.789><c> chair,</c>

00:34:27.710 --> 00:34:29.730
and<00:34:27.829><c> they</c><00:34:27.909><c> looked</c><00:34:28.030><c> at</c><00:34:28.170><c> each</c><00:34:28.389><c> other,</c><00:34:28.690><c> and</c><00:34:28.730><c> they</c><00:34:28.869><c> said</c><00:34:29.190><c> together,</c>

00:34:29.949 --> 00:34:33.949
I<00:34:30.170><c> was</c><00:34:30.489><c> wrong.</c><00:34:30.829><c> I'm</c><00:34:31.190><c> sorry.</c><00:34:31.630><c> Please</c><00:34:31.929><c> forgive</c><00:34:32.269><c> me.</c><00:34:32.530><c> I</c><00:34:32.730><c> love</c><00:34:32.969><c> you.</c>

00:34:34.989 --> 00:34:37.309
Both<00:34:35.289><c> of</c><00:34:35.489><c> them</c><00:34:35.610><c> had</c><00:34:35.809><c> gotten</c><00:34:36.070><c> jangled</c><00:34:36.570><c> nerves</c><00:34:36.869><c> over</c><00:34:37.110><c> this</c>

00:34:37.309 --> 00:34:38.610
little<00:34:37.610><c> incident,</c>

00:34:38.869 --> 00:34:40.610
and<00:34:39.030><c> both</c><00:34:39.289><c> of</c><00:34:39.489><c> them,</c><00:34:39.570><c> and</c><00:34:39.730><c> he</c><00:34:39.809><c> said,</c><00:34:39.909><c> we</c><00:34:40.030><c> fell</c><00:34:40.250><c> into</c><00:34:40.389><c> each</c>

00:34:40.610 --> 00:34:41.929
other's<00:34:41.010><c> arms.</c>

00:34:42.190 --> 00:34:44.730
So<00:34:42.369><c> you</c><00:34:42.489><c> see,</c><00:34:42.650><c> this</c><00:34:42.849><c> kind</c><00:34:42.989><c> of</c><00:34:43.090><c> thing</c><00:34:43.210><c> works,</c><00:34:44.369><c> but</c><00:34:44.489><c> it</c><00:34:44.610><c> doesn't</c>

00:34:44.730 --> 00:34:46.170
work<00:34:44.909><c> if</c><00:34:45.010><c> you</c><00:34:45.130><c> don't</c><00:34:45.309><c> work</c><00:34:45.590><c> it.</c>

00:34:46.170 --> 00:34:52.110
And<00:34:46.750><c> so</c><00:34:46.949><c> I</c><00:34:47.110><c> believe</c><00:34:47.409><c> that</c><00:34:47.750><c> we</c><00:34:48.210><c> need</c><00:34:48.690><c> to</c><00:34:49.489><c> be</c><00:34:49.829><c> willing</c><00:34:50.429><c> to</c><00:34:51.690><c> say</c><00:34:51.889><c> we</c>

00:34:52.110 --> 00:34:53.610
were<00:34:52.210><c> wrong.</c>

00:34:53.750 --> 00:34:59.130
In<00:34:53.750><c> fact,</c><00:34:55.849><c> 1</c><00:34:55.889><c> John</c><00:34:56.130><c> 1</c><00:34:56.489><c>.9,</c><00:34:58.289><c> the</c><00:34:58.409><c> biggest</c><00:34:58.550><c> little</c><00:34:58.789><c> word</c><00:34:58.949><c> in</c><00:34:59.050><c> the</c>

00:34:59.130 --> 00:35:00.630
English<00:34:59.329><c> language</c><00:34:59.650><c> is</c><00:34:59.789><c> if.</c>

00:35:01.110 --> 00:35:06.590
If<00:35:01.110><c> we</c><00:35:01.670><c> confess</c><00:35:02.030><c> our</c><00:35:02.389><c> sins,</c><00:35:04.030><c> he</c><00:35:04.210><c> is</c><00:35:04.369><c> faithful</c><00:35:04.670><c> and</c><00:35:04.969><c> just</c><00:35:05.369><c> to</c><00:35:06.110><c> forgive</c><00:35:06.369><c> us</c>

00:35:06.590 --> 00:35:07.030
our<00:35:06.769><c> sins</c>

00:35:07.030 --> 00:35:08.710
and<00:35:07.190><c> to</c><00:35:07.369><c> cleanse</c><00:35:07.489><c> us</c><00:35:07.650><c> from</c><00:35:07.849><c> all</c><00:35:08.010><c> unrighteousness.</c>

00:35:08.829 --> 00:35:11.210
And<00:35:08.989><c> if</c><00:35:09.070><c> you</c><00:35:09.250><c> don't</c><00:35:09.550><c> confess</c><00:35:09.949><c> them,</c><00:35:10.150><c> you've</c><00:35:10.329><c> still</c><00:35:10.610><c> got</c><00:35:10.829><c> the</c><00:35:11.030><c> sins.</c>

00:35:11.230 --> 00:35:13.369
And<00:35:11.369><c> if</c><00:35:11.409><c> you</c><00:35:11.610><c> take</c><00:35:11.829><c> sins</c><00:35:12.050><c> to</c><00:35:12.250><c> the</c><00:35:12.449><c> judgment</c><00:35:12.650><c> seat,</c><00:35:12.909><c> you're</c><00:35:13.130><c> going</c><00:35:13.230><c> to</c>

00:35:13.369 --> 00:35:14.510
be<00:35:13.530><c> condemned.</c>

00:35:14.550 --> 00:35:16.610
You<00:35:14.969><c> can</c><00:35:15.130><c> go</c><00:35:15.289><c> to</c><00:35:15.429><c> the</c><00:35:15.570><c> judgment</c><00:35:15.750><c> seat</c><00:35:15.889><c> with</c><00:35:16.090><c> no</c><00:35:16.369><c> sins.</c>

00:35:16.670 --> 00:35:19.690
Not<00:35:16.849><c> that</c><00:35:17.010><c> you</c><00:35:17.170><c> haven't</c><00:35:17.449><c> sinned,</c><00:35:18.590><c> because</c><00:35:18.909><c> the</c><00:35:19.070><c> Lord</c><00:35:19.190><c> is</c><00:35:19.329><c> willing</c><00:35:19.469><c> to</c>

00:35:19.690 --> 00:35:20.570
forgive<00:35:19.869><c> every</c><00:35:20.210><c> one</c><00:35:20.369><c> of</c><00:35:20.469><c> them</c>

00:35:20.570 --> 00:35:22.070
and<00:35:20.769><c> cast</c><00:35:20.949><c> them</c><00:35:21.090><c> behind</c><00:35:21.329><c> his</c><00:35:21.590><c> back.</c>

00:35:22.550 --> 00:35:25.150
But<00:35:22.670><c> if</c><00:35:22.789><c> you</c><00:35:22.869><c> go</c><00:35:23.010><c> to</c><00:35:23.090><c> the</c><00:35:23.309><c> judgment</c><00:35:23.510><c> seat</c><00:35:23.769><c> with</c><00:35:24.070><c> unforgiven</c><00:35:24.670><c> sins,</c>

00:35:25.190 --> 00:35:27.809
they're<00:35:25.409><c> going</c><00:35:25.610><c> to</c><00:35:25.869><c> cause</c><00:35:26.090><c> you</c><00:35:26.409><c> to</c><00:35:26.570><c> be</c><00:35:26.769><c> rejected.</c>

00:35:28.730 --> 00:35:33.530
And<00:35:28.869><c> so</c><00:35:28.969><c> it's</c><00:35:29.170><c> so</c><00:35:29.510><c> important</c><00:35:29.929><c> that</c><00:35:30.130><c> we</c><00:35:30.269><c> confess</c><00:35:30.650><c> our</c><00:35:30.969><c> sins</c><00:35:31.469><c> to</c><00:35:32.489><c> God.</c>

00:35:34.449 --> 00:35:39.030
It's<00:35:34.789><c> important</c><00:35:35.150><c> that</c><00:35:35.309><c> we</c><00:35:35.449><c> confess</c><00:35:35.829><c> our</c><00:35:36.150><c> sins</c><00:35:36.969><c> to</c><00:35:37.929><c> our</c><00:35:38.210><c> mates.</c>

00:35:39.590 --> 00:35:43.210
It's<00:35:40.110><c> important</c><00:35:40.530><c> for</c><00:35:40.869><c> parents</c><00:35:41.250><c> to</c><00:35:41.489><c> confess</c><00:35:41.869><c> their</c><00:35:42.230><c> sins</c><00:35:42.690><c> to</c>

00:35:43.210 --> 00:35:44.909
their<00:35:43.550><c> children,</c>

00:35:46.210 --> 00:35:47.849
because<00:35:46.289><c> you're</c><00:35:46.489><c> not</c><00:35:46.789><c> perfect.</c>

00:35:47.969 --> 00:35:51.210
You're<00:35:48.329><c> trying</c><00:35:48.510><c> your</c><00:35:48.809><c> best</c><00:35:49.010><c> to</c><00:35:49.150><c> be</c><00:35:49.309><c> a</c><00:35:49.389><c> good</c><00:35:49.690><c> parent,</c><00:35:50.750><c> but</c><00:35:50.949><c> you</c>

00:35:51.210 --> 00:35:52.730
make<00:35:51.449><c> mistakes.</c>

00:35:53.210 --> 00:35:55.769
And<00:35:53.449><c> they</c><00:35:53.750><c> know</c><00:35:54.070><c> you</c><00:35:54.389><c> make</c><00:35:54.590><c> mistakes.</c>

00:35:56.050 --> 00:35:58.750
And<00:35:56.190><c> one</c><00:35:56.309><c> of</c><00:35:56.409><c> the</c><00:35:56.510><c> most</c><00:35:56.849><c> wonderful</c><00:35:57.449><c> things</c><00:35:57.710><c> you</c><00:35:57.849><c> can</c><00:35:58.110><c> do</c><00:35:58.230><c> is</c><00:35:58.389><c> have</c><00:35:58.570><c> a</c>

00:35:58.750 --> 00:35:59.869
family<00:35:59.210><c> conference</c>

00:35:59.869 --> 00:36:02.510
and<00:36:00.469><c> get</c><00:36:00.650><c> all</c><00:36:00.849><c> the</c><00:36:01.030><c> children</c><00:36:01.250><c> together,</c><00:36:01.630><c> even</c><00:36:01.949><c> down</c><00:36:02.210><c> to</c><00:36:02.349><c> the</c>

