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society</c><00:12:51.659><c> out</c><00:12:52.000><c> there,</c> 00:12:53.059 --> 00:12:56.200 the<00:12:53.259><c> key</c><00:12:53.620><c> latch</c><00:12:54.000><c> kid</c><00:12:54.340><c> who</c><00:12:54.639><c> comes</c><00:12:54.879><c> home</c><00:12:55.220><c> day</c><00:12:55.559><c> after</c><00:12:55.960><c> day</c> 00:12:56.200 --> 00:12:57.840 with<00:12:56.379><c> no</c><00:12:56.620><c> mother</c><00:12:56.799><c> at</c><00:12:57.039><c> home,</c> 00:12:58.080 --> 00:13:00.840 no<00:12:58.200><c> one</c><00:12:58.320><c> to</c><00:12:58.559><c> share</c><00:12:58.740><c> problems</c><00:12:59.240><c> with</c><00:12:59.519><c> at</c><00:12:59.700><c> lunch</c><00:12:59.980><c> hour,</c> 00:13:01.200 --> 00:13:03.240 no<00:13:01.379><c> one</c><00:13:01.519><c> to</c><00:13:01.679><c> confide</c><00:13:02.159><c> in</c><00:13:02.360><c> during</c><00:13:02.600><c> the</c><00:13:02.799><c> day,</c> 00:13:03.679 --> 00:13:04.980 and<00:13:03.919><c> then</c><00:13:04.059><c> when</c><00:13:04.240><c> mother</c><00:13:04.419><c> comes</c><00:13:04.720><c> home</c> 00:13:04.980 --> 00:13:07.159 after<00:13:05.279><c> having</c><00:13:05.539><c> worked</c><00:13:05.940><c> all</c><00:13:06.340><c> day</c><00:13:06.620><c> long,</c> 00:13:07.659 --> 00:13:09.399 then<00:13:07.820><c> has</c><00:13:08.059><c> to</c><00:13:08.279><c> catch</c><00:13:08.539><c> up</c><00:13:08.679><c> with</c><00:13:08.840><c> the</c><00:13:09.059><c> laundry,</c> 00:13:09.399 --> 00:13:12.519 the<00:13:09.759><c> cooking</c><00:13:10.039><c> and</c><00:13:10.259><c> all</c><00:13:10.460><c> the</c><00:13:10.620><c> other</c><00:13:10.759><c> household</c><00:13:11.159><c> responsibilities</c> 00:13:12.519 --> 00:13:15.460 is<00:13:12.779><c> not</c><00:13:13.059><c> able</c><00:13:13.399><c> to,</c><00:13:13.860><c> in</c><00:13:13.879><c> many</c><00:13:14.159><c> cases</c><00:13:14.620><c> perhaps,</c> 00:13:15.960 --> 00:13:19.299 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catching</c><00:13:39.259><c> up</c><00:13:39.480><c> on</c><00:13:39.639><c> other</c><00:13:39.940><c> responsibilities.</c> 00:13:42.080 --> 00:13:46.120 And<00:13:42.399><c> that</c><00:13:42.600><c> has</c><00:13:43.039><c> created</c><00:13:43.620><c> tensions</c><00:13:44.080><c> and</c><00:13:44.460><c> problems</c><00:13:44.799><c> in</c><00:13:45.000><c> many</c><00:13:45.179><c> homes.</c> 00:13:46.840 --> 00:13:49.139 It's<00:13:46.980><c> no</c><00:13:47.220><c> doubt</c><00:13:47.519><c> that</c><00:13:47.820><c> the</c><00:13:48.080><c> working</c><00:13:48.580><c> mother</c> 00:13:49.139 --> 00:13:52.259 has<00:13:49.720><c> often</c><00:13:50.159><c> created</c><00:13:50.620><c> tensions</c><00:13:51.019><c> with</c><00:13:51.240><c> husbands.</c> 00:13:53.120 --> 00:13:56.500 A<00:13:53.259><c> husband</c><00:13:53.519><c> finds</c><00:13:53.820><c> wife</c><00:13:54.220><c> is</c><00:13:54.480><c> just</c><00:13:54.720><c> not</c><00:13:54.879><c> able</c><00:13:55.080><c> to</c><00:13:55.279><c> spend</c><00:13:55.399><c> the</c><00:13:55.679><c> time.</c> 00:13:56.539 --> 00:13:58.840 She's<00:13:56.799><c> got</c><00:13:56.980><c> homework</c><00:13:57.320><c> to</c><00:13:57.539><c> do</c><00:13:57.639><c> from</c><00:13:57.820><c> her</c><00:13:58.080><c> job</c><00:13:58.259><c> or</c><00:13:58.379><c> the</c><00:13:58.580><c> office.</c> 00:13:58.860 --> 00:14:01.259 She's<00:13:59.100><c> got</c><00:13:59.220><c> extra</c><00:13:59.559><c> typing</c><00:13:59.840><c> to</c><00:14:00.059><c> do,</c><00:14:00.279><c> perhaps.</c> 00:14:02.220 --> 00:14:06.179 In<00:14:02.559><c> some</c><00:14:02.820><c> cases,</c><00:14:04.039><c> there's</c><00:14:04.419><c> not</c><00:14:04.899><c> much</c><00:14:05.139><c> choice.</c> 00:14:06.340 --> 00:14:07.740 Perhaps<00:14:06.860><c> some</c><00:14:07.179><c> families,</c> 00:14:07.740 --> 00:14:10.740 if<00:14:08.200><c> they</c><00:14:08.440><c> want</c><00:14:08.580><c> 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your</c><00:14:43.700><c> own</c><00:14:44.000><c> on</c><00:14:44.399><c> a</c><00:14:44.559><c> single</c><00:14:44.820><c> salary.</c> 00:14:46.059 --> 00:14:48.240 And<00:14:46.299><c> that</c><00:14:46.500><c> has</c><00:14:46.820><c> created</c><00:14:47.259><c> pressures.</c> 00:14:48.320 --> 00:14:51.700 And<00:14:48.539><c> perhaps</c><00:14:48.899><c> it's</c><00:14:49.159><c> also</c><00:14:49.600><c> created</c><00:14:50.039><c> compromises,</c> 00:14:51.820 --> 00:14:54.860 and<00:14:52.059><c> some</c><00:14:52.220><c> of</c><00:14:52.299><c> those</c><00:14:52.539><c> compromises</c><00:14:53.240><c> may</c><00:14:53.440><c> not</c><00:14:53.639><c> be</c><00:14:53.879><c> justified.</c> 00:14:55.419 --> 00:14:56.440 So<00:14:55.600><c> there</c><00:14:55.720><c> is</c><00:14:55.879><c> a</c><00:14:56.100><c> caution.</c> 00:14:56.840 --> 00:14:59.659 Where<00:14:57.139><c> brethren</c><00:14:57.440><c> are</c><00:14:57.740><c> coming</c><00:14:57.960><c> 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neglected,</c><00:15:10.639><c> people</c><00:15:10.940><c> that</c><00:15:11.159><c> could</c><00:15:11.340><c> be</c><00:15:11.559><c> visited,</c> 00:15:12.379 --> 00:15:14.299 sisters<00:15:12.720><c> and</c><00:15:12.919><c> people</c><00:15:13.179><c> that</c><00:15:13.340><c> could</c><00:15:13.519><c> be</c><00:15:13.700><c> written</c><00:15:13.919><c> to,</c> 00:15:14.779 --> 00:15:18.179 a<00:15:15.120><c> support</c><00:15:15.379><c> role</c><00:15:15.679><c> for</c><00:15:15.899><c> the</c><00:15:16.100><c> husband</c><00:15:16.399><c> who's</c><00:15:16.659><c> busy</c><00:15:16.879><c> in</c><00:15:17.039><c> the</c><00:15:17.200><c> Ecclesia.</c> 00:15:18.299 --> 00:15:21.440 There's<00:15:18.519><c> many</c><00:15:18.840><c> things</c><00:15:19.159><c> for</c><00:15:19.340><c> the</c><00:15:19.539><c> sister</c><00:15:19.840><c> to</c><00:15:20.179><c> do</c><00:15:20.440><c> in</c><00:15:20.659><c> an</c><00:15:20.879><c> active</c><00:15:21.139><c> way</c> 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self</c><00:16:12.419><c>-satisfaction</c> 00:16:13.679 --> 00:16:16.080 over<00:16:14.480><c> service</c><00:16:14.960><c> to</c><00:16:15.159><c> Christ.</c> 00:16:16.179 --> 00:16:18.399 And<00:16:16.419><c> that's</c><00:16:17.399><c> an</c><00:16:17.600><c> important</c><00:16:17.919><c> decision.</c> 00:16:18.820 --> 00:16:20.580 Perhaps<00:16:19.179><c> a</c><00:16:19.360><c> sister</c><00:16:19.580><c> who's</c><00:16:19.779><c> very</c><00:16:20.179><c> talented</c> 00:16:20.580 --> 00:16:24.519 and<00:16:20.759><c> is</c><00:16:20.899><c> in</c><00:16:21.000><c> an</c><00:16:21.159><c> Ecclesia</c><00:16:21.639><c> that</c><00:16:22.240><c> needs</c><00:16:22.559><c> her</c><00:16:22.860><c> help</c><00:16:23.179><c> in</c><00:16:23.379><c> the</c><00:16:23.559><c> daytime</c> 00:16:25.000 --> 00:16:26.320 has<00:16:25.480><c> to</c><00:16:25.679><c> say</c><00:16:25.779><c> to</c><00:16:25.940><c> herself,</c> 00:16:26.320 --> 00:16:29.360 well,<00:16:27.539><c> 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simply</c><00:16:38.340><c> means</c><00:16:38.600><c> more</c><00:16:38.840><c> money</c><00:16:39.100><c> for</c><00:16:39.419><c> extras.</c> 00:16:40.860 --> 00:16:44.320 If<00:16:41.019><c> that's</c><00:16:41.279><c> the</c><00:16:41.399><c> case,</c><00:16:42.500><c> a</c><00:16:42.500><c> sister</c><00:16:42.679><c> could</c><00:16:42.879><c> do</c><00:16:43.080><c> well</c><00:16:43.379><c> to</c><00:16:43.559><c> sit</c><00:16:43.740><c> down</c> 00:16:44.320 --> 00:16:45.919 and<00:16:44.639><c> think</c><00:16:44.820><c> seriously</c><00:16:45.279><c> about</c><00:16:45.539><c> the</c><00:16:45.740><c> fact</c> 00:16:45.919 --> 00:16:49.139 that<00:16:46.039><c> if</c><00:16:46.120><c> she</c><00:16:46.279><c> has</c><00:16:46.539><c> children,</c><00:16:46.879><c> they</c><00:16:47.240><c> are</c><00:16:47.399><c> her</c><00:16:47.659><c> first</c><00:16:47.980><c> responsibility.</c> 00:16:49.220 --> 00:16:50.340 If<00:16:49.340><c> she</c><00:16:49.500><c> 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you</c><00:17:36.660><c> think?</c> 00:17:38.740 --> 00:17:39.000 Anybody? 00:17:39.400 --> 00:17:40.819 Sisters,<00:17:39.819><c> girls?