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liberties<00:13:09.200><c> also.</c>

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And<00:13:30.960><c> your</c><00:13:31.379><c> attitude</c><00:13:31.899><c> generates</c><00:13:32.460><c> or</c><00:13:33.419><c> governs</c><00:13:33.940><c> the</c><00:13:34.059><c> way</c><00:13:34.159><c> you're</c><00:13:34.399><c> thinking.</c>

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So<00:13:34.980><c> you</c><00:13:35.120><c> see</c><00:13:35.320><c> the</c><00:13:35.460><c> way</c><00:13:35.600><c> in</c><00:13:35.679><c> which</c><00:13:36.360><c> this</c><00:13:36.879><c> simple</c><00:13:37.279><c> development</c><00:13:37.759><c> works.</c>

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Now<00:13:39.179><c> I</c><00:13:39.559><c> personally</c><00:13:39.879><c> have</c><00:13:40.080><c> a</c><00:13:40.120><c> very</c><00:13:40.379><c> simple</c><00:13:40.600><c> mind</c><00:13:40.899><c> as</c><00:13:41.080><c> you've</c><00:13:41.320><c> noticed.</c>

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And<00:13:42.320><c> I</c><00:13:42.879><c> like</c><00:13:43.120><c> to</c><00:13:43.379><c> have</c><00:13:43.620><c> a</c><00:13:44.059><c> simple</c><00:13:44.360><c> listing</c><00:13:44.740><c> like</c><00:13:45.200><c> that.</c>

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It<00:13:46.100><c> helps</c><00:13:46.399><c> to</c><00:13:46.919><c> actually</c><00:13:47.200><c> just</c><00:13:47.519><c> clarify</c><00:13:48.039><c> what</c><00:13:48.580><c> exactly</c><00:13:49.039><c> is</c><00:13:49.259><c> going</c><00:13:49.480><c> on.</c>

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And<00:13:49.840><c> you</c><00:13:49.879><c> can</c><00:13:50.100><c> identify</c><00:13:50.600><c> what</c><00:13:50.840><c> you're</c><00:13:51.039><c> doing</c><00:13:51.259><c> at</c><00:13:51.399><c> any</c><00:13:51.580><c> given</c><00:13:51.740><c> time.</c>

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And<00:13:52.200><c> you</c><00:13:52.220><c> find</c><00:13:52.460><c> yourself</c><00:13:52.740><c> doing</c><00:13:53.059><c> these</c><00:13:53.399><c> things</c><00:13:53.919><c> if</c><00:13:54.200><c> you're</c>

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dealing<00:13:55.299><c> with</c><00:13:55.580><c> the</c><00:13:55.740><c> children.</c>

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Teach<00:13:56.539><c> actions</c><00:13:57.220><c> and</c><00:13:57.600><c> habits</c><00:13:57.940><c> finally</c><00:13:58.559><c> that</c><00:13:59.419><c> are</c><00:13:59.700><c> appropriate</c>

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to<00:14:00.279><c> a</c><00:14:00.440><c> spiritual</c><00:14:00.740><c> life.</c>

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And<00:14:01.200><c> we</c><00:14:01.259><c> do</c><00:14:01.419><c> that</c><00:14:01.600><c> by</c><00:14:01.820><c> discussion</c><00:14:02.399><c> and</c><00:14:03.019><c> by</c><00:14:03.320><c> example.</c>

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It's<00:14:03.980><c> an</c><00:14:04.179><c> extension</c><00:14:04.500><c> of</c><00:14:04.700><c> the</c><00:14:04.919><c> second</c><00:14:05.100><c> one.</c>

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These<00:14:05.480><c> are</c><00:14:05.659><c> all</c><00:14:05.899><c> part</c><00:14:06.120><c> of</c><00:14:06.320><c> the</c><00:14:06.440><c> same</c><00:14:06.580><c> process,</c><00:14:07.559><c> aren't</c><00:14:07.840><c> they?</c>

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And<00:14:09.620><c> by</c><00:14:09.860><c> expecting</c><00:14:10.340><c> that</c><00:14:10.600><c> the</c><00:14:10.720><c> children</c><00:14:10.940><c> will</c><00:14:11.240><c> attend</c><00:14:11.480><c> all</c>

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appropriate<00:14:12.200><c> ecclesial</c><00:14:12.639><c> functions.</c>

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It<00:14:13.960><c> was</c><00:14:14.059><c> never</c><00:14:14.320><c> a</c><00:14:14.639><c> matter</c><00:14:14.899><c> of</c><00:14:15.320><c> discussion</c><00:14:15.779><c> in</c><00:14:16.039><c> our</c><00:14:16.220><c> household.</c>

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And<00:14:17.360><c> although</c><00:14:17.980><c> we</c><00:14:18.779><c> have</c><00:14:19.039><c> not</c><00:14:19.240><c> been</c><00:14:19.980><c> notably</c><00:14:20.440><c> successful</c><00:14:21.139><c> in</c>

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raising<00:14:21.659><c> our</c><00:14:21.980><c> children.</c>

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We<00:14:23.500><c> have</c><00:14:23.700><c> an</c><00:14:23.860><c> adopted</c><00:14:24.159><c> son</c><00:14:24.559><c> who</c><00:14:24.779><c> has</c><00:14:25.000><c> given</c><00:14:25.139><c> us</c><00:14:25.360><c> more</c><00:14:25.639><c> grief</c><00:14:25.940><c> than</c><00:14:27.399><c> I</c>

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And<00:14:30.659><c> a</c><00:14:31.200><c> daughter</c><00:14:31.559><c> who</c><00:14:31.799><c> came</c><00:14:31.980><c> to</c><00:14:32.179><c> the</c><00:14:32.340><c> truth</c><00:14:32.500><c> and</c><00:14:32.679><c> left</c><00:14:32.940><c> the</c><00:14:33.240><c> truth</c><00:14:33.500><c> through</c><00:14:34.600><c> a</c>

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disastrous<00:14:35.279><c> marriage.</c>

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these<00:14:52.360><c> things.</c>

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And<00:14:52.740><c> I</c><00:14:52.840><c> don't</c><00:14:53.019><c> think</c><00:14:53.240><c> that</c><00:14:53.840><c> anything</c><00:14:54.100><c> more</c><00:14:54.340><c> can</c><00:14:54.500><c> be</c><00:14:54.799><c> expected</c>

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they're<00:15:02.500><c> living</c><00:15:02.720><c> at</c><00:15:02.980><c> home.</c>

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Are<00:15:03.340><c> going</c><00:15:03.500><c> to</c><00:15:03.820><c> attend</c><00:15:04.399><c> what's</c><00:15:04.940><c> going</c><00:15:05.100><c> on</c><00:15:05.259><c> at</c><00:15:05.379><c> the</c><00:15:05.500><c> meeting.</c>

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To<00:15:08.659><c> make</c><00:15:08.860><c> the</c><00:15:09.539><c> activities</c><00:15:09.919><c> which</c><00:15:10.340><c> the</c><00:15:10.580><c> children</c><00:15:10.820><c> are</c><00:15:11.120><c> sharing.</c>

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And<00:15:11.720><c> palatable</c><00:15:12.320><c> to</c><00:15:12.659><c> them</c><00:15:12.840><c> and</c><00:15:13.100><c> understandable</c><00:15:13.580><c> to</c><00:15:13.940><c> them.</c>

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And<00:15:18.179><c> of</c><00:15:18.360><c> course</c><00:15:18.600><c> if</c><00:15:18.840><c> you</c><00:15:19.080><c> can't</c><00:15:19.299><c> expect</c><00:15:19.659><c> the</c><00:15:19.820><c> kids</c><00:15:20.000><c> to</c><00:15:20.220><c> go</c><00:15:20.340><c> to</c>

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I've<00:15:22.860><c> got</c><00:15:22.940><c> an</c><00:15:23.340><c> interesting</c><00:15:24.139><c> sort</c><00:15:24.480><c> of</c><00:15:25.500><c> story</c><00:15:25.840><c> there.</c>

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And<00:15:31.179><c> the</c><00:15:31.259><c> little</c><00:15:31.440><c> girl</c><00:15:31.720><c> I</c><00:15:32.240><c> try,</c><00:15:32.899><c> I'm</c><00:15:33.179><c> actually</c><00:15:33.480><c> not</c><00:15:33.659><c> very</c><00:15:33.940><c> good</c>

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But<00:15:35.139><c> I</c><00:15:35.340><c> try</c><00:15:35.720><c> to</c><00:15:36.860><c> come</c><00:15:37.500><c> down</c><00:15:37.700><c> to</c><00:15:37.860><c> the</c><00:15:37.980><c> level</c><00:15:38.179><c> of</c><00:15:38.399><c> the</c><00:15:38.500><c> kids.</c>

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No,<00:15:39.500><c> actually</c><00:15:39.679><c> perhaps</c><00:15:39.980><c> rise</c><00:15:40.259><c> to</c><00:15:40.460><c> the</c><00:15:40.580><c> level</c><00:15:40.740><c> of</c><00:15:40.919><c> the</c><00:15:40.980><c> kids.</c>

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I<00:15:42.360><c> squat</c><00:15:42.759><c> down</c><00:15:43.220><c> and</c><00:15:43.700><c> talk</c><00:15:44.120><c> to</c><00:15:44.279><c> the</c><00:15:44.419><c> little</c><00:15:44.620><c> kids.</c>

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And<00:15:46.039><c> a</c><00:15:46.679><c> little</c><00:15:46.679><c> girl</c><00:15:48.100><c> came</c><00:15:48.320><c> up</c><00:15:48.559><c> to</c><00:15:48.700><c> me</c><00:15:49.080><c> and</c><00:15:50.059><c> a</c><00:15:50.220><c> delightful</c>

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And<00:15:51.259><c> I</c><00:15:51.659><c> talked</c><00:15:52.000><c> to</c><00:15:52.179><c> her,</c><00:15:52.639><c> how</c><00:15:52.860><c> are</c><00:15:53.039><c> you</c><00:15:53.179><c> this</c><00:15:53.379><c> morning?</c>

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I<00:15:57.019><c> said,</c><00:15:57.200><c> why</c><00:15:57.340><c> is</c><00:15:57.519><c> that?</c>

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She<00:15:58.740><c> said,</c><00:15:59.559><c> well</c><00:15:59.679><c> he's</c><00:15:59.840><c> not</c><00:16:00.019><c> feeling</c><00:16:00.220><c> very</c><00:16:00.600><c> well</c><00:16:00.779><c> today.</c>

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I<00:16:01.960><c> said,</c><00:16:02.120><c> well</c><00:16:02.179><c> you</c><00:16:02.259><c> want</c><00:16:02.419><c> to</c><00:16:02.539><c> be</c><00:16:02.679><c> like</c><00:16:02.879><c> dad</c><00:16:03.100><c> and</c><00:16:03.320><c> feel</c><00:16:03.460><c> not</c><00:16:03.720><c> well?</c>

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She<00:16:04.159><c> said,</c><00:16:04.759><c> yeah</c><00:16:04.919><c> but</c><00:16:05.059><c> he</c><00:16:05.179><c> could</c><00:16:05.379><c> stay</c><00:16:05.620><c> home</c><00:16:05.820><c> from</c><00:16:05.960><c> the</c><00:16:06.120><c> meeting</c><00:16:06.320><c> and</c>

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watch<00:16:06.740><c> TV.</c>

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So<00:16:09.019><c> out</c><00:16:09.419><c> of</c><00:16:09.519><c> the</c><00:16:09.659><c> mouths</c><00:16:09.879><c> of</c><00:16:10.120><c> babes</c><00:16:10.379><c> and</c><00:16:10.620><c> sucklings.</c>

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And<00:16:12.519><c> some</c><00:16:13.220><c> kinds</c><00:16:13.480><c> of</c><00:16:13.720><c> attitudes</c><00:16:14.120><c> come</c><00:16:14.460><c> through</c><00:16:14.820><c> from</c><00:16:15.100><c> time</c><00:16:15.259><c> to</c><00:16:15.399><c> time.</c>

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It's<00:16:15.759><c> kind</c><00:16:15.919><c> of</c><00:16:16.019><c> interesting.</c>

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So<00:16:17.000><c> we</c><00:16:17.220><c> need</c><00:16:17.460><c> to</c><00:16:17.919><c> be</c><00:16:18.580><c> supportive</c><00:16:19.100><c> in</c><00:16:20.080><c> a</c><00:16:20.299><c> practical</c><00:16:20.620><c> kind</c><00:16:20.919><c> of</c><00:16:21.059><c> way.</c>

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So<00:16:21.419><c> get</c><00:16:21.600><c> out</c><00:16:21.860><c> there</c><00:16:22.500><c> and</c><00:16:23.179><c> get</c><00:16:23.460><c> with</c><00:16:23.700><c> them.</c>

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Of<00:16:24.440><c> course</c><00:16:24.860><c> the</c><00:16:25.220><c> children</c><00:16:25.559><c> have</c><00:16:25.940><c> responsibilities</c><00:16:26.740><c> as</c><00:16:27.080><c> well.</c>

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Before<00:16:29.620><c> I</c><00:16:29.720><c> get</c><00:16:29.960><c> to</c><00:16:30.100><c> the</c><00:16:30.480><c> children,</c><00:16:31.200><c> let's</c><00:16:31.379><c> just</c><00:16:31.580><c> cast</c><00:16:32.659><c> our</c><00:16:33.039><c> minds</c><00:16:33.500><c> without</c><00:16:33.860><c> looking</c><00:16:34.379><c> in</c>

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detail<00:16:34.879><c> at</c><00:16:35.620><c> some</c><00:16:35.799><c> examples</c><00:16:36.299><c> of</c><00:16:36.460><c> good</c><00:16:36.700><c> parents</c><00:16:37.279><c> in</c><00:16:37.659><c> the</c><00:16:38.059><c> scriptures.</c>

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Abraham,<00:16:39.220><c> I</c><00:16:39.399><c> know</c><00:16:40.139><c> Abraham,</c><00:16:40.899><c> he</c><00:16:41.100><c> will</c><00:16:41.399><c> teach</c><00:16:42.059><c> his</c><00:16:42.500><c> household</c>

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after<00:16:43.840><c> him.</c>

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Remember<00:16:44.519><c> that?</c>

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And<00:16:46.840><c> the</c><00:16:47.000><c> faithful</c><00:16:47.279><c> Israelite</c><00:16:47.980><c> in</c><00:16:48.220><c> Deuteronomy</c><00:16:48.799><c> 11.</c>

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Talk<00:16:49.879><c> about</c><00:16:50.240><c> these</c><00:16:50.580><c> things</c><00:16:50.919><c> in</c><00:16:51.139><c> the</c><00:16:51.379><c> way</c><00:16:51.860><c> when</c><00:16:53.120><c> you</c><00:16:53.519><c> rise</c><00:16:53.940><c> up</c>

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and<00:16:54.340><c> sit</c><00:16:54.840><c> down</c><00:16:55.259><c> and</c><00:16:55.440><c> so</c><00:16:55.559><c> on,</c><00:16:55.679><c> Deuteronomy</c><00:16:56.100><c> 11.</c>

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David<00:16:57.440><c> prayed</c><00:16:57.759><c> for</c><00:16:58.039><c> Solomon,</c><00:16:58.379><c> do</c><00:16:58.379><c> you</c><00:16:58.519><c> remember?</c>

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In<00:16:59.039><c> 1</c><00:16:59.279><c> Chronicles</c><00:16:59.720><c> chapter</c><00:17:00.100><c> 29.</c>

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Hezekiah,<00:17:02.120><c> interesting</c><00:17:02.500><c> Hezekiah.</c>

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Just<00:17:04.059><c> this</c><00:17:05.619><c> little</c><00:17:05.900><c> record</c><00:17:06.259><c> in</c><00:17:06.500><c> Isaiah</c><00:17:06.740><c> chapter</c><00:17:07.059><c> 38</c><00:17:07.500><c> where</c><00:17:07.740><c> he</c>

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talks<00:17:08.599><c> about</c><00:17:09.000><c> that</c><00:17:09.299><c> which</c><00:17:09.539><c> we</c><00:17:09.920><c> just</c><00:17:10.119><c> read</c><00:17:10.259><c> about</c><00:17:10.480><c> in</c><00:17:10.640><c> the</c><00:17:10.799><c> Psalm.</c>

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You<00:17:11.099><c> know</c><00:17:11.319><c> about</c><00:17:11.819><c> passing</c><00:17:12.299><c> on</c><00:17:12.619><c> the</c><00:17:12.880><c> heritage</c><00:17:13.319><c> to</c><00:17:13.559><c> the</c><00:17:13.799><c> children</c><00:17:14.220><c> and</c><00:17:14.799><c> so</c><00:17:15.099><c> on.</c>

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Okay,<00:17:16.119><c> that</c><00:17:16.180><c> was</c><00:17:16.339><c> Hezekiah.</c>

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Lois<00:17:17.779><c> and</c><00:17:17.960><c> Eunice,</c><00:17:18.519><c> remember</c><00:17:19.059><c> the</c><00:17:19.759><c> recommendation</c><00:17:20.339><c> of</c><00:17:20.599><c> Timothy.</c>

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There's<00:17:21.640><c> some</c><00:17:22.019><c> heritage</c><00:17:22.579><c> which</c><00:17:22.900><c> had</c><00:17:23.119><c> been</c><00:17:23.420><c> passed</c><00:17:23.759><c> on</c><00:17:23.900><c> by</c><00:17:24.200><c> his</c>

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mother<00:17:25.240><c> and</c><00:17:25.740><c> his</c><00:17:26.000><c> grandmother.</c>

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Interesting<00:17:26.859><c> that,</c><00:17:27.180><c> not</c><00:17:27.299><c> his</c><00:17:27.539><c> father</c><00:17:27.740><c> and</c><00:17:27.980><c> grandfather,</c><00:17:28.539><c> but</c>

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his<00:17:28.880><c> mother</c><00:17:29.039><c> and</c><00:17:29.240><c> his</c><00:17:29.420><c> grandmother.</c>

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We<00:17:29.980><c> may</c><00:17:30.240><c> come</c><00:17:30.480><c> back</c><00:17:30.680><c> to</c><00:17:30.839><c> that.</c>

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And<00:17:31.720><c> lots</c><00:17:31.880><c> of</c><00:17:32.079><c> other</c><00:17:32.259><c> relevant</c><00:17:32.559><c> text.</c>

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Now<00:17:33.740><c> there's</c><00:17:34.019><c> a</c><00:17:34.140><c> couple</c><00:17:34.259><c> of</c><00:17:34.400><c> things</c><00:17:34.539><c> I'd</c><00:17:34.740><c> like</c><00:17:34.900><c> to</c><00:17:35.079><c> say</c><00:17:35.200><c> about</c><00:17:35.460><c> this.</c>

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And<00:17:36.380><c> that</c><00:17:36.539><c> is</c><00:17:37.079><c> in</c><00:17:38.000><c> relation</c><00:17:38.400><c> to</c><00:17:38.579><c> the</c><00:17:38.740><c> question</c><00:17:39.039><c> of</c><00:17:39.940><c> the</c><00:17:40.599><c> successfulness</c><00:17:41.460><c> or</c><00:17:41.740><c> otherwise</c><00:17:42.220><c> of</c>

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that<00:17:42.779><c> which</c><00:17:42.960><c> we</c><00:17:43.400><c> undertake.</c>

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I<00:17:45.700><c> want</c><00:17:45.859><c> to</c><00:17:46.019><c> ask</c><00:17:46.160><c> you</c><00:17:46.339><c> a</c><00:17:46.339><c> question.</c>

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You<00:17:47.599><c> know</c><00:17:47.759><c> that</c><00:17:48.000><c> Abraham</c><00:17:48.319><c> was</c><00:17:48.559><c> a</c><00:17:48.660><c> good</c><00:17:49.359><c> parent.</c>

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He<00:17:50.779><c> was</c><00:17:51.400><c> concerned</c><00:17:52.200><c> about</c><00:17:52.880><c> his</c><00:17:53.140><c> family.</c>

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He<00:17:54.079><c> was</c><00:17:54.380><c> concerned</c><00:17:54.759><c> with</c><00:17:55.079><c> futurity.</c>

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That's<00:17:56.759><c> one</c><00:17:56.940><c> of</c><00:17:57.099><c> the</c><00:17:57.180><c> definitions</c><00:17:57.599><c> of</c><00:17:57.799><c> a</c><00:17:57.839><c> good</c><00:17:58.500><c> Christadelphian.</c>

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He's<00:17:59.819><c> concerned</c><00:18:00.119><c> about</c><00:18:00.440><c> the</c><00:18:00.500><c> future.</c>

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And<00:18:01.819><c> Abraham</c><00:18:02.140><c> was</c><00:18:02.500><c> and</c><00:18:02.559><c> it</c><00:18:02.680><c> was</c><00:18:02.859><c> because</c><00:18:03.099><c> of</c><00:18:03.200><c> that</c><00:18:03.339><c> that</c><00:18:03.460><c> he</c>

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was<00:18:03.740><c> chosen.</c>

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And<00:18:05.140><c> the</c><00:18:05.400><c> promises</c><00:18:05.660><c> were</c><00:18:05.920><c> made</c><00:18:06.119><c> to</c><00:18:06.339><c> him</c><00:18:06.519><c> and</c><00:18:06.680><c> so</c><00:18:06.880><c> on.</c>

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And<00:18:09.279><c> he</c><00:18:09.359><c> was</c><00:18:09.539><c> a</c><00:18:09.619><c> good</c><00:18:09.740><c> father.</c>

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Do<00:18:12.700><c> you</c><00:18:12.700><c> know</c><00:18:12.799><c> how</c><00:18:12.980><c> many</c><00:18:13.160><c> sons</c><00:18:13.420><c> he</c><00:18:13.759><c> had?</c>

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Now<00:18:17.380><c> how</c><00:18:17.519><c> many</c><00:18:17.759><c> of</c><00:18:17.799><c> them</c><00:18:17.940><c> came</c><00:18:18.180><c> to</c><00:18:18.319><c> the</c><00:18:18.519><c> truth?</c>

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One<00:18:22.460><c> of</c><00:18:22.599><c> the</c><00:18:22.640><c> points</c><00:18:23.000><c> that</c><00:18:23.220><c> I'm</c><00:18:23.400><c> trying</c><00:18:23.680><c> to</c><00:18:23.779><c> take</c><00:18:24.059><c> out</c><00:18:24.279><c> of</c><00:18:24.420><c> that</c>

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is<00:18:24.900><c> that</c><00:18:27.119><c> a</c><00:18:27.279><c> parent,</c>

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and<00:18:28.599><c> I'm</c><00:18:28.759><c> not</c><00:18:29.039><c> just</c><00:18:29.319><c> trying</c><00:18:29.579><c> to</c><00:18:29.859><c> rationalize</c><00:18:30.700><c> our</c><00:18:31.180><c> grief.</c>

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I<00:18:34.200><c> would</c><00:18:34.640><c> just</c><00:18:34.880><c> like</c><00:18:35.160><c> that</c><00:18:35.500><c> the</c><00:18:35.700><c> brotherhood</c><00:18:36.079><c> should</c><00:18:36.319><c> be</c><00:18:36.480><c> just</c>

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a<00:18:36.900><c> little</c><00:18:37.099><c> aware</c><00:18:37.819><c> of</c><00:18:38.559><c> the</c><00:18:39.019><c> incredible</c><00:18:39.900><c> grief</c><00:18:40.519><c> that</c><00:18:40.759><c> it</c><00:18:40.920><c> is</c><00:18:41.180><c> to</c>

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parents<00:18:41.880><c> who</c><00:18:42.200><c> are</c><00:18:42.440><c> devoted,</c>

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for<00:18:43.519><c> whom</c><00:18:43.819><c> the</c><00:18:44.200><c> truth</c><00:18:44.460><c> is</c><00:18:44.799><c> their</c><00:18:45.079><c> life</c><00:18:45.660><c> when</c><00:18:46.299><c> they</c><00:18:46.539><c> see</c><00:18:47.000><c> that</c>

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despite<00:18:47.960><c> everything</c><00:18:49.900><c> that</c><00:18:50.119><c> they</c><00:18:50.259><c> can</c><00:18:50.460><c> do</c><00:18:50.700><c> it</c><00:18:51.039><c> just</c><00:18:51.299><c> doesn't</c><00:18:51.559><c> work.</c>

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And<00:18:53.500><c> the</c><00:18:53.619><c> children</c><00:18:53.799><c> go</c><00:18:54.059><c> their</c><00:18:54.220><c> own</c><00:18:54.400><c> way.</c>

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I<00:18:54.920><c> mean</c><00:18:55.240><c> we</c><00:18:55.559><c> know,</c><00:18:55.980><c> we</c><00:18:56.200><c> console</c><00:18:56.500><c> ourselves,</c><00:18:56.880><c> who</c><00:18:57.019><c> knows</c><00:18:57.259><c> what</c>

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will<00:18:57.640><c> happen</c><00:18:57.799><c> in</c><00:18:58.000><c> the</c><00:18:58.099><c> future.</c>

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But<00:18:59.380><c> the</c><00:19:00.680><c> point</c><00:19:00.960><c> is</c><00:19:01.519><c> that</c><00:19:01.819><c> there</c><00:19:02.119><c> is</c><00:19:02.599><c> a</c><00:19:02.900><c> point</c><00:19:03.099><c> at</c><00:19:03.359><c> which</c><00:19:03.660><c> the</c>

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children<00:19:04.299><c> take</c><00:19:04.700><c> responsibility</c><00:19:05.440><c> for</c><00:19:05.680><c> themselves.</c>

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And<00:19:07.460><c> there</c><00:19:07.740><c> isn't</c><00:19:07.900><c> anything</c><00:19:08.180><c> you</c><00:19:08.299><c> can</c><00:19:08.420><c> do</c><00:19:08.579><c> about</c><00:19:08.680><c> it.</c>

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You<00:19:08.980><c> simply</c><00:19:09.240><c> have</c><00:19:09.480><c> to</c><00:19:09.559><c> learn</c><00:19:09.720><c> to</c><00:19:09.900><c> accept</c><00:19:10.180><c> it</c><00:19:10.380><c> and</c><00:19:10.500><c> it</c><00:19:10.759><c> can</c><00:19:11.319><c> be</c><00:19:11.519><c> a</c>

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very<00:19:11.819><c> difficult</c><00:19:12.140><c> matter.</c>

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But<00:19:13.099><c> you</c><00:19:13.200><c> know</c><00:19:13.500><c> the</c><00:19:13.740><c> grief</c><00:19:13.920><c> that</c><00:19:14.160><c> Abraham</c><00:19:14.559><c> felt</c><00:19:14.960><c> over</c><00:19:15.359><c> Ishmael.</c>

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And<00:19:19.299><c> yet</c><00:19:19.940><c> God</c><00:19:20.500><c> had</c><00:19:21.240><c> a</c><00:19:21.640><c> view</c><00:19:21.859><c> of</c><00:19:21.960><c> him</c><00:19:22.200><c> that</c><00:19:23.420><c> just</c><00:19:23.880><c> didn't</c><00:19:24.099><c> work,</c>

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did<00:19:24.460><c> it?</c>

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Hezekiah,<00:19:27.579><c> do</c><00:19:27.740><c> you</c><00:19:27.799><c> ever</c><00:19:28.039><c> see</c><00:19:28.140><c> a</c><00:19:28.180><c> better</c><00:19:28.359><c> man</c><00:19:28.640><c> than</c><00:19:28.779><c> Hezekiah</c>

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walking<00:19:30.059><c> around?</c>

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I'm<00:19:31.299><c> using</c><00:19:31.519><c> this</c><00:19:31.779><c> in</c><00:19:31.859><c> a</c><00:19:32.019><c> relative</c><00:19:32.240><c> term,</c><00:19:33.019><c> of</c><00:19:33.200><c> course</c><00:19:33.259><c> the</c><00:19:33.380><c> Lord</c>

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Jesus<00:19:33.880><c> Christ.</c>

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But<00:19:34.640><c> generally</c><00:19:35.660><c> speaking,</c><00:19:36.119><c> on</c><00:19:36.319><c> the</c><00:19:36.500><c> face</c><00:19:36.660><c> of</c><00:19:36.859><c> the</c><00:19:36.880><c> earth,</c><00:19:37.039><c> do</c>

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you<00:19:37.460><c> see</c><00:19:37.599><c> a</c><00:19:37.859><c> better</c><00:19:38.019><c> person</c><00:19:38.400><c> than</c><00:19:38.539><c> Hezekiah</c><00:19:38.920><c> walking</c><00:19:39.180><c> around?</c>

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And<00:19:42.220><c> do</c><00:19:42.380><c> you</c><00:19:42.380><c> remember</c><00:19:42.599><c> who</c><00:19:42.859><c> his</c><00:19:43.000><c> son</c><00:19:43.220><c> was?</c>

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And<00:19:46.279><c> can</c><00:19:46.400><c> you</c><00:19:46.799><c> begin</c><00:19:47.460><c> to</c><00:19:47.839><c> imagine</c><00:19:48.119><c> the</c><00:19:48.460><c> grief</c><00:19:48.759><c> that</c><00:19:49.359><c> Hezekiah</c>

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might<00:19:50.140><c> have</c><00:19:50.380><c> felt</c><00:19:50.579><c> over</c><00:19:50.940><c> that</c><00:19:52.099><c> had</c><00:19:52.480><c> he</c><00:19:53.140><c> lived</c><00:19:53.319><c> to</c><00:19:53.559><c> see</c><00:19:53.779><c> it?</c>

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And<00:19:56.420><c> so</c><00:19:56.839><c> all</c><00:19:57.220><c> I'm</c><00:19:57.440><c> saying</c><00:19:57.700><c> is</c><00:19:58.000><c> there</c><00:19:58.900><c> is</c><00:19:58.900><c> a</c><00:19:59.140><c> need</c><00:19:59.980><c> for</c><00:20:01.019><c> the</c><00:20:01.319><c> ecclesiast</c><00:20:01.700><c> to</c>

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be<00:20:02.319><c> very</c><00:20:02.619><c> much</c><00:20:02.960><c> sensitive</c><00:20:03.480><c> and</c><00:20:03.859><c> aware</c><00:20:04.119><c> of</c><00:20:04.380><c> this</c><00:20:04.579><c> kind</c><00:20:04.819><c> of</c><00:20:05.019><c> thing.</c>

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And<00:20:05.900><c> to</c><00:20:06.119><c> understand</c><00:20:06.759><c> that</c><00:20:07.880><c> sometimes</c><00:20:08.579><c> the</c><00:20:08.819><c> Lord</c><00:20:08.960><c> tests</c><00:20:09.359><c> us</c><00:20:09.660><c> in</c>

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ways<00:20:10.200><c> that</c><00:20:12.299><c> He</c><00:20:12.500><c> only</c><00:20:12.759><c> knows</c><00:20:13.059><c> best.</c>

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There's<00:20:16.160><c> more</c><00:20:16.259><c> that</c><00:20:16.420><c> could</c><00:20:16.420><c> be</c><00:20:16.559><c> said</c><00:20:16.700><c> about</c><00:20:16.920><c> that.</c>

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The<00:20:18.200><c> fact</c><00:20:18.299><c> of</c><00:20:18.420><c> the</c><00:20:18.480><c> matter</c><00:20:18.660><c> is</c><00:20:18.900><c> it</c><00:20:18.960><c> requires</c><00:20:19.420><c> cooperation</c><00:20:20.019><c> with</c><00:20:20.220><c> the</c><00:20:20.400><c> children.</c>

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So<00:20:21.220><c> the</c><00:20:21.420><c> children</c><00:20:21.660><c> have</c><00:20:21.880><c> a</c><00:20:22.059><c> role</c><00:20:22.299><c> to</c><00:20:22.500><c> play</c><00:20:22.700><c> as</c><00:20:23.079><c> well.</c>

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And<00:20:26.680><c> it</c><00:20:27.000><c> goes</c><00:20:27.559><c> like</c><00:20:28.299><c> this.</c>

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They<00:20:30.059><c> have</c><00:20:30.319><c> to</c><00:20:30.599><c> learn</c><00:20:31.079><c> to</c><00:20:31.559><c> love</c><00:20:32.079><c> and</c><00:20:32.960><c> respect</c><00:20:33.500><c> their</c><00:20:33.819><c> parents</c>

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so<00:20:36.480><c> as</c><00:20:36.980><c> to</c><00:20:37.319><c> learn</c><00:20:37.799><c> to</c><00:20:38.940><c> love</c><00:20:39.579><c> the</c><00:20:40.000><c> Lord</c><00:20:40.259><c> and</c><00:20:40.519><c> receive</c><00:20:40.779><c> His</c><00:20:41.000><c> blessing.</c>

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Now<00:20:43.240><c> once</c><00:20:43.480><c> again</c><00:20:43.700><c> this</c><00:20:43.980><c> is</c><00:20:44.420><c> a</c><00:20:44.660><c> cooperative</c><00:20:45.140><c> venture,</c><00:20:45.619><c> something</c><00:20:45.940><c> which</c>

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the<00:20:46.460><c> children</c><00:20:46.660><c> have</c><00:20:46.900><c> to,</c><00:20:48.019><c> they</c><00:20:48.279><c> have</c><00:20:48.480><c> to</c><00:20:48.640><c> do</c><00:20:48.779><c> it.</c>

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They<00:20:49.279><c> have</c><00:20:49.460><c> to</c><00:20:49.579><c> be</c><00:20:49.759><c> taught</c><00:20:49.940><c> how</c><00:20:50.200><c> to</c><00:20:50.380><c> do</c><00:20:50.500><c> it,</c><00:20:51.019><c> and</c><00:20:51.259><c> you</c><00:20:51.359><c> do</c><00:20:51.480><c> it</c><00:20:51.619><c> by</c>

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example,<00:20:52.319><c> but</c><00:20:52.519><c> it's</c><00:20:53.099><c> a</c><00:20:53.200><c> matter</c><00:20:53.460><c> of</c><00:20:53.700><c> cooperation.</c>

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They<00:20:54.400><c> don't</c><00:20:54.599><c> need</c><00:20:54.839><c> to</c><00:20:54.980><c> work</c><00:20:55.180><c> at</c><00:20:55.319><c> it</c><00:20:55.500><c> together.</c>

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And<00:20:57.279><c> so</c><00:20:57.400><c> we</c><00:20:57.519><c> need</c><00:20:57.720><c> to</c><00:20:57.880><c> set</c><00:20:57.960><c> up</c><00:20:58.160><c> our</c><00:20:58.339><c> homes</c><00:20:58.619><c> in</c><00:20:58.960><c> such</c><00:20:59.099><c> a</c><00:20:59.279><c> way</c><00:20:59.500><c> that</c>

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that<00:20:59.920><c> is</c><00:21:00.180><c> possible.</c>

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And<00:21:01.539><c> this</c><00:21:01.759><c> can</c><00:21:02.039><c> be</c><00:21:02.480><c> a</c><00:21:02.619><c> little</c><00:21:02.759><c> challenge.</c>

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It's<00:21:03.339><c> a</c><00:21:03.480><c> full</c><00:21:03.660><c>-time</c><00:21:03.880><c> job,</c><00:21:04.319><c> it</c><00:21:04.539><c> really</c><00:21:04.779><c> is.</c>

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Key<00:21:06.299><c> verse,</c><00:21:06.779><c> honor</c><00:21:06.900><c> your</c><00:21:07.220><c> father</c><00:21:07.480><c> and</c><00:21:07.700><c> your</c><00:21:07.900><c> mother</c><00:21:08.039><c> that</c><00:21:08.240><c> your</c><00:21:08.519><c> days</c><00:21:08.759><c> may</c>

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be<00:21:09.200><c> long</c><00:21:09.420><c> in</c><00:21:09.579><c> the</c><00:21:09.759><c> land</c><00:21:09.980><c> which</c><00:21:10.220><c> the</c><00:21:10.460><c> Lord</c><00:21:10.680><c> your</c><00:21:10.940><c> God</c><00:21:11.220><c> gives</c><00:21:11.480><c> you.</c>

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Of<00:21:11.920><c> course</c><00:21:12.000><c> that's</c><00:21:12.960><c> from</c><00:21:13.259><c> Exodus</c><00:21:13.720><c> chapter</c><00:21:14.079><c> 20,</c><00:21:14.940><c> and</c><00:21:15.099><c> lots</c><00:21:15.259><c> of</c>

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other<00:21:15.559><c> key</c><00:21:15.799><c> verses</c><00:21:16.059><c> which</c><00:21:16.319><c> could</c><00:21:16.519><c> be</c><00:21:16.819><c> quoted</c><00:21:16.980><c> as</c><00:21:17.299><c> well.</c>