00:36:02.510 --> 00:36:03.130
little<00:36:02.710><c> ones,</c>

00:36:03.210 --> 00:36:06.130
and<00:36:03.349><c> say</c><00:36:03.590><c> we're</c><00:36:04.130><c> going</c><00:36:04.210><c> to</c><00:36:04.309><c> have</c><00:36:04.409><c> a</c><00:36:04.510><c> little</c><00:36:04.730><c> meeting</c><00:36:04.989><c> of</c><00:36:05.409><c> the</c><00:36:05.610><c> family.</c>

00:36:06.130 --> 00:36:08.909
And<00:36:06.809><c> Mom</c><00:36:06.949><c> and</c><00:36:07.150><c> Daddy</c><00:36:07.309><c> will</c><00:36:07.489><c> have</c><00:36:07.590><c> something</c><00:36:07.789><c> to</c><00:36:08.090><c> tell</c><00:36:08.369><c> you.</c>

00:36:09.190 --> 00:36:12.269
We<00:36:09.469><c> have</c><00:36:09.730><c> made</c><00:36:10.010><c> some</c><00:36:10.250><c> mistakes</c><00:36:10.909><c> in</c><00:36:11.269><c> raising</c><00:36:11.590><c> you,</c>

00:36:12.389 --> 00:36:15.750
and<00:36:12.670><c> we're</c><00:36:13.130><c> sorry</c><00:36:13.530><c> and</c><00:36:13.750><c> we</c><00:36:13.909><c> want</c><00:36:14.010><c> you</c><00:36:14.130><c> to</c><00:36:14.349><c> forgive</c><00:36:14.690><c> us.</c>

00:36:16.210 --> 00:36:19.429
You<00:36:16.329><c> will</c><00:36:16.510><c> be</c><00:36:16.670><c> amazed</c><00:36:17.449><c> at</c><00:36:17.849><c> the</c><00:36:18.050><c> reaction</c><00:36:18.409><c> of</c><00:36:18.710><c> little</c><00:36:19.010><c> children</c>

00:36:19.429 --> 00:36:20.289
to<00:36:19.630><c> their</c><00:36:19.889><c> parents</c>

00:36:20.289 --> 00:36:24.050
when<00:36:20.789><c> the</c><00:36:21.070><c> parent</c><00:36:21.210><c> is</c><00:36:21.650><c> big</c><00:36:21.889><c> enough</c><00:36:22.289><c> to</c><00:36:22.769><c> confess</c><00:36:23.170><c> their</c><00:36:23.610><c> sins</c>

00:36:24.050 --> 00:36:25.449
to<00:36:24.269><c> their</c><00:36:24.510><c> children.</c>

00:36:25.929 --> 00:36:27.869
We<00:36:26.170><c> did</c><00:36:26.349><c> this</c><00:36:26.510><c> at</c><00:36:26.690><c> our</c><00:36:26.909><c> house.</c>

00:36:28.030 --> 00:36:32.550
We<00:36:28.289><c> came</c><00:36:28.510><c> home</c><00:36:28.690><c> from</c><00:36:28.869><c> a</c><00:36:29.329><c> conference</c><00:36:29.949><c> and</c><00:36:31.250><c> had</c><00:36:31.690><c> learned</c><00:36:31.989><c> some</c>

00:36:32.550 --> 00:36:33.349
of<00:36:32.670><c> these</c><00:36:32.829><c> principles.</c>

00:36:33.349 --> 00:36:35.670
And<00:36:33.989><c> we</c><00:36:34.409><c> came</c><00:36:34.690><c> home</c><00:36:34.909><c> and</c><00:36:35.030><c> the</c><00:36:35.150><c> first</c><00:36:35.289><c> thing</c><00:36:35.429><c> we</c><00:36:35.590><c> did,</c>

00:36:35.929 --> 00:36:39.289
we<00:36:36.030><c> called</c><00:36:36.190><c> everybody</c><00:36:36.610><c> into</c><00:36:36.829><c> the</c><00:36:36.969><c> living</c><00:36:37.190><c> room</c><00:36:37.409><c> and</c><00:36:37.789><c> we</c><00:36:38.210><c> confessed</c><00:36:38.630><c> our</c><00:36:38.969><c> sins.</c>

00:36:39.469 --> 00:36:42.769
And<00:36:39.690><c> there</c><00:36:39.809><c> was</c><00:36:39.949><c> a</c><00:36:40.050><c> lot</c><00:36:40.250><c> of</c><00:36:40.610><c> crying</c><00:36:40.929><c> and</c><00:36:41.269><c> a</c><00:36:41.369><c> lot</c><00:36:41.610><c> of</c><00:36:41.809><c> hugging</c><00:36:42.070><c> and</c><00:36:42.690><c> a</c>

00:36:42.769 --> 00:36:43.510
lot<00:36:42.949><c> of</c><00:36:43.150><c> forgiving.</c>

00:36:43.989 --> 00:36:47.349
And<00:36:44.269><c> our</c><00:36:44.550><c> family</c><00:36:44.969><c> got</c><00:36:45.389><c> better</c><00:36:45.789><c> just</c><00:36:46.050><c> from</c><00:36:46.230><c> that</c><00:36:46.469><c> one</c><00:36:46.690><c> little</c><00:36:46.909><c> incident</c>

00:36:47.349 --> 00:36:50.590
of<00:36:47.769><c> us</c><00:36:47.969><c> being</c><00:36:48.269><c> willing</c><00:36:48.590><c> to</c><00:36:48.989><c> say</c><00:36:49.210><c> I</c><00:36:49.409><c> was</c><00:36:49.730><c> wrong,</c><00:36:49.989><c> I'm</c><00:36:50.309><c> sorry.</c>

00:36:50.809 --> 00:36:53.030
Please<00:36:51.090><c> forgive</c><00:36:51.449><c> me,</c><00:36:51.650><c> I</c><00:36:51.869><c> love</c><00:36:52.110><c> you.</c>

00:36:53.449 --> 00:36:56.130
So<00:36:53.710><c> if</c><00:36:53.809><c> you</c><00:36:53.969><c> can't</c><00:36:54.230><c> say</c><00:36:54.389><c> those</c><00:36:54.610><c> words,</c><00:36:55.010><c> learn</c><00:36:55.210><c> them.</c>

00:36:56.150 --> 00:36:58.969
And<00:36:56.449><c> practice</c><00:36:56.730><c> them</c><00:36:56.949><c> to</c><00:36:57.190><c> yourself</c><00:36:57.570><c> until</c><00:36:57.789><c> you</c><00:36:57.949><c> can</c><00:36:58.250><c> say</c><00:36:58.489><c> them</c>

00:36:58.969 --> 00:37:00.329
to<00:36:59.349><c> the</c><00:36:59.530><c> ones</c><00:36:59.670><c> you</c><00:37:00.010><c> love.</c>

00:37:00.329 --> 00:37:04.949
They<00:37:01.010><c> will</c><00:37:01.230><c> have</c><00:37:01.369><c> a</c><00:37:01.510><c> tremendous</c><00:37:02.449><c> change</c><00:37:03.949><c> in</c><00:37:04.130><c> your</c><00:37:04.389><c> life</c><00:37:04.750><c> when</c>

00:37:04.949 --> 00:37:06.829
you<00:37:05.110><c> begin</c><00:37:05.349><c> to</c><00:37:05.610><c> do</c><00:37:05.789><c> that.</c>

00:37:10.570 --> 00:37:16.030
Those<00:37:10.710><c> are</c><00:37:11.409><c> the</c><00:37:11.809><c> four</c><00:37:12.030><c> foxes</c><00:37:12.550><c> that</c><00:37:12.670><c> can</c><00:37:12.889><c> run</c><00:37:13.110><c> amok</c><00:37:13.449><c> in</c><00:37:13.670><c> our</c><00:37:13.869><c> vineyard</c><00:37:14.329><c> of</c><00:37:14.670><c> love.</c>

00:37:17.469 --> 00:37:18.489
Confusion.

00:37:19.489 --> 00:37:22.869
We<00:37:19.630><c> get</c><00:37:19.809><c> so</c><00:37:20.050><c> busy,</c><00:37:20.889><c> the</c><00:37:20.929><c> world's</c><00:37:21.650><c> spinning</c><00:37:21.849><c> around</c><00:37:22.170><c> us,</c>

00:37:23.130 --> 00:37:26.010
we<00:37:23.889><c> don't</c><00:37:24.190><c> do</c><00:37:24.309><c> what</c><00:37:24.449><c> we</c><00:37:24.650><c> ought</c><00:37:24.769><c> to</c><00:37:24.949><c> do.</c>

00:37:26.269 --> 00:37:29.570
We<00:37:26.530><c> get</c><00:37:26.769><c> too</c><00:37:26.989><c> busy</c><00:37:27.789><c> to</c><00:37:28.230><c> do</c><00:37:28.329><c> the</c><00:37:28.570><c> confusion.</c>

00:37:30.550 --> 00:37:36.530
We<00:37:30.630><c> get</c><00:37:30.829><c> caught</c><00:37:31.030><c> up</c><00:37:31.269><c> in</c><00:37:32.269><c> a</c><00:37:32.550><c> routine</c><00:37:33.170><c> where</c><00:37:34.750><c> we</c><00:37:34.929><c> just</c><00:37:35.329><c> pass</c><00:37:35.590><c> like</c>

00:37:36.530 --> 00:37:37.489
ships<00:37:36.769><c> passing</c><00:37:37.130><c> in</c><00:37:37.329><c> the</c><00:37:37.409><c> night.</c>

00:37:37.630 --> 00:37:42.150
I<00:37:37.730><c> know</c><00:37:37.849><c> in</c><00:37:38.110><c> some</c><00:37:38.309><c> families,</c><00:37:39.530><c> of</c><00:37:39.670><c> course</c><00:37:39.829><c> the</c><00:37:39.969><c> husband</c><00:37:40.190><c> and</c><00:37:40.289><c> wife</c><00:37:40.630><c> both</c><00:37:40.889><c> have</c><00:37:41.110><c> to</c><00:37:41.389><c> work.</c>

00:37:42.730 --> 00:37:44.949
And<00:37:42.869><c> sometimes</c><00:37:43.050><c> even</c><00:37:43.289><c> the</c><00:37:43.469><c> husband</c><00:37:43.710><c> works</c><00:37:43.969><c> nights</c><00:37:44.289><c> and</c><00:37:44.949><c> the</c>

00:37:44.949 --> 00:37:46.349
sister<00:37:45.269><c> works</c><00:37:45.530><c> days</c><00:37:45.809><c> or</c><00:37:46.010><c> vice</c><00:37:46.230><c> versa.</c>

