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like<00:11:41.539><c> outside</c><00:11:41.980><c> and</c><00:11:42.080><c> we</c><00:11:42.279><c> don't</c><00:11:42.580><c> want</c><00:11:42.799><c> it.</c>

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And<00:11:45.100><c> it's</c><00:11:45.159><c> not</c><00:11:45.259><c> a</c><00:11:45.399><c> question</c><00:11:45.799><c> now,</c><00:11:46.639><c> and</c><00:11:46.679><c> these</c><00:11:46.940><c> are</c><00:11:47.080><c> the</c><00:11:47.200><c> things</c>

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we've<00:11:47.500><c> got</c><00:11:47.580><c> to</c><00:11:47.700><c> get</c><00:11:47.820><c> over</c><00:11:48.019><c> to</c><00:11:48.179><c> them.</c>

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It<00:11:48.879><c> is</c><00:11:49.220><c> not</c><00:11:49.360><c> a</c><00:11:49.539><c> question</c><00:11:49.720><c> of</c><00:11:49.840><c> what</c><00:11:49.960><c> you're</c><00:11:50.139><c> going</c><00:11:50.220><c> to</c><00:11:50.399><c> say</c><00:11:50.500><c> to</c>

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the<00:11:50.820><c> arranging</c><00:11:51.240><c> brethren.</c>

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What<00:11:52.419><c> are</c><00:11:52.620><c> you</c><00:11:52.840><c> going</c><00:11:53.039><c> to</c><00:11:53.240><c> say</c><00:11:53.419><c> to</c><00:11:53.620><c> Christ?</c>

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That's<00:11:55.059><c> what</c><00:11:55.179><c> matters</c><00:11:55.720><c> in</c><00:11:56.519><c> the</c><00:11:56.720><c> end.</c>

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So<00:11:57.980><c> we've</c><00:11:58.120><c> got</c><00:11:58.179><c> to</c><00:11:58.399><c> make</c><00:11:59.100><c> plain</c><00:11:59.600><c> the</c><00:12:00.159><c> seriousness</c><00:12:00.679><c> as</c><00:12:01.559><c> well</c><00:12:01.700><c> as</c>

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the<00:12:02.039><c> wholesomeness</c><00:12:02.600><c> of</c><00:12:02.720><c> the</c><00:12:02.940><c> right</c><00:12:03.240><c> things,</c>

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and<00:12:04.100><c> the</c><00:12:04.299><c> beauty</c><00:12:04.539><c> and</c><00:12:04.740><c> delight</c><00:12:05.120><c> of</c><00:12:05.320><c> them.</c>

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We<00:12:06.259><c> live</c><00:12:06.440><c> in</c><00:12:06.600><c> a</c><00:12:06.759><c> privileged</c><00:12:07.080><c> society,</c><00:12:07.840><c> brethren,</c><00:12:08.360><c> don't</c><00:12:08.899><c> we?</c>

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A<00:12:09.659><c> privileged</c><00:12:09.960><c> society.</c>

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Because<00:12:12.840><c> we</c><00:12:13.240><c> can</c><00:12:13.559><c> intermarry</c><00:12:14.779><c> without</c><00:12:15.100><c> having</c><00:12:15.320><c> to</c><00:12:15.379><c> go</c><00:12:15.519><c> through</c><00:12:15.700><c> all</c>

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these<00:12:16.139><c> checks.</c>

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Because<00:12:18.759><c> we</c><00:12:19.480><c> have</c><00:12:19.759><c> in</c><00:12:20.120><c> fact</c><00:12:20.460><c> been</c><00:12:20.799><c> able</c><00:12:21.039><c> to</c><00:12:21.220><c> preserve</c><00:12:21.519><c> ourselves</c><00:12:22.120><c> so</c><00:12:22.480><c> well</c>

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thus<00:12:23.480><c> far.</c>

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So<00:12:24.799><c> let's</c><00:12:24.899><c> make</c><00:12:25.200><c> sure</c><00:12:25.480><c> that</c><00:12:25.639><c> we</c><00:12:25.960><c> can</c><00:12:26.240><c> uphold</c><00:12:26.559><c> these</c><00:12:26.860><c> standards.</c>

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So<00:12:29.740><c> here</c><00:12:30.120><c> are</c><00:12:30.360><c> some</c><00:12:30.700><c> steps</c><00:12:31.200><c> then</c><00:12:31.659><c> that</c><00:12:31.940><c> I</c><00:12:32.080><c> would</c><00:12:32.259><c> suggest.</c>

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One,<00:12:36.059><c> get</c><00:12:36.440><c> marriages</c><00:12:36.980><c> right</c><00:12:37.659><c> in</c><00:12:38.000><c> the</c><00:12:38.419><c> first</c><00:12:38.799><c> place.</c>

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Two,<00:12:46.860><c> keep</c><00:12:47.299><c> regular</c><00:12:48.139><c> contact</c><00:12:48.840><c> with</c><00:12:49.419><c> newlyweds.</c>

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Three,<00:13:00.080><c> keep</c><00:13:00.639><c> your</c><00:13:01.100><c> eyes</c><00:13:01.500><c> open</c><00:13:02.100><c> for</c><00:13:02.679><c> the</c><00:13:03.700><c> looking</c><00:13:04.019><c> for</c><00:13:04.679><c> excitement</c><00:13:05.379><c> in</c><00:13:05.720><c> the</c>

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middle<00:13:06.320><c> age</c><00:13:06.799><c> syndrome.</c>

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Second,<00:13:12.519><c> marriages,</c><00:13:12.740><c> you</c><00:13:12.740><c> know,</c><00:13:13.820><c> brother</c><00:13:14.059><c> 55</c><00:13:14.659><c> finds</c><00:13:15.120><c> a</c><00:13:15.320><c> girl</c>

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of<00:13:15.679><c> 35,</c><00:13:16.399><c> all</c><00:13:17.200><c> the</c><00:13:17.600><c> usual</c><00:13:17.980><c> things.</c>

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This<00:13:19.799><c> is</c><00:13:20.120><c> all</c><00:13:20.559><c> the</c><00:13:20.840><c> sins</c><00:13:21.039><c> of</c><00:13:21.240><c> the</c><00:13:21.500><c> flesh,</c><00:13:21.860><c> what</c><00:13:21.960><c> they</c><00:13:22.279><c> are</c><00:13:22.500><c> in</c>

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fact<00:13:23.220><c> pandering</c><00:13:24.019><c> to</c><00:13:24.179><c> the</c><00:13:24.379><c> pride</c><00:13:24.559><c> of</c><00:13:24.799><c> life,</c>

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quite<00:13:25.220><c> apart</c><00:13:25.480><c> from</c><00:13:25.659><c> the</c><00:13:25.820><c> lust</c><00:13:26.100><c> and</c><00:13:26.460><c> other</c><00:13:26.779><c> sides.</c>

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What<00:13:27.940><c> we've</c><00:13:28.080><c> got</c><00:13:28.159><c> to</c><00:13:28.340><c> learn</c><00:13:28.879><c> is</c><00:13:29.480><c> to</c><00:13:30.039><c> keep</c><00:13:30.240><c> our</c><00:13:30.519><c> marriages</c><00:13:30.779><c> stable,</c><00:13:32.059><c> all</c>

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the<00:13:32.399><c> parts</c><00:13:32.580><c> of</c><00:13:32.740><c> it.</c>

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Watch<00:13:34.740><c> those</c><00:13:35.259><c> marriages</c><00:13:35.700><c> particularly</c><00:13:36.500><c> where</c><00:13:37.740><c> both</c><00:13:38.279><c> partners</c><00:13:38.919><c> are</c><00:13:39.320><c> at</c><00:13:39.600><c> work.</c>

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Especially<00:13:43.759><c> if</c><00:13:44.080><c> the</c><00:13:44.299><c> wife</c><00:13:44.600><c> is</c><00:13:44.899><c> becoming</c><00:13:45.259><c> one</c><00:13:47.440><c> of</c><00:13:47.580><c> the</c><00:13:47.779><c> go</c>

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-getter<00:13:48.720><c> career</c><00:13:49.240><c> girls.</c>

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Just<00:13:51.320><c> watch</c><00:13:51.600><c> it.</c>

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Because<00:13:53.419><c> that's</c><00:13:53.820><c> the</c><00:13:54.000><c> area</c><00:13:54.460><c> where</c><00:13:54.879><c> marriages</c><00:13:55.259><c> break</c><00:13:55.679><c> down</c>

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and<00:13:56.159><c> new</c><00:13:56.779><c> partners</c><00:13:57.220><c> appear.</c>

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Watch<00:14:01.480><c> for</c><00:14:01.740><c> the</c><00:14:02.059><c> signs</c><00:14:02.360><c> of</c><00:14:02.740><c> tension</c><00:14:03.539><c> or</c><00:14:05.179><c> unhappiness</c><00:14:06.860><c> in</c>

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hitherto<00:14:08.960><c> seemingly</c><00:14:09.960><c> happy</c><00:14:10.279><c> marriages.</c>

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And<00:14:21.559><c> next,</c><00:14:22.379><c> try</c><00:14:22.899><c> to</c><00:14:23.220><c> help</c><00:14:23.580><c> at</c><00:14:24.120><c> the</c><00:14:24.559><c> earliest</c><00:14:25.039><c> possible</c><00:14:26.320><c> stage.</c>

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We<00:14:28.360><c> are</c><00:14:28.539><c> usually</c><00:14:29.019><c> brought</c><00:14:29.519><c> in</c><00:14:29.700><c> at</c><00:14:29.860><c> the</c><00:14:30.120><c> end.</c>

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It's<00:14:31.740><c> almost</c><00:14:32.100><c> impossible</c><00:14:32.860><c> to</c><00:14:33.080><c> get</c><00:14:33.200><c> it</c><00:14:33.440><c> right</c><00:14:33.620><c> at</c><00:14:33.799><c> the</c><00:14:33.960><c> end.</c>

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You<00:14:35.019><c> know,</c><00:14:35.919><c> all</c><00:14:36.720><c> the</c><00:14:36.960><c> broken</c><00:14:37.159><c> pieces,</c><00:14:37.700><c> it's</c><00:14:37.899><c> like</c><00:14:38.059><c> a</c><00:14:38.279><c> child</c><00:14:38.539><c> coming,</c><00:14:38.799><c> you</c><00:14:38.940><c> know,</c><00:14:39.559><c> with</c><00:14:39.740><c> a</c>

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toy<00:14:40.179><c> that</c><00:14:40.320><c> they've</c><00:14:40.720><c> broken.</c>

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With<00:14:42.240><c> all</c><00:14:42.500><c> the</c><00:14:42.820><c> parts</c><00:14:43.080><c> broken</c><00:14:43.539><c> up</c><00:14:44.019><c> and</c><00:14:44.500><c> wanted</c><00:14:44.879><c> to</c><00:14:45.059><c> be</c><00:14:45.259><c> put</c><00:14:45.419><c> right.</c>

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Now<00:14:46.519><c> we've</c><00:14:46.720><c> got</c><00:14:46.860><c> to</c><00:14:47.360><c> see</c><00:14:47.659><c> if</c><00:14:47.879><c> possible</c><00:14:48.360><c> that</c><00:14:48.740><c> we</c><00:14:48.860><c> can</c><00:14:48.940><c> get</c><00:14:49.019><c> it</c>

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right<00:14:49.419><c> at</c><00:14:49.600><c> an</c><00:14:49.720><c> earlier</c><00:14:49.980><c> time.</c>

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When<00:14:53.659><c> it</c><00:14:53.960><c> is</c><00:14:54.299><c> said</c><00:14:54.840><c> that</c><00:14:56.899><c> the</c><00:14:57.220><c> end</c><00:14:57.620><c> of</c><00:14:57.879><c> the</c><00:14:58.159><c> road</c><00:14:58.600><c> has</c><00:14:58.940><c> been</c><00:14:59.259><c> reached</c><00:14:59.679><c> by</c>

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one<00:15:00.460><c> partner</c><00:15:01.019><c> or</c><00:15:01.580><c> other,</c>

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seek<00:15:04.500><c> to</c><00:15:05.059><c> prevent</c><00:15:05.840><c> precipitate</c><00:15:07.279><c> action.</c>

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In<00:15:09.799><c> other</c><00:15:10.019><c> words,</c><00:15:11.159><c> if</c><00:15:11.240><c> one</c><00:15:11.480><c> partner</c><00:15:11.679><c> comes</c><00:15:11.960><c> along</c><00:15:12.240><c> and</c><00:15:12.440><c> says,</c>

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well,<00:15:13.179><c> you</c><00:15:13.220><c> know,</c><00:15:13.519><c> this</c><00:15:13.700><c> is</c><00:15:13.899><c> the</c><00:15:14.059><c> end.</c>

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I<00:15:15.539><c> shall</c><00:15:15.700><c> have</c><00:15:15.840><c> to</c><00:15:15.960><c> get</c><00:15:16.080><c> rid</c><00:15:16.240><c> of</c><00:15:16.340><c> him</c><00:15:16.460><c> or</c><00:15:16.559><c> whatever</c><00:15:16.860><c> it</c><00:15:17.100><c> is.</c>

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Try<00:15:18.799><c> to</c><00:15:19.100><c> stop</c><00:15:19.360><c> that</c><00:15:19.840><c> kind</c><00:15:20.279><c> of</c><00:15:20.460><c> action</c><00:15:20.700><c> in</c><00:15:20.960><c> its</c><00:15:21.360><c> tracks.</c>

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Ask<00:15:22.779><c> for</c><00:15:23.139><c> breathing</c><00:15:23.620><c> space,</c><00:15:25.139><c> a</c><00:15:25.240><c> rethinking</c><00:15:25.759><c> of</c><00:15:26.000><c> the</c><00:15:26.100><c> whole</c><00:15:26.279><c> situation.</c>

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There's<00:15:29.679><c> a</c><00:15:30.120><c> gathering</c><00:15:30.539><c> slope</c><00:15:31.080><c> that</c><00:15:31.299><c> is</c><00:15:31.480><c> there</c><00:15:31.919><c> down</c><00:15:32.320><c> which</c><00:15:32.539><c> people</c><00:15:32.820><c> move</c><00:15:33.059><c> at</c>

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great<00:15:33.779><c> speed</c>

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because<00:15:35.179><c> they</c><00:15:35.399><c> think</c><00:15:35.559><c> that</c><00:15:35.860><c> if</c><00:15:36.000><c> only</c><00:15:36.100><c> I</c><00:15:36.179><c> can</c><00:15:36.279><c> get</c><00:15:36.379><c> rid</c><00:15:36.500><c> of</c><00:15:36.620><c> this,</c><00:15:36.740><c> it's</c>

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all<00:15:37.200><c> over</c><00:15:37.379><c> and</c><00:15:37.480><c> I'm</c><00:15:37.720><c> finished.</c>

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I'll<00:15:38.559><c> just</c><00:15:38.659><c> get</c><00:15:38.779><c> out</c><00:15:38.919><c> of</c><00:15:39.019><c> my</c><00:15:39.279><c> hair.</c>

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Not<00:15:40.399><c> realizing</c><00:15:40.919><c> that</c><00:15:41.139><c> what</c><00:15:41.279><c> they're</c><00:15:41.840><c> doing</c><00:15:42.200><c> is</c><00:15:42.639><c> to</c><00:15:42.840><c> create</c><00:15:43.059><c> another</c><00:15:43.500><c> and</c><00:15:43.700><c> a</c>

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larger<00:15:44.240><c> problem</c>

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that<00:15:45.580><c> may</c><00:15:45.799><c> in</c><00:15:45.980><c> fact</c><00:15:46.139><c> be</c><00:15:46.320><c> to</c><00:15:46.440><c> their</c><00:15:46.639><c> destruction</c><00:15:47.139><c> later</c><00:15:47.460><c> on.</c>

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But<00:15:49.879><c> seek,</c><00:15:50.840><c> you</c><00:15:51.179><c> know,</c><00:15:51.919><c> just</c><00:15:52.320><c> to</c><00:15:53.320><c> hold</c><00:15:53.620><c> it</c><00:15:54.039><c> and</c><00:15:54.240><c> to</c><00:15:54.360><c> say,</c>

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remember,<00:15:55.700><c> marriage</c><00:15:56.159><c> is</c><00:15:56.620><c> a</c><00:15:56.799><c> lifelong</c><00:15:57.679><c> commitment.</c>

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Just<00:16:00.039><c> like</c><00:16:00.379><c> Christ</c><00:16:01.159><c> is</c><00:16:03.519><c> eternal</c><00:16:04.080><c> in</c><00:16:04.399><c> his</c><00:16:05.179><c> love</c><00:16:05.460><c> for</c><00:16:05.700><c> us,</c>

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so<00:16:06.759><c> we've</c><00:16:07.080><c> got</c><00:16:07.220><c> to</c><00:16:07.360><c> be</c><00:16:07.500><c> in</c><00:16:07.639><c> our</c><00:16:07.940><c> marriage</c><00:16:08.159><c> years.</c>

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Seek<00:16:09.299><c> to</c><00:16:09.500><c> hold</c><00:16:09.720><c> it.</c>

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Try<00:16:12.700><c> to</c><00:16:12.919><c> keep</c><00:16:13.200><c> contact</c><00:16:13.620><c> with</c><00:16:14.039><c> both</c><00:16:14.360><c> partners</c><00:16:14.860><c> when</c><00:16:15.100><c> this</c>

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situation<00:16:15.779><c> arises.</c>

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That's<00:16:16.720><c> the</c><00:16:16.840><c> difficult</c><00:16:17.120><c> stage</c><00:16:17.639><c> because</c><00:16:18.259><c> one</c><00:16:18.480><c> of</c><00:16:18.559><c> them</c><00:16:18.700><c> is</c><00:16:19.019><c> doubtless</c><00:16:19.440><c> wayward</c><00:16:19.840><c> by</c>

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this<00:16:20.419><c> time,</c>

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and<00:16:21.539><c> that's</c><00:16:21.799><c> hard.</c>

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What<00:16:28.299><c> normally</c><00:16:28.940><c> happens</c><00:16:29.860><c> is</c><00:16:30.960><c> if</c><00:16:31.759><c> you</c><00:16:32.000><c> can't</c><00:16:32.559><c> stop</c><00:16:32.940><c> it</c><00:16:33.860><c> in</c><00:16:34.320><c> its</c>

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tracks<00:16:35.120><c> by</c><00:16:36.200><c> various</c><00:16:36.940><c> means,</c>

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and<00:16:37.899><c> I</c><00:16:38.360><c> know</c><00:16:38.620><c> means</c><00:16:39.100><c> that</c><00:16:39.279><c> have</c><00:16:39.360><c> been</c><00:16:39.559><c> successful</c><00:16:40.179><c> on</c><00:16:40.600><c> this</c><00:16:40.820><c> continent,</c><00:16:41.399><c> in</c>

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our<00:16:41.720><c> own</c><00:16:41.919><c> country</c><00:16:42.360><c> and</c><00:16:42.740><c> elsewhere,</c>

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and<00:16:44.080><c> there</c><00:16:44.259><c> have</c><00:16:44.360><c> been</c><00:16:44.399><c> means</c><00:16:44.720><c> whereby</c><00:16:45.340><c> the</c><00:16:45.779><c> family</c><00:16:46.039><c> has</c><00:16:46.299><c> moved</c><00:16:46.639><c> to</c>

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another<00:16:47.120><c> place</c><00:16:47.659><c> altogether</c>

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just<00:16:49.100><c> to</c><00:16:49.259><c> go</c><00:16:49.399><c> out</c><00:16:49.639><c> of</c><00:16:49.779><c> the</c><00:16:49.879><c> way</c><00:16:49.980><c> of</c><00:16:50.200><c> temptation.</c>

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Because<00:16:51.879><c> way</c><00:16:52.080><c> of</c><00:16:52.259><c> temptation</c><00:16:52.679><c> these</c><00:16:52.940><c> days</c><00:16:53.139><c> may</c><00:16:53.379><c> be</c><00:16:53.500><c> in</c><00:16:53.600><c> your</c>

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office<00:16:54.120><c> where</c><00:16:54.340><c> your</c><00:16:54.519><c> husband</c><00:16:54.820><c> works.</c>

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Somebody<00:16:56.000><c> is</c><00:16:56.299><c> working</c><00:16:56.600><c> at</c><00:16:56.879><c> him.</c>

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She's<00:16:57.940><c> divorced</c><00:16:58.419><c> and</c><00:16:58.580><c> she's</c><00:16:58.820><c> determined</c><00:16:59.059><c> to</c><00:16:59.299><c> get</c><00:16:59.440><c> him.</c>

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And<00:17:01.460><c> that's</c><00:17:01.919><c> hard</c><00:17:02.220><c> going,</c><00:17:03.220><c> especially</c><00:17:03.519><c> if</c><00:17:03.639><c> she</c><00:17:03.740><c> happens</c><00:17:03.879><c> to</c><00:17:04.019><c> be</c><00:17:04.180><c> a</c>

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boss<00:17:04.680><c> in</c><00:17:04.900><c> that</c><00:17:05.099><c> office</c>

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because<00:17:06.799><c> your</c><00:17:06.960><c> husband</c><00:17:07.140><c> is</c><00:17:07.380><c> then</c><00:17:07.740><c> flattered</c><00:17:08.140><c> and</c><00:17:08.579><c> somebody</c>

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is<00:17:09.059><c> seeking</c><00:17:09.339><c> him</c><00:17:09.619><c> and</c><00:17:09.740><c> seeking</c><00:17:09.960><c> him</c><00:17:10.240><c> hard.</c>

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And<00:17:11.579><c> perhaps</c><00:17:11.920><c> if</c><00:17:12.160><c> you're</c><00:17:12.440><c> not</c><00:17:12.700><c> used</c><00:17:12.940><c> to</c><00:17:13.099><c> that</c><00:17:13.259><c> kind</c><00:17:13.440><c> of</c><00:17:13.619><c> pressure,</c><00:17:14.500><c> then</c>

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you<00:17:15.619><c> may</c><00:17:15.839><c> succumb.</c>

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Now<00:17:16.759><c> I</c><00:17:16.819><c> know,</c><00:17:17.240><c> brethren,</c><00:17:17.400><c> in</c><00:17:17.559><c> this</c><00:17:17.700><c> country</c><00:17:17.940><c> who</c><00:17:18.140><c> have</c><00:17:18.380><c> succumbed,</c>

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and<00:17:19.579><c> I</c><00:17:19.700><c> know</c><00:17:19.779><c> those</c><00:17:20.059><c> who</c><00:17:20.559><c> overcome</c><00:17:20.900><c> the</c><00:17:21.140><c> problem</c><00:17:21.460><c> by</c><00:17:21.940><c> moving</c><00:17:22.339><c> away,</c>

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west<00:17:23.839><c> coast</c><00:17:24.079><c> to</c><00:17:24.180><c> east</c><00:17:24.440><c> coast</c><00:17:24.660><c> or</c><00:17:24.819><c> east</c><00:17:25.059><c> coast</c><00:17:25.299><c> to</c><00:17:25.480><c> west,</c><00:17:26.000><c> whatever</c><00:17:26.259><c> it</c><00:17:26.579><c> costs,</c>

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just<00:17:27.500><c> to</c><00:17:27.619><c> get</c><00:17:27.700><c> the</c><00:17:27.880><c> temptation</c><00:17:28.359><c> away</c><00:17:28.920><c> and</c><00:17:29.740><c> to</c><00:17:29.920><c> reinstate</c><00:17:30.339><c> the</c><00:17:30.579><c> marriage.</c>

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That<00:17:31.119><c> takes</c><00:17:31.480><c> time</c><00:17:31.900><c> because</c><00:17:32.539><c> trust</c><00:17:33.019><c> has</c><00:17:33.200><c> been</c><00:17:33.359><c> destroyed</c><00:17:34.279><c> within</c><00:17:34.619><c> the</c><00:17:34.859><c> family.</c>

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You<00:17:36.259><c> know</c><00:17:36.559><c> if</c><00:17:36.779><c> you're</c><00:17:37.019><c> happily</c><00:17:37.339><c> married</c><00:17:37.859><c> that</c><00:17:38.460><c> you</c><00:17:38.640><c> just</c><00:17:38.920><c> can't</c><00:17:39.119><c> imagine</c><00:17:39.480><c> what</c>

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it<00:17:39.799><c> must</c><00:17:39.960><c> be</c><00:17:40.180><c> like</c>

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if<00:17:40.759><c> the</c><00:17:41.039><c> trust</c><00:17:41.240><c> between</c><00:17:41.559><c> the</c><00:17:41.740><c> two</c><00:17:41.920><c> partners</c><00:17:42.200><c> is</c><00:17:42.660><c> destroyed.</c>

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The<00:17:44.220><c> natural</c><00:17:44.960><c> trust</c><00:17:45.480><c> that</c><00:17:45.660><c> is</c><00:17:45.900><c> there,</c><00:17:46.940><c> when</c><00:17:47.240><c> that</c><00:17:47.480><c> has</c><00:17:47.779><c> gone,</c>

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it<00:17:48.519><c> doesn't</c><00:17:48.680><c> come</c><00:17:48.940><c> back</c><00:17:49.119><c> by</c><00:17:49.400><c> magic.</c>

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You<00:17:51.380><c> can't</c><00:17:51.539><c> just</c><00:17:51.740><c> bring</c><00:17:51.819><c> it</c><00:17:52.000><c> back</c><00:17:52.099><c> by</c><00:17:52.740><c> reciting</c><00:17:53.099><c> the</c><00:17:53.339><c> precepts</c>

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of<00:17:53.980><c> Christ.</c>

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It's<00:17:54.579><c> a</c><00:17:54.779><c> relationship</c><00:17:55.519><c> and</c><00:17:56.279><c> therefore</c><00:17:56.440><c> it</c><00:17:56.660><c> takes</c><00:17:56.859><c> time</c><00:17:57.259><c> to</c><00:17:57.539><c> recreate.</c>

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Hard<00:18:00.400><c> going.</c>

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If<00:18:03.039><c> in</c><00:18:03.220><c> the</c><00:18:03.539><c> end</c><00:18:04.400><c> cleavage</c><00:18:05.279><c> is</c><00:18:05.539><c> going</c><00:18:05.720><c> to</c><00:18:06.000><c> take</c><00:18:06.200><c> place,</c>

