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Alright?

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Don't<00:11:23.740><c> put</c><00:11:23.860><c> yourself</c><00:11:24.279><c> in</c><00:11:24.519><c> a</c><00:11:24.720><c> bad</c><00:11:24.720><c> environment.</c>

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Don't<00:11:25.480><c> put</c><00:11:25.679><c> yourself</c><00:11:26.000><c> in</c><00:11:26.100><c> a</c><00:11:26.240><c> bad</c><00:11:26.379><c> environment.</c>

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like<00:11:33.940><c> that.</c>

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Or<00:11:34.899><c> more</c><00:11:35.500><c> importantly,</c><00:11:36.240><c> like</c><00:11:36.360><c> your</c><00:11:36.580><c> home.</c>

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Your<00:11:37.960><c> very</c><00:11:38.240><c> home.</c>

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is<00:11:41.000><c> the</c><00:11:41.600><c> one</c><00:11:42.779><c> that</c>

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Your<00:11:45.600><c> home</c><00:11:45.860><c> is</c><00:11:46.080><c> a</c><00:11:46.220><c> safe</c><00:11:46.360><c> environment.</c>

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Your<00:11:47.120><c> parents</c><00:11:47.340><c> have</c><00:11:47.580><c> brought</c><00:11:47.679><c> you</c><00:11:47.840><c> up</c><00:11:47.960><c> in</c><00:11:48.080><c> that</c><00:11:48.259><c> home.</c>

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But<00:11:48.840><c> if</c><00:11:48.980><c> your</c><00:11:49.179><c> parents</c><00:11:49.399><c> are</c><00:11:49.600><c> not</c><00:11:49.740><c> there,</c><00:11:49.919><c> your</c><00:11:50.019><c> brothers</c><00:11:50.220><c> and</c>

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sisters<00:11:50.639><c> are</c><00:11:50.799><c> not</c><00:11:50.940><c> there.</c>

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There's<00:11:51.279><c> nobody</c><00:11:51.440><c> else</c><00:11:51.679><c> in</c><00:11:51.820><c> the</c><00:11:51.960><c> house.</c>

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A<00:11:52.980><c> safe</c><00:11:53.179><c> environment</c><00:11:53.639><c> can</c><00:11:53.899><c> become</c><00:11:54.120><c> a</c><00:11:54.259><c> dangerous</c><00:11:54.620><c> environment.</c>

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That<00:11:55.620><c> was</c><00:11:55.879><c> E.</c>

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C<00:11:57.860><c> was?</c><00:11:59.000><c> Communication.</c>

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To<00:11:59.879><c> talk</c><00:12:00.179><c> and</c><00:12:00.419><c> talk</c><00:12:00.700><c> and</c><00:12:00.879><c> talk</c><00:12:01.120><c> and</c><00:12:01.320><c> talk.</c>

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And<00:12:02.259><c> of</c><00:12:02.379><c> course</c><00:12:02.500><c> the</c><00:12:02.639><c> last</c><00:12:03.019><c> H</c><00:12:03.360><c> was?</c>

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Horizontal<00:12:06.440><c> and</c><00:12:06.580><c> heat.</c>

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And<00:12:07.480><c> I</c><00:12:07.580><c> don't</c><00:12:07.700><c> have</c><00:12:07.899><c> to</c><00:12:08.200><c> develop</c><00:12:08.480><c> that</c><00:12:08.679><c> too</c><00:12:08.899><c> much.</c>

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Horizontal<00:12:11.240><c> equals</c><00:12:11.519><c> heat.</c>

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When<00:12:12.080><c> you</c><00:12:12.220><c> get</c><00:12:12.379><c> horizontal,</c><00:12:12.899><c> you</c><00:12:13.019><c> get</c><00:12:13.220><c> hot.</c>

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And<00:12:14.399><c> you're</c><00:12:14.559><c> going</c><00:12:14.639><c> to</c><00:12:14.740><c> get</c><00:12:14.799><c> into</c><00:12:14.980><c> trouble.</c>

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You<00:12:15.899><c> might</c><00:12:16.080><c> get</c><00:12:16.279><c> away</c><00:12:16.440><c> with</c><00:12:16.600><c> it</c><00:12:16.759><c> once,</c><00:12:16.940><c> twice,</c><00:12:17.360><c> three</c><00:12:17.600><c> times.</c>

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you'll<00:12:20.039><c> get</c><00:12:20.159><c> into</c><00:12:20.279><c> trouble.</c>

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Okay,<00:12:21.919><c> so</c><00:12:22.100><c> that</c><00:12:22.179><c> was</c><00:12:22.779><c> lesson</c><00:12:23.059><c> three.</c><00:12:23.480><c> Lesson</c><00:12:23.639><c> four.</c>

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What<00:12:29.700><c> was</c><00:12:29.860><c> lesson</c><00:12:30.120><c> four</c><00:12:30.360><c> all</c><00:12:30.539><c> about?</c>

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That<00:12:35.820><c> was</c><00:12:35.980><c> yesterday.</c><00:12:36.759><c> That</c><00:12:36.899><c> was</c><00:12:36.980><c> lesson</c><00:12:37.179><c> five.</c>

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You're<00:12:38.539><c> missing</c><00:12:38.740><c> one.</c>

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It's<00:12:40.840><c> amazing.</c><00:12:41.259><c> No,</c><00:12:41.360><c> but</c><00:12:41.440><c> it's</c><00:12:41.659><c> interesting.</c>

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Covenant.

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Covenant.

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It<00:12:45.559><c> was</c><00:12:46.039><c> the</c><00:12:46.240><c> lesson</c><00:12:46.399><c> on</c><00:12:46.679><c> covenant.</c><00:12:47.139><c> Covenant</c><00:12:47.399><c> of</c><00:12:47.700><c> circumcision.</c>

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Covenant<00:12:49.580><c> of</c><00:12:49.740><c> marriage.</c>

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I've<00:12:57.580><c> got</c><00:12:57.659><c> a</c><00:12:57.740><c> whole</c><00:12:57.860><c> bunch</c><00:12:58.080><c> of</c><00:12:58.419><c> overheads</c><00:12:58.879><c> here</c>

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I<00:13:01.279><c> don't</c><00:13:01.399><c> know</c><00:13:01.480><c> whether</c><00:13:01.639><c> that's</c><00:13:01.860><c> going</c><00:13:01.960><c> to</c><00:13:02.059><c> be</c><00:13:02.120><c> too</c><00:13:02.320><c> beneficial.</c>

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What<00:13:05.139><c> I'd</c><00:13:05.399><c> like</c><00:13:05.460><c> to</c><00:13:05.620><c> do</c><00:13:05.659><c> is</c><00:13:05.740><c> have</c><00:13:05.899><c> some</c><00:13:06.120><c> kind</c><00:13:06.240><c> of</c><00:13:06.419><c> discussion</c>

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with<00:13:06.879><c> you</c><00:13:07.039><c> fellows.</c>

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Tell<00:13:07.980><c> me,</c><00:13:08.460><c> you</c><00:13:08.519><c> know,</c>

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probably<00:13:13.980><c> emphasize</c><00:13:14.500><c> different</c><00:13:14.879><c> parts.</c>

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this<00:13:17.059><c> is</c><00:13:17.299><c> the</c><00:13:17.500><c> time</c><00:13:17.700><c> for</c><00:13:17.940><c> you</c><00:13:18.159><c> to,</c><00:13:18.960><c> you</c><00:13:19.019><c> know,</c>

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voice<00:13:19.740><c> your</c><00:13:19.960><c> opinion.</c><00:13:20.840><c> Tell</c><00:13:20.899><c> me</c><00:13:21.039><c> what</c><00:13:21.159><c> you</c><00:13:21.419><c> think.</c>

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How<00:13:22.139><c> you</c><00:13:22.379><c> feel.</c>

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What's<00:13:23.559><c> good,</c><00:13:23.759><c> what's</c><00:13:24.179><c> bad.</c>

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Guys<00:13:28.659><c> at</c><00:13:28.860><c> home,</c><00:13:29.039><c> for</c><00:13:29.220><c> example,</c>

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they're<00:13:29.840><c> crystal</c><00:13:29.980><c> delphians</c><00:13:30.419><c> and</c><00:13:30.639><c> they've</c><00:13:30.879><c> been</c><00:13:30.960><c> brought</c><00:13:31.080><c> up</c>

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as<00:13:31.419><c> crystal</c><00:13:31.580><c> delphians</c>

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and<00:13:32.100><c> they</c><00:13:32.299><c> just</c><00:13:32.500><c> don't</c><00:13:32.759><c> know</c><00:13:32.919><c> how</c><00:13:33.080><c> to</c><00:13:33.200><c> get</c><00:13:33.399><c> started</c>

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I<00:13:35.419><c> have</c><00:13:35.600><c> that</c><00:13:35.759><c> problem</c><00:13:36.019><c> with</c><00:13:36.179><c> at</c><00:13:36.320><c> least</c><00:13:36.500><c> three</c><00:13:36.679><c> or</c><00:13:36.740><c> four</c><00:13:36.940><c> guys.</c>

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They<00:13:37.940><c> just</c><00:13:38.139><c> actually,</c><00:13:38.539><c> I</c><00:13:38.659><c> mean,</c><00:13:38.960><c> you</c><00:13:39.000><c> could</c>

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have<00:13:39.539><c> a</c><00:13:39.759><c> girl</c><00:13:39.899><c> right</c><00:13:40.100><c> in</c><00:13:40.320><c> front</c><00:13:40.440><c> of</c><00:13:40.539><c> you</c><00:13:40.720><c> staring</c><00:13:40.919><c> you</c><00:13:41.139><c> face</c><00:13:41.299><c> to</c><00:13:41.460><c> face</c>

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Because<00:13:43.580><c> they</c><00:13:43.840><c> might</c><00:13:43.980><c> be</c><00:13:44.220><c> mad</c><00:13:44.340><c> about</c><00:13:44.620><c> it,</c><00:13:45.080><c> but</c><00:13:45.220><c> they</c><00:13:45.360><c> don't</c><00:13:45.500><c> know</c>

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Do<00:13:46.259><c> you</c><00:13:46.700><c> have</c><00:13:46.759><c> that</c><00:13:46.960><c> kind</c><00:13:47.080><c> of</c><00:13:47.139><c> problem</c><00:13:47.399><c> in</c><00:13:47.559><c> America</c>

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or<00:13:48.100><c> do</c><00:13:48.200><c> you</c><00:13:48.259><c> get</c><00:13:48.419><c> enough</c><00:13:48.600><c> education</c><00:13:49.080><c> from</c><00:13:49.299><c> television?</c>

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You<00:13:54.500><c> watch</c><00:13:54.799><c> a</c><00:13:54.860><c> lot</c><00:13:55.019><c> of</c><00:13:55.200><c> TV?</c>

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Are<00:13:56.100><c> you</c><00:13:56.279><c> a</c><00:13:56.279><c> TV</c><00:13:56.519><c> addict?</c><00:13:57.480><c> Enjoy</c><00:13:57.659><c> it.</c>

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Anybody<00:14:04.460><c> got</c><00:14:04.679><c> anything?</c><00:14:05.320><c> Because</c><00:14:05.320><c> if</c><00:14:05.600><c> you</c><00:14:05.759><c> haven't</c>

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then<00:14:06.200><c> we'll</c><00:14:07.840><c> move</c><00:14:08.259><c> on</c><00:14:08.539><c> to...</c>

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Danny,<00:14:09.039><c> have</c><00:14:09.159><c> you</c><00:14:09.220><c> got</c><00:14:09.340><c> anything</c><00:14:09.519><c> to</c><00:14:09.740><c> say?</c>

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I've<00:14:15.620><c> got</c><00:14:15.779><c> a</c><00:14:16.580><c> question</c><00:14:16.580><c> for</c><00:14:18.779><c> you.</c>

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If<00:14:19.480><c> you</c><00:14:19.600><c> put</c><00:14:22.360><c> two</c><00:14:22.360><c> people</c><00:14:22.360><c> together</c><00:14:22.820><c> in</c><00:14:23.100><c> a</c><00:14:23.379><c> studio</c>

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if<00:14:24.679><c> you</c><00:14:24.720><c> have</c><00:14:24.799><c> different</c><00:14:25.000><c> types</c><00:14:25.299><c> of</c><00:14:25.460><c> people</c>

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and<00:14:25.860><c> if</c><00:14:26.039><c> there's</c><00:14:26.159><c> two</c><00:14:26.320><c> different</c><00:14:26.440><c> types</c><00:14:26.639><c> of</c><00:14:26.639><c> people</c>

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it<00:14:27.279><c> might</c><00:14:27.500><c> be</c><00:14:27.720><c> crazy</c><00:14:27.960><c> right</c><00:14:28.120><c> together,</c><00:14:29.000><c> but</c>

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there's<00:14:29.320><c> always</c><00:14:29.399><c> always</c><00:14:29.679><c> one</c><00:14:30.080><c> person</c><00:14:30.440><c> that</c><00:14:30.659><c> moves</c>

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and<00:14:31.919><c> then</c><00:14:32.059><c> there's</c><00:14:32.240><c> two</c><00:14:32.519><c> people</c><00:14:32.779><c> that</c><00:14:32.980><c> are</c><00:14:33.100><c> more</c><00:14:33.799><c> energetic</c>

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and<00:14:34.620><c> things</c><00:14:34.820><c> like</c><00:14:35.019><c> that.</c>

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actually<00:14:38.639><c> getting</c><00:14:39.000><c> together</c>

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and<00:14:41.019><c> just</c><00:14:41.279><c> being</c><00:14:41.460><c> able</c><00:14:41.759><c> to</c>

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have<00:14:42.419><c> self</c><00:14:42.700><c>-confidence</c><00:14:42.980><c> and</c><00:14:43.580><c> that's</c>

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what<00:14:44.080><c> we're</c><00:14:44.080><c> talking</c><00:14:44.220><c> about</c><00:14:44.220><c> today.</c>

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You'll<00:14:46.580><c> be</c><00:14:46.679><c> able</c><00:14:46.679><c> to</c><00:14:46.840><c> say,</c><00:14:47.360><c> she's</c><00:14:47.799><c> a</c><00:14:47.919><c> great</c><00:14:48.139><c> guy</c>

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and<00:14:48.600><c> everything</c><00:14:48.980><c> like</c><00:14:49.299><c> that.</c>

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Come<00:14:50.799><c> here</c><00:14:51.019><c> now.</c>

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Smile,<00:14:53.779><c> yeah.</c>

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Should<00:14:54.440><c> we</c><00:14:54.580><c> try</c><00:14:54.779><c> the</c><00:14:55.000><c> guys</c><00:14:55.159><c> now</c><00:14:55.379><c> for</c><00:14:55.539><c> some</c><00:14:55.779><c> pick</c><00:14:55.940><c>-up</c><00:14:56.120><c> lines?</c>

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Or<00:14:58.059><c> your</c><00:14:58.259><c> best</c><00:14:58.419><c> pick</c><00:14:58.620><c>-up</c><00:14:58.799><c> line?</c>

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What<00:14:59.220><c> would</c><00:14:59.360><c> be</c><00:14:59.500><c> your</c><00:14:59.659><c> best</c><00:14:59.820><c> pick</c><00:15:00.019><c>-up</c><00:15:00.179><c> line?</c>

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Do<00:15:01.379><c> you</c><00:15:01.379><c> have</c><00:15:01.500><c> a</c><00:15:01.639><c> pick</c><00:15:01.740><c>-up</c><00:15:01.879><c> line?</c>

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You<00:15:02.919><c> don't</c><00:15:03.059><c> have</c><00:15:03.179><c> a</c><00:15:03.279><c> pick</c><00:15:03.379><c>-up</c><00:15:03.500><c> line.</c><00:15:03.860><c> John?</c>

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I've<00:15:04.480><c> been</c><00:15:04.600><c> telling</c><00:15:04.740><c> this</c><00:15:05.019><c> one</c><00:15:05.220><c> around.</c>

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I<00:15:07.340><c> have</c><00:15:07.580><c> a</c><00:15:07.700><c> new</c><00:15:07.919><c> thing</c><00:15:08.120><c> that</c>

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when<00:15:09.019><c> you</c><00:15:09.299><c> walk</c><00:15:09.600><c> around</c>

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and<00:15:10.879><c> you're</c><00:15:11.179><c> looking</c><00:15:11.500><c> at</c><00:15:11.580><c> something</c>

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and<00:15:11.799><c> you've</c><00:15:12.519><c> got</c><00:15:12.700><c> a</c><00:15:13.039><c> pretty</c><00:15:13.039><c> girl</c><00:15:13.200><c> and</c><00:15:13.440><c> you're</c><00:15:13.720><c> like</c>

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I<00:15:14.220><c> lost</c><00:15:14.460><c> my</c><00:15:14.779><c> phone</c><00:15:14.960><c> number,</c><00:15:15.720><c> can</c><00:15:15.879><c> I</c><00:15:16.000><c> get</c><00:15:16.179><c> it?</c>

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That's<00:15:18.100><c> pretty</c><00:15:18.340><c> neat.</c>

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I<00:15:18.720><c> can't.</c>

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My<00:15:23.159><c> friend</c><00:15:23.360><c> wants</c><00:15:23.600><c> to</c><00:15:23.720><c> know</c><00:15:23.799><c> if</c><00:15:23.899><c> you</c><00:15:23.899><c> want</c><00:15:24.080><c> to</c><00:15:24.179><c> be</c><00:15:24.279><c> with</c><00:15:24.500><c> me.</c>

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My<00:15:28.960><c> friend</c><00:15:29.159><c> wants</c><00:15:29.460><c> to</c><00:15:29.600><c> know</c><00:15:29.679><c> if</c><00:15:29.799><c> you're</c><00:15:30.279><c> going</c><00:15:30.279><c> to</c>

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want<00:15:30.360><c> to</c><00:15:30.500><c> be</c><00:15:30.580><c> with</c><00:15:30.799><c> me.</c>

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She's<00:15:32.259><c> not</c><00:15:32.399><c> wanting</c><00:15:32.639><c> to</c><00:15:32.799><c> be</c><00:15:32.840><c> on</c><00:15:32.960><c> the</c><00:15:33.179><c> phone.</c>

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She's<00:15:34.360><c> like,</c><00:15:34.519><c> she's</c><00:15:35.059><c> my</c><00:15:35.299><c> kid.</c>

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She's<00:15:36.440><c> going</c><00:15:36.519><c> to</c><00:15:36.639><c> grab</c><00:15:36.960><c> on</c><00:15:37.159><c> me</c><00:15:37.340><c> like</c>

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it<00:15:38.240><c> doesn't</c><00:15:38.440><c> matter.</c>

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What?

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She'll<00:15:41.279><c> run</c><00:15:41.440><c> up</c><00:15:41.620><c> and</c><00:15:42.320><c> catch</c><00:15:42.840><c> himself</c>

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and<00:15:43.419><c> go</c><00:15:43.600><c> do</c><00:15:43.820><c> a</c><00:15:43.980><c> stuntman.</c>

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Look,<00:15:51.639><c> pick</c><00:15:51.860><c>-up</c><00:15:52.000><c> lines</c><00:15:52.240><c> and</c><00:15:52.399><c> things</c><00:15:52.539><c> like</c><00:15:52.759><c> that</c>

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can<00:15:53.120><c> be</c><00:15:54.059><c> interesting.</c><00:15:54.559><c> They</c><00:15:54.659><c> can</c><00:15:54.879><c> be</c><00:15:55.100><c> corny.</c>

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But<00:15:56.120><c> again,</c><00:15:56.720><c> those</c><00:15:56.980><c> things</c>

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are

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they're<00:16:00.059><c> by</c><00:16:00.159><c> God's</c><00:16:00.659><c> design.</c>

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Sometimes<00:16:02.259><c> he</c><00:16:02.460><c> puts</c><00:16:02.820><c> two</c>

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like<00:16:03.860><c> kind</c><00:16:04.179><c> of</c><00:16:04.320><c> people</c><00:16:04.519><c> together.</c>

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Like<00:16:05.320><c> two</c><00:16:05.700><c> extroverts.</c><00:16:06.120><c> Sometimes</c><00:16:06.460><c> he'll</c><00:16:06.759><c> put</c>

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two<00:16:07.759><c> introverts</c><00:16:08.379><c> together</c><00:16:08.639><c> and</c><00:16:08.840><c> sometimes</c>

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an<00:16:09.440><c> extrovert</c><00:16:09.740><c> and</c><00:16:09.879><c> an</c><00:16:10.100><c> introvert.</c>

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The<00:16:11.100><c> point</c><00:16:11.299><c> is</c><00:16:11.539><c> that</c><00:16:11.779><c> when</c><00:16:12.039><c> the</c><00:16:12.259><c> chemistry</c><00:16:12.600><c> works</c>

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when<00:16:13.940><c> the</c><00:16:14.279><c> spark</c><00:16:14.519><c> happens</c>

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then<00:16:15.360><c> you</c><00:16:15.500><c> know</c><00:16:15.659><c> that</c><00:16:15.799><c> it's</c><00:16:15.980><c> happening.</c>

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But<00:16:18.500><c> if</c><00:16:19.019><c> you're</c><00:16:19.139><c> two</c><00:16:19.340><c> introverts</c>

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obviously<00:16:20.019><c> you</c><00:16:20.159><c> have</c><00:16:20.340><c> to</c><00:16:20.460><c> work</c><00:16:20.659><c> through</c><00:16:20.820><c> that</c><00:16:20.940><c> yourself.</c>

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Nobody's<00:16:21.840><c> going</c><00:16:21.940><c> to</c><00:16:22.000><c> be</c><00:16:22.139><c> able</c><00:16:22.379><c> to</c>

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because<00:16:23.759><c> every</c><00:16:24.379><c> relationship</c><00:16:25.019><c> that's</c><00:16:25.279><c> ever</c>

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formed<00:16:25.820><c> is</c><00:16:26.039><c> like</c><00:16:26.220><c> an</c><00:16:26.399><c> eggshell.</c><00:16:26.820><c> It's</c><00:16:26.919><c> unique.</c>

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It's<00:16:28.159><c> absolutely</c><00:16:28.580><c> unique.</c>

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While<00:16:30.200><c> you</c><00:16:30.340><c> can</c><00:16:30.519><c> talk</c><00:16:30.740><c> about</c>

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relationships<00:16:31.980><c> in</c><00:16:32.240><c> general</c><00:16:32.559><c> terms</c>

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we<00:16:33.700><c> cannot</c><00:16:33.919><c> talk</c><00:16:34.200><c> about</c><00:16:34.639><c> relationships</c>

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in<00:16:35.360><c> specific</c><00:16:35.860><c> terms.</c>

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Because<00:16:37.000><c> they</c><00:16:37.240><c> will</c><00:16:37.519><c> be</c><00:16:37.659><c> unique</c><00:16:37.980><c> to</c><00:16:38.379><c> each</c>

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situation.

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Anything<00:16:43.639><c> else</c><00:16:43.919><c> you</c><00:16:44.120><c> got?</c>

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Alright,<00:16:46.279><c> so</c><00:16:46.340><c> one</c><00:16:46.460><c> of</c><00:16:46.559><c> the</c><00:16:46.600><c> things</c><00:16:46.700><c> that</c>

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I'll<00:16:47.980><c> probably</c><00:16:48.200><c> talk</c><00:16:48.460><c> about</c><00:16:48.679><c> now</c>

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just<00:16:49.039><c> for</c><00:16:49.200><c> a</c><00:16:49.279><c> little</c><00:16:49.460><c> while</c><00:16:49.919><c> is</c><00:16:50.539><c> that</c>

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I<00:16:53.700><c> mentioned</c><00:16:54.039><c> the</c><00:16:54.200><c> other</c><00:16:54.360><c> day</c><00:16:54.559><c> about</c><00:16:54.860><c> the</c><00:16:55.679><c> whole</c>

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issue<00:16:56.120><c> of</c><00:16:56.240><c> an</c><00:16:56.480><c> interview.</c>

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That<00:16:57.399><c> before</c><00:16:57.620><c> you</c><00:16:57.759><c> get</c><00:16:57.919><c> married,</c><00:16:58.220><c> I</c><00:16:58.240><c> mean</c><00:16:58.399><c> if</c><00:16:58.620><c> you</c><00:16:58.919><c> are</c>

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a<00:16:59.299><c> Christadelfian</c><00:16:59.860><c> young</c><00:17:00.039><c> person</c>

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and<00:17:01.100><c> you</c><00:17:01.259><c> are</c><00:17:01.539><c> baptized,</c><00:17:02.100><c> you've</c><00:17:02.299><c> made</c><00:17:02.500><c> a</c><00:17:02.700><c> commitment</c>

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you've<00:17:03.299><c> entered</c><00:17:03.500><c> into</c><00:17:03.860><c> a</c><00:17:03.960><c> covenant</c><00:17:04.160><c> relationship</c><00:17:04.799><c> with</c>

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God<00:17:05.220><c> through</c><00:17:05.420><c> Christ</c><00:17:05.700><c> Jesus.</c>

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You've<00:17:07.220><c> made</c><00:17:07.420><c> that</c><00:17:07.660><c> commitment.</c><00:17:08.500><c> You're</c><00:17:08.720><c> a</c><00:17:08.880><c> person</c>

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that's<00:17:09.339><c> a</c><00:17:09.500><c> believer</c><00:17:09.759><c> and</c><00:17:10.059><c> now</c><00:17:10.440><c> you</c><00:17:10.599><c> want</c><00:17:10.740><c> to</c><00:17:10.839><c> get</c>

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married.<00:17:12.440><c> And</c><00:17:12.500><c> in</c>

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our<00:17:13.180><c> community</c><00:17:13.519><c> we</c><00:17:13.680><c> have</c><00:17:13.900><c> very</c><00:17:14.440><c> little</c>

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information.

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Practical<00:17:17.440><c> information</c><00:17:18.019><c> on</c><00:17:18.319><c> how</c>

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young<00:17:19.240><c> people</c><00:17:19.519><c> should</c><00:17:19.759><c> behave</c><00:17:20.039><c> themselves.</c>

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You<00:17:22.920><c> probably</c><00:17:23.200><c> find</c><00:17:23.500><c> that</c><00:17:23.799><c> a</c><00:17:23.920><c> lot</c><00:17:24.000><c> of</c><00:17:24.259><c> the</c><00:17:24.480><c> Pentecostal</c>

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writings

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deal<00:17:27.220><c> a</c><00:17:27.400><c> lot</c><00:17:27.559><c> more</c><00:17:27.779><c> with</c><00:17:27.940><c> this</c><00:17:28.220><c> kind</c><00:17:28.460><c> of</c>

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situation.

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There's

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Timothy<00:17:37.480><c> and</c>

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I<00:17:38.119><c> think</c><00:17:38.380><c> it's</c><00:17:38.900><c> Beverly</c><00:17:39.160><c> or</c><00:17:39.480><c> Dorothy</c>

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I<00:17:39.839><c> can't</c><00:17:40.099><c> remember,</c><00:17:40.680><c> Lahay.</c>

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And<00:17:41.740><c> they</c><00:17:42.640><c> wrote</c><00:17:42.859><c> a</c><00:17:42.980><c> book</c><00:17:43.180><c> called</c>

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The<00:17:43.660><c> Act</c><00:17:43.900><c> of</c><00:17:44.059><c> Marriage.</c>

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Which<00:17:45.440><c> deals</c><00:17:45.700><c> with</c><00:17:46.059><c> sex</c><00:17:46.279><c> from</c><00:17:46.700><c> a</c><00:17:46.900><c> Christian</c>

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point<00:17:47.619><c> of</c><00:17:47.740><c> view</c><00:17:47.900><c> and</c><00:17:48.180><c> the</c><00:17:48.319><c> whole</c><00:17:48.539><c> thing</c><00:17:48.720><c> about</c><00:17:49.059><c> how</c><00:17:49.240><c> we</c><00:17:49.420><c> should</c>

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behave<00:17:49.859><c> ourselves</c><00:17:50.339><c> and</c><00:17:50.519><c> things</c><00:17:50.720><c> like</c><00:17:50.980><c> that.</c>

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Which<00:17:52.059><c> is</c><00:17:52.259><c> the</c><00:17:52.359><c> book</c><00:17:52.500><c> that</c><00:17:52.680><c> we</c><00:17:52.859><c> use</c><00:17:52.980><c> back</c><00:17:53.319><c> home.</c>

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you're<00:18:22.180><c> still</c><00:18:22.299><c> going</c><00:18:22.420><c> to</c><00:18:22.500><c> have</c><00:18:22.599><c> problems</c><00:18:22.960><c> but</c><00:18:23.119><c> it</c><00:18:23.279><c> just</c><00:18:23.440><c> helps</c><00:18:23.599><c> you</c>

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looking<00:18:39.799><c> through</c><00:18:40.059><c> rose</c><00:18:40.420><c> tinted</c><00:18:40.920><c> glasses</c>

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you<00:18:43.920><c> kind</c><00:18:44.140><c> of</c><00:18:44.359><c> often</c><00:18:44.960><c> see</c>

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person<00:18:47.900><c> that</c><00:18:48.119><c> you</c><00:18:48.339><c> now</c><00:18:48.559><c> want</c><00:18:48.700><c> to</c><00:18:48.799><c> get</c><00:18:48.960><c> married</c><00:18:49.140><c> to</c><00:18:49.299><c> that</c><00:18:49.440><c> you</c>

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that<00:18:52.680><c> you</c><00:18:53.180><c> have</c><00:18:53.339><c> now</c>

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come<00:18:54.140><c> before</c><00:18:54.579><c> an</c><00:18:55.480><c> older</c>

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brother<00:18:56.019><c> and</c><00:18:56.200><c> older</c><00:18:56.460><c> sister</c><00:18:56.599><c> and</c><00:18:56.759><c> said</c><00:18:56.880><c> look</c><00:18:57.140><c> we</c><00:18:57.259><c> want</c><00:18:57.420><c> to</c><00:18:57.519><c> get</c>

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I<00:19:00.140><c> mean</c><00:19:00.359><c> their</c><00:19:00.819><c> heads</c><00:19:01.039><c> are</c><00:19:01.299><c> spinning.</c>

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she's<00:19:06.119><c> introduced</c><00:19:06.500><c> or</c><00:19:07.000><c> he's</c><00:19:07.380><c> introduced</c>

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her<00:19:07.839><c> to</c><00:19:08.019><c> the</c><00:19:08.200><c> truth</c><00:19:08.380><c> and</c><00:19:08.539><c> they</c><00:19:08.799><c> are</c><00:19:09.059><c> now</c>

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really

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and

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interesting<00:19:22.099><c> little</c><00:19:22.940><c> things</c>

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which<00:19:24.779><c> people</c><00:19:25.059><c> don't</c><00:19:25.400><c> normally</c>

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think<00:19:26.019><c> about.</c>

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about<00:19:29.900><c> the</c><00:19:30.079><c> other</c><00:19:30.279><c> night</c><00:19:30.480><c> was</c><00:19:30.819><c> things</c><00:19:31.119><c> like</c>

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cats.