</c> 00:17:43.519 --> 00:17:43.799 Yes. 00:17:44.200 --> 00:17:47.240 I<00:17:44.279><c> think</c><00:17:44.519><c> the</c><00:17:44.660><c> key</c><00:17:44.819><c> is</c><00:17:45.119><c> that,</c><00:17:46.460><c> well,</c><00:17:46.980><c> for</c><00:17:47.079><c> me,</c> 00:17:47.339 --> 00:17:51.940 one<00:17:47.440><c> of</c><00:17:47.559><c> the</c><00:17:47.900><c> main</c><00:17:48.140><c> thing</c><00:17:48.400><c> is</c><00:17:48.680><c> that</c><00:17:50.660><c> when</c><00:17:50.960><c> children</c><00:17:51.279><c> do</c><00:17:51.500><c> come</c><00:17:51.740><c> along,</c> 00:17:51.940 --> 00:17:54.359 and<00:17:51.940><c> that's</c><00:17:52.319><c> where</c><00:17:52.440><c> a</c><00:17:52.559><c> real</c><00:17:52.700><c> responsibility</c><00:17:53.339><c> lies,</c> 00:17:55.099 --> 00:17:56.299 and,<00:17:55.099><c> you</c><00:17:55.099><c> know,</c> 00:17:56.619 --> 00:17:57.980 none<00:17:56.619><c> of</c><00:17:56.660><c> them,</c><00:17:56.960><c> if</c><00:17:57.119><c> they're</c><00:17:57.480><c> getting</c><00:17:57.480><c> married,</c> 00:17:58.099 --> 00:18:00.619 should<00:17:58.200><c> think</c><00:17:58.460><c> about,</c><00:17:59.279><c> instead</c><00:17:59.599><c> of,</c><00:18:00.059><c> you</c><00:18:00.160><c> know,</c> 00:18:00.980 --> 00:18:02.140 filling<00:18:01.000><c> your</c><00:18:01.420><c> quiver</c><00:18:01.819><c> full,</c> 00:18:02.279 --> 00:18:04.440 they'll<00:18:02.500><c> have</c><00:18:02.599><c> to</c><00:18:02.799><c> batter</c><00:18:02.980><c> some</c><00:18:03.259><c> of</c><00:18:03.359><c> their</c><00:18:03.559><c> advantages</c> 00:18:04.460 --> 00:18:08.339 to,<00:18:04.880><c> you</c><00:18:05.339><c> know,</c><00:18:05.759><c> save</c><00:18:05.940><c> up</c><00:18:06.119><c> and</c><00:18:06.299><c> build</c><00:18:06.500><c> that</c><00:18:06.759><c> nest</c><00:18:07.000><c> egg</c><00:18:07.220><c> for</c><00:18:07.539><c> us</c> 00:18:08.299 --> 00:18:09.799 so<00:18:08.559><c> that</c><00:18:08.720><c> when</c><00:18:08.819><c> the</c><00:18:08.960><c> children</c><00:18:09.180><c> do</c><00:18:09.460><c> come</c><00:18:09.579><c> along,</c> 00:18:09.799 --> 00:18:11.940 you're<00:18:10.140><c> all</c><00:18:10.259><c> prepared</c><00:18:10.599><c> for</c><00:18:10.920><c> it.</c> 00:18:12.880 --> 00:18:16.299 Brethren<00:18:13.279><c> who</c><00:18:13.559><c> feel</c><00:18:13.799><c> very</c><00:18:14.400><c> strongly</c><00:18:14.720><c> about</c><00:18:15.039><c> this</c><00:18:15.380><c> question,</c> 00:18:16.400 --> 00:18:19.019 little<00:18:16.599><c> differently</c><00:18:16.920><c> than</c><00:18:17.119><c> the</c><00:18:17.220><c> way</c><00:18:17.380><c> I've</c><00:18:17.720><c> responded</c><00:18:18.059><c> to</c><00:18:18.319><c> it,</c> 00:18:19.160 --> 00:18:20.839 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of</c><00:18:30.180><c> those</c><00:18:30.400><c> individuals,</c> 00:18:31.660 --> 00:18:34.279 the<00:18:31.839><c> wife</c><00:18:32.039><c> in</c><00:18:32.299><c> particular,</c><00:18:33.319><c> to</c><00:18:33.480><c> give</c><00:18:33.640><c> up</c><00:18:33.799><c> her</c><00:18:34.000><c> job.</c> 00:18:34.380 --> 00:18:37.079 She's<00:18:34.700><c> then</c><00:18:34.900><c> been</c><00:18:35.119><c> used</c><00:18:35.359><c> to</c><00:18:35.519><c> going</c><00:18:35.660><c> out</c><00:18:35.960><c> and</c><00:18:36.220><c> working.</c> 00:18:37.299 --> 00:18:38.539 Point<00:18:37.480><c> is</c><00:18:37.660><c> sometimes</c><00:18:38.200><c> made,</c> 00:18:38.920 --> 00:18:40.880 the<00:18:39.059><c> couple</c><00:18:39.299><c> then</c><00:18:39.519><c> is</c><00:18:39.740><c> used</c><00:18:39.920><c> to</c><00:18:40.200><c> two</c><00:18:40.440><c> incomes,</c> 00:18:40.960 --> 00:18:42.599 and<00:18:41.160><c> they're</c><00:18:41.319><c> used</c><00:18:41.500><c> to</c><00:18:41.660><c> a</c><00:18:41.819><c> certain</c><00:18:42.039><c> lifestyle</c> 00:18:42.599 --> 00:18:45.279 that<00:18:43.099><c> can</c><00:18:43.259><c> be</c><00:18:43.539><c> supported</c><00:18:43.880><c> with</c><00:18:44.119><c> two</c><00:18:44.319><c> incomes,</c> 00:18:45.380 --> 00:18:47.839 and<00:18:45.539><c> that</c><00:18:45.619><c> they</c><00:18:45.859><c> develop</c><00:18:46.240><c> and</c><00:18:46.740><c> fall</c><00:18:46.920><c> into</c><00:18:47.180><c> a</c><00:18:47.460><c> lifestyle</c> 00:18:47.839 --> 00:18:49.720 that<00:18:48.059><c> they're</c><00:18:48.359><c> used</c><00:18:48.519><c> to</c><00:18:48.680><c> and</c><00:18:48.759><c> don't</c><00:18:49.000><c> want</c><00:18:49.180><c> to</c><00:18:49.359><c> give</c><00:18:49.500><c> up</c> 00:18:49.720 --> 00:18:51.440 when<00:18:49.880><c> children</c><00:18:50.180><c> come</c><00:18:50.460><c> along.</c> 00:18:51.640 --> 00:18:53.000 So<00:18:51.720><c> the</c><00:18:51.839><c> child's</c><00:18:52.279><c> born</c><00:18:52.420><c> and</c><00:18:52.559><c> within</c><00:18:52.680><c> a</c><00:18:52.900><c> year,</c> 00:18:53.039 --> 00:18:56.079 the<00:18:53.160><c> sister</c><00:18:53.339><c> goes</c><00:18:53.539><c> back</c><00:18:53.779><c> to</c><00:18:53.940><c> work</c><00:18:54.119><c> again,</c><00:18:54.859><c> perhaps</c><00:18:55.240><c> unnecessarily.</c> 00:18:56.539 --> 00:18:57.940 But<00:18:56.700><c> they've</c><00:18:56.880><c> already</c><00:18:57.079><c> got</c><00:18:57.220><c> into</c><00:18:57.420><c> the</c><00:18:57.660><c> pattern.</c> 00:18:58.279 --> 00:18:59.700 They're<00:18:58.500><c> already</c><00:18:58.779><c> used</c><00:18:59.000><c> to</c><00:18:59.140><c> two</c><00:18:59.319><c> incomes.</c> 00:19:00.059 --> 00:19:03.220 They're<00:19:00.359><c> already</c><00:19:00.599><c> used</c><00:19:00.819><c> to</c><00:19:01.039><c> a</c><00:19:01.640><c> certain</c><00:19:01.920><c> standard</c><00:19:02.319><c> of</c><00:19:02.539><c> living,</c> 00:19:03.279 --> 00:19:04.279 to<00:19:03.500><c> certain</c><00:19:03.680><c> luxuries.</c> 00:19:04.720 --> 00:19:07.119 And<00:19:04.839><c> I</c><00:19:04.940><c> think</c><00:19:05.140><c> brethren</c><00:19:05.420><c> rightly</c><00:19:05.720><c> so</c><00:19:05.980><c> look</c><00:19:06.180><c> at</c><00:19:06.299><c> that</c><00:19:06.519><c> situation</c> 00:19:07.119 --> 00:19:09.200 and<00:19:07.400><c> say,</c><00:19:08.200><c> think</c><00:19:08.359><c> about</c><00:19:08.579><c> it</c><00:19:08.839><c> carefully,</c> 00:19:09.680 --> 00:19:11.059 right<00:19:09.900><c> from</c><00:19:10.099><c> the</c><00:19:10.259><c> beginning.</c> 00:19:11.619 --> 00:19:12.880 Think<00:19:11.920><c> about</c><00:19:12.240><c> it</c><00:19:12.519><c> carefully.</c> 00:19:13.339 --> 00:19:15.200 Are<00:19:13.480><c> you</c><00:19:13.660><c> going</c><00:19:13.799><c> to</c><00:19:13.980><c> get</c><00:19:14.119><c> yourself</c><00:19:14.440><c> into</c><00:19:14.660><c> a</c><00:19:14.859><c> lifestyle</c> 00:19:15.200 --> 00:19:16.940 that<00:19:15.500><c> demands</c><00:19:15.920><c> two</c><00:19:16.119><c> incomes?</c> 00:19:16.980 --> 00:19:18.740 Are<00:19:17.160><c> you</c><00:19:17.359><c> automatically</c><00:19:17.900><c> gonna</c><00:19:18.140><c> buy</c><00:19:18.420><c> a</c><00:19:18.559><c> house</c> 00:19:18.740 --> 00:19:20.339 and<00:19:18.920><c> two</c><00:19:19.119><c> cars</c><00:19:19.359><c> that</c><00:19:19.619><c> requires</c> 00:19:20.339 --> 00:19:22.220 that<00:19:20.759><c> the</c><00:19:20.920><c> two</c><00:19:21.019><c> of</c><00:19:21.160><c> you</c><00:19:21.279><c> are</c><00:19:21.480><c> always</c><00:19:21.839><c> working,</c> 00:19:22.480 --> 00:19:24.400 even<00:19:22.700><c> if</c><00:19:22.880><c> children</c><00:19:23.140><c> do</c><00:19:23.339><c> come</c><00:19:23.599><c> along?</c> 00:19:24.839 --> 00:19:26.740 Don't<00:19:25.279><c> put</c><00:19:25.500><c> yourself</c><00:19:25.859><c> into</c><00:19:26.079><c> a</c><00:19:26.319><c> lifestyle</c> 00:19:26.740 --> 00:19:31.400 that<00:19:27.079><c> demands</c><00:19:28.220><c> two</c><00:19:29.119><c> incomes,</c><00:19:29.759><c> if</c><00:19:30.220><c> you</c><00:19:30.339><c> can</c><00:19:30.519><c> avoid</c><00:19:30.740><c> it.</c> 00:19:31.880 --> 00:19:34.200 That<00:19:32.220><c> has</c><00:19:32.400><c> to</c><00:19:32.539><c> be</c><00:19:32.680><c> decided</c><00:19:32.980><c> right</c><00:19:33.140><c> at</c><00:19:33.259><c> the</c><00:19:33.420><c> beginning.</c> 00:19:34.740 --> 00:19:36.420 It's<00:19:34.940><c> an</c><00:19:35.160><c> important</c><00:19:35.440><c> caution.</c> 00:19:37.299 --> 00:19:39.160 Well,<00:19:37.779><c> any</c><00:19:37.960><c> other</c><00:19:38.200><c> reactions?</c> 00:19:39.880 --> 00:19:42.279 Say<00:19:39.980><c> what</c><00:19:40.079><c> you</c><00:19:40.259><c> think,</c><00:19:40.539><c> let's</c><00:19:40.720><c> talk</c><00:19:40.940><c> about</c><00:19:41.119><c> it.</c> 00:19:45.359 --> 00:19:46.980 You<00:19:45.599><c> and</c><00:19:45.779><c> then</c><00:19:45.920><c> you,</c><00:19:46.259><c> way</c><00:19:46.339><c> at</c><00:19:46.440><c> the</c><00:19:46.539><c> far</c><00:19:46.660><c> back.</c> 00:19:46.980 --> 00:19:48.960 Sorry,<00:19:47.779><c> your</c><00:19:47.779><c> name</c><00:19:47.960><c> is?</c> 00:19:49.119 --> 00:19:50.319 Josh,<00:19:49.220><c> go</c><00:19:49.400><c> ahead.</c> 00:19:58.500 --> 00:19:59.160 Yes. 00:20:04.519 --> 00:20:06.500 Now<00:20:04.900><c> we're</c><00:20:05.099><c> getting</c><00:20:05.259><c> into</c><00:20:05.480><c> what</c><00:20:05.619><c> I</c><00:20:05.980><c> personally</c><00:20:06.200><c> regard</c> 00:20:06.500 --> 00:20:07.319 as<00:20:06.660><c> a</c><00:20:06.799><c> gray</c><00:20:06.920><c> area.</c> 00:20:07.779 --> 00:20:09.400 I<00:20:08.140><c> don't</c><00:20:08.299><c> see</c><00:20:08.460><c> this</c><00:20:08.680><c> as</c><00:20:08.839><c> black</c><00:20:09.059><c> and</c><00:20:09.259><c> white.