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get you i 00:10:20.720 --> 00:10:22.630 align:start position:0% morning we're coming to get you i remember<00:10:21.120><c> my</c><00:10:21.360><c> dad</c> 00:10:22.630 --> 00:10:22.640 align:start position:0% remember my dad 00:10:22.640 --> 00:10:24.069 align:start position:0% remember my dad came<00:10:22.959><c> upstairs</c> 00:10:24.069 --> 00:10:24.079 align:start position:0% came upstairs 00:10:24.079 --> 00:10:26.230 align:start position:0% came upstairs he<00:10:24.320><c> drove</c><00:10:24.640><c> over</c><00:10:24.880><c> to</c><00:10:24.959><c> come</c><00:10:25.200><c> get</c><00:10:25.440><c> us</c> 00:10:26.230 --> 00:10:26.240 align:start position:0% he drove over to come get us 00:10:26.240 --> 00:10:28.389 align:start position:0% he drove over to come get us uh<00:10:26.640><c> to</c><00:10:26.720><c> come</c><00:10:26.880><c> get</c><00:10:27.040><c> me</c><00:10:27.519><c> came</c><00:10:27.760><c> upstairs</c><00:10:28.240><c> and</c><00:10:28.320><c> he's</c> 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position:0% of heart he said when i walked in the 00:10:45.440 --> 00:10:46.630 align:start position:0% of heart he said when i walked in the house 00:10:46.630 --> 00:10:46.640 align:start position:0% house 00:10:46.640 --> 00:10:49.670 align:start position:0% house uh<00:10:46.959><c> dave's</c><00:10:47.360><c> father</c><00:10:47.839><c> had</c><00:10:48.000><c> a</c><00:10:48.160><c> bible</c><00:10:48.720><c> open</c> 00:10:49.670 --> 00:10:49.680 align:start position:0% uh dave's father had a bible open 00:10:49.680 --> 00:10:51.110 align:start position:0% uh dave's father had a bible open and<00:10:49.839><c> it</c><00:10:50.000><c> wasn't</c><00:10:50.320><c> it</c><00:10:50.399><c> wasn't</c><00:10:50.640><c> this</c><00:10:50.800><c> wasn't</c><00:10:51.040><c> a</c> 00:10:51.110 --> 00:10:51.120 align:start position:0% and it wasn't it wasn't this wasn't a 00:10:51.120 --> 00:10:53.829 align:start position:0% and it wasn't it wasn't this wasn't a show<00:10:51.360><c> bible</c><00:10:51.680><c> this</c><00:10:51.839><c> was</c><00:10:52.000><c> a</c><00:10:52.079><c> bible</c><00:10:52.480><c> well</c><00:10:52.800><c> used</c> 00:10:53.829 --> 00:10:53.839 align:start position:0% show bible this was a bible well used 00:10:53.839 --> 00:10:55.269 align:start position:0% show bible this was a bible well used and 00:10:55.269 --> 00:10:55.279 align:start position:0% and 00:10:55.279 --> 00:10:57.829 align:start position:0% and that<00:10:55.600><c> is</c><00:10:56.240><c> so</c><00:10:56.480><c> him</c><00:10:56.720><c> immediately</c><00:10:57.279><c> his</c><00:10:57.440><c> mind</c> 00:10:57.829 --> 00:10:57.839 align:start position:0% that is so him immediately his mind 00:10:57.839 --> 00:10:59.430 align:start position:0% that is so him immediately his mind changed<00:10:58.240><c> from</c><00:10:58.560><c> this</c><00:10:58.720><c> is</c><00:10:58.800><c> just</c><00:10:59.040><c> a</c><00:10:59.120><c> school</c> 00:10:59.430 --> 00:10:59.440 align:start position:0% changed from this is just a school 00:10:59.440 --> 00:11:01.110 align:start position:0% changed from this is just a school friend<00:10:59.760><c> to</c><00:11:00.160><c> actually</c><00:11:00.399><c> this</c><00:11:00.560><c> this</c><00:11:00.720><c> could</c><00:11:00.880><c> be</c><00:11:01.040><c> a</c> 00:11:01.110 --> 00:11:01.120 align:start position:0% friend to actually this this could be a 00:11:01.120 --> 00:11:04.949 align:start position:0% friend to actually this this could be a spiritual<00:11:02.160><c> support</c><00:11:03.120><c> um</c><00:11:03.519><c> so</c><00:11:03.760><c> it</c><00:11:04.320><c> i</c><00:11:04.560><c> absolutely</c> 00:11:04.949 --> 00:11:04.959 align:start position:0% spiritual support um so it i absolutely 00:11:04.959 --> 00:11:05.829 align:start position:0% spiritual support um so it i absolutely am<00:11:05.120><c> with</c> 00:11:05.829 --> 00:11:05.839 align:start position:0% am with 00:11:05.839 --> 00:11:07.910 align:start position:0% am with having<00:11:06.160><c> some</c><00:11:06.399><c> sort</c><00:11:06.560><c> of</c><00:11:06.800><c> indication</c><00:11:07.360><c> of</c><00:11:07.680><c> where</c> 00:11:07.910 --> 00:11:07.920 align:start position:0% having some sort of indication of where 00:11:07.920 --> 00:11:09.030 align:start position:0% having some sort of indication of where you<00:11:08.079><c> stand</c> 00:11:09.030 --> 00:11:09.040 align:start position:0% you stand 00:11:09.040 --> 00:11:11.030 align:start position:0% you stand uh<00:11:09.279><c> we</c><00:11:09.440><c> have</c><00:11:09.519><c> proverbs</c><00:11:10.000><c> three</c><00:11:10.240><c> and</c><00:11:10.399><c> three</c> 00:11:11.030 --> 00:11:11.040 align:start position:0% uh we have proverbs three and three 00:11:11.040 --> 00:11:13.190 align:start position:0% uh we have proverbs three and three right<00:11:11.200><c> in</c><00:11:11.279><c> our</c><00:11:11.680><c> kitchen</c><00:11:12.079><c> right</c><00:11:12.240><c> when</c><00:11:12.399><c> we</c><00:11:12.560><c> enter</c> 00:11:13.190 --> 00:11:13.200 align:start position:0% right in our kitchen right when we enter 00:11:13.200 --> 00:11:15.670 align:start position:0% right in our kitchen right when we enter um<00:11:13.839><c> i</c><00:11:14.000><c> couldn't</c><00:11:14.240><c> be</c><00:11:14.399><c> more</c><00:11:14.560><c> i</c><00:11:14.640><c> think</c><00:11:14.800><c> that</c><00:11:14.959><c> helps</c> 00:11:15.670 --> 00:11:15.680 align:start position:0% um i couldn't be more i think that helps 00:11:15.680 --> 00:11:17.509 align:start position:0% um i couldn't be more i think that helps to<00:11:15.760><c> help</c><00:11:16.000><c> us</c><00:11:16.079><c> remind</c><00:11:16.560><c> as</c><00:11:16.640><c> soon</c><00:11:16.800><c> as</c><00:11:16.880><c> we</c><00:11:17.120><c> enter</c><00:11:17.440><c> or</c> 00:11:17.509 --> 00:11:17.519 align:start position:0% to help us remind as soon as we enter or 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today 00:11:25.200 --> 00:11:34.949 align:start position:0% today what's<00:11:25.519><c> proven</c><00:11:26.399><c> three</c> 00:11:34.949 --> 00:11:34.959 align:start position:0% 00:11:34.959 --> 00:11:36.310 align:start position:0% trust<00:11:35.279><c> the</c><00:11:35.360><c> lord</c><00:11:35.600><c> with</c><00:11:35.760><c> all</c><00:11:35.839><c> your</c><00:11:36.000><c> heart</c><00:11:36.240><c> and</c> 00:11:36.310 --> 00:11:36.320 align:start position:0% trust the lord with all your heart and 00:11:36.320 --> 00:11:37.829 align:start position:0% trust the lord with all your heart and me<00:11:36.480><c> not</c><00:11:36.720><c> into</c><00:11:36.880><c> your</c><00:11:37.040><c> own</c><00:11:37.200><c> understanding</c><00:11:37.680><c> and</c> 00:11:37.829 --> 00:11:37.839 align:start position:0% me not into your own understanding and 00:11:37.839 --> 00:11:39.509 align:start position:0% me not into your own understanding and always<00:11:38.160><c> acknowledge</c><00:11:38.640><c> him</c><00:11:38.959><c> and</c><00:11:39.120><c> he</c><00:11:39.279><c> will</c><00:11:39.360><c> make</c> 00:11:39.509 --> 00:11:39.519 align:start position:0% always acknowledge him and he will make 00:11:39.519 --> 00:11:41.670 align:start position:0% always acknowledge him and he will make you<00:11:39.680><c> pass</c><00:11:39.920><c> straight</c><00:11:40.720><c> i</c><00:11:40.880><c> needed</c><00:11:41.200><c> a</c><00:11:41.279><c> little</c><00:11:41.440><c> kick</c> 00:11:41.670 --> 00:11:41.680 align:start position:0% you pass straight i needed a little kick 00:11:41.680 --> 00:11:43.190 align:start position:0% you pass straight i needed a little kick on<00:11:41.839><c> that</c><00:11:42.000><c> one</c> 00:11:43.190 --> 00:11:43.200 align:start position:0% on that one 00:11:43.200 --> 00:11:46.470 align:start position:0% on that one as<00:11:43.440><c> always</c><00:11:43.839><c> steve</c><00:11:44.720><c> good</c><00:11:44.959><c> one</c> 00:11:46.470 --> 00:11:46.480 align:start position:0% as always steve good one 00:11:46.480 --> 00:11:47.990 align:start position:0% as always steve good one it's<00:11:46.720><c> my</c><00:11:46.959><c> if</c><00:11:47.120><c> you</c><00:11:47.200><c> guys</c><00:11:47.360><c> want</c><00:11:47.440><c> to</c><00:11:47.519><c> break</c><00:11:47.760><c> into</c> 00:11:47.990 --> 00:11:48.000 align:start position:0% it's my if you guys want to break into 00:11:48.000 --> 00:11:49.750 align:start position:0% it's my if you guys want to break into anything<00:11:48.320><c> it's</c><00:11:48.560><c> it's</c><00:11:48.720><c> usually</c><00:11:49.040><c> my</c><00:11:49.200><c> password</c> 00:11:49.750 --> 00:11:49.760 align:start position:0% anything it's it's usually my password 00:11:49.760 --> 00:11:54.829 align:start position:0% anything it's it's usually my password so 00:11:54.829 --> 00:11:54.839 align:start position:0% 00:11:54.839 --> 00:11:58.470 align:start position:0% um<00:11:55.920><c> so</c><00:11:56.399><c> in</c><00:11:56.560><c> the</c><00:11:56.720><c> preparation</c><00:11:57.440><c> of</c> 00:11:58.470 --> 00:11:58.480 align:start position:0% um so in the preparation of 00:11:58.480 --> 00:12:00.629 align:start position:0% um so in the preparation of uh<00:11:58.800><c> the</c><00:11:58.959><c> household</c><00:11:59.600><c> you</c><00:11:59.680><c> know</c><00:12:00.000><c> thinking</c><00:12:00.320><c> about</c> 00:12:00.629 --> 00:12:00.639 align:start position:0% uh the household you know thinking about 00:12:00.639 --> 00:12:02.230 align:start position:0% uh the household you know thinking about that<00:12:00.800><c> how</c><00:12:00.959><c> do</c><00:12:01.040><c> we</c><00:12:01.279><c> how</c><00:12:01.440><c> do</c><00:12:01.600><c> we</c><00:12:01.680><c> prepare</c><00:12:02.079><c> our</c> 00:12:02.230 --> 00:12:02.240 align:start position:0% that how do we how do we prepare our 00:12:02.240 --> 00:12:05.030 align:start position:0% that how do we how do we prepare our house<00:12:02.959><c> outside</c><00:12:03.360><c> of</c><00:12:03.600><c> ensuring</c><00:12:04.000><c> that</c><00:12:04.160><c> we</c><00:12:04.320><c> have</c><00:12:04.480><c> a</c> 00:12:05.030 --> 00:12:05.040 align:start position:0% house outside of ensuring that we have a 00:12:05.040 --> 00:12:07.350 align:start position:0% house outside of ensuring that we have a an<00:12:05.120><c> electrical</c><00:12:05.600><c> generator</c><00:12:06.399><c> in</c><00:12:06.560><c> case</c><00:12:06.959><c> we</c><00:12:07.120><c> have</c> 00:12:07.350 --> 00:12:07.360 align:start position:0% an electrical generator in case we have 00:12:07.360 --> 00:12:09.910 align:start position:0% an electrical generator in case we have uh<00:12:07.600><c> trees</c><00:12:08.000><c> falling</c><00:12:08.399><c> or</c><00:12:08.480><c> in</c><00:12:08.639><c> phil's</c><00:12:08.959><c> case</c><00:12:09.279><c> a</c> 00:12:09.910 --> 00:12:09.920 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or the son of god 00:12:54.000 --> 00:12:56.310 align:start position:0% or the son of god and<00:12:54.240><c> ironically</c><00:12:55.200><c> mary</c><00:12:55.600><c> actually</c><00:12:55.760><c> goes</c><00:12:56.160><c> and</c> 00:12:56.310 --> 00:12:56.320 align:start position:0% and ironically mary actually goes and 00:12:56.320 --> 00:12:58.790 align:start position:0% and ironically mary actually goes and visits<00:12:56.959><c> uh</c><00:12:57.279><c> elizabeth</c><00:12:58.000><c> i</c><00:12:58.160><c> think</c><00:12:58.320><c> for</c><00:12:58.480><c> three</c> 00:12:58.790 --> 00:12:58.800 align:start position:0% visits uh elizabeth i think for three 00:12:58.800 --> 00:13:01.590 align:start position:0% visits uh elizabeth i think for three months<00:12:59.519><c> um</c><00:13:00.079><c> during</c><00:13:00.399><c> this</c><00:13:00.639><c> process</c><00:13:01.200><c> so</c><00:13:01.360><c> she</c> 00:13:01.590 --> 00:13:01.600 align:start position:0% months um during this process so she 00:13:01.600 --> 00:13:02.949 align:start position:0% months um during this process so she there<00:13:01.760><c> wasn't</c><00:13:02.000><c> a</c><00:13:02.079><c> lot</c><00:13:02.240><c> of</c><00:13:02.320><c> preparation</c><00:13:02.880><c> that</c> 00:13:02.949 --> 00:13:02.959 align:start position:0% there wasn't a lot of preparation that 00:13:02.959 --> 00:13:04.710 align:start position:0% there wasn't a lot of preparation that she<00:13:03.200><c> needed</c><00:13:03.519><c> to</c><00:13:03.680><c> do</c> 00:13:04.710 --> 00:13:04.720 align:start position:0% she needed to do 00:13:04.720 --> 00:13:06.629 align:start position:0% she needed to do um<00:13:05.279><c> apparently</c> 00:13:06.629 --> 00:13:06.639 align:start position:0% um apparently 00:13:06.639 --> 00:13:09.509 align:start position:0% um apparently but<00:13:06.800><c> i</c><00:13:06.880><c> think</c><00:13:07.040><c> about</c><00:13:07.279><c> myself</c><00:13:07.839><c> you</c><00:13:07.920><c> know</c> 00:13:09.509 --> 00:13:09.519 align:start position:0% but i think about myself you know 00:13:09.519 --> 00:13:11.750 align:start position:0% but i think about myself you know if<00:13:09.920><c> if</c><00:13:10.160><c> i</c><00:13:10.399><c> if</c><00:13:10.560><c> i</c><00:13:10.720><c> knew</c><00:13:10.880><c> that</c><00:13:11.040><c> the</c><00:13:11.200><c> son</c><00:13:11.360><c> of</c><00:13:11.519><c> god</c> 00:13:11.750 --> 00:13:11.760 align:start position:0% if if i if i knew that the son of god 00:13:11.760 --> 00:13:14.069 align:start position:0% if if i if i knew that the son of god was<00:13:11.920><c> coming</c><00:13:12.720><c> my</c><00:13:12.959><c> house</c> 00:13:14.069 --> 00:13:14.079 align:start position:0% was coming my house 00:13:14.079 --> 00:13:16.870 align:start position:0% was coming my house would<00:13:14.240><c> probably</c><00:13:14.560><c> take</c><00:13:14.720><c> the</c><00:13:15.120><c> bb</c><00:13:15.519><c> away</c><00:13:15.680><c> from</c> 00:13:16.870 --> 00:13:16.880 align:start position:0% would probably take the bb away from 00:13:16.880 --> 00:13:21.350 align:start position:0% would probably take the bb away from you<00:13:17.040><c> know</c><00:13:17.680><c> the</c><00:13:17.760><c> centerpiece</c><00:13:18.399><c> of</c><00:13:18.560><c> the</c><00:13:19.200><c> um</c> 00:13:21.350 --> 00:13:21.360 align:start position:0% you know the centerpiece of the um 00:13:21.360 --> 00:13:24.389 align:start position:0% you know the centerpiece of the um the<00:13:21.600><c> mantle</c><00:13:22.240><c> i</c><00:13:22.320><c> might</c><00:13:22.560><c> have</c><00:13:22.720><c> too</c><00:13:22.880><c> many</c><00:13:23.120><c> beers</c> 00:13:24.389 --> 00:13:24.399 align:start position:0% the mantle i might have too many beers 00:13:24.399 --> 00:13:25.990 align:start position:0% the mantle i might have too many beers admittedly<00:13:25.120><c> i</c><00:13:25.200><c> mean</c><00:13:25.360><c> these</c><00:13:25.600><c> are</c><00:13:25.680><c> things</c><00:13:25.920><c> that</c> 00:13:25.990 --> 00:13:26.000 align:start position:0% admittedly i mean these are things that 00:13:26.000 --> 00:13:31.269 align:start position:0% admittedly i mean these are things that i'm<00:13:26.160><c> like</c><00:13:26.399><c> like</c><00:13:26.800><c> how</c><00:13:26.959><c> do</c><00:13:27.120><c> i</c><00:13:27.200><c> prepare</c> 00:13:31.269 --> 00:13:31.279 align:start position:0% 00:13:31.279 --> 00:13:32.629 align:start position:0% and<00:13:31.360><c> then</c><00:13:31.519><c> we</c><00:13:31.680><c> think</c><00:13:31.920><c> about</c><00:13:32.160><c> you</c><00:13:32.240><c> know</c><00:13:32.320><c> what</c><00:13:32.560><c> we</c> 00:13:32.629 --> 00:13:32.639 align:start position:0% and then we think about you know what we 00:13:32.639 --> 00:13:34.470 align:start position:0% and then we think about you know what we do<00:13:32.800><c> in</c><00:13:33.120><c> mary's</c><00:13:33.440><c> situation</c> 00:13:34.470 --> 00:13:34.480 align:start position:0% do in mary's situation 00:13:34.480 --> 00:13:36.470 align:start position:0% do in mary's situation and<00:13:34.560><c> then</c><00:13:34.720><c> as</c><00:13:34.880><c> i'm</c><00:13:35.040><c> digging</c><00:13:35.279><c> into</c><00:13:35.519><c> this</c><00:13:35.680><c> topic</c> 00:13:36.470 --> 00:13:36.480 align:start position:0% and then as i'm digging into this topic 00:13:36.480 --> 00:13:38.389 align:start position:0% and then as i'm digging into this topic the<00:13:36.639><c> reality</c><00:13:37.279><c> is</c> 00:13:38.389 --> 00:13:38.399 align:start position:0% the reality is 00:13:38.399 --> 00:13:42.870 align:start position:0% the reality is all<00:13:38.720><c> children</c><00:13:39.120><c> are</c><00:13:39.199><c> god's</c><00:13:39.600><c> children</c> 00:13:42.870 --> 00:13:42.880 align:start position:0% 00:13:42.880 --> 00:13:44.949 align:start position:0% and<00:13:43.360><c> if</c><00:13:43.519><c> we're</c><00:13:43.920><c> if</c><00:13:44.079><c> we're</c><00:13:44.320><c> thinking</c><00:13:44.639><c> in</c><00:13:44.800><c> our</c> 00:13:44.949 --> 00:13:44.959 align:start position:0% and if we're if we're thinking in our 00:13:44.959 --> 00:13:46.790 align:start position:0% and if we're if we're thinking in our minds<00:13:45.279><c> oh</c><00:13:45.519><c> this</c><00:13:45.760><c> is</c><00:13:45.920><c> you</c><00:13:46.000><c> know</c><00:13:46.079><c> i</c><00:13:46.480><c> have</c><00:13:46.720><c> to</c> 00:13:46.790 --> 00:13:46.800 align:start position:0% minds oh this is you know i have to 00:13:46.800 --> 00:13:48.629 align:start position:0% minds oh this is you know i have to really<00:13:47.120><c> adjust</c><00:13:47.519><c> the</c><00:13:47.600><c> way</c><00:13:47.760><c> that</c><00:13:48.160><c> you</c><00:13:48.320><c> know</c><00:13:48.399><c> my</c> 00:13:48.629 --> 00:13:48.639 align:start position:0% really adjust the way that you know my 00:13:48.639 --> 00:13:51.430 align:start position:0% really adjust the way that you know my house<00:13:48.959><c> is</c><00:13:49.040><c> my</c><00:13:49.279><c> home</c><00:13:50.079><c> uh</c><00:13:50.399><c> is</c><00:13:50.560><c> set</c><00:13:50.800><c> up</c><00:13:50.959><c> but</c><00:13:51.199><c> the</c> 00:13:51.430 --> 00:13:51.440 align:start position:0% house is my home uh is set up but the 00:13:51.440 --> 00:13:52.949 align:start position:0% house is my home uh is set up but the objects<00:13:52.160><c> how</c> 00:13:52.949 --> 00:13:52.959 align:start position:0% objects how 00:13:52.959 --> 00:13:54.949 align:start position:0% objects how my<00:13:53.199><c> life</c><00:13:53.519><c> is</c><00:13:53.760><c> oriented</c><00:13:54.160><c> around</c><00:13:54.320><c> my</c><00:13:54.480><c> home</c><00:13:54.720><c> which</c> 00:13:54.949 --> 00:13:54.959 align:start position:0% my life is oriented around my home which 00:13:54.959 --> 00:13:57.430 align:start position:0% my life is oriented around my home which at<00:13:55.199><c> times</c><00:13:55.519><c> now</c><00:13:55.760><c> can</c><00:13:55.920><c> be</c><00:13:56.079><c> work</c><00:13:56.399><c> as</c><00:13:56.639><c> well</c> 00:13:57.430 --> 00:13:57.440 align:start position:0% at times now can be work as well 00:13:57.440 --> 00:13:59.829 align:start position:0% at times now can be work as well um 00:13:59.829 --> 00:13:59.839 align:start position:0% 00:13:59.839 --> 00:14:01.350 align:start position:0% we 00:14:01.350 --> 00:14:01.360 align:start position:0% we 00:14:01.360 --> 00:14:03.110 align:start position:0% we are<00:14:01.600><c> facilitating</c> 00:14:03.110 --> 00:14:03.120 align:start position:0% are facilitating 00:14:03.120 --> 00:14:05.829 align:start position:0% are facilitating um<00:14:03.519><c> we</c><00:14:03.680><c> are</c><00:14:03.839><c> raising</c><00:14:04.560><c> the</c><00:14:04.639><c> next</c><00:14:04.880><c> generation</c><00:14:05.519><c> of</c> 00:14:05.829 --> 00:14:05.839 align:start position:0% um we are raising the next generation of 00:14:05.839 --> 00:14:07.509 align:start position:0% um we are raising the next generation of of<00:14:06.000><c> god's</c><00:14:06.320><c> children</c> 00:14:07.509 --> 00:14:07.519 align:start position:0% of god's children 00:14:07.519 --> 00:14:09.030 align:start position:0% of god's children there's<00:14:07.760><c> a</c><00:14:07.839><c> couple</c><00:14:08.000><c> of</c><00:14:08.160><c> great</c><00:14:08.320><c> verses</c><00:14:08.720><c> around</c> 00:14:09.030 --> 00:14:09.040 align:start position:0% there's a couple of great verses around 00:14:09.040 --> 00:14:10.710 align:start position:0% there's a couple of great verses around this<00:14:09.360><c> wherefore</c> 00:14:10.710 --> 00:14:10.720 align:start position:0% this wherefore 00:14:10.720 --> 00:14:12.550 align:start position:0% this wherefore 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position:0% we want our life to culminate to and we distilled<00:15:43.680><c> it</c><00:15:43.759><c> down</c><00:15:44.000><c> to</c><00:15:44.320><c> raising</c><00:15:44.720><c> a</c><00:15:44.800><c> family</c> 00:15:45.189 --> 00:15:45.199 align:start position:0% distilled it down to raising a family 00:15:45.199 --> 00:15:47.350 align:start position:0% distilled it down to raising a family that<00:15:45.360><c> reflects</c><00:15:45.759><c> god's</c><00:15:46.160><c> love</c> 00:15:47.350 --> 00:15:47.360 align:start position:0% that reflects god's love 00:15:47.360 --> 00:15:49.110 align:start position:0% that reflects god's love that<00:15:47.600><c> love</c><00:15:47.920><c> is</c><00:15:48.079><c> is</c><00:15:48.320><c> ever</c><00:15:48.560><c> present</c><00:15:48.800><c> in</c><00:15:48.959><c> our</c> 00:15:49.110 --> 00:15:49.120 align:start position:0% that love is is ever present in our 00:15:49.120 --> 00:15:51.110 align:start position:0% that love is is ever 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intangible</c><00:17:05.280><c> some</c><00:17:05.439><c> of</c><00:17:05.520><c> the</c><00:17:05.760><c> attributes</c> 00:17:07.029 --> 00:17:07.039 align:start position:0% the intangible some of the attributes 00:17:07.039 --> 00:17:10.069 align:start position:0% the intangible some of the attributes that<00:17:07.280><c> we</c><00:17:07.439><c> should</c><00:17:07.600><c> be</c><00:17:07.760><c> exhibiting</c><00:17:08.319><c> as</c><00:17:08.480><c> a</c><00:17:08.559><c> parent</c> 00:17:10.069 --> 00:17:10.079 align:start position:0% that we should be exhibiting as a parent 00:17:10.079 --> 00:17:12.329 align:start position:0% that we should be exhibiting as a parent and<00:17:10.400><c> part</c><00:17:10.559><c> of</c><00:17:10.720><c> it</c><00:17:10.880><c> also</c><00:17:11.439><c> boils</c><00:17:11.839><c> down</c><00:17:12.160><c> to</c> 00:17:12.329 --> 00:17:12.339 align:start position:0% and part of it also boils down to 00:17:12.339 --> 00:17:14.549 align:start position:0% and part of it also boils down to [Music] 00:17:14.549 --> 00:17:14.559 align:start position:0% [Music] 00:17:14.559 --> 00:17:15.829 align:start position:0% [Music] how 00:17:15.829 --> 00:17:15.839 align:start position:0% how 00:17:15.839 --> 00:17:17.990 align:start position:0% how we<00:17:16.000><c> should</c><00:17:16.319><c> parent</c><00:17:16.880><c> or</c><00:17:17.039><c> to</c><00:17:17.199><c> use</c><00:17:17.439><c> the</c><00:17:17.520><c> canadian</c> 00:17:17.990 --> 00:17:18.000 align:start position:0% we should parent or to use the canadian 00:17:18.000 --> 00:17:20.069 align:start position:0% we should parent or to use the canadian analogy<00:17:18.959><c> how</c><00:17:19.120><c> do</c><00:17:19.199><c> we</c><00:17:19.360><c> skate</c><00:17:19.679><c> to</c><00:17:19.760><c> where</c><00:17:19.919><c> the</c> 00:17:20.069 --> 00:17:20.079 align:start position:0% analogy how do we skate to where the 00:17:20.079 --> 00:17:22.230 align:start position:0% analogy how do we skate to where the puck<00:17:20.319><c> is</c><00:17:20.400><c> going</c> 00:17:22.230 --> 00:17:22.240 align:start position:0% puck is going 00:17:22.240 --> 00:17:24.390 align:start position:0% puck is going i<00:17:22.480><c> feel</c><00:17:22.799><c> comfortable</c> 00:17:24.390 --> 00:17:24.400 align:start position:0% i feel comfortable 00:17:24.400 --> 00:17:26.150 align:start position:0% i feel comfortable in<00:17:24.559><c> bringing</c><00:17:24.880><c> up</c><00:17:25.120><c> this</c><00:17:25.439><c> the</c><00:17:25.600><c> topic</c><00:17:26.000><c> of</c> 00:17:26.150 --> 00:17:26.160 align:start position:0% in bringing up this the topic of 00:17:26.160 --> 00:17:27.750 align:start position:0% in bringing up this the topic of parenting<00:17:26.880><c> because</c><00:17:27.039><c> i</c><00:17:27.199><c> truly</c><00:17:27.439><c> believe</c><00:17:27.679><c> you</c> 00:17:27.750 --> 00:17:27.760 align:start position:0% parenting because i truly believe you 00:17:27.760 --> 00:17:30.950 align:start position:0% parenting because i truly believe you know<00:17:27.919><c> this</c><00:17:28.559><c> yeah</c><00:17:28.880><c> we</c><00:17:29.039><c> have</c><00:17:29.760><c> um</c><00:17:30.320><c> age</c><00:17:30.640><c> going</c><00:17:30.880><c> to</c> 00:17:30.950 --> 00:17:30.960 align:start position:0% know this yeah we have um age going to 00:17:30.960 --> 00:17:33.990 align:start position:0% know this yeah we have um age going to 18<00:17:31.280><c> but</c><00:17:31.520><c> ultimately</c><00:17:32.160><c> this</c><00:17:32.640><c> this</c><00:17:32.960><c> age</c><00:17:33.679><c> you</c><00:17:33.840><c> can</c> 00:17:33.990 --> 00:17:34.000 align:start position:0% 18 but ultimately this this age you can 00:17:34.000 --> 00:17:35.110 align:start position:0% 18 but ultimately this this age you can take<00:17:34.160><c> that</c><00:17:34.400><c> to</c> 00:17:35.110 --> 00:17:35.120 align:start position:0% take that to 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wholeheartedly</c><00:17:45.280><c> you</c><00:17:45.440><c> know</c> 00:17:45.590 --> 00:17:45.600 align:start position:0% this is it's a wholeheartedly you know 00:17:45.600 --> 00:17:47.830 align:start position:0% this is it's a wholeheartedly you know it's<00:17:45.760><c> authority</c><00:17:46.320><c> you</c><00:17:46.400><c> just</c><00:17:46.559><c> do</c><00:17:46.799><c> as</c><00:17:46.960><c> you</c><00:17:47.120><c> say</c> 00:17:47.830 --> 00:17:47.840 align:start position:0% it's authority you just do as you say 00:17:47.840 --> 00:17:50.630 align:start position:0% it's authority you just do as you say try<00:17:48.000><c> to</c><00:17:48.160><c> keep</c><00:17:48.400><c> this</c><00:17:48.880><c> little</c><00:17:49.600><c> you</c><00:17:49.679><c> know</c><00:17:50.320><c> couple</c> 00:17:50.630 --> 00:17:50.640 align:start position:0% try to keep this little you know couple 00:17:50.640 --> 00:17:52.230 align:start position:0% try to keep this little you know couple week<00:17:50.880><c> old</c> 00:17:52.230 --> 00:17:52.240 align:start position:0% week old 00:17:52.240 --> 00:17:54.390 align:start position:0% week old human<00:17:52.640><c> being</c><00:17:52.960><c> alive</c><00:17:53.679><c> and</c><00:17:53.760><c> that</c><00:17:54.000><c> ultimately</c> 00:17:54.390 --> 00:17:54.400 align:start position:0% human being alive and that ultimately 00:17:54.400 --> 00:17:56.150 align:start position:0% human being alive and that ultimately boils<00:17:54.720><c> down</c><00:17:54.960><c> to</c><00:17:55.120><c> discipline</c><00:17:55.679><c> and</c><00:17:55.760><c> one</c><00:17:55.919><c> of</c><00:17:56.000><c> the</c> 00:17:56.150 --> 00:17:56.160 align:start position:0% boils down to discipline and one of the 00:17:56.160 --> 00:17:57.750 align:start position:0% boils down to discipline and one of the big<00:17:56.320><c> things</c><00:17:56.559><c> that</c><00:17:56.640><c> ben</c><00:17:56.880><c> talks</c><00:17:57.200><c> about</c><00:17:57.440><c> is</c><00:17:57.600><c> there</c> 00:17:57.750 --> 00:17:57.760 align:start position:0% big things that ben talks about is there 00:17:57.760 --> 00:17:59.669 align:start position:0% big things that ben talks about is there was<00:17:58.400><c> some</c><00:17:58.559><c> that</c><00:17:58.720><c> stopped</c><00:17:59.039><c> in</c><00:17:59.120><c> his</c><00:17:59.360><c> track</c><00:17:59.600><c> and</c> 00:17:59.669 --> 00:17:59.679 align:start position:0% was some that stopped in his track and 00:17:59.679 --> 00:18:01.909 align:start position:0% was some that stopped in his track and made<00:17:59.840><c> him</c><00:18:00.080><c> realize</c><00:18:00.799><c> how</c><00:18:00.960><c> he</c><00:18:01.120><c> needs</c><00:18:01.360><c> to</c><00:18:01.600><c> focus</c> 00:18:01.909 --> 00:18:01.919 align:start position:0% made him realize how he needs to focus 00:18:01.919 --> 00:18:04.150 align:start position:0% made him realize how he needs to focus on<00:18:02.080><c> discipline</c><00:18:02.880><c> is</c><00:18:03.039><c> that</c><00:18:03.200><c> there</c><00:18:03.440><c> was</c><00:18:04.080><c> a</c> 00:18:04.150 --> 00:18:04.160 align:start position:0% on discipline is that there was a 00:18:04.160 --> 00:18:06.230 align:start position:0% on discipline is that there was a horrific<00:18:04.799><c> accident</c><00:18:05.360><c> where</c> 00:18:06.230 --> 00:18:06.240 align:start position:0% horrific accident where 00:18:06.240 --> 00:18:08.230 align:start position:0% horrific accident where a<00:18:06.640><c> four-year-old</c><00:18:07.280><c> was</c><00:18:07.440><c> crossing</c><00:18:07.840><c> the</c><00:18:08.000><c> street</c> 00:18:08.230 --> 00:18:08.240 align:start position:0% a four-year-old was crossing the street 00:18:08.240 --> 00:18:10.390 align:start position:0% a four-year-old was crossing the street of<00:18:08.320><c> sydney</c><00:18:09.200><c> her</c><00:18:09.360><c> hat</c><00:18:09.679><c> fell</c><00:18:09.919><c> off</c><00:18:10.160><c> because</c><00:18:10.320><c> of</c> 00:18:10.390 --> 00:18:10.400 align:start position:0% of sydney her hat fell off because of 00:18:10.400 --> 00:18:12.950 align:start position:0% of sydney her hat fell off because of the<00:18:10.559><c> wind</c><00:18:11.360><c> and</c><00:18:11.520><c> she</c><00:18:11.760><c> ran</c><00:18:12.080><c> she</c> 00:18:12.950 --> 00:18:12.960 align:start position:0% the wind and she ran she 00:18:12.960 --> 00:18:15.990 align:start position:0% the wind and she ran she unlocked<00:18:13.360><c> she</c><00:18:14.080><c> broke</c><00:18:14.320><c> her</c><00:18:14.720><c> mother's</c> 00:18:15.990 --> 00:18:16.000 align:start position:0% unlocked she broke her mother's 00:18:16.000 --> 00:18:18.150 align:start position:0% unlocked she broke her mother's grasp<00:18:16.400><c> of</c><00:18:16.480><c> her</c><00:18:16.640><c> hand</c><00:18:17.039><c> and</c><00:18:17.200><c> ran</c><00:18:17.520><c> back</c><00:18:17.760><c> into</c><00:18:18.000><c> the</c> 00:18:18.150 --> 00:18:18.160 align:start position:0% grasp of her hand and ran back into the 00:18:18.160 --> 00:18:19.990 align:start position:0% grasp of her hand and ran back into the street<00:18:18.799><c> and</c><00:18:18.960><c> unfortunately</c><00:18:19.520><c> was</c><00:18:19.600><c> hit</c><00:18:19.760><c> by</c><00:18:19.919><c> a</c> 00:18:19.990 --> 00:18:20.000 align:start position:0% street and unfortunately was hit by a 00:18:20.000 --> 00:18:22.390 align:start position:0% street and unfortunately was hit by a car<00:18:20.240><c> as</c><00:18:20.400><c> her</c><00:18:20.480><c> mother</c><00:18:20.720><c> screaming</c><00:18:21.120><c> to</c><00:18:21.280><c> stop</c> 00:18:22.390 --> 00:18:22.400 align:start position:0% car as her mother screaming to stop 00:18:22.400 --> 00:18:24.230 align:start position:0% car as her mother screaming to stop and<00:18:22.640><c> he</c><00:18:22.880><c> realized</c><00:18:23.360><c> you</c><00:18:23.440><c> know</c><00:18:23.520><c> this</c><00:18:23.919><c> this</c> 00:18:24.230 --> 00:18:24.240 align:start position:0% and he realized you know this this 00:18:24.240 --> 00:18:25.669 align:start position:0% and he realized you know this this discipline<00:18:24.799><c> could</c><00:18:24.960><c> be</c> 00:18:25.669 --> 00:18:25.679 align:start position:0% discipline could be 00:18:25.679 --> 00:18:28.870 align:start position:0% discipline could be a<00:18:25.840><c> life</c><00:18:26.080><c> or</c><00:18:26.240><c> death</c><00:18:26.480><c> situation</c> 00:18:28.870 --> 00:18:28.880 align:start position:0% a life or death situation 00:18:28.880 --> 00:18:30.710 align:start position:0% a life or death situation and<00:18:28.960><c> that</c><00:18:29.200><c> discipline</c><00:18:29.760><c> on</c><00:18:29.840><c> the</c><00:18:30.000><c> onset</c><00:18:30.480><c> then</c> 00:18:30.710 --> 00:18:30.720 align:start position:0% and that discipline on the onset then 00:18:30.720 --> 00:18:32.950 align:start position:0% and that discipline on the onset then can<00:18:30.960><c> evolve</c><00:18:31.520><c> from</c><00:18:31.760><c> earned</c><00:18:32.080><c> empowerment</c><00:18:32.799><c> to</c> 00:18:32.950 --> 00:18:32.960 align:start position:0% can evolve from earned empowerment to 00:18:32.960 --> 00:18:35.590 align:start position:0% can evolve from earned empowerment to training<00:18:33.679><c> and</c><00:18:33.840><c> from</c><00:18:34.080><c> training</c><00:18:34.480><c> to</c><00:18:34.640><c> coaching</c> 00:18:35.590 --> 00:18:35.600 align:start position:0% training and from training to coaching 00:18:35.600 --> 00:18:38.310 align:start position:0% training and from training to coaching and<00:18:35.760><c> from</c><00:18:36.000><c> coaching</c> 00:18:38.310 --> 00:18:38.320 align:start position:0% and from coaching 00:18:38.320 --> 00:18:39.909 align:start position:0% and from coaching friendship 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entirety 00:18:47.760 --> 00:18:48.870 align:start position:0% can last for the entirety um 00:18:48.870 --> 00:18:48.880 align:start position:0% um 00:18:48.880 --> 00:18:50.710 align:start position:0% um the<00:18:49.039><c> entirety</c><00:18:49.600><c> of</c><00:18:49.760><c> that</c><00:18:50.000><c> that</c><00:18:50.240><c> parental</c> 00:18:50.710 --> 00:18:50.720 align:start position:0% the entirety of that that parental 00:18:50.720 --> 00:18:53.990 align:start position:0% the entirety of that that parental relationship 00:18:53.990 --> 00:18:54.000 align:start position:0% 00:18:54.000 --> 00:18:55.750 align:start position:0% and<00:18:54.240><c> parenting</c><00:18:54.720><c> is</c><00:18:54.960><c> is</c><00:18:55.120><c> really</c><00:18:55.440><c> it's</c><00:18:55.440><c> it's</c> 00:18:55.750 --> 00:18:55.760 align:start position:0% and parenting is is really it's it's 00:18:55.760 --> 00:18:57.990 align:start position:0% and parenting is is really it's it's never<00:18:56.080><c> done</c><00:18:56.720><c> it's</c><00:18:56.960><c> it's</c><00:18:57.200><c> never</c><00:18:57.440><c> a</c><00:18:57.600><c> complete</c> 00:18:57.990 --> 00:18:58.000 align:start position:0% never done it's it's never a complete 00:18:58.000 --> 00:18:59.029 align:start position:0% never done it's it's never a complete work 00:18:59.029 --> 00:18:59.039 align:start position:0% work 00:18:59.039 --> 00:19:00.950 align:start position:0% work there's<00:18:59.200><c> no</c><00:18:59.440><c> expiration</c><00:19:00.080><c> date</c><00:19:00.480><c> to</c><00:19:00.640><c> being</c><00:19:00.880><c> a</c> 00:19:00.950 --> 00:19:00.960 align:start position:0% there's no expiration date to being a 00:19:00.960 --> 00:19:02.390 align:start position:0% there's no expiration date to being a daughter<00:19:01.280><c> or</c><00:19:01.440><c> a</c><00:19:01.600><c> son</c> 00:19:02.390 --> 00:19:02.400 align:start position:0% daughter or a son 00:19:02.400 --> 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um<00:19:08.400><c> like</c><00:19:08.640><c> as</c><00:19:08.799><c> emily</c><00:19:09.120><c> said</c><00:19:09.600><c> she</c><00:19:10.080><c> she's</c><00:19:10.240><c> never</c> 00:19:10.390 --> 00:19:10.400 align:start position:0% um like as emily said she she's never 00:19:10.400 --> 00:19:11.990 align:start position:0% um like as emily said she she's never been<00:19:10.559><c> a</c><00:19:10.640><c> parent</c><00:19:10.960><c> but</c><00:19:11.120><c> she</c><00:19:11.280><c> knows</c><00:19:11.520><c> how</c><00:19:11.679><c> to</c><00:19:11.760><c> be</c> 00:19:11.990 --> 00:19:12.000 align:start position:0% been a parent but she knows how to be 00:19:12.000 --> 00:19:13.669 align:start position:0% been a parent but she knows how to be parented<00:19:12.400><c> or</c><00:19:12.480><c> she</c><00:19:12.640><c> you</c><00:19:12.720><c> know</c><00:19:12.799><c> she's</c><00:19:13.360><c> started</c> 00:19:13.669 --> 00:19:13.679 align:start position:0% parented or she you 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align:start position:0% i have chosen the offspring of abram my 00:19:50.559 --> 00:19:52.070 align:start position:0% i have chosen the offspring of abram my friend 00:19:52.070 --> 00:19:52.080 align:start position:0% friend 00:19:52.080 --> 00:19:54.150 align:start position:0% friend you<00:19:52.720><c> whom</c><00:19:52.960><c> i</c><00:19:53.200><c> took</c><00:19:53.440><c> from</c><00:19:53.600><c> the</c><00:19:53.760><c> ends</c><00:19:54.000><c> of</c><00:19:54.080><c> the</c> 00:19:54.150 --> 00:19:54.160 align:start position:0% you whom i took from the ends of the 00:19:54.160 --> 00:19:56.710 align:start position:0% you whom i took from the ends of the earth<00:19:54.480><c> and</c><00:19:54.640><c> called</c><00:19:55.360><c> from</c><00:19:55.919><c> its</c><00:19:56.240><c> farthest</c> 00:19:56.710 --> 00:19:56.720 align:start position:0% earth and called from its farthest 00:19:56.720 --> 00:19:59.830 align:start position:0% earth and called from its farthest 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dismayed</c><00:20:06.640><c> for</c><00:20:06.880><c> i</c><00:20:07.120><c> am</c> 00:20:07.190 --> 00:20:07.200 align:start position:0% brian with you be not dismayed for i am 00:20:07.200 --> 00:20:09.750 align:start position:0% brian with you be not dismayed for i am your<00:20:07.440><c> god</c><00:20:07.840><c> i</c><00:20:08.000><c> will</c><00:20:08.320><c> strengthen</c><00:20:08.960><c> you</c><00:20:09.280><c> i</c><00:20:09.440><c> will</c> 00:20:09.750 --> 00:20:09.760 align:start position:0% your god i will strengthen you i will 00:20:09.760 --> 00:20:12.230 align:start position:0% your god i will strengthen you i will help<00:20:10.080><c> you</c><00:20:10.559><c> i</c><00:20:10.720><c> will</c><00:20:10.960><c> uphold</c><00:20:11.520><c> you</c> 00:20:12.230 --> 00:20:12.240 align:start position:0% help you i will uphold you 00:20:12.240 --> 00:20:17.029 align:start position:0% help you i will uphold you my<00:20:12.480><c> righteous</c><00:20:13.360><c> right</c> 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position:0% from one of just an obedient servant to truly<00:20:31.200><c> a</c><00:20:31.360><c> friend</c> 00:20:33.190 --> 00:20:33.200 align:start position:0% truly a friend 00:20:33.200 --> 00:20:36.789 align:start position:0% truly a friend and<00:20:33.440><c> we</c><00:20:33.600><c> also</c><00:20:33.840><c> get</c><00:20:34.159><c> a</c><00:20:34.240><c> lot</c><00:20:34.400><c> of</c> 00:20:36.789 --> 00:20:36.799 align:start position:0% 00:20:36.799 --> 00:20:41.909 align:start position:0% sorry<00:20:37.039><c> do</c><00:20:37.120><c> we</c><00:20:37.280><c> have</c><00:20:37.440><c> a</c><00:20:37.679><c> point</c> 00:20:41.909 --> 00:20:41.919 align:start position:0% 00:20:41.919 --> 00:20:44.950 align:start position:0% yeah<00:20:42.159><c> when</c><00:20:42.559><c> it</c><00:20:42.640><c> comes</c><00:20:42.880><c> to</c><00:20:42.960><c> man</c><00:20:43.280><c> about</c><00:20:43.600><c> abraham</c> 00:20:44.950 --> 00:20:44.960 align:start position:0% yeah when it comes to man about abraham 00:20:44.960 --> 00:20:46.310 align:start position:0% yeah when it comes to man about abraham when<00:20:45.280><c> god</c> 00:20:46.310 --> 00:20:46.320 align:start position:0% when god 00:20:46.320 --> 00:20:48.630 align:start position:0% when god uh<00:20:46.799><c> told</c><00:20:47.039><c> him</c><00:20:47.200><c> that</c> 00:20:48.630 --> 00:20:48.640 align:start position:0% uh told him that 00:20:48.640 --> 00:20:51.510 align:start position:0% uh told him that he<00:20:48.880><c> knew</c><00:20:49.120><c> that</c><00:20:49.280><c> he</c><00:20:49.440><c> would</c><00:20:49.600><c> bring</c><00:20:49.840><c> up</c><00:20:50.000><c> his</c><00:20:50.240><c> house</c> 00:20:51.510 --> 00:20:51.520 align:start position:0% he knew that he would bring up his house 00:20:51.520 --> 00:20:52.789 align:start position:0% he knew that he would bring up his house um 00:20:52.789 --> 00:20:52.799 align:start position:0% um 00:20:52.799 --> 00:20:54.630 align:start position:0% um he<00:20:53.039><c> knew</c><00:20:53.280><c> abraham</c><00:20:53.919><c> that</c><00:20:54.080><c> he</c><00:20:54.159><c> would</c><00:20:54.320><c> bring</c><00:20:54.559><c> up</c> 00:20:54.630 --> 00:20:54.640 align:start position:0% he knew abraham that he would bring up 00:20:54.640 --> 00:20:55.669 align:start position:0% he knew abraham that he would bring up his<00:20:54.799><c> house</c> 00:20:55.669 --> 00:20:55.679 align:start position:0% his house 00:20:55.679 --> 00:20:57.909 align:start position:0% his house and<00:20:55.760><c> his</c><00:20:56.000><c> children</c><00:20:56.480><c> and</c><00:20:57.039><c> uh</c> 00:20:57.909 --> 00:20:57.919 align:start position:0% and his children and uh 00:20:57.919 --> 00:21:02.870 align:start position:0% and his children and uh the<00:20:58.080><c> way</c><00:20:58.320><c> he</c><00:20:58.480><c> was</c><00:20:58.720><c> instructed</c><00:20:59.200><c> by</c><00:20:59.440><c> god</c> 00:21:02.870 --> 00:21:02.880 align:start position:0% 00:21:02.880 --> 00:21:04.549 align:start position:0% absolutely 00:21:04.549 --> 00:21:04.559 align:start position:0% absolutely 00:21:04.559 --> 00:21:07.510 align:start position:0% absolutely absolutely<00:21:05.679><c> brother</c><00:21:05.919><c> richard</c><00:21:06.400><c> are</c><00:21:06.480><c> you</c><00:21:06.720><c> uh</c> 00:21:07.510 --> 00:21:07.520 align:start position:0% absolutely brother richard are you uh 00:21:07.520 --> 00:21:09.270 align:start position:0% absolutely brother richard are you uh are<00:21:07.679><c> you</c><00:21:08.080><c> looking</c><00:21:08.400><c> at</c><00:21:08.480><c> my</c><00:21:08.799><c> slides</c><00:21:09.200><c> or</c> 00:21:09.270 --> 00:21:09.280 align:start position:0% are you looking at my slides or 00:21:09.280 --> 00:21:10.789 align:start position:0% are you looking at my slides or something<00:21:09.520><c> do</c><00:21:09.600><c> you</c><00:21:09.679><c> get</c><00:21:09.840><c> an</c><00:21:09.919><c> early</c><00:21:10.320><c> release</c><00:21:10.720><c> of</c> 00:21:10.789 --> 00:21:10.799 align:start position:0% something do you get an early release of 00:21:10.799 --> 00:21:11.990 align:start position:0% something do you get an early release of the<00:21:10.880><c> slide</c><00:21:11.200><c> there</c><00:21:11.440><c> that</c><00:21:11.600><c> was</c><00:21:11.679><c> that's</c> 00:21:11.990 --> 00:21:12.000 align:start position:0% the slide there that was that's 00:21:12.000 --> 00:21:14.710 align:start position:0% the slide there that was that's fantastic<00:21:13.120><c> great</c><00:21:13.440><c> segue</c> 00:21:14.710 --> 00:21:14.720 align:start position:0% fantastic great segue 00:21:14.720 --> 00:21:17.350 align:start position:0% fantastic great segue that's<00:21:15.039><c> exactly</c><00:21:15.520><c> it</c><00:21:16.320><c> um</c> 00:21:17.350 --> 00:21:17.360 align:start position:0% that's exactly it um 00:21:17.360 --> 00:21:19.190 align:start position:0% that's exactly it um abram<00:21:17.840><c> was</c><00:21:18.000><c> able</c><00:21:18.159><c> to</c><00:21:18.320><c> take</c><00:21:18.640><c> to</c><00:21:18.799><c> take</c><00:21:18.960><c> those</c> 00:21:19.190 --> 00:21:19.200 align:start position:0% abram was able to take to take those 00:21:19.200 --> 00:21:21.510 align:start position:0% abram was able to take to take those lessons<00:21:19.600><c> learned</c><00:21:20.159><c> and</c><00:21:20.320><c> extrapolate</c><00:21:21.120><c> it</c><00:21:21.200><c> now</c> 00:21:21.510 --> 00:21:21.520 align:start position:0% lessons learned and extrapolate it now 00:21:21.520 --> 00:21:22.390 align:start position:0% lessons learned and extrapolate it now to 00:21:22.390 --> 00:21:22.400 align:start position:0% to 00:21:22.400 --> 00:21:23.750 align:start position:0% to his 00:21:23.750 --> 00:21:23.760 align:start position:0% his 00:21:23.760 --> 00:21:25.430 align:start position:0% his his<00:21:24.000><c> family</c> 00:21:25.430 --> 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in his prayers the nurturing<00:21:33.360><c> admission</c><00:21:33.919><c> of</c><00:21:34.240><c> the</c><00:21:34.400><c> lord</c> 00:21:37.669 --> 00:21:37.679 align:start position:0% 00:21:37.679 --> 00:21:39.430 align:start position:0% oh<00:21:37.840><c> that's</c><00:21:38.080><c> fantastic</c><00:21:38.799><c> you</c><00:21:38.960><c> want</c><00:21:39.120><c> do</c><00:21:39.200><c> you</c><00:21:39.280><c> want</c> 00:21:39.430 --> 00:21:39.440 align:start position:0% oh that's fantastic you want do you want 00:21:39.440 --> 00:21:40.950 align:start position:0% oh that's fantastic you want do you want to<00:21:39.600><c> i</c><00:21:39.679><c> know</c><00:21:39.840><c> you</c><00:21:40.240><c> you</c><00:21:40.320><c> mentioned</c><00:21:40.640><c> a</c><00:21:40.640><c> little</c><00:21:40.799><c> bit</c> 00:21:40.950 --> 00:21:40.960 align:start position:0% to i know you you mentioned a little bit 00:21:40.960 --> 00:21:42.230 align:start position:0% to i know you you mentioned a little bit about<00:21:41.120><c> that</c><00:21:41.280><c> do</c><00:21:41.440><c> you</c><00:21:41.520><c> want</c><00:21:41.600><c> to</c><00:21:41.679><c> touch</c><00:21:41.919><c> on</c><00:21:42.080><c> that</c> 00:21:42.230 --> 00:21:42.240 align:start position:0% about that do you want to touch on that 00:21:42.240 --> 00:21:44.870 align:start position:0% about that do you want to touch on that now<00:21:42.480><c> brother</c><00:21:43.280><c> oh</c><00:21:43.600><c> no</c><00:21:43.840><c> you</c><00:21:44.000><c> go</c><00:21:44.159><c> right</c><00:21:44.400><c> ahead</c><00:21:44.720><c> i</c> 00:21:44.870 --> 00:21:44.880 align:start position:0% now brother oh no you go right ahead i 00:21:44.880 --> 00:21:46.950 align:start position:0% now brother oh no you go right ahead i just<00:21:45.120><c> want</c><00:21:45.280><c> to</c><00:21:45.440><c> add</c><00:21:45.679><c> to</c><00:21:45.919><c> it</c> 00:21:46.950 --> 00:21:46.960 align:start position:0% just want to add to it 00:21:46.960 --> 00:21:51.750 align:start position:0% just want to add to it you're<00:21:47.120><c> doing</c><00:21:47.440><c> great</c><00:21:47.840><c> so</c> 00:21:51.750 --> 00:21:51.760 align:start position:0% 00:21:51.760 --> 00:21:53.029 align:start position:0% it<00:21:51.919><c> says</c><00:21:52.240><c> in</c> 00:21:53.029 --> 00:21:53.039 align:start position:0% it says in 00:21:53.039 --> 00:21:54.950 align:start position:0% it says in ephesians<00:21:53.679><c> 6</c><00:21:54.000><c> 4</c> 00:21:54.950 --> 00:21:54.960 align:start position:0% ephesians 6 4 00:21:54.960 --> 00:21:57.110 align:start position:0% ephesians 6 4 fathers<00:21:55.440><c> do</c><00:21:55.679><c> not</c><00:21:55.840><c> provoke</c><00:21:56.320><c> your</c><00:21:56.480><c> children</c><00:21:56.960><c> to</c> 00:21:57.110 --> 00:21:57.120 align:start position:0% fathers do not provoke your children to 00:21:57.120 --> 00:21:59.270 align:start position:0% fathers do not provoke your children to anger<00:21:58.000><c> but</c><00:21:58.240><c> bring</c><00:21:58.559><c> them</c><00:21:58.880><c> up</c><00:21:59.039><c> in</c><00:21:59.120><c> the</c> 00:21:59.270 --> 00:21:59.280 align:start position:0% anger but bring them up in the 00:21:59.280 --> 00:22:02.870 align:start position:0% anger but bring them up in the discipline<00:22:00.080><c> and</c><00:22:00.159><c> instruction</c><00:22:00.880><c> of</c><00:22:01.039><c> the</c><00:22:01.200><c> lord</c> 00:22:02.870 --> 00:22:02.880 align:start position:0% discipline and instruction of the lord 00:22:02.880 --> 00:22:08.950 align:start position:0% discipline and instruction of the lord that's<00:22:03.120><c> the</c><00:22:03.280><c> revised</c><00:22:03.760><c> sanity</c> 00:22:08.950 --> 00:22:08.960 align:start position:0% 00:22:08.960 --> 00:22:11.029 align:start position:0% that's<00:22:09.200><c> all</c><00:22:09.360><c> i</c><00:22:09.440><c> have</c><00:22:09.520><c> to</c><00:22:09.679><c> say</c><00:22:09.840><c> on</c><00:22:10.000><c> that</c> 00:22:11.029 --> 00:22:11.039 align:start position:0% that's all i have to say on that 00:22:11.039 --> 00:22:12.950 align:start position:0% that's all i have to say on that well<00:22:11.360><c> brother</c><00:22:11.600><c> richard</c><00:22:12.000><c> i</c><00:22:12.159><c> saw</c><00:22:12.400><c> that</c><00:22:12.559><c> verse</c><00:22:12.799><c> as</c> 00:22:12.950 --> 00:22:12.960 align:start position:0% well brother richard i saw that verse as 00:22:12.960 --> 00:22:15.430 align:start position:0% well brother richard i saw that verse as i<00:22:13.039><c> was</c><00:22:13.200><c> going</c><00:22:13.440><c> through</c><00:22:13.600><c> this</c><00:22:13.840><c> study</c><00:22:14.320><c> and</c><00:22:14.559><c> i</c><00:22:14.799><c> i</c><00:22:15.200><c> i</c> 00:22:15.430 --> 00:22:15.440 align:start position:0% i was going through this study and i i i 00:22:15.440 --> 00:22:17.590 align:start position:0% i was going through this study and i i i highlighted<00:22:15.919><c> that</c><00:22:16.080><c> as</c><00:22:16.480><c> a</c><00:22:16.720><c> it</c><00:22:16.799><c> was</c><00:22:17.039><c> your</c><00:22:17.280><c> verse</c> 00:22:17.590 --> 00:22:17.600 align:start position:0% highlighted that as a it was your verse 00:22:17.600 --> 00:22:19.990 align:start position:0% highlighted that as a it was your verse because<00:22:17.840><c> it's</c><00:22:18.080><c> it's</c><00:22:18.720><c> it's</c><00:22:19.039><c> it's</c><00:22:19.200><c> a</c><00:22:19.280><c> fan</c><00:22:19.679><c> it's</c><00:22:19.840><c> a</c> 00:22:19.990 --> 00:22:20.000 align:start position:0% because it's it's it's it's a fan it's a 00:22:20.000 --> 00:22:22.310 align:start position:0% because it's it's it's it's a fan it's a fantastic<00:22:20.640><c> almost</c><00:22:20.960><c> signature</c><00:22:21.520><c> of</c><00:22:21.840><c> of</c><00:22:22.000><c> your</c> 00:22:22.310 --> 00:22:22.320 align:start position:0% fantastic almost signature of of your 00:22:22.320 --> 00:22:24.710 align:start position:0% fantastic almost signature of of your prayers<00:22:23.039><c> um</c><00:22:23.600><c> and</c><00:22:23.679><c> your</c><00:22:23.840><c> exhortations</c><00:22:24.480><c> because</c> 00:22:24.710 --> 00:22:24.720 align:start position:0% prayers um and your exhortations because 00:22:24.720 --> 00:22:26.710 align:start position:0% prayers um and your exhortations because i<00:22:25.039><c> i</c><00:22:25.120><c> know</c><00:22:25.280><c> you</c><00:22:25.679><c> certainly</c><00:22:26.000><c> cling</c><00:22:26.320><c> to</c><00:22:26.480><c> that</c> 00:22:26.710 --> 00:22:26.720 align:start position:0% i i know you certainly cling to that 00:22:26.720 --> 00:22:28.470 align:start position:0% i i know you certainly cling to that that<00:22:26.960><c> birth</c> 00:22:28.470 --> 00:22:28.480 align:start position:0% that birth 00:22:28.480 --> 00:22:31.350 align:start position:0% that birth 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align:start position:0% that we do so<00:22:39.200><c> that's</c><00:22:39.600><c> you</c><00:22:39.760><c> know</c><00:22:39.840><c> we</c><00:22:40.080><c> see</c><00:22:40.240><c> that</c> 00:22:40.470 --> 00:22:40.480 align:start position:0% so that's you know we see that 00:22:40.480 --> 00:22:42.230 align:start position:0% so that's you know we see that throughout<00:22:40.880><c> you</c><00:22:40.960><c> know</c><00:22:41.120><c> what</c> 00:22:42.230 --> 00:22:42.240 align:start position:0% throughout you know what 00:22:42.240 --> 00:22:45.350 align:start position:0% throughout you know what what<00:22:42.960><c> abram</c><00:22:43.440><c> then</c><00:22:43.679><c> abraham</c><00:22:44.159><c> was</c><00:22:44.320><c> able</c><00:22:44.559><c> to</c><00:22:44.720><c> do</c> 00:22:45.350 --> 00:22:45.360 align:start position:0% what abram then abraham was able to do 00:22:45.360 --> 00:22:49.350 align:start position:0% what abram then abraham was able to do as<00:22:45.919><c> first</c><00:22:46.240><c> a</c><00:22:46.320><c> servant</c><00:22:47.280><c> and</c><00:22:47.520><c> an</c><00:22:47.679><c> instructor</c><00:22:48.400><c> um</c> 00:22:49.350 --> 00:22:49.360 align:start position:0% as first a servant and an instructor um 00:22:49.360 --> 00:22:51.430 align:start position:0% as first a servant and an instructor um learning<00:22:49.760><c> from</c><00:22:50.240><c> the</c><00:22:50.400><c> instruction</c><00:22:50.960><c> of</c><00:22:51.120><c> our</c> 00:22:51.430 --> 00:22:51.440 align:start position:0% learning from the instruction of our 00:22:51.440 --> 00:22:53.029 align:start position:0% learning from the instruction of our heavenly<00:22:51.919><c> father</c> 00:22:53.029 --> 00:22:53.039 align:start position:0% heavenly father 00:22:53.039 --> 00:22:55.029 align:start position:0% heavenly father and<00:22:53.120><c> then</c><00:22:53.360><c> how</c><00:22:53.520><c> he</c><00:22:53.679><c> was</c><00:22:53.919><c> able</c><00:22:54.159><c> to</c><00:22:54.559><c> transfer</c> 00:22:55.029 --> 00:22:55.039 align:start position:0% and then how he was able to transfer 00:22:55.039 --> 00:22:55.909 align:start position:0% and then how he was able to transfer that 00:22:55.909 --> 00:22:55.919 align:start position:0% that 00:22:55.919 --> 00:22:57.430 align:start position:0% that as 00:22:57.430 --> 00:22:57.440 align:start position:0% as 00:22:57.440 --> 00:22:59.350 align:start position:0% as a 00:22:59.350 --> 00:22:59.360 align:start position:0% a 00:22:59.360 --> 00:23:02.310 align:start position:0% a father<00:22:59.760><c> himself</c> 00:23:02.310 --> 00:23:02.320 align:start position:0% father himself 00:23:02.320 --> 00:23:04.789 align:start position:0% father himself and<00:23:02.480><c> even</c><00:23:02.960><c> the</c><00:23:03.120><c> irony</c><00:23:03.520><c> of</c><00:23:04.000><c> all</c><00:23:04.080><c> this</c><00:23:04.320><c> and</c><00:23:04.640><c> we</c> 00:23:04.789 --> 00:23:04.799 align:start position:0% and even the irony of all this and we 00:23:04.799 --> 00:23:06.630 align:start position:0% and even the irony of all this and we talk<00:23:05.039><c> about</c><00:23:05.200><c> this</c><00:23:05.440><c> authority</c><00:23:06.240><c> versus</c> 00:23:06.630 --> 00:23:06.640 align:start position:0% talk about this authority versus 00:23:06.640 --> 00:23:09.830 align:start position:0% talk about this authority versus influence<00:23:07.440><c> i</c><00:23:07.520><c> mean</c> 00:23:09.830 --> 00:23:09.840 align:start position:0% influence i mean 00:23:09.840 --> 00:23:12.630 align:start position:0% influence i mean when<00:23:10.480><c> we</c><00:23:10.640><c> have</c><00:23:10.799><c> this</c><00:23:11.039><c> this</c><00:23:11.360><c> photo</c> 00:23:12.630 --> 00:23:12.640 align:start position:0% when we have this this photo 00:23:12.640 --> 00:23:13.909 align:start position:0% when we have this this photo of 00:23:13.909 --> 00:23:13.919 align:start position:0% of 00:23:13.919 --> 00:23:15.510 align:start position:0% of abraham 00:23:15.510 --> 00:23:15.520 align:start position:0% abraham 00:23:15.520 --> 00:23:17.669 align:start position:0% abraham with<00:23:16.000><c> with</c><00:23:16.320><c> isaac</c> 00:23:17.669 --> 00:23:17.679 align:start position:0% with with isaac 00:23:17.679 --> 00:23:19.350 align:start position:0% with with isaac um 00:23:19.350 --> 00:23:19.360 align:start position:0% um 00:23:19.360 --> 00:23:21.990 align:start position:0% um at<00:23:19.520><c> that</c><00:23:19.679><c> point</c><00:23:20.159><c> god's</c><00:23:20.480><c> not</c><00:23:20.960><c> not</c><00:23:21.200><c> forcing</c><00:23:21.679><c> him</c> 00:23:21.990 --> 00:23:22.000 align:start position:0% at that point god's not not forcing him 00:23:22.000 --> 00:23:23.430 align:start position:0% at that point god's not not forcing him you<00:23:22.080><c> know</c><00:23:22.240><c> that's</c><00:23:22.400><c> not</c><00:23:22.559><c> this</c><00:23:22.720><c> is</c><00:23:23.039><c> that's</c><00:23:23.200><c> not</c> 00:23:23.430 --> 00:23:23.440 align:start position:0% you know that's not this is that's not 00:23:23.440 --> 00:23:25.350 align:start position:0% you know that's not this is that's not like<00:23:23.679><c> a</c><00:23:23.919><c> physical</c><00:23:24.320><c> punishment</c><00:23:25.039><c> that's</c> 00:23:25.350 --> 00:23:25.360 align:start position:0% like a physical punishment that's 00:23:25.360 --> 00:23:28.149 align:start position:0% like a physical punishment that's influenced<00:23:26.320><c> you</c><00:23:26.400><c> know</c><00:23:26.559><c> god's</c><00:23:26.960><c> saying</c><00:23:27.520><c> saying</c> 00:23:28.149 --> 00:23:28.159 align:start position:0% influenced you know god's saying saying 00:23:28.159 --> 00:23:28.950 align:start position:0% influenced you know god's saying saying for 00:23:28.950 --> 00:23:28.960 align:start position:0% for 00:23:28.960 --> 00:23:31.430 align:start position:0% for uh<00:23:29.360><c> abraham</c><00:23:29.760><c> to</c><00:23:29.919><c> do</c><00:23:30.080><c> this</c> 00:23:31.430 --> 00:23:31.440 align:start position:0% uh abraham to do this 00:23:31.440 --> 00:23:34.070 align:start position:0% uh abraham to do this and<00:23:31.760><c> and</c><00:23:31.919><c> there</c><00:23:32.159><c> he</c><00:23:32.400><c> is</c><00:23:32.640><c> being</c><00:23:32.880><c> compelled</c> 00:23:34.070 --> 00:23:34.080 align:start position:0% and and there he is being compelled 00:23:34.080 --> 00:23:36.470 align:start position:0% and and there he is being compelled by<00:23:34.720><c> not</c><00:23:35.039><c> discipline</c><00:23:35.520><c> at</c><00:23:35.600><c> this</c><00:23:35.840><c> point</c><00:23:36.080><c> but</c><00:23:36.240><c> the</c> 00:23:36.470 --> 00:23:36.480 align:start position:0% by not discipline at this point but the 00:23:36.480 --> 00:23:39.110 align:start position:0% by not discipline at this point but the influence<00:23:37.360><c> that</c><00:23:37.600><c> god</c><00:23:37.840><c> had</c><00:23:38.159><c> on</c><00:23:38.320><c> him</c> 00:23:39.110 --> 00:23:39.120 align:start position:0% influence that god had on him 00:23:39.120 --> 00:23:41.029 align:start position:0% influence that god had on him as<00:23:39.440><c> as</c><00:23:39.600><c> their</c><00:23:39.840><c> relationship</c><00:23:40.400><c> transcended</c> 00:23:41.029 --> 00:23:41.039 align:start position:0% as as their relationship transcended 00:23:41.039 --> 00:23:44.870 align:start position:0% as as their relationship transcended from<00:23:41.679><c> uh</c><00:23:41.919><c> parental</c><00:23:42.480><c> to</c><00:23:42.720><c> to</c><00:23:42.880><c> true</c><00:23:43.200><c> friendship</c> 00:23:44.870 --> 00:23:44.880 align:start position:0% from uh parental to to true friendship 00:23:44.880 --> 00:23:48.549 align:start position:0% from uh parental to to true friendship can<00:23:45.120><c> i</c><00:23:45.279><c> make</c><00:23:45.520><c> a</c><00:23:45.679><c> comment</c><00:23:46.080><c> real</c><00:23:46.320><c> quick</c> 00:23:48.549 --> 00:23:48.559 align:start position:0% can i make a comment real quick 00:23:48.559 --> 00:23:49.750 align:start position:0% can i make a comment real quick okay<00:23:49.039><c> so</c> 00:23:49.750 --> 00:23:49.760 align:start position:0% okay so 00:23:49.760 --> 00:23:51.510 align:start position:0% okay so we<00:23:50.000><c> talk</c><00:23:50.240><c> a</c><00:23:50.320><c> lot</c><00:23:50.480><c> about</c><00:23:50.720><c> abraham</c><00:23:51.200><c> in</c><00:23:51.279><c> that</c> 00:23:51.510 --> 00:23:51.520 align:start position:0% we talk a lot about abraham in that 00:23:51.520 --> 00:23:54.070 align:start position:0% we talk a lot about abraham in that instance<00:23:52.159><c> but</c><00:23:52.320><c> i</c><00:23:52.480><c> always</c><00:23:52.799><c> found</c><00:23:53.120><c> it</c><00:23:53.600><c> really</c> 00:23:54.070 --> 00:23:54.080 align:start position:0% instance but i always found it really 00:23:54.080 --> 00:23:55.190 align:start position:0% instance but i always found it really almost 00:23:55.190 --> 00:23:55.200 align:start position:0% almost 00:23:55.200 --> 00:23:56.710 align:start position:0% almost inspiring 00:23:56.710 --> 00:23:56.720 align:start position:0% inspiring 00:23:56.720 --> 00:23:57.510 align:start position:0% inspiring that 00:23:57.510 --> 00:23:57.520 align:start position:0% that 00:23:57.520 --> 00:24:00.149 align:start position:0% that isaac<00:23:58.000><c> just</c><00:23:58.400><c> because</c><00:23:58.799><c> abraham</c><00:23:59.600><c> at</c><00:23:59.760><c> this</c><00:23:59.919><c> point</c> 00:24:00.149 --> 00:24:00.159 align:start position:0% isaac just because abraham at this point 00:24:00.159 --> 00:24:00.950 align:start position:0% isaac just because abraham at this point was 00:24:00.950 --> 00:24:00.960 align:start position:0% was 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he probably couldn't lift isaac onto 00:24:10.159 --> 00:24:10.950 align:start position:0% so he probably couldn't lift isaac onto said 00:24:10.950 --> 00:24:10.960 align:start position:0% said 00:24:10.960 --> 00:24:13.029 align:start position:0% said altar 00:24:13.029 --> 00:24:13.039 align:start position:0% altar 00:24:13.039 --> 00:24:13.909 align:start position:0% altar so 00:24:13.909 --> 00:24:13.919 align:start position:0% so 00:24:13.919 --> 00:24:16.230 align:start position:0% so isaac<00:24:14.320><c> had</c><00:24:14.480><c> to</c><00:24:14.640><c> willingly</c><00:24:15.120><c> get</c><00:24:15.360><c> on</c><00:24:15.600><c> there</c><00:24:16.080><c> and</c> 00:24:16.230 --> 00:24:16.240 align:start position:0% isaac had to willingly get on there and 00:24:16.240 --> 00:24:17.510 align:start position:0% isaac had to willingly get on there and i<00:24:16.320><c> just</c><00:24:16.480><c> think</c><00:24:16.640><c> that's</c><00:24:16.799><c> really</c><00:24:17.039><c> inspiring</c><00:24:17.440><c> to</c> 00:24:17.510 --> 00:24:17.520 align:start position:0% i just think that's really inspiring to 00:24:17.520 --> 00:24:19.430 align:start position:0% i just think that's really inspiring to like<00:24:17.840><c> trust</c><00:24:18.240><c> your</c><00:24:18.400><c> parents</c><00:24:18.960><c> even</c><00:24:19.200><c> if</c><00:24:19.360><c> you</c> 00:24:19.430 --> 00:24:19.440 align:start position:0% like trust your parents even if you 00:24:19.440 --> 00:24:21.110 align:start position:0% like trust your parents even if you think<00:24:19.840><c> they're</c><00:24:20.080><c> like</c> 00:24:21.110 --> 00:24:21.120 align:start position:0% think they're like 00:24:21.120 --> 00:24:22.630 align:start position:0% think they're like going<00:24:21.520><c> to</c><00:24:21.679><c> kill</c><00:24:21.919><c> you</c> 00:24:22.630 --> 00:24:22.640 align:start position:0% going to kill you 00:24:22.640 --> 00:24:23.909 align:start position:0% going to kill you or<00:24:22.880><c> crazy</c> 00:24:23.909 --> 00:24:23.919 align:start position:0% or crazy 00:24:23.919 --> 00:24:25.590 align:start position:0% or crazy and<00:24:24.159><c> going</c><00:24:24.480><c> to</c><00:24:24.640><c> end</c><00:24:24.799><c> up</c><00:24:24.880><c> getting</c><00:24:25.120><c> you</c><00:24:25.279><c> killed</c> 00:24:25.590 --> 00:24:25.600 align:start position:0% and going to end up getting you killed 00:24:25.600 --> 00:24:27.110 align:start position:0% and going to end up getting you killed or<00:24:25.679><c> something</c> 00:24:27.110 --> 00:24:27.120 align:start position:0% or something 00:24:27.120 --> 00:24:27.830 align:start position:0% or something like 00:24:27.830 --> 00:24:27.840 align:start position:0% like 00:24:27.840 --> 00:24:30.070 align:start position:0% like they<00:24:28.159><c> know</c><00:24:28.400><c> what</c><00:24:28.559><c> they're</c><00:24:28.799><c> doing</c><00:24:29.120><c> and</c><00:24:29.200><c> to</c><00:24:29.360><c> like</c> 00:24:30.070 --> 00:24:30.080 align:start position:0% they know what they're doing and to like 00:24:30.080 --> 00:24:31.990 align:start position:0% they know what they're doing and to like if<00:24:30.320><c> you're</c><00:24:30.480><c> unsure</c><00:24:30.960><c> like</c><00:24:31.200><c> you</c><00:24:31.360><c> can</c><00:24:31.600><c> ask</c><00:24:31.840><c> your</c> 00:24:31.990 --> 00:24:32.000 align:start position:0% if you're unsure like you can ask your 00:24:32.000 --> 00:24:33.990 align:start position:0% if you're unsure like you can ask your parents<00:24:32.320><c> to</c><00:24:32.400><c> be</c><00:24:32.559><c> like</c><00:24:33.039><c> i'm</c><00:24:33.200><c> gonna</c><00:24:33.440><c> trust</c><00:24:33.760><c> you</c> 00:24:33.990 --> 00:24:34.000 align:start position:0% parents to be like i'm gonna trust you 00:24:34.000 --> 00:24:35.190 align:start position:0% parents to be like i'm gonna trust you on<00:24:34.080><c> this</c> 00:24:35.190 --> 00:24:35.200 align:start position:0% on this 00:24:35.200 --> 00:24:36.630 align:start position:0% on this you<00:24:35.360><c> know</c><00:24:35.520><c> like</c><00:24:35.760><c> that's</c><00:24:36.000><c> always</c><00:24:36.240><c> kind</c><00:24:36.400><c> of</c><00:24:36.480><c> been</c> 00:24:36.630 --> 00:24:36.640 align:start position:0% you know like that's always kind of been 00:24:36.640 --> 00:24:38.870 align:start position:0% you know like that's always kind of been inspiring<00:24:37.200><c> for</c><00:24:37.360><c> me</c><00:24:37.520><c> when</c><00:24:37.760><c> i'm</c><00:24:37.919><c> like</c><00:24:38.320><c> i</c><00:24:38.559><c> i</c><00:24:38.720><c> don't</c> 00:24:38.870 --> 00:24:38.880 align:start position:0% inspiring for me when i'm like i i don't 00:24:38.880 --> 00:24:42.470 align:start position:0% inspiring for me when i'm like i i don't know<00:24:39.039><c> if</c><00:24:39.200><c> i</c><00:24:39.279><c> should</c><00:24:39.520><c> do</c><00:24:39.760><c> that</c><00:24:40.159><c> but</c><00:24:40.400><c> okay</c> 00:24:42.470 --> 00:24:42.480 align:start position:0% know if i should do that but okay 00:24:42.480 --> 00:24:43.669 align:start position:0% know if i should do that but okay right 00:24:43.669 --> 00:24:43.679 align:start position:0% right 00:24:43.679 --> 00:24:45.990 align:start position:0% right would<00:24:43.840><c> you</c><00:24:44.080><c> say</c><00:24:44.320><c> emily</c><00:24:45.120><c> that</c><00:24:45.600><c> in</c><00:24:45.679><c> that</c> 00:24:45.990 --> 00:24:46.000 align:start position:0% would you say emily that in that 00:24:46.000 --> 00:24:49.830 align:start position:0% would you say emily that in that instance<00:24:46.799><c> you</c><00:24:47.039><c> have</c> 00:24:49.830 --> 00:24:49.840 align:start position:0% 00:24:49.840 --> 00:24:52.230 align:start position:0% abraham<00:24:50.480><c> who's</c><00:24:50.880><c> parenting</c> 00:24:52.230 --> 00:24:52.240 align:start position:0% abraham who's parenting 00:24:52.240 --> 00:24:53.269 align:start position:0% abraham who's parenting as 00:24:53.269 --> 00:24:53.279 align:start position:0% as 00:24:53.279 --> 00:24:55.350 align:start position:0% as in<00:24:53.440><c> a</c><00:24:53.520><c> position</c><00:24:53.919><c> of</c><00:24:54.000><c> authority</c><00:24:54.960><c> but</c><00:24:55.120><c> he's</c> 00:24:55.350 --> 00:24:55.360 align:start position:0% in a position of authority but he's 00:24:55.360 --> 00:24:57.750 align:start position:0% in a position of authority but he's being<00:24:55.600><c> parented</c><00:24:56.080><c> by</c><00:24:56.320><c> god</c><00:24:56.640><c> in</c><00:24:56.799><c> in</c> 00:24:57.750 --> 00:24:57.760 align:start position:0% being parented by god in in 00:24:57.760 --> 00:24:59.029 align:start position:0% being parented by god in in a 00:24:59.029 --> 00:24:59.039 align:start position:0% a 00:24:59.039 --> 00:25:03.190 align:start position:0% a position<00:24:59.440><c> of</c><00:24:59.600><c> influence</c><00:25:00.559><c> in</c><00:25:00.640><c> that</c><00:25:00.880><c> instance</c> 00:25:03.190 --> 00:25:03.200 align:start position:0% position of influence in that instance 00:25:03.200 --> 00:25:06.149 align:start position:0% position of influence in that instance yeah<00:25:03.520><c> i</c><00:25:03.760><c> also</c><00:25:04.080><c> feel</c><00:25:04.240><c> like</c><00:25:04.480><c> it's</c><00:25:04.720><c> because</c><00:25:05.679><c> i've</c> 00:25:06.149 --> 00:25:06.159 align:start position:0% yeah i also feel like it's because i've 00:25:06.159 --> 00:25:08.789 align:start position:0% yeah i also feel like it's because i've tried<00:25:06.640><c> stuff</c><00:25:07.039><c> on</c><00:25:07.200><c> my</c><00:25:07.440><c> own</c><00:25:07.919><c> and</c> 00:25:08.789 --> 00:25:08.799 align:start position:0% tried stuff on my own and 00:25:08.799 --> 00:25:10.870 align:start position:0% tried stuff on my own and failed<00:25:09.600><c> miserably</c> 00:25:10.870 --> 00:25:10.880 align:start position:0% failed miserably 00:25:10.880 --> 00:25:13.510 align:start position:0% failed miserably and<00:25:11.039><c> most</c><00:25:11.360><c> time</c><00:25:11.679><c> it's</c><00:25:12.240><c> you</c><00:25:12.400><c> know</c><00:25:12.720><c> amy</c><00:25:13.120><c> or</c><00:25:13.279><c> my</c> 00:25:13.510 --> 00:25:13.520 align:start position:0% and most time it's you know amy or my 00:25:13.520 --> 00:25:16.470 align:start position:0% and most time it's you know amy or my mom<00:25:14.320><c> or</c><00:25:14.480><c> someone</c><00:25:14.799><c> coming</c><00:25:15.200><c> to</c><00:25:15.360><c> save</c><00:25:15.600><c> the</c><00:25:15.760><c> day</c><00:25:16.400><c> in</c> 00:25:16.470 --> 00:25:16.480 align:start position:0% mom or someone coming to save the day in 00:25:16.480 --> 00:25:18.789 align:start position:0% mom or someone coming to save the day in the<00:25:16.640><c> last</c><00:25:16.880><c> possible</c><00:25:17.279><c> moment</c><00:25:17.600><c> i'm</c><00:25:17.679><c> like</c><00:25:17.919><c> uh</c><00:25:18.640><c> the</c> 00:25:18.789 --> 00:25:18.799 align:start position:0% the last possible moment i'm like uh the 00:25:18.799 --> 00:25:20.870 align:start position:0% the last possible moment i'm like uh the house<00:25:19.039><c> is</c><00:25:19.120><c> gonna</c><00:25:19.360><c> catch</c><00:25:19.600><c> on</c><00:25:19.840><c> fire</c><00:25:20.480><c> but</c><00:25:20.720><c> then</c> 00:25:20.870 --> 00:25:20.880 align:start position:0% house is gonna catch on fire but then 00:25:20.880 --> 00:25:22.710 align:start position:0% house is gonna catch on fire but then they<00:25:21.039><c> like</c><00:25:21.600><c> fix</c><00:25:21.919><c> it</c> 00:25:22.710 --> 00:25:22.720 align:start position:0% they like fix it 00:25:22.720 --> 00:25:24.070 align:start position:0% they like fix it and<00:25:22.880><c> somehow</c><00:25:23.200><c> it</c><00:25:23.279><c> works</c><00:25:23.600><c> out</c><00:25:23.760><c> like</c><00:25:23.919><c> just</c> 00:25:24.070 --> 00:25:24.080 align:start position:0% and somehow it works out like just 00:25:24.080 --> 00:25:25.669 align:start position:0% and somehow it works out like just having<00:25:24.320><c> that</c><00:25:24.480><c> trust</c><00:25:24.799><c> that</c> 00:25:25.669 --> 00:25:25.679 align:start position:0% having that trust that 00:25:25.679 --> 00:25:27.510 align:start position:0% having that trust that they'll<00:25:26.000><c> be</c><00:25:26.159><c> there</c><00:25:26.400><c> for</c><00:25:26.559><c> me</c><00:25:26.960><c> even</c><00:25:27.200><c> if</c><00:25:27.360><c> i'm</c> 00:25:27.510 --> 00:25:27.520 align:start position:0% they'll be there for me even if i'm 00:25:27.520 --> 00:25:29.750 align:start position:0% they'll be there for me even if i'm unsure 00:25:29.750 --> 00:25:29.760 align:start position:0% unsure 00:25:29.760 --> 00:25:31.669 align:start position:0% unsure so<00:25:29.919><c> i</c><00:25:30.000><c> guess</c><00:25:30.159><c> that's</c><00:25:30.400><c> more</c><00:25:30.640><c> like</c> 00:25:31.669 --> 00:25:31.679 align:start position:0% so i guess that's more like 00:25:31.679 --> 00:25:33.990 align:start position:0% so i guess that's more like influence<00:25:32.320><c> and</c><00:25:32.480><c> authority</c> 00:25:33.990 --> 00:25:34.000 align:start position:0% influence and authority 00:25:34.000 --> 00:25:36.149 align:start position:0% influence and authority right 00:25:36.149 --> 00:25:36.159 align:start position:0% right 00:25:36.159 --> 00:25:37.830 align:start position:0% right i'd<00:25:36.320><c> like</c><00:25:36.480><c> to</c><00:25:36.720><c> add</c><00:25:36.960><c> something</c><00:25:37.279><c> to</c><00:25:37.520><c> that</c><00:25:37.760><c> i</c> 00:25:37.830 --> 00:25:37.840 align:start position:0% i'd like to add something to that i 00:25:37.840 --> 00:25:40.830 align:start position:0% i'd like to add something to that i think<00:25:38.080><c> might</c><00:25:38.240><c> be</c><00:25:38.480><c> helpful</c><00:25:38.960><c> also</c> 00:25:40.830 --> 00:25:40.840 align:start position:0% think might be helpful also 00:25:40.840 --> 00:25:44.230 align:start position:0% think might be helpful also um<00:25:41.360><c> uh</c><00:25:42.000><c> when</c><00:25:42.400><c> uh</c><00:25:42.720><c> abraham</c><00:25:43.279><c> was</c> 00:25:44.230 --> 00:25:44.240 align:start position:0% um uh when uh abraham was 00:25:44.240 --> 00:25:46.390 align:start position:0% um uh when uh abraham was told<00:25:44.480><c> by</c><00:25:44.720><c> god</c><00:25:45.039><c> to</c><00:25:45.200><c> go</c><00:25:45.440><c> up</c> 00:25:46.390 --> 00:25:46.400 align:start position:0% told by god to go up 00:25:46.400 --> 00:25:48.070 align:start position:0% told by god to go up and<00:25:46.880><c> sacrifice</c> 00:25:48.070 --> 00:25:48.080 align:start position:0% and sacrifice 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that</c><00:25:57.760><c> um</c> 00:25:59.430 --> 00:25:59.440 align:start position:0% uh it says that um 00:25:59.440 --> 00:26:01.909 align:start position:0% uh it says that um and<00:25:59.919><c> they</c><00:26:00.240><c> came</c><00:26:00.480><c> to</c><00:26:00.640><c> the</c><00:26:00.799><c> place</c><00:26:01.039><c> which</c><00:26:01.360><c> god</c><00:26:01.600><c> had</c> 00:26:01.909 --> 00:26:01.919 align:start position:0% and they came to the place which god had 00:26:01.919 --> 00:26:04.310 align:start position:0% and they came to the place which god had told<00:26:02.240><c> him</c><00:26:02.480><c> of</c><00:26:02.720><c> and</c><00:26:02.960><c> abraham</c><00:26:03.600><c> built</c><00:26:03.840><c> an</c><00:26:04.000><c> altar</c> 00:26:04.310 --> 00:26:04.320 align:start position:0% told him of and abraham built an altar 00:26:04.320 --> 00:26:05.269 align:start position:0% told him of and abraham built an altar there 00:26:05.269 --> 00:26:05.279 align:start position:0% there 00:26:05.279 --> 00:26:08.310 align:start position:0% there and<00:26:05.520><c> laid</c><00:26:05.840><c> the</c><00:26:06.080><c> wood</c><00:26:06.400><c> in</c><00:26:06.559><c> order</c><00:26:06.960><c> and</c><00:26:07.279><c> bound</c> 00:26:08.310 --> 00:26:08.320 align:start position:0% and laid the wood in order and bound 00:26:08.320 --> 00:26:12.149 align:start position:0% and laid the wood in order and bound isaac<00:26:08.880><c> his</c><00:26:09.120><c> son</c><00:26:09.919><c> and</c><00:26:10.159><c> laid</c><00:26:10.559><c> him</c><00:26:10.880><c> on</c><00:26:10.960><c> the</c><00:26:11.200><c> altar</c> 00:26:12.149 --> 00:26:12.159 align:start position:0% isaac his son and laid him on the altar 00:26:12.159 --> 00:26:13.750 align:start position:0% isaac his son and laid him on the altar upon<00:26:12.480><c> the</c><00:26:12.640><c> wood</c> 00:26:13.750 --> 00:26:13.760 align:start position:0% upon the wood 00:26:13.760 --> 00:26:15.110 align:start position:0% upon the wood and 00:26:15.110 --> 00:26:15.120 align:start position:0% and 00:26:15.120 --> 00:26:17.110 align:start position:0% and one<00:26:15.279><c> of</c><00:26:15.360><c> the</c><00:26:15.520><c> amazing</c><00:26:16.000><c> things</c><00:26:16.240><c> about</c><00:26:16.559><c> that</c> 00:26:17.110 --> 00:26:17.120 align:start position:0% one of the amazing things about that 00:26:17.120 --> 00:26:18.470 align:start position:0% one of the amazing things about that that 00:26:18.470 --> 00:26:18.480 align:start position:0% that 00:26:18.480 --> 00:26:19.990 align:start position:0% that to<00:26:18.640><c> me</c><00:26:18.960><c> is</c> 00:26:19.990 --> 00:26:20.000 align:start position:0% to me is 00:26:20.000 --> 00:26:22.549 align:start position:0% to me is when<00:26:20.240><c> abraham</c><00:26:20.799><c> saw</c><00:26:21.039><c> the</c><00:26:21.279><c> place</c><00:26:21.760><c> he</c><00:26:22.000><c> told</c><00:26:22.320><c> his</c> 00:26:22.549 --> 00:26:22.559 align:start position:0% when abraham saw the place he told his 00:26:22.559 --> 00:26:23.669 align:start position:0% when abraham saw the place he told his servants 00:26:23.669 --> 00:26:23.679 align:start position:0% servants 00:26:23.679 --> 00:26:26.230 align:start position:0% servants he<00:26:23.840><c> said</c><00:26:24.240><c> stay</c><00:26:24.559><c> here</c><00:26:24.720><c> with</c><00:26:24.960><c> the</c><00:26:25.120><c> ass</c> 00:26:26.230 --> 00:26:26.240 align:start position:0% he said stay here with the ass 00:26:26.240 --> 00:26:30.470 align:start position:0% he said stay here with the ass until<00:26:26.799><c> i</c><00:26:27.440><c> and</c><00:26:27.600><c> the</c><00:26:27.840><c> lad</c><00:26:28.320><c> returned</c><00:26:29.039><c> unto</c><00:26:29.360><c> you</c> 00:26:30.470 --> 00:26:30.480 align:start position:0% until i and the lad returned unto you 00:26:30.480 --> 00:26:32.870 align:start position:0% until i and the lad returned unto you before<00:26:30.880><c> he</c><00:26:31.039><c> even</c><00:26:31.279><c> went</c><00:26:31.520><c> up</c><00:26:31.679><c> there</c><00:26:31.919><c> abraham</c> 00:26:32.870 --> 00:26:32.880 align:start position:0% before he even went up there abraham 00:26:32.880 --> 00:26:35.190 align:start position:0% before he even went up there abraham told<00:26:33.120><c> his</c><00:26:33.279><c> servant</c><00:26:34.159><c> him</c><00:26:34.400><c> and</c><00:26:34.559><c> his</c><00:26:34.799><c> son</c><00:26:35.039><c> was</c> 00:26:35.190 --> 00:26:35.200 align:start position:0% told his servant him and his son was 00:26:35.200 --> 00:26:37.029 align:start position:0% told his servant him and his son was going<00:26:35.360><c> to</c><00:26:35.520><c> come</c><00:26:35.760><c> back</c> 00:26:37.029 --> 00:26:37.039 align:start position:0% going to come back 00:26:37.039 --> 00:26:39.909 align:start position:0% going to come back now<00:26:37.440><c> to</c><00:26:37.600><c> me</c> 00:26:39.909 --> 00:26:39.919 align:start position:0% 00:26:39.919 --> 00:26:42.950 align:start position:0% when<00:26:40.159><c> god</c><00:26:40.559><c> told</c><00:26:40.960><c> abram</c><00:26:41.360><c> that</c><00:26:42.000><c> it</c><00:26:42.159><c> says</c><00:26:42.480><c> abram</c> 00:26:42.950 --> 00:26:42.960 align:start position:0% when god told abram that it says abram 00:26:42.960 --> 00:26:45.909 align:start position:0% when god told abram that it says abram will<00:26:43.440><c> woke</c><00:26:43.760><c> up</c><00:26:44.240><c> early</c><00:26:44.640><c> the</c><00:26:44.880><c> next</c> 00:26:45.909 --> 00:26:45.919 align:start position:0% will woke up early the next 00:26:45.919 --> 00:26:48.390 align:start position:0% will woke up early the next morning<00:26:46.480><c> the</c><00:26:46.640><c> next</c><00:26:47.039><c> day</c> 00:26:48.390 --> 00:26:48.400 align:start position:0% morning the next day 00:26:48.400 --> 00:26:51.350 align:start position:0% morning the next day i<00:26:48.559><c> believe</c><00:26:48.880><c> that</c><00:26:49.120><c> abraham</c> 00:26:51.350 --> 00:26:51.360 align:start position:0% i believe that abraham 00:26:51.360 --> 00:26:53.669 align:start position:0% i believe that abraham he<00:26:51.600><c> thought</c><00:26:51.840><c> that's</c><00:26:52.240><c> all</c><00:26:52.559><c> out</c><00:26:52.799><c> in</c><00:26:52.880><c> his</c><00:26:53.120><c> heart</c> 00:26:53.669 --> 00:26:53.679 align:start position:0% he thought that's all out in his heart 00:26:53.679 --> 00:26:55.909 align:start position:0% he thought that's all out in his heart in<00:26:53.840><c> his</c><00:26:54.000><c> mind</c><00:26:54.480><c> before</c><00:26:54.880><c> he</c><00:26:55.039><c> took</c> 00:26:55.909 --> 00:26:55.919 align:start position:0% in his mind before he took 00:26:55.919 --> 00:26:59.590 align:start position:0% in his mind before he took isaac<00:26:56.400><c> up</c><00:26:56.559><c> there</c><00:26:57.279><c> because</c><00:26:58.080><c> i</c><00:26:58.240><c> believe</c><00:26:58.559><c> he</c><00:26:58.799><c> said</c> 00:26:59.590 --> 00:26:59.600 align:start position:0% isaac up there because i believe he said 00:26:59.600 --> 00:27:01.029 align:start position:0% isaac up there because i believe he said and<00:26:59.760><c> there's</c><00:27:00.000><c> enough</c> 00:27:01.029 --> 00:27:01.039 align:start position:0% and there's enough 00:27:01.039 --> 00:27:03.190 align:start position:0% and there's enough proof<00:27:01.360><c> in</c><00:27:01.440><c> the</c><00:27:01.520><c> record</c><00:27:01.919><c> he</c><00:27:02.080><c> said</c> 00:27:03.190 --> 00:27:03.200 align:start position:0% proof in the record he said 00:27:03.200 --> 00:27:05.830 align:start position:0% proof in the record he said i<00:27:03.360><c> think</c><00:27:03.600><c> abraham</c><00:27:04.320><c> was</c><00:27:04.559><c> saying</c><00:27:04.799><c> to</c><00:27:05.039><c> himself</c> 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position:0% the moriah he<00:27:11.600><c> went</c><00:27:11.840><c> over</c><00:27:12.080><c> in</c><00:27:12.240><c> his</c><00:27:12.480><c> mind</c><00:27:13.279><c> well</c><00:27:13.520><c> god</c> 00:27:13.990 --> 00:27:14.000 align:start position:0% he went over in his mind well god 00:27:14.000 --> 00:27:16.390 align:start position:0% he went over in his mind well god promised<00:27:14.480><c> me</c><00:27:14.799><c> that</c><00:27:15.120><c> the</c><00:27:15.360><c> seed</c> 00:27:16.390 --> 00:27:16.400 align:start position:0% promised me that the seed 00:27:16.400 --> 00:27:18.470 align:start position:0% promised me that the seed the<00:27:16.640><c> farmer's</c><00:27:17.120><c> seed</c><00:27:17.440><c> which</c><00:27:17.679><c> is</c><00:27:17.840><c> pointing</c><00:27:18.159><c> to</c> 00:27:18.470 --> 00:27:18.480 align:start position:0% the farmer's seed which is pointing to 00:27:18.480 --> 00:27:22.230 align:start position:0% the farmer's seed which is pointing to christ<00:27:19.360><c> is</c><00:27:19.520><c> going</c><00:27:19.760><c> to</c><00:27:19.840><c> come</c><00:27:20.080><c> through</c><00:27:20.480><c> isaac</c> 00:27:22.230 --> 00:27:22.240 align:start position:0% christ is going to come through isaac 00:27:22.240 --> 00:27:23.430 align:start position:0% christ is going to come through isaac and<00:27:22.559><c> so</c> 00:27:23.430 --> 00:27:23.440 align:start position:0% and so 00:27:23.440 --> 00:27:27.110 align:start position:0% and so now<00:27:23.679><c> he's</c><00:27:23.919><c> telling</c><00:27:24.240><c> me</c><00:27:24.480><c> to</c><00:27:24.720><c> sacrifice</c><00:27:25.360><c> my</c><00:27:25.600><c> son</c> 00:27:27.110 --> 00:27:27.120 align:start position:0% now he's telling me to sacrifice my son 00:27:27.120 --> 00:27:28.230 align:start position:0% now he's telling me to sacrifice my son well 00:27:28.230 --> 00:27:28.240 align:start position:0% well 00:27:28.240 --> 00:27:29.669 align:start position:0% well 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my</c><00:27:35.360><c> son</c> 00:27:36.230 --> 00:27:36.240 align:start position:0% me to sacrifice my son 00:27:36.240 --> 00:27:37.990 align:start position:0% me to sacrifice my son