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I<00:19:35.819><c> have</c><00:19:36.039><c> a</c><00:19:36.200><c> daughter</c><00:19:36.359><c> over</c><00:19:36.619><c> here</c><00:19:36.799><c> that</c><00:19:36.980><c> loves</c><00:19:37.180><c> cats.</c>

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same.<00:19:40.279><c> When</c><00:19:40.480><c> I</c><00:19:40.700><c> met</c><00:19:40.839><c> Wendeth</c><00:19:41.299><c> she</c>

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just<00:19:46.319><c> a</c><00:19:46.900><c> fellow</c><00:19:47.039><c> off</c><00:19:47.279><c> the</c><00:19:47.359><c> street</c>

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long<00:19:47.799><c> hair</c><00:19:48.160><c> you</c><00:19:48.160><c> know</c>

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mouth,<00:19:50.319><c> bowel,</c><00:19:50.640><c> breath</c><00:19:50.819><c> and</c><00:19:50.960><c> all</c><00:19:51.099><c> that</c><00:19:51.259><c> kind</c><00:19:51.400><c> of</c><00:19:51.539><c> stuff.</c>

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Okay.

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woman<00:19:58.579><c> that</c><00:19:58.900><c> had</c>

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got<00:20:00.200><c> her</c><00:20:00.480><c> job.</c><00:20:00.779><c> She</c><00:20:00.960><c> was</c><00:20:01.359><c> doing</c>

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well.<00:20:02.180><c> She</c><00:20:02.339><c> drove</c><00:20:02.599><c> her</c><00:20:02.779><c> own</c><00:20:02.980><c> car,</c><00:20:03.259><c> had</c><00:20:03.400><c> her</c><00:20:03.539><c> own</c>

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apartment,<00:20:04.339><c> had</c><00:20:04.460><c> her</c><00:20:04.619><c> own</c><00:20:04.859><c> furniture,</c><00:20:05.420><c> had</c><00:20:05.539><c> her</c><00:20:05.680><c> own</c>

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fridge<00:20:06.079><c> and</c><00:20:06.299><c> so</c><00:20:06.539><c> all</c><00:20:07.059><c> I</c><00:20:07.279><c> had</c><00:20:07.380><c> was</c>

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a<00:20:11.279><c> grass</c><00:20:11.579><c> pipe</c>

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in<00:20:11.940><c> my</c><00:20:12.579><c> pocket</c>

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bachelor's<00:20:27.900><c> breakfast</c><00:20:28.140><c> which</c><00:20:28.460><c> is</c><00:20:28.660><c> quite</c><00:20:28.839><c> interesting.</c>

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boring<00:20:31.640><c> seven</c><00:20:32.059><c> days</c><00:20:32.259><c> a</c><00:20:32.420><c> week</c><00:20:32.599><c> but</c><00:20:32.880><c> if</c><00:20:33.059><c> ever</c><00:20:33.180><c> you</c>

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it<00:20:36.839><c> means</c><00:20:37.079><c> that</c>

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you<00:20:37.400><c> only</c><00:20:37.900><c> dirty</c><00:20:38.319><c> one</c><00:20:38.599><c> thing.</c>

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frying<00:20:41.779><c> pan.</c>

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Tomatoes.

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Little<00:20:53.720><c> bit</c><00:20:53.859><c> of</c><00:20:53.980><c> milk.</c><00:20:54.720><c> Mash</c><00:20:54.900><c> it</c><00:20:55.079><c> all</c><00:20:55.200><c> up</c>

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and<00:20:55.940><c> you</c><00:20:56.099><c> make</c><00:20:56.299><c> yourself</c>

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scrambled<00:20:57.460><c> egg</c><00:20:57.799><c> with</c><00:20:58.299><c> onions</c><00:20:58.720><c> and</c><00:20:59.099><c> tomatoes</c>

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inside<00:20:59.920><c> with</c><00:21:00.400><c> a</c><00:21:00.640><c> salt</c>

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and<00:21:01.480><c> at</c><00:21:01.640><c> the</c><00:21:01.740><c> same</c><00:21:01.960><c> time</c><00:21:02.220><c> the</c><00:21:02.480><c> toast</c><00:21:02.700><c> is</c><00:21:02.900><c> going.</c>

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Take<00:21:03.380><c> the</c><00:21:03.640><c> toast,</c><00:21:03.920><c> put</c><00:21:04.059><c> it</c><00:21:04.220><c> there,</c><00:21:04.380><c> put</c><00:21:04.539><c> the</c><00:21:04.720><c> fried</c><00:21:04.859><c> egg</c><00:21:04.940><c> on</c>

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little<00:21:05.880><c> bit</c><00:21:06.079><c> of</c><00:21:06.240><c> ketchup</c><00:21:06.420><c> on</c><00:21:06.619><c> the</c><00:21:06.799><c> top</c>

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salt<00:21:07.400><c> and</c><00:21:07.599><c> pepper</c><00:21:07.759><c> and</c><00:21:08.039><c> you</c><00:21:08.180><c> eat</c><00:21:08.240><c> it</c><00:21:08.400><c> out</c><00:21:08.480><c> of</c><00:21:08.599><c> the</c><00:21:08.740><c> frying</c><00:21:08.880><c> pan</c>

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wash<00:21:09.599><c> the</c><00:21:09.819><c> frying</c><00:21:10.000><c> pan</c><00:21:10.319><c> ready</c><00:21:10.700><c> for</c><00:21:10.900><c> the</c><00:21:11.019><c> next</c><00:21:11.160><c> meal.</c>

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See?

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Oh<00:21:16.019><c> yeah,</c><00:21:16.500><c> yeah.</c><00:21:16.660><c> Well</c><00:21:16.779><c> it's</c><00:21:16.960><c> just</c><00:21:17.140><c> one</c><00:21:17.359><c> knife.</c>

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One<00:21:18.519><c> knife</c><00:21:18.799><c> and</c><00:21:18.980><c> a</c><00:21:19.099><c> little</c><00:21:19.240><c> board.</c>

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Okay,<00:21:22.940><c> okay.</c><00:21:23.220><c> You</c><00:21:23.359><c> guys</c><00:21:23.519><c> are</c><00:21:23.660><c> getting</c>

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technical<00:21:24.259><c> here.</c><00:21:24.799><c> You</c><00:21:25.000><c> guys</c><00:21:25.180><c> are</c><00:21:25.299><c> getting</c><00:21:25.420><c> technical.</c>

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But<00:21:26.519><c> the</c><00:21:26.720><c> point</c><00:21:26.839><c> that</c><00:21:26.980><c> I</c><00:21:27.079><c> was</c><00:21:27.200><c> trying</c><00:21:27.319><c> to</c><00:21:27.420><c> make</c><00:21:27.559><c> is</c><00:21:27.700><c> that</c>

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when<00:21:27.980><c> I</c><00:21:28.140><c> met</c><00:21:28.259><c> with</c><00:21:28.440><c> this,</c><00:21:29.099><c> I</c><00:21:29.279><c> had</c><00:21:29.460><c> to</c><00:21:29.579><c> move</c><00:21:29.680><c> into</c>

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her<00:21:30.039><c> apartment</c><00:21:30.519><c> so</c><00:21:30.740><c> we</c><00:21:30.900><c> had</c><00:21:31.039><c> this</c>

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what<00:21:32.619><c> did</c><00:21:32.980><c> you</c><00:21:33.019><c> eat</c><00:21:33.180><c> it</c><00:21:33.319><c> with?</c>

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What<00:21:35.160><c> do</c><00:21:35.259><c> you</c><00:21:35.359><c> drink</c><00:21:35.539><c> with</c><00:21:35.720><c> it?</c>

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But<00:21:36.680><c> you</c><00:21:37.359><c> know</c><00:21:37.519><c> that</c><00:21:37.700><c> you</c>

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shouldn't<00:21:38.140><c> eat</c><00:21:38.420><c> and</c><00:21:38.640><c> drink</c><00:21:38.779><c> together.</c>

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Otherwise<00:21:40.579><c> you</c><00:21:40.839><c> wick</c><00:21:41.000><c> your</c><00:21:41.259><c> digestive</c>

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juices.<00:21:42.119><c> We</c><00:21:42.279><c> just</c><00:21:42.480><c> learnt</c><00:21:42.660><c> that.</c><00:21:42.799><c> We</c><00:21:42.940><c> come</c><00:21:43.099><c> to</c><00:21:43.259><c> America</c>

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to<00:21:43.680><c> learn</c><00:21:43.880><c> that</c><00:21:44.119><c> you</c><00:21:44.579><c> wick</c><00:21:44.799><c> your</c><00:21:44.980><c> digestive</c>

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but<00:21:45.819><c> that's</c><00:21:46.039><c> not</c><00:21:46.240><c> the</c><00:21:46.440><c> class</c><00:21:46.619><c> right</c><00:21:46.900><c> now.</c>

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But<00:21:53.299><c> just</c><00:21:53.440><c> getting</c><00:21:53.539><c> back</c>

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to<00:21:54.160><c> our</c><00:21:54.559><c> early</c><00:21:54.799><c> marriage</c>

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we<00:21:56.900><c> were</c><00:21:57.079><c> sitting</c><00:21:57.220><c> in</c><00:21:57.359><c> this</c><00:21:57.500><c> situation</c>

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that<00:21:57.940><c> she</c><00:21:58.099><c> was</c><00:21:58.279><c> earning</c><00:21:58.480><c> three</c><00:21:58.759><c> times</c><00:21:59.039><c> my</c><00:21:59.259><c> salary.</c>

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She<00:22:00.660><c> had</c><00:22:00.819><c> the</c><00:22:01.000><c> fancy</c><00:22:01.279><c> car</c>

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and<00:22:01.720><c> I</c><00:22:01.799><c> had</c><00:22:02.059><c> the</c><00:22:02.319><c> broken</c><00:22:02.619><c> down</c><00:22:02.920><c> car.</c>

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She<00:22:03.480><c> had</c><00:22:03.640><c> the</c><00:22:03.839><c> apartment</c><00:22:04.180><c> and</c><00:22:04.359><c> I</c><00:22:04.440><c> had</c><00:22:04.599><c> nothing.</c>

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So<00:22:05.579><c> when</c><00:22:05.759><c> I</c><00:22:05.900><c> moved</c><00:22:06.039><c> in</c><00:22:06.200><c> I</c><00:22:06.299><c> slept</c><00:22:06.480><c> in</c><00:22:06.619><c> her</c><00:22:06.880><c> bed</c>

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I<00:22:07.720><c> used</c><00:22:07.880><c> her</c><00:22:08.420><c> refrigerator,</c><00:22:09.099><c> her</c><00:22:09.480><c> stove</c>

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and<00:22:10.599><c> I</c><00:22:10.740><c> had</c><00:22:10.839><c> to</c><00:22:10.980><c> put</c><00:22:11.079><c> up</c><00:22:11.180><c> with</c><00:22:11.359><c> her</c><00:22:11.619><c> cats.</c>

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That's<00:22:12.599><c> where</c><00:22:12.700><c> we</c><00:22:12.759><c> come</c><00:22:12.859><c> into</c><00:22:13.039><c> the</c><00:22:13.259><c> cat</c><00:22:13.519><c> story.</c>

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We<00:22:14.119><c> didn't</c><00:22:14.319><c> want</c><00:22:14.539><c> to</c><00:22:14.720><c> lose</c><00:22:14.920><c> the</c><00:22:15.160><c> cats.</c>

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Proud<00:22:16.720><c> Mary</c><00:22:16.960><c> and</c><00:22:17.160><c> Tiffany.</c><00:22:17.680><c> And</c><00:22:17.740><c> of</c><00:22:17.920><c> course</c>

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the<00:22:18.680><c> cats</c><00:22:18.859><c> slept</c><00:22:19.240><c> on</c><00:22:19.539><c> her</c><00:22:19.799><c> bed</c>

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with<00:22:20.240><c> her</c><00:22:20.539><c> every</c><00:22:20.880><c> night</c><00:22:21.220><c> and</c><00:22:21.339><c> I</c><00:22:21.559><c> wasn't</c><00:22:21.740><c> moving</c>

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into<00:22:22.259><c> her</c><00:22:22.500><c> space</c><00:22:22.920><c> and</c><00:22:23.059><c> I</c><00:22:23.160><c> was</c><00:22:23.299><c> sleeping</c><00:22:23.519><c> in</c><00:22:23.680><c> that</c><00:22:23.900><c> bed</c>

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and<00:22:24.200><c> I</c><00:22:24.359><c> didn't</c><00:22:24.500><c> like</c><00:22:24.660><c> the</c><00:22:24.920><c> cats</c><00:22:25.140><c> on</c><00:22:25.359><c> the</c><00:22:25.539><c> bed.</c>

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I<00:22:26.099><c> didn't</c><00:22:26.240><c> want</c><00:22:26.339><c> to</c><00:22:26.559><c> share</c><00:22:26.720><c> my</c><00:22:26.960><c> wife</c><00:22:27.220><c> with</c><00:22:27.420><c> these</c><00:22:27.680><c> cats.</c>

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So<00:22:29.059><c> that</c><00:22:29.420><c> caused</c><00:22:29.660><c> a</c><00:22:29.759><c> lot</c><00:22:29.880><c> of</c><00:22:30.059><c> friction.</c>

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So<00:22:31.119><c> you</c><00:22:31.279><c> need</c><00:22:31.400><c> to</c><00:22:31.599><c> deal</c><00:22:31.759><c> with</c><00:22:31.900><c> that</c>

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kind<00:22:32.299><c> of</c><00:22:32.420><c> thing</c><00:22:32.519><c> before</c><00:22:32.839><c> the</c><00:22:33.079><c> event.</c><00:22:33.319><c> I</c><00:22:33.359><c> mean</c><00:22:33.539><c> if</c><00:22:33.680><c> you've</c><00:22:33.940><c> got</c>

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somebody<00:22:34.980><c> like</c><00:22:35.240><c> Rachel</c><00:22:35.500><c> who</c><00:22:35.660><c> loves</c><00:22:35.900><c> cats</c>

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and<00:22:36.359><c> she's</c><00:22:36.599><c> with</c><00:22:36.720><c> a</c><00:22:36.859><c> guy</c><00:22:36.980><c> that</c><00:22:37.160><c> hates</c><00:22:37.400><c> cats,</c><00:22:37.640><c> you're</c><00:22:37.900><c> going</c><00:22:37.940><c> to</c>

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have<00:22:38.079><c> a</c><00:22:38.200><c> major</c><00:22:38.400><c> problem</c><00:22:38.740><c> down</c><00:22:38.960><c> the</c><00:22:39.140><c> line.</c><00:22:39.339><c> But</c><00:22:39.700><c> you</c><00:22:39.839><c> never</c>

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think<00:22:40.319><c> about</c><00:22:40.460><c> it</c><00:22:40.720><c> because</c><00:22:41.079><c> she's</c><00:22:41.339><c> so</c><00:22:41.460><c> much</c><00:22:41.599><c> in</c><00:22:41.779><c> love</c><00:22:41.880><c> right</c><00:22:42.140><c> now.</c>

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So<00:22:43.359><c> what</c><00:22:43.799><c> I've</c><00:22:44.019><c> got</c><00:22:44.200><c> here</c>

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is<00:22:45.319><c> this</c><00:22:45.640><c> is</c><00:22:45.839><c> a</c>

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little<00:22:46.380><c> chart</c><00:22:46.660><c> that</c><00:22:46.819><c> we</c><00:22:46.980><c> go</c><00:22:47.160><c> through</c><00:22:47.539><c> over</c><00:22:47.920><c> here</c>

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and<00:22:49.200><c> what</c><00:22:49.380><c> would</c>

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happen<00:22:50.559><c> is</c><00:22:51.299><c> that</c><00:22:51.500><c> I</c><00:22:51.599><c> would</c><00:22:51.740><c> have</c>

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him<00:22:52.680><c> over</c><00:22:52.920><c> there</c><00:22:53.279><c> and</c><00:22:53.640><c> her</c><00:22:53.839><c> over</c><00:22:54.099><c> there</c>

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Wyneth<00:22:55.819><c> and</c><00:22:55.940><c> myself.</c>

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We'd<00:22:56.480><c> go</c><00:22:56.579><c> through</c><00:22:56.700><c> a</c><00:22:56.759><c> whole</c><00:22:56.859><c> lot</c><00:22:57.000><c> of</c><00:22:57.220><c> questions</c><00:22:57.680><c> and</c>

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a<00:22:58.279><c> whole</c><00:22:58.440><c> lot</c><00:22:58.579><c> of</c><00:22:58.859><c> discussion</c><00:22:59.140><c> stuff</c><00:22:59.500><c> and</c>

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what<00:23:00.259><c> not.</c><00:23:00.519><c> But</c><00:23:00.720><c> we</c><00:23:00.900><c> normally</c><00:23:01.140><c> end</c><00:23:01.359><c> up</c><00:23:01.539><c> with</c><00:23:01.700><c> this</c><00:23:01.880><c> little</c>

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chart<00:23:02.440><c> and</c><00:23:02.980><c> this</c><00:23:03.160><c> little</c><00:23:03.400><c> chart</c><00:23:03.660><c> is</c><00:23:03.880><c> basically</c>

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to<00:23:04.920><c> try</c><00:23:05.079><c> and</c><00:23:05.319><c> find</c><00:23:05.519><c> out</c>

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where<00:23:06.240><c> there</c><00:23:06.359><c> are</c><00:23:06.660><c> problem</c><00:23:06.839><c> areas.</c><00:23:07.680><c> I'd</c><00:23:08.000><c> ask</c>

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her<00:23:08.460><c> a</c><00:23:08.519><c> number</c><00:23:08.740><c> of</c><00:23:08.940><c> questions</c><00:23:09.220><c> and</c><00:23:09.380><c> she</c><00:23:09.539><c> would</c><00:23:09.740><c> rate</c><00:23:10.019><c> her</c>

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partner<00:23:10.779><c> one</c><00:23:11.880><c> to</c><00:23:12.099><c> five</c>

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on<00:23:13.519><c> how</c><00:23:13.940><c> she</c>

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understands<00:23:14.779><c> her</c><00:23:15.039><c> partner</c><00:23:15.240><c> so</c><00:23:15.460><c> that</c><00:23:15.559><c> she</c><00:23:15.640><c> can</c><00:23:15.779><c> be</c><00:23:15.980><c> a</c><00:23:16.079><c> little</c><00:23:16.200><c> bit</c>

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more<00:23:16.559><c> focused</c><00:23:17.200><c> and</c>

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not<00:23:18.579><c> just</c><00:23:18.799><c> be</c><00:23:19.019><c> a</c><00:23:19.160><c> hot</c><00:23:19.339><c> thing.</c><00:23:19.700><c> It</c><00:23:19.700><c> also</c><00:23:20.059><c> now</c>

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becomes<00:23:20.579><c> a</c><00:23:20.720><c> little</c><00:23:20.859><c> bit</c><00:23:21.019><c> of</c><00:23:21.180><c> a</c><00:23:21.200><c> head</c><00:23:21.339><c> thing.</c>

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And<00:23:22.720><c> when</c><00:23:22.880><c> I</c><00:23:23.059><c> ask</c><00:23:23.220><c> her</c><00:23:23.420><c> the</c><00:23:23.640><c> questions,</c><00:23:24.339><c> I</c>

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would<00:23:24.539><c> rate,</c>

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give<00:23:25.960><c> her</c><00:23:26.720><c> a</c><00:23:26.819><c> rating</c><00:23:27.140><c> the</c><00:23:27.460><c> way</c><00:23:27.539><c> she's</c><00:23:27.799><c> rating</c><00:23:28.059><c> him.</c>

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And<00:23:28.839><c> then</c><00:23:28.980><c> when</c><00:23:29.119><c> I</c><00:23:29.319><c> ask</c><00:23:29.720><c> the</c><00:23:29.980><c> other</c><00:23:30.140><c> one</c>

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or<00:23:31.000><c> the</c><00:23:31.160><c> other</c><00:23:31.319><c> part</c><00:23:31.460><c> of</c><00:23:31.579><c> the</c><00:23:31.660><c> questions,</c><00:23:31.920><c> I</c><00:23:32.019><c> ask</c><00:23:32.140><c> them</c>

00:23:32.259 --> 00:23:34.359
in<00:23:32.400><c> a</c><00:23:32.539><c> different</c><00:23:32.720><c> order</c><00:23:33.059><c> so</c><00:23:33.359><c> she</c><00:23:33.539><c> can't</c><00:23:33.859><c> remember</c>

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how<00:23:35.119><c> it</c><00:23:35.319><c> was</c><00:23:35.480><c> done.</c>

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Alright,<00:23:36.740><c> so</c>

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I'm<00:23:38.279><c> going</c><00:23:38.460><c> to</c><00:23:38.940><c> run</c><00:23:39.539><c> through</c><00:23:39.759><c> some</c>

00:23:39.980 --> 00:23:42.059
of<00:23:40.079><c> these</c><00:23:40.220><c> and</c><00:23:40.359><c> you</c><00:23:40.500><c> might</c><00:23:40.680><c> think</c><00:23:40.859><c> that</c><00:23:41.140><c> a</c><00:23:41.259><c> lot</c><00:23:41.339><c> of</c><00:23:41.480><c> them</c><00:23:41.599><c> are</c>

00:23:42.059 --> 00:23:43.940
crazy,<00:23:42.880><c> but</c><00:23:43.079><c> they</c><00:23:43.460><c> form</c><00:23:43.680><c> nice</c>

00:23:43.940 --> 00:23:45.859
little<00:23:44.259><c> points</c><00:23:44.619><c> of</c><00:23:44.960><c> discussion</c><00:23:45.279><c> like</c><00:23:45.579><c> the</c>

00:23:45.859 --> 00:23:47.359
whole<00:23:46.039><c> issue</c><00:23:46.279><c> of</c><00:23:46.539><c> cats.</c>

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So<00:23:48.119><c> let's</c><00:23:48.380><c> just</c><00:23:48.539><c> say</c><00:23:48.640><c> for</c><00:23:48.859><c> example</c><00:23:49.319><c> I've</c><00:23:49.740><c> got</c>

00:23:52.059 --> 00:23:53.980
two<00:23:52.579><c> young</c><00:23:52.759><c> people</c><00:23:53.079><c> on</c><00:23:53.259><c> my</c><00:23:53.420><c> right</c><00:23:53.559><c> hand</c><00:23:53.779><c> side</c>

00:23:53.980 --> 00:23:55.779
here<00:23:54.140><c> that</c><00:23:54.660><c> are</c><00:23:54.960><c> mad</c><00:23:55.059><c> about</c><00:23:55.279><c> each</c><00:23:55.519><c> other</c>

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and<00:23:56.559><c> I'll</c><00:23:56.960><c> say</c><00:23:57.039><c> to</c><00:23:57.539><c> him</c>

00:23:58.119 --> 00:23:59.940
I'm<00:23:59.119><c> going</c><00:23:59.299><c> to</c><00:23:59.400><c> ask</c><00:23:59.680><c> you</c>

00:23:59.940 --> 00:24:01.400
to<00:24:00.119><c> rate</c><00:24:00.279><c> her</c><00:24:00.519><c> now.</c>

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One<00:24:03.680><c> to</c><00:24:03.880><c> five</c>

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or<00:24:04.900><c> zero</c><00:24:05.140><c> to</c><00:24:05.339><c> five.</c>

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Zero<00:24:07.240><c> to</c><00:24:07.259><c> five.</c><00:24:07.640><c> Zero</c><00:24:08.059><c> means</c>

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nothing<00:24:09.400><c> at</c><00:24:09.640><c> all.</c>

00:24:10.240 --> 00:24:12.440
Three<00:24:10.460><c> means</c><00:24:11.519><c> kind</c><00:24:11.839><c> of</c><00:24:12.019><c> moderately.</c>

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Five<00:24:12.980><c> means</c><00:24:13.279><c> extremely.</c>

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So<00:24:14.240><c> if</c><00:24:14.359><c> I</c><00:24:14.460><c> say</c><00:24:14.619><c> to</c><00:24:14.720><c> you,</c><00:24:15.079><c> how</c><00:24:15.140><c> would</c><00:24:15.359><c> you</c><00:24:15.519><c> rate</c><00:24:15.759><c> Rachel</c>

00:24:16.240 --> 00:24:18.400
as<00:24:17.079><c> being</c><00:24:17.359><c> popular</c><00:24:17.740><c> with</c><00:24:17.900><c> the</c><00:24:18.059><c> opposite</c>

00:24:18.400 --> 00:24:20.339
sex?<00:24:19.299><c> It</c><00:24:19.480><c> means</c><00:24:19.660><c> that</c><00:24:19.799><c> if</c><00:24:19.900><c> you</c><00:24:20.019><c> give</c><00:24:20.140><c> her</c>

00:24:20.339 --> 00:24:22.559
a<00:24:20.460><c> zero,</c><00:24:20.880><c> she's</c><00:24:21.099><c> very</c><00:24:21.380><c> unsexy.</c><00:24:22.019><c> Nobody</c><00:24:22.259><c> else</c>

00:24:22.559 --> 00:24:24.559
here<00:24:23.039><c> in</c><00:24:23.200><c> the</c><00:24:23.319><c> room</c><00:24:23.599><c> is</c><00:24:24.279><c> vaguely</c>

00:24:24.559 --> 00:24:26.299
interested.<00:24:25.220><c> If</c><00:24:25.380><c> you</c><00:24:25.480><c> gave</c><00:24:25.599><c> her</c><00:24:25.759><c> a</c><00:24:25.960><c> three,</c><00:24:26.240><c> it</c>

00:24:26.299 --> 00:24:27.839
means<00:24:26.519><c> that</c><00:24:26.900><c> it's</c><00:24:27.440><c> moderate.</c>

00:24:28.240 --> 00:24:30.299
If<00:24:28.380><c> you</c><00:24:28.579><c> gave</c><00:24:28.740><c> her</c><00:24:29.000><c> a</c><00:24:29.140><c> five,</c><00:24:29.400><c> it</c><00:24:29.460><c> means</c><00:24:29.819><c> extremely</c>

00:24:30.299 --> 00:24:33.200
that<00:24:30.519><c> she</c><00:24:30.660><c> is</c><00:24:30.839><c> very</c><00:24:31.079><c> sexy.</c><00:24:31.819><c> So</c><00:24:32.099><c> one</c><00:24:32.220><c> to</c><00:24:32.420><c> five.</c>

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Unfair.

