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Yeah.

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Prayer.

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Prayer.

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My<00:13:06.240><c> family,</c><00:13:06.700><c> we</c><00:13:06.919><c> were</c><00:13:07.120><c> raised,</c><00:13:07.559><c> we</c><00:13:07.580><c> go</c><00:13:07.759><c> to</c><00:13:08.039><c> everything.</c>

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Every<00:13:22.019><c> fiber</c><00:13:22.639><c> in</c><00:13:22.860><c> my</c><00:13:23.179><c> body</c><00:13:23.720><c> is</c><00:13:24.379><c> screaming</c><00:13:24.720><c> to</c><00:13:25.039><c> me,</c><00:13:26.279><c> that's</c><00:13:26.600><c> how</c>

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I<00:13:36.620><c> didn't</c><00:13:36.840><c> want</c><00:13:37.059><c> to</c><00:13:37.159><c> have</c><00:13:37.440><c> anything</c><00:13:37.899><c> more,</c><00:13:38.700><c> nothing</c><00:13:39.120><c> is</c><00:13:39.980><c> more</c>

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And<00:13:42.580><c> yet</c><00:13:42.820><c> Jesus</c><00:13:43.200><c> is</c><00:13:43.440><c> saying</c><00:13:44.120><c> unity</c><00:13:45.179><c> is</c><00:13:46.500><c> more</c><00:13:46.840><c> important</c><00:13:47.379><c> than</c><00:13:48.179><c> that.</c>

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Unity<00:13:50.840><c> is</c><00:13:51.039><c> more</c><00:13:51.379><c> important</c><00:13:51.740><c> to</c><00:13:52.039><c> God</c><00:13:52.539><c> than</c><00:13:53.740><c> all</c><00:13:53.980><c> those</c><00:13:54.139><c> other</c>

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things<00:13:54.399><c> we're</c><00:13:54.620><c> talking</c><00:13:54.919><c> about.</c>

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And<00:13:56.519><c> I</c><00:13:56.759><c> just</c><00:13:57.080><c> have</c><00:13:57.500><c> a</c><00:13:57.679><c> hard</c><00:13:57.840><c> time</c><00:13:58.159><c> even</c><00:13:58.519><c> feeling</c><00:13:58.940><c> that,</c><00:14:00.340><c> believing</c><00:14:00.639><c> it,</c>

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and<00:14:01.899><c> doing</c><00:14:02.220><c> it.</c>

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It's<00:14:05.440><c> disturbing.</c>

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Now,<00:14:07.460><c> what</c><00:14:07.659><c> do</c><00:14:07.879><c> you</c><00:14:07.879><c> do</c><00:14:08.019><c> about</c><00:14:08.279><c> that?</c>

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You<00:14:08.700><c> think</c><00:14:08.940><c> of</c><00:14:09.179><c> Simi</c><00:14:09.519><c> Hills</c><00:14:09.720><c> Ecclesia.</c>

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When<00:14:12.139><c> we</c><00:14:12.299><c> get</c><00:14:12.539><c> together</c><00:14:12.840><c> as</c><00:14:13.100><c> an</c><00:14:13.240><c> arranging</c><00:14:13.580><c> board,</c><00:14:14.820><c> we</c><00:14:15.019><c> talk</c>

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how's<00:14:19.100><c> our</c><00:14:19.279><c> people</c><00:14:19.559><c> reading</c><00:14:19.740><c> the</c><00:14:20.000><c> Bible,</c><00:14:20.259><c> our</c><00:14:20.460><c> people</c><00:14:20.799><c> going</c>

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to<00:14:21.360><c> Bible</c><00:14:21.600><c> school,</c>

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how<00:14:22.379><c> are</c><00:14:22.879><c> involved,</c><00:14:23.440><c> engaged,</c><00:14:24.000><c> our</c><00:14:24.220><c> people.</c>

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But<00:14:25.879><c> do</c><00:14:26.000><c> we</c><00:14:26.220><c> talk</c><00:14:26.480><c> about,</c><00:14:27.519><c> this</c><00:14:27.720><c> brother</c><00:14:28.299><c> won't</c><00:14:28.639><c> talk</c><00:14:28.919><c> to</c><00:14:29.100><c> this</c>

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He<00:14:31.039><c> sits</c><00:14:31.340><c> on</c><00:14:31.519><c> the</c><00:14:31.679><c> right</c><00:14:31.919><c> side,</c><00:14:32.220><c> they</c><00:14:32.440><c> sit</c><00:14:32.639><c> on</c><00:14:32.840><c> the</c><00:14:32.960><c> left.</c>

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If<00:14:33.799><c> there's</c><00:14:34.059><c> a</c><00:14:34.240><c> study</c><00:14:34.460><c> weekend,</c><00:14:35.559><c> if</c><00:14:35.740><c> they</c><00:14:35.899><c> know</c><00:14:36.139><c> they're</c><00:14:36.460><c> going</c><00:14:36.639><c> to</c>

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it,<00:14:37.059><c> then</c><00:14:37.240><c> they</c><00:14:37.399><c> won't</c><00:14:37.600><c> go</c><00:14:37.799><c> to</c><00:14:37.980><c> it.</c>

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It's<00:14:40.519><c> kind</c><00:14:40.659><c> of</c><00:14:40.879><c> actually</c><00:14:41.139><c> pre</c><00:14:41.399><c>-arranged</c><00:14:41.759><c> almost.</c>

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If<00:14:42.419><c> they</c><00:14:42.580><c> go</c><00:14:42.759><c> here,</c><00:14:43.039><c> they're</c><00:14:43.240><c> going</c><00:14:43.419><c> to</c><00:14:43.480><c> go</c><00:14:43.679><c> there.</c>

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If<00:14:44.120><c> they</c><00:14:44.200><c> go</c><00:14:44.379><c> to</c><00:14:44.600><c> Idlewild,</c><00:14:45.100><c> they'll</c><00:14:45.360><c> go</c><00:14:45.600><c> to</c><00:14:47.080><c> another</c><00:14:47.500><c> Bible,</c>

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Texas<00:14:48.320><c> Bible</c><00:14:48.759><c> school.</c>

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It's<00:14:49.620><c> all</c><00:14:49.820><c> kind</c><00:14:50.100><c> of</c><00:14:50.860><c> floating</c><00:14:51.139><c> around</c><00:14:51.539><c> here</c><00:14:51.759><c> and</c><00:14:51.860><c> we</c><00:14:52.080><c> all</c><00:14:52.279><c> kind</c>

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Do<00:14:55.840><c> you</c><00:14:55.980><c> think</c><00:14:56.179><c> like</c><00:14:56.440><c> we</c><00:14:56.580><c> don't,</c><00:14:56.919><c> like</c><00:14:57.100><c> we're,</c><00:14:59.279><c> we</c><00:14:59.620><c> do.</c>

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We<00:15:01.039><c> do,</c><00:15:01.580><c> and</c><00:15:01.980><c> honestly,</c><00:15:02.379><c> I</c><00:15:02.700><c> have</c><00:15:02.940><c> done</c><00:15:03.159><c> the</c><00:15:03.360><c> same</c><00:15:03.519><c> myself.</c>

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I<00:15:04.159><c> have</c><00:15:04.340><c> been</c><00:15:04.519><c> in</c><00:15:04.740><c> a</c><00:15:04.860><c> situation</c><00:15:05.480><c> where</c><00:15:05.679><c> I'm</c><00:15:05.879><c> kind</c><00:15:06.159><c> of</c><00:15:06.960><c> floating</c>

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No,<00:15:16.779><c> I'm</c><00:15:17.059><c> not</c><00:15:17.220><c> making</c><00:15:17.480><c> this</c><00:15:17.740><c> stuff</c><00:15:17.860><c> up</c><00:15:18.120><c> because</c><00:15:18.460><c> I'm</c><00:15:19.559><c> living</c>

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And<00:15:21.720><c> the</c><00:15:22.600><c> problem</c><00:15:22.879><c> is</c><00:15:23.139><c> he's</c><00:15:23.580><c> saying</c><00:15:23.759><c> in</c><00:15:24.019><c> this</c><00:15:24.279><c> verse,</c><00:15:25.279><c> you</c><00:15:25.399><c> just</c><00:15:25.779><c> don't</c><00:15:26.039><c> keep</c><00:15:26.320><c> on</c>

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Life<00:15:33.240><c> just</c><00:15:33.600><c> keeps</c><00:15:33.799><c> going</c><00:15:34.059><c> the</c><00:15:34.360><c> same.</c>

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Everybody<00:15:35.159><c> just</c><00:15:35.539><c> keeps</c><00:15:35.759><c> doing,</c><00:15:36.600><c> make</c><00:15:36.759><c> sure</c><00:15:37.080><c> there's</c><00:15:37.720><c> an</c>

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exhorting<00:15:38.460><c> brother,</c>

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Everything<00:15:44.740><c> just</c><00:15:45.139><c> flows</c><00:15:45.440><c> along</c><00:15:45.820><c> just</c><00:15:46.179><c> like</c><00:15:46.379><c> it</c><00:15:46.580><c> always</c><00:15:46.919><c> has.</c>

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We've<00:15:50.019><c> set</c><00:15:50.120><c> in</c><00:15:50.279><c> the</c><00:15:50.460><c> bar</c><00:15:50.659><c> too</c><00:15:51.000><c> low.</c>

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If<00:15:53.519><c> you</c><00:15:53.799><c> hired</c><00:15:54.039><c> a</c><00:15:54.360><c> management</c><00:15:54.720><c> consultant,</c><00:15:55.320><c> because</c><00:15:55.460><c> we</c><00:15:55.639><c> know</c>

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it's<00:15:56.879><c> right</c><00:15:57.120><c> there,</c><00:15:57.440><c> Jesus</c><00:15:57.779><c> is</c><00:15:58.000><c> God.</c>

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God<00:15:58.820><c> loves</c><00:16:00.100><c> unity.</c>

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That's<00:16:01.279><c> why</c><00:16:01.360><c> I</c><00:16:01.419><c> read</c><00:16:01.639><c> John</c><00:16:01.980><c> 17.</c>

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It's<00:16:03.360><c> full</c><00:16:03.679><c> of</c><00:16:03.940><c> this,</c><00:16:04.279><c> full</c><00:16:04.639><c> of,</c><00:16:06.139><c> he</c><00:16:06.539><c> craves</c><00:16:07.039><c> it</c><00:16:07.539><c> more</c><00:16:07.919><c> than</c><00:16:08.139><c> I</c><00:16:08.419><c> crave.</c>

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I<00:16:08.720><c> do</c><00:16:08.879><c> not</c><00:16:09.100><c> crave</c><00:16:09.340><c> unity</c><00:16:09.759><c> like</c><00:16:10.100><c> this</c><00:16:10.320><c> at</c><00:16:10.539><c> all.</c>

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God<00:16:11.039><c> craves</c><00:16:11.419><c> it.</c>

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But<00:16:13.220><c> all</c><00:16:13.500><c> through</c><00:16:13.779><c> John</c><00:16:14.100><c> 17,</c><00:16:14.600><c> he's</c><00:16:14.980><c> craving</c><00:16:15.620><c> unity.</c>

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way<00:16:24.820><c> as</c><00:16:25.000><c> we</c><00:16:25.139><c> were</c><00:16:25.279><c> before.</c>

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And<00:16:26.019><c> the</c><00:16:26.240><c> point</c><00:16:26.519><c> of</c><00:16:26.779><c> this</c><00:16:27.000><c> thing</c><00:16:27.120><c> is</c><00:16:27.340><c> it's</c><00:16:27.539><c> so</c><00:16:27.860><c> important</c><00:16:28.139><c> to</c>

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God<00:16:28.440><c> that</c><00:16:28.600><c> it</c><00:16:28.620><c> says,</c>

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break<00:16:29.419><c> the</c><00:16:29.799><c> cycle.</c>

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Do<00:16:34.500><c> not</c><00:16:34.940><c> just</c><00:16:36.039><c> pretend</c><00:16:36.679><c> it's</c><00:16:37.080><c> the</c><00:16:37.240><c> way</c><00:16:37.820><c> you</c><00:16:38.259><c> want</c><00:16:38.460><c> to</c><00:16:38.639><c> be,</c>

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because<00:16:38.940><c> it's</c><00:16:39.179><c> not</c><00:16:39.460><c> the</c><00:16:39.559><c> way</c><00:16:39.679><c> you</c><00:16:39.779><c> want</c><00:16:39.960><c> to</c><00:16:40.139><c> be.</c>

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Stop<00:16:41.399><c> pretending</c><00:16:41.980><c> everything</c><00:16:42.659><c> is</c><00:16:42.919><c> normal,</c><00:16:44.440><c> because</c><00:16:44.620><c> it's</c>

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not<00:16:45.200><c> normal.</c>

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And<00:16:46.320><c> God,</c><00:16:47.440><c> oh,</c><00:16:47.879><c> I</c><00:16:48.059><c> know,</c><00:16:48.240><c> I</c><00:16:48.279><c> was</c><00:16:48.340><c> going</c><00:16:48.460><c> to</c><00:16:48.559><c> say,</c>

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if<00:16:49.120><c> he</c><00:16:49.299><c> were</c><00:16:49.440><c> to</c><00:16:49.620><c> hire</c><00:16:49.799><c> a</c><00:16:49.940><c> management</c><00:16:50.399><c> consultant</c><00:16:50.940><c> to</c><00:16:51.259><c> come</c>

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and<00:16:51.759><c> view</c><00:16:51.960><c> the</c><00:16:52.179><c> Christadelphians,</c>

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because<00:16:53.399><c> we</c><00:16:53.519><c> know</c><00:16:53.620><c> what</c><00:16:53.779><c> God</c><00:16:54.019><c> thinks,</c><00:16:54.340><c> so</c><00:16:54.480><c> somebody</c><00:16:54.759><c> who</c><00:16:55.000><c> kind</c>

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of<00:16:55.320><c> oversees,</c>

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and<00:16:56.299><c> they</c><00:16:56.399><c> were</c><00:16:56.500><c> to</c><00:16:56.600><c> go</c><00:16:56.879><c> around</c><00:16:57.179><c> and</c><00:16:57.399><c> look</c><00:16:57.620><c> and</c><00:16:57.820><c> see</c><00:16:57.919><c> how</c><00:16:58.159><c> we're</c><00:16:58.419><c> operating,</c>

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and<00:16:59.679><c> they'd</c><00:16:59.879><c> say,</c><00:17:00.059><c> well,</c><00:17:00.340><c> Christadelphians,</c><00:17:01.039><c> you</c><00:17:01.179><c> know,</c><00:17:01.299><c> you</c>

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have<00:17:01.419><c> the</c><00:17:01.620><c> bar</c><00:17:01.840><c> set</c><00:17:02.039><c> really</c><00:17:02.379><c> high.</c>

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You<00:17:03.259><c> do</c><00:17:03.419><c> good</c><00:17:03.679><c> Bible,</c><00:17:04.099><c> good</c><00:17:04.359><c> solid</c><00:17:04.700><c> Bible</c><00:17:05.059><c> study.</c>

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We<00:17:05.519><c> had</c><00:17:05.740><c> wonderful</c><00:17:06.220><c> Bible</c><00:17:06.599><c> study.</c>

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We<00:17:07.660><c> do,</c><00:17:08.319><c> our</c><00:17:08.500><c> children</c><00:17:08.839><c> are</c><00:17:09.039><c> learning</c><00:17:09.339><c> all</c><00:17:09.660><c> the</c><00:17:09.880><c> stories</c><00:17:10.140><c> of</c>

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the<00:17:10.500><c> Bible,</c>

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and<00:17:11.400><c> we</c><00:17:11.920><c> have</c><00:17:12.180><c> high</c><00:17:12.440><c> standards</c><00:17:13.000><c> for</c><00:17:13.359><c> sexuality</c><00:17:14.000><c> and</c><00:17:14.420><c> for</c><00:17:14.619><c> morality</c><00:17:14.980><c> and</c>

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not<00:17:15.559><c> cheating</c>

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and<00:17:16.220><c> being</c><00:17:16.599><c> good</c><00:17:17.319><c> citizens</c><00:17:17.859><c> of</c><00:17:18.059><c> the</c><00:17:18.259><c> kingdom.</c>

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But<00:17:19.519><c> if</c><00:17:19.619><c> they</c><00:17:19.799><c> were</c><00:17:19.980><c> to</c><00:17:20.019><c> look</c><00:17:20.319><c> and</c><00:17:20.799><c> know</c><00:17:21.099><c> all</c><00:17:21.440><c> the</c><00:17:21.680><c> dramas</c><00:17:21.940><c> going</c><00:17:22.279><c> on,</c>

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they<00:17:23.440><c> would</c><00:17:23.640><c> come</c><00:17:23.839><c> back</c><00:17:24.079><c> and</c><00:17:24.359><c> say,</c><00:17:25.400><c> you've</c><00:17:25.700><c> got</c><00:17:25.799><c> the</c><00:17:26.019><c> bar</c><00:17:26.259><c> set</c>

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way<00:17:26.740><c> low.</c>

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Way<00:17:28.859><c> low</c><00:17:29.319><c> here.</c>

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So<00:17:32.259><c> it's</c><00:17:32.559><c> really</c><00:17:32.940><c> hard.</c>

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So<00:17:33.519><c> this</c><00:17:33.700><c> is</c><00:17:33.940><c> a</c><00:17:34.019><c> tough</c><00:17:34.220><c> subject.</c>

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So<00:17:34.900><c> I'm</c><00:17:34.980><c> going</c><00:17:35.059><c> to</c><00:17:35.140><c> give</c><00:17:35.240><c> you</c><00:17:35.460><c> a</c><00:17:35.519><c> story</c><00:17:36.000><c> about</c><00:17:36.920><c> my</c><00:17:37.900><c> own</c><00:17:38.299><c> problem</c>

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on<00:17:38.859><c> this,</c>

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and<00:17:39.140><c> this</c><00:17:39.299><c> goes</c><00:17:39.579><c> back</c><00:17:39.940><c> a</c><00:17:40.119><c> few</c><00:17:40.279><c> years,</c>

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and<00:17:41.680><c> when</c><00:17:41.839><c> I</c><00:17:42.039><c> was</c><00:17:42.279><c> doing</c><00:17:42.519><c> the</c><00:17:42.819><c> study</c><00:17:43.019><c> the</c><00:17:43.319><c> first</c><00:17:43.680><c> time,</c>

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I<00:17:44.519><c> was</c><00:17:44.660><c> working</c><00:17:44.980><c> on</c><00:17:45.200><c> it</c><00:17:45.400><c> literally</c><00:17:45.819><c> at</c><00:17:46.140><c> home</c><00:17:46.380><c> doing</c><00:17:46.680><c> this</c>

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verse<00:17:47.500><c> here,</c>

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and<00:17:48.640><c> I</c><00:17:48.799><c> thought</c><00:17:48.960><c> to</c><00:17:49.140><c> myself,</c><00:17:52.440><c> 37</c><00:17:53.220><c> years</c><00:17:53.740><c> ago,</c>

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this<00:17:54.680><c> is</c><00:17:54.759><c> a</c><00:17:54.819><c> long</c><00:17:54.940><c> time</c><00:17:55.160><c> ago,</c><00:17:55.799><c> when</c><00:17:55.940><c> my</c><00:17:56.200><c> sister</c><00:17:56.420><c> got</c><00:17:56.680><c> married,</c>

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she<00:17:58.460><c> got</c><00:17:58.640><c> married</c><00:17:58.839><c> in</c><00:17:58.960><c> the</c><00:17:59.059><c> Reseda</c><00:17:59.359><c> Hall,</c>

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a<00:18:00.460><c> couple</c><00:18:00.700><c> of</c><00:18:00.940><c> sisters</c><00:18:01.119><c> came</c><00:18:01.380><c> in</c><00:18:01.559><c> from</c><00:18:01.720><c> Detroit</c><00:18:02.359><c> who</c><00:18:03.019><c> were</c><00:18:03.160><c> her</c><00:18:03.420><c> friends,</c>

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and<00:18:03.880><c> she's</c><00:18:04.119><c> older</c><00:18:04.319><c> than</c><00:18:04.500><c> me,</c><00:18:04.680><c> so</c><00:18:04.839><c> I</c><00:18:04.940><c> was</c><00:18:05.160><c> a</c><00:18:05.299><c> young</c><00:18:05.539><c> whippersnapper,</c>

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and<00:18:07.019><c> my</c><00:18:07.240><c> sister</c><00:18:07.559><c> asked</c><00:18:08.000><c> me</c><00:18:08.180><c> if</c><00:18:08.279><c> I</c><00:18:08.420><c> would</c><00:18:08.640><c> take</c><00:18:08.980><c> those</c><00:18:09.380><c> two</c><00:18:09.759><c> girls</c><00:18:10.279><c> after</c><00:18:11.140><c> the</c><00:18:11.400><c> wedding</c>

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to<00:18:12.799><c> like</c><00:18:13.079><c> a</c><00:18:13.220><c> little</c><00:18:13.460><c> tour</c><00:18:13.700><c> of</c><00:18:13.880><c> the</c><00:18:14.079><c> area,</c>

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take<00:18:15.640><c> them</c><00:18:15.819><c> to</c><00:18:16.059><c> Hollywood</c><00:18:16.420><c> or</c><00:18:16.799><c> take</c><00:18:17.000><c> them</c><00:18:17.140><c> to</c><00:18:17.259><c> the</c><00:18:17.400><c> beach</c><00:18:17.640><c> or</c><00:18:17.839><c> somewhere.</c>

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So<00:18:19.000><c> after</c><00:18:19.279><c> the</c><00:18:19.460><c> wedding</c><00:18:19.579><c> was</c><00:18:19.839><c> over,</c><00:18:20.339><c> this</c><00:18:20.480><c> all</c><00:18:20.759><c> arranged,</c>

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I<00:18:23.059><c> didn't</c><00:18:23.279><c> feel</c><00:18:23.440><c> like</c><00:18:23.700><c> doing</c><00:18:23.900><c> it</c><00:18:24.099><c> all</c><00:18:24.240><c> of</c><00:18:24.440><c> a</c><00:18:24.480><c> sudden.</c>

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I<00:18:25.500><c> did</c><00:18:25.720><c> not</c><00:18:25.880><c> feel</c><00:18:26.019><c> like</c><00:18:26.259><c> doing</c><00:18:26.440><c> it.</c>

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I<00:18:27.700><c> don't</c><00:18:27.799><c> know</c><00:18:27.900><c> why,</c><00:18:28.180><c> I</c><00:18:28.339><c> just</c><00:18:28.480><c> didn't.</c>

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So<00:18:29.259><c> I</c><00:18:29.519><c> remember</c><00:18:29.839><c> as</c><00:18:30.200><c> clearly</c><00:18:30.440><c> as</c><00:18:30.599><c> I</c><00:18:30.779><c> see</c><00:18:30.980><c> all</c><00:18:31.259><c> of</c><00:18:31.359><c> you</c><00:18:31.519><c> out</c><00:18:31.799><c> there,</c>

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but<00:18:32.619><c> look</c><00:18:32.819><c> in</c><00:18:32.960><c> my</c><00:18:33.240><c> rear</c><00:18:33.440><c> view</c><00:18:33.599><c> mirror</c><00:18:33.859><c> now,</c>

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I'm<00:18:35.259><c> going</c><00:18:35.440><c> down</c><00:18:35.619><c> the</c><00:18:35.940><c> long</c><00:18:36.599><c> Reseda</c><00:18:37.420><c>-Ecclesial</c><00:18:38.200><c> Hall</c><00:18:38.720><c> driveway,</c>

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it's<00:18:39.880><c> way</c><00:18:40.299><c> long,</c><00:18:41.539><c> and</c><00:18:41.839><c> they're</c><00:18:42.079><c> back</c><00:18:42.460><c> there</c><00:18:42.859><c> in</c><00:18:43.039><c> the</c><00:18:43.240><c> driveway</c>

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looking<00:18:44.099><c> at</c><00:18:44.420><c> me,</c>

