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finish<00:11:18.259><c> your</c>

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family.<00:11:23.159><c> That's</c><00:11:23.840><c> not</c><00:11:24.399><c> righteous.</c>

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hey,<00:11:30.059><c> you</c><00:11:30.200><c> can</c><00:11:30.440><c> go</c><00:11:30.659><c> ahead</c><00:11:30.899><c> and</c><00:11:31.039><c> you</c><00:11:31.139><c> can,</c>

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gratification,<00:11:48.799><c> accepting</c><00:11:49.059><c> responsibility,</c><00:11:50.120><c> lots</c><00:11:50.340><c> of</c><00:11:50.500><c> times</c><00:11:50.620><c> it's</c>

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righteousness.<00:11:53.240><c> It's</c><00:11:53.379><c> not</c><00:11:53.500><c> a</c><00:11:53.600><c> matter</c><00:11:53.720><c> of</c><00:11:53.899><c> right</c><00:11:54.120><c> and</c><00:11:54.340><c> wrong.</c>

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to<00:12:09.899><c> sin.</c><00:12:11.899><c> See,</c><00:12:12.460><c> the</c><00:12:12.620><c> actual</c><00:12:13.519><c> idea</c><00:12:14.519><c> of</c>

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married,<00:12:16.799><c> that's</c><00:12:16.960><c> not</c><00:12:17.159><c> necessarily</c><00:12:17.419><c> wrong.</c>

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things,<00:12:29.240><c> you</c><00:12:29.679><c> know,</c><00:12:30.100><c> wrong,</c><00:12:31.000><c> illegal</c><00:12:31.460><c> and</c><00:12:31.659><c> immoral</c><00:12:32.240><c> to</c><00:12:33.019><c> get</c>

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was<00:12:51.059><c> accepting</c><00:12:51.399><c> responsibility.</c>

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him?<00:15:25.120><c> Who's</c><00:15:25.559><c> the</c><00:15:25.659><c> leader</c><00:15:25.799><c> of</c>

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group.<00:15:54.860><c> Right</c><00:15:54.960><c> here.</c><00:15:55.500><c> All</c><00:15:55.519><c> right.</c>

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responsibility<00:16:17.360><c> for?</c><00:16:17.759><c> What</c><00:16:17.860><c> did</c><00:16:17.980><c> he</c><00:16:18.139><c> do?</c><00:16:22.059><c> Right.</c><00:16:23.320><c> Oh,</c><00:16:24.019><c> I</c><00:16:24.220><c> didn't</c><00:16:24.460><c> touch</c><00:16:24.820><c> fireworks</c><00:16:25.440><c> like</c>

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responsibility<00:16:38.779><c> for</c><00:16:40.039><c> his</c><00:16:40.580><c> actions.</c><00:16:41.759><c> For</c><00:16:41.919><c> what</c><00:16:42.139><c> he</c><00:16:42.379><c> did.</c><00:16:42.580><c> What</c>

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were<00:16:46.980><c> doing</c><00:16:47.700><c> things</c><00:16:48.700><c> that</c><00:16:48.879><c> were</c><00:16:49.120><c> more</c><00:16:49.440><c> wrong.</c><00:16:50.820><c> Right?</c><00:16:51.960><c> And</c><00:16:52.120><c> this</c><00:16:52.259><c> is</c>

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doing<00:17:01.299><c> 120</c><00:17:02.120><c> and</c><00:17:02.259><c> he's</c>

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doing<00:17:02.700><c> 110.</c><00:17:04.640><c> I'm</c><00:17:04.859><c> so</c><00:17:05.119><c> far</c><00:17:05.400><c> ahead</c><00:17:05.680><c> that</c><00:17:05.859><c> the</c><00:17:06.039><c> cops</c><00:17:06.180><c> only</c><00:17:06.440><c> pick</c>

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him<00:17:06.900><c> up.</c><00:17:08.200><c> Right?</c><00:17:08.359><c> And</c><00:17:08.519><c> Dan</c><00:17:08.759><c> thinks</c><00:17:09.039><c> it's</c>

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not<00:17:09.539><c> fair</c><00:17:09.880><c> that</c><00:17:10.059><c> he</c><00:17:10.299><c> got</c><00:17:10.519><c> busted.</c><00:17:12.059><c> Right?</c><00:17:12.400><c> Jeff</c><00:17:12.599><c> is</c><00:17:12.740><c> going</c><00:17:13.000><c> way</c>

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faster.<00:17:15.059><c> You</c><00:17:15.180><c> know,</c><00:17:15.440><c> it's</c><00:17:15.599><c> just,</c><00:17:16.059><c> I</c><00:17:16.240><c> mean,</c>

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because<00:17:16.920><c> someone</c><00:17:17.220><c> else</c><00:17:17.480><c> is</c><00:17:17.720><c> doing</c><00:17:17.859><c> something</c><00:17:18.339><c> more</c><00:17:19.180><c> sinful</c>

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you<00:17:27.839><c> to</c><00:17:27.980><c> get</c><00:17:28.079><c> in</c><00:17:28.279><c> trouble.</c><00:17:29.160><c> Right?</c><00:17:30.759><c> Is</c>

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this<00:17:31.039><c> principle</c><00:17:31.400><c> right?</c><00:17:33.519><c> No.</c><00:17:35.880><c> I</c><00:17:35.940><c> mean,</c><00:17:36.779><c> every</c><00:17:36.980><c> day</c><00:17:37.180><c> people</c><00:17:37.440><c> shoot</c><00:17:38.079><c> people</c><00:17:38.500><c> and</c><00:17:38.839><c> kill</c><00:17:39.200><c> them.</c><00:17:40.380><c> So</c><00:17:40.660><c> therefore</c>

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it's<00:17:41.640><c> not</c><00:17:41.720><c> wrong</c><00:17:42.059><c> for</c><00:17:42.240><c> me</c><00:17:42.380><c> to</c><00:17:42.519><c> lie.</c><00:17:44.019><c> I</c><00:17:44.160><c> mean,</c><00:17:44.359><c> hey,</c><00:17:44.740><c> I</c><00:17:44.839><c> didn't</c><00:17:45.019><c> kill</c><00:17:45.259><c> anybody.</c><00:17:46.400><c> I</c>

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just<00:17:46.880><c> lied.</c><00:17:48.680><c> Right?</c>

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different<00:17:59.240><c> sins</c><00:17:59.619><c> differently.</c><00:18:01.200><c> And</c><00:18:01.200><c> the</c><00:18:01.400><c> principle</c><00:18:01.859><c> that</c><00:18:02.099><c> I</c>

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doesn't<00:18:07.779><c> matter</c><00:18:08.240><c> if</c><00:18:09.000><c> this</c><00:18:09.259><c> sin</c><00:18:09.380><c> or</c><00:18:09.539><c> that</c><00:18:09.900><c> sin</c><00:18:10.039><c> is.</c><00:18:11.279><c> Right.</c>

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just<00:18:25.019><c> love</c><00:18:25.240><c> and</c><00:18:25.460><c> respect.</c>

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Right?<00:18:36.559><c> And</c><00:18:36.700><c> I'm</c><00:18:36.940><c> young</c><00:18:37.180><c> and</c><00:18:37.319><c> I'm</c><00:18:37.460><c> 19</c><00:18:37.799><c> and</c>

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I'm<00:18:37.960><c> full</c><00:18:38.259><c> of</c><00:18:38.480><c> righteousness</c><00:18:38.940><c> and</c><00:18:39.519><c> I</c><00:18:39.700><c> turned</c><00:18:39.960><c> to</c><00:18:40.119><c> brother</c><00:18:40.299><c> Bruce</c><00:18:40.559><c> and</c>

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I<00:18:40.880><c> said,</c><00:18:42.140><c> God</c><00:18:42.460><c> must</c><00:18:42.779><c> be</c><00:18:43.279><c> disgusted</c>

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have<00:18:50.779><c> you</c><00:18:50.839><c> ever</c><00:18:51.019><c> gossiped?</c><00:18:55.519><c> He</c><00:18:56.039><c> said,</c>

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God<00:18:56.480><c> is</c><00:18:56.680><c> just</c><00:18:56.940><c> as</c><00:18:57.200><c> disgusted</c><00:18:57.519><c> at</c><00:18:57.700><c> a</c><00:18:57.819><c> person</c><00:18:58.019><c> who</c><00:18:58.279><c> gossips</c><00:18:59.059><c> and</c>

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a<00:19:00.220><c> person</c><00:19:00.400><c> who</c><00:19:00.579><c> tells</c><00:19:00.680><c> little</c><00:19:00.900><c> white</c><00:19:01.099><c> lies</c><00:19:01.779><c> as</c>

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he<00:19:02.680><c> is</c><00:19:02.819><c> at</c><00:19:03.019><c> homosexuals.</c><00:19:04.740><c> And</c><00:19:04.859><c> that</c><00:19:04.940><c> I</c><00:19:05.000><c> think</c><00:19:05.160><c> is</c><00:19:05.339><c> the</c><00:19:05.880><c> real</c><00:19:06.140><c> issue</c><00:19:06.500><c> of</c>

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what<00:19:06.799><c> John's</c><00:19:07.200><c> got</c><00:19:07.339><c> going</c><00:19:07.579><c> on</c>

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here<00:19:08.200><c> is</c><00:19:08.740><c> he</c><00:19:09.140><c> doesn't</c><00:19:09.380><c> want</c><00:19:09.579><c> to</c><00:19:09.799><c> accept</c><00:19:09.980><c> the</c><00:19:10.220><c> fact</c><00:19:10.460><c> that</c><00:19:10.940><c> sneaking</c><00:19:11.220><c> out</c>

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of<00:19:11.579><c> campus</c><00:19:11.880><c> and</c><00:19:12.279><c> sneaking</c><00:19:12.519><c> off</c>

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breaking<00:19:15.220><c> two</c><00:19:15.500><c> laws</c><00:19:15.740><c> already.</c><00:19:16.119><c> So</c><00:19:16.259><c> he</c><00:19:16.339><c> didn't</c>

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break<00:19:16.779><c> the</c><00:19:17.039><c> third.</c><00:19:18.400><c> But</c><00:19:18.579><c> nonetheless,</c><00:19:18.980><c> he's</c><00:19:19.220><c> still</c><00:19:19.440><c> guilty.</c>

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He's<00:19:20.079><c> still</c><00:19:20.240><c> responsible.</c><00:19:21.619><c> He</c><00:19:21.740><c> needs</c><00:19:21.960><c> to</c>

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accept<00:19:23.099><c> responsibility</c><00:19:24.119><c> for</c><00:19:24.460><c> that.</c><00:19:26.640><c> Okay.</c><00:19:26.940><c> I'm</c><00:19:27.079><c> going</c><00:19:27.140><c> to</c>

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move<00:19:27.299><c> on.</c><00:19:30.160><c> Oh,</c><00:19:30.460><c> here's</c><00:19:30.740><c> one.</c><00:19:31.759><c> Jane</c><00:19:32.099><c> really</c>

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loves<00:19:32.579><c> Bill.</c><00:19:34.960><c> And</c><00:19:34.960><c> Jeff</c><00:19:35.359><c> has</c><00:19:35.579><c> a</c><00:19:35.660><c> few</c><00:19:35.880><c> typos</c><00:19:36.200><c> on</c><00:19:36.339><c> this</c><00:19:36.519><c> page,</c><00:19:36.779><c> so</c>

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let's<00:19:37.539><c> be</c><00:19:37.980><c> forgiving.</c><00:19:39.740><c> Jane</c><00:19:39.880><c> really</c><00:19:40.099><c> loves</c>

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Bill.<00:19:40.700><c> No</c><00:19:40.900><c> one</c><00:19:41.059><c> else</c><00:19:41.279><c> can</c><00:19:41.539><c> even</c><00:19:41.859><c> comprehend</c><00:19:42.539><c> how</c><00:19:42.880><c> much</c><00:19:43.079><c> Jane</c><00:19:43.259><c> loves</c><00:19:43.519><c> Bill.</c><00:19:44.420><c> As</c><00:19:44.579><c> a</c>

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matter<00:19:44.859><c> of</c><00:19:45.019><c> fact,</c>

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Jane<00:19:49.480><c> loves</c><00:19:49.940><c> Bill.</c><00:19:52.380><c> Everyone</c><00:19:52.880><c> hates</c>

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Bill.<00:19:55.380><c> Jane's</c><00:19:55.900><c> parents</c><00:19:56.220><c> and</c><00:19:56.740><c> every</c><00:19:56.980><c> single</c><00:19:57.359><c> friend</c><00:19:57.759><c> she</c><00:19:58.000><c> ever</c>

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thought<00:19:58.400><c> she</c><00:19:58.660><c> had</c><00:19:59.039><c> have</c><00:19:59.500><c> told</c><00:19:59.720><c> her</c><00:19:59.880><c> that</c>

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Bill<00:20:00.259><c> is</c><00:20:00.440><c> no</c><00:20:00.819><c> good</c><00:20:01.119><c> for</c><00:20:01.299><c> her.</c><00:20:02.680><c> Jane</c><00:20:02.759><c> loves</c><00:20:03.059><c> her</c><00:20:03.299><c> parents</c><00:20:03.579><c> and</c>

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her<00:20:03.900><c> friends,</c><00:20:04.660><c> but</c><00:20:04.779><c> they</c><00:20:05.019><c> just</c><00:20:05.279><c> don't</c><00:20:05.500><c> understand</c>

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get<00:20:11.119><c> married.</c><00:20:12.319><c> They're</c>

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both<00:20:12.880><c> Christodophians.</c><00:20:14.279><c> Jane</c><00:20:14.460><c> was</c><00:20:14.660><c> baptized</c><00:20:15.079><c> two</c><00:20:15.319><c> years</c><00:20:15.559><c> ago,</c><00:20:15.960><c> and</c>