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But<00:24:36.460><c> it's</c><00:24:36.640><c> okay.</c><00:24:36.960><c> I</c><00:24:37.039><c> mean</c><00:24:37.140><c> it's</c><00:24:37.259><c> only</c><00:24:37.460><c> a</c><00:24:37.599><c> demonstration</c><00:24:38.099><c> now.</c>

00:24:38.279 --> 00:24:39.819
I<00:24:38.359><c> mean</c><00:24:38.460><c> I</c><00:24:38.539><c> could</c><00:24:38.740><c> choose</c><00:24:38.940><c> these</c><00:24:39.180><c> two</c><00:24:39.319><c> guys</c><00:24:39.539><c> too.</c>

00:24:40.000 --> 00:24:42.380
I'll<00:24:40.200><c> move</c><00:24:40.359><c> on</c><00:24:40.619><c> to</c><00:24:40.759><c> them</c><00:24:40.920><c> in</c><00:24:41.059><c> a</c><00:24:41.160><c> couple</c><00:24:41.299><c> of</c><00:24:41.420><c> minutes.</c>

00:24:43.319 --> 00:24:44.000
Four<00:24:43.480><c> and</c><00:24:43.660><c> three</c><00:24:43.819><c> quarters.</c>

00:24:44.079 --> 00:24:45.819
Four<00:24:44.319><c> and</c><00:24:44.440><c> three</c><00:24:44.660><c> quarters.</c><00:24:44.819><c> That's</c><00:24:45.079><c> good.</c>

00:24:46.720 --> 00:24:48.279
Now<00:24:47.119><c> you</c><00:24:47.279><c> see</c><00:24:47.420><c> now,</c><00:24:47.700><c> I</c><00:24:47.700><c> mean</c><00:24:47.799><c> you</c><00:24:47.920><c> go</c><00:24:48.119><c> through</c>

00:24:48.279 --> 00:24:50.619
those<00:24:48.519><c> questions</c><00:24:49.000><c> like</c><00:24:49.380><c> that</c><00:24:49.819><c> and</c>

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I<00:24:51.519><c> mean</c><00:24:51.839><c> he</c>

00:24:52.160 --> 00:24:54.380
might<00:24:52.420><c> rate</c><00:24:52.640><c> her</c><00:24:53.019><c> that</c><00:24:53.319><c> way,</c><00:24:53.940><c> but</c><00:24:54.160><c> she</c>

00:24:54.380 --> 00:24:55.859
might<00:24:54.579><c> rate</c><00:24:54.819><c> him</c><00:24:55.259><c> the</c><00:24:55.500><c> other</c><00:24:55.680><c> way.</c>

00:24:56.359 --> 00:24:58.319
That's<00:24:56.759><c> quite</c><00:24:56.940><c> normal</c><00:24:57.640><c> for</c><00:24:58.119><c> a</c>

00:24:58.319 --> 00:24:59.880
man<00:24:58.519><c> to</c><00:24:58.859><c> think</c><00:24:59.119><c> that</c><00:24:59.480><c> way</c><00:24:59.599><c> because</c>

00:24:59.880 --> 00:25:02.119
we've<00:25:00.539><c> already</c><00:25:00.799><c> established</c><00:25:01.180><c> that</c><00:25:01.380><c> in</c><00:25:01.500><c> that</c><00:25:01.660><c> first</c><00:25:01.859><c> lesson.</c>

00:25:02.119 --> 00:25:04.279
Remember,<00:25:03.019><c> it's</c><00:25:03.180><c> not</c><00:25:03.339><c> a</c><00:25:03.420><c> problem.</c>

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And<00:25:04.500><c> if</c><00:25:04.839><c> she</c><00:25:05.160><c> rates</c><00:25:05.440><c> him</c><00:25:05.920><c> as</c>

00:25:06.299 --> 00:25:08.599
being<00:25:06.920><c> not</c><00:25:07.200><c> such</c><00:25:07.420><c> a</c><00:25:07.599><c> turn</c><00:25:07.720><c> on,</c><00:25:07.819><c> not</c><00:25:08.039><c> such</c><00:25:08.259><c> a</c>

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sexy<00:25:08.900><c> hulk,</c>

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that's<00:25:10.319><c> not</c><00:25:10.539><c> a</c><00:25:10.640><c> bad</c><00:25:10.799><c> thing</c><00:25:11.000><c> because</c><00:25:11.299><c> that's</c><00:25:11.599><c> not</c><00:25:11.839><c> where</c>

00:25:12.079 --> 00:25:14.619
she's<00:25:12.420><c> going</c><00:25:12.559><c> to</c><00:25:12.819><c> get</c><00:25:13.380><c> her</c>

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relationship<00:25:15.779><c> from.</c>

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What's<00:25:16.579><c> going</c><00:25:16.720><c> to</c><00:25:16.900><c> make</c><00:25:17.079><c> her</c><00:25:17.359><c> work</c><00:25:17.579><c> because</c><00:25:17.819><c> she's</c>

00:25:18.140 --> 00:25:20.200
wanting<00:25:18.299><c> commitment.</c><00:25:18.900><c> Remember</c><00:25:19.099><c> we</c><00:25:19.299><c> spoke</c><00:25:19.579><c> about</c><00:25:19.779><c> that</c><00:25:19.980><c> in</c><00:25:20.140><c> our</c>

00:25:20.200 --> 00:25:21.819
very<00:25:20.400><c> first</c><00:25:20.900><c> lesson.</c>

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Alright<00:25:22.220><c> so</c><00:25:22.400><c> I'm</c><00:25:22.619><c> not</c><00:25:22.799><c> going</c><00:25:22.960><c> to</c><00:25:23.220><c> embarrass</c><00:25:23.539><c> all</c><00:25:23.740><c> of</c><00:25:23.859><c> you</c><00:25:24.000><c> guys.</c>

00:25:24.619 --> 00:25:25.880
I<00:25:24.759><c> could</c><00:25:25.039><c> choose</c><00:25:25.279><c> you</c><00:25:25.519><c> two</c><00:25:25.680><c> guys.</c>

00:25:26.000 --> 00:25:28.039
I<00:25:26.000><c> could</c><00:25:26.220><c> choose</c><00:25:26.380><c> you</c><00:25:26.539><c> two</c><00:25:26.779><c> guys.</c><00:25:27.000><c> I</c><00:25:27.059><c> could</c><00:25:27.279><c> choose</c><00:25:27.480><c> you</c><00:25:27.660><c> two</c><00:25:27.839><c> guys.</c>

00:25:28.200 --> 00:25:30.740
I<00:25:28.400><c> could</c><00:25:28.599><c> choose</c><00:25:28.759><c> anybody</c><00:25:29.140><c> here.</c><00:25:29.799><c> It</c><00:25:29.799><c> would</c><00:25:30.019><c> be</c>

00:25:30.779 --> 00:25:33.200
okay.<00:25:31.339><c> Shall</c><00:25:31.480><c> I</c><00:25:31.599><c> try</c><00:25:31.740><c> you</c><00:25:31.940><c> guys</c><00:25:32.099><c> on</c><00:25:32.259><c> one?</c>

00:25:37.000 --> 00:25:38.519
Okay,<00:25:37.339><c> if</c><00:25:37.460><c> you</c><00:25:37.619><c> had</c><00:25:37.819><c> to</c>

00:25:38.519 --> 00:25:40.460
rate<00:25:38.960><c> him</c><00:25:39.240><c> now,</c><00:25:39.900><c> on</c><00:25:40.119><c> one</c><00:25:40.259><c> to</c>

00:25:40.460 --> 00:25:42.579
five,<00:25:42.220><c> as</c>

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introverted<00:25:43.079><c> and</c><00:25:43.500><c> quiet,</c>

00:25:44.579 --> 00:25:46.539
would<00:25:44.759><c> you</c><00:25:44.900><c> give</c><00:25:45.019><c> him</c><00:25:45.579><c> one,</c><00:25:46.059><c> zero,</c>

00:25:46.539 --> 00:25:48.480
five?<00:25:46.839><c> Is</c><00:25:46.980><c> he</c><00:25:47.539><c> very</c><00:25:47.980><c> introverted?</c>

00:25:48.720 --> 00:25:50.460
If<00:25:48.859><c> he's</c><00:25:49.059><c> very</c><00:25:49.400><c> introverted</c><00:25:49.779><c> and</c><00:25:50.099><c> quiet,</c><00:25:50.240><c> you</c><00:25:50.380><c> give</c>

00:25:50.460 --> 00:25:52.359
him<00:25:50.619><c> a</c><00:25:50.799><c> five.</c><00:25:51.359><c> If</c><00:25:51.539><c> he's</c><00:25:51.799><c> moderate,</c><00:25:52.140><c> you</c><00:25:52.279><c> give</c>

00:25:52.359 --> 00:25:54.519
him<00:25:52.519><c> a</c><00:25:52.619><c> three.</c><00:25:53.059><c> If</c><00:25:53.259><c> he's</c>

00:25:54.519 --> 00:25:56.559
not<00:25:54.740><c> introverted</c><00:25:55.200><c> and</c><00:25:55.500><c> quiet,</c><00:25:55.759><c> you</c><00:25:55.880><c> give</c><00:25:55.960><c> him</c>

00:25:56.559 --> 00:25:58.859
a<00:25:56.839><c> zero</c><00:25:57.180><c> or</c><00:25:57.259><c> one.</c><00:25:57.579><c> How</c><00:25:57.759><c> would</c><00:25:57.839><c> you</c><00:25:57.980><c> rate</c><00:25:58.059><c> him?</c>

00:26:00.240 --> 00:26:02.019
3<00:26:00.519><c>.5.</c><00:26:00.900><c> So</c><00:26:01.059><c> you're</c><00:26:01.240><c> somewhere</c><00:26:01.460><c> in</c><00:26:01.599><c> the</c><00:26:01.700><c> middle.</c>

00:26:02.440 --> 00:26:04.440
Alright,<00:26:02.619><c> so</c><00:26:02.779><c> you're</c><00:26:02.900><c> not</c><00:26:03.019><c> an</c><00:26:03.279><c> extremely</c><00:26:03.940><c> introverted,</c>

00:26:04.740 --> 00:26:06.039
well<00:26:04.799><c>-balanced</c><00:26:05.099><c> character.</c>

00:26:06.640 --> 00:26:08.559
That<00:26:07.099><c> again</c><00:26:07.380><c> is</c><00:26:07.579><c> a</c><00:26:07.759><c> problem</c><00:26:07.960><c> in</c><00:26:08.160><c> a</c><00:26:08.279><c> relationship.</c>

00:26:08.740 --> 00:26:10.700
You<00:26:08.759><c> might</c><00:26:09.019><c> find</c><00:26:09.259><c> one</c><00:26:09.519><c> person</c><00:26:09.799><c> that's</c><00:26:10.240><c> introverted</c>

00:26:10.700 --> 00:26:12.400
in<00:26:11.220><c> the</c><00:26:11.400><c> relationship,</c><00:26:12.039><c> the</c><00:26:12.160><c> other</c>

00:26:12.400 --> 00:26:14.180
person<00:26:12.660><c> that</c><00:26:12.859><c> is</c><00:26:13.119><c> extroverted.</c>

00:26:14.259 --> 00:26:16.599
Sometimes<00:26:14.740><c> that</c><00:26:14.960><c> can</c><00:26:15.259><c> work,</c><00:26:16.019><c> sometimes</c>

00:26:16.599 --> 00:26:17.799
it's<00:26:16.880><c> a</c><00:26:17.019><c> problem.</c>

00:26:18.460 --> 00:26:20.299
As<00:26:18.700><c> long</c><00:26:19.039><c> as</c><00:26:19.579><c> on</c><00:26:20.059><c> this</c>

00:26:20.299 --> 00:26:22.240
chart,<00:26:20.519><c> which</c><00:26:20.680><c> we</c><00:26:20.839><c> give</c><00:26:21.000><c> to</c><00:26:21.119><c> them</c><00:26:21.299><c> afterwards,</c><00:26:21.680><c> we</c><00:26:21.779><c> just</c><00:26:21.980><c> ring</c>

00:26:22.240 --> 00:26:23.980
the<00:26:22.460><c> various</c><00:26:22.740><c> areas</c><00:26:23.279><c> to</c><00:26:23.700><c> say,</c>

00:26:24.220 --> 00:26:25.920
here,<00:26:24.519><c> this</c><00:26:24.660><c> chart</c><00:26:24.839><c> belongs</c><00:26:25.140><c> to</c><00:26:25.259><c> you.</c><00:26:25.400><c> It's</c><00:26:25.480><c> got</c><00:26:25.599><c> nothing</c><00:26:25.759><c> to</c>

00:26:25.920 --> 00:26:26.200
do<00:26:25.960><c> with</c><00:26:26.039><c> me,</c>

00:26:26.200 --> 00:26:28.839
but<00:26:26.559><c> go</c><00:26:26.839><c> and</c><00:26:26.980><c> have</c><00:26:27.099><c> a</c><00:26:27.279><c> look</c><00:26:27.460><c> at</c><00:26:27.700><c> these</c><00:26:27.920><c> differences.</c>

00:26:28.940 --> 00:26:30.880
Sometimes<00:26:29.420><c> the</c><00:26:29.640><c> differences</c><00:26:29.940><c> can</c><00:26:30.180><c> work</c><00:26:30.440><c> well,</c>

00:26:31.140 --> 00:26:32.539
sometimes<00:26:31.660><c> they</c><00:26:31.920><c> don't.</c>

00:26:32.700 --> 00:26:34.539
For<00:26:32.940><c> example,</c><00:26:33.839><c> when</c><00:26:34.000><c> it</c><00:26:34.200><c> comes</c>

00:26:34.539 --> 00:26:36.619
to<00:26:35.180><c> who's</c><00:26:35.680><c> going</c><00:26:35.839><c> to</c><00:26:36.119><c> run</c><00:26:36.299><c> the</c>

00:26:36.619 --> 00:26:38.720
finances<00:26:37.019><c> in</c><00:26:37.480><c> the</c><00:26:37.720><c> relationship.</c>

00:26:38.759 --> 00:26:40.460
If<00:26:38.920><c> you</c><00:26:39.160><c> both</c><00:26:39.400><c> feel</c><00:26:39.900><c> absolutely</c>

00:26:40.460 --> 00:26:42.480
dominant<00:26:41.039><c> in</c><00:26:41.559><c> that</c><00:26:41.779><c> area,</c><00:26:42.099><c> you're</c><00:26:42.420><c> going</c>

00:26:42.480 --> 00:26:44.420
to<00:26:42.519><c> have</c><00:26:42.640><c> a</c><00:26:42.839><c> problem.</c><00:26:43.059><c> You</c><00:26:43.220><c> need</c><00:26:43.380><c> to</c><00:26:43.599><c> sit</c><00:26:43.759><c> down</c><00:26:44.019><c> before</c>

00:26:44.420 --> 00:26:46.480
you<00:26:44.599><c> get</c><00:26:44.759><c> married,</c><00:26:45.480><c> before</c><00:26:45.920><c> you</c>

00:26:46.480 --> 00:26:48.440
end<00:26:46.619><c> up</c><00:26:46.759><c> at</c><00:26:46.920><c> the</c><00:26:47.099><c> altar,</c><00:26:47.680><c> and</c><00:26:47.960><c> decide</c>

00:26:48.440 --> 00:26:50.420
who's<00:26:48.819><c> going</c><00:26:48.900><c> to</c><00:26:49.000><c> run</c><00:26:49.079><c> the</c><00:26:49.319><c> finances</c><00:26:49.640><c> before.</c><00:26:50.140><c> Otherwise,</c>

00:26:50.500 --> 00:26:52.539
you<00:26:50.539><c> don't</c><00:26:50.680><c> want</c><00:26:50.779><c> to</c><00:26:50.900><c> find</c><00:26:51.039><c> that</c><00:26:51.299><c> kind</c><00:26:51.400><c> of</c><00:26:51.579><c> problem</c><00:26:52.019><c> after</c><00:26:52.359><c> you</c>

00:26:52.539 --> 00:26:54.559
married,<00:26:53.200><c> because</c><00:26:53.579><c> now</c><00:26:53.779><c> you're</c><00:26:53.940><c> going</c><00:26:54.000><c> to</c><00:26:54.079><c> have</c><00:26:54.220><c> a</c><00:26:54.400><c> war</c>

00:26:54.559 --> 00:26:55.920
in<00:26:55.000><c> the</c><00:26:55.059><c> house.</c>

00:26:56.420 --> 00:26:57.960
What<00:26:56.859><c> do</c><00:26:57.200><c> you</c><00:26:57.220><c> do</c>

00:26:58.000 --> 00:26:59.599
if<00:26:58.440><c> you're</c><00:26:58.819><c> sitting</c><00:26:58.980><c> down</c><00:26:59.359><c> before</c>

00:26:59.599 --> 00:27:01.519
you<00:26:59.759><c> end</c><00:26:59.880><c> up</c><00:27:00.160><c> at</c><00:27:00.420><c> the</c><00:27:00.519><c> altar</c><00:27:01.000><c> all</c><00:27:01.319><c> day?</c>

00:27:01.519 --> 00:27:03.859
The<00:27:01.519><c> point</c><00:27:01.519><c> is</c><00:27:02.240><c> that</c><00:27:02.319><c> if</c><00:27:02.460><c> you</c><00:27:02.500><c> can't</c><00:27:02.819><c> resolve</c>

00:27:04.180 --> 00:27:04.619
compromise.

00:27:04.900 --> 00:27:06.539
You<00:27:05.339><c> break</c><00:27:05.640><c> it</c><00:27:05.819><c> up.</c>

00:27:08.559 --> 00:27:10.200
If<00:27:09.000><c> you're</c><00:27:09.440><c> going</c><00:27:09.539><c> to</c><00:27:09.640><c> get</c><00:27:09.880><c> married,</c>

00:27:10.279 --> 00:27:11.400
you're<00:27:10.319><c> going</c><00:27:10.539><c> to</c><00:27:10.619><c> get</c><00:27:10.799><c> married</c>

00:27:11.400 --> 00:27:13.119
because<00:27:11.859><c> you</c><00:27:12.039><c> love</c><00:27:12.240><c> the</c><00:27:12.420><c> person.</c>

00:27:13.240 --> 00:27:14.859
It's<00:27:13.480><c> not</c><00:27:13.700><c> like</c><00:27:13.839><c> you're</c><00:27:14.160><c> going</c><00:27:14.160><c> to</c><00:27:14.380><c> stop</c><00:27:14.559><c> and</c><00:27:14.700><c> you're</c><00:27:14.859><c> going</c>

00:27:14.859 --> 00:27:15.059
to<00:27:14.960><c> go,</c>

00:27:15.279 --> 00:27:16.880
okay,<00:27:15.440><c> well,</c><00:27:15.619><c> maybe</c><00:27:15.920><c> we</c><00:27:16.079><c> shouldn't</c><00:27:16.279><c> get</c><00:27:16.519><c> married</c>

00:27:16.880 --> 00:27:19.900
because<00:27:17.359><c> I</c><00:27:17.900><c> really</c><00:27:18.099><c> like</c><00:27:18.339><c> cats</c><00:27:18.599><c> and</c><00:27:18.799><c> you</c><00:27:19.019><c> don't.</c>

00:27:20.119 --> 00:27:21.640
We're<00:27:20.559><c> just</c><00:27:20.559><c> going</c><00:27:20.559><c> to</c><00:27:20.920><c> compromise</c>

00:27:21.640 --> 00:27:22.519
and<00:27:21.980><c> have</c><00:27:22.039><c> one</c><00:27:22.359><c> cat.</c>

00:27:22.519 --> 00:27:25.140
Now<00:27:22.519><c> the</c><00:27:22.980><c> point</c><00:27:23.160><c> is</c><00:27:24.359><c> that</c>

00:27:25.660 --> 00:27:26.819
these<00:27:26.220><c> little</c><00:27:26.500><c> areas</c>

00:27:26.819 --> 00:27:28.599
of<00:27:27.079><c> difference</c><00:27:27.660><c> are</c>

00:27:28.599 --> 00:27:30.579
areas<00:27:28.839><c> of</c><00:27:29.119><c> difference</c><00:27:29.400><c> which</c><00:27:30.140><c> are</c>

00:27:30.579 --> 00:27:32.680
easily<00:27:31.079><c> solvable</c><00:27:31.660><c> at</c><00:27:32.200><c> that</c><00:27:32.380><c> stage</c>

00:27:32.680 --> 00:27:34.700
of<00:27:32.859><c> your</c><00:27:33.019><c> life.</c><00:27:34.039><c> The</c><00:27:34.099><c> issue</c><00:27:34.319><c> of</c><00:27:34.579><c> cats</c>

00:27:34.700 --> 00:27:36.619
is<00:27:34.920><c> not</c><00:27:35.099><c> a</c><00:27:35.240><c> problem</c><00:27:35.720><c> at</c><00:27:36.180><c> that</c><00:27:36.339><c> stage</c>

00:27:36.619 --> 00:27:38.779
of<00:27:36.819><c> your</c><00:27:36.960><c> life,</c><00:27:37.279><c> but</c><00:27:37.720><c> if</c><00:27:37.859><c> you</c><00:27:38.079><c> don't</c><00:27:38.460><c> know</c>

00:27:38.779 --> 00:27:40.819
that<00:27:38.960><c> it</c><00:27:39.079><c> exists,</c><00:27:39.619><c> it</c><00:27:39.660><c> can</c><00:27:39.960><c> grow</c><00:27:40.240><c> and</c><00:27:40.480><c> become</c>

00:27:40.819 --> 00:27:42.640
a<00:27:41.059><c> problem</c><00:27:41.240><c> later</c><00:27:41.539><c> on.</c><00:27:41.940><c> That's</c><00:27:42.220><c> really</c><00:27:42.500><c> the</c>

00:27:42.640 --> 00:27:43.500
issue.

00:27:45.279 --> 00:27:47.180
This<00:27:45.839><c> little</c><00:27:46.400><c> sheet</c>

00:27:47.700 --> 00:27:48.759
precisely.

00:27:49.380 --> 00:27:50.740
If<00:27:49.859><c> you</c><00:27:50.180><c> and</c><00:27:50.359><c> your</c>

00:27:50.740 --> 00:27:53.319
partner<00:27:51.059><c> sat</c><00:27:51.339><c> down</c><00:27:51.579><c> with</c><00:27:51.759><c> a</c><00:27:51.900><c> sheet,</c><00:27:52.000><c> I</c><00:27:52.099><c> mean,</c><00:27:52.220><c> this</c><00:27:52.359><c> is</c><00:27:52.500><c> only</c><00:27:52.640><c> between</c>

00:27:53.460 --> 00:27:54.819
them.<00:27:53.799><c> It's</c><00:27:54.000><c> not</c><00:27:54.160><c> me.</c><00:27:54.420><c> I</c><00:27:54.420><c> mean,</c><00:27:54.519><c> we</c><00:27:54.640><c> don't</c>

00:27:54.819 --> 00:27:56.660
keep<00:27:55.000><c> a</c><00:27:55.180><c> copy.</c><00:27:55.460><c> We</c><00:27:55.460><c> don't</c><00:27:55.660><c> go</c><00:27:55.779><c> on</c><00:27:56.200><c> a</c><00:27:56.319><c> Xerox</c>

00:27:56.660 --> 00:27:58.720
and<00:27:57.059><c> then</c><00:27:57.319><c> dish</c><00:27:57.420><c> them</c><00:27:57.559><c> out</c><00:27:57.700><c> to</c><00:27:57.940><c> everybody.</c>

00:27:58.779 --> 00:28:00.519
We<00:27:59.140><c> do</c><00:27:59.500><c> this</c><00:27:59.700><c> with</c><00:27:59.980><c> a</c><00:28:00.180><c> couple</c>

00:28:00.519 --> 00:28:02.640
there<00:28:01.079><c> and</c><00:28:01.220><c> then</c><00:28:01.299><c> on</c><00:28:01.480><c> the</c><00:28:01.660><c> spot</c><00:28:01.819><c> and</c><00:28:01.940><c> then</c><00:28:02.099><c> we</c><00:28:02.240><c> give</c><00:28:02.339><c> this</c><00:28:02.500><c> to</c>

00:28:02.640 --> 00:28:02.920
the<00:28:02.779><c> couple</c>

00:28:02.920 --> 00:28:04.660
and<00:28:03.079><c> say,</c><00:28:03.460><c> now,</c><00:28:03.619><c> next</c><00:28:03.859><c> time</c><00:28:04.119><c> you're</c><00:28:04.519><c> sitting</c>

00:28:04.660 --> 00:28:07.019
having<00:28:05.279><c> coffee</c><00:28:05.859><c> together</c><00:28:06.220><c> in</c><00:28:06.400><c> the</c><00:28:06.559><c> coffee</c><00:28:06.779><c> shop</c>

00:28:07.019 --> 00:28:08.779
or<00:28:07.200><c> wherever</c><00:28:07.440><c> you</c><00:28:07.660><c> are,</c><00:28:08.380><c> go</c><00:28:08.640><c> through</c>

00:28:08.779 --> 00:28:10.559
some<00:28:08.980><c> of</c><00:28:09.059><c> these</c><00:28:09.259><c> areas</c><00:28:09.460><c> and</c><00:28:09.619><c> have</c><00:28:09.740><c> a</c><00:28:09.839><c> look</c><00:28:09.940><c> at</c><00:28:10.059><c> it</c><00:28:10.279><c> together</c>

00:28:10.559 --> 00:28:12.880
because<00:28:10.819><c> this</c><00:28:11.039><c> is</c><00:28:11.200><c> the</c><00:28:11.259><c> way</c><00:28:11.539><c> you</c><00:28:11.920><c> are</c><00:28:12.119><c> seeing</c><00:28:12.339><c> each</c><00:28:12.740><c> other.</c>

00:28:13.099 --> 00:28:15.240
How<00:28:13.460><c> do</c><00:28:13.680><c> you</c><00:28:13.700><c> know</c><00:28:13.839><c> how</c><00:28:14.039><c> she</c><00:28:14.259><c> sees</c><00:28:14.519><c> you?</c>

00:28:15.359 --> 00:28:16.299
And<00:28:15.480><c> how</c><00:28:15.660><c> does</c><00:28:15.819><c> she</c><00:28:16.039><c> know</c>

00:28:16.299 --> 00:28:18.339
how<00:28:16.839><c> he</c><00:28:17.059><c> sees</c><00:28:17.420><c> her?</c>

00:28:18.380 --> 00:28:20.279
And<00:28:18.859><c> so</c><00:28:19.259><c> this</c><00:28:19.420><c> is</c><00:28:19.640><c> really</c><00:28:19.880><c> just</c><00:28:20.160><c> a</c>

00:28:20.279 --> 00:28:22.079
pointer.<00:28:20.539><c> This</c><00:28:20.660><c> is</c><00:28:20.819><c> just</c><00:28:21.039><c> a</c><00:28:21.220><c> help</c><00:28:21.500><c> to</c><00:28:21.900><c> help</c>

00:28:22.079 --> 00:28:23.940
you<00:28:22.339><c> see</c><00:28:22.519><c> each</c><00:28:22.720><c> other</c><00:28:23.160><c> through</c>

00:28:23.940 --> 00:28:26.059
the<00:28:24.799><c> opposite</c><00:28:25.440><c> point</c>

00:28:26.059 --> 00:28:28.559
of<00:28:26.220><c> view.</c><00:28:27.180><c> All</c><00:28:27.259><c> right,</c><00:28:27.819><c> so</c>

00:28:29.140 --> 00:28:30.000
Abigail,

00:28:30.240 --> 00:28:31.900
you're<00:28:30.720><c> going</c><00:28:30.759><c> to</c><00:28:30.859><c> rate</c><00:28:30.960><c> this</c><00:28:31.220><c> fellow</c><00:28:31.359><c> here.</c>

00:28:32.319 --> 00:28:33.759
All<00:28:32.400><c> right?</c><00:28:33.380><c> Patient.</c>

00:28:33.880 --> 00:28:35.059
Is<00:28:34.039><c> he</c><00:28:34.160><c> patient?</c>

00:28:36.859 --> 00:28:38.039
Well,<00:28:37.339><c> give</c><00:28:37.819><c> me</c>

00:28:38.039 --> 00:28:38.859
a<00:28:38.160><c> rating.</c>

00:28:49.500 --> 00:28:50.640
No,<00:28:50.019><c> that's</c><00:28:50.400><c> good.</c>

00:28:50.779 --> 00:28:52.140
That's<00:28:51.039><c> good.</c><00:28:51.279><c> That's</c><00:28:51.599><c> exactly</c><00:28:51.839><c> it.</c>

00:28:52.420 --> 00:28:53.960
I<00:28:52.440><c> mean,</c><00:28:52.680><c> that's</c><00:28:53.039><c> the</c><00:28:53.180><c> problem.</c><00:28:53.519><c> I'm</c>

00:28:53.960 --> 00:28:55.799
very<00:28:54.339><c> impatient</c><00:28:54.799><c> with</c><00:28:55.079><c> when</c>

00:28:55.839 --> 00:28:58.039
she<00:28:56.099><c> takes</c><00:28:56.680><c> time</c><00:28:57.079><c> to</c><00:28:57.299><c> get</c><00:28:57.500><c> dressed</c><00:28:57.660><c> and</c><00:28:57.819><c> I</c>

00:28:58.039 --> 00:28:59.859
want<00:28:58.200><c> to</c><00:28:58.380><c> get</c><00:28:58.519><c> to</c><00:28:58.819><c> the</c><00:28:59.000><c> meeting</c><00:28:59.299><c> and</c><00:28:59.519><c> she's</c>

00:28:59.859 --> 00:29:01.059
getting<00:29:00.119><c> dressed.</c>

00:29:01.839 --> 00:29:03.480
Is<00:29:02.359><c> he</c><00:29:02.559><c> patient?</c>

00:29:03.640 --> 00:29:05.240
Zero<00:29:04.019><c> to</c><00:29:04.319><c> five.</c>

00:29:07.079 --> 00:29:08.460
No,<00:29:07.380><c> no,</c><00:29:07.440><c> no,</c><00:29:07.660><c> no,</c><00:29:07.799><c> no.</c>

00:29:12.519 --> 00:29:13.539
Patient.