00:37:46.389 --> 00:37:48.789
They<00:37:46.550><c> just</c><00:37:46.730><c> like</c><00:37:46.869><c> ships</c><00:37:47.210><c> crossing</c><00:37:47.590><c> in</c><00:37:47.809><c> the</c><00:37:47.969><c> night.</c>

00:37:49.730 --> 00:37:53.530
No<00:37:50.050><c> time</c><00:37:50.309><c> for</c><00:37:50.570><c> communication</c><00:37:51.110><c> and</c><00:37:51.610><c> the</c><00:37:51.750><c> children</c><00:37:52.050><c> come</c><00:37:52.329><c> and</c><00:37:52.570><c> go.</c>

00:37:54.489 --> 00:37:57.510
We've<00:37:54.969><c> got</c><00:37:55.110><c> to</c><00:37:55.309><c> spend</c><00:37:55.510><c> time</c><00:37:55.789><c> with</c><00:37:55.949><c> each</c><00:37:56.170><c> other.</c>

00:37:58.369 --> 00:38:02.150
If<00:37:58.449><c> we</c><00:37:58.590><c> don't</c><00:37:58.730><c> spend</c><00:37:58.949><c> time</c><00:37:59.150><c> with</c><00:37:59.309><c> each</c><00:37:59.550><c> other,</c><00:38:00.150><c> we</c><00:38:00.409><c> have</c><00:38:00.590><c> a</c><00:38:00.829><c> big</c><00:38:01.110><c> problem.</c>

00:38:03.429 --> 00:38:04.750
Just<00:38:03.909><c> sit</c><00:38:04.309><c> down.</c>

00:38:05.230 --> 00:38:07.489
I<00:38:05.329><c> think</c><00:38:05.570><c> meal</c><00:38:05.829><c> time</c><00:38:05.949><c> is</c><00:38:06.070><c> very</c><00:38:06.369><c> important.</c>

00:38:08.269 --> 00:38:11.050
Meal<00:38:08.489><c> time,</c><00:38:08.969><c> I</c><00:38:08.969><c> know</c><00:38:09.210><c> in</c><00:38:09.269><c> some</c><00:38:09.429><c> families</c><00:38:09.610><c> they</c><00:38:09.769><c> never</c><00:38:10.010><c> eat</c><00:38:10.170><c> together.</c>

00:38:11.610 --> 00:38:14.570
It's<00:38:12.090><c> in</c><00:38:12.329><c> the</c><00:38:12.510><c> fridge,</c><00:38:12.829><c> you</c><00:38:12.949><c> go</c><00:38:13.030><c> get</c><00:38:13.230><c> it,</c><00:38:13.690><c> so</c><00:38:13.989><c> everybody</c><00:38:14.269><c> eats</c>

00:38:14.570 --> 00:38:16.289
it<00:38:14.909><c> at</c><00:38:15.070><c> a</c><00:38:15.210><c> different</c><00:38:15.409><c> time.</c>

00:38:16.309 --> 00:38:20.610
Quality<00:38:16.690><c> time</c><00:38:17.349><c> together</c><00:38:18.269><c> around</c><00:38:18.889><c> a</c><00:38:19.090><c> meal</c><00:38:19.389><c> is</c><00:38:19.769><c> important.</c>

00:38:20.610 --> 00:38:28.150
So<00:38:22.250><c> being</c><00:38:24.329><c> too</c><00:38:25.650><c> busy</c><00:38:26.090><c> is</c><00:38:26.530><c> one</c><00:38:26.730><c> of</c><00:38:26.849><c> the</c><00:38:27.010><c> foxes.</c>

00:38:30.230 --> 00:38:34.170
To<00:38:30.550><c> be</c><00:38:30.750><c> insensitive</c><00:38:31.429><c> is</c><00:38:32.469><c> one</c><00:38:32.690><c> of</c><00:38:33.030><c> the</c><00:38:33.030><c> foxes.</c>

00:38:34.969 --> 00:38:43.849
Not<00:38:35.170><c> to</c><00:38:36.530><c> be</c><00:38:39.849><c> aware</c><00:38:40.570><c> of</c><00:38:41.750><c> how</c><00:38:42.070><c> the</c><00:38:42.170><c> other</c><00:38:42.369><c> person</c><00:38:42.670><c> feels.</c>

00:38:44.449 --> 00:38:48.010
Study<00:38:44.889><c> your</c><00:38:45.230><c> mate</c><00:38:45.489><c> and</c><00:38:47.110><c> ask</c><00:38:47.530><c> him.</c>

00:38:48.269 --> 00:38:52.389
Say,<00:38:48.489><c> honey,</c><00:38:49.949><c> did</c><00:38:50.010><c> I</c><00:38:51.050><c> offend</c><00:38:51.369><c> you?</c>

00:38:52.750 --> 00:38:54.449
Well,<00:38:53.150><c> yes</c><00:38:53.389><c> you</c><00:38:53.610><c> did.</c>

00:38:55.210 --> 00:38:57.429
What's<00:38:55.650><c> next?</c><00:38:55.909><c> I</c><00:38:56.030><c> was</c><00:38:56.210><c> wrong,</c><00:38:56.369><c> I'm</c><00:38:56.570><c> sorry,</c><00:38:56.809><c> please</c><00:38:56.969><c> forgive</c><00:38:57.190><c> me,</c><00:38:57.309><c> I</c>

00:38:57.429 --> 00:38:58.389
love<00:38:57.610><c> you.</c>

00:38:58.469 --> 00:39:00.630
I<00:38:58.670><c> didn't</c><00:38:59.010><c> know</c><00:38:59.610><c> I</c><00:39:00.110><c> offended</c><00:39:00.349><c> you.</c>

00:39:00.650 --> 00:39:03.829
Well,<00:39:00.929><c> you</c><00:39:01.090><c> came</c><00:39:01.349><c> home</c><00:39:01.710><c> and</c><00:39:02.110><c> you</c><00:39:02.389><c> slammed</c><00:39:02.590><c> the</c><00:39:02.789><c> door</c><00:39:02.949><c> or</c><00:39:03.110><c> I</c><00:39:03.269><c> came</c><00:39:03.469><c> home</c><00:39:03.670><c> and</c>

00:39:03.829 --> 00:39:05.510
you<00:39:04.150><c> didn't</c><00:39:04.349><c> even</c><00:39:04.630><c> say</c><00:39:04.789><c> hello</c><00:39:05.110><c> to</c><00:39:05.349><c> me.</c>

00:39:05.789 --> 00:39:07.750
I<00:39:06.050><c> went</c><00:39:06.210><c> in</c><00:39:06.329><c> the</c><00:39:06.449><c> bedroom,</c><00:39:06.690><c> I</c><00:39:06.769><c> thought</c><00:39:06.889><c> nobody</c><00:39:07.190><c> cares</c><00:39:07.550><c> whether</c>

00:39:07.750 --> 00:39:08.429
I<00:39:07.909><c> live</c><00:39:08.050><c> or</c><00:39:08.269><c> die.</c>

00:39:08.710 --> 00:39:09.829
These<00:39:08.989><c> kind</c><00:39:09.170><c> of</c><00:39:09.269><c> things</c><00:39:09.469><c> happen.</c>

00:39:09.829 --> 00:39:13.949
They're<00:39:10.570><c> little</c><00:39:10.949><c> things</c><00:39:11.130><c> that</c><00:39:11.349><c> grow</c><00:39:11.550><c> up</c><00:39:11.750><c> to</c><00:39:11.869><c> be</c><00:39:12.090><c> big</c><00:39:12.409><c> things.</c>

00:39:14.730 --> 00:39:18.550
The<00:39:14.969><c> relationships</c><00:39:15.429><c> we</c><00:39:15.630><c> have</c><00:39:15.750><c> with</c><00:39:15.909><c> each</c><00:39:16.150><c> other</c><00:39:16.489><c> are</c><00:39:17.090><c> very</c><00:39:17.630><c> precious.</c>

00:39:18.809 --> 00:39:21.769
We<00:39:19.130><c> have</c><00:39:19.329><c> to</c><00:39:19.389><c> make</c><00:39:19.670><c> sure</c><00:39:19.889><c> that</c><00:39:20.070><c> the</c><00:39:20.170><c> little</c><00:39:20.429><c> foxes</c><00:39:20.849><c> don't</c><00:39:21.070><c> spoil</c><00:39:21.469><c> the</c>

00:39:21.769 --> 00:39:24.309
vines<00:39:22.150><c> of</c><00:39:22.909><c> our</c><00:39:23.150><c> marriage.</c>

00:39:26.949 --> 00:39:30.250
And<00:39:27.510><c> then</c><00:39:28.070><c> parents</c><00:39:28.710><c> with</c><00:39:28.929><c> their</c><00:39:29.250><c> children.</c>

00:39:31.829 --> 00:39:34.010
I<00:39:31.829><c> think</c><00:39:32.070><c> parents</c><00:39:32.349><c> think</c><00:39:32.630><c> they</c><00:39:32.849><c> spend</c><00:39:33.050><c> more</c><00:39:33.309><c> time</c><00:39:33.630><c> with</c><00:39:33.789><c> their</c>

00:39:34.010 --> 00:39:35.250
children<00:39:34.349><c> than</c><00:39:34.650><c> they</c><00:39:34.869><c> do.</c>

00:39:35.250 --> 00:39:40.250
They<00:39:36.170><c> ran</c><00:39:36.389><c> an</c><00:39:36.630><c> experiment</c><00:39:37.329><c> with</c><00:39:39.010><c> some</c><00:39:39.409><c> one</c><00:39:39.570><c>-year</c><00:39:39.750><c>-old</c><00:39:39.889><c> children.</c>

00:39:40.429 --> 00:39:44.550
They<00:39:40.630><c> actually</c><00:39:41.050><c> put</c><00:39:41.289><c> a</c><00:39:41.769><c> little</c><00:39:41.989><c> device</c><00:39:42.349><c> on</c><00:39:42.590><c> the</c><00:39:42.809><c> children</c><00:39:43.250><c> to</c>

00:39:44.550 --> 00:39:48.590
record<00:39:45.010><c> how</c><00:39:45.309><c> much</c><00:39:45.650><c> time</c><00:39:46.050><c> daddy</c><00:39:46.369><c> spent</c><00:39:46.909><c> with</c><00:39:47.269><c> the</c><00:39:47.550><c> child.</c>

00:39:48.829 --> 00:39:52.289
Then<00:39:48.949><c> after</c><00:39:49.869><c> they</c><00:39:50.030><c> knew</c><00:39:50.170><c> the</c><00:39:50.389><c> answer,</c><00:39:50.670><c> they</c><00:39:50.889><c> polled</c><00:39:51.309><c> the</c><00:39:51.630><c> parents</c><00:39:51.949><c> to</c>

