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good</c><00:18:38.339><c> and</c><00:18:38.559><c> loud,</c><00:18:38.740><c> please?</c> 00:18:48.099 --> 00:18:51.799 Great.<00:18:50.099><c> Would</c><00:18:50.119><c> you</c><00:18:50.259><c> read</c><00:18:50.420><c> it</c><00:18:50.599><c> again</c><00:18:50.839><c> for</c><00:18:51.079><c> us,</c><00:18:51.279><c> please?</c><00:18:51.420><c> That's</c> 00:18:51.799 --> 00:18:52.700 really<00:18:52.119><c> quite</c><00:18:52.380><c> clear,</c> 00:18:52.700 --> 00:18:55.299 though<00:18:52.880><c> it</c><00:18:52.960><c> adds</c><00:18:53.180><c> a</c><00:18:53.259><c> few</c><00:18:53.420><c> words</c><00:18:53.619><c> to</c><00:18:53.799><c> the</c><00:18:53.920><c> King</c><00:18:54.099><c> James.</c><00:18:54.259><c> Say</c><00:18:54.420><c> it</c><00:18:54.559><c> again.</c> 00:19:03.920 --> 00:19:08.940 Don't<00:19:04.400><c> think</c><00:19:04.839><c> about,</c><00:19:05.500><c> play</c><00:19:05.799><c> with,</c><00:19:06.500><c> consider</c><00:19:07.000><c> 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lusts</c><00:19:23.140><c> thereof.</c> 00:19:25.000 --> 00:19:28.940 Now,<00:19:25.099><c> what</c><00:19:25.200><c> does</c><00:19:25.319><c> that</c><00:19:25.539><c> mean</c><00:19:25.640><c> in</c><00:19:25.859><c> practical</c><00:19:26.259><c> terms?</c><00:19:27.880><c> If</c><00:19:28.059><c> you're</c><00:19:28.559><c> in</c> 00:19:28.940 --> 00:19:30.420 the<00:19:29.180><c> house</c><00:19:29.460><c> with</c><00:19:29.660><c> somebody</c><00:19:29.980><c> else,</c> 00:19:30.519 --> 00:19:35.240 the<00:19:30.700><c> opposite</c><00:19:31.119><c> sex,</c><00:19:32.599><c> somebody</c><00:19:32.859><c> that</c><00:19:33.019><c> you</c><00:19:33.220><c> already</c><00:19:33.539><c> have</c><00:19:33.700><c> a</c><00:19:33.900><c> relationship</c><00:19:34.339><c> with,</c><00:19:35.180><c> a</c> 00:19:35.240 --> 00:19:36.160 friendship<00:19:35.559><c> with,</c> 00:19:36.160 --> 00:19:40.259 mom<00:19:36.900><c> and</c><00:19:37.119><c> dad</c><00:19:37.240><c> 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of</c><00:26:40.259><c> Peter,</c><00:26:40.740><c> chapter</c><00:26:40.880><c> three,</c><00:26:41.720><c> verses</c><00:26:42.319><c> one</c><00:26:43.079><c> to</c><00:26:43.299><c> three.</c><00:26:46.099><c> Now</c><00:26:46.319><c> let's</c><00:26:46.539><c> see,</c><00:26:46.700><c> can</c><00:26:46.859><c> I</c> 00:26:46.960 --> 00:26:48.319 have<00:26:47.640><c> one</c><00:26:48.000><c> of</c><00:26:48.119><c> the</c><00:26:48.180><c> young,</c> 00:26:48.319 --> 00:26:52.140 people<00:26:49.059><c> read</c><00:26:49.420><c> this</c><00:26:49.680><c> please?</c><00:26:50.720><c> Let's</c><00:26:50.779><c> see,</c><00:26:51.059><c> got</c><00:26:51.180><c> a</c><00:26:51.299><c> volunteer?</c> 00:26:52.759 --> 00:26:56.079 Anybody?<00:26:53.819><c> Okay,</c><00:26:54.339><c> Seth,</c><00:26:54.740><c> thanks.