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practices<00:29:54.440><c> intimidation,</c><00:29:55.000><c> but</c><00:29:55.220><c> not</c><00:29:55.400><c> the</c><00:29:55.539><c> man</c><00:29:55.640><c> of</c><00:29:55.759><c> the</c><00:29:55.960><c> spirit.</c><00:29:58.059><c> The</c><00:29:58.240><c> reaction</c><00:29:58.579><c> of</c> 00:29:58.759 --> 00:29:59.480 the<00:29:58.859><c> man</c><00:29:59.000><c> of</c><00:29:59.160><c> the</c><00:29:59.299><c> spirit</c> 00:29:59.480 --> 00:30:03.019 should<00:29:59.640><c> be</c><00:29:59.819><c> that</c><00:30:00.160><c> which</c><00:30:00.440><c> is</c><00:30:00.660><c> described</c><00:30:00.980><c> in</c><00:30:01.119><c> verse</c><00:30:01.359><c> 8.</c><00:30:02.740><c> If</c><00:30:02.839><c> we</c> 00:30:03.019 --> 00:30:04.740 are<00:30:03.140><c> dealing</c><00:30:03.359><c> with</c><00:30:03.640><c> someone</c><00:30:03.940><c> who</c><00:30:04.099><c> is</c><00:30:04.279><c> weaker</c><00:30:04.500><c> than</c> 00:30:04.740 --> 00:30:09.240 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in</c><00:35:48.420><c> the</c><00:35:48.559><c> image</c><00:35:48.739><c> of</c><00:35:48.900><c> God</c><00:35:49.159><c> created</c> 00:35:49.579 --> 00:35:56.579 him,<00:35:50.219><c> male</c><00:35:50.780><c> and</c><00:35:51.280><c> female</c><00:35:51.960><c> created</c><00:35:53.920><c> he</c><00:35:54.239><c> them.</c><00:35:55.760><c> The</c><00:35:55.980><c> implication</c> 00:35:56.579 --> 00:36:00.019 is<00:35:56.940><c> clear</c><00:35:57.380><c> that</c><00:35:57.920><c> both</c><00:35:58.360><c> man</c><00:35:58.800><c> and</c><00:35:59.320><c> woman</c> 00:36:00.019 --> 00:36:09.179 were<00:36:00.559><c> made</c><00:36:01.059><c> in</c><00:36:01.260><c> the</c><00:36:01.579><c> image</c><00:36:01.880><c> of</c><00:36:02.099><c> the</c><00:36:02.239><c> Elohim,</c><00:36:05.860><c> implying</c><00:36:07.199><c> that</c> 00:36:09.179 --> 00:36:14.119 in<00:36:10.139><c> the</c><00:36:10.260><c> Elohistic</c><00:36:10.760><c> host</c><00:36:11.480><c> 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to</c><00:37:18.199><c> our</c><00:37:18.480><c> wives</c><00:37:19.039><c> if</c><00:37:20.320><c> we</c><00:37:21.159><c> disdain</c> 00:37:21.619 --> 00:37:23.159 their<00:37:21.880><c> advice</c> 00:37:23.480 --> 00:37:27.079 every<00:37:24.119><c> time</c><00:37:24.360><c> it</c><00:37:24.500><c> is</c><00:37:24.719><c> offered.</c><00:37:25.659><c> And</c><00:37:25.860><c> our</c><00:37:26.039><c> basic</c><00:37:26.460><c> attitude</c><00:37:26.900><c> is</c> 00:37:27.079 --> 00:37:29.739 as<00:37:27.239><c> soon</c><00:37:27.500><c> as</c><00:37:27.619><c> they</c><00:37:28.219><c> begin</c><00:37:28.500><c> to</c><00:37:28.699><c> say</c><00:37:28.860><c> something,</c> 00:37:29.820 --> 00:37:34.440 we<00:37:30.340><c> disdain</c><00:37:30.780><c> it.</c><00:37:31.760><c> If</c><00:37:31.980><c> we</c><00:37:32.219><c> respect</c><00:37:32.699><c> someone,</c><00:37:33.659><c> we</c><00:37:33.940><c> hear</c><00:37:34.219><c> them</c> 00:37:34.440 --> 00:37:37.460 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them</c><00:39:10.719><c> sticks</c><00:39:11.099><c> out</c><00:39:11.400><c> in</c><00:39:11.539><c> our</c><00:39:11.719><c> minds.