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and<00:18:45.839><c> I'm</c><00:18:46.019><c> looking</c><00:18:46.180><c> at</c><00:18:46.299><c> the</c><00:18:46.480><c> rear</c><00:18:46.640><c> view</c><00:18:46.779><c> mirror,</c>

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and<00:18:47.359><c> they're</c><00:18:47.559><c> standing</c><00:18:47.839><c> there,</c><00:18:48.819><c> and</c><00:18:48.839><c> their</c><00:18:49.059><c> jaws</c><00:18:49.380><c> are</c><00:18:49.700><c> dropped,</c>

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and<00:18:50.779><c> their</c><00:18:50.880><c> eyes</c><00:18:51.160><c> are</c><00:18:51.420><c> bugging</c><00:18:51.680><c> out,</c><00:18:52.279><c> and</c><00:18:52.539><c> I</c><00:18:52.839><c> just</c><00:18:53.099><c> kept</c><00:18:53.380><c> on</c><00:18:53.700><c> going.</c>

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And<00:18:56.539><c> I</c><00:18:56.700><c> did</c><00:18:56.920><c> not</c><00:18:57.119><c> feel</c><00:18:57.359><c> bad.</c>

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I<00:19:00.000><c> did</c><00:19:00.220><c> not</c><00:19:00.380><c> feel</c><00:19:00.599><c> bad</c><00:19:00.859><c> at</c><00:19:01.099><c> all.</c>

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I<00:19:02.140><c> was</c><00:19:02.359><c> a</c><00:19:02.460><c> bad</c><00:19:02.779><c> boy,</c><00:19:03.940><c> and</c><00:19:04.019><c> I</c><00:19:04.180><c> went</c><00:19:04.339><c> on.</c>

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But<00:19:05.279><c> let</c><00:19:05.440><c> me</c><00:19:05.579><c> tell</c><00:19:05.839><c> you,</c><00:19:06.019><c> in</c><00:19:06.220><c> the</c><00:19:06.480><c> Ecclesial</c><00:19:06.859><c> world,</c>

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and<00:19:08.640><c> I</c><00:19:08.980><c> tell</c><00:19:09.259><c> the</c><00:19:09.480><c> kids</c><00:19:09.680><c> this</c><00:19:09.859><c> sometimes,</c>

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it's<00:19:11.240><c> a</c><00:19:11.279><c> very</c><00:19:11.660><c> small</c><00:19:11.940><c> world</c><00:19:12.220><c> we</c><00:19:12.440><c> live</c><00:19:12.559><c> in,</c><00:19:12.759><c> so</c><00:19:12.940><c> I</c><00:19:13.160><c> see</c><00:19:13.359><c> them</c><00:19:13.539><c> again.</c>

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I<00:19:14.299><c> see</c><00:19:14.519><c> them</c><00:19:14.660><c> at</c><00:19:15.059><c> Bible</c><00:19:15.440><c> schools,</c><00:19:15.900><c> I</c><00:19:15.920><c> see</c><00:19:16.099><c> them</c><00:19:16.220><c> at</c><00:19:16.420><c> study</c><00:19:16.720><c> days,</c>

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I<00:19:17.519><c> see</c><00:19:17.759><c> them</c><00:19:18.099><c> anywhere</c><00:19:18.619><c> around,</c><00:19:19.079><c> and</c><00:19:19.279><c> when</c><00:19:19.440><c> I</c><00:19:19.720><c> see</c><00:19:19.940><c> them,</c>

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it<00:19:20.819><c> keeps</c><00:19:21.160><c> coming</c><00:19:21.380><c> to</c><00:19:21.539><c> my</c><00:19:21.779><c> mind,</c><00:19:22.339><c> I</c><00:19:22.579><c> left</c><00:19:22.920><c> them</c><00:19:23.480><c> there</c><00:19:23.900><c> like</c><00:19:24.220><c> that.</c>

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And<00:19:25.839><c> I</c><00:19:26.059><c> wanted</c><00:19:26.339><c> to</c><00:19:26.660><c> talk</c><00:19:26.880><c> to</c><00:19:27.039><c> them,</c><00:19:27.440><c> and</c><00:19:27.440><c> one's</c><00:19:28.420><c> married</c><00:19:28.579><c> and</c>

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one's<00:19:28.980><c> single,</c>

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I<00:19:30.519><c> wanted</c><00:19:31.000><c> to</c><00:19:31.200><c> talk</c><00:19:31.440><c> to</c><00:19:31.539><c> them,</c><00:19:31.599><c> but</c><00:19:31.700><c> sometimes</c><00:19:31.940><c> they</c><00:19:32.019><c> weren't</c><00:19:32.299><c> together,</c>

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well,<00:19:33.019><c> they</c><00:19:33.059><c> were</c><00:19:33.380><c> rarely</c><00:19:33.920><c> together,</c>

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and<00:19:35.140><c> so</c><00:19:35.319><c> I'd</c><00:19:36.140><c> have</c><00:19:36.299><c> opportunities,</c><00:19:36.920><c> but</c><00:19:37.079><c> you</c><00:19:37.220><c> know</c><00:19:37.380><c> what?</c>

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I<00:19:38.319><c> never</c><00:19:38.619><c> did.</c>

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I<00:19:39.960><c> never</c><00:19:40.440><c> did</c><00:19:40.839><c> do</c><00:19:41.059><c> anything</c><00:19:41.359><c> about</c><00:19:41.720><c> it.</c>

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I<00:19:42.099><c> just</c><00:19:42.339><c> let</c><00:19:42.519><c> it</c><00:19:42.759><c> ride,</c><00:19:43.039><c> life</c><00:19:43.319><c> went</c><00:19:43.559><c> on,</c><00:19:44.400><c> everything</c><00:19:44.779><c> just</c>

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kept<00:19:45.319><c> going</c><00:19:45.599><c> normal,</c>

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keep<00:19:46.380><c> going</c><00:19:46.559><c> to</c><00:19:46.720><c> the</c><00:19:46.779><c> meeting,</c><00:19:47.099><c> everything</c><00:19:47.460><c> just</c><00:19:47.920><c> does</c><00:19:48.099><c> as</c><00:19:48.460><c> it</c><00:19:48.700><c> was.</c>

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When<00:19:49.779><c> I</c><00:19:49.980><c> did</c><00:19:50.819><c> that,</c><00:19:51.539><c> I</c><00:19:51.680><c> said,</c><00:19:52.380><c> what</c><00:19:52.579><c> a</c><00:19:52.940><c> hypocrite.</c>

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I<00:19:54.720><c> don't</c><00:19:54.740><c> even</c><00:19:55.039><c> dare</c><00:19:55.240><c> to</c><00:19:55.539><c> talk</c><00:19:55.720><c> about</c><00:19:56.000><c> this</c><00:19:56.200><c> subject,</c><00:19:56.599><c> and</c><00:19:56.779><c> there</c><00:19:56.980><c> I</c><00:19:57.180><c> am.</c>

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So<00:19:57.680><c> I</c><00:19:58.140><c> called</c><00:19:58.440><c> them</c><00:19:58.579><c> up</c><00:19:58.740><c> that</c><00:19:59.039><c> night,</c><00:19:59.579><c> both</c><00:19:59.859><c> of</c><00:20:00.079><c> them,</c>

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and<00:20:01.119><c> I</c><00:20:01.240><c> went</c><00:20:01.420><c> through</c><00:20:01.720><c> there</c><00:20:01.839><c> and</c><00:20:01.900><c> said</c><00:20:02.119><c> to</c><00:20:02.240><c> them,</c>

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and<00:20:03.819><c> so</c><00:20:03.960><c> they're</c><00:20:04.140><c> very</c><00:20:04.440><c> embarrassing,</c><00:20:04.960><c> 37</c><00:20:05.259><c> years</c><00:20:05.640><c> later,</c><00:20:06.180><c> you</c><00:20:06.180><c> know?</c>

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Very<00:20:08.980><c> embarrassing.</c>

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Called<00:20:10.220><c> them</c><00:20:10.380><c> up,</c><00:20:10.640><c> I</c><00:20:10.980><c> explained,</c><00:20:11.460><c> you</c><00:20:11.579><c> know,</c><00:20:11.900><c> remember,</c><00:20:12.400><c> and</c>

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blah,<00:20:12.980><c> blah,</c><00:20:13.059><c> blah,</c><00:20:13.180><c> blah,</c>

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and<00:20:13.680><c> they</c><00:20:13.980><c> were</c><00:20:14.140><c> very</c><00:20:14.500><c> nice.</c>

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You<00:20:15.380><c> know</c><00:20:15.519><c> what</c><00:20:15.559><c> the</c><00:20:15.799><c> truth</c><00:20:15.980><c> of</c><00:20:16.180><c> the</c><00:20:16.220><c> matter</c><00:20:16.440><c> is?</c>

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Both<00:20:17.920><c> of</c><00:20:18.079><c> them</c><00:20:18.220><c> had</c><00:20:18.500><c> forgotten</c><00:20:18.900><c> it.</c>

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You<00:20:20.400><c> knew</c><00:20:20.619><c> that,</c><00:20:21.380><c> huh?</c>

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They<00:20:22.059><c> had</c><00:20:22.319><c> totally</c><00:20:22.880><c> forgotten</c><00:20:23.359><c> about</c><00:20:23.619><c> it,</c><00:20:23.740><c> but</c><00:20:23.900><c> it</c><00:20:24.000><c> had</c><00:20:24.079><c> been</c>

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bothering<00:20:24.460><c> me,</c>

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but<00:20:24.920><c> I</c><00:20:25.119><c> felt</c><00:20:25.380><c> so</c><00:20:25.900><c> good.</c>

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This<00:20:26.900><c> is</c><00:20:27.119><c> just</c><00:20:27.240><c> a</c><00:20:27.299><c> little</c><00:20:27.599><c> cameo</c><00:20:28.559><c> of</c><00:20:28.980><c> it's</c><00:20:29.400><c> really</c><00:20:29.759><c> being</c><00:20:30.019><c> good</c>

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to<00:20:30.400><c> yourself</c>

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as<00:20:32.240><c> much</c><00:20:32.500><c> as</c><00:20:32.680><c> it</c><00:20:32.740><c> has</c><00:20:32.900><c> been</c><00:20:33.019><c> good</c><00:20:33.180><c> to</c><00:20:33.359><c> them.</c>

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It<00:20:34.359><c> made</c><00:20:34.500><c> me</c><00:20:34.740><c> feel</c><00:20:34.960><c> this</c><00:20:35.240><c> thing</c><00:20:35.420><c> that</c><00:20:35.680><c> had</c><00:20:36.019><c> been</c><00:20:36.240><c> bothering</c><00:20:36.660><c> me</c>

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all<00:20:37.539><c> these</c><00:20:37.799><c> years,</c>

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finally,<00:20:39.740><c> I</c><00:20:39.859><c> had</c><00:20:39.960><c> some</c><00:20:40.200><c> resolution</c><00:20:40.740><c> to</c><00:20:41.019><c> it.</c>

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Now,<00:20:41.920><c> the</c><00:20:42.079><c> word</c><00:20:42.299><c> for</c><00:20:42.599><c> reconcile</c><00:20:43.099><c> there</c><00:20:43.920><c> is</c><00:20:44.420><c> the</c><00:20:44.660><c> word</c><00:20:45.380><c> from</c>

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the<00:20:46.279><c> lexicon,</c>

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means<00:20:46.940><c> bringing</c><00:20:47.220><c> out</c><00:20:47.480><c> a</c><00:20:47.720><c> mutual</c><00:20:48.099><c> concession</c><00:20:48.819><c> for</c><00:20:49.180><c> a</c><00:20:49.299><c> mutual</c><00:20:49.680><c> hostility.</c>

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So<00:20:51.319><c> it's</c><00:20:51.539><c> basically</c><00:20:51.980><c> changing,</c><00:20:53.819><c> one</c><00:20:54.119><c> literally</c><00:20:54.460><c> says,</c>

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to<00:20:55.160><c> change</c><00:20:55.160><c> the</c><00:20:55.339><c> mind</c><00:20:55.539><c> of</c><00:20:55.799><c> anyone,</c>

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but<00:20:56.400><c> I</c><00:20:56.759><c> suggest</c><00:20:57.440><c> it's</c><00:20:57.799><c> changing</c><00:20:58.119><c> both</c><00:20:58.500><c> of</c><00:20:58.680><c> your</c><00:20:58.859><c> minds.</c>

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You're<00:20:59.920><c> both</c><00:21:00.119><c> going</c><00:21:00.359><c> through</c><00:21:00.619><c> a</c><00:21:00.799><c> process.</c>

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When<00:21:01.220><c> you</c><00:21:01.460><c> do</c><00:21:01.579><c> this</c><00:21:01.839><c> reconciliation</c><00:21:02.539><c> thing,</c><00:21:02.819><c> you're</c><00:21:03.099><c> both</c><00:21:03.279><c> going</c><00:21:03.480><c> through</c><00:21:03.720><c> a</c><00:21:03.839><c> process</c>

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because<00:21:04.400><c> you're</c><00:21:04.579><c> building</c><00:21:04.799><c> a</c><00:21:05.119><c> bridge</c><00:21:05.740><c> between</c><00:21:06.420><c> two</c><00:21:06.740><c> people,</c>

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and<00:21:07.900><c> for</c><00:21:08.079><c> our</c><00:21:08.240><c> lesson</c><00:21:08.440><c> today,</c><00:21:09.640><c> it's</c><00:21:09.940><c> you</c><00:21:10.200><c> to</c><00:21:10.700><c> take</c><00:21:10.960><c> the</c><00:21:11.099><c> initiative.</c>

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So<00:21:12.839><c> I'm</c><00:21:13.200><c> going</c><00:21:13.240><c> to</c><00:21:13.359><c> ask</c><00:21:13.539><c> you</c><00:21:13.720><c> about</c><00:21:13.900><c> some</c><00:21:14.180><c> pitfalls</c><00:21:14.619><c> now.</c>

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We've<00:21:15.099><c> already</c><00:21:15.359><c> talked</c><00:21:15.619><c> about</c><00:21:15.819><c> a</c><00:21:16.019><c> few</c><00:21:16.180><c> pitfalls.</c>

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So<00:21:17.500><c> here's</c><00:21:17.819><c> the</c><00:21:17.980><c> one</c><00:21:18.119><c> that</c><00:21:18.640><c> came</c><00:21:19.079><c> up</c><00:21:19.460><c> from</c><00:21:19.660><c> the</c><00:21:19.900><c> baseball</c><00:21:20.240><c> bat</c><00:21:20.500><c> one.</c>

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What<00:21:21.539><c> happens</c><00:21:21.880><c> if</c><00:21:22.039><c> you</c><00:21:22.259><c> go</c><00:21:23.079><c> to</c><00:21:23.559><c> the</c><00:21:23.859><c> brother</c><00:21:24.420><c> or</c><00:21:24.880><c> sister</c>

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and<00:21:26.759><c> they</c><00:21:27.779><c> don't</c><00:21:28.079><c> believe</c><00:21:28.420><c> you</c><00:21:28.700><c> or</c><00:21:28.839><c> don't</c><00:21:29.099><c> accept</c><00:21:29.480><c> it?</c>

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So<00:21:32.759><c> they</c><00:21:33.400><c> say,</c><00:21:34.160><c> you</c><00:21:34.160><c> are</c><00:21:34.380><c> so</c><00:21:34.680><c> bad,</c><00:21:35.900><c> I</c><00:21:36.319><c> can</c><00:21:36.559><c> never</c><00:21:36.799><c> forgive</c><00:21:37.119><c> you.</c>

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I<00:21:37.420><c> don't</c><00:21:37.619><c> care</c><00:21:37.819><c> what</c><00:21:38.160><c> you</c><00:21:38.759><c> feel</c><00:21:38.980><c> now,</c><00:21:39.859><c> remember</c><00:21:39.980><c> what</c><00:21:40.140><c> you</c><00:21:40.319><c> did</c><00:21:40.480><c> then?</c>

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Yeah,<00:21:42.779><c> I've</c><00:21:42.960><c> been</c><00:21:43.799><c> bothered</c><00:21:44.099><c> by</c><00:21:44.339><c> that</c><00:21:44.500><c> all</c><00:21:44.640><c> my</c><00:21:44.839><c> life.</c>

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So<00:21:46.579><c> what</c><00:21:46.740><c> do</c><00:21:46.900><c> you</c><00:21:46.920><c> do</c><00:21:47.000><c> about</c><00:21:47.220><c> that?</c>

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I'm<00:21:48.039><c> going</c><00:21:48.180><c> to</c><00:21:48.220><c> give</c><00:21:48.380><c> you</c><00:21:48.579><c> an</c><00:21:48.740><c> idea</c><00:21:49.160><c> from</c><00:21:49.420><c> a</c><00:21:49.519><c> Bible</c><00:21:49.819><c> verse</c><00:21:50.200><c> here</c>

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of<00:21:52.140><c> Proverbs,</c>

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and<00:21:53.880><c> I</c><00:21:54.720><c> want</c><00:21:54.880><c> you</c><00:21:55.059><c> to</c><00:21:55.200><c> note</c><00:21:55.420><c> what</c><00:21:55.660><c> it</c><00:21:55.940><c> doesn't</c><00:21:56.220><c> say.</c>

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It<00:21:57.519><c> says,</c><00:21:57.859><c> when</c><00:21:57.859><c> a</c><00:21:58.059><c> man's</c><00:21:58.539><c> ways</c><00:21:58.759><c> please</c><00:21:59.200><c> the</c><00:21:59.440><c> Lord,</c>

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he<00:21:59.740><c> maketh</c><00:22:00.079><c> even</c><00:22:00.380><c> his</c><00:22:00.640><c> enemies</c><00:22:00.980><c> to</c><00:22:01.220><c> be</c><00:22:01.400><c> at</c><00:22:01.539><c> peace</c><00:22:01.720><c> with</c><00:22:01.900><c> him.</c>

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What<00:22:03.220><c> it</c><00:22:03.539><c> doesn't</c><00:22:03.920><c> say</c><00:22:04.440><c> is</c><00:22:05.359><c> there's</c><00:22:05.680><c> no</c><00:22:06.019><c> clock</c><00:22:06.500><c> here.</c>

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There's<00:22:09.200><c> no</c><00:22:09.440><c> clock.</c>

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I'm<00:22:11.359><c> going</c><00:22:11.460><c> to</c><00:22:11.460><c> suggest</c><00:22:11.839><c> that</c><00:22:12.059><c> that's</c><00:22:12.279><c> how</c><00:22:12.500><c> life</c><00:22:12.839><c> works.</c>

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It<00:22:14.200><c> doesn't</c><00:22:14.519><c> quite</c><00:22:14.839><c> work</c><00:22:15.180><c> on</c><00:22:15.380><c> your</c><00:22:15.680><c> timetable.</c>

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If<00:22:16.140><c> someone</c><00:22:16.339><c> said</c><00:22:16.700><c> something</c><00:22:17.019><c> about</c><00:22:17.200><c> maybe</c><00:22:17.559><c> you're</c><00:22:17.980><c> ready,</c>

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but<00:22:18.460><c> they're</c><00:22:18.700><c> not</c><00:22:18.880><c> ready.</c>

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Sometimes<00:22:19.859><c> a</c><00:22:20.160><c> timetable</c><00:22:20.740><c> isn't</c><00:22:20.980><c> right</c><00:22:21.299><c> for</c><00:22:21.559><c> them.</c>

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You're<00:22:23.720><c> ready</c><00:22:24.059><c> for</c><00:22:24.359><c> it,</c><00:22:24.519><c> but</c><00:22:24.619><c> they're</c><00:22:24.940><c> not.</c>

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I'll<00:22:25.880><c> tell</c><00:22:25.880><c> you</c><00:22:26.019><c> a</c><00:22:26.059><c> story</c><00:22:26.180><c> about</c><00:22:26.339><c> my</c><00:22:26.619><c> dad.</c>

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He's<00:22:27.740><c> been</c><00:22:27.980><c> here</c><00:22:28.140><c> and</c><00:22:28.220><c> you</c><00:22:28.420><c> all</c><00:22:28.720><c> love</c><00:22:28.920><c> him,</c><00:22:29.299><c> so</c><00:22:29.500><c> that</c><00:22:29.779><c> helps.</c>

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That's<00:22:30.579><c> always</c><00:22:30.720><c> a</c><00:22:30.859><c> good</c><00:22:30.980><c> thing</c><00:22:31.180><c> to</c><00:22:31.299><c> do,</c><00:22:31.720><c> right?</c>

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He<00:22:32.799><c> had</c><00:22:33.059><c> a</c><00:22:33.299><c> brother</c><00:22:33.700><c> who</c><00:22:34.400><c> was</c><00:22:34.720><c> his</c><00:22:35.019><c> rival.</c>

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He'd<00:22:36.380><c> talk</c><00:22:36.539><c> to</c><00:22:36.720><c> me</c><00:22:36.880><c> about</c><00:22:37.099><c> him</c><00:22:37.240><c> like</c><00:22:37.539><c> that.</c>

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This<00:22:38.160><c> brother</c><00:22:38.420><c> was</c><00:22:38.759><c> always</c><00:22:39.140><c> kind</c><00:22:39.319><c> of</c><00:22:39.480><c> a</c><00:22:39.640><c> rival,</c><00:22:39.980><c> always</c><00:22:40.259><c> kind</c>

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of<00:22:41.099><c> in</c><00:22:41.339><c> a</c><00:22:41.619><c> bad</c><00:22:42.200><c> way.</c>

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I<00:22:42.539><c> could</c><00:22:42.720><c> see</c><00:22:43.039><c> my</c><00:22:43.299><c> dad</c><00:22:43.579><c> going</c><00:22:43.859><c> here</c><00:22:44.200><c> and</c><00:22:44.339><c> my</c><00:22:44.400><c> dad</c><00:22:44.619><c> going</c><00:22:44.839><c> there</c>

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and<00:22:46.140><c> thinking,</c><00:22:47.140><c> you</c><00:22:47.140><c> know.</c>

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He<00:22:47.980><c> just</c><00:22:48.480><c> could</c><00:22:48.799><c> not</c><00:22:50.099><c> make</c><00:22:50.579><c> it</c><00:22:50.839><c> work.</c>

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You<00:22:52.019><c> know</c><00:22:52.039><c> what</c><00:22:52.059><c> my</c><00:22:52.279><c> dad</c><00:22:52.500><c> did</c><00:22:52.740><c> with</c><00:22:52.980><c> him?</c>

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He<00:22:54.900><c> prayed</c><00:22:55.240><c> for</c><00:22:55.519><c> that</c><00:22:55.740><c> man</c><00:22:55.980><c> every</c><00:22:56.480><c> day</c><00:22:57.059><c> of</c><00:22:57.859><c> his</c><00:22:58.279><c> life</c><00:22:58.660><c> almost.</c>

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Well,<00:22:59.660><c> actually</c><00:22:59.839><c> not</c><00:23:00.039><c> all</c><00:23:00.160><c> his</c><00:23:00.299><c> life</c><00:23:00.400><c> because</c><00:23:00.640><c> the</c><00:23:01.460><c> other</c>

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guy's<00:23:01.980><c> since</c><00:23:02.180><c> dead.</c>

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He's<00:23:02.819><c> praying</c><00:23:03.000><c> for</c><00:23:03.240><c> that</c><00:23:03.400><c> now.</c>

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But<00:23:04.660><c> here's</c><00:23:04.900><c> the</c><00:23:05.079><c> good</c><00:23:05.259><c> news.</c>

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That's<00:23:06.019><c> why</c><00:23:06.160><c> I</c><00:23:06.240><c> put</c><00:23:06.339><c> this</c><00:23:06.599><c> little</c><00:23:06.799><c> timetable</c><00:23:07.339><c> on</c><00:23:07.559><c> it.</c>