</c> 00:20:09.579 --> 00:20:10.980 I'm<00:20:09.680><c> only</c><00:20:09.819><c> giving</c><00:20:09.980><c> you</c><00:20:10.200><c> my</c><00:20:10.400><c> opinion.</c> 00:20:11.279 --> 00:20:14.019 I<00:20:11.420><c> don't</c><00:20:11.619><c> know</c><00:20:11.759><c> of</c><00:20:11.880><c> any</c><00:20:12.119><c> passage</c><00:20:12.519><c> that</c><00:20:12.740><c> answers</c><00:20:13.099><c> that</c><00:20:13.460><c> specifically</c> 00:20:14.019 --> 00:20:15.440 in<00:20:14.519><c> black</c><00:20:14.740><c> and</c><00:20:14.900><c> white</c><00:20:15.059><c> terms.</c> 00:20:15.440 --> 00:20:17.900 Here's<00:20:16.099><c> the</c><00:20:16.319><c> scenario</c><00:20:16.740><c> you're</c><00:20:17.019><c> saying.</c> 00:20:18.599 --> 00:20:19.599 The<00:20:18.700><c> children</c><00:20:18.960><c> are</c><00:20:19.259><c> at</c><00:20:19.420><c> school.</c> 00:20:19.640 --> 00:20:21.539 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her</c><00:20:29.660><c> children</c><00:20:29.920><c> are</c><00:20:30.400><c> at</c><00:20:30.660><c> school</c><00:20:30.940><c> all</c><00:20:31.220><c> day</c><00:20:31.420><c> long.</c> 00:20:32.940 --> 00:20:35.480 I<00:20:33.200><c> do</c><00:20:33.460><c> believe</c><00:20:33.660><c> that</c><00:20:33.940><c> changes</c><00:20:34.259><c> the</c><00:20:34.559><c> scenario.</c> 00:20:36.220 --> 00:20:38.240 Perhaps<00:20:36.619><c> not</c><00:20:36.859><c> 100%.</c> 00:20:38.240 --> 00:20:40.279 The<00:20:38.640><c> second</c><00:20:38.940><c> concern</c><00:20:39.299><c> I</c><00:20:39.539><c> see</c><00:20:39.720><c> there,</c><00:20:40.079><c> Josh,</c> 00:20:40.420 --> 00:20:43.420 is<00:20:41.140><c> if</c><00:20:41.559><c> it's</c><00:20:42.079><c> extenuating</c><00:20:42.640><c> circumstances</c> 00:20:43.420 --> 00:20:45.960 and<00:20:43.700><c> a</c><00:20:43.920><c> second</c><00:20:44.160><c> income</c><00:20:44.559><c> is</c><00:20:44.839><c> 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00:24:14.259 Let's<00:24:12.440><c> say,</c><00:24:12.640><c> why</c><00:24:12.819><c> am</c><00:24:12.980><c> I</c><00:24:13.099><c> going</c><00:24:13.279><c> out?</c> 00:24:14.660 --> 00:24:18.720 Why<00:24:15.000><c> am</c><00:24:15.259><c> I,</c><00:24:15.460><c> for</c><00:24:15.680><c> example,</c><00:24:16.500><c> choosing</c><00:24:16.880><c> to</c><00:24:17.880><c> pursue</c><00:24:18.220><c> a</c><00:24:18.539><c> career</c> 00:24:18.720 --> 00:24:20.140 when<00:24:18.839><c> there's</c><00:24:19.059><c> lots</c><00:24:19.279><c> of</c><00:24:19.440><c> other</c><00:24:19.579><c> things</c><00:24:19.839><c> to</c><00:24:20.039><c> do</c> 00:24:20.140 --> 00:24:22.319 within<00:24:20.319><c> the</c><00:24:20.539><c> ecclesia</c><00:24:20.859><c> once</c><00:24:21.099><c> I'm</c><00:24:21.359><c> married?</c> 00:24:22.980 --> 00:24:24.579 Verse<00:24:23.180><c> 10</c><00:24:23.359><c> needs</c><00:24:23.599><c> to</c><00:24:23.779><c> be</c><00:24:23.900><c> looked</c><00:24:24.099><c> at.</c> 00:24:24.720 --> 00:24:27.359 For<00:24:24.900><c> the</c><00:24:25.079><c> love</c><00:24:25.200><c> of</c><00:24:25.440><c> money</c><00:24:25.599><c> is</c><00:24:25.819><c> the</c><00:24:25.980><c> root</c><00:24:26.059><c> of</c><00:24:26.279><c> all</c><00:24:26.480><c> evil,</c> 00:24:28.319 --> 00:24:30.660 which,<00:24:28.960><c> while</c><00:24:29.339><c> some</c><00:24:29.859><c> coveted</c><00:24:30.400><c> after,</c> 00:24:30.779 --> 00:24:32.019 they<00:24:30.880><c> have</c><00:24:31.119><c> erred</c><00:24:31.359><c> from</c><00:24:31.599><c> the</c><00:24:31.819><c> faith</c> 00:24:32.019 --> 00:24:34.619 and<00:24:32.240><c> pierced</c><00:24:32.500><c> them</c><00:24:32.759><c> through</c><00:24:33.220><c> with</c><00:24:33.599><c> many</c><00:24:33.900><c> sorrows.</c> 00:24:36.220 --> 00:24:39.319 More<00:24:36.500><c> often</c><00:24:36.859><c> than</c><00:24:37.119><c> not,</c><00:24:37.660><c> the</c><00:24:37.980><c> ambition</c><00:24:38.579><c> of</c><00:24:38.779><c> going</c><00:24:39.000><c> out</c> 00:24:39.319 --> 00:24:43.200 to<00:24:39.500><c> pursue</c><00:24:39.859><c> a</c><00:24:40.160><c> career</c><00:24:40.460><c> is</c><00:24:41.160><c> not</c><00:24:41.460><c> only</c><00:24:42.059><c> to</c><00:24:42.380><c> overcome</c><00:24:42.779><c> boredom,</c> 00:24:43.220 --> 00:24:45.440 although<00:24:43.380><c> that</c><00:24:43.559><c> might</c><00:24:43.759><c> be</c><00:24:44.000><c> a</c><00:24:44.119><c> problem</c><00:24:44.359><c> for</c><00:24:44.640><c> some.</c> 00:24:45.519 --> 00:24:46.779 I<00:24:45.660><c> do</c><00:24:45.859><c> believe</c><00:24:46.039><c> it</c><00:24:46.140><c> is</c><00:24:46.339><c> for</c><00:24:46.519><c> some.</c> 00:24:47.220 --> 00:24:48.599 Some<00:24:47.480><c> sisters</c><00:24:47.759><c> have</c><00:24:47.940><c> said</c><00:24:48.079><c> to</c><00:24:48.220><c> me,</c> 00:24:48.720 --> 00:24:50.299 if<00:24:48.839><c> I</c><00:24:48.940><c> had</c><00:24:49.000><c> to</c><00:24:49.160><c> stay</c><00:24:49.319><c> at</c><00:24:49.420><c> home,</c><00:24:49.539><c> I'd</c><00:24:49.640><c> go</c><00:24:49.819><c> crazy.</c> 00:24:50.700 --> 00:24:53.460 I'd<00:24:50.960><c> be</c><00:24:51.160><c> bored,</c><00:24:52.140><c> to</c><00:24:52.279><c> which</c><00:24:52.400><c> I've</c><00:24:52.720><c> sometimes</c><00:24:53.140><c> said,</c> 00:24:53.619 --> 00:24:55.500 how<00:24:53.740><c> much</c><00:24:53.940><c> is</c><00:24:54.059><c> there</c><00:24:54.160><c> to</c><00:24:54.259><c> do</c><00:24:54.339><c> in</c><00:24:54.480><c> your</c><00:24:54.680><c> ecclesia?</c> 00:24:55.740 --> 00:24:56.799 Do<00:24:55.859><c> you</c><00:24:55.859><c> know</c><00:24:55.980><c> how</c><00:24:56.099><c> many</c><00:24:56.279><c> things</c><00:24:56.500><c> there</c><00:24:56.680><c> are</c> 00:24:56.799 --> 00:24:59.000 to<00:24:56.980><c> do</c><00:24:56.980><c> within</c><00:24:57.200><c> the</c><00:24:57.380><c> community</c><00:24:57.779><c> that</c><00:24:58.059><c> would</c><00:24:58.259><c> keep</c><00:24:58.460><c> you</c><00:24:58.700><c> busy</c> 00:24:59.000 --> 00:25:01.240 if<00:24:59.220><c> you</c><00:24:59.359><c> wanted</c><00:24:59.539><c> to</c><00:24:59.740><c> be</c><00:24:59.920><c> busy,</c><00:25:00.279><c> if</c><00:25:00.460><c> that's</c><00:25:00.700><c> the</c><00:25:00.880><c> problem?</c> 00:25:01.740 --> 00:25:03.339 If<00:25:01.819><c> it's</c><00:25:02.000><c> a</c><00:25:02.039><c> matter</c><00:25:02.259><c> of</c><00:25:02.420><c> overcoming</c><00:25:02.819><c> boredom,</c> 00:25:03.619 --> 00:25:07.680 there's<00:25:03.839><c> lots</c><00:25:04.299><c> to</c><00:25:04.700><c> keep</c><00:25:05.059><c> hands</c><00:25:05.500><c> busy</c><00:25:05.859><c> in</c><00:25:06.059><c> the</c><00:25:06.220><c> ecclesial</c><00:25:06.599><c> world.</c> 00:25:08.640 --> 00:25:12.140 While<00:25:08.779><c> she</c><00:25:08.940><c> 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other</c><00:26:06.319><c> people</c><00:26:06.599><c> in</c><00:26:06.720><c> the</c><00:26:06.859><c> Ecclesia,</c> 00:26:07.259 --> 00:26:09.859 other<00:26:07.500><c> young</c><00:26:07.720><c> couples</c><00:26:08.059><c> are</c><00:26:08.259><c> better</c><00:26:08.500><c> off</c><00:26:08.759><c> than</c><00:26:08.960><c> you</c> 00:26:09.880 --> 00:26:13.420 and<00:26:10.359><c> you</c><00:26:10.680><c> want</c><00:26:10.819><c> to</c><00:26:11.240><c> maintain</c><00:26:11.640><c> a</c><00:26:11.900><c> certain</c><00:26:12.160><c> standard</c><00:26:12.539><c> of</c><00:26:12.779><c> living?</c> 00:26:13.960 --> 00:26:15.339 Well,<00:26:14.019><c> only</c><00:26:14.140><c> you</c><00:26:14.319><c> can</c><00:26:14.500><c> answer</c><00:26:14.740><c> that.</c> 00:26:15.819 --> 00:26:17.960 That<00:26:16.119><c> passage</c><00:26:16.440><c> is</c><00:26:16.680><c> important</c><00:26:17.019><c> too.</c> 00:26:18.660 --> 00:26:21.319 How<00:26:19.079><c> important</c><00:26:19.599><c> is</c><00:26:19.900><c> the</c><00:26:20.099><c> money</c><00:26:20.380><c> factor?</c> 00:26:23.400 --> 00:26:24.880 Any<00:26:23.579><c> other</c><00:26:23.880><c> responses?</c> 00:26:42.400 --> 00:26:45.180 All<00:26:42.920><c> right,</c><00:26:43.440><c> so</c><00:26:44.160><c> we</c><00:26:44.380><c> balanced</c><00:26:44.619><c> the</c><00:26:44.900><c> statement</c> 00:26:45.180 --> 00:26:47.460 and<00:26:45.680><c> we</c><00:26:45.920><c> balanced</c><00:26:46.200><c> the</c><00:26:46.400><c> perspective.</c> 00:26:47.680 --> 00:26:49.359 Nowhere<00:26:47.900><c> in</c><00:26:48.039><c> the</c><00:26:48.240><c> scripture</c><00:26:48.519><c> does</c><00:26:48.740><c> it</c><00:26:48.980><c> say</c> 00:26:49.359 --> 00:26:51.900 that<00:26:49.799><c> the</c><00:26:49.960><c> one</c><00:26:50.200><c> who</c><00:26:50.359><c> looks</c><00:26:50.579><c> after</c><00:26:50.960><c> the</c><00:26:51.220><c> children</c><00:26:51.440><c> is</c><00:26:51.700><c> solely</c> 00:26:51.900 --> 00:26:52.980 the<00:26:52.160><c> wife.</c> 00:26:53.400 --> 00:26:54.779 Let's<00:26:53.619><c> not</c><00:26:53.880><c> distort</c><00:26:54.279><c> the</c><00:26:54.539><c> picture.