he<00:27:36.399><c> must</c><00:27:36.720><c> be</c><00:27:36.880><c> able</c><00:27:37.120><c> to</c><00:27:37.200><c> raise</c><00:27:37.520><c> him</c><00:27:37.679><c> from</c><00:27:37.840><c> the</c> 00:27:37.990 --> 00:27:38.000 align:start position:0% he must be able to raise him from the 00:27:38.000 --> 00:27:40.310 align:start position:0% he must be able to raise him from the dead<00:27:38.399><c> and</c><00:27:38.480><c> that's</c><00:27:38.720><c> what</c><00:27:38.799><c> the</c><00:27:38.960><c> record</c><00:27:39.360><c> says</c> 00:27:40.310 --> 00:27:40.320 align:start position:0% dead and that's what the record says 00:27:40.320 --> 00:27:42.310 align:start position:0% dead and that's what the record says the<00:27:40.480><c> record</c><00:27:40.799><c> says</c><00:27:41.039><c> in</c><00:27:41.200><c> the</c><00:27:41.279><c> hebrews</c><00:27:42.080><c> that</c> 00:27:42.310 --> 00:27:42.320 align:start position:0% the record says in the hebrews that 00:27:42.320 --> 00:27:45.029 align:start position:0% the record says in the hebrews that abraham<00:27:42.960><c> counted</c><00:27:43.360><c> it</c><00:27:43.840><c> that</c><00:27:44.080><c> god</c><00:27:44.320><c> was</c><00:27:44.640><c> able</c><00:27:44.880><c> to</c> 00:27:45.029 --> 00:27:45.039 align:start position:0% abraham counted it that god was able to 00:27:45.039 --> 00:27:47.350 align:start position:0% abraham counted it that god was able to raise<00:27:45.360><c> him</c><00:27:45.520><c> from</c><00:27:45.679><c> the</c><00:27:45.840><c> dead</c> 00:27:47.350 --> 00:27:47.360 align:start position:0% raise him from the dead 00:27:47.360 --> 00:27:49.590 align:start position:0% raise him from the dead does<00:27:47.600><c> that</c><00:27:47.679><c> make</c><00:27:47.919><c> sense</c> 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the admonition of 00:27:56.640 --> 00:27:57.830 align:start position:0% and the nurture and the admonition of god 00:27:57.830 --> 00:27:57.840 align:start position:0% god 00:27:57.840 --> 00:28:01.269 align:start position:0% god because<00:27:58.320><c> he</c><00:27:58.559><c> laid</c><00:27:58.799><c> him</c><00:27:58.960><c> on</c><00:27:59.120><c> that</c><00:27:59.760><c> there</c><00:27:59.919><c> was</c><00:28:00.399><c> no</c> 00:28:01.269 --> 00:28:01.279 align:start position:0% because he laid him on that there was no 00:28:01.279 --> 00:28:03.909 align:start position:0% because he laid him on that there was no it<00:28:01.360><c> was</c><00:28:01.600><c> obedient</c> 00:28:03.909 --> 00:28:03.919 align:start position:0% it was obedient 00:28:03.919 --> 00:28:05.590 align:start position:0% it was obedient um 00:28:05.590 --> 00:28:05.600 align:start position:0% um 00:28:05.600 --> 00:28:07.190 align:start position:0% um so<00:28:05.840><c> i</c><00:28:06.000><c> just</c><00:28:06.159><c> don't</c><00:28:06.399><c> wanted</c><00:28:06.640><c> to</c><00:28:06.720><c> point</c><00:28:06.960><c> that</c> 00:28:07.190 --> 00:28:07.200 align:start position:0% so i just don't wanted to point that 00:28:07.200 --> 00:28:08.870 align:start position:0% so i just don't wanted to point that point<00:28:07.440><c> out</c><00:28:07.760><c> i</c><00:28:07.840><c> don't</c><00:28:08.000><c> know</c><00:28:08.080><c> if</c><00:28:08.240><c> that</c><00:28:08.399><c> helps</c><00:28:08.720><c> out</c> 00:28:08.870 --> 00:28:08.880 align:start position:0% point out i don't know if that helps out 00:28:08.880 --> 00:28:11.590 align:start position:0% point out i don't know if that helps out any<00:28:09.200><c> of</c><00:28:09.360><c> that</c> 00:28:11.590 --> 00:28:11.600 align:start position:0% 00:28:11.600 --> 00:28:15.269 align:start position:0% guys<00:28:12.159><c> appreciate</c><00:28:12.720><c> it</c><00:28:13.279><c> yeah</c><00:28:13.679><c> and</c><00:28:13.840><c> 22-8</c><00:28:14.640><c> and</c> 00:28:15.269 --> 00:28:15.279 align:start position:0% guys appreciate it yeah and 22-8 and 00:28:15.279 --> 00:28:17.190 align:start position:0% guys appreciate it yeah and 22-8 and abraham<00:28:15.760><c> said</c><00:28:16.159><c> when</c><00:28:16.399><c> isaac</c><00:28:16.799><c> you</c><00:28:16.880><c> know</c><00:28:16.960><c> when</c> 00:28:17.190 --> 00:28:17.200 align:start position:0% abraham said when isaac you know when 00:28:17.200 --> 00:28:18.630 align:start position:0% abraham said when isaac you know when isaac's<00:28:17.600><c> asking</c> 00:28:18.630 --> 00:28:18.640 align:start position:0% isaac's asking 00:28:18.640 --> 00:28:19.590 align:start position:0% isaac's asking um 00:28:19.590 --> 00:28:19.600 align:start position:0% um 00:28:19.600 --> 00:28:21.750 align:start position:0% um you<00:28:19.679><c> know</c><00:28:19.840><c> my</c><00:28:20.000><c> father</c><00:28:20.720><c> and</c><00:28:20.799><c> harry</c><00:28:21.200><c> and</c><00:28:21.279><c> my</c><00:28:21.520><c> son</c> 00:28:21.750 --> 00:28:21.760 align:start position:0% you know my father and harry and my son 00:28:21.760 --> 00:28:23.830 align:start position:0% you know my father and harry and my son he<00:28:21.919><c> said</c><00:28:22.159><c> behold</c><00:28:22.640><c> the</c><00:28:22.720><c> fire</c><00:28:23.120><c> and</c><00:28:23.200><c> the</c><00:28:23.279><c> wood</c> 00:28:23.830 --> 00:28:23.840 align:start position:0% he said behold the fire and the wood 00:28:23.840 --> 00:28:25.350 align:start position:0% he said behold the fire and the wood where<00:28:24.080><c> is</c><00:28:24.159><c> the</c><00:28:24.240><c> land</c><00:28:24.480><c> for</c><00:28:24.559><c> the</c><00:28:24.880><c> offering</c><00:28:25.200><c> and</c> 00:28:25.350 --> 00:28:25.360 align:start position:0% where is the land for the offering and 00:28:25.360 --> 00:28:26.950 align:start position:0% where is the land for the offering and abraham<00:28:25.679><c> said</c><00:28:25.840><c> my</c><00:28:26.000><c> son</c><00:28:26.240><c> god</c><00:28:26.480><c> will</c><00:28:26.640><c> provide</c> 00:28:26.950 --> 00:28:26.960 align:start position:0% abraham said my son god will provide 00:28:26.960 --> 00:28:29.029 align:start position:0% abraham said my son god will provide himself<00:28:27.279><c> a</c><00:28:27.360><c> lamb</c><00:28:27.600><c> for</c><00:28:27.840><c> burnt</c><00:28:28.159><c> offering</c> 00:28:29.029 --> 00:28:29.039 align:start position:0% himself a lamb for burnt offering 00:28:29.039 --> 00:28:34.710 align:start position:0% himself a lamb for burnt offering they<00:28:29.200><c> went</c><00:28:29.919><c> both</c><00:28:30.480><c> of</c><00:28:30.640><c> them</c><00:28:30.960><c> together</c> 00:28:34.710 --> 00:28:34.720 align:start position:0% 00:28:34.720 --> 00:28:36.149 align:start position:0% hopefully<00:28:35.120><c> but</c><00:28:35.279><c> he</c><00:28:35.360><c> still</c><00:28:35.600><c> went</c><00:28:35.760><c> through</c><00:28:36.000><c> the</c> 00:28:36.149 --> 00:28:36.159 align:start position:0% hopefully but he still went through the 00:28:36.159 --> 00:28:40.149 align:start position:0% hopefully but he still went through the act<00:28:36.880><c> of</c><00:28:37.679><c> of</c><00:28:37.840><c> preparing</c><00:28:38.480><c> everything</c><00:28:38.880><c> necessary</c> 00:28:40.149 --> 00:28:40.159 align:start position:0% act of of preparing everything necessary 00:28:40.159 --> 00:28:41.590 align:start position:0% act of of preparing everything necessary um 00:28:41.590 --> 00:28:41.600 align:start position:0% um 00:28:41.600 --> 00:28:44.870 align:start position:0% um and<00:28:41.760><c> certainly</c><00:28:42.080><c> by</c><00:28:42.399><c> by</c><00:28:42.640><c> god's</c><00:28:42.960><c> grace</c><00:28:44.159><c> um</c><00:28:44.720><c> did</c> 00:28:44.870 --> 00:28:44.880 align:start position:0% and certainly by by god's grace um did 00:28:44.880 --> 00:28:47.029 align:start position:0% and certainly by by god's grace um did not<00:28:45.120><c> have</c><00:28:45.279><c> to</c><00:28:45.440><c> offer</c><00:28:45.679><c> himself</c><00:28:46.480><c> yeah</c><00:28:46.720><c> and</c><00:28:46.799><c> he</c> 00:28:47.029 --> 00:28:47.039 align:start position:0% not have to offer himself yeah and he 00:28:47.039 --> 00:28:48.789 align:start position:0% not have to offer himself yeah and he would<00:28:47.200><c> have</c><00:28:47.360><c> offered</c><00:28:47.760><c> him</c><00:28:48.080><c> that</c><00:28:48.240><c> the</c><00:28:48.399><c> angel</c> 00:28:48.789 --> 00:28:48.799 align:start position:0% would have offered him that the angel 00:28:48.799 --> 00:28:50.549 align:start position:0% would have offered him that the angel hadn't<00:28:49.120><c> stopped</c><00:28:49.520><c> him</c><00:28:49.679><c> either</c><00:28:50.240><c> because</c><00:28:50.480><c> the</c> 00:28:50.549 --> 00:28:50.559 align:start position:0% hadn't stopped him either because the 00:28:50.559 --> 00:28:54.070 align:start position:0% hadn't stopped him either because the record<00:28:50.880><c> said</c><00:28:51.200><c> that</c><00:28:51.840><c> god</c><00:28:52.159><c> commented</c><00:28:52.960><c> yeah</c><00:28:53.600><c> okay</c> 00:28:54.070 --> 00:28:54.080 align:start position:0% record said that god commented yeah okay 00:28:54.080 --> 00:28:55.430 align:start position:0% record said that god commented yeah okay thank<00:28:54.240><c> you</c> 00:28:55.430 --> 00:28:55.440 align:start position:0% thank you 00:28:55.440 --> 00:28:56.870 align:start position:0% thank you absolutely 00:28:56.870 --> 00:28:56.880 align:start position:0% absolutely 00:28:56.880 --> 00:28:58.549 align:start position:0% absolutely thank<00:28:57.120><c> you</c> 00:28:58.549 --> 00:28:58.559 align:start position:0% thank you 00:28:58.559 --> 00:28:59.990 align:start position:0% thank you so 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abraham's</c><00:29:07.520><c> life</c> 00:29:08.549 --> 00:29:08.559 align:start position:0% in abraham's life 00:29:08.559 --> 00:29:11.669 align:start position:0% in abraham's life to<00:29:09.200><c> really</c><00:29:09.440><c> mature</c><00:29:10.000><c> spiritually</c><00:29:11.200><c> that</c><00:29:11.360><c> by</c><00:29:11.520><c> the</c> 00:29:11.669 --> 00:29:11.679 align:start position:0% to really mature spiritually that by the 00:29:11.679 --> 00:29:13.990 align:start position:0% to really mature spiritually that by the time<00:29:11.919><c> he</c><00:29:12.080><c> did</c><00:29:12.320><c> become</c><00:29:12.640><c> apparent</c><00:29:13.360><c> he</c><00:29:13.520><c> was</c><00:29:13.679><c> very</c> 00:29:13.990 --> 00:29:14.000 align:start position:0% time he did become apparent he was very 00:29:14.000 --> 00:29:16.230 align:start position:0% time he did become apparent he was very purposeful<00:29:14.880><c> in</c><00:29:15.039><c> how</c><00:29:15.279><c> he</c><00:29:15.440><c> parented</c><00:29:15.919><c> into</c> 00:29:16.230 --> 00:29:16.240 align:start position:0% purposeful in how he parented into 00:29:16.240 --> 00:29:18.549 align:start position:0% purposeful in how he parented into emily's<00:29:16.720><c> point</c><00:29:17.360><c> you</c><00:29:17.440><c> know</c><00:29:17.919><c> this</c><00:29:18.159><c> is</c><00:29:18.240><c> a</c><00:29:18.320><c> true</c> 00:29:18.549 --> 00:29:18.559 align:start position:0% emily's point you know this is a true 00:29:18.559 --> 00:29:20.389 align:start position:0% emily's point you know this is a true testament<00:29:19.039><c> also</c><00:29:19.520><c> to</c> 00:29:20.389 --> 00:29:20.399 align:start position:0% testament also to 00:29:20.399 --> 00:29:23.669 align:start position:0% testament also to isaac's<00:29:21.360><c> diligence</c><00:29:22.000><c> as</c><00:29:22.080><c> a</c><00:29:22.240><c> son</c> 00:29:23.669 --> 00:29:23.679 align:start position:0% isaac's diligence as a son 00:29:23.679 --> 00:29:24.389 align:start position:0% isaac's diligence as a son to 00:29:24.389 --> 00:29:24.399 align:start position:0% to 00:29:24.399 --> 00:29:27.029 align:start position:0% to to<00:29:24.799><c> really</c><00:29:25.039><c> be</c><00:29:25.200><c> willing</c><00:29:26.000><c> and</c><00:29:26.240><c> complicit</c><00:29:26.960><c> in</c> 00:29:27.029 --> 00:29:27.039 align:start position:0% to really be willing and complicit in 00:29:27.039 --> 00:29:30.549 align:start position:0% to really be willing and complicit in this<00:29:27.360><c> in</c><00:29:27.520><c> this</c><00:29:27.760><c> act</c><00:29:28.480><c> and</c><00:29:29.200><c> to</c><00:29:29.360><c> that</c><00:29:29.679><c> end</c><00:29:30.240><c> uh</c><00:29:30.480><c> it</c> 00:29:30.549 --> 00:29:30.559 align:start position:0% this in this act and to that end uh it 00:29:30.559 --> 00:29:33.669 align:start position:0% this in this act and to that end uh it really<00:29:30.880><c> highlights</c><00:29:31.919><c> purposeful</c><00:29:32.480><c> parenting</c> 00:29:33.669 --> 00:29:33.679 align:start position:0% really highlights purposeful parenting 00:29:33.679 --> 00:29:34.470 align:start position:0% really highlights purposeful parenting um 00:29:34.470 --> 00:29:34.480 align:start position:0% um 00:29:34.480 --> 00:29:35.830 align:start position:0% um you<00:29:34.559><c> know</c> 00:29:35.830 --> 00:29:35.840 align:start position:0% you know 00:29:35.840 --> 00:29:37.510 align:start position:0% you know that<00:29:36.000><c> this</c><00:29:36.240><c> is</c><00:29:36.399><c> not</c> 00:29:37.510 --> 00:29:37.520 align:start position:0% that this is not 00:29:37.520 --> 00:29:39.510 align:start position:0% that this is not an<00:29:37.760><c> accident</c><00:29:38.240><c> by</c><00:29:38.399><c> any</c><00:29:38.559><c> means</c> 00:29:39.510 --> 00:29:39.520 align:start position:0% an accident by any means 00:29:39.520 --> 00:29:41.510 align:start position:0% an accident by any means and<00:29:39.679><c> that</c><00:29:40.320><c> it</c><00:29:40.480><c> it</c><00:29:40.720><c> really</c><00:29:40.960><c> creates</c><00:29:41.279><c> a</c> 00:29:41.510 --> 00:29:41.520 align:start position:0% and that it it really creates a 00:29:41.520 --> 00:29:44.070 align:start position:0% and that it it really creates a reflective<00:29:42.080><c> environment</c><00:29:42.640><c> of</c> 00:29:44.070 --> 00:29:44.080 align:start position:0% reflective environment of 00:29:44.080 --> 00:29:46.149 align:start position:0% reflective environment of questions<00:29:44.480><c> that</c><00:29:44.880><c> start</c><00:29:45.120><c> to</c> 00:29:46.149 --> 00:29:46.159 align:start position:0% questions that start to 00:29:46.159 --> 00:29:49.029 align:start position:0% questions that start to pop<00:29:46.399><c> up</c><00:29:46.559><c> in</c><00:29:46.640><c> my</c><00:29:46.880><c> mind</c><00:29:47.200><c> how</c><00:29:47.440><c> can</c><00:29:47.600><c> i</c><00:29:47.760><c> be</c> 00:29:49.029 --> 00:29:49.039 align:start position:0% pop up in my mind how can i be 00:29:49.039 --> 00:29:50.950 align:start position:0% pop up in my mind how can i be a<00:29:49.200><c> more</c><00:29:49.440><c> godly</c><00:29:49.840><c> parent</c> 00:29:50.950 --> 00:29:50.960 align:start position:0% a more godly parent 00:29:50.960 --> 00:29:53.350 align:start position:0% a more godly parent in<00:29:51.120><c> all</c><00:29:51.360><c> facets</c><00:29:52.000><c> you</c><00:29:52.080><c> know</c><00:29:52.240><c> in</c><00:29:52.399><c> all</c><00:29:52.559><c> timelines</c> 00:29:53.350 --> 00:29:53.360 align:start position:0% in all facets you know in all timelines 00:29:53.360 --> 00:29:55.190 align:start position:0% in all facets you know in all timelines of<00:29:54.159><c> parenthood</c> 00:29:55.190 --> 00:29:55.200 align:start position:0% of parenthood 00:29:55.200 --> 00:29:56.710 align:start position:0% of parenthood and<00:29:55.360><c> we</c><00:29:55.600><c> we</c><00:29:55.760><c> learn</c> 00:29:56.710 --> 00:29:56.720 align:start position:0% and we we learn 00:29:56.720 --> 00:29:58.149 align:start position:0% and we we learn you<00:29:56.880><c> know</c> 00:29:58.149 --> 00:29:58.159 align:start position:0% you know 00:29:58.159 --> 00:30:00.070 align:start position:0% you know you<00:29:58.320><c> have</c><00:29:58.480><c> to</c><00:29:58.640><c> reflect</c><00:29:58.960><c> the</c><00:29:59.039><c> character</c><00:29:59.440><c> of</c><00:29:59.520><c> god</c> 00:30:00.070 --> 00:30:00.080 align:start position:0% you have to reflect the character of god 00:30:00.080 --> 00:30:00.950 align:start position:0% you have to reflect the character of god and 00:30:00.950 --> 00:30:00.960 align:start position:0% and 00:30:00.960 --> 00:30:02.870 align:start position:0% and you<00:30:01.039><c> know</c><00:30:01.200><c> being</c><00:30:01.440><c> loving</c><00:30:01.919><c> being</c><00:30:02.240><c> consistent</c> 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god</c><00:30:09.600><c> the</c><00:30:09.760><c> center</c><00:30:10.159><c> of</c><00:30:10.320><c> our</c><00:30:10.480><c> family</c> 00:30:11.510 --> 00:30:11.520 align:start position:0% you know is god the center of our family 00:30:11.520 --> 00:30:14.470 align:start position:0% you know is god the center of our family and<00:30:11.679><c> how</c><00:30:12.240><c> do</c><00:30:12.399><c> we</c><00:30:12.720><c> personally</c><00:30:13.679><c> show</c><00:30:13.919><c> his</c><00:30:14.159><c> glory</c> 00:30:14.470 --> 00:30:14.480 align:start position:0% and how do we personally show his glory 00:30:14.480 --> 00:30:16.070 align:start position:0% and how do we personally show his glory to<00:30:14.720><c> others</c> 00:30:16.070 --> 00:30:16.080 align:start position:0% to others 00:30:16.080 --> 00:30:18.149 align:start position:0% to others ben<00:30:16.399><c> pitcher</c><00:30:16.720><c> talks</c><00:30:16.960><c> about</c><00:30:17.279><c> his</c><00:30:17.600><c> ecclesial</c> 00:30:18.149 --> 00:30:18.159 align:start position:0% ben pitcher talks about his ecclesial 00:30:18.159 --> 00:30:21.750 align:start position:0% ben pitcher talks about his ecclesial family<00:30:18.960><c> was</c><00:30:19.279><c> really</c><00:30:19.760><c> big</c><00:30:20.399><c> on</c><00:30:20.720><c> writing</c><00:30:21.120><c> cards</c> 00:30:21.750 --> 00:30:21.760 align:start position:0% family was really big on writing cards 00:30:21.760 --> 00:30:23.990 align:start position:0% family was really big on writing cards they<00:30:21.919><c> would</c><00:30:22.080><c> write</c><00:30:22.399><c> cards</c><00:30:22.799><c> to</c><00:30:23.520><c> anyone</c><00:30:23.840><c> in</c> 00:30:23.990 --> 00:30:24.000 align:start position:0% they would write cards to anyone in 00:30:24.000 --> 00:30:27.110 align:start position:0% they would write cards to anyone in ecclesia<00:30:24.480><c> that</c><00:30:25.200><c> that</c><00:30:25.440><c> needed</c><00:30:25.840><c> it</c> 00:30:27.110 --> 00:30:27.120 align:start position:0% ecclesia that that needed it 00:30:27.120 --> 00:30:28.549 align:start position:0% ecclesia that that needed it and<00:30:27.200><c> that</c><00:30:27.360><c> the</c><00:30:27.520><c> kids</c><00:30:27.760><c> would</c><00:30:27.919><c> very</c><00:30:28.080><c> much</c><00:30:28.320><c> get</c> 00:30:28.549 --> 00:30:28.559 align:start position:0% and that the kids would very much get 00:30:28.559 --> 00:30:31.750 align:start position:0% and that the kids would very much get involved<00:30:29.279><c> in</c><00:30:29.440><c> that</c><00:30:29.760><c> act</c> 00:30:31.750 --> 00:30:31.760 align:start position:0% involved in that act 00:30:31.760 --> 00:30:33.990 align:start position:0% involved in that act and<00:30:31.919><c> that</c><00:30:32.080><c> was</c><00:30:32.240><c> something</c><00:30:32.559><c> that</c><00:30:32.960><c> they</c><00:30:33.200><c> as</c><00:30:33.440><c> a</c> 00:30:33.990 --> 00:30:34.000 align:start position:0% and that was something that they as a 00:30:34.000 --> 00:30:37.269 align:start position:0% and that was something that they as a family<00:30:34.559><c> could</c><00:30:35.039><c> collectively</c><00:30:35.679><c> do</c> 00:30:37.269 --> 00:30:37.279 align:start position:0% family could collectively do 00:30:37.279 --> 00:30:38.950 align:start position:0% family could collectively do that<00:30:37.440><c> was</c><00:30:37.600><c> certainly</c><00:30:37.919><c> impactful</c><00:30:38.720><c> and</c><00:30:38.799><c> then</c> 00:30:38.950 --> 00:30:38.960 align:start position:0% that was certainly impactful and then 00:30:38.960 --> 00:30:40.230 align:start position:0% that was certainly impactful and then the<00:30:39.120><c> question</c><00:30:39.440><c> also</c> 00:30:40.230 --> 00:30:40.240 align:start position:0% the question also 00:30:40.240 --> 00:30:42.789 align:start position:0% the question also um 00:30:42.789 --> 00:30:42.799 align:start position:0% 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best</c><00:30:58.640><c> thing</c><00:30:58.799><c> you</c><00:30:58.880><c> can</c><00:30:59.039><c> do</c><00:30:59.200><c> as</c><00:30:59.360><c> a</c><00:30:59.440><c> father</c> 00:31:00.470 --> 00:31:00.480 align:start position:0% the best thing you can do as a father 00:31:00.480 --> 00:31:02.549 align:start position:0% the best thing you can do as a father is<00:31:00.640><c> be</c><00:31:00.880><c> a</c><00:31:01.039><c> loving</c><00:31:01.440><c> husband</c><00:31:02.080><c> best</c><00:31:02.320><c> thing</c><00:31:02.480><c> you</c> 00:31:02.549 --> 00:31:02.559 align:start position:0% is be a loving husband best thing you 00:31:02.559 --> 00:31:05.590 align:start position:0% is be a loving husband best thing you can<00:31:02.640><c> do</c><00:31:02.799><c> to</c><00:31:02.880><c> show</c><00:31:03.039><c> your</c><00:31:03.440><c> your</c><00:31:03.760><c> children</c><00:31:04.799><c> um</c><00:31:05.440><c> the</c> 00:31:05.590 --> 00:31:05.600 align:start position:0% can do to show your your children um the 00:31:05.600 --> 00:31:07.190 align:start position:0% can do to show your your children um the love<00:31:05.840><c> of</c><00:31:05.919><c> god</c><00:31:06.159><c> is</c><00:31:06.399><c> to</c><00:31:06.480><c> really</c><00:31:06.640><c> be</c><00:31:06.799><c> a</c><00:31:06.880><c> loving</c> 00:31:07.190 --> 00:31:07.200 align:start position:0% love of god is to really be a loving 00:31:07.200 --> 00:31:09.430 align:start position:0% love of god is to really be a loving husband<00:31:08.000><c> uh</c><00:31:08.240><c> to</c><00:31:08.399><c> your</c><00:31:08.640><c> wife</c> 00:31:09.430 --> 00:31:09.440 align:start position:0% husband uh to your wife 00:31:09.440 --> 00:31:10.950 align:start position:0% husband uh to your wife and<00:31:09.519><c> so</c><00:31:09.679><c> that</c><00:31:09.840><c> was</c><00:31:10.080><c> a</c><00:31:10.159><c> question</c><00:31:10.480><c> that</c><00:31:10.559><c> came</c><00:31:10.799><c> up</c> 00:31:10.950 --> 00:31:10.960 align:start position:0% and so that was a question that came up 00:31:10.960 --> 00:31:12.630 align:start position:0% and so that was a question that came up as<00:31:11.200><c> well</c><00:31:11.760><c> how</c><00:31:11.919><c> am</c><00:31:12.000><c> i</c><00:31:12.080><c> going</c><00:31:12.159><c> to</c><00:31:12.240><c> demonstrate</c> 00:31:12.630 --> 00:31:12.640 align:start position:0% as well how am i going to demonstrate 00:31:12.640 --> 00:31:15.110 align:start position:0% as well how am i going to demonstrate the<00:31:12.720><c> relationship</c><00:31:13.120><c> of</c><00:31:13.200><c> christ</c><00:31:13.600><c> and</c><00:31:13.760><c> his</c><00:31:14.080><c> bride</c> 00:31:15.110 --> 00:31:15.120 align:start position:0% the relationship of christ and his bride 00:31:15.120 --> 00:31:16.389 align:start position:0% the relationship of christ and his bride in<00:31:15.279><c> our</c><00:31:15.440><c> marriage</c> 00:31:16.389 --> 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align:start position:0% goals 00:31:29.919 --> 00:31:33.029 align:start position:0% goals whatever<00:31:30.320><c> stage</c><00:31:30.640><c> we</c><00:31:30.799><c> are</c><00:31:30.960><c> as</c><00:31:31.120><c> a</c><00:31:31.200><c> family</c> 00:31:33.029 --> 00:31:33.039 align:start position:0% whatever stage we are as a family 00:31:33.039 --> 00:31:34.789 align:start position:0% whatever stage we are as a family and<00:31:33.120><c> then</c><00:31:33.440><c> ultimately</c><00:31:34.000><c> what</c><00:31:34.399><c> what's</c><00:31:34.640><c> the</c> 00:31:34.789 --> 00:31:34.799 align:start position:0% and then ultimately what what's the 00:31:34.799 --> 00:31:36.310 align:start position:0% and then ultimately what what's the highlights<00:31:35.200><c> of</c><00:31:35.279><c> our</c><00:31:35.360><c> family</c><00:31:35.600><c> identity</c><00:31:36.000><c> are</c><00:31:36.080><c> we</c> 00:31:36.310 --> 00:31:36.320 align:start position:0% highlights of our family 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00:32:17.029 --> 00:32:17.039 align:start position:0% bounds family 00:32:17.039 --> 00:32:19.029 align:start position:0% bounds family this<00:32:17.360><c> is</c><00:32:17.519><c> one</c><00:32:18.000><c> that</c><00:32:18.240><c> i</c><00:32:18.480><c> wholeheartedly</c> 00:32:19.029 --> 00:32:19.039 align:start position:0% this is one that i wholeheartedly 00:32:19.039 --> 00:32:21.350 align:start position:0% this is one that i wholeheartedly struggle<00:32:19.600><c> now</c><00:32:20.159><c> uh</c><00:32:20.480><c> with</c><00:32:20.720><c> is</c><00:32:20.960><c> you</c><00:32:21.039><c> know</c><00:32:21.120><c> what's</c> 00:32:21.350 --> 00:32:21.360 align:start position:0% struggle now uh with is you know what's 00:32:21.360 --> 00:32:23.350 align:start position:0% struggle now uh with is you know what's our<00:32:21.519><c> plan</c><00:32:21.679><c> to</c><00:32:21.840><c> fitting</c><00:32:22.080><c> the</c><00:32:22.240><c> readings</c> 00:32:23.350 --> 00:32:23.360 align:start position:0% our plan to fitting the readings 00:32:23.360 --> 00:32:24.870 align:start position:0% our plan to fitting the readings so<00:32:23.519><c> something</c><00:32:23.840><c> carol</c><00:32:24.080><c> was</c><00:32:24.240><c> really</c><00:32:24.480><c> focused</c><00:32:24.799><c> on</c> 00:32:24.870 --> 00:32:24.880 align:start position:0% so something carol was really focused on 00:32:24.880 --> 00:32:26.950 align:start position:0% so something carol was really focused on when<00:32:25.039><c> we</c><00:32:25.120><c> initially</c><00:32:25.840><c> got</c><00:32:26.080><c> married</c><00:32:26.480><c> was</c><00:32:26.720><c> hey</c><00:32:26.880><c> i</c> 00:32:26.950 --> 00:32:26.960 align:start position:0% when we initially got married was hey i 00:32:26.960 --> 00:32:28.710 align:start position:0% when we initially got married was hey i want<00:32:27.039><c> to</c><00:32:27.120><c> do</c><00:32:27.360><c> meeting</c><00:32:27.840><c> readings</c><00:32:28.159><c> right</c><00:32:28.320><c> after</c> 00:32:28.710 --> 00:32:28.720 align:start position:0% want to do meeting readings right after 00:32:28.720 --> 00:32:31.029 align:start position:0% want to do meeting readings right after dinner<00:32:29.279><c> um</c><00:32:29.679><c> unfortunately</c><00:32:30.399><c> i</c><00:32:30.480><c> was</c><00:32:30.640><c> waking</c><00:32:30.960><c> up</c> 00:32:31.029 --> 00:32:31.039 align:start position:0% dinner um unfortunately i was waking up 00:32:31.039 --> 00:32:33.830 align:start position:0% dinner um unfortunately i was waking up at<00:32:31.200><c> four</c><00:32:31.440><c> or</c><00:32:31.519><c> five</c><00:32:31.919><c> in</c><00:32:32.000><c> the</c><00:32:32.080><c> morning</c> 00:32:33.830 --> 00:32:33.840 align:start position:0% at four or five in the morning 00:32:33.840 --> 00:32:36.070 align:start position:0% at four or five in the morning i'm<00:32:34.240><c> i'm</c><00:32:34.399><c> exhausted</c><00:32:34.960><c> by</c><00:32:35.279><c> by</c><00:32:35.440><c> the</c> 00:32:36.070 --> 00:32:36.080 align:start position:0% i'm i'm exhausted by by the 00:32:36.080 --> 00:32:38.070 align:start position:0% i'm i'm exhausted by by the evening<00:32:36.799><c> we</c><00:32:37.120><c> try</c><00:32:37.279><c> to</c><00:32:37.360><c> do</c><00:32:37.440><c> it</c><00:32:37.600><c> in</c><00:32:37.679><c> the</c><00:32:37.760><c> morning</c> 00:32:38.070 --> 00:32:38.080 align:start position:0% evening we try to do it in the morning 00:32:38.080 --> 00:32:40.470 align:start position:0% evening we try to do it in the morning instead<00:32:38.799><c> which</c><00:32:39.039><c> we</c><00:32:39.120><c> switch</c><00:32:39.440><c> to</c><00:32:39.600><c> right</c><00:32:39.840><c> now</c><00:32:40.159><c> but</c> 00:32:40.470 --> 00:32:40.480 align:start position:0% instead which we switch to right now but 00:32:40.480 --> 00:32:43.029 align:start position:0% instead which we switch to right now but what<00:32:40.640><c> does</c><00:32:40.799><c> that</c><00:32:40.960><c> look</c><00:32:41.200><c> like</c><00:32:41.440><c> now</c><00:32:42.240><c> um</c> 00:32:43.029 --> 00:32:43.039 align:start position:0% what does that look like now um 00:32:43.039 --> 00:32:44.950 align:start position:0% what does that look like now um with<00:32:43.279><c> young</c><00:32:43.600><c> kids</c> 00:32:44.950 --> 00:32:44.960 align:start position:0% with young kids 00:32:44.960 --> 00:32:47.029 align:start position:0% with young kids certainly<00:32:45.279><c> a</c><00:32:45.360><c> different</c><00:32:45.600><c> dynamic</c><00:32:46.159><c> in</c><00:32:46.640><c> a</c><00:32:46.720><c> huge</c> 00:32:47.029 --> 00:32:47.039 align:start position:0% certainly a different dynamic in a huge 00:32:47.039 --> 00:32:49.029 align:start position:0% certainly a different dynamic in a huge challenge<00:32:47.919><c> families</c><00:32:48.320><c> in</c><00:32:48.399><c> today's</c><00:32:48.720><c> day</c><00:32:48.880><c> and</c> 00:32:49.029 --> 00:32:49.039 align:start position:0% challenge families in today's day and 00:32:49.039 --> 00:32:52.070 align:start position:0% challenge families in today's day and age<00:32:49.840><c> to</c><00:32:50.080><c> coordinate</c><00:32:50.640><c> and</c><00:32:50.799><c> align</c> 00:32:52.070 --> 00:32:52.080 align:start position:0% age to coordinate and align 00:32:52.080 --> 00:32:53.430 align:start position:0% age to coordinate and align all<00:32:52.320><c> schedules</c> 00:32:53.430 --> 00:32:53.440 align:start position:0% all schedules 00:32:53.440 --> 00:32:55.110 align:start position:0% all schedules to<00:32:53.600><c> ensure</c><00:32:54.080><c> that</c> 00:32:55.110 --> 00:32:55.120 align:start position:0% to ensure that 00:32:55.120 --> 00:32:57.029 align:start position:0% to ensure that we<00:32:55.279><c> are</c><00:32:55.440><c> doing</c><00:32:55.760><c> the</c><00:32:55.840><c> daily</c><00:32:56.159><c> reading</c> 00:32:57.029 --> 00:32:57.039 align:start position:0% we are doing the daily reading 00:32:57.039 --> 00:32:58.630 align:start position:0% we are doing the daily reading and<00:32:57.120><c> his</c><00:32:57.360><c> prayer</c><00:32:57.679><c> integral</c><00:32:58.080><c> part</c><00:32:58.399><c> of</c><00:32:58.559><c> our</c> 00:32:58.630 --> 00:32:58.640 align:start position:0% and his prayer integral part of our 00:32:58.640 --> 00:32:59.909 align:start position:0% and his prayer integral part of our family<00:32:59.120><c> life</c> 00:32:59.909 --> 00:32:59.919 align:start position:0% family life 00:32:59.919 --> 00:33:02.070 align:start position:0% family life i<00:33:00.080><c> always</c><00:33:00.399><c> found</c><00:33:00.720><c> like</c><00:33:01.200><c> i</c><00:33:01.360><c> always</c><00:33:01.600><c> felt</c><00:33:01.840><c> like</c> 00:33:02.070 --> 00:33:02.080 align:start position:0% i always found like i always felt like 00:33:02.080 --> 00:33:04.070 align:start position:0% i always found like i always felt like god<00:33:02.320><c> was</c><00:33:02.480><c> listening</c><00:33:02.799><c> that</c><00:33:02.960><c> much</c><00:33:03.279><c> more</c> 00:33:04.070 --> 00:33:04.080 align:start position:0% god was listening that much more 00:33:04.080 --> 00:33:05.830 align:start position:0% god was listening that much more um 00:33:05.830 --> 00:33:05.840 align:start position:0% um 00:33:05.840 --> 00:33:07.750 align:start position:0% um if<00:33:06.080><c> i</c><00:33:06.159><c> had</c><00:33:06.399><c> one</c><00:33:06.559><c> of</c><00:33:06.640><c> my</c><00:33:06.799><c> parents</c><00:33:07.279><c> holding</c><00:33:07.600><c> my</c> 00:33:07.750 --> 00:33:07.760 align:start position:0% if i had one of my parents holding my 00:33:07.760 --> 00:33:10.149 align:start position:0% if i had one of my parents holding my hands<00:33:08.240><c> praying</c><00:33:08.559><c> with</c> 00:33:10.149 --> 00:33:10.159 align:start position:0% hands praying with 00:33:10.159 --> 00:33:11.590 align:start position:0% hands praying with what<00:33:10.320><c> else</c><00:33:10.480><c> can</c><00:33:10.640><c> we</c><00:33:10.880><c> do</c> 00:33:11.590 --> 00:33:11.600 align:start position:0% what else can we do 00:33:11.600 --> 00:33:13.590 align:start position:0% what else can we do that<00:33:11.840><c> our</c><00:33:11.919><c> children</c><00:33:12.240><c> feel</c><00:33:12.399><c> like</c><00:33:12.640><c> god</c><00:33:12.880><c> is</c><00:33:13.279><c> is</c> 00:33:13.590 --> 00:33:13.600 align:start position:0% that our children feel like god is is 00:33:13.600 --> 00:33:17.029 align:start position:0% that our children feel like god is is their<00:33:13.919><c> father</c> 00:33:17.029 --> 00:33:17.039 align:start position:0% 00:33:17.039 --> 00:33:19.909 align:start position:0% the<00:33:17.200><c> next</c><00:33:17.440><c> one</c><00:33:17.600><c> is</c><00:33:17.840><c> is</c><00:33:18.000><c> one</c><00:33:18.240><c> that</c><00:33:18.720><c> um</c> 00:33:19.909 --> 00:33:19.919 align:start position:0% the next one is is one that um 00:33:19.919 --> 00:33:21.750 align:start position:0% the next one is is one that um i<00:33:20.080><c> think</c><00:33:20.320><c> would</c><00:33:20.559><c> really</c><00:33:20.799><c> apply</c><00:33:21.360><c> to</c><00:33:21.519><c> probably</c> 00:33:21.750 --> 00:33:21.760 align:start position:0% i think would really apply to probably 00:33:21.760 --> 00:33:24.470 align:start position:0% i think would really apply to probably my<00:33:22.080><c> older</c><00:33:22.799><c> sister</c><00:33:23.600><c> bethany</c><00:33:24.000><c> my</c><00:33:24.159><c> younger</c> 00:33:24.470 --> 00:33:24.480 align:start position:0% my older sister bethany my younger 00:33:24.480 --> 00:33:25.669 align:start position:0% my older sister bethany my younger brother<00:33:24.720><c> michael</c> 00:33:25.669 --> 00:33:25.679 align:start position:0% brother michael 00:33:25.679 --> 00:33:27.350 align:start position:0% brother michael but<00:33:25.919><c> probably</c><00:33:26.240><c> not</c><00:33:26.399><c> for</c><00:33:26.559><c> me</c><00:33:26.720><c> as</c><00:33:26.880><c> a</c><00:33:26.960><c> child</c><00:33:27.279><c> and</c> 00:33:27.350 --> 00:33:27.360 align:start position:0% but probably not for me as a child and 00:33:27.360 --> 00:33:30.870 align:start position:0% but probably not for me as a child and do<00:33:27.760><c> other</c><00:33:28.000><c> people</c><00:33:28.399><c> enjoy</c><00:33:28.799><c> our</c><00:33:29.039><c> children</c><00:33:29.840><c> um</c> 00:33:30.870 --> 00:33:30.880 align:start position:0% do other people enjoy our children um 00:33:30.880 --> 00:33:32.710 align:start position:0% do other people enjoy our children um so<00:33:31.360><c> my</c><00:33:31.519><c> parents</c><00:33:31.840><c> were</c><00:33:31.919><c> two</c><00:33:32.080><c> for</c><00:33:32.240><c> three</c><00:33:32.480><c> on</c><00:33:32.559><c> that</c> 00:33:32.710 --> 00:33:32.720 align:start position:0% so my parents were two for three on that 00:33:32.720 --> 00:33:34.549 align:start position:0% so my parents were two for three on that one<00:33:32.960><c> growing</c><00:33:33.279><c> up</c><00:33:33.440><c> but</c><00:33:33.840><c> are</c><00:33:34.080><c> children</c> 00:33:34.549 --> 00:33:34.559 align:start position:0% one growing up but are children 00:33:34.559 --> 00:33:37.029 align:start position:0% one growing up but are children characterized<00:33:35.200><c> by</c><00:33:35.440><c> obedience</c><00:33:36.000><c> and</c><00:33:36.080><c> then</c><00:33:36.320><c> do</c><00:33:36.559><c> i</c> 00:33:37.029 --> 00:33:37.039 align:start position:0% characterized by obedience and then do i 00:33:37.039 --> 00:33:39.269 align:start position:0% characterized by obedience and then do i show<00:33:37.279><c> respect</c> 00:33:39.269 --> 00:33:39.279 align:start position:0% show respect 00:33:39.279 --> 00:33:41.830 align:start position:0% show respect and<00:33:39.360><c> that</c><00:33:39.679><c> kind</c><00:33:39.919><c> of</c><00:33:40.480><c> the</c><00:33:40.640><c> same</c><00:33:41.039><c> analogy</c><00:33:41.519><c> of</c> 00:33:41.830 --> 00:33:41.840 align:start position:0% and that kind of the same analogy of 00:33:41.840 --> 00:33:43.430 align:start position:0% and that kind of the same analogy of morris<00:33:42.159><c> cough</c><00:33:42.480><c> and</c><00:33:42.640><c> taught</c> 00:33:43.430 --> 00:33:43.440 align:start position:0% morris cough and taught 00:33:43.440 --> 00:33:46.070 align:start position:0% morris cough and taught are<00:33:43.840><c> children</c><00:33:44.320><c> characterized</c><00:33:44.880><c> by</c><00:33:45.039><c> obedience</c> 00:33:46.070 --> 00:33:46.080 align:start position:0% are children characterized by obedience 00:33:46.080 --> 00:33:47.750 align:start position:0% are children characterized by obedience or<00:33:46.320><c> are</c><00:33:46.399><c> they</c><00:33:46.640><c> respectful</c> 00:33:47.750 --> 00:33:47.760 align:start position:0% or are they respectful 00:33:47.760 --> 00:33:49.590 align:start position:0% or are they respectful and<00:33:47.840><c> then</c> 00:33:49.590 --> 00:33:49.600 align:start position:0% and then 00:33:49.600 --> 00:33:50.950 align:start position:0% and then what<00:33:49.760><c> can</c><00:33:49.919><c> we</c><00:33:50.000><c> do</c><00:33:50.159><c> so</c><00:33:50.399><c> our</c><00:33:50.559><c> family</c><00:33:50.880><c> is</c> 00:33:50.950 --> 00:33:50.960 align:start position:0% what can we do so our family is 00:33:50.960 --> 00:33:52.470 align:start position:0% what can we do so our family is characterized<00:33:51.519><c> by</c><00:33:51.679><c> thinking</c><00:33:51.919><c> of</c><00:33:52.080><c> others</c> 00:33:52.470 --> 00:33:52.480 align:start position:0% characterized by thinking of others 00:33:52.480 --> 00:33:53.750 align:start position:0% characterized by thinking of others that's<00:33:52.720><c> the</c><00:33:52.799><c> same</c><00:33:53.039><c> thing</c><00:33:53.200><c> as</c><00:33:53.360><c> the</c><00:33:53.440><c> family</c> 00:33:53.750 --> 00:33:53.760 align:start position:0% that's the same thing as the family 00:33:53.760 --> 00:33:56.710 align:start position:0% that's the same thing as the family identity<00:33:54.480><c> in</c><00:33:54.640><c> a</c><00:33:54.720><c> sense</c> 00:33:56.710 --> 00:33:56.720 align:start position:0% identity in a sense 00:33:56.720 --> 00:33:58.789 align:start position:0% identity in a sense and<00:33:56.880><c> then</c><00:33:57.600><c> training</c> 00:33:58.789 --> 00:33:58.799 align:start position:0% and then training 00:33:58.799 --> 00:34:00.470 align:start position:0% and then training how<00:33:58.960><c> can</c><00:33:59.120><c> we</c><00:33:59.279><c> be</c><00:33:59.440><c> consistent</c><00:34:00.000><c> and</c><00:34:00.159><c> fair</c><00:34:00.320><c> with</c> 00:34:00.470 --> 00:34:00.480 align:start position:0% how can we be consistent and fair with 00:34:00.480 --> 00:34:02.470 align:start position:0% how can we be consistent and fair with discipline<00:34:01.360><c> and</c><00:34:01.519><c> how</c><00:34:01.679><c> can</c><00:34:01.840><c> i</c><00:34:02.000><c> focus</c><00:34:02.320><c> on</c> 00:34:02.470 --> 00:34:02.480 align:start position:0% discipline and how can i focus on 00:34:02.480 --> 00:34:03.750 align:start position:0% discipline and how can i focus on patience 00:34:03.750 --> 00:34:03.760 align:start position:0% patience 00:34:03.760 --> 00:34:06.310 align:start position:0% patience have<00:34:04.000><c> more</c><00:34:04.240><c> faith</c><00:34:04.559><c> and</c><00:34:04.640><c> trust</c><00:34:05.039><c> in</c><00:34:05.200><c> god</c><00:34:06.000><c> and</c><00:34:06.159><c> i</c> 00:34:06.310 --> 00:34:06.320 align:start position:0% have more faith and trust in god and i 00:34:06.320 --> 00:34:08.310 align:start position:0% have more faith and trust in god and i truly<00:34:06.640><c> believe</c><00:34:07.279><c> that</c> 00:34:08.310 --> 00:34:08.320 align:start position:0% truly believe that 00:34:08.320 --> 00:34:10.149 align:start position:0% truly believe that i<00:34:08.639><c> still</c> 00:34:10.149 --> 00:34:10.159 align:start position:0% i still 00:34:10.159 --> 00:34:12.629 align:start position:0% i still to<00:34:10.320><c> this</c><00:34:10.560><c> day</c><00:34:11.200><c> look</c><00:34:11.440><c> to</c><00:34:11.679><c> my</c><00:34:11.839><c> parents</c><00:34:12.240><c> at</c><00:34:12.320><c> times</c> 00:34:12.629 --> 00:34:12.639 align:start position:0% to this day look to my parents at times 00:34:12.639 --> 00:34:13.750 align:start position:0% to this day look to my parents at times of 00:34:13.750 --> 00:34:13.760 align:start position:0% of 00:34:13.760 --> 00:34:15.990 align:start position:0% of spiritual<00:34:14.399><c> hardship</c><00:34:14.960><c> or</c><00:34:15.440><c> any</c><00:34:15.679><c> type</c><00:34:15.839><c> of</c> 00:34:15.990 --> 00:34:16.000 align:start position:0% spiritual hardship or any type of 00:34:16.000 --> 00:34:19.510 align:start position:0% spiritual hardship or any type of hardship<00:34:16.800><c> and</c><00:34:17.359><c> and</c><00:34:17.839><c> these</c><00:34:18.240><c> questions</c><00:34:19.200><c> about</c> 00:34:19.510 --> 00:34:19.520 align:start position:0% hardship and and these questions about 00:34:19.520 --> 00:34:21.270 align:start position:0% hardship and and these questions about how<00:34:19.919><c> they</c><00:34:20.159><c> react</c><00:34:20.560><c> to</c><00:34:20.639><c> these</c><00:34:20.879><c> and</c><00:34:20.960><c> how</c><00:34:21.119><c> they</c> 00:34:21.270 --> 00:34:21.280 align:start position:0% how they react to these and how they 00:34:21.280 --> 00:34:23.909 align:start position:0% how they react to these and how they