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When<00:23:09.380><c> they</c><00:23:09.559><c> were</c><00:23:09.740><c> both</c><00:23:10.000><c> a</c><00:23:10.140><c> lot</c><00:23:10.539><c> older</c><00:23:10.940><c> men,</c><00:23:11.900><c> way</c><00:23:12.099><c> older</c><00:23:12.400><c> men,</c>

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by<00:23:13.079><c> the</c><00:23:13.220><c> way,</c><00:23:14.000><c> they</c><00:23:14.240><c> did</c><00:23:14.480><c> work</c><00:23:14.700><c> it</c><00:23:14.900><c> out.</c>

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They<00:23:16.319><c> did</c><00:23:16.559><c> work</c><00:23:16.799><c> it</c><00:23:17.019><c> out.</c>

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I'm<00:23:18.460><c> saying</c><00:23:18.700><c> that</c><00:23:19.079><c> it</c><00:23:19.319><c> seems</c><00:23:19.559><c> hopeless</c><00:23:20.180><c> and</c><00:23:20.700><c> you</c><00:23:20.920><c> think</c><00:23:21.160><c> how</c>

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many<00:23:21.819><c> times</c><00:23:22.140><c> you</c><00:23:22.299><c> have</c><00:23:22.500><c> to</c><00:23:22.839><c> pray</c><00:23:23.140><c> for</c><00:23:23.720><c> this</c><00:23:23.940><c> person.</c>

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You<00:23:24.880><c> know</c><00:23:25.019><c> what</c><00:23:25.200><c> praying</c><00:23:25.519><c> for</c><00:23:25.700><c> the</c><00:23:25.920><c> person</c><00:23:26.119><c> does</c><00:23:26.400><c> for</c><00:23:26.680><c> you?</c>

00:23:28.480 --> 00:23:30.960
I<00:23:28.700><c> said</c><00:23:28.759><c> it's</c><00:23:29.019><c> a</c><00:23:29.160><c> two</c><00:23:29.339><c>-way,</c><00:23:29.579><c> a</c><00:23:29.700><c> mutual</c><00:23:29.980><c> concession</c><00:23:30.539><c> for</c><00:23:30.819><c> a</c>

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mutual<00:23:31.259><c> hostility.</c>

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If<00:23:32.519><c> there's</c><00:23:32.960><c> any</c><00:23:34.059><c> little</c><00:23:34.839><c> rival</c><00:23:35.619><c> crack</c><00:23:36.819><c> in</c><00:23:37.099><c> your</c><00:23:37.420><c> side</c><00:23:37.680><c> too,</c>

00:23:38.599 --> 00:23:40.140
it<00:23:38.740><c> will</c><00:23:39.079><c> heal</c><00:23:39.319><c> you</c><00:23:39.579><c> as</c><00:23:39.819><c> well.</c>

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So<00:23:40.779><c> praying</c><00:23:40.980><c> for</c><00:23:41.279><c> people,</c><00:23:42.180><c> if</c><00:23:42.220><c> there's</c><00:23:42.539><c> any</c><00:23:42.900><c> kind</c><00:23:43.140><c> of</c><00:23:43.339><c> guile</c>

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in<00:23:43.900><c> you,</c><00:23:44.880><c> it</c><00:23:45.079><c> will</c><00:23:45.299><c> heal</c><00:23:45.500><c> it.</c>

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So<00:23:46.880><c> it's</c><00:23:47.400><c> a</c><00:23:47.500><c> good</c><00:23:47.700><c> thing</c><00:23:47.940><c> to</c><00:23:48.119><c> pray</c><00:23:48.299><c> for</c><00:23:48.539><c> people</c><00:23:48.920><c> even</c><00:23:49.299><c> if</c><00:23:49.440><c> they</c><00:23:49.680><c> don't.</c>

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And<00:23:50.339><c> I</c><00:23:50.480><c> will</c><00:23:50.720><c> have</c><00:23:51.000><c> someone</c><00:23:51.339><c> after</c><00:23:51.619><c> this</c><00:23:51.920><c> class</c><00:23:52.180><c> come</c><00:23:52.440><c> up</c><00:23:52.619><c> to</c>

00:23:52.779 --> 00:23:55.000
me<00:23:52.940><c> probably</c><00:23:53.240><c> because</c><00:23:53.480><c> every</c><00:23:53.740><c> time</c><00:23:53.880><c> I've</c><00:23:54.079><c> done</c><00:23:54.200><c> it</c><00:23:54.500><c> they</c><00:23:54.720><c> have.</c>

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And<00:23:55.500><c> there</c><00:23:55.579><c> will</c><00:23:55.740><c> be</c><00:23:55.980><c> somebody</c><00:23:56.380><c> who</c><00:23:56.779><c> they've</c><00:23:57.579><c> said</c><00:23:57.859><c> they</c><00:23:58.099><c> will</c>

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never<00:23:58.579><c> forgive.</c>

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They'll<00:23:59.660><c> never</c><00:24:00.000><c> ever</c><00:24:01.140><c> forgive</c><00:24:02.339><c> me</c><00:24:02.559><c> for</c><00:24:02.720><c> what</c><00:24:02.880><c> I</c><00:24:03.059><c> did.</c>

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But<00:24:04.299><c> I'll</c><00:24:04.480><c> just</c><00:24:04.640><c> say</c><00:24:05.079><c> more</c><00:24:06.220><c> time,</c><00:24:06.619><c> more</c><00:24:06.839><c> time,</c><00:24:07.200><c> okay?</c>

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All<00:24:08.160><c> right,</c><00:24:08.380><c> the</c><00:24:08.539><c> second</c><00:24:09.519><c> thing,</c><00:24:10.380><c> this</c><00:24:10.519><c> is</c><00:24:10.619><c> like</c><00:24:10.779><c> the</c><00:24:10.980><c> baseball</c><00:24:11.220><c> bat.</c>

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What<00:24:11.680><c> happens</c><00:24:11.859><c> if</c><00:24:11.940><c> you</c><00:24:12.039><c> go</c><00:24:12.319><c> back</c><00:24:13.039><c> and</c><00:24:14.700><c> let's</c><00:24:15.400><c> take</c><00:24:15.599><c> these</c><00:24:15.859><c> girls.</c>

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They'd<00:24:16.859><c> forgotten</c><00:24:17.220><c> about</c><00:24:17.640><c> it</c><00:24:17.940><c> mostly,</c><00:24:19.640><c> but</c><00:24:19.880><c> they'd</c><00:24:20.079><c> been</c>

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bothering<00:24:20.619><c> them.</c>

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And<00:24:21.099><c> then</c><00:24:21.299><c> I</c><00:24:21.599><c> come</c><00:24:22.059><c> and</c><00:24:22.519><c> say,</c><00:24:22.859><c> okay,</c><00:24:23.400><c> I</c><00:24:23.779><c> want</c><00:24:23.960><c> to</c><00:24:24.119><c> be</c><00:24:24.319><c> forgiven.</c>

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And<00:24:26.019><c> it</c><00:24:26.279><c> brings</c><00:24:26.599><c> back</c><00:24:27.000><c> all</c><00:24:27.380><c> the</c><00:24:27.640><c> rage</c><00:24:28.140><c> and</c><00:24:28.440><c> anger</c><00:24:28.940><c> and</c><00:24:29.539><c> makes</c>

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it<00:24:30.059><c> worse.</c>

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It's<00:24:31.180><c> like</c><00:24:31.319><c> they</c><00:24:31.500><c> could</c><00:24:31.720><c> say,</c><00:24:32.200><c> look</c><00:24:32.420><c> at</c><00:24:32.680><c> David,</c><00:24:32.880><c> we</c><00:24:33.140><c> just</c><00:24:33.579><c> barely</c><00:24:34.039><c> got</c>

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over<00:24:35.420><c> figuring</c><00:24:36.019><c> it</c><00:24:36.299><c> out.</c>

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We've<00:24:37.200><c> just</c><00:24:37.500><c> finally</c><00:24:37.819><c> been</c><00:24:38.099><c> to</c><00:24:38.500><c> 20</c><00:24:38.740><c> years</c><00:24:38.960><c> of</c><00:24:39.220><c> therapy</c><00:24:39.779><c> over</c>

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that<00:24:40.579><c> incident.</c>

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I'm<00:24:41.700><c> joking.</c>

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And<00:24:42.980><c> we</c><00:24:43.140><c> just</c><00:24:43.460><c> graduated.</c>

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And<00:24:44.880><c> now</c><00:24:45.160><c> you</c><00:24:45.420><c> come</c><00:24:45.740><c> and</c><00:24:46.059><c> phone</c><00:24:46.279><c> me</c><00:24:47.079><c> and</c><00:24:47.720><c> remind</c><00:24:48.099><c> me</c><00:24:48.460><c> of</c><00:24:48.640><c> all</c><00:24:48.839><c> the</c><00:24:49.059><c> stuff</c><00:24:49.240><c> that</c><00:24:49.420><c> I've</c><00:24:49.539><c> been</c><00:24:49.640><c> trying</c><00:24:49.819><c> to</c><00:24:50.039><c> forget.</c>

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That<00:24:52.099><c> could</c><00:24:52.299><c> be</c><00:24:52.480><c> bad</c><00:24:52.700><c> too.</c>

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That<00:24:54.160><c> can't</c><00:24:54.940><c> be</c><00:24:55.119><c> good.</c>

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They<00:24:56.339><c> blamed</c><00:24:56.519><c> you.</c>

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And<00:24:56.880><c> the</c><00:24:56.980><c> other</c><00:24:57.180><c> problem</c><00:24:57.380><c> is</c><00:24:57.599><c> maybe</c><00:24:58.019><c> they've</c><00:24:58.420><c> actually</c><00:24:58.700><c> enjoyed</c><00:24:59.400><c> blaming</c><00:24:59.759><c> you.</c>

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Maybe<00:25:00.259><c> those</c><00:25:00.539><c> two</c><00:25:00.759><c> girls</c><00:25:00.920><c> could</c><00:25:01.160><c> say,</c><00:25:01.859><c> we</c><00:25:02.099><c> have,</c><00:25:03.319><c> we</c><00:25:03.460><c> would</c>

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never<00:25:03.799><c> say</c><00:25:03.940><c> they</c><00:25:04.160><c> enjoyed</c><00:25:04.380><c> it.</c>

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But<00:25:04.720><c> they</c><00:25:04.960><c> said,</c><00:25:05.539><c> no,</c><00:25:05.740><c> David</c><00:25:05.980><c> Lloyd,</c><00:25:06.680><c> he</c><00:25:07.200><c> was</c><00:25:07.339><c> such</c><00:25:07.619><c> a</c><00:25:07.920><c> bad</c><00:25:08.220><c> man</c><00:25:08.500><c> too.</c>

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He's<00:25:09.099><c> the</c><00:25:09.579><c> worst</c><00:25:10.059><c> Christadelphian</c><00:25:10.859><c> person</c><00:25:11.259><c> we've</c><00:25:11.539><c> ever</c><00:25:11.759><c> heard</c><00:25:12.000><c> of.</c>

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And<00:25:12.880><c> we</c><00:25:13.880><c> just,</c><00:25:14.460><c> anyone</c><00:25:14.700><c> ever</c><00:25:15.000><c> talks</c><00:25:15.299><c> about</c><00:25:15.579><c> him,</c><00:25:15.880><c> they</c><00:25:15.880><c> always</c>

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say,<00:25:16.920><c> whoa.</c>

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And<00:25:19.539><c> now</c><00:25:20.099><c> all</c><00:25:20.819><c> of</c><00:25:21.099><c> a</c><00:25:21.099><c> sudden,</c><00:25:21.799><c> David</c><00:25:22.000><c> Lloyd</c><00:25:22.279><c> gets</c><00:25:22.720><c> some</c><00:25:23.039><c> epiphany</c><00:25:23.700><c> from</c>

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who<00:25:24.140><c> knows</c><00:25:24.440><c> where.</c>

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And<00:25:25.339><c> he</c><00:25:25.480><c> comes</c><00:25:25.680><c> showing</c><00:25:26.000><c> up</c><00:25:26.200><c> on</c><00:25:26.359><c> my</c><00:25:26.640><c> front</c><00:25:26.859><c> doorstep.</c>

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And<00:25:28.420><c> now</c><00:25:28.720><c> he</c><00:25:29.000><c> says,</c><00:25:30.380><c> we've</c><00:25:30.920><c> got</c><00:25:31.059><c> to</c><00:25:31.220><c> forgive</c><00:25:31.460><c> him</c><00:25:31.779><c> back.</c>

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It's<00:25:33.480><c> like,</c><00:25:34.380><c> where'd</c><00:25:34.539><c> that</c><00:25:34.819><c> come</c><00:25:35.119><c> from?</c>

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We've<00:25:36.539><c> enjoyed,</c><00:25:37.279><c> and</c><00:25:37.380><c> I</c><00:25:37.460><c> won't</c><00:25:37.619><c> use</c><00:25:37.859><c> the</c><00:25:38.000><c> word</c><00:25:38.200><c> enjoyed,</c><00:25:38.500><c> but</c>

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we've<00:25:38.980><c> had</c><00:25:39.160><c> this</c><00:25:39.359><c> situation.</c>

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And<00:25:40.319><c> now</c><00:25:40.839><c> all</c><00:25:41.359><c> of</c><00:25:41.559><c> a</c><00:25:41.579><c> sudden,</c><00:25:42.059><c> you're</c><00:25:42.200><c> expecting</c><00:25:42.579><c> us</c><00:25:43.160><c> to</c><00:25:43.480><c> forgive</c><00:25:43.660><c> you</c><00:25:43.920><c> back.</c>

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You<00:25:44.700><c> know</c><00:25:44.880><c> what?</c>

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I<00:25:45.420><c> want</c><00:25:45.599><c> you</c><00:25:45.759><c> to</c><00:25:45.900><c> understand</c><00:25:46.400><c> that</c><00:25:46.920><c> when</c><00:25:47.099><c> you</c><00:25:47.359><c> go</c><00:25:47.539><c> to</c><00:25:47.759><c> somebody,</c><00:25:48.779><c> are</c><00:25:48.960><c> you</c>

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totally<00:25:49.779><c> unobligating</c><00:25:50.700><c> them?</c>

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No,<00:25:51.740><c> you</c><00:25:51.920><c> are</c><00:25:52.299><c> actually</c><00:25:53.000><c> obligating</c><00:25:53.819><c> them.</c>

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Because<00:25:54.799><c> when</c><00:25:55.019><c> you</c><00:25:55.180><c> go</c><00:25:55.380><c> to</c><00:25:55.559><c> somebody</c><00:25:56.079><c> asking</c><00:25:56.700><c> for</c><00:25:57.019><c> forgiveness,</c><00:25:58.039><c> the</c><00:25:58.200><c> ball</c>

00:25:58.839 --> 00:26:01.380
goes<00:26:00.119><c> in</c><00:26:00.259><c> their</c><00:26:00.519><c> court.</c>

00:26:01.579 --> 00:26:03.079
The<00:26:01.759><c> ball</c><00:26:02.019><c> is</c><00:26:02.220><c> in</c><00:26:02.279><c> their</c><00:26:02.579><c> court</c><00:26:02.779><c> now.</c>

00:26:03.539 --> 00:26:04.119
And<00:26:03.720><c> you</c><00:26:03.799><c> know</c><00:26:03.960><c> what?</c>

00:26:04.240 --> 00:26:06.299
Sometimes<00:26:04.359><c> you</c><00:26:04.559><c> do</c><00:26:04.799><c> not</c><00:26:05.039><c> want</c><00:26:05.200><c> to</c><00:26:05.400><c> grab</c><00:26:05.599><c> that</c><00:26:05.920><c> ball.</c>

00:26:06.640 --> 00:26:07.859
You're<00:26:06.799><c> not</c><00:26:06.940><c> ready</c><00:26:07.220><c> for</c><00:26:07.480><c> it.</c>

00:26:07.859 --> 00:26:11.119
So<00:26:08.200><c> you've</c><00:26:08.579><c> got</c><00:26:08.619><c> to</c><00:26:08.779><c> realize</c><00:26:09.220><c> when</c><00:26:09.480><c> you</c><00:26:09.700><c> go</c><00:26:09.880><c> to</c><00:26:10.079><c> somebody,</c><00:26:10.920><c> you</c>

00:26:11.119 --> 00:26:13.200
are<00:26:11.380><c> giving</c><00:26:11.619><c> the</c><00:26:11.900><c> ball</c><00:26:12.160><c> into</c><00:26:12.420><c> their</c><00:26:12.700><c> court.</c>

00:26:13.619 --> 00:26:15.880
So<00:26:13.880><c> go</c><00:26:14.019><c> there</c><00:26:14.180><c> with</c><00:26:14.400><c> a</c><00:26:14.440><c> lot</c><00:26:14.759><c> of</c><00:26:14.960><c> humility.</c>

00:26:15.960 --> 00:26:18.779
I'm<00:26:16.200><c> going</c><00:26:16.299><c> to</c><00:26:16.420><c> give</c><00:26:16.539><c> you</c><00:26:17.000><c> where</c><00:26:17.299><c> it</c><00:26:17.519><c> can</c><00:26:17.700><c> be</c><00:26:18.079><c> almost</c><00:26:18.500><c> forced</c>

00:26:18.779 --> 00:26:20.039
upon<00:26:19.119><c> you.</c>

00:26:20.259 --> 00:26:23.619
This<00:26:20.400><c> is</c><00:26:20.579><c> an</c><00:26:20.579><c> example</c><00:26:21.079><c> I</c><00:26:22.140><c> don't</c><00:26:22.420><c> enjoy</c><00:26:22.720><c> telling.</c>

00:26:23.660 --> 00:26:27.400
About<00:26:24.019><c> 20</c><00:26:24.380><c> years</c><00:26:24.680><c> ago,</c><00:26:25.039><c> something</c><00:26:25.339><c> really</c><00:26:26.440><c> bad</c><00:26:26.759><c> happened</c><00:26:27.119><c> to</c>

00:26:27.400 --> 00:26:31.339
me<00:26:28.039><c> at</c><00:26:28.519><c> the</c><00:26:28.740><c> hands</c><00:26:28.880><c> of</c><00:26:29.099><c> a</c><00:26:29.279><c> brother,</c><00:26:29.700><c> but</c><00:26:29.880><c> I</c><00:26:30.019><c> didn't</c><00:26:30.240><c> know</c><00:26:30.460><c> it.</c>

00:26:32.039 --> 00:26:34.720
And<00:26:32.460><c> I</c><00:26:32.599><c> was</c><00:26:32.900><c> blindsided</c><00:26:33.519><c> by</c><00:26:33.799><c> this</c><00:26:33.960><c> situation.</c>

00:26:34.720 --> 00:26:37.440
And<00:26:35.400><c> he</c><00:26:35.960><c> made</c><00:26:36.299><c> a</c><00:26:36.539><c> phone</c><00:26:36.759><c> call.</c>

00:26:37.640 --> 00:26:40.759
It<00:26:37.640><c> was</c><00:26:38.059><c> a</c><00:26:38.140><c> day</c><00:26:38.500><c> after</c><00:26:38.779><c> we</c><00:26:38.900><c> got</c><00:26:39.039><c> back</c><00:26:39.299><c> from</c><00:26:39.500><c> a</c><00:26:39.599><c> vacation.</c>

00:26:40.819 --> 00:26:41.519
The<00:26:40.960><c> phone</c><00:26:41.299><c> rings.</c>

00:26:41.579 --> 00:26:44.640
I'm<00:26:41.799><c> kind</c><00:26:41.920><c> of</c><00:26:42.059><c> getting</c><00:26:42.180><c> ready</c><00:26:42.400><c> to</c><00:26:42.480><c> go</c><00:26:42.660><c> to</c><00:26:42.920><c> work</c><00:26:43.119><c> in</c><00:26:43.319><c> the</c><00:26:43.420><c> next</c><00:26:43.720><c> morning.</c>

00:26:44.680 --> 00:26:49.380
And<00:26:44.859><c> he</c><00:26:45.039><c> calls</c><00:26:45.259><c> me</c><00:26:45.539><c> and</c><00:26:45.799><c> he</c><00:26:46.079><c> hits</c><00:26:46.299><c> me</c><00:26:46.599><c> with</c><00:26:46.880><c> this</c><00:26:48.000><c> ton</c><00:26:48.299><c> of</c><00:26:48.539><c> bricks</c><00:26:48.859><c> I</c>

00:26:49.380 --> 00:26:52.660
never,<00:26:50.259><c> ever,</c><00:26:50.779><c> ever</c><00:26:51.279><c> would</c><00:26:51.500><c> have</c><00:26:51.680><c> imagined.</c>

00:26:52.740 --> 00:26:55.519
I<00:26:53.019><c> never</c><00:26:53.259><c> thought</c><00:26:53.579><c> it</c><00:26:53.720><c> could</c><00:26:53.859><c> ever</c><00:26:54.160><c> happen</c><00:26:54.420><c> to</c><00:26:54.660><c> me.</c>

00:26:57.059 --> 00:26:58.880
And<00:26:57.579><c> it</c><00:26:58.099><c> crushed</c><00:26:58.380><c> me.</c>

00:26:59.220 --> 00:27:01.779
And<00:26:59.460><c> he</c><00:26:59.640><c> told</c><00:26:59.859><c> me</c><00:27:00.059><c> that</c><00:27:00.160><c> he</c><00:27:00.259><c> was</c><00:27:00.359><c> coming</c><00:27:00.640><c> over</c><00:27:00.940><c> the</c><00:27:01.119><c> next</c><00:27:01.519><c> night</c>

00:27:01.779 --> 00:27:03.279
to<00:27:02.059><c> apologize.</c>

00:27:04.119 --> 00:27:09.720
Well,<00:27:05.940><c> that</c><00:27:06.039><c> night,</c><00:27:06.599><c> that</c><00:27:06.819><c> was</c><00:27:07.900><c> the</c><00:27:08.079><c> worst</c><00:27:08.279><c> night</c><00:27:08.460><c> of</c><00:27:08.599><c> my</c><00:27:08.740><c> life.</c>

00:27:10.000 --> 00:27:10.880
I<00:27:10.220><c> didn't</c><00:27:10.420><c> sleep.</c>

00:27:11.019 --> 00:27:13.700
I<00:27:11.259><c> was</c><00:27:11.720><c> just</c><00:27:12.599><c> devastated.</c>

00:27:13.779 --> 00:27:17.940
So<00:27:14.019><c> he</c><00:27:14.200><c> shows</c><00:27:14.500><c> up</c><00:27:15.339><c> the</c><00:27:15.680><c> next</c><00:27:16.039><c> night</c><00:27:16.400><c> and</c><00:27:16.759><c> he</c><00:27:16.940><c> does</c><00:27:17.119><c> a</c><00:27:17.240><c> fantastic</c>

00:27:17.940 --> 00:27:20.900
job<00:27:18.400><c> of</c><00:27:19.619><c> apologizing.</c>

00:27:20.900 --> 00:27:22.380
He<00:27:21.119><c> did</c><00:27:21.339><c> a</c><00:27:21.779><c> great</c><00:27:21.980><c> job.</c>

00:27:22.640 --> 00:27:26.240
I<00:27:23.039><c> have</c><00:27:23.259><c> no</c><00:27:23.599><c> fault</c><00:27:23.980><c> with</c><00:27:24.500><c> how</c><00:27:24.700><c> he</c><00:27:24.859><c> did</c><00:27:25.039><c> it</c><00:27:25.240><c> at</c><00:27:25.380><c> all.</c>

00:27:26.619 --> 00:27:29.519
And<00:27:26.859><c> then</c><00:27:27.160><c> he</c><00:27:27.319><c> asked</c><00:27:27.579><c> me</c><00:27:27.740><c> if</c><00:27:27.839><c> I'd</c><00:27:28.099><c> forgive</c><00:27:28.319><c> him.</c>

00:27:29.660 --> 00:27:31.859
Now,<00:27:30.180><c> here's</c><00:27:30.539><c> the</c><00:27:30.779><c> problem.</c>