00:29:14.259 --> 00:29:15.440
Is<00:29:14.380><c> he</c><00:29:14.539><c> patient?</c>

00:29:15.839 --> 00:29:17.440
Zero<00:29:16.279><c> to</c><00:29:16.519><c> five.</c>

00:29:21.759 --> 00:29:23.220
All<00:29:21.859><c> right,</c><00:29:22.019><c> so</c><00:29:22.160><c> you</c><00:29:22.400><c> haven't</c><00:29:22.880><c> known</c><00:29:23.059><c> him</c>

00:29:23.220 --> 00:29:24.400
long<00:29:23.420><c> enough</c><00:29:23.599><c> to</c><00:29:23.720><c> know</c><00:29:23.819><c> whether</c><00:29:23.960><c> he's</c><00:29:24.220><c> patient.</c>

00:29:24.519 --> 00:29:27.299
But<00:29:24.960><c> that's</c><00:29:25.519><c> an</c><00:29:25.720><c> important</c><00:29:26.160><c> part,</c><00:29:26.480><c> to</c><00:29:26.660><c> know</c><00:29:26.880><c> that</c>

00:29:27.299 --> 00:29:28.859
I<00:29:27.559><c> mean,</c><00:29:27.720><c> I</c><00:29:27.940><c> might</c><00:29:28.160><c> see</c><00:29:28.480><c> Wendeth</c>

00:29:28.859 --> 00:29:30.880
as<00:29:29.220><c> being</c><00:29:29.500><c> very</c><00:29:29.900><c> patient.</c>

00:29:31.400 --> 00:29:32.859
I'll<00:29:31.660><c> give</c><00:29:31.740><c> her</c><00:29:32.059><c> a</c><00:29:32.220><c> five</c><00:29:32.339><c> for</c><00:29:32.559><c> patience.</c>

00:29:32.900 --> 00:29:35.059
She's<00:29:33.180><c> the</c><00:29:33.319><c> most</c><00:29:33.500><c> patient</c><00:29:33.759><c> person.</c><00:29:34.680><c> If</c><00:29:34.880><c> she</c>

00:29:35.059 --> 00:29:37.039
had<00:29:35.180><c> to</c><00:29:35.319><c> rate</c><00:29:35.460><c> me</c><00:29:35.700><c> on</c><00:29:35.920><c> patience,</c><00:29:36.140><c> she'd</c><00:29:36.400><c> probably</c><00:29:36.579><c> give</c><00:29:36.700><c> me</c><00:29:36.880><c> a</c>

00:29:37.039 --> 00:29:38.819
zero<00:29:37.220><c> because</c><00:29:37.380><c> I'm</c><00:29:37.599><c> a</c><00:29:37.720><c> very</c><00:29:38.000><c> impatient</c><00:29:38.380><c> person.</c>

00:29:39.240 --> 00:29:41.019
But<00:29:39.480><c> we</c><00:29:39.700><c> manage</c><00:29:39.960><c> to</c><00:29:40.259><c> struggle</c><00:29:40.559><c> on</c><00:29:40.799><c> with</c>

00:29:41.019 --> 00:29:43.759
that<00:29:41.220><c> kind</c><00:29:41.359><c> of</c><00:29:41.519><c> battle.</c><00:29:41.680><c> It's</c><00:29:41.859><c> a</c><00:29:41.980><c> daily</c><00:29:42.200><c> battle</c><00:29:42.480><c> every</c><00:29:42.839><c> day.</c>

00:29:46.839 --> 00:29:47.759
But<00:29:47.160><c> I've</c><00:29:47.480><c> managed</c>

00:29:47.759 --> 00:29:49.440
to<00:29:48.039><c> kind</c><00:29:48.140><c> of</c><00:29:48.279><c> cope</c><00:29:48.480><c> with</c><00:29:48.640><c> it</c><00:29:48.740><c> because</c><00:29:48.980><c> now</c>

00:29:49.440 --> 00:29:51.200
when<00:29:49.900><c> I'm</c><00:29:50.119><c> ready,</c><00:29:50.440><c> I</c><00:29:50.579><c> go</c><00:29:50.799><c> downstairs</c>

00:29:51.200 --> 00:29:53.339
and<00:29:51.440><c> I</c><00:29:51.619><c> open</c><00:29:51.740><c> my</c><00:29:52.000><c> Bible</c><00:29:52.259><c> or</c><00:29:52.500><c> I</c><00:29:52.559><c> get</c><00:29:52.700><c> on</c><00:29:52.839><c> with</c><00:29:53.039><c> something</c>

00:29:53.339 --> 00:29:55.319
and<00:29:53.839><c> she</c><00:29:54.079><c> is</c><00:29:54.299><c> fiddling</c><00:29:54.519><c> upstairs,</c><00:29:54.940><c> putting</c><00:29:55.140><c> on</c>

00:29:55.319 --> 00:29:57.119
the<00:29:55.420><c> lipstick,</c><00:29:55.740><c> doing</c><00:29:55.960><c> this,</c><00:29:56.240><c> doing</c><00:29:56.339><c> that.</c><00:29:56.519><c> She</c><00:29:56.619><c> gets</c><00:29:56.779><c> to</c><00:29:56.940><c> the</c><00:29:57.000><c> door.</c>

00:29:57.160 --> 00:29:58.880
I<00:29:57.240><c> say,</c><00:29:57.519><c> sweetheart,</c><00:29:57.700><c> are</c><00:29:57.779><c> you</c><00:29:57.940><c> at</c><00:29:58.160><c> the</c><00:29:58.279><c> door</c><00:29:58.400><c> now</c><00:29:58.599><c> or</c><00:29:58.700><c> are</c><00:29:58.880><c> you</c>

00:29:58.880 --> 00:29:59.299
not<00:29:59.019><c> at</c><00:29:59.140><c> the</c><00:29:59.220><c> door?</c>

00:29:59.440 --> 00:30:01.220
I'm<00:29:59.720><c> at</c><00:29:59.900><c> the</c><00:30:00.019><c> door.</c><00:30:00.359><c> As</c><00:30:00.460><c> soon</c><00:30:00.519><c> as</c><00:30:00.619><c> I</c><00:30:00.700><c> get</c><00:30:00.859><c> to</c><00:30:01.019><c> the</c><00:30:01.119><c> door,</c>

00:30:01.220 --> 00:30:03.099
she<00:30:01.400><c> turns</c><00:30:01.680><c> around,</c><00:30:01.839><c> she</c><00:30:01.960><c> goes</c><00:30:02.140><c> back</c><00:30:02.359><c> in</c><00:30:02.500><c> the</c><00:30:02.619><c> house</c><00:30:02.740><c> and</c>

00:30:03.099 --> 00:30:05.579
she's<00:30:03.420><c> got</c><00:30:03.480><c> to</c><00:30:03.599><c> go</c><00:30:03.700><c> and</c><00:30:03.819><c> do</c><00:30:03.900><c> this</c><00:30:04.119><c> and</c><00:30:04.220><c> this</c><00:30:04.380><c> and</c><00:30:04.460><c> this</c><00:30:04.680><c> and</c><00:30:04.700><c> this.</c>

00:30:05.700 --> 00:30:07.180
So<00:30:06.019><c> now</c><00:30:06.240><c> what</c><00:30:06.380><c> I</c><00:30:06.500><c> do</c><00:30:06.599><c> is</c><00:30:06.720><c> I</c><00:30:06.839><c> make</c><00:30:07.000><c> sure</c>

00:30:07.180 --> 00:30:08.980
that<00:30:07.319><c> she's</c><00:30:07.559><c> actually</c><00:30:08.039><c> through</c><00:30:08.539><c> the</c><00:30:08.759><c> door</c>

00:30:08.980 --> 00:30:10.980
and<00:30:09.400><c> at</c><00:30:09.599><c> the</c><00:30:09.799><c> steps</c><00:30:10.019><c> and</c><00:30:10.180><c> then</c><00:30:10.359><c> I</c><00:30:10.559><c> follow</c><00:30:10.799><c> her</c>

00:30:10.980 --> 00:30:12.700
and<00:30:11.119><c> I</c><00:30:11.279><c> lock</c><00:30:11.400><c> the</c><00:30:11.599><c> house.</c><00:30:11.799><c> When</c><00:30:11.960><c> the</c><00:30:12.140><c> house</c><00:30:12.259><c> is</c><00:30:12.480><c> locked,</c>

00:30:12.700 --> 00:30:15.039
but<00:30:13.220><c> that</c><00:30:13.420><c> still</c><00:30:13.559><c> doesn't</c><00:30:13.779><c> work</c><00:30:14.000><c> because</c><00:30:14.319><c> we</c><00:30:14.579><c> just</c><00:30:14.740><c> get</c><00:30:14.839><c> out</c>

00:30:15.039 --> 00:30:17.019
of<00:30:15.220><c> the</c><00:30:15.299><c> car</c><00:30:15.440><c> and</c><00:30:15.559><c> we're</c><00:30:15.740><c> going</c><00:30:15.819><c> down.</c><00:30:16.140><c> Oh,</c><00:30:16.420><c> forgot</c><00:30:16.680><c> something.</c>

00:30:17.059 --> 00:30:18.460
Stop<00:30:17.359><c> and</c><00:30:17.799><c> we</c><00:30:18.039><c> go</c><00:30:18.220><c> again.</c>

00:30:18.940 --> 00:30:20.420
Is<00:30:19.440><c> that</c><00:30:19.700><c> right?</c>

00:30:20.579 --> 00:30:22.440
The<00:30:21.079><c> point</c><00:30:21.299><c> is</c><00:30:21.500><c> that</c>

00:30:22.500 --> 00:30:24.779
you<00:30:23.000><c> need</c><00:30:23.220><c> to</c><00:30:23.500><c> try</c><00:30:23.759><c> and</c>

00:30:24.779 --> 00:30:26.819
look<00:30:25.119><c> at</c><00:30:25.299><c> these</c><00:30:25.559><c> things</c><00:30:26.140><c> from</c>

00:30:26.819 --> 00:30:28.539
an<00:30:27.059><c> objective</c><00:30:27.539><c> point</c><00:30:27.880><c> of</c><00:30:27.980><c> view</c><00:30:28.079><c> because</c>

00:30:28.539 --> 00:30:30.440
when<00:30:29.099><c> you're</c><00:30:29.400><c> romantically</c><00:30:29.859><c> involved,</c>

00:30:30.680 --> 00:30:32.819
there's<00:30:31.000><c> so</c><00:30:31.279><c> much</c><00:30:31.500><c> heart</c><00:30:31.720><c> going</c><00:30:32.039><c> on</c><00:30:32.460><c> that</c>

00:30:32.819 --> 00:30:34.740
you<00:30:33.019><c> can't</c><00:30:33.440><c> kind</c><00:30:33.579><c> of</c><00:30:33.799><c> step</c><00:30:34.000><c> out</c><00:30:34.200><c> of</c><00:30:34.319><c> yourself</c><00:30:34.599><c> and</c>

00:30:34.740 --> 00:30:37.579
just<00:30:34.900><c> look</c><00:30:35.039><c> at</c><00:30:35.180><c> these</c><00:30:35.400><c> things</c><00:30:35.880><c> from</c><00:30:36.440><c> the</c><00:30:36.680><c> outside.</c>

00:30:37.680 --> 00:30:39.500
Okay,<00:30:37.819><c> we</c><00:30:37.940><c> come</c><00:30:38.059><c> to</c><00:30:38.240><c> the</c><00:30:38.359><c> next</c><00:30:38.539><c> point.</c>

00:30:39.539 --> 00:30:40.400
Alright,<00:30:39.960><c> Andrea,</c>

00:30:40.400 --> 00:30:42.700
I'm<00:30:41.079><c> going</c><00:30:41.160><c> to</c><00:30:41.220><c> ask</c><00:30:41.460><c> you</c><00:30:41.660><c> to</c><00:30:41.859><c> rate</c><00:30:42.019><c> Abigail</c><00:30:42.400><c> now.</c>

00:30:42.819 --> 00:30:44.539
I<00:30:42.839><c> mean,</c><00:30:43.359><c> just</c><00:30:43.480><c> pretending</c><00:30:43.839><c> because</c><00:30:44.140><c> you've</c><00:30:44.400><c> been</c>

00:30:44.539 --> 00:30:46.079
into<00:30:44.779><c> her</c><00:30:44.880><c> room.</c><00:30:45.059><c> I'm</c><00:30:45.200><c> hoping</c><00:30:45.339><c> none</c><00:30:45.519><c> of</c><00:30:45.599><c> these</c><00:30:45.740><c> other</c><00:30:45.920><c> guys</c>

00:30:46.079 --> 00:30:46.359
have<00:30:46.240><c> been</c>

00:30:46.359 --> 00:30:48.500
into<00:30:46.640><c> her</c><00:30:46.740><c> room.</c><00:30:47.420><c> Alright,</c><00:30:47.859><c> would</c><00:30:48.059><c> you</c><00:30:48.279><c> rate</c>

00:30:48.500 --> 00:30:50.559
Abigail<00:30:49.059><c> as</c>

00:30:50.559 --> 00:30:52.779
tidy<00:30:50.859><c> or</c><00:30:51.240><c> untidy</c><00:30:51.680><c> at</c><00:30:51.940><c> home?</c>

00:30:56.700 --> 00:30:58.279
Okay,<00:30:57.140><c> okay,</c><00:30:57.980><c> yeah.</c>

00:30:58.640 --> 00:31:00.660
Well,<00:30:58.859><c> none</c><00:30:58.960><c> of</c><00:30:59.079><c> the</c><00:30:59.220><c> guys</c><00:30:59.420><c> hopefully</c><00:30:59.740><c> have</c><00:30:59.900><c> been</c><00:31:00.059><c> into</c><00:31:00.279><c> Abigail's</c>

00:31:00.660 --> 00:31:01.599
room,<00:31:01.599><c> so</c>

00:31:02.059 --> 00:31:04.700
it<00:31:02.500><c> would</c><00:31:02.660><c> be</c><00:31:02.799><c> unfair</c><00:31:03.079><c> to</c><00:31:03.700><c> put</c><00:31:04.019><c> on.</c>

00:31:05.039 --> 00:31:06.740
Is<00:31:05.259><c> she</c><00:31:05.539><c> tidy</c><00:31:05.700><c> or</c><00:31:05.940><c> untidy?</c>

00:31:07.640 --> 00:31:08.960
So<00:31:08.079><c> you</c><00:31:08.279><c> give</c><00:31:08.400><c> her</c><00:31:08.579><c> a</c><00:31:08.680><c> three.</c>

00:31:08.960 --> 00:31:10.660
She's<00:31:09.339><c> probably</c><00:31:09.740><c> a</c><00:31:10.099><c> three.</c>

00:31:12.880 --> 00:31:14.160
I'm<00:31:13.359><c> a</c><00:31:13.839><c> zero.</c>

00:31:14.200 --> 00:31:15.160
I'm<00:31:14.400><c> not</c><00:31:14.619><c> tidy</c><00:31:14.759><c> at</c><00:31:14.980><c> all.</c>

00:31:15.240 --> 00:31:16.680
You're<00:31:15.539><c> not</c><00:31:15.700><c> tidy</c><00:31:15.900><c> at</c><00:31:16.079><c> all?</c>

00:31:17.720 --> 00:31:19.099
Okay,<00:31:17.819><c> so</c><00:31:17.940><c> now</c><00:31:18.039><c> you've</c><00:31:18.259><c> got</c><00:31:18.500><c> a</c><00:31:18.880><c> couple</c>

00:31:19.099 --> 00:31:20.980
that<00:31:19.259><c> are</c><00:31:19.380><c> sitting</c><00:31:19.539><c> before</c><00:31:19.920><c> you.</c><00:31:20.519><c> One</c><00:31:20.720><c> has</c>

00:31:20.980 --> 00:31:23.099
rated<00:31:21.180><c> the</c><00:31:21.339><c> other</c><00:31:21.579><c> one.</c><00:31:21.740><c> For</c><00:31:21.940><c> example,</c>

00:31:23.680 --> 00:31:24.900
she<00:31:23.900><c> thinks</c><00:31:24.400><c> that</c><00:31:24.680><c> he's</c>

00:31:24.900 --> 00:31:27.059
terribly<00:31:25.420><c> untidy</c><00:31:26.039><c> and</c><00:31:26.779><c> he</c>

00:31:27.059 --> 00:31:28.460
thinks<00:31:27.319><c> that</c><00:31:27.539><c> she's</c><00:31:27.779><c> very</c><00:31:28.180><c> tidy.</c>

00:31:28.819 --> 00:31:30.980
That<00:31:29.019><c> can</c><00:31:29.240><c> work.</c><00:31:30.400><c> It's</c><00:31:30.700><c> not</c><00:31:30.859><c> a</c>

00:31:30.980 --> 00:31:33.119
major<00:31:31.160><c> problem</c><00:31:31.759><c> as</c><00:31:32.720><c> long</c><00:31:32.960><c> as</c>

00:31:33.119 --> 00:31:34.359
you<00:31:33.279><c> know</c><00:31:33.519><c> what</c><00:31:33.700><c> you're</c><00:31:33.839><c> dealing</c><00:31:34.059><c> with.</c>

00:31:34.680 --> 00:31:37.099
That's<00:31:35.039><c> the</c><00:31:35.220><c> point,</c><00:31:35.839><c> that</c><00:31:36.000><c> you're</c><00:31:36.339><c> focusing</c><00:31:36.660><c> on</c><00:31:36.920><c> this</c>

00:31:37.099 --> 00:31:37.619
thing.

00:31:39.059 --> 00:31:41.180
We<00:31:39.500><c> have</c><00:31:39.680><c> a</c><00:31:39.799><c> situation</c><00:31:40.180><c> at</c><00:31:40.359><c> home,</c><00:31:40.519><c> we</c><00:31:40.579><c> have</c><00:31:40.779><c> a</c><00:31:40.900><c> sister</c>

00:31:41.180 --> 00:31:44.059
that<00:31:41.779><c> is</c><00:31:43.039><c> tidy,</c>

00:31:44.819 --> 00:31:45.259
personified.

00:31:45.720 --> 00:31:46.960
I<00:31:45.740><c> mean,</c><00:31:46.220><c> there</c><00:31:46.319><c> is</c><00:31:46.519><c> nothing</c>

00:31:46.960 --> 00:31:49.039
but<00:31:47.559><c> nothing</c><00:31:47.940><c> that</c><00:31:48.079><c> is</c><00:31:48.299><c> ever</c><00:31:48.500><c> wrong</c><00:31:48.619><c> in</c><00:31:48.740><c> her</c><00:31:48.900><c> house.</c>

00:31:49.160 --> 00:31:51.220
Everything<00:31:49.559><c> looks</c><00:31:50.200><c> perfect</c><00:31:50.740><c> all</c>

00:31:51.220 --> 00:31:53.039
the<00:31:51.380><c> time.</c><00:31:52.119><c> In</c><00:31:52.400><c> fact,</c><00:31:52.640><c> I</c><00:31:52.799><c> always</c>

00:31:53.039 --> 00:31:55.099
visualise<00:31:53.480><c> the</c><00:31:53.599><c> sister</c><00:31:53.819><c> when</c><00:31:53.960><c> she's</c><00:31:54.259><c> sleeping</c><00:31:54.640><c> in</c>

00:31:55.099 --> 00:31:57.079
her<00:31:55.359><c> bed</c><00:31:55.599><c> that</c><00:31:56.240><c> the</c><00:31:56.859><c> sheets</c>

00:31:57.079 --> 00:31:59.359
still<00:31:57.319><c> look</c><00:31:57.539><c> ironed</c><00:31:58.259><c> when</c><00:31:58.559><c> she's</c><00:31:58.900><c> actually</c>

00:31:59.359 --> 00:32:01.140
when<00:31:59.519><c> she</c><00:31:59.759><c> sleeps,</c><00:32:00.019><c> she</c><00:32:00.039><c> actually</c><00:32:00.359><c> sleeps</c><00:32:00.579><c> like</c><00:32:00.839><c> it.</c>

00:32:01.279 --> 00:32:03.279
Nothing<00:32:01.579><c> moves</c><00:32:01.920><c> to</c><00:32:02.099><c> the</c><00:32:02.200><c> left</c><00:32:02.359><c> or</c><00:32:02.460><c> the</c><00:32:02.579><c> right.</c>

00:32:03.319 --> 00:32:05.279
You<00:32:03.519><c> know,</c><00:32:03.519><c> you</c><00:32:03.619><c> come</c><00:32:03.759><c> into</c><00:32:03.920><c> my</c><00:32:04.160><c> house</c><00:32:04.539><c> and</c><00:32:04.859><c> it</c><00:32:04.960><c> looks</c>

00:32:05.279 --> 00:32:07.339
like,<00:32:05.559><c> you</c><00:32:06.160><c> know,</c><00:32:06.319><c> when</c><00:32:06.420><c> I've</c><00:32:06.559><c> been</c><00:32:06.700><c> eating,</c><00:32:07.019><c> it</c><00:32:07.019><c> looks</c><00:32:07.160><c> like</c>

00:32:07.339 --> 00:32:08.799
I<00:32:07.500><c> brought</c><00:32:07.619><c> the</c><00:32:07.859><c> food</c><00:32:07.960><c> up</c><00:32:08.180><c> through</c><00:32:08.380><c> the</c><00:32:08.579><c> table.</c>

00:32:09.279 --> 00:32:11.359
If<00:32:09.680><c> she's</c><00:32:10.059><c> sitting</c><00:32:10.140><c> opposite</c><00:32:10.519><c> me,</c><00:32:11.019><c> the</c><00:32:11.180><c> crease</c>

00:32:11.359 --> 00:32:13.279
is<00:32:11.539><c> still</c><00:32:11.640><c> in</c><00:32:11.779><c> the</c><00:32:11.960><c> tablecloth,</c><00:32:12.779><c> you</c><00:32:12.960><c> know</c><00:32:13.059><c> what</c><00:32:13.140><c> I</c><00:32:13.140><c> mean?</c>

00:32:13.519 --> 00:32:15.359
And<00:32:13.740><c> even</c><00:32:14.160><c> the</c><00:32:14.380><c> fork</c><00:32:14.519><c> is</c><00:32:14.740><c> still</c><00:32:14.940><c> clean,</c><00:32:15.119><c> even</c>

00:32:15.359 --> 00:32:17.359
after<00:32:15.579><c> she's</c><00:32:15.819><c> finished</c><00:32:16.039><c> eating</c><00:32:16.279><c> with</c><00:32:16.460><c> it.</c><00:32:16.980><c> It's</c>

00:32:17.359 --> 00:32:19.559
just<00:32:17.539><c> amazing.</c><00:32:17.880><c> She</c><00:32:18.079><c> is</c><00:32:18.680><c> miscleaned.</c>

00:32:19.619 --> 00:32:21.279
Now,<00:32:19.799><c> if</c><00:32:19.900><c> you</c><00:32:20.019><c> had</c><00:32:20.099><c> to</c><00:32:20.279><c> put</c><00:32:20.420><c> me</c><00:32:20.599><c> and</c><00:32:20.759><c> her</c><00:32:20.900><c> together,</c>

00:32:21.460 --> 00:32:23.299
we<00:32:21.640><c> would</c><00:32:21.779><c> be</c><00:32:22.000><c> a</c><00:32:22.119><c> disaster,</c><00:32:22.960><c> an</c><00:32:23.099><c> absolute</c>

00:32:23.299 --> 00:32:25.900
disaster,<00:32:23.720><c> because</c><00:32:24.180><c> she</c><00:32:24.799><c> has</c><00:32:25.059><c> a</c><00:32:25.319><c> fetish</c>

00:32:25.900 --> 00:32:27.339
about<00:32:26.220><c> being</c><00:32:26.599><c> tidy.</c>

00:32:27.420 --> 00:32:29.099
It's<00:32:27.680><c> like</c><00:32:27.880><c> something</c><00:32:28.099><c> that</c><00:32:28.279><c> just</c><00:32:28.640><c> drives</c><00:32:28.900><c> her,</c>

00:32:29.460 --> 00:32:30.859
an<00:32:29.660><c> absolute</c><00:32:29.940><c> fetish.</c><00:32:30.700><c> Now,</c>

00:32:30.859 --> 00:32:33.400
I'm<00:32:31.579><c> a</c><00:32:31.680><c> guy</c><00:32:31.900><c> that,</c><00:32:32.539><c> my</c><00:32:32.759><c> home</c><00:32:32.900><c> is</c><00:32:33.039><c> my</c><00:32:33.240><c> home,</c>

00:32:33.400 --> 00:32:35.579
you<00:32:33.500><c> know</c><00:32:33.559><c> what</c><00:32:33.700><c> I</c><00:32:33.700><c> mean?</c><00:32:33.900><c> And</c><00:32:33.980><c> if</c><00:32:34.099><c> there's</c><00:32:34.940><c> a</c><00:32:35.180><c> sock</c><00:32:35.359><c> there</c>

00:32:35.579 --> 00:32:37.440
or<00:32:35.740><c> a</c><00:32:35.880><c> shoe</c><00:32:35.960><c> there,</c><00:32:36.259><c> well,</c><00:32:36.400><c> that's</c><00:32:36.660><c> fine.</c>

00:32:37.480 --> 00:32:39.500
You<00:32:37.839><c> know,</c><00:32:38.200><c> if</c><00:32:38.319><c> you</c><00:32:38.460><c> come</c><00:32:38.579><c> into</c><00:32:38.740><c> my</c><00:32:39.039><c> study,</c><00:32:39.319><c> you'd</c><00:32:39.420><c> say</c>

00:32:39.500 --> 00:32:41.299
this<00:32:39.720><c> doesn't</c><00:32:39.940><c> look</c><00:32:40.119><c> like</c><00:32:40.319><c> a</c><00:32:40.420><c> study,</c><00:32:40.559><c> this</c><00:32:40.759><c> looks</c><00:32:40.940><c> like</c>

00:32:41.299 --> 00:32:43.740
a<00:32:41.900><c> crazy</c><00:32:42.400><c> place,</c><00:32:42.819><c> you</c><00:32:42.920><c> know</c><00:32:43.019><c> what</c><00:32:43.099><c> I</c><00:32:43.099><c> mean?</c>

00:32:45.220 --> 00:32:45.579
So,

00:32:45.660 --> 00:32:47.759
Wendith<00:32:45.799><c> and</c><00:32:45.880><c> myself</c><00:32:46.259><c> are</c><00:32:46.500><c> both</c><00:32:46.740><c> untidy.</c>

00:32:47.819 --> 00:32:49.640
Not<00:32:48.180><c> untidy</c><00:32:48.539><c> to</c><00:32:48.819><c> the</c><00:32:49.200><c> extent</c>

00:32:49.640 --> 00:32:51.519
that<00:32:50.039><c> we</c><00:32:50.339><c> can't</c><00:32:50.579><c> live</c><00:32:50.680><c> together.</c><00:32:51.039><c> I</c><00:32:51.079><c> mean,</c><00:32:51.240><c> there's</c>

00:32:51.519 --> 00:32:52.960
a<00:32:51.660><c> certain</c><00:32:51.819><c> amount</c><00:32:52.099><c> of</c><00:32:52.299><c> order</c><00:32:52.460><c> in</c><00:32:52.619><c> our</c><00:32:52.779><c> house.</c>

00:32:53.279 --> 00:32:55.680
But<00:32:53.460><c> if</c><00:32:53.579><c> you</c><00:32:53.740><c> came</c><00:32:53.859><c> to</c><00:32:54.039><c> our</c><00:32:54.180><c> house</c><00:32:54.339><c> and</c><00:32:54.519><c> you'd</c><00:32:54.819><c> lay</c><00:32:54.920><c> down</c><00:32:55.119><c> on</c><00:32:55.539><c> the</c>

00:32:55.680 --> 00:32:57.420
sofa<00:32:56.000><c> and</c><00:32:56.119><c> you</c><00:32:56.200><c> put</c><00:32:56.339><c> your</c><00:32:56.539><c> feet</c><00:32:56.640><c> on</c><00:32:57.119><c> and</c>

00:32:57.420 --> 00:32:59.460
you<00:32:57.720><c> still</c><00:32:57.900><c> had</c><00:32:57.960><c> your</c><00:32:58.180><c> shoes</c><00:32:58.339><c> on,</c><00:32:58.599><c> I</c><00:32:58.700><c> mean,</c><00:32:58.819><c> I'm</c><00:32:58.880><c> not</c><00:32:59.059><c> going</c><00:32:59.200><c> to</c><00:32:59.299><c> have</c>

00:32:59.460 --> 00:33:01.380
a<00:32:59.559><c> hernia</c><00:32:59.740><c> about</c><00:32:59.960><c> that.</c><00:33:00.700><c> I</c><00:33:00.880><c> mean,</c><00:33:00.980><c> I'd</c><00:33:01.160><c> probably</c>

00:33:01.380 --> 00:33:03.460
cross<00:33:01.480><c> you</c><00:33:01.619><c> to</c><00:33:01.779><c> take</c><00:33:01.880><c> your</c><00:33:02.000><c> shoes</c><00:33:02.140><c> off,</c><00:33:02.380><c> but</c><00:33:02.819><c> it's</c><00:33:03.079><c> not</c><00:33:03.240><c> like</c>

00:33:03.460 --> 00:33:05.500
some<00:33:03.680><c> houses</c><00:33:03.940><c> where</c><00:33:04.119><c> you</c><00:33:04.160><c> have</c><00:33:04.319><c> to</c><00:33:04.539><c> take</c><00:33:04.559><c> your</c><00:33:04.759><c> shoes</c><00:33:04.960><c> off</c><00:33:05.160><c> and</c><00:33:05.339><c> your</c>

00:33:05.500 --> 00:33:07.339
socks<00:33:05.700><c> off</c><00:33:06.000><c> and,</c><00:33:06.880><c> you</c><00:33:07.119><c> know,</c>

00:33:07.640 --> 00:33:09.519
and<00:33:07.839><c> walk</c><00:33:08.039><c> gingerly</c><00:33:08.460><c> over</c><00:33:08.740><c> the</c><00:33:09.279><c> cream</c>

00:33:09.519 --> 00:33:11.339
rug,<00:33:10.259><c> you</c><00:33:10.500><c> know.</c>

00:33:11.740 --> 00:33:13.680
But<00:33:11.980><c> I</c><00:33:12.079><c> mean,</c><00:33:12.380><c> if</c><00:33:12.559><c> you</c><00:33:12.859><c> both</c><00:33:13.079><c> like</c><00:33:13.339><c> that,</c>