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then<00:18:08.259><c> try</c><00:18:08.539><c> to</c><00:18:08.819><c> contain</c><00:18:09.079><c> it</c><00:18:09.339><c> within</c><00:18:10.440><c> the</c><00:18:10.960><c> scriptural</c><00:18:12.180><c> bounds.</c>

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And<00:18:14.019><c> that</c><00:18:14.200><c> is,</c><00:18:15.079><c> well,</c><00:18:15.319><c> if</c><00:18:15.700><c> you're</c><00:18:16.480><c> now</c><00:18:16.920><c> totally</c><00:18:17.359><c> unable</c><00:18:17.920><c> for</c>

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whatever<00:18:18.400><c> reason</c><00:18:18.900><c> to</c><00:18:20.019><c> be</c><00:18:20.240><c> together,</c>

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in<00:18:20.859><c> fact</c><00:18:20.960><c> one</c><00:18:21.119><c> of</c><00:18:21.240><c> the</c><00:18:21.400><c> partners</c><00:18:21.619><c> may</c><00:18:21.799><c> have</c><00:18:21.980><c> gone</c><00:18:22.160><c> off</c><00:18:22.519><c> altogether,</c>

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then<00:18:25.299><c> leave</c><00:18:25.980><c> it</c><00:18:26.359><c> at</c><00:18:26.799><c> separation.</c>

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Just<00:18:30.579><c> leave</c><00:18:30.920><c> it</c><00:18:31.119><c> at</c><00:18:31.420><c> separation.</c>

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Because<00:18:33.140><c> separation</c><00:18:33.619><c> means</c><00:18:33.940><c> there's</c><00:18:34.200><c> a</c><00:18:34.339><c> possibility</c><00:18:34.759><c> of</c><00:18:35.019><c> restoration</c><00:18:35.579><c> and</c><00:18:36.539><c> reconciliation.</c>

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Just<00:18:38.319><c> leave</c><00:18:38.559><c> it</c><00:18:38.740><c> at</c><00:18:38.940><c> separation.</c>

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I<00:18:39.680><c> don't</c><00:18:39.880><c> know</c><00:18:39.980><c> the</c><00:18:40.160><c> law</c><00:18:40.460><c> over</c><00:18:40.759><c> here</c><00:18:41.339><c> concerning</c><00:18:41.940><c> about</c><00:18:42.960><c> legal</c><00:18:43.480><c> separation</c>

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and<00:18:44.339><c> other</c><00:18:44.559><c> kinds</c><00:18:44.859><c> of</c><00:18:45.099><c> separation</c><00:18:45.619><c> and</c><00:18:46.359><c> all</c><00:18:46.539><c> the</c><00:18:46.740><c> maintenance</c>

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and<00:18:47.299><c> other</c><00:18:47.480><c> things</c><00:18:47.700><c> that</c><00:18:47.940><c> go</c><00:18:48.039><c> with</c><00:18:48.359><c> that.</c>

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They're<00:18:49.759><c> peculiar</c><00:18:50.240><c> to</c><00:18:50.460><c> each</c><00:18:50.680><c> country.</c>

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But<00:18:51.779><c> that's</c><00:18:52.079><c> something</c><00:18:52.279><c> in</c><00:18:52.440><c> which</c><00:18:53.599><c> one</c><00:18:53.880><c> of</c><00:18:53.980><c> the</c><00:18:54.079><c> arranging</c><00:18:54.339><c> brethren</c>

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should<00:18:54.779><c> be</c><00:18:54.960><c> well</c><00:18:55.099><c> enough</c><00:18:55.299><c> informed</c><00:18:55.799><c> to</c><00:18:55.980><c> be</c><00:18:56.200><c> able</c><00:18:56.460><c> to</c><00:18:56.960><c> be</c><00:18:57.099><c> of</c><00:18:57.279><c> help.</c>

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It<00:18:58.059><c> seems</c><00:18:58.200><c> to</c><00:18:58.359><c> be</c><00:18:58.720><c> starry</c><00:18:59.359><c> eyed</c><00:18:59.500><c> and</c><00:18:59.740><c> saying</c><00:18:59.859><c> this</c><00:19:00.099><c> won't</c><00:19:00.400><c> take</c><00:19:00.720><c> place.</c>

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It<00:19:01.359><c> does</c><00:19:01.759><c> take</c><00:19:02.119><c> place.</c>

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And<00:19:03.099><c> it</c><00:19:03.180><c> may</c><00:19:03.339><c> well</c><00:19:03.519><c> be</c><00:19:03.599><c> you</c><00:19:03.700><c> can</c><00:19:04.059><c> stop</c><00:19:04.240><c> it.</c>

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We<00:19:06.279><c> had</c><00:19:06.480><c> a</c><00:19:06.920><c> case</c><00:19:07.099><c> in</c><00:19:07.279><c> our</c><00:19:07.400><c> own</c><00:19:07.579><c> ecclesia</c><00:19:07.960><c> where</c><00:19:08.799><c> the</c><00:19:09.400><c> husband</c>

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went<00:19:09.859><c> away.</c>

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Just<00:19:11.460><c> no</c><00:19:11.720><c> chance</c><00:19:11.980><c> of</c><00:19:12.099><c> him</c><00:19:12.240><c> coming</c><00:19:12.420><c> back.</c>

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The<00:19:15.059><c> wife</c><00:19:15.240><c> has</c><00:19:15.539><c> stayed</c><00:19:15.900><c> at</c><00:19:16.339><c> separation.</c>

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I<00:19:18.160><c> mean</c><00:19:18.400><c> the</c><00:19:18.720><c> separation</c><00:19:19.000><c> was</c><00:19:19.180><c> already</c><00:19:19.460><c> there,</c><00:19:19.980><c> but</c><00:19:20.180><c> she</c><00:19:20.539><c> stayed</c><00:19:20.880><c> and</c>

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held<00:19:21.259><c> it</c><00:19:21.400><c> at</c><00:19:21.579><c> that.</c>

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That<00:19:22.319><c> was</c><00:19:22.480><c> the</c><00:19:22.619><c> advice</c><00:19:22.880><c> that</c><00:19:23.019><c> was</c><00:19:23.220><c> given</c><00:19:23.400><c> to</c><00:19:23.579><c> her.</c>

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And<00:19:24.180><c> she's</c><00:19:24.900><c> kept</c><00:19:25.099><c> it</c><00:19:25.279><c> and</c><00:19:25.400><c> held</c><00:19:25.559><c> it</c><00:19:25.720><c> at</c><00:19:25.880><c> that.</c>

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Tough<00:19:27.019><c> going</c><00:19:27.319><c> with</c><00:19:27.519><c> two</c><00:19:27.740><c> children,</c><00:19:28.220><c> but</c><00:19:28.339><c> she's</c><00:19:28.599><c> held</c><00:19:28.700><c> it</c><00:19:28.839><c> at</c><00:19:29.039><c> that.</c>

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Now<00:19:33.160><c> what</c><00:19:33.680><c> we've</c><00:19:33.940><c> got</c><00:19:34.039><c> to</c><00:19:34.180><c> try</c><00:19:34.299><c> to</c><00:19:34.480><c> do</c><00:19:34.619><c> is</c><00:19:35.039><c> to</c><00:19:35.480><c> contain</c><00:19:35.859><c> it</c><00:19:36.059><c> as</c>

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much<00:19:36.480><c> as</c><00:19:36.779><c> possible.</c>

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There'll<00:19:38.240><c> be</c><00:19:38.359><c> cases</c><00:19:38.559><c> that</c><00:19:38.880><c> spill</c><00:19:39.039><c> over</c><00:19:39.339><c> beyond</c><00:19:39.759><c> that</c><00:19:39.980><c> and</c><00:19:40.099><c> we</c>

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know<00:19:40.500><c> that.</c>

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And<00:19:41.779><c> it's</c><00:19:42.039><c> not</c><00:19:42.299><c> possible</c><00:19:42.700><c> sometimes</c><00:19:43.319><c> even</c><00:19:43.940><c> to</c><00:19:44.420><c> step</c><00:19:44.640><c> in</c>

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because<00:19:45.220><c> the</c><00:19:45.380><c> whole</c><00:19:45.640><c> thing</c><00:19:46.140><c> has</c><00:19:46.440><c> begun</c><00:19:46.640><c> to</c><00:19:46.859><c> move</c><00:19:46.960><c> at</c><00:19:47.160><c> such</c><00:19:47.339><c> a</c><00:19:47.539><c> rate.</c>

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We've<00:19:48.940><c> got</c><00:19:49.000><c> to</c><00:19:49.220><c> try</c><00:19:49.359><c> to</c><00:19:49.500><c> make</c><00:19:49.599><c> it</c><00:19:49.880><c> plain</c><00:19:50.180><c> that</c><00:19:50.539><c> it</c><00:19:50.740><c> is</c><00:19:51.099><c> sinful</c>

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to<00:19:52.440><c> have</c><00:19:52.680><c> an</c><00:19:53.079><c> attachment</c>

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to<00:19:54.420><c> anybody</c><00:19:55.200><c> else</c><00:19:56.140><c> whilst</c><00:19:56.740><c> your</c><00:19:57.160><c> other</c><00:19:57.579><c> partner</c><00:19:58.039><c> is</c><00:19:58.359><c> still</c><00:19:58.660><c> alive</c>

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and<00:20:00.440><c> whilst</c><00:20:00.759><c> your</c><00:20:01.099><c> marriage</c><00:20:01.460><c> is</c><00:20:01.779><c> intact.</c>

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You<00:20:03.460><c> know</c><00:20:03.640><c> there</c><00:20:03.779><c> are</c><00:20:03.960><c> those</c><00:20:04.200><c> whose</c><00:20:05.000><c> marriage</c><00:20:05.319><c> is</c><00:20:05.519><c> intact.</c>

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The<00:20:06.099><c> other</c><00:20:06.279><c> partner</c><00:20:06.539><c> has</c><00:20:06.640><c> gone</c><00:20:06.799><c> off,</c><00:20:06.960><c> but</c><00:20:07.059><c> they're</c><00:20:07.259><c> already</c>

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looking<00:20:07.799><c> for</c><00:20:08.019><c> somebody</c><00:20:08.339><c> else.</c>

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Although<00:20:09.440><c> they</c><00:20:10.019><c> themselves</c><00:20:10.859><c> are</c><00:20:11.319><c> in</c><00:20:11.440><c> a</c><00:20:11.619><c> marriage</c><00:20:11.839><c> situation.</c>

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Now<00:20:15.000><c> what</c><00:20:15.079><c> we've</c><00:20:15.140><c> got</c><00:20:15.240><c> to</c><00:20:15.339><c> say</c><00:20:15.559><c> is</c><00:20:15.680><c> that</c><00:20:15.839><c> is</c><00:20:16.000><c> wrong.</c>

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The<00:20:17.500><c> whole</c><00:20:17.660><c> thing</c><00:20:17.920><c> is</c><00:20:18.099><c> wrong,</c><00:20:18.500><c> but</c><00:20:18.519><c> we've</c><00:20:18.680><c> got</c><00:20:18.740><c> to</c><00:20:19.579><c> not</c><00:20:19.579><c> compound</c><00:20:20.480><c> the</c><00:20:20.660><c> problem</c>

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by<00:20:21.059><c> a</c><00:20:21.140><c> variety</c><00:20:21.680><c> of</c><00:20:22.180><c> other</c><00:20:22.420><c> wrongs.</c>

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We've<00:20:23.980><c> got</c><00:20:24.000><c> to</c><00:20:24.119><c> get</c><00:20:24.240><c> the</c><00:20:24.359><c> thing</c><00:20:25.019><c> as</c><00:20:25.519><c> near</c><00:20:25.700><c> to</c><00:20:26.019><c> right</c><00:20:26.160><c> as</c><00:20:26.339><c> we</c><00:20:26.539><c> can.</c>

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We<00:20:27.920><c> should</c><00:20:28.000><c> never</c><00:20:28.160><c> get</c><00:20:28.279><c> it</c><00:20:28.500><c> wholly</c><00:20:28.720><c> right</c><00:20:29.039><c> in</c><00:20:29.180><c> this</c><00:20:29.400><c> area.</c>

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The<00:20:30.759><c> Lord</c><00:20:30.980><c> knew</c><00:20:31.279><c> that.</c>

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I<00:20:31.740><c> mean</c><00:20:31.740><c> the</c><00:20:31.779><c> Old</c><00:20:31.980><c> Testament</c><00:20:32.279><c> makes</c><00:20:32.500><c> it</c><00:20:32.799><c> plain</c><00:20:32.960><c> that</c><00:20:33.099><c> it's</c><00:20:33.180><c> not</c>

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possible<00:20:33.859><c> to</c><00:20:34.200><c> get</c><00:20:34.279><c> it</c><00:20:34.480><c> wholly</c><00:20:34.759><c> right.</c>

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And<00:20:35.720><c> by</c><00:20:35.920><c> setting</c><00:20:36.099><c> a</c><00:20:36.339><c> higher</c><00:20:36.559><c> standard</c><00:20:36.819><c> in</c><00:20:37.079><c> Christ</c><00:20:37.339><c> doesn't</c><00:20:37.559><c> mean</c><00:20:37.740><c> you</c><00:20:37.880><c> get</c><00:20:37.980><c> it</c><00:20:38.740><c> right.</c>

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People<00:20:39.680><c> will</c><00:20:39.960><c> still</c><00:20:40.220><c> behave</c><00:20:40.559><c> differently.</c>

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What<00:20:41.599><c> one</c><00:20:41.740><c> has</c><00:20:41.920><c> to</c><00:20:42.079><c> do</c><00:20:42.180><c> is</c><00:20:42.359><c> to</c><00:20:42.500><c> see</c><00:20:42.819><c> how</c><00:20:43.319><c> we</c><00:20:43.500><c> can</c><00:20:43.720><c> possibly</c>

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contain<00:20:45.559><c> things.</c>

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Divorce<00:20:51.980><c> is</c><00:20:52.819><c> an</c><00:20:52.980><c> admission</c><00:20:53.539><c> of</c><00:20:53.980><c> defeat.</c>

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You<00:20:56.640><c> have</c><00:20:57.059><c> failed</c><00:20:57.480><c> to</c><00:20:57.740><c> hold</c><00:20:58.019><c> your</c><00:20:58.339><c> marriage</c><00:20:58.799><c> intact.</c>

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It<00:21:01.660><c> always</c><00:21:02.019><c> staggers</c><00:21:02.420><c> me</c><00:21:02.819><c> why</c><00:21:03.359><c> a</c><00:21:04.000><c> divorced</c><00:21:04.359><c> person,</c><00:21:04.900><c> not</c><00:21:05.380><c> within</c><00:21:06.279><c> the</c><00:21:06.460><c> community,</c>

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outside,<00:21:08.400><c> marries</c><00:21:08.539><c> another</c><00:21:08.880><c> divorced</c><00:21:09.420><c> person.</c>

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Because<00:21:11.599><c> they're</c><00:21:11.859><c> marrying</c><00:21:12.140><c> at</c><00:21:12.519><c> double</c><00:21:12.839><c> risk.</c>

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And<00:21:14.799><c> of</c><00:21:14.980><c> course</c><00:21:15.200><c> more</c><00:21:16.039><c> marriages</c><00:21:16.339><c> break</c><00:21:16.740><c> down</c><00:21:17.000><c> of</c><00:21:17.519><c> those</c>

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who've<00:21:18.059><c> remarried</c><00:21:18.480><c> after</c><00:21:18.779><c> divorce</c>

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than,<00:21:20.900><c> a</c><00:21:20.960><c> larger</c><00:21:21.119><c> percentage</c><00:21:21.519><c> I</c><00:21:21.779><c> mean,</c><00:21:22.519><c> than</c><00:21:23.059><c> of</c><00:21:23.660><c> those</c><00:21:23.839><c> who</c>

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were<00:21:24.099><c> married</c><00:21:24.259><c> for</c><00:21:24.440><c> the</c><00:21:24.559><c> first</c><00:21:24.799><c> time.</c>

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That<00:21:26.160><c> is,</c><00:21:26.460><c> you</c><00:21:26.539><c> get</c><00:21:26.740><c> a</c><00:21:26.980><c> predisposition</c><00:21:27.759><c> to</c><00:21:28.220><c> the</c><00:21:28.420><c> fragmentation</c><00:21:29.000><c> of</c><00:21:29.240><c> marriage</c>

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once<00:21:30.180><c> you</c><00:21:30.359><c> have</c><00:21:30.519><c> passed</c><00:21:30.740><c> through</c><00:21:31.799><c> that.</c>

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It's<00:21:32.539><c> like</c><00:21:32.680><c> breaking</c><00:21:32.859><c> through</c><00:21:33.039><c> the</c><00:21:33.259><c> sound</c><00:21:33.480><c> barrier</c><00:21:33.759><c> once</c><00:21:33.940><c> you've</c><00:21:34.180><c> gone</c><00:21:34.299><c> through</c><00:21:34.500><c> it.</c>

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It's<00:21:34.720><c> like</c><00:21:34.839><c> the</c><00:21:35.000><c> four</c><00:21:35.099><c> minute</c><00:21:35.299><c> mile.</c><00:21:35.799><c> Once</c><00:21:35.980><c> it's</c><00:21:36.220><c> over,</c><00:21:36.720><c> anything</c><00:21:37.000><c> can</c><00:21:37.220><c> happen.</c>

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And<00:21:38.460><c> so</c><00:21:38.579><c> it</c><00:21:38.660><c> is</c><00:21:38.799><c> in</c><00:21:39.059><c> marriage.</c>

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What<00:21:40.980><c> are</c><00:21:41.279><c> we</c><00:21:41.460><c> to</c><00:21:41.660><c> do,</c><00:21:42.019><c> however,</c><00:21:42.980><c> when</c><00:21:43.240><c> divorce</c><00:21:43.900><c> takes</c><00:21:44.680><c> place?</c>

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That's<00:21:47.380><c> the</c><00:21:47.480><c> question.</c>

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Now<00:21:48.920><c> some</c><00:21:49.079><c> ecclesiastes</c><00:21:49.460><c> take</c><00:21:49.759><c> a</c><00:21:50.039><c> blanket</c><00:21:50.319><c> decision</c><00:21:50.740><c> and</c><00:21:51.039><c> say</c>

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that<00:21:51.920><c> no</c><00:21:52.400><c> divorced</c><00:21:52.900><c> person</c><00:21:53.400><c> will</c><00:21:53.819><c> be</c><00:21:53.960><c> admitted</c><00:21:54.440><c> within</c><00:21:55.019><c> our</c><00:21:55.339><c> ecclesia.</c>

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Now<00:21:57.200><c> your</c><00:21:57.400><c> ecclesia</c><00:21:57.680><c> may</c><00:21:57.900><c> be</c><00:21:58.200><c> such</c><00:21:58.400><c> an</c><00:21:58.619><c> ecclesia.</c>

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That's<00:22:00.960><c> the</c><00:22:01.160><c> easiest</c><00:22:01.480><c> of</c><00:22:01.680><c> all</c><00:22:01.900><c> decisions</c><00:22:02.259><c> to</c><00:22:02.559><c> take.</c>

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It<00:22:04.920><c> doesn't</c><00:22:05.140><c> get</c><00:22:05.279><c> rid</c><00:22:05.380><c> of</c><00:22:05.539><c> the</c><00:22:05.599><c> problem,</c><00:22:06.680><c> but</c><00:22:07.420><c> it</c><00:22:07.480><c> means</c><00:22:07.619><c> that</c>

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you<00:22:07.859><c> haven't</c><00:22:08.039><c> got</c><00:22:08.240><c> it.</c>

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But<00:22:11.019><c> it</c><00:22:11.079><c> is</c><00:22:11.839><c> the</c><00:22:12.059><c> easiest</c><00:22:12.480><c> of</c><00:22:12.700><c> all</c><00:22:12.920><c> decisions</c><00:22:13.299><c> to</c><00:22:13.579><c> take.</c>

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Now<00:22:15.180><c> you</c><00:22:15.180><c> may</c><00:22:15.460><c> feel</c><00:22:16.140><c> for</c><00:22:16.519><c> scriptural</c><00:22:17.039><c> reasons</c><00:22:17.519><c> that</c><00:22:17.720><c> that</c><00:22:17.920><c> is</c><00:22:18.200><c> right.</c>

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That<00:22:19.880><c> you</c><00:22:20.140><c> are</c><00:22:20.359><c> entitled</c><00:22:20.799><c> so</c><00:22:21.039><c> to</c><00:22:21.240><c> do</c><00:22:21.619><c> within</c><00:22:21.859><c> our</c><00:22:22.099><c> community.</c>

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But<00:22:23.859><c> you</c><00:22:24.099><c> will</c><00:22:24.380><c> know</c><00:22:24.900><c> that</c><00:22:25.440><c> by</c><00:22:25.839><c> taking</c><00:22:26.099><c> that</c><00:22:26.420><c> decision,</c>

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you<00:22:27.680><c> are</c><00:22:27.839><c> taking</c><00:22:28.019><c> that</c><00:22:28.259><c> decision</c><00:22:28.539><c> for</c><00:22:29.180><c> your</c><00:22:29.519><c> ecclesia</c><00:22:30.059><c> only.</c>

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But<00:22:31.680><c> it</c><00:22:31.859><c> is</c><00:22:32.140><c> not</c><00:22:32.380><c> the</c><00:22:32.559><c> decision</c><00:22:32.900><c> of</c><00:22:33.140><c> our</c><00:22:33.460><c> brotherhood</c>

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that<00:22:34.579><c> no</c><00:22:34.920><c> divorced</c><00:22:35.579><c> person</c><00:22:36.180><c> should</c><00:22:36.500><c> be</c><00:22:36.700><c> in</c><00:22:36.900><c> fellowship.</c>

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Because<00:22:38.519><c> our</c><00:22:38.759><c> brotherhood</c><00:22:39.279><c> behaves</c><00:22:39.700><c> differently</c><00:22:40.319><c> as</c><00:22:40.900><c> a</c><00:22:41.059><c> whole.</c>

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And<00:22:42.779><c> if</c><00:22:42.900><c> you're</c><00:22:43.180><c> content</c><00:22:43.759><c> to</c><00:22:44.460><c> remain</c><00:22:44.900><c> as</c><00:22:45.160><c> an</c><00:22:45.339><c> ecclesia</c><00:22:45.779><c> within</c>

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a<00:22:46.359><c> brotherhood</c>

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that<00:22:47.420><c> doesn't</c><00:22:48.079><c> hold</c><00:22:48.539><c> the</c><00:22:48.759><c> decision</c><00:22:49.059><c> that</c><00:22:49.220><c> you</c><00:22:49.400><c> take</c><00:22:49.619><c> within</c>

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the<00:22:50.079><c> ecclesia,</c>

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that<00:22:52.339><c> is</c><00:22:53.019><c> a</c><00:22:53.539><c> question</c><00:22:53.799><c> for</c><00:22:54.000><c> your</c><00:22:54.180><c> ecclesia.</c>

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And<00:22:55.039><c> I</c><00:22:55.220><c> well</c><00:22:55.400><c> understand</c><00:22:55.859><c> it.</c>

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And<00:22:56.660><c> I've</c><00:22:57.460><c> got</c><00:22:57.579><c> a</c><00:22:57.779><c> great</c><00:22:57.980><c> deal</c><00:22:58.220><c> of</c><00:22:58.460><c> sympathy</c><00:22:58.920><c> for</c><00:22:59.359><c> the</c><00:22:59.539><c> view.</c>

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But<00:23:01.299><c> it</c><00:23:01.440><c> has</c><00:23:01.640><c> its</c><00:23:01.839><c> problems</c><00:23:02.220><c> as</c><00:23:02.400><c> you</c><00:23:02.539><c> can</c><00:23:02.779><c> see.</c>

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The<00:23:06.420><c> trouble</c><00:23:06.559><c> about</c><00:23:06.759><c> making</c><00:23:07.059><c> a</c><00:23:07.180><c> decision</c><00:23:07.359><c> of</c><00:23:07.539><c> that</c><00:23:07.759><c> kind</c><00:23:07.920><c> is</c>

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it<00:23:08.220><c> lumps</c><00:23:08.440><c> everybody</c><00:23:08.880><c> together.</c>

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It<00:23:10.779><c> lumps</c><00:23:11.180><c> the</c><00:23:11.900><c> two</c><00:23:12.079><c> parties</c><00:23:12.380><c> together</c><00:23:12.880><c> of</c><00:23:13.180><c> the</c><00:23:13.400><c> preceding</c><00:23:13.779><c> marriage</c>

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irrespective<00:23:15.640><c> of</c><00:23:15.839><c> which</c><00:23:16.039><c> carries</c><00:23:16.440><c> the</c><00:23:16.680><c> greater</c><00:23:16.940><c> guilt.</c>

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I<00:23:18.599><c> don't</c><00:23:18.880><c> think</c><00:23:19.079><c> there</c><00:23:19.279><c> is</c><00:23:19.740><c> an</c><00:23:20.980><c> innocent</c><00:23:21.619><c> party,</c>

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a<00:23:22.380><c> totally</c><00:23:22.759><c> innocent</c><00:23:23.200><c> party</c><00:23:23.660><c> in</c><00:23:24.019><c> a</c><00:23:24.160><c> marriage</c><00:23:24.460><c> breakdown.</c>

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Because<00:23:25.720><c> I</c><00:23:25.980><c> think</c><00:23:26.240><c> all</c><00:23:26.559><c> of</c><00:23:26.680><c> us</c><00:23:27.140><c> contribute</c><00:23:27.660><c> to</c><00:23:27.920><c> our</c><00:23:28.119><c> marriage</c>

00:23:28.380 --> 00:23:31.160
and<00:23:28.640><c> therefore</c><00:23:29.039><c> all</c><00:23:29.440><c> of</c><00:23:29.559><c> us</c><00:23:29.940><c> contribute</c><00:23:30.339><c> to</c><00:23:30.519><c> a</c><00:23:30.680><c> breakdown</c><00:23:31.000><c> if</c>

00:23:31.160 --> 00:23:32.779
it<00:23:31.299><c> takes</c><00:23:31.579><c> place.</c>