00:39:52.289 --> 00:39:54.449
see<00:39:52.469><c> how</c><00:39:52.710><c> much</c><00:39:52.929><c> time</c><00:39:53.190><c> they</c><00:39:53.469><c> spent.</c>

00:39:55.150 --> 00:39:59.389
And<00:39:55.250><c> the</c><00:39:55.630><c> father</c><00:39:55.929><c> said</c><00:39:56.170><c> they</c><00:39:56.349><c> spent</c><00:39:56.570><c> between</c><00:39:57.010><c> 15</c><00:39:57.449><c> to</c><00:39:57.630><c> 20</c><00:39:57.889><c> minutes</c><00:39:58.269><c> a</c><00:39:58.489><c> day</c>

00:39:59.389 --> 00:40:01.489
with<00:39:59.829><c> their</c><00:40:00.349><c> child.</c>

00:40:01.909 --> 00:40:13.969
And<00:40:02.590><c> the</c><00:40:02.789><c> actual</c><00:40:03.110><c> fact</c><00:40:03.389><c> was</c><00:40:03.989><c> there</c><00:40:04.829><c> were</c><00:40:05.090><c> three</c><00:40:05.409><c> encounters</c><00:40:06.110><c> of</c><00:40:07.230><c> 45</c><00:40:07.869><c> seconds</c><00:40:08.869><c> to</c><00:40:09.130><c> one</c><00:40:09.369><c> minute</c><00:40:10.050><c> three</c><00:40:11.030><c> times</c><00:40:11.809><c> in</c><00:40:12.550><c> a</c><00:40:12.650><c> day.</c>

00:40:15.130 --> 00:40:21.269
That<00:40:15.409><c> child</c><00:40:15.730><c> was</c><00:40:15.989><c> not</c><00:40:16.190><c> getting</c><00:40:16.449><c> to</c><00:40:16.690><c> know</c><00:40:16.889><c> daddy</c><00:40:17.230><c> in</c><00:40:18.710><c> three</c><00:40:19.449><c> minutes</c><00:40:20.150><c> spread</c><00:40:20.590><c> out</c>

00:40:21.269 --> 00:40:21.869
over<00:40:21.789><c> a</c><00:40:21.869><c> day.</c>

00:40:21.949 --> 00:40:26.090
The<00:40:22.090><c> father</c><00:40:22.329><c> thought</c><00:40:22.510><c> he</c><00:40:22.630><c> was</c><00:40:22.789><c> spending</c><00:40:22.989><c> 15</c><00:40:23.449><c> to</c><00:40:23.630><c> 20</c><00:40:23.869><c> minutes</c><00:40:24.349><c> a</c><00:40:25.070><c> day.</c>

00:40:26.190 --> 00:40:29.550
He<00:40:26.409><c> was</c><00:40:26.510><c> actually</c><00:40:26.769><c> spending</c><00:40:27.210><c> three</c><00:40:27.730><c> minutes</c><00:40:28.090><c> or</c><00:40:28.409><c> less.</c>

00:40:30.389 --> 00:40:36.090
So<00:40:31.070><c> these</c><00:40:31.750><c> are</c><00:40:31.889><c> the</c><00:40:32.010><c> kind</c><00:40:32.210><c> of</c><00:40:32.510><c> foxes</c><00:40:33.030><c> that</c><00:40:33.690><c> can</c><00:40:34.030><c> spoil</c><00:40:34.750><c> a</c><00:40:35.170><c> vineyard.</c>

00:40:36.289 --> 00:40:40.469
These<00:40:36.429><c> are</c><00:40:36.570><c> the</c><00:40:36.690><c> kind</c><00:40:36.829><c> of</c><00:40:36.969><c> things</c><00:40:37.210><c> that</c><00:40:37.510><c> can</c><00:40:37.849><c> cause</c><00:40:38.110><c> us</c><00:40:38.730><c> to</c><00:40:39.929><c> have</c><00:40:40.170><c> an</c>

00:40:40.469 --> 00:40:42.030
unhappy<00:40:40.809><c> marriage.</c>

00:40:42.590 --> 00:40:48.170
And<00:40:42.829><c> also</c><00:40:43.570><c> cause</c><00:40:44.150><c> us</c><00:40:44.929><c> to</c><00:40:46.429><c> not</c><00:40:46.650><c> worship</c><00:40:47.170><c> our</c><00:40:47.510><c> heavenly</c><00:40:47.809><c> father,</c>

00:40:48.510 --> 00:40:50.210
a<00:40:48.550><c> right</c><00:40:48.809><c> as</c><00:40:49.650><c> a</c><00:40:49.869><c> family.</c>

00:40:50.349 --> 00:40:57.429
Confusion,<00:40:51.130><c> too</c><00:40:51.429><c> busy,</c><00:40:53.949><c> too</c><00:40:54.230><c> insensitive,</c><00:40:56.050><c> and</c><00:40:56.190><c> to</c><00:40:56.309><c> be</c><00:40:56.590><c> stubborn.</c>

00:40:59.050 --> 00:41:04.070
But<00:40:59.329><c> there's</c><00:40:59.590><c> one</c><00:40:59.969><c> more</c><00:41:01.010><c> point</c><00:41:01.530><c> we</c><00:41:01.869><c> haven't</c><00:41:02.630><c> come</c><00:41:02.969><c> to</c><00:41:03.389><c> yet</c><00:41:03.809><c> in</c>

00:41:04.070 --> 00:41:09.170
Ephesians<00:41:04.550><c> 5,</c><00:41:07.590><c> verse</c><00:41:07.809><c> 18.</c>

00:41:10.710 --> 00:41:13.630
This<00:41:10.750><c> is</c><00:41:11.010><c> not</c><00:41:11.309><c> really</c><00:41:11.570><c> a</c><00:41:11.789><c> fox,</c><00:41:12.130><c> this</c><00:41:12.289><c> is</c><00:41:12.409><c> more</c><00:41:12.590><c> like</c><00:41:12.809><c> a</c><00:41:13.010><c> bull</c><00:41:13.349><c> in</c>

00:41:13.630 --> 00:41:15.030
the<00:41:13.869><c> china</c><00:41:14.150><c> shop.</c>

00:41:15.369 --> 00:41:20.690
Do<00:41:15.469><c> not</c><00:41:15.730><c> get</c><00:41:16.110><c> drunk</c><00:41:16.429><c> on</c><00:41:16.909><c> wine,</c><00:41:18.269><c> which</c><00:41:18.510><c> leads</c><00:41:18.849><c> to</c><00:41:19.050><c> dissipation.</c>

00:41:20.730 --> 00:41:24.130
Instead<00:41:21.110><c> be</c><00:41:21.389><c> filled</c><00:41:22.010><c> with</c><00:41:22.710><c> the</c><00:41:23.030><c> spirit.</c>

00:41:24.809 --> 00:41:28.269
Which<00:41:25.610><c> we</c><00:41:25.809><c> didn't</c><00:41:25.909><c> have</c><00:41:26.070><c> to</c><00:41:26.250><c> talk</c><00:41:26.510><c> about</c><00:41:26.889><c> this</c><00:41:27.289><c> problem,</c><00:41:27.809><c> but</c>

00:41:28.269 --> 00:41:36.949
it's<00:41:28.969><c> a</c><00:41:29.130><c> problem</c><00:41:29.789><c> in</c><00:41:31.010><c> the</c><00:41:31.230><c> brotherhood</c><00:41:32.869><c> of</c><00:41:34.590><c> someone</c><00:41:35.130><c> who</c><00:41:36.769><c> is</c>

00:41:36.949 --> 00:41:38.170
an<00:41:37.190><c> alcoholic.</c>

00:41:38.550 --> 00:41:43.369
Sometimes<00:41:38.730><c> they're</c><00:41:39.010><c> both</c><00:41:39.389><c> alcoholics,</c><00:41:41.289><c> and</c><00:41:41.389><c> some</c><00:41:41.530><c> very</c><00:41:42.030><c> respectable</c><00:41:42.510><c> brothers</c><00:41:43.050><c> and</c>

00:41:43.369 --> 00:41:46.510
sisters<00:41:43.730><c> are</c><00:41:44.409><c> closet</c><00:41:45.070><c> drinkers.</c>

00:41:47.050 --> 00:41:51.630
And<00:41:47.369><c> no</c><00:41:47.750><c> one</c><00:41:47.949><c> outside</c><00:41:48.469><c> the</c><00:41:48.789><c> home</c><00:41:49.030><c> even</c><00:41:49.409><c> knows</c><00:41:49.889><c> about</c><00:41:50.429><c> it.</c>

00:41:52.929 --> 00:41:56.409
But<00:41:53.530><c> drunkenness</c><00:41:54.130><c> can</c><00:41:54.570><c> keep</c><00:41:54.750><c> us</c><00:41:54.949><c> out</c><00:41:55.170><c> of</c><00:41:55.269><c> the</c><00:41:55.449><c> kingdom.</c>

00:41:57.309 --> 00:42:02.150
Paul<00:41:57.469><c> says</c><00:41:57.769><c> no</c><00:41:58.090><c> drunkards</c><00:41:58.789><c> will</c><00:41:59.530><c> inherit</c><00:42:00.050><c> the</c><00:42:00.489><c> kingdom</c><00:42:00.869><c> of</c><00:42:01.110><c> God.</c>

00:42:03.489 --> 00:42:08.489
And<00:42:04.090><c> so</c><00:42:04.690><c> if</c><00:42:05.829><c> it's</c><00:42:06.369><c> something</c><00:42:06.670><c> that's</c><00:42:07.230><c> a</c><00:42:07.349><c> problem</c><00:42:07.590><c> in</c><00:42:07.730><c> your</c><00:42:07.969><c> life,</c><00:42:08.449><c> the</c>

00:42:08.489 --> 00:42:11.130
first<00:42:08.690><c> thing</c><00:42:08.809><c> you</c><00:42:08.869><c> have</c><00:42:09.070><c> to</c><00:42:09.230><c> do</c><00:42:09.409><c> is</c><00:42:09.809><c> admit</c><00:42:10.429><c> it.</c>

00:42:11.570 --> 00:42:14.570
And<00:42:11.710><c> most</c><00:42:11.969><c> alcoholics</c><00:42:12.550><c> don't</c><00:42:13.110><c> admit</c><00:42:13.570><c> it.</c>

00:42:14.769 --> 00:42:18.269
They<00:42:15.210><c> will</c><00:42:15.650><c> not</c><00:42:16.170><c> accept</c><00:42:16.809><c> the</c><00:42:17.030><c> fact</c><00:42:17.230><c> that,</c><00:42:17.469><c> oh</c><00:42:17.590><c> I</c><00:42:17.730><c> have</c><00:42:17.969><c> a</c><00:42:18.130><c> drink</c>

