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and<00:11:11.220><c> cost</c><00:11:11.460><c> someone</c><00:11:11.740><c> their</c><00:11:11.940><c> life.</c>

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So<00:11:25.399><c> there</c><00:11:25.500><c> was</c><00:11:25.720><c> a</c><00:11:25.899><c> quarrel</c><00:11:26.860><c> that</c><00:11:27.059><c> had</c><00:11:27.440><c> become</c><00:11:27.659><c> more</c><00:11:27.899><c> than</c><00:11:28.019><c> a</c><00:11:28.179><c> quarrel,</c><00:11:28.419><c> it</c>

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that<00:11:42.259><c> work?</c>

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Don't<00:11:43.879><c> you</c><00:11:44.000><c> worry</c><00:11:44.240><c> about</c><00:11:44.460><c> losing</c><00:11:44.720><c> your</c><00:11:44.899><c> life?</c>

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He<00:11:47.100><c> said</c><00:11:47.240><c> I</c><00:11:47.340><c> never</c><00:11:47.580><c> did</c><00:11:47.740><c> until</c><00:11:47.940><c> my</c><00:11:48.159><c> daughter</c><00:11:48.299><c> was</c><00:11:48.559><c> born.</c>

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I<00:11:55.759><c> might</c><00:11:55.940><c> not</c><00:11:56.139><c> come</c><00:11:56.340><c> home</c>

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he<00:12:05.659><c> said</c><00:12:05.700><c> we</c><00:12:05.820><c> had</c><00:12:06.059><c> a</c><00:12:06.259><c> man</c><00:12:06.500><c> involved</c><00:12:06.860><c> in</c><00:12:07.000><c> a</c><00:12:07.200><c> siege</c><00:12:07.919><c> out</c><00:12:08.779><c> in</c><00:12:09.139><c> surprisingly</c><00:12:09.480><c> in</c>

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southwestern<00:12:10.279><c> Sydney.</c>

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And<00:12:12.980><c> he</c><00:12:13.139><c> had</c><00:12:13.559><c> barricaded</c><00:12:14.080><c> himself</c><00:12:14.519><c> in</c><00:12:14.700><c> a</c><00:12:14.840><c> house</c><00:12:15.100><c> with</c><00:12:15.320><c> a</c><00:12:15.419><c> hostage,</c><00:12:16.879><c> he</c><00:12:16.980><c> had</c><00:12:17.120><c> a</c>

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12<00:12:17.500><c> gauge</c><00:12:17.759><c> with</c><00:12:17.919><c> him.</c>

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And<00:12:24.240><c> it</c><00:12:24.559><c> started</c><00:12:24.919><c> a</c><00:12:25.179><c> spiral</c><00:12:25.460><c> out</c><00:12:25.679><c> of</c><00:12:25.779><c> control</c><00:12:26.220><c> and</c><00:12:26.379><c> this</c><00:12:26.559><c> guy</c><00:12:26.759><c> was,</c>

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And<00:12:33.960><c> he</c><00:12:34.139><c> said</c><00:12:34.539><c> we</c><00:12:35.220><c> have</c><00:12:35.480><c> a</c><00:12:35.700><c> process</c><00:12:36.179><c> in</c><00:12:36.360><c> the</c><00:12:36.600><c> TRG</c><00:12:37.620><c> where</c><00:12:38.220><c> we</c><00:12:38.399><c> take</c><00:12:38.600><c> it</c>

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It's<00:12:41.840><c> a</c><00:12:41.899><c> bit</c><00:12:42.000><c> like</c><00:12:42.159><c> playing</c><00:12:42.340><c> Russian</c><00:12:42.679><c> roulette</c><00:12:43.039><c> when</c><00:12:43.179><c> you</c><00:12:43.320><c> think</c><00:12:43.460><c> about</c><00:12:43.600><c> it,</c>

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isn't<00:12:43.840><c> it?</c>

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was<00:13:05.019><c> only</c><00:13:05.279><c> partial</c><00:13:05.500><c> protection.</c>

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So<00:13:45.679><c> the</c><00:13:45.980><c> problem</c><00:13:46.299><c> might</c><00:13:46.539><c> be</c><00:13:46.860><c> small</c><00:13:47.179><c> to</c><00:13:47.480><c> start</c><00:13:47.659><c> with,</c><00:13:47.779><c> I'd</c><00:13:47.980><c> better</c><00:13:48.059><c> use</c>

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You've<00:13:52.740><c> got</c><00:13:52.820><c> a</c><00:13:53.039><c> small</c><00:13:53.240><c> problem,</c><00:13:53.700><c> whatever</c><00:13:54.039><c> that</c><00:13:54.360><c> problem</c><00:13:54.679><c> is.</c>

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It<00:14:00.759><c> starts</c><00:14:00.980><c> off</c><00:14:01.200><c> like</c><00:14:01.460><c> that,</c><00:14:01.659><c> whether</c><00:14:01.840><c> it's</c><00:14:01.980><c> in</c><00:14:02.139><c> our</c><00:14:02.360><c> mind,</c><00:14:04.379><c> whether</c><00:14:04.600><c> it's</c><00:14:04.720><c> what</c><00:14:04.879><c> someone</c><00:14:05.159><c> else</c><00:14:05.379><c> has</c><00:14:05.539><c> done</c><00:14:05.679><c> to</c><00:14:05.879><c> us.</c>

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You<00:14:08.059><c> have</c><00:14:08.179><c> a</c><00:14:08.360><c> small</c><00:14:08.519><c> problem</c><00:14:09.299><c> and</c><00:14:11.639><c> when</c><00:14:12.279><c> you</c><00:14:12.519><c> lose</c><00:14:12.720><c> control</c><00:14:13.159><c> of</c>

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that<00:14:13.460><c> problem</c><00:14:14.279><c> it</c><00:14:15.139><c> has</c><00:14:15.340><c> an</c><00:14:15.539><c> effect,</c><00:14:18.080><c> it</c><00:14:18.159><c> gets</c><00:14:18.299><c> bigger</c><00:14:18.519><c> and</c><00:14:18.720><c> bigger</c><00:14:18.860><c> and</c><00:14:19.039><c> bigger.</c>

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It's<00:14:19.820><c> like</c><00:14:19.919><c> throwing</c><00:14:20.120><c> a</c><00:14:20.320><c> stone</c><00:14:20.460><c> into</c><00:14:20.720><c> a</c><00:14:20.840><c> pond.</c>

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The<00:14:21.960><c> repercussions</c><00:14:22.799><c> spread</c><00:14:23.360><c> further</c><00:14:23.860><c> and</c><00:14:24.299><c> further.</c>

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This<00:14:26.919><c> is</c><00:14:27.360><c> what</c><00:14:27.440><c> happens</c><00:14:27.759><c> in</c><00:14:28.019><c> road</c><00:14:28.279><c> rage.</c>

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Now<00:14:28.659><c> I'm</c><00:14:30.419><c> fortunate</c><00:14:30.980><c> that</c><00:14:31.799><c> nobody</c><00:14:32.039><c> else</c><00:14:32.279><c> travels</c><00:14:32.539><c> with</c><00:14:32.759><c> me</c><00:14:32.919><c> in</c>

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my<00:14:33.259><c> work</c><00:14:33.480><c> truck.</c>

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Because<00:14:35.639><c> one</c><00:14:35.779><c> of</c><00:14:35.919><c> the</c><00:14:37.000><c> problems</c><00:14:37.299><c> I</c><00:14:37.580><c> have</c><00:14:37.720><c> in</c><00:14:37.799><c> dealing</c><00:14:38.000><c> with</c><00:14:38.179><c> this</c><00:14:38.320><c> subject</c><00:14:38.600><c> is</c>

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when<00:14:38.899><c> I'm</c><00:14:39.000><c> on</c><00:14:39.120><c> the</c><00:14:39.200><c> road,</c><00:14:39.320><c> I'm</c><00:14:39.399><c> on</c><00:14:39.539><c> the</c><00:14:39.620><c> road</c><00:14:39.720><c> all</c><00:14:39.940><c> the</c><00:14:40.039><c> time</c>

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and<00:14:40.320><c> I</c><00:14:40.419><c> do</c><00:14:40.480><c> a</c><00:14:40.500><c> lot</c><00:14:40.700><c> of</c><00:14:40.879><c> driving</c><00:14:41.100><c> around</c><00:14:41.419><c> the</c><00:14:41.679><c> city.</c>

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Anyone<00:14:43.340><c> who</c><00:14:43.519><c> does</c><00:14:43.720><c> that</c><00:14:44.039><c> knows</c><00:14:44.320><c> what</c><00:14:44.500><c> it's</c><00:14:44.720><c> like</c><00:14:44.899><c> these</c><00:14:45.200><c> days.</c>

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The<00:14:46.919><c> phrase</c><00:14:47.240><c> knit</c><00:14:47.539><c>-witted</c><00:14:47.820><c> clown</c><00:14:48.279><c> comes</c><00:14:48.600><c> out</c><00:14:48.820><c> of</c><00:14:48.919><c> my</c><00:14:49.100><c> mouth</c>

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very<00:14:50.340><c> frequently.</c>

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Constantly<00:14:55.220><c> when</c><00:14:55.379><c> I'm</c><00:14:55.539><c> driving.</c>

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It's<00:14:57.299><c> not</c><00:14:57.480><c> good</c><00:14:57.659><c> for</c><00:14:57.779><c> someone</c><00:14:58.059><c> who's</c><00:14:58.379><c> espousing</c><00:14:58.740><c> what</c><00:14:59.320><c> I</c><00:14:59.480><c> do.</c>

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And<00:15:01.120><c> I'm</c><00:15:01.399><c> trying</c><00:15:01.840><c> to</c><00:15:02.659><c> curb</c><00:15:02.860><c> it,</c><00:15:03.019><c> even</c><00:15:03.200><c> Lyn</c><00:15:03.360><c> says</c><00:15:03.559><c> to</c><00:15:03.720><c> me,</c><00:15:03.960><c> my</c>

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driving's<00:15:04.460><c> got</c><00:15:04.620><c> worse</c><00:15:04.820><c> and</c><00:15:04.980><c> worse</c><00:15:05.120><c> over</c><00:15:05.379><c> the</c><00:15:05.500><c> years.</c>

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Some<00:15:07.539><c> days</c><00:15:07.700><c> I</c><00:15:07.779><c> can</c><00:15:08.100><c> switch</c><00:15:08.379><c> off</c><00:15:08.600><c> and</c><00:15:08.740><c> I</c><00:15:08.840><c> just</c><00:15:09.059><c> go,</c><00:15:09.259><c> this</c><00:15:09.440><c> is</c><00:15:09.639><c> just</c><00:15:09.980><c> how</c>

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it<00:15:10.379><c> is.</c>

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This<00:15:12.240><c> is</c><00:15:12.240><c> just</c><00:15:12.480><c> how</c><00:15:12.679><c> it</c><00:15:12.799><c> is,</c><00:15:13.659><c> just</c><00:15:13.940><c> forget</c><00:15:14.179><c> about</c><00:15:14.440><c> it.</c>

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Other<00:15:16.000><c> days</c><00:15:16.200><c> I</c><00:15:16.360><c> can't</c><00:15:16.720><c> when</c><00:15:16.899><c> you</c><00:15:17.039><c> see</c><00:15:17.200><c> people</c><00:15:17.460><c> do</c><00:15:17.700><c> things</c><00:15:18.019><c> that</c>

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are<00:15:18.460><c> so</c><00:15:18.779><c> stupid.</c>

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They<00:15:20.500><c> nearly</c><00:15:20.740><c> take</c><00:15:20.980><c> your</c><00:15:21.240><c> life</c><00:15:21.539><c> and</c><00:15:22.279><c> other</c><00:15:22.740><c> people</c><00:15:23.000><c> with</c><00:15:23.220><c> them.</c>

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And<00:15:25.580><c> whoever</c><00:15:25.980><c> is</c><00:15:26.779><c> that</c><00:15:27.039><c> impulsive</c><00:15:27.960><c> with</c><00:15:28.419><c> this</c><00:15:28.580><c> road</c><00:15:28.879><c> rage,</c>

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exalts<00:15:30.360><c> folly.</c>

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The<00:15:31.840><c> ripple</c><00:15:32.080><c> effect</c><00:15:32.580><c> occurs.</c>

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What<00:15:35.779><c> we</c><00:15:35.940><c> have</c><00:15:36.139><c> to</c><00:15:36.299><c> do</c><00:15:36.759><c> is</c><00:15:37.519><c> look</c><00:15:37.720><c> at</c><00:15:37.860><c> the</c><00:15:38.080><c> causes</c><00:15:38.700><c> behind</c><00:15:40.059><c> the</c><00:15:40.340><c> anger.</c>

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Now<00:15:43.519><c> sometimes</c><00:15:44.000><c> our</c><00:15:44.279><c> anger</c><00:15:44.440><c> is</c><00:15:44.700><c> a</c><00:15:44.940><c> response</c><00:15:45.840><c> against</c><00:15:46.879><c> someone</c>

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or<00:15:48.320><c> something.</c>

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Sometimes<00:15:50.159><c> it's</c><00:15:50.419><c> a</c><00:15:50.519><c> result</c><00:15:50.659><c> of</c><00:15:50.820><c> a</c><00:15:50.899><c> guilty</c><00:15:51.039><c> conscience.</c>

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You<00:15:52.679><c> know</c><00:15:52.799><c> what</c><00:15:52.940><c> I'm</c><00:15:53.000><c> talking</c><00:15:53.179><c> about</c><00:15:53.399><c> here,</c><00:15:53.480><c> sometimes</c><00:15:53.879><c> when</c>

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you've<00:15:54.460><c> got</c><00:15:54.559><c> an</c><00:15:54.759><c> issue</c>

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and<00:15:55.120><c> you've</c><00:15:55.320><c> got</c><00:15:55.419><c> a</c><00:15:55.559><c> guilty</c><00:15:55.779><c> conscience</c><00:15:56.200><c> and</c><00:15:56.340><c> you</c><00:15:56.539><c> haven't</c>

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resolved<00:15:57.139><c> the</c><00:15:57.379><c> problem,</c>

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you<00:15:58.860><c> are</c><00:15:59.139><c> angry</c><00:15:59.440><c> with</c><00:15:59.720><c> yourself,</c><00:16:02.320><c> first</c><00:16:02.700><c> of</c><00:16:02.919><c> all.</c>

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And<00:16:04.980><c> because</c><00:16:05.179><c> you</c><00:16:05.279><c> can't</c><00:16:05.639><c> deal</c><00:16:05.919><c> with</c><00:16:06.039><c> it</c><00:16:06.340><c> in</c><00:16:06.480><c> yourself,</c>

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you<00:16:10.600><c> then</c><00:16:10.860><c> start</c><00:16:11.259><c> to</c><00:16:11.659><c> expand</c><00:16:12.100><c> the</c><00:16:12.440><c> problem.</c>

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So<00:16:15.120><c> you</c><00:16:15.259><c> start</c><00:16:15.559><c> to</c><00:16:15.720><c> get</c><00:16:16.460><c> irrational</c><00:16:17.120><c> and</c><00:16:19.139><c> the</c><00:16:19.259><c> more</c><00:16:19.460><c> irrational</c><00:16:19.899><c> you</c><00:16:20.100><c> get,</c>

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the<00:16:21.220><c> more</c><00:16:21.419><c> the</c><00:16:21.580><c> problem</c><00:16:22.100><c> gets</c><00:16:22.639><c> out</c><00:16:22.860><c> of</c><00:16:23.039><c> control.</c>

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In<00:16:26.519><c> that</c><00:16:26.779><c> case,</c><00:16:27.200><c> the</c><00:16:27.340><c> problem</c><00:16:27.580><c> with</c><00:16:27.779><c> anger</c><00:16:28.000><c> is</c><00:16:28.220><c> really</c><00:16:28.519><c> a</c><00:16:28.700><c> problem</c><00:16:28.980><c> with</c><00:16:29.220><c> ourselves.</c>

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And<00:16:32.460><c> we</c><00:16:32.559><c> need</c><00:16:32.759><c> to</c><00:16:32.860><c> sit</c><00:16:33.100><c> down</c><00:16:34.000><c> and</c><00:16:34.440><c> understand</c><00:16:35.500><c> why</c><00:16:36.379><c> it</c><00:16:36.559><c> is</c><00:16:37.120><c> that</c>

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we're<00:16:37.519><c> so</c><00:16:37.700><c> angry.</c>

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And<00:16:39.700><c> if</c><00:16:39.820><c> it's</c><00:16:40.000><c> ourself</c><00:16:40.419><c> that's</c><00:16:40.639><c> the</c><00:16:40.860><c> problem,</c><00:16:41.100><c> then</c><00:16:41.240><c> we</c><00:16:41.299><c> need</c>

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to<00:16:41.620><c> take</c><00:16:41.779><c> steps</c><00:16:42.039><c> to</c><00:16:42.240><c> deal</c><00:16:42.399><c> with</c><00:16:42.519><c> it.</c>

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We<00:16:44.220><c> need</c><00:16:44.340><c> to</c><00:16:44.600><c> think</c><00:16:44.779><c> about</c><00:16:45.039><c> the</c><00:16:45.320><c> cause</c><00:16:45.700><c> of</c><00:16:46.080><c> why</c><00:16:46.320><c> it</c><00:16:46.399><c> is</c><00:16:46.580><c> that</c><00:16:46.700><c> I'm</c><00:16:46.799><c> so</c><00:16:47.059><c> angry.</c>

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Sometimes<00:16:48.960><c> our</c><00:16:49.200><c> anger</c><00:16:49.379><c> is</c><00:16:49.639><c> the</c><00:16:49.759><c> result</c><00:16:50.059><c> of</c><00:16:50.340><c> people</c><00:16:50.700><c> not</c><00:16:51.100><c> seeing</c><00:16:51.399><c> things</c><00:16:51.759><c> our</c><00:16:52.100><c> way.</c>

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Now<00:16:54.340><c> ecclesially,</c><00:16:55.480><c> I'm</c><00:16:55.620><c> sure</c><00:16:55.919><c> everybody</c><00:16:56.360><c> can</c><00:16:56.580><c> think</c><00:16:56.720><c> of</c><00:16:56.840><c> a</c>

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business<00:16:57.320><c> meeting</c><00:16:57.539><c> where</c><00:16:57.679><c> this</c><00:16:57.840><c> has</c><00:16:58.039><c> happened.</c>

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No?<00:17:00.899><c> Ecclesial</c><00:17:01.320><c> business</c><00:17:01.720><c> meetings.</c><00:17:03.500><c> They're</c><00:17:03.659><c> such</c><00:17:03.840><c> fun,</c>

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aren't<00:17:04.279><c> they?</c>

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So<00:17:07.660><c> you</c><00:17:07.740><c> get</c><00:17:07.940><c> a</c><00:17:08.059><c> schism</c><00:17:08.259><c> in</c><00:17:08.420><c> the</c><00:17:08.559><c> ecclosure</c><00:17:08.880><c> over</c><00:17:09.079><c> an</c><00:17:09.279><c> issue</c>

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and<00:17:11.039><c> you</c><00:17:11.259><c> invariably</c><00:17:11.759><c> get</c><00:17:12.019><c> somebody</c><00:17:12.420><c> who</c><00:17:12.700><c> stands</c><00:17:12.980><c> up</c><00:17:13.619><c> and</c><00:17:13.960><c> lets</c><00:17:14.180><c> fly</c>

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because<00:17:15.859><c> they're</c><00:17:15.980><c> not</c><00:17:16.140><c> getting</c><00:17:16.279><c> their</c><00:17:16.460><c> own</c><00:17:16.640><c> way.</c>

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And<00:17:17.539><c> they</c><00:17:17.700><c> think</c><00:17:17.859><c> everybody</c><00:17:18.359><c> should</c><00:17:18.579><c> see</c><00:17:18.819><c> it</c><00:17:18.960><c> their</c><00:17:19.119><c> way</c>

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because<00:17:22.440><c> that's</c><00:17:22.740><c> how</c><00:17:22.880><c> they</c><00:17:22.980><c> think</c><00:17:23.240><c> things</c><00:17:23.519><c> should</c><00:17:23.819><c> run.</c>

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It<00:17:26.279><c> needs</c><00:17:26.500><c> someone</c><00:17:26.799><c> who's</c><00:17:27.140><c> slowed</c><00:17:27.259><c> her</c><00:17:27.460><c> off</c><00:17:28.480><c> and</c><00:17:29.140><c> has</c><00:17:29.259><c> great</c><00:17:29.440><c> understanding</c>

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in<00:17:30.819><c> ecclesial</c><00:17:31.119><c> business</c><00:17:31.519><c> meetings,</c><00:17:31.819><c> in</c><00:17:31.900><c> my</c><00:17:32.119><c> experience,</c>

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to<00:17:34.119><c> be</c><00:17:34.259><c> able</c><00:17:34.440><c> to</c><00:17:34.579><c> control</c><00:17:35.200><c> the</c><00:17:35.380><c> situation</c><00:17:35.940><c> because</c><00:17:36.200><c> when</c><00:17:36.380><c> it's</c>

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not<00:17:36.920><c> controlled</c>

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the<00:17:37.720><c> whole</c><00:17:37.880><c> of</c><00:17:38.059><c> pleasure</c><00:17:38.279><c> suffers</c><00:17:38.759><c> as</c><00:17:39.019><c> a</c><00:17:39.220><c> consequence</c><00:17:39.720><c> of</c><00:17:40.619><c> that.</c>

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And<00:17:41.960><c> we</c><00:17:42.079><c> end</c><00:17:42.299><c> up</c><00:17:42.500><c> with</c><00:17:42.660><c> a</c><00:17:42.779><c> much</c><00:17:43.059><c> bigger</c><00:17:43.359><c> issue</c><00:17:43.720><c> than</c><00:17:43.839><c> we</c><00:17:44.119><c> started</c><00:17:44.359><c> out</c><00:17:44.640><c> with.</c>

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And<00:17:45.900><c> it</c><00:17:46.039><c> takes</c><00:17:46.319><c> a</c><00:17:46.440><c> lot</c><00:17:46.660><c> longer</c><00:17:47.099><c> to</c><00:17:47.480><c> resolve.</c>

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As<00:17:48.000><c> the</c><00:17:48.220><c> Proverbs</c><00:17:48.519><c> say,</c><00:17:48.859><c> a</c><00:17:48.900><c> brother</c><00:17:49.480><c> offended</c><00:17:50.920><c> is</c><00:17:52.140><c> harder</c><00:17:52.539><c> to</c>

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win<00:17:53.019><c> back</c><00:17:53.779><c> than</c><00:17:54.180><c> offense</c><00:17:54.579><c> city.</c>

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So<00:17:57.119><c> sometimes</c><00:17:57.579><c> it's</c><00:17:57.839><c> us.</c>

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And<00:18:00.440><c> sometimes</c><00:18:00.880><c> we</c><00:18:01.079><c> use</c><00:18:01.460><c> bullying</c><00:18:01.960><c> tactics</c><00:18:02.539><c> to</c><00:18:03.339><c> get</c><00:18:03.460><c> our</c><00:18:03.680><c> own</c><00:18:03.880><c> way.</c>

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We<00:18:05.259><c> use</c><00:18:05.440><c> bullying</c><00:18:05.819><c> tactics,</c><00:18:06.299><c> we</c><00:18:06.400><c> use</c><00:18:06.640><c> emotional</c><00:18:07.140><c> blackmail.</c>

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And<00:18:11.339><c> of</c><00:18:11.460><c> course</c><00:18:12.220><c> the</c><00:18:13.059><c> problem</c><00:18:13.359><c> only</c><00:18:13.619><c> gets</c><00:18:13.980><c> bigger.</c>

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So<00:18:15.640><c> what</c><00:18:15.799><c> we</c><00:18:15.980><c> have</c><00:18:16.180><c> to</c><00:18:16.380><c> do</c><00:18:17.380><c> is</c><00:18:18.640><c> look</c><00:18:18.799><c> at</c><00:18:18.900><c> the</c><00:18:19.019><c> cause</c><00:18:19.180><c> of</c><00:18:19.339><c> the</c><00:18:19.460><c> problem.</c>

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Why<00:18:20.839><c> is</c><00:18:21.039><c> it</c><00:18:21.799><c> that</c><00:18:22.319><c> I</c><00:18:22.460><c> think</c><00:18:22.579><c> everybody</c><00:18:22.920><c> should</c><00:18:23.099><c> see</c><00:18:23.299><c> it</c><00:18:23.480><c> my</c><00:18:23.680><c> way?</c>