parent<00:34:21.679><c> are</c><00:34:21.839><c> still</c><00:34:22.240><c> very</c><00:34:22.560><c> much</c><00:34:22.800><c> impactful</c> 00:34:23.909 --> 00:34:23.919 align:start position:0% parent are still very much impactful 00:34:23.919 --> 00:34:26.389 align:start position:0% parent are still very much impactful uh<00:34:24.399><c> to</c><00:34:24.560><c> me</c> 00:34:26.389 --> 00:34:26.399 align:start position:0% uh to me 00:34:26.399 --> 00:34:29.030 align:start position:0% uh to me as<00:34:26.879><c> a</c><00:34:26.960><c> preparing</c><00:34:27.599><c> parent</c><00:34:28.240><c> so</c><00:34:28.560><c> there's</c><00:34:28.800><c> there's</c> 00:34:29.030 --> 00:34:29.040 align:start position:0% as a preparing parent so there's there's 00:34:29.040 --> 00:34:30.869 align:start position:0% as a preparing parent so there's there's no<00:34:29.280><c> expiration</c><00:34:30.000><c> date</c> 00:34:30.869 --> 00:34:30.879 align:start position:0% no expiration date 00:34:30.879 --> 00:34:35.909 align:start position:0% no expiration date on<00:34:31.119><c> any</c><00:34:31.359><c> of</c><00:34:31.440><c> these</c><00:34:31.919><c> introspective</c><00:34:32.639><c> questions</c> 00:34:35.909 --> 00:34:35.919 align:start position:0% 00:34:35.919 --> 00:34:38.069 align:start position:0% we<00:34:36.159><c> talked</c><00:34:36.399><c> a</c><00:34:36.480><c> little</c><00:34:36.720><c> bit</c><00:34:36.879><c> about</c> 00:34:38.069 --> 00:34:38.079 align:start position:0% we talked a little bit about 00:34:38.079 --> 00:34:40.389 align:start position:0% we talked a little bit about a<00:34:38.560><c> spiritual</c><00:34:39.200><c> example</c> 00:34:40.389 --> 00:34:40.399 align:start position:0% a spiritual example 00:34:40.399 --> 00:34:41.669 align:start position:0% a spiritual example of 00:34:41.669 --> 00:34:41.679 align:start position:0% of 00:34:41.679 --> 00:34:43.589 align:start position:0% of this<00:34:41.919><c> type</c><00:34:42.159><c> of</c><00:34:42.320><c> authority</c><00:34:42.800><c> and</c><00:34:42.879><c> influence</c> 00:34:43.589 --> 00:34:43.599 align:start position:0% this type of authority and influence 00:34:43.599 --> 00:34:46.629 align:start position:0% this type of authority and influence dynamic<00:34:44.480><c> how</c><00:34:44.639><c> this</c><00:34:44.879><c> change</c><00:34:45.280><c> happened</c> 00:34:46.629 --> 00:34:46.639 align:start position:0% dynamic how this change happened 00:34:46.639 --> 00:34:49.589 align:start position:0% dynamic how this change happened i<00:34:46.839><c> remember</c><00:34:47.679><c> specifically</c><00:34:48.399><c> in</c><00:34:48.480><c> my</c><00:34:48.639><c> home</c><00:34:48.879><c> life</c> 00:34:49.589 --> 00:34:49.599 align:start position:0% i remember specifically in my home life 00:34:49.599 --> 00:34:51.109 align:start position:0% i remember specifically in my home life um 00:34:51.109 --> 00:34:51.119 align:start position:0% um 00:34:51.119 --> 00:34:52.710 align:start position:0% um there<00:34:51.280><c> were</c><00:34:51.440><c> times</c><00:34:51.760><c> when</c><00:34:51.919><c> i</c><00:34:52.000><c> was</c><00:34:52.240><c> i</c><00:34:52.399><c> would</c><00:34:52.480><c> be</c><00:34:52.639><c> a</c> 00:34:52.710 --> 00:34:52.720 align:start position:0% there were times when i was i would be a 00:34:52.720 --> 00:34:55.430 align:start position:0% there were times when i was i would be a very<00:34:52.879><c> rebellious</c><00:34:53.599><c> just</c><00:34:53.839><c> exuberant</c><00:34:54.560><c> kid</c> 00:34:55.430 --> 00:34:55.440 align:start position:0% very rebellious just exuberant kid 00:34:55.440 --> 00:34:55.770 align:start position:0% very rebellious just exuberant kid um 00:34:55.770 --> 00:34:55.780 align:start position:0% um 00:34:55.780 --> 00:34:56.950 align:start position:0% um [Music] 00:34:56.950 --> 00:34:56.960 align:start position:0% [Music] 00:34:56.960 --> 00:34:59.589 align:start position:0% [Music] and<00:34:57.359><c> my</c><00:34:57.599><c> dad</c><00:34:57.839><c> would</c><00:34:57.920><c> have</c><00:34:58.079><c> to</c><00:34:58.240><c> correct</c><00:34:58.560><c> me</c> 00:34:59.589 --> 00:34:59.599 align:start position:0% and my dad would have to correct me 00:34:59.599 --> 00:35:01.829 align:start position:0% and my dad would have to correct me and<00:34:59.920><c> there</c><00:35:00.079><c> were</c><00:35:00.320><c> times</c><00:35:00.800><c> where</c><00:35:01.280><c> after</c><00:35:01.599><c> a</c><00:35:01.680><c> lot</c> 00:35:01.829 --> 00:35:01.839 align:start position:0% and there were times where after a lot 00:35:01.839 --> 00:35:04.069 align:start position:0% and there were times where after a lot you<00:35:02.000><c> know</c><00:35:02.079><c> some</c><00:35:02.320><c> frustrations</c><00:35:03.359><c> he</c><00:35:03.599><c> would</c><00:35:03.760><c> walk</c> 00:35:04.069 --> 00:35:04.079 align:start position:0% you know some frustrations he would walk 00:35:04.079 --> 00:35:06.230 align:start position:0% you know some frustrations he would walk down<00:35:04.880><c> he'd</c><00:35:05.040><c> do</c><00:35:05.200><c> some</c><00:35:05.359><c> bible</c><00:35:05.680><c> readings</c><00:35:06.000><c> and</c><00:35:06.079><c> he</c> 00:35:06.230 --> 00:35:06.240 align:start position:0% down he'd do some bible readings and he 00:35:06.240 --> 00:35:07.990 align:start position:0% down he'd do some bible readings and he walked<00:35:06.480><c> down</c><00:35:06.720><c> if</c><00:35:06.880><c> i</c><00:35:06.960><c> was</c><00:35:07.119><c> asleep</c><00:35:07.520><c> and</c><00:35:07.599><c> i'd</c><00:35:07.760><c> wake</c> 00:35:07.990 --> 00:35:08.000 align:start position:0% walked down if i was asleep and i'd wake 00:35:08.000 --> 00:35:09.430 align:start position:0% walked down if i was asleep and i'd wake up<00:35:08.160><c> and</c><00:35:08.240><c> there</c><00:35:08.400><c> would</c><00:35:08.480><c> be</c><00:35:08.640><c> a</c><00:35:08.800><c> handwritten</c> 00:35:09.430 --> 00:35:09.440 align:start position:0% up and there would be a handwritten 00:35:09.440 --> 00:35:10.470 align:start position:0% up and there would be a handwritten bible 00:35:10.470 --> 00:35:10.480 align:start position:0% bible 00:35:10.480 --> 00:35:11.510 align:start position:0% bible verse 00:35:11.510 --> 00:35:11.520 align:start position:0% verse 00:35:11.520 --> 00:35:13.430 align:start position:0% verse for<00:35:11.680><c> me</c><00:35:11.839><c> to</c><00:35:11.920><c> wake</c><00:35:12.240><c> up</c><00:35:12.400><c> to</c> 00:35:13.430 --> 00:35:13.440 align:start position:0% for me to wake up to 00:35:13.440 --> 00:35:15.510 align:start position:0% for me to wake up to and<00:35:13.760><c> and</c><00:35:14.000><c> a</c><00:35:14.079><c> lot</c><00:35:14.240><c> of</c><00:35:14.400><c> times</c><00:35:14.800><c> it</c><00:35:14.880><c> was</c><00:35:15.200><c> it</c><00:35:15.280><c> was</c><00:35:15.440><c> at</c> 00:35:15.510 --> 00:35:15.520 align:start position:0% and and a lot of times it was it was at 00:35:15.520 --> 00:35:17.030 align:start position:0% and and a lot of times it was it was at the<00:35:15.599><c> time</c><00:35:15.839><c> when</c><00:35:16.079><c> he</c><00:35:16.160><c> had</c><00:35:16.320><c> to</c><00:35:16.400><c> administer</c><00:35:16.880><c> his</c> 00:35:17.030 --> 00:35:17.040 align:start position:0% the time when he had to administer his 00:35:17.040 --> 00:35:18.630 align:start position:0% the time when he had to administer his authority<00:35:17.520><c> for</c><00:35:17.680><c> my</c><00:35:17.920><c> own</c> 00:35:18.630 --> 00:35:18.640 align:start position:0% authority for my own 00:35:18.640 --> 00:35:19.510 align:start position:0% authority for my own um 00:35:19.510 --> 00:35:19.520 align:start position:0% um 00:35:19.520 --> 00:35:21.430 align:start position:0% um my<00:35:19.680><c> own</c><00:35:19.839><c> betterment</c> 00:35:21.430 --> 00:35:21.440 align:start position:0% my own betterment 00:35:21.440 --> 00:35:24.310 align:start position:0% my own betterment and<00:35:22.000><c> they</c><00:35:22.480><c> i</c><00:35:22.640><c> think</c><00:35:22.800><c> some</c><00:35:22.960><c> of</c><00:35:23.040><c> these</c><00:35:23.280><c> were</c> 00:35:24.310 --> 00:35:24.320 align:start position:0% and they i think some of these were 00:35:24.320 --> 00:35:26.230 align:start position:0% and they i think some of these were frequented<00:35:24.880><c> verses</c><00:35:25.440><c> my</c><00:35:25.599><c> son</c><00:35:25.920><c> hear</c><00:35:26.160><c> the</c> 00:35:26.230 --> 00:35:26.240 align:start position:0% frequented verses my son hear the 00:35:26.240 --> 00:35:27.829 align:start position:0% frequented verses my son hear the instruction<00:35:26.720><c> of</c><00:35:26.800><c> the</c><00:35:26.960><c> father</c><00:35:27.359><c> and</c><00:35:27.440><c> forsake</c> 00:35:27.829 --> 00:35:27.839 align:start position:0% instruction of the father and forsake 00:35:27.839 --> 00:35:29.670 align:start position:0% instruction of the father and forsake not<00:35:28.000><c> the</c><00:35:28.160><c> law</c><00:35:28.320><c> of</c><00:35:28.400><c> thy</c><00:35:28.560><c> mother</c><00:35:29.119><c> for</c><00:35:29.280><c> they</c><00:35:29.440><c> shall</c> 00:35:29.670 --> 00:35:29.680 align:start position:0% not the law of thy mother for they shall 00:35:29.680 --> 00:35:31.750 align:start position:0% not the law of thy mother for they shall be<00:35:29.839><c> an</c><00:35:30.000><c> ornament</c><00:35:30.320><c> of</c><00:35:30.400><c> grace</c><00:35:30.720><c> into</c><00:35:30.880><c> my</c><00:35:31.040><c> head</c><00:35:31.520><c> and</c> 00:35:31.750 --> 00:35:31.760 align:start position:0% be an ornament of grace into my head and 00:35:31.760 --> 00:35:34.470 align:start position:0% be an ornament of grace into my head and chains<00:35:32.079><c> about</c><00:35:32.320><c> thy</c><00:35:32.560><c> neck</c> 00:35:34.470 --> 00:35:34.480 align:start position:0% chains about thy neck 00:35:34.480 --> 00:35:37.270 align:start position:0% chains about thy neck and<00:35:34.880><c> um</c><00:35:35.119><c> proverbs</c><00:35:35.440><c> 29</c><00:35:35.920><c> 15</c><00:35:36.240><c> iran</c><00:35:36.640><c> reproof</c><00:35:37.040><c> gave</c> 00:35:37.270 --> 00:35:37.280 align:start position:0% and um proverbs 29 15 iran reproof gave 00:35:37.280 --> 00:35:39.670 align:start position:0% and um proverbs 29 15 iran reproof gave wisdom<00:35:37.760><c> but</c><00:35:37.920><c> a</c><00:35:38.000><c> child</c><00:35:38.400><c> left</c><00:35:38.640><c> himself</c> 00:35:39.670 --> 00:35:39.680 align:start position:0% wisdom but a child left himself 00:35:39.680 --> 00:35:41.510 align:start position:0% wisdom but a child left himself bringing<00:35:40.240><c> his</c><00:35:40.480><c> mother</c> 00:35:41.510 --> 00:35:41.520 align:start position:0% bringing his mother 00:35:41.520 --> 00:35:43.430 align:start position:0% bringing his mother a<00:35:41.680><c> child</c><00:35:42.079><c> left</c><00:35:42.320><c> to</c><00:35:42.480><c> himself</c><00:35:42.960><c> bringing</c><00:35:43.359><c> his</c> 00:35:43.430 --> 00:35:43.440 align:start position:0% a child left to himself bringing his 00:35:43.440 --> 00:35:45.910 align:start position:0% a child left to himself bringing his mother<00:35:43.680><c> to</c><00:35:43.920><c> shame</c> 00:35:45.910 --> 00:35:45.920 align:start position:0% mother to shame 00:35:45.920 --> 00:35:48.310 align:start position:0% mother to shame and<00:35:46.079><c> this</c><00:35:46.320><c> was</c><00:35:46.560><c> very</c><00:35:46.880><c> impactful</c> 00:35:48.310 --> 00:35:48.320 align:start position:0% and this was very impactful 00:35:48.320 --> 00:35:49.430 align:start position:0% and this was very impactful physically 00:35:49.430 --> 00:35:49.440 align:start position:0% physically 00:35:49.440 --> 00:35:52.630 align:start position:0% physically um<00:35:49.839><c> you</c><00:35:50.000><c> know</c><00:35:50.079><c> having</c><00:35:50.320><c> to</c><00:35:50.480><c> have</c><00:35:50.640><c> some</c><00:35:50.880><c> level</c><00:35:51.119><c> of</c> 00:35:52.630 --> 00:35:52.640 align:start position:0% um you know having to have some level of 00:35:52.640 --> 00:35:55.190 align:start position:0% um you know having to have some level of impact<00:35:53.200><c> when</c><00:35:53.440><c> i</c><00:35:53.599><c> was</c> 00:35:55.190 --> 00:35:55.200 align:start position:0% impact when i was 00:35:55.200 --> 00:35:57.430 align:start position:0% impact when i was a<00:35:55.359><c> kid</c> 00:35:57.430 --> 00:35:57.440 align:start position:0% a kid 00:35:57.440 --> 00:35:59.190 align:start position:0% a kid and<00:35:57.520><c> then</c><00:35:57.839><c> in</c><00:35:58.000><c> retrospect</c><00:35:58.560><c> now</c><00:35:58.720><c> i'm</c><00:35:58.880><c> seeing</c> 00:35:59.190 --> 00:35:59.200 align:start position:0% and then in retrospect now i'm seeing 00:35:59.200 --> 00:36:01.430 align:start position:0% and then in retrospect now i'm seeing the<00:35:59.440><c> impact</c><00:35:59.920><c> of</c><00:36:00.240><c> the</c><00:36:00.320><c> influence</c> 00:36:01.430 --> 00:36:01.440 align:start position:0% the impact of the influence 00:36:01.440 --> 00:36:03.589 align:start position:0% the impact of the influence um<00:36:02.000><c> the</c><00:36:02.160><c> influence</c><00:36:02.560><c> portion</c><00:36:02.960><c> and</c><00:36:03.200><c> trap</c><00:36:03.520><c> a</c> 00:36:03.589 --> 00:36:03.599 align:start position:0% um the influence portion and trap a 00:36:03.599 --> 00:36:04.870 align:start position:0% um the influence portion and trap a child<00:36:03.839><c> the</c><00:36:03.920><c> way</c><00:36:04.079><c> should</c><00:36:04.240><c> go</c><00:36:04.480><c> and</c><00:36:04.560><c> even</c><00:36:04.720><c> when</c> 00:36:04.870 --> 00:36:04.880 align:start position:0% child the way should go and even when 00:36:04.880 --> 00:36:06.710 align:start position:0% child the way should go and even when he's<00:36:05.119><c> old</c><00:36:05.440><c> not</c><00:36:05.680><c> apart</c><00:36:06.000><c> from</c><00:36:06.160><c> it</c><00:36:06.320><c> i'll</c><00:36:06.400><c> give</c><00:36:06.560><c> a</c> 00:36:06.710 --> 00:36:06.720 align:start position:0% he's old not apart from it i'll give a 00:36:06.720 --> 00:36:09.349 align:start position:0% he's old not apart from it i'll give a quick<00:36:06.960><c> nugget</c><00:36:07.760><c> on</c><00:36:08.160><c> a</c><00:36:08.400><c> personal</c><00:36:08.800><c> experience</c><00:36:09.280><c> on</c> 00:36:09.349 --> 00:36:09.359 align:start position:0% quick nugget on a personal experience on 00:36:09.359 --> 00:36:11.190 align:start position:0% quick nugget on a personal experience on this<00:36:09.599><c> one</c><00:36:10.160><c> and</c><00:36:10.240><c> then</c><00:36:10.480><c> i</c><00:36:10.560><c> would</c><00:36:10.800><c> really</c><00:36:10.960><c> like</c><00:36:11.119><c> to</c> 00:36:11.190 --> 00:36:11.200 align:start position:0% this one and then i would really like to 00:36:11.200 --> 00:36:13.349 align:start position:0% this one and then i would really like to open<00:36:11.440><c> up</c><00:36:11.520><c> the</c><00:36:11.599><c> floor</c><00:36:12.240><c> for</c><00:36:12.480><c> others</c><00:36:12.800><c> to</c><00:36:13.200><c> share</c> 00:36:13.349 --> 00:36:13.359 align:start position:0% open up the floor for others to share 00:36:13.359 --> 00:36:15.430 align:start position:0% open up the floor for others to share their<00:36:13.599><c> own</c><00:36:13.760><c> for</c><00:36:14.000><c> for</c><00:36:14.160><c> me</c><00:36:14.400><c> personally</c><00:36:15.280><c> i</c> 00:36:15.430 --> 00:36:15.440 align:start position:0% their own for for me personally i 00:36:15.440 --> 00:36:16.870 align:start position:0% their own for for me personally i remember<00:36:15.760><c> there</c><00:36:15.920><c> was</c><00:36:16.079><c> a</c><00:36:16.160><c> time</c><00:36:16.400><c> i</c><00:36:16.480><c> was</c><00:36:16.560><c> in</c><00:36:16.720><c> a</c> 00:36:16.870 --> 00:36:16.880 align:start position:0% remember there was a time i was in a 00:36:16.880 --> 00:36:18.790 align:start position:0% remember there was a time i was in a six-year<00:36:17.359><c> relationship</c><00:36:18.079><c> started</c><00:36:18.400><c> at</c><00:36:18.480><c> the</c><00:36:18.640><c> end</c> 00:36:18.790 --> 00:36:18.800 align:start position:0% six-year relationship started at the end 00:36:18.800 --> 00:36:21.990 align:start position:0% six-year relationship started at the end of<00:36:18.960><c> high</c><00:36:19.119><c> school</c><00:36:19.839><c> and</c><00:36:20.000><c> went</c><00:36:20.160><c> through</c><00:36:20.400><c> college</c> 00:36:21.990 --> 00:36:22.000 align:start position:0% of high school and went through college 00:36:22.000 --> 00:36:24.870 align:start position:0% of high school and went through college and<00:36:22.160><c> this</c><00:36:22.800><c> uh</c><00:36:23.040><c> the</c><00:36:23.200><c> girlfriend</c><00:36:23.599><c> at</c><00:36:23.680><c> the</c><00:36:23.839><c> time</c> 00:36:24.870 --> 00:36:24.880 align:start position:0% and this uh the girlfriend at the time 00:36:24.880 --> 00:36:26.390 align:start position:0% and this uh the girlfriend at the time she<00:36:25.040><c> thought</c><00:36:25.280><c> like</c><00:36:25.440><c> the</c><00:36:25.599><c> next</c><00:36:25.839><c> step</c><00:36:26.079><c> was</c> 00:36:26.390 --> 00:36:26.400 align:start position:0% she thought like the next step was 00:36:26.400 --> 00:36:27.589 align:start position:0% she thought like the next step was engagement 00:36:27.589 --> 00:36:27.599 align:start position:0% engagement 00:36:27.599 --> 00:36:28.870 align:start position:0% engagement and<00:36:27.920><c> she</c><00:36:28.079><c> was</c><00:36:28.160><c> like</c><00:36:28.240><c> why</c><00:36:28.480><c> i</c><00:36:28.560><c> think</c><00:36:28.720><c> we</c><00:36:28.800><c> should</c> 00:36:28.870 --> 00:36:28.880 align:start position:0% and she was like why i think we should 00:36:28.880 --> 00:36:30.950 align:start position:0% and she was like why i think we should get<00:36:29.040><c> engaged</c><00:36:29.359><c> i</c><00:36:29.440><c> said</c><00:36:29.599><c> well</c><00:36:29.920><c> you</c><00:36:30.079><c> know</c><00:36:30.320><c> my</c> 00:36:30.950 --> 00:36:30.960 align:start position:0% get engaged i said well you know my 00:36:30.960 --> 00:36:33.510 align:start position:0% get engaged i said well you know my stance<00:36:31.359><c> on</c><00:36:31.520><c> that</c><00:36:32.160><c> um</c> 00:36:33.510 --> 00:36:33.520 align:start position:0% stance on that um 00:36:33.520 --> 00:36:35.430 align:start position:0% stance on that um you<00:36:33.680><c> have</c><00:36:33.839><c> to</c><00:36:33.920><c> be</c><00:36:34.000><c> baptized</c><00:36:34.800><c> and</c><00:36:34.960><c> not</c><00:36:35.119><c> for</c><00:36:35.280><c> me</c> 00:36:35.430 --> 00:36:35.440 align:start position:0% you have to be baptized and not for me 00:36:35.440 --> 00:36:38.069 align:start position:0% you have to be baptized and not for me for<00:36:35.599><c> the</c><00:36:35.680><c> right</c><00:36:35.920><c> reasons</c><00:36:36.800><c> that</c><00:36:37.040><c> well</c><00:36:37.520><c> we</c><00:36:37.920><c> can</c> 00:36:38.069 --> 00:36:38.079 align:start position:0% for the right reasons that well we can 00:36:38.079 --> 00:36:39.430 align:start position:0% for the right reasons that well we can get<00:36:38.160><c> engaged</c><00:36:38.560><c> and</c><00:36:38.720><c> we</c><00:36:38.800><c> can</c><00:36:38.880><c> figure</c><00:36:39.119><c> that</c><00:36:39.280><c> out</c> 00:36:39.430 --> 00:36:39.440 align:start position:0% get engaged and we can figure that out 00:36:39.440 --> 00:36:41.750 align:start position:0% get engaged and we can figure that out afterwards<00:36:40.240><c> i</c><00:36:40.400><c> asked</c><00:36:40.640><c> my</c><00:36:40.880><c> dad</c> 00:36:41.750 --> 00:36:41.760 align:start position:0% afterwards i asked my dad 00:36:41.760 --> 00:36:43.750 align:start position:0% afterwards i asked my dad dad<00:36:42.000><c> what</c><00:36:42.160><c> do</c><00:36:42.240><c> you</c><00:36:42.320><c> think</c><00:36:42.480><c> about</c><00:36:42.720><c> that</c><00:36:42.960><c> because</c> 00:36:43.750 --> 00:36:43.760 align:start position:0% dad what do you think about that because 00:36:43.760 --> 00:36:45.349 align:start position:0% dad what do you think about that because ironically<00:36:44.320><c> that</c><00:36:44.480><c> was</c><00:36:44.640><c> the</c><00:36:44.720><c> circumstance</c> 00:36:45.349 --> 00:36:45.359 align:start position:0% ironically that was the circumstance 00:36:45.359 --> 00:36:48.230 align:start position:0% ironically that was the circumstance that<00:36:45.520><c> happened</c><00:36:45.839><c> with</c><00:36:46.000><c> my</c><00:36:46.240><c> parents</c> 00:36:48.230 --> 00:36:48.240 align:start position:0% that happened with my parents 00:36:48.240 --> 00:36:51.349 align:start position:0% that happened with my parents he's<00:36:48.720><c> he</c><00:36:48.960><c> explained</c><00:36:49.440><c> his</c><00:36:49.599><c> own</c><00:36:49.839><c> perspective</c> 00:36:51.349 --> 00:36:51.359 align:start position:0% he's he explained his own perspective 00:36:51.359 --> 00:36:52.550 align:start position:0% he's he explained his own perspective and 00:36:52.550 --> 00:36:52.560 align:start position:0% and 00:36:52.560 --> 00:36:54.470 align:start position:0% and he<00:36:52.720><c> said</c><00:36:53.200><c> in</c><00:36:53.359><c> in</c><00:36:53.520><c> essence</c> 00:36:54.470 --> 00:36:54.480 align:start position:0% he said in in essence 00:36:54.480 --> 00:36:57.190 align:start position:0% he said in in essence um<00:36:55.200><c> i</c><00:36:55.520><c> you</c><00:36:55.599><c> know</c><00:36:55.920><c> you</c><00:36:56.160><c> are</c><00:36:56.320><c> a</c><00:36:56.480><c> man</c><00:36:56.720><c> now</c><00:36:56.960><c> you</c><00:36:57.119><c> have</c> 00:36:57.190 --> 00:36:57.200 align:start position:0% um i you know you are a man now you have 00:36:57.200 --> 00:36:59.109 align:start position:0% um i you know you are a man now you have to<00:36:57.280><c> make</c><00:36:57.520><c> your</c><00:36:57.760><c> own</c><00:36:57.839><c> decisions</c> 00:36:59.109 --> 00:36:59.119 align:start position:0% to make your own decisions 00:36:59.119 --> 00:37:01.430 align:start position:0% to make your own decisions but<00:36:59.359><c> i</c><00:36:59.520><c> would</c><00:37:00.240><c> i</c><00:37:00.400><c> would</c><00:37:00.560><c> lose</c><00:37:00.880><c> a</c><00:37:00.960><c> little</c><00:37:01.119><c> bit</c><00:37:01.280><c> of</c> 00:37:01.430 --> 00:37:01.440 align:start position:0% but i would i would lose a little bit of 00:37:01.440 --> 00:37:03.270 align:start position:0% but i would i would lose a little bit of respect<00:37:01.920><c> for</c><00:37:02.079><c> you</c> 00:37:03.270 --> 00:37:03.280 align:start position:0% respect for you 00:37:03.280 --> 00:37:05.750 align:start position:0% respect for you if<00:37:03.440><c> you</c><00:37:03.599><c> chose</c><00:37:04.160><c> to</c> 00:37:05.750 --> 00:37:05.760 align:start position:0% if you chose to 00:37:05.760 --> 00:37:07.510 align:start position:0% if you chose to make<00:37:06.079><c> that</c><00:37:06.320><c> decision</c> 00:37:07.510 --> 00:37:07.520 align:start position:0% make that decision 00:37:07.520 --> 00:37:09.270 align:start position:0% make that decision and<00:37:07.839><c> hearing</c><00:37:08.240><c> that</c><00:37:08.480><c> and</c><00:37:08.560><c> that</c><00:37:08.720><c> was</c><00:37:08.880><c> that</c><00:37:09.040><c> was</c> 00:37:09.270 --> 00:37:09.280 align:start position:0% and hearing that and that was that was 00:37:09.280 --> 00:37:11.109 align:start position:0% and hearing that and that was that was you<00:37:09.359><c> know</c><00:37:09.599><c> the</c><00:37:09.680><c> first</c><00:37:09.839><c> time</c><00:37:10.000><c> that</c><00:37:10.480><c> that</c><00:37:10.800><c> guard</c> 00:37:11.109 --> 00:37:11.119 align:start position:0% you know the first time that that guard 00:37:11.119 --> 00:37:14.310 align:start position:0% you know the first time that that guard rail<00:37:11.760><c> really</c><00:37:12.160><c> resonated</c><00:37:12.720><c> with</c><00:37:13.200><c> hearing</c><00:37:13.599><c> that</c> 00:37:14.310 --> 00:37:14.320 align:start position:0% rail really resonated with hearing that 00:37:14.320 --> 00:37:16.230 align:start position:0% rail really resonated with hearing that you<00:37:14.400><c> know</c><00:37:14.560><c> he</c><00:37:14.720><c> didn't</c><00:37:14.960><c> have</c><00:37:15.119><c> to</c><00:37:15.280><c> lift</c> 00:37:16.230 --> 00:37:16.240 align:start position:0% you know he didn't have to lift 00:37:16.240 --> 00:37:19.030 align:start position:0% you know he didn't have to lift those<00:37:16.560><c> uh</c><00:37:16.960><c> old</c><00:37:17.280><c> farm</c><00:37:17.520><c> hands</c><00:37:17.839><c> like</c><00:37:18.000><c> he</c><00:37:18.160><c> used</c><00:37:18.400><c> to</c> 00:37:19.030 --> 00:37:19.040 align:start position:0% those uh old farm hands like he used to 00:37:19.040 --> 00:37:21.750 align:start position:0% those uh old farm hands like he used to um<00:37:19.440><c> the</c><00:37:19.599><c> dad's</c><00:37:19.920><c> strength</c><00:37:20.320><c> as</c><00:37:20.480><c> i</c><00:37:20.560><c> would</c><00:37:20.800><c> say</c> 00:37:21.750 --> 00:37:21.760 align:start position:0% um the dad's strength as i would say 00:37:21.760 --> 00:37:24.069 align:start position:0% um the dad's strength as i would say it<00:37:22.000><c> was</c><00:37:22.240><c> it</c><00:37:22.400><c> was</c><00:37:22.640><c> that</c><00:37:22.960><c> influence</c><00:37:23.440><c> that</c><00:37:23.599><c> he</c><00:37:23.839><c> had</c> 00:37:24.069 --> 00:37:24.079 align:start position:0% it was it was that influence that he had 00:37:24.079 --> 00:37:27.030 align:start position:0% it was it was that influence that he had as<00:37:24.480><c> a</c><00:37:24.640><c> friend</c><00:37:25.040><c> now</c><00:37:25.280><c> as</c><00:37:25.760><c> a</c><00:37:25.920><c> as</c><00:37:26.160><c> a</c> 00:37:27.030 --> 00:37:27.040 align:start position:0% as a friend now as a as a 00:37:27.040 --> 00:37:28.150 align:start position:0% as a friend now as a as a mentor 00:37:28.150 --> 00:37:28.160 align:start position:0% mentor 00:37:28.160 --> 00:37:30.550 align:start position:0% mentor that<00:37:28.400><c> i</c><00:37:28.560><c> realized</c> 00:37:30.550 --> 00:37:30.560 align:start position:0% that i realized 00:37:30.560 --> 00:37:32.470 align:start position:0% that i realized i<00:37:30.720><c> need</c><00:37:30.880><c> to</c><00:37:31.040><c> completely</c><00:37:31.440><c> reevaluate</c><00:37:32.160><c> my</c><00:37:32.320><c> whole</c> 00:37:32.470 --> 00:37:32.480 align:start position:0% i need to completely reevaluate my whole 00:37:32.480 --> 00:37:33.910 align:start position:0% i need to completely reevaluate my whole perspective<00:37:33.040><c> and</c><00:37:33.119><c> that</c><00:37:33.280><c> fortunately</c><00:37:33.680><c> was</c> 00:37:33.910 --> 00:37:33.920 align:start position:0% perspective and that fortunately was 00:37:33.920 --> 00:37:35.589 align:start position:0% perspective and that fortunately was able<00:37:34.240><c> you</c><00:37:34.400><c> know</c><00:37:34.560><c> for</c><00:37:34.720><c> me</c><00:37:34.880><c> to</c><00:37:35.119><c> completely</c> 00:37:35.589 --> 00:37:35.599 align:start position:0% able you know for me to completely 00:37:35.599 --> 00:37:37.990 align:start position:0% able you know for me to completely remove<00:37:36.000><c> myself</c><00:37:36.320><c> from</c><00:37:36.480><c> that</c><00:37:36.720><c> environment</c> 00:37:37.990 --> 00:37:38.000 align:start position:0% remove myself from that environment 00:37:38.000 --> 00:37:38.870 align:start position:0% remove myself from that environment and<00:37:38.079><c> be</c> 00:37:38.870 --> 00:37:38.880 align:start position:0% and be 00:37:38.880 --> 00:37:41.430 align:start position:0% and be immensely<00:37:39.520><c> blessed</c><00:37:40.000><c> with</c><00:37:40.320><c> um</c> 00:37:41.430 --> 00:37:41.440 align:start position:0% immensely blessed with um 00:37:41.440 --> 00:37:43.990 align:start position:0% immensely blessed with um the<00:37:41.760><c> the</c><00:37:41.920><c> beautiful</c><00:37:42.400><c> relationship</c><00:37:43.040><c> that</c><00:37:43.280><c> is</c> 00:37:43.990 --> 00:37:44.000 align:start position:0% the the beautiful relationship that is 00:37:44.000 --> 00:37:47.190 align:start position:0% the the beautiful relationship that is you<00:37:44.160><c> know</c><00:37:44.480><c> ten</c><00:37:44.800><c> times</c><00:37:45.440><c> anything</c><00:37:45.920><c> that</c><00:37:46.320><c> um</c> 00:37:47.190 --> 00:37:47.200 align:start position:0% you know ten times anything that um 00:37:47.200 --> 00:37:49.270 align:start position:0% you know ten times anything that um i've<00:37:47.440><c> ever</c><00:37:47.680><c> experienced</c><00:37:48.240><c> previously</c><00:37:49.119><c> and</c> 00:37:49.270 --> 00:37:49.280 align:start position:0% i've ever experienced previously and 00:37:49.280 --> 00:37:50.790 align:start position:0% i've ever experienced previously and that<00:37:49.440><c> was</c><00:37:49.680><c> by</c> 00:37:50.790 --> 00:37:50.800 align:start position:0% that was by 00:37:50.800 --> 00:37:53.670 align:start position:0% that was by the<00:37:51.040><c> influence</c><00:37:51.839><c> of</c><00:37:52.000><c> parental</c><00:37:52.480><c> fingers</c><00:37:53.359><c> i</c> 00:37:53.670 --> 00:37:53.680 align:start position:0% the influence of parental fingers i 00:37:53.680 --> 00:37:56.230 align:start position:0% the influence of parental fingers i would<00:37:53.839><c> really</c><00:37:54.000><c> like</c><00:37:54.240><c> um</c><00:37:54.880><c> others</c><00:37:55.200><c> to</c><00:37:55.359><c> share</c> 00:37:56.230 --> 00:37:56.240 align:start position:0% would really like um others to share 00:37:56.240 --> 00:37:58.630 align:start position:0% would really like um others to share any<00:37:56.560><c> types</c><00:37:56.800><c> of</c><00:37:57.200><c> examples</c><00:37:57.920><c> lessons</c><00:37:58.320><c> learned</c> 00:37:58.630 --> 00:37:58.640 align:start position:0% any types of examples lessons learned 00:37:58.640 --> 00:38:00.950 align:start position:0% any types of examples lessons learned best<00:37:58.960><c> practices</c><00:37:59.520><c> for</c><00:37:59.760><c> parenting</c> 00:38:00.950 --> 00:38:00.960 align:start position:0% best practices for parenting 00:38:00.960 --> 00:38:04.870 align:start position:0% best practices for parenting before<00:38:01.280><c> we</c><00:38:01.440><c> continue</c><00:38:01.839><c> on</c> 00:38:04.870 --> 00:38:04.880 align:start position:0% 00:38:04.880 --> 00:38:06.950 align:start position:0% so<00:38:05.280><c> nate</c><00:38:05.520><c> let</c><00:38:05.680><c> me</c><00:38:05.760><c> get</c><00:38:06.000><c> this</c><00:38:06.240><c> straight</c><00:38:06.800><c> you</c> 00:38:06.950 --> 00:38:06.960 align:start position:0% so nate let me get this straight you 00:38:06.960 --> 00:38:08.950 align:start position:0% so nate let me get this straight you would<00:38:07.119><c> go</c><00:38:07.280><c> to</c><00:38:07.520><c> bed</c><00:38:07.760><c> at</c><00:38:07.920><c> night</c> 00:38:08.950 --> 00:38:08.960 align:start position:0% would go to bed at night 00:38:08.960 --> 00:38:10.550 align:start position:0% would go to bed at night and<00:38:09.119><c> then</c><00:38:09.280><c> when</c><00:38:09.440><c> you</c><00:38:09.520><c> wake</c><00:38:09.839><c> up</c><00:38:09.920><c> in</c><00:38:10.000><c> the</c><00:38:10.160><c> morning</c> 00:38:10.550 --> 00:38:10.560 align:start position:0% and then when you wake up in the morning 00:38:10.560 --> 00:38:12.310 align:start position:0% and then when you wake up in the morning your<00:38:10.720><c> father's</c><00:38:11.119><c> put</c><00:38:11.359><c> a</c><00:38:11.440><c> verse</c><00:38:11.680><c> by</c><00:38:11.839><c> your</c><00:38:12.079><c> bed</c> 00:38:12.310 --> 00:38:12.320 align:start position:0% your father's put a verse by your bed 00:38:12.320 --> 00:38:13.910 align:start position:0% your father's put a verse by your bed that<00:38:12.480><c> says</c><00:38:12.720><c> the</c><00:38:12.960><c> rod</c><00:38:13.200><c> and</c><00:38:13.280><c> reprove</c><00:38:13.680><c> give</c> 00:38:13.910 --> 00:38:13.920 align:start position:0% that says the rod and reprove give 00:38:13.920 --> 00:38:15.750 align:start position:0% that says the rod and reprove give wisdom<00:38:14.240><c> but</c><00:38:14.400><c> a</c><00:38:14.480><c> child</c><00:38:14.800><c> left</c><00:38:14.960><c> to</c><00:38:15.119><c> himself</c><00:38:15.520><c> bring</c> 00:38:15.750 --> 00:38:15.760 align:start position:0% wisdom but a child left to himself bring 00:38:15.760 --> 00:38:17.910 align:start position:0% wisdom but a child left to himself bring up<00:38:15.920><c> his</c><00:38:16.160><c> mother</c><00:38:16.400><c> to</c><00:38:16.640><c> shame</c> 00:38:17.910 --> 00:38:17.920 align:start position:0% up his mother to shame 00:38:17.920 --> 00:38:21.030 align:start position:0% up his mother to shame something<00:38:18.320><c> of</c><00:38:18.480><c> that</c><00:38:18.640><c> nature</c><00:38:19.119><c> yeah</c> 00:38:21.030 --> 00:38:21.040 align:start position:0% something of that nature yeah 00:38:21.040 --> 00:38:23.910 align:start position:0% something of that nature yeah i<00:38:21.280><c> had</c><00:38:21.520><c> him</c><00:38:21.680><c> i</c><00:38:21.760><c> had</c><00:38:22.000><c> him</c><00:38:22.560><c> under</c><00:38:22.800><c> my</c><00:38:22.960><c> desk</c> 00:38:23.910 --> 00:38:23.920 align:start position:0% i had him i had him under my desk 00:38:23.920 --> 00:38:25.829 align:start position:0% i had him i had him under my desk jim<00:38:24.320><c> i</c><00:38:24.480><c> kid</c><00:38:24.640><c> you</c><00:38:24.800><c> not</c><00:38:24.960><c> i</c><00:38:25.040><c> had</c><00:38:25.280><c> him</c><00:38:25.359><c> saved</c><00:38:25.680><c> under</c> 00:38:25.829 --> 00:38:25.839 align:start position:0% jim i kid you not i had him saved under 00:38:25.839 --> 00:38:27.270 align:start position:0% jim i kid you not i had him saved under my<00:38:26.000><c> desk</c><00:38:26.320><c> i</c><00:38:26.400><c> don't</c><00:38:26.560><c> know</c><00:38:26.640><c> where</c><00:38:26.800><c> my</c><00:38:26.880><c> mom</c><00:38:27.119><c> put</c> 00:38:27.270 --> 00:38:27.280 align:start position:0% my desk i don't know where my mom put 00:38:27.280 --> 00:38:29.030 align:start position:0% my desk i don't know where my mom put him<00:38:27.440><c> but</c><00:38:27.520><c> i</c><00:38:27.680><c> had</c><00:38:27.839><c> a</c><00:38:27.920><c> couple</c><00:38:28.240><c> of</c><00:38:28.320><c> those</c><00:38:28.560><c> nuggets</c> 00:38:29.030 --> 00:38:29.040 align:start position:0% him but i had a couple of those nuggets 00:38:29.040 --> 00:38:31.670 align:start position:0% him but i had a couple of those nuggets like<00:38:29.280><c> hey</c><00:38:29.680><c> listen</c><00:38:30.400><c> like</c><00:38:30.960><c> you</c><00:38:31.119><c> kind</c><00:38:31.280><c> of</c><00:38:31.440><c> need</c> 00:38:31.670 --> 00:38:31.680 align:start position:0% like hey listen like you kind of need 00:38:31.680 --> 00:38:32.470 align:start position:0% like hey listen like you kind of need this 00:38:32.470 --> 00:38:32.480 align:start position:0% this 00:38:32.480 --> 00:38:33.270 align:start position:0% this um 00:38:33.270 --> 00:38:33.280 align:start position:0% um 00:38:33.280 --> 00:38:37.270 align:start position:0% um and<00:38:33.440><c> he</c><00:38:33.520><c> wasn't</c><00:38:33.839><c> wrong</c><00:38:34.320><c> he</c><00:38:34.720><c> wasn't</c><00:38:35.200><c> wrong</c><00:38:35.520><c> jim</c> 00:38:37.270 --> 00:38:37.280 align:start position:0% and he wasn't wrong he wasn't wrong jim 00:38:37.280 --> 00:38:39.670 align:start position:0% and he wasn't wrong he wasn't wrong jim that's<00:38:37.599><c> rough</c> 00:38:39.670 --> 00:38:39.680 align:start position:0% that's rough 00:38:39.680 --> 00:38:41.750 align:start position:0% that's rough ah<00:38:40.160><c> it</c><00:38:40.320><c> was</c><00:38:40.720><c> effective</c><00:38:41.119><c> let's</c><00:38:41.359><c> put</c><00:38:41.520><c> it</c><00:38:41.599><c> that</c> 00:38:41.750 --> 00:38:41.760 align:start position:0% ah it was effective let's put it that 00:38:41.760 --> 00:38:46.390 align:start position:0% ah it was effective let's put it that way<00:38:42.160><c> yeah</c><00:38:42.480><c> sure</c><00:38:42.880><c> i</c><00:38:42.960><c> suppose</c><00:38:43.520><c> yeah</c> 00:38:46.390 --> 00:38:46.400 align:start position:0% way yeah sure i suppose yeah 00:38:46.400 --> 00:38:48.630 align:start position:0% way yeah sure i suppose yeah very<00:38:46.640><c> interesting</c><00:38:47.520><c> well</c><00:38:48.000><c> it's</c><00:38:48.320><c> it's</c><00:38:48.480><c> an</c> 00:38:48.630 --> 00:38:48.640 align:start position:0% very interesting well it's it's an 00:38:48.640 --> 00:38:52.150 align:start position:0% very interesting well it's it's an interesting<00:38:49.200><c> topic</c><00:38:50.160><c> um</c><00:38:51.119><c> and</c><00:38:51.359><c> i'm</c><00:38:51.680><c> i'm</c><00:38:51.839><c> not</c><00:38:52.079><c> a</c> 00:38:52.150 --> 00:38:52.160 align:start position:0% interesting topic um and i'm i'm not a 00:38:52.160 --> 00:38:54.470 align:start position:0% interesting topic um and i'm i'm not a master<00:38:52.560><c> at</c><00:38:52.800><c> it</c><00:38:52.880><c> myself</c><00:38:53.440><c> but</c><00:38:53.599><c> i</c><00:38:53.760><c> would</c><00:38:53.920><c> say</c><00:38:54.240><c> of</c> 00:38:54.470 --> 00:38:54.480 align:start position:0% master at it myself but i would say of 00:38:54.480 --> 00:38:56.310 align:start position:0% master at it myself but i would say of all<00:38:54.640><c> the</c><00:38:54.720><c> things</c><00:38:54.960><c> that</c><00:38:55.119><c> you</c><00:38:55.280><c> put</c><00:38:55.520><c> up</c> 00:38:56.310 --> 00:38:56.320 align:start position:0% all the things that you put up 00:38:56.320 --> 00:38:59.030 align:start position:0% all the things that you put up uh<00:38:56.720><c> the</c><00:38:56.880><c> thing</c><00:38:57.040><c> that</c><00:38:57.200><c> i</c><00:38:57.440><c> found</c><00:38:58.079><c> uh</c> 00:38:59.030 --> 00:38:59.040 align:start position:0% uh the thing that i found uh 00:38:59.040 --> 00:39:00.390 align:start position:0% uh the thing that i found uh i<00:38:59.200><c> don't</c><00:38:59.359><c> want</c><00:38:59.440><c> to</c><00:38:59.440><c> say</c><00:38:59.599><c> the</c><00:38:59.760><c> most</c><00:39:00.079><c> important</c> 00:39:00.390 --> 00:39:00.400 align:start position:0% i don't want to say the most important 00:39:00.400 --> 00:39:01.670 align:start position:0% i don't want to say the most important because<00:39:00.640><c> it's</c><00:39:00.720><c> hard</c><00:39:00.960><c> to</c><00:39:01.040><c> put</c><00:39:01.200><c> one</c><00:39:01.359><c> thing</c><00:39:01.520><c> is</c> 00:39:01.670 --> 00:39:01.680 align:start position:0% because it's hard to put one thing is 00:39:01.680 --> 00:39:04.470 align:start position:0% because it's hard to put one thing is most<00:39:01.920><c> important</c><00:39:02.320><c> but</c><00:39:02.960><c> exceedingly</c><00:39:03.760><c> important</c> 00:39:04.470 --> 00:39:04.480 align:start position:0% most important but exceedingly important 00:39:04.480 --> 00:39:07.030 align:start position:0% most important but exceedingly important is<00:39:05.359><c> patience</c> 00:39:07.030 --> 00:39:07.040 align:start position:0% is patience 00:39:07.040 --> 00:39:10.150 align:start position:0% is patience that's<00:39:07.520><c> that's</c><00:39:07.920><c> a</c><00:39:08.320><c> a</c><00:39:08.560><c> serious</c><00:39:09.119><c> key</c><00:39:09.599><c> i</c><00:39:09.760><c> think</c><00:39:10.000><c> to</c> 00:39:10.150 --> 00:39:10.160 align:start position:0% that's that's a a serious key i think to 00:39:10.160 --> 00:39:11.589 align:start position:0% that's that's a a serious key i think to parenting 00:39:11.589 --> 00:39:11.599 align:start position:0% parenting 00:39:11.599 --> 00:39:14.390 align:start position:0% parenting being<00:39:11.920><c> patient</c><00:39:12.320><c> with</c><00:39:12.560><c> your</c><00:39:12.839><c> kids</c> 00:39:14.390 --> 00:39:14.400 align:start position:0% being patient with your kids 00:39:14.400 --> 00:39:16.150 align:start position:0% being patient with your kids making<00:39:14.720><c> sure</c><00:39:14.880><c> they</c><00:39:15.119><c> know</c> 00:39:16.150 --> 00:39:16.160 align:start position:0% making sure they know 00:39:16.160 --> 00:39:18.870 align:start position:0% making sure they know what<00:39:16.560><c> the</c><00:39:16.720><c> right</c><00:39:16.960><c> direction</c><00:39:17.520><c> to</c><00:39:17.680><c> go</c><00:39:17.920><c> in</c><00:39:18.560><c> and</c> 00:39:18.870 --> 00:39:18.880 align:start position:0% what the right direction to go in and 00:39:18.880 --> 00:39:20.630 align:start position:0% what the right direction to go in and understanding<00:39:19.520><c> that</c><00:39:19.760><c> they're</c><00:39:20.079><c> probably</c><00:39:20.480><c> not</c> 00:39:20.630 --> 00:39:20.640 align:start position:0% understanding that they're probably not 00:39:20.640 --> 00:39:22.390 align:start position:0% understanding that they're probably not going<00:39:20.720><c> to</c><00:39:20.800><c> go</c><00:39:20.960><c> in</c><00:39:21.119><c> that</c><00:39:21.280><c> direction</c><00:39:22.079><c> but</c><00:39:22.240><c> you</c> 00:39:22.390 --> 00:39:22.400 align:start position:0% going to go in that direction but you 00:39:22.400 --> 00:39:24.069 align:start position:0% going to go in that direction but you need<00:39:22.560><c> to</c><00:39:22.720><c> be</c><00:39:22.880><c> patient</c><00:39:23.280><c> with</c><00:39:23.440><c> them</c><00:39:23.680><c> as</c><00:39:23.839><c> they</c> 00:39:24.069 --> 00:39:24.079 align:start position:0% need to be patient with them as they 00:39:24.079 --> 00:39:25.190 align:start position:0% need to be patient with them as they learn 00:39:25.190 --> 00:39:25.200 align:start position:0% learn 00:39:25.200 --> 00:39:28.230 align:start position:0% learn