00:42:18.269 --> 00:42:20.489
now<00:42:18.550><c> and</c><00:42:18.690><c> then,</c><00:42:18.769><c> I</c><00:42:18.949><c> drink</c><00:42:19.170><c> a</c><00:42:19.289><c> couple</c><00:42:19.489><c> of</c><00:42:19.690><c> beers,</c><00:42:19.949><c> but</c><00:42:20.070><c> you</c><00:42:20.130><c> know,</c><00:42:20.329><c> that</c>

00:42:20.489 --> 00:42:22.210
doesn't<00:42:20.730><c> bother</c><00:42:21.070><c> me.</c>

00:42:22.429 --> 00:42:26.010
And<00:42:22.550><c> they're</c><00:42:23.030><c> with</c><00:42:23.889><c> their</c><00:42:24.369><c> drinks</c><00:42:24.650><c> like</c><00:42:25.010><c> they</c><00:42:25.230><c> are</c><00:42:25.349><c> with</c><00:42:25.550><c> the</c><00:42:25.789><c> time.</c>

00:42:26.150 --> 00:42:28.750
They<00:42:26.269><c> thought</c><00:42:26.449><c> they</c><00:42:26.690><c> spent</c><00:42:26.849><c> more</c><00:42:27.190><c> time</c><00:42:27.670><c> with</c><00:42:28.190><c> their</c><00:42:28.429><c> children</c>

00:42:28.750 --> 00:42:30.909
than<00:42:28.909><c> they</c><00:42:29.110><c> did,</c><00:42:29.469><c> and</c><00:42:29.590><c> they</c><00:42:29.789><c> think</c><00:42:29.909><c> they</c><00:42:30.130><c> have</c><00:42:30.289><c> less</c><00:42:30.610><c> drinks</c>

00:42:30.909 --> 00:42:32.969
than<00:42:31.090><c> they</c><00:42:31.250><c> do</c><00:42:31.429><c> when</c><00:42:31.570><c> they</c><00:42:31.710><c> have</c><00:42:31.869><c> more.</c>

00:42:35.329 --> 00:42:39.949
But<00:42:35.769><c> we</c><00:42:36.210><c> have</c><00:42:36.409><c> to</c><00:42:36.670><c> recognize</c><00:42:37.230><c> that</c><00:42:37.969><c> if</c><00:42:38.369><c> this</c><00:42:38.630><c> is</c><00:42:38.909><c> a</c><00:42:39.110><c> problem,</c>

00:42:40.050 --> 00:42:41.690
we<00:42:40.329><c> have</c><00:42:40.570><c> to</c><00:42:40.769><c> deal</c><00:42:40.969><c> with</c><00:42:41.210><c> it.</c>

00:42:41.690 --> 00:42:43.769
And<00:42:42.710><c> you</c><00:42:42.809><c> can</c><00:42:43.010><c> get</c><00:42:43.170><c> help.</c>

00:42:43.989 --> 00:42:48.190
In<00:42:44.190><c> fact,</c><00:42:44.610><c> I</c><00:42:45.090><c> have</c><00:42:45.309><c> just</c><00:42:45.570><c> got</c><00:42:46.050><c> the</c><00:42:46.650><c> Christadelphian</c><00:42:47.110><c> tidings,</c>

00:42:48.250 --> 00:42:51.030
and<00:42:48.329><c> I</c><00:42:48.449><c> haven't</c><00:42:49.389><c> phoned</c><00:42:49.670><c> this</c><00:42:49.869><c> number</c><00:42:50.090><c> yet,</c><00:42:50.329><c> so</c><00:42:50.489><c> I</c><00:42:50.590><c> don't</c><00:42:50.809><c> know</c>

00:42:51.030 --> 00:42:51.969
what<00:42:51.389><c> it</c><00:42:51.630><c> is.</c>

00:42:52.269 --> 00:42:54.289
But<00:42:52.389><c> there's</c><00:42:53.050><c> a</c><00:42:53.090><c> phone</c><00:42:53.289><c> number</c><00:42:53.550><c> in</c><00:42:53.750><c> here.</c>

00:42:54.489 --> 00:42:56.309
Alcohol<00:42:54.989><c> Help</c><00:42:55.769><c> Line.</c>

00:42:56.670 --> 00:43:04.469
As<00:42:56.829><c> a</c><00:42:56.949><c> service</c><00:42:57.190><c> to</c><00:42:57.329><c> those</c><00:42:57.710><c> who</c><00:42:58.070><c> need</c><00:42:59.429><c> fully</c><00:43:00.010><c> confidential</c><00:43:00.690><c> help,</c><00:43:02.329><c> overcome</c><00:43:02.769><c> alcohol</c><00:43:03.230><c> dependency,</c><00:43:03.969><c> phone,</c><00:43:04.349><c> and</c>

00:43:04.469 --> 00:43:06.190
there's<00:43:04.610><c> an</c><00:43:04.750><c> 800</c><00:43:05.070><c> phone</c><00:43:05.309><c> number.</c>

00:43:06.389 --> 00:43:08.670
I<00:43:06.730><c> don't</c><00:43:06.909><c> know</c><00:43:06.989><c> if</c><00:43:07.010><c> that's</c><00:43:07.289><c> a</c><00:43:07.429><c> Christadelphian</c><00:43:07.949><c> phone</c><00:43:08.190><c> number</c>

00:43:08.670 --> 00:43:09.989
or<00:43:09.210><c> if</c><00:43:09.349><c> it's</c><00:43:09.550><c> a</c><00:43:09.670><c> worldly</c><00:43:09.849><c> phone.</c>

00:43:09.989 --> 00:43:11.409
I<00:43:10.469><c> assume</c><00:43:10.590><c> it's</c><00:43:10.829><c> a</c><00:43:10.829><c> Christadelphian.</c>

00:43:11.730 --> 00:43:14.190
I<00:43:11.849><c> thought</c><00:43:12.050><c> I'd</c><00:43:12.329><c> call</c><00:43:12.489><c> it</c><00:43:12.630><c> to</c><00:43:12.869><c> see,</c><00:43:13.130><c> but</c><00:43:13.150><c> then</c><00:43:13.369><c> I</c><00:43:13.429><c> was</c><00:43:13.829><c> not</c><00:43:14.070><c> sure</c>

00:43:14.190 --> 00:43:14.869
I<00:43:14.289><c> wanted</c><00:43:14.409><c> to</c><00:43:14.590><c> call</c><00:43:14.769><c> it.</c>

00:43:14.969 --> 00:43:17.469
This<00:43:15.190><c> is</c><00:43:15.369><c> where</c><00:43:15.429><c> the</c><00:43:15.610><c> Bob</c><00:43:15.789><c> Lloyd,</c><00:43:16.050><c> I'm</c><00:43:16.170><c> calling</c><00:43:16.289><c> 800</c><00:43:16.650><c> numbers.</c>

00:43:21.710 --> 00:43:25.230
And<00:43:22.150><c> this</c><00:43:22.530><c> brings</c><00:43:22.929><c> me</c><00:43:23.190><c> to</c><00:43:23.469><c> a</c><00:43:23.750><c> situation</c><00:43:24.329><c> where</c><00:43:24.630><c> that</c><00:43:24.949><c> kind</c><00:43:25.090><c> of</c>

00:43:25.230 --> 00:43:26.289
thing<00:43:25.289><c> happened.</c>

00:43:27.170 --> 00:43:33.110
I<00:43:27.610><c> was</c><00:43:28.050><c> blessed</c><00:43:28.849><c> to</c><00:43:29.150><c> be</c><00:43:29.349><c> able</c><00:43:29.550><c> to</c><00:43:29.769><c> help</c><00:43:29.989><c> a</c><00:43:30.829><c> brother,</c><00:43:32.369><c> a</c><00:43:32.590><c> man</c><00:43:32.929><c> who</c>

00:43:33.110 --> 00:43:34.389
was<00:43:33.289><c> not</c><00:43:33.449><c> a</c><00:43:33.610><c> brother.</c>

00:43:34.510 --> 00:43:36.530
He'd<00:43:34.829><c> married</c><00:43:34.949><c> a</c><00:43:35.110><c> Christadelphian.</c>

00:43:36.969 --> 00:43:39.690
And<00:43:37.489><c> he</c><00:43:37.650><c> became</c><00:43:37.929><c> interested</c><00:43:38.369><c> in</c><00:43:38.750><c> studying.</c>

00:43:40.170 --> 00:43:41.550
And<00:43:40.230><c> so</c><00:43:40.329><c> he</c><00:43:40.409><c> came</c><00:43:40.550><c> to</c><00:43:40.650><c> my</c><00:43:40.809><c> house</c><00:43:41.070><c> once</c><00:43:41.309><c> a</c><00:43:41.449><c> week.</c>

00:43:41.570 --> 00:43:44.929
He<00:43:41.750><c> lived</c><00:43:42.070><c> on</c><00:43:43.150><c> the</c><00:43:43.230><c> other</c><00:43:43.389><c> side</c><00:43:43.590><c> of</c><00:43:43.730><c> town</c><00:43:44.070><c> from</c><00:43:44.449><c> me,</c><00:43:44.730><c> a</c><00:43:44.750><c> long</c>

00:43:44.929 --> 00:43:46.170
ways<00:43:45.190><c> off.</c>

00:43:46.409 --> 00:43:50.369
He<00:43:46.590><c> came</c><00:43:46.809><c> to</c><00:43:46.969><c> my</c><00:43:47.110><c> house</c><00:43:47.409><c> once</c><00:43:47.710><c> a</c><00:43:47.929><c> week</c><00:43:48.230><c> to</c><00:43:48.449><c> study</c><00:43:49.010><c> for</c><00:43:49.429><c> baptism.</c>

00:43:50.389 --> 00:43:52.489
Very<00:43:50.730><c> bright</c><00:43:51.369><c> person.</c>

00:43:53.809 --> 00:43:57.849
Just<00:43:54.329><c> took</c><00:43:54.849><c> in</c><00:43:55.050><c> the</c><00:43:55.190><c> Word</c><00:43:55.309><c> of</c><00:43:55.469><c> God,</c><00:43:56.130><c> softened</c><00:43:56.369><c> it</c><00:43:56.429><c> up</c><00:43:56.489><c> like</c><00:43:56.710><c> a</c><00:43:56.989><c> sponge.</c>

00:43:58.969 --> 00:44:01.650
Very<00:43:59.489><c> dedicated</c><00:44:00.010><c> to</c><00:44:00.230><c> the</c><00:44:00.449><c> truth</c><00:44:00.610><c> now.</c>