</c><00:26:55.619><c> First</c><00:26:55.779><c> of</c><00:26:55.920><c> Peter,</c> 00:26:56.140 --> 00:26:57.460 three,<00:26:56.339><c> one</c><00:26:56.460><c> 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he</c><00:28:26.980><c> chooses</c><00:28:27.259><c> to</c><00:28:27.519><c> use</c><00:28:27.700><c> here.</c><00:28:29.259><c> Who's</c> 00:28:29.740 --> 00:28:32.680 cosmetic,<00:28:30.599><c> who's</c><00:28:30.920><c> adorning,</c><00:28:31.420><c> it's</c><00:28:31.740><c> external.</c> 00:28:32.859 --> 00:28:38.119 Let<00:28:32.980><c> it</c><00:28:33.200><c> not</c><00:28:33.400><c> be</c><00:28:33.599><c> that</c><00:28:33.799><c> outward</c><00:28:34.180><c> adorning</c><00:28:34.619><c> of</c><00:28:34.779><c> the</c><00:28:34.960><c> plating</c><00:28:35.200><c> the</c><00:28:35.460><c> hair,</c><00:28:35.920><c> which</c><00:28:36.279><c> Roman</c><00:28:36.579><c> women</c><00:28:36.859><c> did</c><00:28:37.099><c> a</c><00:28:37.319><c> lot.</c> 00:28:38.279 --> 00:28:40.880 They<00:28:38.579><c> teared</c><00:28:38.900><c> it</c><00:28:39.119><c> and</c><00:28:39.220><c> they</c><00:28:39.380><c> had</c><00:28:39.539><c> all</c><00:28:39.859><c> 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even</c><00:28:51.519><c> the</c><00:28:51.819><c> ornament</c><00:28:52.220><c> of</c><00:28:52.559><c> a</c> 00:28:52.759 --> 00:28:54.000 meek<00:28:52.980><c> and</c><00:28:53.240><c> quiet</c><00:28:53.539><c> spirit,</c> 00:28:54.220 --> 00:28:59.839 which<00:28:54.420><c> in</c><00:28:54.599><c> the</c><00:28:54.700><c> sight</c><00:28:54.819><c> of</c><00:28:55.000><c> God</c><00:28:55.140><c> is</c><00:28:55.339><c> of</c><00:28:55.480><c> great</c><00:28:55.680><c> price.</c><00:28:57.259><c> See,</c><00:28:58.059><c> scripture</c><00:28:58.460><c> is</c> 00:28:59.839 --> 00:29:01.839 concerned<00:29:00.500><c> about</c><00:29:00.819><c> clothing.</c> 00:29:02.640 --> 00:29:06.099 It's<00:29:02.799><c> not</c><00:29:03.200><c> saying</c><00:29:03.440><c> you</c><00:29:03.579><c> can</c><00:29:03.880><c> judge</c><00:29:04.160><c> a</c><00:29:04.380><c> book</c><00:29:04.519><c> by</c><00:29:04.819><c> its</c><00:29:05.099><c> cover,</c><00:29:05.920><c> as</c> 00:29:06.099 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our</c><00:36:45.559><c> friends</c><00:36:45.820><c> at</c><00:36:46.079><c> school,</c> 00:36:47.599 --> 00:36:51.900 we<00:36:47.699><c> do</c><00:36:48.099><c> have</c><00:36:48.460><c> to</c><00:36:48.699><c> have</c><00:36:48.880><c> a</c><00:36:49.079><c> healthy</c><00:36:49.380><c> sense</c><00:36:49.679><c> of</c><00:36:49.980><c> caution.</c><00:36:51.579><c> Most</c> 00:36:51.900 --> 00:36:54.599 of<00:36:52.099><c> those</c><00:36:52.300><c> kids</c><00:36:52.739><c> get</c><00:36:53.139><c> their</c><00:36:53.420><c> values</c><00:36:54.019><c> from</c><00:36:54.280><c> their</c> 00:36:54.599 --> 00:37:01.039 friends,<00:36:55.219><c> not</c><00:36:55.500><c> their</c><00:36:55.780><c> parents.