00:33:14.039 --> 00:33:15.640
if<00:33:14.180><c> you</c><00:33:14.440><c> both</c><00:33:14.619><c> like</c><00:33:14.839><c> that,</c><00:33:15.000><c> that's</c><00:33:15.319><c> fine.</c>

00:33:16.140 --> 00:33:17.759
In<00:33:16.140><c> other</c><00:33:16.200><c> words,</c><00:33:16.299><c> if</c><00:33:16.400><c> you</c><00:33:16.680><c> both</c><00:33:16.960><c> clean</c><00:33:17.299><c> machines,</c>

00:33:17.839 --> 00:33:19.000
you<00:33:17.900><c> know</c><00:33:18.019><c> what</c><00:33:18.099><c> I</c><00:33:18.099><c> mean?</c>

00:33:20.259 --> 00:33:21.599
Mr.<00:33:20.660><c> and</c><00:33:20.859><c> Mrs.</c><00:33:21.400><c> Tidy</c>

00:33:21.599 --> 00:33:23.339
get<00:33:22.019><c> married</c><00:33:22.259><c> together,</c><00:33:22.619><c> it's</c><00:33:22.880><c> going</c><00:33:22.980><c> to</c><00:33:23.099><c> work.</c>

00:33:23.440 --> 00:33:25.460
It'll<00:33:23.680><c> be</c><00:33:23.880><c> fine.</c><00:33:24.759><c> It's</c><00:33:24.819><c> just</c><00:33:24.920><c> that</c><00:33:25.019><c> they</c><00:33:25.140><c> mustn't</c><00:33:25.339><c> have</c>

00:33:25.460 --> 00:33:27.500
me<00:33:25.640><c> around</c><00:33:25.819><c> for</c><00:33:26.000><c> dinner,</c><00:33:26.420><c> because</c><00:33:26.839><c> I'm</c><00:33:27.279><c> going</c><00:33:27.359><c> to</c>

00:33:27.500 --> 00:33:28.640
cause<00:33:27.619><c> a</c><00:33:27.720><c> lot</c><00:33:27.859><c> of</c><00:33:28.039><c> trouble</c><00:33:28.240><c> for</c><00:33:28.460><c> them.</c>

00:33:28.640 --> 00:33:30.980
All<00:33:28.640><c> right,</c><00:33:30.000><c> so</c>

00:33:31.279 --> 00:33:32.779
let's<00:33:31.720><c> do</c><00:33:32.160><c> a</c><00:33:32.279><c> rating</c><00:33:32.500><c> this</c><00:33:32.720><c> way.</c>

00:33:32.799 --> 00:33:35.619
You're<00:33:33.039><c> going</c><00:33:33.059><c> to</c><00:33:33.200><c> rate</c><00:33:33.460><c> this</c><00:33:33.859><c> young</c><00:33:34.000><c> lady</c><00:33:34.180><c> over</c><00:33:34.400><c> here.</c>

00:33:36.400 --> 00:33:37.279
All<00:33:36.839><c> right.</c>

00:33:37.519 --> 00:33:38.759
Jovial<00:33:37.920><c> and</c><00:33:38.160><c> happy.</c><00:33:38.420><c> Is</c><00:33:38.579><c> she</c>

00:33:38.759 --> 00:33:41.140
jovial<00:33:39.119><c> and</c><00:33:39.299><c> happy?</c><00:33:39.900><c> One</c><00:33:40.000><c> to</c><00:33:40.180><c> five.</c>

00:33:46.799 --> 00:33:48.240
A<00:33:47.240><c> four.</c><00:33:47.799><c> Okay.</c>

00:33:48.539 --> 00:33:50.400
I<00:33:48.660><c> had</c><00:33:48.779><c> a</c><00:33:48.960><c> five</c><00:33:49.140><c> at</c><00:33:49.279><c> the</c><00:33:49.460><c> back</c><00:33:49.640><c> there.</c>

00:33:50.480 --> 00:33:52.819
He<00:33:50.740><c> was</c><00:33:50.980><c> giving</c><00:33:51.220><c> me</c><00:33:51.799><c> a</c><00:33:51.980><c> five,</c><00:33:52.220><c> he</c><00:33:52.380><c> was</c><00:33:52.420><c> giving</c><00:33:52.559><c> me</c><00:33:52.740><c> a</c>

00:33:52.819 --> 00:33:55.380
four.<00:33:53.240><c> They</c><00:33:53.480><c> see</c><00:33:53.640><c> you</c><00:33:53.880><c> as</c><00:33:54.099><c> jovial</c><00:33:54.440><c> and</c><00:33:54.680><c> happy.</c>

00:33:55.759 --> 00:33:56.619
You<00:33:55.799><c> can</c><00:33:56.039><c> both</c><00:33:56.279><c> have</c>

00:33:56.619 --> 00:33:58.839
two<00:33:57.440><c> jovial</c><00:33:57.880><c> and</c><00:33:58.079><c> happy</c><00:33:58.240><c> people</c>

00:33:58.839 --> 00:34:01.420
that<00:33:59.240><c> kind</c><00:33:59.400><c> of</c><00:33:59.559><c> roll</c><00:33:59.720><c> along</c><00:33:59.920><c> and</c><00:34:00.099><c> everything's</c><00:34:00.599><c> fine.</c>

00:34:02.680 --> 00:34:04.619
You<00:34:02.740><c> can</c><00:34:02.940><c> have</c><00:34:03.119><c> one</c><00:34:03.400><c> jovial</c><00:34:03.720><c> and</c><00:34:03.900><c> happy</c><00:34:04.059><c> person</c>

00:34:04.619 --> 00:34:06.539
that's<00:34:05.099><c> kind</c><00:34:05.319><c> of,</c><00:34:05.599><c> you</c><00:34:05.660><c> know,</c><00:34:05.839><c> with</c><00:34:06.000><c> a</c><00:34:06.279><c> reasonably</c>

00:34:06.539 --> 00:34:08.780
introverted<00:34:06.960><c> person,</c><00:34:07.339><c> that</c><00:34:07.519><c> can</c><00:34:07.680><c> be</c><00:34:07.880><c> fine.</c><00:34:08.380><c> The</c><00:34:08.519><c> point</c>

00:34:08.780 --> 00:34:10.960
is<00:34:09.260><c> that</c><00:34:09.760><c> if</c><00:34:10.099><c> one</c><00:34:10.239><c> is</c>

00:34:11.019 --> 00:34:12.320
rated<00:34:11.500><c> the</c><00:34:11.679><c> other</c><00:34:11.980><c> one,</c>

00:34:12.739 --> 00:34:14.539
you<00:34:12.860><c> know,</c><00:34:13.179><c> three</c><00:34:13.340><c> and</c><00:34:13.579><c> three</c><00:34:13.699><c> or</c><00:34:13.840><c> four</c><00:34:14.119><c> and</c><00:34:14.380><c> four,</c>

00:34:14.820 --> 00:34:16.739
that's<00:34:15.139><c> okay.</c><00:34:15.760><c> If</c><00:34:16.079><c> he's</c>

00:34:16.739 --> 00:34:18.739
rated<00:34:16.980><c> you</c><00:34:17.400><c> as</c><00:34:17.679><c> a</c><00:34:17.880><c> four</c><00:34:18.099><c> and</c><00:34:18.380><c> you've</c>

00:34:18.739 --> 00:34:20.400
rated<00:34:18.900><c> him</c><00:34:19.119><c> as</c><00:34:19.380><c> a</c><00:34:19.539><c> zero,</c>

00:34:20.760 --> 00:34:22.860
right,<00:34:21.320><c> it</c><00:34:21.579><c> means</c><00:34:21.780><c> that</c><00:34:22.199><c> you</c><00:34:22.400><c> must</c><00:34:22.639><c> know</c>

00:34:22.860 --> 00:34:24.820
that<00:34:23.300><c> he,</c><00:34:23.960><c> when</c><00:34:24.139><c> you're</c><00:34:24.639><c> feeling</c>

00:34:24.820 --> 00:34:27.039
effervescent<00:34:25.599><c> and</c><00:34:25.820><c> you're</c><00:34:26.059><c> jovial</c><00:34:26.440><c> and</c><00:34:26.599><c> you're</c><00:34:26.860><c> happy</c>

00:34:27.039 --> 00:34:28.780
about<00:34:27.280><c> something,</c><00:34:27.980><c> he's</c><00:34:28.280><c> going</c><00:34:28.380><c> to</c><00:34:28.460><c> be</c><00:34:28.619><c> sitting</c>

00:34:28.780 --> 00:34:29.860
there,

00:34:31.679 --> 00:34:33.019
you<00:34:32.119><c> know,</c><00:34:32.400><c> like</c><00:34:32.679><c> that.</c>

00:34:33.300 --> 00:34:34.780
And<00:34:33.679><c> if</c><00:34:34.000><c> you</c><00:34:34.139><c> can</c><00:34:34.340><c> live</c><00:34:34.460><c> with</c><00:34:34.619><c> it,</c>

00:34:34.800 --> 00:34:36.820
that's<00:34:35.099><c> fine.</c><00:34:35.539><c> It</c><00:34:35.639><c> can</c><00:34:35.940><c> work.</c><00:34:36.400><c> But</c>

00:34:36.820 --> 00:34:38.820
you<00:34:37.559><c> need</c><00:34:37.780><c> to</c><00:34:38.000><c> know</c><00:34:38.179><c> about</c><00:34:38.420><c> it</c>

00:34:38.820 --> 00:34:40.440
before<00:34:39.139><c> the</c><00:34:39.360><c> occasion.</c><00:34:39.699><c> So</c><00:34:39.840><c> this</c><00:34:40.019><c> little</c><00:34:40.260><c> thing,</c>

00:34:40.739 --> 00:34:42.760
you<00:34:40.880><c> get</c><00:34:41.099><c> a</c><00:34:41.219><c> hold</c><00:34:41.400><c> of</c><00:34:41.539><c> it,</c><00:34:41.860><c> you</c><00:34:41.980><c> make</c><00:34:42.179><c> a</c><00:34:42.400><c> photostat,</c>

00:34:42.820 --> 00:34:44.860
she<00:34:43.019><c> takes</c><00:34:43.260><c> one,</c><00:34:43.500><c> you</c><00:34:43.619><c> take</c><00:34:43.900><c> one,</c><00:34:44.239><c> and</c><00:34:44.460><c> you</c><00:34:44.619><c> actually</c>

00:34:44.860 --> 00:34:46.420
put<00:34:45.019><c> it</c><00:34:45.119><c> in</c><00:34:45.139><c> your</c><00:34:45.360><c> Bible</c><00:34:45.519><c> and</c><00:34:45.739><c> every</c><00:34:45.920><c> now</c><00:34:46.019><c> and</c><00:34:46.159><c> again,</c>

00:34:46.739 --> 00:34:48.599
you<00:34:47.059><c> know,</c><00:34:47.159><c> you</c><00:34:47.380><c> bring</c><00:34:47.500><c> it</c><00:34:47.679><c> out</c><00:34:47.820><c> and</c><00:34:47.980><c> you</c><00:34:48.099><c> look</c><00:34:48.260><c> and</c><00:34:48.420><c> say,</c>

00:34:48.719 --> 00:34:50.820
I<00:34:48.980><c> can</c><00:34:49.760><c> remember,</c><00:34:50.199><c> she</c><00:34:50.519><c> thought</c>

00:34:50.820 --> 00:34:52.880
this<00:34:51.059><c> of</c><00:34:51.219><c> me</c><00:34:51.780><c> and</c><00:34:52.219><c> I</c><00:34:52.500><c> thought</c><00:34:52.639><c> that</c>

00:34:52.880 --> 00:34:55.199
of<00:34:53.000><c> her.</c><00:34:53.900><c> You</c><00:34:54.059><c> see?</c><00:34:54.699><c> And</c><00:34:54.820><c> it's</c>

00:34:55.199 --> 00:34:57.079
the<00:34:55.420><c> right</c><00:34:55.659><c> time</c><00:34:55.880><c> to</c><00:34:56.079><c> do</c><00:34:56.179><c> it</c><00:34:56.420><c> when</c><00:34:56.559><c> you're</c><00:34:56.780><c> in</c><00:34:56.900><c> love,</c>

00:34:57.159 --> 00:34:59.059
when<00:34:57.380><c> the</c><00:34:57.679><c> adrenaline</c><00:34:57.960><c> and</c><00:34:58.440><c> all</c><00:34:58.840><c> the</c>

00:34:59.059 --> 00:35:00.719
testosterone<00:34:59.519><c> is</c><00:34:59.780><c> working</c><00:35:00.059><c> and</c>

00:35:00.719 --> 00:35:03.659
the<00:35:01.199><c> dreams</c><00:35:01.440><c> are</c><00:35:01.599><c> made</c><00:35:01.739><c> in</c><00:35:01.900><c> heaven</c><00:35:02.039><c> and</c><00:35:02.199><c> everything</c><00:35:02.420><c> is</c><00:35:02.659><c> just</c><00:35:02.860><c> magic.</c>

00:35:03.739 --> 00:35:05.820
All<00:35:03.880><c> right.</c><00:35:04.659><c> How</c><00:35:04.880><c> about</c>

00:35:07.079 --> 00:35:09.039
I'm<00:35:07.519><c> going</c><00:35:07.539><c> to</c><00:35:07.639><c> ask</c><00:35:07.820><c> you</c><00:35:08.519><c> to</c><00:35:08.920><c> rate</c>

00:35:09.039 --> 00:35:11.579
him<00:35:09.260><c> now.</c><00:35:10.480><c> All</c><00:35:10.659><c> right?</c>

00:35:11.820 --> 00:35:13.039
A<00:35:12.119><c> person</c><00:35:12.360><c> that</c><00:35:12.599><c> can</c><00:35:12.760><c> say</c>

00:35:13.039 --> 00:35:15.019
sorry.<00:35:13.840><c> If</c><00:35:13.960><c> he</c><00:35:14.139><c> made</c><00:35:14.340><c> a</c><00:35:14.460><c> mistake,</c><00:35:14.679><c> if</c><00:35:14.860><c> he</c>

00:35:15.019 --> 00:35:16.940
did<00:35:15.199><c> something</c><00:35:15.760><c> that</c><00:35:16.219><c> was</c><00:35:16.519><c> really</c>

00:35:16.940 --> 00:35:18.920
bad,<00:35:17.519><c> you</c><00:35:17.639><c> know,</c><00:35:18.119><c> like</c><00:35:18.280><c> he</c><00:35:18.440><c> really</c><00:35:18.719><c> hurt</c>

00:35:18.920 --> 00:35:21.059
you,<00:35:19.719><c> and</c><00:35:19.920><c> you</c><00:35:20.039><c> went</c><00:35:20.239><c> and</c><00:35:20.420><c> you</c><00:35:20.619><c> made</c>

00:35:21.059 --> 00:35:23.420
none<00:35:21.500><c> to</c><00:35:21.659><c> him</c><00:35:21.840><c> that</c><00:35:22.019><c> you</c><00:35:22.360><c> really</c><00:35:23.079><c> hurt</c>

00:35:23.420 --> 00:35:25.659
by<00:35:23.699><c> something</c><00:35:23.960><c> that</c><00:35:24.159><c> he'd</c><00:35:24.440><c> said.</c>

00:35:26.840 --> 00:35:27.539
You<00:35:26.900><c> think</c><00:35:27.119><c> that</c>

00:35:27.539 --> 00:35:29.139
he<00:35:27.699><c> could</c><00:35:27.880><c> say</c><00:35:28.119><c> sorry</c><00:35:28.380><c> and</c><00:35:28.599><c> really</c><00:35:28.860><c> mean</c><00:35:28.980><c> it,</c>

00:35:29.280 --> 00:35:31.320
not,<00:35:30.019><c> I'm</c><00:35:30.239><c> sorry,</c><00:35:30.840><c> you</c><00:35:30.900><c> know,</c><00:35:31.000><c> that's</c>

00:35:31.320 --> 00:35:33.480
the<00:35:31.460><c> normal</c><00:35:31.719><c> kind</c><00:35:32.019><c> of</c><00:35:32.780><c> macho</c>

00:35:33.480 --> 00:35:35.440
thing,<00:35:34.340><c> you</c><00:35:34.340><c> know,</c><00:35:34.559><c> I'm</c><00:35:35.099><c> sorry,</c>

00:35:35.739 --> 00:35:37.400
you<00:35:35.739><c> know,</c><00:35:36.119><c> and</c><00:35:36.280><c> stomp</c><00:35:36.400><c> out</c><00:35:36.659><c> the</c><00:35:36.860><c> house</c><00:35:37.059><c> and</c>

00:35:37.400 --> 00:35:39.239
slam<00:35:37.579><c> the</c><00:35:37.800><c> door,</c><00:35:38.099><c> you</c><00:35:38.159><c> know.</c><00:35:38.699><c> Not</c><00:35:38.960><c> that.</c>

00:35:39.559 --> 00:35:41.079
No,<00:35:39.679><c> not</c><00:35:39.900><c> that</c><00:35:40.039><c> at</c><00:35:40.179><c> all.</c><00:35:40.860><c> By</c>

00:35:41.079 --> 00:35:43.119
going<00:35:41.340><c> to</c><00:35:41.559><c> the</c><00:35:41.719><c> person</c><00:35:42.119><c> and</c><00:35:42.880><c> saying</c>

00:35:43.119 --> 00:35:45.079
I<00:35:44.039><c> really</c><00:35:44.380><c> am</c><00:35:44.679><c> sorry</c>

00:35:45.079 --> 00:35:47.260
for<00:35:45.340><c> what</c><00:35:45.500><c> I've</c><00:35:47.260><c> done.</c>

00:35:47.639 --> 00:35:48.599
Rate<00:35:47.760><c> him.</c><00:35:47.880><c> One</c><00:35:48.039><c> to</c><00:35:48.239><c> five.</c>

00:35:48.599 --> 00:35:51.000
A<00:35:48.760><c> 3</c><00:35:50.539><c>.5.</c>

00:35:51.019 --> 00:35:53.000
So<00:35:51.300><c> there</c><00:35:51.539><c> you</c><00:35:51.719><c> go,</c><00:35:52.659><c> you</c>

00:35:53.000 --> 00:35:54.699
sitting<00:35:53.300><c> kind</c><00:35:53.579><c> of</c><00:35:54.340><c> just</c>

00:35:54.699 --> 00:35:57.579
comfortable.<00:35:55.900><c> All</c><00:35:55.920><c> right?</c>

00:35:57.679 --> 00:35:58.659
Andrea,<00:35:57.900><c> I'm</c><00:35:58.059><c> going</c><00:35:58.159><c> to</c><00:35:58.219><c> ask</c><00:35:58.300><c> you</c><00:35:58.460><c> to</c><00:35:58.599><c> rate</c>

00:35:58.659 --> 00:35:59.900
your<00:35:58.900><c> brother</c><00:35:59.079><c> now.</c>

00:36:01.900 --> 00:36:02.679
Do<00:36:02.079><c> you</c><00:36:02.199><c> see</c><00:36:02.260><c> him</c><00:36:02.380><c> as</c>

00:36:02.679 --> 00:36:04.320
confident<00:36:03.119><c> and</c><00:36:03.440><c> outgoing?</c>

00:36:05.760 --> 00:36:06.820
Is<00:36:05.940><c> he</c><00:36:06.099><c> confident</c><00:36:06.579><c> and</c>

00:36:06.820 --> 00:36:07.619
outgoing?

00:36:09.480 --> 00:36:10.940
A<00:36:09.960><c> five.</c>

00:36:11.360 --> 00:36:12.340
Okay.

00:36:13.440 --> 00:36:14.739
I'm<00:36:13.639><c> going</c><00:36:13.719><c> to</c><00:36:13.840><c> ask</c><00:36:13.940><c> you</c><00:36:14.079><c> to</c><00:36:14.199><c> rate</c><00:36:14.280><c> your</c><00:36:14.500><c> sister</c>

00:36:14.739 --> 00:36:16.199
now.<00:36:15.800><c> All</c><00:36:15.980><c> right?</c>

00:36:16.199 --> 00:36:18.099
Is<00:36:16.199><c> she</c><00:36:17.239><c> God</c><00:36:17.559><c> fearing</c>

00:36:18.099 --> 00:36:20.500
and<00:36:18.639><c> prayerful</c><00:36:19.119><c> at</c><00:36:19.280><c> home?</c>

00:36:25.059 --> 00:36:26.619
God<00:36:25.840><c> fearing</c>

00:36:26.619 --> 00:36:29.840
and<00:36:27.079><c> prayerful</c><00:36:28.039><c> at</c><00:36:28.260><c> home?</c>

00:36:32.500 --> 00:36:35.070
No,<00:36:32.780><c> just</c><00:36:32.840><c> give</c><00:36:32.960><c> me</c><00:36:33.119><c> a</c><00:36:33.219><c> zero</c><00:36:33.460><c> to</c><00:36:34.179><c> five.</c>

00:36:36.400 --> 00:36:37.920
Probably<00:36:37.019><c> a</c><00:36:37.239><c> one.</c>

00:36:39.480 --> 00:36:40.460
Okay,<00:36:40.099><c> now</c>

00:36:40.460 --> 00:36:42.500
again,<00:36:41.019><c> here's</c><00:36:41.280><c> the</c><00:36:41.400><c> situation.</c><00:36:41.880><c> You</c><00:36:42.019><c> have</c>

00:36:42.500 --> 00:36:44.739
two<00:36:42.800><c> people</c><00:36:43.119><c> together.</c><00:36:44.280><c> All</c><00:36:44.360><c> right?</c>

00:36:44.739 --> 00:36:46.860
The<00:36:45.099><c> one</c><00:36:45.360><c> rates</c><00:36:45.599><c> the</c><00:36:45.760><c> other</c><00:36:45.980><c> one</c><00:36:46.139><c> as</c><00:36:46.340><c> God</c><00:36:46.579><c> fearing</c>

00:36:46.860 --> 00:36:48.739
and<00:36:47.119><c> prayerful.</c>

00:36:48.920 --> 00:36:50.880
A<00:36:48.940><c> five.</c><00:36:49.760><c> The</c><00:36:49.880><c> other</c><00:36:50.119><c> one</c><00:36:50.619><c> rates</c>

00:36:50.880 --> 00:36:52.920
the<00:36:51.079><c> other</c><00:36:51.219><c> one</c><00:36:51.360><c> God</c><00:36:51.539><c> fearing</c><00:36:52.039><c> and</c><00:36:52.519><c> prayerful</c>

00:36:52.920 --> 00:36:55.320
a<00:36:53.119><c> five.</c><00:36:53.780><c> No</c><00:36:54.019><c> problem.</c><00:36:54.360><c> You're</c><00:36:54.559><c> on</c><00:36:54.659><c> the</c><00:36:54.840><c> same</c>

00:36:55.320 --> 00:36:56.980
keel.<00:36:56.000><c> You</c><00:36:56.119><c> both</c><00:36:56.460><c> have</c><00:36:56.739><c> the</c>

00:36:56.980 --> 00:36:59.000
same<00:36:57.159><c> level</c><00:36:57.420><c> of</c><00:36:57.699><c> spirituality.</c><00:36:58.539><c> You're</c><00:36:58.760><c> both</c>

00:36:59.000 --> 00:37:00.860
two<00:36:59.380><c> young</c><00:36:59.579><c> people</c><00:36:59.980><c> dedicated</c><00:37:00.400><c> in</c><00:37:00.539><c> the</c><00:37:00.719><c> truth</c>

00:37:00.860 --> 00:37:02.880
going<00:37:01.059><c> the</c><00:37:01.280><c> same</c><00:37:01.440><c> direction</c><00:37:01.900><c> and</c><00:37:02.340><c> you're</c><00:37:02.500><c> going</c><00:37:02.579><c> to</c><00:37:02.659><c> be</c><00:37:02.780><c> at</c>

00:37:02.880 --> 00:37:04.619
the<00:37:03.019><c> meeting</c><00:37:03.159><c> and</c><00:37:03.320><c> you'll</c><00:37:03.440><c> be</c><00:37:03.619><c> helping</c><00:37:03.900><c> each</c><00:37:04.159><c> other</c><00:37:04.260><c> going</c><00:37:04.420><c> to</c>

00:37:04.619 --> 00:37:04.940
the<00:37:04.739><c> meetings.</c>

00:37:05.019 --> 00:37:07.420
All<00:37:05.139><c> right?</c><00:37:05.940><c> But</c><00:37:06.059><c> if</c><00:37:06.199><c> the</c><00:37:06.380><c> one</c><00:37:06.480><c> is</c><00:37:06.719><c> rated</c>

00:37:08.300 --> 00:37:08.960
five<00:37:08.699><c> and</c><00:37:08.840><c> the</c>

00:37:08.960 --> 00:37:10.800
other<00:37:09.059><c> one</c><00:37:09.179><c> is</c><00:37:09.340><c> rated</c><00:37:09.559><c> one,</c><00:37:10.219><c> it</c><00:37:10.539><c> means</c>

00:37:10.800 --> 00:37:12.840
that<00:37:11.059><c> that</c><00:37:11.239><c> other</c><00:37:11.440><c> person</c><00:37:11.719><c> is</c><00:37:11.900><c> going</c><00:37:12.000><c> to</c><00:37:12.139><c> have</c><00:37:12.260><c> to</c><00:37:12.420><c> help</c><00:37:12.619><c> that</c>

00:37:12.840 --> 00:37:15.340
other<00:37:12.840><c> person</c><00:37:13.320><c> in</c><00:37:14.579><c> spiritual</c>

00:37:15.340 --> 00:37:17.219
matters,<00:37:16.659><c> in</c><00:37:16.719><c> matters</c><00:37:16.960><c> of</c>

00:37:17.219 --> 00:37:19.179
praying<00:37:17.360><c> at</c><00:37:17.599><c> home.</c><00:37:18.019><c> And</c><00:37:18.139><c> quite</c><00:37:18.320><c> often</c><00:37:18.519><c> it</c><00:37:18.679><c> can</c><00:37:18.860><c> be</c>

00:37:19.179 --> 00:37:21.059
the<00:37:19.340><c> other</c><00:37:19.440><c> way</c><00:37:19.619><c> around.</c><00:37:19.820><c> In</c><00:37:19.880><c> other</c><00:37:20.039><c> words,</c><00:37:20.280><c> the</c><00:37:20.420><c> woman</c><00:37:20.639><c> might</c><00:37:20.860><c> be</c>

00:37:21.059 --> 00:37:23.079
the<00:37:21.460><c> spiritual</c><00:37:22.000><c> one,</c><00:37:22.539><c> the</c><00:37:22.719><c> prayerful</c>

00:37:23.079 --> 00:37:25.119
one.<00:37:23.739><c> Right?</c><00:37:24.500><c> And</c><00:37:24.760><c> the</c><00:37:24.960><c> man</c>

00:37:25.119 --> 00:37:27.039
might<00:37:25.340><c> be</c><00:37:25.500><c> the</c><00:37:25.659><c> weak</c><00:37:25.820><c> one.</c><00:37:26.280><c> You</c><00:37:26.400><c> need</c><00:37:26.579><c> to</c><00:37:26.699><c> know</c><00:37:26.880><c> about</c>

00:37:27.039 --> 00:37:28.840
it<00:37:27.219><c> now</c><00:37:27.619><c> so</c><00:37:27.960><c> that</c><00:37:28.099><c> you</c><00:37:28.199><c> can</c><00:37:28.400><c> start</c>

00:37:28.840 --> 00:37:30.619
working<00:37:29.300><c> on</c><00:37:29.519><c> it.</c><00:37:30.219><c> All</c><00:37:30.440><c> right?</c>

00:37:30.780 --> 00:37:32.940
And<00:37:31.059><c> hopefully</c><00:37:31.480><c> get</c><00:37:31.820><c> that</c><00:37:32.099><c> the</c><00:37:32.280><c> other</c><00:37:32.420><c> way</c><00:37:32.579><c> around</c><00:37:32.760><c> so</c>

00:37:32.940 --> 00:37:35.079
that<00:37:33.079><c> he</c><00:37:33.260><c> will</c><00:37:33.480><c> take</c><00:37:33.760><c> up</c><00:37:33.960><c> more</c><00:37:34.280><c> responsibility.</c>

00:37:35.400 --> 00:37:36.280
It's<00:37:35.679><c> not...</c>

00:37:36.280 --> 00:37:38.280
What<00:37:36.480><c> happens</c><00:37:36.719><c> if</c><00:37:36.840><c> it's</c><00:37:37.039><c> a</c><00:37:37.119><c> one</c><00:37:37.260><c> and</c><00:37:37.380><c> a</c><00:37:37.539><c> one?</c>

00:37:38.340 --> 00:37:40.820
If<00:37:38.559><c> it's</c><00:37:38.760><c> a</c><00:37:38.860><c> one</c><00:37:38.960><c> and</c><00:37:39.099><c> a</c><00:37:39.260><c> one,</c><00:37:40.159><c> again</c><00:37:40.619><c> you</c>

00:37:40.820 --> 00:37:42.760
just<00:37:40.980><c> need</c><00:37:41.139><c> to</c><00:37:41.300><c> know</c><00:37:41.400><c> that</c><00:37:41.539><c> you're</c><00:37:41.780><c> both</c><00:37:41.960><c> weak.</c>