what<00:39:25.359><c> the</c><00:39:25.520><c> right</c><00:39:25.680><c> way</c><00:39:25.839><c> to</c><00:39:26.000><c> go</c><00:39:26.320><c> is</c> 00:39:28.230 --> 00:39:28.240 align:start position:0% what the right way to go is 00:39:28.240 --> 00:39:29.670 align:start position:0% what the right way to go is and<00:39:28.320><c> that's</c><00:39:28.560><c> what</c><00:39:28.640><c> i</c><00:39:28.720><c> found</c><00:39:28.960><c> with</c><00:39:29.119><c> my</c><00:39:29.359><c> kids</c> 00:39:29.670 --> 00:39:29.680 align:start position:0% and that's what i found with my kids 00:39:29.680 --> 00:39:31.829 align:start position:0% and that's what i found with my kids that<00:39:29.920><c> uh</c> 00:39:31.829 --> 00:39:31.839 align:start position:0% that uh 00:39:31.839 --> 00:39:33.270 align:start position:0% that uh given<00:39:32.240><c> time</c> 00:39:33.270 --> 00:39:33.280 align:start position:0% given time 00:39:33.280 --> 00:39:34.790 align:start position:0% given time they'll<00:39:33.440><c> figure</c><00:39:33.760><c> it</c><00:39:33.839><c> out</c><00:39:34.000><c> not</c><00:39:34.240><c> not</c><00:39:34.480><c> leave</c><00:39:34.640><c> them</c> 00:39:34.790 --> 00:39:34.800 align:start position:0% they'll figure it out not not leave them 00:39:34.800 --> 00:39:36.550 align:start position:0% they'll figure it out not not leave them to<00:39:34.880><c> their</c><00:39:35.119><c> own</c><00:39:35.280><c> devices</c><00:39:35.680><c> by</c><00:39:35.920><c> any</c><00:39:36.079><c> means</c><00:39:36.320><c> and</c><00:39:36.400><c> i</c> 00:39:36.550 --> 00:39:36.560 align:start position:0% to their own devices by any means and i 00:39:36.560 --> 00:39:40.230 align:start position:0% to their own devices by any means and i got<00:39:36.640><c> to</c><00:39:36.720><c> admit</c><00:39:37.040><c> i</c><00:39:37.119><c> never</c><00:39:37.839><c> i</c><00:39:38.079><c> never</c><00:39:38.320><c> stuck</c><00:39:38.640><c> a</c><00:39:38.960><c> a</c> 00:39:40.230 --> 00:39:40.240 align:start position:0% got to admit i never i never stuck a a 00:39:40.240 --> 00:39:42.550 align:start position:0% got to admit i never i never stuck a a bible<00:39:40.560><c> verse</c> 00:39:42.550 --> 00:39:42.560 align:start position:0% bible verse 00:39:42.560 --> 00:39:44.870 align:start position:0% bible verse that<00:39:42.800><c> said</c><00:39:43.200><c> get</c><00:39:43.359><c> your</c><00:39:43.599><c> act</c><00:39:43.839><c> in</c><00:39:44.000><c> gear</c> 00:39:44.870 --> 00:39:44.880 align:start position:0% that said get your act in gear 00:39:44.880 --> 00:39:45.829 align:start position:0% that said get your act in gear uh 00:39:45.829 --> 00:39:45.839 align:start position:0% uh 00:39:45.839 --> 00:39:46.630 align:start position:0% uh but 00:39:46.630 --> 00:39:46.640 align:start position:0% but 00:39:46.640 --> 00:39:48.310 align:start position:0% but for<00:39:46.800><c> me</c><00:39:46.960><c> that</c><00:39:47.440><c> i</c><00:39:47.520><c> think</c><00:39:47.680><c> that's</c><00:39:47.920><c> always</c><00:39:48.079><c> been</c><00:39:48.240><c> a</c> 00:39:48.310 --> 00:39:48.320 align:start position:0% for me that i think that's always been a 00:39:48.320 --> 00:39:49.670 align:start position:0% for me that i think that's always been a big<00:39:48.480><c> part</c><00:39:48.720><c> of</c><00:39:48.800><c> it</c><00:39:48.880><c> and</c><00:39:48.960><c> the</c><00:39:49.040><c> other</c><00:39:49.200><c> big</c><00:39:49.359><c> part</c><00:39:49.520><c> of</c> 00:39:49.670 --> 00:39:49.680 align:start position:0% big part of it and the other big part of 00:39:49.680 --> 00:39:51.670 align:start position:0% big part of it and the other big part of it<00:39:49.839><c> is</c><00:39:50.000><c> definitely</c><00:39:50.560><c> setting</c><00:39:50.880><c> an</c><00:39:51.119><c> environment</c> 00:39:51.670 --> 00:39:51.680 align:start position:0% it is definitely setting an environment 00:39:51.680 --> 00:39:52.950 align:start position:0% it is definitely setting an environment in<00:39:51.760><c> your</c><00:39:52.000><c> house</c> 00:39:52.950 --> 00:39:52.960 align:start position:0% in your house 00:39:52.960 --> 00:39:55.109 align:start position:0% in your house of<00:39:53.200><c> what</c><00:39:53.440><c> is</c><00:39:53.599><c> acceptable</c><00:39:54.160><c> behavior</c><00:39:54.720><c> because</c> 00:39:55.109 --> 00:39:55.119 align:start position:0% of what is acceptable behavior because 00:39:55.119 --> 00:39:57.349 align:start position:0% of what is acceptable behavior because you're<00:39:55.440><c> behaving</c><00:39:55.920><c> that</c><00:39:56.079><c> way</c><00:39:56.800><c> it's</c><00:39:57.040><c> hard</c><00:39:57.200><c> to</c> 00:39:57.349 --> 00:39:57.359 align:start position:0% you're behaving that way it's hard to 00:39:57.359 --> 00:39:58.870 align:start position:0% you're behaving that way it's hard to set<00:39:57.920><c> um</c> 00:39:58.870 --> 00:39:58.880 align:start position:0% set um 00:39:58.880 --> 00:40:01.670 align:start position:0% set um a<00:39:59.040><c> standard</c><00:39:59.520><c> of</c><00:39:59.599><c> behavior</c><00:40:00.480><c> uh</c><00:40:00.880><c> with</c><00:40:01.040><c> your</c><00:40:01.280><c> kids</c> 00:40:01.670 --> 00:40:01.680 align:start position:0% a standard of behavior uh with your kids 00:40:01.680 --> 00:40:03.349 align:start position:0% a standard of behavior uh with your kids if<00:40:01.920><c> you're</c><00:40:02.160><c> not</c><00:40:02.320><c> following</c><00:40:02.720><c> that</c><00:40:02.880><c> standard</c><00:40:03.280><c> of</c> 00:40:03.349 --> 00:40:03.359 align:start position:0% if you're not following that standard of 00:40:03.359 --> 00:40:05.270 align:start position:0% if you're not following that standard of behavior<00:40:03.839><c> for</c><00:40:04.079><c> in</c><00:40:04.160><c> fact</c><00:40:04.480><c> i</c><00:40:04.560><c> would</c><00:40:04.720><c> describe</c><00:40:05.119><c> it</c> 00:40:05.270 --> 00:40:05.280 align:start position:0% behavior for in fact i would describe it 00:40:05.280 --> 00:40:06.950 align:start position:0% behavior for in fact i would describe it as<00:40:05.680><c> impossible</c> 00:40:06.950 --> 00:40:06.960 align:start position:0% as impossible 00:40:06.960 --> 00:40:08.550 align:start position:0% as impossible to<00:40:07.119><c> set</c><00:40:07.359><c> a</c><00:40:07.440><c> standard</c><00:40:07.839><c> behavior</c><00:40:08.240><c> with</c><00:40:08.400><c> your</c> 00:40:08.550 --> 00:40:08.560 align:start position:0% to set a standard behavior with your 00:40:08.560 --> 00:40:10.870 align:start position:0% to set a standard behavior with your kids<00:40:08.880><c> if</c><00:40:09.040><c> you're</c><00:40:09.280><c> not</c><00:40:09.440><c> behaving</c><00:40:09.839><c> that</c><00:40:10.079><c> way</c> 00:40:10.870 --> 00:40:10.880 align:start position:0% kids if you're not behaving that way 00:40:10.880 --> 00:40:11.589 align:start position:0% kids if you're not behaving that way so 00:40:11.589 --> 00:40:11.599 align:start position:0% so 00:40:11.599 --> 00:40:13.270 align:start position:0% so if<00:40:11.760><c> you're</c><00:40:11.920><c> a</c><00:40:12.000><c> couple</c><00:40:12.319><c> that's</c><00:40:12.560><c> always</c><00:40:12.800><c> arguing</c> 00:40:13.270 --> 00:40:13.280 align:start position:0% if you're a couple that's always arguing 00:40:13.280 --> 00:40:15.270 align:start position:0% if you're a couple that's always arguing don't<00:40:13.520><c> expect</c><00:40:13.839><c> your</c><00:40:14.000><c> kids</c><00:40:14.240><c> to</c><00:40:14.400><c> be</c><00:40:14.880><c> kids</c><00:40:15.119><c> that</c> 00:40:15.270 --> 00:40:15.280 align:start position:0% don't expect your kids to be kids that 00:40:15.280 --> 00:40:17.589 align:start position:0% don't expect your kids to be kids that don't<00:40:15.520><c> argue</c><00:40:16.240><c> yeah</c> 00:40:17.589 --> 00:40:17.599 align:start position:0% don't argue yeah 00:40:17.599 --> 00:40:18.390 align:start position:0% don't argue yeah yeah 00:40:18.390 --> 00:40:18.400 align:start position:0% yeah 00:40:18.400 --> 00:40:21.190 align:start position:0% yeah i<00:40:18.560><c> agree</c><00:40:18.880><c> with</c><00:40:19.040><c> you</c><00:40:19.200><c> brother</c><00:40:19.520><c> jim</c><00:40:20.240><c> uh</c> 00:40:21.190 --> 00:40:21.200 align:start position:0% i agree with you brother jim uh 00:40:21.200 --> 00:40:23.109 align:start position:0% i agree with you brother jim uh because<00:40:21.440><c> i</c><00:40:21.520><c> had</c><00:40:21.760><c> an</c><00:40:21.920><c> ex</c> 00:40:23.109 --> 00:40:23.119 align:start position:0% because i had an ex 00:40:23.119 --> 00:40:25.030 align:start position:0% because i had an ex the<00:40:23.359><c> thing</c><00:40:23.599><c> of</c><00:40:23.839><c> patience</c> 00:40:25.030 --> 00:40:25.040 align:start position:0% the thing of patience 00:40:25.040 --> 00:40:25.910 align:start position:0% the thing of patience uh 00:40:25.910 --> 00:40:25.920 align:start position:0% uh 00:40:25.920 --> 00:40:26.870 align:start position:0% uh uh 00:40:26.870 --> 00:40:26.880 align:start position:0% uh 00:40:26.880 --> 00:40:28.790 align:start position:0% uh i<00:40:27.040><c> had</c><00:40:27.200><c> to</c><00:40:27.359><c> learn</c><00:40:27.680><c> that</c><00:40:28.079><c> when</c><00:40:28.240><c> i</c><00:40:28.319><c> was</c><00:40:28.480><c> bringing</c> 00:40:28.790 --> 00:40:28.800 align:start position:0% i had to learn that when i was bringing 00:40:28.800 --> 00:40:30.790 align:start position:0% i had to learn that when i was bringing up<00:40:28.880><c> my</c><00:40:29.040><c> son</c><00:40:29.359><c> ricky</c><00:40:29.760><c> and</c><00:40:30.000><c> uh</c> 00:40:30.790 --> 00:40:30.800 align:start position:0% up my son ricky and uh 00:40:30.800 --> 00:40:33.910 align:start position:0% up my son ricky and uh uh<00:40:31.280><c> i</c><00:40:31.440><c> mean</c><00:40:31.760><c> and</c><00:40:32.160><c> being</c><00:40:32.480><c> consistent</c> 00:40:33.910 --> 00:40:33.920 align:start position:0% uh i mean and being consistent 00:40:33.920 --> 00:40:36.470 align:start position:0% uh i mean and being consistent and<00:40:34.160><c> uh</c><00:40:34.800><c> i</c><00:40:34.960><c> remember</c><00:40:35.280><c> when</c><00:40:35.520><c> he</c><00:40:35.839><c> uh</c><00:40:36.079><c> he</c><00:40:36.240><c> came</c> 00:40:36.470 --> 00:40:36.480 align:start position:0% and uh i remember when he uh he came 00:40:36.480 --> 00:40:39.109 align:start position:0% and uh i remember when he uh he came home<00:40:36.720><c> from</c><00:40:36.880><c> school</c><00:40:37.280><c> one</c><00:40:37.440><c> day</c><00:40:37.680><c> and</c><00:40:37.839><c> he</c><00:40:37.920><c> said</c><00:40:38.160><c> um</c> 00:40:39.109 --> 00:40:39.119 align:start position:0% home from school one day and he said um 00:40:39.119 --> 00:40:41.109 align:start position:0% home from school one day and he said um dad<00:40:39.440><c> he</c><00:40:39.599><c> said</c><00:40:39.839><c> um</c><00:40:40.319><c> i</c><00:40:40.400><c> want</c><00:40:40.560><c> to</c><00:40:40.720><c> join</c><00:40:40.960><c> the</c> 00:40:41.109 --> 00:40:41.119 align:start position:0% dad he said um i want to join the 00:40:41.119 --> 00:40:42.790 align:start position:0% dad he said um i want to join the baseball<00:40:41.760><c> team</c> 00:40:42.790 --> 00:40:42.800 align:start position:0% baseball team 00:40:42.800 --> 00:40:45.430 align:start position:0% baseball team and<00:40:43.200><c> i</c><00:40:43.359><c> said</c><00:40:43.680><c> that's</c><00:40:44.000><c> fine</c> 00:40:45.430 --> 00:40:45.440 align:start position:0% and i said that's fine 00:40:45.440 --> 00:40:46.550 align:start position:0% and i said that's fine and<00:40:45.839><c> uh</c> 00:40:46.550 --> 00:40:46.560 align:start position:0% and uh 00:40:46.560 --> 00:40:48.790 align:start position:0% and uh then<00:40:46.800><c> he</c><00:40:46.960><c> came</c><00:40:47.359><c> and</c><00:40:47.440><c> he</c><00:40:47.599><c> said</c> 00:40:48.790 --> 00:40:48.800 align:start position:0% then he came and he said 00:40:48.800 --> 00:40:51.349 align:start position:0% then he came and he said later<00:40:49.200><c> on</c><00:40:49.520><c> they</c><00:40:49.680><c> wanted</c><00:40:50.000><c> him</c><00:40:50.240><c> to</c><00:40:50.400><c> play</c> 00:40:51.349 --> 00:40:51.359 align:start position:0% later on they wanted him to play 00:40:51.359 --> 00:40:53.030 align:start position:0% later on they wanted him to play sunday<00:40:51.760><c> mornings</c> 00:40:53.030 --> 00:40:53.040 align:start position:0% sunday mornings 00:40:53.040 --> 00:40:53.829 align:start position:0% sunday mornings right 00:40:53.829 --> 00:40:53.839 align:start position:0% right 00:40:53.839 --> 00:40:56.550 align:start position:0% right the<00:40:54.000><c> games</c><00:40:54.480><c> and</c><00:40:54.640><c> i</c><00:40:54.800><c> said</c><00:40:55.520><c> um</c> 00:40:56.550 --> 00:40:56.560 align:start position:0% the games and i said um 00:40:56.560 --> 00:40:57.829 align:start position:0% the games and i said um no<00:40:56.800><c> son</c> 00:40:57.829 --> 00:40:57.839 align:start position:0% no son 00:40:57.839 --> 00:41:00.710 align:start position:0% no son you<00:40:58.000><c> can't</c><00:40:58.240><c> do</c><00:40:58.400><c> that</c><00:40:59.040><c> right</c><00:40:59.520><c> i</c><00:40:59.680><c> said</c><00:41:00.000><c> and</c><00:41:00.319><c> uh</c><00:41:00.480><c> he</c> 00:41:00.710 --> 00:41:00.720 align:start position:0% you can't do that right i said and uh he 00:41:00.720 --> 00:41:02.309 align:start position:0% you can't do that right i said and uh he said<00:41:00.960><c> uh</c> 00:41:02.309 --> 00:41:02.319 align:start position:0% said uh 00:41:02.319 --> 00:41:04.150 align:start position:0% said uh uh<00:41:02.800><c> but</c><00:41:02.960><c> i</c><00:41:03.119><c> said</c><00:41:03.280><c> would</c><00:41:03.520><c> i</c><00:41:03.599><c> tell</c><00:41:03.760><c> you</c><00:41:03.839><c> what</c><00:41:04.079><c> i</c> 00:41:04.150 --> 00:41:04.160 align:start position:0% uh but i said would i tell you what i 00:41:04.160 --> 00:41:05.430 align:start position:0% uh but i said would i tell you what i will<00:41:04.480><c> do</c> 00:41:05.430 --> 00:41:05.440 align:start position:0% will do 00:41:05.440 --> 00:41:07.510 align:start position:0% will do i<00:41:05.599><c> say</c><00:41:05.839><c> i</c><00:41:06.000><c> can</c><00:41:06.160><c> substitute</c><00:41:06.880><c> something</c><00:41:07.280><c> for</c> 00:41:07.510 --> 00:41:07.520 align:start position:0% i say i can substitute something for 00:41:07.520 --> 00:41:08.470 align:start position:0% i say i can substitute something for that 00:41:08.470 --> 00:41:08.480 align:start position:0% that 00:41:08.480 --> 00:41:11.349 align:start position:0% that and<00:41:08.800><c> said</c><00:41:09.119><c> uh</c><00:41:09.440><c> what</c><00:41:09.760><c> would</c><00:41:10.000><c> you</c><00:41:10.480><c> like</c><00:41:10.640><c> to</c><00:41:10.800><c> do</c><00:41:11.200><c> to</c> 00:41:11.349 --> 00:41:11.359 align:start position:0% and said uh what would you like to do to 00:41:11.359 --> 00:41:12.950 align:start position:0% and said uh what would you like to do to take<00:41:11.599><c> the</c><00:41:11.760><c> place</c><00:41:12.000><c> of</c><00:41:12.160><c> that</c> 00:41:12.950 --> 00:41:12.960 align:start position:0% take the place of that 00:41:12.960 --> 00:41:15.430 align:start position:0% take the place of that i<00:41:13.119><c> said</c><00:41:13.359><c> because</c><00:41:13.599><c> we</c><00:41:13.760><c> have</c><00:41:13.920><c> to</c><00:41:14.079><c> stick</c><00:41:14.400><c> with</c><00:41:14.720><c> uh</c> 00:41:15.430 --> 00:41:15.440 align:start position:0% i said because we have to stick with uh 00:41:15.440 --> 00:41:17.750 align:start position:0% i said because we have to stick with uh going<00:41:15.680><c> to</c><00:41:15.839><c> the</c><00:41:16.000><c> occlusion</c><00:41:17.119><c> and</c><00:41:17.280><c> i</c><00:41:17.359><c> said</c><00:41:17.680><c> and</c> 00:41:17.750 --> 00:41:17.760 align:start position:0% going to the occlusion and i said and 00:41:17.760 --> 00:41:18.870 align:start position:0% going to the occlusion and i said and that's 00:41:18.870 --> 00:41:18.880 align:start position:0% that's 00:41:18.880 --> 00:41:21.109 align:start position:0% that's where<00:41:19.040><c> your</c><00:41:19.200><c> dad</c><00:41:19.520><c> likes</c><00:41:19.760><c> to</c><00:41:19.920><c> be</c><00:41:20.160><c> at</c><00:41:20.640><c> and</c><00:41:20.800><c> i</c><00:41:20.880><c> want</c> 00:41:21.109 --> 00:41:21.119 align:start position:0% where your dad likes to be at and i want 00:41:21.119 --> 00:41:22.790 align:start position:0% where your dad likes to be at and i want you<00:41:21.280><c> to</c><00:41:21.359><c> be</c><00:41:21.520><c> there</c><00:41:21.760><c> with</c><00:41:22.000><c> me</c> 00:41:22.790 --> 00:41:22.800 align:start position:0% you to be there with me 00:41:22.800 --> 00:41:24.790 align:start position:0% you to be there with me and<00:41:23.040><c> he</c><00:41:23.119><c> said</c><00:41:23.440><c> can</c><00:41:23.680><c> we</c><00:41:23.839><c> have</c> 00:41:24.790 --> 00:41:24.800 align:start position:0% and he said can we have 00:41:24.800 --> 00:41:26.550 align:start position:0% and he said can we have can<00:41:25.040><c> i</c><00:41:25.119><c> pick</c><00:41:25.359><c> a</c><00:41:25.440><c> day</c><00:41:25.680><c> that</c><00:41:25.920><c> we</c><00:41:26.079><c> can</c><00:41:26.240><c> have</c> 00:41:26.550 --> 00:41:26.560 align:start position:0% can i pick a day that we can have 00:41:26.560 --> 00:41:27.990 align:start position:0% can i pick a day that we can have chinese<00:41:27.040><c> food</c> 00:41:27.990 --> 00:41:28.000 align:start position:0% chinese food 00:41:28.000 --> 00:41:30.470 align:start position:0% chinese food and<00:41:28.160><c> i</c><00:41:28.319><c> say</c><00:41:28.480><c> you</c><00:41:28.640><c> most</c><00:41:28.880><c> certainly</c><00:41:29.280><c> can</c> 00:41:30.470 --> 00:41:30.480 align:start position:0% and i say you most certainly can 00:41:30.480 --> 00:41:33.750 align:start position:0% and i say you most certainly can and<00:41:30.720><c> so</c><00:41:31.040><c> he</c><00:41:31.599><c> he</c><00:41:31.760><c> said</c><00:41:32.000><c> what</c><00:41:32.160><c> about</c><00:41:32.560><c> thursday</c> 00:41:33.750 --> 00:41:33.760 align:start position:0% and so he he said what about thursday 00:41:33.760 --> 00:41:35.910 align:start position:0% and so he he said what about thursday we<00:41:33.920><c> can</c><00:41:34.079><c> have</c><00:41:34.319><c> chinese</c><00:41:34.720><c> food</c><00:41:34.960><c> every</c><00:41:35.280><c> thursday</c> 00:41:35.910 --> 00:41:35.920 align:start position:0% we can have chinese food every thursday 00:41:35.920 --> 00:41:38.309 align:start position:0% we can have chinese food every thursday i<00:41:36.079><c> said</c><00:41:36.240><c> you</c><00:41:36.480><c> got</c><00:41:36.720><c> it</c> 00:41:38.309 --> 00:41:38.319 align:start position:0% i said you got it 00:41:38.319 --> 00:41:44.390 align:start position:0% i said you got it and<00:41:38.400><c> he</c><00:41:38.640><c> accepted</c><00:41:39.119><c> that</c><00:41:39.520><c> i</c><00:41:39.760><c> love</c><00:41:40.000><c> it</c><00:41:40.560><c> very</c><00:41:40.880><c> good</c> 00:41:44.390 --> 00:41:44.400 align:start position:0% 00:41:44.400 --> 00:41:47.670 align:start position:0% so<00:41:44.560><c> we</c><00:41:44.720><c> can</c><00:41:44.880><c> always</c><00:41:45.440><c> replace</c> 00:41:47.670 --> 00:41:47.680 align:start position:0% so we can always replace 00:41:47.680 --> 00:41:50.230 align:start position:0% so we can always replace those<00:41:47.920><c> things</c><00:41:48.480><c> even</c><00:41:48.720><c> on</c><00:41:48.880><c> the</c><00:41:48.960><c> holidays</c> 00:41:50.230 --> 00:41:50.240 align:start position:0% those things even on the holidays 00:41:50.240 --> 00:41:51.190 align:start position:0% those things even on the holidays uh 00:41:51.190 --> 00:41:51.200 align:start position:0% uh 00:41:51.200 --> 00:41:54.150 align:start position:0% uh you<00:41:51.359><c> know</c><00:41:51.599><c> uh</c><00:41:52.240><c> i</c><00:41:52.319><c> used</c><00:41:52.560><c> to</c><00:41:52.960><c> say</c><00:41:53.440><c> let's</c><00:41:53.680><c> do</c><00:41:53.920><c> this</c> 00:41:54.150 --> 00:41:54.160 align:start position:0% you know uh i used to say let's do this 00:41:54.160 --> 00:41:56.710 align:start position:0% you know uh i used to say let's do this on<00:41:54.800><c> something</c><00:41:55.119><c> such</c><00:41:55.359><c> a</c><00:41:55.680><c> holiday</c> 00:41:56.710 --> 00:41:56.720 align:start position:0% on something such a holiday 00:41:56.720 --> 00:41:59.109 align:start position:0% on something such a holiday i<00:41:56.880><c> said</c><00:41:57.119><c> no</c><00:41:57.280><c> what</c><00:41:57.520><c> we</c><00:41:57.760><c> can</c><00:41:58.079><c> do</c> 00:41:59.109 --> 00:41:59.119 align:start position:0% i said no what we can do 00:41:59.119 --> 00:41:59.829 align:start position:0% i said no what we can do we 00:41:59.829 --> 00:41:59.839 align:start position:0% we 00:41:59.839 --> 00:42:02.550 align:start position:0% we will<00:42:00.560><c> give</c><00:42:00.880><c> god</c><00:42:01.280><c> thanks</c> 00:42:02.550 --> 00:42:02.560 align:start position:0% will give god thanks 00:42:02.560 --> 00:42:04.550 align:start position:0% will give god thanks because<00:42:02.960><c> all</c><00:42:03.359><c> every</c><00:42:03.599><c> good</c><00:42:03.839><c> and</c><00:42:03.920><c> perfect</c><00:42:04.240><c> gift</c> 00:42:04.550 --> 00:42:04.560 align:start position:0% because all every good and perfect gift 00:42:04.560 --> 00:42:05.910 align:start position:0% because all every good and perfect gift comes<00:42:04.800><c> from</c><00:42:05.040><c> him</c> 00:42:05.910 --> 00:42:05.920 align:start position:0% comes from him 00:42:05.920 --> 00:42:07.829 align:start position:0% comes from him and<00:42:06.160><c> i</c><00:42:06.240><c> was</c><00:42:06.480><c> talking</c><00:42:06.720><c> about</c><00:42:06.880><c> the</c><00:42:07.040><c> holidays</c><00:42:07.680><c> as</c> 00:42:07.829 --> 00:42:07.839 align:start position:0% and i was talking about the holidays as 00:42:07.839 --> 00:42:10.309 align:start position:0% and i was talking about the holidays as far<00:42:08.079><c> as</c><00:42:08.560><c> uh</c> 00:42:10.309 --> 00:42:10.319 align:start position:0% far as uh 00:42:10.319 --> 00:42:12.150 align:start position:0% far as uh celebrating<00:42:10.880><c> the</c><00:42:11.040><c> christmas</c><00:42:11.440><c> and</c><00:42:11.599><c> so</c><00:42:11.760><c> forth</c> 00:42:12.150 --> 00:42:12.160 align:start position:0% celebrating the christmas and so forth 00:42:12.160 --> 00:42:14.829 align:start position:0% celebrating the christmas and so forth which<00:42:12.800><c> i'm</c><00:42:12.960><c> not</c><00:42:13.280><c> uh</c> 00:42:14.829 --> 00:42:14.839 align:start position:0% which i'm not uh 00:42:14.839 --> 00:42:17.510 align:start position:0% which i'm not uh dogmatic<00:42:16.160><c> because</c><00:42:16.400><c> i</c><00:42:16.480><c> know</c><00:42:16.640><c> there's</c><00:42:16.960><c> a</c><00:42:17.040><c> lot</c><00:42:17.200><c> of</c> 00:42:17.510 --> 00:42:17.520 align:start position:0% dogmatic because i know there's a lot of 00:42:17.520 --> 00:42:19.109 align:start position:0% dogmatic because i know there's a lot of there's<00:42:17.760><c> a</c><00:42:17.839><c> few</c><00:42:18.000><c> brothers</c><00:42:18.400><c> and</c><00:42:18.480><c> sisters</c><00:42:18.880><c> that</c> 00:42:19.109 --> 00:42:19.119 align:start position:0% there's a few brothers and sisters that 00:42:19.119 --> 00:42:20.630 align:start position:0% there's a few brothers and sisters that have<00:42:19.839><c> uh</c> 00:42:20.630 --> 00:42:20.640 align:start position:0% have uh 00:42:20.640 --> 00:42:23.589 align:start position:0% have uh uh<00:42:20.960><c> trees</c><00:42:21.440><c> in</c><00:42:21.520><c> their</c><00:42:21.680><c> house</c><00:42:22.000><c> and</c><00:42:22.160><c> so</c><00:42:22.400><c> forth</c><00:42:23.040><c> uh</c> 00:42:23.589 --> 00:42:23.599 align:start position:0% uh trees in their house and so forth uh 00:42:23.599 --> 00:42:25.670 align:start position:0% uh trees in their house and so forth uh and<00:42:23.839><c> but</c><00:42:24.319><c> but</c><00:42:24.560><c> i</c><00:42:24.720><c> know</c><00:42:24.960><c> they</c><00:42:25.119><c> don't</c><00:42:25.280><c> believe</c><00:42:25.520><c> in</c> 00:42:25.670 --> 00:42:25.680 align:start position:0% and but but i know they don't believe in 00:42:25.680 --> 00:42:27.910 align:start position:0% and but but i know they don't believe in saint<00:42:25.920><c> nicholas</c><00:42:26.560><c> i</c><00:42:26.720><c> know</c><00:42:26.960><c> that</c> 00:42:27.910 --> 00:42:27.920 align:start position:0% saint nicholas i know that 00:42:27.920 --> 00:42:29.349 align:start position:0% saint nicholas i know that and<00:42:28.160><c> i'd</c><00:42:28.319><c> like</c><00:42:28.480><c> to</c><00:42:28.640><c> tell</c><00:42:28.800><c> you</c><00:42:28.880><c> a</c><00:42:29.040><c> little</c> 00:42:29.349 --> 00:42:29.359 align:start position:0% and i'd like to tell you a little 00:42:29.359 --> 00:42:31.270 align:start position:0% and i'd like to tell you a little incident<00:42:29.839><c> about</c><00:42:30.160><c> that</c><00:42:30.400><c> too</c> 00:42:31.270 --> 00:42:31.280 align:start position:0% incident about that too 00:42:31.280 --> 00:42:33.750 align:start position:0% incident about that too and<00:42:31.520><c> that</c><00:42:31.839><c> children</c> 00:42:33.750 --> 00:42:33.760 align:start position:0% and that children 00:42:33.760 --> 00:42:35.670 align:start position:0% and that children that<00:42:34.000><c> they</c><00:42:34.319><c> noticed</c><00:42:34.800><c> things</c> 00:42:35.670 --> 00:42:35.680 align:start position:0% that they noticed things 00:42:35.680 --> 00:42:38.230 align:start position:0% that they noticed things because<00:42:36.000><c> i</c><00:42:36.319><c> this</c><00:42:36.560><c> happened</c><00:42:36.880><c> up</c><00:42:37.119><c> in</c><00:42:37.280><c> the</c><00:42:37.760><c> clinic</c> 00:42:38.230 --> 00:42:38.240 align:start position:0% because i this happened up in the clinic 00:42:38.240 --> 00:42:40.390 align:start position:0% because i this happened up in the clinic in<00:42:38.319><c> new</c><00:42:38.560><c> ham</c><00:42:39.119><c> new</c><00:42:39.359><c> hampshire</c><00:42:40.000><c> and</c><00:42:40.160><c> to</c><00:42:40.240><c> make</c><00:42:40.400><c> a</c> 00:42:40.390 --> 00:42:40.400 align:start position:0% in new ham new hampshire and to make a 00:42:40.400 --> 00:42:43.349 align:start position:0% in new ham new hampshire and to make a long<00:42:40.640><c> story</c><00:42:40.880><c> short</c><00:42:41.599><c> uh</c> 00:42:43.349 --> 00:42:43.359 align:start position:0% long story short uh 00:42:43.359 --> 00:42:46.230 align:start position:0% long story short uh that<00:42:43.599><c> was</c><00:42:43.839><c> assisted</c><00:42:44.480><c> that</c><00:42:44.800><c> um</c> 00:42:46.230 --> 00:42:46.240 align:start position:0% that was assisted that um 00:42:46.240 --> 00:42:48.390 align:start position:0% that was assisted that um in<00:42:46.400><c> fact</c><00:42:46.720><c> it</c><00:42:46.800><c> was</c><00:42:46.960><c> during</c><00:42:47.200><c> the</c><00:42:47.280><c> winter</c><00:42:47.680><c> time</c> 00:42:48.390 --> 00:42:48.400 align:start position:0% in fact it was during the winter time 00:42:48.400 --> 00:42:50.390 align:start position:0% in fact it was during the winter time and<00:42:48.560><c> nobody</c><00:42:48.960><c> could</c><00:42:49.119><c> get</c><00:42:49.359><c> out</c> 00:42:50.390 --> 00:42:50.400 align:start position:0% and nobody could get out 00:42:50.400 --> 00:42:52.790 align:start position:0% and nobody could get out and<00:42:50.640><c> so</c><00:42:50.880><c> she</c><00:42:51.119><c> invited</c><00:42:51.680><c> the</c><00:42:52.319><c> breaking</c><00:42:52.640><c> the</c> 00:42:52.790 --> 00:42:52.800 align:start position:0% and so she invited the breaking the 00:42:52.800 --> 00:42:55.030 align:start position:0% and so she invited the breaking the bread<00:42:53.599><c> to</c><00:42:53.760><c> the</c><00:42:53.920><c> ones</c><00:42:54.160><c> that</c><00:42:54.240><c> were</c><00:42:54.480><c> close</c><00:42:54.880><c> that</c> 00:42:55.030 --> 00:42:55.040 align:start position:0% bread to the ones that were close that 00:42:55.040 --> 00:42:56.870 align:start position:0% bread to the ones that were close that could<00:42:55.200><c> get</c><00:42:55.359><c> to</c><00:42:55.599><c> her</c><00:42:55.760><c> house</c> 00:42:56.870 --> 00:42:56.880 align:start position:0% could get to her house 00:42:56.880 --> 00:42:58.950 align:start position:0% could get to her house and<00:42:56.960><c> there</c><00:42:57.200><c> was</c><00:42:57.440><c> a</c><00:42:57.520><c> brother</c><00:42:57.920><c> that</c><00:42:58.240><c> said</c><00:42:58.480><c> no</c><00:42:58.800><c> i'm</c> 00:42:58.950 --> 00:42:58.960 align:start position:0% and there was a brother that said no i'm 00:42:58.960 --> 00:43:00.470 align:start position:0% and there was a brother that said no i'm not<00:42:59.200><c> going</c><00:42:59.440><c> to</c><00:42:59.520><c> your</c><00:42:59.680><c> house</c><00:42:59.920><c> cause</c><00:43:00.160><c> you</c><00:43:00.240><c> got</c><00:43:00.400><c> a</c> 00:43:00.470 --> 00:43:00.480 align:start position:0% not going to your house cause you got a 00:43:00.480 --> 00:43:02.550 align:start position:0% not going to your house cause you got a christmas<00:43:00.960><c> tree</c><00:43:01.200><c> out</c> 00:43:02.550 --> 00:43:02.560 align:start position:0% christmas tree out 00:43:02.560 --> 00:43:05.109 align:start position:0% christmas tree out and<00:43:02.800><c> i</c><00:43:02.960><c> don't</c><00:43:03.119><c> believe</c><00:43:03.440><c> in</c><00:43:03.599><c> christmas</c> 00:43:05.109 --> 00:43:05.119 align:start position:0% and i don't believe in christmas 00:43:05.119 --> 00:43:05.910 align:start position:0% and i don't believe in christmas and 00:43:05.910 --> 00:43:05.920 align:start position:0% and 00:43:05.920 --> 00:43:09.430 align:start position:0% and the<00:43:06.319><c> the</c><00:43:06.880><c> sisters</c><00:43:07.280><c> that</c><00:43:07.520><c> invited</c><00:43:08.160><c> everybody</c> 00:43:09.430 --> 00:43:09.440 align:start position:0% the the sisters that invited everybody 00:43:09.440 --> 00:43:11.109 align:start position:0% the the sisters that invited everybody daughter<00:43:10.240><c> uh</c> 00:43:11.109 --> 00:43:11.119 align:start position:0% daughter uh 00:43:11.119 --> 00:43:13.510 align:start position:0% daughter uh in<00:43:11.359><c> fact</c><00:43:11.599><c> the</c><00:43:11.680><c> mother</c><00:43:12.240><c> was</c><00:43:12.640><c> very</c><00:43:12.960><c> upset</c><00:43:13.359><c> she</c> 00:43:13.510 --> 00:43:13.520 align:start position:0% in fact the mother was very upset she 00:43:13.520 --> 00:43:16.470 align:start position:0% in fact the mother was very upset she was<00:43:13.680><c> crying</c><00:43:14.480><c> in</c><00:43:14.720><c> fact</c><00:43:15.040><c> uh</c><00:43:15.680><c> she</c><00:43:15.839><c> was</c><00:43:16.000><c> talking</c><00:43:16.319><c> to</c> 00:43:16.470 --> 00:43:16.480 align:start position:0% was crying in fact uh she was talking to 00:43:16.480 --> 00:43:18.069 align:start position:0% was crying in fact uh she was talking to me<00:43:16.640><c> and</c><00:43:16.800><c> called</c><00:43:17.040><c> me</c><00:43:17.200><c> up</c><00:43:17.359><c> and</c><00:43:17.520><c> asked</c><00:43:17.760><c> me</c><00:43:17.920><c> what</c> 00:43:18.069 --> 00:43:18.079 align:start position:0% me and called me up and asked me what 00:43:18.079 --> 00:43:20.069 align:start position:0% me and called me up and asked me what she<00:43:18.240><c> should</c><00:43:18.480><c> do</c> 00:43:20.069 --> 00:43:20.079 align:start position:0% she should do 00:43:20.079 --> 00:43:22.309 align:start position:0% she should do in<00:43:20.240><c> fact</c><00:43:20.480><c> i</c><00:43:20.640><c> was</c><00:43:20.800><c> there</c><00:43:21.119><c> and</c><00:43:21.599><c> before</c><00:43:22.000><c> i</c><00:43:22.079><c> could</c> 00:43:22.309 --> 00:43:22.319 align:start position:0% in fact i was there and before i could 00:43:22.319 --> 00:43:23.589 align:start position:0% in fact i was there and before i could say<00:43:22.560><c> anything</c> 00:43:23.589 --> 00:43:23.599 align:start position:0% say anything 00:43:23.599 --> 00:43:27.030 align:start position:0% say anything her<00:43:23.920><c> daughter</c><00:43:24.319><c> said</c><00:43:24.960><c> mom</c><00:43:26.160><c> if</c><00:43:26.400><c> brother</c><00:43:26.800><c> if</c> 00:43:27.030 --> 00:43:27.040 align:start position:0% her daughter said mom if brother if 00:43:27.040 --> 00:43:29.510 align:start position:0% her daughter said mom if brother if uncle<00:43:27.359><c> so-and-so</c><00:43:28.000><c> doesn't</c><00:43:28.800><c> uh</c><00:43:29.280><c> want</c><00:43:29.440><c> to</c> 00:43:29.510 --> 00:43:29.520 align:start position:0% uncle so-and-so doesn't uh want to 00:43:29.520 --> 00:43:31.030 align:start position:0% uncle so-and-so doesn't uh want to celebrate<00:43:30.079><c> he</c><00:43:30.160><c> doesn't</c><00:43:30.400><c> want</c><00:43:30.480><c> to</c><00:43:30.560><c> come</c><00:43:30.800><c> here</c> 00:43:31.030 --> 00:43:31.040 align:start position:0% celebrate he doesn't want to come here 00:43:31.040 --> 00:43:33.349 align:start position:0% celebrate he doesn't want to come here because<00:43:31.599><c> you</c><00:43:31.760><c> got</c><00:43:31.920><c> the</c><00:43:32.079><c> christmas</c><00:43:32.480><c> tree</c> 00:43:33.349 --> 00:43:33.359 align:start position:0% because you got the christmas tree 00:43:33.359 --> 00:43:34.630 align:start position:0% because you got the christmas tree she<00:43:33.520><c> says</c><00:43:33.760><c> why</c><00:43:33.920><c> don't</c><00:43:34.079><c> you</c><00:43:34.240><c> take</c><00:43:34.480><c> the</c> 00:43:34.630 --> 00:43:34.640 align:start position:0% she says why don't you take the 00:43:34.640 --> 00:43:36.870 align:start position:0% she says why don't you take the christmas<00:43:35.040><c> tree</c><00:43:35.359><c> down</c><00:43:36.240><c> and</c><00:43:36.319><c> then</c><00:43:36.560><c> when</c><00:43:36.720><c> he</c> 00:43:36.870 --> 00:43:36.880 align:start position:0% christmas tree down and then when he 00:43:36.880 --> 00:43:40.390 align:start position:0% christmas tree down and then when he leaves<00:43:37.200><c> you</c><00:43:37.280><c> can</c><00:43:37.440><c> put</c><00:43:37.599><c> it</c><00:43:37.760><c> back</c><00:43:38.000><c> up</c> 00:43:40.390 --> 00:43:40.400 align:start position:0% leaves you can put it back up 00:43:40.400 --> 00:43:43.589 align:start position:0% leaves you can put it back up and<00:43:40.640><c> i</c><00:43:40.720><c> thought</c><00:43:40.960><c> that</c><00:43:41.119><c> was</c><00:43:41.280><c> really</c><00:43:41.599><c> neat</c> 00:43:43.589 --> 00:43:43.599 align:start position:0% and i thought that was really neat 00:43:43.599 --> 00:43:45.829 align:start position:0% and i thought that was really neat and<00:43:43.760><c> that's</c><00:43:44.079><c> what</c><00:43:44.240><c> she</c><00:43:44.480><c> did</c><00:43:45.200><c> and</c><00:43:45.359><c> everything</c> 00:43:45.829 --> 00:43:45.839 align:start position:0% and that's what she did and everything 00:43:45.839 --> 00:43:47.430 align:start position:0% and that's what she did and everything worked<00:43:46.160><c> out</c><00:43:46.319><c> all</c><00:43:46.480><c> right</c> 00:43:47.430 --> 00:43:47.440 align:start position:0% worked out all right 00:43:47.440 --> 00:43:49.270 align:start position:0% worked out all right for<00:43:47.599><c> my</c><00:43:47.839><c> little</c><00:43:48.079><c> daughter</c><00:43:48.400><c> and</c><00:43:48.560><c> i</c><00:43:48.640><c> think</c><00:43:49.119><c> her</c> 00:43:49.270 --> 00:43:49.280 align:start position:0% for my little daughter and i think her 00:43:49.280 --> 00:43:50.630 align:start position:0% for my little daughter and i think her daughter<00:43:49.760><c> i</c><00:43:49.839><c> think</c><00:43:50.000><c> she</c><00:43:50.160><c> must</c><00:43:50.400><c> have</c><00:43:50.480><c> been</c> 00:43:50.630 --> 00:43:50.640 align:start position:0% daughter i think she must have been 00:43:50.640 --> 00:43:54.390 align:start position:0% daughter i think she must have been around<00:43:50.880><c> about</c><00:43:51.040><c> 10</c><00:43:51.200><c> or</c><00:43:51.359><c> 11</c><00:43:51.680><c> years</c><00:43:51.920><c> old</c> 00:43:54.390 --> 00:43:54.400 align:start position:0% around about 10 or 11 years old 00:43:54.400 --> 00:43:56.950 align:start position:0% around about 10 or 11 years old she<00:43:54.880><c> must</c><00:43:55.119><c> have</c><00:43:55.200><c> read</c><00:43:55.359><c> the</c><00:43:55.440><c> bible</c><00:43:55.760><c> verses</c><00:43:56.240><c> or</c> 00:43:56.950 --> 00:43:56.960 align:start position:0% she must have read the bible verses or 00:43:56.960 --> 00:43:58.390 align:start position:0% she must have read the bible verses or um<00:43:57.520><c> you</c><00:43:57.599><c> know</c> 00:43:58.390 --> 00:43:58.400 align:start position:0% um you know 00:43:58.400 --> 00:44:00.630 align:start position:0% um you know peter's<00:43:58.880><c> comments</c><00:43:59.359><c> or</c><00:43:59.680><c> say</c><00:43:59.920><c> paul's</c><00:44:00.240><c> comments</c> 00:44:00.630 --> 00:44:00.640 align:start position:0% peter's comments or say paul's comments 00:44:00.640 --> 00:44:03.510 align:start position:0% peter's comments or say paul's comments about<00:44:00.960><c> um</c><00:44:01.520><c> you</c><00:44:01.599><c> know</c><00:44:01.760><c> me</c><00:44:02.000><c> offered</c><00:44:02.319><c> titles</c><00:44:03.280><c> now</c> 00:44:03.510 --> 00:44:03.520 align:start position:0% about um you know me offered titles now 00:44:03.520 --> 00:44:05.109 align:start position:0% about um you know me offered titles now that<00:44:03.680><c> kind</c><00:44:03.760><c> of</c><00:44:03.839><c> reminds</c><00:44:04.240><c> me</c><00:44:04.319><c> of</c><00:44:04.480><c> a</c><00:44:04.800><c> definitely</c> 00:44:05.109 --> 00:44:05.119 align:start position:0% that kind of reminds me of a definitely 00:44:05.119 --> 00:44:07.910 align:start position:0% that kind of reminds me of a definitely distinct<00:44:05.520><c> parallel</c><00:44:06.000><c> to</c><00:44:06.240><c> that</c> 00:44:07.910 --> 00:44:07.920 align:start position:0% distinct parallel to that 00:44:07.920 --> 00:44:11.109 align:start position:0% distinct parallel to that and<00:44:08.560><c> and</c><00:44:08.800><c> and</c><00:44:09.040><c> appreciate</c> 00:44:11.109 --> 00:44:11.119 align:start position:0% and and and appreciate 00:44:11.119 --> 00:44:14.150 align:start position:0% and and and appreciate you<00:44:11.280><c> sharing</c><00:44:11.839><c> both</c><00:44:12.160><c> of</c><00:44:12.240><c> those</c><00:44:12.480><c> stories</c><00:44:13.359><c> um</c><00:44:13.839><c> be</c> 00:44:14.150 --> 00:44:14.160 align:start position:0% you sharing both of those stories um be 00:44:14.160 --> 00:44:16.069 align:start position:0% you sharing both of those stories um be respectful<00:44:14.800><c> i</c><00:44:14.960><c> just</c><00:44:15.119><c> want</c><00:44:15.280><c> to</c><00:44:15.520><c> get</c><00:44:15.680><c> to</c><00:44:15.839><c> one</c> 00:44:16.069 --> 00:44:16.079 align:start position:0% respectful i just want to get to one 00:44:16.079 --> 00:44:18.069 align:start position:0% respectful i just want to get to one point<00:44:16.319><c> that</c><00:44:16.480><c> i</c><00:44:16.560><c> think</c><00:44:16.800><c> is</c><00:44:16.960><c> something</c><00:44:17.280><c> that</c> 00:44:18.069 --> 00:44:18.079 align:start position:0% point that i think is something that 00:44:18.079 --> 00:44:19.190 align:start position:0% point that i think is something that um 00:44:19.190 --> 00:44:19.200 align:start position:0% um 00:44:19.200 --> 00:44:22.069 align:start position:0% um is<00:44:19.599><c> a</c><00:44:19.760><c> huge</c> 00:44:22.069 --> 00:44:22.079 align:start position:0% is a huge 00:44:22.079 --> 00:44:24.790 align:start position:0% is a huge um<00:44:22.480><c> focus</c><00:44:22.800><c> for</c><00:44:22.960><c> me</c><00:44:23.200><c> as</c><00:44:23.520><c> i</c><00:44:23.599><c> was</c> 00:44:24.790 --> 00:44:24.800 align:start position:0% um focus for me as i was 00:44:24.800 --> 00:44:27.589 align:start position:0% um focus for me as i was culminating<00:44:25.440><c> this</c><00:44:25.839><c> these</c><00:44:26.400><c> these</c><00:44:26.720><c> thoughts</c> 00:44:27.589 --> 00:44:27.599 align:start position:0% culminating this these these thoughts 00:44:27.599 --> 00:44:30.390 align:start position:0% culminating this these these thoughts um<00:44:28.240><c> because</c><00:44:28.480><c> it</c><00:44:28.640><c> was</c><00:44:28.960><c> it</c><00:44:29.119><c> was</c><00:44:29.280><c> a</c><00:44:29.760><c> fun</c><00:44:30.000><c> adventure</c> 00:44:30.390 --> 00:44:30.400 align:start position:0% um because it was it was a fun adventure 00:44:30.400 --> 00:44:33.430 align:start position:0% um because it was it was a fun adventure in<00:44:30.560><c> the</c><00:44:30.640><c> study</c><00:44:31.440><c> um</c><00:44:31.839><c> could</c><00:44:32.000><c> go</c><00:44:32.160><c> on</c><00:44:32.400><c> for</c><00:44:32.880><c> forever</c> 00:44:33.430 --> 00:44:33.440 align:start position:0% in the study um could go on for forever 00:44:33.440 --> 00:44:35.190 align:start position:0% in the study um could go on for forever on<00:44:33.520><c> this</c><00:44:33.839><c> this</c><00:44:34.079><c> topic</c> 00:44:35.190 --> 00:44:35.200 align:start position:0% on this this topic 00:44:35.200 --> 00:44:37.829 align:start position:0% on this this topic but<00:44:35.599><c> i</c><00:44:35.680><c> found</c><00:44:36.000><c> it</c><00:44:36.160><c> very</c><00:44:36.560><c> fitting</c> 00:44:37.829 --> 00:44:37.839 align:start position:0% but i found it very fitting 00:44:37.839 --> 00:44:39.270 align:start position:0% but i