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And<00:21:17.900><c> there</c><00:21:18.180><c> are</c><00:21:18.359><c> those</c><00:21:18.720><c> supporting</c><00:21:19.240><c> texts.</c>

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Well,<00:21:21.279><c> so</c><00:21:21.519><c> much</c><00:21:21.759><c> for</c><00:21:21.980><c> the</c><00:21:22.200><c> theory</c><00:21:22.579><c> of</c><00:21:22.900><c> it.</c>

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That's<00:21:23.480><c> what</c><00:21:23.660><c> we're</c><00:21:24.420><c> trying</c><00:21:24.740><c> to</c><00:21:24.960><c> achieve,</c><00:21:25.400><c> isn't</c><00:21:25.539><c> it?</c>

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Now<00:21:26.680><c> let's</c><00:21:27.220><c> discuss,</c><00:21:28.259><c> and</c><00:21:28.740><c> if</c><00:21:28.900><c> I</c><00:21:29.079><c> pull</c><00:21:29.200><c> this</c><00:21:29.400><c> off</c><00:21:29.539><c> too</c><00:21:29.839><c> quickly,</c><00:21:30.299><c> forgive</c>

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me,<00:21:30.660><c> come</c><00:21:30.839><c> and</c><00:21:31.039><c> see</c><00:21:31.119><c> it</c><00:21:31.400><c> later</c><00:21:31.720><c> if</c><00:21:31.819><c> you</c><00:21:32.059><c> want.</c>

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They'll<00:21:32.740><c> be</c><00:21:33.000><c> here.</c>

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Let's<00:21:34.559><c> now</c><00:21:34.799><c> discuss</c><00:21:35.380><c> the</c><00:21:36.240><c> practical</c><00:21:36.599><c> reality</c><00:21:37.079><c> of</c><00:21:37.319><c> it.</c>

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There<00:21:37.900><c> are</c><00:21:38.200><c> the</c><00:21:38.380><c> blurring</c><00:21:38.920><c> factors.</c>

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And<00:21:41.339><c> I</c><00:21:41.859><c> guess</c><00:21:42.059><c> we've</c><00:21:42.319><c> all</c><00:21:42.599><c> been</c><00:21:42.859><c> subject</c><00:21:43.180><c> to</c><00:21:43.440><c> these.</c>

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When<00:21:44.599><c> we</c><00:21:44.720><c> were</c><00:21:44.900><c> young</c><00:21:45.079><c> we</c><00:21:45.220><c> had</c><00:21:45.500><c> no</c><00:21:45.740><c> money</c><00:21:46.019><c> at</c><00:21:46.279><c> all.</c>

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Our<00:21:46.759><c> home</c><00:21:46.880><c> was</c><00:21:47.099><c> a</c><00:21:47.240><c> place</c><00:21:47.400><c> where</c><00:21:47.559><c> we</c><00:21:47.660><c> came</c><00:21:47.859><c> to</c><00:21:48.059><c> eat</c><00:21:48.200><c> and</c><00:21:48.400><c> sleep</c>

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and<00:21:49.680><c> wash</c><00:21:50.059><c> and</c><00:21:50.299><c> dress</c><00:21:50.559><c> and</c><00:21:50.720><c> rush</c><00:21:51.000><c> out</c>

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so<00:21:51.980><c> that</c><00:21:52.119><c> we</c><00:21:52.140><c> could</c><00:21:52.319><c> make</c><00:21:52.460><c> more</c><00:21:52.680><c> money</c><00:21:53.119><c> to</c><00:21:54.599><c> pay</c><00:21:54.900><c> for</c><00:21:55.019><c> the</c><00:21:55.200><c> house</c>

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where<00:21:55.539><c> all</c><00:21:55.700><c> of</c><00:21:55.779><c> this</c><00:21:55.940><c> happened,</c><00:21:56.359><c> I</c><00:21:56.460><c> suppose,</c><00:21:57.420><c> when</c><00:21:57.559><c> we</c><00:21:57.779><c> first</c><00:21:58.019><c> married.</c>

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Memories<00:21:59.480><c> are</c><00:21:59.779><c> dim</c><00:21:59.779><c> and</c><00:21:59.859><c> it</c><00:21:59.980><c> all</c><00:22:00.099><c> happened</c><00:22:00.339><c> in</c><00:22:00.539><c> a</c><00:22:00.700><c> blur.</c>

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And<00:22:01.920><c> as</c><00:22:03.119><c> children</c><00:22:03.420><c> arrived,</c><00:22:04.019><c> the</c><00:22:04.099><c> home</c><00:22:04.299><c> continued</c><00:22:04.859><c> to</c><00:22:05.099><c> be</c><00:22:05.640><c> a</c>

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place<00:22:06.200><c> with</c><00:22:06.940><c> the</c><00:22:07.099><c> same</c><00:22:07.339><c> place</c><00:22:07.559><c> with</c><00:22:07.740><c> the</c><00:22:07.799><c> addition</c><00:22:08.059><c> of</c><00:22:08.400><c> sleep</c>

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-interrupted<00:22:09.200><c> nights</c>

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and<00:22:10.920><c> changing</c><00:22:11.400><c> nappies</c><00:22:12.160><c> and</c><00:22:13.400><c> a</c><00:22:13.640><c> wife</c><00:22:13.880><c> with</c><00:22:14.099><c> an</c><00:22:14.240><c> altered</c><00:22:14.380><c> set</c>

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of<00:22:14.940><c> priorities.</c>

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Less<00:22:17.640><c> money,</c><00:22:18.299><c> more</c><00:22:18.539><c> pressure</c><00:22:18.839><c> to</c><00:22:19.059><c> fence</c><00:22:19.240><c> the</c><00:22:19.460><c> house,</c><00:22:21.059><c> pave</c><00:22:21.160><c> the,</c><00:22:21.940><c> you</c><00:22:22.079><c> know,</c><00:22:22.980><c> put</c><00:22:23.059><c> in</c>

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the<00:22:23.460><c> paths</c><00:22:23.940><c> and</c><00:22:24.839><c> paint</c><00:22:25.099><c> the</c><00:22:25.359><c> house</c><00:22:25.740><c> and</c><00:22:26.220><c> fix</c><00:22:26.480><c> the</c><00:22:26.779><c> car.</c>

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And<00:22:27.680><c> when</c><00:22:27.759><c> you</c><00:22:27.859><c> have</c><00:22:27.960><c> no</c><00:22:28.140><c> money</c><00:22:28.299><c> in</c><00:22:28.440><c> New</c><00:22:28.640><c> Zealand</c><00:22:28.839><c> you</c><00:22:28.960><c> do</c>

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these<00:22:29.359><c> things</c><00:22:29.579><c> yourself.</c>

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And<00:22:30.960><c> so</c><00:22:31.640><c> sandwiched</c><00:22:32.200><c> in</c><00:22:32.319><c> there</c><00:22:32.500><c> somewhere,</c><00:22:33.000><c> it</c><00:22:33.000><c> was</c><00:22:33.180><c> also</c><00:22:33.380><c> the</c>

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place<00:22:33.759><c> where</c><00:22:33.980><c> Bible</c><00:22:34.259><c> studies</c><00:22:34.559><c> were</c><00:22:34.759><c> done,</c><00:22:35.180><c> classes</c><00:22:35.420><c> were</c><00:22:35.660><c> prepared,</c>

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classes<00:22:37.880><c> were</c><00:22:38.200><c> hosted,</c><00:22:39.140><c> guests</c><00:22:39.380><c> were</c><00:22:39.680><c> entertained,</c><00:22:40.380><c> young</c>

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brethren<00:22:40.900><c> and</c><00:22:41.119><c> sisters</c><00:22:41.279><c> were</c><00:22:41.619><c> boarded.</c>

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We<00:22:43.039><c> had</c><00:22:44.299><c> a</c><00:22:44.460><c> constant</c><00:22:44.720><c> stream</c><00:22:45.039><c> of</c><00:22:45.160><c> people</c><00:22:45.460><c> staying</c><00:22:45.700><c> with</c><00:22:45.799><c> us.</c>

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Major<00:22:46.279><c> construction</c><00:22:46.900><c> projects</c><00:22:47.299><c> were</c><00:22:47.539><c> undertaken.</c>

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The<00:22:49.160><c> old</c><00:22:49.339><c> motor</c><00:22:49.640><c> caravan</c><00:22:50.240><c> and</c><00:22:50.799><c> a</c><00:22:51.099><c> bus</c><00:22:51.380><c> and</c><00:22:52.099><c> a</c><00:22:52.160><c> whole</c><00:22:52.339><c> bunch</c><00:22:52.539><c> of</c>

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other<00:22:52.880><c> things</c><00:22:53.099><c> which</c><00:22:53.319><c> I</c><00:22:53.500><c> seem</c><00:22:53.640><c> to</c><00:22:53.839><c> manage</c><00:22:54.319><c> somehow</c><00:22:54.740><c> or</c><00:22:54.819><c> other</c>

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to<00:22:56.099><c> get</c><00:22:56.359><c> involved</c><00:22:56.720><c> in.</c>

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And<00:22:57.940><c> as</c><00:22:58.140><c> the</c><00:22:58.339><c> children</c><00:22:58.599><c> grew</c><00:22:58.799><c> their</c><00:22:59.039><c> education</c><00:22:59.559><c> became</c><00:22:59.900><c> a</c><00:23:00.059><c> pressing</c><00:23:00.299><c> need,</c><00:23:00.680><c> not</c>

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just<00:23:01.119><c> reading,</c><00:23:01.400><c> writing</c><00:23:01.660><c> and</c><00:23:01.839><c> arithmetic,</c>

00:23:02.319 --> 00:23:04.259
but<00:23:02.440><c> their</c><00:23:02.680><c> education</c><00:23:03.180><c> and</c><00:23:03.380><c> the</c><00:23:03.559><c> Word.</c>

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And<00:23:04.700><c> particularly</c><00:23:05.039><c> for</c><00:23:05.319><c> our</c><00:23:05.500><c> children,</c><00:23:06.039><c> their</c><00:23:06.180><c> education</c><00:23:06.720><c> and</c><00:23:06.900><c> the</c><00:23:07.000><c> way</c><00:23:07.180><c> of</c>

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life<00:23:07.859><c> demanded</c><00:23:08.420><c> by</c><00:23:08.759><c> the</c><00:23:08.920><c> Word</c><00:23:09.119><c> of</c><00:23:09.380><c> God</c>

00:23:10.859 --> 00:23:13.019
became<00:23:11.380><c> a</c><00:23:11.500><c> place</c><00:23:11.859><c> of</c><00:23:12.140><c> too</c><00:23:12.359><c> frequent</c><00:23:12.759><c> conflict.</c>

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I'm<00:23:13.579><c> reading</c><00:23:13.880><c> my</c><00:23:14.140><c> notes</c><00:23:14.380><c> here</c><00:23:14.819><c> between</c><00:23:15.220><c> strong</c><00:23:15.680><c>-willed</c><00:23:15.900><c> youngsters</c><00:23:16.460><c> and</c>

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the<00:23:17.220><c> need</c><00:23:17.359><c> to</c><00:23:17.559><c> live</c><00:23:17.720><c> according</c><00:23:18.039><c> to</c><00:23:18.220><c> God's</c><00:23:18.640><c> ways.</c>

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Now,<00:23:20.119><c> I</c><00:23:20.640><c> guess</c><00:23:20.900><c> that's</c><00:23:21.180><c> pretty</c><00:23:21.420><c> typical</c><00:23:21.720><c> really.</c>

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I<00:23:22.200><c> mean,</c><00:23:22.339><c> for</c><00:23:22.519><c> most</c><00:23:22.720><c> of</c><00:23:22.880><c> us</c><00:23:23.259><c> there</c><00:23:23.599><c> are</c><00:23:23.880><c> these</c><00:23:24.319><c> blurring</c><00:23:24.779><c> factors.</c>

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For<00:23:25.240><c> those</c><00:23:25.460><c> who</c><00:23:25.640><c> can't</c><00:23:25.980><c> read</c><00:23:26.220><c> that,</c><00:23:27.140><c> on</c><00:23:27.799><c> the</c><00:23:27.960><c> one</c><00:23:28.200><c> side</c><00:23:28.480><c> the</c><00:23:28.599><c> husband</c><00:23:28.960><c> is</c>

00:23:29.240 --> 00:23:33.259
dragging<00:23:29.579><c> the</c><00:23:29.859><c> load</c><00:23:30.200><c> and</c><00:23:30.779><c> has</c><00:23:31.079><c> in</c><00:23:31.220><c> mind</c><00:23:31.920><c> the</c><00:23:32.799><c> mortgage,</c>

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the<00:23:33.599><c> car</c><00:23:33.859><c> repayments,</c><00:23:34.440><c> the</c><00:23:34.599><c> house</c><00:23:34.819><c> and</c><00:23:34.960><c> garden</c><00:23:35.359><c> maintenance,</c>

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staying<00:23:36.220><c> up</c><00:23:36.480><c> to</c><00:23:36.619><c> date</c><00:23:36.799><c> at</c><00:23:37.039><c> work.</c>

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These<00:23:39.359><c> days</c><00:23:39.559><c> it's</c><00:23:39.960><c> quite</c><00:23:40.240><c> a</c><00:23:40.319><c> pressure,</c><00:23:40.740><c> you</c><00:23:40.740><c> see.</c>

00:23:40.960 --> 00:23:44.259
You've<00:23:41.180><c> got</c><00:23:41.380><c> to</c><00:23:41.700><c> keep</c><00:23:41.839><c> up</c><00:23:42.019><c> to</c><00:23:42.200><c> date</c><00:23:42.339><c> with</c><00:23:42.779><c> the</c><00:23:42.980><c> change</c><00:23:43.180><c> of</c><00:23:43.400><c> technology</c><00:23:43.859><c> and</c><00:23:44.019><c> stuff.</c>

00:23:44.740 --> 00:23:49.240
Family<00:23:45.160><c> responsibilities,</c><00:23:46.519><c> bills,</c><00:23:47.339><c> taxes,</c><00:23:48.160><c> insurance,</c>

00:23:49.259 --> 00:23:50.039
ecclesial<00:23:49.579><c> duties.</c>

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And<00:23:50.700><c> I</c><00:23:50.799><c> put</c><00:23:50.960><c> leisure</c><00:23:51.240><c> down</c><00:23:51.579><c> there</c><00:23:51.759><c> and</c><00:23:51.839><c> some</c><00:23:52.059><c> people</c><00:23:52.259><c> think</c><00:23:52.500><c> that</c><00:23:52.740><c> leisure</c><00:23:52.960><c> is</c>

00:23:53.259 --> 00:23:54.119
a<00:23:53.259><c> relief</c><00:23:53.559><c> from</c><00:23:53.819><c> the</c><00:23:53.980><c> load.</c>

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But<00:23:54.380><c> the</c><00:23:54.980><c> way</c><00:23:55.220><c> that</c><00:23:55.420><c> New</c><00:23:55.599><c> Zealanders</c><00:23:55.980><c> go</c><00:23:56.180><c> about</c><00:23:56.400><c> leisure,</c><00:23:57.180><c> it's</c><00:23:57.380><c> a</c><00:23:57.500><c> burden.</c>

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Especially<00:23:59.539><c> if</c><00:23:59.720><c> it</c><00:23:59.799><c> involves</c><00:24:00.119><c> golf</c><00:24:00.740><c> or</c><00:24:02.200><c> rugby</c><00:24:02.740><c> or</c><00:24:04.319><c> bowls,</c><00:24:05.359><c> for</c>

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that<00:24:05.880><c> matter.</c>

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And<00:24:08.019><c> on</c><00:24:08.259><c> the</c><00:24:08.440><c> other</c><00:24:08.640><c> side</c><00:24:08.779><c> of</c><00:24:08.900><c> the</c><00:24:09.019><c> coin</c><00:24:09.220><c> there's</c><00:24:10.160><c> the</c><00:24:11.440><c> wife</c><00:24:11.839><c> standing</c><00:24:12.140><c> there</c><00:24:12.400><c> with</c><00:24:12.500><c> the</c><00:24:12.700><c> rolling</c><00:24:12.920><c> pin</c><00:24:13.660><c> to</c>

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meet<00:24:14.140><c> him.</c>

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I'm<00:24:14.599><c> sure</c><00:24:14.839><c> that</c><00:24:15.019><c> he's</c><00:24:15.200><c> going</c><00:24:15.299><c> to</c><00:24:15.440><c> meet</c><00:24:15.579><c> at</c><00:24:15.799><c> the</c><00:24:17.640><c> rolling</c><00:24:18.140><c> pin</c><00:24:18.420><c> job.</c>

00:24:18.819 --> 00:24:20.759
But<00:24:18.839><c> she's</c><00:24:19.119><c> just</c><00:24:19.299><c> holding</c><00:24:19.400><c> the</c><00:24:19.619><c> rolling</c><00:24:19.819><c> pin.</c><00:24:20.140><c> I'm</c><00:24:20.200><c> sure</c><00:24:20.299><c> she's</c><00:24:20.539><c> just</c>

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rolling<00:24:21.019><c> the</c><00:24:21.160><c> ice</c><00:24:21.440><c> cream.</c>

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She's<00:24:22.000><c> not</c><00:24:22.180><c> going</c><00:24:22.299><c> to</c><00:24:22.440><c> lay</c><00:24:22.500><c> it</c><00:24:22.640><c> about</c><00:24:22.859><c> him.</c>

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Clothing<00:24:24.079><c> and</c><00:24:24.380><c> sewing,</c><00:24:24.859><c> shopping</c><00:24:25.240><c> and</c><00:24:25.579><c> cooking,</c><00:24:26.019><c> washing</c><00:24:26.339><c> and</c><00:24:26.680><c> cleaning,</c><00:24:27.160><c> home</c><00:24:27.319><c> and</c><00:24:27.500><c> garden,</c><00:24:27.859><c> care</c><00:24:28.079><c> of</c>

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the<00:24:28.380><c> children</c><00:24:28.680><c> and</c><00:24:29.220><c> the</c><00:24:29.480><c> elderly.</c>

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And<00:24:29.859><c> that's</c><00:24:29.980><c> some</c><00:24:30.160><c> of</c><00:24:30.259><c> the</c><00:24:30.380><c> things</c><00:24:30.539><c> which</c><00:24:30.680><c> I</c><00:24:30.980><c> thought</c><00:24:31.140><c> of.</c>

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Perhaps<00:24:32.140><c> I</c><00:24:32.279><c> should</c><00:24:32.440><c> have</c><00:24:32.579><c> consulted</c><00:24:32.960><c> Coral</c><00:24:33.400><c> and</c><00:24:33.559><c> her</c><00:24:33.640><c> list</c><00:24:33.839><c> would</c><00:24:34.000><c> have</c><00:24:34.119><c> been</c><00:24:34.200><c> three</c><00:24:34.400><c> times</c><00:24:34.640><c> as</c>

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long<00:24:34.940><c> as</c><00:24:35.200><c> mine.</c>

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Those<00:24:36.779><c> are</c><00:24:37.000><c> the</c><00:24:37.099><c> things</c><00:24:37.359><c> which</c><00:24:37.720><c> get</c><00:24:38.019><c> into</c><00:24:38.299><c> us.</c>

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And<00:24:39.420><c> it</c><00:24:40.779><c> seems</c><00:24:41.079><c> to</c><00:24:41.279><c> me</c><00:24:41.500><c> that</c><00:24:42.480><c> in</c><00:24:43.039><c> all</c><00:24:43.339><c> of</c><00:24:43.460><c> this,</c><00:24:43.680><c> as</c><00:24:43.819><c> I</c><00:24:44.079><c> suggested</c><00:24:44.319><c> before,</c>

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the<00:24:45.519><c> wife</c><00:24:45.700><c> is</c><00:24:46.019><c> Chief</c><00:24:46.279><c> Executive</c><00:24:46.680><c> Officer.</c>

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She<00:24:48.660><c> does</c><00:24:49.240><c> most</c><00:24:49.700><c> of</c><00:24:50.460><c> the</c><00:24:50.640><c> work.</c>

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Again,<00:24:53.980><c> this</c><00:24:54.220><c> may</c><00:24:54.480><c> not</c><00:24:54.680><c> be</c><00:24:54.900><c> the</c><00:24:55.000><c> way</c><00:24:55.140><c> you</c><00:24:55.440><c> organise</c><00:24:55.740><c> your</c><00:24:55.980><c> family.</c>

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It<00:24:57.680><c> just</c><00:24:58.000><c> turns</c><00:24:58.259><c> out</c><00:24:58.480><c> to</c><00:24:58.579><c> be</c><00:24:58.660><c> the</c><00:24:58.759><c> way</c><00:24:58.900><c> that</c><00:24:59.079><c> we</c><00:24:59.359><c> organise</c><00:24:59.680><c> ours.</c>

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And<00:25:00.720><c> it</c><00:25:00.940><c> possibly</c><00:25:01.240><c> is</c><00:25:01.519><c> typical.</c>

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Where<00:25:03.119><c> I</c><00:25:03.420><c> found</c><00:25:03.740><c> myself</c><00:25:04.400><c> was</c><00:25:04.960><c> in</c><00:25:05.180><c> other</c><00:25:05.400><c> places,</c><00:25:06.079><c> generally</c><00:25:06.480><c> speaking.</c>

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And<00:25:08.119><c> I</c><00:25:08.880><c> only</c><00:25:09.180><c> have</c><00:25:09.380><c> dim</c><00:25:09.539><c> memories</c><00:25:09.940><c> of</c><00:25:10.119><c> the</c><00:25:10.240><c> children</c><00:25:10.960><c> growing</c><00:25:11.579><c> up.</c>

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Actually,<00:25:12.980><c> I</c><00:25:13.099><c> was</c><00:25:13.200><c> around</c><00:25:13.339><c> the</c><00:25:13.500><c> move</c><00:25:13.700><c> this</c><00:25:13.940><c> morning</c><00:25:14.119><c> to</c><00:25:14.299><c> notice</c><00:25:14.539><c> Matthew</c><00:25:15.180><c> with</c>

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the<00:25:16.359><c> video</c><00:25:16.599><c> camera</c><00:25:16.980><c> and</c><00:25:17.779><c> videoing</c><00:25:18.259><c> his</c><00:25:18.500><c> little</c><00:25:18.759><c> one.</c>

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And<00:25:19.660><c> I</c><00:25:19.859><c> thought</c><00:25:20.240><c> there</c><00:25:21.099><c> is</c><00:25:21.339><c> a</c><00:25:21.519><c> moment,</c><00:25:21.859><c> just</c><00:25:22.319><c> a</c><00:25:22.779><c> moment</c><00:25:23.039><c> in</c><00:25:23.359><c> time,</c><00:25:24.200><c> when</c><00:25:24.400><c> he</c>

00:25:24.579 --> 00:25:29.619
has<00:25:24.900><c> that</c><00:25:25.420><c> awareness</c><00:25:25.920><c> and</c><00:25:26.299><c> that</c><00:25:27.119><c> contact</c><00:25:27.700><c> and</c><00:25:27.980><c> that</c><00:25:28.500><c> rapport.</c>

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Matthew<00:25:30.359><c> and</c><00:25:30.579><c> Petra.</c>

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And<00:25:32.500><c> that</c><00:25:32.680><c> moment</c><00:25:33.000><c> is</c><00:25:33.160><c> going</c><00:25:33.319><c> to</c><00:25:33.519><c> pass</c><00:25:33.779><c> so</c><00:25:34.140><c> quickly.</c>

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And<00:25:34.720><c> if</c><00:25:34.779><c> he</c><00:25:34.880><c> can</c><00:25:35.059><c> keep</c><00:25:35.259><c> that</c><00:25:35.559><c> tape,</c><00:25:35.740><c> he</c><00:25:35.859><c> will</c><00:25:36.039><c> treasure</c><00:25:36.319><c> it.</c>

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I<00:25:36.559><c> know,</c><00:25:36.859><c> they</c><00:25:37.019><c> both</c><00:25:37.339><c> will</c><00:25:37.519><c> treasure</c><00:25:37.819><c> it.</c>

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Because<00:25:39.539><c> it</c><00:25:40.019><c> just</c><00:25:40.359><c> goes</c><00:25:40.779><c> so,</c><00:25:41.140><c> you</c><00:25:41.460><c> don't</c><00:25:41.579><c> know</c><00:25:41.680><c> where</c><00:25:41.859><c> it</c><00:25:41.940><c> goes.</c>

00:25:43.339 --> 00:25:44.920
And<00:25:43.420><c> look</c><00:25:43.539><c> back,</c><00:25:43.640><c> I</c><00:25:43.819><c> don't</c><00:25:44.079><c> know</c><00:25:44.240><c> where</c><00:25:44.400><c> it's</c><00:25:44.640><c> gone.</c>

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It's<00:25:45.779><c> a</c><00:25:45.940><c> blur.</c>

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I<00:25:47.240><c> don't</c><00:25:47.519><c> remember</c><00:25:48.019><c> the</c><00:25:48.740><c> details.</c>

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Remember<00:25:49.559><c> the</c><00:25:49.700><c> little</c><00:25:49.880><c> isolated</c><00:25:50.359><c> incident.</c>

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We<00:25:51.220><c> look</c><00:25:51.339><c> at</c><00:25:51.500><c> the</c><00:25:51.700><c> snapshots</c><00:25:52.339><c> and</c><00:25:53.119><c> we</c><00:25:53.319><c> wonder</c><00:25:53.599><c> and</c><00:25:54.380><c> we</c><00:25:55.279><c> find</c><00:25:55.759><c> it</c>

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hard<00:25:56.079><c> to</c><00:25:56.400><c> believe</c><00:25:56.740><c> that</c><00:25:57.180><c> they</c><00:25:57.460><c> were</c><00:25:57.680><c> little</c><00:25:57.920><c> like</c><00:25:58.359><c> that.</c>

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And<00:25:59.079><c> so</c><00:25:59.339><c> sweet.</c>

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And<00:25:59.980><c> now</c><00:26:00.160><c> look</c><00:26:00.420><c> at</c><00:26:00.599><c> they</c><00:26:00.779><c> are.</c>

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Where<00:26:05.819><c> was</c><00:26:06.160><c> I?</c>

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I<00:26:06.380><c> was</c><00:26:06.539><c> out</c><00:26:06.720><c> at</c><00:26:06.920><c> work.</c>

00:26:08.319 --> 00:26:10.400
I<00:26:08.559><c> was</c><00:26:08.880><c> fixing</c><00:26:09.200><c> the</c><00:26:09.480><c> house.</c>

00:26:10.519 --> 00:26:12.880
I<00:26:10.619><c> was</c><00:26:10.920><c> studying</c><00:26:11.279><c> to</c><00:26:11.559><c> keep</c><00:26:11.680><c> up</c><00:26:11.900><c> to</c><00:26:12.099><c> date.</c>

00:26:13.200 --> 00:26:15.779
I<00:26:13.319><c> was</c><00:26:13.500><c> working</c><00:26:13.779><c> on</c><00:26:14.000><c> some</c><00:26:14.200><c> project</c><00:26:14.579><c> in</c><00:26:14.759><c> the</c><00:26:14.920><c> backyard.</c>

00:26:15.960 --> 00:26:18.740
And<00:26:15.960><c> sometimes</c><00:26:16.880><c> I</c><00:26:17.039><c> would</c><00:26:17.140><c> go</c><00:26:17.240><c> outside</c><00:26:17.680><c> and</c><00:26:17.900><c> I'd</c><00:26:18.160><c> work</c><00:26:18.339><c> all</c><00:26:18.559><c> day</c>

00:26:18.740 --> 00:26:19.619
on<00:26:18.980><c> building</c><00:26:19.180><c> a</c><00:26:19.380><c> bus.</c>

00:26:19.900 --> 00:26:21.380
And<00:26:20.099><c> I'd</c><00:26:20.259><c> come</c><00:26:20.339><c> in</c><00:26:20.519><c> and</c><00:26:20.619><c> I'd</c><00:26:20.759><c> sit</c><00:26:20.880><c> down</c><00:26:21.160><c> and</c><00:26:21.259><c> dinner.</c>

00:26:21.420 --> 00:26:22.519
I'd<00:26:21.599><c> been</c><00:26:21.740><c> there</c><00:26:21.940><c> all</c><00:26:22.220><c> day.</c>

00:26:22.519 --> 00:26:26.119
And<00:26:22.859><c> I'd</c><00:26:23.140><c> say</c><00:26:23.180><c> to</c><00:26:23.359><c> Carl,</c><00:26:23.500><c> you</c><00:26:23.700><c> know,</c><00:26:24.339><c> I</c><00:26:24.619><c> cut</c><00:26:24.819><c> and</c><00:26:25.119><c> I</c><00:26:25.460><c> fitted</c><00:26:25.619><c> and</c>

00:26:26.119 --> 00:26:32.000
I<00:26:26.740><c> ground</c><00:26:27.559><c> up</c><00:26:27.759><c> and</c><00:26:27.900><c> I</c><00:26:28.180><c> painted</c><00:26:28.539><c> four</c><00:26:29.259><c> pieces</c><00:26:29.640><c> of</c><00:26:29.940><c> steel</c><00:26:30.180><c> in</c><00:26:30.380><c> that</c><00:26:30.619><c> bus</c><00:26:30.779><c> today.</c>

00:26:32.200 --> 00:26:33.200
Four<00:26:32.440><c> pieces</c><00:26:32.819><c> of</c><00:26:33.059><c> steel.</c>

00:26:33.339 --> 00:26:34.559
It<00:26:33.440><c> was</c><00:26:33.440><c> a</c><00:26:33.460><c> day's</c><00:26:33.759><c> work.</c>

00:26:34.920 --> 00:26:35.880
So<00:26:35.079><c> that's</c><00:26:35.460><c> unbelievable.</c>

00:26:36.079 --> 00:26:37.900
Well,<00:26:36.460><c> you</c><00:26:36.460><c> know,</c><00:26:36.720><c> there's</c><00:26:36.960><c> thousands</c><00:26:37.259><c> of</c><00:26:37.519><c> pieces</c><00:26:37.660><c> of</c><00:26:37.700><c> steel</c>

00:26:37.900 --> 00:26:38.420
in<00:26:38.059><c> a</c><00:26:38.220><c> bus.</c>

00:26:38.920 --> 00:26:41.339
So<00:26:39.119><c> you</c><00:26:39.259><c> can</c><00:26:39.500><c> spend</c><00:26:39.640><c> a</c><00:26:39.720><c> lot</c><00:26:39.900><c> of</c><00:26:40.039><c> time</c><00:26:40.299><c> on</c><00:26:40.599><c> stuff</c><00:26:40.859><c> like</c><00:26:41.180><c> that.</c>

00:26:41.359 --> 00:26:42.539
It<00:26:41.539><c> was</c><00:26:41.779><c> for</c><00:26:41.960><c> the</c><00:26:42.119><c> right</c><00:26:42.319><c> reason.</c>

00:26:42.680 --> 00:26:45.039
I<00:26:42.680><c> mean,</c><00:26:43.200><c> basically</c><00:26:43.559><c> it</c><00:26:43.640><c> wasn't</c><00:26:43.920><c> for</c><00:26:44.160><c> our</c><00:26:44.460><c> personal</c><00:26:44.779><c> use.</c>

00:26:45.059 --> 00:26:46.019
It<00:26:45.059><c> was</c><00:26:45.240><c> for</c><00:26:45.400><c> the</c><00:26:45.480><c> pleasure</c><00:26:45.720><c> of</c><00:26:45.880><c> work.</c>

00:26:46.039 --> 00:26:47.299
And<00:26:46.180><c> we</c><00:26:46.279><c> got</c><00:26:46.400><c> a</c><00:26:46.440><c> lot</c><00:26:46.640><c> of</c><00:26:46.740><c> use</c><00:26:46.900><c> out</c><00:26:47.079><c> of</c><00:26:47.160><c> it.</c>

00:26:47.579 --> 00:26:50.140
You<00:26:47.700><c> know,</c><00:26:47.819><c> but</c><00:26:47.960><c> all</c><00:26:48.119><c> the</c><00:26:48.279><c> same,</c><00:26:48.920><c> there</c><00:26:49.099><c> is</c><00:26:49.420><c> this</c><00:26:49.700><c> investment</c>

00:26:50.140 --> 00:26:50.839
that<00:26:50.319><c> you</c><00:26:50.380><c> have</c><00:26:50.539><c> to</c><00:26:50.700><c> make.</c>

00:26:50.839 --> 00:26:53.059
And<00:26:50.980><c> you</c><00:26:50.980><c> have</c><00:26:51.140><c> to</c><00:26:51.259><c> make</c><00:26:51.380><c> these</c><00:26:51.640><c> kinds</c><00:26:51.900><c> of</c><00:26:52.180><c> decisions.</c>

00:26:53.240 --> 00:26:56.380
There's<00:26:53.720><c> a</c><00:26:53.880><c> balancing</c><00:26:54.240><c> act</c><00:26:54.559><c> that</c><00:26:54.779><c> has</c><00:26:54.980><c> to</c><00:26:55.140><c> go</c><00:26:55.299><c> on</c><00:26:55.519><c> here.</c>

00:26:56.400 --> 00:26:58.440
How<00:26:56.619><c> much</c><00:26:56.900><c> of</c><00:26:57.019><c> your</c><00:26:57.220><c> time</c><00:26:57.400><c> and</c><00:26:57.559><c> your</c><00:26:57.720><c> effort</c><00:26:57.839><c> do</c><00:26:57.960><c> you</c><00:26:58.039><c> put</c><00:26:58.180><c> into</c>

00:26:58.440 --> 00:26:59.759
ecclesial<00:26:58.839><c> things?</c>

00:26:59.779 --> 00:27:03.059
And<00:27:00.000><c> how</c><00:27:00.200><c> much</c><00:27:00.400><c> into</c><00:27:00.759><c> your</c><00:27:01.240><c> own</c><00:27:01.680><c> private</c><00:27:02.059><c> family</c><00:27:02.500><c> and</c><00:27:02.740><c> so</c><00:27:02.920><c> on?</c>

00:27:03.319 --> 00:27:05.940
I<00:27:03.599><c> don't</c><00:27:03.900><c> know</c><00:27:04.140><c> that</c><00:27:04.299><c> we</c><00:27:04.460><c> made</c><00:27:04.579><c> the</c><00:27:04.759><c> right</c><00:27:04.960><c> judgements.</c>

00:27:06.180 --> 00:27:07.380
I<00:27:06.660><c> can't</c><00:27:07.140><c> say.</c>

00:27:07.799 --> 00:27:11.740
The<00:27:07.940><c> only</c><00:27:08.099><c> thing</c><00:27:08.339><c> is</c><00:27:08.619><c> I</c><00:27:08.819><c> suppose</c><00:27:09.079><c> that</c><00:27:09.299><c> I</c><00:27:09.400><c> did</c><00:27:09.579><c> what</c><00:27:09.839><c> my</c><00:27:10.359><c> personality</c><00:27:10.900><c> and</c>

00:27:11.740 --> 00:27:12.539
nature<00:27:12.160><c> did.</c>

00:27:12.599 --> 00:27:14.319
And<00:27:12.799><c> we</c><00:27:13.099><c> just</c><00:27:13.420><c> find</c><00:27:13.740><c> a</c><00:27:14.119><c> way.</c>

00:27:14.400 --> 00:27:16.339
And<00:27:14.519><c> for</c><00:27:14.720><c> everybody,</c><00:27:15.359><c> the</c><00:27:15.539><c> balance</c><00:27:15.779><c> is</c><00:27:16.059><c> different.</c>

00:27:16.339 --> 00:27:21.180
And<00:27:16.980><c> there</c><00:27:17.160><c> isn't</c><00:27:17.339><c> a</c><00:27:17.619><c> single</c><00:27:18.000><c> answer</c><00:27:18.420><c> to</c><00:27:18.599><c> this</c><00:27:19.160><c> that</c><00:27:19.380><c> is</c><00:27:19.579><c> satisfactory</c><00:27:19.960><c> for</c><00:27:20.220><c> everybody.</c>

00:27:21.859 --> 00:27:23.519
And<00:27:22.220><c> I</c><00:27:22.440><c> remember</c><00:27:22.759><c> a</c><00:27:22.880><c> brother</c><00:27:23.000><c> coming</c><00:27:23.240><c> around.</c>

00:27:23.619 --> 00:27:24.380
He<00:27:23.640><c> watched</c><00:27:23.880><c> me</c><00:27:24.119><c> and</c><00:27:24.220><c> listened.</c>

00:27:24.480 --> 00:27:27.700
It<00:27:24.640><c> was</c><00:27:24.700><c> just</c><00:27:25.579><c> a</c><00:27:25.839><c> chassis</c><00:27:26.119><c> set</c><00:27:26.400><c> up</c><00:27:26.579><c> on</c><00:27:26.819><c> blocks</c><00:27:27.099><c> and</c><00:27:27.299><c> bits</c><00:27:27.480><c> of</c>

00:27:27.700 --> 00:27:28.380
steel<00:27:27.900><c> sticking</c><00:27:28.160><c> up.</c>

00:27:28.460 --> 00:27:30.779
And<00:27:28.519><c> he</c><00:27:28.539><c> looked</c><00:27:28.759><c> at</c><00:27:28.940><c> it</c><00:27:29.099><c> and</c><00:27:29.119><c> he</c><00:27:29.319><c> scratched</c><00:27:29.500><c> his</c><00:27:29.740><c> head.</c>

00:27:31.539 --> 00:27:33.180
And<00:27:31.539><c> he</c><00:27:31.680><c> said,</c><00:27:31.980><c> what</c><00:27:32.240><c> on</c><00:27:32.460><c> earth</c><00:27:32.680><c> are</c><00:27:32.799><c> you</c><00:27:32.900><c> doing?</c>

00:27:33.259 --> 00:27:33.880
And<00:27:33.359><c> I</c><00:27:33.460><c> told</c><00:27:33.680><c> him.</c>

00:27:33.880 --> 00:27:37.039
And<00:27:34.000><c> he</c><00:27:34.039><c> said,</c><00:27:35.119><c> why</c><00:27:35.339><c> don't</c><00:27:35.480><c> you</c><00:27:35.559><c> just</c><00:27:35.779><c> go</c><00:27:35.900><c> and</c><00:27:36.039><c> buy</c><00:27:36.240><c> one?</c>

00:27:45.079 --> 00:27:46.900
Well,<00:27:45.779><c> there's</c><00:27:46.059><c> a</c><00:27:46.099><c> simple</c><00:27:46.339><c> answer</c><00:27:46.660><c> to</c><00:27:46.740><c> that.</c>

00:27:46.960 --> 00:27:48.380
There<00:27:46.960><c> wasn't</c><00:27:47.180><c> any</c><00:27:47.400><c> money.</c>

00:27:49.119 --> 00:27:50.019
Okay?