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did.<00:20:17.960><c> And</c><00:20:18.099><c> that's</c><00:20:18.220><c> just</c><00:20:18.400><c> another</c><00:20:18.579><c> testament</c><00:20:19.019><c> to</c><00:20:19.220><c> how</c><00:20:19.400><c> much</c><00:20:19.579><c> he</c>

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loves<00:20:20.299><c> her.</c><00:20:21.880><c> Jane</c><00:20:22.119><c> and</c><00:20:22.259><c> Bill</c><00:20:22.420><c> started</c>

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dating<00:20:23.019><c> when</c><00:20:23.160><c> she</c><00:20:23.319><c> was</c><00:20:23.480><c> 13.</c><00:20:24.440><c> She's</c><00:20:24.720><c> 19</c><00:20:25.140><c> now,</c><00:20:25.660><c> and</c><00:20:25.700><c> Bill</c><00:20:26.019><c> is</c><00:20:26.220><c> 20.</c>

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everyone<00:20:29.500><c> thought</c><00:20:29.720><c> it</c><00:20:29.759><c> was</c><00:20:29.960><c> great.</c><00:20:31.119><c> Neither</c><00:20:31.279><c> one</c><00:20:31.480><c> had</c><00:20:31.640><c> ever</c><00:20:31.859><c> had</c><00:20:32.039><c> a</c>

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boyfriend<00:20:32.420><c> or</c><00:20:32.519><c> girlfriend</c><00:20:32.900><c> before,</c>

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and<00:20:34.079><c> everyone</c><00:20:34.299><c> thought</c><00:20:34.559><c> that</c><00:20:34.680><c> they</c><00:20:34.740><c> were</c><00:20:34.880><c> just</c><00:20:35.220><c> perfect</c><00:20:35.619><c> for</c>

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each<00:20:36.000><c> other.</c><00:20:37.059><c> Over</c><00:20:37.259><c> the</c><00:20:37.519><c> years,</c><00:20:37.980><c> everyone's</c>

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attitude<00:20:38.559><c> about</c><00:20:38.819><c> Bill</c><00:20:39.000><c> has</c><00:20:39.299><c> changed.</c><00:20:40.599><c> Bill</c><00:20:40.799><c> is</c><00:20:40.980><c> still</c><00:20:41.259><c> the</c>

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same<00:20:41.839><c> loving,</c><00:20:42.420><c> wonderful</c><00:20:42.680><c> person.</c><00:20:43.700><c> He's</c><00:20:43.940><c> into</c>

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music,<00:20:44.740><c> but</c><00:20:44.960><c> that</c><00:20:45.099><c> doesn't</c><00:20:45.339><c> affect</c><00:20:45.660><c> the</c><00:20:45.819><c> kind</c><00:20:45.940><c> of</c><00:20:46.160><c> person</c><00:20:46.380><c> you</c>

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are.<00:20:47.599><c> Bill's</c><00:20:47.920><c> in</c><00:20:48.019><c> a</c><00:20:48.240><c> band.</c><00:20:49.019><c> They</c><00:20:49.220><c> play</c>

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a<00:20:58.319><c> leather</c><00:20:58.579><c> jacket</c><00:20:58.960><c> and</c><00:20:59.180><c> Doc</c><00:20:59.400><c> Martens.</c>

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He's<00:21:00.299><c> got</c><00:21:00.460><c> long</c><00:21:00.839><c> hair</c><00:21:01.079><c> and</c><00:21:01.180><c> an</c><00:21:01.339><c> earring.</c><00:21:02.240><c> But</c><00:21:02.380><c> the</c><00:21:02.619><c> clothes</c><00:21:02.839><c> a</c>

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person<00:21:03.319><c> wears</c><00:21:03.660><c> or</c><00:21:03.819><c> the</c><00:21:03.920><c> way</c><00:21:04.099><c> he</c><00:21:04.339><c> looks</c>

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shouldn't<00:21:05.359><c> affect</c><00:21:05.700><c> the</c><00:21:05.839><c> way</c><00:21:06.140><c> people</c><00:21:06.359><c> think</c><00:21:06.680><c> about</c><00:21:06.960><c> him.</c><00:21:08.119><c> Bill</c>

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comes<00:21:08.599><c> to</c><00:21:08.740><c> meetings</c><00:21:08.920><c> every</c><00:21:09.200><c> once</c><00:21:09.400><c> in</c>

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parents<00:21:13.240><c> say</c><00:21:13.460><c> that</c><00:21:13.579><c> he's</c><00:21:13.799><c> falling</c><00:21:14.160><c> away.</c>

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What<00:21:15.619><c> do</c><00:21:15.779><c> they</c><00:21:15.920><c> know?</c><00:21:16.539><c> They</c><00:21:16.740><c> never</c><00:21:16.900><c> even</c><00:21:17.160><c> talk</c><00:21:17.319><c> to</c><00:21:17.460><c> him</c><00:21:17.599><c> either.</c><00:21:19.200><c> Jane</c>

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knows<00:21:19.640><c> Bill</c><00:21:19.859><c> better</c><00:21:20.059><c> than</c><00:21:20.240><c> anyone</c>

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else.<00:21:21.539><c> She</c><00:21:21.720><c> can</c><00:21:21.920><c> tell</c><00:21:22.180><c> that</c><00:21:22.339><c> he</c><00:21:22.440><c> loves</c><00:21:22.680><c> her</c><00:21:23.039><c> and</c><00:21:23.460><c> that</c><00:21:23.539><c> he</c><00:21:23.640><c> will</c>

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eventually<00:21:24.079><c> start</c><00:21:24.359><c> coming</c><00:21:24.539><c> back</c><00:21:24.779><c> to</c><00:21:24.940><c> meeting.</c>

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She<00:21:26.220><c> knows</c><00:21:26.559><c> that</c><00:21:26.720><c> he'll</c><00:21:26.880><c> make</c><00:21:27.000><c> a</c><00:21:27.140><c> good</c><00:21:27.319><c> husband.</c><00:21:28.519><c> Serving</c><00:21:28.700><c> God</c>

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is<00:21:29.099><c> important</c><00:21:29.500><c> to</c><00:21:29.799><c> Jane.</c><00:21:30.420><c> She</c><00:21:30.539><c> wants</c>

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to<00:21:30.819><c> be</c><00:21:30.940><c> a</c><00:21:31.079><c> good</c><00:21:31.259><c> sister,</c><00:21:32.099><c> a</c><00:21:32.279><c> good</c><00:21:32.500><c> wife,</c><00:21:32.839><c> and</c><00:21:33.000><c> a</c><00:21:33.079><c> good</c><00:21:33.259><c> mother.</c>

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What<00:21:34.579><c> does</c><00:21:34.740><c> it</c><00:21:34.900><c> matter</c><00:21:35.059><c> what</c><00:21:35.220><c> everyone</c>

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else<00:21:35.680><c> thinks</c><00:21:35.880><c> about</c><00:21:36.180><c> Bill?</c><00:21:36.940><c> They</c><00:21:37.240><c> don't</c><00:21:37.359><c> know</c><00:21:37.480><c> his</c><00:21:37.740><c> insides</c>

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like<00:21:38.400><c> Jane</c><00:21:38.640><c> does.</c><00:21:40.160><c> Jane</c><00:21:40.339><c> and</c><00:21:40.440><c> you</c><00:21:40.559><c> are</c><00:21:40.720><c> talking,</c>

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and<00:21:41.220><c> she</c><00:21:41.460><c> says,</c><00:21:42.140><c> it's</c><00:21:42.279><c> too</c><00:21:42.500><c> bad</c><00:21:42.619><c> that</c><00:21:42.819><c> Mom</c><00:21:42.940><c> and</c><00:21:43.099><c> Dad</c><00:21:43.279><c> can't</c><00:21:43.559><c> see</c>

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Bill<00:21:43.940><c> the</c><00:21:44.079><c> way</c><00:21:44.180><c> I</c><00:21:44.400><c> do.</c><00:21:44.980><c> It's</c><00:21:45.380><c> probably</c>

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going<00:21:45.700><c> to</c><00:21:45.759><c> hurt</c><00:21:46.019><c> them.</c><00:21:46.880><c> But</c><00:21:47.019><c> I</c><00:21:47.039><c> think</c><00:21:47.180><c> I'm</c><00:21:47.279><c> going</c><00:21:47.380><c> to</c><00:21:47.460><c> go</c><00:21:47.619><c> ahead</c>

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and<00:21:47.960><c> marry</c><00:21:48.200><c> him</c><00:21:48.380><c> anyways.</c><00:21:50.980><c> What</c><00:21:51.119><c> do</c>

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you<00:21:51.339><c> say,</c><00:21:53.440><c> green</c><00:21:53.440><c> jeans?</c><00:21:55.960><c> Who's</c><00:21:56.400><c> green?</c><00:21:58.039><c> Who's</c><00:21:58.279><c> the</c><00:21:58.740><c> guy</c><00:21:58.880><c> who's</c><00:21:59.039><c> going</c><00:21:59.140><c> to</c>

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discuss<00:21:59.420><c> for</c><00:21:59.619><c> us?</c><00:22:00.099><c> You</c><00:22:00.220><c> are?</c>

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All<00:22:01.400><c> right.</c><00:22:02.660><c> So</c><00:22:02.819><c> we're</c><00:22:03.019><c> talking</c><00:22:03.160><c> here</c><00:22:03.339><c> about</c><00:22:03.500><c> this</c><00:22:03.740><c> one</c><00:22:03.980><c> principle</c><00:22:04.480><c> of</c><00:22:05.319><c> being</c><00:22:05.660><c> dedicated</c><00:22:06.220><c> to</c><00:22:06.500><c> truth.</c>

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What<00:22:06.900><c> does</c><00:22:07.519><c> the</c><00:22:07.559><c> idea</c><00:22:07.680><c> of</c><00:22:07.740><c> being</c><00:22:07.960><c> dedicated</c><00:22:08.420><c> to</c><00:22:08.640><c> truth</c><00:22:08.819><c> mean?</c>

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Dedicated<00:22:11.299><c> to</c><00:22:11.380><c> truth?</c><00:22:12.200><c> Yes.</c><00:22:13.259><c> It's</c><00:22:13.380><c> like</c><00:22:13.500><c> being</c>

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honest<00:22:14.079><c> to</c><00:22:14.319><c> yourself</c><00:22:14.660><c> and</c><00:22:14.940><c> seeing</c><00:22:15.240><c> the</c><00:22:15.440><c> world</c><00:22:15.720><c> the</c><00:22:15.880><c> way</c><00:22:15.980><c> it</c>

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really<00:22:16.380><c> is,</c><00:22:16.740><c> not</c><00:22:16.819><c> like</c><00:22:17.039><c> the</c><00:22:17.099><c> way</c><00:22:17.279><c> you</c><00:22:17.420><c> want</c>

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it<00:22:17.779><c> to</c><00:22:17.880><c> be.</c><00:22:19.039><c> That's</c><00:22:19.559><c> perfect.</c><00:22:20.759><c> That's</c><00:22:21.079><c> perfect.</c><00:22:22.079><c> Being</c><00:22:22.339><c> honest</c><00:22:22.640><c> with</c>

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yourself<00:22:23.119><c> and</c><00:22:23.319><c> seeing</c><00:22:23.579><c> the</c>

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world<00:22:23.920><c> the</c><00:22:24.079><c> way</c><00:22:24.160><c> it</c><00:22:24.400><c> really</c><00:22:24.740><c> is,</c><00:22:25.619><c> not</c><00:22:25.799><c> the</c><00:22:25.900><c> way</c><00:22:26.039><c> you</c><00:22:26.140><c> just</c><00:22:26.460><c> want</c>

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it<00:22:26.740><c> to</c><00:22:26.859><c> be.</c><00:22:27.519><c> What's</c><00:22:27.920><c> the</c><00:22:28.059><c> actual</c><00:22:28.500><c> circumstances</c>

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here<00:22:29.359><c> in</c><00:22:29.559><c> Jane's</c><00:22:29.859><c> life?</c><00:22:32.059><c> Bill's</c><00:22:32.420><c> a</c><00:22:32.599><c> loser.</c><00:22:34.839><c> Toss</c><00:22:35.099><c> the</c><00:22:35.380><c> bum.</c><00:22:37.660><c> Jane,</c><00:22:38.319><c> she's</c><00:22:38.819><c> never</c><00:22:39.000><c> had</c><00:22:39.140><c> a</c><00:22:39.240><c> boyfriend</c>

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before<00:22:39.640><c> in</c><00:22:39.740><c> her</c><00:22:39.900><c> life.</c><00:22:41.460><c> This</c><00:22:41.519><c> is</c><00:22:41.680><c> the</c><00:22:41.740><c> first</c><00:22:41.940><c> boyfriend</c><00:22:42.220><c> she's</c>

00:22:42.460 --> 00:22:44.880
ever<00:22:42.720><c> had.</c><00:22:43.519><c> She</c><00:22:43.640><c> was</c><00:22:43.900><c> 13</c><00:22:44.359><c> years</c><00:22:44.660><c> old</c><00:22:44.779><c> when</c>

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she<00:22:45.019><c> started</c><00:22:45.180><c> going</c><00:22:45.319><c> out</c><00:22:45.539><c> with</c><00:22:45.660><c> him.</c><00:22:47.819><c> Well,</c><00:22:48.200><c> people</c><00:22:48.480><c> can</c><00:22:48.859><c> change</c><00:22:49.700><c> between</c><00:22:50.220><c> the</c>

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ages<00:22:50.460><c> of</c><00:22:50.720><c> 13</c><00:22:51.339><c> and</c><00:22:51.980><c> 19.</c>

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I'm<00:22:54.920><c> not</c><00:22:55.180><c> the</c><00:22:55.339><c> same</c><00:22:55.539><c> person</c><00:22:55.819><c> I</c><00:22:56.059><c> was</c><00:22:56.319><c> when</c><00:22:56.460><c> I</c><00:22:56.900><c> was</c><00:22:57.160><c> six</c><00:22:57.440><c> years</c><00:22:57.779><c> ago,</c><00:22:58.880><c> and</c><00:22:59.039><c> I</c>