</c> 00:39:13.940 --> 00:39:19.219 And<00:39:14.599><c> so</c><00:39:14.739><c> the</c><00:39:14.960><c> exhortation</c><00:39:15.500><c> is</c><00:39:15.820><c> clear.</c><00:39:17.559><c> Let</c><00:39:17.880><c> us</c><00:39:18.139><c> be</c><00:39:18.539><c> gracious</c> 00:39:19.219 --> 00:39:21.760 to<00:39:20.099><c> someone</c><00:39:20.460><c> who</c><00:39:20.699><c> is</c><00:39:20.920><c> weaker.</c> 00:39:22.059 --> 00:39:27.400 Let<00:39:22.739><c> us</c><00:39:22.940><c> show</c><00:39:23.199><c> respect</c><00:39:24.099><c> to</c><00:39:24.940><c> someone</c><00:39:25.320><c> who</c><00:39:25.559><c> is</c><00:39:26.360><c> equal.</c> 00:39:29.300 --> 00:39:32.300 Likewise,<00:39:29.860><c> ye</c><00:39:29.960><c> husbands,</c><00:39:31.079><c> then</c><00:39:31.079><c> dwell</c><00:39:31.579><c> with</c><00:39:31.760><c> them</c><00:39:31.980><c> according</c> 00:39:32.300 --> 00:39:34.099 to<00:39:32.519><c> knowledge,</c><00:39:33.320><c> cleave</c><00:39:33.619><c> to</c><00:39:33.699><c> them,</c><00:39:33.940><c> not</c> 00:39:34.099 --> 00:39:37.900 according<00:39:34.500><c> to</c><00:39:35.480><c> the</c><00:39:35.639><c> carnal</c><00:39:35.860><c> impulses</c><00:39:36.280><c> of</c><00:39:36.460><c> the</c><00:39:36.679><c> flesh,</c><00:39:37.019><c> but</c><00:39:37.179><c> according</c><00:39:37.559><c> to</c> 00:39:37.900 --> 00:39:41.079 godly<00:39:38.219><c> knowledge.</c><00:39:39.559><c> Give</c><00:39:39.760><c> honor</c><00:39:40.019><c> onto</c><00:39:40.239><c> them,</c> 00:39:41.239 --> 00:39:46.179 showing<00:39:41.519><c> graciousness</c><00:39:42.239><c> to</c><00:39:42.380><c> them,</c><00:39:43.500><c> being</c><00:39:43.800><c> respectful</c><00:39:44.539><c> that</c> 00:39:46.179 --> 00:39:49.699 your<00:39:46.800><c> prayers</c><00:39:47.579><c> be</c><00:39:48.579><c> not</c><00:39:48.800><c> hindered.</c> 00:39:51.159 --> 00:39:57.300 Few<00:39:51.719><c> things</c><00:39:52.280><c> can</c><00:39:54.039><c> so</c><00:39:54.460><c> chronically</c><00:39:55.059><c> hinder</c><00:39:55.599><c> our</c><00:39:56.059><c> prayers</c><00:39:56.539><c> as</c> 00:39:57.300 --> 00:39:59.059 marital<00:39:57.780><c> strife.</c> 00:39:59.539 --> 00:40:03.760 A<00:39:59.679><c> home</c><00:39:59.920><c> should</c><00:40:00.139><c> be</c><00:40:00.360><c> a</c><00:40:00.539><c> place</c><00:40:00.739><c> of</c><00:40:01.019><c> refuge</c><00:40:01.500><c> from</c><00:40:01.739><c> a</c><00:40:02.000><c> carnal</c><00:40:02.320><c> world,</c><00:40:03.619><c> but</c> 00:40:03.760 --> 00:40:05.619 if<00:40:03.900><c> the</c><00:40:04.000><c> home</c><00:40:04.219><c> becomes</c><00:40:04.500><c> a</c><00:40:04.699><c> place</c><00:40:04.860><c> of</c><00:40:05.139><c> tension</c> 00:40:05.619 --> 00:40:09.659 and<00:40:06.159><c> of</c><00:40:06.360><c> hostility</c><00:40:06.820><c> and</c><00:40:07.079><c> turmoil,</c><00:40:08.559><c> then</c><00:40:08.659><c> a</c><00:40:08.880><c> great</c><00:40:09.139><c> disruption</c> 00:40:09.659 --> 00:40:12.079 occurs<00:40:10.119><c> to</c><00:40:10.340><c> the</c><00:40:10.539><c> prayers</c><00:40:11.039><c> of</c><00:40:11.719><c> both</c><00:40:11.940><c> the</c> 00:40:12.079 --> 00:40:18.480 husband<00:40:12.519><c> and</c><00:40:13.199><c> the</c><00:40:13.380><c> wife.