</c> 00:26:54.779 --> 00:26:56.859 That's<00:26:55.099><c> a</c><00:26:55.240><c> fair</c><00:26:55.359><c> point</c><00:26:55.720><c> in</c><00:26:56.000><c> balance.</c> 00:26:57.160 --> 00:26:59.200 Too<00:26:57.420><c> often</c><00:26:57.720><c> the</c><00:26:57.960><c> husband</c><00:26:58.359><c> can</c><00:26:58.700><c> come</c><00:26:58.920><c> home</c> 00:26:59.200 --> 00:27:02.339 and<00:26:59.460><c> load</c><00:26:59.740><c> that</c><00:27:00.140><c> responsibility</c><00:27:00.779><c> solely</c><00:27:01.140><c> on</c><00:27:01.380><c> the</c><00:27:01.559><c> wife.</c> 00:27:03.500 --> 00:27:05.799 It's<00:27:03.740><c> a</c><00:27:03.900><c> shared</c><00:27:04.140><c> responsibility</c><00:27:05.000><c> and</c><00:27:05.200><c> you're</c><00:27:05.440><c> right.</c> 00:27:06.259 --> 00:27:08.000 Fathers<00:27:06.680><c> in</c><00:27:07.000><c> scripture</c><00:27:07.319><c> are</c><00:27:07.619><c> portrayed</c> 00:27:08.000 --> 00:27:11.559 as<00:27:08.259><c> having</c><00:27:08.440><c> just</c><00:27:08.859><c> as</c><00:27:09.079><c> much</c><00:27:09.319><c> importance</c><00:27:09.859><c> as</c><00:27:10.539><c> the</c><00:27:10.700><c> head</c><00:27:10.799><c> of</c><00:27:10.960><c> the</c><00:27:11.140><c> home</c> 00:27:11.559 --> 00:27:14.859 in<00:27:11.900><c> raising</c><00:27:12.200><c> children,</c><00:27:13.180><c> interacting</c><00:27:13.640><c> with</c><00:27:13.859><c> the</c><00:27:14.059><c> children,</c> 00:27:14.880 --> 00:27:17.119 sharing<00:27:15.119><c> household</c><00:27:15.619><c> jobs</c><00:27:15.980><c> with</c><00:27:16.180><c> the</c><00:27:16.359><c> wife.</c> 00:27:17.519 --> 00:27:18.599 That's<00:27:18.019><c> absolutely</c><00:27:18.359><c> right.</c> 00:27:18.619 --> 00:27:20.140 It's<00:27:18.819><c> not</c><00:27:18.960><c> that</c><00:27:19.099><c> the</c><00:27:19.299><c> wife</c><00:27:19.480><c> is</c><00:27:19.740><c> relegated</c> 00:27:20.140 --> 00:27:22.680 to<00:27:20.279><c> the</c><00:27:20.460><c> vacuum</c><00:27:20.740><c> cleaner</c><00:27:21.119><c> and</c><00:27:21.599><c> to</c><00:27:21.700><c> the</c><00:27:21.839><c> dishes.</c> 00:27:23.119 --> 00:27:25.980 Husbands<00:27:23.680><c> have</c><00:27:23.940><c> a</c><00:27:24.119><c> dual</c><00:27:24.319><c> responsibility</c><00:27:25.039><c> there.</c> 00:27:26.400 --> 00:27:27.220 So<00:27:26.880><c> that's</c><00:27:27.039><c> good.</c> 00:27:27.220 --> 00:27:28.259 I<00:27:27.440><c> appreciate</c><00:27:27.720><c> that</c><00:27:28.019><c> point.</c> 00:27:28.380 --> 00:27:30.000 That<00:27:28.579><c> needs</c><00:27:28.799><c> to</c><00:27:28.980><c> be</c><00:27:29.160><c> said.</c> 00:27:30.940 --> 00:27:32.859 For<00:27:31.079><c> a</c><00:27:31.279><c> happy,</c><00:27:31.920><c> Christ</c><00:27:32.059><c>-like</c><00:27:32.299><c> home,</c> 00:27:33.019 --> 00:27:36.099 brothers<00:27:33.400><c> must</c><00:27:33.700><c> participate</c><00:27:34.319><c> in</c><00:27:34.519><c> the</c><00:27:34.680><c> household</c><00:27:35.019><c> tasks.</c> 00:27:37.400 --> 00:27:38.619 Any<00:27:37.539><c> other</c><00:27:37.759><c> points?</c> 00:27:39.319 --> 00:27:40.240 Yes. 00:27:46.380 --> 00:27:47.440 Yes. 00:27:54.680 --> 00:27:56.579 Yep. 00:28:09.200 --> 00:28:10.160 Yes. 00:28:11.059 --> 00:28:12.599 Yes. 00:28:22.839 --> 00:28:26.460 Well,<00:28:23.319><c> there's</c><00:28:23.500><c> no</c><00:28:23.759><c> doubt</c><00:28:24.000><c> that</c><00:28:24.200><c> in</c><00:28:24.460><c> Canada</c><00:28:24.700><c> and</c><00:28:24.859><c> the</c><00:28:24.880><c> United</c><00:28:25.160><c> States,</c> 00:28:27.019 --> 00:28:27.759 the<00:28:27.140><c> university,</c> 00:28:28.140 --> 00:28:30.460 the<00:28:28.380><c> necessity</c><00:28:28.779><c> of</c><00:28:28.900><c> going</c><00:28:29.119><c> to</c><00:28:29.440><c> college</c><00:28:29.759><c> or</c><00:28:29.980><c> university</c> 00:28:30.460 --> 00:28:32.299 is<00:28:30.640><c> perhaps</c><00:28:31.000><c> from</c><00:28:31.200><c> the</c><00:28:31.400><c> world's</c><00:28:31.700><c> point</c><00:28:31.819><c> of</c><00:28:31.960><c> view.</c> 00:28:32.339 --> 00:28:34.079 See<00:28:32.519><c> if</c><00:28:32.519><c> we</c><00:28:32.599><c> can</c><00:28:32.700><c> get</c><00:28:32.779><c> this</c><00:28:32.980><c> up.</c> 00:28:35.400 --> 00:28:37.099 Anyone<00:28:35.559><c> know</c><00:28:35.740><c> how</c><00:28:35.880><c> to</c><00:28:36.019><c> do</c><00:28:36.160><c> this?</c> 00:28:37.180 --> 00:28:38.599 There<00:28:37.460><c> we</c><00:28:37.660><c> go.</c> 00:28:40.000 --> 00:28:42.440 We've<00:28:40.339><c> got</c><00:28:40.480><c> the</c><00:28:40.740><c> influence</c><00:28:41.059><c> of</c><00:28:41.240><c> the</c><00:28:41.480><c> school.</c> 00:28:44.319 --> 00:28:46.619 We've<00:28:44.539><c> got</c><00:28:44.640><c> the</c><00:28:44.980><c> influence</c><00:28:45.279><c> of,</c><00:28:45.599><c> I</c><00:28:45.680><c> suppose</c><00:28:46.019><c> you</c><00:28:46.119><c> might</c><00:28:46.359><c> say,</c> 00:28:46.720 --> 00:28:50.019 in<00:28:46.920><c> general</c><00:28:47.160><c> terms,</c><00:28:47.720><c> society</c><00:28:48.259><c> that</c><00:28:48.700><c> we</c><00:28:48.920><c> live</c><00:28:49.079><c> in.</c> 00:28:50.380 --> 00:28:52.539 You've<00:28:50.940><c> got</c><00:28:51.000><c> your</c><00:28:51.279><c> parents</c><00:28:51.640><c> here.</c> 00:28:55.039 --> 00:28:56.960 You've<00:28:55.599><c> got</c><00:28:55.680><c> your</c><00:28:55.960><c> friends,</c> 00:28:57.480 --> 00:29:00.059 which<00:28:57.720><c> all</c><00:28:58.180><c> have</c><00:28:58.519><c> a</c><00:28:58.700><c> say</c><00:28:58.980><c> in</c><00:28:59.359><c> your</c><00:28:59.599><c> decisions,</c> 00:29:00.299 --> 00:29:01.759 influence<00:29:00.579><c> your</c><00:29:00.779><c> decisions.</c> 00:29:01.859 --> 00:29:03.559 And<00:29:02.039><c> of</c><00:29:02.160><c> course,</c><00:29:02.400><c> in</c><00:29:02.599><c> the</c><00:29:02.680><c> middle</c><00:29:02.839><c> here,</c> 00:29:03.900 --> 00:29:05.859 there's<00:29:04.319><c> the</c><00:29:04.500><c> ecclesia,</c> 00:29:06.460 --> 00:29:08.099 brothers<00:29:06.680><c> and</c><00:29:06.960><c> sisters,</c> 00:29:08.960 --> 00:29:10.539 and<00:29:09.059><c> the</c><00:29:09.259><c> clear</c><00:29:09.460><c> statements</c><00:29:09.880><c> from</c><00:29:10.140><c> scripture</c> 00:29:10.539 --> 00:29:12.059 and<00:29:10.759><c> the</c><00:29:10.960><c> principles</c><00:29:11.359><c> from</c><00:29:11.579><c> scripture.</c> 00:29:12.319 --> 00:29:14.779 And<00:29:12.480><c> they're</c><00:29:12.680><c> all</c><00:29:13.019><c> having</c><00:29:13.380><c> some</c><00:29:13.839><c> kind</c><00:29:14.160><c> of</c><00:29:14.380><c> a</c><00:29:14.519><c> bearing</c> 00:29:14.779 --> 00:29:16.119 on<00:29:15.059><c> your</c><00:29:15.420><c> decision</c><00:29:15.700><c>-making.</c> 00:29:16.339 --> 00:29:18.400 And<00:29:16.779><c> I'm</c><00:29:16.960><c> sure</c><00:29:17.099><c> it's</c><00:29:17.420><c> frustrating.</c> 00:29:19.119 --> 00:29:20.579 It's<00:29:19.599><c> difficult.</c> 00:29:21.359 --> 00:29:22.220 The<00:29:21.420><c> girl</c><00:29:21.700><c> who</c><00:29:21.960><c> says,</c> 00:29:22.299 --> 00:29:24.099 I<00:29:22.400><c> don't</c><00:29:22.680><c> want</c><00:29:22.799><c> to</c><00:29:22.920><c> get</c><00:29:23.079><c> married,</c> 00:29:25.000 --> 00:29:26.119 is<00:29:25.099><c> entitled</c><00:29:25.500><c> to</c><00:29:25.660><c> say</c><00:29:25.900><c> that.</c> 00:29:26.339 --> 00:29:29.180 Paul<00:29:26.640><c> does</c><00:29:27.000><c> say</c><00:29:27.299><c> a</c><00:29:27.440><c> lot</c><00:29:27.579><c> about</c><00:29:27.799><c> the</c><00:29:28.019><c> virtues</c><00:29:28.279><c> of</c><00:29:28.440><c> the</c><00:29:28.619><c> single</c><00:29:28.839><c> state.</c> 00:29:29.500 --> 00:29:31.220 For<00:29:29.640><c> some</c><00:29:29.900><c> girls,</c><00:29:30.140><c> they</c><00:29:30.259><c> may</c><00:29:30.460><c> not</c><00:29:30.660><c> want</c><00:29:30.779><c> to</c><00:29:30.920><c> marry.</c> 00:29:31.640 --> 00:29:33.619 Some<00:29:31.920><c> fellows</c><00:29:32.200><c> may</c><00:29:32.440><c> not</c><00:29:32.619><c> want</c><00:29:32.720><c> to</c><00:29:32.859><c> marry.</c> 00:29:34.039 --> 00:29:35.980 The<00:29:34.279><c> girl</c><00:29:34.619><c> who</c><00:29:34.819><c> doesn't</c><00:29:35.079><c> want</c><00:29:35.380><c> to</c><00:29:35.519><c> get</c><00:29:35.720><c> married,</c> 00:29:36.000 --> 00:29:37.740 the<00:29:36.220><c> sister</c><00:29:36.500><c> who</c><00:29:36.680><c> doesn't</c><00:29:36.900><c> want</c><00:29:37.099><c> to</c><00:29:37.240><c> get</c><00:29:37.420><c> married,</c> 00:29:38.059 --> 00:29:40.259 wishes<00:29:38.200><c> to</c><00:29:38.539><c> remain</c><00:29:38.720><c> in</c><00:29:38.839><c> the</c><00:29:39.039><c> single</c><00:29:39.279><c> state</c> 00:29:40.319 --> 00:29:43.680 and<00:29:40.799><c> doesn't</c><00:29:41.119><c> want</c><00:29:41.500><c> to</c><00:29:41.720><c> do</c><00:29:41.900><c> what</c><00:29:42.119><c> Timothy</c><00:29:42.559><c> warns</c><00:29:43.099><c> against,</c> 00:29:44.160 --> 00:29:46.500 having<00:29:44.400><c> to</c><00:29:44.720><c> exploit</c><00:29:45.059><c> the</c><00:29:45.299><c> welfare</c><00:29:45.660><c> of</c><00:29:45.859><c> the</c><00:29:46.000><c> ecclesia,</c> 00:29:46.500 --> 00:29:50.480 doesn't<00:29:47.140><c> want</c><00:29:47.420><c> to</c><00:29:47.579><c> have</c><00:29:47.720><c> to</c><00:29:47.839><c> be</c><00:29:48.140><c> supported</c><00:29:48.480><c> by</c><00:29:48.759><c> the</c><00:29:48.980><c> ecclesia,</c> 00:29:50.640 --> 00:29:52.380 could<00:29:50.900><c> rightly</c><00:29:51.400><c> say</c><00:29:51.700><c> to</c><00:29:51.900><c> herself,</c> 00:29:52.740 --> 00:29:53.960 I'm<00:29:52.960><c> going</c><00:29:53.099><c> to</c><00:29:53.299><c> remain</c><00:29:53.559><c> single.