00:44:01.849 --> 00:44:05.969
But<00:44:02.090><c> he</c><00:44:02.389><c> was</c><00:44:02.710><c> a</c><00:44:02.809><c> member</c><00:44:03.130><c> of</c><00:44:03.670><c> Alcoholics</c><00:44:04.190><c> Anonymous,</c><00:44:04.989><c> AA.</c>

00:44:06.590 --> 00:44:11.989
And<00:44:07.090><c> he</c><00:44:07.590><c> feels</c><00:44:08.349><c> that</c><00:44:08.570><c> he</c><00:44:08.690><c> needs</c><00:44:09.010><c> to</c><00:44:09.269><c> continue</c><00:44:09.690><c> to</c><00:44:09.929><c> go</c><00:44:10.090><c> to</c><00:44:10.289><c> AA</c><00:44:10.489><c> meetings</c><00:44:11.110><c> to</c>

00:44:11.989 --> 00:44:14.449
make<00:44:12.210><c> sure</c><00:44:12.469><c> that</c><00:44:12.690><c> he</c><00:44:12.909><c> stays</c><00:44:13.269><c> sober.</c>

00:44:14.889 --> 00:44:17.150
Now,<00:44:15.010><c> not</c><00:44:15.130><c> having</c><00:44:15.389><c> been</c><00:44:15.809><c> an</c><00:44:16.110><c> alcoholic,</c><00:44:16.550><c> I</c><00:44:16.670><c> don't</c><00:44:16.909><c> think</c><00:44:17.030><c> I</c>

00:44:17.150 --> 00:44:19.090
can<00:44:17.610><c> fully</c><00:44:17.989><c> understand</c><00:44:18.730><c> them.</c>

00:44:19.570 --> 00:44:22.010
They<00:44:19.829><c> say</c><00:44:20.090><c> it's</c><00:44:20.650><c> a</c><00:44:20.789><c> disease.</c>

00:44:23.610 --> 00:44:27.889
And<00:44:23.789><c> Alcoholics</c><00:44:24.489><c> Anonymous</c><00:44:25.090><c> has</c><00:44:25.809><c> done</c><00:44:26.050><c> wonderful</c><00:44:26.909><c> help</c><00:44:27.469><c> for</c>

00:44:27.889 --> 00:44:28.869
a<00:44:28.190><c> great</c><00:44:28.349><c> many</c><00:44:28.590><c> people.</c>

00:44:29.170 --> 00:44:32.469
Christadelphians,<00:44:30.570><c> there</c><00:44:31.309><c> are</c><00:44:31.530><c> a</c><00:44:31.570><c> lot</c><00:44:31.750><c> of</c><00:44:31.909><c> Christadelphians</c>

00:44:32.469 --> 00:44:33.489
who<00:44:32.670><c> are</c><00:44:32.809><c> members</c><00:44:33.070><c> of</c><00:44:33.289><c> AA.</c>

00:44:33.510 --> 00:44:34.449
I<00:44:33.610><c> don't</c><00:44:33.789><c> know</c><00:44:33.889><c> if</c><00:44:34.010><c> you</c><00:44:34.130><c> know</c><00:44:34.289><c> that.</c>

00:44:34.449 --> 00:44:35.969
If<00:44:34.570><c> you</c><00:44:34.690><c> don't</c><00:44:34.869><c> know</c><00:44:35.010><c> that,</c><00:44:35.250><c> you</c><00:44:35.349><c> do</c><00:44:35.550><c> now.</c>

00:44:36.449 --> 00:44:39.469
And<00:44:36.550><c> if</c><00:44:36.670><c> you</c><00:44:36.849><c> are</c><00:44:37.030><c> one</c><00:44:37.230><c> of</c><00:44:37.329><c> those</c><00:44:37.510><c> in</c><00:44:37.650><c> this</c><00:44:37.909><c> room,</c><00:44:38.550><c> if</c><00:44:38.670><c> that</c><00:44:38.869><c> helps</c><00:44:39.110><c> you,</c><00:44:39.369><c> I</c>

00:44:39.469 --> 00:44:40.750
have<00:44:39.630><c> no</c><00:44:39.869><c> problem</c><00:44:40.150><c> with</c><00:44:40.329><c> it.</c>

00:44:40.909 --> 00:44:42.690
Except<00:44:41.090><c> you</c><00:44:41.190><c> have</c><00:44:41.369><c> to</c><00:44:41.489><c> make</c><00:44:41.670><c> sure</c><00:44:41.829><c> that</c><00:44:42.010><c> you</c><00:44:42.150><c> keep</c><00:44:42.309><c> the</c><00:44:42.550><c> truth</c>

00:44:42.690 --> 00:44:43.590
in<00:44:42.889><c> a</c><00:44:42.989><c> straight</c><00:44:43.110><c> perspective.</c>

00:44:43.909 --> 00:44:49.630
Anyway,<00:44:44.349><c> this</c><00:44:44.489><c> man,</c><00:44:46.309><c> he</c><00:44:46.309><c> said</c><00:44:46.409><c> to</c><00:44:46.530><c> me,</c><00:44:46.670><c> Bob,</c><00:44:48.710><c> would</c><00:44:48.849><c> you</c><00:44:49.110><c> be</c><00:44:49.309><c> willing</c><00:44:49.469><c> to</c>

00:44:49.630 --> 00:44:51.769
go<00:44:49.769><c> to</c><00:44:49.909><c> an</c><00:44:50.050><c> AA</c><00:44:50.309><c> meeting</c><00:44:50.610><c> with</c><00:44:50.849><c> me?</c>

00:44:52.150 --> 00:44:53.369
I<00:44:52.309><c> said,</c><00:44:52.570><c> do</c><00:44:52.769><c> you</c><00:44:52.849><c> want</c><00:44:53.010><c> me</c><00:44:53.230><c> to?</c>

00:44:53.429 --> 00:44:54.989
And<00:44:53.550><c> he</c><00:44:53.610><c> said,</c><00:44:53.909><c> yes,</c><00:44:54.309><c> I</c><00:44:54.489><c> would</c><00:44:54.690><c> like</c><00:44:54.869><c> it.</c>

00:44:55.030 --> 00:44:56.170
I<00:44:55.309><c> said,</c><00:44:55.309><c> if</c><00:44:55.369><c> you</c><00:44:55.489><c> want</c><00:44:55.590><c> me</c><00:44:55.710><c> to,</c><00:44:55.809><c> I'll</c><00:44:56.010><c> go.</c>

00:44:56.329 --> 00:44:58.050
He<00:44:56.469><c> said,</c><00:44:56.630><c> okay,</c><00:44:56.789><c> I'll</c><00:44:56.989><c> set</c><00:44:57.110><c> it</c><00:44:57.250><c> up.</c>

00:44:58.190 --> 00:44:59.590
Well,<00:44:58.349><c> they</c><00:44:58.469><c> have</c><00:44:58.650><c> a</c><00:44:58.829><c> book.</c>

00:44:59.690 --> 00:45:02.610
We<00:44:59.949><c> have</c><00:45:00.170><c> the</c><00:45:00.389><c> ALS</c><00:45:00.650><c> diary</c><00:45:00.989><c> that</c><00:45:01.190><c> has</c><00:45:01.329><c> a</c><00:45:01.369><c> list</c><00:45:01.530><c> of</c><00:45:01.730><c> all</c><00:45:01.849><c> the</c><00:45:02.050><c> eclipses</c><00:45:02.309><c> in</c>

00:45:02.610 --> 00:45:03.050
the<00:45:02.809><c> world.</c>

00:45:03.050 --> 00:45:07.050
They<00:45:03.750><c> have</c><00:45:04.150><c> a</c><00:45:04.630><c> book</c><00:45:04.829><c> that's</c><00:45:05.050><c> bigger</c><00:45:05.269><c> than</c><00:45:05.489><c> ours</c><00:45:05.909><c> of</c><00:45:06.510><c> all</c><00:45:06.750><c> the</c>

00:45:07.050 --> 00:45:08.789
AA<00:45:07.210><c> meetings</c><00:45:07.510><c> in</c><00:45:07.710><c> an</c><00:45:07.869><c> area.</c>

00:45:09.070 --> 00:45:12.289
So<00:45:09.349><c> he</c><00:45:09.869><c> went</c><00:45:10.070><c> to</c><00:45:10.210><c> an</c><00:45:10.409><c> AA</c><00:45:10.630><c> meeting</c><00:45:10.909><c> over</c><00:45:11.269><c> in</c><00:45:11.510><c> West</c><00:45:11.690><c> Los</c><00:45:12.010><c> Angeles,</c>

00:45:12.369 --> 00:45:14.650
which<00:45:12.570><c> is</c><00:45:13.309><c> 35</c><00:45:13.710><c> miles</c><00:45:14.090><c> from</c><00:45:14.329><c> me.</c>

00:45:15.050 --> 00:45:16.349
And<00:45:15.230><c> I</c><00:45:15.369><c> figured</c><00:45:15.550><c> I</c><00:45:15.670><c> would</c><00:45:15.869><c> go</c><00:45:16.150><c> one.</c>

00:45:16.449 --> 00:45:17.949
He's<00:45:16.690><c> coming</c><00:45:16.869><c> to</c><00:45:17.010><c> my</c><00:45:17.190><c> house</c><00:45:17.389><c> every</c><00:45:17.730><c> week.</c>

00:45:17.949 --> 00:45:19.610
It<00:45:18.150><c> would</c><00:45:18.190><c> be</c><00:45:18.269><c> my</c><00:45:18.550><c> turn</c><00:45:18.690><c> to</c><00:45:18.809><c> go</c><00:45:18.929><c> to</c><00:45:19.170><c> his</c><00:45:19.389><c> area.</c>

00:45:19.630 --> 00:45:21.010
I<00:45:19.750><c> was</c><00:45:19.969><c> quite</c><00:45:20.130><c> willing</c><00:45:20.329><c> to</c><00:45:20.510><c> drive</c><00:45:20.610><c> over</c><00:45:20.849><c> there.</c>

00:45:21.309 --> 00:45:23.110
He<00:45:21.530><c> was</c><00:45:21.730><c> so</c><00:45:22.130><c> thoughtful.</c>

00:45:23.389 --> 00:45:27.550
He<00:45:23.650><c> looked</c><00:45:23.829><c> up</c><00:45:24.030><c> a</c><00:45:24.269><c> meeting</c><00:45:24.809><c> about</c><00:45:25.570><c> six</c><00:45:25.929><c> blocks</c><00:45:26.170><c> from</c><00:45:26.389><c> my</c><00:45:26.670><c> house.</c>