00:37:42.940 --> 00:37:44.440
And<00:37:42.940><c> if</c><00:37:43.079><c> you're</c><00:37:43.340><c> both</c><00:37:43.519><c> weak</c><00:37:43.679><c> in</c><00:37:43.880><c> that</c><00:37:44.019><c> area,</c>

00:37:44.920 --> 00:37:46.739
right,<00:37:45.599><c> you</c><00:37:45.719><c> need</c><00:37:45.960><c> to</c><00:37:46.340><c> say,</c><00:37:46.599><c> look,</c>

00:37:46.739 --> 00:37:48.719
we're<00:37:47.079><c> both</c><00:37:47.239><c> weak</c><00:37:47.400><c> in</c><00:37:47.579><c> this</c><00:37:47.739><c> area,</c><00:37:47.940><c> we</c><00:37:48.179><c> need</c><00:37:48.360><c> help.</c>

00:37:49.159 --> 00:37:50.820
But<00:37:49.460><c> normally</c><00:37:49.840><c> people</c><00:37:50.139><c> that</c><00:37:50.300><c> have</c><00:37:50.460><c> come</c><00:37:50.659><c> to</c><00:37:50.739><c> you</c>

00:37:50.820 --> 00:37:53.320
for<00:37:50.980><c> help</c><00:37:51.119><c> in</c><00:37:51.280><c> the</c><00:37:51.380><c> first</c><00:37:51.579><c> place</c><00:37:52.099><c> are</c>

00:37:54.480 --> 00:37:54.840
reasonably

00:37:54.840 --> 00:37:56.880
strong<00:37:55.139><c> enough</c><00:37:55.480><c> to</c><00:37:55.719><c> go</c><00:37:56.400><c> through</c><00:37:56.619><c> this</c>

00:37:56.880 --> 00:37:58.880
kind<00:37:57.059><c> of</c><00:37:57.559><c> process</c><00:37:57.940><c> anyway.</c>

00:37:59.400 --> 00:38:00.820
You<00:37:59.400><c> know?</c><00:38:00.340><c> You're</c><00:38:00.460><c> not</c><00:38:00.679><c> going</c>

00:38:00.820 --> 00:38:02.880
to...<00:38:00.960><c> I</c><00:38:01.079><c> mean</c><00:38:01.260><c> if</c><00:38:01.320><c> you</c><00:38:01.519><c> are</c><00:38:01.699><c> really,</c><00:38:02.059><c> really</c><00:38:02.300><c> weak,</c><00:38:02.619><c> you're</c><00:38:02.739><c> not</c>

00:38:02.880 --> 00:38:04.880
even<00:38:03.059><c> going</c><00:38:03.179><c> to</c><00:38:03.300><c> ask</c><00:38:03.480><c> for</c><00:38:03.659><c> help</c><00:38:03.800><c> because</c><00:38:04.400><c> normally</c>

00:38:04.880 --> 00:38:06.880
with<00:38:05.099><c> weak</c><00:38:05.239><c> people,</c><00:38:05.980><c> they</c><00:38:06.199><c> always</c><00:38:06.440><c> think</c><00:38:06.579><c> they</c><00:38:06.760><c> don't</c>

00:38:06.880 --> 00:38:07.900
need<00:38:07.000><c> help.</c>

00:38:07.920 --> 00:38:09.300
You<00:38:08.360><c> see?</c>

00:38:13.579 --> 00:38:15.599
But<00:38:14.019><c> I</c><00:38:14.059><c> think</c><00:38:14.300><c> you've...</c><00:38:15.059><c> what</c><00:38:15.360><c> Ray</c>

00:38:15.599 --> 00:38:17.599
has<00:38:15.940><c> pointed</c><00:38:16.199><c> out</c><00:38:16.400><c> there</c><00:38:16.519><c> is</c><00:38:16.679><c> a</c><00:38:16.800><c> very,</c><00:38:17.059><c> very</c><00:38:17.280><c> important</c>

00:38:17.599 --> 00:38:19.579
part<00:38:17.780><c> of</c><00:38:17.920><c> this</c><00:38:18.079><c> equation</c><00:38:18.500><c> and</c><00:38:19.019><c> that</c><00:38:19.139><c> is</c><00:38:19.340><c> the</c><00:38:19.460><c> word</c>

00:38:19.579 --> 00:38:21.659
embarrassed,<00:38:20.079><c> that</c><00:38:20.239><c> you</c><00:38:20.380><c> will</c><00:38:20.519><c> be</c><00:38:20.679><c> embarrassed.</c>

00:38:22.019 --> 00:38:23.960
You<00:38:22.139><c> see,</c><00:38:22.300><c> now</c><00:38:22.380><c> what</c><00:38:22.500><c> happens</c><00:38:22.860><c> is</c><00:38:23.019><c> with</c><00:38:23.179><c> young</c><00:38:23.400><c> people</c>

00:38:23.960 --> 00:38:25.519
that<00:38:24.519><c> sit</c><00:38:24.659><c> down</c><00:38:24.860><c> with</c><00:38:25.139><c> Wendith</c><00:38:25.219><c> and</c><00:38:25.300><c> myself,</c>

00:38:25.619 --> 00:38:27.480
whatever<00:38:25.900><c> we</c><00:38:26.159><c> discuss</c><00:38:26.440><c> with</c><00:38:26.619><c> those</c><00:38:26.820><c> two</c><00:38:27.000><c> young</c><00:38:27.159><c> people</c>

00:38:27.480 --> 00:38:29.980
and<00:38:27.699><c> it's</c><00:38:27.900><c> always</c><00:38:28.179><c> a</c><00:38:28.440><c> four</c><00:38:28.639><c> way</c><00:38:28.940><c> thing.</c><00:38:29.280><c> It's</c><00:38:29.460><c> not</c>

00:38:29.980 --> 00:38:31.579
me<00:38:30.500><c> and</c><00:38:30.679><c> him</c><00:38:31.000><c> or</c>

00:38:31.579 --> 00:38:33.500
her<00:38:31.860><c> and</c><00:38:32.099><c> him.</c><00:38:32.699><c> It's</c><00:38:33.079><c> always</c>

00:38:33.500 --> 00:38:35.579
four<00:38:33.840><c> of</c><00:38:34.000><c> us</c><00:38:34.179><c> because</c><00:38:34.639><c> I</c><00:38:35.139><c> need</c><00:38:35.360><c> Wendith's</c>

00:38:35.579 --> 00:38:37.760
eyes<00:38:36.079><c> so</c><00:38:36.980><c> that</c><00:38:37.139><c> I</c><00:38:37.219><c> can</c><00:38:37.340><c> understand</c>

00:38:37.760 --> 00:38:39.820
and<00:38:38.099><c> she</c><00:38:38.300><c> needs</c><00:38:38.699><c> my</c><00:38:39.039><c> eyes.</c>

00:38:40.019 --> 00:38:41.880
The<00:38:40.119><c> two</c><00:38:40.300><c> brains.</c><00:38:40.699><c> We</c><00:38:40.800><c> put</c><00:38:40.940><c> our</c><00:38:41.159><c> two</c><00:38:41.320><c> brains</c><00:38:41.539><c> together</c>

00:38:41.880 --> 00:38:44.300
to<00:38:42.119><c> solve</c><00:38:42.320><c> problems</c><00:38:42.760><c> or</c><00:38:43.000><c> to</c><00:38:43.139><c> help</c><00:38:43.280><c> with</c><00:38:43.519><c> problems.</c>

00:38:44.380 --> 00:38:45.719
We<00:38:44.440><c> go</c><00:38:44.599><c> through</c><00:38:44.780><c> this</c><00:38:44.940><c> little</c><00:38:45.139><c> process</c>

00:38:45.719 --> 00:38:47.099
and

00:38:47.860 --> 00:38:49.639
by<00:38:48.420><c> going</c><00:38:48.659><c> through</c><00:38:48.900><c> this</c><00:38:49.099><c> process</c>

00:38:49.639 --> 00:38:51.840
of<00:38:50.099><c> marriage</c><00:38:50.440><c> counseling,</c><00:38:51.019><c> you</c><00:38:51.159><c> get</c><00:38:51.420><c> to</c><00:38:51.679><c> know</c>

00:38:51.840 --> 00:38:54.000
that<00:38:52.119><c> couple</c><00:38:52.579><c> intimately.</c>

00:38:54.360 --> 00:38:55.780
So<00:38:54.599><c> that</c><00:38:55.099><c> when</c>

00:38:55.780 --> 00:38:57.639
the<00:38:56.039><c> honeymoon</c><00:38:56.380><c> is</c><00:38:56.679><c> finished</c>

00:38:57.800 --> 00:38:59.800
and<00:38:58.360><c> you</c><00:38:58.559><c> start</c><00:38:58.900><c> getting</c><00:38:59.559><c> to</c>

00:38:59.800 --> 00:39:01.739
the<00:38:59.960><c> real</c><00:39:00.159><c> problems,</c><00:39:00.960><c> he</c><00:39:01.139><c> doesn't</c><00:39:01.440><c> brush</c>

00:39:01.739 --> 00:39:03.659
his<00:39:02.039><c> teeth</c><00:39:02.340><c> in</c><00:39:02.639><c> the</c><00:39:02.800><c> morning.</c>

00:39:04.659 --> 00:39:05.880
He<00:39:05.099><c> doesn't</c><00:39:05.539><c> shave.</c>

00:39:05.960 --> 00:39:07.900
He's<00:39:06.199><c> got</c><00:39:06.300><c> all</c><00:39:06.539><c> this</c><00:39:07.139><c> unshaved</c><00:39:07.679><c> stuff</c>

00:39:07.900 --> 00:39:09.679
in<00:39:08.039><c> the</c><00:39:08.159><c> morning</c><00:39:08.340><c> and</c><00:39:08.480><c> you</c><00:39:08.599><c> think,</c><00:39:09.159><c> I'm</c><00:39:09.340><c> married</c>

00:39:09.679 --> 00:39:12.059
this?<00:39:10.820><c> You</c><00:39:11.260><c> roll</c><00:39:11.480><c> up</c><00:39:11.539><c> in</c><00:39:11.699><c> the</c><00:39:11.860><c> morning</c>

00:39:12.059 --> 00:39:13.800
and<00:39:12.280><c> it's</c><00:39:12.519><c> been</c><00:39:12.719><c> a</c><00:39:12.860><c> nice</c><00:39:13.019><c> romantic</c><00:39:13.480><c> evening</c>

00:39:13.800 --> 00:39:15.659
the<00:39:13.940><c> night</c><00:39:14.039><c> before</c><00:39:14.380><c> and</c><00:39:14.480><c> you</c><00:39:14.639><c> roll</c><00:39:14.800><c> up</c><00:39:14.920><c> and</c><00:39:15.039><c> you</c><00:39:15.119><c> look</c><00:39:15.300><c> at</c><00:39:15.480><c> this</c>

00:39:15.659 --> 00:39:17.519
person,<00:39:16.300><c> she</c><00:39:16.400><c> doesn't</c><00:39:16.619><c> even</c><00:39:16.800><c> make</c><00:39:17.039><c> up</c><00:39:17.280><c> on.</c>

00:39:17.920 --> 00:39:19.800
Got<00:39:18.099><c> her</c><00:39:18.300><c> teeth</c><00:39:18.500><c> out</c><00:39:18.699><c> in</c><00:39:18.840><c> the</c><00:39:19.019><c> glass</c><00:39:19.219><c> next</c><00:39:19.539><c> door</c>

00:39:19.800 --> 00:39:20.519
there.

00:39:23.219 --> 00:39:25.119
You<00:39:23.659><c> don't</c><00:39:23.820><c> want</c><00:39:23.980><c> to</c><00:39:24.119><c> discover</c><00:39:24.380><c> that</c><00:39:24.599><c> afterwards.</c>

00:39:25.500 --> 00:39:27.980
You<00:39:25.599><c> want</c><00:39:25.840><c> to</c><00:39:26.000><c> know</c><00:39:26.280><c> about</c><00:39:26.639><c> it.</c>

00:39:29.639 --> 00:39:32.039
That's<00:39:30.079><c> the</c><00:39:30.519><c> last</c><00:39:30.739><c> question</c><00:39:31.039><c> on</c><00:39:31.219><c> the</c><00:39:31.320><c> list.</c>

00:39:34.039 --> 00:39:35.199
No,<00:39:34.440><c> but</c><00:39:34.539><c> the</c><00:39:34.679><c> point</c><00:39:34.860><c> is</c><00:39:35.019><c> that</c>

00:39:35.199 --> 00:39:36.760
once<00:39:35.440><c> the</c><00:39:35.659><c> couple</c><00:39:35.900><c> has</c><00:39:36.199><c> a</c><00:39:36.400><c> problem</c>

00:39:37.179 --> 00:39:39.199
we<00:39:37.539><c> need</c><00:39:37.800><c> to</c><00:39:37.960><c> first</c><00:39:38.219><c> of</c><00:39:38.360><c> all</c><00:39:38.440><c> let</c><00:39:38.619><c> them</c><00:39:38.860><c> know</c>

00:39:39.199 --> 00:39:41.360
that<00:39:39.760><c> it</c><00:39:39.920><c> is</c><00:39:40.219><c> normal</c><00:39:40.579><c> to</c><00:39:40.760><c> have</c><00:39:40.940><c> problems.</c>

00:39:41.659 --> 00:39:43.820
This<00:39:41.820><c> is</c><00:39:42.039><c> the</c><00:39:42.219><c> problem</c><00:39:42.420><c> with</c><00:39:42.659><c> Christodelfian</c><00:39:43.179><c> young</c><00:39:43.340><c> people.</c>

00:39:44.019 --> 00:39:45.239
Because<00:39:44.239><c> you're</c><00:39:44.400><c> brought</c><00:39:44.559><c> up</c><00:39:44.719><c> in</c><00:39:44.820><c> the</c><00:39:45.039><c> truth</c>

00:39:45.239 --> 00:39:47.239
you<00:39:45.639><c> get</c><00:39:45.880><c> married,</c><00:39:46.519><c> you</c><00:39:46.659><c> go</c><00:39:46.760><c> on</c><00:39:46.880><c> honeymoon</c>

00:39:47.239 --> 00:39:49.679
it<00:39:47.699><c> is</c><00:39:48.059><c> presumed</c><00:39:48.739><c> because</c><00:39:49.099><c> you're</c><00:39:49.280><c> in</c><00:39:49.300><c> the</c><00:39:49.519><c> truth</c>

00:39:49.679 --> 00:39:50.599
you're<00:39:49.840><c> not</c><00:39:50.000><c> going</c><00:39:50.119><c> to</c><00:39:50.179><c> have</c><00:39:50.340><c> problems.</c>

00:39:50.699 --> 00:39:53.219
So<00:39:50.840><c> everybody</c><00:39:51.079><c> steps</c><00:39:51.340><c> back</c><00:39:51.619><c> and</c><00:39:51.800><c> says,</c><00:39:52.059><c> let</c><00:39:52.079><c> them</c><00:39:52.239><c> get</c><00:39:52.420><c> on</c><00:39:52.559><c> with</c><00:39:52.699><c> it.</c>

00:39:53.440 --> 00:39:54.860
Nine<00:39:53.619><c> times</c><00:39:53.860><c> out</c><00:39:54.000><c> of</c><00:39:54.059><c> ten</c><00:39:54.079><c> they're</c><00:39:54.199><c> going</c><00:39:54.300><c> to</c><00:39:54.360><c> have</c><00:39:54.500><c> problems</c>

00:39:54.860 --> 00:39:57.400
and<00:39:55.300><c> when</c><00:39:55.619><c> you</c><00:39:55.900><c> have</c><00:39:56.179><c> problems,</c><00:39:56.559><c> which</c><00:39:56.780><c> you're</c><00:39:56.960><c> going</c><00:39:57.059><c> to</c><00:39:57.219><c> have</c>

00:39:57.400 --> 00:39:59.579
you<00:39:57.760><c> keep</c><00:39:58.000><c> on</c><00:39:58.219><c> saying,</c><00:39:58.559><c> I'm</c><00:39:58.800><c> a</c><00:39:58.900><c> Christodelfian.</c>

00:39:59.659 --> 00:40:01.519
I'm<00:39:59.940><c> a</c><00:40:00.059><c> brother</c><00:40:00.219><c> in</c><00:40:00.340><c> the</c><00:40:00.480><c> truth.</c><00:40:00.639><c> I'm</c><00:40:00.800><c> a</c><00:40:00.940><c> sister</c><00:40:01.119><c> in</c><00:40:01.260><c> the</c><00:40:01.400><c> truth.</c>

00:40:01.519 --> 00:40:03.400
So<00:40:01.579><c> what</c><00:40:01.719><c> do</c><00:40:01.960><c> I</c><00:40:01.960><c> do</c><00:40:02.039><c> with</c><00:40:02.139><c> that</c><00:40:02.320><c> problem?</c><00:40:02.840><c> I</c><00:40:02.980><c> sweep</c><00:40:03.119><c> it</c><00:40:03.219><c> under</c>

00:40:03.400 --> 00:40:03.719
the<00:40:03.559><c> carpet.</c>

00:40:03.860 --> 00:40:05.239
You<00:40:03.940><c> keep</c><00:40:04.159><c> on</c><00:40:04.380><c> sweeping</c><00:40:04.539><c> it</c><00:40:04.719><c> under</c><00:40:04.820><c> the</c><00:40:04.960><c> carpet.</c>

00:40:05.719 --> 00:40:07.719
Now<00:40:05.860><c> if</c><00:40:05.920><c> you</c><00:40:06.039><c> keep</c><00:40:06.280><c> on</c><00:40:06.539><c> sweeping</c><00:40:06.820><c> dirt</c><00:40:07.079><c> under</c><00:40:07.340><c> the</c><00:40:07.559><c> carpet</c>

00:40:07.719 --> 00:40:09.460
you<00:40:07.860><c> know</c><00:40:07.920><c> it's</c><00:40:07.980><c> going</c><00:40:08.119><c> to</c><00:40:08.199><c> happen.</c><00:40:08.420><c> You</c><00:40:08.480><c> can't</c><00:40:08.699><c> walk</c><00:40:08.900><c> on</c><00:40:09.039><c> the</c><00:40:09.219><c> carpet</c>

00:40:09.460 --> 00:40:11.000
because<00:40:09.820><c> the</c><00:40:10.000><c> carpet</c><00:40:10.219><c> is</c><00:40:10.380><c> sitting</c><00:40:10.480><c> like</c><00:40:10.739><c> this.</c>

00:40:11.380 --> 00:40:13.380
You've<00:40:11.539><c> got</c><00:40:11.639><c> mountains</c><00:40:12.099><c> of</c><00:40:12.400><c> dirt</c><00:40:12.639><c> under</c><00:40:12.900><c> the</c><00:40:13.099><c> carpet.</c>

00:40:13.579 --> 00:40:14.880
It's<00:40:13.780><c> no</c><00:40:13.940><c> longer</c><00:40:14.159><c> lying</c><00:40:14.460><c> flat.</c>

00:40:15.260 --> 00:40:17.539
And<00:40:15.500><c> now</c><00:40:15.820><c> you've</c><00:40:16.260><c> got</c><00:40:16.340><c> a</c><00:40:16.440><c> major</c><00:40:16.619><c> problem</c><00:40:16.940><c> on</c><00:40:17.119><c> your</c><00:40:17.280><c> hands.</c>

00:40:17.980 --> 00:40:20.500
And<00:40:18.360><c> it's</c><00:40:18.699><c> very</c><00:40:19.000><c> difficult</c><00:40:19.400><c> to</c><00:40:19.659><c> deal</c><00:40:19.780><c> with</c><00:40:20.019><c> problems</c>

00:40:20.500 --> 00:40:22.519
when<00:40:20.980><c> you</c><00:40:21.139><c> come</c><00:40:21.260><c> into</c><00:40:21.460><c> that</c><00:40:21.719><c> kind</c><00:40:21.860><c> of</c><00:40:22.019><c> situation.</c>

00:40:22.800 --> 00:40:23.780
Because<00:40:22.960><c> now</c><00:40:23.179><c> there's</c><00:40:23.420><c> baggage.</c>

00:40:23.960 --> 00:40:24.760
Lots<00:40:24.199><c> of</c><00:40:24.420><c> baggage.</c>

00:40:25.239 --> 00:40:27.960
Here<00:40:25.519><c> you're</c><00:40:25.659><c> dealing</c><00:40:25.920><c> with</c><00:40:26.619><c> problems</c><00:40:27.099><c> before</c><00:40:27.500><c> they</c><00:40:27.760><c> occur.</c>

00:40:28.039 --> 00:40:29.519
So<00:40:28.199><c> now</c>

00:40:29.699 --> 00:40:31.960
every<00:40:30.099><c> year</c><00:40:30.500><c> after</c><00:40:31.099><c> we've</c><00:40:31.340><c> done</c><00:40:31.460><c> marriage</c><00:40:31.719><c> counseling</c>

00:40:31.960 --> 00:40:33.699
every<00:40:32.199><c> six</c><00:40:32.460><c> months</c><00:40:32.679><c> after</c><00:40:32.840><c> we've</c><00:40:33.019><c> done</c><00:40:33.099><c> marriage</c><00:40:33.400><c> counseling</c>

00:40:33.699 --> 00:40:35.500
with<00:40:33.920><c> young</c><00:40:34.079><c> people,</c><00:40:34.420><c> we</c><00:40:34.599><c> have</c><00:40:34.760><c> them</c><00:40:34.920><c> around</c><00:40:35.119><c> again.</c>

00:40:36.000 --> 00:40:37.940
And<00:40:36.000><c> we'll</c><00:40:36.280><c> say,</c><00:40:36.739><c> have</c><00:40:36.820><c> you</c><00:40:36.900><c> still</c><00:40:37.079><c> got</c><00:40:37.219><c> the</c><00:40:37.440><c> sheet</c><00:40:37.539><c> with</c><00:40:37.739><c> you?</c>

00:40:38.000 --> 00:40:39.340
The<00:40:38.159><c> sheet</c><00:40:38.300><c> that</c><00:40:38.480><c> we</c><00:40:38.619><c> gave</c><00:40:38.719><c> you.</c><00:40:38.960><c> The</c><00:40:38.980><c> sheet.</c>

00:40:39.539 --> 00:40:40.440
Yeah,<00:40:39.619><c> we've</c><00:40:39.880><c> still</c><00:40:39.940><c> got</c><00:40:40.059><c> the</c><00:40:40.239><c> sheet.</c>

00:40:40.900 --> 00:40:42.320
Now<00:40:41.059><c> how</c><00:40:41.199><c> are</c><00:40:41.300><c> you</c><00:40:41.460><c> doing</c><00:40:41.599><c> on</c><00:40:41.780><c> your</c><00:40:42.000><c> problems?</c>

00:40:42.440 --> 00:40:47.519
And<00:40:42.500><c> they</c><00:40:42.679><c> say,</c><00:40:44.460><c> David</c><00:40:45.019><c> is</c><00:40:45.320><c> still</c><00:40:45.539><c> so</c><00:40:45.860><c> possessive</c><00:40:46.380><c> with</c><00:40:46.539><c> the</c><00:40:46.659><c> money.</c>

00:40:47.579 --> 00:40:49.099
He<00:40:47.800><c> just</c><00:40:48.079><c> gives</c><00:40:48.199><c> me</c><00:40:48.460><c> the</c><00:40:48.619><c> pennies.</c>

00:40:49.500 --> 00:40:51.159
We're<00:40:49.900><c> both</c><00:40:50.059><c> earning</c><00:40:50.360><c> equal</c><00:40:50.679><c> salaries.</c>

00:40:51.420 --> 00:40:53.519
I'm<00:40:51.639><c> earning.</c><00:40:52.099><c> She's</c><00:40:52.480><c> earning.</c>

00:40:53.860 --> 00:40:55.159
Or<00:40:53.960><c> rather</c><00:40:54.099><c> he's</c><00:40:54.420><c> earning</c><00:40:54.599><c> and</c><00:40:54.760><c> I'm</c><00:40:54.960><c> earning.</c>

00:40:55.219 --> 00:40:56.119
This<00:40:55.360><c> is</c><00:40:55.480><c> the</c><00:40:55.599><c> girl</c><00:40:55.760><c> speaking.</c>

00:40:56.119 --> 00:40:58.219
And<00:40:56.679><c> we</c><00:40:57.019><c> put</c><00:40:57.159><c> it</c><00:40:57.300><c> into</c><00:40:57.500><c> a</c><00:40:57.719><c> joint</c><00:40:57.860><c> account.</c>

00:40:58.719 --> 00:41:00.559
And<00:40:58.719><c> you</c><00:40:58.860><c> know,</c><00:40:59.059><c> all</c><00:40:59.219><c> I</c><00:40:59.380><c> get</c><00:40:59.519><c> is</c><00:40:59.820><c> the</c>

00:41:00.559 --> 00:41:02.460
change,<00:41:01.039><c> the</c><00:41:01.199><c> short</c><00:41:01.420><c> change</c><00:41:01.619><c> at</c><00:41:01.800><c> the</c><00:41:01.860><c> end</c><00:41:02.000><c> of</c><00:41:02.119><c> the</c><00:41:02.199><c> day.</c>

00:41:02.579 --> 00:41:04.360
And<00:41:02.699><c> he's</c><00:41:02.920><c> got</c><00:41:03.079><c> total</c><00:41:03.300><c> control.</c><00:41:03.679><c> And</c><00:41:03.800><c> I'm</c><00:41:03.980><c> hating</c><00:41:04.179><c> it.</c>

00:41:04.360 --> 00:41:06.059
I<00:41:04.460><c> don't</c><00:41:04.619><c> have</c><00:41:04.800><c> any</c><00:41:05.119><c> individuality.</c>

00:41:06.320 --> 00:41:08.000
You<00:41:06.480><c> know,</c><00:41:06.480><c> if</c><00:41:06.599><c> I</c><00:41:06.699><c> want</c><00:41:06.780><c> to</c><00:41:06.900><c> go</c><00:41:06.960><c> and</c><00:41:07.079><c> buy</c><00:41:07.239><c> a</c><00:41:07.400><c> scarf</c><00:41:07.579><c> or</c><00:41:07.760><c> a</c><00:41:07.880><c> pair</c>

00:41:08.000 --> 00:41:08.380
of<00:41:08.219><c> shoes</c>

00:41:08.380 --> 00:41:11.300
or<00:41:08.519><c> whatever</c><00:41:08.739><c> it</c><00:41:08.900><c> is,</c><00:41:09.059><c> I</c><00:41:09.260><c> don't</c><00:41:09.440><c> have</c><00:41:09.559><c> the</c><00:41:09.820><c> freedom</c><00:41:10.019><c> to</c><00:41:10.260><c> do</c><00:41:10.420><c> it.</c>

00:41:11.340 --> 00:41:11.599
Right?

00:41:11.699 --> 00:41:14.059
And<00:41:11.920><c> that</c><00:41:12.039><c> was</c><00:41:12.199><c> already</c><00:41:12.480><c> established</c>

00:41:14.019 --> 00:41:15.539
way,<00:41:14.280><c> way</c><00:41:14.440><c> back</c><00:41:14.760><c> here.</c>

00:41:15.920 --> 00:41:18.619
And<00:41:16.280><c> I</c><00:41:16.619><c> say,</c><00:41:17.059><c> how</c><00:41:17.199><c> are</c><00:41:17.219><c> you...</c>

00:41:18.719 --> 00:41:19.920
Was<00:41:18.900><c> that</c><00:41:19.079><c> you,</c><00:41:19.360><c> Danny?</c>

00:41:20.219 --> 00:41:21.340
Not<00:41:20.579><c> you.</c>

00:41:22.320 --> 00:41:24.199
I<00:41:22.460><c> thought</c><00:41:22.619><c> Danny</c><00:41:22.800><c> was</c><00:41:23.039><c> yawning,</c><00:41:23.300><c> you</c><00:41:23.500><c> know.</c>

00:41:27.360 --> 00:41:28.800
Elephant<00:41:27.760><c> in</c><00:41:27.940><c> the</c><00:41:28.079><c> hallway.</c>

00:41:29.400 --> 00:41:30.820
So<00:41:29.400><c> that's</c><00:41:29.780><c> the</c><00:41:29.940><c> kind</c><00:41:30.099><c> of</c><00:41:30.239><c> thing,</c><00:41:30.780><c> you</c><00:41:30.820><c> know.</c>

00:41:31.260 --> 00:41:33.500
You<00:41:31.460><c> can</c><00:41:31.619><c> say,</c><00:41:31.840><c> how</c><00:41:31.980><c> are</c><00:41:32.119><c> you</c><00:41:32.179><c> working</c><00:41:32.400><c> on</c><00:41:32.539><c> this</c><00:41:32.719><c> problem?</c>

00:41:33.880 --> 00:41:35.099
And<00:41:33.880><c> we</c><00:41:34.320><c> are,</c><00:41:34.719><c> because</c>

00:41:35.099 --> 00:41:37.179
we<00:41:35.420><c> have</c><00:41:35.579><c> been</c><00:41:35.860><c> intimately</c><00:41:36.320><c> involved</c><00:41:36.860><c> with</c><00:41:37.019><c> them</c>

00:41:37.179 --> 00:41:39.119
from<00:41:37.400><c> the</c><00:41:37.639><c> beginning,</c><00:41:38.219><c> there's</c><00:41:38.420><c> no</c><00:41:38.639><c> embarrassment.</c>

00:41:39.360 --> 00:41:40.559
Which<00:41:39.360><c> is</c><00:41:39.539><c> what,</c><00:41:40.260><c> you</c><00:41:40.380><c> see,</c>

00:41:40.699 --> 00:41:42.639
they're<00:41:40.900><c> not</c><00:41:41.039><c> embarrassed</c><00:41:41.460><c> to</c><00:41:41.679><c> come</c><00:41:41.800><c> to</c><00:41:41.920><c> us</c><00:41:42.039><c> because</c><00:41:42.159><c> they</c><00:41:42.440><c> know</c>

00:41:42.639 --> 00:41:44.519
that<00:41:42.800><c> we've</c><00:41:42.960><c> already</c><00:41:43.199><c> talked</c><00:41:43.440><c> about</c><00:41:43.719><c> it.</c>

00:41:44.940 --> 00:41:46.860
But<00:41:45.340><c> if</c><00:41:45.500><c> you're</c><00:41:45.639><c> having</c><00:41:45.820><c> that</c><00:41:46.059><c> problem</c><00:41:46.300><c> and</c><00:41:46.420><c> you've</c><00:41:46.659><c> never</c>

00:41:46.860 --> 00:41:48.480
talked<00:41:47.119><c> to</c><00:41:47.300><c> anybody</c><00:41:47.500><c> about</c><00:41:47.840><c> it</c>

00:41:48.480 --> 00:41:50.559
and<00:41:48.739><c> you</c><00:41:48.880><c> don't</c><00:41:49.039><c> have</c><00:41:49.219><c> anyone</c><00:41:49.420><c> to</c><00:41:49.599><c> talk</c><00:41:49.760><c> about</c><00:41:49.980><c> it,</c><00:41:50.119><c> the</c><00:41:50.340><c> problem</c>

00:41:50.559 --> 00:41:52.380
just<00:41:50.840><c> grows</c><00:41:51.059><c> and</c><00:41:51.340><c> grows</c><00:41:51.599><c> and</c><00:41:51.800><c> grows</c><00:41:52.000><c> and</c><00:41:52.199><c> grows</c>

00:41:52.380 --> 00:41:54.380
and<00:41:52.579><c> next</c><00:41:52.780><c> thing,</c><00:41:53.519><c> explosion.</c>

00:41:57.179 --> 00:41:57.619
Alright.