found it very fitting that 00:44:39.270 --> 00:44:39.280 align:start position:0% that 00:44:39.280 --> 00:44:41.910 align:start position:0% that you<00:44:39.520><c> found</c><00:44:40.079><c> i</c><00:44:40.240><c> found</c><00:44:40.560><c> so</c><00:44:40.880><c> much</c><00:44:41.280><c> about</c><00:44:41.680><c> the</c> 00:44:41.910 --> 00:44:41.920 align:start position:0% you found i found so much about the 00:44:41.920 --> 00:44:44.069 align:start position:0% you found i found so much about the accusal<00:44:42.880><c> influence</c> 00:44:44.069 --> 00:44:44.079 align:start position:0% accusal influence 00:44:44.079 --> 00:44:45.349 align:start position:0% accusal influence of 00:44:45.349 --> 00:44:45.359 align:start position:0% of 00:44:45.359 --> 00:44:46.470 align:start position:0% of um 00:44:46.470 --> 00:44:46.480 align:start position:0% um 00:44:46.480 --> 00:44:48.710 align:start position:0% um a<00:44:46.640><c> young</c><00:44:46.880><c> brother</c><00:44:47.280><c> or</c><00:44:47.440><c> sister</c> 00:44:48.710 --> 00:44:48.720 align:start position:0% a young brother or sister 00:44:48.720 --> 00:44:51.589 align:start position:0% a young brother or sister from<00:44:49.280><c> the</c><00:44:49.440><c> pastoral</c><00:44:50.079><c> epistles</c> 00:44:51.589 --> 00:44:51.599 align:start position:0% from the pastoral epistles 00:44:51.599 --> 00:44:53.589 align:start position:0% from the pastoral epistles uh<00:44:51.839><c> paul's</c><00:44:52.240><c> writings</c><00:44:52.640><c> to</c><00:44:52.720><c> young</c><00:44:52.960><c> timothy</c><00:44:53.440><c> and</c> 00:44:53.589 --> 00:44:53.599 align:start position:0% uh paul's writings to young timothy and 00:44:53.599 --> 00:44:54.790 align:start position:0% uh paul's writings to young timothy and titus 00:44:54.790 --> 00:44:54.800 align:start position:0% titus 00:44:54.800 --> 00:44:57.190 align:start position:0% titus um<00:44:55.359><c> one</c><00:44:55.920><c> a</c><00:44:56.160><c> jew</c> 00:44:57.190 --> 00:44:57.200 align:start position:0% um one a jew 00:44:57.200 --> 00:44:58.390 align:start position:0% um one a jew uh 00:44:58.390 --> 00:44:58.400 align:start position:0% uh 00:44:58.400 --> 00:45:00.630 align:start position:0% uh born<00:44:58.640><c> and</c><00:44:58.800><c> raised</c><00:44:59.200><c> and</c><00:44:59.680><c> raised</c><00:45:00.000><c> you</c><00:45:00.079><c> know</c><00:45:00.240><c> from</c> 00:45:00.630 --> 00:45:00.640 align:start position:0% born and raised and raised you know from 00:45:00.640 --> 00:45:02.470 align:start position:0% born and raised and raised you know from his<00:45:00.880><c> mother</c><00:45:01.200><c> and</c><00:45:01.280><c> his</c><00:45:01.440><c> grandmother</c><00:45:02.000><c> and</c> 00:45:02.470 --> 00:45:02.480 align:start position:0% his mother and his grandmother and 00:45:02.480 --> 00:45:05.670 align:start position:0% his mother and his grandmother and timothy<00:45:03.359><c> and</c><00:45:03.680><c> titus</c><00:45:04.079><c> a</c><00:45:04.160><c> true</c><00:45:04.480><c> gentile</c> 00:45:05.670 --> 00:45:05.680 align:start position:0% timothy and titus a true gentile 00:45:05.680 --> 00:45:08.150 align:start position:0% timothy and titus a true gentile um<00:45:06.240><c> or</c><00:45:06.560><c> timothy</c><00:45:07.040><c> being</c> 00:45:08.150 --> 00:45:08.160 align:start position:0% um or timothy being 00:45:08.160 --> 00:45:10.069 align:start position:0% um or timothy being a<00:45:08.400><c> half</c><00:45:08.640><c> jew</c><00:45:09.280><c> um</c> 00:45:10.069 --> 00:45:10.079 align:start position:0% a half jew um 00:45:10.079 --> 00:45:12.230 align:start position:0% a half jew um and<00:45:10.400><c> titus</c><00:45:10.800><c> a</c><00:45:10.880><c> true</c><00:45:11.119><c> gentile</c> 00:45:12.230 --> 00:45:12.240 align:start position:0% and titus a true gentile 00:45:12.240 --> 00:45:13.510 align:start position:0% and titus a true gentile and 00:45:13.510 --> 00:45:13.520 align:start position:0% and 00:45:13.520 --> 00:45:15.589 align:start position:0% and paul<00:45:13.920><c> taking</c><00:45:14.240><c> both</c><00:45:14.560><c> of</c><00:45:14.640><c> them</c><00:45:14.880><c> and</c><00:45:15.200><c> being</c><00:45:15.440><c> a</c> 00:45:15.589 --> 00:45:15.599 align:start position:0% paul taking both of them and being a 00:45:15.599 --> 00:45:16.950 align:start position:0% paul taking both of them and being a father<00:45:16.000><c> figure</c> 00:45:16.950 --> 00:45:16.960 align:start position:0% father figure 00:45:16.960 --> 00:45:18.630 align:start position:0% father figure spiritually 00:45:18.630 --> 00:45:18.640 align:start position:0% spiritually 00:45:18.640 --> 00:45:19.990 align:start position:0% spiritually to<00:45:18.880><c> them</c> 00:45:19.990 --> 00:45:20.000 align:start position:0% to them 00:45:20.000 --> 00:45:22.069 align:start position:0% to them and<00:45:20.160><c> i</c><00:45:20.240><c> think</c><00:45:20.480><c> it's</c><00:45:20.640><c> it's</c><00:45:20.960><c> it's</c><00:45:21.200><c> very</c> 00:45:22.069 --> 00:45:22.079 align:start position:0% and i think it's it's it's very 00:45:22.079 --> 00:45:24.630 align:start position:0% and i think it's it's it's very um<00:45:22.480><c> telling</c><00:45:22.960><c> that</c><00:45:23.520><c> in</c><00:45:23.680><c> and</c><00:45:23.839><c> of</c><00:45:24.000><c> itself</c><00:45:24.400><c> that</c> 00:45:24.630 --> 00:45:24.640 align:start position:0% um telling that in and of itself that 00:45:24.640 --> 00:45:27.270 align:start position:0% um telling that in and of itself that relationship<00:45:25.440><c> and</c><00:45:25.599><c> paul</c><00:45:25.920><c> calling</c> 00:45:27.270 --> 00:45:27.280 align:start position:0% relationship and paul calling 00:45:27.280 --> 00:45:30.150 align:start position:0% relationship and paul calling uh<00:45:27.599><c> titus</c><00:45:28.240><c> his</c><00:45:28.400><c> brother</c><00:45:28.720><c> in</c><00:45:28.800><c> the</c><00:45:28.960><c> faith</c> 00:45:30.150 --> 00:45:30.160 align:start position:0% uh titus his brother in the faith 00:45:30.160 --> 00:45:33.990 align:start position:0% uh titus his brother in the faith is<00:45:30.560><c> indicative</c><00:45:31.200><c> of</c><00:45:31.520><c> the</c><00:45:31.760><c> ecclesial</c><00:45:32.880><c> family</c> 00:45:33.990 --> 00:45:34.000 align:start position:0% is indicative of the ecclesial family 00:45:34.000 --> 00:45:35.670 align:start position:0% is indicative of the ecclesial family that<00:45:34.400><c> that</c><00:45:34.640><c> we</c><00:45:34.880><c> have</c> 00:45:35.670 --> 00:45:35.680 align:start position:0% that that we have 00:45:35.680 --> 00:45:37.910 align:start position:0% that that we have and<00:45:36.000><c> and</c><00:45:36.240><c> i</c><00:45:36.319><c> think</c><00:45:36.640><c> parenting</c><00:45:37.599><c> as</c><00:45:37.760><c> it's</c> 00:45:37.910 --> 00:45:37.920 align:start position:0% and and i think parenting as it's 00:45:37.920 --> 00:45:38.870 align:start position:0% and and i think parenting as it's mentioned 00:45:38.870 --> 00:45:38.880 align:start position:0% mentioned 00:45:38.880 --> 00:45:41.270 align:start position:0% mentioned um<00:45:39.680><c> as</c><00:45:39.920><c> it's</c><00:45:40.079><c> mentioned</c><00:45:40.480><c> here</c> 00:45:41.270 --> 00:45:41.280 align:start position:0% um as it's mentioned here 00:45:41.280 --> 00:45:43.270 align:start position:0% um as it's mentioned here that<00:45:41.440><c> you</c><00:45:41.599><c> know</c><00:45:42.000><c> it</c><00:45:42.240><c> starts</c><00:45:42.560><c> in</c><00:45:42.640><c> the</c><00:45:42.800><c> home</c> 00:45:43.270 --> 00:45:43.280 align:start position:0% that you know it starts in the home 00:45:43.280 --> 00:45:44.870 align:start position:0% that you know it starts in the home right<00:45:43.920><c> uh</c> 00:45:44.870 --> 00:45:44.880 align:start position:0% right uh 00:45:44.880 --> 00:45:46.950 align:start position:0% right uh let<00:45:45.040><c> them</c><00:45:45.359><c> learn</c><00:45:45.680><c> first</c><00:45:46.000><c> to</c><00:45:46.079><c> show</c><00:45:46.319><c> piety</c><00:45:46.800><c> at</c> 00:45:46.950 --> 00:45:46.960 align:start position:0% let them learn first to show piety at 00:45:46.960 --> 00:45:49.750 align:start position:0% let them learn first to show piety at home<00:45:47.359><c> they're</c><00:45:47.599><c> quite</c><00:45:48.000><c> uh</c><00:45:48.480><c> their</c><00:45:48.720><c> parents</c><00:45:49.599><c> that</c> 00:45:49.750 --> 00:45:49.760 align:start position:0% home they're quite uh their parents that 00:45:49.760 --> 00:45:51.670 align:start position:0% home they're quite uh their parents that is<00:45:49.920><c> good</c><00:45:50.079><c> and</c><00:45:50.160><c> acceptable</c><00:45:50.560><c> before</c><00:45:50.960><c> god</c><00:45:51.359><c> but</c><00:45:51.599><c> it</c> 00:45:51.670 --> 00:45:51.680 align:start position:0% is good and acceptable before god but it 00:45:51.680 --> 00:45:53.670 align:start position:0% is good and acceptable before god but it does<00:45:51.839><c> not</c><00:45:52.560><c> um</c><00:45:52.880><c> this</c> 00:45:53.670 --> 00:45:53.680 align:start position:0% does not um this 00:45:53.680 --> 00:45:55.750 align:start position:0% does not um this level<00:45:53.920><c> of</c><00:45:54.079><c> family</c><00:45:54.880><c> and</c><00:45:55.040><c> parenting</c><00:45:55.440><c> does</c><00:45:55.599><c> not</c> 00:45:55.750 --> 00:45:55.760 align:start position:0% level of family and parenting does not 00:45:55.760 --> 00:45:57.910 align:start position:0% level of family and parenting does not stop<00:45:56.160><c> and</c><00:45:56.640><c> certainly</c><00:45:57.040><c> it's</c><00:45:57.520><c> it's</c><00:45:57.680><c> the</c> 00:45:57.910 --> 00:45:57.920 align:start position:0% stop and certainly it's it's the 00:45:57.920 --> 00:46:02.950 align:start position:0% stop and certainly it's it's the epicenter<00:45:58.880><c> of</c><00:45:59.359><c> family</c><00:46:00.319><c> but</c><00:46:00.560><c> i</c><00:46:00.800><c> can</c><00:46:01.040><c> remember</c> 00:46:02.950 --> 00:46:02.960 align:start position:0% epicenter of family but i can remember 00:46:02.960 --> 00:46:04.950 align:start position:0% epicenter of family but i can remember growing<00:46:03.359><c> up</c><00:46:03.920><c> and</c><00:46:04.079><c> there</c><00:46:04.240><c> were</c><00:46:04.400><c> times</c><00:46:04.720><c> in</c><00:46:04.800><c> my</c> 00:46:04.950 --> 00:46:04.960 align:start position:0% growing up and there were times in my 00:46:04.960 --> 00:46:07.430 align:start position:0% growing up and there were times in my life<00:46:05.200><c> that</c><00:46:05.920><c> i</c><00:46:06.079><c> didn't</c><00:46:06.319><c> want</c><00:46:06.480><c> to</c><00:46:06.640><c> hear</c><00:46:06.960><c> anything</c> 00:46:07.430 --> 00:46:07.440 align:start position:0% life that i didn't want to hear anything 00:46:07.440 --> 00:46:09.190 align:start position:0% life that i didn't want to hear anything that<00:46:07.599><c> my</c><00:46:07.760><c> parents</c><00:46:08.160><c> had</c><00:46:08.319><c> to</c><00:46:08.480><c> say</c><00:46:08.880><c> you</c><00:46:08.960><c> know</c><00:46:09.119><c> in</c> 00:46:09.190 --> 00:46:09.200 align:start position:0% that my parents had to say you know in 00:46:09.200 --> 00:46:12.069 align:start position:0% that my parents had to say you know in those<00:46:09.359><c> rebellious</c><00:46:10.000><c> teenage</c><00:46:10.480><c> years</c><00:46:11.200><c> but</c><00:46:11.680><c> if</c><00:46:11.920><c> i</c> 00:46:12.069 --> 00:46:12.079 align:start position:0% those rebellious teenage years but if i 00:46:12.079 --> 00:46:14.390 align:start position:0% those rebellious teenage years but if i had<00:46:12.240><c> an</c><00:46:12.319><c> older</c><00:46:12.560><c> brother</c><00:46:12.880><c> or</c><00:46:13.040><c> sister</c><00:46:14.000><c> that</c><00:46:14.240><c> has</c> 00:46:14.390 --> 00:46:14.400 align:start position:0% had an older brother or sister that has 00:46:14.400 --> 00:46:15.990 align:start position:0% had an older brother or sister that has known<00:46:14.640><c> me</c><00:46:14.720><c> forever</c><00:46:15.280><c> they</c><00:46:15.359><c> had</c><00:46:15.520><c> to</c><00:46:15.599><c> sit</c><00:46:15.760><c> down</c> 00:46:15.990 --> 00:46:16.000 align:start position:0% known me forever they had to sit down 00:46:16.000 --> 00:46:17.750 align:start position:0% known me forever they had to sit down you<00:46:16.079><c> know</c><00:46:16.480><c> check</c><00:46:16.800><c> in</c><00:46:16.960><c> on</c><00:46:17.119><c> me</c><00:46:17.359><c> and</c><00:46:17.440><c> really</c><00:46:17.680><c> have</c> 00:46:17.750 --> 00:46:17.760 align:start position:0% you know check in on me and really have 00:46:17.760 --> 00:46:19.349 align:start position:0% you know check in on me and really have a<00:46:17.920><c> conversation</c><00:46:18.480><c> with</c><00:46:18.640><c> me</c> 00:46:19.349 --> 00:46:19.359 align:start position:0% a conversation with me 00:46:19.359 --> 00:46:21.349 align:start position:0% a conversation with me i<00:46:19.599><c> had</c><00:46:19.839><c> i</c><00:46:20.079><c> shut</c><00:46:20.240><c> up</c><00:46:20.319><c> tonight</c><00:46:20.640><c> i</c><00:46:20.880><c> failed</c><00:46:21.200><c> to</c> 00:46:21.349 --> 00:46:21.359 align:start position:0% i had i shut up tonight i failed to 00:46:21.359 --> 00:46:22.230 align:start position:0% i had i shut up tonight i failed to listen 00:46:22.230 --> 00:46:22.240 align:start position:0% listen 00:46:22.240 --> 00:46:23.510 align:start position:0% listen because<00:46:22.560><c> there</c><00:46:22.720><c> was</c> 00:46:23.510 --> 00:46:23.520 align:start position:0% because there was 00:46:23.520 --> 00:46:26.069 align:start position:0% because there was um<00:46:24.079><c> that</c><00:46:24.400><c> bond</c><00:46:24.800><c> that</c><00:46:24.960><c> was</c><00:46:25.119><c> not</c><00:46:25.280><c> just</c><00:46:25.440><c> oh</c><00:46:25.599><c> that's</c> 00:46:26.069 --> 00:46:26.079 align:start position:0% um that bond that was not just oh that's 00:46:26.079 --> 00:46:27.109 align:start position:0% um that bond that was not just oh that's you<00:46:26.160><c> know</c> 00:46:27.109 --> 00:46:27.119 align:start position:0% you know 00:46:27.119 --> 00:46:29.190 align:start position:0% you know that's<00:46:27.359><c> that's</c><00:46:27.599><c> uncle</c><00:46:27.920><c> paul</c><00:46:28.720><c> that's</c><00:46:28.960><c> not</c> 00:46:29.190 --> 00:46:29.200 align:start position:0% that's that's uncle paul that's not 00:46:29.200 --> 00:46:31.829 align:start position:0% that's that's uncle paul that's not norma<00:46:29.760><c> you</c><00:46:29.839><c> know</c><00:46:30.319><c> it's</c><00:46:30.480><c> it</c><00:46:30.640><c> was</c><00:46:30.880><c> it</c><00:46:30.960><c> was</c><00:46:31.680><c> there</c> 00:46:31.829 --> 00:46:31.839 align:start position:0% norma you know it's it was it was there 00:46:31.839 --> 00:46:34.470 align:start position:0% norma you know it's it was it was there was<00:46:32.079><c> an</c><00:46:32.240><c> absolute</c><00:46:32.720><c> respect</c><00:46:33.359><c> there</c><00:46:34.000><c> and</c><00:46:34.160><c> i</c> 00:46:34.470 --> 00:46:34.480 align:start position:0% was an absolute respect there and i 00:46:34.480 --> 00:46:37.910 align:start position:0% was an absolute respect there and i think<00:46:34.880><c> um</c><00:46:35.599><c> that</c><00:46:35.920><c> is</c> 00:46:37.910 --> 00:46:37.920 align:start position:0% think um that is 00:46:37.920 --> 00:46:39.109 align:start position:0% think um that is the 00:46:39.109 --> 00:46:39.119 align:start position:0% the 00:46:39.119 --> 00:46:41.030 align:start position:0% the the<00:46:39.359><c> point</c><00:46:39.599><c> i</c><00:46:39.680><c> want</c><00:46:39.839><c> to</c><00:46:40.000><c> make</c><00:46:40.240><c> before</c><00:46:40.720><c> before</c> 00:46:41.030 --> 00:46:41.040 align:start position:0% the point i want to make before before 00:46:41.040 --> 00:46:42.630 align:start position:0% the point i want to make before before we<00:46:41.280><c> we</c><00:46:41.440><c> hit</c><00:46:41.680><c> time</c> 00:46:42.630 --> 00:46:42.640 align:start position:0% we we hit time 00:46:42.640 --> 00:46:45.109 align:start position:0% we we hit time is<00:46:42.800><c> that</c> 00:46:45.109 --> 00:46:45.119 align:start position:0% 00:46:45.119 --> 00:46:47.990 align:start position:0% the<00:46:45.760><c> family</c><00:46:46.079><c> dynamic</c><00:46:46.640><c> by</c><00:46:46.960><c> no</c><00:46:47.280><c> means</c><00:46:47.839><c> is</c> 00:46:47.990 --> 00:46:48.000 align:start position:0% the family dynamic by no means is 00:46:48.000 --> 00:46:49.670 align:start position:0% the family dynamic by no means is regulated<00:46:48.560><c> to</c><00:46:48.720><c> the</c><00:46:48.880><c> four</c> 00:46:49.670 --> 00:46:49.680 align:start position:0% regulated to the four 00:46:49.680 --> 00:46:52.230 align:start position:0% regulated to the four you<00:46:49.760><c> know</c><00:46:50.160><c> walls</c><00:46:50.480><c> of</c><00:46:50.640><c> a</c><00:46:50.800><c> house</c><00:46:51.440><c> and</c><00:46:51.599><c> that</c><00:46:51.839><c> it</c><00:46:52.079><c> is</c> 00:46:52.230 --> 00:46:52.240 align:start position:0% you know walls of a house and that it is 00:46:52.240 --> 00:46:54.230 align:start position:0% you know walls of a house and that it is a<00:46:52.319><c> truly</c><00:46:52.560><c> an</c><00:46:52.720><c> ecclesial</c><00:46:53.280><c> family</c> 00:46:54.230 --> 00:46:54.240 align:start position:0% a truly an ecclesial family 00:46:54.240 --> 00:46:56.630 align:start position:0% a truly an ecclesial family and<00:46:54.640><c> whether</c><00:46:54.880><c> you</c><00:46:55.040><c> have</c><00:46:55.200><c> children</c><00:46:55.599><c> or</c><00:46:55.680><c> not</c> 00:46:56.630 --> 00:46:56.640 align:start position:0% and whether you have children or not 00:46:56.640 --> 00:46:59.190 align:start position:0% and whether you have children or not do<00:46:56.880><c> not</c><00:46:57.119><c> discredit</c><00:46:57.760><c> the</c><00:46:58.000><c> impact</c> 00:46:59.190 --> 00:46:59.200 align:start position:0% do not discredit the impact 00:46:59.200 --> 00:47:01.910 align:start position:0% do not discredit the impact that<00:46:59.440><c> each</c><00:46:59.680><c> and</c><00:46:59.839><c> every</c><00:47:00.079><c> one</c><00:47:00.240><c> of</c><00:47:00.400><c> us</c><00:47:00.560><c> can</c><00:47:00.720><c> have</c> 00:47:01.910 --> 00:47:01.920 align:start position:0% that each and every one of us can have 00:47:01.920 --> 00:47:02.870 align:start position:0% that each and every one of us can have on 00:47:02.870 --> 00:47:02.880 align:start position:0% on 00:47:02.880 --> 00:47:05.190 align:start position:0% on both<00:47:03.520><c> younger</c><00:47:03.920><c> children</c> 00:47:05.190 --> 00:47:05.200 align:start position:0% both younger children 00:47:05.200 --> 00:47:08.309 align:start position:0% both younger children and<00:47:05.920><c> both</c><00:47:06.319><c> creating</c><00:47:06.640><c> relationships</c><00:47:07.920><c> with</c> 00:47:08.309 --> 00:47:08.319 align:start position:0% and both creating relationships with 00:47:08.319 --> 00:47:10.710 align:start position:0% and both creating relationships with older<00:47:08.720><c> collegial</c><00:47:09.119><c> men</c> 00:47:10.710 --> 00:47:10.720 align:start position:0% older collegial men 00:47:10.720 --> 00:47:12.470 align:start position:0% older collegial men this<00:47:11.119><c> you</c><00:47:11.280><c> know</c><00:47:11.599><c> i</c><00:47:11.680><c> think</c><00:47:11.920><c> some</c><00:47:12.079><c> of</c><00:47:12.160><c> these</c> 00:47:12.470 --> 00:47:12.480 align:start position:0% this you know i think some of these 00:47:12.480 --> 00:47:15.270 align:start position:0% this you know i think some of these these<00:47:12.720><c> verses</c><00:47:13.280><c> really</c><00:47:13.680><c> highlight</c><00:47:14.240><c> that</c> 00:47:15.270 --> 00:47:15.280 align:start position:0% these verses really highlight that 00:47:15.280 --> 00:47:17.030 align:start position:0% these verses really highlight that and<00:47:15.440><c> i</c><00:47:15.520><c> remember</c> 00:47:17.030 --> 00:47:17.040 align:start position:0% and i remember 00:47:17.040 --> 00:47:19.270 align:start position:0% and i remember my<00:47:17.200><c> dad</c><00:47:17.440><c> telling</c><00:47:17.680><c> me</c><00:47:17.839><c> there</c><00:47:17.920><c> was</c><00:47:18.079><c> a</c><00:47:18.160><c> time</c><00:47:18.480><c> when</c> 00:47:19.270 --> 00:47:19.280 align:start position:0% my dad telling me there was a time when 00:47:19.280 --> 00:47:21.349 align:start position:0% my dad telling me there was a time when i<00:47:19.599><c> would</c><00:47:19.760><c> refuse</c><00:47:20.319><c> to</c> 00:47:21.349 --> 00:47:21.359 align:start position:0% i would refuse to 00:47:21.359 --> 00:47:24.470 align:start position:0% i would refuse to let<00:47:21.520><c> him</c><00:47:21.680><c> put</c><00:47:21.839><c> on</c><00:47:22.000><c> my</c><00:47:22.640><c> tie</c><00:47:23.440><c> as</c><00:47:23.599><c> a</c><00:47:23.760><c> toddler</c><00:47:24.319><c> and</c> 00:47:24.470 --> 00:47:24.480 align:start position:0% let him put on my tie as a toddler and 00:47:24.480 --> 00:47:26.549 align:start position:0% let him put on my tie as a toddler and i'd<00:47:24.640><c> run</c><00:47:24.880><c> to</c><00:47:25.040><c> uncle</c><00:47:25.280><c> paul</c><00:47:25.520><c> haughton</c> 00:47:26.549 --> 00:47:26.559 align:start position:0% i'd run to uncle paul haughton 00:47:26.559 --> 00:47:28.950 align:start position:0% i'd run to uncle paul haughton and<00:47:26.720><c> insist</c><00:47:27.119><c> that</c><00:47:27.280><c> he</c><00:47:27.520><c> put</c><00:47:27.760><c> on</c><00:47:27.839><c> my</c><00:47:28.079><c> tie</c> 00:47:28.950 --> 00:47:28.960 align:start position:0% and insist that he put on my tie 00:47:28.960 --> 00:47:30.710 align:start position:0% and insist that he put on my tie because<00:47:29.520><c> at</c><00:47:29.680><c> the</c><00:47:29.760><c> time</c><00:47:30.000><c> that</c><00:47:30.160><c> was</c><00:47:30.400><c> that</c><00:47:30.559><c> was</c> 00:47:30.710 --> 00:47:30.720 align:start position:0% because at the time that was that was 00:47:30.720 --> 00:47:31.990 align:start position:0% because at the time that was that was just<00:47:30.880><c> something</c><00:47:31.200><c> that</c> 00:47:31.990 --> 00:47:32.000 align:start position:0% just something that 00:47:32.000 --> 00:47:35.190 align:start position:0% just something that i<00:47:32.240><c> felt</c><00:47:32.480><c> like</c><00:47:33.040><c> he</c><00:47:33.200><c> had</c><00:47:33.359><c> to</c><00:47:33.599><c> do</c> 00:47:35.190 --> 00:47:35.200 align:start position:0% i felt like he had to do 00:47:35.200 --> 00:47:38.390 align:start position:0% i felt like he had to do um<00:47:35.599><c> so</c><00:47:35.760><c> i</c><00:47:36.000><c> welcome</c><00:47:36.480><c> any</c><00:47:36.640><c> stories</c><00:47:37.200><c> or</c><00:47:37.920><c> or</c><00:47:38.160><c> any</c> 00:47:38.390 --> 00:47:38.400 align:start position:0% um so i welcome any stories or or any 00:47:38.400 --> 00:47:40.630 align:start position:0% um so i welcome any stories or or any type<00:47:38.640><c> of</c><00:47:38.800><c> experiences</c><00:47:39.599><c> in</c><00:47:39.760><c> this</c><00:47:40.000><c> regard</c><00:47:40.480><c> as</c> 00:47:40.630 --> 00:47:40.640 align:start position:0% type of experiences in this regard as 00:47:40.640 --> 00:47:41.510 align:start position:0% type of experiences in this regard as well 00:47:41.510 --> 00:47:41.520 align:start position:0% well 00:47:41.520 --> 00:47:42.710 align:start position:0% well um 00:47:42.710 --> 00:47:42.720 align:start position:0% um 00:47:42.720 --> 00:47:45.190 align:start position:0% um one<00:47:42.960><c> more</c> 00:47:45.190 --> 00:47:45.200 align:start position:0% one more 00:47:45.200 --> 00:47:47.270 align:start position:0% one more yes<00:47:45.440><c> brother</c><00:47:45.760><c> richard</c><00:47:46.319><c> i</c><00:47:46.559><c> have</c><00:47:46.720><c> one</c><00:47:46.960><c> more</c><00:47:47.200><c> i</c> 00:47:47.270 --> 00:47:47.280 align:start position:0% yes brother richard i have one more i 00:47:47.280 --> 00:47:48.230 align:start position:0% yes brother richard i have one more i think 00:47:48.230 --> 00:47:48.240 align:start position:0% think 00:47:48.240 --> 00:47:51.109 align:start position:0% think that<00:47:48.400><c> would</c><00:47:48.559><c> be</c><00:47:48.800><c> uh</c><00:47:49.119><c> beneficial</c><00:47:50.000><c> and</c><00:47:50.160><c> that</c><00:47:50.400><c> is</c> 00:47:51.109 --> 00:47:51.119 align:start position:0% that would be uh beneficial and that is 00:47:51.119 --> 00:47:53.030 align:start position:0% that would be uh beneficial and that is i<00:47:51.280><c> remember</c><00:47:51.839><c> one</c><00:47:52.160><c> time</c> 00:47:53.030 --> 00:47:53.040 align:start position:0% i remember one time 00:47:53.040 --> 00:47:54.069 align:start position:0% i remember one time uh 00:47:54.069 --> 00:47:54.079 align:start position:0% uh 00:47:54.079 --> 00:47:57.109 align:start position:0% uh a<00:47:54.559><c> brother</c><00:47:54.880><c> came</c><00:47:55.119><c> up</c><00:47:55.200><c> to</c><00:47:55.359><c> me</c><00:47:55.599><c> and</c><00:47:55.680><c> he</c><00:47:55.920><c> said</c><00:47:56.160><c> uh</c> 00:47:57.109 --> 00:47:57.119 align:start position:0% a brother came up to me and he said uh 00:47:57.119 --> 00:48:01.349 align:start position:0% a brother came up to me and he said uh yeah<00:47:57.359><c> you</c><00:47:57.839><c> i</c><00:47:58.079><c> caused</c><00:47:58.640><c> the</c><00:47:59.200><c> sisters</c><00:47:59.599><c> to</c><00:47:59.760><c> cry</c> 00:48:01.349 --> 00:48:01.359 align:start position:0% yeah you i caused the sisters to cry 00:48:01.359 --> 00:48:04.150 align:start position:0% yeah you i caused the sisters to cry and<00:48:01.760><c> uh</c><00:48:01.920><c> this</c><00:48:02.079><c> was</c><00:48:02.319><c> at</c><00:48:02.400><c> the</c><00:48:02.559><c> cleveland</c> 00:48:04.150 --> 00:48:04.160 align:start position:0% and uh this was at the cleveland 00:48:04.160 --> 00:48:07.510 align:start position:0% and uh this was at the cleveland memorial<00:48:04.720><c> service</c><00:48:06.079><c> and</c><00:48:06.319><c> i</c><00:48:06.559><c> said</c> 00:48:07.510 --> 00:48:07.520 align:start position:0% memorial service and i said 00:48:07.520 --> 00:48:09.349 align:start position:0% memorial service and i said uh<00:48:07.839><c> what</c><00:48:08.000><c> do</c><00:48:08.079><c> you</c><00:48:08.240><c> mean</c> 00:48:09.349 --> 00:48:09.359 align:start position:0% uh what do you mean 00:48:09.359 --> 00:48:10.390 align:start position:0% uh what do you mean and 00:48:10.390 --> 00:48:10.400 align:start position:0% and 00:48:10.400 --> 00:48:13.109 align:start position:0% and he<00:48:10.880><c> he</c><00:48:11.119><c> got</c><00:48:11.280><c> the</c><00:48:11.440><c> details</c><00:48:12.079><c> all</c><00:48:12.319><c> wrong</c><00:48:12.720><c> actually</c> 00:48:13.109 --> 00:48:13.119 align:start position:0% he he got the details all wrong actually 00:48:13.119 --> 00:48:15.030 align:start position:0% he he got the details all wrong actually really 00:48:15.030 --> 00:48:15.040 align:start position:0% really 00:48:15.040 --> 00:48:17.829 align:start position:0% really and<00:48:15.280><c> i</c><00:48:15.520><c> said</c><00:48:15.920><c> no</c><00:48:16.559><c> you're</c><00:48:16.880><c> wrong</c> 00:48:17.829 --> 00:48:17.839 align:start position:0% and i said no you're wrong 00:48:17.839 --> 00:48:19.030 align:start position:0% and i said no you're wrong and<00:48:18.000><c> he</c><00:48:18.240><c> said</c> 00:48:19.030 --> 00:48:19.040 align:start position:0% and he said 00:48:19.040 --> 00:48:21.030 align:start position:0% and he said and<00:48:19.200><c> i</c><00:48:19.280><c> said</c><00:48:19.520><c> no</c><00:48:19.680><c> you're</c><00:48:19.920><c> wrong</c><00:48:20.240><c> brother</c><00:48:20.880><c> i</c> 00:48:21.030 --> 00:48:21.040 align:start position:0% and i said no you're wrong brother i 00:48:21.040 --> 00:48:23.109 align:start position:0% and i said no you're wrong brother i said<00:48:21.280><c> that</c><00:48:21.520><c> that's</c><00:48:21.760><c> not</c><00:48:21.920><c> what</c><00:48:22.160><c> happened</c> 00:48:23.109 --> 00:48:23.119 align:start position:0% said that that's not what happened 00:48:23.119 --> 00:48:25.829 align:start position:0% said that that's not what happened and<00:48:23.359><c> he</c><00:48:23.520><c> said</c><00:48:23.680><c> don't</c><00:48:23.920><c> call</c><00:48:24.160><c> me</c><00:48:24.400><c> your</c><00:48:24.640><c> brother</c> 00:48:25.829 --> 00:48:25.839 align:start position:0% and he said don't call me your brother 00:48:25.839 --> 00:48:28.069 align:start position:0% and he said don't call me your brother and<00:48:26.000><c> he</c><00:48:26.160><c> says</c><00:48:26.400><c> and</c><00:48:26.640><c> i'm</c><00:48:26.800><c> going</c><00:48:26.960><c> to</c><00:48:27.119><c> the</c><00:48:27.280><c> board</c> 00:48:28.069 --> 00:48:28.079 align:start position:0% and he says and i'm going to the board 00:48:28.079 --> 00:48:29.190 align:start position:0% and he says and i'm going to the board and 00:48:29.190 --> 00:48:29.200 align:start position:0% and 00:48:29.200 --> 00:48:32.470 align:start position:0% and see<00:48:29.359><c> if</c><00:48:29.520><c> we</c><00:48:29.760><c> can</c><00:48:30.000><c> do</c><00:48:30.160><c> something</c><00:48:30.400><c> about</c><00:48:30.720><c> you</c> 00:48:32.470 --> 00:48:32.480 align:start position:0% see if we can do something about you 00:48:32.480 --> 00:48:34.549 align:start position:0% see if we can do something about you and<00:48:32.960><c> i</c><00:48:33.119><c> just</c><00:48:33.359><c> looked</c><00:48:33.680><c> at</c><00:48:33.839><c> him</c> 00:48:34.549 --> 00:48:34.559 align:start position:0% and i just looked at him 00:48:34.559 --> 00:48:36.470 align:start position:0% and i just looked at him and<00:48:34.960><c> uh</c> 00:48:36.470 --> 00:48:36.480 align:start position:0% and uh 00:48:36.480 --> 00:48:37.829 align:start position:0% and uh there<00:48:36.640><c> was</c><00:48:36.880><c> a</c> 00:48:37.829 --> 00:48:37.839 align:start position:0% there was a 00:48:37.839 --> 00:48:41.109 align:start position:0% there was a family<00:48:38.640><c> that</c><00:48:38.880><c> heard</c><00:48:39.119><c> the</c><00:48:39.280><c> whole</c><00:48:39.520><c> conversation</c> 00:48:41.109 --> 00:48:41.119 align:start position:0% family that heard the whole conversation 00:48:41.119 --> 00:48:41.990 align:start position:0% family that heard the whole conversation and<00:48:41.280><c> the</c> 00:48:41.990 --> 00:48:42.000 align:start position:0% and the 00:48:42.000 --> 00:48:43.829 align:start position:0% and the young<00:48:42.480><c> daughter</c> 00:48:43.829 --> 00:48:43.839 align:start position:0% young daughter 00:48:43.839 --> 00:48:46.470 align:start position:0% young daughter came<00:48:44.160><c> up</c><00:48:44.319><c> to</c><00:48:44.559><c> her</c><00:48:44.880><c> father</c><00:48:45.760><c> and</c><00:48:45.920><c> said</c><00:48:46.160><c> did</c><00:48:46.319><c> you</c> 00:48:46.470 --> 00:48:46.480 align:start position:0% came up to her father and said did you 00:48:46.480 --> 00:48:48.950 align:start position:0% came up to her father and said did you hear<00:48:46.720><c> what</c><00:48:46.880><c> he</c><00:48:47.040><c> said</c><00:48:47.280><c> to</c><00:48:47.440><c> uncle</c><00:48:47.760><c> richard</c> 00:48:48.950 --> 00:48:48.960 align:start position:0% hear what he said to uncle richard 00:48:48.960 --> 00:48:53.109 align:start position:0% hear what he said to uncle richard and<00:48:49.200><c> you</c><00:48:49.359><c> want</c><00:48:49.599><c> me</c><00:48:49.760><c> to</c><00:48:49.920><c> be</c><00:48:50.079><c> baptized</c> 00:48:53.109 --> 00:48:53.119 align:start position:0% 00:48:53.119 --> 00:48:55.349 align:start position:0% and<00:48:53.359><c> so</c><00:48:53.839><c> my</c><00:48:54.079><c> point</c><00:48:54.480><c> is</c> 00:48:55.349 --> 00:48:55.359 align:start position:0% and so my point is 00:48:55.359 --> 00:48:57.829 align:start position:0% and so my point is that<00:48:55.680><c> sometimes</c><00:48:56.319><c> we</c><00:48:56.480><c> can</c><00:48:56.800><c> say</c><00:48:57.040><c> things</c><00:48:57.440><c> and</c><00:48:57.599><c> do</c> 00:48:57.829 --> 00:48:57.839 align:start position:0% that sometimes we can say things and do 00:48:57.839 --> 00:48:58.710 align:start position:0% that sometimes we can say things and do things 00:48:58.710 --> 00:48:58.720 align:start position:0% things 00:48:58.720 --> 00:48:59.990 align:start position:0% things and 00:48:59.990 --> 00:49:00.000 align:start position:0% and 00:49:00.000 --> 00:49:02.710 align:start position:0% and have<00:49:00.240><c> an</c><00:49:00.559><c> influence</c><00:49:01.119><c> on</c><00:49:01.440><c> other</c><00:49:01.680><c> people</c> 00:49:02.710 --> 00:49:02.720 align:start position:0% have an influence on other people 00:49:02.720 --> 00:49:05.030 align:start position:0% have an influence on other people but<00:49:02.960><c> the</c><00:49:03.280><c> main</c><00:49:03.520><c> thing</c><00:49:03.760><c> about</c><00:49:04.079><c> this</c> 00:49:05.030 --> 00:49:05.040 align:start position:0% but the main thing about this 00:49:05.040 --> 00:49:08.150 align:start position:0% but the main thing about this i<00:49:05.200><c> was</c><00:49:05.359><c> hurt</c><00:49:05.680><c> behind</c><00:49:06.160><c> that</c><00:49:06.880><c> i</c><00:49:07.119><c> never</c> 00:49:08.150 --> 00:49:08.160 align:start position:0% i was hurt behind that i never 00:49:08.160 --> 00:49:09.750 align:start position:0% i was hurt behind that i never became<00:49:08.640><c> bitter</c><00:49:08.960><c> toward</c><00:49:09.200><c> the</c><00:49:09.359><c> brother</c><00:49:09.599><c> or</c> 00:49:09.750 --> 00:49:09.760 align:start position:0% became bitter toward the brother or 00:49:09.760 --> 00:49:11.430 align:start position:0% became bitter toward the brother or anything 00:49:11.430 --> 00:49:11.440 align:start position:0% anything 00:49:11.440 --> 00:49:14.710 align:start position:0% anything but<00:49:11.599><c> the</c><00:49:11.839><c> thing</c><00:49:12.079><c> about</c><00:49:12.400><c> it</c><00:49:12.480><c> was</c> 00:49:14.710 --> 00:49:14.720 align:start position:0% but the thing about it was 00:49:14.720 --> 00:49:16.549 align:start position:0% but the thing about it was later<00:49:15.119><c> on</c> 00:49:16.549 --> 00:49:16.559 align:start position:0% later on 00:49:16.559 --> 00:49:17.910 align:start position:0% later on uh 00:49:17.910 --> 00:49:17.920 align:start position:0% uh 00:49:17.920 --> 00:49:19.510 align:start position:0% uh the<00:49:18.079><c> next</c><00:49:18.400><c> week</c> 00:49:19.510 --> 00:49:19.520 align:start position:0% the next week 00:49:19.520 --> 00:49:21.430 align:start position:0% the next week that<00:49:19.760><c> brother</c><00:49:20.000><c> was</c><00:49:20.240><c> at</c><00:49:20.400><c> the</c><00:49:20.559><c> door</c><00:49:21.200><c> wouldn't</c> 00:49:21.430 --> 00:49:21.440 align:start position:0% that brother was at the door wouldn't 00:49:21.440 --> 00:49:24.710 align:start position:0% that brother was at the door wouldn't even<00:49:21.680><c> shake</c><00:49:21.920><c> my</c><00:49:22.160><c> hand</c><00:49:22.480><c> when</c><00:49:22.720><c> i</c><00:49:22.800><c> came</c><00:49:23.119><c> in</c> 00:49:24.710 --> 00:49:24.720 align:start position:0% even shake my hand when i came in 00:49:24.720 --> 00:49:25.910 align:start position:0% even shake my hand when i came in and 00:49:25.910 --> 00:49:25.920 align:start position:0% and 00:49:25.920 --> 00:49:29.190 align:start position:0% and that<00:49:26.079><c> was</c><00:49:26.319><c> hurting</c><00:49:26.800><c> i</c><00:49:26.960><c> didn't</c><00:49:27.119><c> say</c><00:49:27.359><c> anything</c> 00:49:29.190 --> 00:49:29.200 align:start position:0% that was hurting i didn't say anything 00:49:29.200 --> 00:49:31.109 align:start position:0% that was hurting i didn't say anything and<00:49:29.359><c> then</c><00:49:29.680><c> around</c><00:49:30.000><c> about</c><00:49:30.319><c> a</c><00:49:30.400><c> month</c><00:49:30.720><c> later</c><00:49:31.040><c> i</c> 00:49:31.109 --> 00:49:31.119 align:start position:0% and then around about a month later i 00:49:31.119 --> 00:49:33.349 align:start position:0% and then around about a month later i was<00:49:31.359><c> asked</c><00:49:31.599><c> by</c><00:49:31.839><c> another</c><00:49:32.240><c> brother</c> 00:49:33.349 --> 00:49:33.359 align:start position:0% was asked by another brother 00:49:33.359 --> 00:49:34.950 align:start position:0% was asked by another brother would<00:49:33.520><c> you</c><00:49:33.680><c> like</c><00:49:33.839><c> to</c><00:49:34.000><c> go</c><00:49:34.240><c> visit</c><00:49:34.640><c> brother</c> 00:49:34.950 --> 00:49:34.960 align:start position:0% would you like to go visit brother 00:49:34.960 --> 00:49:37.990 align:start position:0% would you like to go visit brother so-and-so<00:49:35.599><c> and</c><00:49:35.680><c> i</c><00:49:35.839><c> said</c><00:49:36.000><c> sure</c><00:49:36.400><c> fine</c> 00:49:37.990 --> 00:49:38.000 align:start position:0% so-and-so and i said sure fine 00:49:38.000 --> 00:49:39.910 align:start position:0% so-and-so and i said sure fine and<00:49:38.400><c> of</c><00:49:38.480><c> course</c><00:49:38.800><c> it</c><00:49:38.880><c> was</c><00:49:39.040><c> the</c><00:49:39.200><c> brother</c><00:49:39.599><c> that</c> 00:49:39.910 --> 00:49:39.920 align:start position:0% and of course it was the brother that 00:49:39.920 --> 00:49:41.829 align:start position:0% and of course it was the brother that told<00:49:40.160><c> me</c><00:49:40.400><c> not</c><00:49:40.559><c> to</c><00:49:40.720><c> call</c><00:49:40.960><c> him</c><00:49:41.200><c> his</c><00:49:41.359><c> brother</c><00:49:41.680><c> and</c> 00:49:41.829 --> 00:49:41.839 align:start position:0% told me not to call him his brother and 00:49:41.839 --> 00:49:45.030 align:start position:0% told me not to call him his brother and who<00:49:42.000><c> wouldn't</c><00:49:42.319><c> shake</c><00:49:42.559><c> my</c><00:49:42.800><c> hand</c><00:49:44.240><c> and</c><00:49:44.720><c> when</c><00:49:44.880><c> i</c> 00:49:45.030 --> 00:49:45.040 align:start position:0% who wouldn't shake my hand and when i 00:49:45.040 --> 00:49:47.829 align:start position:0% who wouldn't shake my hand and when i got<00:49:45.200><c> to</c><00:49:45.359><c> the</c><00:49:45.520><c> door</c><00:49:45.760><c> and</c><00:49:46.000><c> we</c><00:49:46.160><c> went</c><00:49:46.480><c> in</c> 00:49:47.829 --> 00:49:47.839 align:start position:0% got to the door and we went in 00:49:47.839 --> 00:49:50.069 align:start position:0% got to the door and we went in he<00:49:48.000><c> said</c><00:49:48.319><c> oh</c><00:49:48.640><c> brother</c><00:49:49.040><c> richard</c><00:49:49.440><c> it's</c><00:49:49.599><c> so</c><00:49:49.839><c> good</c> 00:49:50.069 --> 00:49:50.079 align:start position:0% he said oh brother richard it's so good 00:49:50.079 --> 00:49:51.750 align:start position:0% he said oh brother richard it's so good to<00:49:50.240><c> see</c><00:49:50.480><c> you</c> 00:49:51.750 --> 00:49:51.760 align:start position:0% to see you 00:49:51.760 --> 00:49:54.309 align:start position:0% to see you well<00:49:52.000><c> to</c><00:49:52.160><c> come</c><00:49:52.400><c> to</c><00:49:52.559><c> find</c><00:49:53.040><c> out</c> 00:49:54.309 --> 00:49:54.319 align:start position:0% well to come to find out 00:49:54.319 --> 00:49:55.990 align:start position:0% well to come to find out um 00:49:55.990 --> 00:49:56.000 align:start position:0% um 00:49:56.000 --> 00:49:58.630 align:start position:0% um the<00:49:56.240><c> brother</c><00:49:56.640><c> was</c><00:49:57.119><c> becoming</c> 00:49:58.630 --> 00:49:58.640 align:start position:0% the brother was becoming 00:49:58.640 --> 00:50:03.030 align:start position:0% the brother was becoming like<00:49:59.200><c> senile</c><00:50:00.240><c> or</c><00:50:00.880><c> he</c><00:50:01.040><c> had</c><00:50:01.200><c> a</c><00:50:01.760><c> a</c><00:50:02.000><c> problem</c> 00:50:03.030 --> 00:50:03.040 align:start position:0% like senile or he had a a problem 00:50:03.040 --> 00:50:03.910 align:start position:0% like senile or he had a a problem uh 00:50:03.910 --> 00:50:03.920 align:start position:0% uh 00:50:03.920 --> 00:50:06.950 align:start position:0% uh mentally<00:50:04.400><c> i</c><00:50:04.559><c> don't</c><00:50:05.119><c> know</c><00:50:05.280><c> how</c><00:50:05.440><c> to</c><00:50:05.520><c> put</c><00:50:05.760><c> it</c><00:50:05.920><c> into</c> 00:50:06.950 --> 00:50:06.960 align:start position:0% mentally i don't know how to put it into 00:50:06.960 --> 00:50:08.630 align:start position:0% mentally i don't know how to put it into the<00:50:07.119><c> right</c><00:50:07.359><c> words</c><00:50:07.599><c> but</c><00:50:07.760><c> anyway</c><00:50:08.160><c> he</c><00:50:08.319><c> had</c><00:50:08.480><c> a</c> 00:50:08.630 --> 00:50:08.640 align:start position:0% the right words but anyway he had a 00:50:08.640 --> 00:50:13.109 align:start position:0% the right words but anyway he had a problem<00:50:09.599><c> i</c><00:50:09.760><c> found</c><00:50:10.079><c> out</c><00:50:10.240><c> later</c><00:50:10.640><c> on</c><00:50:12.079><c> that</c><00:50:12.400><c> um</c> 00:50:13.109 --> 00:50:13.119 align:start position:0% problem i found out later on that um 00:50:13.119 --> 00:50:16.309 align:start position:0% problem i found out later on that um sometimes<00:50:13.599><c> he</c><00:50:13.760><c> can</c><00:50:13.920><c> get</c><00:50:14.160><c> disorientated</c> 00:50:16.309 --> 00:50:16.319 align:start position:0% sometimes he can get disorientated 00:50:16.319 --> 00:50:17.349 align:start position:0% sometimes he can get disorientated and<00:50:16.480><c> so</c> 00:50:17.349 --> 00:50:17.359 align:start position:0% and so 00:50:17.359 --> 00:50:19.190 align:start position:0% and so i<00:50:17.520><c> would</c><00:50:17.760><c> be</c><00:50:17.920><c> impatient</c> 