00:27:50.440 --> 00:27:52.359
So<00:27:50.579><c> you</c><00:27:50.680><c> do</c><00:27:50.819><c> what</c><00:27:51.000><c> you</c><00:27:51.079><c> have</c><00:27:51.279><c> to</c><00:27:51.420><c> do.</c>

00:27:52.920 --> 00:27:55.220
Actually,<00:27:53.319><c> you</c><00:27:53.519><c> do</c><00:27:53.599><c> what</c><00:27:53.779><c> you</c><00:27:54.019><c> choose</c><00:27:54.279><c> to</c><00:27:54.519><c> do.</c>

00:27:56.279 --> 00:27:58.019
And<00:27:56.380><c> sometimes</c><00:27:56.799><c> the</c><00:27:57.000><c> choices</c><00:27:57.220><c> are</c><00:27:57.480><c> right</c><00:27:57.579><c> and</c><00:27:57.660><c> sometimes</c>

00:27:58.019 --> 00:27:58.960
they're<00:27:58.180><c> not.</c>

00:27:59.240 --> 00:28:01.299
I<00:27:59.519><c> can't</c><00:27:59.819><c> say</c><00:28:00.000><c> whether</c><00:28:00.160><c> it</c><00:28:00.359><c> was</c><00:28:00.359><c> right</c><00:28:00.519><c> or</c><00:28:00.559><c> wrong</c><00:28:00.819><c> for</c><00:28:00.940><c> all</c><00:28:01.059><c> of</c><00:28:01.180><c> us.</c>

00:28:01.700 --> 00:28:03.279
I<00:28:01.700><c> know</c><00:28:01.700><c> that</c><00:28:01.759><c> you've</c><00:28:02.240><c> got</c><00:28:02.319><c> a</c><00:28:02.380><c> lot</c><00:28:02.559><c> of</c><00:28:02.680><c> benefit</c><00:28:02.900><c> out</c><00:28:03.099><c> of</c><00:28:03.180><c> it.</c>

00:28:03.299 --> 00:28:05.619
I<00:28:03.480><c> hope</c><00:28:03.700><c> that</c><00:28:03.900><c> it</c><00:28:03.960><c> didn't</c><00:28:04.240><c> impinge</c><00:28:04.559><c> too</c><00:28:04.839><c> badly</c><00:28:05.059><c> on</c><00:28:05.240><c> our</c><00:28:05.359><c> family.</c>

00:28:05.619 --> 00:28:06.980
But<00:28:06.119><c> who</c><00:28:06.539><c> can</c><00:28:06.819><c> tell?</c>

00:28:07.099 --> 00:28:09.940
You<00:28:07.220><c> can't</c><00:28:08.039><c> answer</c><00:28:08.380><c> a</c><00:28:08.519><c> lot</c><00:28:08.579><c> of</c><00:28:08.700><c> these</c><00:28:08.880><c> questions.</c>

00:28:10.000 --> 00:28:12.619
It's<00:28:10.220><c> just</c><00:28:10.359><c> the</c><00:28:10.420><c> way</c><00:28:10.519><c> it</c><00:28:10.700><c> happened,</c><00:28:11.619><c> buried</c><00:28:11.819><c> in</c><00:28:12.000><c> the</c><00:28:12.220><c> study</c><00:28:12.380><c> or</c>

00:28:12.619 --> 00:28:13.619
away<00:28:12.859><c> speaking</c><00:28:13.259><c> somewhere.</c>

00:28:13.740 --> 00:28:18.799
So<00:28:13.839><c> what</c><00:28:14.019><c> happens</c><00:28:14.440><c> is</c><00:28:14.759><c> the</c><00:28:14.960><c> actual</c><00:28:15.519><c> work</c><00:28:16.059><c> of</c><00:28:16.319><c> running</c><00:28:16.740><c> the</c><00:28:17.079><c> home</c><00:28:17.460><c> has</c>

00:28:18.799 --> 00:28:20.359
been<00:28:19.140><c> Coral's</c><00:28:19.500><c> work.</c>

00:28:21.420 --> 00:28:24.059
She's<00:28:21.900><c> always</c><00:28:22.220><c> at</c><00:28:22.519><c> home,</c><00:28:23.400><c> reliably</c><00:28:23.700><c> at</c><00:28:23.839><c> home.</c>

00:28:24.099 --> 00:28:25.200
We'll<00:28:24.180><c> talk</c><00:28:24.359><c> about</c><00:28:24.539><c> that</c><00:28:24.740><c> in</c><00:28:24.839><c> a</c><00:28:24.839><c> minute.</c>

00:28:25.240 --> 00:28:27.839
She<00:28:25.720><c> has</c><00:28:26.019><c> time</c><00:28:26.259><c> to</c><00:28:26.460><c> devote</c><00:28:26.740><c> to</c><00:28:26.940><c> the</c><00:28:27.119><c> children.</c>

00:28:28.119 --> 00:28:30.339
She<00:28:28.319><c> not</c><00:28:28.480><c> only</c><00:28:28.660><c> has</c><00:28:28.920><c> the</c><00:28:29.079><c> time,</c><00:28:29.220><c> but</c><00:28:29.400><c> she</c><00:28:29.480><c> has</c><00:28:29.680><c> the</c><00:28:29.819><c> temperament.</c>

00:28:30.680 --> 00:28:32.579
And<00:28:30.940><c> she</c><00:28:31.059><c> does</c><00:28:31.319><c> it.</c>

00:28:33.259 --> 00:28:36.319
And<00:28:33.640><c> she</c><00:28:34.019><c> has</c><00:28:34.240><c> a</c><00:28:34.480><c> stock</c><00:28:34.619><c> of</c><00:28:34.779><c> Bible</c><00:28:35.099><c> songs,</c><00:28:35.599><c> books,</c><00:28:35.980><c> puzzles</c>

00:28:36.319 --> 00:28:36.819
and<00:28:36.559><c> stories.</c>

00:28:37.019 --> 00:28:39.160
Whenever<00:28:37.119><c> we</c><00:28:37.279><c> go</c><00:28:37.420><c> to</c><00:28:37.599><c> a</c><00:28:37.599><c> different</c><00:28:37.859><c> town,</c><00:28:38.500><c> she</c><00:28:38.640><c> says,</c><00:28:38.900><c> where's</c>

00:28:39.160 --> 00:28:39.859
the<00:28:39.279><c> Bible</c><00:28:39.579><c> shop?</c>

00:28:39.940 --> 00:28:41.559
And<00:28:40.079><c> she</c><00:28:40.160><c> goes</c><00:28:40.380><c> there</c><00:28:40.619><c> and</c><00:28:40.779><c> she</c><00:28:40.960><c> fishes</c><00:28:41.119><c> around.</c>

00:28:41.980 --> 00:28:43.759
Not<00:28:42.099><c> for</c><00:28:42.759><c> heavy</c><00:28:43.099><c> reference</c><00:28:43.500><c> books.</c>

00:28:43.940 --> 00:28:46.220
I<00:28:44.319><c> look</c><00:28:44.559><c> along</c><00:28:44.900><c> and</c><00:28:45.039><c> see</c><00:28:45.180><c> if</c><00:28:45.220><c> there's</c><00:28:45.400><c> anything</c><00:28:45.619><c> that</c><00:28:45.839><c> I</c><00:28:46.039><c> like.</c>

00:28:46.259 --> 00:28:48.339
And<00:28:46.400><c> I</c><00:28:46.539><c> like</c><00:28:46.700><c> a</c><00:28:46.859><c> lot</c><00:28:46.960><c> of</c><00:28:47.059><c> it,</c><00:28:47.140><c> but</c><00:28:47.299><c> it's</c><00:28:47.440><c> too</c><00:28:47.599><c> expensive,</c><00:28:48.019><c> so</c><00:28:48.240><c> I</c>

00:28:48.339 --> 00:28:48.839
leave<00:28:48.420><c> it</c><00:28:48.619><c> there.</c>

00:28:49.299 --> 00:28:52.019
But<00:28:49.500><c> she</c><00:28:49.640><c> comes</c><00:28:49.880><c> out</c><00:28:50.099><c> with</c><00:28:50.259><c> a</c><00:28:50.380><c> wad</c><00:28:50.460><c> of</c><00:28:51.059><c> little</c><00:28:51.400><c> books</c><00:28:51.680><c> for</c><00:28:51.859><c> the</c>

00:28:52.019 --> 00:28:52.960
kids,<00:28:52.420><c> you</c><00:28:52.779><c> see.</c>

00:28:53.039 --> 00:28:54.640
And<00:28:53.220><c> she</c><00:28:53.380><c> still</c><00:28:53.559><c> does</c><00:28:53.839><c> that.</c>

00:28:54.700 --> 00:28:57.019
Constantly<00:28:55.079><c> is</c><00:28:55.400><c> speaking</c><00:28:55.619><c> about</c><00:28:55.900><c> the</c><00:28:56.099><c> Bible</c><00:28:56.299><c> to</c><00:28:56.480><c> the</c><00:28:56.700><c> children.</c>

00:28:57.180 --> 00:28:59.599
And<00:28:57.359><c> now</c><00:28:57.539><c> she's</c><00:28:57.759><c> carrying</c><00:28:57.920><c> on</c><00:28:58.099><c> the</c><00:28:58.240><c> work</c><00:28:58.319><c> with</c><00:28:58.519><c> the</c><00:28:58.700><c> grandchildren.</c>

00:29:00.539 --> 00:29:01.900
And<00:29:00.900><c> never</c><00:29:01.259><c> ever</c><00:29:01.599><c> quit.</c>

00:29:01.900 --> 00:29:04.500
In<00:29:02.200><c> fact,</c><00:29:02.400><c> when</c><00:29:02.539><c> I</c><00:29:02.559><c> said</c><00:29:02.799><c> when</c><00:29:03.019><c> our</c><00:29:03.259><c> children</c><00:29:03.660><c> got</c><00:29:04.160><c> to</c><00:29:04.380><c> the</c>

00:29:04.500 --> 00:29:05.420
stage<00:29:04.680><c> where</c><00:29:04.819><c> they</c><00:29:04.980><c> were</c><00:29:04.980><c> leaving</c><00:29:05.180><c> home,</c>

00:29:05.460 --> 00:29:07.880
I<00:29:05.500><c> said,</c><00:29:05.779><c> good,</c><00:29:05.900><c> now</c><00:29:06.099><c> we</c><00:29:06.240><c> can</c><00:29:06.359><c> go</c><00:29:06.519><c> through</c><00:29:06.660><c> the</c><00:29:06.839><c> house</c><00:29:06.960><c> and</c><00:29:07.519><c> chuck</c><00:29:07.619><c> out</c>

00:29:07.880 --> 00:29:09.059
all<00:29:08.099><c> this</c><00:29:08.339><c> junk,</c><00:29:08.819><c> you</c><00:29:08.819><c> know,</c>

00:29:09.380 --> 00:29:13.019
the<00:29:09.559><c> doll's</c><00:29:09.940><c> house</c><00:29:10.240><c> and</c><00:29:11.240><c> the</c><00:29:11.500><c> toys</c><00:29:12.059><c> and</c><00:29:12.460><c> that</c><00:29:12.700><c> sort</c><00:29:12.819><c> of</c><00:29:12.920><c> thing.</c>

00:29:13.079 --> 00:29:14.359
And<00:29:13.180><c> now</c><00:29:13.380><c> grandchildren</c><00:29:13.900><c> come</c><00:29:14.180><c> in.</c>

00:29:14.440 --> 00:29:16.400
And<00:29:14.480><c> the</c><00:29:14.539><c> first</c><00:29:14.720><c> thing,</c><00:29:14.960><c> not</c><00:29:15.099><c> only</c><00:29:15.299><c> grandchildren,</c><00:29:15.859><c> but</c><00:29:15.960><c> children</c><00:29:16.220><c> and</c>

00:29:16.400 --> 00:29:16.880
their<00:29:16.599><c> pleasure.</c>

00:29:17.220 --> 00:29:19.099
They<00:29:17.359><c> come</c><00:29:17.539><c> into</c><00:29:17.700><c> our</c><00:29:17.900><c> house</c><00:29:18.079><c> and</c><00:29:18.220><c> they</c><00:29:18.319><c> make</c><00:29:18.440><c> a</c><00:29:18.640><c> beehive</c><00:29:18.960><c> in</c>

00:29:19.099 --> 00:29:19.960
the<00:29:19.259><c> corner</c><00:29:19.519><c> bedroom</c>

00:29:19.960 --> 00:29:21.960
because<00:29:20.240><c> they</c><00:29:20.420><c> know</c><00:29:20.559><c> where</c><00:29:20.720><c> all</c><00:29:20.839><c> the</c><00:29:20.940><c> toys</c><00:29:21.180><c> are.</c>

00:29:22.319 --> 00:29:24.740
They're<00:29:22.680><c> scattered</c><00:29:22.759><c> all</c><00:29:23.019><c> over</c><00:29:24.319><c> the</c><00:29:24.420><c> house.</c>

00:29:25.220 --> 00:29:26.559
So<00:29:25.380><c> she</c><00:29:25.579><c> carries</c><00:29:25.859><c> that</c><00:29:26.099><c> work</c><00:29:26.240><c> on.</c>

00:29:26.559 --> 00:29:29.420
The<00:29:27.339><c> point</c><00:29:27.640><c> that</c><00:29:27.839><c> I</c><00:29:27.940><c> would</c><00:29:28.119><c> make</c><00:29:28.319><c> about</c><00:29:28.579><c> all</c><00:29:28.779><c> of</c><00:29:28.920><c> this</c><00:29:29.099><c> is</c><00:29:29.299><c> that</c>

00:29:29.420 --> 00:29:31.579
there<00:29:29.559><c> is</c><00:29:30.099><c> a</c><00:29:30.240><c> clear</c><00:29:30.859><c> dichotomy.</c>

00:29:31.619 --> 00:29:37.019
There<00:29:31.759><c> is</c><00:29:32.039><c> a</c><00:29:32.140><c> clear</c><00:29:32.779><c> cutting</c><00:29:33.119><c> off</c><00:29:33.460><c> of</c><00:29:33.839><c> the</c><00:29:34.619><c> lines</c><00:29:34.859><c> of</c><00:29:35.240><c> responsibility</c><00:29:35.799><c> in</c><00:29:36.420><c> our</c><00:29:36.740><c> family.</c>

00:29:37.200 --> 00:29:39.759
It<00:29:37.240><c> may</c><00:29:37.460><c> not</c><00:29:37.740><c> suit</c><00:29:37.900><c> you,</c><00:29:38.619><c> but</c><00:29:38.720><c> it's</c><00:29:39.119><c> a</c><00:29:39.200><c> way</c><00:29:39.319><c> it's</c><00:29:39.500><c> worked</c><00:29:39.619><c> out</c>

00:29:39.759 --> 00:29:40.779
in<00:29:39.880><c> our</c><00:29:40.019><c> family.</c>

00:29:41.259 --> 00:29:43.759
I<00:29:41.480><c> knew</c><00:29:41.700><c> exactly</c><00:29:42.140><c> what</c><00:29:42.380><c> I</c><00:29:42.619><c> was</c><00:29:42.839><c> responsible</c><00:29:43.400><c> for.</c>

00:29:43.960 --> 00:29:47.839
I<00:29:44.299><c> mean,</c><00:29:44.420><c> I</c><00:29:45.019><c> mowed</c><00:29:45.259><c> the</c><00:29:45.480><c> lawns,</c><00:29:46.839><c> which</c><00:29:47.019><c> is</c><00:29:47.220><c> a</c><00:29:47.279><c> matter</c><00:29:47.460><c> of</c><00:29:47.619><c> some</c>

00:29:47.839 --> 00:29:49.599
grief<00:29:48.039><c> to</c><00:29:48.259><c> Carl,</c><00:29:48.539><c> too,</c><00:29:48.660><c> for</c><00:29:48.839><c> another</c><00:29:49.059><c> reason,</c>

00:29:49.839 --> 00:29:53.660
because<00:29:50.079><c> sometimes</c><00:29:50.460><c> I'm</c><00:29:51.000><c> not</c><00:29:51.200><c> very</c><00:29:51.599><c> discreet</c><00:29:51.940><c> with</c><00:29:52.079><c> the</c><00:29:52.240><c> lawn</c><00:29:52.400><c> mower.</c>

00:29:54.480 --> 00:29:55.420
Wonders.

00:29:56.099 --> 00:29:59.299
And<00:29:56.099><c> one</c><00:29:56.400><c> of</c><00:29:56.519><c> her</c><00:29:56.680><c> things</c><00:29:57.000><c> is</c><00:29:57.400><c> she,</c><00:29:58.339><c> the</c><00:29:58.460><c> time</c><00:29:58.579><c> she</c><00:29:58.700><c> goes</c><00:29:58.940><c> to</c><00:29:59.180><c> town,</c>

00:29:59.400 --> 00:30:02.220
she<00:29:59.460><c> comes</c><00:29:59.759><c> back</c><00:30:00.000><c> with</c><00:30:00.180><c> a</c><00:30:00.279><c> little</c><00:30:00.500><c> plant</c><00:30:00.700><c> in</c><00:30:00.920><c> the</c><00:30:01.059><c> pot,</c><00:30:01.380><c> you</c><00:30:01.500><c> see.</c>

00:30:02.339 --> 00:30:03.579
And<00:30:02.539><c> she's</c><00:30:02.700><c> done</c><00:30:02.880><c> that</c><00:30:03.059><c> for</c><00:30:03.279><c> years.</c>

00:30:03.619 --> 00:30:06.460
Well,<00:30:03.759><c> you</c><00:30:03.799><c> can</c><00:30:03.940><c> imagine</c><00:30:04.220><c> we</c><00:30:04.400><c> live</c><00:30:04.500><c> in</c><00:30:04.640><c> a</c><00:30:04.839><c> jungle</c><00:30:05.160><c> now</c><00:30:05.619><c> because</c>

00:30:06.460 --> 00:30:08.279
these<00:30:07.000><c> little</c><00:30:07.339><c> plants</c><00:30:07.640><c> have</c><00:30:07.880><c> grown</c><00:30:08.019><c> up</c>

00:30:08.279 --> 00:30:10.960
and<00:30:09.019><c> the</c><00:30:09.180><c> lawn</c><00:30:09.359><c> mower,</c><00:30:09.500><c> as</c><00:30:09.579><c> I</c><00:30:09.700><c> say,</c><00:30:10.079><c> wanders</c><00:30:10.319><c> from</c><00:30:10.559><c> time</c><00:30:10.740><c> to</c><00:30:10.740><c> time.</c>

00:30:11.099 --> 00:30:12.880
It's<00:30:11.140><c> a</c><00:30:11.180><c> matter</c><00:30:11.359><c> of</c><00:30:11.500><c> some</c><00:30:11.660><c> grief</c><00:30:11.960><c> to</c><00:30:12.220><c> Carl.</c>

00:30:13.940 --> 00:30:18.420
In<00:30:14.240><c> fact,</c><00:30:14.460><c> I</c><00:30:15.220><c> don't</c><00:30:15.480><c> do</c><00:30:15.720><c> a</c><00:30:15.859><c> lot</c><00:30:16.019><c> else</c><00:30:16.480><c> around</c><00:30:16.960><c> that</c><00:30:17.700><c> sort</c><00:30:18.019><c> of</c><00:30:18.259><c> area.</c>

00:30:18.480 --> 00:30:19.740
She's<00:30:18.900><c> interested</c><00:30:19.240><c> in</c><00:30:19.480><c> gardening.</c>

00:30:19.740 --> 00:30:23.819
Her<00:30:20.359><c> ideas</c><00:30:20.720><c> of</c><00:30:20.940><c> gardening</c><00:30:21.180><c> are</c><00:30:21.460><c> minor</c><00:30:21.599><c> different,</c><00:30:22.940><c> and</c><00:30:22.940><c> consequently,</c>

00:30:24.000 --> 00:30:27.299
well,<00:30:24.559><c> I</c><00:30:24.559><c> don't</c><00:30:24.799><c> mind</c><00:30:25.079><c> her</c><00:30:25.279><c> way</c><00:30:26.759><c> of</c><00:30:26.920><c> doing</c><00:30:27.119><c> it.</c>

00:30:27.299 --> 00:30:29.720
That's<00:30:27.599><c> fine,</c><00:30:27.920><c> because</c><00:30:28.039><c> that</c><00:30:28.140><c> means</c><00:30:28.319><c> I</c><00:30:28.480><c> don't</c><00:30:28.599><c> have</c><00:30:28.740><c> to</c><00:30:28.799><c> do</c><00:30:28.920><c> it.</c>

00:30:31.339 --> 00:30:35.079
But<00:30:31.859><c> the</c><00:30:32.380><c> thing</c><00:30:33.119><c> is</c><00:30:33.279><c> there</c><00:30:33.400><c> is</c><00:30:33.700><c> a</c><00:30:33.839><c> clear</c><00:30:33.980><c> division,</c><00:30:34.619><c> and</c><00:30:34.640><c> we</c>

00:30:35.079 --> 00:30:36.099
are<00:30:35.359><c> agreed</c><00:30:35.579><c> about</c><00:30:35.900><c> it.</c>

00:30:36.519 --> 00:30:40.259
And<00:30:36.759><c> the</c><00:30:36.960><c> nice</c><00:30:37.200><c> thing</c><00:30:37.480><c> about</c><00:30:37.740><c> it</c><00:30:38.079><c> is</c><00:30:38.380><c> that</c><00:30:39.140><c> this</c><00:30:39.500><c> division</c><00:30:39.980><c> of</c>

00:30:40.259 --> 00:30:44.259
the<00:30:40.480><c> work</c><00:30:40.740><c> has</c><00:30:41.140><c> increased</c><00:30:41.839><c> the</c><00:30:42.140><c> total</c><00:30:42.480><c> input</c><00:30:42.940><c> to</c><00:30:43.200><c> the</c><00:30:43.460><c> troop.</c>

00:30:45.319 --> 00:30:49.000
When<00:30:45.480><c> Carl</c><00:30:45.680><c> met</c><00:30:46.019><c> me,</c><00:30:46.640><c> she</c><00:30:46.920><c> was</c><00:30:47.220><c> saving</c><00:30:47.579><c> to</c><00:30:47.799><c> go</c><00:30:47.960><c> on</c><00:30:48.039><c> a</c><00:30:48.240><c> world</c><00:30:48.440><c> trip,</c><00:30:48.839><c> to</c>

00:30:49.000 --> 00:30:49.539
go<00:30:49.259><c> traveling.</c>

00:30:49.539 --> 00:30:51.079
She<00:30:49.759><c> wanted</c><00:30:49.980><c> to</c><00:30:50.200><c> travel.</c>

00:30:51.200 --> 00:30:53.200
She<00:30:51.359><c> met</c><00:30:51.579><c> me,</c><00:30:51.819><c> and</c><00:30:51.880><c> that</c><00:30:51.980><c> was</c><00:30:52.140><c> the</c><00:30:52.240><c> end</c><00:30:52.359><c> of</c><00:30:52.500><c> that.</c>

00:30:54.019 --> 00:30:56.880
And<00:30:54.420><c> we</c><00:30:54.579><c> put</c><00:30:54.900><c> the</c><00:30:55.240><c> money</c><00:30:55.500><c> that</c><00:30:55.660><c> she'd</c><00:30:55.960><c> accumulated</c><00:30:56.319><c> into</c><00:30:56.619><c> her</c>

00:30:56.880 --> 00:30:58.440
home<00:30:57.099><c> and</c><00:30:57.220><c> that</c><00:30:57.420><c> sort</c><00:30:57.539><c> of</c><00:30:57.660><c> thing,</c><00:30:57.980><c> and</c><00:30:58.039><c> so</c><00:30:58.259><c> on.</c>

00:30:58.460 --> 00:31:01.720
It<00:30:58.460><c> was</c><00:30:58.640><c> very</c><00:30:58.920><c> important,</c><00:30:59.380><c> because</c><00:30:59.539><c> at</c><00:30:59.599><c> the</c><00:30:59.859><c> time</c><00:31:00.039><c> she</c><00:31:00.220><c> had</c><00:31:00.539><c> the</c><00:31:00.660><c> money</c><00:31:00.819><c> I</c><00:31:01.019><c> liked.</c>

00:31:03.220 --> 00:31:13.440
And<00:31:03.619><c> as</c><00:31:04.019><c> a</c><00:31:04.200><c> result</c><00:31:04.400><c> of</c><00:31:04.660><c> that,</c><00:31:11.440><c> and</c><00:31:11.660><c> this</c><00:31:11.839><c> division</c><00:31:12.220><c> of</c><00:31:12.519><c> labor,</c>

00:31:14.980 --> 00:31:17.579
I<00:31:15.619><c> spent</c><00:31:15.759><c> a</c><00:31:15.839><c> lot</c><00:31:16.000><c> of</c><00:31:16.140><c> time</c><00:31:16.299><c> in</c><00:31:16.440><c> the</c><00:31:16.619><c> study.</c>

00:31:18.559 --> 00:31:21.000
And<00:31:19.000><c> as</c><00:31:19.259><c> a</c><00:31:19.420><c> result</c><00:31:19.660><c> of</c><00:31:19.880><c> that,</c><00:31:20.140><c> she's</c><00:31:20.319><c> done</c><00:31:20.460><c> more</c><00:31:20.740><c> traveling</c>

00:31:21.000 --> 00:31:22.420
than<00:31:21.119><c> she</c><00:31:21.339><c> ever</c><00:31:21.579><c> would</c><00:31:21.720><c> have.</c>

00:31:23.059 --> 00:31:26.079
And<00:31:23.299><c> it's</c><00:31:23.440><c> been</c><00:31:23.680><c> a</c><00:31:23.839><c> fantastic</c><00:31:24.460><c> blessing,</c><00:31:25.140><c> really.</c>

00:31:26.380 --> 00:31:30.000
And<00:31:26.819><c> really,</c><00:31:28.019><c> it's</c><00:31:28.319><c> the</c><00:31:28.420><c> work</c><00:31:28.579><c> that</c><00:31:28.779><c> she</c><00:31:28.900><c> has</c><00:31:29.140><c> done.</c>

00:31:30.740 --> 00:31:34.299
Because<00:31:30.920><c> I</c><00:31:31.079><c> didn't</c><00:31:32.059><c> have</c><00:31:32.339><c> to</c><00:31:32.480><c> be</c><00:31:32.720><c> concerned</c><00:31:33.099><c> about</c><00:31:33.640><c> a</c><00:31:34.000><c> lot</c><00:31:34.160><c> of</c>

00:31:34.299 --> 00:31:34.539
the<00:31:34.420><c> things.</c>

00:31:34.599 --> 00:31:37.740
She<00:31:35.039><c> worked</c><00:31:35.440><c> willingly,</c><00:31:36.119><c> long</c><00:31:36.279><c> and</c><00:31:36.519><c> hard,</c><00:31:37.000><c> and</c><00:31:37.180><c> it's</c><00:31:37.339><c> a</c><00:31:37.400><c> choice</c><00:31:37.559><c> that</c>

00:31:37.740 --> 00:31:38.599
she<00:31:37.880><c> made.</c>

00:31:38.640 --> 00:31:40.799
Now,<00:31:39.039><c> I'm</c><00:31:39.200><c> not</c><00:31:39.480><c> saying</c><00:31:39.700><c> that</c><00:31:39.900><c> everybody</c><00:31:40.180><c> has</c><00:31:40.400><c> to</c><00:31:40.539><c> do</c><00:31:40.599><c> it</c><00:31:40.720><c> the</c>

00:31:40.799 --> 00:31:41.460
way<00:31:40.900><c> we've</c><00:31:41.160><c> done</c><00:31:41.299><c> it,</c>

00:31:41.460 --> 00:31:44.039
but<00:31:41.599><c> it</c><00:31:41.759><c> has</c><00:31:42.039><c> worked</c><00:31:42.339><c> out</c><00:31:43.039><c> very</c><00:31:43.579><c> certainly.</c>

00:31:44.039 --> 00:31:46.700
That<00:31:44.319><c> is</c><00:31:44.460><c> one</c><00:31:44.839><c> area</c><00:31:45.240><c> where</c><00:31:45.539><c> it</c><00:31:45.660><c> has</c><00:31:45.799><c> worked</c><00:31:46.000><c> out</c><00:31:46.220><c> for</c><00:31:46.319><c> the</c><00:31:46.440><c> best.</c>

00:31:46.880 --> 00:31:49.460
And<00:31:46.960><c> looking</c><00:31:47.039><c> back,</c><00:31:47.900><c> we</c><00:31:48.240><c> would</c><00:31:48.400><c> do</c><00:31:48.539><c> it</c><00:31:48.680><c> again</c><00:31:48.900><c> the</c><00:31:49.079><c> same</c><00:31:49.299><c> way.</c>

00:31:49.559 --> 00:31:51.200
There<00:31:49.619><c> are</c><00:31:49.619><c> lots</c><00:31:49.839><c> of</c><00:31:50.000><c> things</c><00:31:50.119><c> we're</c><00:31:50.339><c> not</c><00:31:50.539><c> sure</c><00:31:50.700><c> if</c><00:31:50.940><c> we</c><00:31:51.039><c> would</c>

00:31:51.200 --> 00:31:52.039
do<00:31:51.279><c> again</c><00:31:51.539><c> the</c><00:31:51.700><c> same</c><00:31:51.839><c> way.</c>

00:31:52.400 --> 00:31:54.019
But<00:31:52.579><c> that</c><00:31:52.819><c> one,</c><00:31:53.039><c> we</c><00:31:53.240><c> would.</c>

00:31:54.119 --> 00:31:56.980
And<00:31:54.279><c> the</c><00:31:54.700><c> sitting</c><00:31:55.140><c> down</c><00:31:55.440><c> and</c><00:31:55.579><c> working</c><00:31:55.900><c> out</c><00:31:56.259><c> exactly</c><00:31:56.680><c> where</c>

00:31:56.980 --> 00:31:57.900
our<00:31:57.220><c> strengths</c><00:31:57.440><c> were,</c>

00:31:58.240 --> 00:32:02.799
and<00:31:58.440><c> exploiting</c><00:31:58.819><c> those</c><00:31:59.220><c> strengths</c><00:31:59.920><c> for</c><00:32:00.500><c> the</c><00:32:00.680><c> sake</c><00:32:00.819><c> of</c><00:32:00.980><c> the</c><00:32:01.160><c> truth,</c><00:32:01.420><c> mutually,</c><00:32:02.039><c> and</c><00:32:02.259><c> agreeing</c><00:32:02.579><c> to</c>

00:32:02.799 --> 00:32:03.799
do<00:32:03.039><c> that,</c>

00:32:03.960 --> 00:32:06.460
there's<00:32:04.180><c> never</c><00:32:04.420><c> been</c><00:32:04.599><c> any</c><00:32:04.859><c> tension</c><00:32:05.200><c> over</c><00:32:05.500><c> that.</c>

00:32:06.579 --> 00:32:08.440
And<00:32:07.019><c> it's</c><00:32:07.460><c> not</c><00:32:07.680><c> been</c><00:32:07.960><c> imposed.</c>

00:32:08.599 --> 00:32:10.099
It's<00:32:08.680><c> been</c><00:32:08.880><c> a</c><00:32:08.980><c> matter</c><00:32:09.220><c> of</c><00:32:09.680><c> agreement.</c>

00:32:10.099 --> 00:32:12.940
And<00:32:10.980><c> it</c><00:32:11.079><c> wasn't</c><00:32:11.460><c> an</c><00:32:11.579><c> agreement,</c><00:32:11.980><c> actually,</c><00:32:12.480><c> that</c><00:32:12.539><c> needed</c><00:32:12.779><c> to</c>

00:32:12.940 --> 00:32:14.980
be<00:32:13.140><c> hammered</c><00:32:13.339><c> out</c><00:32:13.519><c> at</c><00:32:13.680><c> a</c><00:32:13.859><c> conference</c><00:32:14.140><c> table,</c><00:32:14.480><c> either.</c>

00:32:15.240 --> 00:32:18.720
It<00:32:15.420><c> was</c><00:32:15.619><c> something</c><00:32:16.000><c> which</c><00:32:16.319><c> we</c><00:32:16.660><c> simply</c><00:32:16.980><c> converged</c><00:32:17.680><c> towards,</c>

00:32:18.779 --> 00:32:23.599
and<00:32:18.960><c> we</c><00:32:19.140><c> agreed</c><00:32:19.400><c> about,</c><00:32:20.839><c> and</c><00:32:21.039><c> cooperated</c><00:32:22.059><c> and</c><00:32:22.299><c> supported</c><00:32:22.720><c> each</c><00:32:23.000><c> other</c><00:32:23.259><c> in.</c>

00:32:24.099 --> 00:32:27.740
And<00:32:24.440><c> it</c><00:32:24.599><c> has</c><00:32:24.880><c> been</c><00:32:25.660><c> tremendously</c><00:32:26.619><c> fruitful,</c>

00:32:28.380 --> 00:32:30.859
both<00:32:28.720><c> for</c><00:32:28.980><c> ourselves,</c><00:32:29.339><c> because</c><00:32:29.640><c> we</c><00:32:29.859><c> both</c><00:32:30.039><c> felt</c><00:32:30.259><c> fulfilled</c><00:32:30.680><c> in</c>

00:32:30.859 --> 00:32:31.380
our<00:32:30.980><c> ways,</c>

00:32:31.420 --> 00:32:34.400
if<00:32:31.839><c> you</c><00:32:32.079><c> can</c><00:32:32.279><c> get</c><00:32:32.440><c> any</c><00:32:32.660><c> fulfillment</c><00:32:33.000><c> in</c><00:32:33.180><c> this</c><00:32:33.359><c> life,</c><00:32:34.059><c> but</c><00:32:34.059><c> for</c>

00:32:34.400 --> 00:32:35.420
the<00:32:34.579><c> truth,</c>

00:32:35.480 --> 00:32:36.920
and<00:32:35.859><c> for</c><00:32:36.180><c> our</c><00:32:36.359><c> great</c><00:32:36.519><c> family.</c>

00:32:37.180 --> 00:32:38.259
So<00:32:37.579><c> it's</c><00:32:37.940><c> tremendous.</c>

00:32:38.680 --> 00:32:40.599
So<00:32:39.079><c> the</c><00:32:39.319><c> division</c><00:32:39.579><c> of</c><00:32:39.819><c> work</c><00:32:39.980><c> is</c><00:32:40.160><c> important.</c>

00:32:40.859 --> 00:32:42.859
We<00:32:40.859><c> need</c><00:32:41.059><c> to</c><00:32:41.220><c> work</c><00:32:41.559><c> out</c><00:32:41.700><c> what</c><00:32:41.859><c> that</c><00:32:42.059><c> is.</c>