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surely<00:22:59.519><c> changed</c><00:22:59.880><c> a</c><00:23:00.039><c> lot</c><00:23:00.180><c> between</c>

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13<00:23:01.000><c> and</c><00:23:01.099><c> 19.</c><00:23:02.160><c> When</c><00:23:02.299><c> I</c><00:23:02.299><c> was</c><00:23:02.420><c> 13,</c><00:23:02.720><c> the</c><00:23:02.720><c> most</c><00:23:02.960><c> important</c><00:23:03.279><c> thing</c><00:23:03.440><c> in</c>

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my<00:23:03.700><c> life</c><00:23:03.819><c> was</c><00:23:04.000><c> wrestling,</c><00:23:04.740><c> and</c><00:23:04.940><c> I</c><00:23:04.980><c> wanted</c>

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to<00:23:05.119><c> be</c><00:23:05.240><c> in</c><00:23:05.339><c> the</c><00:23:05.480><c> Olympics.</c><00:23:07.359><c> When</c><00:23:07.480><c> I</c><00:23:07.539><c> was</c><00:23:07.660><c> 19,</c><00:23:08.099><c> the</c><00:23:08.200><c> most</c><00:23:08.400><c> important</c><00:23:08.660><c> thing</c>

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in<00:23:08.859><c> my</c><00:23:09.019><c> life</c><00:23:09.140><c> was</c><00:23:09.299><c> serving</c>

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God<00:23:09.799><c> and</c><00:23:09.900><c> I</c><00:23:10.000><c> wanted</c><00:23:10.079><c> to</c><00:23:10.160><c> be</c><00:23:10.279><c> married</c><00:23:10.400><c> to</c><00:23:10.599><c> Kelly.</c><00:23:12.319><c> So,</c><00:23:13.599><c> you</c>

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know,<00:23:14.339><c> completely</c><00:23:14.599><c> different</c><00:23:15.200><c> person,</c><00:23:15.859><c> completely</c>

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different<00:23:17.079><c> focus.</c><00:23:18.680><c> Well,</c><00:23:19.359><c> Jane</c><00:23:19.799><c> put</c><00:23:20.839><c> on</c><00:23:21.039><c> these</c><00:23:21.299><c> glasses</c><00:23:22.000><c> of</c>

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love,<00:23:24.240><c> love,</c><00:23:25.259><c> for</c><00:23:25.440><c> Bill</c><00:23:25.799><c> at</c><00:23:26.519><c> 13,</c><00:23:27.680><c> and</c><00:23:28.220><c> for</c><00:23:28.400><c> the</c>

00:23:28.579 --> 00:23:31.339
past<00:23:28.799><c> six</c><00:23:29.099><c> years</c><00:23:29.299><c> she's</c><00:23:29.480><c> been</c><00:23:29.619><c> looking</c><00:23:29.839><c> at</c><00:23:30.119><c> everything</c><00:23:30.599><c> through</c><00:23:31.119><c> these</c>

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glasses.<00:23:32.819><c> Bill</c><00:23:33.019><c> is</c><00:23:33.180><c> just</c><00:23:33.380><c> the</c><00:23:33.460><c> most</c>

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wonderful<00:23:34.220><c> thing.</c><00:23:35.619><c> If</c><00:23:35.660><c> Bill</c><00:23:35.900><c> spits</c><00:23:36.339><c> in</c><00:23:36.539><c> her</c><00:23:36.700><c> face,</c><00:23:37.400><c> she</c><00:23:37.579><c> says,</c>

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oh,<00:23:38.279><c> thank</c><00:23:38.519><c> you</c><00:23:38.619><c> for</c><00:23:38.759><c> the</c><00:23:38.960><c> water.</c><00:23:40.660><c> Right?</c>

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You<00:23:41.119><c> know,</c><00:23:41.319><c> I</c><00:23:41.319><c> mean,</c><00:23:41.660><c> whatever</c><00:23:42.000><c> Bill</c><00:23:42.299><c> does,</c><00:23:43.259><c> it's</c><00:23:43.599><c> fine</c><00:23:43.960><c> with</c>

00:23:44.279 --> 00:23:46.319
Jane.<00:23:44.980><c> You</c><00:23:44.980><c> know,</c><00:23:45.299><c> Jane,</c><00:23:45.779><c> Bill</c><00:23:46.000><c> can't</c>

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do<00:23:46.480><c> anything</c><00:23:46.759><c> wrong.</c><00:23:47.640><c> Bill</c><00:23:47.759><c> can't</c><00:23:47.980><c> do</c><00:23:48.059><c> anything</c><00:23:48.259><c> wrong.</c><00:23:49.839><c> Now,</c>

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how<00:23:50.099><c> do</c><00:23:50.220><c> you</c><00:23:50.359><c> avoid</c><00:23:50.660><c> this?</c><00:23:50.880><c> How</c><00:23:51.000><c> do</c>

00:23:51.079 --> 00:23:57.839
you<00:23:51.119><c> get</c><00:23:51.259><c> out</c><00:23:51.380><c> of</c><00:23:52.380><c> this</c><00:23:52.380><c> being</c><00:23:53.640><c> dedicated</c><00:23:54.119><c> to</c><00:23:54.380><c> truth?</c><00:23:56.440><c> Say</c><00:23:56.759><c> that</c><00:23:56.920><c> sentence</c><00:23:57.220><c> again.</c><00:23:57.640><c> How</c>

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do<00:23:57.960><c> you</c><00:23:58.000><c> get</c><00:23:58.160><c> out</c>

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of<00:23:58.519><c> this</c><00:23:58.599><c> problem?</c><00:24:00.559><c> Did</c><00:24:00.619><c> we</c><00:24:00.779><c> dedicate</c><00:24:01.039><c> to</c><00:24:01.200><c> truth?</c><00:24:01.440><c> Okay,</c><00:24:01.740><c> good.</c><00:24:01.940><c> Who</c>

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said<00:24:02.259><c> that?</c><00:24:04.359><c> What</c><00:24:04.640><c> she</c><00:24:04.759><c> needs</c>

00:24:04.920 --> 00:24:09.119
to<00:24:05.059><c> do</c><00:24:05.160><c> is</c><00:24:05.319><c> she</c><00:24:05.339><c> needs</c><00:24:05.619><c> to</c><00:24:06.500><c> reassess</c><00:24:07.599><c> where</c><00:24:07.880><c> she's</c><00:24:08.140><c> at.</c><00:24:08.240><c> She</c><00:24:08.339><c> needs</c><00:24:08.579><c> to</c>

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be<00:24:09.460><c> honest,</c><00:24:09.980><c> to</c><00:24:10.420><c> take</c><00:24:10.660><c> in</c><00:24:10.819><c> the</c>

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information<00:24:11.839><c> that's</c><00:24:12.500><c> coming</c><00:24:12.720><c> in</c><00:24:12.859><c> around</c><00:24:13.000><c> her.</c><00:24:13.359><c> What</c><00:24:13.519><c> information</c><00:24:14.000><c> is</c><00:24:14.119><c> she</c>

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getting?<00:24:16.759><c> Her</c><00:24:16.960><c> parents</c><00:24:17.180><c> are</c>

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saying,<00:24:18.259><c> you</c><00:24:18.359><c> know,</c><00:24:18.700><c> honey,</c><00:24:19.579><c> this</c><00:24:19.859><c> Bill</c><00:24:20.119><c> guy,</c><00:24:20.759><c> I</c><00:24:21.440><c> don't</c><00:24:21.759><c> like</c>

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the<00:24:22.160><c> looks</c><00:24:22.339><c> of</c><00:24:22.599><c> him.</c><00:24:23.839><c> Right?</c><00:24:24.480><c> And</c><00:24:24.660><c> what</c>

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are<00:24:24.980><c> Bill's</c><00:24:25.380><c> parents</c><00:24:25.619><c> saying?</c><00:24:27.740><c> What</c><00:24:28.299><c> are</c><00:24:28.539><c> they</c><00:24:28.740><c> saying</c><00:24:29.039><c> to</c><00:24:29.180><c> her?</c><00:24:30.099><c> Yeah,</c><00:24:30.339><c> he's</c><00:24:30.680><c> falling</c><00:24:30.839><c> away.</c><00:24:32.059><c> He</c><00:24:32.180><c> doesn't</c>

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come<00:24:32.640><c> to</c><00:24:32.819><c> meetings</c><00:24:33.200><c> very</c><00:24:33.859><c> much</c><00:24:34.079><c> anymore.</c><00:24:35.680><c> What's</c><00:24:36.099><c> Bill</c><00:24:36.420><c> saying</c><00:24:36.779><c> to</c>

00:24:37.059 --> 00:24:39.079
Jane?<00:24:37.240><c> Here's</c><00:24:37.519><c> the</c><00:24:37.700><c> tricky</c><00:24:38.000><c> one.</c>

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What's<00:24:40.359><c> Bill</c><00:24:40.640><c> saying</c><00:24:40.920><c> to</c><00:24:41.099><c> Jane?</c><00:24:43.539><c> Okay,</c><00:24:44.279><c> that's</c><00:24:44.500><c> what</c><00:24:44.559><c> he's</c>

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saying,<00:24:46.339><c> but</c><00:24:46.480><c> what</c><00:24:46.619><c> are</c><00:24:46.740><c> Bill's</c><00:24:47.180><c> actions</c>

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saying<00:24:48.180><c> to</c><00:24:48.380><c> Jane?</c><00:24:50.539><c> See,</c><00:24:50.799><c> she's</c><00:24:51.079><c> not</c><00:24:51.279><c> seeing</c><00:24:51.539><c> that,</c><00:24:51.940><c> right?</c><00:24:52.779><c> He</c>

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got<00:24:53.220><c> baptized.</c><00:24:54.059><c> Well,</c><00:24:54.240><c> he</c><00:24:54.299><c> got</c><00:24:54.519><c> baptized</c>

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just<00:24:55.019><c> because</c><00:24:55.400><c> you</c><00:24:55.640><c> did.</c><00:24:56.799><c> He</c><00:24:56.900><c> just</c><00:24:57.119><c> wanted</c><00:24:57.279><c> to</c><00:24:57.880><c> prove</c><00:24:58.099><c> to</c><00:24:58.259><c> you</c>

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that<00:24:58.460><c> he</c><00:24:58.640><c> loves</c><00:24:58.880><c> you,</c><00:24:59.460><c> too,</c><00:24:59.819><c> and</c><00:24:59.880><c> he</c><00:25:00.000><c> said,</c>

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well,<00:25:00.279><c> baby,</c><00:25:00.519><c> if</c><00:25:00.579><c> you</c><00:25:00.740><c> don't</c><00:25:00.759><c> get</c><00:25:00.920><c> baptized,</c><00:25:01.259><c> okay,</c><00:25:01.400><c> I'll</c><00:25:01.559><c> do</c>

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it,<00:25:01.960><c> too.</c><00:25:02.339><c> So</c><00:25:02.500><c> he</c><00:25:02.579><c> got</c><00:25:02.759><c> baptized,</c><00:25:03.380><c> too.</c>

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He<00:25:05.680><c> doesn't</c><00:25:05.859><c> come</c><00:25:06.079><c> to</c><00:25:06.259><c> meetings,</c><00:25:07.900><c> right?</c><00:25:08.900><c> He</c><00:25:09.119><c> hangs</c><00:25:09.339><c> out</c><00:25:09.799><c> in</c><00:25:10.140><c> bars</c><00:25:10.539><c> with</c><00:25:11.019><c> a</c>

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lot<00:25:11.359><c> of</c><00:25:12.119><c> drunk</c><00:25:12.400><c> women,</c><00:25:13.799><c> topless</c>

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women,<00:25:15.400><c> plays</c><00:25:15.579><c> music,</c><00:25:16.720><c> and</c><00:25:16.839><c> everyone</c><00:25:16.960><c> knows</c><00:25:17.160><c> about</c><00:25:17.380><c> the</c><00:25:17.660><c> groupies</c><00:25:17.980><c> and</c>

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the<00:25:18.259><c> guys</c><00:25:18.440><c> in</c><00:25:18.579><c> the</c><00:25:18.759><c> band,</c><00:25:19.700><c> right?</c>

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Are<00:25:21.319><c> his</c><00:25:21.539><c> actions</c><00:25:22.000><c> telling</c><00:25:22.299><c> her</c><00:25:23.119><c> that</c><00:25:23.539><c> he</c><00:25:23.619><c> loves</c><00:25:23.900><c> her,</c><00:25:24.519><c> that</c>

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he<00:25:24.720><c> loves</c><00:25:24.920><c> God,</c><00:25:25.779><c> that</c><00:25:25.880><c> he</c><00:25:25.940><c> wants</c><00:25:26.119><c> to</c><00:25:26.240><c> be</c>

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a<00:25:26.480><c> good</c><00:25:26.599><c> husband,</c><00:25:26.920><c> a</c><00:25:27.039><c> good</c><00:25:27.220><c> father?</c><00:25:28.539><c> No.</c><00:25:29.319><c> She's</c><00:25:29.920><c> not</c><00:25:30.019><c> wanting</c>

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to<00:25:30.500><c> see</c><00:25:30.680><c> that,</c><00:25:31.940><c> right?</c><00:25:32.079><c> Because</c><00:25:32.220><c> she's</c>

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in<00:25:33.039><c> love.</c><00:25:33.759><c> She's</c><00:25:34.000><c> never</c><00:25:34.180><c> had</c><00:25:34.319><c> another</c><00:25:34.480><c> boyfriend</c><00:25:34.759><c> before.</c><00:25:35.900><c> She</c><00:25:36.019><c> doesn't</c><00:25:36.259><c> know</c><00:25:36.819><c> how</c><00:25:37.160><c> easy</c><00:25:37.400><c> it</c>