00:27:32.799 --> 00:27:35.119
I<00:27:32.960><c> really</c><00:27:33.319><c> couldn't</c><00:27:33.640><c> forgive</c><00:27:33.980><c> him</c><00:27:34.079><c> at</c><00:27:34.279><c> that</c><00:27:34.500><c> point</c><00:27:34.700><c> because</c><00:27:34.940><c> I</c>

00:27:35.119 --> 00:27:37.519
hadn't<00:27:35.599><c> even...</c>

00:27:37.559 --> 00:27:39.599
More<00:27:38.000><c> facts</c><00:27:38.480><c> kept</c><00:27:38.779><c> coming.</c>

00:27:39.839 --> 00:27:41.380
Every<00:27:40.119><c> day</c><00:27:40.380><c> more</c><00:27:40.660><c> facts</c><00:27:41.019><c> would</c><00:27:41.259><c> come.</c>

00:27:41.640 --> 00:27:44.599
Everything<00:27:42.059><c> pieces</c><00:27:42.500><c> together</c><00:27:43.000><c> and</c><00:27:43.220><c> so</c><00:27:43.339><c> on</c><00:27:43.480><c> and</c><00:27:43.579><c> so</c><00:27:43.799><c> forth.</c>

00:27:45.920 --> 00:27:47.900
And<00:27:46.420><c> I</c><00:27:46.539><c> couldn't</c><00:27:46.900><c> forgive</c><00:27:47.220><c> him</c><00:27:47.380><c> at</c><00:27:47.559><c> that</c><00:27:47.799><c> point.</c>

00:27:48.039 --> 00:27:50.220
I<00:27:48.059><c> told</c><00:27:48.380><c> him,</c><00:27:48.980><c> you</c><00:27:49.259><c> know,</c><00:27:49.359><c> I'll</c><00:27:49.539><c> think</c><00:27:49.779><c> about</c><00:27:50.059><c> it.</c>

00:27:50.640 --> 00:27:51.960
I'm<00:27:51.140><c> a</c><00:27:51.299><c> novice</c><00:27:51.640><c> at</c><00:27:51.759><c> this.</c>

00:27:52.119 --> 00:27:53.500
I<00:27:52.160><c> said,</c><00:27:52.319><c> I'll</c><00:27:52.680><c> think</c><00:27:52.920><c> about</c><00:27:53.200><c> it.</c>

00:27:53.880 --> 00:27:56.880
So<00:27:54.099><c> I</c><00:27:54.240><c> called</c><00:27:54.579><c> him</c><00:27:54.799><c> about</c><00:27:55.039><c> two</c><00:27:55.279><c> weeks</c><00:27:55.599><c> later.</c>

00:27:57.799 --> 00:27:59.559
And<00:27:58.279><c> I</c><00:27:58.500><c> told</c><00:27:58.720><c> him</c><00:27:58.839><c> I'd</c><00:27:59.079><c> forgiven</c><00:27:59.339><c> him.</c>

00:27:59.579 --> 00:28:00.039
But<00:27:59.720><c> you</c><00:27:59.839><c> know</c><00:27:59.900><c> what?</c>

00:28:00.039 --> 00:28:01.079
I<00:28:00.200><c> hadn't.</c>

00:28:01.380 --> 00:28:04.579
I'll<00:28:01.500><c> tell</c><00:28:01.740><c> you</c><00:28:01.880><c> why</c><00:28:02.400><c> some</c><00:28:02.980><c> forgiveness</c><00:28:03.380><c> issues</c><00:28:03.779><c> takes</c>

00:28:04.579 --> 00:28:07.180
weeks,<00:28:05.200><c> months,</c><00:28:05.779><c> years,</c><00:28:06.319><c> decades.</c>

00:28:07.319 --> 00:28:11.460
Because<00:28:07.559><c> sometimes</c><00:28:08.200><c> forgiveness</c><00:28:08.779><c> issues,</c><00:28:09.980><c> you</c><00:28:10.240><c> don't</c><00:28:10.619><c> always</c><00:28:11.039><c> know</c>

00:28:11.460 --> 00:28:12.519
all<00:28:11.740><c> the</c><00:28:11.900><c> ramifications.</c>

00:28:12.660 --> 00:28:14.339
I'm<00:28:12.819><c> going</c><00:28:12.940><c> to</c><00:28:13.079><c> give</c><00:28:13.200><c> you</c><00:28:13.519><c> an</c><00:28:13.740><c> example</c><00:28:14.160><c> of</c><00:28:14.240><c> that.</c>

00:28:14.359 --> 00:28:16.579
Let's<00:28:14.539><c> say</c><00:28:14.680><c> someone</c><00:28:14.960><c> cuts</c><00:28:15.259><c> off</c><00:28:15.539><c> your</c><00:28:15.779><c> leg.</c>

00:28:17.720 --> 00:28:20.460
You<00:28:17.839><c> know,</c><00:28:18.039><c> is</c><00:28:18.180><c> there</c><00:28:18.380><c> stupidity</c><00:28:18.980><c> that</c><00:28:19.180><c> cut</c><00:28:19.259><c> off</c><00:28:19.500><c> your</c><00:28:19.700><c> leg?</c>

00:28:20.759 --> 00:28:24.000
Now,<00:28:21.200><c> can</c><00:28:21.420><c> you</c><00:28:21.599><c> say,</c><00:28:22.619><c> I</c><00:28:22.700><c> forgive</c><00:28:23.000><c> you</c><00:28:23.400><c> at</c><00:28:23.539><c> that</c><00:28:23.799><c> point?</c>

00:28:24.259 --> 00:28:24.799
You<00:28:24.539><c> could.</c>

00:28:24.799 --> 00:28:26.240
You<00:28:25.079><c> could</c><00:28:25.240><c> possibly.</c>

00:28:26.259 --> 00:28:28.200
But<00:28:26.380><c> let</c><00:28:26.579><c> me</c><00:28:26.700><c> ask</c><00:28:26.940><c> you,</c><00:28:27.200><c> have</c><00:28:27.279><c> you</c><00:28:27.460><c> ever</c><00:28:27.740><c> had</c><00:28:27.960><c> to...</c>

00:28:28.200 --> 00:28:30.700
Now<00:28:28.380><c> you</c><00:28:28.480><c> have</c><00:28:28.599><c> to</c><00:28:28.839><c> change</c><00:28:29.059><c> jobs</c><00:28:29.579><c> because</c><00:28:29.880><c> you've</c><00:28:30.220><c> got</c><00:28:30.259><c> to</c><00:28:30.380><c> work</c><00:28:30.519><c> at</c>

00:28:30.700 --> 00:28:31.180
a<00:28:30.859><c> desk.</c>

00:28:31.579 --> 00:28:33.339
Have<00:28:31.680><c> you</c><00:28:31.880><c> learned</c><00:28:32.140><c> how</c><00:28:32.339><c> to</c><00:28:32.440><c> use</c><00:28:32.680><c> crutches</c><00:28:33.000><c> yet?</c>

00:28:33.680 --> 00:28:36.500
Have<00:28:33.799><c> you</c><00:28:33.960><c> felt</c><00:28:34.140><c> the</c><00:28:34.400><c> pain</c><00:28:34.599><c> of</c><00:28:34.859><c> about</c><00:28:35.099><c> three</c><00:28:35.400><c> operations</c><00:28:36.140><c> to</c>

00:28:36.500 --> 00:28:38.079
kind<00:28:36.640><c> of</c><00:28:36.880><c> seal</c><00:28:37.019><c> it</c><00:28:37.279><c> up?</c>

00:28:38.180 --> 00:28:40.259
You<00:28:38.660><c> haven't</c><00:28:39.099><c> actually...</c>

00:28:40.259 --> 00:28:43.660
You<00:28:40.420><c> may</c><00:28:40.759><c> try</c><00:28:41.660><c> to</c><00:28:41.980><c> start</c><00:28:42.180><c> your</c><00:28:42.460><c> forgiveness,</c><00:28:42.740><c> but</c><00:28:42.920><c> you</c><00:28:43.039><c> haven't</c><00:28:43.220><c> even</c>

00:28:43.660 --> 00:28:46.200
experienced<00:28:44.380><c> the</c><00:28:44.599><c> whole</c><00:28:44.839><c> experience</c><00:28:45.400><c> yet.</c>

00:28:46.400 --> 00:28:49.700
You<00:28:46.660><c> have</c><00:28:47.000><c> more</c><00:28:47.539><c> to</c><00:28:47.839><c> come,</c><00:28:48.619><c> unfortunately.</c>

00:28:49.779 --> 00:28:52.099
So<00:28:50.000><c> what</c><00:28:50.180><c> I'm</c><00:28:50.339><c> saying</c><00:28:50.559><c> is</c><00:28:50.779><c> that</c><00:28:50.960><c> when</c><00:28:51.140><c> you</c><00:28:51.420><c> ask</c><00:28:51.619><c> forgiveness</c>

00:28:52.099 --> 00:28:52.660
of<00:28:52.359><c> people,</c>

00:28:52.660 --> 00:28:56.279
you<00:28:53.000><c> need</c><00:28:53.180><c> to</c><00:28:53.339><c> be</c><00:28:53.519><c> sensitive</c><00:28:54.259><c> that</c><00:28:54.680><c> you're</c><00:28:55.039><c> really</c><00:28:55.539><c> putting</c><00:28:55.900><c> a</c>

00:28:56.279 --> 00:28:57.900
hard<00:28:56.519><c> thing</c><00:28:56.740><c> on</c><00:28:56.980><c> them</c><00:28:57.240><c> to</c><00:28:57.500><c> do</c>

00:28:57.900 --> 00:29:02.460
and<00:28:58.579><c> to</c><00:28:59.460><c> let</c><00:28:59.859><c> them</c><00:29:00.099><c> do</c><00:29:00.279><c> it</c><00:29:00.400><c> their</c><00:29:00.579><c> own</c><00:29:00.799><c> way</c><00:29:01.140><c> with</c><00:29:01.799><c> God's</c><00:29:02.220><c> help.</c>

00:29:02.740 --> 00:29:07.339
And<00:29:02.980><c> we'll</c><00:29:03.119><c> be</c><00:29:03.359><c> talking</c><00:29:03.539><c> more</c><00:29:03.740><c> about</c><00:29:04.019><c> that</c><00:29:04.579><c> in</c><00:29:04.819><c> our</c><00:29:05.819><c> last</c><00:29:06.240><c> class</c><00:29:06.799><c> of</c>

00:29:07.339 --> 00:29:09.180
maybe<00:29:07.619><c> how</c><00:29:07.759><c> you</c><00:29:07.880><c> can</c><00:29:08.039><c> do</c><00:29:08.200><c> that.</c>

00:29:09.980 --> 00:29:11.720
So<00:29:10.460><c> realize</c><00:29:10.940><c> what</c><00:29:11.180><c> you're</c><00:29:11.339><c> doing</c><00:29:11.519><c> to</c><00:29:11.660><c> them.</c>

00:29:11.759 --> 00:29:15.440
The<00:29:12.019><c> third</c><00:29:12.579><c> point</c><00:29:13.160><c> of</c><00:29:13.559><c> pitfalls</c><00:29:14.039><c> is</c><00:29:14.299><c> what</c><00:29:14.500><c> happens</c><00:29:14.740><c> if</c><00:29:14.880><c> you</c><00:29:14.960><c> just</c><00:29:15.180><c> take</c><00:29:15.319><c> it</c>

00:29:15.440 --> 00:29:16.660
up<00:29:15.559><c> with</c><00:29:15.759><c> God?</c>

00:29:16.799 --> 00:29:18.660
Why<00:29:17.019><c> don't</c><00:29:17.279><c> you</c><00:29:17.460><c> just</c><00:29:17.680><c> take</c><00:29:17.819><c> it</c><00:29:17.920><c> up</c><00:29:18.039><c> with</c><00:29:18.220><c> God?</c>

00:29:18.660 --> 00:29:21.539
Because<00:29:19.220><c> isn't</c><00:29:19.480><c> it</c><00:29:19.759><c> against</c><00:29:20.220><c> the</c><00:29:20.579><c> and</c><00:29:20.779><c> the</c><00:29:20.920><c> the</c><00:29:21.079><c> only?</c>

00:29:21.799 --> 00:29:24.660
And<00:29:21.799><c> Psalm</c><00:29:21.940><c> 51</c><00:29:22.299><c> says,</c><00:29:22.539><c> against</c><00:29:22.900><c> the</c><00:29:23.099><c> and</c><00:29:23.259><c> the</c><00:29:23.380><c> only</c><00:29:23.640><c> have</c><00:29:23.819><c> I</c><00:29:24.079><c> sinned?</c>

00:29:24.660 --> 00:29:27.500
So<00:29:24.920><c> I'm</c><00:29:25.200><c> going</c><00:29:25.380><c> to</c><00:29:25.539><c> give</c><00:29:25.680><c> you</c><00:29:26.079><c> a</c><00:29:26.599><c> story</c><00:29:26.779><c> about</c><00:29:26.980><c> that</c><00:29:27.279><c> one.</c>

00:29:27.880 --> 00:29:31.579
So<00:29:28.079><c> let's</c><00:29:28.460><c> pretend</c><00:29:28.819><c> that</c><00:29:29.019><c> you</c><00:29:29.200><c> bought</c><00:29:29.339><c> a</c><00:29:29.579><c> brand</c><00:29:29.799><c> new</c><00:29:29.960><c> car</c><00:29:30.519><c> and</c>

00:29:31.579 --> 00:29:34.480
you<00:29:31.839><c> take</c><00:29:32.019><c> it</c><00:29:32.200><c> to</c><00:29:32.400><c> work</c><00:29:32.619><c> the</c><00:29:32.880><c> first</c><00:29:33.299><c> time.</c>

00:29:34.859 --> 00:29:36.980
After<00:29:35.119><c> the</c><00:29:35.339><c> weekend,</c><00:29:35.859><c> you're</c><00:29:36.019><c> driving</c><00:29:36.140><c> it</c><00:29:36.319><c> on</c><00:29:36.339><c> Monday</c><00:29:36.640><c> morning.</c>

00:29:37.039 --> 00:29:39.960
You<00:29:37.240><c> know</c><00:29:37.380><c> where</c><00:29:37.559><c> you</c><00:29:37.740><c> parked</c><00:29:38.059><c> your</c><00:29:38.500><c> new</c><00:29:39.000><c> car?</c>

00:29:40.099 --> 00:29:43.099
You<00:29:40.339><c> park</c><00:29:40.500><c> it</c><00:29:40.660><c> in</c><00:29:40.740><c> the</c><00:29:40.960><c> far</c><00:29:41.160><c> end</c><00:29:41.299><c> of</c><00:29:41.400><c> the</c><00:29:41.599><c> parking</c><00:29:41.940><c> lot,</c><00:29:42.779><c> far</c>

00:29:43.099 --> 00:29:44.859
from<00:29:43.380><c> anybody</c><00:29:43.779><c> else.</c>

00:29:44.920 --> 00:29:47.220
Nobody<00:29:45.400><c> else</c><00:29:45.700><c> is</c><00:29:45.799><c> going</c><00:29:45.900><c> to</c><00:29:46.039><c> be</c><00:29:46.140><c> parked</c><00:29:46.339><c> anywhere</c><00:29:46.720><c> near</c><00:29:46.960><c> you.</c>

00:29:47.220 --> 00:29:52.279
So<00:29:47.660><c> you</c><00:29:47.740><c> go</c><00:29:47.940><c> up</c><00:29:48.079><c> to</c><00:29:48.180><c> your</c><00:29:48.359><c> office</c><00:29:49.400><c> like</c><00:29:49.819><c> normal</c><00:29:50.500><c> and</c><00:29:50.819><c> your</c><00:29:51.000><c> window</c><00:29:51.519><c> overlooks</c><00:29:52.119><c> the</c>

00:29:52.279 --> 00:29:53.500
parking<00:29:52.680><c> lot.</c>

00:29:53.599 --> 00:29:57.400
And<00:29:53.740><c> then</c><00:29:53.920><c> about</c><00:29:54.400><c> a</c><00:29:54.619><c> half</c><00:29:54.819><c> hour</c><00:29:55.059><c> later,</c><00:29:55.980><c> you</c><00:29:56.140><c> hear</c><00:29:56.400><c> a</c><00:29:56.680><c> skidding</c><00:29:57.180><c> mark</c>

00:29:57.400 --> 00:30:00.460
and<00:29:57.599><c> some</c><00:29:57.920><c> car</c><00:29:58.420><c> comes</c><00:29:58.799><c> rushing</c><00:29:59.319><c> into</c><00:29:59.579><c> the</c><00:29:59.819><c> parking</c><00:30:00.099><c> lot.</c>

00:30:00.819 --> 00:30:02.240
Somebody<00:30:01.059><c> is</c><00:30:01.380><c> late</c><00:30:01.559><c> to</c><00:30:01.859><c> work.</c>

00:30:02.440 --> 00:30:05.759
They<00:30:02.680><c> come</c><00:30:03.079><c> skidding</c><00:30:03.539><c> around</c><00:30:04.019><c> and</c><00:30:04.500><c> they</c><00:30:04.740><c> come</c><00:30:05.099><c> skidding</c><00:30:05.519><c> over</c>

00:30:05.759 --> 00:30:06.339
to<00:30:06.039><c> you.</c>

00:30:06.500 --> 00:30:10.240
And<00:30:06.660><c> they</c><00:30:06.900><c> side</c><00:30:07.220><c> swipe</c><00:30:07.420><c> your</c><00:30:07.940><c> car</c><00:30:08.400><c> and</c><00:30:09.119><c> land</c><00:30:09.359><c> themselves</c><00:30:09.700><c> right</c><00:30:10.000><c> next</c>

00:30:10.240 --> 00:30:12.400
to<00:30:10.400><c> your</c><00:30:10.579><c> car</c><00:30:10.980><c> in</c><00:30:11.259><c> the</c><00:30:11.440><c> space</c><00:30:11.700><c> next</c><00:30:11.980><c> to</c><00:30:12.140><c> you.</c>

00:30:12.400 --> 00:30:16.720
Then<00:30:13.180><c> you</c><00:30:13.400><c> look</c><00:30:13.759><c> with</c><00:30:14.039><c> horror</c><00:30:14.500><c> and</c><00:30:14.940><c> they're</c><00:30:15.079><c> writing</c><00:30:15.400><c> a</c><00:30:16.160><c> note</c>

00:30:16.720 --> 00:30:18.660
on<00:30:17.460><c> a</c><00:30:17.539><c> little</c><00:30:17.720><c> piece</c><00:30:17.940><c> of</c><00:30:18.119><c> paper.</c>

00:30:18.859 --> 00:30:21.980
It's<00:30:19.059><c> even</c><00:30:19.200><c> put</c><00:30:19.279><c> under</c><00:30:19.559><c> the</c><00:30:19.880><c> windshield</c><00:30:20.140><c> wiper</c><00:30:20.720><c> like</c><00:30:21.660><c> that.</c>

00:30:21.980 --> 00:30:23.299
And<00:30:22.119><c> they</c><00:30:22.299><c> come</c><00:30:22.579><c> into</c><00:30:22.859><c> work.</c>

00:30:23.740 --> 00:30:26.039
Well,<00:30:23.859><c> you</c><00:30:24.019><c> can</c><00:30:24.200><c> imagine</c><00:30:24.579><c> you're</c><00:30:24.839><c> going</c><00:30:24.960><c> to</c><00:30:25.099><c> get</c><00:30:25.599><c> out</c><00:30:25.859><c> there</c>

00:30:26.039 --> 00:30:28.559
as<00:30:26.200><c> quick</c><00:30:26.319><c> as</c><00:30:26.480><c> you</c><00:30:26.940><c> can</c><00:30:27.259><c> and</c><00:30:27.460><c> go</c><00:30:27.680><c> see</c><00:30:27.839><c> what</c><00:30:28.099><c> happened.</c>

00:30:28.859 --> 00:30:32.619
And<00:30:29.000><c> so</c><00:30:29.119><c> you</c><00:30:29.220><c> go</c><00:30:29.440><c> out</c><00:30:29.680><c> there</c><00:30:29.940><c> and</c><00:30:30.500><c> you</c><00:30:30.700><c> look</c><00:30:30.839><c> at</c><00:30:31.079><c> the</c><00:30:31.279><c> car</c><00:30:31.640><c> and</c>

00:30:32.619 --> 00:30:33.779
you<00:30:33.099><c> look</c><00:30:33.259><c> at</c><00:30:33.440><c> the</c><00:30:33.599><c> note.</c>

00:30:33.859 --> 00:30:35.640
And<00:30:34.039><c> here's</c><00:30:34.180><c> what</c><00:30:34.319><c> the</c><00:30:34.519><c> note</c><00:30:34.680><c> says.</c>

00:30:36.240 --> 00:30:39.519
Dear<00:30:36.480><c> car</c><00:30:36.980><c> owner,</c><00:30:37.680><c> I</c><00:30:37.900><c> have</c><00:30:38.079><c> prayed</c><00:30:38.220><c> to</c><00:30:38.460><c> God</c><00:30:38.660><c> and</c><00:30:38.859><c> asked</c><00:30:39.019><c> forgiveness.</c>

00:30:39.519 --> 00:30:43.559
I'm<00:30:40.319><c> claiming</c><00:30:40.660><c> the</c><00:30:40.920><c> damage</c><00:30:41.200><c> in</c><00:30:41.460><c> heaven</c><00:30:41.779><c> and</c><00:30:42.259><c> God</c><00:30:42.440><c> has</c><00:30:42.660><c> forgiven</c><00:30:42.920><c> me.</c>

00:30:43.759 --> 00:30:45.519
Isn't<00:30:44.000><c> grace</c><00:30:44.299><c> wonderful?</c>

00:30:48.740 --> 00:30:50.579
How<00:30:49.019><c> do</c><00:30:49.200><c> you</c><00:30:49.200><c> feel</c><00:30:49.339><c> about</c><00:30:49.559><c> that?</c>

00:30:52.200 --> 00:30:56.420
You<00:30:52.460><c> see,</c><00:30:53.640><c> it</c><00:30:53.920><c> takes</c><00:30:54.099><c> some</c><00:30:54.400><c> action</c><00:30:54.960><c> involved</c><00:30:55.380><c> too.</c>

00:30:56.500 --> 00:30:57.980
No<00:30:56.779><c> one</c><00:30:56.920><c> would</c><00:30:57.140><c> put</c><00:30:57.299><c> up</c><00:30:57.460><c> with</c><00:30:57.700><c> that.</c>

00:30:58.119 --> 00:30:59.819
It<00:30:58.160><c> needs</c><00:30:58.299><c> some</c><00:30:58.599><c> kind</c><00:30:58.779><c> of</c><00:30:59.240><c> a</c><00:30:59.420><c> change.</c>

00:31:00.180 --> 00:31:03.019
You're<00:31:00.460><c> going</c><00:31:00.599><c> to</c><00:31:00.599><c> need</c><00:31:00.759><c> a</c><00:31:00.880><c> little</c><00:31:01.079><c> more</c><00:31:01.420><c> remorse</c><00:31:02.119><c> than</c><00:31:02.720><c> that.</c>

00:31:03.079 --> 00:31:07.839
And<00:31:03.240><c> you</c><00:31:03.460><c> expect</c><00:31:03.880><c> him</c><00:31:04.099><c> to</c><00:31:04.319><c> make</c><00:31:04.579><c> restitution</c><00:31:05.240><c> or</c><00:31:05.539><c> some</c><00:31:06.259><c> gesture</c><00:31:06.799><c> towards</c><00:31:07.220><c> you.</c>

00:31:07.839 --> 00:31:09.759
And<00:31:08.500><c> we</c><00:31:08.740><c> know</c><00:31:09.000><c> that</c><00:31:09.180><c> from</c><00:31:09.339><c> the</c><00:31:09.500><c> Bible.</c>

00:31:09.900 --> 00:31:10.880
That's<00:31:10.180><c> part</c><00:31:10.400><c> of</c><00:31:10.559><c> repentance.</c>