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If<00:18:24.599><c> I</c><00:18:24.759><c> think</c><00:18:24.880><c> I</c><00:18:25.039><c> have</c><00:18:25.180><c> a</c><00:18:25.380><c> genuine</c><00:18:25.839><c> problem</c><00:18:26.799><c> then</c><00:18:27.299><c> I</c><00:18:27.460><c> ought</c><00:18:27.480><c> to</c>

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do<00:18:27.759><c> my</c><00:18:28.019><c> best</c>

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in<00:18:29.059><c> the</c><00:18:29.299><c> spirit</c><00:18:29.460><c> of</c><00:18:29.759><c> understanding</c><00:18:30.579><c> to</c><00:18:31.960><c> try</c><00:18:32.099><c> and</c><00:18:32.279><c> talk</c><00:18:32.500><c> through</c><00:18:32.740><c> the</c>

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issue<00:18:33.119><c> with</c><00:18:33.380><c> people,</c>

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not<00:18:34.480><c> to</c><00:18:34.640><c> try</c><00:18:34.779><c> and</c><00:18:35.240><c> railroad</c><00:18:35.539><c> them.</c>

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Sometimes<00:18:37.619><c> we're</c><00:18:37.900><c> angry</c><00:18:38.299><c> simply</c><00:18:38.759><c> because</c><00:18:39.079><c> things</c><00:18:39.339><c> just</c><00:18:39.579><c> don't</c><00:18:39.680><c> go</c><00:18:39.900><c> right.</c>

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They<00:18:42.019><c> just</c><00:18:42.259><c> don't</c><00:18:42.579><c> go</c><00:18:43.180><c> right.</c>

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I'm<00:18:45.640><c> sure</c><00:18:45.799><c> you've</c><00:18:45.980><c> all</c><00:18:46.160><c> had</c><00:18:46.859><c> a</c><00:18:47.180><c> circumstance</c><00:18:47.660><c> like</c><00:18:47.980><c> that</c>

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where<00:18:49.880><c> one</c><00:18:50.400><c> thing</c><00:18:50.779><c> upon</c><00:18:51.039><c> another</c><00:18:51.940><c> seems</c><00:18:52.940><c> to</c><00:18:53.140><c> impact</c><00:18:53.579><c> on</c><00:18:53.759><c> your</c><00:18:53.920><c> life.</c>

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And<00:18:56.400><c> it's</c><00:18:56.539><c> almost</c><00:18:56.819><c> as</c><00:18:56.980><c> though</c><00:18:57.099><c> you</c><00:18:57.180><c> say</c><00:18:57.359><c> to</c><00:18:57.519><c> God,</c>

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I<00:18:57.819><c> don't</c><00:18:58.119><c> know</c><00:18:58.980><c> why</c><00:18:59.420><c> you're</c><00:18:59.640><c> allowing</c><00:18:59.859><c> this</c><00:19:00.079><c> to</c><00:19:00.299><c> happen.</c>

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We<00:19:03.700><c> have</c><00:19:03.960><c> choices</c><00:19:04.500><c> and</c><00:19:05.079><c> that's</c><00:19:05.240><c> what</c><00:19:05.400><c> the</c><00:19:05.539><c> Proverbs</c><00:19:05.759><c> says.</c>

00:19:06.059 --> 00:19:10.039
We<00:19:06.259><c> constantly</c><00:19:06.960><c> have</c><00:19:07.420><c> choices</c><00:19:07.960><c> that</c><00:19:08.119><c> we</c><00:19:08.200><c> can</c><00:19:08.420><c> make</c><00:19:09.299><c> as</c><00:19:09.720><c> we</c><00:19:09.839><c> go</c>

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through<00:19:10.240><c> life.</c>

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When<00:19:11.380><c> things</c><00:19:11.640><c> don't</c><00:19:11.920><c> go</c><00:19:12.180><c> right,</c><00:19:13.779><c> for</c><00:19:13.900><c> whatever</c><00:19:14.240><c> reason,</c><00:19:17.240><c> evaluate.</c>

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Whose<00:19:19.660><c> fault</c><00:19:19.839><c> is</c><00:19:20.000><c> it?</c>

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Sometimes<00:19:20.799><c> it's</c><00:19:21.200><c> just</c><00:19:21.559><c> the</c><00:19:21.640><c> way</c><00:19:21.839><c> things</c><00:19:22.079><c> are.</c>

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It's<00:19:23.759><c> just</c><00:19:23.960><c> how</c><00:19:24.099><c> they</c><00:19:24.279><c> happen.</c>

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And<00:19:25.640><c> of</c><00:19:25.740><c> course</c><00:19:25.880><c> if</c><00:19:26.000><c> we're</c><00:19:26.220><c> really</c><00:19:26.559><c> tired</c><00:19:27.119><c> it</c><00:19:28.319><c> makes</c><00:19:28.539><c> the</c><00:19:28.779><c> problem</c><00:19:29.019><c> even</c><00:19:29.299><c> worse.</c>

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So<00:19:29.859><c> if</c><00:19:29.980><c> you're</c><00:19:30.220><c> really</c><00:19:30.759><c> exhausted</c><00:19:31.339><c> and</c><00:19:31.880><c> everything</c><00:19:32.180><c> seems</c><00:19:32.460><c> to</c>

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be<00:19:32.680><c> going</c><00:19:32.779><c> out</c><00:19:33.000><c> of</c><00:19:33.079><c> control,</c>

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you're<00:19:34.240><c> even</c><00:19:34.480><c> more</c><00:19:34.759><c> prone</c><00:19:35.400><c> to</c><00:19:36.000><c> losing</c><00:19:36.259><c> the</c><00:19:36.500><c> plot.</c>

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So<00:19:39.759><c> some</c><00:19:39.900><c> of</c><00:19:40.039><c> the</c><00:19:40.059><c> reasons</c><00:19:40.420><c> why</c><00:19:40.759><c> we</c><00:19:41.039><c> explode</c><00:19:41.500><c> is</c>

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tiredness,<00:19:43.980><c> frustration,</c><00:19:45.680><c> stress,</c><00:19:47.740><c> children,</c>

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and<00:19:49.140><c> we'll</c><00:19:49.319><c> come</c><00:19:49.519><c> to</c><00:19:49.579><c> that</c><00:19:49.720><c> one</c><00:19:49.859><c> later,</c><00:19:52.880><c> pride.</c>

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All<00:19:55.339><c> of</c><00:19:55.440><c> those</c><00:19:55.599><c> things</c><00:19:55.819><c> go</c><00:19:56.059><c> up</c><00:19:56.480><c> to</c><00:19:56.680><c> make</c><00:19:56.880><c> up</c><00:19:57.599><c> the</c><00:19:58.799><c> problem</c>

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that<00:19:59.259><c> sometimes</c><00:19:59.680><c> causes</c><00:20:00.019><c> us</c><00:20:00.240><c> to</c><00:20:00.319><c> tip</c><00:20:00.420><c> over</c><00:20:00.660><c> the</c><00:20:00.779><c> edge.</c>

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How<00:20:03.720><c> does</c><00:20:03.880><c> God</c><00:20:04.059><c> deal</c><00:20:04.299><c> with</c><00:20:04.519><c> us?</c>

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God<00:20:06.339><c> allows</c><00:20:06.660><c> us</c><00:20:06.900><c> to</c><00:20:07.000><c> come</c><00:20:07.240><c> to</c><00:20:07.420><c> Him</c><00:20:07.960><c> with</c><00:20:08.759><c> the</c><00:20:08.940><c> problem</c>

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and<00:20:10.119><c> lay</c><00:20:10.279><c> it</c><00:20:10.380><c> all</c><00:20:10.559><c> out,</c><00:20:12.059><c> which</c><00:20:12.200><c> is</c><00:20:12.299><c> what</c><00:20:12.400><c> we</c><00:20:12.539><c> should</c><00:20:12.640><c> be</c><00:20:12.779><c> doing.</c>

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Talking<00:20:14.480><c> to</c><00:20:14.579><c> God</c><00:20:14.759><c> and</c><00:20:14.900><c> saying,</c><00:20:15.039><c> God,</c><00:20:15.200><c> look,</c><00:20:15.380><c> I</c><00:20:15.420><c> really</c><00:20:15.680><c> don't</c>

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understand<00:20:16.420><c> where</c><00:20:16.660><c> I'm</c><00:20:16.880><c> at</c><00:20:17.079><c> here,</c>

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but<00:20:19.079><c> I</c><00:20:19.160><c> need</c><00:20:19.299><c> to</c><00:20:19.460><c> talk</c><00:20:19.559><c> this</c><00:20:19.759><c> through</c><00:20:20.000><c> because</c><00:20:20.279><c> it</c><00:20:20.400><c> doesn't</c>

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seem<00:20:20.920><c> like</c><00:20:21.059><c> things</c><00:20:21.240><c> are</c><00:20:21.420><c> going</c><00:20:21.559><c> the</c><00:20:21.680><c> way</c><00:20:21.779><c> they</c><00:20:22.000><c> should.</c>

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That<00:20:24.220><c> takes</c><00:20:24.579><c> a</c><00:20:24.799><c> calm</c><00:20:25.019><c> spirit</c><00:20:25.480><c> and</c><00:20:25.880><c> understanding</c><00:20:26.559><c> of</c><00:20:27.319><c> who</c><00:20:27.500><c> we</c><00:20:27.680><c> are.</c>

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One<00:20:30.900><c> of</c><00:20:31.059><c> the</c><00:20:31.200><c> sad</c><00:20:31.359><c> things</c><00:20:31.680><c> about</c><00:20:31.940><c> angry</c><00:20:32.220><c> outbursts</c>

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is<00:20:32.960><c> that</c><00:20:33.019><c> they're</c><00:20:33.299><c> often</c><00:20:33.900><c> directed</c><00:20:34.539><c> at</c><00:20:35.059><c> the</c><00:20:35.279><c> people</c><00:20:35.559><c> we</c><00:20:35.799><c> love</c><00:20:36.140><c> most.</c>

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You<00:20:38.700><c> know,</c><00:20:38.839><c> it's</c><00:20:38.980><c> often</c><00:20:39.140><c> that</c><00:20:39.299><c> we</c><00:20:39.460><c> won't</c><00:20:39.819><c> say</c><00:20:40.160><c> the</c><00:20:40.380><c> things</c>

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to<00:20:42.579><c> strangers</c><00:20:43.099><c> or</c><00:20:44.460><c> work</c><00:20:44.720><c> colleagues</c>

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that<00:20:46.339><c> we'll</c><00:20:46.700><c> say</c><00:20:47.039><c> to</c><00:20:47.279><c> our</c><00:20:47.440><c> own</c><00:20:47.660><c> family</c>

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because<00:20:50.400><c> we</c><00:20:50.920><c> think</c><00:20:51.180><c> that</c><00:20:51.319><c> they</c><00:20:51.500><c> should</c><00:20:51.660><c> be</c><00:20:51.859><c> more</c><00:20:52.140><c> accepting</c>

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of<00:20:52.660><c> us</c>

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and<00:20:52.819><c> that's</c><00:20:53.119><c> just</c><00:20:53.400><c> the</c><00:20:53.519><c> way</c><00:20:53.680><c> I</c><00:20:53.759><c> am</c><00:20:53.900><c> so</c><00:20:54.079><c> they</c><00:20:54.279><c> can</c><00:20:54.480><c> cop</c><00:20:54.599><c> a</c><00:20:54.799><c> broadside.</c>

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And<00:20:56.359><c> it's</c><00:20:56.559><c> so</c><00:20:56.859><c> often</c><00:20:57.000><c> that</c><00:20:57.180><c> the</c><00:20:57.359><c> anger</c><00:20:57.539><c> we</c><00:20:57.819><c> use</c>

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is<00:20:58.640><c> directed</c><00:20:59.019><c> against</c><00:20:59.700><c> the</c><00:20:59.900><c> people</c><00:21:00.000><c> we</c><00:21:00.140><c> love</c><00:21:00.380><c> most</c><00:21:01.079><c> in</c><00:21:01.900><c> our</c><00:21:02.140><c> relationships.</c>

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Whether<00:21:05.359><c> it's</c><00:21:05.579><c> the</c><00:21:05.680><c> pace</c><00:21:05.900><c> of</c><00:21:06.140><c> life</c><00:21:06.339><c> or</c><00:21:06.500><c> the</c><00:21:06.680><c> feeling</c><00:21:06.839><c> under</c><00:21:07.160><c> pressure,</c>

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all<00:21:08.740><c> those</c><00:21:08.920><c> things</c><00:21:09.440><c> begin</c><00:21:09.920><c> to</c><00:21:10.240><c> well</c><00:21:10.380><c> up</c><00:21:11.119><c> to</c><00:21:11.539><c> cause</c><00:21:11.720><c> the</c><00:21:11.960><c> problem.</c>

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So<00:21:13.420><c> we</c><00:21:13.519><c> have</c><00:21:13.680><c> to</c><00:21:13.839><c> learn</c><00:21:14.140><c> to</c><00:21:14.680><c> manage</c><00:21:14.920><c> it</c><00:21:15.140><c> and</c><00:21:15.279><c> get</c><00:21:15.720><c> perspective</c>

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on<00:21:16.720><c> the</c><00:21:16.980><c> issue.</c>

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Now,<00:21:17.759><c> one</c><00:21:17.900><c> of</c><00:21:17.980><c> the</c><00:21:18.099><c> problems,</c><00:21:18.619><c> of</c><00:21:18.640><c> course,</c><00:21:18.960><c> is</c><00:21:19.059><c> that</c><00:21:19.180><c> we've</c><00:21:19.359><c> been</c><00:21:19.500><c> looking</c><00:21:19.680><c> at</c>

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it<00:21:20.059><c> all</c><00:21:20.059><c> week</c>

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and<00:21:20.920><c> so</c><00:21:20.920><c> often,</c><00:21:22.619><c> with</c><00:21:22.799><c> our</c><00:21:23.119><c> sight,</c><00:21:23.819><c> and</c><00:21:23.980><c> particularly</c><00:21:24.319><c> in</c>

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this<00:21:24.680><c> one,</c>

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anger,<00:21:25.539><c> it</c><00:21:25.539><c> can</c><00:21:25.660><c> be</c><00:21:25.740><c> right</c><00:21:25.960><c> there.</c>

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We<00:21:27.220><c> have</c><00:21:27.400><c> no</c><00:21:27.599><c> perspective.</c>

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So<00:21:29.460><c> when</c><00:21:29.579><c> we</c><00:21:29.759><c> try</c><00:21:29.920><c> to</c><00:21:30.000><c> look</c><00:21:30.180><c> at</c><00:21:30.859><c> a</c><00:21:31.240><c> long</c><00:21:31.500><c>-term</c><00:21:31.759><c> solution,</c><00:21:32.220><c> we</c>

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can't<00:21:32.859><c> see</c><00:21:33.079><c> it.</c>

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All<00:21:33.940><c> we're</c><00:21:34.220><c> seeing</c><00:21:34.440><c> is</c><00:21:34.720><c> the</c><00:21:35.000><c> problem</c><00:21:35.480><c> right</c><00:21:35.940><c> in</c><00:21:36.160><c> front</c><00:21:36.299><c> of</c><00:21:36.440><c> our</c><00:21:36.660><c> eyes.</c>

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And<00:21:38.019><c> we</c><00:21:38.140><c> think</c><00:21:38.279><c> the</c><00:21:38.460><c> best</c><00:21:38.720><c> way</c><00:21:38.960><c> of</c><00:21:38.960><c> dealing</c><00:21:39.380><c> with</c><00:21:40.000><c> that</c><00:21:40.200><c> issue</c>

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is<00:21:40.660><c> to</c><00:21:40.940><c> throw</c><00:21:41.099><c> our</c><00:21:41.359><c> anger</c><00:21:41.559><c> straight</c><00:21:41.960><c> at</c><00:21:42.099><c> it.</c>

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But<00:21:42.279><c> you</c><00:21:42.380><c> know</c><00:21:42.420><c> what</c><00:21:42.500><c> happens?</c>

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It<00:21:45.460><c> comes</c><00:21:45.559><c> back.</c>

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It<00:21:48.359><c> comes</c><00:21:48.559><c> straight</c><00:21:48.839><c> back</c><00:21:49.039><c> at</c><00:21:49.119><c> us</c><00:21:49.660><c> in</c><00:21:49.980><c> all</c><00:21:50.180><c> sorts</c><00:21:50.380><c> of</c><00:21:50.500><c> ways</c>

00:21:52.220 --> 00:21:55.579
and<00:21:52.619><c> it</c><00:21:52.720><c> makes</c><00:21:52.839><c> it</c><00:21:53.039><c> far</c><00:21:53.180><c> more</c><00:21:53.400><c> difficult</c><00:21:53.740><c> for</c><00:21:53.980><c> us</c><00:21:54.119><c> to</c><00:21:54.240><c> deal</c><00:21:54.380><c> with</c><00:21:54.480><c> it.</c>

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It's<00:21:56.359><c> a</c><00:21:56.440><c> case</c><00:21:56.660><c> of</c><00:21:57.160><c> perspective.</c>

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Make<00:22:04.099><c> no</c><00:22:04.299><c> friendship</c><00:22:04.619><c> with</c><00:22:04.759><c> an</c><00:22:04.900><c> angry</c><00:22:05.099><c> man.</c>

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Why?

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Why<00:22:11.059><c> would</c><00:22:11.180><c> you</c><00:22:11.359><c> want</c><00:22:11.480><c> to</c><00:22:11.619><c> make</c><00:22:11.779><c> friendship</c><00:22:12.200><c> with</c><00:22:12.339><c> an</c><00:22:12.480><c> angry</c><00:22:12.700><c> man?</c>

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You<00:22:13.140><c> ask</c><00:22:13.299><c> yourself</c><00:22:13.579><c> the</c><00:22:13.759><c> question.</c>

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Well,<00:22:16.619><c> Solomon</c><00:22:16.960><c> tells</c><00:22:17.480><c> us,</c>

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and<00:22:18.759><c> don't</c><00:22:18.960><c> let</c><00:22:19.059><c> the</c><00:22:19.240><c> furious</c><00:22:19.519><c> men</c><00:22:19.799><c> do</c><00:22:20.000><c> not</c><00:22:20.240><c> go,</c>

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lest<00:22:21.319><c> you</c><00:22:21.559><c> learn</c><00:22:21.880><c> his</c><00:22:22.220><c> ways</c><00:22:22.539><c> and</c><00:22:22.799><c> set</c><00:22:22.940><c> a</c><00:22:23.240><c> snare</c><00:22:23.460><c> for</c><00:22:23.720><c> your</c><00:22:24.019><c> soul.</c>

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You<00:22:25.920><c> see,</c><00:22:26.019><c> sometimes</c><00:22:26.460><c> people</c><00:22:26.720><c> look</c><00:22:26.980><c> at</c><00:22:27.140><c> someone</c><00:22:27.380><c> who's</c><00:22:27.640><c> like</c>

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that,<00:22:27.980><c> who's</c><00:22:28.160><c> a</c><00:22:28.299><c> bully,</c>

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an<00:22:29.680><c> emotional</c><00:22:30.079><c> blackmailer,</c><00:22:30.720><c> whatever</c><00:22:30.940><c> you</c><00:22:31.059><c> like</c><00:22:31.240><c> to</c><00:22:31.440><c> call</c><00:22:31.559><c> it,</c>

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and<00:22:32.099><c> they</c><00:22:32.259><c> say,</c><00:22:32.559><c> he</c><00:22:32.559><c> always</c><00:22:32.880><c> seems</c><00:22:33.079><c> to</c><00:22:33.220><c> get</c><00:22:33.319><c> his</c><00:22:33.420><c> own</c><00:22:33.640><c> way.</c>

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He<00:22:36.039><c> always</c><00:22:36.180><c> seems</c><00:22:36.359><c> to</c><00:22:36.460><c> be</c><00:22:36.539><c> able</c><00:22:36.759><c> to</c><00:22:37.079><c> get</c><00:22:37.200><c> his</c><00:22:37.440><c> own</c><00:22:37.680><c> way.</c>

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That's<00:22:38.180><c> a</c><00:22:38.339><c> pretty</c><00:22:38.519><c> good</c><00:22:38.759><c> strategy.</c>

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And<00:22:41.099><c> he</c><00:22:41.200><c> said,</c><00:22:41.420><c> you</c><00:22:41.460><c> do</c><00:22:41.660><c> that</c><00:22:42.619><c> and</c><00:22:43.400><c> you</c><00:22:43.559><c> will</c><00:22:43.819><c> snare</c><00:22:43.960><c> yourself.</c>

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You<00:22:46.180><c> know,</c><00:22:46.519><c> a</c><00:22:46.519><c> prime</c><00:22:46.660><c> example</c><00:22:47.680><c> of</c><00:22:48.440><c> that</c><00:22:48.640><c> was</c><00:22:48.940><c> seen</c><00:22:49.140><c> in</c><00:22:49.539><c> the</c><00:22:49.720><c> riots</c><00:22:49.920><c> that</c><00:22:50.140><c> happened</c><00:22:50.259><c> at</c><00:22:50.420><c> Cronulla.</c>

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I<00:22:51.079><c> think</c><00:22:51.259><c> everybody</c><00:22:51.619><c> here</c><00:22:51.799><c> would</c><00:22:51.940><c> be</c><00:22:52.099><c> aware</c><00:22:52.319><c> of</c><00:22:52.400><c> them.</c>

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They<00:22:52.619><c> went</c><00:22:52.759><c> all</c><00:22:52.960><c> over</c><00:22:53.119><c> Australia</c><00:22:53.599><c> and</c><00:22:53.960><c> they</c><00:22:54.140><c> got</c><00:22:54.299><c> worldwide</c><00:22:54.700><c> coverage.</c>

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It<00:22:58.200><c> started</c><00:22:58.619><c> with</c><00:22:59.079><c> people</c><00:22:59.420><c> saying,</c><00:23:00.859><c> we'll</c><00:23:01.039><c> sort</c><00:23:01.180><c> the</c><00:23:01.480><c> problem</c><00:23:01.720><c> out.</c>

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So<00:23:04.000><c> a</c><00:23:04.480><c> bunch</c><00:23:04.759><c> of</c><00:23:05.019><c> angry</c><00:23:05.299><c> young</c><00:23:05.559><c> men</c><00:23:06.200><c> with</c><00:23:07.400><c> a</c><00:23:07.539><c> lot</c><00:23:07.680><c> of</c><00:23:07.940><c> alcohol</c>

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got<00:23:10.059><c> together.</c>

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Some<00:23:11.099><c> of</c><00:23:11.279><c> my</c><00:23:11.440><c> friends</c><00:23:11.720><c> were</c><00:23:11.920><c> getting</c><00:23:12.140><c> text</c><00:23:12.460><c> messages</c><00:23:12.819><c> to</c><00:23:13.059><c> go</c>

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down<00:23:13.420><c> to</c><00:23:13.579><c> Cronulla,</c>

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particularly<00:23:14.279><c> the</c><00:23:14.440><c> ones</c><00:23:14.599><c> who</c><00:23:14.720><c> were</c><00:23:14.900><c> surfaced,</c>

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come<00:23:15.500><c> down</c><00:23:15.720><c> to</c><00:23:15.759><c> Cronulla</c><00:23:16.140><c> and</c><00:23:16.339><c> we'll</c><00:23:16.660><c> sort</c><00:23:16.819><c> the</c><00:23:17.079><c> problem</c><00:23:17.339><c> out.</c>

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A<00:23:19.960><c> lot</c><00:23:20.079><c> of</c><00:23:20.180><c> them</c><00:23:20.299><c> turned</c><00:23:20.539><c> up,</c><00:23:20.859><c> probably</c><00:23:21.140><c> about</c><00:23:21.440><c> 30</c><00:23:21.759><c>,000.</c>

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The<00:23:24.960><c> more</c><00:23:25.220><c> alcohol,</c><00:23:26.339><c> the</c><00:23:26.480><c> longer</c><00:23:26.660><c> the</c><00:23:26.859><c> day</c><00:23:27.059><c> wore</c><00:23:27.259><c> on,</c>

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the<00:23:27.839><c> higher</c><00:23:28.059><c> the</c><00:23:28.259><c> sun</c><00:23:28.420><c> went</c><00:23:28.660><c> in</c><00:23:28.799><c> the</c><00:23:28.980><c> sky,</c>