</c><00:36:57.659><c> We</c><00:36:57.940><c> get</c><00:36:58.119><c> our</c><00:36:58.320><c> values</c><00:36:58.639><c> from</c><00:36:58.820><c> the</c><00:36:59.000><c> Bible,</c><00:36:59.940><c> and</c><00:37:00.039><c> hopefully</c><00:37:00.380><c> they're</c><00:37:00.619><c> given</c><00:37:00.840><c> to</c> 00:37:01.039 --> 00:37:04.019 us<00:37:01.280><c> from</c><00:37:01.480><c> our</c><00:37:01.719><c> parents</c><00:37:01.980><c> if</c><00:37:02.159><c> our</c><00:37:02.400><c> parents</c><00:37:02.619><c> are</c><00:37:02.800><c> in</c><00:37:02.860><c> the</c><00:37:03.099><c> truth.</c> 00:37:05.159 --> 00:37:07.559 It's<00:37:05.519><c> easy</c><00:37:05.880><c> to</c><00:37:06.099><c> be</c><00:37:06.360><c> swayed</c><00:37:06.639><c> by</c><00:37:06.820><c> our</c><00:37:07.079><c> friends</c><00:37:07.280><c> at</c> 00:37:07.559 --> 00:37:10.159 school<00:37:08.139><c> to</c><00:37:08.139><c> go</c><00:37:08.460><c> somewhere</c><00:37:08.780><c> to</c><00:37:09.019><c> do</c><00:37:09.280><c> something</c><00:37:09.619><c> that</c><00:37:09.800><c> perhaps</c> 00:37:10.159 --> 00:37:12.280 we<00:37:10.400><c> shouldn't.</c><00:37:11.420><c> But</c><00:37:11.559><c> you</c><00:37:11.659><c> ever</c><00:37:11.820><c> thought</c><00:37:12.059><c> about</c> 00:37:12.280 --> 00:37:16.820 it?<00:37:12.920><c> Most</c><00:37:13.260><c> of</c><00:37:13.480><c> those</c><00:37:13.679><c> kids</c><00:37:14.059><c> have</c><00:37:14.719><c> values</c><00:37:15.340><c> that</c><00:37:15.719><c> are</c><00:37:16.059><c> shaped</c><00:37:16.420><c> by</c> 00:37:16.820 --> 00:37:20.039 their<00:37:17.179><c> friends,</c><00:37:18.239><c> by</c><00:37:18.440><c> the</c><00:37:18.679><c> media,</c><00:37:19.639><c> and</c><00:37:19.800><c> not</c> 00:37:20.039 --> 00:37:24.400 by<00:37:20.380><c> adults,</c><00:37:21.300><c> not</c><00:37:21.579><c> by</c><00:37:21.840><c> people</c><00:37:22.099><c> who</c><00:37:22.320><c> have</c><00:37:22.460><c> some</c><00:37:22.699><c> experience,</c><00:37:23.880><c> not</c><00:37:24.099><c> by</c> 00:37:24.400 --> 00:37:27.340 people<00:37:24.619><c> who</c><00:37:24.800><c> are</c><00:37:25.079><c> tuned</c><00:37:25.739><c> into</c><00:37:26.340><c> the</c><00:37:26.539><c> world.</c> 00:37:28.000 --> 00:37:32.179 Not<00:37:28.440><c> by</c><00:37:28.739><c> people</c><00:37:29.000><c> who</c><00:37:29.139><c> are</c><00:37:29.420><c> tuned</c><00:37:29.659><c> into</c><00:37:30.000><c> the</c><00:37:30.199><c> word</c><00:37:30.400><c> itself.</c><00:37:32.019><c> So</c> 00:37:32.179 --> 00:37:35.280 that's<00:37:32.340><c> an</c><00:37:32.579><c> important</c><00:37:32.900><c> caution.</c><00:37:34.219><c> Most</c><00:37:34.519><c> people</c><00:37:34.960><c> at</c> 00:37:35.280 --> 00:37:38.460 school<00:37:35.599><c> have</c><00:37:35.880><c> their</c><00:37:36.139><c> values</c><00:37:36.559><c> shaped</c><00:37:36.960><c> by</c><00:37:37.199><c> their</c><00:37:37.460><c> friends,</c><00:37:38.300><c> and</c> 00:37:38.460 --> 00:37:40.840 that's<00:37:38.679><c> the</c><00:37:38.800><c> most</c><00:37:39.119><c> important</c><00:37:39.500><c> source</c><00:37:39.820><c> to</c><00:37:40.019><c> them.