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I<00:23:34.579><c> mean</c><00:23:34.660><c> there</c><00:23:34.779><c> are</c><00:23:35.039><c> partners</c><00:23:35.380><c> who</c><00:23:35.640><c> have</c><00:23:35.839><c> been</c><00:23:36.259><c> terribly</c><00:23:36.839><c> maltreated.</c>

00:23:39.359 --> 00:23:41.779
There<00:23:39.460><c> are</c><00:23:39.660><c> partners,</c><00:23:40.460><c> and</c><00:23:40.559><c> this</c><00:23:40.779><c> is</c><00:23:40.920><c> within</c><00:23:41.180><c> the</c><00:23:41.480><c> truth,</c>

00:23:42.019 --> 00:23:45.720
whose<00:23:42.059><c> husbands</c><00:23:42.619><c> have</c><00:23:43.220><c> treated</c><00:23:43.599><c> them</c><00:23:44.180><c> as</c><00:23:44.559><c> though</c><00:23:45.000><c> they</c><00:23:45.299><c> were</c>

00:23:45.720 --> 00:23:48.680
animals<00:23:46.319><c> for</c><00:23:47.000><c> sexual</c><00:23:47.519><c> purposes.</c>

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I'm<00:23:49.299><c> aware</c><00:23:49.539><c> of</c><00:23:49.740><c> this.</c>

00:23:51.839 --> 00:23:53.559
It's<00:23:52.240><c> all</c><00:23:52.359><c> right</c><00:23:52.440><c> for</c><00:23:52.579><c> the</c><00:23:52.700><c> rest</c><00:23:52.880><c> of</c><00:23:52.980><c> us</c><00:23:53.099><c> who</c><00:23:53.259><c> are</c><00:23:53.319><c> well</c>

00:23:53.559 --> 00:23:55.779
married,<00:23:54.799><c> unhappy,</c>

00:23:55.859 --> 00:23:58.039
saying<00:23:55.900><c> well</c><00:23:56.099><c> you've</c><00:23:56.240><c> got</c><00:23:56.299><c> to</c><00:23:56.400><c> stay</c><00:23:56.539><c> together,</c><00:23:56.980><c> you</c><00:23:56.980><c> know,</c><00:23:57.200><c> and</c><00:23:57.279><c> just</c><00:23:57.460><c> keep</c><00:23:57.640><c> it</c>

00:23:58.039 --> 00:23:59.039
all<00:23:58.220><c> going.</c>

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That's<00:23:59.920><c> good</c><00:24:00.079><c> advice</c><00:24:00.519><c> and</c><00:24:00.680><c> it's</c><00:24:00.920><c> right</c><00:24:01.099><c> advice.</c>

00:24:01.900 --> 00:24:04.240
But<00:24:02.160><c> my,</c><00:24:02.619><c> it's</c><00:24:02.700><c> difficult</c><00:24:03.099><c> if</c><00:24:03.440><c> that's</c><00:24:03.740><c> the</c><00:24:03.839><c> treatment</c><00:24:04.039><c> you're</c>

00:24:04.240 --> 00:24:05.859
getting,<00:24:04.480><c> isn't</c><00:24:04.599><c> it?</c>

00:24:07.619 --> 00:24:10.319
If<00:24:08.019><c> in</c><00:24:08.299><c> fact</c><00:24:08.599><c> you</c><00:24:08.900><c> take</c><00:24:09.099><c> that</c><00:24:09.359><c> treatment</c><00:24:09.559><c> to</c><00:24:09.700><c> somebody</c><00:24:10.000><c> else</c>

00:24:10.319 --> 00:24:10.579
and<00:24:10.500><c> say</c>

00:24:10.579 --> 00:24:11.740
well<00:24:10.700><c> that's</c><00:24:10.859><c> what</c><00:24:10.980><c> my</c><00:24:11.160><c> husband's</c><00:24:11.519><c> doing,</c>

00:24:12.220 --> 00:24:14.960
you<00:24:12.480><c> still</c><00:24:12.779><c> might</c><00:24:12.980><c> produce</c><00:24:13.279><c> a</c><00:24:13.440><c> breakdown</c><00:24:13.680><c> in</c><00:24:13.859><c> the</c><00:24:14.000><c> marriage.</c>

00:24:15.880 --> 00:24:17.859
The<00:24:15.960><c> husband</c><00:24:16.099><c> may</c><00:24:16.279><c> consider</c><00:24:16.599><c> it's</c><00:24:16.920><c> right.</c>

00:24:18.940 --> 00:24:22.079
But<00:24:19.619><c> I'm</c><00:24:19.839><c> aware</c><00:24:20.039><c> of</c><00:24:20.200><c> these</c><00:24:20.400><c> cases</c><00:24:20.619><c> on</c><00:24:20.819><c> this</c><00:24:21.000><c> continent.</c>

00:24:23.460 --> 00:24:27.339
And<00:24:23.539><c> they</c><00:24:23.640><c> must</c><00:24:23.799><c> happen</c><00:24:24.019><c> everywhere</c><00:24:24.799><c> throughout</c><00:24:25.819><c> the</c><00:24:26.059><c> world.</c>

00:24:30.420 --> 00:24:35.380
Others<00:24:30.640><c> take</c><00:24:31.000><c> the</c><00:24:31.160><c> view</c><00:24:31.680><c> that</c><00:24:32.400><c> whilst</c><00:24:32.660><c> they</c><00:24:32.859><c> are</c><00:24:32.980><c> not</c><00:24:33.180><c> prepared</c><00:24:33.619><c> to</c><00:24:33.960><c> accept</c><00:24:34.420><c> the</c>

00:24:35.380 --> 00:24:39.460
quote,<00:24:35.900><c> guilty</c><00:24:36.240><c> party,</c><00:24:37.160><c> they</c><00:24:37.380><c> are</c><00:24:37.720><c> prepared</c><00:24:38.019><c> to</c><00:24:38.299><c> accept</c><00:24:38.799><c> the</c>

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innocent<00:24:39.799><c> party.</c>

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Right?

00:24:44.180 --> 00:24:47.200
On<00:24:44.859><c> the</c><00:24:45.039><c> basis</c><00:24:45.400><c> of</c><00:24:45.660><c> the</c><00:24:46.019><c> accepted</c><00:24:46.460><c> clauses.</c>

00:24:47.619 --> 00:24:49.940
Now<00:24:47.680><c> I'm</c><00:24:47.720><c> not</c><00:24:47.920><c> going</c><00:24:48.059><c> to</c><00:24:48.160><c> go</c><00:24:48.279><c> into</c><00:24:48.440><c> the</c><00:24:49.019><c> exposition</c><00:24:49.539><c> of</c><00:24:49.740><c> these,</c>

00:24:50.039 --> 00:24:53.180
but<00:24:50.099><c> that's</c><00:24:50.420><c> a</c><00:24:50.539><c> decision</c><00:24:50.880><c> that</c><00:24:51.359><c> some</c><00:24:51.579><c> Ecclesiastes</c><00:24:52.000><c> take.</c>

00:24:53.559 --> 00:24:58.720
And<00:24:53.740><c> consequently</c><00:24:54.240><c> they</c><00:24:54.960><c> have</c><00:24:55.619><c> such</c><00:24:56.059><c> people</c><00:24:56.740><c> in</c><00:24:57.460><c> their</c><00:24:57.660><c> meeting,</c>

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whether<00:25:00.539><c> they</c><00:25:01.220><c> are</c><00:25:01.819><c> divorced</c><00:25:02.279><c> or</c><00:25:02.619><c> divorced</c><00:25:03.140><c> and</c><00:25:03.460><c> remarried,</c>

00:25:04.299 --> 00:25:06.240
they<00:25:04.559><c> have</c><00:25:04.759><c> them</c><00:25:04.980><c> in</c><00:25:05.160><c> the</c><00:25:05.359><c> Ecclesia.</c>

00:25:07.019 --> 00:25:09.339
There<00:25:07.200><c> is</c><00:25:07.460><c> one</c><00:25:07.740><c> disadvantage</c><00:25:08.319><c> with</c><00:25:08.579><c> that</c><00:25:08.839><c> decision,</c>

00:25:09.339 --> 00:25:13.720
and<00:25:10.099><c> that</c><00:25:10.200><c> is</c><00:25:10.779><c> that</c><00:25:11.059><c> you</c><00:25:11.200><c> become</c><00:25:11.460><c> a</c><00:25:11.759><c> magnet</c><00:25:12.079><c> for</c><00:25:12.460><c> other</c><00:25:12.720><c> people.</c>

00:25:14.039 --> 00:25:16.900
And<00:25:14.200><c> you</c><00:25:14.299><c> discover</c><00:25:14.880><c> that</c><00:25:15.240><c> you</c><00:25:15.380><c> have</c><00:25:15.599><c> more</c><00:25:15.900><c> cases,</c>

00:25:17.000 --> 00:25:20.680
and<00:25:17.099><c> many</c><00:25:17.319><c> of</c><00:25:17.480><c> them</c><00:25:17.680><c> not</c><00:25:18.359><c> generated</c><00:25:19.000><c> within</c><00:25:19.299><c> your</c><00:25:19.579><c> own</c><00:25:19.779><c> Ecclesia,</c>

00:25:20.700 --> 00:25:24.119
but<00:25:20.859><c> you</c><00:25:21.000><c> just</c><00:25:21.240><c> become</c><00:25:21.579><c> a</c><00:25:21.880><c> place</c><00:25:22.220><c> where</c><00:25:22.759><c> others</c><00:25:23.079><c> come.</c>

00:25:24.640 --> 00:25:27.319
And<00:25:24.819><c> that</c><00:25:24.980><c> has</c><00:25:25.240><c> its</c><00:25:25.759><c> major</c><00:25:26.140><c> disadvantages.</c>

00:25:27.539 --> 00:25:32.339
You<00:25:28.039><c> produce</c><00:25:28.579><c> within</c><00:25:28.980><c> the</c><00:25:29.180><c> Ecclesia</c><00:25:29.880><c> an</c><00:25:31.039><c> imbalance.</c>

00:25:33.059 --> 00:25:35.480
That's<00:25:33.420><c> got</c><00:25:33.559><c> problems,</c><00:25:34.039><c> especially</c><00:25:34.400><c> in</c><00:25:34.619><c> teaching</c><00:25:34.839><c> young</c><00:25:35.079><c> people</c>

00:25:35.480 --> 00:25:37.700
what<00:25:35.759><c> is</c><00:25:36.019><c> the</c><00:25:36.099><c> right</c><00:25:36.359><c> way</c><00:25:36.539><c> of</c><00:25:36.779><c> life.</c>

00:25:38.440 --> 00:25:42.859
But<00:25:39.039><c> it's</c><00:25:39.200><c> something</c><00:25:39.440><c> that</c><00:25:40.420><c> has</c><00:25:40.700><c> to</c><00:25:40.839><c> be</c><00:25:41.019><c> considered</c><00:25:41.380><c> and</c><00:25:41.680><c> weighed</c><00:25:41.839><c> up.</c>

00:25:42.980 --> 00:25:48.940
My<00:25:43.119><c> own</c><00:25:43.460><c> view</c><00:25:43.720><c> is</c><00:25:44.359><c> that</c><00:25:44.740><c> every</c><00:25:45.079><c> Ecclesia</c><00:25:45.779><c> should,</c><00:25:46.680><c> in</c><00:25:47.980><c> fact,</c>

00:25:49.480 --> 00:25:51.200
swallow<00:25:49.680><c> its</c><00:25:49.960><c> own</c><00:25:50.200><c> smoke.</c>

00:25:52.259 --> 00:25:54.539
In<00:25:52.359><c> other</c><00:25:52.480><c> words,</c><00:25:52.799><c> that</c><00:25:52.900><c> which</c><00:25:53.059><c> you</c><00:25:53.400><c> generate</c><00:25:53.759><c> within</c><00:25:54.019><c> the</c><00:25:54.240><c> Ecclesia,</c>

00:25:54.640 --> 00:25:56.500
you've<00:25:54.920><c> got</c><00:25:55.079><c> to</c><00:25:55.279><c> deal</c><00:25:55.500><c> with.</c>

00:25:57.380 --> 00:26:02.819
But<00:25:57.980><c> I</c><00:25:58.579><c> think</c><00:25:59.799><c> it</c><00:26:00.279><c> is</c><00:26:00.680><c> reprehensible</c><00:26:01.440><c> for</c><00:26:01.759><c> people</c><00:26:02.140><c> with</c><00:26:02.519><c> problems</c>

00:26:02.819 --> 00:26:04.700
to<00:26:02.980><c> go</c><00:26:03.200><c> round</c><00:26:03.480><c> from</c><00:26:03.720><c> one</c><00:26:03.980><c> place</c><00:26:04.180><c> to</c><00:26:04.380><c> another.</c>

00:26:04.700 --> 00:26:07.299
Then<00:26:05.220><c> when</c><00:26:05.359><c> they've</c><00:26:05.559><c> got</c><00:26:05.660><c> a</c><00:26:05.819><c> home</c><00:26:06.019><c> to</c><00:26:06.200><c> go</c><00:26:06.440><c> to</c><00:26:06.740><c> and</c><00:26:07.000><c> the</c><00:26:07.140><c> home</c>

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accepts<00:26:07.700><c> them,</c>

00:26:08.079 --> 00:26:09.920
they<00:26:08.319><c> then</c><00:26:08.599><c> traffic</c><00:26:08.900><c> themselves</c><00:26:09.339><c> around</c>

00:26:09.920 --> 00:26:12.759
as<00:26:10.339><c> though</c><00:26:10.539><c> everybody</c><00:26:10.940><c> else</c><00:26:11.220><c> has</c><00:26:11.460><c> accepted</c><00:26:11.900><c> them.</c>

00:26:13.259 --> 00:26:14.920
When<00:26:13.420><c> they</c><00:26:13.640><c> know,</c><00:26:13.859><c> in</c><00:26:14.099><c> fact,</c><00:26:14.220><c> that</c><00:26:14.400><c> they</c><00:26:14.579><c> haven't,</c>

00:26:14.980 --> 00:26:17.160
that<00:26:15.180><c> creates</c><00:26:15.519><c> a</c><00:26:15.759><c> great</c><00:26:15.920><c> embarrassment.</c>

00:26:18.460 --> 00:26:20.480
And<00:26:18.579><c> that's</c><00:26:18.740><c> without</c><00:26:18.940><c> pronouncing</c><00:26:19.559><c> on</c><00:26:19.759><c> whether,</c><00:26:19.940><c> in</c><00:26:20.180><c> fact,</c>

00:26:20.940 --> 00:26:22.539
one<00:26:21.200><c> course</c><00:26:21.519><c> or</c><00:26:21.660><c> the</c><00:26:21.819><c> other</c><00:26:21.940><c> is</c><00:26:22.099><c> the</c><00:26:22.299><c> better.</c>

00:26:22.740 --> 00:26:24.599
I'm<00:26:22.980><c> talking</c><00:26:23.160><c> about</c><00:26:23.359><c> the</c><00:26:23.619><c> behaviour</c><00:26:23.940><c> of</c><00:26:24.079><c> the</c><00:26:24.259><c> people.</c>

00:26:25.000 --> 00:26:28.819
I<00:26:25.160><c> think</c><00:26:25.339><c> all</c><00:26:25.660><c> of</c><00:26:25.759><c> us</c><00:26:25.819><c> have</c><00:26:25.980><c> to</c><00:26:26.220><c> recognise,</c><00:26:26.920><c> if</c><00:26:27.420><c> we're</c><00:26:28.079><c> in</c><00:26:28.299><c> that</c><00:26:28.579><c> situation,</c>

00:26:28.819 --> 00:26:34.420
that<00:26:29.640><c> whether</c><00:26:30.039><c> we</c><00:26:30.839><c> like</c><00:26:31.099><c> it</c><00:26:31.420><c> or</c><00:26:31.799><c> not,</c><00:26:32.660><c> we</c><00:26:32.660><c> have</c><00:26:33.099><c> a</c><00:26:33.759><c> disability</c>

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attaching<00:26:34.900><c> to</c><00:26:35.200><c> us.</c>

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And<00:26:36.119><c> that</c><00:26:36.339><c> disability</c><00:26:37.019><c> has</c><00:26:37.380><c> to</c><00:26:37.559><c> be</c><00:26:37.799><c> recognised.</c>

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It's<00:26:39.440><c> the</c><00:26:39.559><c> kind</c><00:26:39.700><c> of</c><00:26:39.799><c> thing</c><00:26:39.920><c> that</c><00:26:40.000><c> was</c><00:26:40.200><c> recognised</c><00:26:40.539><c> in</c><00:26:41.220><c> the</c><00:26:41.380><c> Old</c>

00:26:41.599 --> 00:26:42.920
Testament,<00:26:42.359><c> wasn't</c><00:26:42.519><c> it?</c>

00:26:43.059 --> 00:26:45.900
Well,<00:26:43.240><c> it</c><00:26:43.400><c> seemed</c><00:26:43.940><c> quite</c><00:26:44.380><c> wrong</c><00:26:44.839><c> that</c><00:26:45.200><c> a</c><00:26:45.359><c> brother</c><00:26:45.519><c> who</c><00:26:45.680><c> was</c>

00:26:45.900 --> 00:26:47.140
crook<00:26:46.200><c>-backed</c>

00:26:47.140 --> 00:26:52.480
could<00:26:47.660><c> not</c><00:26:48.000><c> serve</c><00:26:48.940><c> the</c><00:26:49.299><c> Lord</c><00:26:49.799><c> in</c><00:26:51.200><c> the</c><00:26:51.380><c> tabernacle.</c>

00:26:53.039 --> 00:26:57.000
That<00:26:53.720><c> was</c><00:26:53.900><c> just</c><00:26:54.140><c> his</c><00:26:54.299><c> misfortune</c><00:26:54.819><c> to</c><00:26:54.960><c> be</c><00:26:55.180><c> born</c><00:26:55.519><c> with</c><00:26:55.839><c> a</c><00:26:56.019><c> crook</c><00:26:56.259><c>-back,</c>

00:26:57.240 --> 00:26:59.779
but<00:26:57.839><c> he</c><00:26:57.920><c> couldn't</c><00:26:58.160><c> serve</c><00:26:58.440><c> within</c><00:26:58.619><c> the</c><00:26:58.799><c> tabernacle</c><00:26:59.140><c> because</c>

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of<00:27:00.160><c> certain</c><00:27:00.400><c> things,</c>

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which<00:27:01.420><c> he</c><00:27:01.619><c> understood</c><00:27:01.920><c> very</c><00:27:02.240><c> well.</c>

00:27:02.559 --> 00:27:05.140
But<00:27:02.700><c> the</c><00:27:02.799><c> Lord</c><00:27:02.980><c> cared</c><00:27:03.319><c> for</c><00:27:03.500><c> him</c><00:27:03.640><c> in</c><00:27:03.759><c> other</c><00:27:03.940><c> respects.</c>

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But<00:27:05.539><c> that</c><00:27:05.859><c> disability</c><00:27:06.799><c> affected</c><00:27:07.440><c> a</c><00:27:07.759><c> particular</c><00:27:08.119><c> aspect</c><00:27:08.579><c> of</c>

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his<00:27:08.980><c> service,</c>

00:27:09.940 --> 00:27:12.819
and<00:27:10.099><c> so</c><00:27:10.240><c> it</c><00:27:10.400><c> is</c><00:27:10.799><c> in</c><00:27:11.220><c> connection</c><00:27:11.519><c> with</c><00:27:11.759><c> marriage.</c>

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Generally<00:27:14.920><c> speaking,</c><00:27:16.220><c> the</c><00:27:16.480><c> view</c><00:27:16.839><c> of</c><00:27:17.920><c> all</c><00:27:18.579><c> the</c><00:27:18.880><c> editors</c><00:27:19.220><c> of</c>

00:27:19.440 --> 00:27:21.319
the<00:27:19.619><c> Christadelphian,</c>

00:27:22.640 --> 00:27:24.880
right<00:27:22.779><c> from</c><00:27:23.000><c> the</c><00:27:23.140><c> earliest</c><00:27:23.400><c> days</c><00:27:23.660><c> of</c><00:27:23.839><c> Brother</c><00:27:24.180><c> Thomas</c>

00:27:24.880 --> 00:27:27.960
through<00:27:25.819><c> Brother</c><00:27:26.119><c> Roberts,</c><00:27:26.720><c> Brother</c><00:27:26.920><c> Walker,</c><00:27:27.420><c> Brother</c><00:27:27.599><c> Carter,</c>

00:27:28.099 --> 00:27:30.980
Brother<00:27:28.339><c> Sargent,</c><00:27:28.859><c> Brother</c><00:27:29.039><c> Nichols,</c><00:27:29.519><c> Brother</c><00:27:29.759><c> Ashton,</c>

00:27:31.180 --> 00:27:35.859
all<00:27:31.519><c> of</c><00:27:31.680><c> those</c><00:27:31.920><c> brethren</c><00:27:32.319><c> have</c><00:27:32.819><c> in</c><00:27:33.079><c> fact</c><00:27:33.700><c> set</c><00:27:34.599><c> forth</c><00:27:34.940><c> one</c><00:27:35.319><c> view</c>

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on<00:27:37.400><c> marriage</c><00:27:37.900><c> and</c><00:27:38.119><c> divorce,</c>

00:27:38.799 --> 00:27:42.819
and<00:27:39.160><c> that</c><00:27:39.339><c> is</c><00:27:39.579><c> that</c><00:27:39.720><c> they</c><00:27:39.920><c> believe</c><00:27:40.180><c> that</c><00:27:40.380><c> the</c><00:27:40.680><c> accepted</c><00:27:41.059><c> clause</c><00:27:41.720><c> is</c><00:27:42.519><c> a</c>

00:27:42.819 --> 00:27:44.940
clause<00:27:43.099><c> that</c><00:27:43.519><c> allows,</c>

00:27:45.299 --> 00:27:48.920
does<00:27:45.420><c> not</c><00:27:45.660><c> insist</c><00:27:46.220><c> upon,</c><00:27:47.240><c> but</c><00:27:47.480><c> allows,</c>

00:27:49.319 --> 00:27:54.519
in<00:27:49.700><c> cases</c><00:27:50.099><c> where</c><00:27:50.819><c> the</c><00:27:51.200><c> innocent</c><00:27:51.660><c> party</c><00:27:52.299><c> has</c><00:27:53.819><c> been</c><00:27:54.079><c> subjected</c>

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to<00:27:54.759><c> divorce</c>

00:27:55.380 --> 00:28:00.700
such<00:27:55.779><c> a</c><00:27:56.039><c> person</c><00:27:56.440><c> to</c><00:27:57.660><c> remarry,</c><00:27:58.900><c> but</c><00:27:59.079><c> that</c><00:27:59.299><c> the</c><00:27:59.640><c> ideal</c><00:28:00.019><c> is</c><00:28:00.400><c> not</c>

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to<00:28:00.980><c> remarry.</c>

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That's<00:28:03.579><c> the</c><00:28:04.339><c> position</c><00:28:04.880><c> that</c><00:28:05.519><c> those</c><00:28:05.880><c> brethren</c><00:28:06.380><c> have</c><00:28:06.859><c> adopted,</c>

00:28:07.640 --> 00:28:10.599
and<00:28:08.099><c> it</c><00:28:08.319><c> doesn't</c><00:28:08.500><c> take</c><00:28:08.799><c> long</c><00:28:09.059><c> to</c><00:28:09.200><c> go</c><00:28:09.380><c> through</c><00:28:09.579><c> the</c><00:28:09.700><c> Christadelphians</c>

00:28:10.599 --> 00:28:14.400
and<00:28:11.519><c> to</c><00:28:11.779><c> read</c><00:28:12.099><c> all</c><00:28:12.740><c> that</c><00:28:12.839><c> they</c><00:28:12.960><c> have</c><00:28:13.220><c> said</c><00:28:13.440><c> right</c><00:28:14.019><c> throughout</c>

00:28:14.400 --> 00:28:15.500
the<00:28:14.619><c> ages.</c>

00:28:16.200 --> 00:28:19.519
So<00:28:16.759><c> that's</c><00:28:17.319><c> that</c><00:28:17.640><c> group</c><00:28:17.980><c> and</c><00:28:18.220><c> a</c><00:28:18.339><c> lot</c><00:28:18.519><c> of</c><00:28:18.740><c> brethren</c><00:28:18.960><c> and</c><00:28:19.200><c> sisters,</c>

00:28:19.519 --> 00:28:23.640
and<00:28:19.819><c> I</c><00:28:19.960><c> would</c><00:28:20.180><c> think</c><00:28:20.400><c> that</c><00:28:20.920><c> that</c><00:28:21.119><c> is</c><00:28:21.339><c> the</c><00:28:21.720><c> majority</c><00:28:22.339><c> view</c><00:28:22.799><c> in</c>

00:28:23.640 --> 00:28:25.579
the<00:28:23.779><c> United</c><00:28:24.119><c> Kingdom.</c>

00:28:26.079 --> 00:28:28.519
I<00:28:26.180><c> know</c><00:28:26.279><c> it</c><00:28:26.279><c> isn't</c><00:28:26.460><c> the</c><00:28:26.799><c> majority</c><00:28:27.160><c> view</c><00:28:27.440><c> in</c><00:28:27.680><c> other</c><00:28:27.880><c> places</c><00:28:28.279><c> and</c>

00:28:28.519 --> 00:28:29.900
for<00:28:28.740><c> other</c><00:28:28.960><c> reasons</c><00:28:29.339><c> also,</c>

00:28:30.200 --> 00:28:32.740
but<00:28:30.420><c> I</c><00:28:30.539><c> think</c><00:28:30.640><c> it</c><00:28:30.720><c> is</c><00:28:30.900><c> the</c><00:28:31.059><c> majority</c><00:28:31.500><c> view</c><00:28:31.980><c> that</c><00:28:32.359><c> the</c><00:28:32.640><c> Ecclesia</c>

00:28:32.740 --> 00:28:33.799
in<00:28:32.920><c> the</c><00:28:33.019><c> United</c><00:28:33.420><c> Kingdom</c>

00:28:33.799 --> 00:28:37.099
would<00:28:34.160><c> in</c><00:28:34.400><c> fact</c><00:28:34.680><c> take</c><00:28:35.680><c> that</c><00:28:36.200><c> view.</c>