00:32:44.200 --> 00:32:47.200
Now,<00:32:44.599><c> I'm</c><00:32:45.000><c> going</c><00:32:45.140><c> to</c><00:32:45.420><c> go</c><00:32:45.599><c> on</c><00:32:45.799><c> a</c><00:32:45.819><c> little</c><00:32:46.019><c> bit</c><00:32:46.160><c> to</c><00:32:46.259><c> be</c><00:32:46.359><c> a</c><00:32:46.440><c> bit</c><00:32:46.539><c> more</c><00:32:46.799><c> specific,</c>

00:32:47.319 --> 00:32:49.880
but<00:32:47.400><c> before</c><00:32:47.660><c> I</c><00:32:47.799><c> do</c><00:32:47.920><c> that,</c><00:32:48.160><c> I'd</c><00:32:48.299><c> like</c><00:32:48.440><c> to</c><00:32:48.519><c> say</c><00:32:48.720><c> that,</c><00:32:49.259><c> once</c><00:32:49.480><c> again,</c><00:32:49.720><c> I'm</c>

00:32:49.880 --> 00:32:51.740
going<00:32:49.980><c> to</c><00:32:50.160><c> express</c><00:32:50.440><c> my</c><00:32:50.720><c> opinions.</c>

00:32:52.200 --> 00:32:55.460
And<00:32:52.200><c> I'd</c><00:32:52.759><c> just</c><00:32:52.759><c> like</c><00:32:52.960><c> to</c><00:32:53.059><c> make</c><00:32:53.240><c> a</c><00:32:53.339><c> point</c><00:32:53.440><c> that</c><00:32:53.599><c> different</c><00:32:53.960><c> views</c><00:32:54.380><c> are</c><00:32:54.980><c> allowable.</c>

00:32:55.519 --> 00:32:57.579
This<00:32:55.700><c> has</c><00:32:55.839><c> got</c><00:32:55.940><c> nothing</c><00:32:56.140><c> to</c><00:32:56.319><c> do</c><00:32:56.400><c> with</c><00:32:56.559><c> the</c><00:32:56.680><c> subject</c><00:32:56.880><c> here.</c>

00:32:57.700 --> 00:33:00.960
Just<00:32:57.859><c> an</c><00:32:59.380><c> example</c><00:32:59.859><c> from</c><00:33:00.079><c> the</c><00:33:00.180><c> Lord</c><00:33:00.319><c> Jesus</c><00:33:00.660><c> Christ.</c>

00:33:01.140 --> 00:33:05.240
You<00:33:01.140><c> know,</c><00:33:01.319><c> the</c><00:33:01.680><c> discussion</c><00:33:02.460><c> came</c><00:33:03.259><c> up</c><00:33:03.500><c> about</c><00:33:03.920><c> divorce</c><00:33:04.500><c> and</c><00:33:04.819><c> so</c><00:33:05.079><c> on.</c>

00:33:05.279 --> 00:33:07.119
I<00:33:05.460><c> don't</c><00:33:05.599><c> want</c><00:33:05.779><c> to</c><00:33:06.000><c> discuss</c><00:33:06.299><c> the</c><00:33:06.400><c> issue</c><00:33:06.680><c> of</c><00:33:06.680><c> divorce,</c>

00:33:07.119 --> 00:33:09.660
but<00:33:07.559><c> just</c><00:33:07.720><c> using</c><00:33:07.900><c> this</c><00:33:08.119><c> as</c><00:33:08.319><c> an</c><00:33:08.460><c> illustration.</c>

00:33:11.480 --> 00:33:12.759
The<00:33:11.619><c> disciples</c><00:33:12.079><c> said</c><00:33:12.339><c> to</c><00:33:12.519><c> Jesus,</c>

00:33:12.920 --> 00:33:15.880
if<00:33:13.019><c> this</c><00:33:13.299><c> is</c><00:33:13.539><c> the</c><00:33:13.640><c> case</c><00:33:13.920><c> of</c><00:33:14.119><c> a</c><00:33:14.279><c> man</c><00:33:14.420><c> with</c><00:33:14.619><c> his</c><00:33:14.839><c> wife,</c>

00:33:15.960 --> 00:33:19.819
it's<00:33:16.240><c> better</c><00:33:16.480><c> not</c><00:33:16.700><c> to</c><00:33:16.920><c> marry,</c><00:33:18.740><c> you</c><00:33:18.839><c> know,</c>

00:33:20.799 --> 00:33:23.500
as<00:33:21.240><c> a</c><00:33:21.339><c> result</c><00:33:21.660><c> of</c><00:33:21.920><c> what</c><00:33:21.960><c> the</c><00:33:22.099><c> Lord</c><00:33:22.220><c> had</c><00:33:22.460><c> said</c><00:33:22.579><c> to</c><00:33:22.779><c> them.</c>

00:33:23.940 --> 00:33:26.299
And<00:33:24.119><c> Jesus'</c><00:33:24.519><c> answer</c><00:33:24.759><c> to</c><00:33:24.920><c> them</c><00:33:25.119><c> is</c><00:33:25.500><c> rather</c><00:33:25.779><c> interesting,</c>

00:33:26.339 --> 00:33:28.960
and<00:33:26.480><c> it's</c><00:33:26.619><c> something</c><00:33:26.880><c> which</c><00:33:27.180><c> I</c><00:33:27.259><c> think</c><00:33:27.460><c> we</c><00:33:27.660><c> need</c><00:33:27.920><c> to</c><00:33:28.160><c> bring</c><00:33:28.279><c> into</c><00:33:28.559><c> our</c>

00:33:28.960 --> 00:33:29.619
broader<00:33:29.240><c> councils,</c>

00:33:29.660 --> 00:33:34.559
not<00:33:29.839><c> just</c><00:33:30.079><c> in</c><00:33:31.700><c> our</c><00:33:31.900><c> homes,</c><00:33:32.359><c> but</c><00:33:32.579><c> also</c><00:33:32.940><c> in</c><00:33:33.099><c> our</c><00:33:33.299><c> ecclesias.</c>

00:33:34.640 --> 00:33:37.539
You<00:33:35.200><c> know,</c><00:33:35.740><c> not</c><00:33:35.779><c> all</c><00:33:36.140><c> men</c><00:33:36.420><c> can</c><00:33:36.700><c> receive</c><00:33:37.099><c> this</c><00:33:37.420><c> saying,</c>

00:33:37.619 --> 00:33:39.259
but<00:33:37.720><c> only</c><00:33:38.019><c> those</c><00:33:38.319><c> to</c><00:33:38.519><c> whom</c><00:33:38.619><c> it</c><00:33:38.740><c> is</c><00:33:38.980><c> given.</c>

00:33:39.700 --> 00:33:43.440
You<00:33:39.740><c> know,</c><00:33:39.859><c> sometimes</c><00:33:40.240><c> in</c><00:33:40.460><c> our</c><00:33:40.660><c> clear</c><00:33:40.819><c> life,</c><00:33:41.359><c> we</c><00:33:41.400><c> take</c><00:33:41.700><c> the</c><00:33:42.500><c> standards</c><00:33:42.799><c> of</c><00:33:43.099><c> perfection,</c>

00:33:43.619 --> 00:33:44.779
the<00:33:43.759><c> councils</c><00:33:44.099><c> of</c><00:33:44.380><c> perfection,</c>

00:33:44.960 --> 00:33:48.099
and<00:33:45.099><c> we</c><00:33:45.940><c> groan</c><00:33:46.240><c> them</c><00:33:46.400><c> into</c><00:33:46.619><c> the</c><00:33:46.799><c> face</c><00:33:47.019><c> of</c><00:33:47.240><c> brethren</c><00:33:47.519><c> who</c><00:33:47.880><c> are</c>

00:33:48.099 --> 00:33:49.839
not<00:33:48.339><c> as</c><00:33:48.759><c> strong</c><00:33:49.019><c> as</c><00:33:49.240><c> we</c><00:33:49.539><c> are,</c>

00:33:50.119 --> 00:33:53.220
or<00:33:50.559><c> perhaps</c><00:33:51.099><c> have</c><00:33:51.599><c> stronger</c><00:33:51.940><c> impulses</c><00:33:52.519><c> than</c><00:33:52.700><c> we</c><00:33:53.000><c> have,</c>

00:33:53.660 --> 00:33:56.839
and<00:33:54.140><c> we</c><00:33:54.500><c> apply</c><00:33:54.839><c> our</c><00:33:55.680><c> abilities</c><00:33:56.240><c> to</c><00:33:56.539><c> them.</c>

00:33:56.859 --> 00:34:00.140
And<00:33:57.259><c> we</c><00:33:57.440><c> do</c><00:33:57.619><c> this</c><00:33:57.859><c> in</c><00:33:58.000><c> a</c><00:33:58.079><c> rather</c><00:33:58.319><c> unkind</c><00:33:58.740><c> fashion</c><00:33:59.119><c> sometimes.</c>

00:34:00.160 --> 00:34:01.819
And<00:34:00.339><c> the</c><00:34:00.460><c> Lord</c><00:34:00.579><c> didn't</c><00:34:00.980><c> do</c><00:34:01.599><c> that.</c>

00:34:01.819 --> 00:34:03.380
He<00:34:01.960><c> said</c><00:34:02.059><c> not</c><00:34:02.220><c> all</c><00:34:02.420><c> men</c><00:34:02.539><c> can</c><00:34:02.779><c> receive</c><00:34:03.039><c> this</c><00:34:03.299><c> saying,</c>

00:34:03.440 --> 00:34:06.400
and<00:34:03.559><c> there</c><00:34:03.660><c> are</c><00:34:03.720><c> lots</c><00:34:03.940><c> of</c><00:34:04.160><c> sayings</c><00:34:04.359><c> which</c><00:34:04.740><c> not</c><00:34:05.119><c> all</c><00:34:05.400><c> men</c><00:34:05.640><c> can</c><00:34:05.960><c> receive.</c>

00:34:06.839 --> 00:34:08.460
Now,<00:34:06.960><c> it's</c><00:34:07.160><c> perfectly</c><00:34:07.380><c> true</c><00:34:07.599><c> that</c><00:34:07.720><c> he's</c><00:34:07.859><c> talking</c><00:34:08.059><c> about</c><00:34:08.280><c> a</c>

00:34:08.460 --> 00:34:09.480
specific<00:34:08.820><c> issue</c><00:34:09.139><c> here.</c>

00:34:09.699 --> 00:34:11.519
What<00:34:09.780><c> I'm</c><00:34:10.079><c> suggesting</c><00:34:10.380><c> to</c><00:34:10.619><c> you</c><00:34:10.820><c> is</c><00:34:10.960><c> that</c><00:34:11.099><c> there</c><00:34:11.179><c> are</c><00:34:11.300><c> many</c>

00:34:11.519 --> 00:34:12.139
such<00:34:11.780><c> issues,</c>

00:34:12.420 --> 00:34:15.480
and<00:34:12.579><c> we</c><00:34:12.699><c> ought</c><00:34:12.880><c> to</c><00:34:12.920><c> be</c><00:34:13.079><c> a</c><00:34:13.099><c> little</c><00:34:13.340><c> careful</c><00:34:13.599><c> about</c><00:34:13.900><c> how</c><00:34:14.800><c> we</c><00:34:15.000><c> apply</c><00:34:15.260><c> it.</c>

00:34:15.739 --> 00:34:18.500
So<00:34:16.019><c> all</c><00:34:16.199><c> I'm</c><00:34:16.420><c> doing</c><00:34:16.599><c> here</c><00:34:16.940><c> is</c><00:34:17.079><c> just</c><00:34:17.280><c> raising</c><00:34:17.579><c> that</c><00:34:17.800><c> to</c><00:34:18.039><c> say,</c><00:34:18.420><c> look,</c>

00:34:18.880 --> 00:34:21.519
I'm<00:34:19.179><c> going</c><00:34:19.300><c> to</c><00:34:19.440><c> give</c><00:34:19.579><c> you</c><00:34:19.940><c> a</c><00:34:20.260><c> few</c><00:34:20.400><c> suggestions</c><00:34:20.860><c> based</c><00:34:21.239><c> largely</c>

00:34:21.519 --> 00:34:22.559
on<00:34:21.780><c> our</c><00:34:22.000><c> experience,</c>

00:34:22.900 --> 00:34:25.400
because<00:34:23.179><c> I</c><00:34:23.360><c> can't</c><00:34:23.619><c> really</c><00:34:23.900><c> talk</c><00:34:24.099><c> about</c><00:34:24.320><c> anybody</c><00:34:24.699><c> else's.</c>

00:34:25.619 --> 00:34:27.840
I'm<00:34:25.820><c> sorry</c><00:34:25.920><c> to</c><00:34:26.079><c> keep</c><00:34:26.260><c> presenting</c><00:34:26.719><c> our</c><00:34:27.260><c> point</c><00:34:27.519><c> of</c><00:34:27.719><c> view.</c>

00:34:27.840 --> 00:34:31.579
But<00:34:28.460><c> just</c><00:34:29.699><c> understand</c><00:34:30.159><c> that</c><00:34:30.400><c> different</c><00:34:30.579><c> views</c><00:34:30.820><c> are</c><00:34:31.059><c> possible</c>

00:34:31.579 --> 00:34:33.820
and<00:34:32.199><c> perfectly</c><00:34:32.699><c> acceptable.</c>

00:34:34.539 --> 00:34:38.579
The<00:34:34.760><c> key</c><00:34:35.239><c> to</c><00:34:35.539><c> the</c><00:34:35.659><c> whole</c><00:34:36.119><c> thing</c><00:34:36.699><c> of</c><00:34:37.260><c> focus</c><00:34:37.619><c> on</c><00:34:37.860><c> the</c><00:34:38.079><c> truth</c><00:34:38.260><c> at</c>

00:34:38.579 --> 00:34:40.039
home,<00:34:38.940><c> it</c><00:34:39.219><c> seems</c><00:34:39.480><c> to</c><00:34:39.739><c> me,</c>

00:34:40.440 --> 00:34:42.699
is<00:34:40.780><c> that</c><00:34:41.059><c> the</c><00:34:41.219><c> wife</c><00:34:41.360><c> is</c><00:34:41.579><c> at</c><00:34:41.800><c> home.</c>

00:34:43.900 --> 00:34:47.940
And<00:34:44.400><c> I've</c><00:34:44.679><c> listed</c><00:34:44.940><c> a</c><00:34:45.199><c> few</c><00:34:45.320><c> things</c><00:34:45.659><c> here</c><00:34:46.019><c> which</c><00:34:46.639><c> seem</c><00:34:47.320><c> to</c><00:34:47.539><c> me</c><00:34:47.679><c> to</c>

00:34:47.940 --> 00:34:49.280
flow<00:34:48.119><c> from</c><00:34:48.380><c> that.</c>

00:34:49.300 --> 00:34:52.599
If<00:34:49.480><c> the</c><00:34:49.679><c> wife</c><00:34:49.820><c> is</c><00:34:50.039><c> at</c><00:34:50.199><c> home,</c><00:34:50.340><c> she</c><00:34:50.480><c> can</c><00:34:50.719><c> give</c><00:34:50.900><c> the</c><00:34:51.139><c> children</c><00:34:51.460><c> the</c>

00:34:52.599 --> 00:34:55.139
undivided<00:34:53.280><c> attention</c><00:34:53.639><c> which</c><00:34:53.980><c> they</c><00:34:54.239><c> need.</c>

00:34:55.280 --> 00:34:56.760
That's<00:34:55.639><c> the</c><00:34:55.739><c> first</c><00:34:56.000><c> thing.</c>

00:34:57.300 --> 00:34:59.860
She<00:34:57.739><c> can</c><00:34:57.960><c> keep</c><00:34:58.179><c> the</c><00:34:58.420><c> home</c><00:34:58.699><c> so</c><00:34:59.000><c> that</c><00:34:59.260><c> both</c><00:34:59.360><c> the</c><00:34:59.519><c> husband</c><00:34:59.719><c> and</c>

00:34:59.860 --> 00:35:00.440
the<00:34:59.940><c> wife</c><00:35:00.119><c> are</c><00:35:00.260><c> able</c>

00:35:00.440 --> 00:35:02.519
to<00:35:00.659><c> spend</c><00:35:00.800><c> their</c><00:35:01.019><c> evenings</c><00:35:01.280><c> on</c><00:35:01.579><c> work</c><00:35:01.719><c> for</c><00:35:01.940><c> the</c><00:35:02.139><c> truth.</c>

00:35:02.920 --> 00:35:05.880
That<00:35:03.179><c> has</c><00:35:03.800><c> certainly</c><00:35:04.280><c> worked</c><00:35:04.579><c> out.</c><00:35:04.900><c> We've</c><00:35:05.099><c> seen</c><00:35:05.400><c> both</c><00:35:05.719><c> of</c>

00:35:05.880 --> 00:35:07.320
those<00:35:06.079><c> points</c><00:35:06.380><c> there.</c>

00:35:07.820 --> 00:35:09.519
I'm<00:35:07.940><c> not</c><00:35:08.139><c> elaborating</c><00:35:08.719><c> very</c><00:35:08.980><c> much</c><00:35:09.199><c> on</c><00:35:09.360><c> them,</c>

00:35:09.519 --> 00:35:11.139
although<00:35:09.780><c> there's</c><00:35:09.960><c> a</c><00:35:10.059><c> good</c><00:35:10.159><c> deal</c><00:35:10.300><c> that</c><00:35:10.440><c> could</c><00:35:10.559><c> be</c><00:35:10.760><c> said</c><00:35:10.920><c> and</c>

00:35:11.139 --> 00:35:13.619
some<00:35:11.500><c> quite</c><00:35:12.119><c> interesting</c><00:35:12.639><c> stories.</c>

00:35:14.300 --> 00:35:17.280
A<00:35:14.480><c> wife,</c><00:35:14.699><c> if</c><00:35:14.840><c> she</c><00:35:14.980><c> stays</c><00:35:15.239><c> at</c><00:35:15.460><c> home,</c><00:35:15.679><c> can</c><00:35:15.820><c> stay</c><00:35:16.139><c> somewhat</c><00:35:16.519><c> focused</c><00:35:17.079><c> on</c>

00:35:17.280 --> 00:35:18.260
the<00:35:17.500><c> truth.</c>

00:35:19.519 --> 00:35:21.880
And<00:35:19.679><c> when</c><00:35:19.940><c> children</c><00:35:20.400><c> come</c><00:35:20.679><c> home</c><00:35:20.820><c> from</c><00:35:21.079><c> school</c><00:35:21.360><c> having</c><00:35:21.579><c> been</c>

00:35:21.880 --> 00:35:22.739
immersed<00:35:22.199><c> in</c><00:35:22.400><c> the</c><00:35:22.539><c> system,</c>

00:35:22.760 --> 00:35:24.000
we're<00:35:22.920><c> not</c><00:35:23.019><c> going</c><00:35:23.159><c> to</c><00:35:23.280><c> talk</c><00:35:23.420><c> about</c><00:35:23.599><c> young</c><00:35:23.780><c> people,</c>

00:35:24.000 --> 00:35:28.980
but<00:35:24.519><c> the</c><00:35:25.139><c> school</c><00:35:25.400><c> system,</c><00:35:25.980><c> at</c><00:35:26.260><c> least</c><00:35:26.480><c> in</c><00:35:26.659><c> our</c><00:35:26.900><c> country,</c><00:35:27.579><c> is</c><00:35:28.440><c> a</c>

00:35:28.980 --> 00:35:30.119
very<00:35:29.340><c> negative</c><00:35:29.760><c> thing.</c>

00:35:30.320 --> 00:35:32.840
And<00:35:30.360><c> I'm</c><00:35:30.860><c> putting</c><00:35:31.079><c> that</c><00:35:31.420><c> entirely</c><00:35:31.679><c> mildly.</c>

00:35:33.260 --> 00:35:35.239
And<00:35:33.500><c> so</c><00:35:33.659><c> if</c><00:35:33.820><c> the</c><00:35:33.880><c> wife</c><00:35:34.019><c> is</c><00:35:34.219><c> at</c><00:35:34.380><c> home</c><00:35:34.480><c> and</c><00:35:34.619><c> the</c><00:35:34.760><c> children</c><00:35:34.980><c> come</c>

00:35:35.239 --> 00:35:37.079
home<00:35:35.500><c> from</c><00:35:35.699><c> that</c><00:35:36.019><c> environment,</c>

00:35:37.320 --> 00:35:39.639
then<00:35:37.539><c> she</c><00:35:37.760><c> can</c><00:35:38.780><c> redirect</c><00:35:39.420><c> them.</c>

00:35:39.679 --> 00:35:44.099
And<00:35:39.800><c> when</c><00:35:39.900><c> the</c><00:35:40.019><c> husband</c><00:35:40.239><c> comes</c><00:35:40.519><c> home</c><00:35:40.900><c> and</c><00:35:41.719><c> he's</c><00:35:42.579><c> had</c><00:35:42.760><c> a</c><00:35:42.920><c> frustrating</c><00:35:43.300><c> day</c><00:35:43.559><c> or</c><00:35:43.739><c> whatever,</c>

00:35:44.320 --> 00:35:46.420
he's<00:35:44.699><c> been</c><00:35:44.960><c> immersed</c><00:35:45.219><c> in</c><00:35:45.500><c> the</c><00:35:45.780><c> things</c><00:35:45.920><c> of</c><00:35:46.099><c> the</c><00:35:46.260><c> world,</c>

00:35:46.460 --> 00:35:49.559
then<00:35:46.619><c> the</c><00:35:46.840><c> wife</c><00:35:47.000><c> at</c><00:35:47.300><c> home,</c><00:35:47.840><c> if</c><00:35:48.119><c> she</c><00:35:48.280><c> does</c><00:35:48.480><c> it</c><00:35:48.639><c> the</c><00:35:48.840><c> right</c><00:35:49.119><c> way,</c>

00:35:49.559 --> 00:35:56.539
she<00:35:49.940><c> can</c><00:35:50.179><c> bring</c><00:35:50.559><c> a</c><00:35:50.920><c> calm</c><00:35:51.260><c> and</c><00:35:51.539><c> a</c><00:35:51.820><c> spiritual</c><00:35:52.860><c> flavor</c><00:35:54.400><c> to</c><00:35:54.760><c> this</c><00:35:55.360><c> homecoming,</c>

00:35:57.099 --> 00:36:00.320
which<00:35:57.480><c> I'm</c><00:35:57.940><c> sure</c><00:35:58.260><c> she</c><00:35:58.559><c> would</c><00:35:59.059><c> have</c><00:35:59.300><c> great</c><00:35:59.500><c> difficulty</c><00:35:59.980><c> doing</c>

00:36:00.320 --> 00:36:04.260
if<00:36:00.619><c> she</c><00:36:00.880><c> were</c><00:36:01.179><c> to</c><00:36:01.460><c> sort</c><00:36:01.780><c> of</c><00:36:01.980><c> come</c><00:36:02.260><c> in</c><00:36:02.780><c> as</c><00:36:03.019><c> the</c><00:36:03.179><c> husband</c><00:36:03.480><c> arrived</c><00:36:03.900><c> home,</c>

00:36:04.280 --> 00:36:06.980
and<00:36:04.579><c> the</c><00:36:04.699><c> kids</c><00:36:04.880><c> have</c><00:36:05.079><c> been</c><00:36:05.199><c> home</c><00:36:05.679><c> watching</c><00:36:06.119><c> television</c><00:36:06.659><c> since</c>

00:36:06.980 --> 00:36:08.880
they<00:36:07.199><c> came</c><00:36:07.400><c> home</c><00:36:07.599><c> from</c><00:36:07.880><c> school.</c>

00:36:09.139 --> 00:36:11.139
You<00:36:09.500><c> give</c><00:36:09.699><c> them</c><00:36:09.860><c> the</c><00:36:10.039><c> key</c><00:36:10.219><c> or</c><00:36:10.400><c> something</c><00:36:10.659><c> like</c><00:36:10.980><c> that.</c>

00:36:11.179 --> 00:36:13.139
It's<00:36:11.519><c> not</c><00:36:11.719><c> a</c><00:36:11.880><c> satisfactory</c><00:36:12.239><c> arrangement.</c>

00:36:14.199 --> 00:36:17.139
I<00:36:14.380><c> know</c><00:36:14.619><c> that</c><00:36:14.860><c> it's</c><00:36:15.039><c> inevitable</c><00:36:15.420><c> sometimes</c><00:36:16.119><c> these</c><00:36:16.579><c> days,</c>

00:36:17.139 --> 00:36:19.840
and<00:36:17.340><c> I</c><00:36:17.440><c> know</c><00:36:17.780><c> that</c><00:36:18.019><c> there</c><00:36:18.360><c> are</c><00:36:18.679><c> yes</c><00:36:19.000><c>-butts</c><00:36:19.260><c> that</c><00:36:19.360><c> can</c><00:36:19.579><c> be</c><00:36:19.679><c> said</c>

00:36:19.840 --> 00:36:20.960
to<00:36:20.000><c> everything</c><00:36:20.320><c> I'm</c><00:36:20.539><c> saying</c><00:36:20.780><c> here,</c>

00:36:20.960 --> 00:36:23.920
but<00:36:21.079><c> I'm</c><00:36:21.679><c> giving</c><00:36:21.880><c> you</c><00:36:22.099><c> what</c><00:36:22.179><c> I</c><00:36:22.480><c> regard</c><00:36:22.800><c> as</c><00:36:23.099><c> councils</c><00:36:23.320><c> of</c><00:36:23.599><c> perfection</c>

00:36:23.920 --> 00:36:27.059
without,<00:36:24.420><c> I</c><00:36:24.820><c> hope,</c><00:36:25.039><c> being</c><00:36:25.340><c> dogmatic</c><00:36:25.760><c> about</c><00:36:26.039><c> it.</c>

00:36:28.119 --> 00:36:31.079
She<00:36:28.440><c> should</c><00:36:28.760><c> be</c><00:36:28.920><c> able</c><00:36:29.019><c> to</c><00:36:29.219><c> make</c><00:36:29.400><c> some</c><00:36:29.719><c> time</c><00:36:29.900><c> for</c><00:36:30.039><c> Bible</c><00:36:30.300><c> reading</c><00:36:30.579><c> and</c><00:36:30.880><c> study,</c>

00:36:31.219 --> 00:36:32.519
and<00:36:31.380><c> I</c><00:36:31.519><c> know</c><00:36:31.719><c> that</c><00:36:31.940><c> Coral</c><00:36:32.119><c> does</c><00:36:32.320><c> this.</c>

00:36:32.519 --> 00:36:33.739
She<00:36:32.659><c> won't</c><00:36:32.840><c> mind</c><00:36:33.000><c> my</c><00:36:33.219><c> saying</c><00:36:33.440><c> so.</c>

00:36:34.139 --> 00:36:39.019
She<00:36:34.579><c> has</c><00:36:34.940><c> made</c><00:36:35.159><c> it</c><00:36:35.400><c> a</c><00:36:35.780><c> rule</c><00:36:36.099><c> after</c><00:36:37.619><c> I</c><00:36:38.079><c> had</c><00:36:38.300><c> gone</c><00:36:38.440><c> off</c><00:36:38.679><c> to</c><00:36:38.840><c> work,</c>

00:36:39.019 --> 00:36:45.480
she<00:36:39.219><c> would</c><00:36:39.480><c> then</c><00:36:40.420><c> spread</c><00:36:40.639><c> out</c><00:36:40.880><c> some</c><00:36:41.059><c> books</c><00:36:41.500><c> on</c><00:36:44.619><c> the</c><00:36:45.000><c> table</c><00:36:45.260><c> in</c>

00:36:45.480 --> 00:36:46.239
the<00:36:45.539><c> dining</c><00:36:45.780><c> room,</c>

00:36:46.239 --> 00:36:48.960
and<00:36:46.679><c> she</c><00:36:46.900><c> would</c><00:36:47.159><c> spend</c><00:36:47.579><c> a</c><00:36:47.840><c> couple</c><00:36:48.000><c> of</c><00:36:48.260><c> hours,</c><00:36:48.559><c> an</c><00:36:48.639><c> hour</c><00:36:48.780><c> and</c><00:36:48.920><c> a</c>

00:36:48.960 --> 00:36:51.199
half<00:36:49.079><c> to</c><00:36:49.219><c> two</c><00:36:49.500><c> hours</c><00:36:49.860><c> every</c><00:36:50.179><c> morning</c><00:36:50.460><c> virtually,</c>

00:36:51.699 --> 00:36:55.400
doing<00:36:51.780><c> her</c><00:36:52.039><c> readings</c><00:36:52.280><c> carefully</c><00:36:52.960><c> and</c><00:36:54.039><c> checking</c><00:36:54.940><c> up</c><00:36:55.239><c> the</c>

00:36:55.400 --> 00:36:56.159
Strongstone<00:36:55.820><c> coordinates</c>

00:36:56.159 --> 00:36:58.380
and<00:36:56.380><c> that</c><00:36:56.519><c> sort</c><00:36:56.639><c> of</c><00:36:56.760><c> thing,</c><00:36:57.239><c> writing</c><00:36:57.539><c> notes</c><00:36:57.800><c> in</c><00:36:57.980><c> the</c><00:36:58.179><c> margin</c>

00:36:58.380 --> 00:36:59.360
of<00:36:58.619><c> Bible,</c>

00:36:59.559 --> 00:37:02.559
and<00:36:59.760><c> her</c><00:37:00.079><c> own</c><00:37:00.519><c> private</c><00:37:01.219><c> Bible</c><00:37:01.599><c> study,</c><00:37:01.880><c> she</c><00:37:02.019><c> didn't</c><00:37:02.260><c> depend</c>

00:37:02.559 --> 00:37:03.219
upon<00:37:02.840><c> me.</c>

00:37:03.460 --> 00:37:06.639
She<00:37:03.719><c> had</c><00:37:04.019><c> made</c><00:37:04.179><c> her</c><00:37:04.500><c> own</c><00:37:04.840><c> faith,</c><00:37:05.139><c> and</c><00:37:05.320><c> this,</c><00:37:05.679><c> I</c><00:37:05.679><c> think,</c><00:37:05.860><c> is</c><00:37:05.960><c> very</c><00:37:06.219><c> important</c><00:37:06.400><c> for</c>

00:37:06.639 --> 00:37:07.699
all<00:37:06.820><c> sisters.</c>

00:37:08.840 --> 00:37:11.199
It's<00:37:09.360><c> important</c><00:37:09.860><c> to</c><00:37:10.179><c> share</c><00:37:10.380><c> with</c><00:37:10.579><c> your</c><00:37:10.760><c> husband,</c>

00:37:11.199 --> 00:37:15.880
but<00:37:11.800><c> it's</c><00:37:12.039><c> also</c><00:37:12.280><c> important</c><00:37:12.760><c> to</c><00:37:13.519><c> make</c><00:37:13.780><c> your</c><00:37:14.079><c> own</c><00:37:15.000><c> relationship</c>

00:37:15.880 --> 00:37:17.280
with<00:37:16.099><c> the</c><00:37:16.260><c> Lord,</c>

00:37:17.539 --> 00:37:19.239
and<00:37:17.659><c> not</c><00:37:17.920><c> independently</c><00:37:18.619><c> of</c><00:37:18.820><c> your</c><00:37:18.980><c> husband,</c>

00:37:19.500 --> 00:37:22.260
but<00:37:19.559><c> in</c><00:37:19.679><c> fact</c><00:37:19.920><c> be</c><00:37:20.000><c> able</c><00:37:20.179><c> to</c><00:37:20.239><c> share</c><00:37:20.519><c> with</c><00:37:20.679><c> him</c><00:37:21.039><c> some</c><00:37:21.360><c> of</c><00:37:21.539><c> the</c><00:37:21.579><c> things</c><00:37:21.719><c> which</c><00:37:21.940><c> you</c><00:37:22.139><c> find,</c>

00:37:22.340 --> 00:37:25.079
because<00:37:22.519><c> most</c><00:37:22.800><c> husbands</c><00:37:23.159><c> around</c><00:37:23.500><c> you</c><00:37:23.699><c> are</c><00:37:23.880><c> too</c><00:37:23.920><c> pleased</c><00:37:24.199><c> to</c>

00:37:25.079 --> 00:37:28.739
pick<00:37:26.159><c> up</c><00:37:26.440><c> those</c><00:37:27.199><c> gems</c><00:37:27.460><c> themselves.</c>

00:37:29.239 --> 00:37:30.099
And<00:37:29.380><c> so</c><00:37:29.500><c> that's</c><00:37:29.739><c> important.</c>

00:37:30.320 --> 00:37:33.840
It<00:37:30.320><c> seems</c><00:37:30.519><c> she</c><00:37:30.820><c> should</c><00:37:31.039><c> be</c><00:37:31.159><c> able</c><00:37:31.280><c> to</c><00:37:31.400><c> make</c><00:37:31.559><c> some</c><00:37:31.900><c> time</c><00:37:32.019><c> for</c><00:37:32.179><c> Bible</c><00:37:32.519><c> reading,</c><00:37:33.059><c> study</c><00:37:33.400><c> and</c><00:37:33.539><c> prayer.</c>

00:37:33.900 --> 00:37:38.599
It's<00:37:34.079><c> a</c><00:37:34.179><c> question</c><00:37:34.480><c> of</c><00:37:35.639><c> routines</c><00:37:36.179><c> and</c><00:37:36.780><c> getting</c><00:37:37.199><c> that</c><00:37:37.519><c> sorted</c><00:37:37.699><c> out.</c>

00:37:38.940 --> 00:37:41.559
She<00:37:39.340><c> may</c><00:37:39.559><c> be</c><00:37:39.699><c> able</c><00:37:39.780><c> to</c><00:37:39.900><c> help</c><00:37:40.079><c> other</c><00:37:40.360><c> families</c><00:37:40.739><c> if</c><00:37:40.900><c> she's</c><00:37:41.179><c> at</c><00:37:41.280><c> home</c><00:37:41.320><c> by</c>

00:37:41.559 --> 00:37:42.480
looking<00:37:41.820><c> after</c><00:37:42.119><c> children</c>

00:37:42.480 --> 00:37:45.260
or<00:37:42.679><c> by</c><00:37:42.960><c> cooking</c><00:37:43.159><c> for</c><00:37:43.440><c> the</c><00:37:43.539><c> sick</c><00:37:43.659><c> or</c><00:37:43.920><c> elderly</c><00:37:44.239><c> and</c><00:37:44.519><c> so</c><00:37:44.679><c> on,</c>

00:37:45.320 --> 00:37:47.420
and<00:37:45.579><c> certainly</c><00:37:45.980><c> that's</c><00:37:46.219><c> something</c><00:37:46.460><c> which</c><00:37:46.679><c> has</c><00:37:46.840><c> been</c><00:37:46.980><c> a</c><00:37:47.059><c> feature</c><00:37:47.239><c> in</c>

00:37:47.420 --> 00:37:48.340
our<00:37:47.559><c> meeting.</c>

00:37:48.400 --> 00:37:51.079
She<00:37:48.579><c> may</c><00:37:48.739><c> be</c><00:37:48.840><c> able</c><00:37:48.940><c> to</c><00:37:49.139><c> visit</c><00:37:49.380><c> or</c><00:37:49.739><c> phone</c><00:37:50.000><c> those</c><00:37:50.300><c> who</c><00:37:50.500><c> need</c><00:37:50.699><c> support,</c>

00:37:51.099 --> 00:37:53.880
and<00:37:51.280><c> there's</c><00:37:51.380><c> an</c><00:37:51.559><c> elderly</c><00:37:51.739><c> sister</c><00:37:52.079><c> in</c><00:37:52.199><c> our</c><00:37:52.400><c> meeting</c><00:37:52.599><c> who's</c><00:37:53.360><c> crippled</c><00:37:53.619><c> by</c>

00:37:53.880 --> 00:37:55.760
arthritis<00:37:54.320><c> and</c><00:37:54.579><c> so</c><00:37:54.699><c> on,</c><00:37:54.900><c> lives</c><00:37:55.039><c> in</c><00:37:55.239><c> a</c><00:37:55.340><c> rest</c><00:37:55.500><c> home,</c>

00:37:56.119 --> 00:38:00.239
but<00:37:56.440><c> her</c><00:37:56.699><c> mind</c><00:37:56.980><c> is</c><00:37:57.179><c> as</c><00:37:57.340><c> sharp</c><00:37:57.519><c> as</c><00:37:57.699><c> a</c><00:37:57.880><c> tank</c><00:37:58.039><c> and</c><00:37:58.219><c> she</c><00:37:58.380><c> feels</c><00:37:58.659><c> as</c><00:37:58.820><c> though</c><00:37:58.880><c> she's</c><00:37:59.159><c> in</c><00:37:59.780><c> a</c>