</c> 00:29:54.420 --> 00:29:55.680 I'm<00:29:54.720><c> going</c><00:29:54.799><c> to</c><00:29:55.019><c> have</c><00:29:55.160><c> an</c><00:29:55.359><c> apartment.</c> 00:29:55.759 --> 00:29:57.019 I'm<00:29:55.960><c> going</c><00:29:56.079><c> to</c><00:29:56.240><c> support</c><00:29:56.500><c> myself.</c> 00:29:57.039 --> 00:29:58.339 I<00:29:57.180><c> need</c><00:29:57.359><c> a</c><00:29:57.599><c> career.</c> 00:29:58.920 --> 00:30:01.240 If<00:29:59.059><c> I</c><00:29:59.200><c> get</c><00:29:59.339><c> married</c><00:29:59.579><c> in</c><00:29:59.720><c> the</c><00:29:59.839><c> future</c><00:30:00.079><c> and</c><00:30:00.180><c> I</c><00:30:00.380><c> change</c><00:30:00.559><c> my</c><00:30:00.859><c> mind,</c> 00:30:01.500 --> 00:30:02.759 so<00:30:01.740><c> be</c><00:30:01.920><c> it.</c> 00:30:03.099 --> 00:30:04.500 In<00:30:03.259><c> which</c><00:30:03.480><c> case,</c><00:30:03.759><c> the</c><00:30:03.940><c> question,</c> 00:30:05.000 --> 00:30:08.259 what<00:30:05.200><c> do</c><00:30:05.359><c> you</c><00:30:05.420><c> think</c><00:30:05.619><c> about</c><00:30:05.920><c> girls</c><00:30:06.319><c> or</c><00:30:06.579><c> sisters</c><00:30:06.920><c> having</c><00:30:07.220><c> careers,</c> 00:30:08.779 --> 00:30:10.240 changes<00:30:09.259><c> considerably.</c> 00:30:12.299 --> 00:30:14.839 The<00:30:12.700><c> single</c><00:30:12.920><c> sister</c><00:30:13.279><c> who</c><00:30:13.460><c> may</c><00:30:13.599><c> not</c><00:30:13.759><c> get</c><00:30:13.940><c> married,</c> 00:30:15.079 --> 00:30:17.680 sister<00:30:15.440><c> who</c><00:30:15.660><c> says,</c><00:30:16.099><c> I</c><00:30:16.359><c> want</c><00:30:16.559><c> to</c><00:30:16.680><c> have</c><00:30:16.779><c> something</c><00:30:17.099><c> behind</c><00:30:17.480><c> me</c> 00:30:17.680 --> 00:30:21.099 in<00:30:17.900><c> case</c><00:30:18.400><c> my</c><00:30:19.039><c> husband</c><00:30:19.319><c> were</c><00:30:19.500><c> to</c><00:30:19.680><c> die</c><00:30:20.140><c> in</c><00:30:20.759><c> the</c><00:30:20.880><c> future</c> 00:30:21.099 --> 00:30:23.359 or<00:30:21.319><c> in</c><00:30:21.460><c> case</c><00:30:21.619><c> I</c><00:30:21.779><c> just</c><00:30:21.960><c> never</c><00:30:22.099><c> get</c><00:30:22.259><c> married.</c> 00:30:24.279 --> 00:30:26.779 So<00:30:24.339><c> that's</c><00:30:24.859><c> another</c><00:30:25.119><c> aspect</c><00:30:25.539><c> of</c><00:30:25.700><c> the</c><00:30:25.859><c> question.</c> 00:30:28.039 --> 00:30:30.740 But<00:30:28.200><c> don't</c><00:30:28.759><c> ignore,</c><00:30:29.440><c> nevertheless,</c> 00:30:30.920 --> 00:30:33.180 the<00:30:31.240><c> clear</c><00:30:31.640><c> emphasis</c><00:30:32.380><c> in</c><00:30:32.859><c> scripture.</c> 00:30:33.440 --> 00:30:35.920 Where<00:30:33.819><c> is</c><00:30:34.180><c> there</c><00:30:34.380><c> an</c><00:30:34.559><c> emphasis</c><00:30:35.079><c> for</c><00:30:35.500><c> sisters?</c> 00:30:36.420 --> 00:30:39.740 There<00:30:36.619><c> is</c><00:30:37.099><c> an</c><00:30:37.500><c> emphasis</c><00:30:38.039><c> on</c><00:30:38.400><c> the</c><00:30:38.720><c> importance</c> 00:30:40.059 --> 00:30:41.880 of<00:30:40.420><c> taking</c><00:30:40.819><c> the</c><00:30:41.200><c> responsibilities</c> 00:30:41.880 --> 00:30:44.299 of<00:30:42.200><c> domesticate</c><00:30:43.079><c> rules</c><00:30:43.319><c> in</c><00:30:43.599><c> the</c><00:30:43.779><c> ecclesia.</c> 00:30:44.799 --> 00:30:46.660 There<00:30:44.940><c> is</c><00:30:45.160><c> an</c><00:30:45.359><c> emphasis</c><00:30:45.660><c> there.</c> 00:30:47.039 --> 00:30:50.420 The<00:30:47.220><c> woman</c><00:30:47.519><c> is</c><00:30:47.980><c> described</c><00:30:48.640><c> as</c><00:30:49.160><c> being</c><00:30:49.539><c> the</c><00:30:50.059><c> ruler</c> 00:30:50.420 --> 00:30:52.160 or<00:30:50.779><c> the</c><00:30:51.019><c> despot</c><00:30:51.480><c> of</c><00:30:51.700><c> the</c><00:30:51.920><c> house.</c> 00:30:52.500 --> 00:30:55.640 It's<00:30:52.779><c> pretty</c><00:30:53.160><c> hard</c><00:30:53.460><c> to</c><00:30:53.740><c> say</c><00:30:53.900><c> that</c><00:30:54.079><c> you</c><00:30:54.259><c> are</c><00:30:54.480><c> fulfilling</c><00:30:54.819><c> that</c><00:30:55.160><c> passage</c> 00:30:55.640 --> 00:30:57.819 if<00:30:56.200><c> you're</c><00:30:56.400><c> hardly</c><00:30:56.619><c> ever</c><00:30:56.960><c> home.</c> 00:30:58.799 --> 00:31:01.119 Look<00:30:59.019><c> at</c><00:30:59.140><c> the</c><00:30:59.339><c> passage</c><00:30:59.700><c> and</c><00:31:00.180><c> prayerfully</c><00:31:00.559><c> and</c><00:31:00.839><c> carefully</c> 00:31:01.119 --> 00:31:04.460 say<00:31:01.440><c> to</c><00:31:01.619><c> yourself,</c><00:31:02.059><c> am</c><00:31:02.619><c> I</c><00:31:02.839><c> honoring</c><00:31:03.140><c> these</c><00:31:03.460><c> principles?</c> 00:31:05.200 --> 00:31:07.500 I<00:31:05.400><c> will</c><00:31:05.680><c> therefore</c><00:31:06.180><c> that</c><00:31:06.440><c> the</c><00:31:06.700><c> young</c><00:31:06.839><c> women</c><00:31:07.079><c> marry,</c> 00:31:07.660 --> 00:31:09.740 bear<00:31:07.779><c> children,</c><00:31:08.420><c> guide</c><00:31:08.700><c> the</c><00:31:08.940><c> house.</c> 00:31:09.759 --> 00:31:12.759 Don't<00:31:10.039><c> forget</c><00:31:10.339><c> that</c><00:31:10.640><c> passage,</c><00:31:11.059><c> it's</c><00:31:11.460><c> important</c> 00:31:13.299 --> 00:31:15.980 despite<00:31:13.859><c> the</c><00:31:14.180><c> qualifications</c><00:31:14.680><c> we've</c><00:31:15.099><c> discussed.</c> 00:31:16.240 --> 00:31:18.119 Any<00:31:16.400><c> other</c><00:31:16.619><c> points</c><00:31:16.859><c> on</c><00:31:17.059><c> that?</c> 00:31:19.920 --> 00:31:22.160 Okay,<00:31:20.299><c> let's</c><00:31:20.460><c> look</c><00:31:20.579><c> at</c><00:31:20.680><c> another</c><00:31:20.799><c> question.</c> 00:31:27.319 --> 00:31:28.740 Well,<00:31:27.460><c> this</c><00:31:27.660><c> one</c><00:31:27.759><c> is</c><00:31:27.920><c> quite</c><00:31:28.220><c> directly</c> 00:31:28.740 --> 00:31:31.099 on<00:31:28.960><c> what</c><00:31:29.079><c> we're</c><00:31:29.319><c> talking</c><00:31:29.579><c> about</c><00:31:29.960><c> in</c><00:31:30.160><c> our</c><00:31:30.380><c> classes</c><00:31:30.680><c> here.</c> 00:31:31.599 --> 00:31:33.259 How<00:31:31.680><c> do</c><00:31:31.819><c> you</c><00:31:32.000><c> feel,</c> 00:31:35.460 --> 00:31:36.839 how<00:31:36.019><c> do</c><00:31:36.160><c> you</c><00:31:36.259><c> feel</c><00:31:36.400><c> personally</c> 00:31:36.839 --> 00:31:39.940 about<00:31:37.440><c> relationships</c><00:31:38.859><c> outside</c><00:31:39.460><c> the</c><00:31:39.720><c> truth?</c> 00:31:40.059 --> 00:31:41.640 Friends,<00:31:40.579><c> boy,</c><00:31:41.039><c> girlfriends,</c> 00:31:41.700 --> 00:31:45.519 do<00:31:41.859><c> you</c><00:31:42.019><c> think</c><00:31:42.480><c> they're</c><00:31:42.940><c> acceptable</c><00:31:43.420><c> or</c><00:31:44.480><c> corruptible?</c> 00:31:46.079 --> 00:31:48.579 That's<00:31:46.299><c> a</c><00:31:46.359><c> good</c><00:31:46.460><c> way</c><00:31:46.599><c> of</c><00:31:46.599><c> putting</c><00:31:46.799><c> it.</c> 00:31:49.339 --> 00:31:52.299 Would<00:31:49.500><c> you</c><00:31:49.660><c> just</c><00:31:49.880><c> go</c><00:31:50.019><c> with</c><00:31:50.240><c> me</c><00:31:50.400><c> to</c><00:31:50.579><c> a</c><00:31:50.759><c> passage</c><00:31:51.140><c> in</c><00:31:51.460><c> Corinthians?</c> 00:31:53.819 --> 00:31:55.319 Please,<00:31:54.420><c> and</c><00:31:54.539><c> I'd</c><00:31:54.720><c> like</c><00:31:54.799><c> to</c><00:31:54.980><c> use</c><00:31:55.079><c> this</c> 00:31:55.319 --> 00:31:57.700 as<00:31:55.480><c> the</c><00:31:55.660><c> focus</c><00:31:55.920><c> of</c><00:31:56.220><c> my</c><00:31:56.460><c> response</c><00:31:56.880><c> to</c><00:31:57.099><c> that.</c> 00:31:58.119 --> 00:32:00.339 Second<00:31:58.359><c> Corinthians</c><00:31:58.779><c> chapter</c><00:31:59.220><c> six.</c> 00:32:11.920 --> 00:32:13.500 Let's<00:32:12.599><c> read</c><00:32:12.839><c> this</c><00:32:13.059><c> together</c> 00:32:13.500 --> 00:32:16.839 and<00:32:13.660><c> then</c><00:32:13.819><c> I'll</c><00:32:13.980><c> make</c><00:32:14.099><c> some</c><00:32:14.440><c> comments</c><00:32:14.859><c> on</c><00:32:15.019><c> the</c><00:32:15.200><c> question.