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is<00:25:37.680><c> to</c>

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find<00:25:38.079><c> someone</c><00:25:38.599><c> with</c><00:25:39.200><c> God's</c><00:25:39.680><c> blessing</c><00:25:39.980><c> that</c><00:25:40.660><c> can</c><00:25:41.140><c> make</c><00:25:41.740><c> your</c>

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life<00:25:42.460><c> wonderful.</c><00:25:43.599><c> She's</c><00:25:43.940><c> afraid</c><00:25:44.480><c> to</c>

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make<00:25:44.980><c> that</c><00:25:45.519><c> change.</c><00:25:47.079><c> Well,</c><00:25:47.140><c> if</c><00:25:47.160><c> I</c><00:25:47.460><c> don't,</c><00:25:47.839><c> Bill,</c><00:25:47.940><c> how</c><00:25:48.099><c> am</c><00:25:48.160><c> I</c><00:25:48.220><c> ever</c><00:25:48.359><c> going</c><00:25:48.480><c> to</c>

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find<00:25:49.160><c> anybody</c><00:25:49.559><c> else?</c>

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How<00:25:50.099><c> is</c><00:25:50.440><c> anybody</c><00:25:50.640><c> else</c><00:25:50.799><c> ever</c><00:25:51.000><c> going</c><00:25:51.119><c> to</c><00:25:51.160><c> love</c><00:25:51.359><c> me?</c><00:25:52.700><c> What</c><00:25:52.940><c> complications</c><00:25:53.640><c> could</c>

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possibly<00:25:54.500><c> come</c><00:25:54.740><c> into</c>

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her<00:25:55.140><c> life</c><00:25:55.559><c> if</c><00:25:56.440><c> she's</c><00:25:56.819><c> not</c><00:25:57.119><c> dedicated</c><00:25:57.579><c> to</c><00:25:57.859><c> truth</c><00:25:58.059><c> now?</c><00:26:02.480><c> Daryl.</c>

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Bill's<00:26:08.279><c> like,</c><00:26:08.460><c> hey,</c><00:26:09.000><c> the</c><00:26:09.180><c> band</c><00:26:09.299><c> got</c><00:26:09.460><c> a</c><00:26:09.559><c> good</c>

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idea,<00:26:10.200><c> got</c><00:26:10.339><c> a</c><00:26:10.480><c> good</c><00:26:10.599><c> opportunity</c><00:26:11.099><c> to</c><00:26:11.279><c> move</c><00:26:11.400><c> to</c><00:26:11.500><c> New</c><00:26:11.740><c> York.</c><00:26:12.500><c> Why</c>

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don't<00:26:12.759><c> you</c><00:26:12.900><c> come</c><00:26:13.119><c> with</c><00:26:13.339><c> us,</c><00:26:13.579><c> and</c><00:26:13.960><c> we'll</c>

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live<00:26:14.359><c> in</c><00:26:14.460><c> the</c><00:26:14.619><c> city,</c><00:26:15.440><c> and</c><00:26:15.440><c> we</c><00:26:15.839><c> can</c><00:26:16.160><c> go</c><00:26:17.279><c> to</c><00:26:17.900><c> clubs</c><00:26:18.180><c> all</c><00:26:18.460><c> the</c><00:26:18.660><c> time.</c><00:26:20.240><c> Oh,</c>

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New<00:26:21.539><c> York's</c><00:26:21.759><c> a</c><00:26:21.799><c> bad</c><00:26:21.880><c> example</c>

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because<00:26:22.299><c> there's</c><00:26:22.500><c> actually</c><00:26:22.740><c> Ecclesia</c><00:26:22.980><c> there.</c><00:26:23.779><c> Miami.</c><00:26:24.920><c> We're</c>

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going<00:26:25.259><c> to</c><00:26:25.339><c> go</c><00:26:25.420><c> to</c><00:26:25.559><c> Miami.</c><00:26:26.200><c> There's</c><00:26:26.400><c> no</c><00:26:26.619><c> Ecclesia</c>

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within<00:26:27.480><c> 150</c><00:26:28.119><c> miles,</c><00:26:28.539><c> but</c><00:26:28.700><c> that's</c><00:26:29.000><c> okay.</c><00:26:30.420><c> We'll</c><00:26:30.980><c> make</c><00:26:31.200><c> do,</c><00:26:31.819><c> right?</c><00:26:33.519><c> There</c><00:26:33.660><c> could</c><00:26:33.799><c> be</c>

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all<00:26:34.039><c> kinds</c><00:26:34.220><c> of</c><00:26:34.480><c> complications.</c>

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Would<00:26:35.220><c> it</c><00:26:35.319><c> be</c><00:26:35.500><c> wrong?</c><00:26:38.099><c> Daryl?</c><00:26:39.339><c> Yeah.</c><00:26:40.980><c> I</c><00:26:41.279><c> don't</c><00:26:41.380><c> think</c><00:26:41.420><c> it's</c><00:26:42.720><c> going</c><00:26:42.720><c> to</c>

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make<00:26:44.200><c> any</c><00:26:44.200><c> difference.</c>

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All<00:26:49.480><c> right,</c><00:26:49.640><c> Daryl.</c><00:26:50.519><c> I'm</c><00:26:50.680><c> going</c><00:26:50.720><c> to</c><00:26:50.819><c> put</c><00:26:50.900><c> you</c><00:26:51.019><c> on</c><00:26:51.140><c> the</c><00:26:51.259><c> mat.</c><00:26:51.799><c> Oh,</c><00:26:51.980><c> come</c><00:26:52.099><c> on.</c><00:26:52.160><c> I</c>

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like<00:26:52.319><c> the</c><00:26:52.460><c> deep</c><00:26:52.660><c> voice.</c>

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All<00:26:53.900><c> right,</c><00:26:54.000><c> Daryl.</c><00:26:55.420><c> Is</c><00:26:55.599><c> it</c><00:26:56.680><c> better</c><00:26:56.980><c> for</c><00:26:57.160><c> you</c><00:26:57.299><c> to</c><00:26:57.519><c> do</c><00:26:58.380><c> your</c><00:26:58.880><c> Bible</c><00:26:59.220><c> readings?</c><00:27:00.019><c> It</c>

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would<00:27:00.319><c> be</c><00:27:00.460><c> better</c>

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for<00:27:00.759><c> you</c><00:27:00.839><c> to</c><00:27:01.000><c> read</c><00:27:01.259><c> 10</c><00:27:01.799><c> chapters</c><00:27:02.380><c> a</c><00:27:02.940><c> day</c><00:27:03.099><c> or</c><00:27:03.259><c> one</c><00:27:03.519><c> chapter</c><00:27:03.859><c> a</c><00:27:04.019><c> day?</c><00:27:05.359><c> Which</c><00:27:05.500><c> would</c><00:27:05.619><c> be</c>

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most<00:27:05.960><c> beneficial</c><00:27:06.420><c> to</c><00:27:06.579><c> you</c>

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spiritually?<00:27:08.839><c> Oh,</c><00:27:09.259><c> come</c><00:27:09.599><c> on.</c><00:27:11.680><c> Two.</c><00:27:12.940><c> How</c><00:27:13.339><c> about</c><00:27:13.539><c> two?</c><00:27:14.200><c> Two.</c>

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Two.<00:27:14.200><c> Two.</c><00:27:14.200><c> Two.</c><00:27:14.200><c> Two.</c><00:27:14.200><c> Two.</c><00:27:14.200><c> Two.</c><00:27:14.200><c> Two.</c><00:27:14.200><c> Two.</c>

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It<00:27:14.980><c> would</c><00:27:15.140><c> be</c><00:27:15.140><c> better</c><00:27:15.240><c> to</c><00:27:15.400><c> read</c><00:27:15.480><c> two.</c><00:27:16.099><c> Right.</c><00:27:16.980><c> There's</c><00:27:17.460><c> things</c>

00:27:17.759 --> 00:27:21.339
you<00:27:17.920><c> can</c><00:27:18.140><c> do</c><00:27:18.720><c> that</c><00:27:19.240><c> are</c><00:27:19.519><c> better</c><00:27:20.200><c> and</c><00:27:21.059><c> things</c>

00:27:21.339 --> 00:27:25.980
you<00:27:21.480><c> can</c><00:27:21.660><c> do</c><00:27:21.799><c> that</c><00:27:22.539><c> are</c><00:27:23.339><c> less</c><00:27:23.700><c> than</c><00:27:23.940><c> better.</c><00:27:25.359><c> Does</c><00:27:25.519><c> that</c><00:27:25.759><c> make</c>

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them<00:27:26.279><c> wrong?</c><00:27:28.079><c> Right?</c><00:27:29.319><c> If</c><00:27:29.799><c> I'm</c><00:27:29.960><c> really</c>

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going<00:27:30.279><c> to</c><00:27:30.299><c> be</c><00:27:30.480><c> honest</c><00:27:30.619><c> with</c><00:27:30.799><c> you,</c><00:27:31.240><c> I'm</c><00:27:31.380><c> really</c><00:27:31.619><c> going</c><00:27:31.759><c> to</c><00:27:31.779><c> tell</c>

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you<00:27:32.519><c> that</c><00:27:32.779><c> I</c><00:27:32.859><c> don't</c><00:27:33.000><c> think</c><00:27:33.099><c> it</c><00:27:33.220><c> would</c><00:27:33.380><c> be</c>

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a<00:27:33.980><c> sin</c><00:27:34.440><c> for</c><00:27:35.720><c> her</c><00:27:35.839><c> to</c><00:27:36.019><c> marry</c><00:27:36.240><c> him.</c><00:27:38.779><c> It</c><00:27:39.259><c> would</c><00:27:39.440><c> not</c><00:27:39.619><c> be</c><00:27:39.799><c> a</c><00:27:40.099><c> sin</c><00:27:40.380><c> for</c>

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her<00:27:40.700><c> to</c><00:27:40.900><c> marry</c><00:27:41.059><c> him.</c><00:27:43.079><c> Now,</c><00:27:44.099><c> I'm</c><00:27:44.200><c> going</c>

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to<00:27:44.359><c> tell</c><00:27:44.359><c> you,</c><00:27:44.460><c> I</c><00:27:44.880><c> think</c><00:27:45.059><c> it</c><00:27:45.140><c> would</c><00:27:45.339><c> totally</c><00:27:45.859><c> mess</c><00:27:46.299><c> up</c><00:27:46.480><c> her</c><00:27:46.700><c> life.</c><00:27:48.700><c> I</c>

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think<00:27:48.940><c> she</c><00:27:49.099><c> would</c><00:27:49.339><c> pay</c><00:27:50.160><c> dearly</c>

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for<00:27:51.940><c> making</c><00:27:52.180><c> that</c><00:27:52.440><c> decision.</c><00:27:53.740><c> That</c><00:27:53.920><c> she</c><00:27:54.039><c> would</c><00:27:54.279><c> spend</c><00:27:54.579><c> night</c>

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after<00:27:55.740><c> night</c><00:27:56.299><c> crying.</c><00:27:57.859><c> That</c><00:27:58.039><c> she</c><00:27:58.160><c> would</c><00:27:58.299><c> be</c>

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on<00:27:58.539><c> her</c><00:27:58.940><c> knees</c><00:27:59.420><c> in</c><00:27:59.740><c> prayer</c><00:28:00.380><c> asking</c><00:28:01.319><c> God</c><00:28:01.619><c> to</c><00:28:01.940><c> help</c><00:28:02.140><c> her</c><00:28:02.339><c> out</c><00:28:02.480><c> of</c>

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this<00:28:02.920><c> terrible</c><00:28:03.480><c> situation.</c><00:28:05.339><c> And</c><00:28:05.339><c> oh,</c>

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and<00:28:05.940><c> it</c><00:28:05.960><c> would</c><00:28:06.180><c> be,</c><00:28:06.480><c> I</c><00:28:06.559><c> mean,</c><00:28:07.079><c> she</c><00:28:07.619><c> might</c><00:28:07.819><c> lose</c><00:28:08.079><c> her</c><00:28:08.380><c> faith.</c>

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She<00:28:09.200><c> might</c><00:28:09.400><c> lose</c><00:28:09.680><c> her</c><00:28:09.900><c> eternal</c><00:28:10.220><c> life</c><00:28:11.079><c> over</c>

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that<00:28:11.960><c> decision.</c><00:28:14.059><c> But</c><00:28:14.400><c> the</c><00:28:15.059><c> actual</c><00:28:15.420><c> thing</c><00:28:16.140><c> of</c><00:28:16.440><c> marrying</c><00:28:16.839><c> him,</c>

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I<00:28:17.880><c> mean,</c><00:28:17.880><c> he's</c><00:28:18.140><c> a</c><00:28:18.140><c> baptized</c><00:28:18.559><c> brother,</c><00:28:19.480><c> it</c>

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would<00:28:19.720><c> not</c><00:28:19.880><c> be</c><00:28:20.140><c> a</c><00:28:20.299><c> sin.</c><00:28:21.819><c> And</c><00:28:22.160><c> that's</c><00:28:22.500><c> the</c><00:28:22.839><c> principle</c><00:28:23.460><c> behind</c><00:28:24.259><c> a</c>

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lot<00:28:24.599><c> of</c><00:28:25.599><c> these</c><00:28:26.380><c> things,</c><00:28:27.400><c> these</c><00:28:27.440><c> tools</c>

00:28:27.619 --> 00:28:30.700
we're<00:28:27.819><c> talking</c><00:28:28.160><c> about</c><00:28:28.380><c> today.</c><00:28:29.319><c> It's</c><00:28:29.460><c> not</c><00:28:29.700><c> a</c><00:28:29.940><c> sin.</c><00:28:30.460><c> Remember</c>