</c> 00:37:42.699 --> 00:37:46.280 Proverbs<00:37:42.940><c> says</c><00:37:43.239><c> a</c><00:37:43.400><c> fair</c><00:37:43.559><c> amount</c><00:37:44.000><c> about</c><00:37:44.699><c> how</c><00:37:45.739><c> to</c><00:37:45.880><c> look</c><00:37:46.099><c> for</c> 00:37:46.280 --> 00:37:47.559 good<00:37:46.500><c> friends.</c> 00:37:49.800 --> 00:37:52.079 You<00:37:49.960><c> have</c><00:37:50.159><c> that</c><00:37:51.219><c> booklet,</c> 00:37:54.820 --> 00:38:03.320 page<00:37:55.119><c> five.</c><00:37:58.739><c> It's</c><00:37:58.900><c> rather</c><00:37:59.079><c> interesting</c><00:37:59.659><c> to</c><00:37:59.960><c> see</c><00:38:00.519><c> what</c><00:38:01.219><c> Proverbs</c><00:38:01.659><c> has</c><00:38:01.960><c> to</c><00:38:02.239><c> say</c> 00:38:04.340 --> 00:38:07.800 about<00:38:04.980><c> friendships,</c><00:38:05.940><c> how</c><00:38:06.179><c> to</c><00:38:06.380><c> keep</c><00:38:06.619><c> friendships,</c> 00:38:08.880 --> 00:38:15.699 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neighbor,</c><00:38:25.500><c> the</c><00:38:25.639><c> good</c><00:38:25.900><c> friend.</c><00:38:28.000><c> Both</c><00:38:28.360><c> terms</c> 00:38:28.699 --> 00:38:31.179 are<00:38:28.980><c> used</c><00:38:29.219><c> in</c><00:38:29.519><c> Proverbs,</c><00:38:29.980><c> the</c><00:38:30.179><c> neighbor</c><00:38:30.539><c> and</c><00:38:30.940><c> the</c> 00:38:31.179 --> 00:38:36.940 friend.<00:38:32.440><c> I</c><00:38:32.880><c> want</c><00:38:33.039><c> to</c><00:38:33.079><c> go</c><00:38:33.199><c> down</c><00:38:33.400><c> to</c><00:38:33.579><c> section</c><00:38:33.840><c> B</c><00:38:34.599><c> and</c><00:38:35.119><c> just</c><00:38:35.460><c> sample</c><00:38:35.960><c> what</c> 00:38:36.940 --> 00:38:39.440 these<00:38:37.360><c> passages</c><00:38:37.820><c> say</c><00:38:38.320><c> about</c><00:38:38.820><c> the</c><00:38:39.179><c> good</c> 00:38:39.440 --> 00:38:43.760 friend,<00:38:40.780><c> how</c><00:38:41.019><c> to</c><00:38:41.219><c> be</c><00:38:41.360><c> a</c><00:38:41.500><c> good</c><00:38:41.719><c> friend,</c><00:38:42.519><c> what</c><00:38:42.719><c> to</c><00:38:42.940><c> look</c><00:38:43.159><c> for</c><00:38:43.559><c> in</c> 00:38:43.760 --> 00:38:47.920 a<00:38:43.900><c> good</c><00:38:44.099><c> friend.</c><00:38:45.559><c> All</c><00:38:45.639><c> right,</c><00:38:45.940><c> Proverbs</c><00:38:46.219><c> chapter</c><00:38:46.559><c> 14.</c> 00:38:58.579 --> 00:39:01.360 Proverbs<00:38:59.179><c> 14</c><00:38:59.780><c> verse</c><00:39:00.480><c> 20.</c> 00:39:11.260 --> 00:39:15.480 Somebody<00:39:11.860><c> read</c><00:39:12.039><c> that</c><00:39:12.300><c> for</c><00:39:12.440><c> us,</c><00:39:12.719><c> volunteer.</c><00:39:14.139><c> Proverbs</c><00:39:14.440><c> 14</c><00:39:14.940><c> verse</c><00:39:15.159><c> 20,</c> 00:39:15.639 --> 00:39:17.400 same<00:39:15.860><c> hands</c><00:39:16.159><c> all</c><00:39:16.380><c> the</c><00:39:16.539><c> time.