00:31:11.039 --> 00:31:12.799
We<00:31:11.099><c> just</c><00:31:11.319><c> talked</c><00:31:11.480><c> about</c><00:31:11.640><c> that</c><00:31:11.759><c> yesterday.</c>

00:31:13.259 --> 00:31:14.400
There's<00:31:13.539><c> an</c><00:31:13.680><c> old</c><00:31:13.920><c> hymn</c><00:31:14.099><c> that</c><00:31:14.220><c> says,</c>

00:31:14.559 --> 00:31:16.039
If<00:31:14.559><c> I've</c><00:31:15.099><c> wounded</c><00:31:15.119><c> a</c><00:31:15.440><c> soul</c><00:31:15.599><c> today,</c>

00:31:16.440 --> 00:31:18.619
If<00:31:16.579><c> I've</c><00:31:16.819><c> caused</c><00:31:17.140><c> one</c><00:31:17.500><c> foot</c><00:31:17.660><c> to</c><00:31:17.920><c> go</c><00:31:18.119><c> astray,</c>

00:31:19.000 --> 00:31:21.640
If<00:31:19.180><c> I've</c><00:31:19.500><c> walked</c><00:31:19.720><c> in</c><00:31:19.839><c> my</c><00:31:20.079><c> own</c><00:31:20.319><c> willful</c><00:31:20.700><c> way,</c>

00:31:21.660 --> 00:31:23.059
Dear<00:31:21.900><c> Lord,</c><00:31:22.200><c> forgive</c><00:31:22.559><c> me.</c>

00:31:23.400 --> 00:31:24.599
And<00:31:23.579><c> then</c><00:31:23.740><c> I've</c><00:31:24.019><c> got</c><00:31:24.180><c> the</c><00:31:24.400><c> chorus.</c>

00:31:24.680 --> 00:31:26.019
I'm<00:31:24.960><c> a</c><00:31:25.180><c> composer</c><00:31:25.539><c> now.</c>

00:31:26.420 --> 00:31:28.480
Go<00:31:26.640><c> and</c><00:31:26.839><c> do</c><00:31:26.980><c> something</c><00:31:27.319><c> about</c><00:31:27.619><c> it.</c>

00:31:28.819 --> 00:31:31.460
It<00:31:28.960><c> doesn't</c><00:31:29.319><c> quite</c><00:31:29.660><c> fit</c><00:31:29.940><c> the</c><00:31:30.579><c> lyrics.</c>

00:31:31.740 --> 00:31:33.359
Go<00:31:32.200><c> and</c><00:31:32.380><c> do</c><00:31:32.519><c> something</c><00:31:32.819><c> about</c><00:31:33.079><c> it.</c>

00:31:33.599 --> 00:31:35.019
So<00:31:33.940><c> don't</c><00:31:34.119><c> just</c><00:31:34.359><c> be</c><00:31:34.700><c> praying,</c>

00:31:35.019 --> 00:31:37.240
I've<00:31:35.400><c> wounded</c><00:31:35.599><c> a</c><00:31:35.880><c> soul</c><00:31:36.019><c> today.</c>

00:31:37.259 --> 00:31:39.559
I've<00:31:37.359><c> caused</c><00:31:37.660><c> a</c><00:31:37.880><c> foot.</c><00:31:38.220><c> Dear</c><00:31:38.359><c> Lord,</c><00:31:38.579><c> forgive.</c>

00:31:39.640 --> 00:31:40.759
There's<00:31:39.880><c> an</c><00:31:40.059><c> action</c><00:31:40.319><c> required.</c>

00:31:41.000 --> 00:31:42.579
It's<00:31:41.279><c> kind</c><00:31:41.460><c> of</c><00:31:41.619><c> neat</c><00:31:41.740><c> how</c><00:31:41.940><c> this</c><00:31:42.200><c> works</c><00:31:42.400><c> out.</c>

00:31:42.839 --> 00:31:44.859
Matthew<00:31:43.099><c> 3</c><00:31:43.519><c>.8</c><00:31:43.740><c> and</c><00:31:43.960><c> Luke</c><00:31:44.259><c> 3</c><00:31:44.579><c>.8.</c>

00:31:45.019 --> 00:31:46.380
Exactly<00:31:45.380><c> the</c><00:31:45.680><c> same</c><00:31:45.940><c> verse.</c>

00:31:46.819 --> 00:31:48.500
Luke<00:31:47.059><c> 3</c><00:31:47.299><c>.8</c><00:31:47.400><c> and</c><00:31:47.579><c> Matthew</c><00:31:47.980><c> 3</c><00:31:48.319><c>.8.</c>

00:31:48.579 --> 00:31:49.420
And<00:31:48.660><c> it</c><00:31:48.740><c> says,</c>

00:31:49.700 --> 00:31:51.920
It's<00:31:50.119><c> John</c><00:31:50.440><c> speaking</c><00:31:51.099><c> to</c><00:31:51.380><c> the</c><00:31:51.559><c> people.</c>

00:31:52.420 --> 00:31:55.619
Bring<00:31:52.680><c> forth</c><00:31:53.000><c> there</c><00:31:53.220><c> from</c><00:31:53.700><c> fruits,</c><00:31:54.180><c> meet</c><00:31:54.279><c> for</c><00:31:54.559><c> repentance.</c>

00:31:56.160 --> 00:31:58.920
So<00:31:56.480><c> repentance</c><00:31:56.819><c> means</c><00:31:57.140><c> you</c><00:31:57.339><c> have</c><00:31:57.539><c> a</c><00:31:57.700><c> do</c><00:31:57.880><c>-over.</c>

00:32:00.099 --> 00:32:02.259
And<00:32:00.480><c> you</c><00:32:00.700><c> do</c><00:32:00.960><c> do</c><00:32:01.160><c> a</c><00:32:01.220><c> do</c><00:32:01.380><c>-over</c><00:32:01.599><c> if</c><00:32:01.759><c> you</c><00:32:02.000><c> can.</c>

00:32:02.259 --> 00:32:03.920
You<00:32:02.900><c> can't</c><00:32:03.259><c> fix</c><00:32:03.480><c> a</c><00:32:03.720><c> car.</c>

00:32:04.000 --> 00:32:05.940
Well,<00:32:04.160><c> you</c><00:32:04.259><c> can</c><00:32:04.460><c> fix</c><00:32:04.640><c> a</c><00:32:04.859><c> car,</c><00:32:05.019><c> but</c><00:32:05.140><c> you</c><00:32:05.279><c> can't</c><00:32:05.619><c> change</c>

00:32:05.940 --> 00:32:08.779
the<00:32:06.799><c> shock</c><00:32:07.240><c> that</c><00:32:07.539><c> that</c><00:32:07.720><c> guy</c><00:32:07.859><c> probably</c><00:32:08.240><c> had</c><00:32:08.359><c> on</c><00:32:08.599><c> it.</c>

00:32:09.099 --> 00:32:10.640
I<00:32:09.240><c> think</c><00:32:09.339><c> they</c><00:32:09.480><c> have</c><00:32:09.619><c> special</c><00:32:09.980><c> responsibilities</c>

00:32:10.640 --> 00:32:12.240
in<00:32:10.880><c> families,</c><00:32:11.400><c> husbands</c><00:32:11.720><c> and</c><00:32:12.019><c> wives,</c>

00:32:12.319 --> 00:32:13.380
parents<00:32:12.640><c> and</c><00:32:12.920><c> children,</c>

00:32:13.839 --> 00:32:15.339
and<00:32:13.940><c> brother</c><00:32:14.059><c> in</c><00:32:14.380><c> Christ,</c>

00:32:15.500 --> 00:32:17.599
to<00:32:15.940><c> do</c><00:32:16.240><c> a</c><00:32:16.420><c> very</c><00:32:17.059><c> good</c><00:32:17.359><c> job.</c>

00:32:17.660 --> 00:32:20.000
Not<00:32:17.920><c> average,</c><00:32:18.900><c> but</c><00:32:19.079><c> a</c><00:32:19.259><c> very</c><00:32:19.500><c> good</c><00:32:19.700><c> job.</c>

00:32:20.440 --> 00:32:21.839
So<00:32:20.579><c> I'm</c><00:32:20.740><c> going</c><00:32:20.779><c> to</c><00:32:20.960><c> ask</c><00:32:21.240><c> you,</c>

00:32:21.980 --> 00:32:23.960
how<00:32:22.119><c> many</c><00:32:22.359><c> of</c><00:32:22.480><c> you</c><00:32:22.599><c> are</c><00:32:22.720><c> Bob</c><00:32:22.980><c> Lloyd</c><00:32:23.240><c> fans</c><00:32:23.579><c> here?</c>

00:32:24.279 --> 00:32:26.079
We're<00:32:24.400><c> going</c><00:32:24.539><c> to</c><00:32:24.740><c> actually,</c><00:32:25.200><c> rather</c><00:32:25.480><c> than</c><00:32:25.660><c> have</c><00:32:25.759><c> you</c>

00:32:26.079 --> 00:32:27.500
raise<00:32:26.279><c> your</c><00:32:26.460><c> hand</c><00:32:26.599><c> or</c><00:32:26.740><c> not,</c><00:32:26.839><c> I'm</c><00:32:26.960><c> going</c><00:32:27.079><c> to</c><00:32:27.240><c> see</c>

00:32:27.500 --> 00:32:28.940
if<00:32:27.740><c> you</c><00:32:28.039><c> are</c><00:32:28.200><c> or</c><00:32:28.319><c> not</c><00:32:28.619><c> truly.</c>

00:32:28.940 --> 00:32:31.900
So<00:32:30.019><c> here's</c><00:32:30.480><c> your</c><00:32:30.759><c> test.</c>

00:32:32.759 --> 00:32:33.940
In<00:32:32.980><c> interpersonal</c><00:32:33.460><c> relations,</c>

00:32:34.079 --> 00:32:35.220
my<00:32:34.180><c> dad</c><00:32:34.460><c> uses</c><00:32:34.779><c> a</c><00:32:35.039><c> talk.</c>

00:32:35.359 --> 00:32:37.700
It<00:32:35.480><c> uses</c><00:32:35.779><c> the</c><00:32:36.039><c> 12</c><00:32:36.240><c> magic</c><00:32:36.680><c> words.</c>

00:32:38.240 --> 00:32:39.500
The<00:32:38.500><c> 12</c><00:32:38.700><c> magic</c><00:32:39.059><c> words.</c>

00:32:39.880 --> 00:32:42.240
So<00:32:40.220><c> who</c><00:32:40.440><c> knows</c><00:32:40.660><c> what</c><00:32:40.799><c> the</c><00:32:41.039><c> 12</c><00:32:41.220><c> magic</c><00:32:41.579><c> words</c><00:32:41.859><c> are?</c>

00:32:42.660 --> 00:32:43.519
Yeah?

00:32:43.559 --> 00:32:46.059
I'm<00:32:43.759><c> sorry.</c><00:32:44.779><c> Please</c><00:32:44.779><c> forgive</c><00:32:45.059><c> me.</c>

00:32:46.299 --> 00:32:47.220
I<00:32:46.839><c> was</c><00:32:47.079><c> wrong.</c>

00:32:47.359 --> 00:32:48.839
I<00:32:47.359><c> was</c><00:32:48.019><c> wrong.</c>

00:32:49.400 --> 00:32:50.839
Please<00:32:49.920><c> forgive</c><00:32:50.299><c> me.</c>

00:32:51.240 --> 00:32:52.319
I<00:32:51.420><c> love</c><00:32:51.619><c> you.</c>

00:32:53.539 --> 00:32:54.460
What's<00:32:54.180><c> the</c><00:32:54.279><c> middle?</c>

00:32:54.559 --> 00:32:56.079
I'm<00:32:54.880><c> missing</c><00:32:55.140><c> one</c><00:32:55.339><c> here.</c>

00:32:56.259 --> 00:32:57.819
I<00:32:56.779><c> was</c><00:32:56.920><c> wrong.</c>

00:32:59.420 --> 00:32:59.880
I<00:32:59.599><c> was</c><00:32:59.880><c> wrong.</c>

00:32:59.880 --> 00:33:00.640
I<00:32:59.880><c> was</c><00:32:59.880><c> wrong.</c>

00:33:00.819 --> 00:33:02.799
Please<00:33:01.079><c> forgive</c><00:33:01.539><c> me.</c>

00:33:03.160 --> 00:33:04.640
Thank<00:33:03.640><c> you.</c>

00:33:05.119 --> 00:33:06.720
I<00:33:05.640><c> actually</c><00:33:06.000><c> wrote,</c><00:33:06.180><c> because</c><00:33:06.359><c> you</c><00:33:06.420><c> could</c><00:33:06.579><c> see</c>

00:33:06.720 --> 00:33:07.880
my<00:33:06.960><c> writing</c><00:33:07.099><c> was</c><00:33:07.259><c> really</c><00:33:07.599><c> bad.</c>

00:33:08.359 --> 00:33:09.700
I<00:33:08.559><c> had</c><00:33:08.740><c> to</c><00:33:08.960><c> make</c><00:33:09.099><c> you</c><00:33:09.380><c> sweat.</c>

00:33:09.819 --> 00:33:12.900
I<00:33:09.940><c> actually</c><00:33:10.259><c> had</c><00:33:10.460><c> to</c><00:33:10.759><c> prove</c><00:33:11.039><c> that</c><00:33:11.240><c> you're</c><00:33:11.480><c> Bob</c><00:33:11.720><c> Lloyd</c><00:33:11.940><c> fans.</c>

00:33:13.740 --> 00:33:15.319
So<00:33:13.839><c> I'll</c><00:33:14.319><c> go</c><00:33:14.480><c> home</c><00:33:14.720><c> and</c><00:33:14.920><c> tell</c><00:33:15.019><c> them</c>

00:33:15.319 --> 00:33:16.440
that<00:33:15.759><c> you</c><00:33:15.839><c> can</c><00:33:16.180><c> still,</c>

00:33:16.539 --> 00:33:18.299
Winfield's<00:33:17.140><c> good</c><00:33:17.339><c> still</c><00:33:17.660><c> for</c><00:33:17.900><c> you.</c>

00:33:18.640 --> 00:33:21.200
They<00:33:19.059><c> still</c><00:33:19.319><c> love</c><00:33:19.539><c> you</c><00:33:19.799><c> very</c><00:33:20.099><c> much</c><00:33:20.279><c> up</c><00:33:20.480><c> there.</c>

00:33:21.339 --> 00:33:23.000
So<00:33:21.519><c> those</c><00:33:21.720><c> are</c><00:33:21.880><c> the</c><00:33:22.039><c> 12</c><00:33:22.180><c> magic</c><00:33:22.539><c> words.</c>

00:33:23.000 --> 00:33:25.160
I<00:33:23.819><c> think</c><00:33:24.000><c> we</c><00:33:24.200><c> have</c><00:33:24.460><c> more</c>

00:33:25.160 --> 00:33:26.160
of<00:33:25.319><c> an</c><00:33:25.460><c> obligation.</c>

00:33:26.339 --> 00:33:28.819
I'm<00:33:26.539><c> saying</c><00:33:26.700><c> we</c><00:33:26.940><c> set</c><00:33:27.099><c> the</c><00:33:27.339><c> bar</c><00:33:27.579><c> higher</c>

00:33:29.019 --> 00:33:31.539
to<00:33:29.539><c> be</c><00:33:30.059><c> quicker</c><00:33:30.400><c> at</c><00:33:30.660><c> this.</c>

00:33:31.799 --> 00:33:33.200
Oh,<00:33:32.160><c> I</c><00:33:32.279><c> should</c><00:33:32.480><c> ask</c><00:33:32.720><c> you</c><00:33:32.859><c> this.</c>

00:33:33.440 --> 00:33:34.279
This<00:33:33.660><c> is</c><00:33:33.880><c> the</c><00:33:33.980><c> real</c><00:33:34.140><c> proof.</c>

00:33:34.339 --> 00:33:37.000
How<00:33:34.480><c> many</c><00:33:34.680><c> people</c><00:33:34.960><c> have</c><00:33:35.359><c> actually,</c><00:33:36.640><c> honestly</c>

00:33:37.000 --> 00:33:39.759
used<00:33:37.339><c> these</c><00:33:37.940><c> in</c><00:33:38.660><c> their</c><00:33:38.819><c> life?</c>

00:33:40.000 --> 00:33:41.319
I<00:33:40.119><c> mean...</c>

00:33:41.319 --> 00:33:42.839
So<00:33:41.799><c> we</c><00:33:42.579><c> have?</c>

00:33:43.000 --> 00:33:44.859
Good.<00:33:43.779><c> Very</c><00:33:44.119><c> good.</c>

00:33:44.900 --> 00:33:47.180
That's<00:33:45.339><c> one</c><00:33:45.500><c> thing</c><00:33:45.680><c> about</c><00:33:46.059><c> good</c><00:33:46.500><c> exhortation.</c>

00:33:47.440 --> 00:33:48.680
How<00:33:47.559><c> they</c><00:33:47.700><c> actually</c><00:33:48.079><c> do</c><00:33:48.299><c> it.</c>

00:33:48.980 --> 00:33:50.799
And<00:33:49.160><c> that's</c><00:33:49.500><c> it.</c><00:33:49.759><c> Those</c><00:33:50.059><c> are</c><00:33:50.440><c> actually</c>

00:33:50.799 --> 00:33:52.099
very<00:33:51.079><c> useful.</c>

00:33:52.779 --> 00:33:54.400
And<00:33:52.779><c> I'm</c><00:33:53.319><c> actually</c><00:33:53.640><c> pleased.</c>

00:33:54.440 --> 00:33:56.259
I've<00:33:54.900><c> told</c><00:33:55.000><c> you</c><00:33:55.119><c> I've</c><00:33:55.220><c> done</c><00:33:55.359><c> this</c><00:33:55.539><c> a</c><00:33:55.660><c> few</c><00:33:55.779><c> other</c><00:33:56.019><c> places.</c>

00:33:56.319 --> 00:33:59.079
This<00:33:56.539><c> is</c><00:33:56.799><c> the</c><00:33:57.039><c> best</c><00:33:58.220><c> audience</c>

00:33:59.079 --> 00:34:00.519
I've<00:33:59.720><c> ever</c><00:34:00.000><c> had</c>

00:34:00.519 --> 00:34:03.039
to<00:34:01.160><c> relate</c><00:34:01.460><c> those</c><00:34:01.720><c> back</c><00:34:02.000><c> to</c><00:34:02.200><c> me.</c>

00:34:03.380 --> 00:34:03.920
Good,<00:34:03.740><c> huh?</c>

00:34:04.019 --> 00:34:05.359
Give<00:34:04.200><c> yourself</c><00:34:04.440><c> a</c><00:34:04.619><c> hand.</c>

00:34:06.460 --> 00:34:07.940
Some<00:34:06.980><c> places,</c><00:34:07.440><c> it's</c><00:34:07.579><c> totally,</c>

00:34:08.360 --> 00:34:10.320
they<00:34:08.940><c> get</c><00:34:09.199><c> it</c><00:34:09.400><c> totally</c><00:34:09.559><c> wrong.</c>

00:34:10.860 --> 00:34:12.199
Now<00:34:11.179><c> here's</c><00:34:11.480><c> the</c><00:34:11.739><c> problem,</c>

00:34:12.599 --> 00:34:14.400
is<00:34:12.760><c> often...</c>

00:34:16.400 --> 00:34:17.340
There<00:34:16.920><c> we</c><00:34:17.099><c> go.</c>

00:34:17.340 --> 00:34:18.659
Often,

00:34:19.500 --> 00:34:20.940
we<00:34:19.599><c> like</c><00:34:19.940><c> to</c><00:34:20.119><c> do</c><00:34:20.199><c> just</c><00:34:20.480><c> the</c><00:34:20.719><c> opposite.</c>

00:34:21.039 --> 00:34:22.940
We<00:34:21.119><c> talk</c><00:34:21.400><c> about</c><00:34:21.820><c> repent</c><00:34:22.300><c> and</c><00:34:22.559><c> confession.</c>

00:34:23.079 --> 00:34:25.960
We<00:34:23.480><c> redo</c><00:34:24.300><c> it.</c>

00:34:26.119 --> 00:34:27.380
But<00:34:26.280><c> we</c><00:34:26.539><c> redo</c><00:34:27.019><c> the</c>

00:34:27.380 --> 00:34:28.619
harm<00:34:27.599><c> that</c><00:34:27.719><c> was</c><00:34:27.920><c> done</c><00:34:28.059><c> to</c><00:34:28.300><c> us.</c>

00:34:29.000 --> 00:34:31.400
So<00:34:29.300><c> that</c><00:34:29.659><c> moment</c><00:34:30.139><c> where</c><00:34:30.420><c> somebody</c><00:34:30.679><c> did</c><00:34:30.880><c> something</c><00:34:31.119><c> wrong</c>

00:34:31.400 --> 00:34:33.099
to<00:34:31.659><c> you,</c><00:34:32.340><c> instead</c><00:34:32.679><c> of</c><00:34:32.940><c> like</c>

00:34:33.099 --> 00:34:35.159
in<00:34:33.280><c> repenting,</c><00:34:34.159><c> we</c><00:34:34.440><c> do</c><00:34:34.840><c> a</c>

00:34:35.159 --> 00:34:37.460
do<00:34:35.500><c>-over</c><00:34:36.000><c> of</c><00:34:36.900><c> the</c><00:34:37.179><c> wrong.</c>

00:34:37.639 --> 00:34:39.280
And<00:34:37.860><c> what</c><00:34:37.960><c> do</c><00:34:38.179><c> you</c><00:34:38.239><c> call</c><00:34:38.460><c> when</c><00:34:38.619><c> you</c><00:34:38.920><c> just</c>

00:34:39.280 --> 00:34:41.559
keep<00:34:39.639><c> churning</c><00:34:40.239><c> the</c><00:34:40.900><c> same</c><00:34:41.219><c> thing</c>

00:34:41.559 --> 00:34:44.079
over<00:34:41.880><c> and</c><00:34:41.940><c> over</c><00:34:42.260><c> again,</c><00:34:42.519><c> what</c><00:34:42.659><c> do</c><00:34:42.800><c> you</c><00:34:42.860><c> call</c><00:34:42.980><c> that?</c>

00:34:46.480 --> 00:34:47.579
Resentment.

00:34:47.900 --> 00:34:49.440
Now<00:34:48.059><c> God</c><00:34:48.460><c> has</c><00:34:48.820><c> been</c><00:34:49.079><c> angry.</c>

00:34:49.579 --> 00:34:51.440
God<00:34:49.820><c> is</c><00:34:50.079><c> angry,</c><00:34:50.360><c> but</c><00:34:50.579><c> God</c><00:34:50.840><c> is</c><00:34:51.099><c> never</c>

00:34:51.440 --> 00:34:53.460
resentful.<00:34:52.219><c> You</c><00:34:52.300><c> never</c><00:34:52.559><c> see</c><00:34:52.820><c> God</c><00:34:53.179><c> being</c>

00:34:53.460 --> 00:34:55.739
listed<00:34:53.760><c> as</c><00:34:54.139><c> being</c><00:34:54.440><c> resentful.</c>

00:34:55.820 --> 00:34:57.619
But<00:34:56.059><c> we</c><00:34:56.460><c> do</c><00:34:56.940><c> do</c><00:34:57.219><c> that.</c>

00:34:57.820 --> 00:34:59.519
And<00:34:58.000><c> I</c><00:34:58.139><c> give</c><00:34:58.239><c> you</c><00:34:58.619><c> a</c>

00:34:59.519 --> 00:35:01.639
slightly<00:34:59.840><c> humorous</c>

00:35:01.639 --> 00:35:02.760
quote

00:35:03.940 --> 00:35:06.500
that<00:35:04.539><c> it's</c><00:35:05.139><c> dead</c><00:35:05.460><c> serious.</c>

00:35:06.559 --> 00:35:07.559
I'm<00:35:06.820><c> dead</c><00:35:07.039><c> serious</c><00:35:07.320><c> about</c>

00:35:07.559 --> 00:35:09.280
this<00:35:07.860><c> one</c><00:35:08.039><c> on</c><00:35:08.280><c> resentment.</c>

00:35:10.179 --> 00:35:11.480
Resentment<00:35:10.739><c> is</c><00:35:10.960><c> like</c><00:35:11.119><c> drinking</c>

00:35:11.480 --> 00:35:14.639
poison<00:35:12.059><c> and</c><00:35:12.260><c> waiting</c><00:35:12.460><c> for</c><00:35:12.679><c> the</c><00:35:12.760><c> other</c><00:35:13.019><c> person</c><00:35:13.300><c> to</c><00:35:13.519><c> die.</c>

00:35:16.440 --> 00:35:17.719
And<00:35:16.539><c> resentment</c><00:35:16.780><c> kills</c><00:35:17.179><c> a</c><00:35:17.480><c> fool</c>

00:35:17.719 --> 00:35:19.960
and<00:35:18.139><c> envy</c><00:35:18.380><c> slays</c><00:35:18.780><c> the</c><00:35:19.019><c> simple.</c>

00:35:20.820 --> 00:35:21.280
Alright.