00:28:37.339 --> 00:28:40.700
What<00:28:37.519><c> we</c><00:28:37.640><c> have</c><00:28:37.799><c> to</c><00:28:37.940><c> decide</c><00:28:38.460><c> ourselves</c><00:28:39.140><c> is</c><00:28:39.640><c> what</c><00:28:39.960><c> our</c><00:28:40.339><c> Ecclesia</c>

00:28:40.700 --> 00:28:41.680
is<00:28:40.980><c> going</c><00:28:41.160><c> to</c><00:28:41.420><c> do.</c>

00:28:41.680 --> 00:28:46.960
No<00:28:43.160><c> cases</c><00:28:44.240><c> are</c><00:28:44.720><c> identical</c><00:28:45.380><c> with</c><00:28:45.940><c> other</c><00:28:46.319><c> cases.</c>

00:28:47.160 --> 00:28:48.200
We<00:28:47.279><c> all</c><00:28:47.480><c> know</c><00:28:47.700><c> that.</c>

00:28:48.579 --> 00:28:51.579
You've<00:28:48.680><c> only</c><00:28:48.819><c> got</c><00:28:48.980><c> to</c><00:28:49.799><c> meet</c><00:28:50.019><c> them</c><00:28:50.220><c> and</c><00:28:50.359><c> to</c><00:28:50.660><c> talk</c><00:28:50.900><c> to</c><00:28:51.099><c> realize</c>

00:28:51.579 --> 00:28:58.019
that<00:28:52.039><c> everyone</c><00:28:52.579><c> has</c><00:28:53.240><c> got</c><00:28:53.400><c> to</c><00:28:53.519><c> be</c><00:28:53.680><c> dealt</c><00:28:53.859><c> with</c><00:28:54.500><c> itself,</c><00:28:55.559><c> particularly</c><00:28:56.200><c> and</c><00:28:56.980><c> personally.</c>

00:28:59.579 --> 00:29:00.900
All<00:28:59.799><c> right?</c>

00:29:01.119 --> 00:29:06.440
So<00:29:01.460><c> that's</c><00:29:02.440><c> a</c><00:29:02.579><c> kind</c><00:29:02.720><c> of</c><00:29:03.059><c> general</c><00:29:03.640><c> review</c><00:29:04.319><c> of</c><00:29:05.700><c> the</c><00:29:06.000><c> attitudes</c>

00:29:06.440 --> 00:29:07.619
that<00:29:06.839><c> people</c><00:29:07.099><c> take.</c>

00:29:07.619 --> 00:29:11.420
All<00:29:08.160><c> I</c><00:29:08.319><c> would</c><00:29:08.500><c> ask</c><00:29:08.779><c> myself</c><00:29:09.519><c> is,</c><00:29:10.259><c> whichever</c><00:29:10.539><c> decision</c><00:29:11.000><c> your</c>

00:29:11.420 --> 00:29:13.180
Ecclesia<00:29:11.920><c> takes,</c>

00:29:14.099 --> 00:29:18.640
then<00:29:14.279><c> seek</c><00:29:14.859><c> to</c><00:29:15.359><c> live</c><00:29:15.779><c> at</c><00:29:16.359><c> peace</c><00:29:16.640><c> with</c><00:29:16.839><c> the</c><00:29:17.119><c> other</c><00:29:17.359><c> Ecclesias,</c>

00:29:19.220 --> 00:29:24.019
because<00:29:20.180><c> that's</c><00:29:21.099><c> what</c><00:29:21.299><c> our</c><00:29:21.559><c> community</c><00:29:22.099><c> has</c><00:29:22.599><c> itself</c><00:29:23.200><c> decided</c>

00:29:24.019 --> 00:29:26.220
and<00:29:24.380><c> has</c><00:29:24.680><c> always</c><00:29:25.180><c> followed,</c>

00:29:27.000 --> 00:29:31.420
that<00:29:27.220><c> we</c><00:29:28.220><c> allow</c><00:29:28.839><c> both</c><00:29:29.720><c> points</c><00:29:30.359><c> of</c><00:29:30.640><c> view.</c>

00:29:31.180 --> 00:29:33.079
They<00:29:31.660><c> exist</c><00:29:32.180><c> within</c><00:29:32.380><c> the</c><00:29:32.680><c> community.</c>

00:29:33.079 --> 00:29:37.000
All<00:29:33.779><c> of</c><00:29:33.960><c> us</c><00:29:34.180><c> allow</c><00:29:34.460><c> both</c><00:29:34.779><c> points</c><00:29:35.140><c> of</c><00:29:35.319><c> view</c><00:29:35.660><c> because</c><00:29:36.500><c> we</c><00:29:36.759><c> belong</c>

00:29:37.000 --> 00:29:38.440
to<00:29:37.180><c> that</c><00:29:37.339><c> community.</c>

00:29:39.900 --> 00:29:42.980
We<00:29:40.440><c> may</c><00:29:40.660><c> have</c><00:29:40.900><c> one</c><00:29:41.140><c> or</c><00:29:41.319><c> the</c><00:29:41.559><c> other</c><00:29:41.819><c> within</c><00:29:42.059><c> our</c><00:29:42.319><c> own</c><00:29:42.519><c> Ecclesia.</c>

00:29:43.480 --> 00:29:46.220
That<00:29:43.619><c> is</c><00:29:43.799><c> the</c><00:29:43.980><c> choice</c><00:29:44.359><c> for</c><00:29:44.619><c> our</c><00:29:44.819><c> Ecclesia</c><00:29:45.140><c> to</c><00:29:45.359><c> make.</c>

00:29:46.740 --> 00:29:51.339
Being<00:29:47.019><c> aware</c><00:29:47.539><c> that</c><00:29:47.759><c> other</c><00:29:47.980><c> brethren</c><00:29:48.460><c> take</c><00:29:50.099><c> another</c><00:29:50.380><c> view.</c>

00:29:52.619 --> 00:29:57.579
My<00:29:52.859><c> own</c><00:29:53.200><c> view</c><00:29:53.420><c> is</c><00:29:53.619><c> that</c><00:29:53.779><c> we</c><00:29:54.019><c> should</c><00:29:54.420><c> seek</c><00:29:55.019><c> to</c><00:29:55.859><c> get</c><00:29:56.019><c> our</c><00:29:56.380><c> marriages</c><00:29:56.720><c> clean</c>

00:29:57.700 --> 00:30:00.980
and<00:29:58.099><c> to</c><00:29:58.359><c> hold</c><00:29:58.539><c> as</c><00:29:58.960><c> many</c><00:29:59.319><c> as</c><00:29:59.900><c> possible</c><00:30:00.460><c> together,</c>

00:30:00.980 --> 00:30:03.339
and<00:30:01.460><c> that</c><00:30:01.579><c> these</c><00:30:01.819><c> things</c><00:30:02.019><c> are</c><00:30:02.259><c> the</c><00:30:02.500><c> last</c><00:30:02.839><c> resort,</c>

00:30:03.559 --> 00:30:05.920
and<00:30:03.720><c> they</c><00:30:03.960><c> are</c><00:30:04.000><c> not</c><00:30:04.259><c> the</c><00:30:04.480><c> first</c><00:30:04.740><c> things</c><00:30:04.920><c> that</c><00:30:05.039><c> we</c><00:30:05.160><c> should</c><00:30:05.259><c> be</c><00:30:05.440><c> considering.</c>

00:30:06.160 --> 00:30:08.720
And<00:30:06.319><c> we</c><00:30:06.440><c> shouldn't</c><00:30:06.660><c> be</c><00:30:06.900><c> picking</c><00:30:07.019><c> up</c><00:30:07.400><c> the</c><00:30:07.759><c> tail</c><00:30:08.019><c> end</c><00:30:08.220><c> of</c><00:30:08.460><c> everything.</c>

00:30:08.960 --> 00:30:11.579
We<00:30:09.220><c> should</c><00:30:09.380><c> be</c><00:30:09.539><c> able</c><00:30:09.700><c> to</c><00:30:09.859><c> get</c><00:30:09.980><c> in</c><00:30:10.160><c> at</c><00:30:10.240><c> an</c><00:30:10.460><c> earlier</c><00:30:10.759><c> stage</c><00:30:11.180><c> and</c>

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work<00:30:11.920><c> at</c><00:30:12.099><c> it</c>

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and<00:30:12.400><c> prevent</c><00:30:12.960><c> what's</c><00:30:13.519><c> going</c><00:30:13.740><c> wrong.</c>

00:30:14.500 --> 00:30:18.799
And<00:30:14.720><c> we</c><00:30:14.839><c> ought</c><00:30:14.920><c> to</c><00:30:15.119><c> create</c><00:30:15.319><c> an</c><00:30:15.599><c> atmosphere</c><00:30:16.160><c> which</c><00:30:16.559><c> allows</c><00:30:17.019><c> brethren</c><00:30:17.559><c> to</c><00:30:18.660><c> say,</c>

00:30:18.859 --> 00:30:20.900
look,<00:30:18.940><c> I've</c><00:30:19.180><c> got</c><00:30:19.319><c> a</c><00:30:19.599><c> problem,</c><00:30:20.019><c> just</c><00:30:20.319><c> help</c><00:30:20.579><c> me.</c>

00:30:21.079 --> 00:30:22.920
There<00:30:21.180><c> must</c><00:30:21.339><c> be</c><00:30:21.619><c> shame</c><00:30:21.880><c> if</c><00:30:22.039><c> your</c><00:30:22.180><c> marriage</c><00:30:22.359><c> is</c><00:30:22.519><c> breaking</c><00:30:22.799><c> up.</c>

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Of<00:30:23.099><c> course</c><00:30:23.319><c> there</c><00:30:23.539><c> is.</c>

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Or<00:30:24.640><c> fear,</c><00:30:24.980><c> a</c><00:30:25.059><c> lurking</c><00:30:25.380><c> fear</c><00:30:25.779><c> in</c><00:30:26.119><c> a</c><00:30:26.259><c> sister.</c>

00:30:26.460 --> 00:30:28.599
She's<00:30:26.619><c> got</c><00:30:26.759><c> three</c><00:30:27.059><c> children</c><00:30:27.519><c> and</c><00:30:27.880><c> then</c><00:30:28.000><c> she</c><00:30:28.119><c> discovers</c><00:30:28.440><c> that</c>

00:30:28.599 --> 00:30:30.240
her<00:30:28.660><c> husband</c><00:30:28.900><c> is</c><00:30:29.160><c> philandering</c><00:30:29.599><c> with</c><00:30:29.839><c> somebody.</c>

00:30:30.240 --> 00:30:33.799
She<00:30:31.079><c> doesn't</c><00:30:31.220><c> know</c><00:30:31.339><c> what</c><00:30:31.420><c> to</c><00:30:31.619><c> do</c><00:30:31.799><c> because</c><00:30:32.039><c> she</c><00:30:32.180><c> might</c><00:30:32.400><c> lose</c><00:30:32.640><c> everything.</c>

00:30:34.180 --> 00:30:36.700
She<00:30:34.259><c> doesn't</c><00:30:34.319><c> know</c><00:30:34.440><c> what</c><00:30:34.500><c> to</c><00:30:34.500><c> do</c><00:30:34.599><c> for</c><00:30:34.740><c> her</c><00:30:34.940><c> children,</c><00:30:35.359><c> for</c><00:30:35.440><c> herself.</c>

00:30:37.660 --> 00:30:40.440
She<00:30:38.059><c> knows</c><00:30:38.240><c> scriptural</c><00:30:38.759><c> principles,</c><00:30:39.200><c> but</c><00:30:39.339><c> she's</c><00:30:39.880><c> got</c><00:30:40.079><c> terror</c>

00:30:40.440 --> 00:30:41.900
in<00:30:40.720><c> her</c><00:30:40.839><c> eyes.</c>

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And<00:30:42.519><c> so</c><00:30:42.759><c> there</c><00:30:43.000><c> ought</c><00:30:43.240><c> to</c><00:30:43.380><c> be</c><00:30:43.579><c> a</c><00:30:43.720><c> way</c><00:30:44.079><c> in</c><00:30:44.299><c> which</c><00:30:44.660><c> it</c><00:30:44.859><c> is</c><00:30:45.099><c> possible</c><00:30:45.420><c> for</c><00:30:45.599><c> her</c>

00:30:45.720 --> 00:30:47.180
to<00:30:45.960><c> talk</c><00:30:46.319><c> and</c><00:30:46.480><c> to</c><00:30:46.619><c> get</c><00:30:46.779><c> help.</c>

00:30:47.579 --> 00:30:50.759
We<00:30:47.779><c> ought</c><00:30:47.920><c> to</c><00:30:48.039><c> create</c><00:30:48.339><c> within</c><00:30:48.599><c> our</c><00:30:48.839><c> Ecclesia</c><00:30:49.579><c> the</c><00:30:50.380><c> clean</c><00:30:50.579><c> and</c>

00:30:50.759 --> 00:30:51.819
the<00:30:51.000><c> right</c><00:30:51.259><c> way</c>

00:30:51.819 --> 00:30:56.119
and<00:30:52.119><c> say,</c><00:30:52.980><c> whatever</c><00:30:53.220><c> we</c><00:30:53.599><c> do,</c><00:30:54.279><c> we</c><00:30:54.359><c> are</c><00:30:54.700><c> going</c><00:30:54.900><c> to</c><00:30:55.140><c> have</c><00:30:55.259><c> to</c><00:30:55.460><c> answer</c><00:30:55.799><c> to</c>

00:30:56.119 --> 00:30:57.279
Christ<00:30:56.640><c> for</c><00:30:56.859><c> this.</c>

00:30:57.279 --> 00:31:00.680
It's<00:30:58.279><c> not</c><00:30:58.380><c> a</c><00:30:58.420><c> question</c><00:30:58.660><c> of</c><00:30:58.740><c> what</c><00:30:58.859><c> we</c><00:30:59.039><c> do</c><00:30:59.200><c> to</c><00:30:59.480><c> the</c><00:30:59.880><c> arranging</c><00:31:00.240><c> brethren</c><00:31:00.500><c> or</c>

00:31:00.680 --> 00:31:01.559
to<00:31:00.839><c> anybody</c><00:31:01.119><c> else.</c>

00:31:01.779 --> 00:31:05.059
What<00:31:01.940><c> we</c><00:31:02.299><c> do,</c><00:31:02.819><c> we</c><00:31:02.980><c> shall</c><00:31:03.119><c> have</c><00:31:03.259><c> to</c><00:31:03.339><c> answer</c><00:31:03.559><c> to</c><00:31:03.799><c> Christ</c><00:31:04.099><c> for.</c>

00:31:08.599 --> 00:31:12.440
When<00:31:09.160><c> the</c><00:31:09.460><c> Ecclesia</c><00:31:10.039><c> and</c><00:31:10.559><c> the</c><00:31:10.839><c> home</c><00:31:11.039><c> are</c><00:31:11.240><c> in</c><00:31:11.420><c> crisis,</c>

00:31:12.539 --> 00:31:15.839
then<00:31:12.859><c> those</c><00:31:13.240><c> are</c><00:31:13.539><c> the</c><00:31:13.759><c> things</c><00:31:14.000><c> in</c><00:31:14.339><c> fact</c><00:31:14.579><c> that</c><00:31:14.980><c> should</c><00:31:15.240><c> govern</c>

00:31:15.839 --> 00:31:17.339
our<00:31:16.359><c> behaviour.</c>

00:31:17.720 --> 00:31:21.880
You<00:31:18.019><c> know</c><00:31:18.240><c> as</c><00:31:18.420><c> well</c><00:31:18.539><c> as</c><00:31:18.740><c> I</c><00:31:19.019><c> know</c><00:31:19.740><c> that</c><00:31:20.200><c> almost</c><00:31:20.519><c> every</c><00:31:21.220><c> case,</c>

00:31:21.880 --> 00:31:27.680
almost<00:31:22.940><c> every</c><00:31:23.480><c> case,</c><00:31:24.619><c> has</c><00:31:24.859><c> got</c><00:31:25.180><c> some</c><00:31:25.619><c> antecedents</c><00:31:26.460><c> to</c><00:31:26.720><c> it.</c>

00:31:27.920 --> 00:31:30.440
You<00:31:28.000><c> speak</c><00:31:28.220><c> to</c><00:31:28.400><c> the</c><00:31:29.200><c> sister</c><00:31:29.440><c> whose</c><00:31:29.640><c> husband</c><00:31:29.880><c> has</c><00:31:30.059><c> left</c><00:31:30.180><c> and</c><00:31:30.279><c> said,</c>

00:31:30.740 --> 00:31:35.079
did<00:31:30.819><c> you</c><00:31:31.099><c> never</c><00:31:31.440><c> get</c><00:31:32.000><c> any</c><00:31:32.539><c> kind</c><00:31:32.980><c> of</c><00:31:34.119><c> inkling</c><00:31:34.460><c> that</c><00:31:34.579><c> this</c><00:31:34.839><c> might</c>

00:31:35.079 --> 00:31:36.579
take<00:31:35.440><c> place?</c>

00:31:37.279 --> 00:31:43.019
And<00:31:37.460><c> then</c><00:31:37.559><c> she</c><00:31:37.680><c> says,</c><00:31:39.720><c> well,</c><00:31:40.980><c> I</c><00:31:41.220><c> had</c><00:31:41.440><c> my</c><00:31:41.799><c> suspicions.</c>

00:31:43.299 --> 00:31:47.089
Now<00:31:43.720><c> in</c><00:31:43.960><c> actual</c><00:31:44.279><c> fact,</c><00:31:44.599><c> I</c><00:31:44.680><c> know</c><00:31:44.960><c> it's</c><00:31:45.700><c> difficult</c><00:31:46.099><c> to</c><00:31:46.480><c> harbour</c><00:31:46.779><c> suspicions</c>

00:31:47.500 --> 00:31:48.930
and<00:31:47.799><c> we</c><00:31:47.940><c> feel</c><00:31:48.099><c> it's</c><00:31:48.339><c> being</c><00:31:48.619><c> disloyal.</c>

00:31:48.930 --> 00:31:53.549
But<00:31:49.849><c> in</c><00:31:50.049><c> actual</c><00:31:50.349><c> fact,</c><00:31:50.890><c> if</c><00:31:51.029><c> those</c><00:31:51.589><c> had</c><00:31:52.049><c> just</c><00:31:52.289><c> come</c><00:31:52.490><c> to</c><00:31:52.650><c> the</c><00:31:52.809><c> surface</c>

00:31:54.009 --> 00:31:59.069
and<00:31:54.490><c> in</c><00:31:54.730><c> some</c><00:31:54.869><c> way</c><00:31:54.990><c> been</c><00:31:55.210><c> dealt</c><00:31:55.549><c> with,</c><00:31:55.730><c> it</c><00:31:55.789><c> might</c><00:31:55.950><c> have</c><00:31:56.049><c> been</c><00:31:56.250><c> possible</c><00:31:56.609><c> to</c><00:31:57.690><c> save</c><00:31:57.890><c> a</c><00:31:58.069><c> marriage.</c>

00:31:59.470 --> 00:32:02.549
And<00:31:59.630><c> therefore,</c><00:32:00.049><c> if</c><00:32:00.130><c> only</c><00:32:00.230><c> we</c><00:32:00.329><c> can</c><00:32:00.430><c> work</c><00:32:00.650><c> at</c><00:32:00.769><c> an</c><00:32:00.990><c> earlier</c><00:32:01.369><c> stage</c><00:32:01.890><c> rather</c><00:32:02.369><c> than</c>

00:32:02.549 --> 00:32:03.589
a<00:32:02.769><c> later</c><00:32:03.069><c> stage.</c>

00:32:03.789 --> 00:32:08.130
At<00:32:03.970><c> the</c><00:32:04.190><c> later</c><00:32:04.470><c> stage,</c><00:32:05.750><c> most</c><00:32:06.130><c> of</c><00:32:06.410><c> them</c><00:32:06.589><c> we</c><00:32:06.950><c> lose.</c>

00:32:08.569 --> 00:32:09.410
That's<00:32:09.049><c> what</c><00:32:09.210><c> happens.</c>

00:32:09.490 --> 00:32:14.150
With<00:32:09.769><c> most</c><00:32:10.089><c> of</c><00:32:10.269><c> them</c><00:32:10.650><c> we</c><00:32:10.890><c> lose</c><00:32:12.130><c> the</c><00:32:13.269><c> possibility</c><00:32:13.769><c> of</c><00:32:13.970><c> keeping</c>

00:32:14.150 --> 00:32:15.569
the<00:32:14.329><c> marriage</c><00:32:14.589><c> intact.</c>

00:32:15.849 --> 00:32:19.509
And<00:32:16.450><c> therefore,</c><00:32:17.250><c> we've</c><00:32:17.470><c> got</c><00:32:17.569><c> to</c><00:32:17.690><c> work</c><00:32:18.150><c> at</c><00:32:18.509><c> an</c><00:32:18.690><c> earlier</c><00:32:18.970><c> stage</c>

00:32:19.509 --> 00:32:21.190
and<00:32:20.289><c> solve</c><00:32:20.589><c> the</c><00:32:20.849><c> problem.</c>

00:32:21.529 --> 00:32:24.789
None<00:32:21.789><c> of</c><00:32:21.970><c> these</c><00:32:22.250><c> problems</c><00:32:22.630><c> comes</c><00:32:23.210><c> out</c><00:32:24.009><c> of</c><00:32:24.269><c> the</c><00:32:24.549><c> blue.</c>

00:32:24.990 --> 00:32:28.190
We've<00:32:25.190><c> got</c><00:32:25.269><c> to</c><00:32:25.390><c> be</c><00:32:25.630><c> a</c><00:32:25.829><c> caring</c><00:32:26.250><c> group</c><00:32:26.690><c> of</c><00:32:26.910><c> people</c><00:32:27.289><c> that</c><00:32:27.609><c> in</c><00:32:27.910><c> some</c>

00:32:28.190 --> 00:32:29.589
way<00:32:28.710><c> should</c><00:32:29.009><c> realise</c>

00:32:29.589 --> 00:32:32.970
that<00:32:30.170><c> we</c><00:32:30.430><c> are</c><00:32:30.450><c> living</c><00:32:30.769><c> with</c><00:32:31.150><c> problems</c><00:32:31.529><c> that</c><00:32:31.789><c> are</c><00:32:32.150><c> larger</c><00:32:32.650><c> than</c>

00:32:32.970 --> 00:32:34.890
marital<00:32:33.630><c> problems.</c>

00:32:35.710 --> 00:32:38.089
They're<00:32:35.869><c> not</c><00:32:36.089><c> just</c><00:32:36.390><c> stemming</c><00:32:36.569><c> out</c><00:32:36.829><c> of</c><00:32:37.049><c> marriage.</c>

00:32:38.369 --> 00:32:39.769
They<00:32:38.509><c> are</c><00:32:38.710><c> larger</c><00:32:39.170><c> things.</c>

00:32:40.130 --> 00:32:42.329
The<00:32:40.269><c> husband's</c><00:32:40.630><c> in</c><00:32:40.769><c> the</c><00:32:41.029><c> rat</c><00:32:41.329><c> race.</c>

00:32:42.630 --> 00:32:45.529
The<00:32:43.150><c> wife's</c><00:32:43.470><c> trying</c><00:32:43.690><c> to</c><00:32:43.750><c> hold</c><00:32:44.230><c> her</c><00:32:44.509><c> family</c><00:32:44.789><c> together</c><00:32:45.130><c> in</c><00:32:45.269><c> a</c>

00:32:45.529 --> 00:32:47.549
world<00:32:45.730><c> that's</c><00:32:46.029><c> totally</c><00:32:46.329><c> materialistic.</c>

00:32:47.970 --> 00:32:50.230
A<00:32:48.089><c> world</c><00:32:48.289><c> that's</c><00:32:48.690><c> threatening</c><00:32:48.890><c> her</c><00:32:49.230><c> children.</c>

00:32:50.490 --> 00:32:52.849
She's<00:32:50.690><c> under</c><00:32:51.029><c> pressure.</c><00:32:51.509><c> Everybody's</c><00:32:52.029><c> under</c><00:32:52.369><c> pressure.</c>

00:32:53.190 --> 00:32:55.210
Which<00:32:53.329><c> means</c><00:32:53.509><c> to</c><00:32:53.589><c> say</c><00:32:53.650><c> the</c><00:32:53.970><c> marriage</c><00:32:54.269><c> is</c><00:32:54.470><c> under</c><00:32:54.750><c> pressure.</c>

00:32:55.569 --> 00:32:57.890
Even<00:32:55.750><c> though</c><00:32:55.910><c> it's</c><00:32:56.109><c> a</c><00:32:56.170><c> normal</c><00:32:56.569><c> marriage,</c><00:32:56.930><c> it's</c><00:32:57.049><c> under</c><00:32:57.390><c> pressure.</c>

00:32:58.390 --> 00:32:59.509
We're<00:32:58.549><c> all</c><00:32:58.730><c> aware</c><00:32:58.990><c> of</c><00:32:59.230><c> that.</c>

00:32:59.890 --> 00:33:03.750
All<00:33:00.109><c> of</c><00:33:00.190><c> us</c><00:33:00.309><c> feel</c><00:33:00.490><c> the</c><00:33:00.710><c> tension</c><00:33:00.950><c> from</c><00:33:01.190><c> time</c><00:33:01.390><c> to</c><00:33:01.549><c> time</c><00:33:01.990><c> in</c><00:33:02.609><c> our</c><00:33:02.869><c> marriages.</c>

00:33:04.309 --> 00:33:06.750
I<00:33:04.430><c> don't</c><00:33:04.509><c> mean</c><00:33:04.609><c> of</c><00:33:04.849><c> breaking</c><00:33:05.089><c> up,</c><00:33:05.670><c> but</c><00:33:05.769><c> we're</c><00:33:06.009><c> under</c><00:33:06.289><c> pressure</c>

00:33:06.750 --> 00:33:07.690
of<00:33:06.990><c> some</c><00:33:07.289><c> kind.</c>

00:33:07.690 --> 00:33:10.730
The<00:33:08.390><c> husband's</c><00:33:08.769><c> got</c><00:33:08.869><c> to</c><00:33:08.950><c> go</c><00:33:09.109><c> out</c><00:33:09.630><c> because</c><00:33:10.289><c> of</c><00:33:10.410><c> his</c><00:33:10.589><c> work.</c>