</c><00:40:16.340><c> And</c><00:40:16.519><c> then</c><00:40:16.699><c> there</c><00:40:17.340><c> is</c><00:40:17.960><c> the</c><00:40:18.000><c> matter</c><00:40:18.280><c> of</c> 00:40:18.480 --> 00:40:22.199 forgiveness.<00:40:20.780><c> We</c><00:40:21.039><c> pray,</c> 00:40:23.440 --> 00:40:30.639 forgive<00:40:23.679><c> us</c><00:40:23.960><c> our</c><00:40:24.199><c> sins</c><00:40:24.920><c> as</c><00:40:26.320><c> we</c><00:40:27.000><c> forgive</c><00:40:27.380><c> those</c><00:40:28.019><c> who</c><00:40:28.440><c> have</c><00:40:28.760><c> transgressed</c><00:40:29.300><c> against</c><00:40:29.619><c> us.</c> 00:40:31.920 --> 00:40:38.860 The<00:40:32.179><c> domestic</c><00:40:32.659><c> circumstance</c><00:40:33.380><c> is</c><00:40:34.039><c> no</c><00:40:34.440><c> exception.</c><00:40:37.099><c> If</c><00:40:37.320><c> we</c><00:40:37.559><c> harbor</c><00:40:37.920><c> resentment</c><00:40:38.579><c> and</c> 00:40:38.860 --> 00:40:40.860 bitterness<00:40:39.199><c> towards</c><00:40:39.599><c> our</c><00:40:39.840><c> wife,</c> 00:40:41.079 --> 00:40:47.500 then<00:40:41.519><c> we</c><00:40:41.679><c> hinder</c><00:40:41.900><c> our</c><00:40:42.179><c> prayers.</c><00:40:44.099><c> We</c><00:40:44.199><c> are</c><00:40:44.519><c> asking</c><00:40:44.739><c> god</c><00:40:45.199><c> to</c><00:40:46.699><c> forgive</c><00:40:47.019><c> us</c> 00:40:47.500 --> 00:40:49.420 and<00:40:47.679><c> our</c><00:40:47.860><c> standards</c><00:40:48.340><c> 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wife</c><00:41:04.059><c> as</c><00:41:04.260><c> under</c> 00:41:04.480 --> 00:41:07.420 weaker<00:41:04.780><c> vessel,</c><00:41:06.079><c> as</c><00:41:06.159><c> being</c><00:41:06.380><c> areas</c><00:41:06.619><c> together</c><00:41:07.000><c> of</c><00:41:07.159><c> the</c><00:41:07.260><c> grace</c> 00:41:07.420 --> 00:41:11.559 of<00:41:07.619><c> life,</c><00:41:08.980><c> that</c><00:41:09.119><c> your</c><00:41:09.420><c> prayers</c><00:41:10.159><c> be</c><00:41:10.519><c> not</c><00:41:10.699><c> hindered.</c> 00:41:13.420 --> 00:41:20.880 Here<00:41:13.679><c> then,</c><00:41:14.320><c> brethren,</c><00:41:16.079><c> here</c><00:41:16.320><c> then</c><00:41:16.800><c> are</c><00:41:17.139><c> three</c><00:41:17.420><c> passages</c><00:41:18.059><c> which</c><00:41:19.239><c> provide</c><00:41:19.760><c> to</c><00:41:20.019><c> us</c> 00:41:21.400 --> 00:41:28.340 clear<00:41:22.119><c> exhortation,</c><00:41:23.179><c> specifically</c><00:41:23.800><c> directed</c><00:41:24.480><c> to</c><00:41:25.119><c> our</c><00:41:25.380><c> circumstance.</c><00:41:27.420><c> We</c><00:41:27.699><c> are</c><00:41:28.159><c> to</c> 00:41:28.340 --> 00:41:30.659 be<00:41:29.000><c> the</c><00:41:29.480><c> leader</c><00:41:29.800><c> in</c><00:41:30.079><c> the</c><00:41:30.260><c> family.