00:35:21.699 --> 00:35:23.539
What<00:35:21.880><c> happens</c><00:35:22.360><c> is,</c><00:35:23.239><c> you</c><00:35:23.380><c> and</c>

00:35:23.539 --> 00:35:25.639
I<00:35:23.699><c> have</c><00:35:23.940><c> all</c><00:35:24.179><c> done</c><00:35:24.340><c> this</c><00:35:24.579><c> before.</c><00:35:25.099><c> I'm</c><00:35:25.280><c> not</c><00:35:25.480><c> going</c>

00:35:25.639 --> 00:35:27.579
to<00:35:25.860><c> speak</c><00:35:26.039><c> to</c><00:35:26.239><c> them.</c><00:35:26.980><c> I'm</c><00:35:27.159><c> going</c><00:35:27.280><c> to</c><00:35:27.420><c> make</c>

00:35:27.579 --> 00:35:28.940
them<00:35:27.920><c> pay.</c>

00:35:29.940 --> 00:35:31.539
I'm<00:35:30.099><c> going</c><00:35:30.440><c> to</c><00:35:30.500><c> make</c><00:35:30.639><c> them</c><00:35:30.860><c> feel</c><00:35:31.099><c> really</c>

00:35:31.539 --> 00:35:33.539
bad.<00:35:32.239><c> They're</c><00:35:32.380><c> going</c><00:35:32.460><c> to</c><00:35:32.579><c> say,</c><00:35:33.039><c> you</c><00:35:33.039><c> know,</c><00:35:33.340><c> David</c>

00:35:33.539 --> 00:35:35.880
Lloyd,<00:35:34.400><c> you</c><00:35:34.539><c> know,</c><00:35:34.940><c> he</c>

00:35:35.880 --> 00:35:37.679
doesn't<00:35:36.179><c> talk</c><00:35:36.519><c> to</c><00:35:36.739><c> me.</c><00:35:37.039><c> Oh,</c><00:35:37.420><c> I'm</c>

00:35:37.679 --> 00:35:39.480
going<00:35:37.820><c> to</c><00:35:37.980><c> quit,</c><00:35:38.519><c> change</c><00:35:38.619><c> my</c><00:35:38.840><c> ways,</c><00:35:39.099><c> and</c>

00:35:39.480 --> 00:35:41.760
be<00:35:39.719><c> a</c><00:35:39.860><c> good</c><00:35:40.000><c> person</c><00:35:40.340><c> because</c><00:35:40.519><c> he</c><00:35:40.659><c> won't</c><00:35:40.880><c> talk</c><00:35:41.159><c> to</c><00:35:41.300><c> me</c><00:35:41.420><c> anymore.</c>

00:35:42.219 --> 00:35:43.599
Do<00:35:42.380><c> you</c><00:35:42.380><c> think</c><00:35:42.460><c> that</c><00:35:42.679><c> really</c><00:35:42.900><c> happens?</c><00:35:43.340><c> Because</c>

00:35:43.599 --> 00:35:45.679
I'm<00:35:43.840><c> not</c><00:35:44.079><c> being</c><00:35:44.300><c> nice</c><00:35:44.599><c> to</c><00:35:44.719><c> them</c><00:35:44.840><c> that</c><00:35:44.980><c> all</c><00:35:45.179><c> of</c><00:35:45.400><c> a</c><00:35:45.400><c> sudden</c>

00:35:45.679 --> 00:35:47.619
they're<00:35:46.320><c> going</c><00:35:46.420><c> to</c><00:35:46.659><c> change?</c>

00:35:48.440 --> 00:35:49.659
No.<00:35:48.860><c> I'm</c><00:35:49.260><c> the</c><00:35:49.360><c> one</c><00:35:49.480><c> who's</c>

00:35:49.659 --> 00:35:52.019
drinking<00:35:49.940><c> the</c><00:35:50.239><c> poison.</c><00:35:50.840><c> It's</c><00:35:50.940><c> like</c><00:35:51.300><c> me</c>

00:35:52.099 --> 00:35:53.699
saying,<00:35:52.719><c> okay,</c><00:35:53.039><c> I'm</c><00:35:53.579><c> going</c>

00:35:53.699 --> 00:35:55.559
to<00:35:54.179><c> take</c><00:35:54.420><c> it,</c><00:35:55.139><c> hoping</c><00:35:55.219><c> you</c>

00:35:55.559 --> 00:35:57.619
burn<00:35:55.880><c> for</c><00:35:56.219><c> it,</c><00:35:56.880><c> but</c><00:35:57.139><c> I'm</c><00:35:57.300><c> only</c>

00:35:57.619 --> 00:35:59.679
injuring<00:35:57.900><c> myself.</c><00:35:58.500><c> That's</c><00:35:58.860><c> what</c><00:35:59.000><c> resentment</c><00:35:59.400><c> is.</c>

00:35:59.679 --> 00:36:01.159
It's<00:35:59.880><c> a</c><00:35:59.980><c> do</c><00:36:00.119><c> over</c><00:36:00.320><c> the</c><00:36:00.519><c> wrong</c><00:36:00.739><c> kind.</c>

00:36:01.619 --> 00:36:03.719
So<00:36:01.800><c> I'm</c><00:36:01.940><c> going</c><00:36:02.000><c> to</c><00:36:02.099><c> just</c><00:36:02.320><c> give</c><00:36:02.440><c> you</c><00:36:02.800><c> a</c><00:36:03.039><c> few</c><00:36:03.239><c> guidelines.</c>

00:36:04.119 --> 00:36:05.739
We<00:36:04.260><c> could</c><00:36:04.380><c> do</c><00:36:04.539><c> a</c><00:36:04.699><c> Bible</c><00:36:04.940><c> class</c><00:36:05.260><c> on</c><00:36:05.460><c> each</c>

00:36:05.739 --> 00:36:07.599
one<00:36:05.940><c> of</c><00:36:06.059><c> these,</c><00:36:06.800><c> but</c><00:36:06.880><c> we're</c><00:36:07.059><c> just</c><00:36:07.280><c> going</c><00:36:07.440><c> to</c>

00:36:07.599 --> 00:36:09.920
kind<00:36:07.960><c> of</c><00:36:08.199><c> move</c><00:36:08.400><c> quickly</c><00:36:08.800><c> through</c><00:36:09.079><c> them.</c>

00:36:10.099 --> 00:36:12.199
And<00:36:10.559><c> I</c><00:36:10.699><c> believe</c><00:36:11.099><c> we've</c><00:36:11.639><c> already</c>

00:36:12.199 --> 00:36:13.760
somewhat<00:36:12.539><c> presented</c><00:36:12.960><c> this</c><00:36:13.179><c> to</c><00:36:13.420><c> start</c><00:36:13.559><c> with</c>

00:36:13.760 --> 00:36:15.699
God.<00:36:14.260><c> God</c><00:36:14.500><c> is</c><00:36:14.760><c> the</c><00:36:14.940><c> starting</c><00:36:15.099><c> point.</c><00:36:15.460><c> Against</c>

00:36:15.699 --> 00:36:17.420
thee<00:36:15.940><c> and</c><00:36:16.059><c> thee</c><00:36:16.239><c> only</c><00:36:16.519><c> have</c><00:36:16.739><c> I</c><00:36:16.940><c> sinned.</c>

00:36:17.719 --> 00:36:19.679
Then<00:36:18.159><c> the</c><00:36:18.480><c> refrain,</c><00:36:18.940><c> go</c><00:36:19.280><c> and</c><00:36:19.480><c> do</c>

00:36:19.679 --> 00:36:21.559
something<00:36:20.019><c> about</c><00:36:20.360><c> it,</c><00:36:21.300><c> comes</c>

00:36:21.559 --> 00:36:23.440
next.<00:36:22.420><c> So</c><00:36:22.699><c> start</c><00:36:22.900><c> with</c><00:36:23.079><c> God.</c>

00:36:23.699 --> 00:36:25.920
I'm<00:36:23.900><c> going</c><00:36:23.980><c> to</c><00:36:24.079><c> give</c><00:36:24.139><c> you</c><00:36:24.300><c> the</c><00:36:24.420><c> one</c><00:36:24.519><c> that's</c><00:36:24.820><c> been</c><00:36:25.019><c> kind</c><00:36:25.280><c> of</c><00:36:25.519><c> a</c><00:36:25.659><c> theme</c>

00:36:25.920 --> 00:36:27.719
through<00:36:26.159><c> all</c><00:36:26.360><c> my</c><00:36:26.579><c> classes.</c>

00:36:27.980 --> 00:36:29.739
And<00:36:28.219><c> that's</c><00:36:28.460><c> this</c><00:36:28.679><c> one</c><00:36:28.840><c> here.</c>

00:36:29.880 --> 00:36:31.739
I'm<00:36:30.099><c> going</c><00:36:30.199><c> to</c><00:36:30.199><c> suggest,</c><00:36:31.380><c> whatever</c>

00:36:31.739 --> 00:36:33.679
your<00:36:32.119><c> perspective</c><00:36:32.699><c> is,</c><00:36:33.239><c> the</c><00:36:33.440><c> first</c>

00:36:33.679 --> 00:36:35.880
time<00:36:33.960><c> you</c><00:36:34.079><c> go</c><00:36:34.239><c> to</c><00:36:34.380><c> the</c><00:36:34.440><c> guy's</c><00:36:34.900><c> door,</c>

00:36:36.800 --> 00:36:37.639
the<00:36:37.360><c> first</c>

00:36:38.000 --> 00:36:39.480
draft<00:36:38.559><c> of</c><00:36:38.780><c> it</c><00:36:39.139><c> is</c>

00:36:39.480 --> 00:36:41.559
probably<00:36:39.920><c> not</c><00:36:40.199><c> a</c><00:36:40.320><c> good</c><00:36:40.519><c> draft.</c>

00:36:42.059 --> 00:36:43.579
The<00:36:42.139><c> first</c><00:36:42.440><c> time,</c><00:36:42.960><c> run</c><00:36:43.260><c> it</c><00:36:43.420><c> through</c>

00:36:43.579 --> 00:36:45.599
your<00:36:43.780><c> mind</c><00:36:43.940><c> what</c><00:36:44.119><c> you're</c><00:36:44.340><c> going</c><00:36:44.460><c> to</c><00:36:44.639><c> say</c><00:36:44.860><c> when</c><00:36:45.019><c> you</c><00:36:45.219><c> walk</c><00:36:45.400><c> up</c>

00:36:45.599 --> 00:36:47.639
into<00:36:45.760><c> the</c><00:36:45.960><c> door</c><00:36:46.460><c> to</c><00:36:47.000><c> apologize</c>

00:36:47.639 --> 00:36:49.400
and<00:36:47.840><c> do</c><00:36:47.980><c> that.</c><00:36:48.500><c> Whatever</c><00:36:48.780><c> you</c><00:36:49.079><c> do</c><00:36:49.260><c> for</c>

00:36:49.400 --> 00:36:51.559
that<00:36:49.699><c> first</c><00:36:50.000><c> draft,</c><00:36:51.280><c> crumple</c>

00:36:51.559 --> 00:36:53.360
it<00:36:51.780><c> up</c><00:36:52.400><c> and</c><00:36:52.880><c> do</c><00:36:53.039><c> another</c>

00:36:53.360 --> 00:36:55.500
draft.<00:36:54.699><c> And</c><00:36:54.860><c> maybe</c><00:36:55.039><c> even</c>

00:36:55.500 --> 00:36:57.400
crumple<00:36:55.860><c> that</c><00:36:56.079><c> up</c><00:36:56.300><c> and</c><00:36:56.440><c> do</c><00:36:56.579><c> another</c><00:36:56.880><c> draft.</c>

00:36:57.820 --> 00:36:59.559
Because<00:36:58.360><c> it's</c><00:36:59.079><c> very</c>

00:36:59.559 --> 00:37:01.239
easy<00:37:00.119><c> to</c><00:37:00.440><c> go</c><00:37:00.639><c> in</c><00:37:00.860><c> there</c>

00:37:01.239 --> 00:37:03.300
and<00:37:01.820><c> not</c><00:37:02.039><c> have</c><00:37:02.239><c> it</c><00:37:02.519><c> right.</c>

00:37:03.500 --> 00:37:04.940
And<00:37:03.940><c> you</c><00:37:04.320><c> know</c><00:37:04.539><c> the</c><00:37:04.659><c> other</c>

00:37:04.940 --> 00:37:07.440
person<00:37:05.139><c> is</c><00:37:05.300><c> going</c><00:37:05.380><c> to</c><00:37:05.539><c> be</c><00:37:05.739><c> a</c><00:37:05.920><c> sense</c><00:37:06.079><c> of</c><00:37:06.320><c> any</c><00:37:06.719><c> nuance</c>

00:37:07.699 --> 00:37:08.820
that<00:37:08.139><c> you</c><00:37:08.400><c> do</c>

00:37:08.820 --> 00:37:11.079
that's<00:37:09.400><c> just</c><00:37:09.659><c> a</c><00:37:09.860><c> little</c><00:37:10.159><c> bit</c><00:37:10.400><c> of</c><00:37:10.599><c> a</c><00:37:10.860><c> twist</c>

00:37:11.079 --> 00:37:12.460
of<00:37:11.320><c> a</c><00:37:11.440><c> knife</c><00:37:11.739><c> possibly.</c>

00:37:12.840 --> 00:37:15.039
Any<00:37:13.059><c> little</c><00:37:13.380><c> nuance,</c><00:37:13.860><c> they're</c><00:37:14.119><c> going</c><00:37:14.219><c> to</c><00:37:14.440><c> pick</c><00:37:14.639><c> up</c><00:37:14.860><c> on</c>

00:37:15.039 --> 00:37:17.039
it.<00:37:15.719><c> They</c><00:37:15.940><c> will</c><00:37:16.199><c> pick</c><00:37:16.420><c> on</c><00:37:16.619><c> it</c><00:37:16.780><c> because</c>

00:37:17.039 --> 00:37:19.300
they're<00:37:17.800><c> the</c><00:37:17.920><c> ones</c><00:37:18.099><c> who</c><00:37:18.239><c> have</c><00:37:18.380><c> been</c><00:37:18.579><c> wronged.</c>

00:37:19.940 --> 00:37:21.059
So<00:37:20.380><c> you've</c><00:37:20.679><c> got</c><00:37:20.760><c> to</c><00:37:20.900><c> make</c>

00:37:21.059 --> 00:37:22.699
sure<00:37:21.159><c> that</c><00:37:21.300><c> there's</c><00:37:21.619><c> no</c><00:37:22.139><c> nuances</c>

00:37:22.699 --> 00:37:25.119
of<00:37:23.440><c> that.</c><00:37:23.880><c> I'm</c><00:37:24.119><c> going</c><00:37:24.139><c> to</c><00:37:24.159><c> give</c><00:37:24.260><c> you</c><00:37:24.400><c> some</c><00:37:24.619><c> examples</c>

00:37:25.119 --> 00:37:26.980
of<00:37:25.340><c> where</c><00:37:25.500><c> we</c><00:37:25.719><c> do</c><00:37:25.880><c> it</c><00:37:26.119><c> wrong.</c>

00:37:27.519 --> 00:37:29.119
They<00:37:27.679><c> call</c><00:37:27.800><c> them</c><00:37:28.099><c> condescension</c>

00:37:29.579 --> 00:37:30.860
concessions.<00:37:30.440><c> Have</c><00:37:30.579><c> you</c><00:37:30.659><c> ever</c>

00:37:30.860 --> 00:37:33.420
had<00:37:31.019><c> anyone</c><00:37:31.219><c> apologize</c><00:37:31.860><c> like</c><00:37:32.219><c> this?</c>

00:37:34.079 --> 00:37:34.840
I'm<00:37:34.420><c> sorry</c>

00:37:34.840 --> 00:37:37.659
that<00:37:35.579><c> you</c><00:37:35.820><c> think</c><00:37:36.039><c> I've</c><00:37:36.340><c> hurt</c><00:37:36.420><c> your</c><00:37:36.659><c> feelings.</c>

00:37:39.280 --> 00:37:40.940
Have<00:37:39.320><c> you</c><00:37:39.420><c> ever</c><00:37:39.539><c> heard</c><00:37:39.659><c> an</c><00:37:39.699><c> apology</c><00:37:40.059><c> like</c><00:37:40.300><c> that?</c><00:37:40.460><c> I'm</c><00:37:40.800><c> sorry</c>

00:37:40.940 --> 00:37:42.800
you<00:37:41.139><c> think</c><00:37:41.300><c> I</c><00:37:41.440><c> hurt</c><00:37:41.599><c> your</c><00:37:41.820><c> feelings.</c>

00:37:44.380 --> 00:37:47.000
You<00:37:44.880><c> know</c><00:37:44.960><c> what</c><00:37:45.019><c> that</c><00:37:45.260><c> really</c><00:37:45.500><c> is</c><00:37:45.659><c> saying?</c><00:37:46.340><c> Think</c><00:37:46.579><c> about</c>

00:37:47.000 --> 00:37:48.599
a<00:37:47.239><c> minute.</c><00:37:47.960><c> You're</c><00:37:48.199><c> saying</c>

00:37:48.599 --> 00:37:51.699
I'm<00:37:49.340><c> not</c><00:37:49.440><c> so</c><00:37:49.659><c> sorry</c><00:37:49.800><c> about</c><00:37:50.000><c> what</c><00:37:51.420><c> I</c>

00:37:51.699 --> 00:37:52.980
did.<00:37:52.679><c> I'm</c>

00:37:52.980 --> 00:37:54.980
kind<00:37:53.119><c> of</c><00:37:53.239><c> sorry</c><00:37:53.500><c> that</c><00:37:53.760><c> you're</c><00:37:54.019><c> kind</c><00:37:54.179><c> of</c><00:37:54.280><c> so</c><00:37:54.579><c> weak</c>

00:37:54.980 --> 00:37:57.099
that<00:37:55.780><c> you</c><00:37:56.000><c> couldn't</c><00:37:56.280><c> take</c><00:37:56.599><c> what</c><00:37:56.780><c> was</c>

00:37:57.099 --> 00:37:58.920
obviously<00:37:57.840><c> noble</c><00:37:58.579><c> words</c>

00:37:58.920 --> 00:38:01.039
I<00:37:59.019><c> was</c><00:37:59.119><c> saying,</c><00:37:59.820><c> but</c><00:37:59.920><c> you're</c><00:38:00.199><c> so</c><00:38:00.420><c> weak</c><00:38:00.619><c> that</c><00:38:00.840><c> you</c>

00:38:01.039 --> 00:38:02.739
took<00:38:01.179><c> them</c><00:38:01.400><c> wrong</c><00:38:01.619><c> and</c><00:38:01.760><c> now</c><00:38:01.920><c> you're</c><00:38:02.059><c> all</c><00:38:02.260><c> upset.</c>

00:38:03.159 --> 00:38:05.079
I'm<00:38:03.440><c> really</c><00:38:03.639><c> sorry</c><00:38:03.980><c> that</c><00:38:04.179><c> you're</c><00:38:04.739><c> that</c>

00:38:05.079 --> 00:38:06.619
way.<00:38:06.019><c> I'm</c><00:38:06.300><c> okay.</c>

00:38:07.000 --> 00:38:09.320
I'm<00:38:07.480><c> sorry.</c><00:38:07.760><c> I</c><00:38:07.860><c> wish</c><00:38:08.019><c> you</c><00:38:08.219><c> were</c><00:38:08.380><c> different.</c>

00:38:09.380 --> 00:38:10.900
That's<00:38:09.760><c> what</c><00:38:09.880><c> you're</c><00:38:10.099><c> saying</c><00:38:10.420><c> there.</c>

00:38:11.139 --> 00:38:14.119
Do<00:38:11.239><c> you</c><00:38:11.340><c> believe</c><00:38:11.539><c> it?</c><00:38:12.119><c> It's</c><00:38:12.380><c> true.</c><00:38:12.659><c> Have</c><00:38:12.760><c> you</c><00:38:13.960><c> ever</c>

00:38:14.119 --> 00:38:15.780
heard<00:38:14.340><c> someone</c><00:38:14.579><c> do</c><00:38:14.780><c> that?</c>

00:38:16.739 --> 00:38:19.139
Have<00:38:17.219><c> I</c><00:38:17.699><c> done</c><00:38:17.900><c> that?</c><00:38:18.579><c> I've</c><00:38:18.920><c> done</c>

00:38:19.139 --> 00:38:21.219
that.<00:38:20.019><c> I</c><00:38:20.280><c> have</c><00:38:20.579><c> done</c><00:38:20.860><c> that</c>

00:38:21.219 --> 00:38:23.039
kind<00:38:21.340><c> of</c><00:38:21.559><c> apology.</c><00:38:22.360><c> I</c><00:38:22.460><c> have</c><00:38:22.699><c> done.</c>

00:38:23.400 --> 00:38:25.019
I'll<00:38:23.639><c> give</c><00:38:23.659><c> you</c><00:38:23.800><c> some</c><00:38:24.039><c> more.</c><00:38:24.320><c> I'm</c><00:38:24.519><c> sorry</c><00:38:24.800><c> if</c>

00:38:25.019 --> 00:38:26.780
I<00:38:25.199><c> said</c><00:38:25.320><c> something</c><00:38:25.599><c> that</c><00:38:25.860><c> offended</c><00:38:26.139><c> you.</c>

00:38:26.780 --> 00:38:29.900
I'm<00:38:27.619><c> sorry</c><00:38:27.820><c> but</c><00:38:27.940><c> you</c><00:38:28.079><c> were</c><00:38:28.199><c> in</c><00:38:28.300><c> a</c><00:38:28.420><c> bad</c><00:38:28.599><c> mood</c><00:38:28.780><c> too.</c>

00:38:31.380 --> 00:38:33.219
Those<00:38:31.679><c> are</c><00:38:32.219><c> not</c>

00:38:33.219 --> 00:38:35.179
good<00:38:33.960><c> apologies.</c>

00:38:36.019 --> 00:38:37.539
They<00:38:36.059><c> are</c><00:38:36.679><c> horrible.</c>

00:38:38.239 --> 00:38:39.119
You're<00:38:38.739><c> worried.</c>

00:38:39.380 --> 00:38:40.659
It<00:38:39.599><c> will</c><00:38:39.820><c> make</c><00:38:40.039><c> it</c><00:38:40.260><c> worse.</c>

00:38:41.019 --> 00:38:42.940
They're<00:38:41.239><c> going</c><00:38:41.340><c> to</c><00:38:41.460><c> get</c><00:38:41.619><c> mad.</c><00:38:42.219><c> And</c><00:38:42.340><c> if</c><00:38:42.440><c> you</c><00:38:42.559><c> think</c><00:38:42.780><c> that</c>

00:38:42.940 --> 00:38:44.940
I'm<00:38:43.099><c> making</c><00:38:43.300><c> these</c><00:38:43.539><c> up,</c><00:38:44.320><c> just</c><00:38:44.539><c> about</c>

00:38:44.940 --> 00:38:47.099
two<00:38:45.599><c> weeks</c><00:38:45.880><c> ago</c><00:38:46.139><c> someone</c><00:38:46.480><c> in</c><00:38:46.739><c> another</c>

00:38:47.099 --> 00:38:49.019
Ecclesia<00:38:47.480><c> far</c><00:38:47.840><c> away</c><00:38:48.079><c> who</c><00:38:48.300><c> you</c><00:38:48.420><c> never</c><00:38:48.619><c> figure</c><00:38:48.860><c> out</c>

00:38:49.019 --> 00:38:50.719
where<00:38:49.239><c> it</c><00:38:49.440><c> was</c><00:38:49.599><c> or</c><00:38:49.760><c> how</c>

00:38:50.780 --> 00:38:53.000
got<00:38:51.119><c> up</c><00:38:51.340><c> in</c><00:38:51.619><c> front</c><00:38:51.860><c> of</c><00:38:52.159><c> his</c><00:38:52.360><c> Ecclesia</c>

00:38:53.000 --> 00:38:55.059
and<00:38:53.760><c> gave</c><00:38:54.079><c> this</c><00:38:54.400><c> exact</c>

00:38:55.059 --> 00:38:56.800
same<00:38:55.460><c> thing.</c><00:38:55.980><c> I'm</c><00:38:56.320><c> sorry</c>

00:38:56.800 --> 00:38:59.099
that<00:38:57.780><c> you</c><00:38:58.039><c> all</c><00:38:58.340><c> seem</c><00:38:58.519><c> to</c><00:38:58.639><c> be</c><00:38:58.780><c> mad</c><00:38:58.960><c> at</c>

00:38:59.099 --> 00:39:01.619
me.<00:39:00.519><c> That</c><00:39:00.739><c> was</c><00:39:00.900><c> his</c>

00:39:01.679 --> 00:39:02.719
apology.