00:38:00.239 --> 00:38:02.539
kind<00:38:00.400><c> of</c><00:38:00.579><c> prison</c><00:38:00.880><c> because</c><00:38:01.139><c> she</c><00:38:01.340><c> can't</c><00:38:01.639><c> move.</c>

00:38:02.619 --> 00:38:05.539
So<00:38:02.880><c> Coral</c><00:38:03.099><c> has</c><00:38:03.340><c> spent</c><00:38:03.880><c> hours</c><00:38:04.480><c> on</c><00:38:04.719><c> the</c><00:38:04.880><c> telephone,</c><00:38:05.420><c> pick</c><00:38:05.440><c> her</c>

00:38:05.539 --> 00:38:07.659
up,<00:38:05.960><c> pick</c><00:38:06.139><c> up</c><00:38:06.280><c> the</c><00:38:06.460><c> phone</c><00:38:06.659><c> and</c><00:38:07.179><c> phone</c><00:38:07.480><c> her,</c>

00:38:07.659 --> 00:38:09.900
and<00:38:07.860><c> when</c><00:38:07.860><c> she's</c><00:38:08.119><c> running</c><00:38:08.280><c> out</c><00:38:08.460><c> of</c><00:38:08.500><c> things</c><00:38:08.760><c> to</c><00:38:09.019><c> say,</c><00:38:09.539><c> she</c><00:38:09.659><c> will</c>

00:38:09.900 --> 00:38:10.539
read<00:38:10.119><c> her</c><00:38:10.340><c> something,</c>

00:38:10.579 --> 00:38:13.099
because<00:38:10.880><c> this</c><00:38:11.119><c> sister</c><00:38:11.320><c> has</c><00:38:11.559><c> also</c><00:38:11.760><c> lost</c><00:38:12.039><c> her</c><00:38:12.280><c> sight.</c>

00:38:13.500 --> 00:38:16.719
She<00:38:13.940><c> can't</c><00:38:14.380><c> read</c><00:38:14.699><c> very</c><00:38:14.960><c> well,</c><00:38:15.139><c> so</c><00:38:15.260><c> she'll</c><00:38:15.559><c> read</c><00:38:16.179><c> a</c><00:38:16.480><c> work</c><00:38:16.599><c> of</c>

00:38:16.719 --> 00:38:19.579
the<00:38:16.900><c> truth</c><00:38:17.159><c> and</c><00:38:18.300><c> serialise</c><00:38:19.039><c> it,</c><00:38:19.199><c> you</c><00:38:19.300><c> know,</c>

00:38:19.599 --> 00:38:22.079
and<00:38:19.840><c> this</c><00:38:20.000><c> sister</c><00:38:20.199><c> would</c><00:38:20.460><c> really</c><00:38:20.739><c> get</c><00:38:20.920><c> to</c><00:38:21.519><c> look</c><00:38:21.780><c> forward</c><00:38:22.000><c> to</c><00:38:22.019><c> it.</c>

00:38:22.079 --> 00:38:25.039
She<00:38:22.179><c> can't</c><00:38:22.400><c> do</c><00:38:22.539><c> that</c><00:38:22.699><c> if</c><00:38:22.780><c> she</c><00:38:22.920><c> goes</c><00:38:23.099><c> to</c><00:38:23.320><c> work,</c><00:38:24.159><c> and</c><00:38:24.340><c> this</c><00:38:24.519><c> is</c><00:38:24.880><c> a</c>

00:38:25.039 --> 00:38:28.059
tremendously<00:38:25.519><c> important,</c><00:38:26.300><c> valuable</c><00:38:26.599><c> work</c><00:38:26.920><c> which</c><00:38:27.139><c> is</c><00:38:27.320><c> done.</c>

00:38:28.219 --> 00:38:30.500
And<00:38:28.400><c> Coral,</c><00:38:28.639><c> I</c><00:38:28.980><c> keep</c><00:38:29.159><c> mentioning</c><00:38:29.460><c> Coral,</c><00:38:29.760><c> she's</c><00:38:29.960><c> not</c><00:38:30.099><c> the</c><00:38:30.199><c> only</c><00:38:30.360><c> one</c>

00:38:30.500 --> 00:38:32.340
who<00:38:30.579><c> does</c><00:38:30.920><c> that</c><00:38:31.179><c> sort</c><00:38:31.440><c> of</c><00:38:31.599><c> thing.</c>

00:38:32.440 --> 00:38:34.659
And<00:38:32.659><c> so</c><00:38:32.860><c> this</c><00:38:33.119><c> is</c><00:38:33.300><c> something</c><00:38:33.480><c> that</c><00:38:33.539><c> can</c><00:38:33.719><c> be</c><00:38:33.900><c> done.</c>

00:38:35.280 --> 00:38:38.900
May<00:38:35.719><c> have</c><00:38:36.019><c> time</c><00:38:36.280><c> to</c><00:38:36.500><c> do</c><00:38:36.599><c> some</c><00:38:36.800><c> proclamation</c><00:38:37.300><c> work,</c><00:38:38.639><c> and</c><00:38:38.719><c> Coral</c>

00:38:38.900 --> 00:38:39.739
and<00:38:39.059><c> another</c><00:38:39.340><c> sister,</c>

00:38:39.980 --> 00:38:41.800
I<00:38:40.019><c> don't</c><00:38:40.300><c> think</c><00:38:40.559><c> a</c><00:38:40.579><c> sister</c><00:38:40.820><c> by</c><00:38:41.000><c> herself</c><00:38:41.280><c> should</c><00:38:41.500><c> look</c><00:38:41.739><c> forward</c>

00:38:41.800 --> 00:38:42.739
to<00:38:41.960><c> do</c><00:38:42.099><c> too</c><00:38:42.320><c> much</c><00:38:42.480><c> of</c><00:38:42.619><c> this,</c>

00:38:43.219 --> 00:38:48.199
but<00:38:43.219><c> if</c><00:38:43.480><c> they</c><00:38:43.599><c> can</c><00:38:43.679><c> get</c><00:38:43.900><c> together</c><00:38:44.260><c> in</c><00:38:44.480><c> groups</c><00:38:45.000><c> and</c><00:38:45.480><c> go</c><00:38:45.639><c> and</c><00:38:46.719><c> post</c><00:38:47.099><c> bills,</c><00:38:47.840><c> knock</c><00:38:47.960><c> on</c>

00:38:48.199 --> 00:38:49.059
doors<00:38:48.480><c> and</c><00:38:48.679><c> so</c><00:38:48.900><c> on,</c>

00:38:49.059 --> 00:38:52.800
and<00:38:49.280><c> I</c><00:38:49.559><c> know</c><00:38:49.820><c> that</c><00:38:50.380><c> our</c><00:38:50.559><c> Sunday</c><00:38:50.780><c> school</c><00:38:51.440><c> was</c><00:38:52.000><c> once</c><00:38:52.260><c> very</c><00:38:52.559><c> small</c>

00:38:52.800 --> 00:38:56.900
and<00:38:52.980><c> it</c><00:38:53.219><c> grew</c><00:38:53.400><c> because</c><00:38:53.920><c> of</c><00:38:54.280><c> this</c><00:38:54.519><c> effort</c><00:38:54.719><c> of</c><00:38:54.920><c> going</c><00:38:55.099><c> and</c><00:38:55.179><c> knocking</c><00:38:55.360><c> on</c><00:38:55.619><c> doors</c><00:38:55.840><c> and</c><00:38:56.380><c> that</c><00:38:56.559><c> sort</c><00:38:56.719><c> of</c><00:38:56.820><c> thing.</c>

00:38:56.920 --> 00:38:59.039
So<00:38:57.119><c> there</c><00:38:57.320><c> is</c><00:38:57.679><c> all</c><00:38:57.900><c> sorts</c><00:38:58.360><c> of</c><00:38:58.699><c> activity.</c>

00:38:59.039 --> 00:39:02.019
May<00:38:59.840><c> be</c><00:38:59.940><c> able</c><00:39:00.099><c> to</c><00:39:00.239><c> practise</c><00:39:00.559><c> the</c><00:39:00.760><c> piano</c><00:39:01.159><c> for</c><00:39:01.460><c> meetings</c><00:39:01.820><c> or</c>

00:39:02.019 --> 00:39:03.699
undertake<00:39:02.360><c> some</c><00:39:02.619><c> other</c><00:39:02.780><c> helpful</c><00:39:03.059><c> task,</c>

00:39:03.940 --> 00:39:06.619
such<00:39:04.079><c> as</c><00:39:04.219><c> bringing</c><00:39:04.539><c> flowers</c><00:39:04.940><c> each</c><00:39:05.239><c> Sunday</c><00:39:05.539><c> and</c><00:39:05.739><c> so</c><00:39:05.880><c> on.</c>

00:39:07.199 --> 00:39:09.619
I<00:39:07.260><c> think</c><00:39:07.460><c> Coral</c><00:39:07.780><c> will</c><00:39:07.940><c> probably</c><00:39:08.219><c> forgive</c><00:39:08.500><c> me</c><00:39:08.719><c> for</c><00:39:08.880><c> saying</c><00:39:09.099><c> that</c><00:39:09.239><c> she's</c><00:39:09.400><c> not</c>

00:39:09.619 --> 00:39:10.780
a<00:39:09.800><c> natural</c><00:39:10.119><c> pianist.</c>

00:39:11.239 --> 00:39:16.579
She<00:39:11.239><c> hasn't,</c><00:39:12.360><c> you</c><00:39:12.519><c> know,</c><00:39:12.760><c> but</c><00:39:13.380><c> what</c><00:39:13.639><c> she</c><00:39:14.519><c> has</c><00:39:14.760><c> done</c><00:39:14.940><c> is</c><00:39:15.280><c> to</c><00:39:15.760><c> persevere</c><00:39:16.239><c> at</c><00:39:16.420><c> that.</c>

00:39:16.599 --> 00:39:20.920
She<00:39:16.820><c> spent</c><00:39:17.179><c> thousands</c><00:39:17.800><c> of</c><00:39:18.099><c> hours</c><00:39:18.519><c> at</c><00:39:18.760><c> it,</c><00:39:19.639><c> practising,</c><00:39:20.079><c> because</c><00:39:20.280><c> we</c><00:39:20.420><c> had</c><00:39:20.619><c> no</c>

00:39:20.920 --> 00:39:21.960
organist<00:39:21.340><c> in</c><00:39:21.500><c> near</c><00:39:21.679><c> pleasure,</c>

00:39:22.400 --> 00:39:24.360
and<00:39:22.579><c> she</c><00:39:22.780><c> worked</c><00:39:23.000><c> at</c><00:39:23.159><c> it</c><00:39:23.380><c> and</c><00:39:23.400><c> worked</c><00:39:23.619><c> at</c><00:39:23.780><c> it</c><00:39:23.940><c> and</c><00:39:23.940><c> worked</c><00:39:24.199><c> at</c>

00:39:24.360 --> 00:39:28.039
it<00:39:24.539><c> and</c><00:39:24.559><c> still</c><00:39:24.760><c> does,</c><00:39:26.139><c> just</c><00:39:26.460><c> to</c><00:39:26.780><c> do</c><00:39:26.940><c> the</c><00:39:27.079><c> best</c><00:39:27.280><c> that</c><00:39:27.460><c> she</c><00:39:27.719><c> can.</c>

00:39:28.039 --> 00:39:30.900
And<00:39:28.500><c> this</c><00:39:29.179><c> has</c><00:39:29.380><c> been</c><00:39:29.519><c> a</c><00:39:29.539><c> real</c><00:39:29.780><c> labour</c><00:39:30.039><c> of</c><00:39:30.219><c> love</c><00:39:30.380><c> for</c><00:39:30.539><c> her,</c><00:39:30.880><c> and</c>

00:39:30.900 --> 00:39:35.960
I<00:39:30.940><c> know</c><00:39:31.320><c> something</c><00:39:31.800><c> of</c><00:39:32.019><c> a</c><00:39:32.139><c> burden</c><00:39:32.360><c> from</c><00:39:32.619><c> time</c><00:39:32.780><c> to</c><00:39:32.900><c> time</c><00:39:33.679><c> as</c><00:39:34.559><c> she's</c><00:39:34.980><c> expressed</c><00:39:35.300><c> it.</c>

00:39:36.019 --> 00:39:39.179
So<00:39:36.340><c> there</c><00:39:36.739><c> are</c><00:39:36.880><c> some</c><00:39:37.079><c> of</c><00:39:37.239><c> the</c><00:39:37.340><c> things</c><00:39:37.559><c> that</c><00:39:37.800><c> a</c><00:39:37.880><c> wife</c><00:39:38.019><c> can</c><00:39:38.340><c> do</c><00:39:38.820><c> if</c>

00:39:39.179 --> 00:39:41.139
she's<00:39:40.079><c> at</c><00:39:40.440><c> home.</c>

00:39:41.739 --> 00:39:45.960
And<00:39:41.900><c> then</c><00:39:42.260><c> the</c><00:39:42.460><c> question</c><00:39:42.780><c> is,</c><00:39:44.159><c> why</c><00:39:44.400><c> go</c><00:39:44.659><c> to</c><00:39:44.780><c> work</c><00:39:45.539><c> then?</c>

00:39:46.199 --> 00:39:49.039
If<00:39:46.619><c> the</c><00:39:46.760><c> desirable</c><00:39:47.119><c> situation</c><00:39:47.760><c> is</c><00:39:47.920><c> being</c><00:39:48.159><c> at</c><00:39:48.320><c> home,</c><00:39:48.460><c> why</c><00:39:48.719><c> would</c><00:39:48.940><c> we</c>

00:39:49.039 --> 00:39:49.460
go<00:39:49.179><c> to</c><00:39:49.340><c> work?</c>

00:39:49.519 --> 00:39:53.980
Well,<00:39:49.619><c> we</c><00:39:49.760><c> know</c><00:39:50.059><c> that</c><00:39:50.239><c> there</c><00:39:50.500><c> are</c><00:39:51.139><c> realities</c><00:39:51.679><c> in</c><00:39:52.400><c> the</c><00:39:52.440><c> situation</c><00:39:52.980><c> today.</c>

00:39:54.719 --> 00:39:57.920
Economics,<00:39:55.460><c> plain</c><00:39:55.659><c> old</c><00:39:55.980><c>-fashioned</c><00:39:56.219><c> economics</c><00:39:56.920><c> are</c><00:39:57.260><c> the</c><00:39:57.320><c> reason</c><00:39:57.599><c> why</c>

00:39:57.920 --> 00:39:58.960
a<00:39:57.920><c> lot</c><00:39:58.119><c> of</c><00:39:58.260><c> sisters</c><00:39:58.460><c> go</c><00:39:58.679><c> to</c><00:39:58.840><c> work.</c>

00:39:59.460 --> 00:40:07.239
Although<00:39:59.460><c> I</c><00:40:00.000><c> have</c><00:40:00.179><c> to</c><00:40:00.340><c> say</c><00:40:00.519><c> that</c><00:40:00.780><c> sometimes</c><00:40:01.460><c> we</c><00:40:02.760><c> try</c><00:40:03.239><c> for</c><00:40:03.800><c> a</c><00:40:04.239><c> lifestyle</c><00:40:04.920><c> which</c><00:40:05.940><c> requires</c><00:40:06.619><c> the</c><00:40:06.880><c> wife</c><00:40:07.039><c> to</c>

00:40:07.239 --> 00:40:07.960
go<00:40:07.420><c> to</c><00:40:07.679><c> work,</c>

00:40:08.000 --> 00:40:10.039
where<00:40:08.179><c> we</c><00:40:08.320><c> could</c><00:40:08.579><c> get</c><00:40:08.880><c> by</c><00:40:09.039><c> with</c><00:40:09.219><c> a</c><00:40:09.380><c> lifestyle</c><00:40:09.699><c> which</c><00:40:09.920><c> is</c><00:40:10.039><c> a</c>

00:40:10.039 --> 00:40:10.639
little<00:40:10.360><c> less.</c>

00:40:11.119 --> 00:40:14.159
And<00:40:11.500><c> I</c><00:40:11.679><c> think</c><00:40:11.860><c> what</c><00:40:12.059><c> has</c><00:40:12.320><c> to</c><00:40:12.559><c> happen</c><00:40:12.760><c> in</c><00:40:12.960><c> each</c><00:40:13.159><c> case</c><00:40:13.420><c> is</c><00:40:13.699><c> that</c>

00:40:14.159 --> 00:40:18.400
each<00:40:14.420><c> family</c><00:40:14.800><c> must</c><00:40:15.099><c> carefully</c><00:40:15.719><c> search</c><00:40:16.199><c> the</c><00:40:16.500><c> validity</c><00:40:16.900><c> of</c><00:40:17.199><c> its</c><00:40:17.460><c> case.</c>

00:40:18.980 --> 00:40:21.280
And<00:40:19.179><c> that's</c><00:40:19.400><c> a</c><00:40:19.480><c> matter</c><00:40:19.619><c> of</c><00:40:19.860><c> personal</c><00:40:20.119><c> conscience.</c>

00:40:21.500 --> 00:40:24.179
And<00:40:21.900><c> if</c><00:40:22.059><c> it's</c><00:40:22.280><c> a</c><00:40:22.340><c> matter</c><00:40:22.539><c> of</c><00:40:22.639><c> personal</c><00:40:22.980><c> conscience,</c><00:40:23.440><c> that</c><00:40:23.559><c> means</c><00:40:23.800><c> we've</c><00:40:24.139><c> got</c>

00:40:24.179 --> 00:40:26.400
to<00:40:24.300><c> get</c><00:40:24.420><c> on</c><00:40:24.579><c> with</c><00:40:24.699><c> it</c><00:40:24.860><c> ourselves</c><00:40:25.340><c> and</c><00:40:25.519><c> do</c><00:40:25.699><c> it.</c>

00:40:26.820 --> 00:40:29.360
That's<00:40:27.079><c> one</c><00:40:27.320><c> side</c><00:40:27.539><c> of</c><00:40:27.619><c> it.</c><00:40:27.980><c> The</c><00:40:28.179><c> flip</c><00:40:28.380><c> side</c><00:40:28.659><c> of</c><00:40:28.739><c> that</c><00:40:28.980><c> is</c><00:40:29.159><c> it's</c>

00:40:29.360 --> 00:40:30.920
nobody<00:40:29.559><c> else's</c><00:40:29.980><c> business.</c>

00:40:31.639 --> 00:40:34.500
And<00:40:31.760><c> I</c><00:40:31.860><c> think</c><00:40:32.179><c> that</c><00:40:32.420><c> the</c><00:40:32.559><c> ecclesiast</c><00:40:32.840><c> should</c><00:40:33.039><c> let</c><00:40:33.619><c> the</c><00:40:34.019><c> brethren</c><00:40:34.260><c> alone.</c>

00:40:34.539 --> 00:40:38.619
See,<00:40:35.079><c> there</c><00:40:35.199><c> are</c><00:40:35.420><c> ecclesiast</c><00:40:35.780><c> around</c><00:40:36.079><c> the</c><00:40:36.300><c> world</c><00:40:36.519><c> who</c><00:40:37.500><c> put</c><00:40:37.980><c> pressure</c><00:40:38.380><c> on</c>

00:40:38.619 --> 00:40:39.679
the<00:40:38.780><c> young</c><00:40:38.980><c> people</c><00:40:39.280><c> and</c><00:40:39.420><c> say,</c>

00:40:39.860 --> 00:40:41.980
well,<00:40:39.860><c> the</c><00:40:39.980><c> wife</c><00:40:40.099><c> goes</c><00:40:40.360><c> home</c><00:40:40.539><c> and</c><00:40:40.639><c> that's</c><00:40:40.820><c> where</c><00:40:40.940><c> she</c><00:40:41.139><c> stays.</c>

00:40:42.300 --> 00:40:45.519
Now<00:40:42.500><c> that</c><00:40:42.599><c> may</c><00:40:42.800><c> be</c><00:40:43.039><c> appropriate</c><00:40:43.440><c> for</c><00:40:43.760><c> Carl</c><00:40:44.099><c> and</c><00:40:44.320><c> me,</c><00:40:44.519><c> it</c><00:40:44.619><c> may</c><00:40:44.800><c> be</c><00:40:45.019><c> appropriate</c><00:40:45.300><c> for</c><00:40:45.500><c> a</c>

00:40:45.519 --> 00:40:46.039
lot<00:40:45.659><c> of</c><00:40:45.860><c> people,</c>

00:40:46.039 --> 00:40:49.659
but<00:40:46.239><c> it</c><00:40:46.440><c> isn't</c><00:40:46.739><c> a</c><00:40:47.039><c> rule</c><00:40:47.400><c> that</c><00:40:47.840><c> can</c><00:40:48.039><c> be</c><00:40:48.300><c> applied,</c><00:40:48.579><c> and</c><00:40:48.739><c> it</c><00:40:48.900><c> should</c><00:40:49.019><c> be</c><00:40:49.300><c> applied.</c>

00:40:49.659 --> 00:40:52.880
It's<00:40:50.239><c> something</c><00:40:50.500><c> which</c><00:40:50.699><c> people</c><00:40:50.960><c> have</c><00:40:51.179><c> to</c><00:40:51.320><c> work</c><00:40:51.539><c> out</c><00:40:51.699><c> for</c><00:40:51.860><c> themselves,</c><00:40:52.500><c> as</c>

00:40:52.880 --> 00:40:54.159
it<00:40:52.940><c> seems</c><00:40:53.119><c> to</c><00:40:53.340><c> me.</c>

00:40:54.820 --> 00:40:56.860
Harry,<00:40:55.000><c> having</c><00:40:55.239><c> said</c><00:40:55.460><c> all</c><00:40:55.659><c> of</c><00:40:55.780><c> that,</c><00:40:55.940><c> you</c><00:40:56.019><c> notice</c><00:40:56.280><c> if</c><00:40:56.519><c> you</c><00:40:56.619><c> look</c><00:40:56.760><c> at</c>

00:40:56.860 --> 00:40:59.019
the<00:40:57.000><c> scriptures</c><00:40:57.260><c> that</c><00:40:57.500><c> women</c><00:40:57.760><c> have</c><00:40:57.940><c> usually</c><00:40:58.280><c> had</c><00:40:58.500><c> to</c><00:40:58.659><c> go</c><00:40:58.800><c> out</c>

00:40:59.019 --> 00:41:00.280
to<00:40:59.099><c> work</c><00:40:59.260><c> anyway.</c>

00:41:00.539 --> 00:41:03.440
And<00:41:00.679><c> if</c><00:41:00.800><c> you</c><00:41:00.860><c> look</c><00:41:01.000><c> at</c><00:41:01.099><c> some</c><00:41:01.260><c> of</c><00:41:01.380><c> the</c><00:41:01.559><c> examples</c><00:41:01.940><c> that</c><00:41:02.139><c> are</c><00:41:02.340><c> there,</c><00:41:02.940><c> Rachel</c><00:41:03.199><c> was</c>

00:41:03.440 --> 00:41:04.820
working,<00:41:03.960><c> Lydia</c><00:41:04.179><c> was</c><00:41:04.460><c> a</c><00:41:04.820><c> worker,</c>

00:41:04.940 --> 00:41:08.639
was<00:41:05.059><c> a</c><00:41:05.280><c> worker,</c><00:41:05.500><c> Moses'</c><00:41:06.079><c> sisters</c><00:41:06.300><c>-in</c><00:41:06.559><c>-law</c><00:41:07.360><c> all</c><00:41:08.039><c> worked,</c><00:41:08.380><c> Ruth</c>

00:41:08.639 --> 00:41:09.800
was<00:41:08.920><c> a</c><00:41:09.079><c> worker.</c>

00:41:10.079 --> 00:41:13.179
And<00:41:10.340><c> if</c><00:41:10.460><c> you</c><00:41:10.599><c> just</c><00:41:10.800><c> think</c><00:41:10.960><c> about</c><00:41:11.199><c> it,</c><00:41:11.300><c> they</c><00:41:11.440><c> had</c><00:41:11.619><c> to</c><00:41:12.159><c> take</c><00:41:12.159><c> a</c><00:41:12.519><c> part</c><00:41:12.840><c> in</c>

00:41:13.179 --> 00:41:17.440
producing<00:41:15.119><c> the</c><00:41:16.000><c> goods</c><00:41:16.239><c> for</c><00:41:16.440><c> the</c><00:41:16.599><c> family.</c>

00:41:17.739 --> 00:41:21.219
So<00:41:18.260><c> I</c><00:41:18.780><c> think</c><00:41:18.980><c> we've</c><00:41:19.219><c> got</c><00:41:19.260><c> to</c><00:41:19.400><c> be</c><00:41:19.500><c> a</c><00:41:19.519><c> little</c><00:41:19.739><c> bit</c><00:41:20.219><c> careful</c><00:41:20.760><c> about</c><00:41:21.059><c> that,</c>

00:41:21.400 --> 00:41:23.960
because<00:41:21.480><c> in</c><00:41:21.699><c> the</c><00:41:21.840><c> cases</c><00:41:22.159><c> that</c><00:41:22.360><c> I've</c><00:41:22.559><c> cited</c><00:41:22.699><c> up</c><00:41:22.980><c> there,</c><00:41:23.619><c> going</c>

00:41:23.960 --> 00:41:27.059
to<00:41:24.260><c> work</c><00:41:24.679><c> didn't</c><00:41:25.139><c> interfere</c><00:41:25.500><c> with</c><00:41:25.699><c> their</c><00:41:26.039><c> spirituality.</c>

00:41:27.599 --> 00:41:31.840
So<00:41:27.760><c> it</c><00:41:27.840><c> is</c><00:41:28.039><c> possible</c><00:41:28.460><c> to</c><00:41:28.619><c> do</c><00:41:28.739><c> it,</c><00:41:29.159><c> but</c><00:41:29.460><c> in</c><00:41:30.179><c> my</c><00:41:30.420><c> opinion</c><00:41:30.780><c> it's</c><00:41:31.119><c> probably</c><00:41:31.300><c> better</c><00:41:31.559><c> if</c>

00:41:31.840 --> 00:41:33.860
they<00:41:32.760><c> don't</c><00:41:33.340><c> do</c><00:41:33.579><c> it.</c>

00:41:34.260 --> 00:41:37.500
A<00:41:34.400><c> few</c><00:41:34.519><c> women</c><00:41:34.840><c> didn't</c><00:41:35.119><c> have</c><00:41:35.380><c> to</c><00:41:35.579><c> work,</c><00:41:36.239><c> and</c><00:41:36.360><c> they</c><00:41:36.480><c> were</c><00:41:36.619><c> usually</c><00:41:36.880><c> wealthy</c><00:41:37.219><c> women,</c>

00:41:37.539 --> 00:41:40.059
like<00:41:37.880><c> the</c><00:41:38.360><c> Shunammite</c><00:41:38.760><c> woman</c><00:41:39.019><c> that</c><00:41:39.219><c> looked</c><00:41:39.360><c> after</c><00:41:39.659><c> Elisha,</c>

00:41:40.059 --> 00:41:40.699
for<00:41:40.340><c> example.</c>

00:41:41.059 --> 00:41:44.019
And<00:41:41.219><c> notice</c><00:41:41.440><c> there</c><00:41:41.679><c> that</c><00:41:41.860><c> even</c><00:41:42.139><c> she</c><00:41:42.940><c> used</c><00:41:43.260><c> the</c><00:41:43.519><c> opportunities</c>

00:41:44.019 --> 00:41:46.500
that<00:41:44.239><c> had</c><00:41:44.300><c> been</c><00:41:44.420><c> given</c><00:41:44.639><c> to</c><00:41:44.880><c> her</c><00:41:45.199><c> in</c><00:41:45.460><c> the</c><00:41:45.679><c> service</c><00:41:45.940><c> of</c><00:41:46.099><c> the</c><00:41:46.300><c> truth.</c>

00:41:46.500 --> 00:41:49.559
And<00:41:46.760><c> that's</c><00:41:47.719><c> the</c><00:41:48.260><c> importance</c><00:41:48.739><c> of</c><00:41:48.960><c> that.</c>

00:41:49.900 --> 00:41:51.780
That's<00:41:50.239><c> one</c><00:41:50.480><c> reason</c><00:41:50.800><c> why</c><00:41:51.019><c> women</c><00:41:51.199><c> go</c><00:41:51.460><c> to</c><00:41:51.619><c> work.</c>

00:41:51.880 --> 00:41:55.860
Another<00:41:52.039><c> one</c><00:41:52.300><c> is</c><00:41:52.599><c> their</c><00:41:52.800><c> intellectual</c><00:41:53.360><c> stimulation</c><00:41:54.019><c> and</c><00:41:54.340><c> fulfilment.</c>

00:41:56.199 --> 00:41:58.480
Stimulation<00:41:56.739><c> comes</c><00:41:57.099><c> in</c><00:41:57.679><c> a</c><00:41:57.860><c> couple</c><00:41:58.059><c> of</c><00:41:58.239><c> ways.</c>

00:41:58.539 --> 00:42:01.360
One<00:41:58.760><c> is</c><00:41:59.000><c> intellectual</c><00:41:59.460><c> stimulation</c><00:42:00.059><c> or</c><00:42:00.420><c> intellectual</c><00:42:00.800><c> fulfilment.</c>

00:42:01.659 --> 00:42:04.980
The<00:42:01.820><c> other</c><00:42:01.960><c> one</c><00:42:02.119><c> is</c><00:42:02.280><c> social</c><00:42:02.579><c> fulfilment,</c><00:42:03.280><c> social</c><00:42:03.559><c> stimulation.</c>

00:42:05.440 --> 00:42:07.800
These<00:42:05.679><c> are</c><00:42:05.760><c> quite</c><00:42:05.960><c> different</c><00:42:06.280><c> things,</c><00:42:06.840><c> and</c><00:42:07.179><c> you</c><00:42:07.320><c> may</c><00:42:07.559><c> have</c><00:42:07.760><c> a</c>

00:42:07.800 --> 00:42:09.380
different<00:42:08.019><c> attitude</c><00:42:08.400><c> to</c><00:42:08.599><c> them.</c>

00:42:09.820 --> 00:42:11.559
Intellectual<00:42:10.360><c> stimulation</c><00:42:10.900><c> and</c><00:42:11.159><c> fulfilment.</c>

00:42:11.559 --> 00:42:15.340
We<00:42:11.820><c> have</c><00:42:12.760><c> very</c><00:42:13.139><c> highly</c><00:42:13.440><c> educated</c><00:42:13.900><c> young</c><00:42:14.219><c> sisters</c><00:42:14.559><c> who</c><00:42:15.139><c> find</c>

00:42:15.340 --> 00:42:17.420
it<00:42:15.500><c> very</c><00:42:15.699><c> difficult</c><00:42:15.980><c> to</c><00:42:16.219><c> stay</c><00:42:16.420><c> at</c><00:42:16.599><c> home</c><00:42:16.800><c> with</c><00:42:16.980><c> children.</c>

00:42:17.920 --> 00:42:21.599
You<00:42:18.039><c> know,</c><00:42:18.260><c> they</c><00:42:18.480><c> say</c><00:42:18.679><c> that</c><00:42:18.900><c> if</c><00:42:19.000><c> I</c><00:42:19.139><c> have</c><00:42:19.539><c> one</c><00:42:19.880><c> more</c><00:42:20.300><c> screaming</c>

00:42:21.599 --> 00:42:24.300
brat,<00:42:22.360><c> I'm</c><00:42:22.679><c> going</c><00:42:22.820><c> to</c><00:42:22.900><c> go</c><00:42:23.139><c> bananas.</c>

00:42:25.119 --> 00:42:30.260
And<00:42:25.579><c> they</c><00:42:25.980><c> feel</c><00:42:26.900><c> that</c><00:42:27.119><c> they</c><00:42:27.260><c> need</c><00:42:27.480><c> to</c><00:42:27.599><c> go</c><00:42:27.780><c> out</c><00:42:28.139><c> and</c><00:42:29.719><c> lift</c><00:42:29.920><c> their</c>

00:42:30.260 --> 00:42:31.940
minds<00:42:30.599><c> and</c><00:42:30.840><c> so</c><00:42:31.119><c> on.</c>

00:42:32.739 --> 00:42:39.019
Well,<00:42:35.260><c> the</c><00:42:35.340><c> other</c><00:42:35.599><c> thing</c><00:42:35.860><c> is,</c><00:42:37.500><c> even</c><00:42:37.980><c> in</c><00:42:38.280><c> some</c><00:42:38.460><c> ecclesiasties</c>

00:42:39.019 --> 00:42:40.159
you<00:42:39.139><c> find</c><00:42:39.360><c> this,</c>

00:42:41.159 --> 00:42:44.340
I'm<00:42:41.539><c> thinking</c><00:42:41.539><c> of</c><00:42:41.739><c> one</c><00:42:41.940><c> particular</c><00:42:42.360><c> sister</c><00:42:42.659><c> now,</c><00:42:43.219><c> she's</c><00:42:43.539><c> actually</c><00:42:43.900><c> worked</c><00:42:44.199><c> her</c>

00:42:44.340 --> 00:42:45.380
way<00:42:44.480><c> through</c><00:42:44.800><c> this</c><00:42:45.099><c> now,</c>

00:42:45.400 --> 00:42:50.860
I'm<00:42:45.519><c> very</c><00:42:45.760><c> pleased</c><00:42:45.960><c> to</c><00:42:46.260><c> say,</c><00:42:47.340><c> resenting</c><00:42:47.820><c> her</c><00:42:48.039><c> husband's</c><00:42:48.719><c> freedom</c><00:42:48.980><c> to</c><00:42:49.239><c> pursue</c><00:42:49.619><c> a</c><00:42:49.840><c> career,</c>

00:42:51.179 --> 00:42:54.840
saying,<00:42:51.519><c> why</c><00:42:51.820><c> should</c><00:42:52.159><c> he</c><00:42:52.519><c> get</c><00:42:52.780><c> to</c><00:42:53.079><c> have</c><00:42:53.420><c> a</c><00:42:53.659><c> career</c><00:42:54.000><c> and</c><00:42:54.179><c> I</c><00:42:54.500><c> stay</c>

00:42:54.840 --> 00:42:56.260
home<00:42:55.079><c> and</c><00:42:55.139><c> look</c><00:42:55.320><c> after</c><00:42:55.619><c> the</c><00:42:55.840><c> kids?</c>

00:42:56.260 --> 00:43:00.179
You<00:42:57.300><c> know,</c><00:42:57.440><c> I</c><00:42:57.579><c> want</c><00:42:57.860><c> to</c><00:42:57.960><c> go</c><00:42:58.119><c> out</c><00:42:58.360><c> and</c><00:42:58.519><c> I</c><00:42:58.559><c> want</c><00:42:58.820><c> to</c><00:42:58.980><c> fulfil</c><00:42:59.300><c> myself</c><00:42:59.820><c> too,</c>

00:43:00.179 --> 00:43:01.179
you<00:43:00.380><c> see.</c>

00:43:01.699 --> 00:43:07.659
Now,<00:43:02.159><c> you</c><00:43:02.559><c> know,</c><00:43:03.159><c> if</c><00:43:03.679><c> the</c><00:43:04.099><c> husband</c><00:43:05.400><c> attacks</c><00:43:06.400><c> his</c><00:43:06.719><c> career</c><00:43:07.179><c> as</c>

00:43:07.659 --> 00:43:08.579
his<00:43:08.199><c> thing,</c>

00:43:08.920 --> 00:43:11.579
and<00:43:09.099><c> this</c><00:43:09.360><c> is</c><00:43:09.619><c> the</c><00:43:09.820><c> main</c><00:43:10.039><c> focus</c><00:43:10.420><c> of</c><00:43:10.579><c> his</c><00:43:10.840><c> life,</c><00:43:11.199><c> then</c><00:43:11.300><c> I</c><00:43:11.500><c> think</c>

00:43:11.579 --> 00:43:12.900
she's<00:43:11.840><c> got</c><00:43:12.019><c> a</c><00:43:12.139><c> point.</c>

00:43:14.219 --> 00:43:17.119
If,<00:43:14.840><c> on</c><00:43:14.860><c> the</c><00:43:14.940><c> other</c><00:43:15.199><c> hand,</c><00:43:15.480><c> the</c><00:43:15.619><c> husband</c><00:43:15.980><c> takes</c><00:43:16.320><c> an</c><00:43:16.699><c> attitude</c>

00:43:17.119 --> 00:43:17.860
towards<00:43:17.420><c> his</c><00:43:17.659><c> job,</c>

00:43:17.940 --> 00:43:21.000
such<00:43:18.039><c> as</c><00:43:18.199><c> I</c><00:43:18.280><c> was</c><00:43:18.460><c> trying</c><00:43:18.619><c> to</c><00:43:18.760><c> suggest</c><00:43:19.079><c> yesterday,</c><00:43:20.179><c> namely</c><00:43:20.440><c> that</c><00:43:20.639><c> it's</c><00:43:20.960><c> a</c>