00:41:57.739 --> 00:41:58.840
I'm<00:41:58.000><c> going</c><00:41:58.179><c> to</c><00:41:58.320><c> ask</c><00:41:58.579><c> you</c>

00:41:58.840 --> 00:42:00.380
to<00:41:59.059><c> rate</c><00:41:59.139><c> him.</c>

00:42:00.699 --> 00:42:02.059
Is<00:42:00.800><c> he</c><00:42:01.019><c> sports</c><00:42:01.360><c> mad?</c>

00:42:02.659 --> 00:42:04.059
He's<00:42:03.019><c> sports</c><00:42:03.260><c> mad.</c>

00:42:04.139 --> 00:42:05.940
Alright,<00:42:04.380><c> so</c><00:42:04.559><c> if</c><00:42:04.599><c> you</c><00:42:04.760><c> had</c><00:42:04.880><c> to</c><00:42:05.000><c> rate</c><00:42:05.099><c> him</c><00:42:05.320><c> sports</c><00:42:05.659><c> mad,</c>

00:42:06.219 --> 00:42:08.599
would<00:42:06.360><c> you</c><00:42:06.480><c> give</c><00:42:06.579><c> him</c><00:42:07.159><c> 4</c><00:42:07.460><c> or</c><00:42:07.599><c> 5?</c>

00:42:10.639 --> 00:42:11.579
5.

00:42:12.079 --> 00:42:13.900
Would<00:42:12.179><c> you</c><00:42:12.380><c> rate</c><00:42:12.559><c> her</c><00:42:12.860><c> sports</c><00:42:13.199><c> mad?</c>

00:42:14.880 --> 00:42:17.119
Where<00:42:15.320><c> would</c><00:42:15.500><c> you</c><00:42:15.639><c> put</c><00:42:15.800><c> her</c><00:42:15.940><c> on</c><00:42:15.980><c> the</c><00:42:16.199><c> sports</c><00:42:16.380><c> thing?</c>

00:42:19.179 --> 00:42:19.619
Okay.

00:42:20.000 --> 00:42:21.300
So<00:42:20.139><c> let's</c><00:42:20.320><c> say</c><00:42:20.440><c> these</c><00:42:20.619><c> two</c><00:42:20.760><c> are</c><00:42:20.820><c> getting</c><00:42:21.000><c> together.</c>

00:42:21.300 --> 00:42:23.320
You<00:42:21.380><c> see</c><00:42:21.519><c> what</c><00:42:21.639><c> we</c><00:42:21.800><c> would</c><00:42:21.940><c> say,</c><00:42:22.139><c> alright,</c><00:42:22.320><c> here</c><00:42:22.440><c> you've</c><00:42:22.599><c> got</c><00:42:22.679><c> a</c><00:42:22.880><c> 5</c>

00:42:23.320 --> 00:42:24.840
and<00:42:23.619><c> a</c><00:42:23.840><c> 0.</c>

00:42:25.000 --> 00:42:27.019
Here<00:42:25.260><c> is</c><00:42:25.519><c> what</c><00:42:25.880><c> happens</c><00:42:26.239><c> down</c><00:42:26.539><c> the</c><00:42:26.739><c> track.</c>

00:42:27.500 --> 00:42:28.900
Alright,<00:42:28.219><c> you</c><00:42:28.320><c> get</c><00:42:28.539><c> married,</c>

00:42:29.179 --> 00:42:31.280
you<00:42:29.360><c> have</c><00:42:29.599><c> babies.</c><00:42:30.139><c> Once</c><00:42:30.360><c> the</c><00:42:30.579><c> babies</c><00:42:30.780><c> come</c><00:42:31.039><c> on</c>

00:42:31.280 --> 00:42:33.360
and<00:42:31.900><c> the</c><00:42:32.039><c> baby's</c><00:42:32.539><c> screaming,</c>

00:42:33.880 --> 00:42:35.300
the<00:42:33.980><c> guy</c><00:42:34.179><c> that</c><00:42:34.360><c> was</c><00:42:34.599><c> sports</c><00:42:34.860><c> mad</c>

00:42:35.300 --> 00:42:37.420
walks<00:42:35.699><c> out</c><00:42:35.900><c> of</c><00:42:35.980><c> the</c><00:42:36.119><c> house</c><00:42:36.320><c> and</c><00:42:36.500><c> he</c><00:42:36.579><c> gets</c><00:42:36.739><c> married</c><00:42:36.940><c> to</c><00:42:37.199><c> sport.</c>

00:42:37.539 --> 00:42:39.139
He<00:42:37.619><c> goes</c><00:42:37.800><c> and</c><00:42:37.960><c> watches</c><00:42:38.119><c> rugby,</c><00:42:38.920><c> watches</c>

00:42:39.139 --> 00:42:41.199
baseball<00:42:39.619><c> with</c><00:42:39.840><c> the</c><00:42:39.980><c> boys.</c><00:42:40.619><c> He</c><00:42:40.760><c> now</c><00:42:40.960><c> spends</c>

00:42:41.199 --> 00:42:43.159
more<00:42:41.460><c> and</c><00:42:41.480><c> more</c><00:42:41.679><c> time</c><00:42:41.860><c> with</c><00:42:42.000><c> the</c><00:42:42.159><c> boys,</c><00:42:42.719><c> she</c><00:42:42.920><c> spends</c>

00:42:43.159 --> 00:42:45.159
more<00:42:43.440><c> and</c><00:42:43.519><c> more</c><00:42:43.619><c> time</c><00:42:43.840><c> at</c><00:42:44.000><c> home</c><00:42:44.199><c> looking</c><00:42:44.420><c> after</c><00:42:44.639><c> the</c><00:42:44.880><c> babies</c>

00:42:45.159 --> 00:42:46.539
crying<00:42:45.500><c> with</c><00:42:45.679><c> her</c><00:42:45.800><c> mother.</c>

00:42:47.820 --> 00:42:49.300
Now<00:42:48.079><c> the</c><00:42:48.159><c> point</c><00:42:48.420><c> is,</c><00:42:48.840><c> there's</c><00:42:49.059><c> no</c>

00:42:49.300 --> 00:42:51.719
problem<00:42:49.579><c> with</c><00:42:49.739><c> that</c><00:42:49.900><c> kind</c><00:42:50.119><c> of</c><00:42:50.219><c> thing,</c><00:42:50.719><c> but</c><00:42:50.739><c> if</c><00:42:50.880><c> you</c><00:42:51.039><c> know</c><00:42:51.260><c> about</c><00:42:51.480><c> it,</c>

00:42:51.960 --> 00:42:53.199
you<00:42:51.960><c> need</c><00:42:52.219><c> to</c><00:42:52.380><c> make</c><00:42:52.539><c> a</c><00:42:52.800><c> compromise</c>

00:42:53.199 --> 00:42:55.239
or<00:42:53.500><c> an</c><00:42:53.739><c> adjustment</c><00:42:54.239><c> at</c><00:42:54.760><c> this</c><00:42:54.940><c> point.</c>

00:42:55.480 --> 00:42:57.340
To<00:42:55.619><c> say,</c><00:42:55.900><c> look,</c><00:42:55.900><c> I</c><00:42:56.000><c> can</c><00:42:56.199><c> live</c><00:42:56.360><c> with</c><00:42:56.539><c> this,</c><00:42:57.139><c> or</c><00:42:57.300><c> I</c>

00:42:57.340 --> 00:42:59.659
can't<00:42:57.659><c> live</c><00:42:57.820><c> with</c><00:42:57.960><c> this.</c><00:42:58.780><c> Now</c><00:42:59.000><c> with</c><00:42:59.179><c> me,</c>

00:42:59.920 --> 00:43:01.139
I<00:43:00.000><c> wasn't</c><00:43:00.219><c> a</c><00:43:00.440><c> sports</c><00:43:00.679><c> mad</c><00:43:00.940><c> guy,</c>

00:43:01.480 --> 00:43:03.460
I<00:43:01.679><c> was</c><00:43:02.179><c> the</c><00:43:02.539><c> hustler</c><00:43:02.960><c> on</c><00:43:03.280><c> the</c>

00:43:03.460 --> 00:43:04.980
pool<00:43:03.619><c> table.</c><00:43:04.039><c> That</c><00:43:04.179><c> was</c><00:43:04.320><c> what</c><00:43:04.480><c> I</c><00:43:04.619><c> used</c><00:43:04.760><c> to</c><00:43:04.860><c> do.</c>

00:43:05.260 --> 00:43:07.239
I<00:43:05.400><c> used</c><00:43:05.559><c> to</c><00:43:05.679><c> make</c><00:43:05.880><c> money</c><00:43:06.260><c> on</c><00:43:06.719><c> the</c><00:43:06.880><c> pool</c><00:43:07.039><c> table.</c>

00:43:07.320 --> 00:43:09.420
I<00:43:07.380><c> used</c><00:43:07.519><c> to</c><00:43:07.619><c> make</c><00:43:07.780><c> twice</c><00:43:08.059><c> my</c><00:43:08.219><c> salary,</c><00:43:08.659><c> sometimes</c><00:43:08.940><c> three</c><00:43:09.219><c> times</c>

00:43:09.420 --> 00:43:10.940
my<00:43:09.599><c> salary</c><00:43:09.920><c> on</c><00:43:10.280><c> the</c><00:43:10.480><c> pool</c><00:43:10.659><c> table.</c>

00:43:11.400 --> 00:43:13.480
So<00:43:11.579><c> come</c><00:43:11.780><c> Friday</c><00:43:12.119><c> night,</c><00:43:13.139><c> after</c><00:43:13.219><c> Wendith</c>

00:43:13.480 --> 00:43:15.280
and<00:43:13.519><c> myself</c><00:43:13.880><c> were</c><00:43:14.059><c> married,</c><00:43:15.139><c> alright,</c>

00:43:15.360 --> 00:43:17.320
we<00:43:15.519><c> married,</c><00:43:16.179><c> been</c><00:43:16.280><c> on</c><00:43:16.420><c> honeymoon,</c><00:43:17.059><c> honeymoon</c>

00:43:17.320 --> 00:43:19.079
was<00:43:17.559><c> Bible</c><00:43:17.780><c> school</c><00:43:18.019><c> by</c><00:43:18.219><c> the</c><00:43:18.320><c> way,</c><00:43:18.420><c> that's</c><00:43:18.639><c> where</c><00:43:18.760><c> we</c><00:43:18.760><c> went</c><00:43:18.880><c> for</c>

00:43:19.079 --> 00:43:19.320
our<00:43:19.199><c> honeymoon,</c>

00:43:19.539 --> 00:43:20.900
was<00:43:19.639><c> a</c><00:43:19.780><c> Bible</c><00:43:19.960><c> school.</c>

00:43:21.219 --> 00:43:23.840
In<00:43:21.400><c> a</c><00:43:21.619><c> Catholic</c><00:43:21.820><c> hostel,</c><00:43:22.179><c> which</c><00:43:22.360><c> made</c><00:43:22.539><c> it</c><00:43:22.719><c> really</c><00:43:22.880><c> interesting.</c>

00:43:24.980 --> 00:43:25.699
It<00:43:24.980><c> was</c><00:43:25.119><c> a</c><00:43:25.219><c> Christadelphian</c>

00:43:25.699 --> 00:43:27.019
Bible<00:43:25.960><c> school</c><00:43:26.159><c> in</c><00:43:26.340><c> a</c><00:43:26.460><c> Catholic</c><00:43:26.699><c> hostel.</c>

00:43:27.340 --> 00:43:28.460
We'd<00:43:27.460><c> rented</c><00:43:27.599><c> it.</c>

00:43:29.539 --> 00:43:31.159
But<00:43:29.699><c> having</c><00:43:30.079><c> said</c><00:43:30.300><c> that,</c><00:43:30.659><c> come</c><00:43:30.860><c> home</c>

00:43:31.159 --> 00:43:33.539
and<00:43:31.679><c> first</c><00:43:31.940><c> Friday,</c><00:43:32.719><c> I</c><00:43:32.960><c> put</c><00:43:33.119><c> on</c><00:43:33.280><c> my</c>

00:43:33.539 --> 00:43:35.360
coat<00:43:33.840><c> and</c><00:43:34.239><c> I'm</c><00:43:34.420><c> at</c><00:43:34.500><c> the</c><00:43:34.719><c> door,</c><00:43:35.000><c> Wendith</c><00:43:35.139><c> says,</c>

00:43:35.400 --> 00:43:37.579
where<00:43:35.519><c> you</c><00:43:35.679><c> going?</c><00:43:36.760><c> I</c><00:43:36.940><c> said,</c><00:43:37.079><c> I'm</c>

00:43:37.579 --> 00:43:39.519
going<00:43:37.719><c> to</c><00:43:37.860><c> play</c><00:43:38.019><c> pool.</c><00:43:38.280><c> I</c><00:43:38.420><c> play</c><00:43:38.539><c> pool</c><00:43:38.739><c> every</c><00:43:39.019><c> Friday.</c><00:43:39.300><c> Friday</c>

00:43:39.519 --> 00:43:41.460
night's<00:43:39.820><c> pool</c><00:43:39.980><c> night,</c><00:43:40.139><c> that's</c><00:43:40.360><c> where</c><00:43:40.500><c> I</c><00:43:40.599><c> make</c><00:43:40.699><c> money.</c><00:43:40.980><c> I</c><00:43:41.099><c> make</c><00:43:41.239><c> money</c>

00:43:41.460 --> 00:43:42.699
on<00:43:41.559><c> the</c><00:43:41.719><c> pool</c><00:43:41.860><c> tables.</c>

00:43:43.119 --> 00:43:45.139
She<00:43:43.400><c> says,</c><00:43:44.340><c> are</c><00:43:44.480><c> you</c><00:43:44.559><c> going</c><00:43:44.639><c> to</c><00:43:44.739><c> have</c><00:43:44.860><c> fun?</c>

00:43:45.139 --> 00:43:47.019
I<00:43:45.400><c> said,</c><00:43:45.579><c> yeah,</c><00:43:45.699><c> I'm</c><00:43:45.820><c> going</c><00:43:45.860><c> to</c><00:43:45.940><c> have</c><00:43:46.059><c> fun.</c><00:43:46.559><c> So</c><00:43:46.719><c> she</c><00:43:46.840><c> goes</c>

00:43:47.019 --> 00:43:48.840
and<00:43:47.159><c> gets</c><00:43:47.320><c> her</c><00:43:47.519><c> coat,</c><00:43:47.659><c> she</c><00:43:47.800><c> puts</c><00:43:47.960><c> it</c><00:43:48.119><c> on.</c>

00:43:49.099 --> 00:43:50.619
I<00:43:49.280><c> said,</c><00:43:49.420><c> where</c><00:43:49.619><c> are</c><00:43:49.679><c> you</c><00:43:49.800><c> going?</c><00:43:50.019><c> She</c><00:43:50.139><c> said,</c><00:43:50.280><c> I'm</c><00:43:50.440><c> coming</c>

00:43:50.619 --> 00:43:51.440
with<00:43:50.840><c> you.</c>

00:43:51.639 --> 00:43:53.260
I<00:43:51.639><c> said,</c><00:43:52.239><c> what</c><00:43:52.340><c> do</c><00:43:52.440><c> you</c><00:43:52.440><c> mean</c><00:43:52.539><c> coming</c><00:43:52.800><c> with</c><00:43:53.000><c> me?</c>

00:43:53.579 --> 00:43:54.639
This<00:43:53.760><c> is</c><00:43:54.000><c> boys</c><00:43:54.159><c> night</c><00:43:54.400><c> out.</c>

00:43:54.820 --> 00:43:56.760
This<00:43:54.900><c> is</c><00:43:55.960><c> what</c><00:43:56.179><c> boys</c><00:43:56.559><c> do.</c>

00:43:56.820 --> 00:43:59.199
This<00:43:56.920><c> is</c><00:43:57.079><c> what</c><00:43:57.280><c> men</c><00:43:57.539><c> do.</c><00:43:57.760><c> This</c><00:43:57.880><c> is</c><00:43:57.960><c> not</c><00:43:58.099><c> for</c><00:43:58.260><c> women.</c>

00:43:59.340 --> 00:44:00.980
She<00:43:59.559><c> said,</c><00:43:59.820><c> but</c><00:43:59.920><c> you</c><00:44:00.099><c> said</c><00:44:00.199><c> you're</c><00:44:00.360><c> going</c><00:44:00.420><c> to</c><00:44:00.500><c> have</c><00:44:00.639><c> fun.</c>

00:44:01.480 --> 00:44:03.300
So<00:44:01.659><c> I</c><00:44:01.679><c> said,</c><00:44:01.880><c> yeah,</c><00:44:02.000><c> I'm</c><00:44:02.059><c> going</c><00:44:02.179><c> to</c><00:44:02.239><c> have</c><00:44:02.340><c> fun.</c><00:44:02.539><c> So</c><00:44:02.679><c> what</c><00:44:02.840><c> about</c><00:44:03.059><c> it?</c>

00:44:03.440 --> 00:44:05.159
She<00:44:03.599><c> said,</c><00:44:03.800><c> we're</c><00:44:03.940><c> married.</c><00:44:04.559><c> If</c><00:44:04.679><c> it's</c><00:44:04.880><c> going</c><00:44:04.940><c> to</c><00:44:05.019><c> be</c>

00:44:05.159 --> 00:44:07.139
fun,<00:44:05.360><c> we'll</c><00:44:05.460><c> do</c><00:44:05.599><c> fun</c><00:44:05.780><c> together.</c><00:44:06.840><c> If</c><00:44:06.960><c> it's</c>

00:44:07.139 --> 00:44:09.639
going<00:44:07.239><c> to</c><00:44:07.300><c> come</c><00:44:07.480><c> to</c><00:44:07.679><c> preaching,</c><00:44:08.179><c> when</c><00:44:08.300><c> I'm</c><00:44:08.539><c> pregnant</c><00:44:08.739><c> and</c><00:44:08.900><c> I've</c><00:44:09.079><c> got</c><00:44:09.239><c> babies,</c>

00:44:09.980 --> 00:44:11.239
then<00:44:10.219><c> you</c><00:44:10.400><c> can</c><00:44:10.559><c> go</c><00:44:10.719><c> and</c><00:44:10.880><c> preach</c>

00:44:11.239 --> 00:44:13.239
away<00:44:11.699><c> from</c><00:44:11.920><c> me.</c><00:44:12.260><c> You</c><00:44:12.400><c> can</c><00:44:12.539><c> go</c><00:44:12.599><c> and</c><00:44:12.739><c> do</c><00:44:12.840><c> God's</c>

00:44:13.239 --> 00:44:14.880
work<00:44:13.400><c> away</c><00:44:13.619><c> from</c><00:44:13.800><c> me.</c><00:44:14.179><c> You</c><00:44:14.260><c> can</c><00:44:14.400><c> go</c><00:44:14.519><c> and</c><00:44:14.539><c> do</c><00:44:14.659><c> Bible</c>

00:44:14.880 --> 00:44:17.000
schools<00:44:15.119><c> away</c><00:44:15.340><c> from</c><00:44:15.519><c> me,</c><00:44:15.780><c> but</c>

00:44:17.380 --> 00:44:19.099
not<00:44:17.699><c> fun.</c><00:44:18.099><c> If</c><00:44:18.139><c> you're</c><00:44:18.280><c> going</c><00:44:18.340><c> to</c><00:44:18.400><c> have</c><00:44:18.559><c> fun,</c><00:44:18.760><c> we're</c><00:44:18.920><c> going</c><00:44:18.960><c> to</c><00:44:19.019><c> have</c>

00:44:19.099 --> 00:44:20.099
fun<00:44:19.300><c> together.</c>

00:44:21.000 --> 00:44:23.139
We<00:44:21.320><c> ended</c><00:44:21.639><c> up,</c><00:44:22.239><c> and</c><00:44:22.380><c> I</c><00:44:22.440><c> didn't</c><00:44:22.599><c> go</c><00:44:22.780><c> and</c><00:44:22.840><c> play</c><00:44:22.960><c> pool</c>

00:44:23.139 --> 00:44:25.380
that<00:44:23.360><c> night,</c><00:44:23.719><c> and</c><00:44:23.800><c> that</c><00:44:23.920><c> was</c><00:44:24.079><c> the</c><00:44:24.139><c> end</c><00:44:24.219><c> of</c><00:44:24.320><c> my</c><00:44:24.500><c> pool.</c>

00:44:25.840 --> 00:44:27.280
But<00:44:26.059><c> I</c><00:44:26.139><c> was</c><00:44:26.320><c> very</c><00:44:26.639><c> angry</c><00:44:26.880><c> and</c><00:44:26.980><c> I</c><00:44:27.079><c> had</c><00:44:27.179><c> to</c>

00:44:27.280 --> 00:44:28.800
get<00:44:27.420><c> through</c><00:44:27.579><c> a</c><00:44:27.679><c> lot</c><00:44:27.820><c> of</c><00:44:28.000><c> angst.</c>

00:44:29.119 --> 00:44:30.599
Later<00:44:29.440><c> on,</c><00:44:29.780><c> the</c><00:44:29.860><c> same</c><00:44:30.059><c> kind</c><00:44:30.280><c> of</c><00:44:30.360><c> thing,</c>

00:44:30.860 --> 00:44:33.139
we<00:44:31.219><c> go</c><00:44:31.380><c> off</c><00:44:31.559><c> to</c><00:44:31.659><c> the</c><00:44:31.780><c> beach</c><00:44:31.920><c> and</c><00:44:32.079><c> I</c><00:44:32.199><c> see</c><00:44:32.280><c> her</c><00:44:32.440><c> slip</c><00:44:32.559><c> on</c><00:44:32.739><c> a</c><00:44:32.860><c> bikini.</c>

00:44:33.300 --> 00:44:35.360
I<00:44:33.300><c> said,</c><00:44:33.559><c> bikini?</c><00:44:33.980><c> You've</c><00:44:34.219><c> got</c><00:44:34.219><c> to</c><00:44:34.340><c> be</c><00:44:34.500><c> mad.</c><00:44:34.719><c> You're</c><00:44:34.880><c> my</c><00:44:35.039><c> wife.</c>

00:44:35.639 --> 00:44:37.340
I<00:44:35.719><c> don't</c><00:44:35.920><c> want</c><00:44:36.099><c> you</c><00:44:36.679><c> flaunting</c><00:44:37.079><c> your</c>

00:44:37.340 --> 00:44:39.739
body<00:44:37.659><c> in</c><00:44:38.000><c> front</c><00:44:38.079><c> of</c><00:44:38.219><c> a</c><00:44:38.219><c> whole</c><00:44:38.400><c> bunch</c><00:44:38.559><c> of</c><00:44:38.739><c> other</c><00:44:38.920><c> guys.</c>

00:44:40.019 --> 00:44:41.300
Your<00:44:40.340><c> body</c><00:44:40.599><c> belongs</c><00:44:40.920><c> to</c><00:44:41.139><c> me.</c>

00:44:41.300 --> 00:44:43.820
Oh,<00:44:42.340><c> a</c><00:44:42.400><c> big</c><00:44:42.579><c> fight,</c><00:44:42.960><c> and</c><00:44:43.000><c> we</c><00:44:43.039><c> didn't</c><00:44:43.199><c> go</c><00:44:43.360><c> to</c><00:44:43.440><c> the</c><00:44:43.480><c> beach</c><00:44:43.659><c> that</c>

00:44:43.820 --> 00:44:44.400
day<00:44:43.980><c> either.</c>

00:44:44.579 --> 00:44:45.260
So<00:44:44.699><c> what</c><00:44:44.840><c> I'm</c><00:44:44.960><c> saying,</c>

00:44:45.539 --> 00:44:48.239
it<00:44:45.639><c> was</c><00:44:45.820><c> a</c><00:44:46.000><c> two</c><00:44:46.139><c>-way</c><00:44:46.280><c> thing.</c><00:44:46.679><c> It's</c><00:44:46.860><c> a</c><00:44:47.000><c> two</c><00:44:47.219><c>-way</c><00:44:47.420><c> street.</c>

00:44:48.300 --> 00:44:49.800
And<00:44:48.480><c> we</c><00:44:48.719><c> need</c><00:44:49.019><c> to</c>

00:44:50.400 --> 00:44:51.699
blend<00:44:50.800><c> together.</c>

00:44:52.840 --> 00:44:54.199
Five<00:44:53.000><c> more</c><00:44:53.179><c> minutes,</c><00:44:53.380><c> alright?</c>

00:44:54.539 --> 00:44:55.380
Are<00:44:54.659><c> you</c><00:44:54.699><c> guys</c><00:44:54.860><c> still</c><00:44:55.099><c> okay?</c>

00:44:55.599 --> 00:44:57.000
Five<00:44:55.820><c> more</c><00:44:55.980><c> minutes.</c>

00:44:58.280 --> 00:44:59.559
Okay,<00:44:58.579><c> other</c><00:44:58.820><c> things</c><00:44:59.059><c> that</c><00:44:59.280><c> we</c>

00:44:59.559 --> 00:45:02.800
talk<00:44:59.820><c> about,</c><00:45:00.199><c> about</c><00:45:00.500><c> being</c><00:45:00.840><c> kind</c><00:45:01.019><c> and</c><00:45:01.480><c> considerate.</c>

00:45:03.179 --> 00:45:04.179
People<00:45:03.480><c> that</c><00:45:03.739><c> complain.</c>

00:45:04.239 --> 00:45:05.760
Does<00:45:04.380><c> this</c><00:45:04.599><c> person</c><00:45:04.840><c> complain</c><00:45:05.300><c> a</c><00:45:05.420><c> lot?</c>

00:45:06.139 --> 00:45:07.619
Or<00:45:06.260><c> they</c><00:45:06.420><c> always</c><00:45:06.860><c> complain.</c><00:45:07.260><c> It</c><00:45:07.260><c> doesn't</c><00:45:07.440><c> matter</c>

00:45:07.619 --> 00:45:09.480
what<00:45:07.840><c> you</c><00:45:08.039><c> do</c><00:45:08.179><c> for</c><00:45:08.340><c> them.</c><00:45:08.440><c> They're</c><00:45:08.659><c> always</c><00:45:09.019><c> complaining.</c>

00:45:09.480 --> 00:45:12.019
It's<00:45:09.780><c> never</c><00:45:09.940><c> right.</c><00:45:11.179><c> These</c><00:45:11.280><c> are</c><00:45:11.539><c> characteristics</c>

00:45:12.019 --> 00:45:13.780
that<00:45:12.340><c> belong</c><00:45:12.539><c> to</c><00:45:12.739><c> all</c><00:45:12.940><c> of</c><00:45:13.059><c> us.</c>

00:45:13.940 --> 00:45:16.139
And<00:45:13.940><c> if</c><00:45:14.920><c> you</c><00:45:15.079><c> know</c><00:45:15.280><c> about</c><00:45:15.500><c> it,</c>

00:45:16.320 --> 00:45:17.500
you<00:45:16.400><c> know,</c><00:45:16.719><c> I</c><00:45:16.860><c> mentioned</c><00:45:17.059><c> me</c><00:45:17.300><c> now</c>

00:45:17.500 --> 00:45:18.880
sitting<00:45:17.659><c> down</c><00:45:17.900><c> with</c><00:45:18.079><c> Wendith</c><00:45:18.300><c> doing</c><00:45:18.480><c> this</c><00:45:18.719><c> thing,</c>