00:39:03.119 --> 00:39:04.639
And<00:39:03.199><c> the</c><00:39:03.360><c> people</c><00:39:03.579><c> are</c><00:39:03.820><c> saying</c>

00:39:05.019 --> 00:39:07.480
were<00:39:05.559><c> you</c><00:39:05.800><c> sorry</c><00:39:05.960><c> about</c><00:39:06.139><c> what</c><00:39:06.300><c> you</c><00:39:06.500><c> did?</c>

00:39:07.539 --> 00:39:08.380
Or<00:39:07.820><c> what?</c>

00:39:08.880 --> 00:39:10.559
They<00:39:09.139><c> picked</c><00:39:09.320><c> up</c><00:39:09.599><c> on</c><00:39:09.760><c> it.</c>

00:39:11.079 --> 00:39:12.360
Did<00:39:11.199><c> that</c><00:39:11.460><c> help?</c>

00:39:14.960 --> 00:39:17.059
No.<00:39:15.940><c> It</c><00:39:16.000><c> did</c><00:39:16.139><c> not.</c><00:39:16.360><c> So</c><00:39:16.539><c> get</c><00:39:16.659><c> the</c><00:39:16.840><c> right</c>

00:39:17.059 --> 00:39:18.480
perspective.<00:39:18.480><c> Really.</c>

00:39:18.860 --> 00:39:20.780
Fifth<00:39:19.079><c> draft</c><00:39:19.539><c> maybe.</c>

00:39:20.940 --> 00:39:22.079
Take<00:39:21.239><c> responsibility.</c>

00:39:22.539 --> 00:39:24.039
Kind<00:39:22.980><c> of</c><00:39:23.079><c> goes</c><00:39:23.219><c> in</c><00:39:23.420><c> what</c><00:39:23.559><c> we</c><00:39:23.719><c> did</c><00:39:23.840><c> there.</c>

00:39:24.300 --> 00:39:26.179
No<00:39:24.500><c> ifs</c><00:39:24.940><c> or</c><00:39:25.099><c> buts.</c><00:39:25.380><c> If</c><00:39:25.500><c> you</c><00:39:25.679><c> put</c><00:39:25.840><c> an</c><00:39:26.019><c> if</c>

00:39:26.179 --> 00:39:28.480
or<00:39:26.440><c> a</c><00:39:26.619><c> but</c><00:39:26.760><c> in</c><00:39:27.019><c> there,</c><00:39:27.800><c> you're</c><00:39:28.119><c> probably</c>

00:39:28.480 --> 00:39:30.219
going<00:39:28.820><c> to</c><00:39:29.340><c> not</c><00:39:29.719><c> have</c><00:39:29.940><c> a</c><00:39:30.059><c> good</c>

00:39:30.219 --> 00:39:31.239
apology.

00:39:32.039 --> 00:39:34.280
No<00:39:32.480><c> ifs</c><00:39:32.920><c> or</c><00:39:33.099><c> buts.</c>

00:39:34.880 --> 00:39:36.280
Next<00:39:35.320><c> one</c><00:39:35.619><c> is</c><00:39:35.780><c> one</c><00:39:35.980><c> that</c>

00:39:36.280 --> 00:39:38.099
kind<00:39:36.480><c> of</c><00:39:36.679><c> fits</c><00:39:36.900><c> with</c><00:39:37.340><c> keep</c><00:39:37.760><c> short</c>

00:39:38.099 --> 00:39:39.179
accounts.

00:39:40.320 --> 00:39:42.199
What<00:39:40.559><c> happens?</c><00:39:41.719><c> And</c><00:39:41.840><c> you've</c><00:39:42.059><c> all</c>

00:39:42.199 --> 00:39:44.139
been<00:39:42.420><c> through</c><00:39:42.639><c> this</c><00:39:42.860><c> before.</c><00:39:43.360><c> And</c><00:39:43.480><c> certain</c><00:39:43.639><c> people</c><00:39:43.940><c> are</c>

00:39:44.139 --> 00:39:46.079
better<00:39:44.420><c> at</c><00:39:44.579><c> this</c><00:39:44.820><c> than</c><00:39:45.039><c> others.</c>

00:39:46.440 --> 00:39:47.800
But<00:39:46.639><c> sometimes</c>

00:39:48.000 --> 00:39:50.099
I'll<00:39:48.440><c> give</c><00:39:48.559><c> you</c><00:39:48.760><c> my</c><00:39:48.800><c> own</c><00:39:49.000><c> example.</c>

00:39:51.360 --> 00:39:52.480
Sometimes<00:39:51.920><c> you</c>

00:39:52.480 --> 00:39:53.900
say<00:39:52.780><c> something</c><00:39:53.019><c> to</c><00:39:53.099><c> your</c><00:39:53.260><c> wife</c><00:39:53.559><c> and</c><00:39:53.699><c> it's</c>

00:39:53.900 --> 00:39:55.980
not<00:39:54.280><c> really</c><00:39:54.739><c> perfect.</c><00:39:55.579><c> And</c><00:39:55.639><c> so</c>

00:39:55.980 --> 00:39:58.000
it<00:39:56.239><c> kind</c><00:39:56.440><c> of</c><00:39:56.559><c> lets</c><00:39:56.760><c> it</c><00:39:57.000><c> go.</c>

00:39:58.179 --> 00:39:59.739
Then<00:39:58.179><c> a</c><00:39:58.599><c> day</c><00:39:59.019><c> later</c><00:39:59.320><c> you</c><00:39:59.500><c> say</c>

00:39:59.739 --> 00:40:01.840
something<00:40:00.079><c> more</c><00:40:00.639><c> and</c><00:40:00.940><c> it's</c><00:40:01.119><c> a</c><00:40:01.219><c> little</c>

00:40:01.840 --> 00:40:04.460
abrasive<00:40:02.340><c> possibly</c><00:40:02.880><c> and</c><00:40:03.059><c> they</c><00:40:03.239><c> let</c><00:40:03.360><c> it</c><00:40:03.579><c> go.</c>

00:40:04.760 --> 00:40:05.539
The<00:40:04.920><c> third</c><00:40:05.099><c> day</c>

00:40:05.539 --> 00:40:07.639
you<00:40:05.960><c> leave</c><00:40:06.159><c> your</c><00:40:06.420><c> socks</c><00:40:06.719><c> on</c><00:40:07.000><c> the</c><00:40:07.239><c> floor</c>

00:40:07.639 --> 00:40:09.619
in<00:40:08.340><c> the</c><00:40:08.559><c> bathroom.</c>

00:40:09.780 --> 00:40:11.920
And<00:40:10.079><c> all</c><00:40:10.320><c> of</c><00:40:10.539><c> a</c><00:40:10.639><c> sudden</c>

00:40:15.380 --> 00:40:17.820
And<00:40:15.940><c> you</c><00:40:16.179><c> think</c><00:40:16.420><c> all</c><00:40:16.800><c> I</c><00:40:17.000><c> did</c><00:40:17.119><c> was</c><00:40:17.340><c> leave</c><00:40:17.519><c> my</c>

00:40:17.820 --> 00:40:19.480
socks<00:40:18.099><c> in</c><00:40:18.260><c> the</c><00:40:18.420><c> bathroom.</c>

00:40:20.960 --> 00:40:21.820
You<00:40:21.219><c> know</c><00:40:21.400><c> what?</c>

00:40:22.280 --> 00:40:24.119
It<00:40:22.280><c> was</c><00:40:22.440><c> all</c><00:40:22.699><c> the</c><00:40:22.880><c> little</c><00:40:23.139><c> things.</c>

00:40:24.440 --> 00:40:25.900
And<00:40:24.539><c> then</c><00:40:24.900><c> you</c><00:40:25.019><c> know</c><00:40:25.159><c> what</c><00:40:25.340><c> happens</c><00:40:25.579><c> when</c>

00:40:25.900 --> 00:40:27.539
kaboom<00:40:26.519><c> then</c><00:40:26.719><c> says</c><00:40:26.880><c> yeah</c><00:40:27.139><c> but</c><00:40:27.300><c> you</c><00:40:27.440><c> said</c>

00:40:27.539 --> 00:40:29.000
this<00:40:27.780><c> to</c><00:40:27.940><c> me,</c><00:40:28.199><c> this</c><00:40:28.380><c> to</c><00:40:28.519><c> me,</c><00:40:28.639><c> this</c><00:40:28.920><c> to</c><00:40:29.000><c> me.</c>

00:40:29.280 --> 00:40:32.159
And<00:40:29.619><c> we</c><00:40:29.960><c> do</c><00:40:30.159><c> that.</c><00:40:30.639><c> I</c><00:40:30.820><c> do</c><00:40:31.000><c> that</c><00:40:31.260><c> too.</c>

00:40:32.179 --> 00:40:33.940
What<00:40:32.360><c> happens</c><00:40:32.820><c> is</c><00:40:33.119><c> we</c><00:40:33.460><c> kind</c><00:40:33.800><c> of</c>

00:40:33.940 --> 00:40:35.840
let<00:40:34.099><c> things</c>

00:40:36.360 --> 00:40:38.340
fester<00:40:36.880><c> and</c><00:40:37.400><c> build.</c>

00:40:38.659 --> 00:40:39.760
And<00:40:38.840><c> then</c>

00:40:39.619 --> 00:40:41.880
the<00:40:39.880><c> response</c><00:40:40.679><c> is</c><00:40:41.019><c> totally</c><00:40:41.460><c> out</c><00:40:41.739><c> of</c>

00:40:41.880 --> 00:40:43.780
proportion<00:40:42.440><c> to</c><00:40:42.760><c> the</c><00:40:43.000><c> thing</c><00:40:43.219><c> that</c>

00:40:43.780 --> 00:40:45.219
finally<00:40:44.139><c> precipitated</c><00:40:44.860><c> it.</c>

00:40:45.219 --> 00:40:47.559
And<00:40:45.719><c> the</c><00:40:45.900><c> person</c><00:40:46.300><c> who</c><00:40:46.659><c> it</c><00:40:46.980><c> precipitates</c>

00:40:47.559 --> 00:40:50.860
upon<00:40:48.139><c> is</c><00:40:49.219><c> just</c>

00:40:51.199 --> 00:40:53.400
like<00:40:51.920><c> they've</c><00:40:52.159><c> been</c><00:40:52.400><c> shot</c><00:40:52.599><c> with</c><00:40:52.940><c> a</c>

00:40:53.400 --> 00:40:54.780
bazooka.

00:40:56.159 --> 00:40:57.460
So<00:40:56.679><c> I'm</c><00:40:57.239><c> just</c>

00:40:57.460 --> 00:40:58.780
saying<00:40:57.599><c> this</c><00:40:57.820><c> is</c><00:40:58.340><c> really</c><00:40:58.579><c> good.</c>

00:40:59.119 --> 00:41:01.420
So<00:40:59.840><c> what's</c><00:41:01.199><c> the</c>

00:41:01.420 --> 00:41:02.460
solution?

00:41:03.199 --> 00:41:05.440
Blast<00:41:03.699><c> them</c><00:41:03.860><c> on</c><00:41:03.980><c> the</c><00:41:04.179><c> first</c><00:41:04.480><c> one.</c>

00:41:08.980 --> 00:41:11.239
Deal<00:41:09.699><c> with</c><00:41:09.960><c> the</c><00:41:10.119><c> first</c><00:41:10.500><c> one.</c>

00:41:11.440 --> 00:41:13.260
Deal<00:41:11.800><c> with</c><00:41:12.019><c> them</c><00:41:12.139><c> as</c><00:41:12.340><c> they</c><00:41:12.519><c> come.</c>

00:41:15.820 --> 00:41:17.519
Okay,<00:41:17.159><c> next</c><00:41:17.320><c> one.</c>

00:41:17.519 --> 00:41:18.519
Maintain<00:41:17.940><c> small</c><00:41:18.219><c> circles.</c>

00:41:18.619 --> 00:41:20.579
Kind<00:41:18.840><c> of</c><00:41:18.940><c> talked</c><00:41:19.139><c> about</c><00:41:19.340><c> that</c><00:41:19.559><c> already.</c>

00:41:21.840 --> 00:41:23.260
You<00:41:22.280><c> know</c><00:41:22.719><c> what</c><00:41:22.840><c> we</c><00:41:23.019><c> do</c><00:41:23.119><c> is</c>

00:41:23.260 --> 00:41:25.119
Christa<00:41:23.539><c> Delfins</c><00:41:23.920><c> particularly</c>

00:41:25.079 --> 00:41:27.059
is<00:41:25.300><c> we</c><00:41:25.519><c> really</c><00:41:25.820><c> don't</c><00:41:26.000><c> want</c><00:41:26.199><c> to</c><00:41:26.300><c> go</c><00:41:26.579><c> talk</c><00:41:26.760><c> to</c><00:41:26.940><c> them</c>

00:41:27.059 --> 00:41:28.800
so<00:41:27.179><c> we're</c><00:41:27.440><c> going</c><00:41:27.440><c> to</c><00:41:27.480><c> talk</c><00:41:27.719><c> to</c><00:41:27.880><c> Rod</c><00:41:28.059><c> first</c>

00:41:28.800 --> 00:41:31.039
and<00:41:29.059><c> say</c><00:41:29.239><c> I'm</c><00:41:30.019><c> going</c><00:41:30.159><c> to</c><00:41:30.260><c> need</c><00:41:30.360><c> to</c><00:41:30.579><c> apologize</c>

00:41:31.039 --> 00:41:31.980
over<00:41:31.360><c> there.</c>

00:41:32.480 --> 00:41:35.239
There's<00:41:32.920><c> Don</c><00:41:33.119><c> over</c><00:41:33.320><c> there.</c><00:41:33.780><c> I</c><00:41:34.219><c> messed</c><00:41:34.500><c> up</c><00:41:34.780><c> with</c><00:41:34.960><c> him.</c>

00:41:35.539 --> 00:41:37.159
What<00:41:35.699><c> do</c><00:41:35.820><c> you</c><00:41:35.920><c> think?</c><00:41:36.239><c> How</c><00:41:36.480><c> should</c><00:41:36.760><c> I</c><00:41:36.840><c> do</c><00:41:37.019><c> it?</c>

00:41:37.179 --> 00:41:39.000
And<00:41:37.260><c> then</c><00:41:37.380><c> I</c><00:41:37.559><c> talk</c><00:41:37.699><c> to</c><00:41:37.920><c> your</c><00:41:38.139><c> wife</c><00:41:38.480><c> and</c><00:41:38.679><c> say</c>

00:41:39.000 --> 00:41:41.019
I<00:41:39.360><c> talked</c><00:41:39.579><c> to</c><00:41:39.900><c> everybody</c><00:41:40.179><c> in</c><00:41:40.340><c> the</c><00:41:40.619><c> room</c>

00:41:41.019 --> 00:41:43.300
but<00:41:41.539><c> him</c><00:41:42.119><c> about</c><00:41:42.599><c> how</c><00:41:42.900><c> I'm</c><00:41:43.079><c> going</c>

00:41:43.300 --> 00:41:45.559
to<00:41:43.980><c> apologize</c><00:41:43.980><c> to</c><00:41:44.300><c> him.</c><00:41:45.000><c> And</c><00:41:45.139><c> guess</c><00:41:45.340><c> what?</c>

00:41:45.800 --> 00:41:47.440
Now<00:41:46.159><c> everybody</c><00:41:46.440><c> in</c><00:41:46.599><c> the</c><00:41:46.780><c> room</c><00:41:46.920><c> knows</c>

00:41:47.440 --> 00:41:49.000
except<00:41:47.980><c> Don.</c>

00:41:50.239 --> 00:41:51.440
Do<00:41:50.760><c> you</c><00:41:51.280><c> think</c>

00:41:51.440 --> 00:41:53.099
I'm<00:41:51.599><c> making</c><00:41:51.920><c> this</c><00:41:52.260><c> up?</c>

00:41:53.579 --> 00:41:55.420
No,<00:41:53.840><c> I'm</c><00:41:53.920><c> not</c><00:41:54.139><c> making</c><00:41:54.380><c> this</c><00:41:54.679><c> up.</c><00:41:54.900><c> I</c><00:41:55.159><c> have</c>

00:41:55.420 --> 00:41:57.500
done<00:41:55.679><c> this.</c><00:41:56.340><c> I</c><00:41:56.639><c> have</c><00:41:56.880><c> done</c><00:41:57.099><c> this.</c>

00:41:57.699 --> 00:41:59.840
I'm<00:41:58.019><c> not</c><00:41:58.159><c> making</c><00:41:58.460><c> it</c><00:41:58.679><c> up</c><00:41:58.800><c> at</c><00:41:59.019><c> all.</c>

00:42:00.139 --> 00:42:01.300
The<00:42:00.480><c> next</c><00:42:00.900><c> one</c>

00:42:01.300 --> 00:42:03.579
is<00:42:01.539><c> make</c><00:42:01.900><c> confession</c><00:42:02.320><c> personal.</c>

00:42:03.659 --> 00:42:05.800
A<00:42:04.139><c> quick</c><00:42:04.300><c> one</c><00:42:04.480><c> on</c><00:42:04.599><c> that</c><00:42:04.860><c> one.</c>

00:42:07.199 --> 00:42:08.880
Don't<00:42:07.719><c> use</c><00:42:07.940><c> email.</c>

00:42:09.820 --> 00:42:10.920
Let<00:42:10.000><c> me</c><00:42:10.159><c> just</c><00:42:10.360><c> go</c><00:42:10.500><c> like</c><00:42:10.760><c> that.</c>

00:42:10.920 --> 00:42:13.059
I<00:42:11.059><c> had</c><00:42:11.239><c> a</c><00:42:12.019><c> really</c><00:42:12.239><c> good</c><00:42:12.440><c> story</c><00:42:12.719><c> for</c><00:42:12.900><c> that.</c>

00:42:13.139 --> 00:42:14.599
Make<00:42:13.380><c> amends.</c>

00:42:15.619 --> 00:42:16.800
Now<00:42:15.940><c> what</c><00:42:16.099><c> we're</c><00:42:16.280><c> going</c><00:42:16.400><c> to</c><00:42:16.579><c> do</c>

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is<00:42:17.139><c> going</c><00:42:17.300><c> to</c><00:42:17.519><c> quickly</c><00:42:17.840><c> change</c><00:42:18.599><c> to</c>

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our<00:42:19.559><c> finale</c><00:42:19.900><c> here</c><00:42:20.260><c> and</c><00:42:20.360><c> we're</c><00:42:20.500><c> going</c><00:42:20.599><c> to</c><00:42:20.619><c> look</c><00:42:20.820><c> at</c>

00:42:21.000 --> 00:42:23.739
the<00:42:21.199><c> myths</c><00:42:21.440><c> of</c><00:42:21.739><c> forgiveness.</c><00:42:22.360><c> So</c><00:42:22.360><c> I'm</c><00:42:22.400><c> going</c><00:42:22.559><c> to</c><00:42:22.739><c> have</c>

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David

00:42:25.719 --> 00:42:27.000
Deagher.<00:42:26.239><c> We're</c><00:42:26.760><c> going</c><00:42:26.840><c> to</c>

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talk<00:42:27.139><c> about</c><00:42:27.639><c> the</c><00:42:28.460><c> definitions</c>

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of

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forgiveness.<00:42:32.380><c> Who</c>

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remembers<00:42:33.159><c> the</c><00:42:33.420><c> first</c><00:42:33.619><c> definition</c><00:42:34.039><c> of</c><00:42:34.340><c> forgiveness?</c>

00:42:39.099 --> 00:42:40.059
The<00:42:39.579><c> bird</c>

00:42:40.059 --> 00:42:41.880
flying<00:42:40.400><c> away</c><00:42:40.679><c> to</c><00:42:40.780><c> the</c><00:42:40.920><c> anchovy.</c>

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I'm<00:42:42.599><c> going</c><00:42:42.840><c> to</c><00:42:42.860><c> give</c><00:42:43.059><c> you</c>

00:42:44.260 --> 00:42:45.380
another<00:42:44.739><c> definition</c><00:42:45.219><c> of</c>

00:42:45.380 --> 00:42:47.039
forgiveness<00:42:45.719><c> and</c><00:42:45.940><c> I'm</c><00:42:45.980><c> going</c><00:42:46.179><c> to</c><00:42:46.179><c> call</c><00:42:46.420><c> this</c><00:42:46.679><c> the</c>

00:42:47.039 --> 00:42:49.300
therapeutic<00:42:47.820><c> definition.</c><00:42:48.800><c> So</c><00:42:48.940><c> this</c><00:42:49.079><c> is</c>

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not<00:42:49.739><c> in</c><00:42:50.440><c> the</c><00:42:50.639><c> bible.</c>

00:42:51.400 --> 00:42:52.900
And<00:42:51.480><c> I'll</c><00:42:51.579><c> tell</c><00:42:51.800><c> you</c><00:42:51.900><c> why</c><00:42:52.139><c> we're</c><00:42:52.320><c> going</c><00:42:52.539><c> to</c><00:42:52.699><c> use</c>

00:42:52.900 --> 00:42:55.380
a<00:42:53.199><c> therapeutic</c><00:42:53.780><c> definition</c><00:42:54.239><c> of</c><00:42:54.440><c> forgiveness.</c>

00:42:55.599 --> 00:42:57.219
And<00:42:55.699><c> the</c><00:42:55.780><c> reason</c><00:42:56.000><c> why</c><00:42:56.179><c> we're</c><00:42:56.320><c> going</c><00:42:56.500><c> to</c><00:42:56.579><c> do</c><00:42:56.780><c> that</c>

00:42:57.219 --> 00:42:59.519
is<00:42:57.539><c> because</c><00:42:57.920><c> generally</c><00:42:58.320><c> when</c><00:42:58.579><c> I</c><00:42:58.860><c> was</c>

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taught<00:43:00.059><c> forgiveness</c>

00:43:01.519 --> 00:43:02.840
growing<00:43:02.000><c> up</c><00:43:02.260><c> in</c><00:43:02.400><c> Sunday</c><00:43:02.579><c> school,</c>