</c><00:39:16.780><c> Come</c><00:39:16.960><c> on.</c> 00:39:17.420 --> 00:39:25.940 Back<00:39:17.420><c> in</c><00:39:18.119><c> here.</c><00:39:19.099><c> Somebody</c><00:39:19.320><c> up</c><00:39:19.480><c> there?</c><00:39:20.719><c> Proverbs</c><00:39:20.960><c> 14</c><00:39:21.500><c> verse</c><00:39:21.780><c> 20.</c><00:39:23.340><c> All</c><00:39:23.519><c> right,</c><00:39:23.659><c> haven't</c><00:39:23.920><c> seen</c><00:39:24.039><c> you</c><00:39:24.199><c> before.</c><00:39:24.579><c> Great,</c><00:39:25.019><c> go</c><00:39:25.159><c> ahead.</c> 00:39:32.500 --> 00:39:35.199 The<00:39:32.699><c> rich</c><00:39:32.960><c> hath</c><00:39:33.239><c> many</c><00:39:33.559><c> friends.</c><00:39:34.179><c> You</c><00:39:34.239><c> know,</c><00:39:34.360><c> that</c><00:39:34.679><c> states</c><00:39:34.880><c> an</c> 00:39:35.199 --> 00:39:36.579 important<00:39:35.539><c> principle.</c> 00:39:38.159 --> 00:39:42.539 People<00:39:38.440><c> who</c><00:39:38.760><c> have</c><00:39:39.019><c> money</c><00:39:39.739><c> will</c><00:39:40.780><c> think</c><00:39:41.000><c> they</c><00:39:41.260><c> have</c><00:39:41.480><c> friends,</c> 00:39:43.000 --> 00:39:45.699 but<00:39:43.400><c> it's</c><00:39:43.940><c> true</c><00:39:44.219><c> not</c><00:39:44.440><c> only</c><00:39:44.659><c> of</c><00:39:44.840><c> money.</c> 00:39:45.840 --> 00:39:50.139 People<00:39:46.239><c> that</c><00:39:46.400><c> have</c><00:39:46.659><c> got</c><00:39:46.900><c> a</c><00:39:47.159><c> nice</c><00:39:47.480><c> house,</c><00:39:48.519><c> a</c><00:39:48.599><c> swimming</c><00:39:48.820><c> pool,</c><00:39:50.019><c> a</c> 00:39:50.139 --> 00:39:52.800 cottage,<00:39:50.679><c> a</c><00:39:50.760><c> resort,</c><00:39:51.960><c> certain</c><00:39:52.139><c> things</c><00:39:52.539><c> that</c> 00:39:52.800 --> 00:40:00.500 other<00:39:53.079><c> people</c><00:39:53.360><c> like</c><00:39:53.659><c> to</c><00:39:54.019><c> participate</c><00:39:54.519><c> in</c><00:39:55.340><c> will</c><00:39:55.760><c> often</c><00:39:56.079><c> be</c><00:39:56.360><c> people</c><00:39:56.780><c> that</c><00:39:57.679><c> will</c><00:39:58.000><c> think</c><00:39:58.239><c> they</c><00:39:58.619><c> have</c><00:39:59.099><c> lots</c><00:39:59.440><c> of</c><00:39:59.659><c> friends.</c> 00:40:01.280 --> 00:40:03.780 People<00:40:01.519><c> who</c><00:40:01.780><c> are</c><00:40:01.940><c> in</c><00:40:02.079><c> positions</c><00:40:02.440><c> like</c><00:40:02.739><c> that</c><00:40:03.000><c> often</c><00:40:03.340><c> gather</c> 00:40:03.780 --> 00:40:05.119 friends<00:40:04.119><c> easily.</c> 00:40:05.739 --> 00:40:10.480 People<00:40:06.039><c> at</c><00:40:06.280><c> Bible</c><00:40:06.639><c> school</c><00:40:07.079><c> that</c><00:40:07.420><c> come</c><00:40:07.639><c> from</c><00:40:07.900><c> well</c><00:40:08.099><c>-to</c><00:40:08.280><c>-do</c><00:40:08.380><c> families,</c><00:40:09.719><c> nothing</c><00:40:09.920><c> wrong</c><00:40:10.219><c> with</c> 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that</c><00:40:23.519><c> either.