00:43:21.000 --> 00:43:23.840
means<00:43:21.300><c> to</c><00:43:21.519><c> an</c><00:43:21.719><c> end,</c><00:43:22.099><c> an</c><00:43:22.219><c> adjunct</c><00:43:22.699><c> to</c><00:43:22.960><c> life,</c>

00:43:23.900 --> 00:43:28.699
which<00:43:24.380><c> he's</c><00:43:24.639><c> making</c><00:43:24.940><c> a</c><00:43:25.219><c> contribution</c><00:43:25.699><c> to</c><00:43:25.920><c> the</c><00:43:26.119><c> mutual</c><00:43:26.559><c> business</c><00:43:27.300><c> of</c><00:43:27.519><c> the</c><00:43:27.719><c> family,</c>

00:43:29.039 --> 00:43:33.340
then<00:43:29.219><c> she</c><00:43:29.400><c> will</c><00:43:29.599><c> understand</c><00:43:30.159><c> that</c><00:43:30.719><c> and</c><00:43:31.179><c> she</c><00:43:31.380><c> won't</c><00:43:31.900><c> resent</c><00:43:32.380><c> the</c><00:43:32.619><c> fact</c><00:43:32.780><c> that</c><00:43:32.980><c> he</c>

00:43:33.340 --> 00:43:36.179
is<00:43:33.579><c> doing</c><00:43:33.880><c> that</c><00:43:34.239><c> and</c><00:43:34.420><c> she</c><00:43:34.659><c> has</c><00:43:34.900><c> to</c><00:43:35.079><c> do</c><00:43:35.260><c> this.</c>

00:43:36.199 --> 00:43:41.719
There<00:43:36.360><c> will</c><00:43:36.579><c> be</c><00:43:37.960><c> a</c><00:43:38.360><c> balance</c><00:43:38.639><c> in</c><00:43:38.860><c> these</c><00:43:39.079><c> things,</c><00:43:39.420><c> an</c><00:43:39.539><c> understanding,</c><00:43:40.500><c> if</c><00:43:40.559><c> you</c><00:43:40.559><c> see</c><00:43:40.639><c> what</c><00:43:40.780><c> I</c><00:43:40.900><c> mean.</c>

00:43:41.940 --> 00:43:45.619
So,<00:43:42.219><c> once</c><00:43:42.460><c> again,</c><00:43:42.659><c> it</c><00:43:42.719><c> comes</c><00:43:43.019><c> down</c><00:43:43.260><c> to</c><00:43:43.440><c> the</c><00:43:44.360><c> nature</c><00:43:44.679><c> of</c><00:43:44.900><c> the</c><00:43:45.059><c> relationship</c>

00:43:45.619 --> 00:43:49.360
and<00:43:46.139><c> exactly</c><00:43:46.599><c> what</c><00:43:46.800><c> it</c><00:43:46.940><c> is</c><00:43:47.260><c> that</c><00:43:47.420><c> they've</c><00:43:47.800><c> agreed</c><00:43:48.039><c> to</c><00:43:48.280><c> do</c><00:43:48.699><c> and</c>

00:43:49.360 --> 00:43:52.019
what<00:43:49.519><c> they</c><00:43:49.800><c> expect</c><00:43:50.039><c> to</c><00:43:50.159><c> get</c><00:43:50.280><c> out</c><00:43:50.460><c> of</c><00:43:50.599><c> their</c><00:43:50.739><c> relationship.</c>

00:43:52.900 --> 00:43:55.599
And<00:43:53.320><c> as</c><00:43:53.739><c> an</c><00:43:54.079><c> extension</c><00:43:54.380><c> of</c><00:43:54.539><c> that,</c><00:43:54.780><c> what</c><00:43:54.780><c> they</c><00:43:55.119><c> expect</c><00:43:55.380><c> to</c><00:43:55.519><c> put</c>

00:43:55.599 --> 00:43:56.800
into<00:43:55.860><c> it.</c>

00:43:57.179 --> 00:44:00.860
So,<00:43:57.599><c> there,</c><00:43:58.300><c> if</c><00:43:58.480><c> his</c><00:43:58.760><c> career</c><00:43:59.019><c> is</c><00:43:59.280><c> his</c><00:43:59.440><c> main</c><00:43:59.619><c> goal,</c><00:43:59.940><c> then</c><00:44:00.059><c> she</c><00:44:00.199><c> may</c><00:44:00.400><c> have</c><00:44:00.559><c> a</c><00:44:00.719><c> point.</c>

00:44:01.360 --> 00:44:03.340
The<00:44:01.539><c> other</c><00:44:01.719><c> thing</c><00:44:01.900><c> is</c><00:44:02.079><c> a</c><00:44:02.099><c> little</c><00:44:02.340><c> bit</c><00:44:02.519><c> more</c><00:44:02.840><c> subtle,</c><00:44:03.059><c> subtle</c>

00:44:03.340 --> 00:44:06.960
social<00:44:04.099><c> stimulation</c><00:44:04.760><c> to</c><00:44:05.239><c> go</c><00:44:05.360><c> out</c><00:44:05.519><c> to</c><00:44:05.659><c> work</c><00:44:05.820><c> just</c><00:44:06.000><c> because</c><00:44:06.300><c> you've,</c><00:44:06.780><c> you</c><00:44:06.900><c> know,</c>

00:44:07.059 --> 00:44:09.139
you've<00:44:07.219><c> got</c><00:44:07.280><c> to</c><00:44:07.380><c> have</c><00:44:07.460><c> people</c><00:44:07.780><c> around</c><00:44:08.219><c> you,</c><00:44:08.460><c> you</c><00:44:08.579><c> know,</c><00:44:08.719><c> maybe</c>

00:44:09.139 --> 00:44:13.840
a<00:44:09.619><c> bit</c><00:44:09.840><c> more</c><00:44:10.380><c> of</c><00:44:10.820><c> a</c><00:44:10.900><c> dangerous</c><00:44:11.480><c> position</c><00:44:12.119><c> and</c><00:44:13.059><c> one</c><00:44:13.320><c> that</c><00:44:13.559><c> needs</c>

00:44:13.840 --> 00:44:15.079
to<00:44:14.000><c> be</c><00:44:14.119><c> looked</c><00:44:14.360><c> at.</c>

00:44:15.119 --> 00:44:17.800
The<00:44:15.300><c> main</c><00:44:15.500><c> thing</c><00:44:15.699><c> is,</c><00:44:15.860><c> as</c><00:44:15.980><c> I</c><00:44:16.059><c> said</c><00:44:16.179><c> before,</c><00:44:16.679><c> we</c><00:44:16.900><c> are</c><00:44:17.260><c> free</c><00:44:17.519><c> to</c>

00:44:17.800 --> 00:44:18.980
decide<00:44:18.079><c> about</c><00:44:18.340><c> these</c><00:44:18.579><c> issues.</c>

00:44:18.980 --> 00:44:23.199
There's<00:44:19.360><c> no</c><00:44:20.159><c> hard</c><00:44:20.599><c> and</c><00:44:20.880><c> fast</c><00:44:21.159><c> rules,</c><00:44:21.420><c> it</c><00:44:21.579><c> seems</c><00:44:21.920><c> to</c><00:44:22.079><c> me.</c>

00:44:23.699 --> 00:44:27.139
The<00:44:23.880><c> question</c><00:44:24.280><c> we</c><00:44:24.559><c> ought</c><00:44:24.739><c> to</c><00:44:24.980><c> ask</c><00:44:25.300><c> ourselves,</c><00:44:26.179><c> the</c><00:44:26.380><c> needs</c><00:44:26.659><c> that</c><00:44:26.900><c> we</c>

00:44:27.139 --> 00:44:29.699
feel,<00:44:27.880><c> can</c><00:44:28.079><c> they</c><00:44:28.300><c> be</c><00:44:28.500><c> met</c><00:44:28.579><c> in</c><00:44:28.780><c> the</c><00:44:28.920><c> Lord's</c><00:44:29.400><c> service?</c>

00:44:29.880 --> 00:44:33.059
And<00:44:30.079><c> I</c><00:44:30.460><c> think</c><00:44:31.019><c> that</c><00:44:32.440><c> they</c><00:44:32.760><c> can.</c>

00:44:33.380 --> 00:44:37.519
I<00:44:33.519><c> think</c><00:44:33.760><c> it</c><00:44:33.900><c> is</c><00:44:34.159><c> possible,</c><00:44:35.119><c> if</c><00:44:35.400><c> you</c><00:44:35.599><c> have</c><00:44:35.880><c> a</c><00:44:36.440><c> pleasure</c><00:44:36.679><c> that's</c>

00:44:37.519 --> 00:44:38.699
somewhat<00:44:37.760><c> suitable</c><00:44:38.139><c> to</c><00:44:38.400><c> this,</c>

00:44:39.179 --> 00:44:42.420
I<00:44:39.260><c> think</c><00:44:39.400><c> it's</c><00:44:39.579><c> possible</c><00:44:39.880><c> to</c><00:44:40.159><c> find</c><00:44:40.260><c> these</c><00:44:40.619><c> needs</c><00:44:40.840><c> being</c><00:44:41.340><c> met.</c>

00:44:42.920 --> 00:44:46.719
And<00:44:43.199><c> finally,</c><00:44:44.039><c> there</c><00:44:44.119><c> was</c><00:44:44.360><c> a</c><00:44:45.079><c> sister</c><00:44:45.360><c> that</c><00:44:45.599><c> I</c><00:44:45.820><c> asked</c><00:44:46.159><c> why</c><00:44:46.519><c> she</c>

00:44:46.719 --> 00:44:47.400
went<00:44:46.900><c> to</c><00:44:47.099><c> work.</c>

00:44:47.400 --> 00:44:49.960
Because,<00:44:48.300><c> you</c><00:44:48.360><c> know,</c><00:44:48.539><c> a</c><00:44:48.559><c> lot</c><00:44:48.719><c> of</c><00:44:48.900><c> the</c><00:44:49.000><c> stuff</c><00:44:49.179><c> I</c><00:44:49.579><c> actually</c>

00:44:49.960 --> 00:44:51.420
asked<00:44:50.340><c> people.</c>

00:44:51.860 --> 00:44:54.719
And<00:44:52.059><c> she</c><00:44:52.340><c> said,</c><00:44:52.719><c> you</c><00:44:53.199><c> know</c><00:44:53.440><c> my</c><00:44:53.659><c> situation</c><00:44:54.179><c> at</c><00:44:54.500><c> home?</c>

00:44:54.719 --> 00:44:57.860
She<00:44:54.960><c> said,</c><00:44:55.380><c> it</c><00:44:56.340><c> just</c><00:44:56.619><c> gets</c><00:44:56.760><c> me</c><00:44:57.000><c> down.</c>

00:44:58.099 --> 00:45:00.659
In<00:44:58.260><c> that</c><00:44:58.480><c> case,</c><00:44:58.739><c> she</c><00:44:58.940><c> had</c><00:44:59.139><c> a</c><00:44:59.280><c> husband</c><00:44:59.559><c> who</c><00:44:59.800><c> was</c><00:44:59.940><c> less</c><00:45:00.280><c> helpful.</c>

00:45:00.659 --> 00:45:04.760
He<00:45:00.860><c> isn't</c><00:45:01.119><c> the</c><00:45:01.380><c> truth,</c><00:45:01.579><c> but</c><00:45:01.780><c> he's</c><00:45:02.539><c> by</c><00:45:02.800><c> no</c><00:45:03.000><c> means</c><00:45:03.239><c> helpful</c><00:45:03.679><c> to</c><00:45:04.000><c> her.</c>

00:45:04.900 --> 00:45:10.059
And<00:45:05.340><c> she</c><00:45:05.539><c> just</c><00:45:05.800><c> lives</c><00:45:05.980><c> in</c><00:45:06.579><c> what</c><00:45:06.780><c> is</c><00:45:07.480><c> all</c><00:45:07.780><c> but</c><00:45:07.980><c> an</c><00:45:08.239><c> intolerable</c><00:45:08.840><c> situation.</c>

00:45:10.380 --> 00:45:13.659
And<00:45:10.619><c> so</c><00:45:10.840><c> she</c><00:45:11.360><c> takes</c><00:45:11.699><c> rest</c><00:45:12.039><c> by</c><00:45:12.360><c> going</c><00:45:12.820><c> to</c><00:45:13.019><c> work.</c>

00:45:14.119 --> 00:45:17.679
She's<00:45:14.599><c> just</c><00:45:14.780><c> taken</c><00:45:15.019><c> a</c><00:45:15.199><c> job</c><00:45:15.320><c> as</c><00:45:15.500><c> a</c><00:45:15.639><c> cook</c><00:45:15.739><c> in</c><00:45:15.900><c> a</c><00:45:16.000><c> rest</c><00:45:16.239><c> home</c><00:45:16.739><c> and</c>

00:45:17.679 --> 00:45:19.320
doing<00:45:18.440><c> that</c><00:45:18.739><c> sort</c><00:45:18.900><c> of</c><00:45:19.019><c> work.</c>

00:45:19.519 --> 00:45:24.400
She<00:45:19.639><c> wasn't</c><00:45:20.199><c> looking</c><00:45:20.599><c> for</c><00:45:22.079><c> intellectual</c><00:45:23.000><c> fulfilment</c><00:45:24.300><c> or</c>

00:45:24.400 --> 00:45:25.280
something<00:45:24.639><c> like</c><00:45:24.900><c> that.</c>

00:45:25.719 --> 00:45:29.420
Just<00:45:26.199><c> a</c><00:45:26.360><c> moment</c><00:45:26.619><c> of</c><00:45:26.900><c> sanity</c><00:45:27.519><c> out</c><00:45:28.039><c> of</c><00:45:28.219><c> it.</c>

00:45:29.619 --> 00:45:32.760
Because<00:45:29.900><c> she</c><00:45:30.119><c> spent</c><00:45:30.280><c> a</c><00:45:30.519><c> lifetime</c><00:45:30.940><c> wrestling</c><00:45:31.420><c> with</c><00:45:31.679><c> the</c><00:45:31.840><c> problem.</c>

00:45:34.159 --> 00:45:36.679
And<00:45:34.360><c> she</c><00:45:34.460><c> finds</c><00:45:34.780><c> that</c><00:45:34.980><c> by</c><00:45:35.179><c> just</c><00:45:35.659><c> withdrawing</c><00:45:36.239><c> herself</c><00:45:36.460><c> from</c>

00:45:36.679 --> 00:45:37.980
that<00:45:36.920><c> just</c><00:45:37.159><c> for</c><00:45:37.320><c> the</c><00:45:37.500><c> time,</c>

00:45:37.980 --> 00:45:39.599
and<00:45:38.159><c> then</c><00:45:38.360><c> going,</c><00:45:38.599><c> I</c><00:45:38.679><c> never</c><00:45:38.900><c> thought</c><00:45:39.159><c> of</c><00:45:39.400><c> that.</c>

00:45:39.739 --> 00:45:42.820
I<00:45:40.039><c> wouldn't</c><00:45:40.260><c> have</c><00:45:40.380><c> thought</c><00:45:40.559><c> of</c><00:45:40.659><c> that</c><00:45:40.860><c> as</c><00:45:41.980><c> a</c><00:45:42.179><c> possible</c><00:45:42.460><c> or</c>

00:45:42.820 --> 00:45:43.420
legitimate<00:45:43.139><c> reason.</c>

00:45:43.519 --> 00:45:46.179
But<00:45:43.579><c> having</c><00:45:43.800><c> listened</c><00:45:44.079><c> to</c><00:45:44.280><c> that</c><00:45:44.460><c> sister</c><00:45:44.659><c> and</c><00:45:44.860><c> knowing</c><00:45:45.059><c> something</c><00:45:45.300><c> of</c><00:45:45.480><c> the</c><00:45:45.539><c> situation,</c>

00:45:46.679 --> 00:45:47.940
I<00:45:46.880><c> understand.</c>

00:45:49.099 --> 00:45:51.840
So<00:45:49.579><c> realistically,</c><00:45:50.139><c> there</c><00:45:50.300><c> are</c><00:45:50.559><c> some</c><00:45:50.800><c> problems</c><00:45:51.300><c> to</c><00:45:51.639><c> which</c>

00:45:51.840 --> 00:45:52.619
there<00:45:52.099><c> just</c><00:45:52.360><c> simply</c>

00:45:52.619 --> 00:45:54.940
is<00:45:52.940><c> no</c><00:45:53.119><c> answer</c><00:45:53.480><c> this</c><00:45:53.780><c> side</c><00:45:53.900><c> of</c><00:45:54.099><c> the</c><00:45:54.239><c> kingdom.</c>

00:45:55.239 --> 00:45:58.960
I<00:45:55.260><c> mean,</c><00:45:55.900><c> we've</c><00:45:56.300><c> all</c><00:45:56.500><c> talked</c><00:45:56.820><c> to</c><00:45:57.980><c> her</c><00:45:58.159><c> husband.</c>

00:45:59.519 --> 00:46:02.900
We've<00:45:59.840><c> spent</c><00:46:00.059><c> time</c><00:46:00.340><c> and</c><00:46:00.460><c> we</c><00:46:00.639><c> try</c><00:46:00.800><c> to</c><00:46:01.039><c> support</c><00:46:01.320><c> him</c><00:46:01.559><c> and</c><00:46:02.360><c> give</c><00:46:02.659><c> him</c><00:46:02.840><c> a</c>

00:46:02.900 --> 00:46:03.800
more<00:46:03.119><c> positive</c><00:46:03.400><c> attitude.</c>

00:46:03.800 --> 00:46:07.380
But<00:46:04.400><c> realistically,</c><00:46:05.679><c> it</c><00:46:05.679><c> isn't</c><00:46:05.960><c> going</c><00:46:06.199><c> to</c><00:46:06.380><c> happen.</c>

00:46:08.239 --> 00:46:11.539
And<00:46:08.239><c> so</c><00:46:09.000><c> she's</c><00:46:09.320><c> just</c><00:46:09.460><c> doing</c><00:46:09.659><c> what</c><00:46:09.840><c> she</c><00:46:10.019><c> has</c><00:46:10.280><c> to</c><00:46:10.440><c> do</c><00:46:10.619><c> to</c><00:46:11.260><c> cope</c>

00:46:11.539 --> 00:46:12.480
with<00:46:11.800><c> that.</c>

00:46:12.960 --> 00:46:14.119
And<00:46:12.960><c> that's</c><00:46:13.199><c> fair</c><00:46:13.320><c> enough.</c>

00:46:14.480 --> 00:46:16.780
The<00:46:14.559><c> problem</c><00:46:14.860><c> is,</c><00:46:15.119><c> of</c><00:46:15.280><c> course,</c><00:46:15.920><c> a</c><00:46:16.059><c> very</c><00:46:16.239><c> great</c><00:46:16.440><c> caution.</c>

00:46:16.900 --> 00:46:18.920
If<00:46:16.960><c> the</c><00:46:17.119><c> problem</c><00:46:17.300><c> has</c><00:46:17.559><c> to</c><00:46:17.739><c> do</c><00:46:17.840><c> with</c><00:46:17.960><c> a</c><00:46:18.139><c> home,</c><00:46:18.539><c> the</c><00:46:18.539><c> sister</c><00:46:18.639><c> would</c><00:46:18.800><c> have</c>

00:46:18.920 --> 00:46:19.800
to<00:46:19.099><c> be</c><00:46:19.139><c> very</c><00:46:19.440><c> careful</c>

00:46:19.800 --> 00:46:25.219
not<00:46:20.420><c> to</c><00:46:20.619><c> let</c><00:46:20.780><c> the</c><00:46:21.039><c> world's</c><00:46:21.579><c> relative</c><00:46:21.940><c> attractions</c><00:46:22.760><c> take</c><00:46:24.179><c> over.</c>

00:46:25.539 --> 00:46:27.900
And<00:46:25.860><c> this</c><00:46:26.119><c> sister</c><00:46:26.599><c> is</c><00:46:26.900><c> a</c><00:46:26.900><c> very</c><00:46:27.179><c> strong</c><00:46:27.460><c> sister.</c>

00:46:28.199 --> 00:46:31.239
And<00:46:28.420><c> she</c><00:46:28.539><c> knows</c><00:46:29.239><c> what's</c><00:46:30.179><c> involved</c><00:46:30.440><c> with</c><00:46:30.599><c> it.</c>

00:46:31.320 --> 00:46:34.800
That's<00:46:31.719><c> fine.</c><00:46:32.119><c> I</c><00:46:32.119><c> don't</c><00:46:32.300><c> want</c><00:46:32.440><c> to...</c>

00:46:34.800 --> 00:46:37.840
The<00:46:34.840><c> stuffed</c><00:46:35.079><c> tiger</c><00:46:35.440><c> is</c><00:46:35.719><c> a</c><00:46:35.860><c> companion,</c><00:46:36.380><c> constant</c><00:46:36.800><c> companion.</c>

00:46:37.960 --> 00:46:40.300
And<00:46:38.059><c> the</c><00:46:38.300><c> stuffed</c><00:46:38.559><c> tiger</c><00:46:38.960><c> is</c><00:46:39.159><c> a</c><00:46:39.380><c> stuffed</c><00:46:39.579><c> tiger</c><00:46:39.900><c> when</c><00:46:40.099><c> there's</c>

00:46:40.300 --> 00:46:41.059
anybody<00:46:40.519><c> else</c><00:46:40.800><c> around,</c>

00:46:41.079 --> 00:46:44.219
but<00:46:41.179><c> he's</c><00:46:41.400><c> a</c><00:46:41.519><c> real</c><00:46:41.679><c> living</c><00:46:41.940><c> person</c><00:46:42.460><c> with</c><00:46:42.880><c> a</c><00:46:43.019><c> personality</c><00:46:43.480><c> when</c>

00:46:44.219 --> 00:46:45.320
there's<00:46:44.619><c> nobody</c><00:46:44.780><c> else</c><00:46:45.059><c> around.</c>

00:46:45.539 --> 00:46:46.599
You<00:46:45.539><c> see,</c><00:46:45.679><c> so</c><00:46:45.880><c> Calvin</c><00:46:46.159><c> and</c><00:46:46.440><c> Hobbes.</c>

00:46:46.659 --> 00:46:48.960
Hobbes<00:46:46.920><c> is</c><00:46:47.179><c> a</c><00:46:47.320><c> tiger</c><00:46:47.500><c> and</c><00:46:47.639><c> Calvin</c><00:46:47.940><c> is</c><00:46:48.179><c> a</c><00:46:48.300><c> boy.</c>

00:46:49.880 --> 00:46:53.079
And<00:46:50.280><c> on</c><00:46:50.679><c> this</c><00:46:50.880><c> question</c><00:46:51.260><c> of</c><00:46:51.739><c> television,</c><00:46:52.300><c> you</c><00:46:52.340><c> see,</c>

00:46:53.360 --> 00:46:55.179
there<00:46:53.480><c> are</c><00:46:53.579><c> a</c><00:46:53.639><c> number</c><00:46:53.800><c> of</c><00:46:53.860><c> things</c><00:46:54.079><c> that</c><00:46:54.239><c> I</c><00:46:54.380><c> would</c><00:46:54.500><c> say</c><00:46:54.619><c> about</c><00:46:54.780><c> television.</c>

00:46:55.300 --> 00:46:56.619
The<00:46:55.400><c> first</c><00:46:55.639><c> is</c><00:46:55.900><c> that</c><00:46:56.059><c> it</c><00:46:56.059><c> can</c><00:46:56.340><c> grab</c><00:46:56.480><c> you.</c>

00:46:56.659 --> 00:46:57.780
And<00:46:56.760><c> here's</c><00:46:56.920><c> a</c><00:46:57.000><c> little</c><00:46:57.119><c> Calvin</c><00:46:57.460><c> and</c><00:46:57.639><c> Hobbes.</c>

00:46:57.780 --> 00:46:59.860
I<00:46:58.420><c> wrote</c><00:46:58.699><c> to</c><00:46:58.880><c> the</c><00:46:59.019><c> publisher</c><00:46:59.340><c> and</c><00:46:59.559><c> I</c><00:46:59.639><c> said,</c>

00:47:00.340 --> 00:47:04.659
please,<00:47:01.019><c> may</c><00:47:01.199><c> I,</c><00:47:01.900><c> with</c><00:47:02.159><c> respect,</c><00:47:03.559><c> photocopy</c><00:47:04.119><c> these</c><00:47:04.320><c> and</c><00:47:04.460><c> show</c>

00:47:04.659 --> 00:47:06.059
them<00:47:04.780><c> at</c><00:47:05.059><c> conferences?</c>

00:47:07.139 --> 00:47:09.800
And<00:47:07.440><c> we're</c><00:47:07.559><c> done</c><00:47:07.760><c> with</c><00:47:07.960><c> sympathy</c><00:47:08.400><c> and</c><00:47:08.699><c> I</c><00:47:08.920><c> will</c><00:47:09.059><c> be</c><00:47:09.280><c> advancing</c>

00:47:09.800 --> 00:47:12.139
Mr.<00:47:11.360><c> Watterson's</c><00:47:11.800><c> points.</c>

00:47:12.420 --> 00:47:13.920
You<00:47:12.420><c> know,</c><00:47:12.679><c> I'm</c><00:47:12.960><c> not...</c>

00:47:13.920 --> 00:47:15.360
You<00:47:14.039><c> know,</c><00:47:14.500><c> this</c><00:47:14.719><c> is</c><00:47:14.800><c> going</c><00:47:14.860><c> to</c><00:47:14.940><c> be</c><00:47:15.119><c> positive.</c>

00:47:15.460 --> 00:47:16.840
It's<00:47:15.599><c> going</c><00:47:15.659><c> to</c><00:47:15.780><c> be</c><00:47:16.039><c> publicity</c><00:47:16.460><c> for</c><00:47:16.739><c> you.</c>

00:47:16.900 --> 00:47:19.159
And<00:47:16.940><c> they</c><00:47:17.139><c> said,</c><00:47:17.300><c> no,</c><00:47:17.480><c> we</c><00:47:17.599><c> don't</c><00:47:17.820><c> need</c><00:47:18.059><c> publicity.</c>

00:47:19.360 --> 00:47:21.440
You<00:47:19.559><c> may</c><00:47:19.800><c> not</c><00:47:20.000><c> use</c><00:47:20.199><c> these</c><00:47:20.500><c> as</c><00:47:20.719><c> OHPs.</c>

00:47:22.119 --> 00:47:24.199
So<00:47:22.179><c> having</c><00:47:22.599><c> told</c><00:47:23.079><c> me</c><00:47:23.239><c> that</c><00:47:23.400><c> I'm</c><00:47:23.539><c> not</c><00:47:23.659><c> allowed</c><00:47:23.800><c> to</c><00:47:23.980><c> do</c><00:47:24.059><c> it,</c>

00:47:24.320 --> 00:47:26.860
the<00:47:24.320><c> best</c><00:47:24.500><c> I</c><00:47:24.619><c> can</c><00:47:24.820><c> do</c><00:47:25.000><c> is</c><00:47:25.420><c> describe</c><00:47:25.780><c> it</c><00:47:26.000><c> to</c><00:47:26.079><c> you.</c>

00:47:27.000 --> 00:47:29.860
Here's<00:47:27.519><c> Calvin</c><00:47:27.780><c> talking</c><00:47:28.119><c> to</c><00:47:28.460><c> Hobbes.</c>

00:47:30.320 --> 00:47:32.840
You<00:47:30.320><c> see,</c><00:47:30.639><c> this</c><00:47:30.780><c> is</c><00:47:30.940><c> not</c><00:47:31.139><c> breaking</c><00:47:31.380><c> copyright,</c><00:47:32.000><c> I</c><00:47:32.139><c> hope.</c>

00:47:33.159 --> 00:47:36.599
I<00:47:33.320><c> just</c><00:47:33.619><c> read</c><00:47:33.860><c> this</c><00:47:34.099><c> great</c><00:47:34.460><c> science</c><00:47:34.860><c> fiction</c><00:47:35.179><c> story,</c><00:47:35.599><c> says</c><00:47:35.739><c> Calvin</c><00:47:36.099><c> to</c><00:47:36.280><c> Hobbes.</c>

00:47:36.880 --> 00:47:40.320
It's<00:47:37.079><c> about</c><00:47:37.340><c> how</c><00:47:37.539><c> machines</c><00:47:38.079><c> take</c><00:47:38.519><c> control</c><00:47:39.119><c> of</c><00:47:39.400><c> humans</c><00:47:39.659><c> and</c>

00:47:40.320 --> 00:47:42.719
turn<00:47:40.539><c> them</c><00:47:40.719><c> into</c><00:47:41.079><c> zombie</c><00:47:41.619><c> slaves.</c>

00:47:43.280 --> 00:47:45.079
Hobbes<00:47:43.599><c> picks</c><00:47:43.980><c> up</c><00:47:44.179><c> the</c><00:47:44.300><c> book</c><00:47:44.400><c> and</c><00:47:44.519><c> he</c><00:47:44.599><c> looks</c><00:47:44.739><c> through</c><00:47:44.900><c> it</c><00:47:45.059><c> and</c>

00:47:45.079 --> 00:47:45.460
he<00:47:45.199><c> says,</c>

00:47:45.900 --> 00:47:48.219
so<00:47:46.059><c> instead</c><00:47:46.380><c> of</c><00:47:46.500><c> us</c><00:47:46.699><c> controlling</c><00:47:47.119><c> machines,</c><00:47:47.559><c> they</c><00:47:47.820><c> control</c>

00:47:48.219 --> 00:47:49.460
us,<00:47:48.639><c> huh?</c>

00:47:50.199 --> 00:47:52.320
Pretty<00:47:50.719><c> scary</c><00:47:51.159><c> stuff,</c><00:47:51.579><c> huh?</c>

00:47:53.559 --> 00:47:55.539
And<00:47:54.079><c> then</c><00:47:54.599><c> Calvin</c><00:47:54.800><c> looks</c><00:47:55.059><c> at</c><00:47:55.159><c> his</c><00:47:55.320><c> watch.</c>

00:47:55.539 --> 00:47:59.840
Hey,<00:47:56.219><c> he</c><00:47:56.380><c> said,</c><00:47:57.400><c> what</c><00:47:57.539><c> time</c><00:47:57.760><c> is</c><00:47:57.880><c> it?</c><00:47:58.039><c> My</c><00:47:58.199><c> TV</c><00:47:58.579><c> show's</c><00:47:59.099><c> on.</c>

00:48:00.500 --> 00:48:03.260
So<00:48:00.719><c> the</c><00:48:00.860><c> machine</c><00:48:01.139><c> takes</c><00:48:01.500><c> control,</c><00:48:02.260><c> you</c><00:48:02.579><c> see.</c>

00:48:03.320 --> 00:48:05.760
And<00:48:03.619><c> some</c><00:48:04.099><c> pretty</c><00:48:04.480><c> insightful</c><00:48:05.059><c> stuff</c><00:48:05.400><c> here.</c>

00:48:06.139 --> 00:48:07.139
Here's<00:48:06.380><c> another</c><00:48:06.599><c> one,</c><00:48:06.840><c> you</c><00:48:06.940><c> see.</c>

00:48:07.340 --> 00:48:11.920
The<00:48:07.480><c> proposition</c><00:48:07.900><c> here</c><00:48:08.280><c> is</c><00:48:08.559><c> that</c><00:48:09.480><c> TV</c><00:48:10.099><c> actually</c><00:48:10.800><c> educates</c><00:48:11.659><c> us</c>

00:48:11.920 --> 00:48:14.000
to<00:48:12.099><c> have</c><00:48:12.219><c> a</c><00:48:12.440><c> short</c><00:48:12.639><c> attention</c><00:48:13.099><c> span.</c>

00:48:14.280 --> 00:48:18.760
I'd<00:48:14.579><c> love</c><00:48:14.719><c> to</c><00:48:15.179><c> talk</c><00:48:15.619><c> a</c><00:48:15.920><c> bit</c><00:48:16.159><c> about</c><00:48:16.619><c> what</c><00:48:16.940><c> I've</c><00:48:17.159><c> seen</c><00:48:17.280><c> in</c><00:48:17.599><c> the</c>

00:48:18.760 --> 00:48:20.480
school<00:48:19.000><c> room</c><00:48:19.219><c> about</c><00:48:19.519><c> the</c><00:48:19.800><c> attention</c><00:48:20.099><c> span</c>

00:48:20.480 --> 00:48:23.619
and<00:48:21.340><c> the</c><00:48:21.679><c> level</c><00:48:21.880><c> of</c><00:48:22.179><c> achievement</c><00:48:22.579><c> of</c><00:48:22.860><c> children</c><00:48:23.079><c> in</c><00:48:23.340><c> the</c><00:48:23.340><c> last</c>

00:48:23.619 --> 00:48:24.559
28<00:48:24.079><c> years.</c>

00:48:24.559 --> 00:48:27.820
I<00:48:25.260><c> have</c><00:48:25.280><c> stood</c><00:48:25.760><c> in</c><00:48:25.880><c> the</c><00:48:26.139><c> same</c><00:48:26.360><c> room</c><00:48:26.599><c> teaching</c><00:48:26.960><c> the</c><00:48:27.179><c> same</c><00:48:27.519><c> class</c>

00:48:27.820 --> 00:48:29.840
of<00:48:28.099><c> kids</c><00:48:28.440><c> in</c><00:48:28.920><c> the</c><00:48:29.159><c> same</c><00:48:29.539><c> school</c>

00:48:30.099 --> 00:48:32.019
and<00:48:30.619><c> I've</c><00:48:30.900><c> watched</c><00:48:31.219><c> this</c><00:48:31.599><c> parade.</c>

00:48:32.239 --> 00:48:35.159
It's<00:48:32.300><c> fascinating</c><00:48:33.000><c> to</c><00:48:33.619><c> be</c><00:48:33.800><c> able</c><00:48:34.079><c> to</c><00:48:34.440><c> see</c><00:48:34.840><c> this.</c>

00:48:35.340 --> 00:48:39.000
And<00:48:35.440><c> I'm</c><00:48:35.780><c> telling</c><00:48:36.019><c> you,</c><00:48:36.440><c> there</c><00:48:36.599><c> has</c><00:48:36.900><c> been</c><00:48:37.260><c> a</c><00:48:37.480><c> steep</c><00:48:37.840><c> drop</c><00:48:38.300><c> in</c>

00:48:39.000 --> 00:48:39.559
the<00:48:39.260><c> achievement.</c>

00:48:39.679 --> 00:48:44.980
And<00:48:39.900><c> it</c><00:48:40.059><c> has</c><00:48:40.719><c> exactly</c><00:48:41.460><c> coincided</c><00:48:42.500><c> with</c><00:48:43.300><c> the</c><00:48:44.119><c> arrival</c><00:48:44.440><c> of</c><00:48:44.800><c> TV</c>

00:48:44.980 --> 00:48:45.760
in<00:48:45.280><c> New</c><00:48:45.519><c> Zealand,</c>

00:48:46.159 --> 00:48:47.320
notably<00:48:46.380><c> American</c><00:48:46.820><c> TV.</c>

00:48:47.800 --> 00:48:51.219
Short<00:48:48.099><c> attention</c><00:48:48.559><c> span,</c><00:48:49.320><c> that's</c><00:48:49.780><c> the</c><00:48:49.900><c> key</c><00:48:50.079><c> to</c><00:48:50.219><c> it.</c>

00:48:51.420 --> 00:48:53.920
Here's<00:48:52.019><c> Calvin</c><00:48:52.460><c> and</c><00:48:52.900><c> Hobbes</c><00:48:53.139><c> sitting</c><00:48:53.280><c> in</c><00:48:53.440><c> front</c><00:48:53.519><c> of</c><00:48:53.659><c> the</c><00:48:53.780><c> TV.</c>

00:48:53.920 --> 00:48:57.340
I<00:48:54.159><c> think</c><00:48:54.380><c> the</c><00:48:54.659><c> short</c><00:48:54.900><c> attention</c><00:48:55.340><c> span</c><00:48:55.599><c> of</c><00:48:55.820><c> TV</c><00:48:56.039><c> is</c><00:48:56.280><c> great.</c>

00:48:57.639 --> 00:48:59.980
As<00:48:57.739><c> far</c><00:48:57.880><c> as</c><00:48:58.000><c> I'm</c><00:48:58.300><c> concerned,</c><00:48:58.820><c> if</c><00:48:58.860><c> anything's</c><00:48:59.320><c> so</c><00:48:59.480><c> complicated</c>

00:48:59.980 --> 00:49:01.699
that<00:49:00.159><c> you</c><00:49:00.280><c> can't</c><00:49:00.599><c> explain</c><00:49:00.840><c> it</c><00:49:01.000><c> in</c><00:49:01.139><c> 10</c><00:49:01.340><c> seconds,</c>

