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want

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Chinese<00:48:58.860><c> you</c><00:48:59.139><c> know</c><00:48:59.300><c> what</c>

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go<00:49:27.619><c> for</c><00:49:27.860><c> Mexican</c><00:49:28.340><c> let's</c><00:49:29.380><c> go</c><00:49:29.519><c> out</c><00:49:29.659><c> next</c><00:49:29.960><c> week</c><00:49:30.159><c> and</c><00:49:30.380><c> next</c><00:49:30.599><c> week</c>

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Barabbas<00:51:56.199><c> so</c><00:51:56.579><c> the</c>

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compromise<00:51:57.019><c> was</c><00:51:57.320><c> a</c><00:51:57.579><c> release</c><00:51:57.800><c> Barabbas</c><00:51:59.039><c> and</c><00:51:59.880><c> the</c><00:52:00.719><c> coat</c><00:52:00.960><c> the</c><00:52:02.139><c> cloak</c><00:52:02.139><c> is</c>

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you<00:52:08.960><c> see</c><00:52:09.039><c> the</c>

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you<00:52:20.079><c> all</c><00:52:20.239><c> have</c><00:52:20.380><c> some</c>

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B<00:52:36.960><c> but</c><00:52:37.199><c> not</c><00:52:37.440><c> both</c><00:52:37.780><c> for</c>

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