00:28:30.700 --> 00:28:32.700
that<00:28:30.859><c> guy</c><00:28:31.039><c> last</c><00:28:31.299><c> night</c><00:28:31.420><c> with</c><00:28:31.579><c> that</c><00:28:32.380><c> stupid</c>

00:28:32.700 --> 00:28:37.660
loan<00:28:32.920><c> on</c><00:28:33.039><c> his</c><00:28:33.259><c> car?</c><00:28:34.160><c> It's</c><00:28:34.400><c> not</c><00:28:34.539><c> a</c><00:28:34.859><c> sin</c><00:28:35.319><c> to</c><00:28:36.539><c> take</c><00:28:36.859><c> out</c><00:28:37.140><c> two</c><00:28:37.440><c> Visa</c>

00:28:37.660 --> 00:28:40.180
cards<00:28:38.160><c> at</c><00:28:38.619><c> 21</c><00:28:39.019><c> percent</c><00:28:39.279><c> interest</c><00:28:39.700><c> and</c>

00:28:40.180 --> 00:28:45.359
buy<00:28:40.359><c> a</c><00:28:40.559><c> $4</c><00:28:40.740><c>,500</c><00:28:41.140><c> stereo.</c><00:28:42.359><c> That's</c><00:28:42.619><c> not</c><00:28:42.779><c> a</c><00:28:43.059><c> sin.</c><00:28:44.380><c> It's</c><00:28:44.940><c> stupid,</c>

00:28:45.460 --> 00:28:48.599
right?<00:28:46.099><c> It's</c><00:28:46.519><c> extremely</c><00:28:47.119><c> dumb.</c><00:28:48.299><c> And</c><00:28:48.480><c> you</c>

00:28:48.599 --> 00:28:52.759
are<00:28:48.720><c> going</c><00:28:48.839><c> to</c><00:28:49.019><c> pay</c><00:28:49.259><c> the</c><00:28:49.559><c> price</c><00:28:50.039><c> in</c><00:28:50.880><c> way</c><00:28:51.200><c> more</c><00:28:51.980><c> ways</c><00:28:52.319><c> than</c><00:28:52.480><c> just</c>

00:28:52.759 --> 00:28:54.859
the<00:28:52.940><c> money.</c><00:28:54.059><c> You're</c><00:28:54.299><c> going</c><00:28:54.380><c> to</c><00:28:54.500><c> pay</c><00:28:54.640><c> the</c>

00:28:54.859 --> 00:28:58.220
price<00:28:55.019><c> for</c><00:28:55.220><c> that.</c><00:28:56.500><c> There</c><00:28:56.680><c> are</c><00:28:56.940><c> lots</c><00:28:57.279><c> of</c><00:28:57.519><c> things</c><00:28:57.740><c> you're</c><00:28:58.119><c> going</c>

00:28:58.220 --> 00:29:02.059
to<00:28:58.380><c> do</c><00:28:58.680><c> in</c><00:28:58.920><c> your</c><00:28:59.140><c> life</c><00:28:59.579><c> that</c><00:29:00.460><c> are</c><00:29:01.160><c> stupid,</c>

00:29:02.519 --> 00:29:08.680
that<00:29:02.599><c> are</c><00:29:02.859><c> really</c><00:29:03.160><c> dumb,</c><00:29:03.940><c> that</c><00:29:04.079><c> are</c><00:29:04.180><c> going</c><00:29:04.339><c> to</c><00:29:04.559><c> complicate</c><00:29:04.960><c> your</c><00:29:05.240><c> life</c><00:29:05.819><c> beyond</c><00:29:06.440><c> belief.</c><00:29:07.799><c> You're</c><00:29:08.240><c> going</c><00:29:08.400><c> to</c>

00:29:08.680 --> 00:29:11.099
scream<00:29:09.140><c> and</c><00:29:09.180><c> you're</c><00:29:09.259><c> going</c><00:29:09.440><c> to</c><00:29:09.519><c> say,</c><00:29:10.220><c> oh,</c><00:29:10.339><c> how</c><00:29:10.579><c> could</c><00:29:10.700><c> my</c><00:29:10.920><c> life</c>

00:29:11.099 --> 00:29:13.119
get<00:29:11.339><c> so</c><00:29:11.759><c> complicated?</c><00:29:12.359><c> How</c><00:29:12.539><c> could</c><00:29:12.720><c> I</c><00:29:13.000><c> get</c>

00:29:13.119 --> 00:29:16.299
to<00:29:13.339><c> this</c><00:29:13.599><c> point?</c><00:29:14.359><c> What</c><00:29:14.880><c> is</c><00:29:15.140><c> going</c><00:29:15.440><c> on?</c><00:29:15.619><c> This</c><00:29:15.759><c> isn't</c><00:29:16.000><c> right.</c>

00:29:16.299 --> 00:29:20.900
This<00:29:16.440><c> isn't</c><00:29:16.720><c> fair.</c><00:29:19.000><c> But</c><00:29:19.380><c> the</c><00:29:20.359><c> decision</c><00:29:20.660><c> you</c>

00:29:20.900 --> 00:29:26.559
made<00:29:21.319><c> itself</c><00:29:22.000><c> wasn't</c><00:29:22.720><c> necessarily</c><00:29:23.880><c> a</c><00:29:24.359><c> sin.</c><00:29:25.819><c> Was</c><00:29:25.960><c> it</c><00:29:26.119><c> a</c><00:29:26.339><c> sin</c>

00:29:26.559 --> 00:29:32.900
for<00:29:27.720><c> Abraham's</c><00:29:31.380><c> brother</c><00:29:31.720><c> Lot,</c><00:29:32.420><c> his</c><00:29:32.640><c> nephew</c>

00:29:32.900 --> 00:29:36.220
Lot?<00:29:33.619><c> Was</c><00:29:33.819><c> it</c><00:29:34.019><c> a</c><00:29:34.119><c> sin</c><00:29:34.259><c> for</c><00:29:34.460><c> him</c><00:29:34.619><c> to</c><00:29:34.779><c> choose</c><00:29:35.160><c> to</c><00:29:35.500><c> go</c><00:29:35.619><c> this</c><00:29:35.920><c> way</c>

00:29:36.220 --> 00:29:38.920
versus<00:29:36.539><c> this</c><00:29:36.859><c> way?</c><00:29:37.740><c> Abraham</c><00:29:38.099><c> says,</c><00:29:38.660><c> see,</c>

00:29:39.000 --> 00:29:42.380
I<00:29:39.079><c> lay</c><00:29:39.180><c> before</c><00:29:39.500><c> you.</c><00:29:40.160><c> You</c><00:29:40.640><c> can</c><00:29:40.900><c> choose</c><00:29:41.119><c> the</c><00:29:41.559><c> right</c><00:29:41.960><c> and</c><00:29:42.240><c> I'll</c>

00:29:42.380 --> 00:29:43.779
go<00:29:42.519><c> to</c><00:29:42.660><c> the</c><00:29:42.759><c> left.</c><00:29:42.900><c> You</c><00:29:43.079><c> choose</c><00:29:43.279><c> the</c><00:29:43.440><c> left.</c>

00:29:43.839 --> 00:29:48.279
I'll<00:29:44.079><c> go</c><00:29:44.220><c> to</c><00:29:44.339><c> the</c><00:29:44.460><c> right.</c><00:29:45.299><c> Lot</c><00:29:45.500><c> looked</c><00:29:45.700><c> down.</c><00:29:46.519><c> The</c><00:29:46.759><c> right</c><00:29:47.000><c> looked</c><00:29:47.400><c> well</c>

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-watered<00:29:48.799><c> and</c><00:29:49.019><c> green.</c><00:29:49.460><c> I'll</c>

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choose<00:29:49.900><c> the</c><00:29:50.079><c> right.</c><00:29:50.259><c> He</c><00:29:50.359><c> goes</c><00:29:50.559><c> to</c><00:29:50.740><c> the</c><00:29:50.859><c> right.</c><00:29:51.640><c> It</c><00:29:51.759><c> wasn't</c><00:29:52.000><c> a</c>

00:29:52.259 --> 00:29:55.519
sin<00:29:52.880><c> for</c><00:29:53.299><c> Lot</c><00:29:53.500><c> to</c><00:29:53.720><c> decide</c><00:29:53.980><c> to</c><00:29:54.200><c> do</c><00:29:54.380><c> that.</c>

00:29:55.740 --> 00:30:00.119
But<00:29:55.980><c> look</c><00:29:56.180><c> at</c><00:29:56.319><c> the</c><00:29:56.619><c> complications</c><00:29:57.359><c> it</c><00:29:58.039><c> brought</c><00:29:58.160><c> into</c><00:29:58.400><c> his</c><00:29:58.660><c> life.</c><00:29:59.900><c> He</c>

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was<00:30:02.259><c> in</c><00:30:02.279><c> a</c><00:30:02.279><c> terrible</c><00:30:02.279><c> situation.</c>

00:30:02.700 --> 00:30:20.599
He<00:30:02.700><c> was</c><00:30:02.700><c> seeing</c><00:30:03.220><c> his</c><00:30:15.420><c> soul</c><00:30:15.920><c> because</c><00:30:16.400><c> of</c><00:30:16.579><c> the</c><00:30:16.759><c> wickedness</c><00:30:17.240><c> of</c><00:30:17.460><c> Sodom.</c><00:30:18.660><c> That</c><00:30:18.740><c> doesn't</c><00:30:18.940><c> mean</c><00:30:19.140><c> Lot</c><00:30:19.339><c> was</c><00:30:19.579><c> a</c><00:30:19.740><c> sinner.</c>

00:30:21.180 --> 00:30:24.440
Read<00:30:21.319><c> Hebrews</c><00:30:21.579><c> 11.</c><00:30:22.019><c> Lot</c><00:30:22.240><c> is</c><00:30:22.460><c> a</c><00:30:22.740><c> righteous,</c><00:30:23.619><c> faithful</c><00:30:24.019><c> man</c><00:30:24.319><c> who</c>

00:30:24.440 --> 00:30:26.480
will<00:30:24.700><c> be</c><00:30:24.920><c> in</c><00:30:25.039><c> the</c><00:30:25.160><c> kingdom.</c><00:30:25.420><c> It</c><00:30:25.599><c> says</c><00:30:26.039><c> he</c>

00:30:26.480 --> 00:30:28.059
will<00:30:26.619><c> be</c><00:30:26.720><c> in</c><00:30:26.839><c> the</c><00:30:26.920><c> kingdom.</c><00:30:27.119><c> It</c><00:30:27.180><c> doesn't</c><00:30:27.400><c> say</c><00:30:27.640><c> Jeff</c><00:30:27.839><c> will</c><00:30:27.960><c> be</c>

00:30:28.059 --> 00:30:29.660
in<00:30:28.160><c> the</c><00:30:28.259><c> kingdom.</c><00:30:28.740><c> It</c><00:30:28.880><c> says</c><00:30:29.099><c> Lot</c><00:30:29.400><c> will</c><00:30:29.539><c> be</c>

00:30:29.660 --> 00:30:34.859
in<00:30:29.880><c> the</c><00:30:29.880><c> kingdom.</c><00:30:30.619><c> He</c><00:30:30.700><c> lived</c><00:30:30.960><c> in</c><00:30:31.759><c> Sodom</c><00:30:32.259><c> and</c><00:30:32.359><c> Gomorrah</c><00:30:33.819><c> and</c><00:30:34.140><c> it</c>

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tormented<00:30:35.420><c> his</c><00:30:35.759><c> soul.</c><00:30:36.460><c> He</c><00:30:36.680><c> didn't</c><00:30:36.920><c> sleep</c>

00:30:37.220 --> 00:30:40.980
well<00:30:37.599><c> one</c><00:30:38.099><c> single</c><00:30:38.420><c> night</c><00:30:38.859><c> and</c><00:30:39.400><c> in</c><00:30:39.579><c> the</c><00:30:39.740><c> end</c><00:30:39.859><c> he</c><00:30:40.019><c> lost</c><00:30:40.220><c> his</c><00:30:40.519><c> wife</c>

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and<00:30:41.799><c> he</c><00:30:41.960><c> lost</c><00:30:42.160><c> his</c><00:30:42.400><c> kids.</c><00:30:45.059><c> So</c><00:30:45.500><c> it's</c><00:30:45.700><c> a</c><00:30:45.799><c> decision</c>

00:30:45.980 --> 00:30:49.259
you<00:30:46.140><c> can</c><00:30:46.319><c> make.</c><00:30:46.440><c> It's</c><00:30:46.640><c> not</c><00:30:46.779><c> a</c><00:30:46.940><c> sin.</c><00:30:47.740><c> Go</c><00:30:47.960><c> ahead</c><00:30:48.160><c> and</c><00:30:48.279><c> do</c><00:30:48.400><c> it.</c><00:30:49.039><c> You</c>

00:30:49.259 --> 00:30:51.000
can<00:30:49.380><c> be</c><00:30:49.599><c> tormented.</c><00:30:50.220><c> You</c><00:30:50.460><c> cannot</c><00:30:50.779><c> get</c>

00:30:51.000 --> 00:30:53.460
any<00:30:51.240><c> sleep.</c><00:30:51.799><c> You</c><00:30:51.940><c> cannot</c><00:30:52.220><c> feel</c><00:30:52.440><c> good</c><00:30:52.599><c> about</c><00:30:52.779><c> yourself.</c><00:30:53.319><c> You</c>

00:30:53.460 --> 00:30:55.680
can<00:30:53.640><c> lose</c><00:30:53.819><c> your</c><00:30:54.000><c> wife.</c><00:30:54.200><c> You</c><00:30:54.259><c> can</c><00:30:54.400><c> lose</c><00:30:54.599><c> your</c><00:30:54.779><c> kids.</c>

00:30:55.740 --> 00:30:58.140
But<00:30:56.259><c> it's</c><00:30:56.519><c> a</c><00:30:56.519><c> decision</c><00:30:56.779><c> you</c><00:30:56.900><c> can</c><00:30:57.099><c> make.</c>