00:49:01.800 --> 00:49:03.860
it's<00:49:01.940><c> probably</c><00:49:02.159><c> not</c><00:49:02.400><c> worth</c><00:49:02.599><c> knowing</c><00:49:02.900><c> anyway.</c>

00:49:05.440 --> 00:49:06.539
My<00:49:05.639><c> time</c><00:49:05.880><c> is</c><00:49:06.059><c> valuable.</c>

00:49:06.639 --> 00:49:10.320
I<00:49:06.780><c> can't</c><00:49:07.019><c> go</c><00:49:07.260><c> thinking</c><00:49:07.519><c> about</c><00:49:07.820><c> one</c><00:49:08.159><c> subject</c><00:49:08.599><c> for</c><00:49:09.099><c> minutes</c><00:49:09.840><c> on</c><00:49:10.139><c> end.</c>

00:49:10.360 --> 00:49:11.960
I'm<00:49:10.579><c> a</c><00:49:10.659><c> busy</c><00:49:10.900><c> man.</c>

00:49:13.360 --> 00:49:14.219
Yes,<00:49:13.739><c> it's</c><00:49:13.980><c> Hobbes.</c>

00:49:14.380 --> 00:49:17.920
He's<00:49:14.539><c> been</c><00:49:14.780><c> sitting</c><00:49:15.000><c> here</c><00:49:15.239><c> for</c><00:49:15.400><c> three</c><00:49:15.760><c> hours</c><00:49:16.019><c> and</c><00:49:16.219><c> six</c><00:49:16.500><c> thoughts</c><00:49:16.780><c> per</c><00:49:17.039><c> minute.</c>

00:49:20.320 --> 00:49:22.300
So,<00:49:20.900><c> yeah,</c><00:49:21.139><c> that's</c><00:49:21.639><c> a</c><00:49:21.760><c> serious</c><00:49:21.940><c> problem.</c>

00:49:22.300 --> 00:49:24.280
You<00:49:22.519><c> see,</c><00:49:22.699><c> you</c><00:49:22.840><c> want</c><00:49:23.000><c> to</c><00:49:23.019><c> come</c><00:49:23.199><c> to</c><00:49:23.300><c> the</c><00:49:23.500><c> truth?</c>

00:49:24.760 --> 00:49:26.019
You've<00:49:25.159><c> got</c><00:49:25.239><c> to</c><00:49:25.440><c> work</c><00:49:25.699><c> at</c><00:49:25.820><c> it.</c>

00:49:26.039 --> 00:49:28.780
This<00:49:26.280><c> is</c><00:49:26.559><c> something</c><00:49:26.820><c> where</c><00:49:27.019><c> you</c><00:49:27.179><c> sit</c><00:49:27.480><c> quietly</c><00:49:28.119><c> at</c><00:49:28.480><c> the</c><00:49:28.659><c> feet</c>

00:49:28.780 --> 00:49:29.559
of<00:49:28.960><c> the</c><00:49:29.119><c> master</c>

00:49:29.559 --> 00:49:31.260
and<00:49:30.139><c> you</c><00:49:30.400><c> learn</c><00:49:30.639><c> over</c><00:49:30.960><c> a</c><00:49:31.119><c> period.</c>

00:49:31.460 --> 00:49:33.480
Now,<00:49:31.519><c> children</c><00:49:31.780><c> have</c><00:49:31.960><c> to</c><00:49:32.119><c> be</c><00:49:32.260><c> taught</c><00:49:32.400><c> that</c><00:49:32.699><c> skill.</c>

00:49:33.539 --> 00:49:35.300
And<00:49:33.719><c> they</c><00:49:33.880><c> are</c><00:49:34.039><c> not</c><00:49:34.199><c> going</c><00:49:34.380><c> to</c><00:49:34.480><c> learn</c><00:49:34.599><c> it</c><00:49:34.780><c> from</c><00:49:35.000><c> TV</c>

00:49:35.300 --> 00:49:37.539
and<00:49:35.480><c> they're</c><00:49:35.599><c> not</c><00:49:35.739><c> going</c><00:49:35.840><c> to</c><00:49:35.920><c> get</c><00:49:35.980><c> it</c><00:49:36.099><c> from</c><00:49:36.300><c> school</c><00:49:36.599><c> either.</c>

00:49:37.860 --> 00:49:40.699
So<00:49:38.019><c> this</c><00:49:38.219><c> is</c><00:49:38.360><c> something</c><00:49:38.559><c> which</c><00:49:38.739><c> we</c><00:49:38.880><c> need</c><00:49:39.019><c> to</c><00:49:39.400><c> pay</c><00:49:39.539><c> attention</c><00:49:39.900><c> to.</c>

00:49:40.719 --> 00:49:44.639
The<00:49:40.840><c> third</c><00:49:41.059><c> one</c><00:49:41.320><c> is</c><00:49:42.059><c> these</c><00:49:42.460><c> TV</c><00:49:42.960><c> programs</c><00:49:43.400><c> sure</c><00:49:43.679><c> are</c><00:49:43.940><c> rotten.</c>

00:49:44.760 --> 00:49:48.380
TV<00:49:45.139><c> is</c><00:49:45.519><c> rubbish</c><00:49:45.960><c> and</c><00:49:46.219><c> we</c><00:49:46.400><c> all</c><00:49:46.639><c> know</c><00:49:46.780><c> it's</c><00:49:47.019><c> rubbish,</c><00:49:47.380><c> but</c><00:49:47.579><c> we</c><00:49:47.840><c> sit</c><00:49:47.940><c> there</c><00:49:48.099><c> and</c><00:49:48.199><c> we</c>

00:49:48.380 --> 00:49:49.739
watch<00:49:48.579><c> it.</c>

00:49:50.360 --> 00:49:52.460
Here's<00:49:50.880><c> Calvin</c><00:49:51.219><c> again</c><00:49:51.739><c> speaking</c><00:49:52.079><c> to</c><00:49:52.340><c> Hobbes.</c>

00:49:52.699 --> 00:49:55.460
These<00:49:52.780><c> TV</c><00:49:53.619><c> programs</c><00:49:54.019><c> sure</c><00:49:54.480><c> are</c><00:49:54.780><c> rotten,</c><00:49:54.980><c> he</c><00:49:55.119><c> says.</c>

00:49:55.760 --> 00:49:58.119
There<00:49:55.880><c> isn't</c><00:49:56.079><c> an</c><00:49:56.320><c> ounce</c><00:49:56.539><c> of</c><00:49:56.800><c> imagination</c><00:49:57.340><c> in</c><00:49:57.480><c> the</c><00:49:57.559><c> whole</c><00:49:57.840><c> bunch.</c>

00:49:58.219 --> 00:50:00.159
What<00:49:58.579><c> bull,</c><00:49:59.000><c> she</c><00:49:59.239><c> says.</c>

00:50:00.599 --> 00:50:02.760
Who<00:50:00.780><c> do</c><00:50:00.860><c> they</c><00:50:01.119><c> think</c><00:50:01.300><c> is</c><00:50:01.460><c> stupid</c><00:50:01.780><c> enough</c><00:50:02.079><c> to</c><00:50:02.260><c> sit</c><00:50:02.420><c> and</c><00:50:02.559><c> watch</c>

00:50:02.760 --> 00:50:04.099
this<00:50:03.139><c> trash?</c>

00:50:05.179 --> 00:50:07.559
Hobbes<00:50:05.559><c> walks</c><00:50:05.840><c> away</c><00:50:06.179><c> and</c><00:50:06.300><c> he</c><00:50:06.380><c> says,</c><00:50:06.519><c> you.</c>

00:50:09.219 --> 00:50:11.320
Calvin<00:50:09.599><c> replies,</c><00:50:10.199><c> if</c><00:50:10.199><c> there's</c><00:50:10.480><c> anything</c><00:50:10.659><c> better</c><00:50:10.940><c> to</c><00:50:11.179><c> watch,</c>

00:50:11.380 --> 00:50:12.820
I'd<00:50:11.579><c> watch</c><00:50:11.760><c> that.</c>

00:50:17.260 --> 00:50:19.619
That's<00:50:17.699><c> true,</c><00:50:18.280><c> that's</c><00:50:18.559><c> true.</c>

00:50:20.139 --> 00:50:22.619
It<00:50:20.199><c> contains</c><00:50:20.659><c> far</c><00:50:20.960><c> too</c><00:50:21.179><c> much</c><00:50:21.420><c> violence.</c>

00:50:22.860 --> 00:50:24.440
Calvin<00:50:23.019><c> and</c><00:50:23.179><c> Hobbes</c><00:50:23.280><c> again.</c>

00:50:24.539 --> 00:50:26.300
Hobbes<00:50:24.800><c> comes</c><00:50:25.059><c> in</c><00:50:25.199><c> with</c><00:50:25.320><c> the</c><00:50:25.440><c> newspaper</c><00:50:25.840><c> and</c><00:50:26.019><c> he</c><00:50:26.119><c> says,</c>

00:50:26.400 --> 00:50:28.400
Calvin<00:50:26.679><c> is</c><00:50:26.860><c> sitting</c><00:50:27.000><c> in</c><00:50:27.179><c> front</c><00:50:27.280><c> of</c><00:50:27.500><c> the</c><00:50:27.500><c> TV</c><00:50:27.699><c> and</c><00:50:27.800><c> he</c><00:50:27.940><c> says,</c>

00:50:28.639 --> 00:50:31.480
it<00:50:28.739><c> says</c><00:50:29.000><c> here</c><00:50:29.199><c> that</c><00:50:29.360><c> by</c><00:50:29.599><c> the</c><00:50:29.719><c> age</c><00:50:29.900><c> of</c><00:50:30.119><c> six</c><00:50:30.320><c> most</c><00:50:30.659><c> children</c><00:50:31.000><c> have</c><00:50:31.239><c> seen</c><00:50:31.360><c> a</c>

00:50:31.480 --> 00:50:33.480
million<00:50:31.760><c> murders</c><00:50:32.199><c> on</c><00:50:32.460><c> TV.</c>

00:50:34.820 --> 00:50:37.099
Calvin<00:50:35.059><c> turns</c><00:50:35.340><c> around</c><00:50:35.539><c> and</c><00:50:35.619><c> he</c><00:50:35.639><c> says,</c><00:50:35.800><c> I</c><00:50:35.880><c> find</c><00:50:36.119><c> that</c><00:50:36.380><c> very</c><00:50:36.599><c> disturbing.</c>

00:50:37.099 --> 00:50:40.280
That<00:50:37.800><c> means</c><00:50:38.000><c> I've</c><00:50:38.280><c> been</c><00:50:38.380><c> watching</c><00:50:38.619><c> all</c><00:50:38.860><c> the</c><00:50:38.940><c> wrong</c><00:50:39.179><c> channels.</c>

00:50:45.219 --> 00:50:46.519
Well,<00:50:45.480><c> you</c><00:50:45.519><c> know,</c><00:50:45.900><c> it's</c><00:50:46.199><c> a</c><00:50:46.219><c> joke.</c>

00:50:46.539 --> 00:50:48.619
You're<00:50:46.760><c> going</c><00:50:46.840><c> to</c><00:50:46.960><c> laugh</c><00:50:47.179><c> about</c><00:50:47.460><c> it.</c>

00:50:49.179 --> 00:50:51.940
But<00:50:49.300><c> I've</c><00:50:49.800><c> selected</c><00:50:50.139><c> hundreds</c><00:50:50.880><c> and</c><00:50:51.099><c> hundreds</c><00:50:51.320><c> that</c><00:50:51.500><c> I've</c><00:50:51.579><c> looked</c><00:50:51.760><c> at</c>

00:50:51.940 --> 00:50:53.579
because<00:50:52.380><c> that's</c><00:50:52.800><c> full</c><00:50:53.039><c> of</c><00:50:53.219><c> insight.</c>

00:50:53.719 --> 00:50:55.320
That<00:50:53.940><c> is</c><00:50:54.360><c> absolutely</c><00:50:54.900><c> right.</c>

00:50:55.780 --> 00:50:58.300
You<00:50:56.000><c> sit</c><00:50:56.280><c> there</c><00:50:56.559><c> and</c><00:50:56.619><c> you</c><00:50:56.760><c> watch</c><00:50:57.019><c> this</c><00:50:57.340><c> rubbish.</c>

00:50:58.800 --> 00:51:01.440
I<00:50:59.139><c> do,</c><00:51:00.039><c> I</c><00:51:00.340><c> do.</c>

00:51:01.940 --> 00:51:04.719
It<00:51:02.179><c> gives</c><00:51:02.400><c> the</c><00:51:02.619><c> wrong</c><00:51:02.780><c> impression</c><00:51:03.179><c> about</c><00:51:03.440><c> what</c><00:51:03.659><c> sort</c><00:51:03.940><c> of</c><00:51:04.119><c> behavior</c><00:51:04.460><c> is</c>

00:51:04.719 --> 00:51:05.900
normal<00:51:05.239><c> TV</c>

00:51:05.900 --> 00:51:08.880
and<00:51:06.739><c> that</c><00:51:06.940><c> is</c><00:51:07.219><c> its</c><00:51:07.440><c> greatest</c><00:51:07.780><c> danger.</c>

00:51:09.139 --> 00:51:12.300
It<00:51:09.139><c> is</c><00:51:09.400><c> telling</c><00:51:09.639><c> people</c><00:51:10.119><c> and</c><00:51:10.500><c> in</c><00:51:10.679><c> New</c><00:51:10.860><c> Zealand</c><00:51:11.099><c> we</c><00:51:11.340><c> are</c><00:51:11.460><c> turning</c><00:51:11.780><c> out</c><00:51:12.039><c> a</c>

00:51:12.300 --> 00:51:13.260
violent<00:51:12.679><c> society.</c>

00:51:13.679 --> 00:51:17.099
It<00:51:13.900><c> tells</c><00:51:14.219><c> people</c><00:51:14.619><c> that</c><00:51:14.880><c> you</c><00:51:15.019><c> can</c><00:51:15.320><c> kick</c><00:51:15.539><c> people</c><00:51:15.960><c> and</c><00:51:16.380><c> punch</c><00:51:16.739><c> them.</c>

00:51:17.300 --> 00:51:18.300
You<00:51:17.440><c> can</c><00:51:17.699><c> throw</c><00:51:17.860><c> them</c><00:51:18.059><c> down.</c>

00:51:18.400 --> 00:51:19.719
You<00:51:18.400><c> can</c><00:51:18.719><c> elbow</c><00:51:18.980><c> them</c><00:51:19.219><c> out</c><00:51:19.360><c> of</c><00:51:19.460><c> the</c><00:51:19.599><c> way.</c>

00:51:19.739 --> 00:51:23.840
You<00:51:19.860><c> can</c><00:51:20.159><c> stick</c><00:51:20.400><c> knives</c><00:51:20.780><c> in</c><00:51:21.019><c> them</c><00:51:21.480><c> because</c><00:51:23.179><c> that's</c><00:51:23.420><c> what</c><00:51:23.579><c> the</c>

00:51:23.840 --> 00:51:25.400
characters<00:51:24.039><c> on</c><00:51:24.280><c> TV</c><00:51:24.519><c> do.</c>

00:51:25.860 --> 00:51:29.039
I<00:51:26.000><c> love</c><00:51:26.260><c> Saturday</c><00:51:26.579><c> morning</c><00:51:27.219><c> cartoons,</c><00:51:27.960><c> says</c><00:51:28.119><c> Calvin.</c>

00:51:29.340 --> 00:51:31.280
What<00:51:29.739><c> classic</c><00:51:30.300><c> humor.</c>

00:51:31.980 --> 00:51:34.360
This<00:51:32.219><c> is</c><00:51:32.440><c> what</c><00:51:32.639><c> entertainment</c><00:51:33.179><c> is</c><00:51:33.320><c> all</c><00:51:33.500><c> about.</c>

00:51:35.340 --> 00:51:40.340
Idiots,<00:51:36.639><c> explosives</c><00:51:37.159><c> and</c><00:51:37.920><c> falling</c><00:51:38.280><c> anvils.</c>

00:51:40.380 --> 00:51:44.079
Saturday<00:51:40.679><c> morning</c><00:51:41.139><c> cartoons,</c><00:51:42.360><c> you</c><00:51:42.360><c> know,</c><00:51:43.000><c> and</c><00:51:43.099><c> it's</c><00:51:43.320><c> right.</c>

00:51:44.360 --> 00:51:46.940
And<00:51:44.440><c> they</c><00:51:44.760><c> learn</c><00:51:45.039><c> from</c><00:51:45.260><c> it.</c>

00:51:48.039 --> 00:51:52.739
Some<00:51:48.280><c> children,</c><00:51:48.860><c> the</c><00:51:48.960><c> brighter</c><00:51:49.179><c> kids</c><00:51:49.519><c> can</c><00:51:50.940><c> abstract</c><00:51:52.380><c> it</c><00:51:52.619><c> and</c>

00:51:52.739 --> 00:51:54.539
know<00:51:53.019><c> that</c><00:51:53.199><c> it</c><00:51:53.360><c> isn't</c><00:51:53.579><c> real.</c>

00:51:54.920 --> 00:51:58.719
But<00:51:55.119><c> there</c><00:51:55.360><c> are</c><00:51:55.519><c> a</c><00:51:55.579><c> lot</c><00:51:55.739><c> of</c><00:51:55.940><c> kids</c><00:51:56.179><c> who</c><00:51:56.400><c> can't</c><00:51:56.800><c> tell</c><00:51:56.960><c> the</c><00:51:57.139><c> difference</c><00:51:57.559><c> and</c><00:51:57.900><c> it's</c><00:51:58.260><c> showing</c><00:51:58.420><c> in</c>

00:51:58.719 --> 00:52:00.599
society<00:51:59.340><c> today.</c>

00:52:00.820 --> 00:52:02.820
Here's<00:52:01.219><c> another</c><00:52:01.480><c> one,</c><00:52:01.679><c> the</c><00:52:01.820><c> other</c><00:52:02.059><c> side</c><00:52:02.239><c> of</c><00:52:02.440><c> the</c><00:52:02.539><c> spectrum,</c>

00:52:03.000 --> 00:52:04.900
the<00:52:03.059><c> flip</c><00:52:03.219><c> side</c><00:52:03.420><c> of</c><00:52:03.599><c> the</c><00:52:03.679><c> same</c><00:52:03.920><c> question.</c>

00:52:05.320 --> 00:52:08.320
Hey<00:52:05.480><c> Calvin,</c><00:52:06.019><c> you</c><00:52:06.119><c> want</c><00:52:06.239><c> to</c><00:52:06.400><c> play</c><00:52:06.579><c> house,</c><00:52:07.079><c> says</c><00:52:07.260><c> Susie.</c>

00:52:09.679 --> 00:52:11.780
I<00:52:09.900><c> don't</c><00:52:10.059><c> know</c><00:52:10.159><c> how</c><00:52:10.300><c> to</c><00:52:10.480><c> play,</c><00:52:10.739><c> says</c><00:52:10.820><c> Calvin.</c>

00:52:12.340 --> 00:52:15.019
Okay,<00:52:12.659><c> says</c><00:52:12.780><c> Susie,</c><00:52:13.480><c> ticking</c><00:52:13.619><c> it</c><00:52:13.840><c> off</c><00:52:13.940><c> on</c><00:52:14.099><c> her</c><00:52:14.199><c> finger.</c>

00:52:15.300 --> 00:52:19.239
First<00:52:15.619><c> you</c><00:52:15.860><c> come</c><00:52:16.079><c> home</c><00:52:16.260><c> from</c><00:52:16.480><c> work,</c><00:52:17.079><c> then</c><00:52:17.340><c> I</c><00:52:17.639><c> come</c><00:52:17.860><c> home</c><00:52:18.099><c> from</c><00:52:18.280><c> work.</c>

00:52:19.539 --> 00:52:21.840
We'll<00:52:19.820><c> gripe</c><00:52:19.980><c> about</c><00:52:20.260><c> our</c><00:52:20.500><c> jobs</c><00:52:20.840><c> and</c><00:52:21.019><c> then</c><00:52:21.139><c> we'll</c><00:52:21.380><c> argue</c><00:52:21.579><c> about</c>

00:52:21.840 --> 00:52:24.139
whose<00:52:22.079><c> turn</c><00:52:22.300><c> it</c><00:52:22.440><c> is</c><00:52:22.579><c> to</c><00:52:22.739><c> microwave</c><00:52:23.119><c> the</c><00:52:23.320><c> dinner.</c>

00:52:27.780 --> 00:52:30.619
That's<00:52:28.260><c> what</c><00:52:28.320><c> you</c><00:52:28.460><c> see</c><00:52:28.599><c> on</c><00:52:28.800><c> TV,</c><00:52:29.159><c> that's</c><00:52:29.440><c> the</c><00:52:29.519><c> way</c><00:52:29.639><c> you</c><00:52:29.800><c> live.</c>

00:52:32.500 --> 00:52:36.559
And<00:52:32.980><c> this</c><00:52:33.460><c> one</c><00:52:33.679><c> here,</c><00:52:33.980><c> I</c><00:52:33.980><c> hope</c><00:52:34.280><c> it's</c><00:52:34.739><c> not</c><00:52:35.219><c> in</c><00:52:35.480><c> too</c><00:52:35.679><c> poor</c><00:52:35.840><c> a</c><00:52:36.019><c> taste</c><00:52:36.320><c> for</c>

00:52:36.559 --> 00:52:39.480
this<00:52:37.239><c> group,</c><00:52:37.699><c> but</c><00:52:37.800><c> I</c><00:52:38.039><c> think</c><00:52:38.179><c> you'll</c><00:52:38.440><c> understand.</c>

00:52:39.860 --> 00:52:42.519
Dad,<00:52:40.059><c> how</c><00:52:40.260><c> come</c><00:52:40.559><c> you</c><00:52:40.780><c> live</c><00:52:40.900><c> in</c><00:52:41.039><c> this</c><00:52:41.239><c> house</c><00:52:41.539><c> with</c><00:52:41.820><c> mum</c><00:52:42.119><c> instead</c>

00:52:42.519 --> 00:52:45.900
of<00:52:42.679><c> in</c><00:52:42.820><c> an</c><00:52:43.059><c> apartment</c><00:52:43.420><c> with</c><00:52:43.679><c> several</c><00:52:44.099><c> scantily</c><00:52:44.619><c> clad</c><00:52:44.860><c> female</c><00:52:45.320><c> roommates,</c>

00:52:46.400 --> 00:52:48.199
says<00:52:46.519><c> Calvin</c><00:52:46.920><c> to</c><00:52:47.139><c> his</c><00:52:47.340><c> father.</c>

00:52:48.619 --> 00:52:51.179
And<00:52:48.760><c> his</c><00:52:48.860><c> father</c><00:52:49.099><c> sits</c><00:52:49.400><c> there</c><00:52:49.559><c> with</c><00:52:49.679><c> his</c><00:52:49.840><c> eyes</c><00:52:50.059><c> bulging</c><00:52:50.500><c> like</c><00:52:50.820><c> this.</c>

00:52:51.179 --> 00:52:54.320
And<00:52:52.039><c> then</c><00:52:52.239><c> the</c><00:52:52.239><c> last</c><00:52:52.559><c> one,</c><00:52:52.900><c> Calvin's</c><00:52:53.159><c> walking</c><00:52:53.400><c> away</c><00:52:53.760><c> and</c><00:52:53.880><c> he</c><00:52:54.000><c> says,</c>

00:52:54.820 --> 00:52:57.579
boy,<00:52:55.360><c> ask</c><00:52:55.679><c> a</c><00:52:55.880><c> simple</c><00:52:56.199><c> question,</c><00:52:56.639><c> you'll</c><00:52:56.860><c> get</c><00:52:56.860><c> all</c><00:52:57.000><c> your</c><00:52:57.139><c> TV</c>

00:52:57.579 --> 00:52:59.039
privileges<00:52:58.059><c> revoked.</c>

00:53:01.199 --> 00:53:05.739
But<00:53:01.440><c> you</c><00:53:02.079><c> see</c><00:53:02.360><c> it,</c><00:53:03.360><c> that</c><00:53:03.639><c> is</c><00:53:03.920><c> how</c><00:53:04.139><c> life</c><00:53:04.440><c> is</c><00:53:04.800><c> represented,</c><00:53:05.519><c> on</c>

00:53:05.739 --> 00:53:07.019
the<00:53:05.980><c> box.</c>

00:53:11.780 --> 00:53:14.239
And<00:53:12.280><c> I've</c><00:53:12.780><c> got</c><00:53:12.940><c> to</c><00:53:13.039><c> stop,</c><00:53:13.260><c> don't</c><00:53:13.360><c> I</c><00:53:13.519><c> Barry?</c>

00:53:14.960 --> 00:53:17.800
I<00:53:15.199><c> want</c><00:53:15.260><c> to</c><00:53:15.360><c> go</c><00:53:15.480><c> outside,</c><00:53:15.980><c> play</c><00:53:16.239><c> outside,</c><00:53:16.820><c> says</c><00:53:16.900><c> Hobbs.</c>

00:53:17.920 --> 00:53:20.079
No,<00:53:18.219><c> he</c><00:53:18.320><c> says,</c><00:53:18.579><c> I'm</c><00:53:18.780><c> watching</c><00:53:19.079><c> TV.</c>

00:53:20.440 --> 00:53:22.519
You<00:53:20.840><c> hate</c><00:53:21.239><c> this</c><00:53:21.500><c> show,</c><00:53:21.780><c> let's</c><00:53:22.019><c> go</c><00:53:22.280><c> out.</c>

00:53:22.679 --> 00:53:24.900
No,<00:53:23.039><c> he</c><00:53:23.179><c> says,</c><00:53:23.860><c> why</c><00:53:24.079><c> not?</c>

00:53:25.480 --> 00:53:27.659
Well<00:53:25.639><c> dad</c><00:53:25.840><c> finally</c><00:53:26.199><c> said</c><00:53:26.400><c> he</c><00:53:26.519><c> was</c><00:53:26.599><c> sick</c><00:53:26.800><c> of</c><00:53:27.039><c> arguing</c><00:53:27.300><c> with</c><00:53:27.440><c> me</c>

00:53:27.659 --> 00:53:30.039
and<00:53:27.800><c> for</c><00:53:27.940><c> all</c><00:53:28.059><c> he</c><00:53:28.260><c> cared</c><00:53:28.360><c> I</c><00:53:28.500><c> could</c><00:53:28.699><c> watch</c><00:53:28.980><c> TV</c><00:53:29.280><c> until</c><00:53:29.500><c> my</c><00:53:29.760><c> brain</c>

00:53:30.039 --> 00:53:31.659
zoos<00:53:30.280><c> out</c><00:53:30.559><c> of</c><00:53:30.699><c> my</c><00:53:30.780><c> ears.</c>

00:53:32.239 --> 00:53:33.679
So<00:53:32.400><c> you're</c><00:53:32.619><c> going</c><00:53:32.820><c> to?</c>

00:53:33.780 --> 00:53:36.039
Yeah,<00:53:34.079><c> he</c><00:53:34.219><c> says,</c><00:53:34.480><c> with</c><00:53:34.579><c> a</c><00:53:34.679><c> hard</c><00:53:34.840><c> won</c><00:53:35.039><c> privilege.</c>

00:53:36.320 --> 00:53:37.679
So<00:53:36.460><c> you'll</c><00:53:36.739><c> watch</c><00:53:36.860><c> in</c><00:53:37.079><c> spite</c><00:53:37.260><c> of</c><00:53:37.420><c> yourself.</c>

00:53:38.019 --> 00:53:39.980
And<00:53:38.119><c> so</c><00:53:38.320><c> it</c><00:53:38.380><c> goes</c><00:53:38.559><c> on,</c><00:53:38.719><c> I've</c><00:53:38.820><c> got</c><00:53:38.880><c> a</c><00:53:38.980><c> lot</c><00:53:39.079><c> more.</c>

00:53:40.099 --> 00:53:40.980
A<00:53:40.219><c> few</c><00:53:40.420><c> more</c><00:53:40.639><c> anyway.</c>

00:53:41.159 --> 00:53:43.500
TV<00:53:41.500><c> in</c><00:53:41.739><c> our</c><00:53:41.900><c> house</c><00:53:42.159><c> has</c><00:53:42.420><c> been</c><00:53:42.639><c> a</c><00:53:42.900><c> bit</c><00:53:43.059><c> of</c><00:53:43.239><c> a</c><00:53:43.340><c> thing.</c>

00:53:43.800 --> 00:53:45.599
There<00:53:43.920><c> have</c><00:53:43.980><c> been</c><00:53:44.099><c> three</c><00:53:44.400><c> stages</c><00:53:44.739><c> as</c><00:53:44.980><c> I</c><00:53:45.239><c> remember</c><00:53:45.519><c> it.</c>

00:53:45.599 --> 00:53:48.500
My<00:53:45.780><c> father</c><00:53:46.019><c> gave</c><00:53:46.320><c> us</c><00:53:47.139><c> a</c><00:53:47.380><c> black</c><00:53:47.539><c> and</c><00:53:47.699><c> white</c><00:53:47.820><c> television</c><00:53:48.239><c> when</c>

00:53:48.500 --> 00:53:49.920
colour<00:53:48.699><c> television</c><00:53:49.099><c> came</c><00:53:49.380><c> to</c><00:53:49.519><c> New</c><00:53:49.719><c> Zealand.</c>

00:53:50.119 --> 00:53:52.320
I<00:53:50.119><c> said</c><00:53:50.340><c> to</c><00:53:50.400><c> him,</c><00:53:50.619><c> well</c><00:53:50.679><c> look,</c><00:53:51.320><c> my</c><00:53:51.500><c> father</c><00:53:51.739><c> is</c><00:53:51.880><c> not</c><00:53:51.980><c> in</c><00:53:52.079><c> the</c><00:53:52.219><c> truth.</c>

00:53:52.440 --> 00:53:55.559
I<00:53:52.440><c> said</c><00:53:52.699><c> to</c><00:53:52.780><c> him,</c><00:53:53.440><c> look,</c><00:53:53.659><c> really</c><00:53:54.139><c> we</c><00:53:54.320><c> are</c><00:53:54.599><c> happier</c><00:53:54.920><c> without</c><00:53:55.320><c> it.</c>

00:53:55.840 --> 00:53:57.940
He<00:53:55.980><c> said,</c><00:53:56.119><c> look,</c><00:53:56.360><c> there's</c><00:53:56.579><c> lots</c><00:53:56.840><c> of</c><00:53:57.019><c> educational</c><00:53:57.500><c> programs,</c>

00:53:58.019 --> 00:53:59.579
you<00:53:58.099><c> know,</c><00:53:58.179><c> it's</c><00:53:58.300><c> good</c><00:53:58.440><c> for</c><00:53:58.579><c> the</c><00:53:58.719><c> kids.</c>

00:54:02.179 --> 00:54:06.059
Well,<00:54:02.579><c> on</c><00:54:02.980><c> the</c><00:54:03.199><c> condition</c><00:54:03.679><c> that</c><00:54:03.880><c> when</c><00:54:04.079><c> it</c><00:54:04.400><c> breaks</c><00:54:04.719><c> down</c><00:54:05.280><c> we</c>

00:54:06.059 --> 00:54:06.719
won't<00:54:06.320><c> fix</c><00:54:06.619><c> it.</c>

00:54:06.820 --> 00:54:09.440
We'll<00:54:06.860><c> put</c><00:54:07.000><c> it</c><00:54:07.199><c> in</c><00:54:07.659><c> the</c><00:54:08.039><c> car</c><00:54:08.239><c> and</c><00:54:08.440><c> we'll</c><00:54:08.780><c> dump</c><00:54:08.940><c> it,</c><00:54:09.179><c> we'll</c><00:54:09.360><c> take</c>

00:54:09.440 --> 00:54:11.679
it<00:54:09.599><c> out,</c><00:54:10.099><c> we'll</c><00:54:10.539><c> trash</c><00:54:10.760><c> it.</c>

00:54:11.800 --> 00:54:13.579
That's<00:54:12.199><c> fine,</c><00:54:12.599><c> he</c><00:54:12.619><c> said,</c><00:54:12.699><c> that's</c><00:54:13.300><c> okay.</c>

00:54:13.579 --> 00:54:18.699
By<00:54:13.840><c> the</c><00:54:14.019><c> way,</c><00:54:14.179><c> he</c><00:54:14.440><c> said,</c><00:54:14.500><c> it's</c><00:54:14.559><c> got</c><00:54:15.800><c> a</c><00:54:16.260><c> service</c><00:54:16.760><c> contract</c><00:54:17.400><c> which</c><00:54:17.719><c> I</c>

00:54:18.699 --> 00:54:19.840
just<00:54:18.940><c> renewed.</c>

00:54:21.019 --> 00:54:23.360
So<00:54:21.199><c> we</c><00:54:21.320><c> took</c><00:54:21.460><c> the</c><00:54:21.699><c> service</c><00:54:21.940><c> contract</c><00:54:22.340><c> and</c><00:54:22.539><c> the</c><00:54:22.659><c> black</c><00:54:22.860><c> and</c><00:54:22.980><c> white</c><00:54:23.099><c> TV</c>

00:54:23.360 --> 00:54:25.739
and<00:54:23.539><c> we</c><00:54:23.699><c> stuck</c><00:54:23.780><c> it</c><00:54:23.940><c> in</c><00:54:24.019><c> our</c><00:54:24.219><c> lounge</c><00:54:24.519><c> and</c><00:54:24.820><c> it</c><00:54:25.219><c> worked</c><00:54:25.400><c> okay.</c>

00:54:25.860 --> 00:54:27.280
We<00:54:26.000><c> worked</c><00:54:26.260><c> out</c><00:54:26.420><c> a</c><00:54:26.500><c> regime</c><00:54:26.800><c> with</c><00:54:27.019><c> the</c><00:54:27.119><c> kids.</c>

00:54:27.480 --> 00:54:33.500
We<00:54:27.480><c> said,</c><00:54:28.960><c> each</c><00:54:29.119><c> of</c><00:54:29.300><c> you,</c><00:54:29.559><c> the</c><00:54:29.719><c> three</c><00:54:29.860><c> of</c><00:54:29.960><c> them</c><00:54:30.280><c> at</c><00:54:30.480><c> that</c><00:54:30.719><c> stage,</c><00:54:31.599><c> you</c><00:54:31.760><c> may</c><00:54:32.000><c> watch</c><00:54:32.300><c> one</c><00:54:32.619><c> program</c><00:54:33.000><c> a</c><00:54:33.199><c> week</c>

00:54:33.500 --> 00:54:37.360
and<00:54:34.019><c> if</c><00:54:34.219><c> we</c><00:54:34.820><c> judge</c><00:54:35.039><c> it</c><00:54:35.219><c> to</c><00:54:35.280><c> be</c><00:54:35.500><c> suitable</c><00:54:35.739><c> then</c><00:54:35.960><c> you</c><00:54:36.079><c> may</c><00:54:36.260><c> watch</c><00:54:36.519><c> that.</c>

00:54:37.480 --> 00:54:42.960
And<00:54:37.699><c> we</c><00:54:37.860><c> thought,</c><00:54:38.079><c> well</c><00:54:38.219><c> okay,</c><00:54:39.019><c> one</c><00:54:40.559><c> program</c><00:54:41.059><c> a</c><00:54:41.159><c> day</c><00:54:41.340><c> or</c><00:54:41.559><c> something,</c><00:54:41.760><c> I</c><00:54:41.860><c> can't</c><00:54:42.099><c> remember</c><00:54:42.340><c> exactly</c><00:54:42.679><c> how</c>

00:54:42.960 --> 00:54:43.079
it<00:54:43.000><c> worked.</c>

00:54:43.079 --> 00:54:46.300
We<00:54:43.280><c> thought,</c><00:54:44.500><c> they're</c><00:54:45.119><c> going</c><00:54:45.219><c> to</c><00:54:45.320><c> see</c><00:54:45.500><c> a</c><00:54:45.619><c> fair</c><00:54:45.739><c> bit</c><00:54:45.880><c> of</c><00:54:46.059><c> TV</c>

00:54:46.300 --> 00:54:48.039
under<00:54:46.900><c> that</c><00:54:47.099><c> regime.</c>

00:54:48.159 --> 00:54:50.480
But<00:54:48.159><c> in</c><00:54:48.480><c> fact</c><00:54:48.659><c> what</c><00:54:48.820><c> happened</c><00:54:49.099><c> was</c><00:54:49.260><c> they</c><00:54:49.400><c> all</c><00:54:49.579><c> chose</c><00:54:49.760><c> the</c><00:54:49.980><c> same</c><00:54:50.179><c> subjects.</c>