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the<00:23:30.220><c> more</c><00:23:30.400><c> angry</c><00:23:30.619><c> people</c><00:23:30.920><c> became.</c>

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Until<00:23:31.720><c> you</c><00:23:31.900><c> had</c><00:23:32.319><c> a</c><00:23:32.980><c> whole</c><00:23:33.200><c> group</c><00:23:33.720><c> of</c><00:23:34.480><c> angry</c><00:23:34.799><c> men</c>

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who<00:23:35.799><c> were</c><00:23:36.019><c> completely</c><00:23:36.480><c> out</c><00:23:36.700><c> of</c><00:23:36.799><c> control.</c>

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And<00:23:39.460><c> anybody</c><00:23:39.799><c> who</c><00:23:40.099><c> was</c><00:23:41.099><c> considered</c><00:23:41.460><c> to</c><00:23:41.660><c> be</c><00:23:41.880><c> even</c><00:23:42.299><c> remotely</c><00:23:42.900><c> of</c>

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Middle<00:23:43.539><c> Eastern</c><00:23:43.799><c> appearance,</c>

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copped<00:23:45.420><c> it.</c>

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A<00:23:47.960><c> few</c><00:23:47.960><c> of</c><00:23:48.099><c> my</c><00:23:48.220><c> mates</c><00:23:48.380><c> said</c><00:23:48.579><c> to</c><00:23:48.700><c> me,</c><00:23:48.839><c> make</c><00:23:48.960><c> sure</c><00:23:49.119><c> you</c><00:23:49.299><c> don't</c><00:23:49.420><c> go</c>

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down<00:23:49.839><c> there.</c>

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With<00:23:52.019><c> the</c><00:23:52.160><c> beard</c><00:23:52.279><c> and</c><00:23:52.440><c> my</c><00:23:52.559><c> olive</c><00:23:52.720><c> skin,</c><00:23:53.019><c> they</c><00:23:53.140><c> reckoned</c><00:23:53.299><c> I</c><00:23:53.359><c> was</c>

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a<00:23:53.640><c> prime</c><00:23:53.839><c> candidate.</c>

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So<00:23:57.339><c> I</c><00:23:57.440><c> didn't.</c>

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But<00:23:59.059><c> you</c><00:23:59.180><c> know,</c><00:23:59.460><c> a</c><00:23:59.539><c> couple</c><00:23:59.740><c> of</c><00:23:59.920><c> young</c><00:24:00.099><c> people</c><00:24:01.160><c> from</c><00:24:01.779><c> our</c><00:24:02.019><c> occlusion</c>

00:24:03.960 --> 00:24:06.079
went<00:24:04.319><c> down</c><00:24:04.579><c> to</c><00:24:04.660><c> see</c><00:24:04.740><c> what</c><00:24:04.880><c> was</c><00:24:05.059><c> going</c><00:24:05.259><c> on.</c>

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Because<00:24:06.619><c> they</c><00:24:06.779><c> didn't</c><00:24:07.079><c> think</c><00:24:08.059><c> it</c><00:24:08.380><c> was</c><00:24:08.579><c> going</c><00:24:08.700><c> to</c><00:24:08.779><c> be</c><00:24:08.880><c> any</c><00:24:09.059><c> big</c><00:24:09.259><c> deal.</c>

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When<00:24:10.619><c> we</c><00:24:10.720><c> got</c><00:24:10.880><c> to</c><00:24:11.000><c> the</c><00:24:11.140><c> hall</c><00:24:11.259><c> that</c><00:24:11.539><c> night,</c>

00:24:14.000 --> 00:24:16.859
their<00:24:14.359><c> eyes</c><00:24:14.720><c> were</c><00:24:15.119><c> popping</c><00:24:15.359><c> out</c><00:24:15.619><c> of</c><00:24:15.700><c> their</c><00:24:16.000><c> head.</c>

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Now,<00:24:18.880><c> lest</c><00:24:18.960><c> you</c><00:24:19.140><c> think</c><00:24:19.420><c> that</c><00:24:19.599><c> our</c><00:24:19.740><c> young</c><00:24:19.920><c> people</c><00:24:20.160><c> are</c><00:24:20.339><c> involved</c><00:24:20.680><c> in</c><00:24:20.839><c> this</c>

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sort<00:24:21.140><c> of</c><00:24:21.259><c> behaviour,</c>

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let<00:24:21.900><c> me</c><00:24:22.160><c> set</c><00:24:22.319><c> the</c><00:24:22.480><c> record</c><00:24:22.720><c> straight,</c><00:24:23.200><c> they</c><00:24:23.359><c> were</c><00:24:23.519><c> in</c><00:24:23.599><c> no</c><00:24:23.799><c> way</c><00:24:23.960><c> involved.</c>

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They<00:24:24.940><c> were</c><00:24:25.099><c> going</c><00:24:25.339><c> to</c><00:24:25.519><c> Cronulla,</c><00:24:26.380><c> they</c><00:24:26.680><c> said</c><00:24:26.880><c> anyway,</c>

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but<00:24:28.299><c> this</c><00:24:28.500><c> was</c><00:24:28.680><c> a</c><00:24:28.779><c> bit</c><00:24:28.880><c> more</c><00:24:29.160><c> of</c><00:24:29.279><c> a</c><00:24:29.339><c> draw</c><00:24:29.559><c> card.</c>

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But<00:24:30.720><c> you</c><00:24:30.940><c> know,</c><00:24:31.579><c> when</c><00:24:31.720><c> I</c><00:24:31.940><c> spoke</c><00:24:32.220><c> to</c><00:24:32.240><c> them</c><00:24:32.380><c> that</c><00:24:32.480><c> night</c><00:24:32.740><c> at</c><00:24:32.900><c> the</c><00:24:33.019><c> hall,</c>

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they<00:24:35.319><c> couldn't</c><00:24:35.500><c> believe</c><00:24:35.759><c> what</c><00:24:35.920><c> they'd</c><00:24:36.579><c> seen.</c>

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Every<00:24:38.900><c> single</c><00:24:39.240><c> one</c><00:24:39.440><c> of</c><00:24:39.559><c> them</c><00:24:40.359><c> said</c><00:24:40.839><c> it</c><00:24:41.039><c> was</c><00:24:41.279><c> scary.</c>

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They<00:24:43.240><c> said</c><00:24:43.319><c> we've</c><00:24:43.539><c> never</c><00:24:43.779><c> seen</c><00:24:44.059><c> anything</c><00:24:44.460><c> like</c><00:24:44.900><c> it.</c>

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They<00:24:45.720><c> were</c><00:24:46.079><c> scared.</c>

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They<00:24:47.359><c> said</c><00:24:47.500><c> we</c><00:24:47.700><c> wish</c><00:24:47.940><c> we</c><00:24:48.099><c> hadn't</c><00:24:48.299><c> been</c><00:24:48.539><c> there.</c>

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To<00:24:49.880><c> see</c><00:24:50.099><c> an</c><00:24:50.279><c> angry</c><00:24:50.599><c> mob</c><00:24:50.799><c> just</c><00:24:51.079><c> get</c><00:24:51.200><c> hold</c><00:24:51.380><c> of</c><00:24:51.539><c> people</c><00:24:51.740><c> and</c><00:24:52.119><c> belt</c><00:24:52.319><c> them.</c>

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Didn't<00:24:54.480><c> matter</c><00:24:54.720><c> where</c><00:24:54.920><c> they</c><00:24:55.180><c> came</c><00:24:55.460><c> from,</c>

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didn't<00:24:56.319><c> matter</c><00:24:56.539><c> what</c><00:24:56.839><c> sort</c><00:24:56.980><c> of</c><00:24:57.099><c> person</c><00:24:57.319><c> they</c><00:24:57.579><c> were,</c>

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if<00:24:57.960><c> they</c><00:24:58.180><c> looked</c><00:24:58.420><c> a</c><00:24:58.619><c> certain</c><00:24:58.880><c> way,</c><00:24:59.720><c> they</c><00:24:59.940><c> copped</c><00:25:00.119><c> a</c><00:25:00.259><c> hiding.</c>

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The<00:25:03.759><c> people</c><00:25:03.920><c> that</c><00:25:04.079><c> were</c><00:25:04.200><c> involved</c><00:25:04.660><c> set</c><00:25:04.980><c> a</c><00:25:05.220><c> snare</c><00:25:05.400><c> for</c><00:25:05.640><c> their</c><00:25:05.940><c> soul.</c>

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One<00:25:07.400><c> of</c><00:25:07.500><c> them</c><00:25:07.880><c> was</c><00:25:08.079><c> the</c><00:25:08.259><c> apprentice,</c><00:25:08.900><c> was</c><00:25:09.059><c> the</c><00:25:09.220><c> son</c><00:25:09.400><c> of</c><00:25:09.559><c> a</c><00:25:09.680><c> plumber</c><00:25:09.859><c> I</c><00:25:10.039><c> know,</c><00:25:10.359><c> a</c>

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local<00:25:10.759><c> plumber.</c>

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Turned<00:25:13.079><c> up</c><00:25:13.200><c> with</c><00:25:13.700><c> his</c><00:25:13.880><c> father</c><00:25:14.119><c> often</c><00:25:14.440><c> to</c><00:25:14.640><c> the</c><00:25:14.799><c> plumbing</c>

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supply<00:25:15.440><c> store.</c>

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Police<00:25:17.940><c> went</c><00:25:18.160><c> round</c><00:25:18.400><c> and</c><00:25:18.579><c> arrested</c><00:25:19.220><c> his</c><00:25:19.819><c> son</c><00:25:20.319><c> on</c><00:25:21.240><c> the</c><00:25:21.420><c> front</c>

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lawn<00:25:21.740><c> of</c><00:25:21.859><c> his</c><00:25:22.019><c> house</c>

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for<00:25:23.640><c> riot</c><00:25:23.940><c> and</c><00:25:24.299><c> violence</c><00:25:24.779><c> and</c><00:25:25.119><c> defray.</c>

00:25:26.839 --> 00:25:30.339
He<00:25:27.319><c> did</c><00:25:27.539><c> four</c><00:25:27.779><c> months</c><00:25:28.099><c> in</c><00:25:28.259><c> jail</c><00:25:28.559><c> for</c><00:25:28.819><c> it.</c>

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Result<00:25:31.079><c> of</c><00:25:31.259><c> somebody</c><00:25:31.759><c> who</c><00:25:32.079><c> got</c><00:25:32.259><c> in</c><00:25:32.819><c> with</c><00:25:33.119><c> an</c><00:25:33.299><c> angry</c><00:25:33.819><c> mob</c><00:25:34.200><c> and</c><00:25:35.519><c> now</c><00:25:35.779><c> has</c><00:25:36.000><c> a</c>

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criminal<00:25:36.480><c> record.</c>

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It's<00:25:37.220><c> just</c><00:25:37.500><c> as</c><00:25:37.680><c> well</c><00:25:37.799><c> his</c><00:25:38.000><c> father,</c><00:25:38.339><c> his</c><00:25:38.519><c> employer,</c>

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because<00:25:39.200><c> I</c><00:25:39.319><c> don't</c><00:25:39.599><c> think</c><00:25:39.720><c> anybody</c><00:25:40.099><c> else</c><00:25:40.359><c> would</c><00:25:40.500><c> be</c><00:25:40.640><c> likely</c><00:25:40.920><c> to</c>

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take<00:25:41.279><c> him</c><00:25:41.480><c> on.</c>

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He's<00:25:42.680><c> fortunate</c><00:25:42.980><c> in</c><00:25:43.180><c> that</c><00:25:43.339><c> regard,</c><00:25:44.440><c> but</c><00:25:44.440><c> for</c><00:25:44.819><c> months</c><00:25:45.019><c> we</c><00:25:45.140><c> used</c>

00:25:45.319 --> 00:25:46.380
to<00:25:45.380><c> see</c><00:25:45.539><c> his</c><00:25:45.740><c> father</c><00:25:46.000><c> turn</c><00:25:46.240><c> up</c>

00:25:46.380 --> 00:25:49.880
without<00:25:46.640><c> the</c><00:25:46.839><c> apprentice</c><00:25:47.119><c> and</c><00:25:47.319><c> nobody</c><00:25:47.640><c> dared</c><00:25:48.000><c> say,</c><00:25:48.759><c> where's</c><00:25:49.000><c> Daniel?</c>

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Because<00:25:50.720><c> we</c><00:25:50.859><c> all</c><00:25:51.000><c> knew</c><00:25:51.119><c> where</c><00:25:51.259><c> he</c><00:25:51.460><c> was.</c>

00:25:52.700 --> 00:25:56.420
Now<00:25:53.180><c> that's</c><00:25:53.460><c> an</c><00:25:53.619><c> extreme</c><00:25:54.079><c> case,</c><00:25:55.200><c> the</c><00:25:55.259><c> Cronulla</c><00:25:55.559><c> writes,</c>

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but<00:25:56.720><c> you</c><00:25:56.779><c> can</c><00:25:57.039><c> see</c><00:25:57.259><c> how</c><00:25:57.880><c> the</c><00:25:58.119><c> process</c><00:25:58.500><c> works.</c>

00:25:58.920 --> 00:26:01.859
You<00:25:59.059><c> get</c><00:25:59.319><c> involved</c><00:25:59.599><c> with</c><00:25:59.779><c> people</c><00:26:00.039><c> like</c><00:26:00.380><c> that,</c><00:26:01.059><c> you</c><00:26:01.180><c> set</c><00:26:01.339><c> a</c><00:26:01.500><c> snare</c><00:26:01.640><c> for</c>

00:26:01.859 --> 00:26:03.400
your<00:26:02.039><c> soul.</c>

00:26:08.740 --> 00:26:13.160
A<00:26:08.740><c> man</c><00:26:08.960><c> of</c><00:26:09.079><c> great</c><00:26:09.339><c> wrath</c><00:26:09.559><c> will</c><00:26:09.759><c> suffer</c><00:26:09.980><c> punishment,</c><00:26:11.819><c> which</c><00:26:12.079><c> they</c><00:26:12.920><c> did</c><00:26:13.059><c> in</c>

00:26:13.160 --> 00:26:13.779
this<00:26:13.420><c> case.</c>

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For<00:26:14.299><c> if</c><00:26:14.460><c> you</c><00:26:14.599><c> rescue</c><00:26:15.019><c> him,</c><00:26:15.259><c> you'll</c><00:26:15.480><c> have</c><00:26:15.640><c> to</c><00:26:15.759><c> do</c><00:26:15.900><c> it</c><00:26:16.079><c> again.</c>

00:26:17.460 --> 00:26:19.259
Now<00:26:17.640><c> that's</c><00:26:17.819><c> an</c><00:26:17.980><c> interesting</c><00:26:18.299><c> proverb,</c>

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because<00:26:19.819><c> we</c><00:26:20.019><c> probably</c><00:26:20.279><c> all</c><00:26:20.480><c> know</c><00:26:20.640><c> people</c><00:26:20.940><c> that</c><00:26:21.099><c> are</c><00:26:21.160><c> in</c><00:26:21.240><c> this</c><00:26:21.500><c> category.</c>

00:26:21.819 --> 00:26:24.400
I<00:26:21.920><c> used</c><00:26:22.039><c> to</c><00:26:22.039><c> have</c><00:26:22.180><c> a</c><00:26:22.319><c> boss</c><00:26:22.460><c> like</c><00:26:22.759><c> this.</c>

00:26:25.180 --> 00:26:28.000
I<00:26:25.380><c> did</c><00:26:25.640><c> some</c><00:26:25.900><c> years</c><00:26:26.039><c> in</c><00:26:26.259><c> management</c><00:26:26.640><c> and</c><00:26:26.880><c> I</c><00:26:27.059><c> actually</c><00:26:27.319><c> got</c><00:26:27.559><c> sick</c><00:26:27.779><c> of</c><00:26:27.880><c> it</c>

00:26:28.000 --> 00:26:29.759
and<00:26:28.079><c> I</c><00:26:28.200><c> went</c><00:26:28.279><c> back</c><00:26:28.500><c> to</c><00:26:28.599><c> being</c><00:26:28.740><c> just</c><00:26:29.019><c> a</c><00:26:29.059><c> normal</c><00:26:29.380><c> plumber,</c><00:26:29.759><c> which</c>

00:26:29.759 --> 00:26:31.380
is<00:26:30.119><c> much</c><00:26:30.319><c> more</c><00:26:30.539><c> fun.</c>

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But<00:26:32.200><c> when</c><00:26:32.400><c> I</c><00:26:32.539><c> was</c><00:26:32.640><c> in</c><00:26:32.859><c> management,</c><00:26:33.279><c> my</c><00:26:33.519><c> boss,</c><00:26:33.839><c> the</c><00:26:33.940><c> director</c>

00:26:34.259 --> 00:26:34.920
of<00:26:34.400><c> our</c><00:26:34.579><c> division,</c>

00:26:35.299 --> 00:26:36.759
we<00:26:35.380><c> used</c><00:26:35.500><c> to</c><00:26:35.539><c> have</c><00:26:35.619><c> these</c><00:26:35.839><c> meetings</c><00:26:36.160><c> on</c><00:26:36.519><c> site,</c>

00:26:36.900 --> 00:26:39.599
so<00:26:37.099><c> all</c><00:26:37.259><c> the</c><00:26:37.339><c> men</c><00:26:37.420><c> there'd</c><00:26:37.579><c> be</c><00:26:37.740><c> some</c><00:26:38.000><c> dispute</c><00:26:38.380><c> over</c><00:26:38.700><c> something.</c>

00:26:40.240 --> 00:26:42.380
Oftentimes<00:26:40.579><c> it</c><00:26:40.759><c> was</c><00:26:41.220><c> stupidity,</c><00:26:41.819><c> it</c><00:26:41.859><c> was</c><00:26:42.039><c> trivial,</c>

00:26:42.819 --> 00:26:45.019
but<00:26:43.079><c> all</c><00:26:43.240><c> the</c><00:26:43.299><c> men</c><00:26:43.400><c> would</c><00:26:43.539><c> sit</c><00:26:43.619><c> in</c><00:26:43.799><c> the</c><00:26:43.920><c> sheds.</c>

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And<00:26:46.119><c> whenever</c><00:26:46.480><c> my</c><00:26:46.759><c> boss</c><00:26:47.000><c> said,</c>

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I'm<00:26:47.400><c> going</c><00:26:47.720><c> to</c><00:26:48.019><c> site</c><00:26:48.140><c> to</c><00:26:48.380><c> address</c><00:26:48.640><c> the</c><00:26:48.799><c> men,</c><00:26:48.980><c> I</c><00:26:48.980><c> used</c><00:26:49.140><c> to</c><00:26:49.240><c> go.</c>

00:26:52.259 --> 00:26:54.539
Haven't<00:26:52.579><c> you</c><00:26:52.680><c> got</c><00:26:52.819><c> something</c><00:26:53.019><c> else</c><00:26:53.240><c> you</c><00:26:53.339><c> can</c><00:26:53.539><c> do?</c>

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Sure<00:26:55.960><c> enough,</c><00:26:56.299><c> he'd</c><00:26:56.440><c> go</c><00:26:56.539><c> out</c><00:26:56.940><c> and,</c><00:26:57.559><c> just</c><00:26:57.740><c> his</c><00:26:57.980><c> body</c><00:26:58.259><c> language,</c>

00:26:59.119 --> 00:27:02.200
get<00:26:59.359><c> in</c><00:26:59.539><c> the</c><00:26:59.619><c> car,</c><00:27:00.220><c> I'd</c><00:27:00.579><c> still</c><00:27:00.779><c> let</c><00:27:00.839><c> these</c><00:27:01.160><c> blokes</c><00:27:01.400><c> out.</c>

00:27:02.740 --> 00:27:06.279
I'm<00:27:03.079><c> out</c><00:27:03.140><c> in</c><00:27:03.240><c> a</c><00:27:03.480><c> gut</c><00:27:03.619><c> full</c><00:27:03.839><c> of</c><00:27:04.000><c> this,</c><00:27:04.839><c> drive</c><00:27:05.039><c> out</c><00:27:05.279><c> to</c><00:27:05.420><c> the</c><00:27:05.579><c> site,</c>

00:27:06.700 --> 00:27:09.599
get<00:27:06.859><c> out</c><00:27:07.079><c> of</c><00:27:07.099><c> the</c><00:27:07.259><c> car,</c><00:27:07.920><c> slam</c><00:27:08.200><c> the</c><00:27:08.400><c> door,</c><00:27:08.660><c> right!</c>

00:27:10.019 --> 00:27:13.700
We'll<00:27:10.279><c> sort</c><00:27:10.359><c> this</c><00:27:10.799><c> stupid</c><00:27:11.160><c> thing</c><00:27:11.480><c> out.</c><00:27:12.220><c> What's</c><00:27:12.579><c> going</c><00:27:12.720><c> on?</c>

00:27:14.579 --> 00:27:17.059
What<00:27:15.099><c> do</c><00:27:15.220><c> you</c><00:27:15.220><c> reckon</c><00:27:15.400><c> the</c><00:27:15.599><c> response</c><00:27:15.859><c> to</c><00:27:16.039><c> it</c><00:27:16.240><c> was?</c>

00:27:18.380 --> 00:27:20.279
I'll<00:27:18.579><c> tell</c><00:27:18.700><c> you</c><00:27:18.759><c> what</c><00:27:18.880><c> the</c><00:27:19.140><c> response</c><00:27:19.359><c> was.</c>

00:27:20.400 --> 00:27:24.180
Another<00:27:20.819><c> 48</c><00:27:21.339><c> hours</c><00:27:21.740><c> sitting</c><00:27:22.019><c> in</c><00:27:22.200><c> the</c><00:27:22.359><c> sheds.</c>

00:27:28.220 --> 00:27:30.039
Sometimes<00:27:28.460><c> I</c><00:27:28.599><c> used</c><00:27:28.819><c> to</c><00:27:29.000><c> say,</c>

00:27:30.500 --> 00:27:33.160
George,<00:27:31.279><c> can</c><00:27:31.440><c> you</c><00:27:31.500><c> go</c><00:27:31.720><c> back</c><00:27:31.900><c> to</c><00:27:32.019><c> the</c><00:27:32.180><c> office?</c>

00:27:34.259 --> 00:27:35.519
Find<00:27:34.420><c> some</c><00:27:34.640><c> paperwork?</c>

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Invariably,<00:27:39.140><c> he'd</c><00:27:39.420><c> last</c><00:27:39.579><c> about</c><00:27:39.900><c> five</c><00:27:40.279><c> minutes</c><00:27:40.960><c> in</c><00:27:42.019><c> the</c><00:27:42.259><c> confrontation</c>

00:27:42.819 --> 00:27:47.279
and<00:27:43.259><c> then</c><00:27:44.000><c> he'd</c><00:27:44.240><c> say,</c><00:27:45.019><c> oh,</c><00:27:45.240><c> they're</c><00:27:45.359><c> just</c><00:27:45.660><c> a</c><00:27:45.859><c> pack</c><00:27:45.980><c> of</c><00:27:46.140><c> idiots.</c>

00:27:47.980 --> 00:27:51.660
Storm<00:27:48.259><c> off,</c><00:27:48.680><c> jump</c><00:27:48.940><c> in</c><00:27:49.099><c> the</c><00:27:49.220><c> car</c><00:27:49.420><c> and</c><00:27:49.779><c> fly</c><00:27:50.039><c> back</c><00:27:50.259><c> to</c><00:27:50.339><c> the</c><00:27:50.460><c> office</c><00:27:50.680><c> again.</c>

00:27:55.119 --> 00:27:58.500
And<00:27:55.319><c> I</c><00:27:55.460><c> was</c><00:27:55.619><c> left</c><00:27:55.839><c> to</c><00:27:56.039><c> deal</c><00:27:56.539><c> with</c><00:27:57.000><c> the</c><00:27:57.200><c> hornet's</c><00:27:57.539><c> nest.</c>

00:28:00.059 --> 00:28:01.799
Trying<00:28:00.380><c> to</c><00:28:00.539><c> work</c><00:28:00.740><c> out</c><00:28:00.859><c> how</c><00:28:00.980><c> I</c><00:28:01.059><c> could</c><00:28:01.220><c> fix</c><00:28:01.460><c> it</c><00:28:01.660><c> up.</c>

00:28:01.900 --> 00:28:03.000
Most<00:28:02.099><c> times</c><00:28:02.299><c> I</c><00:28:02.420><c> couldn't.</c>