00:31:31.019 --> 00:31:33.079
We're<00:31:31.420><c> making</c><00:31:31.619><c> up</c><00:31:31.799><c> the</c><00:31:31.940><c> story</c><00:31:32.059><c> so</c><00:31:32.240><c> we</c><00:31:32.319><c> can't</c><00:31:32.559><c> read</c><00:31:32.720><c> too</c><00:31:32.920><c> much</c>

00:31:33.079 --> 00:31:35.920
into<00:31:33.720><c> where</c><00:31:34.200><c> Bill</c><00:31:34.420><c> actually</c><00:31:34.859><c> is</c><00:31:35.039><c> in</c><00:31:35.220><c> life.</c>

00:31:59.099 --> 00:32:05.920
Exactly.<00:32:03.319><c> That's</c><00:32:03.380><c> what</c><00:32:03.480><c> we're</c><00:32:03.640><c> talking</c><00:32:03.880><c> about.</c><00:32:05.220><c> Lawful</c><00:32:05.640><c> and</c>

00:32:05.920 --> 00:32:08.980
expedient.<00:32:06.319><c> Is</c><00:32:06.319><c> it</c><00:32:07.339><c> sin</c><00:32:07.799><c> for</c><00:32:08.400><c> me</c><00:32:08.660><c> to</c>

00:32:08.980 --> 00:32:13.559
eat<00:32:09.140><c> meat</c><00:32:09.460><c> offered</c><00:32:09.700><c> on</c><00:32:09.900><c> diatols?</c><00:32:10.480><c> No.</c><00:32:11.279><c> Is</c><00:32:11.440><c> it</c><00:32:11.660><c> expedient?</c><00:32:12.779><c> No.</c>

00:32:13.599 --> 00:32:17.599
It's<00:32:14.200><c> not</c><00:32:14.500><c> wise.</c><00:32:15.900><c> It's</c><00:32:15.980><c> going</c><00:32:16.059><c> to</c><00:32:16.180><c> cause</c><00:32:16.440><c> complications.</c>

00:32:18.740 --> 00:32:26.759
Jennifer<00:32:19.220><c> loves</c><00:32:19.700><c> to</c><00:32:20.119><c> dance.</c><00:32:22.299><c> She</c><00:32:22.500><c> loves</c><00:32:22.740><c> the</c><00:32:23.079><c> excitement,</c><00:32:23.740><c> the</c><00:32:23.940><c> music,</c><00:32:24.779><c> the</c><00:32:24.940><c> dancing.</c><00:32:26.000><c> It's</c><00:32:26.160><c> really</c><00:32:26.440><c> fun</c><00:32:26.599><c> to</c>

00:32:26.759 --> 00:32:29.000
get<00:32:26.900><c> dressed</c><00:32:27.160><c> up</c><00:32:27.359><c> in</c><00:32:27.460><c> your</c><00:32:27.599><c> hottest</c><00:32:27.759><c> clothes,</c><00:32:28.599><c> to</c><00:32:28.680><c> look</c><00:32:28.779><c> your</c>

00:32:29.000 --> 00:32:31.240
best<00:32:29.160><c> and</c><00:32:29.299><c> just</c><00:32:29.440><c> go</c><00:32:29.579><c> out</c><00:32:29.720><c> and</c><00:32:29.920><c> enjoy</c><00:32:30.180><c> yourself.</c>

00:32:31.660 --> 00:32:35.599
She<00:32:31.759><c> doesn't</c><00:32:32.019><c> drink.</c><00:32:33.440><c> She</c><00:32:33.579><c> doesn't</c><00:32:33.819><c> do</c><00:32:34.059><c> drugs.</c><00:32:35.299><c> She</c><00:32:35.380><c> doesn't</c>

00:32:35.599 --> 00:32:38.700
sleep<00:32:35.880><c> around</c><00:32:36.220><c> or</c><00:32:36.400><c> even</c><00:32:36.779><c> swear.</c><00:32:38.299><c> Sure,</c>

00:32:38.839 --> 00:32:41.980
that<00:32:39.019><c> happens</c><00:32:39.420><c> at</c><00:32:39.579><c> the</c><00:32:39.740><c> parties</c><00:32:39.940><c> she</c><00:32:40.160><c> goes</c><00:32:40.440><c> to,</c><00:32:40.859><c> but</c><00:32:41.059><c> she</c><00:32:41.420><c> doesn't</c><00:32:41.759><c> do</c>

00:32:41.980 --> 00:32:44.180
it.<00:32:43.259><c> She's</c><00:32:43.500><c> been</c><00:32:43.619><c> going</c><00:32:43.779><c> to</c><00:32:43.980><c> parties</c>

00:32:44.180 --> 00:32:48.140
pretty<00:32:44.440><c> steady</c><00:32:44.740><c> since</c><00:32:45.000><c> the</c><00:32:45.200><c> sixth</c><00:32:45.480><c> grade.</c><00:32:46.819><c> They</c><00:32:46.980><c> changed</c><00:32:47.640><c> about</c><00:32:47.920><c> the</c>

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eighth<00:32:48.380><c> grade,</c><00:32:49.079><c> but</c><00:32:49.920><c> she</c><00:32:50.099><c> continued</c>

00:32:50.440 --> 00:32:54.500
to<00:32:50.640><c> go.</c><00:32:52.119><c> At</c><00:32:52.319><c> first,</c><00:32:52.579><c> they</c><00:32:52.700><c> didn't</c><00:32:52.900><c> bother</c><00:32:53.180><c> her</c><00:32:53.359><c> at</c><00:32:53.519><c> all.</c><00:32:54.279><c> Her</c>

00:32:54.500 --> 00:32:55.980
parents<00:32:54.720><c> supported</c><00:32:55.200><c> her</c><00:32:55.420><c> in</c><00:32:55.500><c> it.</c><00:32:55.640><c> At</c><00:32:55.700><c> least</c>

00:32:55.980 --> 00:33:01.240
they<00:32:56.140><c> thought</c><00:32:56.279><c> it</c><00:32:56.319><c> was</c><00:32:56.500><c> okay,</c><00:32:57.460><c> and</c><00:32:57.559><c> it</c><00:32:57.579><c> was</c><00:32:57.740><c> all</c><00:32:57.960><c> just</c><00:32:58.140><c> for</c><00:32:58.440><c> fun.</c><00:33:00.059><c> About</c><00:33:00.299><c> eighth</c><00:33:00.640><c> grade,</c><00:33:00.940><c> some</c><00:33:01.119><c> of</c>

00:33:01.240 --> 00:33:01.640
the<00:33:01.380><c> guys</c>

00:33:01.640 --> 00:33:04.660
started<00:33:01.920><c> bringing</c><00:33:02.240><c> beer</c><00:33:02.539><c> and</c><00:33:02.740><c> doing</c><00:33:02.920><c> pot.</c><00:33:04.160><c> Jennifer</c><00:33:04.400><c> never</c>

00:33:04.660 --> 00:33:07.119
took<00:33:04.900><c> any,</c><00:33:05.500><c> but</c><00:33:05.660><c> she</c><00:33:05.819><c> knew</c><00:33:05.920><c> it</c><00:33:06.039><c> was</c><00:33:06.180><c> there.</c>

00:33:07.420 --> 00:33:09.380
It<00:33:07.700><c> bothered</c><00:33:07.900><c> her</c><00:33:08.119><c> a</c><00:33:08.140><c> little</c><00:33:08.319><c> bit,</c><00:33:08.420><c> but</c><00:33:08.500><c> she</c><00:33:08.640><c> just</c><00:33:08.900><c> ignored</c><00:33:09.099><c> it</c>

00:33:09.380 --> 00:33:12.079
and<00:33:09.660><c> they</c><00:33:09.940><c> wouldn't</c><00:33:10.180><c> bug</c><00:33:10.380><c> her.</c><00:33:11.799><c> During</c>

00:33:12.079 --> 00:33:14.759
ninth<00:33:12.359><c> and</c><00:33:12.559><c> tenth</c><00:33:12.859><c> grade,</c><00:33:13.579><c> they</c><00:33:13.759><c> started</c><00:33:13.920><c> bringing</c><00:33:14.259><c> stronger</c>

00:33:14.759 --> 00:33:16.500
drinks<00:33:15.099><c> and</c><00:33:15.359><c> different</c><00:33:15.579><c> drugs</c><00:33:15.980><c> and</c><00:33:16.240><c> more</c>

00:33:16.500 --> 00:33:19.599
of<00:33:16.660><c> it.</c><00:33:17.700><c> At</c><00:33:17.799><c> about</c><00:33:17.980><c> this</c><00:33:18.160><c> time,</c><00:33:18.519><c> most</c><00:33:18.619><c> all</c><00:33:18.779><c> of</c><00:33:18.859><c> her</c><00:33:19.019><c> girlfriends</c><00:33:19.279><c> started</c>

00:33:19.599 --> 00:33:20.619
sleeping<00:33:19.960><c> with</c><00:33:20.160><c> their</c><00:33:20.339><c> boyfriends</c>

00:33:20.619 --> 00:33:24.920
after<00:33:20.819><c> the</c><00:33:21.079><c> party.</c><00:33:22.180><c> She</c><00:33:22.339><c> really</c><00:33:22.559><c> started</c><00:33:22.700><c> to</c><00:33:22.839><c> feel</c><00:33:22.920><c> uncomfortable</c><00:33:23.339><c> then.</c><00:33:24.720><c> She</c>

00:33:24.920 --> 00:33:25.799
loves<00:33:25.240><c> to</c><00:33:25.440><c> party.</c><00:33:25.660><c> She</c>

00:33:25.799 --> 00:33:28.200
loves<00:33:26.000><c> to</c><00:33:26.220><c> go</c><00:33:26.380><c> and</c><00:33:26.500><c> see</c><00:33:26.619><c> all</c><00:33:26.799><c> of</c><00:33:26.859><c> her</c><00:33:26.960><c> friends</c><00:33:27.339><c> and</c><00:33:27.579><c> dance</c><00:33:27.960><c> and</c>

00:33:28.200 --> 00:33:30.779
visit<00:33:28.500><c> and</c><00:33:28.859><c> have</c><00:33:29.039><c> a</c><00:33:29.160><c> good</c><00:33:29.319><c> time.</c><00:33:30.599><c> Her</c>

00:33:30.779 --> 00:33:32.819
boyfriend,<00:33:31.339><c> Mark,</c><00:33:31.420><c> is</c><00:33:31.579><c> really</c><00:33:31.839><c> nice</c><00:33:32.079><c> and</c><00:33:32.180><c> doesn't</c><00:33:32.420><c> force</c><00:33:32.680><c> her</c>

00:33:32.819 --> 00:33:33.500
to<00:33:32.900><c> do</c><00:33:32.940><c> anything</c><00:33:33.059><c> that</c><00:33:33.180><c> she</c><00:33:33.259><c> doesn't</c>

00:33:33.500 --> 00:33:37.259
want<00:33:33.680><c> to</c><00:33:33.819><c> do.</c><00:33:34.759><c> Her</c><00:33:34.960><c> parents</c><00:33:35.160><c> told</c><00:33:35.339><c> her</c><00:33:35.480><c> that</c><00:33:35.599><c> since</c><00:33:35.740><c> she's</c><00:33:36.019><c> baptized</c><00:33:36.480><c> now,</c><00:33:37.119><c> she</c>

00:33:37.259 --> 00:33:38.420
has<00:33:37.319><c> to</c><00:33:37.480><c> make</c><00:33:37.599><c> her</c><00:33:37.759><c> own</c>

00:33:39.759 --> 00:33:42.920
fear.<00:33:40.200><c> They</c><00:33:40.640><c> know</c><00:33:40.799><c> what</c><00:33:40.920><c> goes</c><00:33:41.160><c> on</c><00:33:41.319><c> at</c><00:33:41.519><c> parties.</c><00:33:42.440><c> It's</c><00:33:42.640><c> kind</c><00:33:42.759><c> of</c>

00:33:42.920 --> 00:33:45.180
a<00:33:43.079><c> given</c><00:33:43.259><c> in</c><00:33:43.460><c> today's</c><00:33:43.779><c> world,</c><00:33:44.000><c> isn't</c><00:33:44.140><c> it?</c>

00:33:45.539 --> 00:33:47.500
What's<00:33:45.819><c> bothering</c><00:33:46.079><c> Jennifer</c><00:33:46.400><c> now</c><00:33:46.680><c> is</c><00:33:46.819><c> that</c><00:33:46.920><c> she's</c><00:33:47.099><c> trying</c><00:33:47.339><c> to</c>

00:33:47.500 --> 00:33:48.839
sort<00:33:47.599><c> out</c><00:33:47.759><c> all</c><00:33:47.940><c> of</c><00:33:48.039><c> her</c><00:33:48.180><c> feelings</c><00:33:48.500><c> about</c>

00:33:48.839 --> 00:33:55.480
this.<00:33:49.880><c> On</c><00:33:50.059><c> the</c><00:33:50.240><c> one</c><00:33:50.500><c> hand,</c><00:33:50.819><c> she</c><00:33:51.000><c> loves</c><00:33:51.319><c> to</c><00:33:51.599><c> go.</c><00:33:52.619><c> She</c><00:33:52.980><c> doesn't</c><00:33:53.339><c> sin</c><00:33:53.559><c> when</c><00:33:53.740><c> she's</c><00:33:54.019><c> there,</c><00:33:54.680><c> and</c><00:33:54.980><c> it's</c><00:33:55.200><c> a</c><00:33:55.299><c> big</c>

00:33:55.480 --> 00:33:59.220
part<00:33:55.700><c> of</c><00:33:55.799><c> her</c><00:33:56.000><c> social</c><00:33:56.299><c> life.</c><00:33:57.500><c> On</c><00:33:57.740><c> the</c><00:33:57.960><c> other</c><00:33:58.220><c> hand,</c><00:33:58.500><c> she's</c><00:33:58.660><c> really</c><00:33:58.880><c> starting</c><00:33:59.079><c> to</c>