00:33:10.730 --> 00:33:12.490
He's<00:33:10.869><c> got</c><00:33:10.910><c> to</c><00:33:11.029><c> do</c><00:33:11.230><c> this,</c><00:33:11.569><c> I've</c><00:33:11.670><c> got</c><00:33:11.710><c> to</c><00:33:11.869><c> do</c><00:33:12.069><c> that.</c>

00:33:12.529 --> 00:33:14.069
And<00:33:12.690><c> the</c><00:33:12.809><c> wife's</c><00:33:13.130><c> aware</c><00:33:13.369><c> of</c><00:33:13.589><c> that.</c>

00:33:14.109 --> 00:33:17.829
And<00:33:14.329><c> it</c><00:33:15.150><c> creates</c><00:33:15.369><c> pressures</c><00:33:16.670><c> for</c><00:33:16.930><c> her.</c>

00:33:17.910 --> 00:33:19.769
And<00:33:18.029><c> of</c><00:33:18.150><c> course</c><00:33:18.210><c> we</c><00:33:18.289><c> have</c><00:33:18.529><c> an</c><00:33:18.670><c> increasing</c><00:33:18.950><c> number</c><00:33:19.230><c> of</c><00:33:19.410><c> those</c>

00:33:19.769 --> 00:33:22.029
who<00:33:20.349><c> have</c><00:33:20.789><c> employment.</c>

00:33:22.069 --> 00:33:24.089
Men<00:33:22.269><c> and</c><00:33:22.529><c> women,</c><00:33:23.069><c> brothers</c><00:33:23.289><c> and</c><00:33:23.670><c> sisters.</c>

00:33:24.170 --> 00:33:27.670
Which<00:33:24.349><c> is</c><00:33:24.670><c> a</c><00:33:24.930><c> problem</c><00:33:25.190><c> that</c><00:33:25.349><c> needs</c><00:33:25.529><c> to</c><00:33:25.809><c> be</c><00:33:25.849><c> solved</c><00:33:26.390><c> individually.</c>

00:33:28.289 --> 00:33:31.630
The<00:33:28.410><c> temptation</c><00:33:28.910><c> in</c><00:33:29.269><c> the</c><00:33:29.410><c> United</c><00:33:29.690><c> States</c><00:33:30.069><c> is</c><00:33:30.289><c> to</c><00:33:30.470><c> seek</c><00:33:30.670><c> psychiatrists</c><00:33:31.349><c> and</c>

00:33:31.630 --> 00:33:33.730
counsellors<00:33:32.369><c> and</c><00:33:32.730><c> tablets.</c>

00:33:35.470 --> 00:33:38.910
That's<00:33:35.990><c> how</c><00:33:36.509><c> the</c><00:33:36.609><c> rest</c><00:33:36.809><c> of</c><00:33:36.869><c> us</c><00:33:37.049><c> read</c><00:33:37.349><c> you,</c><00:33:37.849><c> you</c><00:33:38.029><c> know.</c>

00:33:39.630 --> 00:33:42.950
That<00:33:39.730><c> I</c><00:33:40.049><c> will</c><00:33:40.210><c> have</c><00:33:40.390><c> to</c><00:33:40.549><c> see</c><00:33:40.730><c> my</c><00:33:41.089><c> psychiatrist</c><00:33:41.630><c> about</c><00:33:41.990><c> this.</c>

00:33:43.250 --> 00:33:47.309
All<00:33:43.410><c> I</c><00:33:43.549><c> can</c><00:33:43.730><c> say</c><00:33:43.950><c> is</c><00:33:44.250><c> that</c><00:33:44.750><c> nearly</c><00:33:45.009><c> all</c><00:33:45.329><c> of</c><00:33:45.470><c> these</c><00:33:45.910><c> trick</c><00:33:46.210><c> cyclists</c><00:33:46.829><c> can't</c>

00:33:47.309 --> 00:33:49.410
keep<00:33:47.529><c> their</c><00:33:47.750><c> balance</c><00:33:48.089><c> on</c><00:33:48.289><c> the</c><00:33:48.509><c> bicycle.</c>

00:33:50.250 --> 00:33:53.170
Many<00:33:50.769><c> of</c><00:33:51.029><c> them</c><00:33:51.210><c> are</c><00:33:51.690><c> bent</c><00:33:51.990><c> people.</c>

00:33:54.569 --> 00:33:56.930
If<00:33:54.670><c> you</c><00:33:54.809><c> would</c><00:33:54.809><c> go</c><00:33:54.849><c> round</c><00:33:54.990><c> and</c><00:33:55.130><c> ask</c><00:33:55.809><c> them</c><00:33:56.170><c> how</c><00:33:56.369><c> many</c><00:33:56.650><c> of</c><00:33:56.670><c> their</c>

00:33:56.930 --> 00:33:59.569
marriages<00:33:57.190><c> have</c><00:33:57.430><c> broken</c><00:33:57.670><c> down,</c><00:33:58.210><c> you</c><00:33:58.309><c> would</c><00:33:58.509><c> discover.</c>

00:33:59.970 --> 00:34:05.509
Because<00:34:00.529><c> the</c><00:34:00.930><c> basis</c><00:34:01.309><c> of</c><00:34:01.529><c> their</c><00:34:01.869><c> advice</c><00:34:02.509><c> is</c><00:34:03.609><c> not</c><00:34:04.230><c> scriptural.</c>

00:34:06.170 --> 00:34:08.869
And<00:34:06.269><c> they</c><00:34:06.490><c> do</c><00:34:06.869><c> not</c><00:34:07.069><c> work</c><00:34:07.309><c> on</c><00:34:07.529><c> the</c><00:34:07.710><c> basis</c><00:34:08.050><c> that</c><00:34:08.349><c> the</c><00:34:08.449><c> heart</c><00:34:08.690><c> of</c>

00:34:08.869 --> 00:34:11.610
man<00:34:09.010><c> is</c><00:34:09.210><c> deceitful</c><00:34:09.570><c> above</c><00:34:09.730><c> all</c><00:34:10.050><c> things</c><00:34:10.389><c> and</c><00:34:10.809><c> desperately</c><00:34:11.250><c> wicked.</c>

00:34:12.030 --> 00:34:14.809
I'm<00:34:12.130><c> not</c><00:34:12.329><c> saying</c><00:34:12.469><c> that</c><00:34:12.650><c> some</c><00:34:12.849><c> counsellors</c><00:34:13.510><c> outside</c><00:34:14.030><c> can't</c><00:34:14.449><c> help.</c>

00:34:15.130 --> 00:34:17.829
What<00:34:15.269><c> I'm</c><00:34:15.409><c> saying</c><00:34:15.670><c> is</c><00:34:15.829><c> we</c><00:34:15.949><c> ought</c><00:34:16.130><c> to</c><00:34:16.269><c> produce</c><00:34:16.510><c> better</c><00:34:17.210><c> advice</c>

00:34:17.829 --> 00:34:18.670
from<00:34:18.349><c> within.</c>

00:34:18.949 --> 00:34:20.550
It's<00:34:19.289><c> a</c><00:34:19.510><c> spiritual</c><00:34:19.989><c> problem.</c>

00:34:20.929 --> 00:34:22.989
And<00:34:21.110><c> that's</c><00:34:21.250><c> what</c><00:34:21.369><c> we</c><00:34:21.570><c> ought</c><00:34:21.690><c> to</c><00:34:21.849><c> be</c><00:34:22.130><c> able</c><00:34:22.409><c> to</c><00:34:22.670><c> solve.</c>

00:34:23.110 --> 00:34:25.550
A<00:34:23.369><c> spiritual</c><00:34:23.610><c> problem</c><00:34:24.050><c> in</c><00:34:24.510><c> the</c><00:34:24.690><c> highest</c><00:34:24.969><c> sense.</c>

00:34:25.550 --> 00:34:27.989
And<00:34:26.190><c> arranging</c><00:34:26.570><c> brethren</c><00:34:26.869><c> have</c><00:34:27.070><c> got</c><00:34:27.150><c> to</c><00:34:27.349><c> address</c><00:34:27.550><c> themselves</c>

00:34:27.989 --> 00:34:28.769
to<00:34:28.269><c> it.</c>

00:34:28.829 --> 00:34:32.130
And<00:34:29.190><c> make</c><00:34:29.409><c> quite</c><00:34:29.730><c> sure</c><00:34:30.050><c> that</c><00:34:30.230><c> they've</c><00:34:30.429><c> got</c><00:34:30.570><c> the</c><00:34:30.750><c> kind</c><00:34:30.949><c> of</c><00:34:31.170><c> advice</c><00:34:31.610><c> that</c>

00:34:32.130 --> 00:34:33.489
will<00:34:32.309><c> be</c><00:34:32.469><c> of</c><00:34:32.670><c> help.</c>

00:34:33.570 --> 00:34:37.130
It<00:34:33.710><c> requires</c><00:34:34.289><c> sisters</c><00:34:34.889><c> to</c><00:34:35.150><c> help</c><00:34:35.329><c> with</c><00:34:35.530><c> this</c><00:34:35.869><c> kind</c><00:34:36.070><c> of</c><00:34:36.269><c> thing.</c>

00:34:37.289 --> 00:34:39.349
Knowing<00:34:37.570><c> sisters</c><00:34:38.210><c> to</c><00:34:38.510><c> help.</c>

00:34:39.909 --> 00:34:42.429
They<00:34:40.030><c> are</c><00:34:40.250><c> the</c><00:34:40.369><c> ones,</c><00:34:40.889><c> older</c><00:34:41.250><c> sisters.</c>

00:34:42.730 --> 00:34:45.849
And<00:34:42.869><c> I</c><00:34:43.230><c> think</c><00:34:43.230><c> older</c><00:34:43.530><c> sisters</c><00:34:43.809><c> should</c><00:34:44.190><c> be</c><00:34:44.530><c> able</c><00:34:44.809><c> to</c><00:34:45.030><c> go</c><00:34:45.210><c> in</c><00:34:45.570><c> and</c>

00:34:45.849 --> 00:34:47.429
talk<00:34:46.210><c> to</c><00:34:46.550><c> newlyweds.</c>

00:34:47.929 --> 00:34:50.730
Not<00:34:48.150><c> whose</c><00:34:48.489><c> wedding</c><00:34:48.789><c> is,</c><00:34:49.170><c> whose</c><00:34:49.389><c> marriage</c><00:34:49.670><c> is</c><00:34:49.909><c> under</c><00:34:50.309><c> threat</c>

00:34:50.730 --> 00:34:51.949
at<00:34:51.030><c> all.</c>

00:34:52.030 --> 00:34:56.469
But<00:34:52.590><c> just</c><00:34:52.969><c> talk</c><00:34:53.429><c> to</c><00:34:53.590><c> them</c><00:34:54.329><c> about</c><00:34:55.409><c> what</c><00:34:55.690><c> marriage</c><00:34:55.949><c> is</c><00:34:56.190><c> about.</c>

00:34:56.849 --> 00:34:59.190
How<00:34:57.130><c> it</c><00:34:57.309><c> was</c><00:34:57.550><c> in</c><00:34:57.730><c> their</c><00:34:58.010><c> day.</c>

00:34:59.630 --> 00:35:02.969
I<00:34:59.750><c> know</c><00:34:59.769><c> the</c><00:34:59.949><c> days</c><00:35:00.130><c> are</c><00:35:00.369><c> different,</c><00:35:01.130><c> and</c><00:35:01.269><c> yet</c><00:35:01.369><c> they're</c><00:35:01.610><c> the</c><00:35:01.909><c> same.</c>

00:35:03.170 --> 00:35:07.030
And<00:35:03.329><c> the</c><00:35:03.489><c> older</c><00:35:03.690><c> sister</c><00:35:03.929><c> may</c><00:35:04.130><c> have</c><00:35:04.289><c> some</c><00:35:04.610><c> wise</c><00:35:05.070><c> and</c><00:35:05.449><c> sage</c><00:35:05.730><c> advice</c><00:35:06.349><c> that</c>

00:35:07.030 --> 00:35:08.590
saves<00:35:07.309><c> a</c><00:35:07.389><c> lot</c><00:35:07.610><c> of</c><00:35:07.750><c> hassle.</c>

00:35:09.090 --> 00:35:10.670
A<00:35:09.210><c> lot</c><00:35:09.349><c> of</c><00:35:09.550><c> anxiety.</c>

00:35:11.329 --> 00:35:14.789
And<00:35:11.510><c> perhaps</c><00:35:12.150><c> in</c><00:35:12.429><c> the</c><00:35:12.590><c> end,</c><00:35:13.690><c> a</c><00:35:13.849><c> marriage.</c>

00:35:15.690 --> 00:35:18.250
So<00:35:15.989><c> it's</c><00:35:16.190><c> the</c><00:35:16.469><c> steps</c><00:35:16.929><c> to</c><00:35:17.309><c> caring.</c>

00:35:18.679 --> 00:35:22.909
So<00:35:19.030><c> here</c><00:35:19.309><c> are</c><00:35:19.650><c> some</c><00:35:19.989><c> steps</c><00:35:20.530><c> to</c><00:35:21.110><c> caring</c><00:35:21.590><c> that</c><00:35:22.369><c> you</c><00:35:22.429><c> might</c><00:35:22.650><c> like</c>

00:35:22.909 --> 00:35:24.730
to<00:35:23.150><c> note.</c>

00:35:31.550 --> 00:35:37.550
The<00:35:32.250><c> first</c><00:35:32.489><c> thing</c><00:35:32.869><c> is</c><00:35:33.670><c> that</c><00:35:33.969><c> we</c><00:35:34.309><c> should</c><00:35:34.550><c> be</c><00:35:34.969><c> lovers</c><00:35:35.510><c> of</c><00:35:36.010><c> hospitality.</c>

00:35:41.929 --> 00:35:45.210
In<00:35:42.030><c> other</c><00:35:42.170><c> words,</c><00:35:43.110><c> I'm</c><00:35:43.429><c> not</c><00:35:43.590><c> talking</c><00:35:43.769><c> about</c><00:35:44.010><c> providing</c><00:35:44.469><c> lavish</c><00:35:44.909><c> meals</c>

00:35:45.210 --> 00:35:45.730
for<00:35:45.369><c> people.</c>

00:35:45.730 --> 00:35:49.289
I'm<00:35:45.929><c> just</c><00:35:46.269><c> talking</c><00:35:46.630><c> about</c><00:35:46.989><c> our</c><00:35:47.510><c> home</c><00:35:47.809><c> being</c><00:35:48.130><c> open.</c>

00:35:50.170 --> 00:35:54.010
So<00:35:50.730><c> that</c><00:35:50.929><c> people</c><00:35:51.090><c> can</c><00:35:51.469><c> come</c><00:35:51.769><c> into</c><00:35:52.289><c> our</c><00:35:52.869><c> home.</c>

00:35:54.750 --> 00:35:57.070
And<00:35:54.949><c> that</c><00:35:55.110><c> there</c><00:35:55.429><c> we</c><00:35:55.670><c> can</c><00:35:56.050><c> talk.</c>

00:35:57.449 --> 00:35:59.650
This<00:35:57.610><c> is</c><00:35:58.050><c> the</c><00:35:58.289><c> keep</c><00:35:58.469><c> in</c><00:35:58.789><c> touch.</c>

00:35:59.809 --> 00:36:03.650
We<00:35:59.889><c> live</c><00:36:00.030><c> in</c><00:36:00.130><c> a</c><00:36:00.329><c> world,</c><00:36:00.469><c> you</c><00:36:00.690><c> see,</c><00:36:01.170><c> where</c><00:36:01.369><c> everybody</c><00:36:01.809><c> is</c><00:36:02.269><c> encapsulated.</c>

00:36:04.489 --> 00:36:06.610
We<00:36:04.530><c> come</c><00:36:04.610><c> to</c><00:36:04.710><c> the</c><00:36:04.849><c> Ecclesia</c><00:36:05.070><c> in</c><00:36:05.329><c> our</c><00:36:05.750><c> cars,</c><00:36:06.110><c> and</c><00:36:06.190><c> we</c><00:36:06.269><c> go</c><00:36:06.429><c> home</c>

00:36:06.610 --> 00:36:07.610
in<00:36:06.809><c> our</c><00:36:07.110><c> cars.</c>

00:36:07.670 --> 00:36:09.369
And<00:36:07.769><c> when</c><00:36:07.889><c> we</c><00:36:08.010><c> get</c><00:36:08.150><c> home,</c><00:36:08.469><c> we're</c><00:36:08.750><c> separated.</c>

00:36:09.829 --> 00:36:11.349
We're<00:36:10.110><c> insulated</c><00:36:10.630><c> from</c><00:36:10.889><c> everybody.</c>

00:36:11.809 --> 00:36:13.849
And<00:36:11.949><c> that</c><00:36:12.110><c> makes</c><00:36:12.269><c> it</c><00:36:12.570><c> difficult</c><00:36:12.889><c> to</c><00:36:13.090><c> keep</c><00:36:13.289><c> contact.</c>

00:36:13.849 --> 00:36:16.949
And<00:36:14.269><c> just</c><00:36:14.449><c> this</c><00:36:14.829><c> sort</c><00:36:14.989><c> of</c><00:36:15.190><c> passing</c><00:36:15.510><c> contact</c><00:36:15.929><c> that</c><00:36:16.090><c> we</c><00:36:16.309><c> have</c><00:36:16.590><c> in</c>

00:36:16.949 --> 00:36:18.570
an<00:36:17.170><c> hour's</c><00:36:17.489><c> meeting</c><00:36:17.809><c> is</c><00:36:18.230><c> nothing.</c>

00:36:19.010 --> 00:36:21.869
We<00:36:19.150><c> need</c><00:36:19.289><c> to</c><00:36:19.409><c> have</c><00:36:19.650><c> more</c><00:36:20.190><c> and</c><00:36:20.469><c> more</c><00:36:20.750><c> contact.</c>

00:36:21.949 --> 00:36:25.150
And<00:36:22.090><c> arranging</c><00:36:22.429><c> brethren</c><00:36:22.690><c> should</c><00:36:22.949><c> create</c><00:36:23.530><c> these</c><00:36:23.849><c> opportunities.</c>

00:36:25.289 --> 00:36:28.429
For<00:36:25.530><c> more</c><00:36:25.809><c> and</c><00:36:25.969><c> more</c><00:36:26.170><c> contact</c><00:36:26.750><c> within</c><00:36:27.130><c> the</c><00:36:27.369><c> Ecclesia.</c>

00:36:28.789 --> 00:36:32.349
Lovers<00:36:28.989><c> of</c><00:36:29.230><c> hospitality</c><00:36:29.730><c> is</c><00:36:29.989><c> a</c><00:36:30.210><c> mark</c><00:36:30.570><c> of</c><00:36:30.929><c> an</c><00:36:31.090><c> arranging</c><00:36:31.449><c> brother.</c>

00:36:32.769 --> 00:36:34.989
Therefore<00:36:33.010><c> we</c><00:36:33.150><c> should</c><00:36:33.329><c> seek</c><00:36:33.489><c> to</c><00:36:33.730><c> develop</c><00:36:33.949><c> that.</c>

00:36:36.150 --> 00:36:43.610
And<00:36:36.710><c> in</c><00:36:36.869><c> our</c><00:36:37.230><c> homes,</c><00:36:38.150><c> we</c><00:36:38.590><c> should</c><00:36:38.849><c> make</c><00:36:39.670><c> the</c><00:36:40.250><c> daily</c><00:36:40.610><c> readings</c><00:36:41.329><c> a</c><00:36:42.590><c> centre.</c>

00:36:43.949 --> 00:36:45.650
So<00:36:44.030><c> that</c><00:36:44.110><c> whoever</c><00:36:44.329><c> comes</c><00:36:44.610><c> into</c><00:36:44.849><c> it</c><00:36:44.989><c> knows</c><00:36:45.190><c> that</c><00:36:45.389><c> that's</c><00:36:45.510><c> what</c>

00:36:45.650 --> 00:36:47.170
happens<00:36:45.889><c> in</c><00:36:46.070><c> this</c><00:36:46.269><c> house.</c>

00:36:47.449 --> 00:36:49.090
That's<00:36:47.710><c> what</c><00:36:47.789><c> we</c><00:36:48.010><c> do.</c>

00:36:49.230 --> 00:36:51.550
And<00:36:49.429><c> therefore</c><00:36:49.570><c> when</c><00:36:49.769><c> our</c><00:36:50.050><c> hospitality</c><00:36:50.429><c> is</c><00:36:50.750><c> extended,</c><00:36:51.170><c> that's</c><00:36:51.429><c> what</c>

00:36:51.550 --> 00:36:52.650
we<00:36:51.769><c> do.</c>

00:36:53.289 --> 00:36:56.409
Because<00:36:53.670><c> marital</c><00:36:54.090><c> problems</c><00:36:54.449><c> are</c><00:36:54.630><c> dealt</c><00:36:54.849><c> with</c><00:36:54.989><c> in</c><00:36:55.090><c> the</c><00:36:55.250><c> daily</c><00:36:55.489><c> readings.</c>

00:36:57.110 --> 00:37:00.969
They<00:36:57.389><c> come</c><00:36:57.570><c> up</c><00:36:57.849><c> all</c><00:36:58.230><c> the</c><00:36:58.429><c> time.</c><00:36:59.449><c> All</c><00:36:59.809><c> the</c><00:37:00.050><c> time.</c>

00:37:00.989 --> 00:37:04.510
We've<00:37:01.510><c> just</c><00:37:01.650><c> been</c><00:37:01.829><c> reading</c><00:37:01.989><c> them,</c><00:37:02.369><c> you</c><00:37:02.530><c> know,</c><00:37:03.010><c> only</c><00:37:03.269><c> just</c><00:37:03.550><c> recently,</c><00:37:03.929><c> have</c><00:37:03.989><c> we</c><00:37:04.150><c> not?</c>

00:37:04.809 --> 00:37:09.489
In<00:37:04.969><c> our</c><00:37:05.110><c> readings</c><00:37:05.389><c> in</c><00:37:06.369><c> the</c><00:37:07.010><c> minor</c><00:37:07.670><c> epistles.</c>

00:37:10.130 --> 00:37:13.289
Now<00:37:10.349><c> we</c><00:37:10.590><c> shall</c><00:37:10.789><c> see</c><00:37:10.969><c> them</c><00:37:11.090><c> as</c><00:37:11.190><c> we're</c><00:37:11.289><c> going</c><00:37:11.449><c> through</c><00:37:11.710><c> John</c><00:37:12.010><c> together.</c>

00:37:13.769 --> 00:37:15.989
So<00:37:13.889><c> let's</c><00:37:14.050><c> just</c><00:37:14.309><c> take</c><00:37:14.510><c> this.</c><00:37:14.929><c> It's</c><00:37:15.010><c> marvellous</c><00:37:15.510><c> advice,</c>

00:37:16.110 --> 00:37:17.090
wonderful<00:37:16.489><c> advice.</c>

00:37:17.429 --> 00:37:21.610
The<00:37:17.590><c> Word</c><00:37:17.769><c> of</c><00:37:17.969><c> God</c><00:37:18.230><c> is</c><00:37:18.610><c> the</c><00:37:18.889><c> real</c><00:37:19.789><c> healing</c><00:37:20.389><c> power.</c>

00:37:21.670 --> 00:37:25.750
And<00:37:21.969><c> it's</c><00:37:22.469><c> just</c><00:37:22.750><c> that</c><00:37:22.929><c> that</c><00:37:23.050><c> gives</c><00:37:23.210><c> us</c><00:37:23.389><c> the</c><00:37:23.610><c> food</c><00:37:24.030><c> for</c><00:37:24.469><c> eternal</c><00:37:24.809><c> life.</c>

00:37:26.110 --> 00:37:29.150
Our<00:37:26.590><c> Sunday</c><00:37:26.889><c> schools</c><00:37:27.170><c> and</c><00:37:27.409><c> our</c><00:37:27.630><c> youth</c><00:37:27.809><c> groups</c><00:37:28.210><c> should</c><00:37:28.550><c> have</c><00:37:28.730><c> a</c>

00:37:29.150 --> 00:37:30.829
sound<00:37:29.469><c> basis.</c>

00:37:31.630 --> 00:37:35.449
Not<00:37:31.769><c> just</c><00:37:32.010><c> making,</c><00:37:32.750><c> you</c><00:37:33.150><c> know,</c><00:37:33.510><c> telling</c><00:37:33.650><c> stories</c><00:37:34.369><c> and</c><00:37:34.710><c> making</c>

00:37:35.449 --> 00:37:36.750
children<00:37:36.230><c> happy.</c>

00:37:37.230 --> 00:37:39.349
Let's<00:37:37.469><c> get</c><00:37:37.769><c> good</c><00:37:38.210><c> instruction</c><00:37:38.949><c> home.</c>

00:37:39.590 --> 00:37:42.050
And<00:37:39.730><c> when</c><00:37:39.789><c> that</c><00:37:39.989><c> comes</c><00:37:40.210><c> from</c><00:37:40.369><c> the</c><00:37:40.510><c> Word</c><00:37:40.610><c> of</c><00:37:40.829><c> God,</c><00:37:41.489><c> that</c><00:37:41.809><c> too</c>

00:37:42.050 --> 00:37:45.030
will<00:37:42.289><c> teach</c><00:37:42.489><c> the</c><00:37:42.690><c> way</c><00:37:42.849><c> concerning</c><00:37:43.329><c> friendships</c><00:37:43.849><c> and</c><00:37:44.050><c> marriage.</c>

00:37:45.250 --> 00:37:47.010
It's<00:37:45.369><c> there</c><00:37:45.550><c> all</c><00:37:45.789><c> the</c><00:37:45.989><c> time.</c>

00:37:48.170 --> 00:37:49.909
What<00:37:48.349><c> would</c><00:37:48.489><c> have</c><00:37:48.570><c> happened</c><00:37:48.690><c> to</c><00:37:48.849><c> Noah's</c><00:37:49.090><c> wife</c><00:37:49.309><c> if</c><00:37:49.449><c> they'd</c><00:37:49.710><c> had</c>