00:28:03.240 --> 00:28:04.660
I<00:28:03.319><c> was</c><00:28:03.420><c> so</c><00:28:03.519><c> out</c><00:28:03.680><c> of</c><00:28:03.740><c> control</c><00:28:04.079><c> by</c><00:28:04.279><c> this</c><00:28:04.500><c> stage,</c>

00:28:04.700 --> 00:28:06.539
it<00:28:04.740><c> wouldn't</c><00:28:04.859><c> matter</c><00:28:05.019><c> what</c><00:28:05.180><c> you</c><00:28:05.359><c> said</c><00:28:05.539><c> to</c><00:28:05.680><c> them.</c>

00:28:07.140 --> 00:28:09.079
You<00:28:07.500><c> couldn't</c><00:28:07.759><c> resolve</c><00:28:08.039><c> it.</c>

00:28:09.420 --> 00:28:13.559
He<00:28:09.859><c> was</c><00:28:10.079><c> the</c><00:28:10.180><c> sort</c><00:28:10.339><c> of</c><00:28:10.539><c> person</c><00:28:11.059><c> that</c><00:28:12.779><c> needed</c><00:28:13.059><c> rescuing,</c>

00:28:13.599 --> 00:28:14.680
but<00:28:13.700><c> he</c><00:28:13.819><c> never</c><00:28:14.039><c> saw</c><00:28:14.259><c> that.</c>

00:28:15.019 --> 00:28:18.019
You<00:28:15.119><c> see,</c><00:28:15.220><c> these</c><00:28:15.339><c> people</c><00:28:15.619><c> don't</c><00:28:16.000><c> see</c><00:28:16.259><c> that</c><00:28:16.380><c> they</c><00:28:16.539><c> need</c><00:28:16.720><c> rescuing.</c>

00:28:18.920 --> 00:28:20.240
They<00:28:19.160><c> just</c><00:28:19.380><c> think</c><00:28:19.519><c> they're</c><00:28:19.700><c> always</c><00:28:19.980><c> right.</c>

00:28:20.380 --> 00:28:22.660
And<00:28:20.519><c> it's</c><00:28:20.799><c> never</c><00:28:21.240><c> their</c><00:28:21.700><c> problem.</c>

00:28:22.700 --> 00:28:24.400
You<00:28:22.799><c> ask</c><00:28:23.039><c> them,</c><00:28:23.119><c> it</c><00:28:23.240><c> is</c><00:28:23.640><c> never</c><00:28:23.859><c> their</c><00:28:24.119><c> problem.</c>

00:28:24.680 --> 00:28:27.319
It's<00:28:24.880><c> never</c><00:28:25.079><c> their</c><00:28:25.279><c> issue,</c><00:28:25.559><c> it's</c><00:28:25.799><c> always</c><00:28:26.220><c> somebody</c><00:28:26.640><c> else's</c><00:28:27.119><c> problem.</c>

00:28:27.519 --> 00:28:31.339
They<00:28:27.720><c> always</c><00:28:28.079><c> deflect</c><00:28:28.579><c> and</c><00:28:29.400><c> they</c><00:28:29.640><c> direct</c><00:28:29.799><c> it</c><00:28:29.920><c> to</c><00:28:30.079><c> somebody</c><00:28:30.359><c> else.</c>

00:28:32.359 --> 00:28:34.359
So<00:28:32.500><c> I</c><00:28:32.539><c> said,</c><00:28:32.740><c> look,</c><00:28:32.859><c> don't</c><00:28:33.019><c> try</c><00:28:33.279><c> and</c><00:28:33.440><c> rescue</c><00:28:33.599><c> them.</c>

00:28:34.579 --> 00:28:35.680
They<00:28:34.759><c> have</c><00:28:34.900><c> to</c><00:28:35.059><c> learn</c><00:28:35.180><c> the</c><00:28:35.359><c> lesson.</c>

00:28:35.680 --> 00:28:39.660
You<00:28:36.539><c> rescue</c><00:28:36.920><c> them,</c><00:28:38.200><c> you'll</c><00:28:38.400><c> spend</c><00:28:38.619><c> your</c><00:28:38.859><c> life</c>

00:28:39.660 --> 00:28:42.200
running<00:28:40.259><c> around</c><00:28:40.519><c> with</c><00:28:40.660><c> a</c><00:28:40.839><c> lifeboat</c><00:28:41.220><c> and</c><00:28:41.359><c> a</c><00:28:41.460><c> rope</c>

00:28:42.460 --> 00:28:46.400
trying<00:28:42.940><c> to</c><00:28:43.059><c> pull</c><00:28:43.220><c> them</c><00:28:43.319><c> in</c><00:28:43.500><c> and</c><00:28:43.680><c> they</c><00:28:43.839><c> will</c><00:28:44.099><c> never</c><00:28:44.380><c> learn</c><00:28:45.200><c> the</c><00:28:45.559><c> lesson.</c>

00:28:47.039 --> 00:28:51.380
If<00:28:47.180><c> that's</c><00:28:47.480><c> your</c><00:28:47.740><c> behaviour,</c><00:28:49.920><c> deal</c><00:28:50.160><c> with</c><00:28:50.339><c> them.</c>

00:28:51.500 --> 00:28:55.180
They<00:28:51.759><c> will</c><00:28:51.980><c> suffer</c><00:28:52.220><c> punishment,</c><00:28:53.480><c> but</c><00:28:53.680><c> in</c><00:28:53.859><c> various</c><00:28:54.160><c> forms.</c>

00:28:55.680 --> 00:28:57.619
Sometimes<00:28:56.160><c> it's</c><00:28:56.319><c> simply</c><00:28:56.619><c> that</c><00:28:56.799><c> people</c><00:28:57.039><c> don't</c><00:28:57.220><c> want</c><00:28:57.339><c> to</c><00:28:57.440><c> talk</c>

00:28:57.619 --> 00:28:58.740
to<00:28:57.720><c> them.</c>

00:28:59.559 --> 00:29:02.400
This<00:28:59.759><c> guy</c><00:28:59.900><c> used</c><00:29:00.140><c> to</c><00:29:00.140><c> just</c><00:29:00.359><c> get</c><00:29:00.500><c> a</c><00:29:00.799><c> wide</c><00:29:01.039><c> berth</c><00:29:01.200><c> from</c><00:29:01.420><c> everybody.</c>

00:29:02.599 --> 00:29:04.660
He<00:29:02.819><c> could</c><00:29:02.880><c> never</c><00:29:03.059><c> understand</c><00:29:03.420><c> why.</c>

00:29:05.099 --> 00:29:07.660
He<00:29:05.660><c> ended</c><00:29:05.839><c> up</c><00:29:06.000><c> with</c><00:29:06.079><c> no</c><00:29:06.319><c> friends</c><00:29:06.640><c> there,</c>

00:29:08.039 --> 00:29:09.759
and<00:29:08.299><c> he</c><00:29:08.319><c> said</c><00:29:08.440><c> it</c><00:29:08.480><c> was</c><00:29:08.700><c> always</c><00:29:08.920><c> everybody</c><00:29:09.220><c> else's</c><00:29:09.599><c> fault.</c>

00:29:10.119 --> 00:29:11.279
Nobody<00:29:10.400><c> wanted</c><00:29:10.700><c> to</c><00:29:10.880><c> talk</c><00:29:11.059><c> to</c><00:29:11.140><c> him.</c>

00:29:11.279 --> 00:29:12.640
It<00:29:11.440><c> was</c><00:29:11.640><c> a</c><00:29:11.759><c> punishment.</c>

00:29:13.000 --> 00:29:16.160
In<00:29:13.160><c> the</c><00:29:13.359><c> end,</c><00:29:13.599><c> down</c><00:29:13.880><c> the</c><00:29:14.079><c> track,</c><00:29:15.160><c> his</c><00:29:15.259><c> marriage</c><00:29:15.500><c> busted</c><00:29:15.799><c> up.</c>

00:29:16.380 --> 00:29:18.400
Surprise,<00:29:17.240><c> surprise.</c>

00:29:19.920 --> 00:29:21.640
That<00:29:20.380><c> was</c><00:29:20.579><c> a</c><00:29:20.720><c> punishment.</c>

00:29:21.839 --> 00:29:25.980
You<00:29:21.980><c> see,</c><00:29:22.079><c> there</c><00:29:22.259><c> is</c><00:29:22.440><c> always</c><00:29:22.759><c> a</c><00:29:23.059><c> consequence</c><00:29:23.839><c> of</c><00:29:24.579><c> our</c><00:29:24.839><c> behaviours.</c>

00:29:26.440 --> 00:29:28.859
It<00:29:26.660><c> might</c><00:29:26.900><c> not</c><00:29:27.119><c> appear</c><00:29:27.700><c> initially.</c>

00:29:29.359 --> 00:29:33.119
It<00:29:29.539><c> will</c><00:29:29.740><c> always</c><00:29:29.980><c> be</c><00:29:30.299><c> manifest</c><00:29:30.799><c> in</c><00:29:31.319><c> one</c><00:29:31.599><c> way</c><00:29:32.140><c> or</c><00:29:32.619><c> another.</c>

00:29:33.119 --> 00:29:36.079
In<00:29:34.200><c> a</c><00:29:34.279><c> certain</c><00:29:34.579><c> form.</c>

00:29:39.859 --> 00:29:44.759
This<00:29:39.880><c> is</c><00:29:40.099><c> perhaps</c><00:29:40.339><c> one</c><00:29:40.599><c> of</c><00:29:40.660><c> the</c><00:29:40.740><c> best</c><00:29:41.000><c>-known</c><00:29:41.259><c> proverbs,</c><00:29:43.119><c> 15</c><00:29:43.700><c> verse</c><00:29:43.980><c> 1.</c>

00:29:44.819 --> 00:29:47.720
A<00:29:44.920><c> soft</c><00:29:45.279><c> answer</c><00:29:45.559><c> turns</c><00:29:45.940><c> away</c><00:29:46.240><c> wrath,</c><00:29:46.680><c> but</c><00:29:46.900><c> harsh</c><00:29:47.180><c> words</c><00:29:47.480><c> stir</c>

00:29:47.720 --> 00:29:48.680
up<00:29:47.960><c> anger.</c>

00:29:48.700 --> 00:29:51.880
Now,<00:29:49.740><c> on</c><00:29:49.900><c> a</c><00:29:50.019><c> Tuesday</c><00:29:50.240><c> afternoon,</c>

00:29:53.359 --> 00:29:56.000
Condu<00:29:53.519><c> did</c><00:29:53.640><c> a</c><00:29:53.740><c> talk</c><00:29:53.900><c> on</c><00:29:54.480><c> David</c><00:29:54.900><c> and</c><00:29:55.140><c> Abigail</c>

00:29:56.839 --> 00:29:59.539
and<00:29:57.400><c> highlighted</c><00:29:57.779><c> very</c><00:29:58.119><c> well</c><00:29:58.259><c> for</c><00:29:58.460><c> us</c>

00:29:59.539 --> 00:30:01.839
how<00:30:00.099><c> the</c><00:30:00.200><c> wonderful</c><00:30:00.619><c> character</c><00:30:01.039><c> of</c><00:30:01.339><c> Abigail</c>

00:30:01.839 --> 00:30:05.079
and<00:30:02.220><c> the</c><00:30:02.440><c> fact</c><00:30:02.619><c> that</c><00:30:02.839><c> she</c><00:30:02.900><c> was</c><00:30:03.119><c> a</c><00:30:03.200><c> woman</c><00:30:03.380><c> of</c><00:30:03.720><c> great</c><00:30:04.099><c> understanding</c>

00:30:05.079 --> 00:30:09.380
appeased<00:30:05.960><c> that</c><00:30:06.380><c> momentary</c><00:30:07.160><c> explosion</c><00:30:07.720><c> in</c><00:30:07.880><c> the</c><00:30:08.039><c> brain</c><00:30:08.200><c> of</c><00:30:08.500><c> David,</c>

00:30:10.740 --> 00:30:14.599
where<00:30:11.079><c> he</c><00:30:11.279><c> was</c><00:30:11.480><c> just</c><00:30:11.700><c> going</c><00:30:11.920><c> to</c><00:30:12.119><c> ride</c><00:30:12.319><c> off</c><00:30:12.559><c> with</c><00:30:12.740><c> those</c><00:30:12.980><c> 400</c><00:30:13.359><c> men</c>

00:30:14.599 --> 00:30:17.259
and<00:30:15.240><c> sort</c><00:30:15.460><c> Navel</c><00:30:15.839><c> the</c><00:30:16.059><c> fool</c><00:30:16.240><c> out.</c>

00:30:18.680 --> 00:30:24.359
The<00:30:18.839><c> beauty</c><00:30:19.140><c> of</c><00:30:19.400><c> Abigail</c><00:30:19.839><c> was</c><00:30:21.619><c> that</c><00:30:22.140><c> not</c><00:30:22.380><c> only</c><00:30:23.079><c> could</c><00:30:23.940><c> she</c><00:30:24.200><c> see</c>

00:30:24.359 --> 00:30:25.920
the<00:30:24.599><c> problem,</c>

00:30:27.180 --> 00:30:30.779
but<00:30:27.420><c> she</c><00:30:27.519><c> could</c><00:30:27.880><c> see</c><00:30:29.319><c> the</c><00:30:29.579><c> distance.</c>

00:30:31.220 --> 00:30:34.099
That<00:30:31.700><c> was</c><00:30:31.940><c> the</c><00:30:32.019><c> beauty</c><00:30:32.220><c> of</c><00:30:32.440><c> Abigail's</c><00:30:32.940><c> counsel,</c><00:30:33.180><c> wasn't</c><00:30:33.400><c> it?</c>

00:30:34.339 --> 00:30:36.339
And<00:30:34.619><c> she</c><00:30:34.779><c> used</c><00:30:35.079><c> that</c><00:30:35.279><c> in</c><00:30:35.339><c> a</c><00:30:35.380><c> very</c><00:30:35.740><c> effective</c><00:30:36.019><c> way.</c>

00:30:36.460 --> 00:30:39.799
She<00:30:36.480><c> said,</c><00:30:36.700><c> David,</c><00:30:37.319><c> you're</c><00:30:37.619><c> a</c><00:30:37.759><c> much</c><00:30:38.019><c> better</c><00:30:38.240><c> man</c><00:30:38.460><c> than</c><00:30:38.680><c> this.</c>

00:30:40.740 --> 00:30:43.180
God<00:30:40.920><c> is</c><00:30:41.099><c> going</c><00:30:41.220><c> to</c><00:30:41.380><c> give</c><00:30:41.559><c> you</c><00:30:42.000><c> the</c><00:30:42.279><c> kingdom.</c>

00:30:45.359 --> 00:30:47.460
Don't<00:30:45.839><c> throw</c><00:30:46.279><c> it</c><00:30:46.420><c> all</c><00:30:46.619><c> away.</c>

00:30:47.920 --> 00:30:50.619
Don't<00:30:48.319><c> belittle</c><00:30:48.720><c> yourself</c><00:30:49.200><c> on</c><00:30:49.380><c> the</c><00:30:49.539><c> side</c><00:30:49.660><c> of</c><00:30:49.799><c> these</c><00:30:50.019><c> people</c>

00:30:50.619 --> 00:30:52.380
by<00:30:51.000><c> rash</c><00:30:51.359><c> actions.</c>

00:30:54.019 --> 00:30:58.359
Now,<00:30:54.140><c> that</c><00:30:54.339><c> proverb,</c><00:30:56.039><c> I</c><00:30:56.680><c> have</c><00:30:56.880><c> found,</c><00:30:57.380><c> works.</c>

00:30:59.799 --> 00:31:02.119
It<00:31:00.160><c> takes</c><00:31:00.519><c> effort,</c><00:31:01.619><c> though.</c>

00:31:02.299 --> 00:31:05.000
You<00:31:02.339><c> know,</c><00:31:02.480><c> with</c><00:31:02.660><c> all</c><00:31:02.859><c> of</c><00:31:03.000><c> God's</c><00:31:03.819><c> word,</c><00:31:04.299><c> it</c><00:31:04.480><c> takes</c><00:31:04.799><c> effort,</c>

00:31:05.019 --> 00:31:06.039
doesn't<00:31:05.220><c> it?</c>

00:31:06.079 --> 00:31:10.000
I<00:31:06.180><c> want</c><00:31:06.319><c> to</c><00:31:06.400><c> tell</c><00:31:06.559><c> you</c><00:31:06.779><c> a</c><00:31:06.839><c> story</c><00:31:07.480><c> about</c><00:31:08.160><c> a</c><00:31:08.359><c> lady</c><00:31:08.519><c> I</c><00:31:08.599><c> had</c><00:31:08.779><c> to</c><00:31:08.920><c> deal</c><00:31:09.079><c> with.</c>

00:31:11.619 --> 00:31:14.339
If<00:31:11.740><c> I</c><00:31:11.859><c> told</c><00:31:12.079><c> you</c><00:31:12.240><c> what</c><00:31:12.380><c> her</c><00:31:12.500><c> name</c><00:31:12.660><c> was,</c><00:31:12.920><c> you</c><00:31:12.920><c> wouldn't</c><00:31:13.240><c> believe</c><00:31:13.660><c> me.</c>

00:31:14.519 --> 00:31:16.720
You'd<00:31:14.799><c> think</c><00:31:14.920><c> I</c><00:31:15.059><c> was</c><00:31:15.180><c> making</c><00:31:15.440><c> it</c><00:31:15.619><c> up,</c><00:31:15.880><c> so</c><00:31:16.099><c> I'll</c><00:31:16.200><c> just</c><00:31:16.420><c> call</c><00:31:16.599><c> her</c>

00:31:16.720 --> 00:31:17.740
Mrs.<00:31:17.740><c> M.</c>

00:31:18.160 --> 00:31:19.359
All<00:31:18.339><c> right?</c>

00:31:20.440 --> 00:31:23.859
I<00:31:20.799><c> rang</c><00:31:20.960><c> her</c><00:31:21.099><c> up</c><00:31:21.259><c> because</c><00:31:21.440><c> she</c><00:31:21.559><c> had</c><00:31:21.740><c> problems</c><00:31:22.099><c> with</c><00:31:22.359><c> her</c><00:31:23.059><c> toilets,</c>

00:31:24.140 --> 00:31:26.400
and<00:31:24.420><c> she</c><00:31:24.539><c> had</c><00:31:24.720><c> a</c><00:31:24.799><c> number</c><00:31:25.000><c> of</c><00:31:25.200><c> other</c><00:31:25.380><c> plumbers</c><00:31:25.579><c> there</c><00:31:25.799><c> to</c><00:31:25.980><c> fix</c><00:31:26.200><c> them,</c>

00:31:26.400 --> 00:31:30.720
and<00:31:26.500><c> they'd</c><00:31:28.319><c> ripped</c><00:31:28.420><c> her</c><00:31:28.680><c> off,</c><00:31:29.619><c> and</c><00:31:29.700><c> so</c><00:31:29.839><c> she</c><00:31:30.000><c> was</c><00:31:30.200><c> in</c><00:31:30.279><c> a</c><00:31:30.420><c> pretty</c>

00:31:30.720 --> 00:31:32.180
mean<00:31:31.039><c> sort</c><00:31:31.319><c> of</c><00:31:31.460><c> mood.</c>

00:31:33.200 --> 00:31:35.380
So<00:31:33.380><c> I</c><00:31:33.480><c> phoned</c><00:31:33.680><c> her</c><00:31:33.859><c> up</c><00:31:33.980><c> and</c><00:31:34.099><c> I</c><00:31:34.259><c> said,</c><00:31:34.819><c> Mrs.</c><00:31:35.119><c> M.,</c>

00:31:35.380 --> 00:31:37.519
I'm<00:31:35.880><c> going</c><00:31:36.059><c> to</c><00:31:36.119><c> come</c><00:31:36.299><c> and</c><00:31:36.500><c> try</c><00:31:36.640><c> and</c><00:31:36.779><c> fix</c><00:31:36.880><c> the</c><00:31:37.099><c> problem</c><00:31:37.279><c> for</c><00:31:37.480><c> you.</c>

00:31:37.539 --> 00:31:38.799
She<00:31:37.660><c> said,</c><00:31:37.859><c> don't</c><00:31:38.000><c> bother.</c>

00:31:40.259 --> 00:31:41.339
Nobody<00:31:40.460><c> else</c><00:31:40.640><c> has</c><00:31:40.759><c> been</c><00:31:40.859><c> able</c><00:31:40.980><c> to</c><00:31:41.140><c> fix</c><00:31:41.240><c> it.</c>

00:31:41.339 --> 00:31:42.859
You're<00:31:41.539><c> all</c><00:31:41.660><c> rip</c><00:31:41.859><c>-off</c><00:31:41.980><c> merchants.</c>

00:31:43.619 --> 00:31:45.059
I<00:31:43.799><c> said,</c><00:31:43.920><c> look,</c><00:31:44.059><c> I'm</c><00:31:44.200><c> not.</c>

00:31:45.460 --> 00:31:47.119
She<00:31:45.599><c> said,</c><00:31:45.700><c> what</c><00:31:45.900><c> makes</c><00:31:46.140><c> you</c><00:31:46.319><c> think</c><00:31:46.460><c> you</c><00:31:46.579><c> can</c><00:31:46.759><c> fix</c><00:31:46.940><c> it</c><00:31:47.019><c> when</c>

00:31:47.119 --> 00:31:48.319
nobody<00:31:47.359><c> else</c><00:31:47.579><c> can?</c>

00:31:48.700 --> 00:31:50.960
I<00:31:48.920><c> said,</c><00:31:49.119><c> because</c><00:31:49.279><c> I</c><00:31:49.960><c> deal</c><00:31:50.220><c> with</c><00:31:50.359><c> them</c><00:31:50.500><c> all</c><00:31:50.720><c> the</c><00:31:50.880><c> time.</c>

00:31:51.000 --> 00:31:52.660
I<00:31:51.099><c> said,</c><00:31:51.259><c> I</c><00:31:51.400><c> specialize</c><00:31:51.779><c> in</c><00:31:51.920><c> this.</c>

00:31:52.799 --> 00:31:53.819
I<00:31:52.940><c> said,</c><00:31:53.019><c> I'm</c><00:31:53.140><c> sure</c><00:31:53.339><c> I</c><00:31:53.420><c> can</c><00:31:53.559><c> fix</c><00:31:53.740><c> it.</c>

00:31:53.819 --> 00:31:55.140
Now,<00:31:53.960><c> that</c><00:31:54.160><c> sounds</c><00:31:54.380><c> pretty</c><00:31:54.640><c> sad,</c><00:31:54.859><c> doesn't</c><00:31:55.039><c> it?</c>

00:31:55.140 --> 00:31:57.240
The<00:31:55.380><c> bloke</c><00:31:55.480><c> who</c><00:31:55.660><c> specializes</c><00:31:56.099><c> in</c><00:31:56.339><c> toilets.</c>

00:32:01.000 --> 00:32:02.819
It's<00:32:01.460><c> pretty</c><00:32:01.819><c> low</c><00:32:02.019><c>-key.</c>

00:32:04.819 --> 00:32:07.519
But<00:32:05.059><c> it</c><00:32:05.099><c> makes</c><00:32:05.339><c> me</c><00:32:05.519><c> a</c><00:32:05.599><c> living,</c><00:32:06.099><c> all</c><00:32:06.319><c> right?</c>

00:32:07.900 --> 00:32:12.220
So<00:32:08.160><c> I</c><00:32:08.299><c> said,</c><00:32:08.640><c> look,</c><00:32:09.299><c> please</c><00:32:09.680><c> give</c><00:32:10.240><c> me</c><00:32:10.420><c> the</c><00:32:10.519><c> opportunity</c><00:32:11.000><c> of</c><00:32:11.279><c> trying.</c>

00:32:13.039 --> 00:32:14.980
Oh,<00:32:13.259><c> if</c><00:32:13.359><c> you</c><00:32:13.460><c> insist,</c><00:32:13.799><c> all</c><00:32:13.960><c> right.</c>

00:32:15.099 --> 00:32:16.539
So<00:32:15.559><c> I</c><00:32:15.900><c> arranged</c><00:32:16.119><c> an</c><00:32:16.319><c> appointment.</c>

00:32:16.619 --> 00:32:20.259
I<00:32:16.640><c> went</c><00:32:16.799><c> down</c><00:32:16.960><c> to</c><00:32:17.079><c> the</c><00:32:17.200><c> house,</c><00:32:18.599><c> knocked</c><00:32:18.779><c> on</c><00:32:18.940><c> the</c><00:32:19.079><c> door.</c>