</c> 00:32:18.059 --> 00:32:20.839 Second<00:32:18.220><c> Corinthians</c><00:32:18.599><c> six,</c><00:32:19.380><c> verse</c><00:32:19.559><c> 14.</c> 00:32:21.440 --> 00:32:24.240 Be<00:32:21.559><c> ye</c><00:32:21.779><c> not</c><00:32:22.220><c> unequally</c><00:32:23.059><c> yoked</c> 00:32:24.240 --> 00:32:26.940 together<00:32:25.039><c> with</c><00:32:25.579><c> unbelievers?</c> 00:32:28.460 --> 00:32:29.819 I'm<00:32:29.140><c> going</c><00:32:29.220><c> to</c><00:32:29.299><c> stop</c><00:32:29.539><c> right</c><00:32:29.819><c> there,</c> 00:32:32.519 --> 00:32:35.500 What's<00:32:33.119><c> that</c><00:32:33.359><c> yoking</c><00:32:33.660><c> talking</c><00:32:34.000><c> about?</c> 00:32:36.920 --> 00:32:38.200 Give<00:32:37.019><c> me</c><00:32:37.140><c> an</c><00:32:37.319><c> answer.</c> 00:32:39.519 --> 00:32:41.180 What<00:32:39.599><c> do</c><00:32:39.700><c> you</c><00:32:39.819><c> see</c><00:32:40.000><c> that</c><00:32:40.299><c> yoking</c><00:32:40.680><c> to</c><00:32:40.940><c> mean?</c> 00:32:41.400 --> 00:32:43.960 What<00:32:41.599><c> kind</c><00:32:41.880><c> of</c><00:32:42.059><c> yoking</c><00:32:42.319><c> is</c><00:32:42.500><c> it</c><00:32:42.720><c> referring</c><00:32:43.059><c> to?</c> 00:32:44.500 --> 00:32:47.079 Is<00:32:44.680><c> it</c><00:32:44.839><c> a</c><00:32:44.920><c> very</c><00:32:45.180><c> specific</c><00:32:45.680><c> kind</c><00:32:46.000><c> of</c><00:32:46.160><c> yoking?</c> 00:32:47.119 --> 00:32:50.640 Or<00:32:47.279><c> is</c><00:32:47.460><c> that</c><00:32:47.720><c> yoking</c><00:32:48.059><c> there</c><00:32:48.400><c> referring</c><00:32:48.779><c> to</c><00:32:48.960><c> something</c><00:32:49.299><c> fairly</c><00:32:49.660><c> general?</c> 00:32:51.019 --> 00:32:54.220 Be<00:32:51.220><c> not</c><00:32:51.819><c> unequally</c><00:32:52.759><c> yoked</c><00:32:53.240><c> with</c><00:32:53.539><c> unbelievers.</c> 00:32:54.319 --> 00:32:55.180 What's<00:32:54.660><c> the</c><00:32:54.839><c> yoking?</c> 00:32:55.180 --> 00:32:57.279 Are<00:32:55.180><c> you</c><00:32:55.720><c> talking</c><00:32:56.039><c> about</c><00:32:56.380><c> marriage?</c> 00:32:58.160 --> 00:32:59.099 Proof. 00:33:00.759 --> 00:33:02.640 Okay,<00:33:01.359><c> I'll</c><00:33:01.559><c> go</c><00:33:01.720><c> that</c><00:33:01.920><c> way.</c><00:33:02.200><c> Proof.</c> 00:33:02.779 --> 00:33:08.339 I<00:33:02.799><c> think</c><00:33:03.019><c> there's</c><00:33:03.359><c> a</c><00:33:03.579><c> passage</c><00:33:03.819><c> that</c><00:33:04.079><c> mentions</c><00:33:04.559><c> the</c><00:33:05.059><c> same</c><00:33:05.279><c> thing,</c><00:33:07.920><c> pretty</c><00:33:08.140><c> much</c> 00:33:08.339 --> 00:33:09.480 the<00:33:08.480><c> same</c><00:33:08.680><c> thing,</c> 00:33:09.700 --> 00:33:12.700 but<00:33:09.900><c> when</c><00:33:10.500><c> you</c><00:33:10.740><c> yoke</c><00:33:10.880><c> and</c><00:33:11.119><c> you</c><00:33:11.299><c> eat</c><00:33:11.339><c> the</c><00:33:11.559><c> plow,</c><00:33:12.200><c> you</c><00:33:12.339><c> yoke</c><00:33:12.539><c> two</c> 00:33:12.700 --> 00:33:14.160 of<00:33:12.799><c> the</c><00:33:13.000><c> same</c><00:33:13.259><c> size</c><00:33:13.460><c> animals</c><00:33:13.740><c> together</c> 00:33:14.160 --> 00:33:18.140 so<00:33:14.400><c> you</c><00:33:14.579><c> get</c><00:33:14.660><c> a</c><00:33:14.880><c> straight</c><00:33:15.380><c> plow</c><00:33:15.759><c> and</c><00:33:15.980><c> if</c><00:33:16.220><c> you</c><00:33:16.720><c> yoke</c><00:33:16.980><c> an</c><00:33:17.200><c> oxen</c><00:33:17.519><c> and</c><00:33:17.640><c> a</c><00:33:17.799><c> donkey,</c> 00:33:18.640 --> 00:33:20.720 then<00:33:18.819><c> you</c><00:33:19.039><c> have</c><00:33:19.319><c> one</c><00:33:19.599><c> pulling</c><00:33:19.759><c> stronger</c><00:33:20.099><c> than</c><00:33:20.259><c> the</c><00:33:20.440><c> other</c><00:33:20.599><c> and</c> 00:33:20.720 --> 00:33:22.099 you<00:33:20.839><c> never</c><00:33:21.019><c> get</c><00:33:21.160><c> a</c><00:33:21.299><c> good</c><00:33:21.480><c> one.</c> 00:33:24.519 --> 00:33:29.420 He's<00:33:25.079><c> giving</c><00:33:25.240><c> us,</c><00:33:25.519><c> by</c><00:33:25.700><c> the</c><00:33:25.839><c> way,</c><00:33:26.480><c> in</c><00:33:26.660><c> passing,</c><00:33:27.119><c> some</c><00:33:27.339><c> important</c><00:33:27.779><c> background</c><00:33:28.240><c> to</c><00:33:28.400><c> the</c><00:33:28.619><c> imagery.</c> 00:33:29.779 --> 00:33:32.680 The<00:33:29.900><c> question</c><00:33:30.240><c> of</c><00:33:30.460><c> yoking,</c><00:33:31.279><c> under</c><00:33:31.599><c> the</c><00:33:31.779><c> Law</c><00:33:31.940><c> of</c><00:33:32.119><c> Moses,</c><00:33:32.559><c> it</c> 00:33:32.680 --> 00:33:33.640 was<00:33:32.859><c> specifically</c><00:33:33.319><c> said</c> 00:33:33.640 --> 00:33:37.299 that<00:33:33.839><c> you</c><00:33:33.980><c> shall</c><00:33:34.220><c> not</c><00:33:34.539><c> tether</c><00:33:34.880><c> together</c><00:33:35.740><c> two</c><00:33:36.299><c> different</c><00:33:36.720><c> animals,</c> 00:33:37.799 --> 00:33:40.680 you<00:33:37.960><c> shall</c><00:33:38.240><c> not</c><00:33:38.519><c> yoke</c><00:33:38.880><c> two</c><00:33:39.259><c> different</c><00:33:39.660><c> animals</c><00:33:40.039><c> to</c><00:33:40.200><c> do</c><00:33:40.420><c> work.</c> 00:33:41.000 --> 00:33:44.619 That<00:33:41.180><c> was</c><00:33:41.420><c> a</c><00:33:41.579><c> law</c><00:33:41.900><c> given</c><00:33:42.160><c> under</c><00:33:42.599><c> the</c><00:33:43.299><c> Mosaic</c><00:33:43.759><c> Code.</c> 00:33:45.460 --> 00:33:48.539 The<00:33:45.740><c> context</c><00:33:46.140><c> is</c><00:33:46.359><c> not</c><00:33:46.519><c> marriage,</c><00:33:47.059><c> however,</c><00:33:47.859><c> in</c><00:33:47.980><c> that</c><00:33:48.200><c> passage</c> 00:33:48.539 --> 00:33:49.440 in<00:33:48.680><c> the</c><00:33:48.740><c> Law</c><00:33:48.880><c> of</c><00:33:49.099><c> Moses.</c> 00:33:49.440 --> 00:33:55.319 It's<00:33:50.539><c> a</c><00:33:50.779><c> guideline</c><00:33:51.380><c> under</c><00:33:52.200><c> the</c><00:33:52.380><c> Law</c><00:33:52.380><c> of</c><00:33:52.480><c> Moses</c><00:33:52.940><c> for</c><00:33:53.460><c> agricultural</c><00:33:54.099><c> practice.</c> 00:33:56.299 --> 00:33:58.440 What's<00:33:56.720><c> the</c><00:33:56.839><c> yoking</c><00:33:57.099><c> here?</c> 00:34:01.960 --> 00:34:02.759 Pardon? 00:34:04.200 --> 00:34:06.400 A<00:34:04.359><c> relationship,</c><00:34:05.420><c> alright.</c> 00:34:06.980 --> 00:34:08.039 Anyone<00:34:07.140><c> else?</c> 00:34:08.480 --> 00:34:11.139 Anyone<00:34:08.780><c> feel</c><00:34:09.239><c> that</c><00:34:09.800><c> it</c><00:34:09.980><c> has</c><00:34:10.239><c> to</c><00:34:10.400><c> apply</c><00:34:10.639><c> to</c><00:34:10.820><c> marriage?</c> 00:34:11.320 --> 00:34:13.019 And<00:34:11.420><c> if</c><00:34:11.599><c> so,</c><00:34:11.960><c> what's</c><00:34:12.159><c> the</c><00:34:12.320><c> proof?</c> 00:34:14.159 --> 00:34:16.139 Any<00:34:14.500><c> binding</c><00:34:14.760><c> agreement,</c><00:34:15.719><c> possibly.</c> 00:34:16.300 --> 00:34:17.440 It's<00:34:16.559><c> fairly</c><00:34:16.880><c> wide</c><00:34:17.139><c> open.</c> 00:34:17.440 --> 00:34:21.860 Some<00:34:18.500><c> people</c><00:34:18.760><c> go</c><00:34:18.940><c> to</c><00:34:19.079><c> that</c><00:34:19.300><c> passage</c><00:34:19.679><c> and</c><00:34:19.860><c> say,</c><00:34:20.039><c> yeah,</c><00:34:20.300><c> that</c><00:34:20.460><c> yoking</c><00:34:20.679><c> is</c><00:34:20.900><c> marriage.</c> 00:34:22.420 --> 00:34:25.019 That's<00:34:23.059><c> not</c><00:34:23.380><c> justifiable</c><00:34:24.059><c> from</c><00:34:24.280><c> the</c><00:34:24.500><c> context,</c> 00:34:25.239 --> 00:34:28.780 although<00:34:25.460><c> marriage</c><00:34:25.960><c> would</c><00:34:26.320><c> certainly</c><00:34:26.739><c> be</c><00:34:27.280><c> a</c><00:34:27.460><c> very</c><00:34:27.780><c> obvious</c><00:34:28.139><c> application,</c> 00:34:28.940 --> 00:34:30.940 a<00:34:29.099><c> very</c><00:34:29.440><c> obvious</c><00:34:29.820><c> application.</c> 00:34:31.059 --> 00:34:32.960 Back<00:34:31.280><c> to</c><00:34:31.440><c> your</c><00:34:31.639><c> point</c><00:34:31.800><c> about</c><00:34:32.039><c> yoking.</c> 00:34:33.199 --> 00:34:39.159 The<00:34:33.440><c> purpose</c><00:34:33.880><c> of</c><00:34:34.179><c> a</c><00:34:34.400><c> yoke</c><00:34:34.940><c> was</c><00:34:35.619><c> obviously</c><00:34:36.280><c> for</c><00:34:37.039><c> two,</c><00:34:38.179><c> or</c><00:34:38.360><c> perhaps</c><00:34:38.739><c> more,</c> 00:34:39.300 --> 00:34:40.139 you<00:34:39.400><c> might</c><00:34:39.619><c> say,</c> 00:34:40.139 --> 00:34:48.400 for<00:34:40.619><c> two</c><00:34:41.000><c> or</c><00:34:41.320><c> more</c><00:34:42.460><c> to</c><00:34:43.039><c> do</c><00:34:46.119><c> some</c><00:34:47.559><c> common</c><00:34:47.880><c> task.</c> 00:34:48.739 --> 00:34:51.940 Both<00:34:49.099><c> animals</c><00:34:49.800><c> were</c><00:34:50.139><c> doing</c><00:34:50.380><c> the</c><00:34:50.639><c> same</c><00:34:50.880><c> job.