00:37:49.909 --> 00:37:51.769
a<00:37:50.329><c> split</c><00:37:50.449><c> marriage,</c><00:37:51.269><c> eh?</c>

00:37:52.230 --> 00:37:53.829
What<00:37:52.469><c> would</c><00:37:52.590><c> have</c><00:37:52.730><c> happened</c><00:37:52.829><c> to</c><00:37:52.949><c> her?</c>

00:37:54.070 --> 00:37:58.369
And<00:37:54.550><c> above</c><00:37:54.829><c> all,</c><00:37:55.150><c> what</c><00:37:55.170><c> happens</c><00:37:55.409><c> to</c><00:37:55.570><c> the</c><00:37:55.769><c> children</c><00:37:56.389><c> in</c><00:37:58.130><c> all</c>

00:37:58.369 --> 00:37:59.289
these<00:37:58.590><c> situations?</c>

00:37:59.630 --> 00:38:02.190
It's<00:37:59.730><c> the</c><00:37:59.889><c> children</c><00:38:00.130><c> who</c><00:38:00.409><c> suffer.</c><00:38:00.929><c> They</c><00:38:01.110><c> go</c><00:38:01.289><c> this</c><00:38:01.550><c> way</c><00:38:01.690><c> or</c><00:38:01.809><c> that</c><00:38:02.030><c> way</c>

00:38:02.190 --> 00:38:03.050
or<00:38:02.349><c> both</c><00:38:02.650><c> ways.</c>

00:38:03.329 --> 00:38:05.190
And<00:38:03.489><c> he</c><00:38:03.610><c> wants</c><00:38:03.929><c> access,</c><00:38:04.250><c> she</c><00:38:04.429><c> wants</c><00:38:04.750><c> access.</c>

00:38:05.369 --> 00:38:06.929
And<00:38:05.530><c> the</c><00:38:05.690><c> kids</c><00:38:05.849><c> don't</c><00:38:06.110><c> know</c><00:38:06.190><c> where</c><00:38:06.349><c> they</c><00:38:06.630><c> are.</c>

00:38:07.070 --> 00:38:10.210
And<00:38:07.329><c> consequently</c><00:38:07.630><c> when</c><00:38:07.869><c> they</c><00:38:08.090><c> grow</c><00:38:08.269><c> up,</c><00:38:09.190><c> they</c><00:38:09.530><c> believe</c><00:38:09.909><c> that</c>

00:38:10.210 --> 00:38:12.110
marriage<00:38:10.409><c> is</c><00:38:10.650><c> always</c><00:38:10.989><c> unstable.</c>

00:38:12.289 --> 00:38:15.730
And<00:38:12.769><c> they</c><00:38:12.909><c> are</c><00:38:13.110><c> likely</c><00:38:13.349><c> to</c><00:38:13.590><c> produce</c><00:38:13.809><c> the</c><00:38:14.070><c> same</c><00:38:14.210><c> in</c><00:38:14.309><c> their</c><00:38:14.550><c> own</c><00:38:14.829><c> marriages.</c>

00:38:16.329 --> 00:38:17.570
Now<00:38:16.570><c> that's</c><00:38:16.869><c> terrifying.</c>

00:38:17.570 --> 00:38:20.369
It's<00:38:18.010><c> something</c><00:38:18.269><c> that</c><00:38:18.590><c> is</c><00:38:18.949><c> not</c><00:38:19.489><c> right</c><00:38:19.789><c> and</c><00:38:19.949><c> something</c><00:38:20.110><c> we've</c>

00:38:20.369 --> 00:38:22.550
got<00:38:20.449><c> to</c><00:38:20.570><c> put</c><00:38:20.730><c> right</c><00:38:21.050><c> ourselves.</c>

00:38:23.150 --> 00:38:30.289
Brethren<00:38:23.329><c> and</c><00:38:25.750><c> sisters</c><00:38:26.429><c> should</c><00:38:27.170><c> learn</c><00:38:27.809><c> the</c><00:38:28.329><c> power</c><00:38:28.769><c> of</c><00:38:29.309><c> prayer.</c>

00:38:32.789 --> 00:38:35.090
That's<00:38:33.469><c> what</c><00:38:33.550><c> we</c><00:38:33.710><c> should</c><00:38:33.889><c> do.</c>

00:38:37.530 --> 00:38:39.929
We<00:38:37.769><c> ought</c><00:38:37.969><c> not</c><00:38:38.269><c> to</c><00:38:38.489><c> neglect</c><00:38:38.809><c> it.</c>

00:38:40.610 --> 00:38:46.110
We've<00:38:41.489><c> just</c><00:38:41.489><c> got</c><00:38:41.610><c> to</c><00:38:41.849><c> learn</c><00:38:42.489><c> the</c><00:38:43.110><c> power</c><00:38:43.809><c> of</c><00:38:44.449><c> prayer</c><00:38:45.050><c> and</c><00:38:45.909><c> what</c>

00:38:46.110 --> 00:38:47.630
it<00:38:46.269><c> can</c><00:38:46.530><c> accomplish.</c>

00:38:47.989 --> 00:38:50.829
Tell<00:38:48.369><c> God</c><00:38:49.030><c> everything</c><00:38:49.969><c> in</c><00:38:50.369><c> prayer.</c>

00:38:51.190 --> 00:38:52.269
That's<00:38:51.369><c> what</c><00:38:51.489><c> we've</c><00:38:51.710><c> got</c><00:38:51.789><c> to</c><00:38:51.989><c> do.</c>

00:38:52.510 --> 00:38:57.989
Tell<00:38:52.829><c> God</c><00:38:53.349><c> everything</c><00:38:54.150><c> in</c><00:38:54.750><c> prayer</c><00:38:55.429><c> because</c><00:38:56.269><c> that</c><00:38:56.610><c> strengthens</c><00:38:57.070><c> us.</c>

00:38:58.190 --> 00:39:03.449
If<00:38:58.309><c> only</c><00:38:58.710><c> husbands</c><00:38:59.110><c> and</c><00:38:59.389><c> wives</c><00:38:59.889><c> will</c><00:39:00.289><c> pray</c><00:39:00.570><c> together</c><00:39:01.329><c> every</c><00:39:03.010><c> day.</c>

00:39:03.510 --> 00:39:06.690
Pray<00:39:04.110><c> together</c><00:39:05.409><c> every</c><00:39:06.050><c> day.</c>

00:39:07.030 --> 00:39:08.829
It<00:39:07.469><c> binds</c><00:39:07.809><c> marriages</c><00:39:08.269><c> together.</c>

00:39:08.829 --> 00:39:12.530
If<00:39:09.489><c> I</c><00:39:09.550><c> were</c><00:39:09.590><c> to</c><00:39:09.670><c> go</c><00:39:09.809><c> round</c><00:39:10.070><c> here</c><00:39:10.250><c> I</c><00:39:10.389><c> would</c><00:39:10.510><c> discover</c><00:39:11.010><c> that</c><00:39:11.449><c> a</c><00:39:11.590><c> minority</c><00:39:12.230><c> of</c>

00:39:12.530 --> 00:39:14.090
us<00:39:12.670><c> do</c><00:39:12.909><c> that.</c>

00:39:14.289 --> 00:39:16.110
A<00:39:14.429><c> minority</c><00:39:15.030><c> of</c><00:39:15.309><c> us.</c>

00:39:17.630 --> 00:39:19.969
That<00:39:17.769><c> wasn't</c><00:39:17.989><c> true</c><00:39:18.250><c> at</c><00:39:18.409><c> one</c><00:39:18.570><c> time,</c><00:39:18.750><c> do</c><00:39:18.889><c> you</c><00:39:18.909><c> know</c><00:39:19.110><c> that?</c>

00:39:20.550 --> 00:39:22.570
It<00:39:20.670><c> was</c><00:39:20.809><c> always</c><00:39:21.030><c> a</c><00:39:21.150><c> family</c><00:39:21.550><c> prayer.</c>

00:39:23.949 --> 00:39:27.070
Now<00:39:24.050><c> what</c><00:39:24.110><c> we</c><00:39:24.349><c> should</c><00:39:24.530><c> do,</c><00:39:24.849><c> I'm</c><00:39:25.090><c> quite</c><00:39:25.369><c> sure,</c><00:39:25.710><c> is</c><00:39:25.809><c> arranging</c><00:39:26.110><c> brethren.</c>

00:39:27.130 --> 00:39:29.690
And<00:39:27.309><c> we</c><00:39:27.429><c> get</c><00:39:27.610><c> over</c><00:39:28.190><c> the</c><00:39:28.630><c> embarrassment</c><00:39:29.070><c> of</c><00:39:29.250><c> doing</c><00:39:29.369><c> it</c><00:39:29.570><c> the</c>

00:39:29.690 --> 00:39:30.429
first<00:39:29.969><c> time.</c>

00:39:30.849 --> 00:39:33.090
And<00:39:30.989><c> by</c><00:39:31.170><c> prayer,</c><00:39:31.730><c> I</c><00:39:31.949><c> believe</c><00:39:32.110><c> that</c><00:39:32.269><c> the</c><00:39:32.449><c> brother</c><00:39:32.610><c> should</c><00:39:32.909><c> lead</c>

00:39:33.090 --> 00:39:33.730
the<00:39:33.369><c> prayer.</c>

00:39:33.730 --> 00:39:37.929
But<00:39:34.690><c> he</c><00:39:34.829><c> should</c><00:39:34.889><c> be</c><00:39:35.090><c> aware</c><00:39:35.449><c> of</c><00:39:35.590><c> his</c><00:39:35.829><c> wife's</c><00:39:36.329><c> needs</c><00:39:36.570><c> and</c><00:39:36.750><c> of</c><00:39:36.849><c> their</c><00:39:37.150><c> needs</c><00:39:37.389><c> together</c><00:39:37.769><c> and</c>

00:39:37.929 --> 00:39:39.050
their<00:39:38.150><c> children's</c><00:39:38.670><c> needs</c>

00:39:39.050 --> 00:39:42.230
and<00:39:39.489><c> voice</c><00:39:39.730><c> everything</c><00:39:40.130><c> in</c><00:39:40.349><c> the</c><00:39:40.550><c> prayer</c><00:39:40.710><c> and</c><00:39:40.949><c> the</c><00:39:41.150><c> Ecclesia.</c>

00:39:42.829 --> 00:39:44.269
Mr.<00:39:43.070><c> Burnish</c><00:39:43.230><c> and</c><00:39:43.349><c> I</c><00:39:43.449><c> do</c><00:39:43.530><c> that</c><00:39:43.690><c> every</c><00:39:44.010><c> day.</c>

00:39:44.530 --> 00:39:49.570
And<00:39:44.530><c> it</c><00:39:45.710><c> produces</c><00:39:46.170><c> great</c><00:39:46.530><c> stability</c><00:39:47.090><c> and</c><00:39:47.849><c> contentment</c><00:39:48.289><c> of</c><00:39:48.550><c> mind.</c>

00:39:49.929 --> 00:39:54.530
And<00:39:50.010><c> what</c><00:39:50.130><c> is</c><00:39:50.409><c> more,</c><00:39:50.750><c> you</c><00:39:50.909><c> can't</c><00:39:51.389><c> have</c><00:39:51.550><c> had</c><00:39:51.949><c> any</c><00:39:52.329><c> kind</c><00:39:52.550><c> of</c><00:39:52.789><c> difference</c><00:39:53.269><c> during</c><00:39:53.869><c> the</c><00:39:54.150><c> day</c>

00:39:54.530 --> 00:39:56.769
and<00:39:55.170><c> for</c><00:39:55.329><c> it</c><00:39:55.530><c> to</c><00:39:55.769><c> carry</c><00:39:55.969><c> through</c><00:39:56.269><c> the</c><00:39:56.570><c> prayer.</c>

00:39:56.789 --> 00:39:58.610
It<00:39:56.949><c> won't</c><00:39:57.210><c> go</c><00:39:57.570><c> through.</c>

00:39:59.530 --> 00:40:00.769
It's<00:39:59.750><c> impossible.</c>

00:40:02.550 --> 00:40:05.130
And<00:40:03.070><c> you</c><00:40:03.210><c> discover</c><00:40:03.550><c> by</c><00:40:03.789><c> prayer</c><00:40:03.989><c> that</c><00:40:04.130><c> it</c><00:40:04.250><c> doesn't</c><00:40:04.590><c> go</c><00:40:04.929><c> through.</c>

00:40:05.210 --> 00:40:06.489
That's<00:40:05.510><c> the</c><00:40:05.670><c> marvel</c><00:40:05.909><c> about</c><00:40:06.230><c> it.</c>

00:40:06.929 --> 00:40:10.230
So<00:40:07.449><c> let's</c><00:40:07.650><c> just</c><00:40:07.849><c> learn</c><00:40:08.070><c> and</c><00:40:08.250><c> teach</c><00:40:08.570><c> the</c><00:40:08.730><c> power</c><00:40:08.969><c> of</c><00:40:09.250><c> prayer.</c>

00:40:10.789 --> 00:40:12.570
And<00:40:10.869><c> when</c><00:40:10.989><c> children</c><00:40:11.309><c> know</c><00:40:11.530><c> that</c><00:40:11.710><c> that's</c><00:40:11.909><c> what</c><00:40:12.090><c> happens</c><00:40:12.389><c> in</c>

00:40:12.570 --> 00:40:13.329
the<00:40:12.889><c> home</c>

00:40:13.329 --> 00:40:15.969
that<00:40:13.670><c> the</c><00:40:13.849><c> reading</c><00:40:14.050><c> of</c><00:40:14.250><c> the</c><00:40:14.369><c> Word</c><00:40:14.510><c> of</c><00:40:14.690><c> God</c><00:40:14.929><c> and</c><00:40:15.329><c> there</c><00:40:15.489><c> is</c><00:40:15.690><c> prayer</c>

00:40:15.969 --> 00:40:17.750
they<00:40:16.389><c> listen</c><00:40:16.710><c> to</c><00:40:16.949><c> that.</c>

00:40:17.769 --> 00:40:18.949
They<00:40:17.989><c> listen.</c>

00:40:19.690 --> 00:40:21.889
They<00:40:20.070><c> understand</c><00:40:20.469><c> what's</c><00:40:20.789><c> going</c><00:40:20.969><c> on.</c>

00:40:21.989 --> 00:40:25.070
They<00:40:22.170><c> may</c><00:40:22.269><c> not</c><00:40:22.530><c> know</c><00:40:22.889><c> all</c><00:40:23.309><c> the</c><00:40:23.570><c> nuances</c><00:40:24.050><c> of</c><00:40:24.469><c> expression</c>

00:40:25.070 --> 00:40:27.989
nor<00:40:25.730><c> all</c><00:40:26.070><c> the</c><00:40:26.309><c> complications</c><00:40:26.750><c> of</c><00:40:26.929><c> the</c><00:40:27.090><c> world</c><00:40:27.269><c> around</c><00:40:27.650><c> them</c>

00:40:27.989 --> 00:40:30.530
but<00:40:28.190><c> they</c><00:40:28.489><c> do</c><00:40:28.849><c> know</c><00:40:29.010><c> what's</c><00:40:29.570><c> secure.</c>

00:40:30.769 --> 00:40:33.309
Arranging<00:40:31.289><c> brethren</c><00:40:31.710><c> should</c><00:40:32.150><c> be</c><00:40:32.329><c> using</c><00:40:32.510><c> this</c><00:40:32.710><c> as</c><00:40:32.849><c> an</c><00:40:33.030><c> example</c>

00:40:33.309 --> 00:40:34.210
to<00:40:33.510><c> other</c><00:40:33.690><c> people</c>

00:40:34.210 --> 00:40:36.409
and<00:40:34.610><c> it</c><00:40:34.730><c> should</c><00:40:34.829><c> come</c><00:40:35.050><c> through</c><00:40:35.250><c> in</c><00:40:35.429><c> our</c><00:40:35.610><c> exaltations.</c>

00:40:36.829 --> 00:40:39.829
And<00:40:36.869><c> many</c><00:40:37.190><c> of</c><00:40:37.409><c> our</c><00:40:37.670><c> crises</c><00:40:37.989><c> would</c><00:40:38.170><c> be</c><00:40:38.449><c> solved</c><00:40:38.690><c> if</c><00:40:38.869><c> only</c><00:40:39.250><c> we</c><00:40:39.630><c> had</c>

00:40:39.829 --> 00:40:41.349
better<00:40:40.190><c> prayer.</c>

00:40:42.610 --> 00:40:44.710
Well,<00:40:42.809><c> our</c><00:40:42.989><c> time</c><00:40:43.170><c> is</c><00:40:43.389><c> 3</c><00:40:43.590><c>.30.</c>

00:40:46.849 --> 00:40:50.010
And<00:40:47.369><c> I've</c><00:40:47.889><c> been</c><00:40:48.110><c> through,</c><00:40:48.530><c> you</c><00:40:48.750><c> know,</c><00:40:49.250><c> some</c><00:40:49.429><c> of</c><00:40:49.570><c> the</c><00:40:49.710><c> things</c>

00:40:50.010 --> 00:40:51.929
that<00:40:50.590><c> happen</c><00:40:51.150><c> in</c><00:40:51.329><c> the</c><00:40:51.510><c> Ecclesia</c>

00:40:51.929 --> 00:40:53.969
when<00:40:52.570><c> there</c><00:40:52.769><c> is</c><00:40:52.949><c> crisis.</c>

00:40:54.230 --> 00:40:57.849
Just<00:40:54.670><c> within</c><00:40:55.010><c> the</c><00:40:55.349><c> family</c><00:40:55.610><c> itself,</c><00:40:56.710><c> very</c><00:40:57.250><c> quickly</c>

00:40:57.849 --> 00:41:02.329
may<00:40:58.429><c> I</c><00:40:58.590><c> just</c><00:40:58.809><c> go</c><00:40:59.050><c> through</c><00:40:59.429><c> the</c><00:40:59.949><c> aids</c><00:41:00.469><c> that</c><00:41:00.929><c> we</c><00:41:01.190><c> should</c><00:41:01.650><c> bring</c>

00:41:02.329 --> 00:41:03.070
to<00:41:02.670><c> bear</c>

00:41:03.070 --> 00:41:06.150
when<00:41:03.610><c> a</c><00:41:04.010><c> family</c><00:41:04.429><c> itself</c><00:41:05.050><c> is</c><00:41:05.309><c> in</c><00:41:05.550><c> crisis.</c>

00:41:06.610 --> 00:41:09.349
You<00:41:06.670><c> might</c><00:41:06.809><c> like</c><00:41:07.010><c> to</c><00:41:07.170><c> make</c><00:41:07.329><c> a</c><00:41:07.429><c> note</c><00:41:07.769><c> of</c><00:41:08.369><c> one</c><00:41:08.690><c> or</c><00:41:08.769><c> two</c><00:41:08.989><c> of</c><00:41:09.150><c> these</c>

00:41:09.349 --> 00:41:11.090
for<00:41:09.489><c> your</c><00:41:09.730><c> own</c><00:41:09.989><c> purposes.</c>

00:41:11.710 --> 00:41:17.550
In<00:41:11.769><c> the</c><00:41:12.010><c> first</c><00:41:12.269><c> place,</c><00:41:15.090><c> practical</c><00:41:15.309><c> help</c><00:41:16.070><c> is</c><00:41:16.630><c> needed.</c>

00:41:17.630 --> 00:41:19.530
Practical<00:41:18.329><c> help.</c>

00:41:22.369 --> 00:41:26.750
A<00:41:22.730><c> wife</c><00:41:22.949><c> whose</c><00:41:23.150><c> husband</c><00:41:23.409><c> has</c><00:41:23.610><c> left</c><00:41:23.829><c> her</c><00:41:24.329><c> needs</c><00:41:24.730><c> practical</c><00:41:25.630><c> help</c>

00:41:27.250 --> 00:41:31.170
in<00:41:27.630><c> the</c><00:41:27.849><c> home</c><00:41:28.130><c> itself</c><00:41:28.730><c> with</c><00:41:29.070><c> the</c><00:41:29.369><c> children</c><00:41:29.849><c> and</c><00:41:30.510><c> doubtless</c>

00:41:31.170 --> 00:41:32.389
with<00:41:31.530><c> her</c><00:41:31.849><c> finances.</c>

00:41:32.469 --> 00:41:36.690
She<00:41:32.710><c> needs</c><00:41:33.150><c> something</c><00:41:33.710><c> and</c><00:41:34.769><c> that</c><00:41:35.289><c> should</c><00:41:35.530><c> be</c><00:41:35.849><c> got</c><00:41:36.010><c> in</c><00:41:36.289><c> motion</c>

00:41:36.690 --> 00:41:38.190
right<00:41:37.210><c> away.</c>

00:41:38.809 --> 00:41:42.030
She<00:41:38.969><c> needs</c><00:41:39.389><c> somebody</c><00:41:39.989><c> to</c><00:41:40.570><c> talk</c><00:41:41.050><c> to.</c>

00:41:42.570 --> 00:41:45.909
You<00:41:42.989><c> know</c><00:41:43.510><c> what</c><00:41:43.630><c> it's</c><00:41:43.869><c> like</c><00:41:44.090><c> when</c><00:41:44.469><c> somebody</c><00:41:44.789><c> has</c><00:41:45.010><c> just</c><00:41:45.309><c> lost</c>

00:41:45.909 --> 00:41:48.929
their<00:41:46.369><c> partner</c><00:41:46.750><c> in</c><00:41:47.150><c> death,</c><00:41:47.570><c> don't</c><00:41:47.690><c> you?</c>

00:41:49.210 --> 00:41:52.289
You've<00:41:49.429><c> had</c><00:41:49.449><c> it</c><00:41:49.650><c> in</c><00:41:49.730><c> your</c><00:41:49.949><c> Ecclesia</c><00:41:50.409><c> and</c><00:41:50.909><c> the</c><00:41:51.090><c> person</c><00:41:51.369><c> who</c><00:41:51.690><c> survives</c>

00:41:52.289 --> 00:41:57.050
wants<00:41:53.030><c> to</c><00:41:53.269><c> sit</c><00:41:53.590><c> down</c><00:41:53.909><c> with</c><00:41:54.130><c> you</c><00:41:54.789><c> and</c><00:41:55.269><c> tell</c><00:41:55.469><c> you</c><00:41:55.769><c> all</c><00:41:56.190><c> that</c><00:41:56.469><c> happened</c><00:41:56.769><c> in</c>

00:41:57.050 --> 00:41:58.530
that<00:41:57.230><c> last</c><00:41:57.590><c> week.</c>

00:41:59.630 --> 00:42:01.750
I've<00:41:59.650><c> just</c><00:41:59.849><c> had</c><00:42:00.010><c> this</c><00:42:00.210><c> before</c><00:42:00.449><c> I</c><00:42:00.570><c> came</c><00:42:00.730><c> away.</c>

00:42:02.550 --> 00:42:04.070
They<00:42:02.670><c> want</c><00:42:02.730><c> to</c><00:42:02.829><c> tell</c><00:42:02.889><c> you</c><00:42:03.090><c> every</c><00:42:03.409><c> little</c><00:42:03.650><c> detail.</c>

00:42:04.489 --> 00:42:07.010
I<00:42:04.610><c> went</c><00:42:04.750><c> into</c><00:42:04.909><c> the</c><00:42:05.130><c> bedroom</c><00:42:05.389><c> and</c><00:42:05.570><c> there</c><00:42:05.730><c> she</c><00:42:05.909><c> was</c><00:42:06.289><c> lying</c><00:42:06.789><c> on</c>

00:42:07.010 --> 00:42:08.469
the<00:42:07.150><c> pillow</c><00:42:07.349><c> and</c><00:42:07.570><c> she</c><00:42:07.650><c> was</c><00:42:07.889><c> perspiring</c>

00:42:08.469 --> 00:42:11.210
and<00:42:08.769><c> they</c><00:42:08.889><c> want</c><00:42:08.969><c> to</c><00:42:09.130><c> say</c><00:42:09.250><c> everything,</c><00:42:10.090><c> every</c><00:42:10.429><c> single</c><00:42:10.869><c> thing.</c>

00:42:11.690 --> 00:42:14.849
This<00:42:11.849><c> is</c><00:42:12.090><c> part</c><00:42:12.389><c> of</c><00:42:12.570><c> the</c><00:42:12.869><c> therapy</c><00:42:13.389><c> of</c><00:42:13.829><c> healing.</c>

00:42:15.190 --> 00:42:17.349
And<00:42:15.389><c> so</c><00:42:15.510><c> it</c><00:42:15.610><c> is</c><00:42:15.710><c> with</c><00:42:15.869><c> a</c><00:42:16.050><c> broken</c><00:42:16.289><c> marriage.</c>

00:42:17.650 --> 00:42:21.070
People<00:42:17.889><c> want</c><00:42:18.170><c> to</c><00:42:18.269><c> be</c><00:42:18.389><c> able</c><00:42:18.530><c> to</c><00:42:18.710><c> say</c><00:42:18.909><c> everything</c><00:42:19.750><c> and</c><00:42:20.150><c> they</c><00:42:20.389><c> need</c><00:42:20.630><c> a</c>

00:42:21.070 --> 00:42:21.750
patient<00:42:21.389><c> ear.</c>

00:42:21.750 --> 00:42:24.030
Not<00:42:22.349><c> an</c><00:42:22.570><c> ear</c><00:42:22.690><c> that's</c><00:42:22.909><c> going</c><00:42:22.989><c> to</c><00:42:23.210><c> say,</c><00:42:23.710><c> oh</c><00:42:23.710><c> well</c><00:42:23.829><c> you</c><00:42:23.909><c> shouldn't</c>

00:42:24.030 --> 00:42:24.630
have<00:42:24.170><c> done</c><00:42:24.329><c> that,</c>

00:42:24.829 --> 00:42:27.610
that's<00:42:25.090><c> where</c><00:42:25.170><c> it</c><00:42:25.329><c> went</c><00:42:25.449><c> wrong,</c><00:42:26.170><c> but</c><00:42:26.369><c> an</c><00:42:26.530><c> ear</c><00:42:26.650><c> that</c><00:42:26.809><c> simply</c><00:42:27.090><c> says,</c>

00:42:28.090 --> 00:42:33.449
go<00:42:28.210><c> on,</c><00:42:29.230><c> I</c><00:42:29.449><c> understand,</c><00:42:32.050><c> dear,</c><00:42:32.429><c> dear.</c>

00:42:34.090 --> 00:42:37.050
I<00:42:34.250><c> don't</c><00:42:34.369><c> know</c><00:42:34.489><c> how</c><00:42:34.929><c> you</c><00:42:35.090><c> managed</c><00:42:35.349><c> to</c><00:42:35.610><c> beg,</c><00:42:35.969><c> do</c><00:42:36.190><c> go</c><00:42:36.449><c> on.</c>

00:42:37.449 --> 00:42:38.809
So<00:42:37.570><c> that</c><00:42:37.690><c> in</c><00:42:37.789><c> the</c><00:42:37.889><c> end</c><00:42:38.010><c> you</c><00:42:38.210><c> arrive</c><00:42:38.489><c> at</c><00:42:38.670><c> that.</c>

00:42:39.110 --> 00:42:42.250
If<00:42:39.230><c> it's</c><00:42:39.570><c> an</c><00:42:39.809><c> older</c><00:42:40.070><c> sister</c><00:42:40.349><c> with</c><00:42:40.530><c> a</c><00:42:40.610><c> younger</c><00:42:40.849><c> sister,</c><00:42:41.469><c> you</c><00:42:41.610><c> can</c><00:42:41.889><c> arrive</c><00:42:42.110><c> at</c>

00:42:42.250 --> 00:42:42.570
the<00:42:42.389><c> moment</c>

00:42:42.570 --> 00:42:47.710
and<00:42:42.750><c> you</c><00:42:42.889><c> say</c><00:42:43.050><c> to</c><00:42:43.150><c> yourself,</c><00:42:45.570><c> let's</c><00:42:45.889><c> tell</c><00:42:46.070><c> God</c><00:42:46.269><c> about</c><00:42:46.590><c> it.</c>

00:42:49.090 --> 00:42:53.969
Just<00:42:49.570><c> bring</c><00:42:49.929><c> the</c><00:42:50.250><c> balm</c><00:42:50.690><c> of</c><00:42:51.369><c> prayer</c><00:42:51.889><c> on</c><00:42:52.510><c> that</c><00:42:52.730><c> situation.</c>

00:42:54.869 --> 00:42:55.750
Right?