00:32:20.660 --> 00:32:24.579
She<00:32:20.980><c> opened</c><00:32:21.160><c> the</c><00:32:21.299><c> door</c><00:32:22.000><c> and</c><00:32:23.500><c> she</c><00:32:23.720><c> stood</c><00:32:23.920><c> between,</c>

00:32:24.940 --> 00:32:27.519
there<00:32:25.019><c> was</c><00:32:25.200><c> a</c><00:32:25.380><c> screen</c><00:32:25.559><c> door</c><00:32:25.700><c> between</c><00:32:26.000><c> me</c><00:32:26.220><c> and</c><00:32:26.279><c> her.</c>

00:32:28.759 --> 00:32:31.359
The<00:32:28.859><c> look</c><00:32:29.000><c> on</c><00:32:29.160><c> her</c><00:32:29.299><c> face</c><00:32:29.500><c> would</c><00:32:29.660><c> have</c><00:32:29.799><c> scared</c><00:32:29.920><c> a</c><00:32:30.039><c> dog</c><00:32:30.200><c> off</c><00:32:30.400><c> a</c><00:32:30.500><c> chunk.</c>

00:32:35.180 --> 00:32:37.319
And<00:32:35.480><c> I</c><00:32:35.599><c> thought,</c><00:32:35.779><c> oh,</c><00:32:35.920><c> this</c><00:32:36.079><c> is</c><00:32:36.240><c> going</c><00:32:36.319><c> to</c><00:32:36.380><c> be</c><00:32:36.559><c> interesting.</c>

00:32:38.460 --> 00:32:40.480
I<00:32:38.559><c> said,</c><00:32:38.700><c> hello,</c><00:32:38.940><c> Mrs.</c><00:32:39.200><c> M.,</c><00:32:39.259><c> how</c><00:32:39.460><c> are</c><00:32:39.579><c> you?</c>

00:32:41.539 --> 00:32:43.539
She<00:32:41.779><c> said,</c><00:32:41.900><c> what</c><00:32:42.099><c> business</c><00:32:42.420><c> is</c><00:32:42.579><c> it</c><00:32:42.660><c> of</c><00:32:42.819><c> yours?</c>

00:32:45.259 --> 00:32:47.299
I<00:32:45.619><c> thought,</c><00:32:45.779><c> oh,</c><00:32:45.900><c> that</c><00:32:46.019><c> didn't</c><00:32:46.240><c> work.</c>

00:32:50.220 --> 00:32:51.319
I<00:32:50.579><c> said,</c><00:32:50.799><c> good</c><00:32:50.940><c> morning.</c>

00:32:51.660 --> 00:32:53.420
What's<00:32:52.019><c> good</c><00:32:52.119><c> about</c><00:32:52.400><c> it?</c>

00:32:55.519 --> 00:32:58.500
I<00:32:55.880><c> said,</c><00:32:56.220><c> well,</c><00:32:56.759><c> could</c><00:32:56.900><c> you</c><00:32:57.099><c> please</c><00:32:57.279><c> let</c><00:32:57.420><c> me</c><00:32:57.599><c> in?</c>

00:32:58.859 --> 00:33:02.039
Oh,<00:32:59.119><c> well,</c><00:32:59.240><c> if</c><00:32:59.319><c> you</c><00:32:59.400><c> have</c><00:32:59.539><c> to,</c><00:32:59.759><c> but</c><00:33:00.519><c> it's</c><00:33:00.779><c> not</c><00:33:00.900><c> going</c><00:33:01.019><c> to</c><00:33:01.079><c> fix</c><00:33:01.200><c> anything.</c>

00:33:02.660 --> 00:33:04.460
I<00:33:02.799><c> said,</c><00:33:02.940><c> please</c><00:33:03.180><c> give</c><00:33:03.299><c> me</c><00:33:03.440><c> the</c><00:33:03.559><c> opportunity.</c>

00:33:04.539 --> 00:33:05.859
So<00:33:04.720><c> we</c><00:33:04.839><c> went</c><00:33:04.980><c> in.</c>

00:33:06.319 --> 00:33:08.160
She<00:33:06.480><c> said,</c><00:33:06.599><c> you</c><00:33:06.680><c> might</c><00:33:06.920><c> have</c><00:33:07.079><c> worked</c><00:33:07.319><c> out</c><00:33:07.480><c> I'm</c><00:33:07.640><c> very</c><00:33:07.960><c> angry</c>

00:33:08.160 --> 00:33:09.480
about<00:33:08.400><c> this.</c>

00:33:10.519 --> 00:33:14.200
I<00:33:10.960><c> said,</c><00:33:11.519><c> a</c><00:33:11.759><c> casual</c><00:33:12.140><c> observer</c><00:33:12.500><c> would</c><00:33:12.700><c> have</c><00:33:12.799><c> noted</c><00:33:12.960><c> that.</c>

00:33:17.359 --> 00:33:20.400
On<00:33:17.559><c> the</c><00:33:17.900><c> table</c><00:33:18.200><c> as</c><00:33:18.400><c> I</c><00:33:18.539><c> walked</c><00:33:18.740><c> past,</c><00:33:19.099><c> you</c><00:33:19.140><c> had</c><00:33:19.279><c> all</c><00:33:19.500><c> these</c><00:33:19.980><c> things</c><00:33:20.200><c> cut</c>

00:33:20.400 --> 00:33:21.680
out<00:33:20.559><c> of</c><00:33:20.720><c> newspapers.</c>

00:33:23.779 --> 00:33:25.740
I<00:33:24.059><c> said,</c><00:33:24.240><c> what</c><00:33:24.339><c> are</c><00:33:24.460><c> you</c><00:33:24.559><c> doing</c><00:33:24.740><c> with</c><00:33:24.960><c> those?</c>

00:33:26.559 --> 00:33:28.740
She<00:33:26.759><c> said,</c><00:33:26.880><c> I'm</c><00:33:27.039><c> writing</c><00:33:27.339><c> letters</c><00:33:27.599><c> of</c><00:33:27.819><c> complaint.</c>

00:33:31.819 --> 00:33:33.559
Things<00:33:32.079><c> weren't</c><00:33:32.279><c> getting</c><00:33:32.480><c> any</c><00:33:32.740><c> better.</c>

00:33:35.400 --> 00:33:37.480
She<00:33:35.839><c> said,</c><00:33:36.019><c> there's</c><00:33:36.240><c> so</c><00:33:36.319><c> many</c><00:33:36.420><c> things</c><00:33:36.559><c> in</c><00:33:36.660><c> the</c><00:33:36.720><c> newspaper</c><00:33:37.039><c> that</c><00:33:37.259><c> are</c>

00:33:37.480 --> 00:33:39.700
simply<00:33:37.680><c> untrue</c><00:33:38.059><c> and</c><00:33:38.319><c> lies</c><00:33:38.559><c> and</c><00:33:38.759><c> rubbish.</c>

00:33:40.200 --> 00:33:42.380
And<00:33:40.500><c> she</c><00:33:40.599><c> had</c><00:33:40.660><c> all</c><00:33:40.859><c> these</c><00:33:41.039><c> letters</c><00:33:41.279><c> addressed.</c>

00:33:43.059 --> 00:33:45.299
And<00:33:43.200><c> I</c><00:33:43.299><c> thought,</c><00:33:43.839><c> oh,</c><00:33:44.039><c> I'm</c><00:33:44.160><c> just</c><00:33:44.240><c> going</c><00:33:44.400><c> to</c><00:33:44.400><c> imagine,</c><00:33:45.180><c> not</c>

00:33:45.299 --> 00:33:47.099
another<00:33:45.660><c> letter</c><00:33:45.920><c> from</c><00:33:46.140><c> her.</c>

00:33:47.519 --> 00:33:51.740
So<00:33:47.799><c> I</c><00:33:47.839><c> went</c><00:33:48.000><c> into</c><00:33:48.160><c> the</c><00:33:48.339><c> first</c><00:33:48.599><c> toilet</c><00:33:48.980><c> and</c><00:33:49.779><c> I</c><00:33:49.880><c> had</c><00:33:49.980><c> a</c><00:33:50.019><c> look</c><00:33:50.180><c> at</c><00:33:50.299><c> it.</c>

00:33:53.119 --> 00:33:55.839
I<00:33:53.420><c> started</c><00:33:53.660><c> working</c><00:33:53.960><c> on</c><00:33:54.079><c> it</c><00:33:54.160><c> and</c><00:33:54.160><c> I</c><00:33:54.359><c> started</c><00:33:54.640><c> to</c><00:33:54.859><c> whistle.</c>

00:33:57.980 --> 00:33:59.359
Terrible<00:33:58.420><c> mistake.</c>

00:34:01.920 --> 00:34:04.579
She<00:34:02.359><c> said,</c><00:34:02.660><c> it's</c><00:34:02.759><c> nothing</c><00:34:03.059><c> to</c><00:34:03.319><c> whistle</c><00:34:03.579><c> about.</c>

00:34:04.839 --> 00:34:06.359
It's<00:34:05.059><c> not</c><00:34:05.259><c> even</c><00:34:05.539><c> funny.</c>

00:34:07.279 --> 00:34:08.679
You're<00:34:07.500><c> trying</c><00:34:07.660><c> to</c><00:34:07.740><c> make</c><00:34:07.839><c> a</c><00:34:08.000><c> joke</c><00:34:08.199><c> out</c><00:34:08.380><c> of</c><00:34:08.460><c> it.</c>

00:34:08.780 --> 00:34:10.119
I<00:34:09.019><c> said,</c><00:34:09.219><c> I'm</c><00:34:09.239><c> not.</c>

00:34:10.300 --> 00:34:12.539
I<00:34:10.519><c> said,</c><00:34:10.599><c> I</c><00:34:10.739><c> often</c><00:34:11.039><c> whistle</c><00:34:11.340><c> while</c><00:34:11.579><c> I</c><00:34:11.800><c> work.</c>

00:34:12.980 --> 00:34:15.019
I<00:34:13.159><c> said,</c><00:34:13.440><c> OK,</c><00:34:13.659><c> I'll</c><00:34:13.920><c> stop</c><00:34:14.099><c> the</c><00:34:14.320><c> whistling.</c>

00:34:15.900 --> 00:34:17.579
I<00:34:16.199><c> started</c><00:34:16.460><c> to</c><00:34:16.739><c> sing.</c>

00:34:24.260 --> 00:34:26.159
I<00:34:24.699><c> don't</c><00:34:24.880><c> know</c><00:34:24.980><c> why</c><00:34:25.099><c> you're</c><00:34:25.219><c> singing.</c>

00:34:26.739 --> 00:34:28.559
I'm<00:34:27.139><c> very</c><00:34:27.539><c> angry.</c>

00:34:29.719 --> 00:34:31.119
You<00:34:30.119><c> might</c><00:34:30.340><c> think</c><00:34:30.500><c> I'm</c><00:34:30.719><c> exaggerating.</c>

00:34:31.219 --> 00:34:32.280
This<00:34:31.280><c> is</c><00:34:31.460><c> true.</c>

00:34:32.699 --> 00:34:35.019
So<00:34:32.900><c> I</c><00:34:33.000><c> worked</c><00:34:33.280><c> on</c><00:34:33.480><c> it</c><00:34:33.659><c> and</c><00:34:33.719><c> I</c><00:34:33.880><c> got</c><00:34:34.000><c> it</c><00:34:34.199><c> working.</c>

00:34:35.639 --> 00:34:38.019
And<00:34:35.820><c> I</c><00:34:35.900><c> said,</c><00:34:37.000><c> do</c><00:34:37.099><c> you</c><00:34:37.239><c> have</c><00:34:37.360><c> any</c><00:34:37.559><c> other</c><00:34:37.739><c> toilets?</c>

00:34:38.179 --> 00:34:40.000
She<00:34:38.360><c> said,</c><00:34:38.519><c> there's</c><00:34:38.679><c> another</c><00:34:38.940><c> top</c><00:34:39.219><c> stage.</c>

00:34:41.960 --> 00:34:45.079
So<00:34:42.360><c> I</c><00:34:42.739><c> thought,</c><00:34:43.139><c> I've</c><00:34:44.019><c> got</c><00:34:44.159><c> to</c><00:34:44.219><c> try</c><00:34:44.440><c> and</c><00:34:44.579><c> sort</c><00:34:44.679><c> this</c><00:34:44.900><c> out.</c>

00:34:45.099 --> 00:34:47.940
So<00:34:45.239><c> I</c><00:34:45.239><c> went</c><00:34:45.360><c> out</c><00:34:45.539><c> the</c><00:34:45.679><c> truck</c><00:34:45.900><c> to</c><00:34:46.059><c> get</c><00:34:46.239><c> some</c><00:34:46.579><c> parts</c><00:34:46.760><c> out</c><00:34:46.900><c> of</c><00:34:46.960><c> my</c><00:34:47.159><c> truck.</c>

00:34:48.420 --> 00:34:52.079
And<00:34:48.619><c> I</c><00:34:48.699><c> kept</c><00:34:48.980><c> thinking</c><00:34:49.440><c> of</c><00:34:49.639><c> this</c><00:34:49.920><c> proverb,</c><00:34:51.219><c> a</c><00:34:51.440><c> soft</c><00:34:51.679><c> answer.</c>

00:34:52.199 --> 00:34:53.519
I<00:34:52.340><c> thought,</c><00:34:52.539><c> it's</c><00:34:52.619><c> just</c><00:34:52.860><c> not</c><00:34:53.159><c> working.</c>

00:34:53.519 --> 00:34:56.980
And<00:34:54.320><c> now</c><00:34:54.519><c> I'm</c><00:34:54.519><c> out</c><00:34:54.699><c> of</c><00:34:54.800><c> the</c><00:34:54.960><c> truck</c><00:34:55.159><c> and</c><00:34:55.360><c> I</c><00:34:55.519><c> see</c><00:34:55.679><c> a</c><00:34:55.860><c> lump</c><00:34:56.079><c> hammer.</c>

00:34:58.280 --> 00:35:03.360
Just<00:34:58.760><c> momentarily,</c><00:34:59.480><c> mind</c><00:34:59.519><c> you,</c><00:35:02.340><c> the</c><00:35:02.440><c> option</c><00:35:02.719><c> occurred</c><00:35:03.079><c> to</c><00:35:03.260><c> me</c>

00:35:03.360 --> 00:35:06.880
that<00:35:03.539><c> just</c><00:35:03.780><c> a</c><00:35:04.380><c> sharp</c><00:35:04.820><c> tap</c><00:35:05.059><c> on</c><00:35:05.280><c> the</c><00:35:05.400><c> back</c><00:35:05.599><c> of</c><00:35:05.800><c> the</c><00:35:05.880><c> head</c>

00:35:07.320 --> 00:35:11.739
could<00:35:07.800><c> have</c><00:35:08.000><c> solved</c><00:35:08.300><c> not</c><00:35:08.519><c> only</c><00:35:08.780><c> her</c><00:35:09.099><c> problems</c><00:35:09.559><c> but</c><00:35:09.780><c> everybody</c><00:35:10.239><c> else's.</c>

00:35:14.880 --> 00:35:18.440
You<00:35:15.119><c> know,</c><00:35:15.699><c> community</c><00:35:16.199><c> spirit</c><00:35:16.599><c> and</c><00:35:16.780><c> all</c><00:35:16.960><c> that.</c>

00:35:22.039 --> 00:35:24.519
With<00:35:22.480><c> a</c><00:35:22.920><c> trembling</c><00:35:23.179><c> hand,</c><00:35:23.500><c> I</c><00:35:23.559><c> let</c><00:35:23.739><c> go</c><00:35:23.960><c> of</c><00:35:24.059><c> the</c><00:35:24.159><c> lump</c><00:35:24.360><c> hammer</c>

00:35:24.519 --> 00:35:26.860
and<00:35:24.619><c> picked</c><00:35:24.800><c> up</c><00:35:25.019><c> the</c><00:35:25.139><c> things</c><00:35:25.300><c> that</c><00:35:25.460><c> I</c><00:35:25.500><c> needed</c><00:35:25.739><c> to</c><00:35:25.940><c> use.</c>

00:35:27.659 --> 00:35:31.219
I<00:35:27.679><c> went</c><00:35:28.500><c> into</c><00:35:28.719><c> the</c><00:35:28.780><c> house</c><00:35:29.039><c> and</c><00:35:29.139><c> we</c><00:35:29.199><c> had</c><00:35:29.320><c> to</c><00:35:29.380><c> walk</c><00:35:29.599><c> up</c><00:35:29.760><c> some</c><00:35:30.019><c> stairs.</c>

00:35:32.000 --> 00:35:37.539
I<00:35:32.360><c> said</c><00:35:32.699><c> to</c><00:35:32.840><c> her,</c><00:35:33.780><c> I</c><00:35:34.099><c> see</c><00:35:34.940><c> you've</c><00:35:35.179><c> got</c><00:35:35.320><c> some</c><00:35:35.579><c> nice</c><00:35:35.840><c> new</c><00:35:36.079><c> shoes</c><00:35:36.440><c> on.</c>

00:35:40.260 --> 00:35:43.119
She<00:35:40.699><c> said,</c><00:35:40.920><c> do</c><00:35:41.079><c> you</c><00:35:41.079><c> know</c><00:35:41.280><c> why</c><00:35:41.579><c> I</c><00:35:41.579><c> have</c><00:35:41.820><c> to</c><00:35:41.980><c> wear</c><00:35:42.199><c> them?</c>

00:35:45.639 --> 00:35:49.360
I<00:35:46.039><c> said,</c><00:35:46.300><c> no,</c><00:35:46.639><c> but</c><00:35:46.739><c> I'm</c><00:35:46.940><c> sure</c><00:35:47.179><c> going</c><00:35:47.380><c> to</c><00:35:47.460><c> find</c><00:35:47.659><c> out,</c><00:35:47.880><c> aren't</c><00:35:48.039><c> I?</c>

00:35:50.099 --> 00:35:52.760
Because<00:35:50.500><c> I've</c><00:35:50.699><c> got</c><00:35:50.760><c> a</c><00:35:50.960><c> problem</c><00:35:51.340><c> with</c><00:35:51.900><c> my</c><00:35:52.099><c> right</c><00:35:52.420><c> knee</c>

00:35:52.760 --> 00:35:54.780
and<00:35:53.320><c> their</c><00:35:53.539><c> special</c><00:35:53.800><c> shoes.</c>

00:35:55.159 --> 00:35:57.659
And<00:35:55.340><c> I</c><00:35:55.440><c> said,</c><00:35:56.119><c> I</c><00:35:56.420><c> sometimes</c><00:35:56.800><c> get</c><00:35:56.980><c> a</c><00:35:57.119><c> problem</c><00:35:57.260><c> with</c><00:35:57.440><c> my</c><00:35:57.559><c> knees.</c>

00:35:57.699 --> 00:35:59.219
She<00:35:57.820><c> said,</c><00:35:57.940><c> what</c><00:35:58.159><c> would</c><00:35:58.360><c> you</c><00:35:58.519><c> know</c><00:35:58.659><c> about</c><00:35:58.860><c> problems?</c>

00:35:59.340 --> 00:36:01.019
You're<00:35:59.440><c> only</c><00:35:59.659><c> half</c><00:35:59.840><c> my</c><00:36:00.119><c> age.</c>

00:36:03.559 --> 00:36:05.619
We<00:36:03.840><c> got</c><00:36:04.019><c> up</c><00:36:04.199><c> to</c><00:36:04.320><c> the</c><00:36:04.420><c> house,</c><00:36:04.619><c> I'll</c><00:36:04.840><c> give</c><00:36:05.000><c> that</c><00:36:05.219><c> one</c><00:36:05.380><c> a</c><00:36:05.500><c> miss.</c>

00:36:05.639 --> 00:36:08.039
We<00:36:05.739><c> got</c><00:36:05.900><c> up</c><00:36:06.079><c> to</c><00:36:06.179><c> the</c><00:36:06.340><c> ensuite</c><00:36:06.699><c> and</c><00:36:07.360><c> I</c><00:36:07.519><c> started</c><00:36:07.699><c> working.</c>

00:36:08.380 --> 00:36:10.139
I<00:36:08.639><c> saw</c><00:36:08.800><c> some</c><00:36:09.079><c> photographs.</c>

00:36:11.920 --> 00:36:16.980
And<00:36:12.360><c> I</c><00:36:12.619><c> said,</c><00:36:14.340><c> oh,</c><00:36:14.780><c> you</c><00:36:15.079><c> look</c><00:36:15.340><c> like</c><00:36:15.500><c> you</c><00:36:15.579><c> have</c><00:36:15.679><c> a</c><00:36:15.699><c> lot</c><00:36:15.860><c> of</c><00:36:16.059><c> grandchildren.</c>

00:36:17.280 --> 00:36:19.280
Did<00:36:17.380><c> you</c><00:36:17.460><c> have</c><00:36:17.619><c> a</c><00:36:17.719><c> large</c><00:36:17.960><c> family</c><00:36:18.260><c> yourself?</c>

00:36:20.059 --> 00:36:22.199
She<00:36:20.239><c> said,</c><00:36:20.360><c> yes,</c><00:36:20.579><c> I</c><00:36:20.659><c> had</c><00:36:20.820><c> six</c><00:36:21.099><c> children.</c>

00:36:22.880 --> 00:36:25.920
And<00:36:23.119><c> she</c><00:36:23.260><c> said,</c><00:36:24.400><c> my</c><00:36:24.599><c> life</c><00:36:24.820><c> is</c><00:36:25.019><c> terrible.</c>

00:36:26.300 --> 00:36:28.679
And<00:36:26.500><c> I</c><00:36:26.619><c> started</c><00:36:26.900><c> to</c><00:36:27.039><c> get</c><00:36:27.159><c> to</c><00:36:27.320><c> the</c><00:36:27.460><c> cause</c><00:36:27.579><c> of</c><00:36:27.800><c> the</c><00:36:27.860><c> problem.</c>

00:36:30.059 --> 00:36:33.320
She<00:36:30.360><c> said,</c><00:36:31.400><c> my</c><00:36:31.500><c> husband</c><00:36:31.780><c> ran</c><00:36:31.960><c> off</c><00:36:32.079><c> with</c><00:36:32.199><c> the</c><00:36:32.380><c> secretary.</c>

00:36:34.639 --> 00:36:37.099
I<00:36:34.940><c> almost</c><00:36:35.179><c> said,</c><00:36:35.340><c> I</c><00:36:35.460><c> can't</c><00:36:35.719><c> understand</c><00:36:36.179><c> why.</c>

00:36:39.880 --> 00:36:42.539
Man,<00:36:40.300><c> was</c><00:36:40.420><c> I</c><00:36:40.639><c> biting</c><00:36:40.800><c> my</c><00:36:41.139><c> tongue</c><00:36:41.260><c> at</c><00:36:41.420><c> that</c><00:36:41.679><c> stage.</c>

00:36:46.539 --> 00:36:47.980
I<00:36:46.579><c> said,</c><00:36:46.760><c> oh,</c><00:36:46.860><c> that's</c><00:36:47.159><c> terrible.</c>

00:36:48.579 --> 00:36:50.940
I<00:36:48.699><c> said,</c><00:36:48.860><c> you</c><00:36:49.019><c> tell</c><00:36:49.159><c> me</c><00:36:49.320><c> about</c><00:36:49.480><c> where</c><00:36:49.679><c> the</c><00:36:49.840><c> children</c><00:36:50.059><c> live.</c>

00:36:51.019 --> 00:36:53.480
Oh,<00:36:51.320><c> one</c><00:36:51.519><c> lives</c><00:36:51.699><c> over</c><00:36:52.019><c> here,</c><00:36:52.400><c> and</c><00:36:52.400><c> there's</c><00:36:52.480><c> one</c><00:36:52.659><c> in</c><00:36:52.860><c> Western</c><00:36:53.039><c> Australia,</c>

00:36:53.539 --> 00:36:56.420
there's<00:36:53.679><c> one</c><00:36:53.900><c> in</c><00:36:54.099><c> Far</c><00:36:54.260><c> North</c><00:36:54.559><c> Queensland,</c><00:36:55.000><c> there's</c><00:36:55.159><c> one</c><00:36:55.320><c> in</c><00:36:55.440><c> Melbourne.</c>