00:33:59.220 --> 00:34:00.079
feel<00:33:59.339><c> uncomfortable</c>

00:34:00.079 --> 00:34:03.460
and<00:34:00.640><c> out</c><00:34:00.799><c> of</c><00:34:01.000><c> place</c><00:34:01.200><c> at</c><00:34:01.380><c> the</c><00:34:01.579><c> parties.</c><00:34:02.599><c> She</c><00:34:02.799><c> knows</c><00:34:03.000><c> that</c><00:34:03.180><c> Jesus</c>

00:34:03.460 --> 00:34:04.559
probably<00:34:03.680><c> wouldn't</c><00:34:03.819><c> be</c><00:34:04.079><c> pleased</c><00:34:04.339><c> if</c>

00:34:04.559 --> 00:34:06.940
he<00:34:04.759><c> found</c><00:34:04.859><c> her</c><00:34:05.039><c> there,</c><00:34:05.720><c> and</c><00:34:05.839><c> she</c><00:34:06.039><c> realizes</c><00:34:06.339><c> she's</c><00:34:06.640><c> not</c><00:34:06.759><c> doing</c>

00:34:06.940 --> 00:34:09.039
much<00:34:07.140><c> to</c><00:34:07.440><c> glorify</c><00:34:07.940><c> him</c><00:34:08.440><c> while</c><00:34:08.739><c> she's</c>

00:34:09.039 --> 00:34:12.739
there.<00:34:10.519><c> There's</c><00:34:10.659><c> a</c><00:34:10.780><c> big</c><00:34:10.980><c> party</c><00:34:11.280><c> coming</c><00:34:11.500><c> up</c><00:34:11.699><c> on</c><00:34:11.920><c> Saturday</c><00:34:12.059><c> night,</c><00:34:12.639><c> and</c>

00:34:12.739 --> 00:34:14.139
Jennifer<00:34:13.019><c> says</c><00:34:13.300><c> to</c><00:34:13.480><c> you,</c><00:34:13.719><c> as</c><00:34:13.760><c> long</c><00:34:14.039><c> as</c>

00:34:14.139 --> 00:34:18.099
I<00:34:14.239><c> don't</c><00:34:14.320><c> do</c><00:34:14.480><c> anything</c><00:34:14.659><c> wrong,</c><00:34:15.760><c> I</c><00:34:15.840><c> don't</c><00:34:16.039><c> think</c><00:34:16.159><c> I'll</c><00:34:16.340><c> be</c><00:34:16.539><c> sinning.</c><00:34:17.800><c> It's</c>

00:34:18.099 --> 00:34:19.900
probably<00:34:18.340><c> not</c><00:34:18.659><c> best,</c><00:34:19.519><c> but</c><00:34:19.639><c> I</c>

00:34:19.900 --> 00:34:23.059
really,<00:34:20.260><c> really,</c><00:34:20.519><c> really</c><00:34:20.780><c> want</c><00:34:21.000><c> to</c><00:34:21.199><c> go.</c><00:34:22.199><c> What</c><00:34:22.380><c> do</c><00:34:22.480><c> you</c><00:34:22.679><c> think?</c>

00:34:23.460 --> 00:34:25.179
Would<00:34:23.559><c> it</c><00:34:23.699><c> be</c><00:34:23.860><c> okay</c><00:34:24.099><c> for</c><00:34:24.280><c> me</c><00:34:24.420><c> to</c><00:34:24.579><c> go</c><00:34:24.900><c> or</c>

00:34:25.179 --> 00:34:26.139
not?

00:34:28.280 --> 00:34:33.900
Fuchsia<00:34:28.800><c> Group.</c><00:34:30.920><c> Fuchsia</c><00:34:31.300><c> Group.</c><00:34:31.619><c> Here</c><00:34:31.719><c> we</c><00:34:31.880><c> are.</c><00:34:33.119><c> Okay,</c><00:34:33.300><c> we're</c><00:34:33.460><c> talking</c><00:34:33.579><c> about</c><00:34:33.719><c> the</c>

00:34:33.900 --> 00:34:35.000
principle<00:34:34.219><c> of</c>

00:34:35.000 --> 00:34:36.980
balancing<00:34:35.480><c> your</c><00:34:35.800><c> life.</c><00:34:36.039><c> Do</c><00:34:36.179><c> you</c><00:34:36.179><c> remember</c><00:34:36.440><c> last</c><00:34:36.679><c> night's</c>

00:34:36.980 --> 00:34:38.760
class?<00:34:37.320><c> Balancing</c><00:34:37.739><c> your</c><00:34:37.900><c> life.</c><00:34:38.039><c> What's</c>

00:34:38.840 --> 00:34:42.099
the<00:34:39.139><c> essence</c><00:34:39.579><c> of</c><00:34:39.780><c> the</c><00:34:39.980><c> principle</c><00:34:40.460><c> of</c><00:34:40.800><c> balancing</c><00:34:41.099><c> your</c><00:34:41.360><c> life?</c>

00:34:43.719 --> 00:34:47.480
Well,<00:34:45.400><c> we</c><00:34:45.539><c> think</c><00:34:45.780><c> that,</c><00:34:46.739><c> like,</c><00:34:47.300><c> she's</c><00:34:47.480><c> a</c><00:34:47.480><c>-</c>

00:34:47.480 --> 00:34:50.300
No,<00:34:47.659><c> don't</c><00:34:47.860><c> talk</c><00:34:48.119><c> about</c><00:34:48.400><c> Jennifer.</c><00:34:49.199><c> Don't</c><00:34:49.360><c> talk</c><00:34:49.519><c> about</c><00:34:49.679><c> Jennifer.</c><00:34:49.960><c> Just</c>

00:34:50.300 --> 00:34:51.199
the<00:34:50.559><c> principle.</c><00:34:50.940><c> What's</c>

00:34:51.199 --> 00:34:52.460
the<00:34:51.340><c> principle</c><00:34:51.599><c> first?</c>

00:34:52.920 --> 00:34:53.800
Giving<00:34:53.119><c> up.</c>

00:34:53.800 --> 00:34:58.320
Giving<00:34:54.500><c> up,</c><00:34:55.159><c> like,</c><00:34:55.880><c> things</c><00:34:56.179><c> that</c><00:34:56.500><c> you</c><00:34:56.760><c> want</c><00:34:56.920><c> to</c><00:34:57.099><c> do.</c>

00:34:58.880 --> 00:35:05.940
Right.<00:35:00.000><c> Giving</c><00:35:00.440><c> up</c><00:35:01.739><c> opposing</c><00:35:02.380><c> desires</c><00:35:03.119><c> in</c><00:35:03.320><c> your</c><00:35:03.519><c> life,</c><00:35:04.500><c> right?</c><00:35:05.840><c> Then</c>

00:35:05.940 --> 00:35:07.260
when<00:35:06.019><c> you</c><00:35:06.139><c> find</c><00:35:06.280><c> yourself</c><00:35:06.739><c> out</c>

00:35:07.260 --> 00:35:10.880
of<00:35:07.519><c> balance,</c><00:35:07.739><c> when</c><00:35:07.840><c> you</c><00:35:07.940><c> find</c><00:35:08.059><c> yourself</c><00:35:08.400><c> off</c><00:35:08.780><c>-center</c><00:35:09.260><c> from</c><00:35:09.860><c> what</c><00:35:10.059><c> God</c><00:35:10.320><c> wants</c><00:35:10.559><c> you</c><00:35:10.719><c> to</c>

00:35:10.880 --> 00:35:13.079
do,<00:35:12.179><c> the</c><00:35:12.320><c> solution</c>

00:35:13.079 --> 00:35:17.000
is<00:35:13.820><c> often</c><00:35:14.139><c> that</c><00:35:14.280><c> you</c><00:35:14.400><c> have</c><00:35:14.599><c> to</c><00:35:14.880><c> give</c><00:35:15.099><c> up</c><00:35:15.840><c> some</c><00:35:16.099><c> opposing</c><00:35:16.460><c> desires.</c><00:35:16.860><c> So</c>

00:35:17.000 --> 00:35:17.800
now<00:35:17.079><c> talk</c><00:35:17.219><c> about</c><00:35:17.420><c> Jennifer.</c><00:35:17.699><c> What</c>

00:35:17.800 --> 00:35:19.000
do<00:35:17.860><c> you</c><00:35:17.860><c> think</c><00:35:17.960><c> about</c><00:35:18.099><c> her?</c>

00:35:20.199 --> 00:35:24.800
We<00:35:20.679><c> think</c><00:35:21.059><c> that</c><00:35:21.559><c> she,</c><00:35:23.000><c> it's</c><00:35:23.519><c> technically</c><00:35:23.920><c> she</c><00:35:24.239><c> wouldn't</c><00:35:24.519><c> be</c>

00:35:24.800 --> 00:35:26.719
sitting<00:35:24.920><c> if</c><00:35:25.099><c> she</c><00:35:25.340><c> went,</c><00:35:26.159><c> but</c><00:35:26.159><c> it's</c><00:35:26.579><c> probably</c>

00:35:26.719 --> 00:35:28.960
not<00:35:26.900><c> the</c><00:35:27.039><c> brightest</c><00:35:27.199><c> thing</c><00:35:27.460><c> to</c><00:35:27.619><c> do</c><00:35:27.780><c> because</c><00:35:28.019><c> it's</c><00:35:28.280><c> kind</c><00:35:28.420><c> of</c><00:35:28.579><c> guilt</c><00:35:28.679><c> by</c>

00:35:28.960 --> 00:35:30.360
association.<00:35:29.940><c> Like,</c><00:35:30.039><c> if</c><00:35:30.159><c> someone</c>

00:35:30.360 --> 00:35:33.619
saw<00:35:30.599><c> her</c><00:35:30.840><c> there,</c><00:35:32.039><c> they</c><00:35:32.260><c> don't</c><00:35:32.500><c> know</c><00:35:32.659><c> that</c><00:35:32.860><c> she's</c><00:35:33.099><c> not</c><00:35:33.420><c> doing</c>

00:35:33.619 --> 00:35:35.400
it,<00:35:34.420><c> so.</c>

00:35:38.639 --> 00:35:42.860
Right.<00:35:39.119><c> It's</c><00:35:39.599><c> technically</c><00:35:39.860><c> not</c><00:35:40.039><c> the</c><00:35:40.280><c> brightest</c><00:35:40.519><c> thing</c><00:35:40.760><c> to</c><00:35:40.960><c> do,</c><00:35:41.139><c> right?</c><00:35:41.840><c> And</c><00:35:42.260><c> even</c><00:35:42.760><c> a</c>

00:35:42.860 --> 00:35:43.219
little<00:35:42.960><c> more</c>

00:35:43.219 --> 00:35:51.099
than<00:35:43.340><c> that,</c><00:35:43.840><c> too.</c><00:35:44.739><c> She's</c><00:35:45.340><c> feeling</c><00:35:45.940><c> uncomfortable.</c><00:35:48.320><c> Well,</c><00:35:49.139><c> isn't</c><00:35:49.360><c> that</c><00:35:49.980><c> kind</c><00:35:50.300><c> of</c>

00:35:51.099 --> 00:35:55.219
a<00:35:51.380><c> good</c><00:35:52.360><c> red</c><00:35:54.420><c> flag</c><00:35:54.920><c> to</c>

00:35:55.219 --> 00:36:02.340
tell<00:35:55.360><c> you</c><00:35:55.460><c> about</c><00:35:55.699><c> sin?</c><00:35:56.980><c> If</c><00:35:57.579><c> you</c><00:35:58.099><c> don't</c><00:35:58.300><c> feel</c><00:35:58.599><c> that</c><00:35:58.820><c> something's</c><00:35:59.300><c> right,</c><00:36:00.579><c> then</c><00:36:00.699><c> don't</c><00:36:00.960><c> do</c><00:36:01.179><c> it.</c>

00:36:03.400 --> 00:36:07.639
So,<00:36:03.699><c> she's,</c><00:36:04.019><c> I</c><00:36:04.019><c> mean,</c><00:36:05.320><c> partying</c><00:36:05.619><c> might</c><00:36:05.840><c> be</c><00:36:06.179><c> a</c><00:36:06.760><c> hard</c><00:36:07.119><c> example</c>

00:36:07.639 --> 00:36:09.300
for<00:36:08.039><c> some</c><00:36:08.260><c> of</c><00:36:08.340><c> us</c><00:36:08.500><c> because</c><00:36:08.659><c> we</c><00:36:08.840><c> can't</c><00:36:09.019><c> really</c>

00:36:09.300 --> 00:36:12.039
relate<00:36:09.460><c> to</c><00:36:09.699><c> it,</c><00:36:09.940><c> but</c><00:36:10.260><c> what</c><00:36:10.780><c> about</c><00:36:11.079><c> something</c><00:36:11.440><c> else</c><00:36:11.679><c> in</c><00:36:11.800><c> your</c>

00:36:12.039 --> 00:36:16.940
life<00:36:12.480><c> that</c><00:36:13.260><c> you</c><00:36:13.639><c> really</c><00:36:14.019><c> do</c><00:36:14.739><c> love?</c><00:36:16.719><c> Something</c>

00:36:16.940 --> 00:36:22.579
that<00:36:17.460><c> totally</c><00:36:17.820><c> gets</c><00:36:18.059><c> in</c><00:36:18.219><c> your</c><00:36:18.340><c> way</c><00:36:19.139><c> of</c><00:36:20.400><c> service</c><00:36:20.840><c> to</c><00:36:21.059><c> God?</c><00:36:22.380><c> Let</c>

00:36:22.579 --> 00:36:26.280
me<00:36:22.579><c> tell</c><00:36:22.659><c> you</c><00:36:22.699><c> about</c><00:36:22.800><c> me.</c><00:36:24.739><c> 15,</c><00:36:25.579><c> 16</c><00:36:25.940><c> years</c>