</c> 00:34:52.400 --> 00:34:55.960 So<00:34:52.579><c> the</c><00:34:52.739><c> symbol</c><00:34:53.039><c> of</c><00:34:53.300><c> the</c><00:34:53.480><c> yoke,</c><00:34:54.679><c> in</c><00:34:54.800><c> general</c><00:34:55.199><c> simple</c><00:34:55.539><c> terms,</c> 00:34:56.119 --> 00:35:00.579 it<00:34:56.179><c> was</c><00:34:56.380><c> a</c><00:34:56.559><c> symbol</c><00:34:56.880><c> of</c><00:34:57.219><c> two</c><00:34:57.460><c> or</c><00:34:57.679><c> more</c><00:34:58.059><c> doing</c><00:34:58.699><c> some</c><00:34:59.179><c> common</c><00:34:59.480><c> task</c> 00:35:01.039 --> 00:35:05.659 or<00:35:01.719><c> sharing</c><00:35:02.280><c> some</c><00:35:02.719><c> common</c><00:35:03.000><c> relationship</c><00:35:03.800><c> of</c><00:35:04.599><c> some</c><00:35:04.860><c> sort.</c> 00:35:05.920 --> 00:35:11.320 So<00:35:06.519><c> he</c><00:35:06.659><c> says,</c><00:35:07.280><c> be</c><00:35:07.280><c> not</c><00:35:07.739><c> unequally</c><00:35:08.500><c> yoked</c><00:35:09.619><c> having</c><00:35:09.980><c> a</c><00:35:10.280><c> close</c><00:35:10.619><c> relationship,</c> 00:35:11.380 --> 00:35:13.460 and<00:35:11.480><c> of</c><00:35:11.679><c> course</c><00:35:11.900><c> two</c><00:35:12.119><c> animals</c><00:35:12.420><c> were</c><00:35:12.659><c> close,</c><00:35:13.019><c> they</c><00:35:13.099><c> were</c><00:35:13.219><c> right</c> 00:35:13.460 --> 00:35:14.699 next<00:35:13.760><c> to</c><00:35:13.900><c> each</c><00:35:14.199><c> other,</c> 00:35:15.139 --> 00:35:19.260 speaking<00:35:15.519><c> about</c><00:35:15.920><c> a</c><00:35:16.280><c> close</c><00:35:16.500><c> relationship,</c><00:35:18.239><c> not</c><00:35:18.460><c> a</c><00:35:18.679><c> casual</c><00:35:19.019><c> one.</c> 00:35:19.380 --> 00:35:22.699 Two<00:35:19.679><c> animals</c><00:35:20.260><c> were</c><00:35:20.820><c> strapped</c><00:35:21.119><c> together</c><00:35:21.519><c> next</c><00:35:21.940><c> to</c><00:35:22.139><c> each</c><00:35:22.360><c> other,</c> 00:35:22.900 --> 00:35:27.559 and<00:35:23.039><c> they</c><00:35:23.159><c> were</c><00:35:23.360><c> doing</c><00:35:23.679><c> a</c><00:35:24.280><c> common</c><00:35:24.539><c> task</c><00:35:25.000><c> or</c><00:35:25.460><c> sharing</c><00:35:25.739><c> a</c><00:35:26.059><c> common</c><00:35:26.280><c> responsibility.</c> 00:35:28.159 --> 00:35:31.159 Be<00:35:28.320><c> not</c><00:35:28.519><c> unequally</c><00:35:29.059><c> yoked</c><00:35:29.400><c> together</c><00:35:29.719><c> with</c><00:35:29.940><c> unbelievers.</c> 00:35:31.380 --> 00:35:33.139 For<00:35:31.579><c> what</c><00:35:31.920><c> fellowship?</c> 00:35:33.599 --> 00:35:38.420 What<00:35:34.320><c> fellowship</c><00:35:34.880><c> hath</c><00:35:35.260><c> righteousness</c><00:35:35.960><c> with</c><00:35:36.679><c> unrighteousness?</c> 00:35:38.980 --> 00:35:42.780 And<00:35:39.460><c> what</c><00:35:40.320><c> communion</c><00:35:40.940><c> the</c><00:35:41.179><c> word</c><00:35:41.400><c> means</c><00:35:41.659><c> to</c><00:35:41.960><c> share?</c> 00:35:42.920 --> 00:35:47.079 What<00:35:43.139><c> sharing</c><00:35:43.659><c> or</c><00:35:44.219><c> communion</c><00:35:44.920><c> hath</c><00:35:45.460><c> light</c><00:35:45.760><c> with</c><00:35:46.000><c> darkness?</c> 00:35:47.460 --> 00:35:50.519 What<00:35:47.780><c> concord</c><00:35:48.539><c> hath</c><00:35:48.840><c> Christ</c><00:35:49.260><c> with</c><00:35:49.539><c> Belial?</c> 00:35:50.719 --> 00:35:54.000 What<00:35:51.000><c> part</c><00:35:51.420><c> hath</c><00:35:51.719><c> he</c><00:35:52.000><c> that</c><00:35:52.340><c> believeth</c><00:35:52.820><c> with</c><00:35:53.039><c> an</c><00:35:53.199><c> infidel?</c> 00:35:54.199 --> 00:35:57.579 What<00:35:54.480><c> agreement</c><00:35:55.039><c> hath</c><00:35:55.360><c> the</c><00:35:55.559><c> temple</c><00:35:55.780><c> of</c><00:35:56.000><c> God</c><00:35:56.380><c> with</c><00:35:56.719><c> idols?</c> 00:35:58.280 --> 00:36:00.900 You<00:35:58.480><c> notice</c><00:35:58.699><c> what's</c><00:35:59.039><c> associated</c><00:35:59.599><c> here</c><00:35:59.880><c> with</c><00:36:00.039><c> the</c><00:36:00.280><c> unbeliever?</c> 00:36:00.900 --> 00:36:03.940 The<00:36:01.599><c> unbeliever</c><00:36:02.179><c> tends</c><00:36:02.480><c> to</c><00:36:02.679><c> be</c><00:36:02.880><c> lined</c><00:36:03.059><c> up,</c><00:36:03.340><c> if</c><00:36:03.440><c> you</c><00:36:03.559><c> see</c><00:36:03.719><c> it</c><00:36:03.840><c> as</c> 00:36:03.940 --> 00:36:05.599 a<00:36:04.079><c> comparison</c><00:36:04.579><c> chart,</c> 00:36:05.940 --> 00:36:08.880 the<00:36:06.019><c> unbeliever</c><00:36:06.519><c> tends</c><00:36:06.780><c> to</c><00:36:06.960><c> be</c><00:36:07.119><c> associated</c><00:36:07.599><c> with</c><00:36:07.820><c> darkness,</c> 00:36:09.239 --> 00:36:12.960 the<00:36:09.360><c> unbeliever</c><00:36:09.880><c> is</c><00:36:10.219><c> associated</c><00:36:10.739><c> with</c><00:36:11.659><c> idolatry,</c> 00:36:13.019 --> 00:36:16.719 the<00:36:13.119><c> unbeliever</c><00:36:13.659><c> is</c><00:36:14.079><c> associated</c><00:36:14.679><c> with</c><00:36:15.739><c> that</c><00:36:16.159><c> which</c><00:36:16.360><c> stands</c> 00:36:16.719 --> 00:36:18.500 in<00:36:16.920><c> opposition</c><00:36:17.360><c> to</c><00:36:17.579><c> God.</c> 00:36:18.739 --> 00:36:22.679 Hold<00:36:19.059><c> on,</c><00:36:19.380><c> you</c><00:36:19.380><c> might</c><00:36:19.599><c> say,</c><00:36:19.820><c> wait</c><00:36:19.960><c> a</c><00:36:20.079><c> minute,</c><00:36:20.659><c> I've</c><00:36:20.940><c> got</c><00:36:21.059><c> friends</c><00:36:21.320><c> at</c><00:36:21.579><c> school,</c> 00:36:23.480 --> 00:36:27.699 and<00:36:23.780><c> they</c><00:36:24.400><c> don't</c><00:36:24.599><c> go</c><00:36:25.019><c> to</c><00:36:25.519><c> church,</c><00:36:26.219><c> they're</c><00:36:26.380><c> certainly</c><00:36:26.639><c> not</c><00:36:26.860><c> Christadelphians,</c> 00:36:27.699 --> 00:36:29.940 but<00:36:28.219><c> they're,</c><00:36:28.500><c> quote,</c><00:36:28.920><c> good</c><00:36:29.059><c> living</c><00:36:29.340><c> people,</c> 00:36:30.239 --> 00:36:33.380 perhaps<00:36:30.519><c> even</c><00:36:30.840><c> better</c><00:36:31.019><c> living</c><00:36:31.300><c> than</c><00:36:31.440><c> you</c><00:36:31.500><c> might</c><00:36:31.760><c> think</c><00:36:31.960><c> yourself</c><00:36:32.340><c> to</c><00:36:32.539><c> be.</c> 00:36:33.679 --> 00:36:36.460 You<00:36:33.820><c> might</c><00:36:34.039><c> say,</c><00:36:34.440><c> I</c><00:36:34.559><c> don't</c><00:36:34.900><c> see</c><00:36:35.199><c> that</c><00:36:35.400><c> in</c><00:36:35.619><c> those</c><00:36:35.880><c> people</c><00:36:36.239><c> we're</c> 00:36:36.460 --> 00:36:37.980 talking<00:36:36.820><c> about</c><00:36:37.179><c> idols.</c> 00:36:39.219 --> 00:36:43.619 But<00:36:39.460><c> in</c><00:36:39.699><c> scripture,</c><00:36:40.539><c> idols</c><00:36:40.739><c> stands</c><00:36:41.519><c> for</c><00:36:41.900><c> what</c><00:36:42.059><c> is</c><00:36:42.360><c> really</c><00:36:43.139><c> not</c> 00:36:43.619 --> 00:36:44.739 in<00:36:43.880><c> harmony</c><00:36:44.139><c> with</c><00:36:44.380><c> God,</c> 00:36:44.980 --> 00:36:48.239 doesn't<00:36:45.199><c> always</c><00:36:45.619><c> stand</c><00:36:45.900><c> for</c><00:36:46.079><c> the</c><00:36:46.280><c> darkest</c><00:36:46.599><c> and</c><00:36:46.860><c> basest</c><00:36:47.159><c> behavior.</c> 00:36:48.940 --> 00:36:52.699 Idols<00:36:49.440><c> is</c><00:36:49.960><c> also</c><00:36:50.320><c> associated</c><00:36:50.900><c> in</c><00:36:51.199><c> Colossians</c><00:36:51.559><c> with</c><00:36:51.820><c> covetousness,</c> 00:36:53.039 --> 00:36:56.019 of<00:36:53.280><c> wanting</c><00:36:53.619><c> something</c><00:36:54.199><c> that's</c><00:36:54.880><c> not</c><00:36:55.099><c> always</c><00:36:55.440><c> godly.</c> 00:36:56.019 --> 00:37:00.340 The<00:36:57.340><c> comparison</c><00:36:58.000><c> is</c><00:36:58.500><c> that</c><00:36:58.679><c> for</c><00:36:58.900><c> the</c><00:36:59.079><c> disciple,</c> 00:37:00.599 --> 00:37:05.079 close<00:37:00.739><c> relationships</c><00:37:01.679><c> with</c><00:37:01.980><c> the</c><00:37:02.260><c> unbeliever</c><00:37:03.239><c> are</c><00:37:04.179><c> not</c><00:37:04.699><c> what</c> 00:37:05.079 --> 00:37:07.480 we<00:37:05.360><c> should</c><00:37:05.639><c> be</c><00:37:05.920><c> getting</c><00:37:06.099><c> involved</c><00:37:06.460><c> in.</c> 00:37:07.940 --> 00:37:11.400 Close<00:37:08.239><c> relationships,</c><00:37:09.139><c> that's</c><00:37:09.460><c> the</c><00:37:09.619><c> context</c><00:37:10.039><c> of</c><00:37:10.239><c> yoking.</c> 00:37:11.940 --> 00:37:16.420 Associations,<00:37:13.179><c> casual</c><00:37:13.599><c> friends,</c><00:37:14.679><c> friendly</c><00:37:14.860><c> with</c><00:37:15.079><c> people</c><00:37:15.340><c> at</c><00:37:15.559><c> school,</c> 00:37:16.739 --> 00:37:19.579 there's<00:37:17.079><c> no</c><00:37:17.320><c> scriptural</c><00:37:17.780><c> injunction</c><00:37:18.219><c> against</c><00:37:18.579><c> that.