00:36:56.659 --> 00:36:59.539
Guess<00:36:56.960><c> what?</c><00:36:57.340><c> None</c><00:36:57.460><c> of</c><00:36:57.559><c> them</c><00:36:57.699><c> lived</c><00:36:57.860><c> anywhere</c><00:36:58.199><c> near</c><00:36:58.539><c> here.</c>

00:37:04.059 --> 00:37:09.699
I<00:37:04.380><c> said,</c><00:37:07.179><c> I</c><00:37:07.480><c> found</c><00:37:07.900><c> a</c><00:37:08.139><c> problem</c><00:37:08.380><c> here</c><00:37:08.659><c> that</c><00:37:09.260><c> has</c><00:37:09.400><c> got</c><00:37:09.519><c> nothing</c>

00:37:09.699 --> 00:37:10.579
really<00:37:09.960><c> to</c><00:37:10.119><c> do</c><00:37:10.219><c> with</c><00:37:10.360><c> me,</c>

00:37:10.619 --> 00:37:12.579
but<00:37:10.800><c> I</c><00:37:10.820><c> said,</c><00:37:11.039><c> I'm</c><00:37:11.159><c> going</c><00:37:11.320><c> to</c><00:37:11.480><c> fix</c><00:37:11.659><c> it</c><00:37:11.780><c> for</c><00:37:11.980><c> you</c><00:37:12.219><c> anyway.</c>

00:37:12.780 --> 00:37:15.679
And<00:37:12.920><c> I</c><00:37:12.960><c> said,</c><00:37:13.119><c> I</c><00:37:13.139><c> won't</c><00:37:13.360><c> charge</c><00:37:13.679><c> you</c><00:37:13.820><c> for</c><00:37:13.980><c> it.</c>

00:37:16.260 --> 00:37:17.840
And<00:37:16.420><c> she</c><00:37:16.519><c> looked</c><00:37:16.739><c> at</c><00:37:16.920><c> me.</c>

00:37:18.159 --> 00:37:19.380
People<00:37:18.480><c> don't</c><00:37:18.699><c> normally</c><00:37:18.860><c> do</c><00:37:19.019><c> that.</c>

00:37:19.719 --> 00:37:21.619
I<00:37:19.920><c> said,</c><00:37:20.139><c> no,</c><00:37:20.280><c> they</c><00:37:20.400><c> don't</c><00:37:20.760><c> normally</c><00:37:21.159><c> do</c><00:37:21.380><c> that.</c>

00:37:21.739 --> 00:37:23.699
But<00:37:21.820><c> I</c><00:37:21.860><c> said,</c><00:37:22.000><c> I'm</c><00:37:22.159><c> going</c><00:37:22.280><c> to</c><00:37:22.400><c> do</c><00:37:22.460><c> it</c><00:37:22.519><c> on</c><00:37:22.659><c> this</c><00:37:22.820><c> occasion.</c>

00:37:24.340 --> 00:37:26.840
I<00:37:24.480><c> said,</c><00:37:24.699><c> after</c><00:37:24.920><c> all</c><00:37:25.039><c> you've</c><00:37:25.260><c> been</c><00:37:25.380><c> telling</c><00:37:25.539><c> me,</c><00:37:25.739><c> I</c><00:37:25.820><c> think</c><00:37:26.039><c> I</c>

00:37:26.840 --> 00:37:28.199
should<00:37:27.039><c> do</c><00:37:27.199><c> it</c><00:37:27.400><c> for</c><00:37:27.519><c> you.</c>

00:37:28.699 --> 00:37:29.019
So<00:37:29.019><c> I</c><00:37:29.019><c> got</c><00:37:29.019><c> up</c><00:37:29.019><c> to</c><00:37:29.019><c> the</c><00:37:29.019><c> house.</c>

00:37:29.019 --> 00:37:31.659
I<00:37:29.099><c> probably</c><00:37:29.340><c> spent</c><00:37:29.699><c> another</c><00:37:30.000><c> hour</c><00:37:30.199><c> and</c><00:37:30.300><c> a</c><00:37:30.420><c> half</c><00:37:30.719><c> longer</c><00:37:31.000><c> on</c><00:37:31.159><c> the</c><00:37:31.260><c> job</c><00:37:31.420><c> than</c><00:37:31.559><c> I</c>

00:37:31.659 --> 00:37:33.199
should<00:37:31.840><c> have.</c>

00:37:33.780 --> 00:37:35.840
And<00:37:33.960><c> I</c><00:37:34.079><c> talked</c><00:37:34.300><c> to</c><00:37:34.460><c> her</c><00:37:34.500><c> about</c><00:37:34.619><c> her</c><00:37:34.840><c> grandchildren,</c>

00:37:36.420 --> 00:37:38.960
and<00:37:36.579><c> I</c><00:37:36.679><c> said,</c><00:37:37.079><c> what</c><00:37:37.219><c> do</c><00:37:37.420><c> you</c><00:37:37.420><c> think</c><00:37:37.559><c> of</c><00:37:37.619><c> the</c><00:37:37.840><c> state</c><00:37:37.960><c> of</c><00:37:38.099><c> the</c><00:37:38.260><c> world?</c>

00:37:39.559 --> 00:37:42.440
She<00:37:39.760><c> said,</c><00:37:40.079><c> I</c><00:37:40.239><c> think</c><00:37:40.420><c> it's</c><00:37:40.639><c> in</c><00:37:40.860><c> terrible</c><00:37:41.360><c> condition.</c>

00:37:43.219 --> 00:37:45.820
And<00:37:43.380><c> gradually,</c><00:37:43.860><c> gradually,</c><00:37:44.619><c> she</c><00:37:44.840><c> started</c><00:37:45.139><c> to</c><00:37:45.340><c> calm</c><00:37:45.559><c> down,</c>

00:37:45.820 --> 00:37:48.019
and<00:37:46.000><c> we</c><00:37:46.179><c> worked</c><00:37:46.420><c> it</c><00:37:46.619><c> round</c><00:37:46.780><c> onto</c><00:37:47.000><c> the</c><00:37:47.239><c> Bible.</c>

00:37:48.699 --> 00:37:51.380
I<00:37:48.920><c> said,</c><00:37:49.039><c> you</c><00:37:49.179><c> know</c><00:37:49.320><c> why</c><00:37:49.519><c> the</c><00:37:49.679><c> world's</c><00:37:49.900><c> in</c><00:37:50.039><c> such</c><00:37:50.179><c> a</c><00:37:50.380><c> terrible</c><00:37:50.559><c> state?</c>

00:37:52.699 --> 00:37:54.840
And<00:37:53.000><c> so</c><00:37:53.159><c> we</c><00:37:53.380><c> talked</c><00:37:53.599><c> and</c><00:37:53.739><c> we</c><00:37:53.940><c> talked.</c>

00:37:55.519 --> 00:37:57.340
To<00:37:55.599><c> cut</c><00:37:55.739><c> a</c><00:37:55.800><c> long</c><00:37:55.980><c> story</c><00:37:56.280><c> short,</c>

00:37:58.099 --> 00:37:59.159
she<00:37:58.500><c> finally</c><00:37:58.860><c> turned.</c>

00:37:59.179 --> 00:38:00.900
It<00:37:59.260><c> took</c><00:37:59.440><c> me</c><00:37:59.619><c> four</c><00:37:59.840><c> hours.</c>

00:38:02.019 --> 00:38:06.059
And<00:38:02.159><c> on</c><00:38:02.260><c> the</c><00:38:02.340><c> way</c><00:38:02.559><c> out,</c><00:38:04.340><c> she</c><00:38:04.500><c> looked</c><00:38:04.739><c> at</c><00:38:04.920><c> me,</c>

00:38:06.539 --> 00:38:09.260
and<00:38:06.639><c> a</c><00:38:06.739><c> brief</c><00:38:06.960><c> smile</c><00:38:07.239><c> crossed</c><00:38:07.500><c> her</c><00:38:07.699><c> face,</c><00:38:07.960><c> and</c><00:38:08.039><c> she</c><00:38:08.219><c> said,</c>

00:38:09.539 --> 00:38:12.800
by<00:38:09.699><c> the</c><00:38:09.900><c> way,</c><00:38:10.960><c> keep</c><00:38:11.199><c> up</c><00:38:11.400><c> the</c><00:38:11.559><c> whistling</c><00:38:11.780><c> and</c><00:38:11.980><c> the</c><00:38:12.099><c> singing.</c>

00:38:14.099 --> 00:38:16.159
Now,<00:38:14.539><c> that</c><00:38:14.820><c> might</c><00:38:15.079><c> sound</c><00:38:15.280><c> like</c><00:38:15.500><c> a</c><00:38:15.579><c> made</c><00:38:15.739><c>-up</c><00:38:15.900><c> story.</c>

00:38:16.219 --> 00:38:16.900
It's<00:38:16.380><c> not</c><00:38:16.559><c> made</c><00:38:16.820><c> up.</c>

00:38:16.920 --> 00:38:18.760
I<00:38:17.099><c> could</c><00:38:17.300><c> not</c><00:38:17.500><c> believe</c><00:38:17.760><c> that.</c>

00:38:19.019 --> 00:38:22.239
But<00:38:19.179><c> it</c><00:38:19.280><c> took</c><00:38:19.460><c> me</c><00:38:19.820><c> four</c><00:38:20.159><c> hours</c><00:38:20.679><c> of</c><00:38:21.059><c> copying</c><00:38:21.260><c> it</c>

00:38:22.239 --> 00:38:25.380
and<00:38:22.639><c> of</c><00:38:22.820><c> trying</c><00:38:22.980><c> to</c><00:38:23.159><c> think</c><00:38:23.300><c> of</c><00:38:23.460><c> ways</c><00:38:23.679><c> I</c><00:38:23.800><c> could</c><00:38:23.960><c> resolve</c><00:38:24.260><c> the</c><00:38:24.500><c> issue.</c>

00:38:25.519 --> 00:38:27.639
And<00:38:26.000><c> when</c><00:38:26.179><c> I</c><00:38:26.260><c> went</c><00:38:26.519><c> back</c><00:38:26.760><c> out</c><00:38:26.880><c> of</c><00:38:26.960><c> my</c><00:38:27.139><c> work</c><00:38:27.340><c> van,</c>

00:38:27.940 --> 00:38:30.460
I<00:38:28.039><c> said</c><00:38:28.219><c> to</c><00:38:28.400><c> God,</c><00:38:28.659><c> thank</c><00:38:29.019><c> you.</c>

00:38:30.519 --> 00:38:32.619
If<00:38:30.679><c> I'd</c><00:38:30.960><c> have</c><00:38:31.000><c> not</c><00:38:31.239><c> known</c><00:38:31.480><c> that</c><00:38:31.739><c> verse,</c>

00:38:33.340 --> 00:38:35.659
I<00:38:33.559><c> probably</c><00:38:33.800><c> would</c><00:38:33.960><c> have</c><00:38:34.079><c> been</c><00:38:34.199><c> in</c><00:38:34.380><c> jail</c><00:38:34.559><c> for</c><00:38:34.780><c> assault.</c>

00:38:38.760 --> 00:38:40.119
It<00:38:39.239><c> does</c><00:38:39.659><c> work.</c>

00:38:40.599 --> 00:38:42.960
Now,<00:38:40.739><c> I'm</c><00:38:40.920><c> sure</c><00:38:41.119><c> you've</c><00:38:41.360><c> all</c><00:38:41.559><c> had</c><00:38:41.820><c> similar</c><00:38:42.280><c> experiences,</c>

00:38:43.239 --> 00:38:44.559
but<00:38:43.679><c> it</c><00:38:43.880><c> takes</c><00:38:44.239><c> effort.</c>

00:38:44.940 --> 00:38:48.320
If<00:38:45.099><c> it</c><00:38:45.380><c> worked</c><00:38:45.599><c> in</c><00:38:45.860><c> the</c><00:38:45.920><c> case</c><00:38:46.219><c> of</c><00:38:46.760><c> Abigail</c><00:38:47.360><c> with</c><00:38:47.840><c> David,</c>

00:38:48.380 --> 00:38:49.880
it<00:38:48.599><c> can</c><00:38:48.900><c> work</c><00:38:49.219><c> in</c><00:38:49.460><c> our</c><00:38:49.699><c> life.</c>

00:38:49.920 --> 00:38:51.780
That<00:38:50.059><c> is</c><00:38:50.260><c> the</c><00:38:50.440><c> beauty</c><00:38:50.659><c> of</c><00:38:50.860><c> the</c><00:38:51.019><c> Bible.</c>

00:38:52.059 --> 00:38:54.199
Human<00:38:52.340><c> nature</c><00:38:52.639><c> has</c><00:38:52.980><c> not</c><00:38:53.219><c> changed.</c>

00:38:54.400 --> 00:38:57.320
Yes,<00:38:55.559><c> the</c><00:38:55.599><c> environment</c><00:38:56.000><c> may</c><00:38:56.239><c> have</c><00:38:56.460><c> changed</c><00:38:56.679><c> to</c><00:38:56.800><c> some</c><00:38:56.980><c> degree,</c>

00:38:57.380 --> 00:39:00.199
but<00:38:57.460><c> we</c><00:38:57.579><c> are</c><00:38:57.760><c> dealing</c><00:38:58.059><c> with</c><00:38:58.320><c> the</c><00:38:58.460><c> same</c><00:38:58.780><c> fundamental</c><00:38:59.380><c> issues.</c>

00:39:05.920 --> 00:39:07.739
Better<00:39:06.340><c> a</c><00:39:06.519><c> patient</c><00:39:06.880><c> man</c><00:39:07.119><c> than</c><00:39:07.260><c> a</c><00:39:07.440><c> warrior,</c>

00:39:08.199 --> 00:39:11.099
a<00:39:08.260><c> man</c><00:39:08.480><c> who</c><00:39:08.719><c> controls</c><00:39:09.039><c> his</c><00:39:09.280><c> temper</c><00:39:09.440><c> than</c><00:39:09.559><c> one</c><00:39:09.800><c> who</c><00:39:09.920><c> takes</c><00:39:10.219><c> a</c><00:39:10.400><c> seat.</c>

00:39:11.780 --> 00:39:12.760
Why?

00:39:13.820 --> 00:39:16.239
Because<00:39:14.300><c> if</c><00:39:14.480><c> you'd</c><00:39:14.679><c> have</c><00:39:14.739><c> had</c><00:39:14.900><c> the</c><00:39:15.139><c> patient</c><00:39:15.579><c> man</c><00:39:15.940><c> in</c><00:39:16.079><c> the</c>

00:39:16.239 --> 00:39:17.619
first<00:39:16.539><c> place,</c>

00:39:18.480 --> 00:39:20.760
you<00:39:18.639><c> may</c><00:39:18.840><c> never</c><00:39:19.039><c> have</c><00:39:19.219><c> needed</c><00:39:19.460><c> to</c><00:39:19.659><c> take</c><00:39:19.840><c> the</c><00:39:20.000><c> city.</c>

00:39:21.300 --> 00:39:23.619
If<00:39:21.739><c> you</c><00:39:21.920><c> can</c><00:39:22.159><c> negotiate</c><00:39:22.840><c> beforehand,</c>

00:39:23.739 --> 00:39:25.440
you<00:39:23.840><c> don't</c><00:39:24.119><c> need</c><00:39:24.360><c> the</c><00:39:24.599><c> army,</c><00:39:24.900><c> do</c><00:39:24.920><c> you?</c>

00:39:25.880 --> 00:39:27.719
You<00:39:26.079><c> can</c><00:39:26.340><c> resolve</c><00:39:26.699><c> the</c><00:39:26.920><c> problem,</c><00:39:27.219><c> as</c><00:39:27.340><c> they</c><00:39:27.539><c> say,</c>

00:39:27.860 --> 00:39:29.920
without<00:39:27.980><c> a</c><00:39:28.179><c> shot</c><00:39:28.340><c> being</c><00:39:28.679><c> fired.</c>

00:39:32.139 --> 00:39:37.519
One<00:39:32.239><c> of</c><00:39:32.340><c> the</c><00:39:32.500><c> biggest</c><00:39:32.719><c> problems</c><00:39:33.619><c> we</c><00:39:35.079><c> have</c><00:39:35.639><c> perhaps</c>

00:39:37.639 --> 00:39:39.800
relates<00:39:38.079><c> at</c><00:39:38.320><c> times</c><00:39:38.519><c> to</c><00:39:38.739><c> our</c><00:39:38.940><c> families.</c>

00:39:41.219 --> 00:39:43.960
Now,<00:39:41.380><c> we</c><00:39:41.480><c> all</c><00:39:41.699><c> have,</c><00:39:42.219><c> I'm</c><00:39:42.980><c> sure,</c><00:39:43.360><c> bad</c><00:39:43.559><c> days.</c>

00:39:44.360 --> 00:39:45.219
Everybody<00:39:44.719><c> has</c><00:39:45.000><c> them.</c>

00:39:45.440 --> 00:39:47.840
A<00:39:45.579><c> day</c><00:39:45.780><c> where</c><00:39:45.980><c> just</c><00:39:46.199><c> everything</c><00:39:46.380><c> goes</c><00:39:46.619><c> off</c><00:39:46.840><c> the</c><00:39:46.980><c> rails.</c>

00:39:48.760 --> 00:39:51.960
I<00:39:49.159><c> have</c><00:39:49.340><c> them</c><00:39:49.500><c> where</c><00:39:49.659><c> I</c><00:39:49.900><c> just</c><00:39:50.639><c> lose</c><00:39:51.059><c> control</c><00:39:51.460><c> of</c><00:39:51.619><c> the</c><00:39:51.780><c> day.</c>

00:39:52.099 --> 00:39:55.019
I've<00:39:52.239><c> booked</c><00:39:52.380><c> in,</c><00:39:52.760><c> say,</c><00:39:54.000><c> eight</c><00:39:54.280><c> or</c><00:39:54.440><c> nine</c><00:39:54.619><c> jobs,</c>

00:39:55.139 --> 00:39:58.099
and<00:39:55.460><c> I</c><00:39:55.800><c> just</c><00:39:56.059><c> hit</c><00:39:56.280><c> one</c><00:39:56.579><c> that</c><00:39:56.739><c> is</c><00:39:57.019><c> a</c><00:39:57.159><c> disaster.</c>

00:39:58.840 --> 00:40:01.559
And<00:39:59.059><c> it</c><00:39:59.179><c> takes</c><00:39:59.380><c> me</c><00:39:59.699><c> hours</c><00:39:59.920><c> longer</c><00:40:00.219><c> than</c><00:40:00.320><c> I</c><00:40:00.639><c> expected.</c>

00:40:01.860 --> 00:40:04.179
I'm<00:40:02.260><c> running</c><00:40:02.559><c> late,</c><00:40:03.119><c> the</c><00:40:03.300><c> traffic's</c><00:40:03.619><c> getting</c><00:40:03.780><c> heavier,</c>

00:40:04.260 --> 00:40:06.219
I'm<00:40:04.460><c> on</c><00:40:04.559><c> the</c><00:40:04.699><c> phone</c><00:40:04.920><c> all</c><00:40:05.079><c> the</c><00:40:05.199><c> time</c><00:40:05.320><c> telling</c><00:40:05.519><c> people</c><00:40:05.739><c> I'm</c><00:40:06.019><c> sorry,</c>

00:40:06.239 --> 00:40:09.219
I'm<00:40:06.380><c> running</c><00:40:06.599><c> late,</c><00:40:07.039><c> and</c><00:40:07.119><c> so</c><00:40:07.239><c> the</c><00:40:07.400><c> day</c><00:40:07.500><c> just</c><00:40:07.900><c> spirals</c><00:40:08.119><c> out</c><00:40:08.300><c> of</c><00:40:08.460><c> control.</c>

00:40:10.059 --> 00:40:12.320
And<00:40:10.239><c> then</c><00:40:10.360><c> you</c><00:40:10.460><c> hit</c><00:40:10.539><c> the</c><00:40:10.760><c> traffic</c><00:40:10.960><c> coming</c><00:40:11.239><c> home,</c>

00:40:12.659 --> 00:40:15.179
and<00:40:12.840><c> by</c><00:40:13.280><c> the</c><00:40:13.420><c> time</c><00:40:13.519><c> you</c><00:40:13.559><c> get</c><00:40:13.679><c> home,</c><00:40:13.840><c> you're</c><00:40:14.000><c> fit</c><00:40:14.039><c> to</c><00:40:14.199><c> be</c><00:40:14.400><c> tied.</c>

00:40:16.139 --> 00:40:17.860
What<00:40:16.539><c> do</c><00:40:16.719><c> you</c><00:40:16.719><c> do</c><00:40:16.780><c> with</c><00:40:16.940><c> that</c><00:40:17.079><c> anger?</c>

00:40:18.139 --> 00:40:20.519
It's<00:40:18.340><c> just</c><00:40:18.480><c> been</c><00:40:18.679><c> welling</c><00:40:18.920><c> up</c><00:40:19.099><c> and</c><00:40:19.239><c> welling</c><00:40:19.460><c> up</c><00:40:19.579><c> and</c><00:40:19.679><c> welling</c><00:40:19.940><c> up.</c>

00:40:20.719 --> 00:40:22.539
Things<00:40:20.880><c> have</c><00:40:21.019><c> gone</c><00:40:21.179><c> wrong,</c><00:40:21.539><c> people</c><00:40:21.760><c> have</c><00:40:21.940><c> said</c><00:40:22.019><c> things</c><00:40:22.280><c> to</c><00:40:22.400><c> you</c>

00:40:22.539 --> 00:40:24.119
that<00:40:22.699><c> have</c><00:40:22.780><c> just</c><00:40:22.980><c> made</c><00:40:23.079><c> it</c><00:40:23.260><c> worse.</c>

00:40:24.940 --> 00:40:26.039
What<00:40:25.159><c> do</c><00:40:25.280><c> you</c><00:40:25.440><c> do</c><00:40:25.539><c> with</c><00:40:25.719><c> the</c><00:40:25.900><c> anger?</c>

00:40:26.119 --> 00:40:28.579
I'll<00:40:26.340><c> tell</c><00:40:26.480><c> you</c><00:40:26.559><c> what</c><00:40:26.699><c> you</c><00:40:26.920><c> don't</c><00:40:27.159><c> do</c><00:40:27.380><c> with</c><00:40:27.559><c> it.</c>

00:40:29.380 --> 00:40:32.599
You<00:40:29.780><c> never</c><00:40:30.179><c> walk</c><00:40:30.739><c> into</c><00:40:30.920><c> your</c><00:40:31.059><c> house</c><00:40:31.280><c> with</c><00:40:31.440><c> it.</c>

00:40:33.360 --> 00:40:37.059
Only<00:40:33.579><c> a</c><00:40:33.840><c> fool</c><00:40:34.699><c> walks</c><00:40:35.599><c> into</c><00:40:35.800><c> the</c><00:40:35.920><c> house</c><00:40:36.119><c> angry.</c>

00:40:38.019 --> 00:40:39.559
Because<00:40:38.280><c> what</c><00:40:38.460><c> does</c><00:40:38.619><c> it</c><00:40:38.719><c> do?</c>

00:40:40.239 --> 00:40:42.519
It<00:40:40.440><c> takes</c><00:40:40.679><c> the</c><00:40:40.900><c> anger</c><00:40:41.059><c> you're</c><00:40:41.300><c> feeling,</c>

00:40:43.659 --> 00:40:46.420
and<00:40:44.059><c> when</c><00:40:44.179><c> you</c><00:40:44.420><c> walk</c><00:40:44.559><c> in</c><00:40:44.679><c> that</c><00:40:44.860><c> door</c><00:40:45.019><c> and</c><00:40:45.239><c> explode,</c>

00:40:46.940 --> 00:40:50.380
what<00:40:46.960><c> may</c><00:40:47.219><c> have</c><00:40:47.480><c> been</c><00:40:47.940><c> a</c><00:40:48.280><c> harmonious</c><00:40:48.840><c> situation</c>

00:40:51.340 --> 00:40:54.559
suddenly<00:40:51.739><c> becomes</c><00:40:52.139><c> exactly</c><00:40:53.559><c> the</c><00:40:53.800><c> same</c><00:40:53.980><c> as</c><00:40:54.059><c> you're</c><00:40:54.239><c> feeling,</c>

00:40:54.699 --> 00:40:56.119
out<00:40:54.920><c> of</c><00:40:55.019><c> control.</c>