</c> 00:40:24.079 --> 00:40:29.880 If<00:40:24.199><c> they've</c><00:40:24.380><c> got</c><00:40:24.500><c> the</c><00:40:24.679><c> money,</c><00:40:25.440><c> nothing</c><00:40:25.619><c> wrong</c><00:40:25.880><c> at</c><00:40:26.099><c> all,</c><00:40:27.039><c> but</c><00:40:27.840><c> there</c><00:40:29.320><c> is</c><00:40:29.599><c> a</c> 00:40:29.880 --> 00:40:32.699 potential<00:40:30.440><c> pressure</c><00:40:31.300><c> with</c><00:40:31.559><c> that</c><00:40:31.820><c> problem.</c> 00:40:33.679 --> 00:40:37.360 People<00:40:34.000><c> who</c><00:40:34.320><c> are</c><00:40:34.559><c> blessed</c><00:40:35.000><c> with</c><00:40:35.480><c> money,</c><00:40:36.539><c> possessions,</c><00:40:37.219><c> and</c> 00:40:37.360 --> 00:40:40.719 so<00:40:37.579><c> on,</c><00:40:38.860><c> may</c><00:40:39.019><c> very</c><00:40:39.360><c> well</c><00:40:39.619><c> use</c><00:40:39.820><c> it</c><00:40:40.019><c> very</c><00:40:40.320><c> wisely.</c> 00:40:40.719 --> 00:40:45.199 Again,<00:40:41.860><c> scripture</c><00:40:42.280><c> makes</c><00:40:42.699><c> no</c><00:40:43.539><c> injunction</c><00:40:44.099><c> against</c><00:40:44.539><c> that</c><00:40:45.000><c> at</c> 00:40:45.199 --> 00:40:48.559 all,<00:40:45.699><c> but</c><00:40:46.260><c> it</c><00:40:46.420><c> is</c><00:40:46.719><c> possible</c><00:40:47.219><c> if</c><00:40:47.440><c> we're</c><00:40:47.659><c> from</c><00:40:47.820><c> a</c><00:40:48.059><c> family</c> 00:40:48.559 --> 00:40:54.739 that<00:40:49.199><c> is</c><00:40:49.400><c> well</c><00:40:49.699><c> blessed</c><00:40:49.960><c> that</c><00:40:50.300><c> way</c><00:40:50.639><c> to</c><00:40:50.980><c> misuse</c><00:40:51.780><c> those</c><00:40:52.280><c> possessions,</c><00:40:53.659><c> to</c><00:40:54.079><c> flash</c><00:40:54.400><c> the</c> 00:40:54.739 --> 00:40:57.159 clothes,<00:40:55.559><c> the</c><00:40:55.840><c> name</c><00:40:56.079><c> brands,</c> 00:40:57.559 --> 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I've<00:41:10.920><c> seen</c><00:41:11.159><c> young</c><00:41:11.440><c> people,</c><00:41:11.900><c> I'm</c><00:41:12.320><c> quite</c><00:41:12.619><c> sure,</c><00:41:13.199><c> that</c><00:41:13.199><c> have</c><00:41:13.519><c> misused</c><00:41:14.219><c> some</c><00:41:14.500><c> of</c> 00:41:14.619 --> 00:41:16.000 those<00:41:14.780><c> blessings</c><00:41:15.239><c> that</c><00:41:15.500><c> their</c><00:41:15.659><c> family</c> 00:41:16.000 --> 00:41:20.420 has<00:41:16.639><c> and</c><00:41:17.659><c> think</c><00:41:17.940><c> they</c><00:41:18.139><c> have</c><00:41:18.400><c> friends</c><00:41:18.800><c> and</c><00:41:19.019><c> discover</c><00:41:19.460><c> that</c><00:41:19.599><c> they</c><00:41:19.699><c> don't</c><00:41:19.900><c> last</c><00:41:20.219><c> for</c> 00:41:20.420 --> 00:41:23.500 very<00:41:20.699><c> long.