</c> 00:37:19.619 --> 00:37:23.440 But<00:37:19.800><c> a</c><00:37:20.079><c> close</c><00:37:20.360><c> relationship,</c><00:37:21.400><c> a</c><00:37:21.579><c> sustained</c><00:37:22.119><c> close</c><00:37:22.500><c> relationship,</c> 00:37:23.440 --> 00:37:27.199 spending<00:37:23.960><c> a</c><00:37:24.219><c> lot</c><00:37:24.480><c> of</c><00:37:24.699><c> time</c><00:37:24.900><c> with</c><00:37:25.079><c> the</c><00:37:25.280><c> unbeliever</c><00:37:26.139><c> is</c><00:37:26.519><c> like</c><00:37:26.739><c> taking</c><00:37:27.019><c> a</c> 00:37:27.199 --> 00:37:28.820 vacation<00:37:27.579><c> in</c><00:37:27.739><c> the</c><00:37:27.860><c> darkness.</c> 00:37:29.000 --> 00:37:31.760 They're<00:37:29.480><c> not</c><00:37:29.679><c> going</c><00:37:29.800><c> to</c><00:37:29.880><c> do</c><00:37:29.960><c> what</c><00:37:30.139><c> Jonathan</c><00:37:30.480><c> did</c><00:37:30.679><c> for</c><00:37:30.920><c> David.</c> 00:37:33.840 --> 00:37:37.480 Now,<00:37:34.219><c> I've</c><00:37:34.519><c> got</c><00:37:34.800><c> still</c><00:37:35.260><c> about</c><00:37:35.440><c> five</c><00:37:35.679><c> or</c><00:37:35.760><c> six</c><00:37:36.000><c> more</c><00:37:36.239><c> questions</c><00:37:36.639><c> here.</c> 00:37:37.820 --> 00:37:39.239 How<00:37:37.980><c> about</c><00:37:38.079><c> we</c><00:37:38.260><c> pick</c><00:37:38.440><c> these</c><00:37:38.659><c> up</c><00:37:38.840><c> tomorrow?</c> 00:37:39.519 --> 00:37:43.420 I<00:37:39.659><c> don't</c><00:37:39.880><c> mind</c><00:37:40.179><c> dispensing</c><00:37:40.780><c> with</c><00:37:41.000><c> the</c><00:37:41.199><c> last</c><00:37:41.460><c> class</c><00:37:41.739><c> I'd</c><00:37:42.079><c> planned</c><00:37:42.199><c> on</c><00:37:42.539><c> Proverbs.</c> 00:37:43.460 --> 00:37:45.880 What<00:37:43.639><c> we've</c><00:37:43.940><c> dealt</c><00:37:44.099><c> with</c><00:37:44.300><c> in</c><00:37:44.519><c> Proverbs</c><00:37:44.780><c> this</c><00:37:45.019><c> week</c><00:37:45.239><c> ties</c><00:37:45.480><c> right</c><00:37:45.780><c> in</c> 00:37:45.880 --> 00:37:47.159 with<00:37:46.019><c> these</c><00:37:46.219><c> questions.</c> 00:37:47.199 --> 00:37:50.199 If<00:37:47.340><c> you've</c><00:37:47.539><c> got</c><00:37:47.639><c> any</c><00:37:47.900><c> more</c><00:37:48.179><c> questions</c><00:37:48.659><c> by</c><00:37:48.920><c> tomorrow,</c><00:37:49.920><c> please</c> 00:37:50.199 --> 00:37:52.000 put<00:37:50.380><c> them</c><00:37:50.500><c> where</c><00:37:50.599><c> they</c><00:37:50.739><c> were</c><00:37:50.900><c> today.</c> 00:37:52.079 --> 00:37:55.599 I'll<00:37:52.519><c> put</c><00:37:52.719><c> these</c><00:37:53.719><c> perhaps</c><00:37:54.139><c> in</c><00:37:54.300><c> my</c><00:37:54.500><c> pocket</c><00:37:54.860><c> so</c><00:37:55.019><c> I</c><00:37:55.139><c> can</c><00:37:55.280><c> take</c><00:37:55.500><c> a</c> 00:37:55.599 --> 00:37:57.119 look<00:37:55.719><c> at</c><00:37:55.920><c> them</c><00:37:56.059><c> in</c><00:37:56.199><c> advance.</c> 00:37:57.619 --> 00:37:59.380 Thanks<00:37:57.900><c> for</c><00:37:58.059><c> your</c><00:37:58.260><c> questions.</c> 00:37:59.960 --> 00:38:03.019 Think<00:38:00.179><c> about</c><00:38:00.400><c> what</c><00:38:00.559><c> we're</c><00:38:02.519><c> saying.</c> 00:38:11.599 --> 00:38:15.239 It<00:38:12.039><c> depends</c><00:38:12.480><c> what</c><00:38:12.659><c> you</c><00:38:12.900><c> mean</c><00:38:13.019><c> and</c><00:38:13.139><c> I</c><00:38:13.360><c> mean</c><00:38:13.480><c> by</c><00:38:13.739><c> close</c><00:38:14.019><c> relationships.</c> 00:38:16.000 --> 00:38:20.280 I'm<00:38:16.440><c> talking</c><00:38:16.820><c> about</c><00:38:17.039><c> spending</c><00:38:17.380><c> a</c><00:38:17.820><c> lot</c><00:38:18.059><c> of</c><00:38:18.300><c> time</c><00:38:18.719><c> on</c><00:38:19.699><c> a</c><00:38:19.940><c> ground</c> 00:38:20.280 --> 00:38:23.900 that<00:38:20.460><c> is</c><00:38:20.719><c> not</c><00:38:21.340><c> to</c><00:38:22.260><c> do</c><00:38:22.519><c> with</c><00:38:22.719><c> the</c><00:38:23.000><c> truth.</c> 00:38:24.400 --> 00:38:26.840 To<00:38:24.400><c> bring</c><00:38:24.659><c> somebody</c><00:38:25.000><c> into</c><00:38:25.440><c> the</c><00:38:25.719><c> truth,</c><00:38:26.099><c> you</c><00:38:26.099><c> obviously</c><00:38:26.619><c> have</c> 00:38:26.840 --> 00:38:28.360 to<00:38:26.980><c> spend</c><00:38:27.179><c> some</c><00:38:27.519><c> time</c><00:38:27.739><c> with</c><00:38:27.980><c> them.</c> 00:38:28.480 --> 00:38:30.139 You<00:38:28.820><c> obviously</c><00:38:29.099><c> have</c><00:38:29.320><c> to</c><00:38:29.440><c> get</c><00:38:29.539><c> to</c><00:38:29.760><c> know</c><00:38:29.920><c> them.</c> 00:38:30.139 --> 00:38:31.860 There<00:38:30.280><c> has</c><00:38:30.480><c> to</c><00:38:30.579><c> be</c><00:38:30.699><c> some</c><00:38:30.920><c> rapport.</c> 00:38:32.280 --> 00:38:35.059 The<00:38:32.440><c> point</c><00:38:32.519><c> we're</c><00:38:32.760><c> talking</c><00:38:33.079><c> about</c><00:38:33.300><c> is</c><00:38:33.460><c> when</c><00:38:33.579><c> you</c><00:38:33.760><c> are</c><00:38:34.000><c> bringing</c><00:38:34.219><c> somebody</c><00:38:34.579><c> in</c><00:38:34.719><c> the</c><00:38:34.920><c> truth,</c> 00:38:35.079 --> 00:38:36.760 then<00:38:35.219><c> you</c><00:38:35.340><c> bring</c><00:38:35.440><c> them</c><00:38:35.579><c> out</c><00:38:35.739><c> to</c><00:38:35.900><c> functions.</c> 00:38:36.840 --> 00:38:38.940 You<00:38:37.260><c> bring</c><00:38:37.539><c> them</c><00:38:37.679><c> to</c><00:38:37.840><c> your</c><00:38:38.159><c> turf.</c> 00:38:39.260 --> 00:38:41.219 You<00:38:39.400><c> don't</c><00:38:39.559><c> spend</c><00:38:39.739><c> a</c><00:38:39.800><c> lot</c><00:38:40.000><c> of</c><00:38:40.139><c> time</c><00:38:40.280><c> in</c><00:38:40.380><c> the</c><00:38:40.539><c> arcade</c><00:38:40.920><c> and</c><00:38:41.079><c> say,</c> 00:38:41.380 --> 00:38:42.440 well,<00:38:41.400><c> I</c><00:38:41.440><c> want</c><00:38:41.619><c> to</c><00:38:41.739><c> preach</c><00:38:41.880><c> to</c><00:38:42.059><c> this</c><00:38:42.159><c> person.</c> 00:38:42.440 --> 00:38:44.179 I'll<00:38:42.440><c> have</c><00:38:42.940><c> to</c><00:38:43.000><c> bring</c><00:38:43.119><c> them</c><00:38:43.239><c> in</c><00:38:43.380><c> one</c><00:38:43.559><c> day</c><00:38:43.659><c> and</c><00:38:43.800><c> we're</c><00:38:44.019><c> sitting</c> 00:38:44.179 --> 00:38:45.199 through<00:38:44.420><c> six</c><00:38:44.599><c> movies</c><00:38:44.900><c> tonight,</c> 00:38:45.280 --> 00:38:46.900 so<00:38:45.500><c> I</c><00:38:45.599><c> get</c><00:38:45.739><c> to</c><00:38:45.880><c> know</c><00:38:46.000><c> them.</c> 00:38:47.320 --> 00:38:49.519 That's<00:38:47.760><c> the</c><00:38:48.119><c> extreme,</c><00:38:48.500><c> isn't</c><00:38:48.699><c> it?</c> 00:38:53.219 --> 00:38:54.820 Things<00:38:53.659><c> of</c><00:38:54.099><c> God.</c> 00:38:57.900 --> 00:38:59.039 Well,<00:38:58.340><c> that's</c><00:38:58.780><c> it.</c> 00:38:59.239 --> 00:39:00.760 If<00:38:59.380><c> you're</c><00:38:59.539><c> living</c><00:38:59.699><c> the</c><00:38:59.840><c> way</c><00:38:59.980><c> you</c><00:39:00.179><c> should</c><00:39:00.300><c> be</c><00:39:00.500><c> living,</c> 00:39:01.039 --> 00:39:03.119 people<00:39:01.380><c> who</c><00:39:01.619><c> want</c><00:39:01.760><c> to</c><00:39:01.880><c> do</c><00:39:02.000><c> things</c><00:39:02.239><c> they</c><00:39:02.400><c> shouldn't</c><00:39:02.619><c> be</c><00:39:02.860><c> doing</c> 00:39:03.119 --> 00:39:05.940 will<00:39:03.699><c> generally</c><00:39:04.000><c> stay</c><00:39:04.260><c> away</c><00:39:04.440><c> from</c><00:39:04.619><c> you.</c> 00:39:07.699 --> 00:39:10.559 A<00:39:07.800><c> lot</c><00:39:07.940><c> of</c><00:39:08.139><c> close</c><00:39:08.360><c> relationships</c><00:39:08.940><c> with</c><00:39:09.139><c> people</c><00:39:09.440><c> who</c><00:39:09.659><c> are</c><00:39:09.840><c> walking</c><00:39:10.179><c> way</c> 00:39:10.559 --> 00:39:11.599 out<00:39:10.780><c> of</c><00:39:10.900><c> harmony</c><00:39:11.139><c> with</c><00:39:11.360><c> God.</c> 00:39:11.599 --> 00:39:13.800 I<00:39:11.679><c> think</c><00:39:11.800><c> you</c><00:39:11.900><c> need</c><00:39:12.039><c> to</c><00:39:12.179><c> take</c><00:39:12.300><c> a</c><00:39:12.400><c> good</c><00:39:12.480><c> look</c><00:39:12.599><c> at</c><00:39:12.679><c> your</c><00:39:12.820><c> own</c><00:39:13.000><c> lifestyle.</c> 00:39:16.760 --> 00:39:18.199 Let's<00:39:16.940><c> deal</c><00:39:17.059><c> with</c><00:39:17.199><c> that</c><00:39:17.320><c> tomorrow.</c> 00:39:19.280 --> 00:39:20.239 Thanks,<00:39:19.619><c> Lynn.</c> 00:39:20.800 --> 00:39:21.880 Don't<00:39:21.159><c> let</c><00:39:21.340><c> me</c><00:39:21.539><c> forget</c><00:39:21.780><c> that.</c> 00:39:21.900 --> 00:39:24.199 Let's<00:39:22.099><c> start</c><00:39:22.320><c> with</c><00:39:22.500><c> that</c><00:39:22.699><c> question</c><00:39:23.179><c> tomorrow.</c>