00:40:57.320 --> 00:40:59.960
When<00:40:57.480><c> you</c><00:40:57.679><c> feel</c><00:40:57.860><c> like</c><00:40:58.179><c> that,</c><00:40:59.579><c> what</c><00:40:59.679><c> do</c><00:40:59.800><c> you</c><00:40:59.840><c> do?</c>

00:40:59.980 --> 00:41:02.199
Well,<00:41:00.119><c> I've</c><00:41:00.280><c> had</c><00:41:00.380><c> occasions</c><00:41:00.719><c> like</c><00:41:00.980><c> that,</c>

00:41:02.539 --> 00:41:04.980
and<00:41:02.739><c> I</c><00:41:02.840><c> know</c><00:41:03.000><c> I've</c><00:41:03.199><c> got</c><00:41:03.340><c> a</c><00:41:03.420><c> home</c><00:41:03.579><c> and</c><00:41:03.719><c> I'm</c><00:41:04.019><c> frustrated,</c><00:41:04.760><c> I'm</c>

00:41:04.980 --> 00:41:06.679
fed<00:41:05.159><c> up.</c>

00:41:08.239 --> 00:41:11.000
I<00:41:08.340><c> sit</c><00:41:08.460><c> in</c><00:41:08.599><c> the</c><00:41:08.719><c> truck</c><00:41:09.300><c> a</c><00:41:09.659><c> few</c><00:41:09.840><c> minutes,</c>

00:41:11.139 --> 00:41:14.199
and<00:41:11.579><c> I</c><00:41:11.619><c> just</c><00:41:11.900><c> let</c><00:41:12.019><c> it</c><00:41:12.340><c> dissipate.</c>

00:41:14.880 --> 00:41:16.360
Just<00:41:15.039><c> let</c><00:41:15.199><c> it</c><00:41:15.280><c> go.</c>

00:41:17.619 --> 00:41:21.900
Sometimes,<00:41:19.760><c> I'll</c><00:41:19.880><c> just</c><00:41:20.079><c> go</c><00:41:20.239><c> and</c><00:41:20.300><c> look</c><00:41:20.440><c> at</c><00:41:20.579><c> my</c><00:41:20.800><c> gardenias.</c>

00:41:23.139 --> 00:41:26.199
Do<00:41:23.579><c> something</c><00:41:24.019><c> with</c><00:41:24.219><c> it,</c><00:41:24.800><c> but</c><00:41:25.059><c> don't</c><00:41:25.440><c> take</c><00:41:25.719><c> it</c><00:41:25.860><c> through</c><00:41:26.079><c> the</c>

00:41:26.199 --> 00:41:27.400
front<00:41:26.460><c> door.</c>

00:41:29.380 --> 00:41:30.820
If<00:41:29.519><c> you</c><00:41:29.559><c> do,</c><00:41:29.780><c> you're</c><00:41:29.980><c> a</c><00:41:30.099><c> fool.</c>

00:41:31.480 --> 00:41:34.000
You<00:41:31.679><c> destroy</c><00:41:32.019><c> the</c><00:41:32.219><c> harmony</c><00:41:32.500><c> of</c><00:41:32.639><c> your</c><00:41:32.800><c> home</c><00:41:33.079><c> environment.</c>

00:41:35.360 --> 00:41:37.360
Now<00:41:35.579><c> that's</c><00:41:35.800><c> for</c><00:41:35.920><c> a</c><00:41:36.059><c> male,</c><00:41:36.380><c> perhaps.</c>

00:41:37.420 --> 00:41:39.239
You<00:41:37.659><c> don't</c><00:41:37.820><c> know</c><00:41:38.000><c> what</c><00:41:38.300><c> sort</c><00:41:38.460><c> of</c><00:41:38.559><c> day</c><00:41:38.659><c> your</c><00:41:38.800><c> wife's</c><00:41:39.219><c> had.</c>

00:41:39.239 --> 00:41:42.260
If<00:41:39.480><c> she's</c><00:41:39.760><c> had</c><00:41:39.940><c> a</c><00:41:40.039><c> bad</c><00:41:40.320><c> day</c><00:41:40.619><c> at</c><00:41:40.719><c> home,</c><00:41:41.139><c> with</c><00:41:41.239><c> the</c><00:41:41.400><c> kids,</c><00:41:41.760><c> or</c><00:41:41.900><c> at</c><00:41:42.000><c> work,</c>

00:41:42.340 --> 00:41:43.900
or<00:41:42.360><c> whatever</c><00:41:42.659><c> it</c><00:41:42.760><c> might</c><00:41:42.920><c> be,</c><00:41:43.079><c> and</c><00:41:43.199><c> she's</c><00:41:43.320><c> just</c><00:41:43.519><c> got</c><00:41:43.699><c> home</c>

00:41:43.900 --> 00:41:45.780
and<00:41:43.980><c> she's</c><00:41:44.119><c> trying</c><00:41:44.280><c> to</c><00:41:44.340><c> put</c><00:41:44.480><c> the</c><00:41:44.619><c> dinner</c><00:41:44.780><c> on,</c>

00:41:45.860 --> 00:41:49.400
when<00:41:46.059><c> you</c><00:41:46.260><c> meet</c><00:41:46.460><c> her,</c><00:41:48.019><c> and</c><00:41:48.179><c> the</c><00:41:48.340><c> two</c><00:41:48.500><c> of</c><00:41:48.500><c> you</c><00:41:48.639><c> have</c><00:41:48.719><c> got</c><00:41:48.880><c> that</c><00:41:49.099><c> problem,</c>

00:41:49.420 --> 00:41:51.639
it's<00:41:49.659><c> just</c><00:41:49.900><c> become</c><00:41:50.179><c> a</c><00:41:50.320><c> much</c><00:41:50.500><c> bigger</c><00:41:50.800><c> event.</c>

00:41:52.340 --> 00:41:54.460
If<00:41:52.519><c> she's</c><00:41:52.739><c> had</c><00:41:52.840><c> issues</c><00:41:53.159><c> with</c><00:41:53.320><c> the</c><00:41:53.500><c> children,</c>

00:41:55.500 --> 00:41:57.039
it's<00:41:55.820><c> not</c><00:41:55.940><c> going</c><00:41:56.079><c> to</c><00:41:56.179><c> help</c><00:41:56.280><c> if</c><00:41:56.440><c> you</c><00:41:56.519><c> walk</c><00:41:56.639><c> through</c><00:41:56.800><c> the</c><00:41:56.940><c> front</c>

00:41:57.039 --> 00:41:58.639
door<00:41:57.159><c> the</c><00:41:57.239><c> next</c><00:41:57.480><c> day.</c>

00:41:59.719 --> 00:42:04.260
If<00:41:59.920><c> you're</c><00:42:00.059><c> the</c><00:42:00.219><c> wife,</c><00:42:01.719><c> and</c><00:42:02.179><c> you've</c><00:42:02.340><c> had</c><00:42:02.420><c> a</c><00:42:02.539><c> bad</c><00:42:02.699><c> day</c><00:42:02.900><c> with</c><00:42:03.039><c> the</c><00:42:03.199><c> kids,</c>

00:42:05.199 --> 00:42:06.960
or<00:42:05.360><c> at</c><00:42:05.480><c> work,</c><00:42:05.800><c> or</c><00:42:05.920><c> whatever</c><00:42:06.119><c> it</c><00:42:06.219><c> might</c><00:42:06.400><c> be,</c>

00:42:06.960 --> 00:42:09.320
and<00:42:07.519><c> your</c><00:42:07.659><c> husband</c><00:42:07.900><c> comes</c><00:42:08.199><c> through</c><00:42:08.420><c> the</c><00:42:08.559><c> front</c><00:42:08.820><c> door,</c><00:42:09.219><c> and</c>

00:42:09.320 --> 00:42:11.099
he's<00:42:09.519><c> actually</c><00:42:09.960><c> calm,</c>

00:42:12.159 --> 00:42:13.960
don't<00:42:12.559><c> throw</c><00:42:12.719><c> your</c><00:42:12.880><c> anger</c><00:42:13.000><c> at</c><00:42:13.139><c> him.</c>

00:42:14.800 --> 00:42:16.699
I'm<00:42:15.139><c> blessed</c><00:42:15.300><c> with</c><00:42:15.480><c> a</c><00:42:15.539><c> wonderful</c><00:42:15.880><c> wife.</c>

00:42:17.260 --> 00:42:20.059
She<00:42:17.539><c> can</c><00:42:17.780><c> tell</c><00:42:18.179><c> when</c><00:42:19.219><c> I've</c><00:42:19.440><c> had</c><00:42:19.519><c> a</c><00:42:19.639><c> bad</c><00:42:19.820><c> day.</c>

00:42:20.559 --> 00:42:22.860
She<00:42:20.780><c> can</c><00:42:21.019><c> tell</c><00:42:21.199><c> when</c><00:42:21.360><c> I'm</c><00:42:21.559><c> really</c><00:42:22.000><c> tired.</c>

00:42:23.699 --> 00:42:25.820
She'll<00:42:23.980><c> say</c><00:42:24.159><c> to</c><00:42:24.280><c> the</c><00:42:24.460><c> kids</c><00:42:24.599><c> when</c><00:42:24.739><c> they</c><00:42:24.920><c> want</c><00:42:25.059><c> to</c><00:42:25.300><c> just</c><00:42:25.539><c> tell</c><00:42:25.679><c> me</c>

00:42:25.820 --> 00:42:26.760
everything<00:42:26.039><c> that's</c><00:42:26.239><c> going</c><00:42:26.539><c> on,</c>

00:42:26.840 --> 00:42:28.679
or<00:42:26.940><c> some</c><00:42:27.099><c> injustice</c><00:42:27.679><c> that's</c><00:42:28.099><c> occurred</c><00:42:28.280><c> at</c><00:42:28.539><c> school,</c>

00:42:28.739 --> 00:42:30.920
one<00:42:28.860><c> of</c><00:42:28.980><c> our</c><00:42:29.059><c> kids</c><00:42:29.219><c> is</c><00:42:29.360><c> an</c><00:42:29.480><c> expert</c><00:42:29.760><c> at</c><00:42:29.880><c> that,</c>

00:42:31.480 --> 00:42:34.039
she<00:42:31.920><c> can</c><00:42:32.239><c> tell</c><00:42:32.559><c> and</c><00:42:32.719><c> she'll</c><00:42:33.019><c> say,</c>

00:42:34.159 --> 00:42:37.039
just<00:42:34.639><c> let</c><00:42:34.880><c> dad</c><00:42:35.159><c> have</c><00:42:35.320><c> a</c><00:42:35.420><c> bit</c><00:42:35.559><c> of</c><00:42:35.699><c> time.</c>

00:42:37.079 --> 00:42:39.679
That's<00:42:37.380><c> very</c><00:42:37.619><c> wise</c><00:42:37.820><c> counsel,</c><00:42:38.159><c> she's</c><00:42:38.380><c> a</c><00:42:38.539><c> wise</c><00:42:38.739><c> woman,</c>

00:42:40.400 --> 00:42:43.340
because<00:42:40.659><c> she</c><00:42:40.800><c> can</c><00:42:40.980><c> see</c><00:42:41.159><c> the</c><00:42:41.380><c> benefit</c><00:42:41.800><c> and</c><00:42:42.480><c> she</c><00:42:42.579><c> can</c><00:42:42.760><c> see</c><00:42:42.960><c> my</c><00:42:43.219><c> need.</c>

00:42:43.380 --> 00:42:45.599
We<00:42:43.539><c> have</c><00:42:43.780><c> to</c><00:42:43.920><c> be</c><00:42:44.099><c> able</c><00:42:44.300><c> to</c><00:42:44.599><c> tune</c><00:42:44.800><c> in.</c>

00:42:46.079 --> 00:42:48.659
We<00:42:46.340><c> have</c><00:42:46.539><c> to</c><00:42:46.699><c> know</c><00:42:46.940><c> where</c><00:42:47.179><c> we're</c><00:42:47.440><c> at.</c>

00:42:49.119 --> 00:42:52.199
And<00:42:49.239><c> we</c><00:42:49.300><c> can</c><00:42:49.500><c> see</c><00:42:49.679><c> the</c><00:42:49.940><c> signs</c><00:42:50.519><c> back</c><00:42:51.300><c> off.</c>

00:42:52.619 --> 00:42:53.780
Give<00:42:52.719><c> opportunity.</c>

00:42:55.659 --> 00:43:00.199
Now<00:42:55.860><c> children</c><00:42:56.139><c> sometimes</c><00:42:57.099><c> will</c><00:42:57.940><c> bring</c><00:42:58.119><c> out</c><00:42:58.699><c> the</c><00:42:59.039><c> worst</c><00:42:59.239><c> in</c><00:42:59.400><c> you.</c>

00:43:00.800 --> 00:43:03.139
I've<00:43:01.239><c> had</c><00:43:01.340><c> a</c><00:43:01.400><c> couple</c><00:43:01.599><c> of</c><00:43:01.820><c> occasions</c><00:43:02.119><c> this</c><00:43:02.380><c> year</c><00:43:02.639><c> where</c><00:43:02.860><c> I</c><00:43:02.980><c> have</c>

00:43:03.139 --> 00:43:06.059
been<00:43:03.480><c> very,</c><00:43:03.900><c> very</c><00:43:04.280><c> close</c><00:43:04.500><c> to</c><00:43:04.639><c> letting</c><00:43:04.840><c> go.</c>

00:43:06.280 --> 00:43:07.219
Sadly.

00:43:08.639 --> 00:43:10.559
A<00:43:08.719><c> couple</c><00:43:08.900><c> of</c><00:43:09.119><c> occasions</c><00:43:09.360><c> I</c><00:43:09.500><c> would</c><00:43:09.679><c> have</c><00:43:09.760><c> let</c><00:43:09.920><c> go,</c><00:43:10.099><c> except</c><00:43:10.340><c> for</c>

00:43:10.559 --> 00:43:10.980
my<00:43:10.719><c> wife,</c>

00:43:11.039 --> 00:43:12.960
and<00:43:11.179><c> she's</c><00:43:11.320><c> only</c><00:43:11.579><c> a</c><00:43:11.659><c> little</c><00:43:11.840><c> thing,</c>

00:43:14.000 --> 00:43:16.940
standing<00:43:14.239><c> between</c><00:43:14.699><c> one</c><00:43:14.900><c> of</c><00:43:15.019><c> my</c><00:43:15.179><c> children</c><00:43:15.519><c> and</c><00:43:15.760><c> severe</c><00:43:15.980><c> discipline.</c>

00:43:20.280 --> 00:43:21.659
What<00:43:20.460><c> did</c><00:43:20.500><c> I</c><00:43:20.719><c> do?</c>

00:43:22.900 --> 00:43:25.019
I<00:43:23.340><c> realised</c><00:43:23.659><c> her</c><00:43:23.920><c> wisdom,</c>

00:43:25.440 --> 00:43:27.380
and<00:43:25.699><c> I</c><00:43:25.800><c> went</c><00:43:25.920><c> for</c><00:43:26.119><c> a</c><00:43:26.119><c> very</c><00:43:26.420><c> long</c><00:43:26.599><c> walk.</c>

00:43:27.420 --> 00:43:30.320
In<00:43:27.860><c> fact</c><00:43:28.039><c> one</c><00:43:28.219><c> night</c><00:43:28.380><c> it</c><00:43:28.480><c> was</c><00:43:28.599><c> two</c><00:43:28.840><c> hours.</c>

00:43:31.599 --> 00:43:33.860
Just<00:43:31.880><c> because</c><00:43:32.099><c> I</c><00:43:32.239><c> had</c><00:43:32.460><c> to</c><00:43:32.559><c> let</c><00:43:32.699><c> it</c><00:43:32.860><c> go.</c>

00:43:34.579 --> 00:43:36.559
And<00:43:34.760><c> I</c><00:43:34.840><c> sat</c><00:43:35.059><c> and</c><00:43:35.219><c> I</c><00:43:35.400><c> talked</c><00:43:35.519><c> to</c><00:43:35.679><c> God,</c>

00:43:36.860 --> 00:43:38.980
in<00:43:36.960><c> the</c><00:43:37.099><c> grounds</c><00:43:37.260><c> of</c><00:43:37.440><c> a</c><00:43:37.500><c> local</c><00:43:37.780><c> high</c><00:43:38.039><c> school.</c>

00:43:40.500 --> 00:43:43.280
Until<00:43:40.920><c> I</c><00:43:41.159><c> had</c><00:43:41.400><c> resolved</c><00:43:41.760><c> in</c><00:43:41.920><c> my</c><00:43:42.239><c> minds,</c>

00:43:44.139 --> 00:43:45.639
what<00:43:44.300><c> the</c><00:43:44.480><c> issue</c><00:43:44.699><c> was,</c>

00:43:45.920 --> 00:43:48.320
and<00:43:46.059><c> how</c><00:43:46.260><c> best</c><00:43:46.480><c> to</c><00:43:46.659><c> deal</c><00:43:46.800><c> with</c><00:43:46.940><c> it.</c>

00:43:48.380 --> 00:43:50.980
And<00:43:48.639><c> I</c><00:43:48.699><c> went</c><00:43:48.900><c> back</c><00:43:49.199><c> and</c><00:43:49.300><c> we</c><00:43:49.440><c> had</c><00:43:49.579><c> another</c><00:43:49.860><c> conversation.</c>

00:43:51.880 --> 00:43:54.559
The<00:43:52.000><c> Apostle</c><00:43:52.340><c> Paul</c><00:43:53.300><c> in</c><00:43:53.679><c> Ephesians</c><00:43:54.099><c> says,</c>

00:43:54.559 --> 00:43:57.159
be<00:43:55.619><c> angry</c><00:43:55.940><c> and</c><00:43:56.139><c> sin</c><00:43:56.300><c> not.</c>

00:43:57.380 --> 00:43:59.320
Let<00:43:57.539><c> not</c><00:43:57.699><c> the</c><00:43:57.880><c> sun</c><00:43:58.159><c> go</c><00:43:58.480><c> down</c><00:43:58.739><c> upon</c><00:43:59.019><c> your</c><00:43:59.219><c> rock.</c>

00:43:59.400 --> 00:44:02.099
Don't<00:43:59.760><c> carry</c><00:44:00.099><c> it</c><00:44:00.360><c> over</c><00:44:00.519><c> to</c><00:44:00.719><c> the</c><00:44:00.860><c> next</c><00:44:01.219><c> day.</c>

00:44:02.440 --> 00:44:03.820
Don't<00:44:02.739><c> brood</c><00:44:03.079><c> over</c><00:44:03.380><c> it.</c>

00:44:03.980 --> 00:44:05.900
Don't<00:44:04.219><c> isolate</c><00:44:04.800><c> yourself.</c>

00:44:06.760 --> 00:44:09.019
It's<00:44:07.000><c> not</c><00:44:07.179><c> going</c><00:44:07.340><c> to</c><00:44:07.440><c> help</c><00:44:07.619><c> the</c><00:44:07.860><c> situation.</c>

00:44:13.500 --> 00:44:16.179
Children<00:44:13.780><c> will</c><00:44:14.039><c> always</c><00:44:14.340><c> notice</c><00:44:14.659><c> our</c><00:44:14.940><c> inconsistencies.</c>

00:44:16.980 --> 00:44:20.539
They're<00:44:17.179><c> there,</c><00:44:18.199><c> and</c><00:44:18.480><c> they're</c><00:44:18.699><c> the</c><00:44:18.820><c> first</c><00:44:19.059><c> ones</c><00:44:19.280><c> to</c><00:44:19.500><c> see</c><00:44:19.699><c> them.</c>

00:44:20.639 --> 00:44:23.480
When<00:44:20.880><c> they</c><00:44:21.159><c> do,</c><00:44:21.460><c> and</c><00:44:21.619><c> when</c><00:44:21.760><c> you've</c><00:44:22.019><c> made</c><00:44:22.260><c> a</c><00:44:22.480><c> mistake,</c>

00:44:23.659 --> 00:44:27.239
whatever<00:44:24.019><c> it</c><00:44:24.239><c> is,</c><00:44:26.380><c> apologise.</c>

00:44:28.780 --> 00:44:30.539
On<00:44:29.039><c> a</c><00:44:29.079><c> number</c><00:44:29.300><c> of</c><00:44:29.539><c> occasions,</c>

00:44:31.219 --> 00:44:32.440
I've<00:44:31.320><c> come</c><00:44:31.500><c> home,</c>

00:44:32.500 --> 00:44:34.639
I've<00:44:32.639><c> sat</c><00:44:32.800><c> at</c><00:44:32.920><c> the</c><00:44:33.039><c> dinner</c><00:44:33.219><c> table</c><00:44:33.460><c> with</c><00:44:33.599><c> the</c><00:44:33.780><c> family,</c>

00:44:34.659 --> 00:44:35.619
and<00:44:34.780><c> I've</c><00:44:34.940><c> said</c><00:44:35.019><c> to</c><00:44:35.179><c> the</c><00:44:35.320><c> children,</c>

00:44:35.900 --> 00:44:37.280
I<00:44:35.920><c> want</c><00:44:36.079><c> to</c><00:44:36.179><c> make</c><00:44:36.300><c> an</c><00:44:36.500><c> apology.</c>

00:44:38.880 --> 00:44:40.219
I<00:44:39.099><c> was</c><00:44:39.280><c> wrong.</c>

00:44:40.880 --> 00:44:42.500
I<00:44:41.139><c> know</c><00:44:41.320><c> I'm</c><00:44:41.480><c> inconsistent.</c>

00:44:43.440 --> 00:44:44.940
You're<00:44:43.679><c> right</c><00:44:43.820><c> to</c><00:44:44.059><c> point</c><00:44:44.199><c> them</c><00:44:44.360><c> out.</c>

00:44:45.219 --> 00:44:46.820
But<00:44:45.340><c> understand</c><00:44:45.800><c> this,</c>

00:44:48.000 --> 00:44:49.300
everybody<00:44:48.360><c> has</c><00:44:48.719><c> those</c><00:44:48.960><c> problems,</c>

00:44:49.320 --> 00:44:51.019
and<00:44:49.440><c> when</c><00:44:49.599><c> you're</c><00:44:49.900><c> a</c><00:44:49.940><c> parent,</c><00:44:50.139><c> if</c><00:44:50.219><c> you</c><00:44:50.340><c> ever</c><00:44:50.480><c> get</c><00:44:50.599><c> to</c><00:44:50.760><c> be</c><00:44:50.880><c> one,</c>

00:44:51.019 --> 00:44:52.599
then<00:44:51.079><c> you'll</c><00:44:51.360><c> realise</c><00:44:51.739><c> that</c><00:44:51.960><c> bringing</c><00:44:52.119><c> up</c><00:44:52.360><c> children</c>

00:44:52.599 --> 00:44:54.860
is<00:44:52.820><c> the</c><00:44:52.960><c> hardest</c><00:44:53.239><c> job</c><00:44:53.460><c> in</c><00:44:53.619><c> the</c><00:44:53.679><c> world.</c>

00:44:56.780 --> 00:44:58.960
And<00:44:56.900><c> they</c><00:44:57.019><c> will</c><00:44:57.219><c> invariably</c><00:44:57.599><c> say</c><00:44:57.800><c> to</c><00:44:57.940><c> me,</c>

00:44:59.059 --> 00:45:00.719
don't<00:44:59.260><c> worry</c><00:44:59.539><c> about</c><00:44:59.719><c> it,</c><00:44:59.900><c> Dad.</c>

00:45:00.760 --> 00:45:02.239
It<00:45:00.920><c> wasn't</c><00:45:01.119><c> that</c><00:45:01.280><c> big</c><00:45:01.420><c> a</c><00:45:01.559><c> deal.</c>

00:45:03.159 --> 00:45:05.800
By<00:45:03.400><c> doing</c><00:45:03.719><c> that,</c><00:45:04.159><c> we</c><00:45:04.320><c> bring</c><00:45:04.500><c> things</c><00:45:04.739><c> back</c><00:45:05.019><c> together,</c>

00:45:06.559 --> 00:45:08.300
when<00:45:06.599><c> they</c><00:45:06.739><c> could</c><00:45:06.880><c> have</c><00:45:07.019><c> been</c><00:45:07.179><c> forced</c><00:45:07.400><c> apart.</c>

00:45:08.980 --> 00:45:10.840
It's<00:45:09.199><c> sometimes</c><00:45:09.579><c> difficult</c><00:45:09.940><c> to</c><00:45:10.099><c> do</c><00:45:10.179><c> to</c><00:45:10.400><c> swallow</c><00:45:10.519><c> your</c><00:45:10.739><c> pride</c>