</c><00:41:22.980><c> Proverbs</c><00:41:23.079><c> has</c><00:41:23.280><c> got</c><00:41:23.400><c> a</c> 00:41:23.500 --> 00:41:27.559 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just</c><00:41:37.760><c> one</c><00:41:37.920><c> more</c><00:41:38.139><c> passage</c><00:41:38.539><c> and</c><00:41:38.659><c> then</c><00:41:38.760><c> we'll</c><00:41:38.920><c> finish.</c><00:41:40.280><c> Come</c><00:41:40.380><c> back</c><00:41:40.579><c> to</c> 00:41:40.679 --> 00:41:43.340 this<00:41:40.840><c> tomorrow.</c><00:41:42.239><c> Proverbs</c> 00:41:43.420 --> 00:41:56.579 chapter<00:41:43.920><c> 19.</c><00:41:49.699><c> Proverbs</c><00:41:50.179><c> 19</c><00:41:50.860><c> verse</c><00:41:51.440><c> 4,</c><00:41:52.760><c> 6,</c><00:41:53.699><c> and</c><00:41:53.880><c> 7.</c><00:41:56.000><c> Same</c><00:41:56.260><c> point</c> 00:41:56.579 --> 00:41:58.900 as<00:41:56.760><c> being</c><00:41:57.000><c> made.</c><00:41:57.579><c> Obviously,</c><00:41:58.059><c> God</c><00:41:58.360><c> sees</c><00:41:58.659><c> it</c><00:41:58.800><c> to</c> 00:41:58.900 --> 00:42:06.840 be<00:41:58.900><c> a</c><00:41:59.079><c> common</c><00:41:59.420><c> problem.</c><00:42:01.280><c> Proverbs</c><00:42:01.500><c> 19</c><00:42:02.480><c> verse</c><00:42:03.119><c> 4,</c><00:42:05.280><c> wealth</c><00:42:05.739><c> maketh</c><00:42:06.460><c> many</c> 00:42:06.840 --> 00:42:10.260 friends,<00:42:08.440><c> but</c><00:42:08.639><c> the</c><00:42:08.980><c> poor</c><00:42:09.280><c> is</c><00:42:09.780><c> separated</c> 00:42:10.260 --> 00:42:15.840 from<00:42:10.800><c> his</c><00:42:11.159><c> neighbor.</c><00:42:12.500><c> Verse</c><00:42:12.719><c> 6,</c><00:42:14.079><c> many</c><00:42:14.380><c> will</c><00:42:14.659><c> entreat</c><00:42:15.079><c> the</c><00:42:15.380><c> favor</c><00:42:15.639><c> of</c> 00:42:15.840 --> 00:42:18.340 the<00:42:16.059><c> prince,</c><00:42:16.880><c> the</c><00:42:17.039><c> guy</c><00:42:17.239><c> who's</c><00:42:17.460><c> got</c><00:42:17.639><c> status,</c> 00:42:18.719 --> 00:42:22.760 and<00:42:19.000><c> every</c><00:42:19.239><c> man</c><00:42:19.420><c> is</c><00:42:19.619><c> a</c><00:42:19.840><c> friend</c><00:42:20.260><c> to</c><00:42:20.880><c> him</c><00:42:21.159><c> that</c><00:42:21.420><c> gives</c><00:42:21.679><c> gifts,</c> 00:42:22.900 --> 00:42:25.699 and<00:42:23.119><c> that</c><00:42:23.300><c> can</c><00:42:23.519><c> happen</c><00:42:23.800><c> amongst</c><00:42:24.119><c> young</c><00:42:24.360><c> people</c><00:42:24.679><c> too.</c> 00:42:25.920 --> 00:42:30.840 And<00:42:26.280><c> verse</c><00:42:26.460><c> 7,</c><00:42:27.940><c> all</c><00:42:27.940><c> the</c><00:42:28.159><c> brethren</c><00:42:28.380><c> of</c><00:42:28.539><c> the</c><00:42:28.739><c> poor</c><00:42:28.920><c> do</c><00:42:29.119><c> hate</c><00:42:29.340><c> him.</c><00:42:30.579><c> How</c> 00:42:30.840 --> 00:42:33.380 much<00:42:31.119><c> more</c><00:42:31.400><c> do</c><00:42:31.539><c> his</c><00:42:31.780><c> friends</c><00:42:32.059><c> go</c><00:42:32.340><c> far</c><00:42:32.719><c> from</c><00:42:32.980><c> him?