00:45:28.969 --> 00:45:31.349
Six<00:45:29.409><c> blocks</c><00:45:29.690><c> from</c><00:45:29.969><c> my</c><00:45:30.349><c> house.</c>

00:45:33.829 --> 00:45:36.929
I've<00:45:34.110><c> lived</c><00:45:34.289><c> in</c><00:45:34.650><c> Alcatena</c><00:45:35.070><c> for</c><00:45:35.429><c> 40</c><00:45:35.769><c> years,</c><00:45:36.210><c> and</c><00:45:36.329><c> I</c><00:45:36.449><c> didn't</c><00:45:36.630><c> know</c><00:45:36.710><c> who</c>

00:45:36.929 --> 00:45:38.789
I<00:45:37.070><c> was</c><00:45:37.210><c> going</c><00:45:37.369><c> to</c><00:45:37.530><c> see</c><00:45:37.730><c> there.</c>

00:45:39.489 --> 00:45:41.710
But<00:45:39.929><c> he</c><00:45:40.150><c> set</c><00:45:40.409><c> it</c><00:45:40.610><c> up,</c><00:45:40.829><c> and</c><00:45:40.969><c> he</c><00:45:41.070><c> was</c><00:45:41.409><c> thoughtful.</c>

00:45:41.769 --> 00:45:44.389
He<00:45:41.969><c> drove</c><00:45:42.230><c> over,</c><00:45:42.829><c> and</c><00:45:42.969><c> we</c><00:45:43.190><c> met</c><00:45:43.469><c> at</c><00:45:43.710><c> this</c><00:45:44.010><c> place.</c>

00:45:44.489 --> 00:45:47.789
It<00:45:44.570><c> was</c><00:45:45.230><c> a</c><00:45:45.309><c> basement</c><00:45:45.630><c> of</c><00:45:46.150><c> a</c><00:45:46.150><c> Presbyterian</c><00:45:46.849><c> church.</c>

00:45:47.869 --> 00:45:50.050
The<00:45:48.050><c> church</c><00:45:48.389><c> donates</c><00:45:48.989><c> this</c><00:45:49.309><c> space.</c>

00:45:50.090 --> 00:45:51.730
And<00:45:50.309><c> we</c><00:45:50.409><c> went</c><00:45:50.550><c> in</c><00:45:50.670><c> there</c><00:45:50.809><c> together,</c><00:45:51.090><c> and</c><00:45:51.190><c> I'm</c><00:45:51.369><c> looking</c><00:45:51.510><c> around</c>

00:45:51.730 --> 00:45:53.690
to<00:45:51.849><c> see</c><00:45:51.949><c> who</c><00:45:52.150><c> I'm</c><00:45:52.349><c> going</c><00:45:52.469><c> to</c><00:45:52.730><c> see.</c>

00:45:53.730 --> 00:45:57.309
And<00:45:54.210><c> I</c><00:45:54.329><c> didn't</c><00:45:54.550><c> know</c><00:45:54.769><c> anybody</c><00:45:55.210><c> there,</c><00:45:55.489><c> and</c><00:45:55.670><c> I</c><00:45:55.730><c> was</c><00:45:55.949><c> very</c><00:45:56.289><c> relieved.</c>

00:45:58.389 --> 00:45:59.530
But<00:45:58.489><c> they</c><00:45:58.670><c> have</c><00:45:58.829><c> the</c><00:45:59.070><c> big</c><00:45:59.309><c> book.</c>

00:45:59.570 --> 00:46:00.409
It's<00:45:59.809><c> not</c><00:45:59.969><c> the</c><00:46:00.190><c> Bible.</c>

00:46:00.489 --> 00:46:02.130
It's<00:46:00.750><c> their</c><00:46:00.929><c> big</c><00:46:01.230><c> book.</c>

00:46:02.750 --> 00:46:04.150
See,<00:46:03.030><c> I'm</c><00:46:03.190><c> not</c><00:46:03.469><c> plugging</c><00:46:03.829><c> AA.</c>

00:46:04.210 --> 00:46:07.769
I'm<00:46:04.630><c> simply</c><00:46:04.949><c> saying</c><00:46:05.309><c> that</c><00:46:05.710><c> there's</c><00:46:06.190><c> help,</c><00:46:06.670><c> and</c><00:46:06.849><c> AA</c><00:46:07.050><c> is</c><00:46:07.289><c> one</c><00:46:07.530><c> of</c><00:46:07.670><c> them.</c>

00:46:08.070 --> 00:46:10.789
And<00:46:08.110><c> it</c><00:46:08.449><c> helps</c><00:46:08.750><c> people</c><00:46:09.210><c> stop</c><00:46:09.650><c> drinking.</c>

00:46:11.250 --> 00:46:14.929
And<00:46:11.570><c> that's</c><00:46:11.869><c> a</c><00:46:11.969><c> very</c><00:46:12.190><c> important</c><00:46:12.590><c> thing</c><00:46:12.789><c> to</c><00:46:13.130><c> stop</c><00:46:13.630><c> if</c><00:46:14.190><c> it</c><00:46:14.429><c> is</c><00:46:14.710><c> a</c>

00:46:14.929 --> 00:46:18.590
problem<00:46:15.250><c> in</c><00:46:15.530><c> your</c><00:46:15.769><c> marriage</c><00:46:16.150><c> or</c><00:46:16.329><c> in</c><00:46:16.550><c> your</c><00:46:16.789><c> life,</c><00:46:17.309><c> single</c><00:46:17.550><c>-arm</c><00:46:17.849><c> marriage.</c>

00:46:18.969 --> 00:46:22.250
And<00:46:19.570><c> it's</c><00:46:20.170><c> so</c><00:46:21.070><c> common.</c>

00:46:22.489 --> 00:46:26.190
Well,<00:46:22.710><c> you'd</c><00:46:22.989><c> think</c><00:46:23.329><c> we'd</c><00:46:23.909><c> mention</c><00:46:24.329><c> that</c><00:46:24.570><c> at</c><00:46:24.730><c> a</c><00:46:24.829><c> Bible</c><00:46:25.130><c> school.</c>

00:46:26.429 --> 00:46:32.730
But<00:46:26.730><c> because</c><00:46:27.590><c> he's</c><00:46:28.150><c> a</c><00:46:28.289><c> member</c><00:46:28.590><c> of</c><00:46:28.789><c> AA,</c><00:46:29.750><c> and</c><00:46:30.010><c> he</c><00:46:30.469><c> finds</c><00:46:30.769><c> out,</c><00:46:31.670><c> they</c><00:46:32.190><c> all</c><00:46:32.389><c> get</c><00:46:32.570><c> to</c>

00:46:32.730 --> 00:46:33.909
know<00:46:32.849><c> each</c><00:46:33.110><c> other.</c>

00:46:33.969 --> 00:46:39.949
At<00:46:34.170><c> the</c><00:46:34.170><c> Adelweil</c><00:46:34.469><c> Bible</c><00:46:34.750><c> School,</c><00:46:35.289><c> they</c><00:46:35.690><c> had</c><00:46:35.869><c> a</c><00:46:36.050><c> little</c><00:46:36.570><c> Christian</c><00:46:36.869><c>-Alvian</c><00:46:37.309><c> AA</c><00:46:38.349><c> meeting</c><00:46:38.769><c> of</c>

00:46:39.949 --> 00:46:42.989
about<00:46:40.309><c> a</c><00:46:40.690><c> dozen</c><00:46:41.030><c> people</c><00:46:41.969><c> that</c><00:46:42.130><c> I</c><00:46:42.269><c> didn't</c><00:46:42.409><c> even</c><00:46:42.670><c> know.</c>

00:46:43.449 --> 00:46:46.070
In<00:46:43.630><c> fact,</c><00:46:43.769><c> we</c><00:46:43.909><c> have</c><00:46:44.030><c> some</c><00:46:44.349><c> ecclesias</c><00:46:44.809><c> over</c><00:46:45.110><c> our</c><00:46:45.429><c> way</c><00:46:45.590><c> now</c><00:46:45.849><c> who</c>

00:46:46.070 --> 00:46:47.809
use<00:46:46.369><c> little</c><00:46:46.789><c> cups.</c>

00:46:47.909 --> 00:46:51.530
And<00:46:48.429><c> in</c><00:46:48.650><c> the</c><00:46:48.909><c> center</c><00:46:49.170><c> of</c><00:46:49.449><c> the</c><00:46:50.190><c> thing,</c><00:46:50.710><c> the</c><00:46:50.849><c> cups</c><00:46:51.030><c> are</c><00:46:51.309><c> grape</c>

00:46:51.530 --> 00:46:54.010
juice,<00:46:51.829><c> and</c><00:46:51.909><c> the</c><00:46:51.969><c> ones</c><00:46:52.130><c> outside</c><00:46:52.630><c> are</c><00:46:52.989><c> wine,</c>

00:46:54.110 --> 00:46:57.550
to<00:46:54.369><c> help</c><00:46:54.750><c> those</c><00:46:55.150><c> members</c><00:46:55.510><c> who</c><00:46:55.889><c> feel</c><00:46:56.170><c> they</c><00:46:56.550><c> mustn't</c><00:46:56.929><c> even</c><00:46:57.309><c> take</c>

00:46:57.550 --> 00:47:02.250
a<00:46:57.769><c> taste</c><00:46:58.349><c> of</c><00:46:58.989><c> wine</c><00:46:59.329><c> for</c><00:46:59.929><c> fear</c><00:47:00.269><c> it</c><00:47:00.329><c> might</c><00:47:00.590><c> get</c><00:47:00.809><c> them</c><00:47:01.070><c> started</c><00:47:01.309><c> again.</c>

00:47:02.570 --> 00:47:06.449
But<00:47:02.670><c> other</c><00:47:03.269><c> members</c><00:47:03.590><c> of</c><00:47:03.769><c> AA</c><00:47:03.929><c> can</c><00:47:04.130><c> do</c><00:47:04.389><c> that</c><00:47:04.650><c> without</c><00:47:05.409><c> affecting</c><00:47:06.010><c> them.</c>

00:47:06.949 --> 00:47:09.289
But<00:47:07.090><c> you</c><00:47:07.269><c> see,</c><00:47:08.050><c> if</c><00:47:08.190><c> you</c><00:47:08.349><c> haven't</c><00:47:08.570><c> been</c><00:47:08.710><c> your</c><00:47:08.949><c> problem,</c><00:47:09.269><c> you</c>

00:47:09.289 --> 00:47:10.789
say,<00:47:09.449><c> well,</c><00:47:09.489><c> you</c><00:47:09.610><c> just</c><00:47:09.769><c> stop</c><00:47:09.989><c> drinking.</c>