00:50:19.190 --> 00:50:19.200 align:start position:0% i would be impatient 00:50:19.200 --> 00:50:20.309 align:start position:0% i would be impatient and<00:50:19.359><c> so</c> 00:50:20.309 --> 00:50:20.319 align:start position:0% and so 00:50:20.319 --> 00:50:22.470 align:start position:0% and so it<00:50:20.480><c> worked</c><00:50:20.880><c> out</c><00:50:21.119><c> fine</c><00:50:21.599><c> and</c><00:50:21.760><c> sometimes</c><00:50:22.319><c> we</c> 00:50:22.470 --> 00:50:22.480 align:start position:0% it worked out fine and sometimes we 00:50:22.480 --> 00:50:25.829 align:start position:0% it worked out fine and sometimes we don't<00:50:22.960><c> know</c><00:50:23.359><c> why</c><00:50:23.839><c> certain</c><00:50:24.160><c> brothers</c> 00:50:25.829 --> 00:50:25.839 align:start position:0% don't know why certain brothers 00:50:25.839 --> 00:50:27.349 align:start position:0% don't know why certain brothers or<00:50:26.400><c> sisters</c> 00:50:27.349 --> 00:50:27.359 align:start position:0% or sisters 00:50:27.359 --> 00:50:29.109 align:start position:0% or sisters can<00:50:27.599><c> say</c><00:50:27.839><c> or</c><00:50:27.920><c> do</c><00:50:28.079><c> that</c><00:50:28.240><c> i</c><00:50:28.319><c> got</c><00:50:28.559><c> other</c><00:50:28.800><c> stories</c> 00:50:29.109 --> 00:50:29.119 align:start position:0% can say or do that i got other stories 00:50:29.119 --> 00:50:31.510 align:start position:0% can say or do that i got other stories too<00:50:29.280><c> but</c><00:50:29.839><c> i</c><00:50:30.000><c> won't</c><00:50:30.160><c> say</c><00:50:30.319><c> any</c><00:50:30.640><c> more</c> 00:50:31.510 --> 00:50:31.520 align:start position:0% too but i won't say any more 00:50:31.520 --> 00:50:32.309 align:start position:0% too but i won't say any more but 00:50:32.309 --> 00:50:32.319 align:start position:0% but 00:50:32.319 --> 00:50:34.470 align:start position:0% but i<00:50:32.640><c> found</c><00:50:32.960><c> out</c><00:50:33.359><c> being</c><00:50:33.760><c> patient</c> 00:50:34.470 --> 00:50:34.480 align:start position:0% i found out being patient 00:50:34.480 --> 00:50:35.910 align:start position:0% i found out being patient [Music] 00:50:35.910 --> 00:50:35.920 align:start position:0% [Music] 00:50:35.920 --> 00:50:37.670 align:start position:0% [Music] and<00:50:36.240><c> going</c><00:50:36.559><c> over</c><00:50:36.800><c> some</c><00:50:37.040><c> things</c><00:50:37.280><c> that</c><00:50:37.440><c> are</c> 00:50:37.670 --> 00:50:37.680 align:start position:0% and going over some things that are 00:50:37.680 --> 00:50:40.390 align:start position:0% and going over some things that are unsavory<00:50:38.480><c> that</c><00:50:39.119><c> that</c><00:50:39.280><c> can</c><00:50:39.520><c> come</c> 00:50:40.390 --> 00:50:40.400 align:start position:0% unsavory that that can come 00:50:40.400 --> 00:50:41.670 align:start position:0% unsavory that that can come about 00:50:41.670 --> 00:50:41.680 align:start position:0% about 00:50:41.680 --> 00:50:43.750 align:start position:0% about from<00:50:41.920><c> other</c><00:50:42.160><c> brothers</c><00:50:42.480><c> and</c><00:50:42.640><c> sisters</c><00:50:43.200><c> if</c><00:50:43.359><c> we</c><00:50:43.520><c> be</c> 00:50:43.750 --> 00:50:43.760 align:start position:0% from other brothers and sisters if we be 00:50:43.760 --> 00:50:46.390 align:start position:0% from other brothers and sisters if we be patient<00:50:44.640><c> it'll</c><00:50:44.960><c> all</c><00:50:45.200><c> work</c><00:50:45.520><c> out</c><00:50:45.760><c> well</c><00:50:46.079><c> if</c><00:50:46.240><c> we</c> 00:50:46.390 --> 00:50:46.400 align:start position:0% patient it'll all work out well if we 00:50:46.400 --> 00:50:48.710 align:start position:0% patient it'll all work out well if we might<00:50:46.720><c> find</c><00:50:47.040><c> out</c><00:50:47.680><c> that</c><00:50:47.920><c> it's</c><00:50:48.079><c> not</c><00:50:48.319><c> like</c><00:50:48.559><c> what</c> 00:50:48.710 --> 00:50:48.720 align:start position:0% might find out that it's not like what 00:50:48.720 --> 00:50:50.390 align:start position:0% might find out that it's not like what we<00:50:48.880><c> think</c><00:50:49.119><c> it</c><00:50:49.280><c> is</c> 00:50:50.390 --> 00:50:50.400 align:start position:0% we think it is 00:50:50.400 --> 00:50:56.069 align:start position:0% we think it is right 00:50:56.069 --> 00:50:56.079 align:start position:0% 00:50:56.079 --> 00:50:59.109 align:start position:0% hey<00:50:56.400><c> nate</c><00:50:56.559><c> can</c><00:50:56.800><c> you</c><00:50:56.960><c> hear</c><00:50:57.119><c> me</c><00:50:57.680><c> stage</c> 00:50:59.109 --> 00:50:59.119 align:start position:0% hey nate can you hear me stage 00:50:59.119 --> 00:51:01.270 align:start position:0% hey nate can you hear me stage yeah<00:50:59.440><c> sage</c><00:50:59.760><c> in</c><00:50:59.920><c> the</c><00:51:00.079><c> stage</c><00:51:00.480><c> here</c> 00:51:01.270 --> 00:51:01.280 align:start position:0% yeah sage in the stage here 00:51:01.280 --> 00:51:03.270 align:start position:0% yeah sage in the stage here i<00:51:01.599><c> love</c><00:51:01.920><c> it</c> 00:51:03.270 --> 00:51:03.280 align:start position:0% i love it 00:51:03.280 --> 00:51:05.510 align:start position:0% i love it all<00:51:03.520><c> right</c><00:51:03.680><c> listen</c><00:51:04.559><c> so</c> 00:51:05.510 --> 00:51:05.520 align:start position:0% all right listen so 00:51:05.520 --> 00:51:07.750 align:start position:0% all right listen so this<00:51:05.760><c> is</c><00:51:05.920><c> a</c><00:51:06.079><c> real</c><00:51:06.319><c> good</c><00:51:06.559><c> class</c><00:51:07.040><c> and</c> 00:51:07.750 --> 00:51:07.760 align:start position:0% this is a real good class and 00:51:07.760 --> 00:51:09.030 align:start position:0% this is a real good class and um 00:51:09.030 --> 00:51:09.040 align:start position:0% um 00:51:09.040 --> 00:51:10.390 align:start position:0% um you<00:51:09.119><c> know</c><00:51:09.280><c> it's</c><00:51:09.440><c> something</c><00:51:09.839><c> i</c><00:51:09.920><c> think</c><00:51:10.160><c> that</c> 00:51:10.390 --> 00:51:10.400 align:start position:0% you know it's something i think that 00:51:10.400 --> 00:51:12.870 align:start position:0% you know it's something i think that every<00:51:10.800><c> parent</c><00:51:11.760><c> uh</c><00:51:12.000><c> you</c><00:51:12.079><c> know</c><00:51:12.240><c> we</c><00:51:12.400><c> all</c><00:51:12.640><c> have</c> 00:51:12.870 --> 00:51:12.880 align:start position:0% every parent uh you know we all have 00:51:12.880 --> 00:51:15.670 align:start position:0% every parent uh you know we all have stories<00:51:13.440><c> and</c><00:51:13.599><c> i</c><00:51:13.680><c> think</c><00:51:13.839><c> we</c><00:51:14.000><c> all</c><00:51:14.160><c> have</c><00:51:14.480><c> advice</c> 00:51:15.670 --> 00:51:15.680 align:start position:0% stories and i think we all have advice 00:51:15.680 --> 00:51:18.150 align:start position:0% stories and i think we all have advice but<00:51:15.839><c> one</c><00:51:16.079><c> thing</c><00:51:16.240><c> that</c><00:51:16.400><c> you</c><00:51:16.640><c> did</c><00:51:17.200><c> bring</c><00:51:17.599><c> up</c><00:51:17.839><c> was</c> 00:51:18.150 --> 00:51:18.160 align:start position:0% but one thing that you did bring up was 00:51:18.160 --> 00:51:20.309 align:start position:0% but one thing that you did bring up was you<00:51:18.319><c> know</c><00:51:18.480><c> what</c><00:51:18.880><c> what's</c><00:51:19.119><c> the</c><00:51:19.359><c> environment</c><00:51:20.160><c> in</c> 00:51:20.309 --> 00:51:20.319 align:start position:0% you know what what's the environment in 00:51:20.319 --> 00:51:21.670 align:start position:0% you know what what's the environment in our<00:51:20.559><c> homes</c> 00:51:21.670 --> 00:51:21.680 align:start position:0% our homes 00:51:21.680 --> 00:51:23.349 align:start position:0% our homes you<00:51:21.839><c> know</c><00:51:22.000><c> what</c><00:51:22.559><c> how</c> 00:51:23.349 --> 00:51:23.359 align:start position:0% you know what how 00:51:23.359 --> 00:51:26.470 align:start position:0% you know what how how<00:51:23.680><c> am</c><00:51:23.839><c> i</c><00:51:24.000><c> treating</c><00:51:24.960><c> you</c><00:51:25.119><c> know</c><00:51:25.440><c> lee</c><00:51:25.920><c> how</c><00:51:26.160><c> am</c><00:51:26.319><c> i</c> 00:51:26.470 --> 00:51:26.480 align:start position:0% how am i treating you know lee how am i 00:51:26.480 --> 00:51:29.589 align:start position:0% how am i treating you know lee how am i treating<00:51:27.359><c> you</c><00:51:27.520><c> know</c><00:51:27.839><c> my</c><00:51:28.079><c> girls</c><00:51:29.040><c> what</c><00:51:29.359><c> you</c><00:51:29.520><c> know</c> 00:51:29.589 --> 00:51:29.599 align:start position:0% treating you know my girls what you know 00:51:29.599 --> 00:51:31.030 align:start position:0% treating you know my girls what you know what's<00:51:29.839><c> the</c><00:51:30.079><c> environment</c><00:51:30.559><c> when</c><00:51:30.720><c> you</c><00:51:30.880><c> come</c> 00:51:31.030 --> 00:51:31.040 align:start position:0% what's the environment when you come 00:51:31.040 --> 00:51:33.349 align:start position:0% what's the environment when you come into<00:51:31.280><c> my</c><00:51:31.520><c> house</c><00:51:32.000><c> you</c><00:51:32.079><c> know</c><00:51:32.400><c> is</c><00:51:32.559><c> it</c><00:51:33.040><c> can</c><00:51:33.200><c> you</c> 00:51:33.349 --> 00:51:33.359 align:start position:0% into my house you know is it can you 00:51:33.359 --> 00:51:36.470 align:start position:0% into my house you know is it can you differentiate<00:51:34.319><c> from</c><00:51:34.559><c> any</c><00:51:34.800><c> other</c><00:51:35.040><c> home</c> 00:51:36.470 --> 00:51:36.480 align:start position:0% differentiate from any other home 00:51:36.480 --> 00:51:39.750 align:start position:0% differentiate from any other home uh<00:51:36.880><c> that</c><00:51:37.040><c> you</c><00:51:37.440><c> you</c><00:51:37.680><c> may</c><00:51:37.920><c> enter</c><00:51:38.480><c> you</c><00:51:38.559><c> know</c><00:51:39.040><c> um</c> 00:51:39.750 --> 00:51:39.760 align:start position:0% uh that you you may enter you know um 00:51:39.760 --> 00:51:40.790 align:start position:0% uh that you you may enter you know um and<00:51:39.920><c> there's</c> 00:51:40.790 --> 00:51:40.800 align:start position:0% and there's 00:51:40.800 --> 00:51:42.390 align:start position:0% and there's you<00:51:40.880><c> know</c><00:51:41.040><c> there's</c><00:51:41.280><c> a</c><00:51:41.359><c> lot</c><00:51:41.520><c> of</c><00:51:41.680><c> verses</c><00:51:42.160><c> about</c> 00:51:42.390 --> 00:51:42.400 align:start position:0% you know there's a lot of verses about 00:51:42.400 --> 00:51:44.150 align:start position:0% you know there's a lot of verses about that<00:51:42.559><c> but</c><00:51:42.720><c> one</c><00:51:42.960><c> that</c><00:51:43.119><c> i</c><00:51:43.280><c> always</c><00:51:43.599><c> try</c><00:51:43.760><c> to</c><00:51:43.920><c> keep</c> 00:51:44.150 --> 00:51:44.160 align:start position:0% that but one that i always try to keep 00:51:44.160 --> 00:51:46.870 align:start position:0% that but one that i always try to keep in<00:51:44.400><c> mind</c><00:51:44.880><c> is</c><00:51:45.119><c> um</c><00:51:45.680><c> and</c><00:51:45.839><c> this</c><00:51:46.000><c> is</c><00:51:46.160><c> from</c><00:51:46.400><c> isaiah</c> 00:51:46.870 --> 00:51:46.880 align:start position:0% in mind is um and this is from isaiah 00:51:46.880 --> 00:51:49.750 align:start position:0% in mind is um and this is from isaiah the<00:51:46.960><c> 11th</c><00:51:47.520><c> chapter</c> 00:51:49.750 --> 00:51:49.760 align:start position:0% the 11th chapter 00:51:49.760 --> 00:51:52.870 align:start position:0% the 11th chapter wolf<00:51:50.240><c> also</c><00:51:50.720><c> shall</c><00:51:50.960><c> dwell</c><00:51:51.359><c> with</c><00:51:51.599><c> the</c><00:51:51.760><c> lamb</c> 00:51:52.870 --> 00:51:52.880 align:start position:0% wolf also shall dwell with the lamb 00:51:52.880 --> 00:51:55.109 align:start position:0% wolf also shall dwell with the lamb and<00:51:53.040><c> the</c><00:51:53.280><c> leopard</c><00:51:53.680><c> shall</c><00:51:54.000><c> lie</c><00:51:54.319><c> down</c><00:51:54.640><c> with</c><00:51:54.880><c> the</c> 00:51:55.109 --> 00:51:55.119 align:start position:0% and the leopard shall lie down with the 00:51:55.119 --> 00:51:56.069 align:start position:0% and the leopard shall lie down with the kid 00:51:56.069 --> 00:51:56.079 align:start position:0% kid 00:51:56.079 --> 00:51:58.309 align:start position:0% kid and<00:51:56.240><c> the</c><00:51:56.400><c> calf</c><00:51:56.800><c> and</c><00:51:56.960><c> the</c><00:51:57.119><c> young</c><00:51:57.520><c> lion</c><00:51:58.079><c> and</c><00:51:58.160><c> the</c> 00:51:58.309 --> 00:51:58.319 align:start position:0% and the calf and the young lion and the 00:51:58.319 --> 00:51:59.910 align:start position:0% and the calf and the young lion and the fat<00:51:58.559><c> link</c><00:51:58.880><c> together</c> 00:51:59.910 --> 00:51:59.920 align:start position:0% fat link together 00:51:59.920 --> 00:52:02.950 align:start position:0% fat link together and<00:52:00.079><c> a</c><00:52:00.319><c> little</c><00:52:00.800><c> child</c><00:52:01.359><c> shall</c><00:52:01.760><c> lead</c><00:52:02.079><c> them</c><00:52:02.800><c> in</c> 00:52:02.950 --> 00:52:02.960 align:start position:0% and a little child shall lead them in 00:52:02.960 --> 00:52:05.670 align:start position:0% and a little child shall lead them in the<00:52:03.119><c> verse</c><00:52:03.680><c> ends</c><00:52:04.480><c> this</c><00:52:04.720><c> chapter</c><00:52:05.119><c> they</c><00:52:05.359><c> shall</c> 00:52:05.670 --> 00:52:05.680 align:start position:0% the verse ends this chapter they shall 00:52:05.680 --> 00:52:07.430 align:start position:0% the verse ends this chapter they shall not<00:52:06.160><c> hurt</c> 00:52:07.430 --> 00:52:07.440 align:start position:0% not hurt 00:52:07.440 --> 00:52:11.190 align:start position:0% not hurt nor<00:52:07.839><c> destroy</c><00:52:08.640><c> in</c><00:52:08.960><c> all</c><00:52:09.280><c> my</c><00:52:09.599><c> holy</c><00:52:10.079><c> mountain</c> 00:52:11.190 --> 00:52:11.200 align:start position:0% nor destroy in all my holy mountain 00:52:11.200 --> 00:52:12.790 align:start position:0% nor destroy in all my holy mountain for<00:52:11.359><c> the</c><00:52:11.599><c> earth</c><00:52:11.839><c> shall</c><00:52:12.079><c> be</c><00:52:12.240><c> full</c><00:52:12.480><c> of</c><00:52:12.640><c> the</c> 00:52:12.790 --> 00:52:12.800 align:start position:0% for the earth shall be full of the 00:52:12.800 --> 00:52:15.349 align:start position:0% for the earth shall be full of the knowledge<00:52:13.200><c> of</c><00:52:13.359><c> the</c><00:52:13.520><c> lord</c><00:52:14.480><c> as</c><00:52:14.640><c> the</c><00:52:14.880><c> waters</c> 00:52:15.349 --> 00:52:15.359 align:start position:0% knowledge of the lord as the waters 00:52:15.359 --> 00:52:17.589 align:start position:0% knowledge of the lord as the waters cover<00:52:15.680><c> the</c><00:52:15.839><c> sea</c><00:52:16.480><c> and</c><00:52:16.640><c> so</c><00:52:17.040><c> you</c><00:52:17.200><c> know</c><00:52:17.280><c> there's</c><00:52:17.520><c> a</c> 00:52:17.589 --> 00:52:17.599 align:start position:0% cover the sea and so you know there's a 00:52:17.599 --> 00:52:19.910 align:start position:0% cover the sea and so you know there's a lot<00:52:17.680><c> of</c><00:52:17.839><c> things</c><00:52:18.160><c> in</c><00:52:18.240><c> life</c><00:52:18.559><c> nate</c><00:52:19.280><c> i</c><00:52:19.440><c> can't</c> 00:52:19.910 --> 00:52:19.920 align:start position:0% lot of things in life nate i can't 00:52:19.920 --> 00:52:21.430 align:start position:0% lot of things in life nate i can't control<00:52:20.559><c> right</c> 00:52:21.430 --> 00:52:21.440 align:start position:0% control right 00:52:21.440 --> 00:52:25.030 align:start position:0% control right but<00:52:21.920><c> i</c><00:52:22.240><c> can</c><00:52:22.640><c> control</c><00:52:23.520><c> the</c><00:52:23.760><c> environment</c><00:52:24.640><c> in</c><00:52:24.800><c> my</c> 00:52:25.030 --> 00:52:25.040 align:start position:0% but i can control the environment in my 00:52:25.040 --> 00:52:26.150 align:start position:0% but i can control the environment in my home 00:52:26.150 --> 00:52:26.160 align:start position:0% home 00:52:26.160 --> 00:52:28.150 align:start position:0% home and<00:52:26.319><c> so</c><00:52:26.559><c> i</c><00:52:26.640><c> have</c><00:52:26.800><c> a</c><00:52:26.880><c> little</c><00:52:27.200><c> note</c><00:52:27.520><c> my</c><00:52:27.760><c> bible</c> 00:52:28.150 --> 00:52:28.160 align:start position:0% and so i have a little note my bible 00:52:28.160 --> 00:52:31.829 align:start position:0% and so i have a little note my bible that<00:52:28.400><c> says</c><00:52:28.800><c> never</c><00:52:29.200><c> be</c><00:52:29.440><c> the</c><00:52:29.680><c> wolf</c> 00:52:31.829 --> 00:52:31.839 align:start position:0% that says never be the wolf 00:52:31.839 --> 00:52:34.630 align:start position:0% that says never be the wolf and<00:52:32.319><c> you</c><00:52:32.480><c> know</c> 00:52:34.630 --> 00:52:34.640 align:start position:0% 00:52:34.640 --> 00:52:36.309 align:start position:0% there<00:52:34.880><c> shouldn't</c><00:52:35.119><c> be</c><00:52:35.359><c> any</c><00:52:35.680><c> hurting</c><00:52:36.160><c> or</c> 00:52:36.309 --> 00:52:36.319 align:start position:0% there shouldn't be any hurting or 00:52:36.319 --> 00:52:38.950 align:start position:0% there shouldn't be any hurting or destroying<00:52:37.119><c> in</c><00:52:37.280><c> our</c><00:52:37.440><c> homes</c><00:52:38.240><c> it's</c><00:52:38.480><c> a</c><00:52:38.559><c> holy</c> 00:52:38.950 --> 00:52:38.960 align:start position:0% destroying in our homes it's a holy 00:52:38.960 --> 00:52:40.069 align:start position:0% destroying in our homes it's a holy mountain 00:52:40.069 --> 00:52:40.079 align:start position:0% mountain 00:52:40.079 --> 00:52:41.990 align:start position:0% mountain it<00:52:40.240><c> should</c><00:52:40.400><c> be</c><00:52:40.559><c> a</c><00:52:40.720><c> place</c><00:52:41.040><c> of</c><00:52:41.200><c> god</c><00:52:41.520><c> it</c><00:52:41.680><c> should</c><00:52:41.839><c> be</c> 00:52:41.990 --> 00:52:42.000 align:start position:0% it should be a place of god it should be 00:52:42.000 --> 00:52:44.630 align:start position:0% it should be a place of god it should be a<00:52:42.280><c> representation</c><00:52:43.359><c> on</c><00:52:43.680><c> earth</c><00:52:44.079><c> right</c><00:52:44.319><c> now</c><00:52:44.559><c> of</c> 00:52:44.630 --> 00:52:44.640 align:start position:0% a representation on earth right now of 00:52:44.640 --> 00:52:46.390 align:start position:0% a representation on earth right now of the<00:52:44.800><c> kingdom</c><00:52:45.200><c> of</c><00:52:45.359><c> god</c> 00:52:46.390 --> 00:52:46.400 align:start position:0% the kingdom of god 00:52:46.400 --> 00:52:49.109 align:start position:0% the kingdom of god and<00:52:46.960><c> everyone</c><00:52:47.599><c> in</c><00:52:47.680><c> the</c><00:52:47.839><c> home</c><00:52:48.160><c> that</c><00:52:48.480><c> lives</c><00:52:48.800><c> here</c> 00:52:49.109 --> 00:52:49.119 align:start position:0% and everyone in the home that lives here 00:52:49.119 --> 00:52:50.870 align:start position:0% and everyone in the home that lives here should<00:52:49.359><c> know</c><00:52:49.599><c> about</c><00:52:50.000><c> god</c> 00:52:50.870 --> 00:52:50.880 align:start position:0% should know about god 00:52:50.880 --> 00:52:52.710 align:start position:0% should know about god and<00:52:51.040><c> it's</c><00:52:51.280><c> up</c><00:52:51.359><c> to</c><00:52:51.520><c> them</c><00:52:51.760><c> if</c><00:52:51.839><c> they</c><00:52:52.079><c> accept</c><00:52:52.480><c> it</c><00:52:52.640><c> or</c> 00:52:52.710 --> 00:52:52.720 align:start position:0% and it's up to them if they accept it or 00:52:52.720 --> 00:52:54.790 align:start position:0% and it's up to them if they accept it or not<00:52:52.960><c> but</c><00:52:53.440><c> you</c><00:52:53.520><c> know</c><00:52:53.920><c> i</c><00:52:54.079><c> think</c><00:52:54.240><c> sometimes</c><00:52:54.720><c> we</c> 00:52:54.790 --> 00:52:54.800 align:start position:0% not but you know i think sometimes we 00:52:54.800 --> 00:52:56.790 align:start position:0% not but you know i think sometimes we can<00:52:54.960><c> get</c><00:52:55.119><c> overwhelmed</c><00:52:55.839><c> by</c><00:52:56.079><c> all</c><00:52:56.240><c> the</c><00:52:56.400><c> things</c><00:52:56.720><c> in</c> 00:52:56.790 --> 00:52:56.800 align:start position:0% can get overwhelmed by all the things in 00:52:56.800 --> 00:52:59.190 align:start position:0% can get overwhelmed by all the things in the<00:52:56.960><c> world</c><00:52:57.520><c> and</c><00:52:58.079><c> you</c><00:52:58.160><c> know</c><00:52:58.400><c> our</c><00:52:58.559><c> kids</c><00:52:58.880><c> can</c><00:52:59.040><c> be</c> 00:52:59.190 --> 00:52:59.200 align:start position:0% the world and you know our kids can be 00:52:59.200 --> 00:53:01.910 align:start position:0% the world and you know our kids can be pulled<00:52:59.520><c> to</c><00:52:59.599><c> life</c><00:53:00.240><c> right</c><00:53:00.559><c> way</c><00:53:01.119><c> from</c><00:53:01.280><c> the</c><00:53:01.520><c> truth</c> 00:53:01.910 --> 00:53:01.920 align:start position:0% pulled to life right way from the truth 00:53:01.920 --> 00:53:04.390 align:start position:0% pulled to life right way from the truth we<00:53:02.079><c> can</c><00:53:02.240><c> get</c><00:53:02.480><c> pulled</c><00:53:02.800><c> away</c><00:53:03.119><c> from</c><00:53:03.440><c> it</c><00:53:04.000><c> uh</c><00:53:04.160><c> with</c> 00:53:04.390 --> 00:53:04.400 align:start position:0% we can get pulled away from it uh with 00:53:04.400 --> 00:53:06.470 align:start position:0% we can get pulled away from it uh with all<00:53:04.640><c> the</c><00:53:04.880><c> nonsense</c><00:53:05.599><c> that's</c><00:53:05.920><c> out</c><00:53:06.079><c> there</c><00:53:06.240><c> but</c><00:53:06.400><c> if</c> 00:53:06.470 --> 00:53:06.480 align:start position:0% all the nonsense that's out there but if 00:53:06.480 --> 00:53:08.390 align:start position:0% all the nonsense that's out there but if we<00:53:06.640><c> can</c><00:53:06.800><c> just</c><00:53:07.040><c> focus</c><00:53:07.520><c> on</c><00:53:07.680><c> the</c><00:53:07.839><c> things</c><00:53:08.079><c> that</c><00:53:08.240><c> we</c> 00:53:08.390 --> 00:53:08.400 align:start position:0% we can just focus on the things that we 00:53:08.400 --> 00:53:11.030 align:start position:0% we can just focus on the things that we can<00:53:08.559><c> control</c><00:53:09.440><c> which</c><00:53:09.680><c> is</c><00:53:09.839><c> the</c><00:53:10.079><c> full</c><00:53:10.400><c> walls</c><00:53:10.880><c> of</c> 00:53:11.030 --> 00:53:11.040 align:start position:0% can control which is the full walls of 00:53:11.040 --> 00:53:12.470 align:start position:0% can control which is the full walls of our<00:53:11.200><c> homes</c> 00:53:12.470 --> 00:53:12.480 align:start position:0% our homes 00:53:12.480 --> 00:53:13.670 align:start position:0% our homes we're<00:53:12.640><c> gonna</c><00:53:12.880><c> do</c> 00:53:13.670 --> 00:53:13.680 align:start position:0% we're gonna do 00:53:13.680 --> 00:53:16.309 align:start position:0% we're gonna do we're<00:53:13.839><c> gonna</c><00:53:14.559><c> we're</c><00:53:14.720><c> gonna</c><00:53:14.880><c> do</c><00:53:15.119><c> all</c><00:53:15.359><c> right</c><00:53:16.079><c> and</c> 00:53:16.309 --> 00:53:16.319 align:start position:0% we're gonna we're gonna do all right and 00:53:16.319 --> 00:53:17.990 align:start position:0% we're gonna we're gonna do all right and that's<00:53:16.640><c> i</c><00:53:16.800><c> try</c><00:53:16.960><c> to</c><00:53:17.040><c> keep</c><00:53:17.280><c> that</c><00:53:17.520><c> in</c><00:53:17.599><c> mind</c><00:53:17.920><c> you</c> 00:53:17.990 --> 00:53:18.000 align:start position:0% that's i try to keep that in mind you 00:53:18.000 --> 00:53:20.790 align:start position:0% that's i try to keep that in mind you know<00:53:18.160><c> not</c><00:53:18.400><c> to</c><00:53:18.559><c> be</c><00:53:18.800><c> a</c><00:53:18.960><c> wolf</c><00:53:19.280><c> in</c><00:53:19.440><c> my</c><00:53:19.680><c> own</c><00:53:19.920><c> home</c><00:53:20.640><c> to</c> 00:53:20.790 --> 00:53:20.800 align:start position:0% know not to be a wolf in my own home to 00:53:20.800 --> 00:53:23.430 align:start position:0% know not to be a wolf in my own home to be<00:53:20.960><c> a</c><00:53:21.280><c> you</c><00:53:21.359><c> know</c><00:53:21.599><c> a</c><00:53:21.760><c> peacemaker</c><00:53:22.480><c> a</c><00:53:22.720><c> patient</c> 00:53:23.430 --> 00:53:23.440 align:start position:0% be a you know a peacemaker a patient 00:53:23.440 --> 00:53:26.630 align:start position:0% be a you know a peacemaker a patient person<00:53:24.319><c> a</c><00:53:24.559><c> loving</c><00:53:25.119><c> kind</c><00:53:25.599><c> person</c> 00:53:26.630 --> 00:53:26.640 align:start position:0% person a loving kind person 00:53:26.640 --> 00:53:30.069 align:start position:0% person a loving kind person in<00:53:26.880><c> my</c><00:53:27.119><c> home</c><00:53:27.359><c> you</c><00:53:27.520><c> know</c><00:53:27.960><c> 1792</c><00:53:29.119><c> providence</c><00:53:29.680><c> road</c> 00:53:30.069 --> 00:53:30.079 align:start position:0% in my home you know 1792 providence road 00:53:30.079 --> 00:53:33.270 align:start position:0% in my home you know 1792 providence road in<00:53:30.240><c> northbridge</c><00:53:30.880><c> mass</c><00:53:31.839><c> i</c><00:53:32.079><c> try</c><00:53:32.240><c> to</c><00:53:32.400><c> make</c><00:53:32.640><c> it</c><00:53:32.800><c> as</c> 00:53:33.270 --> 00:53:33.280 align:start position:0% in northbridge mass i try to make it as 00:53:33.280 --> 00:53:34.470 align:start position:0% in northbridge mass i try to make it as the<00:53:33.599><c> best</c> 00:53:34.470 --> 00:53:34.480 align:start position:0% the best 00:53:34.480 --> 00:53:41.109 align:start position:0% the best loving<00:53:34.960><c> place</c><00:53:35.359><c> as</c><00:53:35.599><c> possible</c><00:53:36.319><c> i</c><00:53:36.400><c> don't</c><00:53:36.640><c> always</c> 00:53:41.109 --> 00:53:41.119 align:start position:0% 00:53:41.119 --> 00:53:42.630 align:start position:0% my<00:53:41.359><c> goal</c><00:53:41.599><c> and</c><00:53:41.680><c> i</c> succeed<00:53:41.920><c> it</c><00:53:42.079><c> should</c><00:53:42.319><c> always</c> 00:53:42.630 --> 00:53:42.640 align:start position:0% my goal and i succeed it should always 00:53:42.640 --> 00:53:43.990 align:start position:0% my goal and i succeed it should always be<00:53:42.800><c> our</c><00:53:42.960><c> goal</c><00:53:43.119><c> because</c><00:53:43.359><c> those</c><00:53:43.599><c> are</c><00:53:43.680><c> the</c><00:53:43.760><c> things</c> 00:53:43.990 --> 00:53:44.000 align:start position:0% be our goal because those are the things 00:53:44.000 --> 00:53:46.150 align:start position:0% be our goal because those are the things that<00:53:44.160><c> we</c><00:53:44.400><c> can</c><00:53:44.640><c> control</c><00:53:44.960><c> i</c><00:53:45.119><c> have</c><00:53:45.359><c> no</c><00:53:45.599><c> control</c> 00:53:46.150 --> 00:53:46.160 align:start position:0% that we can control i have no control 00:53:46.160 --> 00:53:48.710 align:start position:0% that we can control i have no control whatsoever<00:53:47.119><c> what</c><00:53:47.280><c> goes</c><00:53:47.599><c> on</c><00:53:47.920><c> outside</c><00:53:48.400><c> of</c><00:53:48.480><c> these</c> 00:53:48.710 --> 00:53:48.720 align:start position:0% whatsoever what goes on outside of these 00:53:48.720 --> 00:53:53.030 align:start position:0% whatsoever what goes on outside of these four<00:53:49.040><c> walls</c><00:53:49.440><c> believe</c><00:53:49.839><c> me</c> 00:53:53.030 --> 00:53:53.040 align:start position:0% 00:53:53.040 --> 00:53:55.190 align:start position:0% that's<00:53:53.359><c> it</c> 00:53:55.190 --> 00:53:55.200 align:start position:0% that's it 00:53:55.200 --> 00:53:56.549 align:start position:0% that's it appreciate<00:53:55.760><c> that</c> 00:53:56.549 --> 00:53:56.559 align:start position:0% appreciate that 00:53:56.559 --> 00:53:57.990 align:start position:0% appreciate that that<00:53:56.720><c> was</c><00:53:56.880><c> um</c> 00:53:57.990 --> 00:53:58.000 align:start position:0% that was um 00:53:58.000 --> 00:54:00.710 align:start position:0% that was um never<00:53:58.240><c> be</c><00:53:58.400><c> the</c><00:53:58.559><c> wolf</c> 00:54:00.710 --> 00:54:00.720 align:start position:0% never be the wolf 00:54:00.720 --> 00:54:07.750 align:start position:0% never be the wolf never<00:54:01.040><c> be</c><00:54:01.200><c> the</c><00:54:01.280><c> wolf</c><00:54:01.599><c> baby</c> 00:54:07.750 --> 00:54:07.760 align:start position:0% 00:54:07.760 --> 00:54:09.510 align:start position:0% all<00:54:07.920><c> right</c><00:54:08.079><c> what</c><00:54:08.319><c> else</c><00:54:08.559><c> we</c> 00:54:09.510 --> 00:54:09.520 align:start position:0% all right what else we 00:54:09.520 --> 00:54:11.030 align:start position:0% all right what else we have<00:54:09.680><c> some</c><00:54:09.920><c> we</c><00:54:10.079><c> have</c><00:54:10.160><c> a</c><00:54:10.240><c> lot</c><00:54:10.400><c> of</c><00:54:10.480><c> wisdom</c><00:54:10.960><c> on</c> 00:54:11.030 --> 00:54:11.040 align:start position:0% have some we have a lot of wisdom on 00:54:11.040 --> 00:54:12.309 align:start position:0% have some we have a lot of wisdom on this<00:54:11.280><c> call</c> 00:54:12.309 --> 00:54:12.319 align:start position:0% this call 00:54:12.319 --> 00:54:14.710 align:start position:0% this call i'd<00:54:12.480><c> love</c><00:54:12.640><c> to</c><00:54:12.800><c> hear</c><00:54:13.040><c> some</c><00:54:13.280><c> other</c> 00:54:14.710 --> 00:54:14.720 align:start position:0% i'd love to hear some other 00:54:14.720 --> 00:54:22.069 align:start position:0% i'd love to hear some other some<00:54:14.880><c> other</c><00:54:15.119><c> thoughts</c> 00:54:22.069 --> 00:54:22.079 align:start position:0% 00:54:22.079 --> 00:54:24.710 align:start position:0% i<00:54:22.240><c> see</c><00:54:22.480><c> ashley</c><00:54:22.880><c> riley</c><00:54:23.359><c> on</c><00:54:23.440><c> this</c><00:54:24.319><c> can</c><00:54:24.480><c> we</c><00:54:24.559><c> get</c> 00:54:24.710 --> 00:54:24.720 align:start position:0% i see ashley riley on this can we get 00:54:24.720 --> 00:54:27.270 align:start position:0% i see ashley riley on this can we get some<00:54:24.960><c> insights</c><00:54:25.440><c> on</c><00:54:25.760><c> what</c><00:54:26.000><c> it's</c><00:54:26.160><c> like</c><00:54:26.880><c> having</c> 00:54:27.270 --> 00:54:27.280 align:start position:0% some insights on what it's like having 00:54:27.280 --> 00:54:28.390 align:start position:0% some insights on what it's like having three 00:54:28.390 --> 00:54:28.400 align:start position:0% three 00:54:28.400 --> 00:54:31.750 align:start position:0% three yongs 00:54:31.750 --> 00:54:31.760 align:start position:0% 00:54:31.760 --> 00:54:33.190 align:start position:0% what<00:54:32.000><c> it's</c><00:54:32.240><c> like</c> 00:54:33.190 --> 00:54:33.200 align:start position:0% what it's like 00:54:33.200 --> 00:54:35.430 align:start position:0% what it's like what<00:54:33.359><c> is</c><00:54:33.520><c> it</c><00:54:33.680><c> like</c><00:54:34.240><c> what</c><00:54:34.720><c> what</c><00:54:34.880><c> are</c><00:54:34.960><c> some</c><00:54:35.200><c> with</c> 00:54:35.430 --> 00:54:35.440 align:start position:0% what is it like what what are some with 00:54:35.440 --> 00:54:37.190 align:start position:0% what is it like what what are some with some<00:54:35.599><c> spiritual</c><00:54:36.079><c> guidance</c><00:54:36.480><c> what</c><00:54:36.640><c> do</c><00:54:36.720><c> you</c><00:54:36.880><c> have</c> 00:54:37.190 --> 00:54:37.200 align:start position:0% some spiritual guidance what do you have 00:54:37.200 --> 00:54:39.990 align:start position:0% some spiritual guidance what do you have for<00:54:37.440><c> us</c><00:54:38.240><c> i</c><00:54:38.400><c> don't</c><00:54:38.640><c> have</c><00:54:39.040><c> any</c><00:54:39.359><c> spiritual</c> 00:54:39.990 --> 00:54:40.000 align:start position:0% for us i don't have any spiritual 00:54:40.000 --> 00:54:42.230 align:start position:0% for us i don't have any spiritual guidance 00:54:42.230 --> 00:54:42.240 align:start position:0% guidance 00:54:42.240 --> 00:54:44.870 align:start position:0% guidance it's<00:54:42.400><c> very</c><00:54:42.720><c> busy</c><00:54:43.119><c> it's</c><00:54:43.280><c> very</c><00:54:43.520><c> busy</c><00:54:43.920><c> i</c><00:54:44.079><c> think</c> 00:54:44.870 --> 00:54:44.880 align:start position:0% it's very busy it's very busy i think 00:54:44.880 --> 00:54:46.470 align:start position:0% it's very busy it's very busy i think the<00:54:45.040><c> hardest</c><00:54:45.440><c> thing</c><00:54:45.599><c> about</c><00:54:45.839><c> having</c><00:54:46.240><c> little</c> 00:54:46.470 --> 00:54:46.480 align:start position:0% the hardest thing about having little 00:54:46.480 --> 00:54:49.109 align:start position:0% the hardest thing about having little kids<00:54:46.880><c> is</c><00:54:47.040><c> that</c> 00:54:49.109 --> 00:54:49.119 align:start position:0% kids is that 00:54:49.119 --> 00:54:50.150 align:start position:0% kids is that you<00:54:49.280><c> know</c> 00:54:50.150 --> 00:54:50.160 align:start position:0% you know 00:54:50.160 --> 00:54:52.630 align:start position:0% you know like<00:54:50.799><c> jim</c><00:54:51.119><c> said</c> 00:54:52.630 --> 00:54:52.640 align:start position:0% like jim said 00:54:52.640 --> 00:54:55.030 align:start position:0% like jim said if<00:54:52.799><c> you</c><00:54:53.119><c> fight</c><00:54:53.680><c> i</c><00:54:53.920><c> think</c><00:54:54.480><c> you</c><00:54:54.559><c> know</c><00:54:54.720><c> if</c><00:54:54.880><c> you</c> 00:54:55.030 --> 00:54:55.040 align:start position:0% if you fight i think you know if you 00:54:55.040 --> 00:54:56.309 align:start position:0% if you fight i think you know if you fight<00:54:55.359><c> if</c><00:54:55.440><c> you're</c><00:54:55.599><c> constantly</c><00:54:56.000><c> fighting</c><00:54:56.240><c> with</c> 00:54:56.309 --> 00:54:56.319 align:start position:0% fight if you're constantly fighting with 00:54:56.319 --> 00:54:57.990 align:start position:0% fight if you're constantly fighting with your<00:54:56.480><c> spouse</c><00:54:56.799><c> your</c><00:54:56.960><c> kids</c><00:54:57.200><c> pick</c><00:54:57.440><c> up</c><00:54:57.599><c> on</c><00:54:57.760><c> that</c> 00:54:57.990 --> 00:54:58.000 align:start position:0% your spouse your kids pick up on that 00:54:58.000 --> 00:54:59.670 align:start position:0% your spouse your kids pick up on that and<00:54:58.079><c> they're</c><00:54:58.319><c> never</c><00:54:58.720><c> gonna</c><00:54:58.960><c> follow</c><00:54:59.520><c> you</c><00:54:59.599><c> know</c> 00:54:59.670 --> 00:54:59.680 align:start position:0% and they're never gonna follow you know 00:54:59.680 --> 00:55:01.670 align:start position:0% and they're never gonna follow you know if<00:54:59.839><c> you're</c><00:55:00.000><c> telling</c><00:55:00.319><c> them</c><00:55:00.480><c> to</c><00:55:00.559><c> be</c><00:55:01.119><c> patient</c><00:55:01.520><c> and</c> 00:55:01.670 --> 00:55:01.680 align:start position:0% if you're telling them to be patient and 00:55:01.680 --> 00:55:02.710 align:start position:0% if you're telling them to be patient and kind 00:55:02.710 --> 00:55:02.720 align:start position:0% kind 00:55:02.720 --> 00:55:04.630 align:start position:0% kind they're<00:55:02.960><c> not</c><00:55:03.280><c> going</c><00:55:03.599><c> to</c><00:55:04.160><c> you</c><00:55:04.240><c> know</c><00:55:04.400><c> you</c><00:55:04.559><c> have</c> 00:55:04.630 --> 00:55:04.640 align:start position:0% they're not going to you know you have 00:55:04.640 --> 00:55:06.470 align:start position:0% they're not going to you know you have to<00:55:04.799><c> lead</c><00:55:05.040><c> by</c><00:55:05.280><c> example</c><00:55:05.680><c> and</c><00:55:05.839><c> i</c><00:55:05.920><c> think</c><00:55:06.160><c> one</c><00:55:06.400><c> of</c> 00:55:06.470 --> 00:55:06.480 align:start position:0% to lead by example and i think one of 00:55:06.480 --> 00:55:07.990 align:start position:0% to lead by example and i think one of the<00:55:06.559><c> hardest</c><00:55:06.880><c> things</c><00:55:07.040><c> about</c><00:55:07.200><c> having</c><00:55:07.599><c> kids</c><00:55:07.920><c> is</c> 00:55:07.990 --> 00:55:08.000 align:start position:0% the hardest things about having kids is 00:55:08.000 --> 00:55:09.349 align:start position:0% the hardest things about having kids is that<00:55:08.240><c> you</c><00:55:08.480><c> see</c> 00:55:09.349 --> 00:55:09.359 align:start position:0% that you see 00:55:09.359 --> 00:55:11.750 align:start position:0% that you see some<00:55:09.520><c> of</c><00:55:09.680><c> your</c><00:55:09.920><c> negative</c> 00:55:11.750 --> 00:55:11.760 align:start position:0% some of your negative 00:55:11.760 --> 00:55:13.990 align:start position:0% some of your negative or<00:55:12.160><c> attributes</c><00:55:12.640><c> that</c><00:55:12.799><c> you</c><00:55:12.960><c> struggle</c><00:55:13.359><c> with</c> 00:55:13.990 --> 00:55:14.000 align:start position:0% or attributes that you struggle with 00:55:14.000 --> 00:55:16.309 align:start position:0% or attributes that you struggle with mirrored<00:55:14.559><c> at</c><00:55:14.720><c> you</c><00:55:15.200><c> through</c><00:55:15.440><c> your</c><00:55:15.680><c> children</c> 00:55:16.309 --> 00:55:16.319 align:start position:0% mirrored at you through your children 00:55:16.319 --> 00:55:19.190 align:start position:0% mirrored at you through your children and<00:55:16.480><c> that</c><00:55:16.720><c> can</c><00:55:16.880><c> be</c><00:55:17.119><c> very</c><00:55:17.680><c> eye-opening</c><00:55:18.880><c> and</c> 00:55:19.190 --> 00:55:19.200 align:start position:0% and that can be very eye-opening and 00:55:19.200 --> 00:55:21.750 align:start position:0% and that can be very eye-opening and it's<00:55:19.440><c> something</c><00:55:19.680><c> that</c><00:55:19.839><c> i</c><00:55:20.000><c> definitely</c><00:55:20.480><c> like</c> 00:55:21.750 --> 00:55:21.760 align:start position:0% it's something that i definitely like 00:55:21.760 --> 00:55:24.549 align:start position:0% it's something that i definitely like patience<00:55:22.400><c> um</c><00:55:22.799><c> is</c><00:55:23.040><c> not</c><00:55:23.359><c> a</c><00:55:23.520><c> strong</c><00:55:23.839><c> suit</c><00:55:24.079><c> of</c><00:55:24.240><c> mine</c> 00:55:24.549 --> 00:55:24.559 align:start position:0% patience um is not a strong suit of mine 00:55:24.559 --> 00:55:25.349 align:start position:0% patience um is not a strong suit of mine and<00:55:24.720><c> i</c> 00:55:25.349 --> 00:55:25.359 align:start position:0% and i 00:55:25.359 --> 00:55:28.150 align:start position:0% and i actively<00:55:26.000><c> and</c><00:55:26.319><c> consciously</c><00:55:27.200><c> have</c><00:55:27.440><c> to</c> 00:55:28.150 --> 00:55:28.160 align:start position:0% actively and consciously have to 00:55:28.160 --> 00:55:31.670 align:start position:0% actively and consciously have to every<00:55:28.480><c> single</c><00:55:28.799><c> day</c><00:55:29.440><c> um</c><00:55:30.240><c> tell</c><00:55:30.559><c> myself</c><00:55:31.040><c> to</c><00:55:31.200><c> like</c> 00:55:31.670 --> 00:55:31.680 align:start position:0% every single day um tell myself to like 00:55:31.680 --> 00:55:34.549 align:start position:0% every single day um tell myself to like take<00:55:31.920><c> a</c><00:55:32.000><c> deep</c><00:55:32.240><c> breath</c><00:55:32.960><c> and</c> 00:55:34.549 --> 00:55:34.559 align:start position:0% take a deep breath and 00:55:34.559 --> 00:55:36.470 align:start position:0% take a deep breath and you<00:55:34.720><c> know</c><00:55:35.040><c> uh</c> 00:55:36.470 --> 00:55:36.480 align:start position:0% you know uh 00:55:36.480 --> 00:55:38.710 align:start position:0% you know uh just 00:55:38.710 --> 00:55:38.720 align:start position:0% just 00:55:38.720 --> 00:55:41.349 align:start position:0% just control<00:55:39.200><c> yourself</c><00:55:39.599><c> and</c><00:55:39.680><c> i</c><00:55:39.920><c> see</c><00:55:40.160><c> that</c><00:55:40.480><c> in</c> 00:55:41.349 --> 00:55:41.359 align:start position:0% control yourself and i see that in 00:55:41.359 --> 00:55:43.270 align:start position:0% control yourself and i see that in in<00:55:41.520><c> margot</c><00:55:42.079><c> especially</c><00:55:42.640><c> she's</c><00:55:42.880><c> a</c><00:55:42.960><c> very</c> 00:55:43.270 --> 00:55:43.280 align:start position:0% in margot especially she's a very 00:55:43.280 --> 00:55:45.349 align:start position:0% in margot especially she's a very impatient<00:55:43.839><c> person</c> 00:55:45.349 --> 00:55:45.359 align:start position:0% impatient person 00:55:45.359 --> 00:55:46.870 align:start position:0% impatient person she's<00:55:45.760><c> quick</c><00:55:46.160><c> to</c> 00:55:46.870 --> 00:55:46.880 align:start position:0% she's quick to 00:55:46.880 --> 00:55:49.030 align:start position:0% she's quick to get<00:55:47.119><c> really</c><00:55:47.359><c> frustrated</c><00:55:48.079><c> and</c><00:55:48.559><c> i</c><00:55:48.720><c> know</c><00:55:48.880><c> that</c> 00:55:49.030 --> 00:55:49.040 align:start position:0% get really frustrated and i know that 00:55:49.040 --> 00:55:50.549 align:start position:0% get really frustrated and i know that those<00:55:49.280><c> are</c><00:55:49.359><c> things</c><00:55:49.599><c> that</c><00:55:49.760><c> i</c><00:55:49.920><c> struggle</c><00:55:50.240><c> with</c> 00:55:50.549 --> 00:55:50.559 align:start position:0% those are things that i struggle with 00:55:50.559 --> 00:55:51.670 align:start position:0% those are things that i struggle with myself 00:55:51.670 --> 00:55:51.680 align:start position:0% myself 00:55:51.680 --> 00:55:53.030 align:start position:0% myself um 