00:36:26.280 --> 00:36:30.119
old,<00:36:27.659><c> wrestled</c><00:36:27.880><c> 126.</c><00:36:29.059><c> That's</c><00:36:29.440><c> pretty</c><00:36:29.599><c> funny</c><00:36:29.800><c> to</c><00:36:29.980><c> believe,</c>

00:36:30.179 --> 00:36:33.039
isn't<00:36:30.260><c> it?</c><00:36:31.539><c> About</c><00:36:31.699><c> 100</c><00:36:31.940><c> pounds</c><00:36:32.199><c> ago.</c>

00:36:33.239 --> 00:36:37.579
I<00:36:33.760><c> wrestled</c><00:36:33.860><c> 126,</c><00:36:35.079><c> loved</c><00:36:35.460><c> it,</c><00:36:35.679><c> did</c><00:36:35.820><c> it</c><00:36:36.000><c> all</c><00:36:36.099><c> the</c><00:36:36.320><c> time.</c><00:36:37.260><c> Six</c><00:36:37.440><c> in</c>

00:36:37.579 --> 00:36:39.179
the<00:36:37.679><c> morning</c><00:36:37.940><c> till</c><00:36:38.179><c> seven</c><00:36:38.500><c> in</c><00:36:38.699><c> the</c><00:36:38.719><c> morning,</c>

00:36:39.539 --> 00:36:45.219
running,<00:36:41.400><c> three</c><00:36:41.719><c> in</c><00:36:41.860><c> the</c><00:36:42.039><c> afternoon</c><00:36:42.260><c> till</c><00:36:42.420><c> five</c><00:36:42.739><c> in</c><00:36:42.880><c> the</c><00:36:42.960><c> afternoon,</c><00:36:43.440><c> weight</c><00:36:43.500><c> training,</c><00:36:44.440><c> no,</c><00:36:44.780><c> wrestling,</c>

00:36:45.719 --> 00:36:49.380
and<00:36:45.840><c> then</c><00:36:46.019><c> from</c><00:36:46.219><c> five</c><00:36:46.599><c> to</c><00:36:46.800><c> like</c><00:36:47.139><c> six,</c><00:36:48.159><c> weight</c><00:36:48.280><c> training,</c><00:36:49.039><c> four</c>

00:36:49.380 --> 00:36:52.159
to<00:36:49.579><c> five</c><00:36:49.940><c> hours</c><00:36:50.119><c> a</c><00:36:50.320><c> day,</c><00:36:50.539><c> every</c><00:36:50.840><c> day,</c><00:36:51.599><c> 12</c><00:36:51.880><c> months</c>

00:36:52.159 --> 00:36:56.019
a<00:36:52.360><c> year,</c><00:36:53.000><c> wrestling,</c><00:36:53.840><c> competing</c><00:36:54.059><c> in</c><00:36:54.320><c> tournaments,</c><00:36:54.860><c> just</c><00:36:55.019><c> loving</c><00:36:55.239><c> it.</c>

00:36:56.219 --> 00:37:01.820
My<00:36:56.480><c> CYC</c><00:36:56.880><c> teacher</c><00:36:57.760><c> says</c><00:36:58.420><c> to</c><00:36:58.599><c> me</c>

00:37:01.820 --> 00:37:05.079
go<00:37:02.780><c> to</c><00:37:02.780><c> the</c><00:37:02.780><c> tournament</c><00:37:02.780><c> on</c><00:37:03.400><c> Sunday</c><00:37:03.659><c> morning,</c><00:37:04.800><c> which</c><00:37:04.980><c> would</c>

00:37:05.079 --> 00:37:08.099
you<00:37:05.179><c> go</c><00:37:05.380><c> to?</c><00:37:06.019><c> The</c><00:37:06.239><c> meeting</c><00:37:06.679><c> or</c><00:37:07.119><c> the</c><00:37:07.280><c> tournament?</c>

00:37:10.340 --> 00:37:18.300
What<00:37:10.659><c> amazed</c><00:37:11.079><c> me</c><00:37:12.460><c> was</c><00:37:13.199><c> not</c><00:37:13.980><c> that</c><00:37:15.380><c> the</c><00:37:17.039><c> answer</c><00:37:17.420><c> for</c><00:37:17.699><c> me</c><00:37:17.880><c> was</c><00:37:18.019><c> so</c>

00:37:18.300 --> 00:37:20.039
simple,<00:37:19.199><c> I'd</c><00:37:19.420><c> go</c><00:37:19.559><c> to</c><00:37:19.659><c> the</c><00:37:19.800><c> tournament,</c>

00:37:20.159 --> 00:37:25.920
not<00:37:20.300><c> meeting.</c><00:37:22.099><c> What</c><00:37:22.420><c> amazed</c><00:37:22.840><c> me</c><00:37:23.780><c> was</c><00:37:24.119><c> that</c><00:37:24.380><c> how</c><00:37:25.059><c> I</c><00:37:25.599><c> thought</c><00:37:25.800><c> it</c>

00:37:25.920 --> 00:37:27.679
was<00:37:26.099><c> just</c><00:37:26.440><c> ludicrous</c><00:37:26.960><c> for</c><00:37:27.139><c> him</c><00:37:27.320><c> to</c><00:37:27.420><c> even</c>

00:37:27.679 --> 00:37:33.719
ask<00:37:28.039><c> this</c><00:37:28.340><c> question.</c><00:37:29.679><c> Of</c><00:37:29.900><c> course</c><00:37:30.579><c> I</c><00:37:31.039><c> would</c><00:37:31.179><c> go</c><00:37:31.340><c> to</c><00:37:31.460><c> the</c><00:37:31.599><c> tournament.</c><00:37:33.199><c> I'm</c><00:37:33.519><c> on</c>

00:37:33.719 --> 00:37:35.619
the<00:37:33.960><c> starting</c><00:37:34.340><c> team.</c>

00:37:36.000 --> 00:37:39.739
The<00:37:36.199><c> whole</c><00:37:36.500><c> team</c><00:37:36.860><c> depends</c><00:37:37.260><c> upon</c><00:37:37.619><c> me.</c><00:37:38.820><c> I</c><00:37:38.960><c> wouldn't</c><00:37:39.139><c> want</c><00:37:39.280><c> to</c><00:37:39.400><c> miss</c><00:37:39.500><c> a</c>

00:37:39.739 --> 00:37:40.519
single<00:37:40.000><c> tournament.</c><00:37:40.300><c> I</c><00:37:40.340><c> wouldn't</c>

00:37:40.519 --> 00:37:45.099
want<00:37:40.699><c> to</c><00:37:40.820><c> let</c><00:37:40.920><c> the</c><00:37:41.139><c> team</c><00:37:41.300><c> down.</c><00:37:42.800><c> Of</c><00:37:43.139><c> course</c><00:37:43.599><c> I</c><00:37:43.679><c> would</c><00:37:43.840><c> do</c><00:37:44.119><c> that.</c>

00:37:46.119 --> 00:37:48.579
What<00:37:46.300><c> amazed</c><00:37:46.639><c> me</c><00:37:46.900><c> is</c><00:37:47.059><c> that</c><00:37:47.460><c> so</c><00:37:48.280><c> clearly</c>

00:37:48.579 --> 00:37:55.360
in<00:37:48.719><c> my</c><00:37:48.960><c> life</c><00:37:49.480><c> this</c><00:37:50.400><c> was</c><00:37:51.500><c> much</c><00:37:51.820><c> more</c><00:37:52.199><c> important</c><00:37:52.659><c> than</c><00:37:53.280><c> this.</c><00:37:55.000><c> Yeah,</c><00:37:55.280><c> I</c>

00:37:55.360 --> 00:37:56.699
was<00:37:55.539><c> a</c><00:37:55.699><c> good</c><00:37:55.880><c> kid.</c><00:37:56.079><c> I</c><00:37:56.280><c> always</c><00:37:56.539><c> went</c>

00:37:56.699 --> 00:38:01.119
to<00:37:57.099><c> the</c><00:37:57.099><c> meeting.</c><00:37:57.559><c> I</c><00:37:57.559><c> always</c><00:37:57.860><c> went</c><00:37:58.119><c> to</c><00:37:58.739><c> CYC</c><00:37:59.519><c> and</c><00:37:59.800><c> Sunday</c><00:38:00.079><c> school</c><00:38:00.619><c> and</c><00:38:00.920><c> I</c>

00:38:01.119 --> 00:38:02.500
wanted<00:38:01.320><c> to</c><00:38:01.519><c> get</c><00:38:01.679><c> baptized</c><00:38:02.159><c> and</c><00:38:02.340><c> I</c>

00:38:02.500 --> 00:38:06.739
wanted<00:38:02.760><c> to</c><00:38:03.019><c> serve</c><00:38:03.260><c> God,</c><00:38:04.840><c> but</c><00:38:05.000><c> I</c><00:38:05.199><c> wanted</c><00:38:05.440><c> to</c><00:38:05.599><c> be</c><00:38:05.719><c> in</c><00:38:05.840><c> the</c><00:38:05.880><c> Olympics.</c><00:38:06.199><c> I</c><00:38:06.300><c> wanted</c><00:38:06.579><c> to</c>

00:38:06.739 --> 00:38:07.820
win<00:38:06.880><c> the</c><00:38:07.039><c> state</c><00:38:07.300><c> championship</c>

00:38:07.820 --> 00:38:11.599
and<00:38:08.000><c> then</c><00:38:08.099><c> the</c><00:38:08.179><c> New</c><00:38:08.360><c> England</c><00:38:08.559><c> championship,</c><00:38:09.440><c> then</c><00:38:09.559><c> the</c><00:38:09.679><c> national</c><00:38:10.139><c> championship,</c><00:38:11.139><c> and</c><00:38:11.260><c> then</c><00:38:11.380><c> I</c><00:38:11.380><c> wanted</c>

00:38:11.599 --> 00:38:18.139
to<00:38:11.719><c> go</c><00:38:11.820><c> to,</c><00:38:12.219><c> where</c><00:38:12.380><c> was</c><00:38:12.599><c> it,</c><00:38:13.099><c> the</c><00:38:13.320><c> 84</c><00:38:14.800><c> Olympics.</c><00:38:17.400><c> And</c><00:38:17.699><c> that</c><00:38:17.820><c> was</c>

00:38:18.139 --> 00:38:20.739
just<00:38:18.480><c> very,</c><00:38:18.820><c> very</c><00:38:19.119><c> clear.</c><00:38:19.340><c> I</c><00:38:19.340><c> had</c><00:38:19.960><c> two</c>

00:38:20.739 --> 00:38:25.780
real<00:38:21.139><c> strong</c><00:38:21.659><c> desires.</c><00:38:23.659><c> So</c><00:38:23.820><c> after</c><00:38:23.980><c> Monday</c><00:38:24.239><c> night</c><00:38:24.420><c> class</c><00:38:24.880><c> I</c><00:38:25.059><c> went</c><00:38:25.139><c> home</c><00:38:25.360><c> and</c><00:38:25.500><c> I</c>

00:38:25.780 --> 00:38:27.480
cried<00:38:26.099><c> and</c><00:38:26.280><c> I</c><00:38:26.619><c> prayed</c>

00:38:27.559 --> 00:38:34.179
and<00:38:28.079><c> Tuesday</c><00:38:28.340><c> morning</c><00:38:28.820><c> I</c><00:38:28.980><c> went</c><00:38:29.119><c> in</c><00:38:29.280><c> and</c><00:38:29.420><c> I</c><00:38:29.659><c> quit.</c><00:38:33.480><c> You</c><00:38:33.719><c> can't</c>

00:38:34.179 --> 00:38:38.920
have<00:38:34.940><c> two</c><00:38:35.900><c> opposing</c><00:38:36.679><c> desires</c><00:38:37.340><c> and</c><00:38:38.719><c> that's</c>

00:38:38.920 --> 00:38:42.880
what<00:38:39.059><c> she</c><00:38:39.260><c> has</c><00:38:39.480><c> in</c><00:38:39.659><c> her</c><00:38:39.860><c> life.</c><00:38:40.659><c> Yeah,</c><00:38:40.940><c> she</c><00:38:41.179><c> loves</c><00:38:41.539><c> it</c><00:38:42.139><c> and</c><00:38:42.539><c> it's</c>

00:38:42.880 --> 00:38:45.280
a<00:38:43.099><c> big</c><00:38:43.260><c> part</c><00:38:43.500><c> of</c><00:38:43.659><c> her</c><00:38:43.820><c> life,</c><00:38:44.860><c> but</c><00:38:45.219><c> if</c>

00:38:45.280 --> 00:38:48.099
she<00:38:45.380><c> wants</c><00:38:45.599><c> to</c><00:38:45.800><c> serve</c><00:38:45.940><c> God</c><00:38:46.380><c> she's</c><00:38:47.480><c> going</c><00:38:47.559><c> to</c><00:38:47.659><c> have</c><00:38:47.780><c> to</c><00:38:47.900><c> give</c><00:38:48.000><c> it</c>

00:38:48.099 --> 00:38:52.199
up.<00:38:51.300><c> So</c><00:38:51.460><c> I</c><00:38:51.480><c> thank</c><00:38:51.619><c> you</c><00:38:51.739><c> all</c><00:38:51.860><c> for</c><00:38:52.000><c> this</c>

00:38:52.199 --> 00:38:59.260
time<00:38:52.539><c> and</c><00:38:52.840><c> I</c><00:38:54.719><c> will</c><00:38:54.940><c> now</c><00:38:55.639><c> turn</c><00:38:55.980><c> it</c><00:38:56.119><c> back</c><00:38:56.260><c> to</c><00:38:56.420><c> Mark</c><00:38:56.920><c> to</c><00:38:57.559><c> close.</c><00:38:58.760><c> Thanks.</c>