00:47:10.929 --> 00:47:14.389
Well,<00:47:11.809><c> I</c><00:47:12.250><c> could</c><00:47:12.449><c> say</c><00:47:12.670><c> that</c><00:47:12.829><c> because</c><00:47:12.969><c> I</c><00:47:13.150><c> never</c><00:47:13.349><c> had</c><00:47:13.710><c> that</c><00:47:13.909><c> problem.</c>

00:47:14.389 --> 00:47:18.690
Not<00:47:14.929><c> that</c><00:47:15.090><c> I'm</c><00:47:15.329><c> not</c><00:47:15.530><c> a</c><00:47:15.769><c> tea</c><00:47:15.889><c>-toler,</c><00:47:16.050><c> but</c><00:47:16.170><c> it</c><00:47:17.050><c> doesn't</c><00:47:18.110><c> hold</c><00:47:18.469><c> me</c>

00:47:18.690 --> 00:47:19.889
like<00:47:18.989><c> that.</c>

00:47:21.610 --> 00:47:24.449
But<00:47:21.610><c> again,</c><00:47:22.510><c> we</c><00:47:22.550><c> need</c><00:47:22.710><c> to</c><00:47:22.809><c> be</c><00:47:23.030><c> sensitive</c><00:47:23.289><c> to</c><00:47:23.550><c> the</c><00:47:23.710><c> feelings</c><00:47:23.969><c> of</c><00:47:24.250><c> others.</c>

00:47:24.650 --> 00:47:30.030
And<00:47:24.849><c> this</c><00:47:25.349><c> is</c><00:47:25.590><c> a</c><00:47:25.650><c> terrible</c><00:47:26.070><c> thing</c><00:47:26.329><c> to</c><00:47:26.550><c> happen,</c><00:47:27.070><c> to</c><00:47:27.210><c> be</c><00:47:27.730><c> addicted,</c><00:47:28.849><c> not</c><00:47:29.230><c> only</c><00:47:29.530><c> now</c>

00:47:30.030 --> 00:47:31.989
to<00:47:30.949><c> alcohol,</c>

00:47:32.190 --> 00:47:35.309
but<00:47:32.349><c> of</c><00:47:32.449><c> course</c><00:47:32.570><c> we</c><00:47:32.730><c> now</c><00:47:32.969><c> have</c><00:47:33.489><c> stronger</c><00:47:33.909><c> substances,</c><00:47:35.210><c> and</c>

00:47:35.309 --> 00:47:38.429
sometimes<00:47:35.710><c> Christian</c><00:47:35.949><c>-Alvians</c><00:47:36.309><c> have</c><00:47:37.309><c> abused</c><00:47:37.690><c> their</c><00:47:38.110><c> bodies</c>

00:47:38.429 --> 00:47:39.070
with<00:47:38.730><c> those.</c>

00:47:39.070 --> 00:47:44.389
And<00:47:39.769><c> these</c><00:47:40.010><c> kind</c><00:47:40.150><c> of</c><00:47:40.230><c> things</c><00:47:40.449><c> can</c><00:47:41.130><c> destroy</c><00:47:41.849><c> a</c><00:47:43.389><c> marriage,</c><00:47:44.329><c> can</c>

00:47:44.389 --> 00:47:48.469
destroy<00:47:44.829><c> a</c><00:47:45.090><c> life,</c><00:47:46.269><c> can</c><00:47:46.429><c> destroy</c><00:47:46.829><c> a</c><00:47:47.090><c> brother</c><00:47:47.309><c> or</c><00:47:47.409><c> sister,</c>

00:47:48.510 --> 00:47:55.510
can<00:47:48.730><c> destroy</c><00:47:49.050><c> your</c><00:47:49.329><c> hope</c><00:47:49.750><c> of</c><00:47:50.929><c> eternal</c><00:47:51.250><c> life</c><00:47:51.809><c> if</c><00:47:52.670><c> something</c><00:47:53.329><c> owns</c><00:47:53.730><c> you</c><00:47:54.349><c> that</c><00:47:54.610><c> you</c><00:47:55.130><c> should</c><00:47:55.309><c> be</c>

00:47:55.510 --> 00:47:56.889
in<00:47:55.670><c> control</c><00:47:55.969><c> of.</c>

00:47:57.429 --> 00:48:01.269
So<00:47:57.489><c> we've</c><00:47:58.630><c> looked</c><00:47:58.829><c> at</c><00:47:59.170><c> some</c><00:47:59.389><c> of</c><00:47:59.530><c> the</c><00:47:59.989><c> little</c><00:48:00.230><c> things</c><00:48:00.570><c> and</c><00:48:00.929><c> a</c>

00:48:01.269 --> 00:48:02.070
very<00:48:01.550><c> big</c><00:48:01.809><c> thing</c>

00:48:02.070 --> 00:48:14.730
that<00:48:02.309><c> can</c><00:48:02.630><c> help</c><00:48:04.590><c> destroy</c><00:48:05.550><c> us</c><00:48:06.010><c> and</c><00:48:06.710><c> destroy</c><00:48:07.510><c> our</c><00:48:09.489><c> marriage,</c><00:48:10.909><c> our</c><00:48:11.030><c> life</c><00:48:11.250><c> and</c><00:48:11.389><c> the</c><00:48:11.630><c> truth,</c><00:48:12.989><c> and</c><00:48:13.190><c> our</c><00:48:13.309><c> way</c><00:48:13.489><c> of</c><00:48:13.730><c> life.</c>

00:48:15.070 --> 00:48:19.670
So<00:48:15.369><c> we'll</c><00:48:15.989><c> just</c><00:48:16.329><c> close</c><00:48:16.650><c> by</c><00:48:17.650><c> looking</c><00:48:18.050><c> at</c><00:48:18.250><c> those</c><00:48:18.469><c> verses</c><00:48:18.809><c> again</c>

00:48:19.670 --> 00:48:22.389
in<00:48:21.030><c> Ephesians</c><00:48:21.510><c> 5</c>

00:48:22.389 --> 00:48:27.809
and<00:48:22.789><c> talk</c><00:48:22.989><c> about</c><00:48:23.150><c> the</c><00:48:23.590><c> little</c><00:48:23.829><c> foxes</c><00:48:25.309><c> and</c><00:48:25.469><c> the</c><00:48:25.670><c> big</c><00:48:25.929><c> one</c><00:48:26.550><c> that</c>

00:48:27.809 --> 00:48:31.230
can<00:48:29.150><c> wreck</c><00:48:29.510><c> a</c><00:48:29.989><c> marriage.</c>

00:48:32.230 --> 00:48:36.050
Ephesians<00:48:32.869><c> 5,</c><00:48:33.869><c> beginning</c><00:48:34.070><c> at</c><00:48:34.309><c> verse</c><00:48:34.550><c> 15.</c>

00:48:36.510 --> 00:48:41.329
See<00:48:36.769><c> then</c><00:48:37.130><c> that</c><00:48:37.250><c> you</c><00:48:37.489><c> walk</c><00:48:38.230><c> circumspectly,</c><00:48:40.710><c> not</c><00:48:40.849><c> as</c><00:48:41.070><c> fools,</c>

00:48:41.369 --> 00:48:43.090
but<00:48:41.510><c> as</c><00:48:41.829><c> wise,</c>

00:48:43.150 --> 00:48:47.190
redeeming<00:48:43.869><c> the</c><00:48:44.230><c> time</c><00:48:44.670><c> because</c><00:48:45.090><c> the</c><00:48:45.369><c> days</c><00:48:45.730><c> are</c><00:48:45.969><c> evil.</c>

00:48:47.590 --> 00:48:50.769
Therefore<00:48:47.829><c> do</c><00:48:48.030><c> not</c><00:48:48.269><c> be</c><00:48:48.550><c> unwise,</c><00:48:49.570><c> but</c><00:48:49.710><c> understand</c><00:48:50.289><c> what</c><00:48:50.510><c> the</c>

00:48:50.769 --> 00:48:52.489
will<00:48:51.130><c> of</c><00:48:51.530><c> the</c><00:48:51.730><c> Lord</c><00:48:51.989><c> is,</c>

00:48:52.650 --> 00:49:00.590
and<00:48:52.809><c> do</c><00:48:53.050><c> not</c><00:48:53.210><c> be</c><00:48:53.590><c> drunk</c><00:48:53.889><c> with</c><00:48:54.210><c> wine,</c><00:48:55.489><c> in</c><00:48:55.670><c> which</c><00:48:55.809><c> is</c><00:48:56.030><c> dissipation,</c><00:48:57.550><c> but</c><00:48:57.730><c> be</c><00:48:57.929><c> filled</c><00:48:58.550><c> with</c><00:48:59.070><c> the</c><00:48:59.449><c> Spirit.</c>

00:49:00.829 --> 00:49:05.289
Speaking<00:49:01.530><c> to</c><00:49:01.710><c> one</c><00:49:01.929><c> another</c><00:49:02.250><c> in</c><00:49:02.610><c> psalms</c><00:49:03.590><c> and</c><00:49:03.869><c> hymns</c><00:49:05.030><c> and</c>

00:49:05.289 --> 00:49:07.489
spiritual<00:49:06.130><c> songs,</c>

00:49:07.710 --> 00:49:12.610
singing<00:49:08.230><c> and</c><00:49:08.429><c> making</c><00:49:08.769><c> melody</c><00:49:09.469><c> in</c><00:49:09.789><c> your</c><00:49:10.050><c> heart</c><00:49:10.829><c> to</c><00:49:11.150><c> the</c><00:49:11.289><c> Lord,</c>

00:49:12.829 --> 00:49:17.110
giving<00:49:13.110><c> thanks</c><00:49:13.449><c> always</c><00:49:14.250><c> for</c><00:49:14.610><c> all</c><00:49:15.030><c> things</c><00:49:15.289><c> to</c><00:49:15.550><c> God</c><00:49:16.030><c> the</c><00:49:16.269><c> Father</c>

00:49:17.110 --> 00:49:20.210
in<00:49:17.449><c> the</c><00:49:17.530><c> name</c><00:49:17.889><c> of</c><00:49:18.150><c> our</c><00:49:18.329><c> Lord</c><00:49:18.670><c> Jesus</c><00:49:19.170><c> Christ,</c>

00:49:20.489 --> 00:49:25.929
submitting<00:49:20.929><c> to</c><00:49:21.210><c> one</c><00:49:21.489><c> another</c><00:49:22.230><c> in</c><00:49:23.130><c> the</c><00:49:23.349><c> fear</c><00:49:24.250><c> of</c><00:49:24.730><c> God.</c>

00:49:35.349 --> 00:49:37.250
Amen.