00:42:57.030 --> 00:43:00.010
The<00:42:57.110><c> next</c><00:42:57.409><c> stage</c><00:42:57.650><c> is</c><00:42:57.849><c> to</c><00:42:58.030><c> seek</c><00:42:58.210><c> help</c><00:42:58.449><c> with</c><00:42:58.650><c> the</c><00:42:58.929><c> problem</c><00:42:59.289><c> itself.</c>

00:43:00.369 --> 00:43:03.730
Not<00:43:00.510><c> the</c><00:43:00.710><c> practical</c><00:43:01.050><c> side</c><00:43:01.369><c> now,</c><00:43:01.829><c> with</c><00:43:02.050><c> the</c><00:43:02.309><c> problem</c><00:43:02.489><c> itself.</c>

00:43:05.269 --> 00:43:09.690
Just<00:43:05.750><c> to</c><00:43:05.949><c> see</c><00:43:06.110><c> where</c><00:43:06.530><c> the</c><00:43:06.869><c> problems</c><00:43:07.190><c> lie</c><00:43:07.829><c> in</c><00:43:08.489><c> that</c><00:43:08.710><c> marriage.</c>

00:43:09.829 --> 00:43:11.769
It<00:43:09.929><c> may</c><00:43:10.150><c> seem</c><00:43:10.389><c> to</c><00:43:10.570><c> have</c><00:43:10.690><c> gone</c><00:43:10.829><c> to</c><00:43:11.010><c> pieces</c><00:43:11.250><c> altogether.</c>

00:43:12.010 --> 00:43:14.010
It<00:43:12.190><c> may</c><00:43:12.530><c> not</c><00:43:12.730><c> have</c><00:43:12.929><c> gone</c><00:43:13.090><c> to</c><00:43:13.250><c> pieces</c><00:43:13.469><c> altogether.</c>

00:43:14.250 --> 00:43:15.389
That's<00:43:14.469><c> how</c><00:43:14.610><c> it</c><00:43:14.769><c> may</c><00:43:15.050><c> seem.</c>

00:43:15.389 --> 00:43:16.730
He<00:43:15.730><c> may</c><00:43:15.969><c> have</c><00:43:16.130><c> disappeared.</c>

00:43:17.070 --> 00:43:18.610
He<00:43:17.190><c> may</c><00:43:17.230><c> have</c><00:43:17.369><c> had</c><00:43:17.429><c> good</c><00:43:17.650><c> reasons</c><00:43:17.949><c> for</c><00:43:18.150><c> disappearing</c>

00:43:18.610 --> 00:43:21.030
because<00:43:18.829><c> he</c><00:43:18.929><c> couldn't</c><00:43:19.250><c> stand</c><00:43:19.610><c> something</c><00:43:20.110><c> or</c><00:43:20.530><c> other.</c>

00:43:21.469 --> 00:43:23.750
Perhaps<00:43:21.550><c> he</c><00:43:21.590><c> couldn't</c><00:43:21.869><c> just</c><00:43:22.309><c> bear</c><00:43:22.710><c> all</c><00:43:23.090><c> the</c><00:43:23.269><c> responsibility</c>

00:43:23.750 --> 00:43:25.309
of<00:43:23.969><c> family</c><00:43:24.250><c> life.</c>

00:43:25.670 --> 00:43:26.969
And<00:43:25.809><c> even</c><00:43:25.909><c> though</c><00:43:26.090><c> he</c><00:43:26.230><c> appears</c><00:43:26.389><c> to</c><00:43:26.530><c> have</c><00:43:26.590><c> gone</c><00:43:26.690><c> off</c><00:43:26.869><c> with</c>

00:43:26.969 --> 00:43:27.530
somebody<00:43:27.309><c> else,</c>

00:43:27.590 --> 00:43:30.449
it<00:43:27.610><c> may</c><00:43:27.789><c> not</c><00:43:27.969><c> be</c><00:43:28.190><c> that</c><00:43:28.550><c> that's</c><00:43:29.070><c> the</c><00:43:29.190><c> root</c><00:43:29.309><c> of</c><00:43:29.489><c> the</c><00:43:29.670><c> problem</c><00:43:29.889><c> at</c><00:43:30.150><c> all.</c>

00:43:30.949 --> 00:43:35.929
Just<00:43:31.269><c> try</c><00:43:31.570><c> to</c><00:43:31.769><c> get</c><00:43:32.170><c> to</c><00:43:32.949><c> the</c><00:43:33.170><c> root</c><00:43:33.329><c> of</c><00:43:33.510><c> it</c><00:43:33.849><c> and</c><00:43:34.289><c> provide</c><00:43:34.750><c> some</c><00:43:35.090><c> kind</c><00:43:35.349><c> of</c><00:43:35.590><c> help.</c>

00:43:36.110 --> 00:43:40.690
And<00:43:36.429><c> at</c><00:43:36.550><c> the</c><00:43:36.789><c> same</c><00:43:37.090><c> time</c><00:43:37.329><c> to</c><00:43:37.530><c> make</c><00:43:37.849><c> sure</c><00:43:38.530><c> what</c><00:43:39.030><c> the</c><00:43:39.369><c> real</c><00:43:39.710><c> advice</c><00:43:40.190><c> is</c>

00:43:40.690 --> 00:43:42.250
from<00:43:41.090><c> the</c><00:43:41.369><c> scripture.</c>

00:43:43.369 --> 00:43:45.750
It<00:43:43.849><c> is</c><00:43:44.150><c> very</c><00:43:44.550><c> difficult,</c><00:43:45.210><c> brethren</c><00:43:45.349><c> and</c><00:43:45.590><c> sisters,</c>

00:43:45.789 --> 00:43:50.630
in<00:43:46.030><c> these</c><00:43:46.369><c> circumstances</c><00:43:47.230><c> to</c><00:43:48.150><c> deal</c><00:43:48.530><c> with</c><00:43:49.050><c> the</c><00:43:49.489><c> family.</c>

00:43:51.849 --> 00:43:53.590
You've<00:43:52.170><c> had</c><00:43:52.269><c> the</c><00:43:52.429><c> experience,</c><00:43:52.949><c> haven't</c><00:43:53.010><c> you,</c><00:43:53.150><c> not</c><00:43:53.269><c> when</c><00:43:53.389><c> you've</c><00:43:53.570><c> had</c>

00:43:53.590 --> 00:43:53.989
a<00:43:53.730><c> brother</c>

00:43:53.989 --> 00:43:56.829
who's<00:43:54.349><c> been</c><00:43:54.750><c> absolutely</c><00:43:55.550><c> straight</c><00:43:56.150><c> down</c><00:43:56.389><c> the</c><00:43:56.590><c> line</c>

00:43:56.829 --> 00:43:58.869
as<00:43:57.090><c> far</c><00:43:57.309><c> as</c><00:43:57.449><c> marriage</c><00:43:57.650><c> and</c><00:43:57.849><c> divorce</c><00:43:58.110><c> is</c><00:43:58.389><c> concerned</c>

00:43:58.869 --> 00:44:01.530
until<00:43:59.630><c> it</c><00:43:59.829><c> happens</c><00:43:59.989><c> in</c><00:44:00.110><c> his</c><00:44:00.289><c> own</c><00:44:00.469><c> family.</c>

00:44:03.030 --> 00:44:06.369
And<00:44:03.329><c> then</c><00:44:03.449><c> there</c><00:44:03.610><c> are</c><00:44:03.849><c> special</c><00:44:04.110><c> conditions</c><00:44:04.570><c> attaching</c><00:44:04.909><c> to</c><00:44:05.130><c> this,</c><00:44:05.250><c> he</c><00:44:05.429><c> says.</c>

00:44:07.389 --> 00:44:09.150
And<00:44:07.530><c> he</c><00:44:07.610><c> wants</c><00:44:07.789><c> to</c><00:44:08.010><c> explain</c><00:44:08.289><c> why</c><00:44:08.590><c> and</c><00:44:08.670><c> what</c><00:44:08.809><c> they</c><00:44:09.010><c> are.</c>

00:44:09.150 --> 00:44:12.090
And<00:44:09.269><c> we</c><00:44:09.309><c> all</c><00:44:09.550><c> understand</c><00:44:10.449><c> what</c><00:44:11.110><c> he</c><00:44:11.250><c> means,</c>

00:44:12.550 --> 00:44:15.369
although<00:44:12.750><c> he's</c><00:44:13.010><c> changed</c><00:44:13.250><c> his</c><00:44:13.530><c> view</c><00:44:13.710><c> for</c><00:44:13.929><c> a</c><00:44:14.090><c> wrong</c><00:44:14.269><c> reason.</c>

00:44:16.750 --> 00:44:22.150
Now,<00:44:17.269><c> so</c><00:44:17.449><c> it's</c><00:44:17.670><c> not</c><00:44:17.889><c> always</c><00:44:18.190><c> easy</c><00:44:18.730><c> with</c><00:44:19.190><c> the</c><00:44:19.570><c> family</c><00:44:20.150><c> in</c><00:44:21.070><c> these</c><00:44:21.349><c> circumstances</c>

00:44:22.150 --> 00:44:26.050
to<00:44:22.650><c> keep</c><00:44:22.849><c> a</c><00:44:23.230><c> straight</c><00:44:23.650><c> scriptural</c><00:44:25.510><c> course.</c>

00:44:26.369 --> 00:44:27.829
But<00:44:26.550><c> we've</c><00:44:26.769><c> got</c><00:44:26.889><c> to</c><00:44:27.030><c> do</c><00:44:27.190><c> it.</c>

00:44:28.190 --> 00:44:30.050
As<00:44:28.349><c> I</c><00:44:28.510><c> said</c><00:44:28.610><c> about</c><00:44:28.849><c> another</c><00:44:29.110><c> issue,</c>

00:44:30.090 --> 00:44:33.690
if<00:44:30.489><c> an</c><00:44:31.349><c> arranging</c><00:44:31.869><c> brother</c><00:44:32.170><c> is</c><00:44:32.389><c> one</c><00:44:32.570><c> who's</c><00:44:32.909><c> involved</c><00:44:33.269><c> in</c><00:44:33.510><c> this,</c>

00:44:33.730 --> 00:44:37.130
he<00:44:33.849><c> should</c><00:44:34.190><c> step</c><00:44:34.650><c> down</c><00:44:35.429><c> from</c><00:44:36.070><c> his</c><00:44:36.510><c> decision</c><00:44:36.769><c>-making.</c>

00:44:37.130 --> 00:44:40.590
He<00:44:37.469><c> may</c><00:44:37.630><c> wish</c><00:44:37.809><c> even</c><00:44:37.989><c> to</c><00:44:38.269><c> step</c><00:44:38.469><c> down</c><00:44:38.869><c> from</c><00:44:39.110><c> being</c><00:44:39.269><c> an</c><00:44:39.449><c> arranging</c><00:44:39.730><c> brother.</c>

00:44:40.670 --> 00:44:43.610
He<00:44:40.789><c> may</c><00:44:40.949><c> feel</c><00:44:41.110><c> he's</c><00:44:41.269><c> been</c><00:44:41.429><c> a</c><00:44:41.789><c> failure</c><00:44:42.170><c> as</c><00:44:42.530><c> such,</c>

00:44:43.769 --> 00:44:46.250
although<00:44:44.010><c> he</c><00:44:44.130><c> may</c><00:44:44.309><c> not</c><00:44:44.469><c> have</c><00:44:44.630><c> been</c><00:44:44.829><c> personally</c><00:44:45.309><c> himself</c><00:44:45.750><c> at</c><00:44:45.969><c> all.</c>

00:44:46.489 --> 00:44:49.769
But<00:44:46.670><c> he</c><00:44:46.750><c> may</c><00:44:46.929><c> feel</c><00:44:47.150><c> that</c><00:44:47.369><c> it's</c><00:44:47.889><c> impaired</c><00:44:48.309><c> his</c><00:44:48.710><c> service.</c>

00:44:49.909 --> 00:44:52.989
But<00:44:50.230><c> at</c><00:44:50.389><c> least</c><00:44:50.769><c> he</c><00:44:51.230><c> shouldn't</c><00:44:51.489><c> bring</c><00:44:51.809><c> his</c><00:44:52.150><c> pressure</c><00:44:52.469><c> to</c><00:44:52.769><c> bear.</c>

00:44:53.309 --> 00:44:55.530
He<00:44:53.449><c> may</c><00:44:53.610><c> tell</c><00:44:53.829><c> another</c><00:44:54.110><c> arranging</c><00:44:54.469><c> brother</c><00:44:54.690><c> the</c><00:44:54.889><c> whole</c><00:44:55.269><c> story</c>

00:44:55.530 --> 00:44:56.570
as<00:44:55.690><c> he</c><00:44:55.969><c> sees</c><00:44:56.170><c> it.</c>

00:44:56.769 --> 00:44:59.769
But<00:44:56.889><c> that</c><00:44:57.130><c> should</c><00:44:57.389><c> not</c><00:44:57.610><c> now</c><00:44:57.869><c> be</c><00:44:58.110><c> something</c><00:44:58.389><c> that</c><00:44:58.550><c> he</c><00:44:58.690><c> keeps</c><00:44:58.889><c> bringing</c><00:44:59.230><c> to</c><00:44:59.489><c> bear</c>

00:44:59.769 --> 00:45:02.809
on<00:45:00.070><c> the</c><00:45:00.309><c> arranging</c><00:45:00.750><c> brethren</c><00:45:01.010><c> to</c><00:45:01.289><c> screw</c><00:45:01.550><c> them</c><00:45:01.769><c> down</c><00:45:02.210><c> to</c><00:45:02.550><c> his</c>

00:45:02.809 --> 00:45:03.570
point<00:45:03.110><c> of</c><00:45:03.329><c> view.</c>

00:45:03.570 --> 00:45:05.730
Their<00:45:04.590><c> decision</c><00:45:04.989><c> has</c><00:45:05.130><c> to</c><00:45:05.269><c> be</c><00:45:05.469><c> taken,</c>

00:45:05.989 --> 00:45:10.070
and<00:45:06.110><c> their</c><00:45:06.309><c> help</c><00:45:06.570><c> given</c><00:45:06.969><c> in</c><00:45:07.750><c> the</c><00:45:07.989><c> kindest</c><00:45:08.389><c> and</c><00:45:08.610><c> fullest</c><00:45:08.929><c> and,</c>

00:45:10.269 --> 00:45:12.389
I<00:45:10.510><c> was</c><00:45:10.570><c> going</c><00:45:10.650><c> to</c><00:45:10.730><c> say</c><00:45:10.909><c> impartial,</c><00:45:11.570><c> but</c><00:45:11.630><c> you</c><00:45:11.730><c> know</c><00:45:11.769><c> what</c><00:45:11.909><c> I</c><00:45:12.090><c> mean,</c>

00:45:12.730 --> 00:45:14.869
in<00:45:13.010><c> a</c><00:45:13.090><c> right</c><00:45:13.309><c> and</c><00:45:13.530><c> upright</c><00:45:13.889><c> and</c><00:45:14.110><c> honest</c><00:45:14.349><c> way,</c>

00:45:15.150 --> 00:45:17.510
not<00:45:15.369><c> because</c><00:45:15.949><c> of</c><00:45:16.409><c> the</c><00:45:16.650><c> involvement</c><00:45:16.949><c> of</c><00:45:17.170><c> one</c><00:45:17.269><c> of</c><00:45:17.369><c> the</c>

00:45:17.510 --> 00:45:18.750
arranging<00:45:17.849><c> brethren.</c>

00:45:19.369 --> 00:45:22.329
So<00:45:19.550><c> perhaps</c><00:45:19.750><c> he</c><00:45:19.949><c> should</c><00:45:20.849><c> stand</c><00:45:21.349><c> aside.</c>

00:45:22.369 --> 00:45:24.610
In<00:45:22.550><c> the</c><00:45:22.929><c> fact</c><00:45:23.409><c>-gathering</c><00:45:24.130><c> things,</c>

00:45:24.989 --> 00:45:29.670
ask<00:45:25.309><c> yourself</c><00:45:26.090><c> whether</c><00:45:27.429><c> these</c><00:45:28.070><c> are</c><00:45:28.409><c> the</c><00:45:28.710><c> objectives</c><00:45:29.230><c> I</c><00:45:29.550><c> have</c>

00:45:29.670 --> 00:45:30.510
in<00:45:29.989><c> mind.</c>

00:45:30.510 --> 00:45:37.030
One,<00:45:34.869><c> to</c><00:45:35.050><c> preserve</c><00:45:35.650><c> the</c><00:45:35.909><c> marriage,</c>

00:45:38.889 --> 00:45:46.610
or<00:45:39.329><c> failing</c><00:45:39.670><c> that,</c><00:45:42.130><c> to</c><00:45:42.429><c> keep</c><00:45:43.150><c> the</c><00:45:44.050><c> actions</c><00:45:44.630><c> of</c><00:45:45.050><c> the</c><00:45:45.349><c> partners</c>

00:45:48.300 --> 00:45:53.269
as<00:45:48.889><c> near</c><00:45:49.210><c> as</c><00:45:49.489><c> possible</c><00:45:50.409><c> to</c><00:45:50.929><c> the</c><00:45:51.130><c> Christ</c><00:45:51.630><c>-like</c><00:45:52.170><c> pattern.</c>

00:45:55.369 --> 00:46:00.730
Two,<00:45:57.849><c> to</c><00:45:58.130><c> protect</c><00:45:58.769><c> the</c><00:45:59.210><c> children.</c>

00:46:04.610 --> 00:46:08.909
They<00:46:04.690><c> are</c><00:46:04.889><c> always</c><00:46:05.329><c> the</c><00:46:06.570><c> means</c><00:46:06.849><c> of</c><00:46:07.070><c> bringing</c><00:46:07.329><c> pressure</c><00:46:07.670><c> to</c><00:46:07.969><c> bear.</c>

00:46:10.110 --> 00:46:13.150
That<00:46:10.409><c> pressure</c><00:46:10.849><c> very</c><00:46:11.349><c> rarely</c><00:46:11.829><c> succeeds.</c>

00:46:14.630 --> 00:46:16.469
It<00:46:14.730><c> may</c><00:46:14.829><c> produce</c><00:46:15.150><c> tears,</c>

00:46:17.250 --> 00:46:21.070
but<00:46:18.130><c> it</c><00:46:18.449><c> very</c><00:46:18.670><c> rarely</c><00:46:18.989><c> succeeds</c><00:46:19.670><c> in</c><00:46:19.969><c> binding</c><00:46:20.269><c> people</c><00:46:20.610><c> together.</c>

00:46:21.070 --> 00:46:23.809
You<00:46:21.690><c> know,</c><00:46:21.849><c> you</c><00:46:21.889><c> sometimes</c><00:46:22.230><c> get</c><00:46:22.449><c> people's</c><00:46:22.809><c> marriages</c><00:46:23.070><c> going</c><00:46:23.349><c> wrong,</c>

00:46:24.070 --> 00:46:26.269
and<00:46:24.210><c> what</c><00:46:24.769><c> the</c><00:46:24.889><c> girl</c><00:46:25.130><c> decides</c><00:46:25.730><c> is,</c>

00:46:26.690 --> 00:46:28.150
we'll<00:46:26.889><c> have</c><00:46:27.010><c> another</c><00:46:27.230><c> baby,</c>

00:46:28.989 --> 00:46:30.750
in<00:46:29.170><c> the</c><00:46:29.269><c> hope</c><00:46:29.409><c> that</c><00:46:29.510><c> it</c><00:46:29.570><c> will</c><00:46:29.710><c> hold</c><00:46:29.869><c> the</c><00:46:30.030><c> marriage</c><00:46:30.269><c> together.</c>

00:46:31.210 --> 00:46:32.309
It<00:46:31.349><c> doesn't</c><00:46:31.530><c> happen</c><00:46:31.869><c> that</c><00:46:32.150><c> way,</c>

00:46:32.389 --> 00:46:35.309
because<00:46:32.690><c> we're</c><00:46:33.050><c> not</c><00:46:33.230><c> held</c><00:46:33.449><c> together</c><00:46:33.789><c> by</c><00:46:34.030><c> the</c><00:46:34.230><c> babies</c><00:46:34.530><c> that</c><00:46:34.710><c> we</c><00:46:34.909><c> produce.</c>

00:46:35.769 --> 00:46:38.630
We're<00:46:36.070><c> held</c><00:46:36.329><c> together</c><00:46:36.730><c> by</c><00:46:36.969><c> the</c><00:46:37.150><c> love</c><00:46:37.269><c> that</c><00:46:37.550><c> produced</c><00:46:37.789><c> them.</c>

00:46:39.070 --> 00:46:40.809
That's<00:46:39.409><c> a</c><00:46:39.510><c> different</c><00:46:39.650><c> matter</c><00:46:39.849><c> altogether,</c>

00:46:41.030 --> 00:46:42.829
and<00:46:41.170><c> it's</c><00:46:41.329><c> that</c><00:46:41.469><c> we've</c><00:46:41.730><c> got</c><00:46:41.829><c> to</c><00:46:42.010><c> develop.</c>

00:46:43.769 --> 00:46:47.030
Three,<00:46:44.110><c> and</c><00:46:44.190><c> you</c><00:46:44.329><c> may</c><00:46:44.489><c> consider</c><00:46:44.750><c> that</c><00:46:44.989><c> this</c><00:46:45.750><c> was</c><00:46:46.070><c> number</c><00:46:46.429><c> one,</c>

00:46:47.489 --> 00:46:49.889
to<00:46:47.750><c> follow</c><00:46:48.150><c> Christ</c><00:46:48.829><c> in</c><00:46:49.170><c> the</c><00:46:49.369><c> ecclesia</c>

00:46:49.889 --> 00:46:54.150
and<00:46:50.550><c> to</c><00:46:50.750><c> preserve</c><00:46:51.230><c> the</c><00:46:51.590><c> truth</c><00:46:52.030><c> within</c><00:46:52.369><c> it.</c>

00:46:54.329 --> 00:46:56.710
In<00:46:54.469><c> other</c><00:46:54.630><c> words,</c><00:46:55.269><c> how</c><00:46:55.489><c> we</c><00:46:55.690><c> deal</c><00:46:55.849><c> with</c><00:46:56.050><c> the</c><00:46:56.210><c> case</c>

00:46:56.710 --> 00:47:00.610
must<00:46:57.090><c> not</c><00:46:57.329><c> prejudice</c><00:46:57.889><c> the</c><00:46:58.530><c> way</c><00:46:58.769><c> the</c><00:46:59.010><c> ecclesia</c><00:46:59.389><c> stands</c><00:46:59.909><c> as</c><00:47:00.170><c> a</c><00:47:00.349><c> whole</c>

00:47:00.610 --> 00:47:03.210
and<00:47:00.889><c> how</c><00:47:01.130><c> our</c><00:47:01.309><c> young</c><00:47:01.510><c> people</c><00:47:01.789><c> see</c><00:47:02.010><c> the</c><00:47:02.230><c> ecclesia.</c>

00:47:03.769 --> 00:47:07.610
We<00:47:03.949><c> mustn't</c><00:47:04.429><c> get</c><00:47:04.750><c> things</c><00:47:05.130><c> out</c><00:47:05.449><c> of</c><00:47:05.690><c> proportion</c><00:47:06.090><c> or</c><00:47:06.369><c> perspective.</c>

00:47:10.650 --> 00:47:14.269
And<00:47:10.789><c> if</c><00:47:10.889><c> you've</c><00:47:11.150><c> been</c><00:47:11.789><c> ever</c><00:47:12.550><c> seeking</c><00:47:12.869><c> to</c><00:47:13.130><c> keep</c><00:47:13.289><c> a</c><00:47:13.469><c> marriage</c><00:47:13.769><c> together,</c>

00:47:14.610 --> 00:47:17.449
you<00:47:14.929><c> know</c><00:47:15.230><c> what</c><00:47:15.409><c> a</c><00:47:15.690><c> difficult</c><00:47:15.949><c> problem</c><00:47:16.289><c> it</c><00:47:16.510><c> is.</c>