</c> 00:42:33.719 --> 00:42:37.320 He<00:42:33.880><c> pursueth</c><00:42:34.280><c> them</c><00:42:34.539><c> with</c><00:42:34.820><c> words,</c><00:42:36.059><c> yet</c><00:42:36.159><c> they</c><00:42:36.360><c> are</c><00:42:36.579><c> wanting</c><00:42:36.960><c> to</c> 00:42:37.320 --> 00:42:40.099 him.<00:42:38.559><c> When</c><00:42:38.719><c> we're</c><00:42:38.960><c> blessed</c><00:42:39.239><c> with</c><00:42:39.500><c> possessions,</c> 00:42:40.480 --> 00:42:45.460 use<00:42:40.760><c> them</c><00:42:41.039><c> carefully.</c><00:42:42.519><c> Be</c><00:42:42.739><c> careful</c><00:42:42.900><c> we</c><00:42:43.119><c> don't</c><00:42:43.420><c> flash</c><00:42:43.980><c> our</c><00:42:44.400><c> possessions,</c><00:42:45.239><c> our</c> 00:42:45.460 --> 00:42:47.800 clothes,<00:42:46.840><c> the</c><00:42:47.099><c> family</c><00:42:47.380><c> car,</c> 00:42:47.900 --> 00:42:51.039 what<00:42:48.099><c> you</c><00:42:48.460><c> have</c><00:42:48.699><c> and</c><00:42:48.800><c> what</c><00:42:48.960><c> you're</c><00:42:49.199><c> blessed</c><00:42:49.480><c> with.</c><00:42:50.480><c> Remember,</c> 00:42:51.239 --> 00:42:52.599 there's<00:42:51.420><c> other</c><00:42:51.619><c> young</c><00:42:51.860><c> people</c><00:42:52.139><c> here</c><00:42:52.420><c> who</c> 00:42:52.599 --> 00:42:56.940 don't<00:42:52.820><c> come</c><00:42:53.079><c> from</c><00:42:53.260><c> such</c><00:42:53.480><c> a</c><00:42:53.659><c> wealthy</c><00:42:53.900><c> background.</c><00:42:55.360><c> Perhaps</c><00:42:55.780><c> don't</c><00:42:56.000><c> have</c><00:42:56.239><c> anywhere</c><00:42:56.460><c> near</c><00:42:56.739><c> as</c> 00:42:56.940 --> 00:42:57.719 much<00:42:57.079><c> as</c><00:42:57.340><c> you.</c> 00:42:58.179 --> 00:43:03.940 Perhaps<00:42:58.599><c> are</c><00:42:58.800><c> lucky</c><00:42:59.099><c> just</c><00:42:59.360><c> to</c><00:42:59.500><c> be</c><00:42:59.559><c> at</c><00:42:59.699><c> the</c><00:42:59.900><c> Bible</c><00:43:00.159><c> school,</c><00:43:00.940><c> financially</c><00:43:01.260><c> speaking.</c><00:43:02.820><c> It's</c><00:43:03.119><c> important</c><00:43:03.460><c> to</c><00:43:03.719><c> build</c> 00:43:03.940 --> 00:43:10.019 friendships<00:43:04.500><c> on</c><00:43:04.840><c> the</c><00:43:05.059><c> basis</c><00:43:05.440><c> of</c><00:43:06.619><c> real</c><00:43:07.179><c> quality</c><00:43:08.239><c> characteristics</c><00:43:09.059><c> that</c><00:43:09.539><c> we</c><00:43:09.780><c> find</c> 00:43:10.019 --> 00:43:11.239 in<00:43:10.300><c> people,</c> 00:43:11.300 --> 00:43:14.539 and<00:43:11.420><c> not</c><00:43:11.519><c> on</c><00:43:11.719><c> the</c><00:43:11.860><c> basis</c><00:43:12.119><c> of</c><00:43:12.280><c> what</c><00:43:12.420><c> we</c><00:43:12.639><c> own</c><00:43:12.940><c> or</c><00:43:13.260><c> what</c><00:43:13.460><c> we</c><00:43:13.739><c> wear.</c> 00:43:15.440 --> 00:43:16.519 Thank<00:43:15.760><c> you.</c>