00:43:02.860 --> 00:43:04.679
whether<00:43:03.239><c> they</c><00:43:03.719><c> said</c><00:43:03.920><c> it</c><00:43:04.119><c> this</c><00:43:04.340><c> way</c><00:43:04.460><c> or</c><00:43:04.539><c> not,</c>

00:43:04.679 --> 00:43:06.579
this<00:43:04.900><c> is</c><00:43:05.119><c> the</c><00:43:05.300><c> impression</c><00:43:05.719><c> I</c><00:43:06.159><c> got.</c>

00:43:06.920 --> 00:43:08.559
I'm<00:43:07.260><c> not</c><00:43:07.260><c> going</c><00:43:07.420><c> to</c><00:43:07.519><c> blame</c><00:43:07.679><c> all</c><00:43:07.920><c> my</c><00:43:08.059><c> Sunday</c><00:43:08.320><c> school</c>

00:43:08.559 --> 00:43:10.579
teachers,<00:43:09.260><c> but</c><00:43:09.500><c> this</c><00:43:09.659><c> is</c><00:43:09.840><c> the</c><00:43:10.039><c> impression</c>

00:43:10.579 --> 00:43:12.719
I<00:43:10.900><c> got</c><00:43:11.199><c> is</c><00:43:11.659><c> that</c><00:43:11.780><c> when</c><00:43:11.980><c> you</c>

00:43:12.719 --> 00:43:14.340
want<00:43:12.960><c> to</c><00:43:13.360><c> forgive</c><00:43:13.719><c> somebody</c>

00:43:14.340 --> 00:43:17.119
you<00:43:15.280><c> pray</c><00:43:15.699><c> about</c><00:43:16.019><c> it</c>

00:43:17.119 --> 00:43:18.539
and<00:43:17.619><c> it's</c><00:43:17.760><c> kind</c><00:43:17.980><c> of</c><00:43:18.119><c> like</c>

00:43:18.539 --> 00:43:20.519
curtains<00:43:18.940><c> of</c><00:43:19.219><c> amnesia</c>

00:43:20.519 --> 00:43:22.840
come<00:43:20.780><c> upon</c><00:43:21.199><c> you</c><00:43:21.820><c> and</c>

00:43:22.840 --> 00:43:25.000
it<00:43:23.599><c> kind</c><00:43:23.739><c> of</c><00:43:23.840><c> goes</c><00:43:24.039><c> away.</c>

00:43:25.219 --> 00:43:26.519
So<00:43:25.420><c> we</c><00:43:25.619><c> pray</c><00:43:25.780><c> to</c><00:43:26.099><c> God</c>

00:43:26.519 --> 00:43:28.639
kind<00:43:27.539><c> of</c><00:43:27.699><c> amnesia</c>

00:43:28.639 --> 00:43:30.699
that<00:43:29.239><c> you</c><00:43:29.360><c> don't</c><00:43:29.559><c> think</c><00:43:29.840><c> about</c><00:43:30.119><c> anymore</c>

00:43:30.699 --> 00:43:33.000
and<00:43:31.579><c> it's</c><00:43:31.920><c> all</c><00:43:32.199><c> over.</c>

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My<00:43:33.920><c> problem</c><00:43:34.280><c> was</c>

00:43:34.559 --> 00:43:36.280
whether<00:43:34.940><c> I</c><00:43:35.179><c> was</c><00:43:35.360><c> taught</c><00:43:35.619><c> that</c><00:43:35.840><c> or</c><00:43:36.019><c> not</c>

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that's<00:43:36.760><c> what</c><00:43:36.920><c> I</c><00:43:37.159><c> thought.</c>

00:43:38.440 --> 00:43:41.019
The<00:43:38.440><c> problem</c><00:43:38.699><c> is</c><00:43:38.920><c> it's</c><00:43:39.119><c> not</c><00:43:39.239><c> how</c><00:43:39.420><c> it</c><00:43:39.619><c> works</c><00:43:40.039><c> in</c><00:43:40.280><c> real</c><00:43:40.500><c> life.</c>

00:43:41.280 --> 00:43:42.519
So<00:43:41.300><c> I'm</c><00:43:41.440><c> going</c><00:43:41.579><c> to</c><00:43:41.639><c> give</c><00:43:41.840><c> you</c><00:43:42.280><c> the</c>

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because<00:43:42.760><c> how</c><00:43:43.059><c> do</c><00:43:43.239><c> you</c><00:43:43.260><c> know</c><00:43:43.420><c> the</c><00:43:43.639><c> day</c>

00:43:44.300 --> 00:43:46.480
that<00:43:44.699><c> you</c><00:43:44.960><c> forgave</c><00:43:45.280><c> somebody?</c><00:43:45.739><c> So</c><00:43:45.940><c> here's</c><00:43:46.239><c> the</c>

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therapeutic<00:43:47.340><c> definition</c><00:43:48.320><c> of</c>

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forgiveness.

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Alright.<00:43:52.059><c> People</c>

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upon<00:43:52.800><c> rationally</c><00:43:53.559><c> determining</c><00:43:54.079><c> that</c><00:43:54.320><c> they</c>

00:43:54.480 --> 00:43:56.059
have<00:43:54.619><c> been</c><00:43:54.840><c> unfairly</c><00:43:55.500><c> treated</c>

00:43:56.059 --> 00:43:58.400
forgive<00:43:56.980><c> when</c><00:43:57.219><c> they</c><00:43:57.880><c> willfully</c>

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abandon<00:43:58.920><c> resentment</c><00:43:59.599><c> and</c><00:44:00.219><c> related</c>

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responses<00:44:01.059><c> to</c><00:44:01.300><c> which</c><00:44:01.460><c> they</c><00:44:01.760><c> have</c><00:44:01.940><c> a</c><00:44:02.119><c> right</c>

00:44:02.360 --> 00:44:04.539
and<00:44:03.000><c> endeavor</c><00:44:03.320><c> to</c><00:44:03.599><c> respond</c><00:44:03.960><c> to</c><00:44:04.159><c> the</c><00:44:04.340><c> wrong</c>

00:44:04.539 --> 00:44:06.480
doer<00:44:04.780><c> based</c><00:44:05.099><c> on</c><00:44:05.280><c> the</c><00:44:05.500><c> moral</c><00:44:05.780><c> principle</c>

00:44:06.480 --> 00:44:08.800
of<00:44:06.780><c> beneficence</c><00:44:07.300><c> which</c><00:44:07.539><c> may</c><00:44:07.800><c> include</c><00:44:08.039><c> compassion</c>

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unconditional<00:44:09.699><c> worth,</c><00:44:10.059><c> generosity</c>

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and<00:44:10.960><c> moral</c><00:44:11.199><c> love</c><00:44:11.659><c> to</c><00:44:12.199><c> which</c><00:44:12.400><c> the</c>

00:44:12.719 --> 00:44:14.320
wrong<00:44:12.960><c> doer</c><00:44:13.199><c> by</c><00:44:13.400><c> nature</c><00:44:13.679><c> of</c><00:44:13.840><c> the</c><00:44:13.960><c> hurtful</c>

00:44:14.320 --> 00:44:16.320
act<00:44:14.599><c> or</c><00:44:14.820><c> acts</c><00:44:15.019><c> has</c><00:44:15.280><c> no</c><00:44:15.519><c> right.</c>

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That<00:44:16.500><c> was</c><00:44:16.659><c> a</c><00:44:16.900><c> mouthful.</c><00:44:17.800><c> We're</c><00:44:18.320><c> going</c><00:44:18.340><c> to</c><00:44:18.440><c> try</c>

00:44:18.539 --> 00:44:20.219
to<00:44:18.699><c> make</c><00:44:18.800><c> it</c><00:44:19.260><c> a</c><00:44:19.380><c> little</c><00:44:19.519><c> easier</c><00:44:19.840><c> for</c><00:44:20.079><c> you.</c>

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Firstly<00:44:20.519><c> it's</c><00:44:20.800><c> a</c><00:44:20.960><c> rational</c><00:44:21.360><c> thing</c>

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because<00:44:22.920><c> it's</c><00:44:23.219><c> something</c><00:44:23.400><c> you</c><00:44:23.679><c> decide</c><00:44:24.039><c> to</c><00:44:24.300><c> do.</c>

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You're<00:44:25.840><c> going</c><00:44:25.980><c> to</c><00:44:26.239><c> forgive</c>

00:44:26.539 --> 00:44:28.619
them.<00:44:27.239><c> It's</c><00:44:27.559><c> not</c><00:44:27.719><c> just</c><00:44:28.059><c> a</c><00:44:28.300><c> feeling</c>

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it's<00:44:28.980><c> actually</c><00:44:29.400><c> a</c><00:44:29.679><c> thought</c><00:44:30.119><c> because</c>

00:44:31.079 --> 00:44:33.119
what's<00:44:31.480><c> going</c><00:44:31.619><c> to</c><00:44:31.739><c> happen.</c><00:44:32.119><c> Now</c><00:44:32.219><c> what</c><00:44:32.320><c> you're</c><00:44:32.559><c> going</c><00:44:32.599><c> to</c><00:44:32.760><c> see</c>

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I'm<00:44:33.659><c> going</c><00:44:33.800><c> to</c><00:44:33.920><c> try</c><00:44:34.039><c> to</c><00:44:34.239><c> explain</c><00:44:34.380><c> it</c><00:44:34.579><c> this</c><00:44:34.840><c> way.</c>

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One

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part<00:44:37.099><c> here</c><00:44:37.300><c> they</c><00:44:37.480><c> have</c><00:44:37.659><c> a</c><00:44:37.860><c> right</c>

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essentially<00:44:39.139><c> somebody</c><00:44:39.599><c> hurts</c><00:44:40.000><c> you</c>

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in<00:44:41.239><c> the</c><00:44:41.500><c> world</c><00:44:41.860><c> of</c><00:44:42.380><c> people</c>

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not<00:44:44.420><c> God</c>

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God<00:44:45.360><c> scripture</c><00:44:45.820><c> but</c><00:44:46.079><c> in</c><00:44:46.260><c> the</c><00:44:46.280><c> world</c><00:44:46.360><c> of</c><00:44:46.679><c> people</c>

00:44:47.000 --> 00:44:48.800
you<00:44:47.519><c> have</c><00:44:47.860><c> a</c><00:44:48.019><c> right</c><00:44:48.159><c> to</c><00:44:48.400><c> hurt</c><00:44:48.539><c> them</c>

00:44:48.800 --> 00:44:50.860
back<00:44:49.340><c> but</c><00:44:49.920><c> you</c><00:44:50.159><c> don't</c>

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hopefully<00:44:51.119><c> do</c><00:44:51.340><c> that.</c><00:44:51.699><c> And</c><00:44:52.039><c> when</c><00:44:52.139><c> you</c><00:44:52.300><c> forgive</c>

00:44:52.619 --> 00:44:55.119
somebody<00:44:53.280><c> you</c><00:44:54.159><c> basically</c>

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give<00:44:56.320><c> them</c><00:44:56.519><c> something</c>

00:44:56.820 --> 00:44:59.260
they<00:44:56.980><c> don't</c><00:44:57.280><c> deserve.</c><00:44:58.400><c> They</c><00:44:58.619><c> don't</c><00:44:58.880><c> deserve</c>

00:44:59.260 --> 00:45:00.840
your<00:44:59.539><c> forgiveness</c><00:44:59.960><c> essentially</c>

00:45:00.840 --> 00:45:02.980
in<00:45:01.699><c> the</c><00:45:01.900><c> therapeutic</c><00:45:02.300><c> sense</c><00:45:02.559><c> but</c><00:45:02.739><c> you're</c>

00:45:02.980 --> 00:45:05.159
going<00:45:03.079><c> to</c><00:45:03.199><c> give</c><00:45:03.320><c> it</c><00:45:03.460><c> to</c><00:45:03.539><c> them</c><00:45:03.739><c> anyway</c><00:45:04.179><c> as</c><00:45:04.599><c> a</c><00:45:04.780><c> gift</c>

00:45:05.159 --> 00:45:06.679
and<00:45:06.239><c> the</c><00:45:06.460><c> word</c>

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you<00:45:06.900><c> see</c><00:45:07.179><c> some</c><00:45:07.760><c> moral</c><00:45:08.619><c> love</c>

00:45:08.920 --> 00:45:11.320
what<00:45:09.079><c> do</c><00:45:09.199><c> you</c><00:45:09.260><c> think</c><00:45:09.420><c> moral</c><00:45:09.739><c> love</c><00:45:10.079><c> is</c><00:45:10.480><c> biblically?</c>

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That's<00:45:12.440><c> our</c>

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agape

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beneficence<00:45:16.380><c> is</c>

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being<00:45:17.679><c> beneficial</c>

00:45:19.460 --> 00:45:21.000
etc.<00:45:20.300><c> So</c><00:45:20.579><c> basically</c>

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I'm<00:45:21.300><c> going</c><00:45:21.480><c> to</c><00:45:21.960><c> describe</c><00:45:22.260><c> it</c><00:45:22.460><c> like</c><00:45:22.719><c> this</c>

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consider<00:45:24.179><c> I</c><00:45:24.280><c> have</c><00:45:24.480><c> a</c><00:45:24.760><c> pulley</c>

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a<00:45:25.380><c> wheel</c><00:45:25.639><c> here</c><00:45:26.400><c> and</c><00:45:26.900><c> a</c>

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rope<00:45:27.739><c> that</c><00:45:28.179><c> goes</c><00:45:28.579><c> around</c><00:45:28.940><c> the</c>

00:45:29.199 --> 00:45:31.179
pulley.<00:45:30.059><c> It's</c><00:45:30.280><c> got</c><00:45:30.519><c> a</c><00:45:30.619><c> high</c><00:45:30.900><c> side</c>

00:45:31.179 --> 00:45:33.199
low<00:45:31.460><c> side</c><00:45:31.699><c> like</c><00:45:31.940><c> this.</c><00:45:32.300><c> You</c><00:45:32.519><c> see</c><00:45:32.599><c> how</c><00:45:32.800><c> the</c><00:45:33.019><c> pulley</c>

00:45:33.199 --> 00:45:35.000
works<00:45:33.480><c> here?</c><00:45:35.000><c> Okay</c>

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what<00:45:35.980><c> therapeutic</c><00:45:36.699><c> forgiveness</c>

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is<00:45:37.860><c> is</c>

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we're<00:45:41.400><c> not</c><00:45:41.559><c> talking</c><00:45:41.679><c> about</c><00:45:41.880><c> someone</c><00:45:42.079><c> stepping</c><00:45:42.440><c> on</c><00:45:42.639><c> your</c><00:45:42.880><c> toes</c>

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here.<00:45:46.159><c> Very</c><00:45:46.539><c> hard</c><00:45:46.860><c> things.</c>

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and<00:45:52.659><c> sensed</c>

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you<00:45:58.159><c> almost</c><00:45:58.539><c> could</c><00:45:58.820><c> wish</c>

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they<00:45:59.219><c> weren't</c><00:45:59.579><c> anywhere</c>

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that's<00:46:03.360><c> the</c><00:46:03.519><c> end</c><00:46:03.900><c> point</c><00:46:04.280><c> of</c>

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anger<00:46:05.739><c> to</c><00:46:06.099><c> wish</c><00:46:06.219><c> they</c><00:46:06.400><c> were</c><00:46:06.420><c> dead</c><00:46:06.559><c> but</c><00:46:06.760><c> you</c><00:46:06.960><c> have</c>

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forgiveness<00:46:09.960><c> there's</c><00:46:10.380><c> not</c><00:46:10.599><c> an</c><00:46:10.880><c> ounce</c>

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of<00:46:11.320><c> forgiveness</c><00:46:11.659><c> in</c><00:46:11.860><c> your</c><00:46:12.079><c> body</c><00:46:12.679><c> for</c><00:46:12.940><c> them</c>

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you<00:46:13.199><c> have</c><00:46:13.519><c> no</c>

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intention,<00:46:16.440><c> no</c><00:46:16.900><c> even</c>

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thought

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of<00:46:19.400><c> forgiveness.</c><00:46:20.719><c> And</c><00:46:20.920><c> then</c><00:46:21.039><c> what</c>

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happens<00:46:21.739><c> it's</c><00:46:22.420><c> a</c><00:46:22.619><c> process</c>

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where<00:46:23.659><c> you</c><00:46:23.699><c> decide</c><00:46:24.019><c> I</c><00:46:24.380><c> don't</c><00:46:24.699><c> like</c><00:46:25.000><c> this</c>

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this<00:46:26.440><c> is</c><00:46:26.739><c> wrong</c>

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I<00:46:27.539><c> don't</c><00:46:27.760><c> like</c><00:46:28.059><c> this</c><00:46:28.360><c> but</c>

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you<00:46:29.380><c> start</c><00:46:29.760><c> to</c><00:46:30.119><c> move</c><00:46:30.119><c> the</c><00:46:30.380><c> pulley</c><00:46:30.639><c> this</c><00:46:31.019><c> way</c>

00:46:31.440 --> 00:46:33.159
now<00:46:31.860><c> do</c><00:46:32.000><c> you</c><00:46:32.019><c> think</c><00:46:32.199><c> the</c><00:46:32.460><c> pulley</c><00:46:32.619><c> just</c><00:46:32.880><c> goes</c>

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totally<00:46:36.179><c> forgiven</c><00:46:36.619><c> them</c>

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and<00:46:37.420><c> you</c><00:46:37.539><c> have</c><00:46:37.719><c> totally</c><00:46:38.199><c> warm</c><00:46:38.559><c> thoughts</c>

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just<00:46:40.900><c> the</c>

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harps<00:46:41.719><c> are</c><00:46:41.980><c> playing</c><00:46:42.119><c> when</c><00:46:42.300><c> you</c><00:46:42.460><c> think</c><00:46:42.599><c> of</c><00:46:42.760><c> their</c><00:46:42.920><c> name</c>

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do<00:46:43.980><c> you</c><00:46:44.079><c> think</c><00:46:44.159><c> it</c><00:46:44.260><c> just</c><00:46:44.480><c> goes</c>

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like<00:46:45.400><c> that?</c><00:46:46.500><c> No</c><00:46:46.639><c> it</c><00:46:46.699><c> doesn't</c>

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it's<00:46:47.840><c> a</c><00:46:48.119><c> painfully</c><00:46:48.579><c> long</c><00:46:48.860><c> process</c>

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and<00:46:49.519><c> that's</c><00:46:49.659><c> what</c><00:46:49.860><c> I</c><00:46:50.000><c> don't</c><00:46:50.199><c> think</c><00:46:50.360><c> we</c><00:46:50.539><c> always</c><00:46:50.719><c> get</c><00:46:50.940><c> with</c><00:46:51.139><c> the</c>

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hard<00:46:51.579><c> ones</c>

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and<00:46:52.699><c> one</c><00:46:53.300><c> of</c><00:46:53.460><c> our</c>

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myths<00:46:53.900><c> of</c><00:46:54.139><c> forgiveness</c><00:46:54.480><c> here</c><00:46:54.820><c> is</c>

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forgiveness<00:46:55.639><c> is</c><00:46:56.079><c> an</c><00:46:56.420><c> act</c>

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it's<00:46:57.719><c> a</c><00:46:57.860><c> process</c>

00:46:58.579 --> 00:47:00.800
it's<00:46:59.179><c> something</c><00:46:59.380><c> that</c><00:46:59.559><c> takes</c><00:46:59.840><c> time</c><00:47:00.119><c> so</c>

00:47:00.800 --> 00:47:03.340
on<00:47:01.500><c> a</c><00:47:01.800><c> fifth</c><00:47:01.980><c> class</c><00:47:02.440><c> you're</c><00:47:02.659><c> going</c><00:47:02.760><c> to</c><00:47:02.840><c> see</c><00:47:03.099><c> that</c>

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I'm<00:47:05.559><c> going</c><00:47:05.599><c> to</c><00:47:05.659><c> give</c><00:47:05.719><c> you</c><00:47:05.980><c> 24</c><00:47:06.420><c> things</c>

00:47:07.059 --> 00:47:09.400
that<00:47:07.599><c> will</c><00:47:07.900><c> help</c><00:47:08.440><c> move</c><00:47:09.159><c> it</c>

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someday<00:47:12.239><c> you</c><00:47:12.400><c> can</c><00:47:12.619><c> get</c><00:47:12.820><c> to</c><00:47:13.059><c> where</c>

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you<00:47:14.059><c> kind</c><00:47:14.300><c> of</c><00:47:14.480><c> can</c><00:47:14.940><c> think</c>

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about<00:47:15.599><c> them</c><00:47:16.179><c> with</c><00:47:16.480><c> some</c><00:47:16.719><c> warmth</c>

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you<00:47:17.539><c> don't</c><00:47:17.820><c> totally</c><00:47:18.300><c> like</c><00:47:18.739><c> them</c>

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and<00:47:20.480><c> so</c><00:47:20.679><c> on</c><00:47:20.780><c> and</c><00:47:20.860><c> so</c><00:47:21.039><c> forth</c>

00:47:21.199 --> 00:47:23.519
and<00:47:21.380><c> then</c><00:47:21.579><c> eventually</c><00:47:22.000><c> you</c><00:47:22.219><c> can</c><00:47:22.420><c> go</c><00:47:22.559><c> there</c>

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but

00:47:24.539 --> 00:47:27.159
it<00:47:25.219><c> takes</c><00:47:25.480><c> a</c><00:47:25.719><c> lot</c><00:47:25.900><c> of</c><00:47:26.219><c> prayer</c>

00:47:27.340 --> 00:47:29.019
a<00:47:27.900><c> lot</c><00:47:28.260><c> of</c>

00:47:29.019 --> 00:47:30.820
changing<00:47:29.440><c> the</c><00:47:29.679><c> way</c><00:47:29.800><c> you</c><00:47:30.079><c> think</c>

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and

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just<00:47:33.500><c> a</c><00:47:33.739><c> lot</c><00:47:33.840><c> of</c><00:47:34.039><c> work</c>

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the<00:47:35.139><c> one</c><00:47:35.900><c> chart</c><00:47:36.119><c> I</c><00:47:36.300><c> gave</c><00:47:36.480><c> you</c><00:47:36.679><c> just</c><00:47:36.780><c> a</c><00:47:37.099><c> tedious</c>

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it's<00:47:38.059><c> tedious</c><00:47:38.300><c> work</c>

00:47:38.519 --> 00:47:41.900
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ok

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for<00:47:49.300><c> hurting</c><00:47:49.460><c> me</c>

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it's<00:47:50.440><c> a</c><00:47:50.519><c> very</c><00:47:50.760><c> simple</c><00:47:51.500><c> therapeutic</c>

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change

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and<00:47:54.760><c> you'll</c><00:47:55.199><c> see</c><00:47:55.360><c> that</c>

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these<00:47:56.239><c> are</c><00:47:56.840><c> helpful</c><00:47:57.380><c> in</c><00:47:57.639><c> the</c><00:47:57.780><c> sense</c><00:47:58.019><c> that</c>

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a<00:47:59.260><c> lot</c><00:47:59.380><c> of</c><00:47:59.519><c> times</c>

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as<00:48:00.800><c> Christadelphians</c><00:48:01.500><c> we</c><00:48:02.000><c> know</c>

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or<00:48:06.179><c> anybody</c>

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who's<00:48:07.679><c> wronged</c><00:48:07.940><c> us</c>

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we're<00:48:12.980><c> frustrated</c>

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by<00:48:13.719><c> the</c><00:48:13.940><c> process</c>

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00:48:16.739 --> 00:48:18.280
I<00:48:16.960><c> should</c><00:48:17.159><c> have</c><00:48:17.340><c> forgiven</c><00:48:17.599><c> them</c><00:48:17.800><c> by</c><00:48:18.000><c> now</c>

00:48:18.280 --> 00:48:20.099
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and<00:48:26.539><c> I</c><00:48:26.679><c> think</c>

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that's<00:48:32.840><c> horrible</c>

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ourselves

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