00:45:10.840 --> 00:45:12.900
and<00:45:11.059><c> say</c><00:45:11.280><c> that,</c><00:45:12.380><c> but</c><00:45:12.519><c> it</c><00:45:12.699><c> helps.</c>

00:45:13.119 --> 00:45:15.360
You<00:45:13.300><c> may</c><00:45:13.500><c> have</c><00:45:13.639><c> a</c><00:45:13.820><c> child</c><00:45:14.000><c> that's</c><00:45:14.260><c> nearly</c><00:45:14.400><c> impossible</c><00:45:14.840><c> to</c><00:45:15.039><c> deal</c><00:45:15.159><c> with.</c>

00:45:15.380 --> 00:45:18.679
We<00:45:15.579><c> had</c><00:45:15.780><c> one</c><00:45:16.460><c> who</c><00:45:17.139><c> remained</c><00:45:17.460><c> nameless,</c>

00:45:20.079 --> 00:45:25.679
who<00:45:20.639><c> whenever</c><00:45:21.199><c> discipline</c><00:45:22.139><c> or</c><00:45:24.760><c> rebuke,</c>

00:45:26.280 --> 00:45:28.780
or<00:45:26.400><c> know</c><00:45:26.539><c> you</c><00:45:26.719><c> can't</c><00:45:27.019><c> have</c><00:45:27.320><c> that,</c>

00:45:29.340 --> 00:45:30.579
whenever<00:45:29.559><c> that</c><00:45:29.860><c> situation</c><00:45:30.340><c> occurred,</c>

00:45:30.780 --> 00:45:33.260
particularly<00:45:31.039><c> out</c><00:45:31.239><c> in</c><00:45:31.420><c> public</c><00:45:31.639><c> in</c><00:45:32.019><c> shopping</c><00:45:32.300><c> centres,</c>

00:45:33.480 --> 00:45:36.360
the<00:45:33.699><c> child's</c><00:45:34.280><c> response</c><00:45:34.559><c> was</c><00:45:34.780><c> to</c><00:45:34.940><c> go</c><00:45:35.119><c> horizontal,</c>

00:45:38.260 --> 00:45:39.760
in<00:45:38.280><c> the</c><00:45:38.360><c> middle</c><00:45:38.500><c> of</c><00:45:38.639><c> the</c><00:45:38.820><c> mall,</c>

00:45:40.159 --> 00:45:41.599
and<00:45:40.179><c> kick</c><00:45:40.340><c> and</c><00:45:40.739><c> scream.</c>

00:45:41.800 --> 00:45:44.219
Now,<00:45:42.139><c> it's</c><00:45:42.380><c> very</c><00:45:42.699><c> difficult</c><00:45:42.980><c> to</c><00:45:43.199><c> deal</c><00:45:43.320><c> with.</c>

00:45:44.619 --> 00:45:46.300
We<00:45:44.800><c> used</c><00:45:44.980><c> to</c><00:45:45.019><c> have</c><00:45:45.139><c> people</c><00:45:45.460><c> just</c><00:45:45.780><c> going</c><00:45:45.940><c> like,</c>

00:45:46.300 --> 00:45:50.860
sad<00:45:46.559><c> acts,</c><00:45:48.940><c> as</c><00:45:49.300><c> we</c><00:45:49.519><c> walked</c><00:45:49.739><c> away.</c>

00:45:51.559 --> 00:45:52.960
Aren't<00:45:51.780><c> you</c><00:45:51.860><c> going</c><00:45:52.019><c> to</c><00:45:52.179><c> sort</c><00:45:52.280><c> it</c><00:45:52.460><c> out?</c>

00:45:53.260 --> 00:45:54.840
Aren't<00:45:53.440><c> you</c><00:45:53.539><c> going</c><00:45:53.619><c> to</c><00:45:53.719><c> deal</c><00:45:53.860><c> with</c><00:45:54.000><c> it?</c>

00:45:55.320 --> 00:45:57.000
Do<00:45:55.440><c> you</c><00:45:55.519><c> have</c><00:45:55.699><c> any</c><00:45:55.940><c> suggestions?</c>

00:46:00.860 --> 00:46:02.860
The<00:46:01.300><c> worst</c><00:46:01.539><c> actually</c><00:46:01.880><c> happened</c><00:46:02.139><c> when</c><00:46:02.300><c> I</c><00:46:02.440><c> was</c><00:46:02.559><c> away</c>

00:46:03.360 --> 00:46:06.420
in<00:46:03.800><c> another</c><00:46:04.099><c> state</c><00:46:04.380><c> doing</c><00:46:04.599><c> a</c><00:46:04.880><c> study</c><00:46:05.079><c> week</c><00:46:05.280><c> for</c><00:46:05.420><c> an</c><00:46:05.559><c> ecclesia.</c>

00:46:07.199 --> 00:46:09.320
They<00:46:07.360><c> were</c><00:46:07.539><c> commenting</c><00:46:07.820><c> on</c><00:46:08.039><c> how</c><00:46:08.199><c> lovely</c><00:46:08.519><c> this</c><00:46:08.719><c> particular</c>

00:46:09.320 --> 00:46:09.940
child<00:46:09.639><c> was</c>

00:46:09.940 --> 00:46:12.360
and<00:46:10.099><c> how</c><00:46:10.480><c> butter</c><00:46:10.639><c> wouldn't</c><00:46:10.860><c> melt</c><00:46:11.039><c> in</c><00:46:11.139><c> its</c><00:46:11.320><c> mouth.</c>

00:46:12.480 --> 00:46:14.739
And<00:46:12.880><c> we</c><00:46:13.019><c> said,</c><00:46:13.380><c> don't</c><00:46:13.420><c> be</c><00:46:13.639><c> deceived.</c>

00:46:16.199 --> 00:46:19.139
And<00:46:16.280><c> her</c><00:46:16.460><c> mother,</c><00:46:16.920><c> well,</c><00:46:17.139><c> I've</c><00:46:17.320><c> let</c><00:46:17.400><c> a</c><00:46:17.539><c> her</c><00:46:17.679><c> out</c><00:46:17.900><c> there,</c><00:46:18.159><c> haven't</c><00:46:18.300><c> I?</c>

00:46:19.599 --> 00:46:21.480
Well,<00:46:19.840><c> at</c><00:46:19.980><c> least</c><00:46:20.019><c> it's</c><00:46:20.159><c> one</c><00:46:20.340><c> out</c><00:46:20.539><c> of</c><00:46:20.539><c> three.</c>

00:46:22.420 --> 00:46:26.039
Put<00:46:22.639><c> something</c><00:46:22.920><c> on</c><00:46:23.039><c> her</c><00:46:23.340><c> plate,</c><00:46:24.559><c> which</c><00:46:24.719><c> she</c><00:46:24.880><c> didn't</c><00:46:25.079><c> want,</c>

00:46:26.099 --> 00:46:29.280
in<00:46:26.280><c> front</c><00:46:26.440><c> of</c><00:46:26.619><c> the</c><00:46:26.760><c> whole</c><00:46:26.960><c> ecclesia,</c><00:46:27.659><c> the</c><00:46:27.840><c> Sunday</c><00:46:28.119><c> fraternal.</c>

00:46:29.440 --> 00:46:31.539
She<00:46:29.659><c> completely</c><00:46:30.099><c> lost</c><00:46:30.380><c> the</c><00:46:30.639><c> plight</c><00:46:30.780><c> and</c><00:46:30.980><c> threw</c><00:46:31.099><c> herself</c>

00:46:31.539 --> 00:46:33.019
on<00:46:31.880><c> the</c><00:46:32.059><c> floor</c><00:46:32.199><c> in</c><00:46:32.340><c> the</c><00:46:32.400><c> middle</c><00:46:32.519><c> of</c><00:46:32.659><c> the</c><00:46:32.820><c> hall,</c>

00:46:33.480 --> 00:46:35.440
and<00:46:33.820><c> screamed</c><00:46:34.019><c> and</c><00:46:34.300><c> ranted</c><00:46:34.500><c> and</c><00:46:34.760><c> rang.</c>

00:46:36.280 --> 00:46:38.960
And<00:46:36.659><c> everybody</c><00:46:36.960><c> turned</c><00:46:37.219><c> around</c><00:46:37.460><c> and</c><00:46:37.559><c> looked</c><00:46:37.780><c> at</c><00:46:37.980><c> me.</c>

00:46:39.699 --> 00:46:41.719
And<00:46:40.059><c> this</c><00:46:40.340><c> is</c><00:46:40.559><c> the</c><00:46:40.639><c> brother</c><00:46:40.880><c> that's</c><00:46:41.099><c> come</c><00:46:41.300><c> over</c><00:46:41.519><c> here</c>

00:46:41.719 --> 00:46:43.599
to<00:46:41.840><c> give</c><00:46:42.000><c> us</c><00:46:42.360><c> the</c><00:46:42.519><c> studies.</c>

00:46:47.699 --> 00:46:49.780
Look,<00:46:47.860><c> we</c><00:46:47.920><c> all</c><00:46:48.079><c> go</c><00:46:48.239><c> through</c><00:46:48.400><c> those</c><00:46:48.699><c> circumstances.</c>

00:46:50.300 --> 00:46:52.900
It's<00:46:50.420><c> a</c><00:46:50.460><c> matter</c><00:46:50.639><c> of</c><00:46:50.780><c> how</c><00:46:51.019><c> we</c><00:46:51.239><c> deal</c><00:46:51.420><c> with</c><00:46:51.559><c> them.</c>

00:46:56.400 --> 00:46:58.960
I<00:46:56.760><c> was</c><00:46:57.119><c> going</c><00:46:57.340><c> to</c><00:46:57.440><c> make</c><00:46:57.619><c> somewhat</c><00:46:57.940><c> of</c><00:46:58.079><c> a</c><00:46:58.239><c> quarrelsome</c><00:46:58.800><c> wife.</c>

00:46:59.000 --> 00:47:00.400
You<00:46:59.099><c> can</c><00:46:59.380><c> sort</c><00:46:59.539><c> that</c><00:46:59.760><c> one</c><00:46:59.860><c> out</c><00:47:00.019><c> yourself.</c>

00:47:00.659 --> 00:47:02.880
It's<00:47:01.019><c> 27,</c><00:47:01.679><c> verse</c><00:47:01.860><c> 15</c><00:47:02.260><c> to</c><00:47:02.400><c> 16.</c>

00:47:02.960 --> 00:47:04.579
You<00:47:03.000><c> can</c><00:47:03.179><c> write</c><00:47:03.360><c> that</c><00:47:03.579><c> down.</c>

00:47:05.619 --> 00:47:07.099
Discipline<00:47:05.980><c> your</c><00:47:06.199><c> child</c><00:47:06.360><c> while</c><00:47:06.599><c> there</c><00:47:06.780><c> is</c><00:47:06.940><c> hope,</c>

00:47:07.099 --> 00:47:09.179
but<00:47:07.280><c> don't</c><00:47:07.460><c> get</c><00:47:07.639><c> so</c><00:47:07.880><c> angry</c><00:47:08.079><c> that</c><00:47:08.219><c> you</c><00:47:08.420><c> kill</c><00:47:08.659><c> him.</c>

00:47:09.539 --> 00:47:11.920
Now,<00:47:09.800><c> that</c><00:47:09.860><c> seems</c><00:47:10.199><c> like</c><00:47:10.440><c> an</c><00:47:10.619><c> overreaction.</c>

00:47:12.199 --> 00:47:14.420
But<00:47:12.300><c> I'm</c><00:47:12.539><c> sure</c><00:47:12.880><c> there</c><00:47:13.039><c> are</c><00:47:13.260><c> times</c><00:47:13.559><c> when</c><00:47:13.739><c> you</c><00:47:13.840><c> can</c>

00:47:14.420 --> 00:47:16.559
fully<00:47:14.739><c> understand</c><00:47:15.340><c> those</c><00:47:15.659><c> sentiments.</c>

00:47:17.440 --> 00:47:19.400
And<00:47:17.559><c> if</c><00:47:17.659><c> you're</c><00:47:17.840><c> a</c><00:47:17.960><c> schoolteacher,</c><00:47:18.559><c> I'm</c><00:47:18.679><c> sure</c><00:47:18.840><c> there</c><00:47:19.000><c> are</c><00:47:19.159><c> times</c>

00:47:19.400 --> 00:47:22.460
when<00:47:19.619><c> you</c><00:47:19.780><c> would</c><00:47:19.940><c> have</c><00:47:20.079><c> been</c><00:47:20.280><c> almost</c><00:47:20.639><c> driven</c><00:47:21.079><c> to</c><00:47:21.320><c> that</c><00:47:21.619><c> point.</c>

00:47:23.960 --> 00:47:26.619
It's<00:47:24.239><c> a</c><00:47:24.380><c> matter</c><00:47:24.559><c> of</c><00:47:24.820><c> keeping</c><00:47:25.219><c> perspective.</c>

00:47:27.659 --> 00:47:29.780
Discipline<00:47:28.139><c> your</c><00:47:28.400><c> child</c><00:47:28.719><c> while</c><00:47:29.179><c> there</c><00:47:29.500><c> is</c><00:47:29.679><c> hope.</c>

00:47:29.820 --> 00:47:32.239
You<00:47:29.960><c> let</c><00:47:30.159><c> them</c><00:47:30.300><c> go</c><00:47:30.559><c> unchecked,</c><00:47:31.099><c> what</c><00:47:31.320><c> happens?</c>

00:47:33.320 --> 00:47:36.159
An<00:47:33.800><c> undisciplined</c><00:47:34.280><c> child</c><00:47:34.719><c> becomes</c><00:47:35.139><c> an</c><00:47:35.380><c> even</c><00:47:35.780><c> more</c>

00:47:36.159 --> 00:47:38.099
undisciplined<00:47:36.780><c> adult,</c><00:47:37.139><c> and</c><00:47:37.239><c> they're</c><00:47:37.440><c> the</c><00:47:37.519><c> sort</c><00:47:37.719><c> of</c><00:47:37.900><c> people</c>

00:47:38.099 --> 00:47:39.800
that<00:47:38.239><c> we</c><00:47:38.380><c> see</c><00:47:38.539><c> in</c><00:47:38.659><c> the</c><00:47:38.860><c> paper</c><00:47:39.139><c> or</c><00:47:39.300><c> on</c><00:47:39.460><c> the</c><00:47:39.599><c> news</c>

00:47:39.800 --> 00:47:43.460
that<00:47:39.920><c> are</c><00:47:40.119><c> so</c><00:47:40.239><c> out</c><00:47:40.420><c> of</c><00:47:40.519><c> control,</c><00:47:40.880><c> they</c><00:47:41.000><c> end</c><00:47:41.300><c> up</c><00:47:42.179><c> in</c><00:47:42.619><c> jail</c>

00:47:44.139 --> 00:47:45.440
or<00:47:44.539><c> whatever.</c>

00:47:46.980 --> 00:47:51.039
Do<00:47:47.380><c> it,</c><00:47:48.820><c> but</c><00:47:48.960><c> not</c><00:47:49.099><c> to</c><00:47:49.199><c> the</c><00:47:49.340><c> point</c><00:47:49.480><c> where</c><00:47:49.639><c> you</c><00:47:49.800><c> lose</c><00:47:49.960><c> control,</c>

00:47:51.420 --> 00:47:52.920
is<00:47:51.519><c> what</c><00:47:51.719><c> Solomon</c><00:47:51.920><c> is</c><00:47:52.179><c> saying.</c>

00:47:54.199 --> 00:47:55.639
We'd<00:47:54.519><c> better</c><00:47:54.519><c> get</c><00:47:54.760><c> to</c><00:47:54.900><c> the</c><00:47:55.019><c> last</c><00:47:55.320><c> one.</c>

00:47:55.900 --> 00:47:58.840
Now,<00:47:56.059><c> this</c><00:47:56.219><c> is,</c><00:47:57.460><c> I</c><00:47:57.780><c> think,</c><00:47:58.039><c> a</c><00:47:58.059><c> fabulous</c><00:47:58.559><c> quote</c>

00:47:58.840 --> 00:48:00.320
out<00:47:59.039><c> of</c><00:47:59.320><c> the</c><00:47:59.519><c> complete</c><00:47:59.719><c> Jewish</c><00:48:00.059><c> Bible,</c>

00:48:00.380 --> 00:48:03.880
because<00:48:00.599><c> it</c><00:48:00.860><c> sets</c><00:48:01.099><c> things</c><00:48:01.639><c> as</c><00:48:01.800><c> they</c><00:48:01.980><c> should</c><00:48:02.199><c> be.</c>

00:48:04.980 --> 00:48:09.139
A<00:48:05.380><c> fool</c><00:48:05.599><c> gives</c><00:48:06.019><c> full</c><00:48:06.400><c> vent</c><00:48:06.679><c> to</c><00:48:07.219><c> his</c><00:48:07.460><c> feelings.</c>

00:48:09.519 --> 00:48:11.360
So<00:48:09.559><c> you</c><00:48:09.579><c> want</c><00:48:09.760><c> to</c><00:48:09.840><c> give</c><00:48:10.019><c> full,</c><00:48:10.199><c> you</c><00:48:10.300><c> want</c><00:48:10.480><c> to</c><00:48:10.599><c> let</c><00:48:10.679><c> it</c><00:48:10.900><c> all</c><00:48:11.139><c> out</c>

00:48:11.360 --> 00:48:11.539
of<00:48:11.500><c> them.</c>

00:48:11.739 --> 00:48:15.380
So<00:48:11.920><c> a</c><00:48:12.059><c> vent</c><00:48:12.079><c> is</c><00:48:12.239><c> something</c><00:48:12.619><c> that's</c><00:48:12.940><c> used</c><00:48:13.460><c> to</c><00:48:13.980><c> release</c><00:48:14.300><c> pressure.</c>

00:48:16.079 --> 00:48:18.280
So<00:48:16.219><c> you</c><00:48:16.219><c> have</c><00:48:16.360><c> them</c><00:48:16.500><c> on</c><00:48:16.659><c> hot</c><00:48:16.820><c> water</c><00:48:17.119><c> systems,</c>

00:48:19.880 --> 00:48:21.159
lets<00:48:19.920><c> out</c><00:48:20.179><c> the</c><00:48:20.380><c> steam.</c>

00:48:22.699 --> 00:48:24.840
Only<00:48:22.940><c> a</c><00:48:23.059><c> fool</c><00:48:23.159><c> does</c><00:48:23.380><c> that,</c><00:48:23.679><c> gives</c><00:48:23.860><c> full</c><00:48:24.059><c> vent.</c>

00:48:25.579 --> 00:48:28.860
At<00:48:25.760><c> the</c><00:48:25.840><c> end</c><00:48:25.940><c> of</c><00:48:26.039><c> that</c><00:48:26.179><c> process,</c><00:48:26.579><c> they're</c><00:48:26.679><c> like</c><00:48:27.159><c> a</c><00:48:27.480><c> defenseless</c><00:48:27.980><c> city.</c>

00:48:29.780 --> 00:48:35.500
He<00:48:30.340><c> says,</c><00:48:30.900><c> but</c><00:48:30.900><c> the</c><00:48:31.159><c> wise,</c><00:48:33.380><c> thinking</c><00:48:33.800><c> of</c><00:48:34.300><c> afterwards.</c>

00:48:36.000 --> 00:48:37.840
That's<00:48:36.199><c> the</c><00:48:36.320><c> key,</c><00:48:36.639><c> isn't</c><00:48:36.639><c> it?</c>

00:48:38.079 --> 00:48:38.920
Thinking<00:48:38.460><c> of</c><00:48:38.780><c> afterwards.</c>

00:48:39.000 --> 00:48:40.579
That's<00:48:39.079><c> what</c><00:48:39.219><c> we've</c><00:48:39.440><c> been</c><00:48:39.500><c> talking</c><00:48:39.699><c> about</c><00:48:40.019><c> all</c><00:48:40.360><c> week.</c>

00:48:40.679 --> 00:48:46.179
We've<00:48:40.900><c> been</c><00:48:41.099><c> talking</c><00:48:41.260><c> about</c><00:48:42.099><c> the</c><00:48:42.440><c> longest,</c><00:48:44.340><c> the</c><00:48:44.840><c> consequences.</c>

00:48:46.880 --> 00:48:49.380
There<00:48:46.980><c> are</c><00:48:47.280><c> consequences</c><00:48:47.739><c> both</c><00:48:48.079><c> now</c><00:48:48.440><c> in</c><00:48:48.599><c> our</c><00:48:48.820><c> everyday</c><00:48:49.079><c> life,</c>

00:48:49.440 --> 00:48:51.000
there<00:48:49.500><c> are</c><00:48:49.840><c> consequences</c><00:48:50.239><c> which</c><00:48:50.539><c> are</c><00:48:50.699><c> eternal.</c>

00:48:51.159 --> 00:48:55.079
He<00:48:51.179><c> says,</c><00:48:51.500><c> the</c><00:48:51.639><c> wise</c><00:48:52.340><c> put</c><00:48:53.420><c> in</c><00:48:53.519><c> that</c><00:48:53.679><c> situation,</c>

00:48:56.059 --> 00:48:57.059
we<00:48:56.280><c> have</c><00:48:56.460><c> a</c><00:48:56.639><c> choice.</c>

00:48:57.059 --> 00:48:58.639
That's<00:48:57.599><c> what</c><00:48:57.860><c> Proverbs</c><00:48:58.099><c> is</c><00:48:58.219><c> all</c><00:48:58.420><c> about.</c>

00:48:58.780 --> 00:49:01.699
We<00:48:58.980><c> have</c><00:48:59.179><c> a</c><00:48:59.340><c> choice,</c><00:48:59.940><c> which</c><00:49:00.219><c> way</c><00:49:00.400><c> we're</c><00:49:00.539><c> going</c><00:49:00.679><c> to</c><00:49:00.820><c> go.</c>

00:49:01.840 --> 00:49:05.420
He<00:49:01.900><c> says,</c><00:49:02.159><c> if</c><00:49:02.219><c> you're</c><00:49:02.599><c> wise,</c><00:49:03.800><c> you</c><00:49:03.960><c> look</c><00:49:04.079><c> at</c><00:49:04.199><c> the</c><00:49:04.340><c> situation,</c>

00:49:06.099 --> 00:49:09.099
you'll<00:49:06.440><c> think</c><00:49:06.619><c> of</c><00:49:07.739><c> the</c><00:49:08.260><c> afterwards,</c><00:49:08.679><c> the</c><00:49:08.900><c> result.</c>

00:49:09.179 --> 00:49:11.019
Is<00:49:09.320><c> it</c><00:49:09.420><c> going</c><00:49:09.619><c> to</c><00:49:09.780><c> blow</c><00:49:10.139><c> things</c><00:49:10.500><c> apart,</c>

00:49:11.139 --> 00:49:13.059
or<00:49:11.300><c> is</c><00:49:11.380><c> it</c><00:49:11.420><c> going</c><00:49:11.579><c> to</c><00:49:11.719><c> settle</c><00:49:11.860><c> things</c><00:49:12.179><c> down?</c>

00:49:13.539 --> 00:49:16.199
And<00:49:13.739><c> he</c><00:49:13.800><c> says,</c><00:49:14.139><c> the</c><00:49:14.300><c> wise</c><00:49:14.460><c> will</c><00:49:14.579><c> look</c><00:49:14.739><c> at</c><00:49:14.820><c> that</c><00:49:15.039><c> situation,</c>

00:49:16.659 --> 00:49:20.079
take<00:49:16.880><c> the</c><00:49:17.039><c> long</c><00:49:17.300><c>-term</c><00:49:17.500><c> view,</c><00:49:18.800><c> and</c><00:49:19.099><c> still,</c>

00:49:20.820 --> 00:49:23.559
what<00:49:20.940><c> otherwise</c><00:49:21.460><c> would</c><00:49:21.840><c> have</c><00:49:21.960><c> come</c><00:49:22.139><c> out</c><00:49:22.320><c> of</c><00:49:22.400><c> them,</c>

00:49:23.679 --> 00:49:25.460
and<00:49:23.920><c> caused</c><00:49:24.280><c> destruction.</c>

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For<00:49:27.059><c> more</c><00:49:27.059><c> UN</c><00:49:27.059><c> videos</c><00:49:27.059><c> visit</c><00:49:27.059><c> www</c><00:49:27.059><c>.un</c><00:49:27.139><c>.org</c>