00:47:18.050 --> 00:47:20.510
I've<00:47:18.570><c> been</c><00:47:18.730><c> involved</c><00:47:18.969><c> in</c><00:47:19.130><c> one</c><00:47:19.250><c> or</c><00:47:19.489><c> two,</c>

00:47:20.710 --> 00:47:22.829
no<00:47:21.090><c> doubt</c><00:47:21.269><c> you've</c><00:47:21.610><c> been</c><00:47:21.710><c> involved</c><00:47:22.070><c> in</c><00:47:22.170><c> one</c><00:47:22.369><c> or</c><00:47:22.570><c> two,</c>

00:47:23.090 --> 00:47:27.070
and<00:47:23.369><c> it's</c><00:47:23.849><c> hard</c><00:47:24.389><c> work,</c><00:47:25.690><c> mighty</c><00:47:26.030><c> hard.</c>

00:47:27.389 --> 00:47:30.130
It's<00:47:27.670><c> surprising</c><00:47:28.090><c> how</c><00:47:28.429><c> two</c><00:47:28.550><c> people</c><00:47:28.809><c> who</c><00:47:28.949><c> were</c><00:47:29.170><c> so</c><00:47:29.429><c> much</c><00:47:29.610><c> in</c><00:47:29.829><c> love</c>

00:47:30.130 --> 00:47:32.510
that<00:47:30.449><c> nobody</c><00:47:30.730><c> else</c><00:47:31.090><c> could</c><00:47:31.289><c> get</c><00:47:31.570><c> even</c><00:47:31.949><c> between</c><00:47:32.369><c> them,</c>

00:47:32.590 --> 00:47:33.809
to<00:47:32.650><c> have</c><00:47:32.769><c> a</c><00:47:32.789><c> look</c><00:47:32.949><c> at</c><00:47:33.070><c> them,</c>

00:47:34.170 --> 00:47:36.530
suddenly<00:47:34.409><c> become</c><00:47:34.789><c> so</c><00:47:35.150><c> far</c><00:47:35.369><c> apart.</c>

00:47:37.409 --> 00:47:39.889
It's<00:47:37.590><c> almost</c><00:47:37.969><c> scarcely</c><00:47:38.250><c> to</c><00:47:38.409><c> be</c><00:47:38.469><c> able</c><00:47:38.630><c> to</c><00:47:38.829><c> recognize</c><00:47:39.329><c> one</c><00:47:39.550><c> another,</c>

00:47:40.349 --> 00:47:43.630
and<00:47:40.489><c> everything</c><00:47:40.730><c> is</c><00:47:41.090><c> exposed</c><00:47:41.989><c> and</c><00:47:42.449><c> all</c><00:47:42.750><c> kinds</c><00:47:43.130><c> of</c><00:47:43.349><c> things.</c>

00:47:43.730 --> 00:47:45.730
And<00:47:43.789><c> you</c><00:47:43.889><c> think</c><00:47:44.369><c> that</c><00:47:44.630><c> golf</c><00:47:44.769><c> is</c><00:47:45.030><c> so</c><00:47:45.489><c> great</c>

00:47:45.730 --> 00:47:48.170
that<00:47:45.909><c> it's</c><00:47:46.030><c> impossible</c><00:47:46.469><c> to</c><00:47:46.750><c> bridge</c><00:47:46.949><c> it.</c>

00:47:48.170 --> 00:47:51.590
Well,<00:47:48.349><c> you've</c><00:47:48.469><c> got</c><00:47:48.530><c> to</c><00:47:48.650><c> work</c><00:47:48.750><c> very</c><00:47:49.110><c> hard,</c><00:47:50.210><c> extremely</c><00:47:50.630><c> hard.</c>

00:47:51.909 --> 00:47:56.449
And<00:47:52.070><c> only</c><00:47:52.349><c> occasionally</c><00:47:53.050><c> am</c><00:47:53.889><c> I</c><00:47:54.070><c> aware</c><00:47:54.570><c> that</c><00:47:55.429><c> this</c><00:47:55.670><c> has</c><00:47:55.869><c> succeeded.</c>

00:47:56.949 --> 00:48:02.829
Sometimes<00:47:57.449><c> an</c><00:47:57.789><c> older</c><00:47:58.650><c> fatherly</c><00:47:59.650><c> and</c><00:47:59.869><c> an</c><00:48:00.170><c> older</c><00:48:01.030><c> motherly</c><00:48:02.349><c> person</c>

00:48:02.829 --> 00:48:08.969
can<00:48:03.550><c> be</c><00:48:03.710><c> of</c><00:48:03.889><c> help,</c><00:48:05.489><c> just</c><00:48:05.989><c> by</c><00:48:06.369><c> constant</c><00:48:06.969><c> work</c><00:48:07.650><c> at</c><00:48:07.969><c> it.</c>

00:48:09.010 --> 00:48:11.710
But<00:48:09.210><c> it's</c><00:48:09.670><c> hard</c><00:48:10.210><c> work.</c>

00:48:12.449 --> 00:48:17.349
Encourage<00:48:13.090><c> them</c><00:48:13.289><c> to</c><00:48:13.769><c> stick</c><00:48:14.090><c> together</c><00:48:14.630><c> as</c><00:48:15.250><c> long</c><00:48:15.570><c> as</c><00:48:15.750><c> they</c><00:48:16.070><c> possibly</c><00:48:16.489><c> can,</c>

00:48:17.369 --> 00:48:21.590
and<00:48:17.570><c> that</c><00:48:17.909><c> the</c><00:48:18.230><c> ecclesia</c><00:48:18.670><c> will</c><00:48:19.090><c> give</c><00:48:19.289><c> them</c><00:48:19.610><c> the</c><00:48:19.909><c> maximum</c><00:48:20.369><c> support.</c>

00:48:22.389 --> 00:48:23.889
Now<00:48:22.570><c> remember,</c><00:48:23.530><c> you</c><00:48:23.610><c> know,</c>

00:48:24.070 --> 00:48:26.150
those<00:48:24.250><c> of</c><00:48:24.349><c> us</c><00:48:24.489><c> who</c><00:48:24.710><c> say</c><00:48:24.969><c> that</c><00:48:25.250><c> there</c><00:48:25.309><c> should</c><00:48:25.449><c> be</c><00:48:25.650><c> no</c><00:48:25.809><c> divorce</c>

00:48:26.150 --> 00:48:27.909
under<00:48:26.389><c> any</c><00:48:26.670><c> circumstances,</c>

00:48:28.050 --> 00:48:30.489
we<00:48:28.389><c> are</c><00:48:28.650><c> then</c><00:48:29.030><c> bound,</c><00:48:29.769><c> honor</c><00:48:30.010><c> bound,</c>

00:48:30.789 --> 00:48:33.230
to<00:48:31.489><c> provide</c><00:48:31.829><c> all</c><00:48:32.070><c> the</c><00:48:32.269><c> financial</c><00:48:32.690><c> help</c>

00:48:33.230 --> 00:48:35.809
that<00:48:33.670><c> would</c><00:48:33.789><c> have</c><00:48:33.909><c> been</c><00:48:34.090><c> gained</c><00:48:34.329><c> by</c><00:48:34.550><c> the</c><00:48:34.710><c> other</c><00:48:34.849><c> means.</c>

00:48:36.809 --> 00:48:38.550
That's<00:48:37.150><c> our</c><00:48:37.289><c> responsibility,</c>

00:48:39.250 --> 00:48:40.969
because<00:48:39.610><c> we</c><00:48:39.809><c> have</c><00:48:39.969><c> forced</c><00:48:40.150><c> that</c><00:48:40.409><c> issue.</c>

00:48:40.969 --> 00:48:47.550
The<00:48:40.969><c> ecclesia</c><00:48:43.369><c> then</c><00:48:43.630><c> has</c><00:48:44.190><c> to</c><00:48:44.269><c> carry</c><00:48:44.489><c> that</c><00:48:44.750><c> responsibility</c><00:48:45.429><c> itself.</c>

00:48:47.789 --> 00:48:49.130
We<00:48:47.829><c> can't</c><00:48:48.010><c> have</c><00:48:48.090><c> it</c><00:48:48.269><c> both</c><00:48:48.489><c> ways,</c><00:48:49.030><c> can</c><00:48:49.050><c> we?</c>

00:48:49.190 --> 00:48:51.730
We<00:48:49.250><c> can't</c><00:48:49.550><c> say,</c><00:48:49.989><c> well,</c><00:48:49.989><c> you</c><00:48:50.030><c> mustn't</c><00:48:50.269><c> do</c><00:48:50.469><c> anything</c><00:48:50.809><c> like</c><00:48:51.269><c> that</c>

00:48:51.730 --> 00:48:54.789
to<00:48:51.949><c> seek</c><00:48:52.070><c> to</c><00:48:52.269><c> get</c><00:48:53.090><c> any</c><00:48:53.710><c> portion</c><00:48:54.030><c> out</c><00:48:54.190><c> of</c><00:48:54.309><c> your</c><00:48:54.449><c> husband.</c>

00:48:54.989 --> 00:48:56.829
What<00:48:55.130><c> you</c><00:48:55.309><c> should</c><00:48:55.429><c> do</c><00:48:55.650><c> is</c><00:48:55.849><c> to</c><00:48:56.010><c> just</c><00:48:56.150><c> remain</c><00:48:56.309><c> exactly</c><00:48:56.670><c> where</c>

00:48:56.829 --> 00:48:57.849
you<00:48:57.050><c> are.</c>

00:48:57.869 --> 00:49:00.309
And<00:48:57.989><c> she</c><00:48:58.130><c> says,</c><00:48:58.289><c> well,</c><00:48:58.429><c> how</c><00:48:58.570><c> am</c><00:48:58.690><c> I</c><00:48:58.690><c> going</c><00:48:58.829><c> to</c><00:48:58.969><c> live</c><00:48:59.130><c> then</c>

00:49:00.670 --> 00:49:02.449
if<00:49:01.030><c> he</c><00:49:01.210><c> gives</c><00:49:01.309><c> me</c><00:49:01.530><c> nothing?</c>

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Because<00:49:02.809><c> I</c><00:49:02.849><c> don't</c><00:49:03.010><c> think</c><00:49:03.110><c> he</c><00:49:03.269><c> will.</c>

00:49:04.409 --> 00:49:07.809
Then<00:49:04.889><c> the</c><00:49:05.110><c> ecclesia</c><00:49:05.250><c> has</c><00:49:05.369><c> got</c><00:49:05.469><c> to</c><00:49:05.650><c> say,</c><00:49:06.690><c> we'll</c><00:49:06.889><c> provide.</c>

00:49:08.590 --> 00:49:11.309
And<00:49:08.670><c> so</c><00:49:08.789><c> that</c><00:49:09.070><c> then</c><00:49:09.210><c> is</c><00:49:09.349><c> putting</c><00:49:09.570><c> into</c><00:49:09.929><c> practical</c><00:49:10.570><c> application</c>

00:49:11.309 --> 00:49:14.349
our<00:49:11.949><c> view</c><00:49:12.449><c> of</c><00:49:12.989><c> marriage</c><00:49:13.269><c> and</c><00:49:13.469><c> divorce.</c>

00:49:15.150 --> 00:49:17.789
So<00:49:15.230><c> whichever</c><00:49:15.550><c> view</c><00:49:15.750><c> we</c><00:49:16.030><c> have</c><00:49:16.590><c> in</c><00:49:17.090><c> this</c><00:49:17.230><c> situation,</c>

00:49:18.050 --> 00:49:21.269
there<00:49:18.150><c> are</c><00:49:18.369><c> practical</c><00:49:18.809><c> consequences</c><00:49:19.429><c> to</c><00:49:19.670><c> it</c><00:49:20.070><c> that</c><00:49:20.329><c> are</c><00:49:20.469><c> quite</c><00:49:20.710><c> serious,</c>

00:49:21.469 --> 00:49:24.250
and<00:49:21.670><c> we've</c><00:49:21.829><c> got</c><00:49:21.889><c> to</c><00:49:22.070><c> work</c><00:49:22.170><c> them</c><00:49:22.329><c> out</c><00:49:22.829><c> at</c><00:49:23.050><c> whatever</c><00:49:23.289><c> level.</c>

00:49:24.510 --> 00:49:27.469
And<00:49:24.849><c> at</c><00:49:25.170><c> the</c><00:49:25.449><c> end,</c><00:49:25.929><c> we've</c><00:49:26.170><c> got</c><00:49:26.309><c> to</c><00:49:26.510><c> say</c><00:49:26.630><c> to</c><00:49:26.809><c> these</c><00:49:27.030><c> people,</c>

00:49:27.750 --> 00:49:30.889
in<00:49:27.849><c> order</c><00:49:28.070><c> to</c><00:49:28.269><c> discharge</c><00:49:28.750><c> our</c><00:49:29.030><c> responsibility</c><00:49:29.710><c> to</c><00:49:29.929><c> the</c><00:49:30.150><c> full,</c>

00:49:31.329 --> 00:49:36.989
what<00:49:31.909><c> are</c><00:49:32.489><c> you</c><00:49:32.750><c> going</c><00:49:32.909><c> to</c><00:49:33.230><c> say</c><00:49:33.789><c> to</c><00:49:34.869><c> the</c><00:49:35.070><c> Lord</c><00:49:35.349><c> Jesus</c><00:49:35.789><c> Christ?</c>

00:49:39.710 --> 00:49:45.590
How<00:49:39.989><c> can</c><00:49:40.449><c> you</c><00:49:40.809><c> break</c><00:49:41.449><c> the</c><00:49:42.110><c> promises</c><00:49:42.530><c> you</c><00:49:43.110><c> made</c><00:49:43.510><c> in</c><00:49:43.869><c> His</c><00:49:44.170><c> presence?</c>

00:49:48.809 --> 00:49:54.730
Supposing<00:49:49.329><c> Christ</c><00:49:50.449><c> treated</c><00:49:51.210><c> His</c><00:49:51.909><c> bride</c><00:49:52.510><c> in</c><00:49:53.309><c> this</c><00:49:53.570><c> way.</c>

00:50:00.489 --> 00:50:02.949
Christ<00:50:01.010><c> died</c><00:50:01.269><c> for</c><00:50:01.590><c> reconciliation's</c><00:50:02.690><c> sake.</c>

00:50:03.070 --> 00:50:06.969
What<00:50:03.489><c> are</c><00:50:03.769><c> you</c><00:50:03.969><c> doing</c><00:50:04.389><c> for</c><00:50:05.150><c> reconciliation's</c><00:50:06.570><c> sake</c>

00:50:06.969 --> 00:50:09.090
within<00:50:07.789><c> your</c><00:50:08.050><c> marriage?</c>

00:50:10.769 --> 00:50:12.849
All<00:50:10.869><c> right,</c><00:50:11.090><c> those</c><00:50:11.130><c> are</c><00:50:11.409><c> some</c><00:50:11.969><c> of</c><00:50:12.170><c> the</c><00:50:12.389><c> aims</c>

00:50:12.849 --> 00:50:16.429
in<00:50:13.329><c> a</c><00:50:13.570><c> very,</c><00:50:13.889><c> very</c><00:50:14.250><c> difficult</c><00:50:14.570><c> and</c><00:50:14.769><c> sometimes</c><00:50:15.449><c> totally</c>

00:50:16.429 --> 00:50:18.429
intractable<00:50:17.349><c> problem.</c>

00:50:18.929 --> 00:50:21.110
Now,<00:50:19.469><c> doubtless,</c><00:50:19.929><c> in</c><00:50:19.989><c> some</c><00:50:20.150><c> of</c><00:50:20.289><c> the</c><00:50:20.369><c> questions</c><00:50:20.670><c> I've</c><00:50:20.989><c> got,</c>

00:50:21.170 --> 00:50:24.090
not<00:50:21.349><c> all</c><00:50:21.530><c> of</c><00:50:21.630><c> which</c><00:50:21.789><c> I've</c><00:50:22.030><c> yet</c><00:50:22.210><c> read,</c><00:50:22.909><c> thanks</c><00:50:23.110><c> for</c><00:50:23.309><c> all</c><00:50:23.469><c> of</c><00:50:23.590><c> them,</c>

00:50:24.090 --> 00:50:27.469
we<00:50:24.690><c> shall</c><00:50:24.829><c> have</c><00:50:24.989><c> other</c><00:50:25.250><c> aspects</c><00:50:25.690><c> of</c><00:50:25.889><c> this</c><00:50:26.070><c> which</c><00:50:26.269><c> I</c><00:50:26.449><c> shall</c><00:50:26.590><c> then,</c>

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God<00:50:27.710><c> willing,</c><00:50:28.190><c> seek</c><00:50:28.210><c> to</c><00:50:28.429><c> deal</c><00:50:28.630><c> with.</c>

00:50:57.670 --> 00:51:00.349
Brethren,<00:50:58.289><c> this</c><00:50:58.530><c> concludes</c><00:50:59.190><c> the</c><00:50:59.550><c> classes</c><00:50:59.849><c> for</c><00:51:00.150><c> today.</c>

00:51:00.449 --> 00:51:02.349
We'll<00:51:00.610><c> be</c><00:51:00.789><c> having</c><00:51:00.989><c> our</c><00:51:01.329><c> question</c><00:51:01.590><c> and</c><00:51:01.789><c> answer</c><00:51:02.030><c> period,</c>

00:51:02.389 --> 00:51:06.150
which<00:51:02.550><c> will</c><00:51:02.809><c> begin</c><00:51:03.590><c> promptly</c><00:51:04.349><c> at</c><00:51:04.570><c> 4</c><00:51:04.949><c> o</c><00:51:05.650><c>'clock.</c>

00:51:06.969 --> 00:51:09.210
However,<00:51:07.570><c> prior</c><00:51:08.010><c> to</c><00:51:08.429><c> taking</c><00:51:08.750><c> our</c><00:51:09.030><c> break,</c>

00:51:09.369 --> 00:51:17.030
we'd<00:51:09.510><c> like</c><00:51:09.670><c> to</c><00:51:10.889><c> sing</c><00:51:13.150><c> together</c><00:51:14.050><c> hymn</c><00:51:14.309><c> number</c><00:51:14.789><c> 284.</c>

00:51:17.869 --> 00:51:20.329
Ye<00:51:18.230><c> saints</c><00:51:18.530><c> in</c><00:51:18.769><c> Christ,</c><00:51:19.250><c> his</c><00:51:19.429><c> brethren,</c>

00:51:20.610 --> 00:51:22.869
let<00:51:20.929><c> faith</c><00:51:21.489><c> cast</c><00:51:21.949><c> out</c><00:51:22.190><c> your</c><00:51:22.489><c> fear.</c>

00:51:23.329 --> 00:51:26.090
The<00:51:23.630><c> dark</c><00:51:23.929><c> night</c><00:51:24.090><c> is</c><00:51:24.329><c> departing,</c><00:51:24.750><c> the</c><00:51:24.949><c> morning</c><00:51:25.210><c> light</c><00:51:25.449><c> is</c><00:51:25.710><c> near.</c>

00:51:26.090 --> 00:51:29.849
The<00:51:26.949><c> bridegroom</c><00:51:27.389><c> is</c><00:51:27.610><c> arising,</c><00:51:28.349><c> and</c><00:51:28.530><c> soon</c><00:51:28.769><c> he</c><00:51:29.090><c> draweth</c><00:51:29.409><c> nigh.</c>

00:51:30.230 --> 00:51:32.269
Up,<00:51:31.010><c> pray</c><00:51:31.150><c> and</c><00:51:31.449><c> watch</c><00:51:31.690><c> and</c><00:51:31.909><c> wrestle.</c>

00:51:32.769 --> 00:51:36.530
At<00:51:33.030><c> midnight</c><00:51:33.349><c> comes</c><00:51:33.730><c> the</c><00:51:33.949><c> cry,</c><00:51:34.510><c> hymn</c><00:51:34.730><c> 284.</c>

00:51:50.409 --> 00:51:55.989
He<00:51:51.769><c> saints</c><00:51:52.829><c> in</c><00:51:53.530><c> Christ,</c><00:51:54.170><c> his</c><00:51:54.809><c> brethren,</c>

00:51:56.530 --> 00:52:00.489
let<00:51:56.730><c> faith</c><00:51:57.329><c> cast</c><00:51:58.010><c> out</c><00:51:58.610><c> your</c><00:51:59.349><c> fear.</c>

00:52:00.489 --> 00:52:11.050
The<00:52:01.949><c> dark</c><00:52:02.809><c> night</c><00:52:03.309><c> is</c><00:52:04.170><c> departing,</c><00:52:06.750><c> the</c><00:52:07.070><c> morning</c><00:52:07.849><c> light</c><00:52:08.570><c> is</c><00:52:09.590><c> near.</c>

00:52:11.510 --> 00:52:21.730
The<00:52:12.730><c> bridegroom</c><00:52:13.730><c> is</c><00:52:14.809><c> arising,</c><00:52:17.110><c> and</c><00:52:17.429><c> soon</c><00:52:18.190><c> he</c><00:52:18.730><c> draweth</c><00:52:19.969><c> nigh.</c>

00:52:21.829 --> 00:52:27.010
Up,<00:52:23.369><c> pray</c><00:52:23.710><c> and</c><00:52:24.469><c> watch</c><00:52:24.869><c> and</c><00:52:25.670><c> wrestle.</c>

00:52:27.010 --> 00:52:34.690
At<00:52:27.969><c> midnight</c><00:52:29.130><c> comes</c><00:52:29.969><c> the</c><00:52:30.829><c> cry,</c><00:52:33.469><c> hymn</c><00:52:34.690><c> 284.</c>

00:52:34.690 --> 00:52:38.530
Ye<00:52:34.690><c> that</c><00:52:35.269><c> your</c><00:52:35.869><c> lamps</c><00:52:36.389><c> are</c><00:52:37.329><c> burning,</c>

00:52:39.210 --> 00:52:43.889
replenish<00:52:40.730><c> them</c><00:52:41.269><c> with</c><00:52:42.170><c> oil,</c>

00:52:45.090 --> 00:52:49.250
and<00:52:45.130><c> work</c><00:52:45.849><c> for</c><00:52:46.590><c> your</c><00:52:47.170><c> salvation,</c>

00:52:49.750 --> 00:52:54.110
the<00:52:50.489><c> end</c><00:52:51.070><c> of</c><00:52:51.769><c> all</c><00:52:52.289><c> your</c><00:52:53.170><c> toil.</c>

00:52:54.110 --> 00:53:00.210
The<00:52:56.010><c> watchers</c><00:52:57.510><c> in</c><00:52:57.949><c> the</c><00:52:58.789><c> mountains,</c>

00:53:00.449 --> 00:53:05.710
proclaim<00:53:01.630><c> the</c><00:53:02.650><c> bridegroom</c><00:53:03.610><c> here.</c>

00:53:06.269 --> 00:53:11.090
Oh,<00:53:07.309><c> heed</c><00:53:07.670><c> him</c><00:53:08.269><c> as</c><00:53:09.050><c> he</c><00:53:09.809><c> cometh,</c>

00:53:11.510 --> 00:53:16.110
with<00:53:11.969><c> joy</c><00:53:12.710><c> and</c><00:53:13.570><c> not</c><00:53:13.989><c> with</c><00:53:15.050><c> fear.</c>

00:53:16.110 --> 00:53:22.610
Ye<00:53:18.510><c> saints,</c><00:53:19.650><c> do</c><00:53:20.329><c> weary</c><00:53:21.329><c> patients,</c>

00:53:23.670 --> 00:53:27.610
your<00:53:24.030><c> tribulations</c><00:53:26.309><c> bear,</c>

00:53:28.809 --> 00:53:33.369
shall<00:53:29.590><c> live</c><00:53:30.250><c> and</c><00:53:30.909><c> reign</c><00:53:31.230><c> forever,</c>

00:53:33.789 --> 00:53:38.429
and<00:53:34.449><c> Christ</c><00:53:35.170><c> our</c><00:53:35.670><c> kingdom</c><00:53:36.909><c> share.</c>

00:53:38.429 --> 00:53:44.889
Around<00:53:40.809><c> the</c><00:53:41.590><c> throne</c><00:53:42.230><c> of</c><00:53:43.269><c> glory,</c>

00:53:44.969 --> 00:53:49.590
the<00:53:45.429><c> Lamb</c><00:53:45.969><c> he</c><00:53:46.530><c> shall</c><00:53:47.289><c> behold.</c>

00:53:49.789 --> 00:53:55.170
In<00:53:51.190><c> triumph</c><00:53:52.070><c> sing</c><00:53:52.730><c> before</c><00:53:54.710><c> him,</c>

00:53:55.670 --> 00:54:00.469
your<00:53:55.989><c> praise</c><00:53:56.650><c> with</c><00:53:57.250><c> saints</c><00:53:58.269><c> alone.</c>

00:54:02.150 --> 00:54:06.510
Our<00:54:02.889><c> hope</c><00:54:03.409><c> and</c><00:54:04.289><c> expectation,</c>

00:54:06.510 --> 00:54:11.929
O<00:54:07.590><c> Jesus,</c><00:54:08.809><c> now</c><00:54:09.650><c> appear.</c>

00:54:13.170 --> 00:54:17.590
Arise,<00:54:14.349><c> thou</c><00:54:14.670><c> Son,</c><00:54:15.230><c> so</c><00:54:16.030><c> long</c><00:54:16.989><c> ago,</c>

00:54:17.650 --> 00:54:22.670
for<00:54:18.510><c> his</c><00:54:19.090><c> united</c><00:54:20.489><c> sphere.</c>

00:54:22.949 --> 00:54:28.489
With<00:54:24.230><c> hearts</c><00:54:24.929><c> and</c><00:54:25.489><c> hands</c><00:54:26.329><c> uplifted,</c>

00:54:28.909 --> 00:54:33.170
we<00:54:29.309><c> need,</c><00:54:30.250><c> O</c><00:54:30.550><c> Lord,</c><00:54:30.989><c> to</c><00:54:31.889><c> see</c>

00:54:33.170 --> 00:54:39.010
the<00:54:35.030><c> day</c><00:54:35.909><c> of</c><00:54:36.349><c> earth's</c><00:54:37.409><c> redemption,</c>

00:54:39.090 --> 00:54:44.829
that<00:54:40.110><c> brings</c><00:54:40.710><c> us</c><00:54:41.530><c> unto</c><00:54:42.429><c> him.</c>

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Amen.