00:45:19.159 --> 00:45:21.800
and<00:45:19.440><c> she's</c><00:45:19.800><c> given</c><00:45:19.920><c> me</c><00:45:20.139><c> a</c><00:45:20.320><c> five</c><00:45:20.480><c> there.</c><00:45:20.639><c> And</c><00:45:20.739><c> I</c><00:45:20.820><c> look</c><00:45:20.940><c> and</c><00:45:21.119><c> say,</c>

00:45:21.900 --> 00:45:23.480
is<00:45:22.019><c> it</c><00:45:22.260><c> true?</c><00:45:22.599><c> I</c><00:45:22.659><c> mean,</c><00:45:22.800><c> this</c><00:45:23.019><c> is</c><00:45:23.159><c> the</c><00:45:23.320><c> person</c>

00:45:23.480 --> 00:45:25.739
that<00:45:23.679><c> I</c><00:45:23.860><c> love.</c><00:45:24.199><c> She's</c><00:45:24.460><c> being</c><00:45:24.719><c> brutally</c><00:45:24.960><c> honest</c><00:45:25.260><c> with</c><00:45:25.440><c> me.</c>

00:45:25.739 --> 00:45:27.340
And<00:45:25.960><c> she's</c><00:45:26.320><c> telling</c><00:45:26.400><c> me</c><00:45:26.559><c> that</c><00:45:26.679><c> I'm</c><00:45:26.860><c> a</c><00:45:27.099><c> complainer.</c>

00:45:27.340 --> 00:45:29.519
And<00:45:27.440><c> I</c><00:45:27.599><c> never</c><00:45:27.800><c> knew</c><00:45:28.059><c> about</c><00:45:28.360><c> the</c><00:45:28.559><c> fact</c><00:45:28.659><c> that</c><00:45:28.800><c> I'm</c><00:45:28.980><c> always</c>

00:45:29.519 --> 00:45:30.840
complaining,<00:45:29.980><c> always</c><00:45:30.480><c> moaning.</c>

00:45:31.099 --> 00:45:33.199
It's<00:45:31.400><c> always</c><00:45:31.699><c> too</c><00:45:32.059><c> long.</c><00:45:32.260><c> It's</c><00:45:32.380><c> always</c><00:45:32.719><c> too</c><00:45:33.059><c> short.</c>

00:45:33.280 --> 00:45:35.059
I<00:45:33.360><c> can</c><00:45:33.500><c> never</c><00:45:33.780><c> get</c><00:45:33.980><c> my</c><00:45:34.559><c> shoelaces</c>

00:45:35.059 --> 00:45:37.300
just<00:45:35.619><c> the</c><00:45:35.860><c> right</c><00:45:36.079><c> length</c><00:45:36.440><c> on</c><00:45:36.719><c> both</c><00:45:37.019><c> sides</c>

00:45:37.300 --> 00:45:39.260
before<00:45:37.559><c> I</c><00:45:37.980><c> tie</c><00:45:38.079><c> up</c><00:45:38.219><c> my</c><00:45:38.420><c> shoes.</c>

00:45:39.480 --> 00:45:41.760
And<00:45:40.000><c> always</c><00:45:40.519><c> complaining</c><00:45:41.000><c> about</c>

00:45:41.760 --> 00:45:43.719
life.<00:45:43.219><c> Now,</c>

00:45:44.500 --> 00:45:45.380
I<00:45:45.019><c> can</c>

00:45:45.380 --> 00:45:47.380
look<00:45:45.579><c> at</c><00:45:45.739><c> this</c><00:45:45.900><c> and</c><00:45:45.940><c> say,</c><00:45:46.179><c> wow,</c><00:45:46.599><c> that's</c><00:45:47.059><c> me.</c>

00:45:47.840 --> 00:45:49.420
And<00:45:47.980><c> I</c><00:45:48.760><c> must</c><00:45:48.900><c> change.</c>

00:45:49.519 --> 00:45:51.139
I<00:45:49.659><c> must</c><00:45:49.900><c> change</c><00:45:50.280><c> my</c><00:45:50.579><c> action</c><00:45:50.880><c> here.</c>

00:45:51.360 --> 00:45:54.059
Because<00:45:51.579><c> that's</c><00:45:51.840><c> not</c><00:45:52.039><c> a</c><00:45:52.139><c> good</c><00:45:52.360><c> Christian</c><00:45:52.739><c> attitude</c><00:45:53.159><c> to</c><00:45:53.400><c> have.</c>

00:45:54.139 --> 00:45:56.219
And<00:45:54.239><c> so</c><00:45:54.400><c> you</c><00:45:54.500><c> can</c>

00:45:56.420 --> 00:45:57.460
do<00:45:56.940><c> your</c>

00:45:57.460 --> 00:45:59.179
partner<00:45:57.900><c> a</c><00:45:58.179><c> favor</c><00:45:58.519><c> by</c>

00:45:59.179 --> 00:46:01.780
rating<00:45:59.559><c> them</c><00:45:59.780><c> and</c><00:45:59.980><c> looking</c><00:46:00.260><c> at</c><00:46:00.420><c> them</c><00:46:00.719><c> honestly.</c>

00:46:01.980 --> 00:46:03.840
Okay,<00:46:02.360><c> but</c><00:46:02.480><c> you're</c><00:46:02.659><c> doing</c><00:46:02.739><c> it</c><00:46:02.920><c> in</c><00:46:03.099><c> love.</c>

00:46:03.980 --> 00:46:05.239
How<00:46:04.199><c> about</c>

00:46:05.280 --> 00:46:06.219
violent?

00:46:07.019 --> 00:46:08.500
Is<00:46:07.039><c> this</c><00:46:07.820><c> person</c>

00:46:08.500 --> 00:46:10.980
that<00:46:09.300><c> you</c><00:46:09.960><c> are</c><00:46:10.280><c> getting</c><00:46:10.500><c> married</c><00:46:10.800><c> to</c>

00:46:10.980 --> 00:46:12.019
violent?

00:46:13.619 --> 00:46:14.860
You<00:46:14.059><c> know,</c><00:46:14.179><c> you've</c><00:46:14.460><c> seen</c><00:46:14.559><c> him</c><00:46:14.739><c> when</c>

00:46:14.860 --> 00:46:16.960
he<00:46:14.980><c> didn't</c><00:46:15.139><c> get</c><00:46:15.280><c> his</c><00:46:15.519><c> way</c><00:46:15.880><c> at</c><00:46:16.219><c> the</c><00:46:16.440><c> traffic</c><00:46:16.719><c> light.</c>

00:46:17.239 --> 00:46:18.639
The<00:46:17.360><c> person</c><00:46:17.559><c> was</c><00:46:17.719><c> just</c><00:46:17.940><c> turned</c><00:46:18.059><c> in</c><00:46:18.260><c> front</c><00:46:18.360><c> like</c><00:46:18.559><c> that.</c>

00:46:18.659 --> 00:46:20.500
And<00:46:18.760><c> how</c><00:46:18.840><c> he</c><00:46:18.960><c> got</c><00:46:19.039><c> out</c><00:46:19.260><c> and</c><00:46:19.500><c> shouted</c><00:46:19.659><c> and</c><00:46:19.920><c> screamed</c><00:46:20.059><c> and</c><00:46:20.300><c> beat</c>

00:46:20.500 --> 00:46:20.980
the<00:46:20.760><c> car</c>

00:46:20.980 --> 00:46:22.539
because,<00:46:22.019><c> you</c><00:46:22.260><c> know,</c>

00:46:22.599 --> 00:46:24.780
is<00:46:22.900><c> he</c><00:46:23.059><c> violent?</c><00:46:23.340><c> Because</c><00:46:23.619><c> if</c><00:46:23.780><c> he's</c><00:46:23.960><c> beating</c><00:46:24.219><c> the</c><00:46:24.539><c> car</c>

00:46:24.780 --> 00:46:27.219
at<00:46:24.960><c> the</c><00:46:25.139><c> red</c><00:46:25.300><c> traffic</c><00:46:25.699><c> light</c><00:46:25.840><c> because</c><00:46:26.159><c> of</c><00:46:26.440><c> some</c>

00:46:27.219 --> 00:46:29.000
traffic<00:46:27.639><c> offense</c><00:46:28.000><c> or</c><00:46:28.219><c> whatever,</c>

00:46:29.059 --> 00:46:31.380
he's<00:46:29.500><c> going</c><00:46:29.559><c> to</c><00:46:29.679><c> start</c><00:46:29.820><c> beating</c><00:46:30.079><c> you</c><00:46:30.340><c> just</c><00:46:30.539><c> now.</c>

00:46:31.519 --> 00:46:32.840
And<00:46:31.840><c> one</c><00:46:32.019><c> of</c><00:46:32.079><c> the</c><00:46:32.139><c> things</c><00:46:32.300><c> that</c><00:46:32.440><c> I've</c><00:46:32.599><c> said</c><00:46:32.659><c> to</c>

00:46:32.840 --> 00:46:35.079
my<00:46:32.940><c> girls,</c><00:46:33.360><c> I</c><00:46:33.360><c> said,</c><00:46:33.920><c> I</c><00:46:33.920><c> don't</c><00:46:34.139><c> care</c><00:46:34.300><c> how</c><00:46:34.500><c> long</c><00:46:34.639><c> you've</c><00:46:34.900><c> married</c>

00:46:35.079 --> 00:46:36.760
to<00:46:35.300><c> the</c><00:46:35.440><c> guy.</c><00:46:36.000><c> When</c><00:46:36.159><c> you</c><00:46:36.300><c> get</c><00:46:36.460><c> married,</c>

00:46:36.860 --> 00:46:38.619
I<00:46:36.940><c> don't</c><00:46:37.139><c> care</c><00:46:37.300><c> how</c><00:46:37.460><c> long</c><00:46:37.659><c> you</c><00:46:37.800><c> married</c><00:46:37.920><c> him.</c>

00:46:39.000 --> 00:46:40.960
If<00:46:39.400><c> he</c><00:46:39.679><c> hits</c><00:46:39.920><c> you</c><00:46:40.179><c> once,</c><00:46:40.679><c> it's</c>

00:46:40.960 --> 00:46:42.920
over.<00:46:42.260><c> It</c><00:46:42.300><c> doesn't</c><00:46:42.420><c> matter</c><00:46:42.599><c> how</c><00:46:42.760><c> much</c>

00:46:42.920 --> 00:46:44.639
you<00:46:43.159><c> shout</c><00:46:43.320><c> at</c><00:46:43.400><c> each</c><00:46:43.639><c> other.</c><00:46:44.079><c> It</c><00:46:44.099><c> doesn't</c><00:46:44.199><c> matter</c><00:46:44.340><c> how</c><00:46:44.500><c> much</c>

00:46:44.639 --> 00:46:45.059
you<00:46:44.860><c> scream</c>

00:46:45.059 --> 00:46:46.940
at<00:46:45.159><c> each</c><00:46:45.340><c> other.</c><00:46:45.739><c> You</c><00:46:45.880><c> can</c><00:46:46.119><c> have</c><00:46:46.360><c> fights</c><00:46:46.599><c> as</c><00:46:46.800><c> much</c>

00:46:46.940 --> 00:46:49.000
as<00:46:47.039><c> you</c><00:46:47.239><c> want.</c><00:46:47.840><c> But</c><00:46:47.960><c> you</c><00:46:48.159><c> guys,</c>

00:46:49.179 --> 00:46:50.880
ever<00:46:49.519><c> you</c><00:46:49.760><c> hit</c><00:46:49.960><c> your</c><00:46:50.199><c> wife,</c><00:46:50.579><c> that's</c>

00:46:50.880 --> 00:46:53.039
finished.<00:46:52.460><c> You</c><00:46:52.739><c> never</c>

00:46:53.039 --> 00:46:55.559
ever<00:46:53.380><c> lift</c><00:46:53.559><c> your</c><00:46:53.840><c> hands</c><00:46:54.280><c> to</c><00:46:54.599><c> your</c><00:46:54.800><c> wives.</c>

00:46:55.579 --> 00:46:56.940
Never<00:46:55.920><c> ever</c><00:46:56.159><c> do</c><00:46:56.280><c> it</c><00:46:56.440><c> because</c><00:46:56.679><c> that</c>

00:46:56.940 --> 00:46:58.920
is<00:46:57.119><c> the</c><00:46:57.239><c> day</c><00:46:57.400><c> that</c><00:46:57.579><c> it's</c><00:46:57.760><c> finished.</c><00:46:57.920><c> That</c><00:46:58.159><c> marriage</c><00:46:58.380><c> is</c><00:46:58.619><c> dissolved.</c>

00:46:59.079 --> 00:47:01.039
It's<00:46:59.099><c> finished.</c><00:46:59.619><c> Because</c><00:46:59.719><c> although</c><00:47:00.000><c> he</c><00:47:00.159><c> might</c><00:47:00.360><c> say</c><00:47:00.599><c> sorry,</c>

00:47:01.039 --> 00:47:03.199
he<00:47:01.420><c> might</c><00:47:01.760><c> come</c><00:47:02.380><c> back</c><00:47:02.619><c> in</c><00:47:02.860><c> tears</c>

00:47:03.199 --> 00:47:05.019
and<00:47:03.539><c> all</c><00:47:03.739><c> that.</c><00:47:04.039><c> He</c><00:47:04.059><c> will</c><00:47:04.320><c> always</c><00:47:04.659><c> do</c><00:47:04.820><c> it.</c>

00:47:05.019 --> 00:47:07.019
Once<00:47:05.280><c> he's</c><00:47:05.559><c> beaten</c><00:47:05.820><c> you</c><00:47:06.059><c> once,</c><00:47:06.300><c> he's</c><00:47:06.599><c> always</c>

00:47:07.019 --> 00:47:09.099
going<00:47:07.199><c> to</c><00:47:07.320><c> do</c><00:47:07.400><c> it.</c><00:47:08.019><c> He</c><00:47:08.059><c> might</c><00:47:08.280><c> repent</c><00:47:08.699><c> and</c><00:47:08.860><c> it</c><00:47:08.920><c> might</c>

00:47:09.099 --> 00:47:11.340
take<00:47:09.340><c> a</c><00:47:09.480><c> year,</c><00:47:09.760><c> it</c><00:47:09.760><c> might,</c><00:47:10.139><c> but</c><00:47:10.280><c> he's</c><00:47:10.539><c> going</c><00:47:10.639><c> to</c><00:47:10.760><c> do</c><00:47:10.900><c> it.</c>

00:47:11.400 --> 00:47:13.159
So<00:47:11.699><c> never,</c><00:47:12.360><c> ever,</c><00:47:12.719><c> ever</c>

00:47:13.159 --> 00:47:14.820
resort<00:47:13.480><c> to</c><00:47:13.739><c> violence,</c><00:47:13.960><c> especially</c><00:47:14.340><c> the</c><00:47:14.599><c> guys.</c>

00:47:15.059 --> 00:47:16.739
Because<00:47:15.260><c> that's</c><00:47:15.739><c> male</c><00:47:16.059><c> chauvinism</c>

00:47:16.739 --> 00:47:19.340
and<00:47:17.139><c> it's</c><00:47:17.400><c> acting</c><00:47:17.559><c> like</c><00:47:17.800><c> an</c><00:47:17.960><c> animal.</c><00:47:18.460><c> She's</c><00:47:18.780><c> your</c><00:47:18.980><c> bride.</c>

00:47:19.639 --> 00:47:20.739
She's<00:47:19.880><c> the</c><00:47:20.019><c> one</c><00:47:20.119><c> that</c><00:47:20.320><c> you</c><00:47:20.480><c> love</c>

00:47:20.739 --> 00:47:22.780
and<00:47:21.139><c> you</c><00:47:21.340><c> treat</c><00:47:21.500><c> her</c><00:47:21.639><c> that</c><00:47:21.820><c> way.</c><00:47:22.219><c> I'm</c><00:47:22.280><c> not</c><00:47:22.420><c> saying</c><00:47:22.519><c> that</c><00:47:22.679><c> you</c>

00:47:22.780 --> 00:47:23.880
don't<00:47:22.900><c> disagree.</c>

00:47:24.000 --> 00:47:24.639
Iron<00:47:24.000><c> sharpens</c><00:47:24.440><c> iron.</c>

00:47:24.840 --> 00:47:27.019
You've<00:47:25.159><c> got</c><00:47:25.239><c> to</c><00:47:25.460><c> disagree</c><00:47:25.820><c> to</c><00:47:26.159><c> make</c><00:47:26.340><c> your</c><00:47:26.539><c> marriage</c><00:47:26.800><c> work,</c>

00:47:27.079 --> 00:47:29.280
to<00:47:27.239><c> make</c><00:47:27.380><c> your</c><00:47:27.539><c> relationship</c><00:47:27.920><c> work.</c><00:47:28.579><c> But</c><00:47:28.860><c> violence,</c>

00:47:29.280 --> 00:47:31.420
physical<00:47:29.820><c> violence,</c><00:47:30.760><c> never</c><00:47:30.920><c> ever.</c>

00:47:31.820 --> 00:47:33.539
So<00:47:32.159><c> if</c><00:47:32.800><c> you've</c><00:47:33.360><c> spotted</c>

00:47:33.539 --> 00:47:35.420
that<00:47:33.880><c> trait</c><00:47:34.019><c> of</c><00:47:34.159><c> him</c><00:47:34.280><c> beating</c><00:47:34.599><c> the</c><00:47:34.840><c> car</c><00:47:34.920><c> and</c><00:47:35.059><c> you've</c><00:47:35.260><c> rated</c>

00:47:35.420 --> 00:47:37.260
him<00:47:35.679><c> five,</c><00:47:36.079><c> violence,</c><00:47:36.500><c> he's</c><00:47:36.699><c> a</c><00:47:36.800><c> very</c><00:47:37.019><c> violent</c>

00:47:37.260 --> 00:47:39.239
person,<00:47:37.719><c> this</c><00:47:37.780><c> person</c><00:47:37.960><c> I'm</c><00:47:38.119><c> going</c><00:47:38.219><c> to</c><00:47:38.320><c> get</c><00:47:38.440><c> married</c><00:47:38.659><c> to,</c>

00:47:39.460 --> 00:47:41.500
then<00:47:39.639><c> watch</c><00:47:39.920><c> it</c><00:47:40.280><c> because</c><00:47:40.679><c> that's</c><00:47:41.099><c> a</c><00:47:41.300><c> problem</c>

00:47:41.500 --> 00:47:43.880
that<00:47:41.699><c> you</c><00:47:41.820><c> have</c><00:47:42.000><c> to</c><00:47:42.260><c> solve.</c><00:47:42.760><c> And</c><00:47:42.960><c> I</c><00:47:43.659><c> would</c>

00:47:43.880 --> 00:47:45.239
hold<00:47:44.320><c> my</c><00:47:44.699><c> engagement,</c>

00:47:45.420 --> 00:47:47.400
I<00:47:45.460><c> would</c><00:47:45.659><c> hold</c><00:47:45.900><c> the</c><00:47:46.039><c> marriage</c><00:47:46.280><c> back</c><00:47:46.599><c> and</c><00:47:47.179><c> solve</c>

00:47:47.400 --> 00:47:49.119
that<00:47:47.639><c> problem</c><00:47:47.980><c> right</c><00:47:48.599><c> up</c><00:47:48.860><c> front.</c>

00:47:49.440 --> 00:47:51.420
Because<00:47:49.579><c> if</c><00:47:49.760><c> you've</c><00:47:50.059><c> seen</c><00:47:50.260><c> acts</c><00:47:50.559><c> of</c><00:47:50.780><c> violence,</c><00:47:51.260><c> kicking</c>

00:47:51.420 --> 00:47:53.280
the<00:47:51.639><c> dog,</c><00:47:51.980><c> kicking</c><00:47:52.159><c> the</c><00:47:52.440><c> cat,</c><00:47:52.659><c> whatever</c><00:47:52.900><c> the</c><00:47:53.059><c> case</c>

00:47:53.280 --> 00:47:55.320
may<00:47:53.519><c> be,</c><00:47:54.000><c> if</c><00:47:54.480><c> you've</c><00:47:54.840><c> seen</c><00:47:54.940><c> him</c><00:47:55.099><c> acting</c>

00:47:55.320 --> 00:47:57.440
violent,<00:47:56.119><c> work</c><00:47:56.380><c> on</c><00:47:56.559><c> the</c><00:47:56.800><c> problem</c><00:47:57.119><c> now.</c>

00:47:57.440 --> 00:47:59.440
Because<00:47:57.760><c> I</c><00:47:57.980><c> tell</c><00:47:58.099><c> you</c><00:47:58.239><c> something</c><00:47:58.559><c> further</c><00:47:58.860><c> down</c><00:47:59.119><c> the</c><00:47:59.260><c> line,</c>

00:47:59.659 --> 00:48:01.500
when<00:47:59.800><c> the</c><00:48:00.019><c> pressures</c><00:48:00.260><c> are</c><00:48:00.460><c> on</c><00:48:00.559><c> the</c><00:48:00.699><c> marriage,</c><00:48:01.039><c> the</c><00:48:01.159><c> babies</c>

00:48:01.500 --> 00:48:03.559
are<00:48:01.719><c> there,</c><00:48:01.840><c> you've</c><00:48:02.099><c> got</c><00:48:02.440><c> a</c><00:48:02.760><c> mortgage</c><00:48:03.079><c> to</c><00:48:03.380><c> pay,</c>

00:48:03.679 --> 00:48:06.179
you've<00:48:03.800><c> got</c><00:48:03.880><c> insurance</c><00:48:04.340><c> to</c><00:48:04.619><c> pay,</c><00:48:04.940><c> and</c><00:48:05.139><c> there's</c><00:48:05.320><c> pressure.</c>

00:48:06.480 --> 00:48:07.719
You're<00:48:06.760><c> not</c><00:48:06.900><c> going</c><00:48:07.039><c> to</c><00:48:07.159><c> solve</c><00:48:07.280><c> the</c><00:48:07.500><c> problem</c>

00:48:07.719 --> 00:48:08.659
then.

00:48:10.719 --> 00:48:12.119
Okay,<00:48:10.960><c> I</c><00:48:11.039><c> think</c><00:48:11.280><c> I'm</c><00:48:11.599><c> not</c><00:48:11.780><c> going</c><00:48:11.900><c> to</c><00:48:11.940><c> go</c>

00:48:12.119 --> 00:48:13.679
through<00:48:12.260><c> the</c><00:48:12.340><c> rest</c><00:48:12.559><c> of</c><00:48:12.639><c> it.</c><00:48:12.719><c> There's</c><00:48:12.920><c> a</c><00:48:12.980><c> whole</c><00:48:13.099><c> bunch</c><00:48:13.300><c> of</c><00:48:13.500><c> stuff</c>

00:48:13.679 --> 00:48:14.940
here.<00:48:14.320><c> We've</c><00:48:14.619><c> done</c>

00:48:14.940 --> 00:48:17.539
quite<00:48:15.699><c> a</c><00:48:15.820><c> lot</c><00:48:15.940><c> of</c><00:48:16.079><c> stuff</c><00:48:16.219><c> together</c><00:48:16.760><c> and</c>

00:48:17.539 --> 00:48:19.460
you've<00:48:18.019><c> been</c><00:48:18.119><c> a</c><00:48:18.440><c> great,</c><00:48:18.719><c> great</c>

00:48:19.460 --> 00:48:21.679
bunch<00:48:19.820><c> of</c><00:48:19.980><c> young</c><00:48:20.079><c> people</c><00:48:20.340><c> to</c><00:48:20.539><c> talk</c><00:48:20.739><c> to.</c>

00:48:22.280 --> 00:48:23.639
And<00:48:22.539><c> hopefully,</c><00:48:23.360><c> one</c><00:48:23.539><c> of</c>

00:48:23.639 --> 00:48:25.480
these<00:48:23.820><c> days,</c><00:48:24.159><c> by</c><00:48:24.300><c> God's</c><00:48:24.619><c> grace,</c><00:48:24.760><c> we'll</c><00:48:24.980><c> meet</c><00:48:25.099><c> again</c>

00:48:25.480 --> 00:48:28.360
and<00:48:25.719><c> by</c><00:48:25.960><c> the</c><00:48:26.119><c> time</c><00:48:26.260><c> I</c><00:48:26.380><c> meet</c><00:48:26.559><c> you</c><00:48:26.719><c> next</c><00:48:27.000><c> time,</c>

00:48:28.380 --> 00:48:29.739
maybe<00:48:28.380><c> you'll</c><00:48:28.760><c> be</c><00:48:28.900><c> sitting</c><00:48:29.099><c> downstairs</c>

00:48:29.739 --> 00:48:32.059
or<00:48:30.119><c> in</c><00:48:30.300><c> some</c><00:48:30.440><c> other</c><00:48:30.579><c> Bible</c><00:48:30.840><c> school</c><00:48:31.099><c> somewhere,</c>

00:48:32.179 --> 00:48:33.739
rocking<00:48:32.199><c> your</c><00:48:32.380><c> little</c><00:48:32.559><c> baby</c><00:48:32.860><c> at</c><00:48:33.139><c> the</c><00:48:33.300><c> back</c><00:48:33.460><c> there.</c>

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And<00:48:34.300><c> that's</c><00:48:34.480><c> not</c><00:48:34.599><c> only</c><00:48:34.699><c> the</c><00:48:34.880><c> girls,</c><00:48:35.159><c> that's</c><00:48:35.380><c> also</c>

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the<00:48:35.800><c> guys.</c><00:48:36.139><c> Always</c><00:48:36.400><c> make</c><00:48:36.579><c> sure</c><00:48:36.780><c> you</c><00:48:37.099><c> share</c><00:48:37.260><c> responsibility</c>

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in<00:48:38.039><c> the</c><00:48:38.139><c> meeting</c><00:48:38.280><c> when</c><00:48:38.440><c> you</c><00:48:38.619><c> have</c><00:48:38.760><c> babies.</c>

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She<00:48:39.840><c> takes</c><00:48:40.079><c> one</c><00:48:40.280><c> meeting,</c><00:48:40.840><c> you</c><00:48:41.059><c> take</c><00:48:41.300><c> one</c><00:48:41.500><c> meeting.</c>

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She<00:48:42.280><c> takes</c><00:48:42.519><c> one</c><00:48:42.739><c> meeting,</c><00:48:43.300><c> you</c><00:48:43.500><c> take</c>

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one<00:48:43.920><c> meeting.</c><00:48:44.420><c> Don't</c><00:48:44.679><c> let</c><00:48:45.139><c> her</c>

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always<00:48:46.280><c> be</c><00:48:46.639><c> in</c><00:48:46.860><c> the</c><00:48:47.039><c> cry</c><00:48:47.219><c> room</c><00:48:47.340><c> at</c><00:48:47.500><c> the</c>

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back<00:48:47.780><c> of</c><00:48:47.920><c> the</c><00:48:48.019><c> hall</c><00:48:48.139><c> looking</c><00:48:48.400><c> after</c><00:48:48.659><c> the</c><00:48:48.880><c> babies.</c>

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Because<00:48:50.199><c> she</c><00:48:50.380><c> also</c><00:48:50.679><c> needs</c><00:48:50.900><c> to</c><00:48:51.079><c> be</c><00:48:51.280><c> spiritually</c>

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fed.<00:48:51.880><c> And</c><00:48:52.059><c> that's</c><00:48:52.239><c> where</c><00:48:52.360><c> I</c><00:48:52.480><c> hope</c><00:48:52.619><c> that</c><00:48:52.760><c> I'm</c><00:48:52.880><c> going</c><00:48:52.980><c> to</c><00:48:53.059><c> see</c>

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you<00:48:53.340><c> next</c><00:48:53.579><c> time.</c>

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Yeah.

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They<00:48:58.619><c> were</c><00:48:59.000><c> stunned.</c>

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Jonathan?

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I'm<00:49:05.239><c> going</c><00:49:05.320><c> to</c><00:49:05.380><c> ask</c><00:49:05.599><c> you</c>

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to<00:49:06.179><c> close</c><00:49:06.360><c> and</c><00:49:06.480><c> pray</c><00:49:06.659><c> for</c><00:49:06.840><c> us.</c>

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Alright.

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Our<00:49:11.300><c> Father,</c>

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who<00:49:12.139><c> art</c><00:49:12.320><c> in</c><00:49:12.519><c> heaven,</c><00:49:13.320><c> hallowed</c><00:49:13.500><c> be</c><00:49:13.500><c> thy</c><00:49:13.760><c> name.</c>

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We<00:49:15.659><c> thank</c><00:49:15.920><c> you</c>

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for<00:49:16.960><c> helping</c><00:49:17.300><c> us</c>

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with<00:49:18.199><c> all</c><00:49:18.360><c> the</c><00:49:18.539><c> things</c><00:49:18.760><c> that</c><00:49:18.960><c> you've</c><00:49:19.239><c> done</c><00:49:19.320><c> with</c><00:49:19.559><c> us.</c>

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Because<00:49:20.880><c> if</c><00:49:21.099><c> you</c>

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have<00:49:21.599><c> given</c><00:49:22.159><c> us</c><00:49:23.340><c> the</c>

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spiritual

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in<00:49:26.900><c> every</c>

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other<00:49:27.800><c> way,</c>

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please<00:49:29.559><c> help</c><00:49:29.860><c> us</c><00:49:30.900><c> to</c><00:49:31.119><c> go</c><00:49:31.280><c> home</c>

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and<00:49:32.300><c> take</c><00:49:32.460><c> the</c><00:49:32.679><c> lessons</c><00:49:32.900><c> that</c><00:49:33.159><c> we've</c><00:49:33.460><c> learned</c>

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from<00:49:34.800><c> our</c><00:49:35.099><c> past.</c>