00:54:50.500 --> 00:54:54.500
They<00:54:50.679><c> didn't</c><00:54:50.860><c> see</c><00:54:51.039><c> a</c><00:54:51.139><c> lot</c><00:54:51.280><c> of</c><00:54:51.480><c> TV</c><00:54:51.780><c> and</c><00:54:52.280><c> it</c><00:54:52.400><c> was</c><00:54:52.579><c> generally</c><00:54:52.960><c> speaking</c><00:54:53.260><c> okay</c><00:54:53.639><c> stuff.</c>

00:54:54.820 --> 00:54:55.420
That<00:54:55.000><c> was</c><00:54:55.199><c> all</c><00:54:55.360><c> right.</c>

00:54:55.500 --> 00:54:57.440
It<00:54:55.599><c> worked</c><00:54:55.760><c> all</c><00:54:55.940><c> right</c><00:54:56.039><c> for</c><00:54:56.199><c> the</c><00:54:56.320><c> kids</c><00:54:56.440><c> because</c><00:54:56.699><c> we</c><00:54:57.000><c> controlled</c><00:54:57.300><c> it.</c>

00:54:57.460 --> 00:54:59.059
But<00:54:57.500><c> who</c><00:54:57.699><c> controls</c><00:54:58.039><c> us?</c>

00:55:00.320 --> 00:55:03.340
And<00:55:00.659><c> what</c><00:55:00.920><c> happened</c><00:55:01.119><c> was</c><00:55:01.460><c> that</c><00:55:01.699><c> I</c><00:55:01.840><c> found</c><00:55:02.099><c> myself</c><00:55:02.719><c> sometimes</c>

00:55:03.340 --> 00:55:04.559
working<00:55:04.119><c> on</c><00:55:04.260><c> the</c><00:55:04.440><c> study.</c>

00:55:04.599 --> 00:55:06.320
I<00:55:04.699><c> get</c><00:55:04.840><c> up</c><00:55:05.019><c> and</c><00:55:05.559><c> I</c><00:55:05.800><c> stretch</c><00:55:05.920><c> my</c><00:55:06.119><c> legs.</c>

00:55:06.460 --> 00:55:08.460
I<00:55:06.480><c> go</c><00:55:06.679><c> out</c><00:55:06.940><c> there</c><00:55:07.099><c> and</c><00:55:07.260><c> Coral</c><00:55:07.440><c> may</c><00:55:07.599><c> be</c><00:55:07.739><c> doing</c><00:55:07.940><c> the</c><00:55:08.159><c> ironing.</c>

00:55:08.460 --> 00:55:10.239
She's<00:55:08.739><c> just</c><00:55:08.920><c> watching</c><00:55:09.099><c> some</c><00:55:09.420><c> stuff</c><00:55:09.599><c> on</c><00:55:09.860><c> TV.</c>

00:55:10.239 --> 00:55:13.739
And<00:55:10.880><c> I</c><00:55:11.019><c> have</c><00:55:11.139><c> to</c><00:55:11.280><c> stand</c><00:55:11.480><c> there</c><00:55:11.679><c> and</c><00:55:11.760><c> watch</c><00:55:11.980><c> it</c><00:55:12.619><c> like</c><00:55:12.900><c> this.</c>

00:55:14.059 --> 00:55:16.460
And<00:55:14.179><c> after</c><00:55:14.400><c> a</c><00:55:14.460><c> little</c><00:55:14.619><c> while</c><00:55:14.800><c> I</c><00:55:14.920><c> realized</c><00:55:15.320><c> that</c><00:55:15.599><c> I'd</c><00:55:15.780><c> been</c><00:55:15.900><c> standing</c><00:55:16.099><c> there</c><00:55:16.300><c> for</c>

00:55:16.460 --> 00:55:16.920
half<00:55:16.639><c> an</c><00:55:16.780><c> hour.</c>

00:55:16.980 --> 00:55:18.179
I'd<00:55:17.099><c> pull</c><00:55:17.139><c> up</c><00:55:17.360><c> a</c><00:55:17.420><c> seat</c><00:55:17.519><c> and</c><00:55:17.679><c> I'd</c><00:55:17.820><c> sit</c><00:55:17.940><c> down.</c>

00:55:18.179 --> 00:55:19.920
She'd<00:55:18.380><c> go</c><00:55:18.539><c> up</c><00:55:18.679><c> to</c><00:55:18.820><c> bed</c><00:55:18.960><c> and</c><00:55:19.079><c> then</c><00:55:19.179><c> I'd</c><00:55:19.360><c> watch</c><00:55:19.460><c> something</c><00:55:19.699><c> until</c>

00:55:19.920 --> 00:55:21.940
it<00:55:20.099><c> shut</c><00:55:20.280><c> down.</c>

00:55:25.739 --> 00:55:27.280
Which<00:55:26.139><c> is</c><00:55:26.420><c> nuts.</c>

00:55:29.659 --> 00:55:33.239
Then<00:55:29.900><c> it</c><00:55:30.099><c> went</c><00:55:30.320><c> on,</c><00:55:31.280><c> this</c><00:55:31.460><c> TV,</c><00:55:31.920><c> this</c><00:55:32.039><c> black</c><00:55:32.280><c> and</c><00:55:32.400><c> white</c><00:55:32.519><c> TV</c><00:55:32.900><c> went</c><00:55:33.119><c> on</c>

00:55:33.239 --> 00:55:34.760
and<00:55:33.400><c> finally</c><00:55:33.800><c> it</c><00:55:34.059><c> broke</c><00:55:34.300><c> down.</c>

00:55:35.179 --> 00:55:36.840
And<00:55:35.440><c> I</c><00:55:35.579><c> remembered</c><00:55:35.780><c> the</c><00:55:35.980><c> deal</c><00:55:36.179><c> that</c><00:55:36.360><c> we'd</c><00:55:36.639><c> made.</c>

00:55:37.139 --> 00:55:38.039
Right,<00:55:37.619><c> good.</c>

00:55:38.039 --> 00:55:40.900
I<00:55:38.519><c> knew</c><00:55:38.719><c> what</c><00:55:38.920><c> the</c><00:55:39.099><c> fault</c><00:55:39.199><c> was.</c>

00:55:43.860 --> 00:55:45.219
And<00:55:43.960><c> I</c><00:55:44.119><c> could</c><00:55:44.300><c> have</c><00:55:44.519><c> fixed</c><00:55:44.719><c> it.</c>

00:55:45.460 --> 00:55:47.199
I<00:55:45.539><c> could</c><00:55:45.760><c> have</c><00:55:46.000><c> fixed</c><00:55:46.179><c> the</c><00:55:46.420><c> fault.</c>

00:55:47.579 --> 00:55:49.239
No,<00:55:47.780><c> I'm</c><00:55:47.780><c> not</c><00:55:48.579><c> going</c><00:55:48.679><c> to</c><00:55:48.780><c> fix</c><00:55:48.980><c> this.</c>

00:55:49.519 --> 00:55:50.059
Hang<00:55:49.719><c> on</c><00:55:49.860><c> a</c><00:55:49.940><c> minute.</c>

00:55:50.179 --> 00:55:52.260
It's<00:55:50.300><c> got</c><00:55:50.480><c> this</c><00:55:50.960><c> service</c><00:55:51.159><c> contract.</c>

00:55:52.500 --> 00:55:54.760
Rush<00:55:52.760><c> off</c><00:55:53.000><c> and</c><00:55:53.099><c> look</c><00:55:53.260><c> through</c><00:55:53.480><c> the</c><00:55:53.639><c> drawers</c><00:55:53.800><c> and</c><00:55:54.239><c> there's</c><00:55:54.480><c> the</c>

00:55:54.760 --> 00:55:55.300
service<00:55:54.920><c> contract.</c>

00:55:55.460 --> 00:55:57.980
Lo<00:55:55.639><c> and</c><00:55:55.739><c> behold</c><00:55:55.940><c> it's</c><00:55:56.159><c> got</c><00:55:56.280><c> three</c><00:55:56.519><c> days</c><00:55:56.800><c> to</c><00:55:57.039><c> run.</c>

00:56:00.860 --> 00:56:03.880
Well<00:56:01.179><c> now</c><00:56:01.539><c> as</c><00:56:01.900><c> a</c><00:56:02.039><c> matter</c><00:56:02.280><c> of</c><00:56:02.559><c> principle</c><00:56:03.019><c> since</c><00:56:03.400><c> this</c><00:56:03.599><c> money's</c>

00:56:03.880 --> 00:56:05.139
been<00:56:04.179><c> paid</c><00:56:04.519><c> to</c><00:56:04.800><c> Tisco,</c>

00:56:05.599 --> 00:56:07.179
they've<00:56:05.900><c> got</c><00:56:05.920><c> to</c><00:56:06.059><c> come</c><00:56:06.219><c> and</c><00:56:06.440><c> fix</c><00:56:06.659><c> this</c><00:56:06.960><c> set.</c>

00:56:07.579 --> 00:56:10.300
So<00:56:07.940><c> the</c><00:56:08.079><c> man</c><00:56:08.199><c> comes</c><00:56:08.480><c> and</c><00:56:08.679><c> fixes</c><00:56:08.860><c> it</c><00:56:09.119><c> and</c><00:56:09.159><c> you</c><00:56:09.460><c> know</c><00:56:09.739><c> that</c><00:56:10.199><c> this</c>

00:56:10.300 --> 00:56:14.000
set,<00:56:10.559><c> it</c><00:56:11.199><c> ran</c><00:56:11.500><c> for</c><00:56:11.880><c> ten</c><00:56:12.239><c> years</c><00:56:12.679><c> without</c><00:56:13.099><c> quitting.</c>

00:56:15.119 --> 00:56:15.760
We<00:56:15.280><c> threw</c><00:56:15.420><c> it</c><00:56:15.579><c> away.</c>

00:56:15.860 --> 00:56:19.000
We<00:56:16.019><c> bought</c><00:56:16.199><c> a</c><00:56:16.380><c> color</c><00:56:16.519><c> television</c><00:56:16.980><c> after</c><00:56:17.360><c> some</c><00:56:17.760><c> time</c><00:56:18.179><c> and</c><00:56:18.800><c> it</c>

00:56:19.000 --> 00:56:19.539
had<00:56:19.139><c> wheels</c><00:56:19.380><c> on</c><00:56:19.519><c> it.</c>

00:56:19.539 --> 00:56:20.800
We<00:56:19.659><c> bought</c><00:56:19.820><c> it</c><00:56:19.960><c> because</c><00:56:20.139><c> it</c><00:56:20.199><c> had</c><00:56:20.340><c> wheels</c><00:56:20.599><c> on</c><00:56:20.719><c> it.</c>

00:56:20.820 --> 00:56:23.820
We<00:56:20.920><c> used</c><00:56:21.139><c> to</c><00:56:21.300><c> wheel</c><00:56:21.440><c> it</c><00:56:21.599><c> in</c><00:56:21.739><c> and</c><00:56:21.840><c> out</c><00:56:21.960><c> of</c><00:56:22.039><c> the</c><00:56:22.179><c> lounge</c><00:56:22.539><c> and</c><00:56:23.420><c> put</c>

00:56:23.820 --> 00:56:26.900
it<00:56:24.440><c> away</c><00:56:24.599><c> in</c><00:56:24.719><c> a</c><00:56:24.860><c> wardrobe</c><00:56:25.139><c> in</c><00:56:25.860><c> our</c><00:56:26.519><c> bedroom.</c>

00:56:27.199 --> 00:56:28.760
And<00:56:27.219><c> there's</c><00:56:27.380><c> something</c><00:56:27.599><c> special</c><00:56:27.940><c> on</c><00:56:28.079><c> it,</c><00:56:28.179><c> we're</c><00:56:28.280><c> putting</c><00:56:28.420><c> it</c><00:56:28.599><c> out.</c>

00:56:28.980 --> 00:56:31.679
But<00:56:29.159><c> after</c><00:56:29.420><c> a</c><00:56:29.460><c> little</c><00:56:29.619><c> while</c><00:56:29.780><c> it</c><00:56:29.820><c> got</c><00:56:30.000><c> to</c><00:56:30.099><c> be</c><00:56:30.219><c> too</c><00:56:30.400><c> much</c><00:56:30.559><c> of</c><00:56:30.760><c> a</c><00:56:30.840><c> problem.</c>

00:56:31.920 --> 00:56:34.739
I<00:56:32.019><c> mean</c><00:56:32.320><c> we're</c><00:56:33.219><c> always</c><00:56:33.599><c> cutting</c><00:56:33.840><c> the</c><00:56:34.059><c> thing</c><00:56:34.119><c> in</c><00:56:34.280><c> and</c><00:56:34.480><c> out</c><00:56:34.599><c> so</c>

00:56:34.739 --> 00:56:35.719
we<00:56:34.920><c> just</c><00:56:35.119><c> left</c><00:56:35.260><c> it</c><00:56:35.440><c> there.</c>

00:56:35.719 --> 00:56:37.739
And<00:56:35.980><c> before</c><00:56:36.320><c> long</c><00:56:36.500><c> it</c><00:56:36.599><c> took</c><00:56:36.860><c> over.</c>

00:56:38.480 --> 00:56:40.940
So<00:56:38.679><c> in</c><00:56:38.880><c> the</c><00:56:39.019><c> end</c><00:56:39.159><c> we</c><00:56:39.519><c> pulled</c><00:56:39.760><c> the</c><00:56:39.960><c> plug</c><00:56:40.079><c> on</c><00:56:40.280><c> it.</c>

00:56:41.019 --> 00:56:41.980
We<00:56:41.320><c> tried</c><00:56:41.559><c> to</c><00:56:41.760><c> sell</c><00:56:41.860><c> it.</c>

00:56:42.039 --> 00:56:42.760
Nobody<00:56:42.219><c> wanted</c><00:56:42.519><c> it.</c>

00:56:42.800 --> 00:56:44.119
I'm<00:56:43.000><c> not</c><00:56:43.099><c> surprised.</c>

00:56:44.599 --> 00:56:50.199
We<00:56:44.760><c> pulled</c><00:56:45.079><c> the</c><00:56:45.599><c> aerial</c><00:56:45.840><c> out</c><00:56:46.119><c> of</c><00:56:46.280><c> it</c><00:56:46.400><c> and</c><00:56:46.480><c> we</c><00:56:46.619><c> put</c><00:56:46.719><c> that</c><00:56:46.940><c> away</c><00:56:47.219><c> and</c><00:56:47.460><c> we</c><00:56:47.940><c> made</c><00:56:48.099><c> arrangements</c><00:56:48.539><c> so</c><00:56:48.780><c> we</c><00:56:48.860><c> didn't</c><00:56:49.079><c> pay</c><00:56:49.300><c> a</c><00:56:49.420><c> license.</c>

00:56:50.440 --> 00:56:53.039
And<00:56:50.739><c> we</c><00:56:51.019><c> bought</c><00:56:51.159><c> a</c><00:56:51.320><c> video</c><00:56:51.659><c> camera</c><00:56:52.039><c> and</c><00:56:52.219><c> we</c><00:56:52.320><c> have</c><00:56:52.480><c> a</c><00:56:52.639><c> video</c><00:56:52.820><c> and</c>

00:56:53.039 --> 00:56:57.280
now<00:56:53.659><c> we</c><00:56:54.260><c> get</c><00:56:54.639><c> videos,</c><00:56:55.480><c> not</c><00:56:55.780><c> all</c><00:56:56.019><c> of</c><00:56:56.119><c> which</c><00:56:56.260><c> are</c><00:56:56.440><c> suitable.</c>

00:56:57.420 --> 00:56:58.380
We<00:56:57.619><c> will</c><00:56:57.780><c> hire</c><00:56:58.059><c> a</c><00:56:58.260><c> video.</c>

00:56:58.460 --> 00:57:01.280
But<00:56:58.579><c> at</c><00:56:58.679><c> least</c><00:56:58.820><c> you've</c><00:56:59.000><c> got</c><00:56:59.159><c> an</c><00:56:59.539><c> element</c><00:56:59.820><c> of</c><00:57:00.079><c> choice</c><00:57:00.420><c> there.</c>

00:57:01.659 --> 00:57:04.159
And<00:57:01.719><c> the</c><00:57:01.880><c> library,</c><00:57:02.260><c> the</c><00:57:02.340><c> public</c><00:57:02.639><c> library</c><00:57:02.900><c> have</c><00:57:03.079><c> some</c><00:57:03.239><c> good</c><00:57:03.460><c> ones</c><00:57:03.699><c> and</c><00:57:03.900><c> so</c><00:57:04.039><c> on.</c>

00:57:04.159 --> 00:57:06.719
So<00:57:04.320><c> we've</c><00:57:04.619><c> got</c><00:57:04.739><c> a</c><00:57:04.880><c> sort</c><00:57:05.019><c> of</c><00:57:05.239><c> an</c><00:57:05.360><c> uneasy</c><00:57:05.739><c> truth.</c>

00:57:06.820 --> 00:57:11.840
Now<00:57:07.039><c> the</c><00:57:07.199><c> reason</c><00:57:07.679><c> why</c><00:57:08.320><c> I</c><00:57:08.579><c> raised</c><00:57:08.900><c> this</c><00:57:09.280><c> in</c><00:57:09.519><c> relation</c><00:57:09.820><c> to</c><00:57:10.000><c> the</c><00:57:10.179><c> kids</c><00:57:10.340><c> is</c><00:57:10.579><c> because</c><00:57:10.860><c> I</c>

00:57:11.840 --> 00:57:15.380
agree<00:57:12.199><c> with</c><00:57:13.159><c> Watterson</c><00:57:13.719><c> and</c><00:57:14.199><c> those</c><00:57:14.480><c> Calvin</c><00:57:14.719><c> and</c><00:57:14.940><c> Hobbes</c><00:57:15.079><c> things.</c>

00:57:15.539 --> 00:57:20.179
Television<00:57:15.980><c> by</c><00:57:16.300><c> and</c><00:57:16.480><c> large</c><00:57:16.659><c> is</c><00:57:16.980><c> a</c><00:57:17.159><c> bane</c><00:57:18.119><c> and</c><00:57:19.079><c> a</c><00:57:19.360><c> snare.</c>

00:57:21.260 --> 00:57:24.840
The<00:57:21.420><c> trouble</c><00:57:21.579><c> is</c><00:57:21.820><c> it's</c><00:57:22.059><c> so</c><00:57:22.519><c> easy</c><00:57:22.920><c> and</c><00:57:23.179><c> so</c><00:57:23.539><c> comfortable</c><00:57:24.079><c> and</c><00:57:24.460><c> so</c>

00:57:24.840 --> 00:57:27.000
acceptable<00:57:25.420><c> to</c><00:57:25.840><c> our</c><00:57:26.300><c> human</c><00:57:26.639><c> spirit.</c>

00:57:27.380 --> 00:57:29.699
It<00:57:27.559><c> is</c><00:57:27.940><c> designed</c><00:57:28.539><c> to</c><00:57:28.860><c> be.</c>

00:57:30.559 --> 00:57:33.079
But<00:57:30.960><c> there</c><00:57:31.139><c> is</c><00:57:31.340><c> another</c><00:57:31.539><c> one</c><00:57:31.679><c> of</c><00:57:31.800><c> the</c><00:57:31.940><c> Calvin</c><00:57:32.099><c> and</c><00:57:32.320><c> Hobbes</c><00:57:32.480><c> things</c><00:57:32.719><c> which</c><00:57:32.940><c> I</c>

00:57:33.079 --> 00:57:34.860
really<00:57:33.199><c> want</c><00:57:33.380><c> to</c><00:57:33.900><c> share</c><00:57:34.440><c> with</c><00:57:34.659><c> you.</c>

00:57:34.860 --> 00:57:35.920
I'll<00:57:34.860><c> tell</c><00:57:34.940><c> you</c><00:57:35.059><c> the</c><00:57:35.179><c> story</c><00:57:35.420><c> of</c><00:57:35.559><c> it.</c>

00:57:36.099 --> 00:57:39.500
What<00:57:36.199><c> happens</c><00:57:36.559><c> is</c><00:57:36.880><c> that</c><00:57:37.659><c> Calvin's</c><00:57:38.179><c> father</c><00:57:38.579><c> boots</c><00:57:39.039><c> him</c><00:57:39.219><c> out</c><00:57:39.380><c> of</c>

00:57:39.500 --> 00:57:39.800
the<00:57:39.619><c> house.</c>

00:57:40.000 --> 00:57:41.500
He<00:57:40.000><c> says,</c><00:57:40.739><c> get</c><00:57:40.940><c> outside.</c>

00:57:41.619 --> 00:57:42.619
Get<00:57:41.880><c> some</c><00:57:42.199><c> fresh</c><00:57:42.440><c> air.</c>

00:57:42.639 --> 00:57:44.380
You're<00:57:42.840><c> not</c><00:57:42.960><c> going</c><00:57:43.119><c> to</c><00:57:43.239><c> spend</c><00:57:43.380><c> your</c><00:57:43.599><c> life</c><00:57:43.780><c> sitting</c><00:57:44.059><c> in</c><00:57:44.260><c> front</c>

00:57:44.380 --> 00:57:45.820
of<00:57:44.559><c> this</c><00:57:44.960><c> confounded</c><00:57:45.599><c> box.</c>

00:57:45.920 --> 00:57:47.199
Get<00:57:46.139><c> out</c><00:57:46.380><c> of</c><00:57:46.500><c> here.</c>

00:57:47.639 --> 00:57:50.739
So<00:57:47.820><c> he</c><00:57:47.860><c> boots</c><00:57:48.139><c> the</c><00:57:48.300><c> kid</c><00:57:48.380><c> out,</c><00:57:48.820><c> you</c><00:57:48.820><c> see,</c><00:57:49.219><c> and</c><00:57:49.360><c> Hobbes</c><00:57:49.519><c> goes</c><00:57:49.760><c> out.</c>

00:57:50.820 --> 00:57:54.139
And<00:57:51.139><c> he</c><00:57:51.260><c> picks</c><00:57:51.440><c> up</c><00:57:51.719><c> Hobbes</c><00:57:52.079><c> and</c><00:57:52.559><c> dusts</c><00:57:53.260><c> him</c><00:57:53.300><c> off</c><00:57:53.559><c> and</c><00:57:53.780><c> he</c><00:57:53.980><c> says,</c>

00:57:54.420 --> 00:57:56.679
OK,<00:57:54.599><c> well,</c><00:57:55.360><c> that's</c><00:57:55.820><c> that,</c><00:57:56.039><c> isn't</c><00:57:56.159><c> it?</c>

00:57:56.679 --> 00:57:59.329
And<00:57:57.340><c> they</c><00:57:57.719><c> wander</c><00:57:58.000><c> off</c><00:57:58.179><c> down</c><00:57:58.380><c> the</c><00:57:58.480><c> road</c><00:57:58.619><c> together.</c>

00:57:59.880 --> 00:58:03.099
Next<00:58:00.039><c> thing,</c><00:58:01.440><c> they're</c><00:58:01.539><c> knocking</c><00:58:01.800><c> on</c><00:58:02.039><c> the</c><00:58:02.179><c> door.</c>

00:58:03.820 --> 00:58:05.940
Hey,<00:58:04.219><c> Susie,</c><00:58:04.519><c> what's</c><00:58:04.800><c> on</c><00:58:05.039><c> TV?</c>

00:58:06.840 --> 00:58:07.880
She<00:58:07.099><c> said,</c><00:58:07.239><c> hey,</c><00:58:07.420><c> it's</c><00:58:07.599><c> great.</c>

00:58:08.179 --> 00:58:09.079
It's<00:58:08.340><c> in</c><00:58:08.420><c> the</c><00:58:08.619><c> commercial</c><00:58:08.880><c> break.</c>

00:58:09.239 --> 00:58:09.860
Come<00:58:09.300><c> in</c><00:58:09.539><c> quick.</c>

00:58:10.239 --> 00:58:12.159
And<00:58:10.659><c> so</c><00:58:10.800><c> he</c><00:58:10.840><c> goes</c><00:58:11.019><c> in</c><00:58:11.199><c> next</c><00:58:11.440><c> door.</c>

00:58:12.420 --> 00:58:14.000
And<00:58:12.519><c> that's</c><00:58:12.840><c> part</c><00:58:12.960><c> of</c><00:58:13.119><c> the</c><00:58:13.119><c> reason</c><00:58:13.320><c> we</c><00:58:13.480><c> got</c><00:58:13.619><c> TV.</c>

00:58:14.139 --> 00:58:16.940
I<00:58:14.380><c> mean,</c><00:58:14.599><c> we</c><00:58:14.980><c> agreed</c><00:58:15.280><c> to</c><00:58:15.440><c> it</c><00:58:15.599><c> because,</c><00:58:16.059><c> you</c><00:58:16.340><c> see,</c><00:58:16.500><c> our</c><00:58:16.739><c> kids</c>

00:58:16.940 --> 00:58:18.000
were<00:58:17.139><c> disappearing</c><00:58:17.559><c> next</c><00:58:17.920><c> door.</c>

00:58:18.059 --> 00:58:18.880
We<00:58:18.139><c> didn't</c><00:58:18.340><c> know</c><00:58:18.420><c> where</c><00:58:18.539><c> they</c><00:58:18.760><c> were.</c>

00:58:18.960 --> 00:58:21.480
But<00:58:19.039><c> they</c><00:58:19.139><c> were</c><00:58:19.239><c> going</c><00:58:19.380><c> to</c><00:58:19.559><c> a</c><00:58:19.579><c> Chris</c><00:58:19.780><c> Adelphian</c><00:58:20.119><c> family</c><00:58:20.619><c> next</c><00:58:21.179><c> door.</c>

00:58:21.820 --> 00:58:24.380
And<00:58:22.039><c> they</c><00:58:22.159><c> were</c><00:58:22.300><c> watching</c><00:58:22.519><c> TV</c><00:58:22.980><c> until</c><00:58:23.239><c> their</c><00:58:23.500><c> brains</c><00:58:23.780><c> used</c><00:58:24.119><c> out</c>

00:58:24.380 --> 00:58:25.619
their<00:58:24.619><c> ears,</c><00:58:24.940><c> you</c><00:58:25.000><c> know,</c><00:58:25.340><c> literally.</c>

00:58:25.619 --> 00:58:27.940
And<00:58:26.179><c> we</c><00:58:26.320><c> didn't</c><00:58:26.519><c> know</c><00:58:26.639><c> what</c><00:58:26.780><c> they</c><00:58:26.900><c> were</c><00:58:27.039><c> watching.</c>

00:58:28.940 --> 00:58:31.000
Different<00:58:29.199><c> families,</c><00:58:29.780><c> different</c><00:58:30.000><c> standards.</c>

00:58:31.739 --> 00:58:34.539
And<00:58:31.980><c> so</c><00:58:32.260><c> we</c><00:58:32.480><c> thought</c><00:58:32.760><c> that</c><00:58:33.239><c> if</c><00:58:33.719><c> you</c><00:58:33.880><c> can't</c><00:58:34.139><c> beat</c><00:58:34.300><c> them,</c><00:58:34.440><c> you</c>

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better<00:58:34.739><c> join</c><00:58:35.019><c> them.</c>

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And<00:58:36.179><c> it</c><00:58:36.679><c> was</c><00:58:36.900><c> a</c><00:58:37.059><c> compromise.</c>

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It's<00:58:39.519><c> hard</c><00:58:39.719><c> to</c><00:58:40.039><c> tell</c><00:58:40.380><c> 25</c><00:58:41.139><c> years</c><00:58:41.519><c> afterwards.</c>

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There's<00:58:43.340><c> swings</c><00:58:43.559><c> and</c><00:58:43.760><c> roundabouts</c><00:58:44.159><c> about</c><00:58:44.380><c> this.</c>

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Our<00:58:46.079><c> kids</c><00:58:46.300><c> grew</c><00:58:46.539><c> up</c><00:58:46.840><c> with</c><00:58:47.039><c> a</c><00:58:47.199><c> laid</c><00:58:47.360><c> back</c><00:58:47.579><c> attitude</c><00:58:47.980><c> towards</c><00:58:48.340><c> TV.</c>

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They<00:58:49.079><c> can</c><00:58:49.300><c> take</c><00:58:49.460><c> it</c><00:58:49.619><c> or</c><00:58:49.699><c> leave</c><00:58:49.900><c> it.</c>

00:58:50.219 --> 00:58:57.360
Other<00:58:50.780><c> families</c><00:58:51.599><c> who</c><00:58:52.039><c> have</c><00:58:52.420><c> put</c><00:58:52.599><c> an</c><00:58:53.000><c> outright</c><00:58:53.559><c> ban</c><00:58:53.940><c> on</c><00:58:54.199><c> it</c><00:58:54.380><c> then</c><00:58:54.679><c> have</c><00:58:55.340><c> produced</c><00:58:55.780><c> kids</c><00:58:56.260><c> who</c>

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are<00:58:57.639><c> walking,</c>

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they're<00:58:58.300><c> driving</c><00:58:58.500><c> down</c><00:58:58.780><c> the</c><00:58:58.980><c> street</c><00:58:59.219><c> and</c><00:58:59.539><c> they</c><00:58:59.719><c> see</c><00:58:59.860><c> TV</c><00:59:00.280><c> and</c><00:59:00.800><c> a</c>

00:59:00.980 --> 00:59:02.900
shop<00:59:01.199><c> and</c><00:59:01.380><c> they're</c><00:59:02.280><c> looking</c><00:59:02.559><c> at</c><00:59:02.780><c> this.</c>

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You<00:59:03.059><c> know,</c><00:59:03.199><c> they</c><00:59:03.199><c> can't</c><00:59:03.320><c> get</c><00:59:03.460><c> away</c><00:59:03.659><c> from</c><00:59:03.820><c> it.</c>

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And<00:59:06.119><c> it</c><00:59:06.559><c> becomes</c><00:59:06.900><c> an</c><00:59:07.119><c> obsession,</c><00:59:08.039><c> you</c><00:59:08.179><c> see.</c>

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So<00:59:08.500><c> I</c><00:59:08.559><c> don't</c><00:59:08.780><c> know</c><00:59:08.920><c> where</c><00:59:09.079><c> the</c><00:59:09.260><c> balance</c><00:59:09.440><c> is.</c>

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It's<00:59:11.059><c> impossible</c><00:59:11.500><c> to</c><00:59:11.780><c> tell</c><00:59:11.920><c> 25</c><00:59:12.360><c> years</c><00:59:12.639><c> after</c><00:59:12.980><c> if</c><00:59:13.119><c> you</c><00:59:13.280><c> make</c><00:59:13.400><c> the</c><00:59:13.539><c> right</c><00:59:13.679><c> decision</c><00:59:14.059><c> or</c>

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the<00:59:14.300><c> wrong</c><00:59:14.500><c> decision.</c>

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But<00:59:15.039><c> I</c><00:59:15.139><c> will</c><00:59:15.300><c> say</c><00:59:15.519><c> this,</c><00:59:16.860><c> that</c><00:59:16.960><c> none</c><00:59:17.079><c> of</c><00:59:17.219><c> our</c><00:59:17.440><c> kids,</c><00:59:18.019><c> television</c><00:59:18.119><c> never</c><00:59:18.480><c> became</c><00:59:18.840><c> an</c><00:59:19.039><c> issue</c>

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or<00:59:19.440><c> the</c><00:59:19.579><c> following</c><00:59:19.860><c> because</c><00:59:20.139><c> it</c><00:59:20.280><c> was</c><00:59:21.119><c> there.</c>

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And<00:59:22.000><c> I'll</c><00:59:22.139><c> tell</c><00:59:22.239><c> you</c><00:59:22.320><c> something</c><00:59:22.579><c> else,</c><00:59:22.900><c> they're</c><00:59:23.119><c> not</c><00:59:23.340><c> going</c>

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to<00:59:23.579><c> get</c><00:59:23.699><c> away</c><00:59:23.940><c> from</c><00:59:24.179><c> it.</c>

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It's<00:59:24.719><c> going</c><00:59:24.860><c> to</c><00:59:24.980><c> be</c><00:59:25.119><c> in</c><00:59:25.219><c> the</c><00:59:25.460><c> schools.</c>

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And<00:59:26.659><c> there</c><00:59:26.880><c> is</c><00:59:27.019><c> stuff</c><00:59:27.280><c> shown</c><00:59:27.579><c> in</c><00:59:27.780><c> the</c><00:59:28.039><c> school</c><00:59:28.179><c> where</c><00:59:28.440><c> I</c><00:59:28.760><c> taught</c>

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that<00:59:29.699><c> I</c><00:59:30.019><c> wouldn't</c><00:59:30.340><c> show</c><00:59:30.860><c> to</c><00:59:31.340><c> anybody.</c>

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Chainsaw<00:59:34.280><c> massacres</c><00:59:34.760><c> and</c><00:59:35.039><c> stuff</c><00:59:35.239><c> like</c><00:59:35.519><c> that.</c>

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I<00:59:35.739><c> mean,</c><00:59:35.940><c> you</c><00:59:36.099><c> wouldn't</c><00:59:36.420><c> believe</c><00:59:37.119><c> the</c><00:59:37.920><c> trash</c><00:59:38.500><c> that</c><00:59:38.719><c> gets</c><00:59:38.960><c> shown</c><00:59:39.500><c> sometimes</c><00:59:40.199><c> in</c><00:59:40.480><c> schools.</c>

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Oh,<00:59:41.320><c> you</c><00:59:41.559><c> dress</c><00:59:41.739><c> it</c><00:59:41.940><c> up.</c><00:59:42.119><c> It's</c><00:59:42.380><c> an</c><00:59:42.500><c> English</c><00:59:42.840><c> lesson.</c>

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We<00:59:44.219><c> show</c><00:59:44.380><c> the</c><00:59:44.679><c> sigma,</c><00:59:45.019><c> you</c><00:59:45.320><c> see.</c>

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And<00:59:46.539><c> there's</c><00:59:46.679><c> all</c><00:59:46.900><c> this</c><00:59:47.119><c> kind</c><00:59:47.340><c> of</c><00:59:47.500><c> stuff.</c>

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And<00:59:48.739><c> now</c><00:59:49.199><c> let's</c><00:59:49.480><c> discuss</c><00:59:49.880><c> it.</c>

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It<00:59:50.659><c> won't</c><00:59:50.920><c> be</c><00:59:51.219><c> in</c><00:59:51.340><c> all</c><00:59:51.519><c> schools.</c>

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And<00:59:52.260><c> I</c><00:59:52.480><c> hope</c><00:59:52.659><c> that</c><00:59:52.860><c> it's</c><00:59:52.940><c> not</c><00:59:53.139><c> in</c><00:59:53.280><c> South</c><00:59:53.519><c> African</c><00:59:53.840><c> schools.</c>

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But<00:59:55.420><c> I</c><00:59:55.619><c> promise</c><00:59:55.800><c> you</c><00:59:55.940><c> it's</c><00:59:56.119><c> in</c><00:59:56.300><c> schools</c><00:59:56.539><c> in</c><00:59:56.699><c> New</c><00:59:56.860><c> Zealand</c><00:59:57.039><c> because</c><00:59:57.280><c> I've</c>

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seen<00:59:57.579><c> it</c><00:59:57.699><c> with</c><00:59:57.800><c> my</c><00:59:58.000><c> own</c><00:59:58.199><c> eyes.</c>

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And<00:59:59.980><c> so,</c><01:00:00.780><c> yeah,</c><01:00:02.579><c> they</c><01:00:02.780><c> will</c><01:00:02.980><c> see</c><01:00:03.139><c> it.</c>

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So<01:00:03.880><c> there</c><01:00:04.760><c> is</c><01:00:05.019><c> some</c><01:00:05.739><c> point</c><01:00:05.980><c> in</c><01:00:06.480><c> maybe</c><01:00:06.900><c> regulating.</c>

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Perhaps<01:00:08.119><c> I've</c><01:00:08.280><c> gone</c><01:00:08.380><c> on</c><01:00:08.579><c> too</c><01:00:08.780><c> long.</c><01:00:09.199><c> I</c><01:00:09.400><c> will</c><01:00:09.639><c> stop.</c>

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Question<01:00:10.900><c> of</c><01:00:11.199><c> discipline</c><01:00:11.519><c> will</c><01:00:11.760><c> be</c><01:00:11.940><c> something</c><01:00:12.199><c> which</c><01:00:12.460><c> we'll</c>

01:00:12.679 --> 01:00:14.920
have<01:00:12.820><c> to</c><01:00:13.039><c> do</c><01:00:13.820><c> in</c><01:00:14.059><c> a</c><01:00:14.059><c> private</c><01:00:14.400><c> discussion.</c>

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Thanks<01:00:15.659><c> for</c><01:00:15.800><c> your</c><01:00:15.940><c> patience.</c>