</c> 00:41:30.659 --> 00:41:34.239 We<00:41:31.179><c> are</c><00:41:31.360><c> to</c><00:41:31.480><c> be</c><00:41:31.559><c> the</c><00:41:31.800><c> head</c><00:41:31.960><c> the</c><00:41:32.159><c> way</c><00:41:32.260><c> the</c><00:41:32.400><c> Lord</c><00:41:32.559><c> Jesus</c><00:41:32.960><c> Christ</c><00:41:33.400><c> is,</c> 00:41:35.559 --> 00:41:41.340 being<00:41:35.780><c> willing</c><00:41:36.139><c> to</c><00:41:36.800><c> submit</c><00:41:37.360><c> our</c><00:41:37.940><c> own</c><00:41:38.280><c> selfish</c><00:41:38.780><c> interests</c><00:41:39.579><c> in</c> 00:41:41.340 --> 00:41:43.940 a<00:41:41.739><c> selfless</c><00:41:42.780><c> manner.</c> 00:41:45.239 --> 00:41:51.099 We<00:41:45.699><c> are</c><00:41:45.960><c> to</c><00:41:46.280><c> seek</c><00:41:46.539><c> the</c><00:41:46.820><c> well</c><00:41:47.079><c>-being</c><00:41:47.280><c> of</c><00:41:47.440><c> the</c><00:41:47.599><c> wife,</c><00:41:48.860><c> seeking</c><00:41:49.179><c> that</c><00:41:49.440><c> she</c><00:41:49.619><c> may</c><00:41:49.860><c> be</c><00:41:50.119><c> saved.</c> 00:41:51.980 --> 00:41:57.940 We<00:41:52.219><c> are</c><00:41:52.519><c> to</c><00:41:52.739><c> be</c><00:41:53.199><c> cautious</c><00:41:54.019><c> of</c><00:41:55.360><c> bitterness</c><00:41:55.940><c> in</c><00:41:56.940><c> the</c><00:41:57.059><c> sense</c><00:41:57.320><c> of</c> 00:41:57.940 --> 00:41:59.079 that<00:41:58.179><c> which</c><00:41:58.380><c> is</c><00:41:58.739><c> sharp,</c> 00:41:59.079 --> 00:42:06.480 pointed,<00:42:01.019><c> designed</c><00:42:01.300><c> to</c><00:42:01.559><c> hurt.</c><00:42:03.420><c> We</c><00:42:04.059><c> are</c><00:42:04.400><c> to</c><00:42:05.179><c> heed</c><00:42:05.440><c> the</c><00:42:05.699><c> exhortation</c><00:42:06.179><c> that</c><00:42:06.320><c> is</c> 00:42:06.480 --> 00:42:07.760 here<00:42:06.639><c> in</c><00:42:06.820><c> Peter</c> 00:42:07.780 --> 00:42:10.900 and<00:42:08.099><c> the</c><00:42:08.280><c> example</c><00:42:08.679><c> that</c><00:42:08.860><c> is</c><00:42:09.019><c> set</c><00:42:09.159><c> before</c><00:42:09.500><c> us</c><00:42:09.699><c> by</c><00:42:09.900><c> Abraham.</c> 00:42:13.360 --> 00:42:18.260 The<00:42:13.960><c> passages</c><00:42:14.420><c> directed</c><00:42:15.019><c> specifically</c><00:42:15.639><c> to</c><00:42:15.920><c> our</c><00:42:16.139><c> circumstance</c><00:42:16.880><c> may</c><00:42:17.900><c> not</c><00:42:18.119><c> be</c> 00:42:18.260 --> 00:42:19.039 numerous<00:42:18.579><c> and</c><00:42:18.780><c> they</c><00:42:18.880><c> may</c> 00:42:19.039 --> 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reflect</c><00:42:36.199><c> to</c><00:42:36.820><c> our</c><00:42:37.079><c> wives</c><00:42:37.599><c> and</c><00:42:37.940><c> to</c><00:42:38.119><c> our</c> 00:42:38.300 --> 00:42:44.139 families<00:42:38.900><c> the</c><00:42:39.679><c> great</c><00:42:39.920><c> leadership</c><00:42:40.519><c> that</c><00:42:41.059><c> the</c><00:42:41.159><c> Lord</c><00:42:41.360><c> Jesus</c><00:42:41.780><c> Christ</c><00:42:42.340><c> shows</c><00:42:42.679><c> to</c><00:42:42.960><c> ourselves.</c>