00:55:53.030 --> 00:55:53.040 align:start position:0% um 00:55:53.040 --> 00:55:55.670 align:start position:0% um and<00:55:53.200><c> so</c><00:55:53.359><c> i</c><00:55:53.520><c> think</c><00:55:53.680><c> that</c><00:55:54.480><c> when</c><00:55:54.720><c> you</c><00:55:54.880><c> see</c><00:55:55.280><c> those</c> 00:55:55.670 --> 00:55:55.680 align:start position:0% and so i think that when you see those 00:55:55.680 --> 00:55:57.270 align:start position:0% and so i think that when you see those attributes<00:55:56.240><c> being</c><00:55:56.480><c> mirrored</c><00:55:56.799><c> back</c><00:55:56.960><c> to</c><00:55:57.119><c> you</c> 00:55:57.270 --> 00:55:57.280 align:start position:0% attributes being mirrored back to you 00:55:57.280 --> 00:55:59.589 align:start position:0% attributes being mirrored back to you with<00:55:57.359><c> your</c><00:55:57.520><c> kids</c><00:55:57.839><c> it's</c><00:55:58.480><c> you</c><00:55:58.559><c> know</c><00:55:58.799><c> it's</c><00:55:59.200><c> your</c> 00:55:59.589 --> 00:55:59.599 align:start position:0% with your kids it's you know it's your 00:55:59.599 --> 00:56:01.589 align:start position:0% with your kids it's you know it's your kind<00:55:59.760><c> of</c> 00:56:01.589 --> 00:56:01.599 align:start position:0% kind of 00:56:01.599 --> 00:56:03.270 align:start position:0% kind of it's<00:56:01.760><c> like</c><00:56:01.920><c> a</c><00:56:02.000><c> wake-up</c><00:56:02.319><c> call</c><00:56:02.559><c> to</c><00:56:02.720><c> you</c><00:56:02.880><c> to</c><00:56:03.040><c> kind</c> 00:56:03.270 --> 00:56:03.280 align:start position:0% it's like a wake-up call to you to kind 00:56:03.280 --> 00:56:04.870 align:start position:0% it's like a wake-up call to you to kind of<00:56:03.359><c> say</c><00:56:03.680><c> okay</c><00:56:03.920><c> these</c><00:56:04.160><c> are</c><00:56:04.240><c> the</c><00:56:04.319><c> things</c><00:56:04.559><c> that</c><00:56:04.720><c> i</c> 00:56:04.870 --> 00:56:04.880 align:start position:0% of say okay these are the things that i 00:56:04.880 --> 00:56:07.670 align:start position:0% of say okay these are the things that i need<00:56:05.040><c> to</c><00:56:05.119><c> work</c><00:56:05.359><c> on</c><00:56:05.599><c> as</c><00:56:05.760><c> a</c><00:56:05.839><c> parent</c><00:56:06.720><c> um</c><00:56:07.040><c> because</c> 00:56:07.670 --> 00:56:07.680 align:start position:0% need to work on as a parent um because 00:56:07.680 --> 00:56:08.630 align:start position:0% need to work on as a parent um because i'm 00:56:08.630 --> 00:56:08.640 align:start position:0% i'm 00:56:08.640 --> 00:56:12.870 align:start position:0% i'm not<00:56:08.880><c> necessarily</c><00:56:09.599><c> leading</c><00:56:09.920><c> by</c><00:56:10.160><c> good</c><00:56:10.400><c> example</c> 00:56:12.870 --> 00:56:12.880 align:start position:0% not necessarily leading by good example 00:56:12.880 --> 00:56:16.309 align:start position:0% not necessarily leading by good example but<00:56:13.440><c> i</c><00:56:13.599><c> don't</c><00:56:13.760><c> know</c><00:56:14.000><c> that's</c><00:56:14.240><c> kind</c><00:56:14.480><c> of</c><00:56:14.640><c> what</c> 00:56:16.309 --> 00:56:16.319 align:start position:0% but i don't know that's kind of what 00:56:16.319 --> 00:56:18.870 align:start position:0% but i don't know that's kind of what i<00:56:16.960><c> i</c><00:56:17.119><c> appreciate</c><00:56:17.520><c> you</c><00:56:17.599><c> sharing</c><00:56:17.920><c> that</c><00:56:18.160><c> ashley</c> 00:56:18.870 --> 00:56:18.880 align:start position:0% i i appreciate you sharing that ashley 00:56:18.880 --> 00:56:20.710 align:start position:0% i i appreciate you sharing that ashley my<00:56:19.119><c> dad</c><00:56:19.359><c> i</c><00:56:19.520><c> remember</c><00:56:19.760><c> when</c><00:56:20.000><c> i</c><00:56:20.160><c> when</c><00:56:20.319><c> i</c><00:56:20.400><c> was</c><00:56:20.559><c> like</c> 00:56:20.710 --> 00:56:20.720 align:start position:0% my dad i remember when i when i was like 00:56:20.720 --> 00:56:21.589 align:start position:0% my dad i remember when i when i was like in<00:56:20.799><c> my</c> 00:56:21.589 --> 00:56:21.599 align:start position:0% in my 00:56:21.599 --> 00:56:23.109 align:start position:0% in my exceptionally<00:56:22.160><c> rebellious</c><00:56:22.720><c> years</c><00:56:22.960><c> as</c><00:56:23.040><c> a</c> 00:56:23.109 --> 00:56:23.119 align:start position:0% exceptionally rebellious years as a 00:56:23.119 --> 00:56:26.309 align:start position:0% exceptionally rebellious years as a teenager<00:56:23.599><c> my</c><00:56:24.240><c> mom</c><00:56:24.480><c> was</c><00:56:24.559><c> like</c><00:56:24.799><c> what</c><00:56:25.040><c> is</c><00:56:25.200><c> this</c> 00:56:26.309 --> 00:56:26.319 align:start position:0% teenager my mom was like what is this 00:56:26.319 --> 00:56:28.630 align:start position:0% teenager my mom was like what is this evil<00:56:26.720><c> thing</c><00:56:27.200><c> that</c><00:56:27.440><c> my</c><00:56:27.599><c> son</c><00:56:27.839><c> is</c><00:56:28.160><c> my</c><00:56:28.319><c> dad</c><00:56:28.480><c> was</c> 00:56:28.630 --> 00:56:28.640 align:start position:0% evil thing that my son is my dad was 00:56:28.640 --> 00:56:30.390 align:start position:0% evil thing that my son is my dad was seemingly<00:56:29.040><c> like</c><00:56:29.200><c> even</c><00:56:29.440><c> healed</c><00:56:29.760><c> about</c><00:56:30.079><c> it</c> 00:56:30.390 --> 00:56:30.400 align:start position:0% seemingly like even healed about it 00:56:30.400 --> 00:56:32.390 align:start position:0% seemingly like even healed about it because<00:56:30.640><c> he</c><00:56:30.799><c> kind</c><00:56:30.960><c> of</c><00:56:31.119><c> remembered</c><00:56:32.000><c> maybe</c><00:56:32.240><c> what</c> 00:56:32.390 --> 00:56:32.400 align:start position:0% because he kind of remembered maybe what 00:56:32.400 --> 00:56:36.390 align:start position:0% because he kind of remembered maybe what he<00:56:32.559><c> was</c><00:56:32.720><c> like</c><00:56:33.040><c> at</c><00:56:33.680><c> at</c><00:56:33.920><c> 14</c><00:56:34.480><c> 15</c><00:56:34.960><c> years</c><00:56:35.280><c> old</c><00:56:35.920><c> um</c><00:56:36.160><c> so</c> 00:56:36.390 --> 00:56:36.400 align:start position:0% he was like at at 14 15 years old um so 00:56:36.400 --> 00:56:37.910 align:start position:0% he was like at at 14 15 years old um so yeah<00:56:36.640><c> you</c><00:56:36.720><c> can</c><00:56:36.799><c> kind</c><00:56:36.960><c> of</c><00:56:37.119><c> see</c><00:56:37.359><c> some</c><00:56:37.599><c> where</c><00:56:37.760><c> some</c> 00:56:37.910 --> 00:56:37.920 align:start position:0% yeah you can kind of see some where some 00:56:37.920 --> 00:56:39.910 align:start position:0% yeah you can kind of see some where some of<00:56:38.079><c> those</c><00:56:38.720><c> your</c><00:56:38.960><c> nature</c> 00:56:39.910 --> 00:56:39.920 align:start position:0% of those your nature 00:56:39.920 --> 00:56:42.309 align:start position:0% of those your nature um<00:56:40.640><c> kind</c><00:56:40.799><c> of</c><00:56:40.880><c> repeats</c><00:56:41.280><c> itself</c><00:56:41.680><c> in</c><00:56:41.920><c> the</c><00:56:42.079><c> next</c> 00:56:42.309 --> 00:56:42.319 align:start position:0% um kind of repeats itself in the next 00:56:42.319 --> 00:56:43.510 align:start position:0% um kind of repeats itself in the next generation 00:56:43.510 --> 00:56:43.520 align:start position:0% generation 00:56:43.520 --> 00:56:45.109 align:start position:0% generation yeah 00:56:45.109 --> 00:56:45.119 align:start position:0% yeah 00:56:45.119 --> 00:56:48.630 align:start position:0% yeah thank<00:56:45.359><c> you</c><00:56:45.599><c> thank</c><00:56:45.760><c> you</c><00:56:45.920><c> for</c><00:56:46.079><c> sharing</c><00:56:46.400><c> that</c> 00:56:48.630 --> 00:56:48.640 align:start position:0% 00:56:48.640 --> 00:56:50.950 align:start position:0% it's<00:56:48.799><c> all</c><00:56:48.960><c> lance's</c><00:56:49.440><c> bad</c><00:56:49.760><c> uh</c><00:56:50.480><c> that's</c><00:56:50.720><c> all</c><00:56:50.880><c> of</c> 00:56:50.950 --> 00:56:50.960 align:start position:0% it's all lance's bad uh that's all of 00:56:50.960 --> 00:56:53.510 align:start position:0% it's all lance's bad uh that's all of his<00:56:51.119><c> bad</c><00:56:51.280><c> attributes</c><00:56:51.760><c> right</c> 00:56:53.510 --> 00:56:53.520 align:start position:0% his bad attributes right 00:56:53.520 --> 00:56:55.349 align:start position:0% his bad attributes right well<00:56:53.760><c> i</c><00:56:53.920><c> mean</c><00:56:54.400><c> i</c><00:56:54.559><c> don't</c><00:56:54.640><c> know</c><00:56:54.799><c> how</c><00:56:54.960><c> many</c><00:56:55.119><c> of</c><00:56:55.200><c> you</c> 00:56:55.349 --> 00:56:55.359 align:start position:0% well i mean i don't know how many of you 00:56:55.359 --> 00:56:57.270 align:start position:0% well i mean i don't know how many of you know<00:56:55.599><c> lance</c><00:56:55.839><c> but</c><00:56:56.000><c> he</c><00:56:56.160><c> is</c><00:56:56.319><c> probably</c><00:56:56.799><c> the</c><00:56:56.960><c> most</c> 00:56:57.270 --> 00:56:57.280 align:start position:0% know lance but he is probably the most 00:56:57.280 --> 00:56:59.270 align:start position:0% know lance but he is probably the most patient<00:56:57.680><c> person</c><00:56:58.160><c> i've</c><00:56:58.319><c> ever</c><00:56:58.559><c> met</c><00:56:59.040><c> in</c><00:56:59.119><c> my</c> 00:56:59.270 --> 00:56:59.280 align:start position:0% patient person i've ever met in my 00:56:59.280 --> 00:57:01.670 align:start position:0% patient person i've ever met in my entire<00:56:59.680><c> life</c> 00:57:01.670 --> 00:57:01.680 align:start position:0% entire life 00:57:01.680 --> 00:57:04.789 align:start position:0% entire life brother<00:57:02.000><c> nate</c><00:57:02.720><c> one</c><00:57:03.119><c> yeah</c><00:57:03.760><c> one</c><00:57:04.000><c> short</c><00:57:04.319><c> one</c><00:57:04.559><c> one</c> 00:57:04.789 --> 00:57:04.799 align:start position:0% brother nate one yeah one short one one 00:57:04.799 --> 00:57:07.349 align:start position:0% brother nate one yeah one short one one one<00:57:05.119><c> short</c><00:57:05.359><c> one</c><00:57:06.000><c> i</c><00:57:06.079><c> mean</c><00:57:06.319><c> absolutely</c><00:57:07.200><c> i</c> 00:57:07.349 --> 00:57:07.359 align:start position:0% one short one i mean absolutely i 00:57:07.359 --> 00:57:09.109 align:start position:0% one short one i mean absolutely i remember<00:57:07.680><c> at</c><00:57:07.839><c> bible</c><00:57:08.160><c> school</c><00:57:08.559><c> brother</c><00:57:08.799><c> harry</c> 00:57:09.109 --> 00:57:09.119 align:start position:0% remember at bible school brother harry 00:57:09.119 --> 00:57:11.349 align:start position:0% remember at bible school brother harry tennant<00:57:09.440><c> back</c><00:57:09.680><c> in</c><00:57:09.760><c> the</c><00:57:09.920><c> 80s</c> 00:57:11.349 --> 00:57:11.359 align:start position:0% tennant back in the 80s 00:57:11.359 --> 00:57:13.510 align:start position:0% tennant back in the 80s said<00:57:11.680><c> being</c><00:57:12.079><c> about</c><00:57:12.559><c> being</c><00:57:12.960><c> patient</c><00:57:13.359><c> with</c> 00:57:13.510 --> 00:57:13.520 align:start position:0% said being about being patient with 00:57:13.520 --> 00:57:16.789 align:start position:0% said being about being patient with children 00:57:16.789 --> 00:57:16.799 align:start position:0% 00:57:16.799 --> 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children and they 00:57:27.040 --> 00:57:29.670 align:start position:0% some sisters that had children and they had<00:57:27.359><c> careers</c><00:57:27.920><c> and</c><00:57:28.000><c> they</c><00:57:28.160><c> were</c><00:57:28.319><c> suing</c><00:57:28.799><c> things</c> 00:57:29.670 --> 00:57:29.680 align:start position:0% had careers and they were suing things 00:57:29.680 --> 00:57:31.670 align:start position:0% had careers and they were suing things out<00:57:30.000><c> in</c><00:57:30.160><c> the</c><00:57:30.240><c> world</c> 00:57:31.670 --> 00:57:31.680 align:start position:0% out in the world 00:57:31.680 --> 00:57:32.870 align:start position:0% out in the world and 00:57:32.870 --> 00:57:32.880 align:start position:0% and 00:57:32.880 --> 00:57:34.630 align:start position:0% and he<00:57:33.040><c> was</c><00:57:33.200><c> saying</c><00:57:33.760><c> to</c> 00:57:34.630 --> 00:57:34.640 align:start position:0% he was saying to 00:57:34.640 --> 00:57:37.670 align:start 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position:0% those of you who choose to bring up your children<00:57:43.200><c> in</c><00:57:43.280><c> the</c><00:57:43.520><c> truth</c> 00:57:44.470 --> 00:57:44.480 align:start position:0% children in the truth 00:57:44.480 --> 00:57:46.069 align:start position:0% children in the truth and<00:57:44.799><c> not</c> 00:57:46.069 --> 00:57:46.079 align:start position:0% and not 00:57:46.079 --> 00:57:47.270 align:start position:0% and not pursue 00:57:47.270 --> 00:57:47.280 align:start position:0% pursue 00:57:47.280 --> 00:57:49.109 align:start position:0% pursue uh 00:57:49.109 --> 00:57:49.119 align:start position:0% uh 00:57:49.119 --> 00:57:51.270 align:start position:0% uh their<00:57:49.440><c> own</c><00:57:49.680><c> goals</c><00:57:50.240><c> personal</c><00:57:50.640><c> goals</c><00:57:50.960><c> out</c><00:57:51.119><c> in</c> 00:57:51.270 --> 00:57:51.280 align:start position:0% their own goals personal goals out in 00:57:51.280 --> 00:57:52.630 align:start position:0% 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brother</c><00:58:51.119><c> bob</c><00:58:51.359><c> i</c><00:58:51.440><c> think</c><00:58:51.520><c> you're</c><00:58:51.680><c> on</c><00:58:51.839><c> mute</c> 00:59:01.510 --> 00:59:01.520 align:start position:0% 00:59:01.520 --> 00:59:02.789 align:start position:0% is<00:59:01.599><c> that</c><00:59:01.760><c> your</c><00:59:01.920><c> dad</c> 00:59:02.789 --> 00:59:02.799 align:start position:0% is that your dad 00:59:02.799 --> 00:59:05.589 align:start position:0% is that your dad he's 00:59:05.589 --> 00:59:05.599 align:start position:0% 00:59:05.599 --> 00:59:08.789 align:start position:0% so<00:59:05.839><c> nate</c><00:59:06.240><c> uh</c><00:59:06.880><c> one</c><00:59:07.040><c> thing</c><00:59:07.280><c> that</c><00:59:07.440><c> i</c><00:59:07.760><c> appreciated</c> 00:59:08.789 --> 00:59:08.799 align:start position:0% so nate uh one thing that i appreciated 00:59:08.799 --> 00:59:09.589 align:start position:0% so nate uh one thing that i appreciated uh 00:59:09.589 --> 00:59:09.599 align:start position:0% uh 00:59:09.599 --> 00:59:12.309 align:start position:0% uh growing<00:59:10.000><c> up</c><00:59:10.160><c> in</c><00:59:10.319><c> the</c><00:59:10.400><c> ecclesia</c> 00:59:12.309 --> 00:59:12.319 align:start position:0% growing up in the ecclesia 00:59:12.319 --> 00:59:13.190 align:start position:0% growing up in the ecclesia uh 00:59:13.190 --> 00:59:13.200 align:start position:0% uh 00:59:13.200 --> 00:59:14.549 align:start position:0% uh was<00:59:13.520><c> the</c> 00:59:14.549 --> 00:59:14.559 align:start position:0% was the 00:59:14.559 --> 00:59:16.710 align:start position:0% was the wonderful<00:59:15.200><c> influence</c> 00:59:16.710 --> 00:59:16.720 align:start position:0% wonderful influence 00:59:16.720 --> 00:59:17.510 align:start position:0% wonderful influence that 00:59:17.510 --> 00:59:17.520 align:start position:0% that 00:59:17.520 --> 00:59:20.470 align:start position:0% that my<00:59:17.839><c> peers</c><00:59:18.880><c> had</c> 00:59:20.470 --> 00:59:20.480 align:start position:0% my peers had 00:59:20.480 --> 00:59:24.390 align:start position:0% my peers had on<00:59:21.040><c> our</c><00:59:21.280><c> children</c> 00:59:24.390 --> 00:59:24.400 align:start position:0% 00:59:24.400 --> 00:59:25.990 align:start position:0% not<00:59:24.640><c> only</c> 00:59:25.990 --> 00:59:26.000 align:start position:0% not only 00:59:26.000 --> 00:59:31.109 align:start position:0% not only our<00:59:26.480><c> peers</c><00:59:27.359><c> but</c><00:59:27.839><c> the</c><00:59:28.319><c> older</c><00:59:28.799><c> generation</c> 00:59:31.109 --> 00:59:31.119 align:start position:0% our peers but the older generation 00:59:31.119 --> 00:59:34.309 align:start position:0% our peers but the older generation uh<00:59:31.599><c> i</c><00:59:31.839><c> felt</c><00:59:32.079><c> that</c><00:59:32.319><c> it</c><00:59:32.480><c> was</c><00:59:32.799><c> uh</c> 00:59:34.309 --> 00:59:34.319 align:start position:0% uh i felt that it was uh 00:59:34.319 --> 00:59:37.829 align:start position:0% uh i felt that it was uh a<00:59:34.480><c> real</c><00:59:34.799><c> blessing</c><00:59:35.440><c> to</c><00:59:35.760><c> be</c><00:59:36.160><c> associated</c><00:59:37.119><c> with</c> 00:59:37.829 --> 00:59:37.839 align:start position:0% a real blessing to be associated with 00:59:37.839 --> 00:59:40.230 align:start position:0% a real blessing to be associated with and<00:59:38.240><c> uh</c> 00:59:40.230 --> 00:59:40.240 align:start position:0% and uh 00:59:40.240 --> 00:59:42.150 align:start position:0% and uh to<00:59:40.400><c> be</c><00:59:40.880><c> bound</c> 00:59:42.150 --> 00:59:42.160 align:start position:0% to be bound 00:59:42.160 --> 00:59:47.270 align:start position:0% to be bound in<00:59:42.319><c> the</c><00:59:42.400><c> unity</c><00:59:43.040><c> of</c><00:59:43.680><c> jesus</c><00:59:44.319><c> and</c><00:59:44.799><c> mentor</c><00:59:45.520><c> with</c> 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being</c><00:59:55.680><c> so</c><00:59:56.000><c> influential</c> 00:59:57.510 --> 00:59:57.520 align:start position:0% by being so influential 00:59:57.520 --> 00:59:59.670 align:start position:0% by being so influential with<00:59:57.760><c> our</c><00:59:57.920><c> children</c><00:59:58.480><c> and</c><00:59:58.559><c> they</c><00:59:58.960><c> were</c><00:59:59.200><c> able</c><00:59:59.440><c> to</c> 00:59:59.670 --> 00:59:59.680 align:start position:0% with our children and they were able to 00:59:59.680 --> 01:00:02.150 align:start position:0% with our children and they were able to establish<01:00:00.319><c> a</c><01:00:00.480><c> relationship</c> 01:00:02.150 --> 01:00:02.160 align:start position:0% establish a relationship 01:00:02.160 --> 01:00:04.150 align:start position:0% establish a relationship with<01:00:02.640><c> the</c><01:00:02.799><c> kids</c> 01:00:04.150 --> 01:00:04.160 align:start position:0% with the kids 01:00:04.160 --> 01:00:08.470 align:start position:0% with the kids uh<01:00:04.559><c> a</c><01:00:04.720><c> relationship</c><01:00:05.760><c> of</c><01:00:06.079><c> uh</c><01:00:06.400><c> respect</c><01:00:07.119><c> and</c><01:00:07.760><c> love</c> 01:00:08.470 --> 01:00:08.480 align:start position:0% uh a relationship of uh respect and love 01:00:08.480 --> 01:00:10.789 align:start position:0% uh a relationship of uh respect and love and<01:00:08.880><c> and</c><01:00:09.280><c> caring</c> 01:00:10.789 --> 01:00:10.799 align:start position:0% and and caring 01:00:10.799 --> 01:00:14.390 align:start position:0% and and caring i<01:00:10.960><c> mean</c><01:00:11.200><c> it</c><01:00:11.520><c> brings</c><01:00:12.079><c> tears</c><01:00:12.400><c> to</c><01:00:12.559><c> my</c><01:00:12.799><c> eyes</c><01:00:13.280><c> to</c> 01:00:14.390 --> 01:00:14.400 align:start position:0% i mean it brings tears to my eyes to 01:00:14.400 --> 01:00:16.789 align:start position:0% i mean it brings tears to my eyes to even<01:00:14.799><c> think</c><01:00:15.280><c> now</c><01:00:15.680><c> that</c><01:00:15.920><c> i</c><01:00:16.000><c> mean</c> 01:00:16.789 --> 01:00:16.799 align:start position:0% even think now that i mean 01:00:16.799 --> 01:00:18.630 align:start position:0% even think now that i mean these<01:00:17.040><c> people</c><01:00:17.359><c> that</c><01:00:17.520><c> i'm</c><01:00:17.680><c> talking</c><01:00:18.079><c> about</c><01:00:18.480><c> are</c> 01:00:18.630 --> 01:00:18.640 align:start position:0% these people that i'm talking about are 01:00:18.640 --> 01:00:21.510 align:start position:0% these people that i'm talking about are asleep<01:00:19.119><c> in</c><01:00:19.359><c> christ</c> 01:00:21.510 --> 01:00:21.520 align:start position:0% asleep in christ 01:00:21.520 --> 01:00:23.750 align:start position:0% asleep in christ and<01:00:21.920><c> i</c><01:00:22.160><c> hope</c><01:00:22.400><c> they</c> 01:00:23.750 --> 01:00:23.760 align:start position:0% and i hope they 01:00:23.760 --> 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01:00:32.480 --> 01:00:35.910 align:start position:0% my eyes but in the eyes of my children and<01:00:32.559><c> then</c><01:00:32.960><c> because</c><01:00:33.440><c> you</c><01:00:33.599><c> want</c><01:00:33.839><c> to</c><01:00:34.000><c> try</c><01:00:34.319><c> to</c> 01:00:35.910 --> 01:00:35.920 align:start position:0% and then because you want to try to 01:00:35.920 --> 01:00:38.549 align:start position:0% and then because you want to try to uh<01:00:36.480><c> pass</c><01:00:36.799><c> it</c><01:00:36.960><c> on</c> 01:00:38.549 --> 01:00:38.559 align:start position:0% uh pass it on 01:00:38.559 --> 01:00:40.630 align:start position:0% uh pass it on you<01:00:38.799><c> also</c><01:00:39.119><c> want</c><01:00:39.280><c> to</c><01:00:39.440><c> be</c><01:00:39.599><c> in</c><01:00:39.760><c> a</c><01:00:39.839><c> position</c><01:00:40.319><c> where</c> 01:00:40.630 --> 01:00:40.640 align:start position:0% you also want to be in a position where 01:00:40.640 --> 01:00:44.069 align:start position:0% you also want to be in a position where you<01:00:40.799><c> can</c><01:00:41.040><c> be</c><01:00:41.359><c> of</c><01:00:41.920><c> influence</c><01:00:42.640><c> and</c> 01:00:44.069 --> 01:00:44.079 align:start position:0% you can be of influence and 01:00:44.079 --> 01:00:47.430 align:start position:0% you can be of influence and and<01:00:44.319><c> a</c><01:00:44.720><c> a</c><01:00:44.960><c> loving</c><01:00:45.440><c> old</c><01:00:45.760><c> guy</c><01:00:46.240><c> you</c><01:00:46.400><c> know</c><01:00:46.960><c> you</c><01:00:47.280><c> are</c> 01:00:47.430 --> 01:00:47.440 align:start position:0% and a a loving old guy you know you are 01:00:47.440 --> 01:00:50.150 align:start position:0% and a a loving old guy you know you are a<01:00:47.599><c> loving</c><01:00:47.920><c> old</c><01:00:48.160><c> guy</c> 01:00:50.150 --> 01:00:50.160 align:start position:0% a loving old guy 01:00:50.160 --> 01:00:50.950 align:start position:0% a loving old guy but 01:00:50.950 --> 01:00:50.960 align:start position:0% but 01:00:50.960 --> 01:00:51.990 align:start position:0% but to<01:00:51.200><c> have</c> 01:00:51.990 --> 01:00:52.000 align:start position:0% to have 01:00:52.000 --> 01:00:54.390 align:start position:0% to have to<01:00:52.160><c> have</c><01:00:52.400><c> the</c><01:00:52.880><c> direction</c> 01:00:54.390 --> 01:00:54.400 align:start position:0% to have the direction 01:00:54.400 --> 01:00:55.190 align:start position:0% to have the direction that 01:00:55.190 --> 01:00:55.200 align:start position:0% that 01:00:55.200 --> 01:00:57.109 align:start position:0% that of<01:00:55.359><c> the</c><01:00:55.520><c> word</c><01:00:55.839><c> of</c><01:00:56.000><c> god</c><01:00:56.400><c> which</c><01:00:56.640><c> as</c><01:00:56.880><c> you</c> 01:00:57.109 --> 01:00:57.119 align:start position:0% of the word of god which as you 01:00:57.119 --> 01:00:59.270 align:start position:0% of the word of god which as you mentioned<01:00:57.520><c> so</c><01:00:57.839><c> eloquently</c><01:00:58.480><c> at</c><01:00:58.640><c> the</c><01:00:58.720><c> beginning</c> 01:00:59.270 --> 01:00:59.280 align:start position:0% mentioned so eloquently at the beginning 01:00:59.280 --> 01:01:00.230 align:start position:0% mentioned so eloquently at the beginning is 01:01:00.230 --> 01:01:00.240 align:start position:0% is 01:01:00.240 --> 01:01:01.910 align:start position:0% is is<01:01:00.559><c> uh</c> 01:01:01.910 --> 01:01:01.920 align:start position:0% is uh 01:01:01.920 --> 01:01:04.470 align:start position:0% is uh that's<01:01:02.480><c> that's</c><01:01:02.799><c> the</c><01:01:02.960><c> source</c><01:01:03.359><c> of</c><01:01:03.520><c> a</c><01:01:03.760><c> source</c><01:01:04.240><c> of</c> 01:01:04.470 --> 01:01:04.480 align:start position:0% that's that's the source of a source of 01:01:04.480 --> 01:01:08.870 align:start position:0% that's that's the source of a source of our<01:01:04.720><c> strength</c><01:01:05.280><c> and</c><01:01:05.760><c> our</c><01:01:06.160><c> influence</c> 01:01:08.870 --> 01:01:08.880 align:start position:0% 01:01:08.880 --> 01:01:10.630 align:start position:0% so<01:01:09.200><c> remember</c> 01:01:10.630 --> 01:01:10.640 align:start position:0% so remember 01:01:10.640 --> 01:01:12.069 align:start position:0% so remember that's<01:01:10.799><c> what</c><01:01:10.960><c> that</c><01:01:11.119><c> second</c><01:01:11.359><c> letter</c><01:01:11.680><c> of</c><01:01:11.760><c> peter</c> 01:01:12.069 --> 01:01:12.079 align:start position:0% that's what that second letter of peter 01:01:12.079 --> 01:01:14.309 align:start position:0% that's what that second letter of peter is<01:01:12.240><c> all</c><01:01:12.400><c> about</c><01:01:12.960><c> is</c><01:01:13.119><c> about</c> 01:01:14.309 --> 01:01:14.319 align:start position:0% is all about is about 01:01:14.319 --> 01:01:15.910 align:start position:0% is all about is about 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want</c><01:01:20.480><c> you</c><01:01:20.640><c> to</c><01:01:21.040><c> i'm</c><01:01:21.119><c> telling</c><01:01:21.359><c> you</c><01:01:21.520><c> this</c><01:01:21.680><c> so</c> 01:01:21.829 --> 01:01:21.839 align:start position:0% i i want you to i'm telling you this so 01:01:21.839 --> 01:01:23.190 align:start position:0% i i want you to i'm telling you this so that<01:01:22.000><c> you'll</c><01:01:22.240><c> remember</c><01:01:22.559><c> it</c><01:01:22.640><c> so</c><01:01:22.799><c> you'll</c><01:01:23.040><c> tell</c> 01:01:23.190 --> 01:01:23.200 align:start position:0% that you'll remember it so you'll tell 01:01:23.200 --> 01:01:24.710 align:start position:0% that you'll remember it so you'll tell your<01:01:23.440><c> kids</c><01:01:23.760><c> and</c><01:01:23.839><c> your</c><01:01:24.000><c> kids</c><01:01:24.240><c> will</c><01:01:24.319><c> tell</c><01:01:24.480><c> your</c> 01:01:24.710 --> 01:01:24.720 align:start position:0% your kids and your kids will tell your 01:01:24.720 --> 01:01:25.670 align:start position:0% your kids and your kids will tell your kids 01:01:25.670 --> 01:01:25.680 align:start position:0% kids 01:01:25.680 --> 01:01:28.069 align:start position:0% kids and<01:01:25.760><c> that's</c><01:01:26.160><c> exactly</c><01:01:26.640><c> what</c><01:01:27.119><c> i</c><01:01:27.280><c> think</c><01:01:27.520><c> a</c><01:01:27.680><c> loving</c> 01:01:28.069 --> 01:01:28.079 align:start position:0% and that's exactly what i think a loving 01:01:28.079 --> 01:01:30.789 align:start position:0% and that's exactly what i think a loving thriving<01:01:28.559><c> athleisia</c><01:01:29.680><c> does</c><01:01:30.079><c> that's</c><01:01:30.319><c> what</c><01:01:30.559><c> you</c> 01:01:30.789 --> 01:01:30.799 align:start position:0% thriving athleisia does that's what you 01:01:30.799 --> 01:01:32.230 align:start position:0% thriving athleisia does that's what you did<01:01:31.040><c> for</c><01:01:31.200><c> me</c> 01:01:32.230 --> 01:01:32.240 align:start position:0% did for me 01:01:32.240 --> 01:01:34.710 align:start position:0% did for me hopefully<01:01:32.799><c> that's</c><01:01:33.119><c> what</c><01:01:33.599><c> i</c><01:01:33.760><c> try</c><01:01:33.920><c> to</c><01:01:34.079><c> do</c><01:01:34.400><c> for</c> 01:01:34.710 --> 01:01:34.720 align:start position:0% hopefully that's what i try to do for 01:01:34.720 --> 01:01:37.589 align:start position:0% hopefully that's what i try to do for you<01:01:34.880><c> know</c><01:01:35.119><c> steve's</c><01:01:35.599><c> kids</c><01:01:35.920><c> and</c><01:01:36.079><c> my</c><01:01:36.319><c> kids</c><01:01:36.720><c> and</c> 01:01:37.589 --> 01:01:37.599 align:start position:0% you know steve's kids and my kids and 01:01:37.599 --> 01:01:39.190 align:start position:0% you know steve's kids and my kids and jim's<01:01:37.920><c> kids</c><01:01:38.240><c> and</c><01:01:38.319><c> that's</c><01:01:38.559><c> what</c><01:01:38.720><c> they've</c><01:01:39.040><c> done</c> 01:01:39.190 --> 01:01:39.200 align:start position:0% jim's kids and that's what they've done 01:01:39.200 --> 01:01:41.990 align:start position:0% jim's kids and that's what they've done for<01:01:39.440><c> mine</c><01:01:39.839><c> and</c><01:01:40.480><c> and</c><01:01:40.960><c> lord</c><01:01:41.280><c> willing</c><01:01:41.760><c> with</c><01:01:41.920><c> the</c> 01:01:41.990 --> 01:01:42.000 align:start position:0% for mine and and lord willing with the 01:01:42.000 --> 01:01:44.950 align:start position:0% for mine and and lord willing with the next<01:01:42.240><c> generation</c><01:01:43.040><c> it'll</c><01:01:43.280><c> go</c><01:01:43.520><c> on</c><01:01:43.680><c> again</c> 01:01:44.950 --> 01:01:44.960 align:start position:0% next generation it'll go on again 01:01:44.960 --> 01:01:46.710 align:start position:0% next generation it'll go on again and<01:01:45.359><c> uh</c> 01:01:46.710 --> 01:01:46.720 align:start position:0% and uh 01:01:46.720 --> 01:01:48.870 align:start position:0% and uh that's<01:01:47.040><c> the</c><01:01:47.200><c> way</c><01:01:47.680><c> that's</c><01:01:48.000><c> the</c><01:01:48.079><c> way</c><01:01:48.319><c> love</c><01:01:48.559><c> works</c> 01:01:48.870 --> 01:01:48.880 align:start position:0% that's the way that's the way love works 01:01:48.880 --> 01:01:50.150 align:start position:0% that's the way that's the way love works isn't<01:01:49.200><c> it</c> 01:01:50.150 --> 01:01:50.160 align:start position:0% isn't it 01:01:50.160 --> 01:01:53.270 align:start position:0% isn't it it<01:01:50.400><c> sure</c><01:01:50.720><c> is</c><01:01:51.200><c> yeah</c><01:01:52.079><c> uncle</c><01:01:52.400><c> bob</c><01:01:52.640><c> i</c><01:01:52.799><c> remember</c> 01:01:53.270 --> 01:01:53.280 align:start position:0% it sure is yeah uncle bob i remember 01:01:53.280 --> 01:01:55.029 align:start position:0% it sure is yeah uncle bob i remember when<01:01:53.440><c> you</c><01:01:53.599><c> and</c><01:01:53.760><c> i</c><01:01:53.920><c> nancy</c><01:01:54.319><c> when</c><01:01:54.480><c> the</c><01:01:54.559><c> girls</c><01:01:54.799><c> were</c> 01:01:55.029 --> 01:01:55.039 align:start position:0% when you and i nancy when the girls were 01:01:55.039 --> 01:01:55.990 align:start position:0% when you and i nancy when the girls were little 01:01:55.990 --> 01:01:56.000 align:start position:0% little 01:01:56.000 --> 01:01:58.069 align:start position:0% little used<01:01:56.240><c> to</c><01:01:56.480><c> you</c><01:01:56.559><c> know</c><01:01:56.799><c> say</c><01:01:56.960><c> oh</c><01:01:57.280><c> we</c><01:01:57.440><c> can</c><01:01:57.680><c> take</c><01:01:57.920><c> them</c> 01:01:58.069 --> 01:01:58.079 align:start position:0% used to you know say oh we can take them 01:01:58.079 --> 01:01:59.910 align:start position:0% used to you know say oh we can take them during<01:01:58.400><c> meeting</c><01:01:58.799><c> if</c><01:01:59.039><c> you</c><01:01:59.119><c> know</c><01:01:59.359><c> jim</c><01:01:59.599><c> had</c><01:01:59.760><c> to</c> 01:01:59.910 --> 01:01:59.920 align:start position:0% during meeting if you know jim had to 01:01:59.920 --> 01:02:02.630 align:start position:0% during meeting if you know jim had to preside<01:02:00.480><c> or</c><01:02:00.640><c> i</c><01:02:00.799><c> was</c><01:02:01.039><c> playing</c><01:02:01.280><c> the</c><01:02:01.359><c> piano</c><01:02:01.920><c> so</c> 01:02:02.630 --> 01:02:02.640 align:start position:0% preside or i was playing the piano so 01:02:02.640 --> 01:02:04.150 align:start position:0% preside or i was playing the piano so you<01:02:02.720><c> know</c><01:02:02.960><c> they</c><01:02:03.119><c> just</c> 01:02:04.150 --> 01:02:04.160 align:start position:0% you know they just 01:02:04.160 --> 01:02:05.829 align:start position:0% you know they just developed<01:02:04.640><c> a</c><01:02:04.799><c> really</c><01:02:04.960><c> good</c><01:02:05.200><c> relationship</c> 01:02:05.829 --> 01:02:05.839 align:start position:0% developed a really good relationship 01:02:05.839 --> 01:02:06.950 align:start position:0% developed a really good relationship with<01:02:06.079><c> you</c> 01:02:06.950 --> 01:02:06.960 align:start position:0% with you 01:02:06.960 --> 01:02:07.910 align:start position:0% with you you<01:02:07.119><c> know</c> 01:02:07.910 --> 01:02:07.920 align:start position:0% you know 01:02:07.920 --> 01:02:09.349 align:start position:0% you know yeah<01:02:08.160><c> i</c><01:02:08.240><c> thought</c><01:02:08.480><c> bob</c><01:02:08.720><c> and</c><01:02:08.799><c> nick</c><01:02:09.039><c> have</c><01:02:09.119><c> been</c> 01:02:09.349 --> 01:02:09.359 align:start position:0% yeah i thought bob and nick have been 01:02:09.359 --> 01:02:10.080 align:start position:0% yeah i thought bob and nick have been nuts 01:02:10.080 --> 01:02:10.090 align:start position:0% nuts 01:02:10.090 --> 01:02:13.589 align:start position:0% nuts [Laughter] 01:02:13.589 --> 01:02:13.599 align:start position:0% [Laughter] 01:02:13.599 --> 01:02:16.789 align:start position:0% [Laughter] we<01:02:13.920><c> love</c><01:02:14.400><c> we</c><01:02:14.720><c> love</c><01:02:15.119><c> those</c><01:02:15.520><c> girls</c><01:02:16.079><c> they</c><01:02:16.319><c> are</c><01:02:16.559><c> so</c> 01:02:16.789 --> 01:02:16.799 align:start position:0% we love we love those girls they are so 01:02:16.799 --> 01:02:20.150 align:start position:0% we love we love those girls they are so special<01:02:17.680><c> in</c><01:02:17.839><c> fact</c><01:02:18.240><c> i</c><01:02:18.400><c> am</c><01:02:18.559><c> their</c><01:02:18.839><c> grammy</c><01:02:19.920><c> yeah</c> 01:02:20.150 --> 01:02:20.160 align:start position:0% special in fact i am their grammy yeah 01:02:20.160 --> 01:02:23.109 align:start position:0% special in fact i am their grammy yeah now<01:02:20.400><c> i</c><01:02:20.480><c> have</c><01:02:20.720><c> more</c><01:02:20.880><c> than</c><01:02:21.119><c> seven</c> 01:02:23.109 --> 01:02:23.119 align:start position:0% now i have more than seven 01:02:23.119 --> 01:02:24.870 align:start position:0% now i have more than seven i<01:02:23.440><c> love</c><01:02:23.599><c> you</c><01:02:23.839><c> girls</c> 01:02:24.870 --> 01:02:24.880 align:start position:0% i love you girls 01:02:24.880 --> 01:02:28.230 align:start position:0% i love you girls thank<01:02:25.119><c> you</c><01:02:25.440><c> i</c><01:02:25.599><c> love</c><01:02:25.760><c> you</c><01:02:26.000><c> it's</c><01:02:26.160><c> just</c><01:02:26.480><c> nice</c><01:02:26.799><c> to</c> 01:02:28.230 --> 01:02:28.240 align:start position:0% thank you i love you it's just nice to 01:02:28.240 --> 01:02:30.309 align:start position:0% thank you i love you it's just nice to like<01:02:28.400><c> a</c><01:02:28.559><c> jim</c><01:02:28.799><c> said</c><01:02:29.039><c> you</c><01:02:29.119><c> know</c><01:02:29.280><c> to</c><01:02:29.440><c> be</c><01:02:29.599><c> in</c><01:02:29.680><c> that</c><01:02:30.160><c> a</c> 01:02:30.309 --> 01:02:30.319 align:start position:0% like a jim said you know to be in that a 01:02:30.319 --> 01:02:31.670 align:start position:0% like a jim said you know to be in that a collegial<01:02:30.880><c> life</c> 01:02:31.670 --> 01:02:31.680 align:start position:0% collegial life 01:02:31.680 --> 01:02:34.470 align:start position:0% collegial life yeah<01:02:32.079><c> having</c><01:02:32.880><c> all</c><01:02:33.119><c> this</c><01:02:33.359><c> help</c> 01:02:34.470 --> 01:02:34.480 align:start position:0% yeah having all this help 01:02:34.480 --> 01:02:36.470 align:start position:0% yeah having all this help you<01:02:34.640><c> know</c><01:02:34.960><c> and</c><01:02:35.440><c> having</c><01:02:35.760><c> your</c><01:02:35.920><c> children</c><01:02:36.240><c> be</c> 01:02:36.470 --> 01:02:36.480 align:start position:0% you know and having your children be 01:02:36.480 --> 01:02:38.950 align:start position:0% you know and having your children be influenced<01:02:37.039><c> by</c> 01:02:38.950 --> 01:02:38.960 align:start position:0% influenced by 01:02:38.960 --> 01:02:40.870 align:start position:0% influenced by you<01:02:39.119><c> know</c><01:02:39.760><c> um</c> 01:02:40.870 --> 01:02:40.880 align:start position:0% you know um 01:02:40.880 --> 01:02:42.710 align:start position:0% you know um older<01:02:41.200><c> people</c><01:02:41.520><c> and</c><01:02:41.599><c> making</c><01:02:42.000><c> relationships</c> 01:02:42.710 --> 01:02:42.720 align:start position:0% older people and making relationships 01:02:42.720 --> 01:02:44.630 align:start position:0% older people and making relationships with 01:02:44.630 --> 01:02:44.640 align:start position:0% with 01:02:44.640 --> 01:02:47.029 align:start position:0% with you<01:02:44.720><c> know</c><01:02:44.960><c> grandparents</c><01:02:45.920><c> that</c><01:02:46.160><c> are</c> 01:02:47.029 --> 01:02:47.039 align:start position:0% you know grandparents that are 01:02:47.039 --> 01:02:50.230 align:start position:0% you know grandparents that are not<01:02:47.200><c> theirs</c><01:02:47.440><c> biologically</c><01:02:48.240><c> but</c><01:02:48.559><c> it's</c><01:02:48.720><c> great</c> 01:02:50.230 --> 01:02:50.240 align:start position:0% not theirs biologically but it's great 01:02:50.240 --> 01:02:51.029 align:start position:0% not theirs biologically but it's great in 01:02:51.029 --> 01:02:51.039 align:start position:0% in 01:02:51.039 --> 01:02:53.430 align:start position:0% in kate<01:02:51.280><c> the</c><01:02:51.760><c> the</c><01:02:51.839><c> irony</c><01:02:52.240><c> of</c><01:02:52.400><c> all</c><01:02:52.480><c> this</c><01:02:52.720><c> is</c><01:02:52.880><c> is</c><01:02:53.039><c> now</c> 01:02:53.430 --> 01:02:53.440 align:start position:0% kate the the irony of all this is is now 01:02:53.440 --> 01:02:55.349 align:start position:0% kate the the irony of all this is is now you<01:02:53.680><c> and</c><01:02:53.839><c> jim</c> 01:02:55.349 --> 01:02:55.359 align:start position:0% you and jim 01:02:55.359 --> 01:02:56.390 align:start position:0% you and jim are 01:02:56.390 --> 01:02:56.400 align:start position:0% are 01:02:56.400 --> 01:02:57.910 align:start position:0% are actually<01:02:56.720><c> being</c><01:02:56.960><c> really</c><01:02:57.200><c> impactful</c><01:02:57.599><c> like</c><01:02:57.760><c> for</c> 01:02:57.910 --> 01:02:57.920 align:start position:0% actually being really impactful like for 01:02:57.920 --> 01:02:59.589 align:start position:0% actually being really impactful like for my<01:02:58.079><c> brother</c><01:02:58.400><c> right</c><01:02:58.640><c> he's</c><01:02:58.880><c> still</c> 01:02:59.589 --> 01:02:59.599 align:start position:0% my brother right he's still 01:02:59.599 --> 01:03:01.589 align:start position:0% my brother right he's still 25<01:03:00.240><c> just</c><01:03:00.400><c> turned</c><01:03:00.640><c> 25</c><01:03:01.039><c> and</c><01:03:01.119><c> he's</c><01:03:01.280><c> still</c><01:03:01.520><c> trying</c> 01:03:01.589 --> 01:03:01.599 align:start position:0% 25 just turned 25 and he's still trying 01:03:01.599 --> 01:03:03.190 align:start position:0% 25 just turned 25 and he's still trying to<01:03:01.760><c> figure</c><01:03:02.000><c> it</c><01:03:02.160><c> out</c><01:03:02.400><c> like</c><01:03:02.559><c> he</c><01:03:02.720><c> knows</c><01:03:02.960><c> what's</c> 01:03:03.190 --> 01:03:03.200 align:start position:0% to figure it out like he knows what's 01:03:03.200 --> 01:03:05.829 align:start position:0% to figure it out like he knows what's right<01:03:03.440><c> but</c><01:03:03.520><c> he</c><01:03:03.680><c> still</c><01:03:03.839><c> does</c><01:03:04.240><c> and</c> 01:03:05.829 --> 01:03:05.839 align:start position:0% right but he still does and 01:03:05.839 --> 01:03:07.430 align:start position:0% right but he still does and sometimes<01:03:06.160><c> i</c><01:03:06.240><c> want</c><01:03:06.400><c> to</c><01:03:06.559><c> throw</c><01:03:06.799><c> him</c><01:03:06.960><c> and</c><01:03:07.359><c> you</c> 01:03:07.430 --> 01:03:07.440 align:start position:0% sometimes i want to throw him and you 01:03:07.440 --> 01:03:08.549 align:start position:0% sometimes i want to throw him and you know<01:03:07.680><c> the</c> 01:03:08.549 --> 01:03:08.559 align:start position:0% know the 01:03:08.559 --> 01:03:10.710 align:start position:0% know the the<01:03:08.720><c> baptism</c><01:03:09.200><c> will</c><01:03:09.359><c> tank</c><01:03:09.680><c> but</c><01:03:09.760><c> you</c><01:03:10.240><c> can't</c><01:03:10.480><c> you</c> 01:03:10.710 --> 01:03:10.720 align:start position:0% the baptism will tank but you can't you 01:03:10.720 --> 01:03:12.390 align:start position:0% the baptism will tank but you can't you have<01:03:10.880><c> to</c><01:03:10.960><c> let</c><01:03:11.119><c> him</c><01:03:11.200><c> figure</c><01:03:11.440><c> this</c><01:03:11.599><c> out</c><01:03:11.760><c> but</c><01:03:12.240><c> when</c> 01:03:12.390 --> 01:03:12.400 align:start position:0% have to let him figure this out but when 01:03:12.400 --> 01:03:15.190 align:start position:0% have to let him figure this out but when we<01:03:12.640><c> when</c><01:03:12.880><c> cara</c><01:03:13.119><c> was</c><01:03:13.280><c> gone</c><01:03:13.760><c> in</c><01:03:14.079><c> canada</c> 01:03:15.190 --> 01:03:15.200 align:start position:0% we when cara was gone in canada 01:03:15.200 --> 01:03:18.549 align:start position:0% we when cara was gone in canada and<01:03:15.520><c> and</c><01:03:15.920><c> jim</c><01:03:16.640><c> was</c><01:03:17.280><c> dropping</c><01:03:17.760><c> off</c><01:03:18.000><c> the</c><01:03:18.240><c> third</c> 01:03:18.549 --> 01:03:18.559 align:start position:0% and and jim was dropping off the third 01:03:18.559 --> 01:03:20.549 align:start position:0% and and jim was dropping off the third iteration<01:03:19.520><c> of</c> 01:03:20.549 --> 01:03:20.559 align:start position:0% iteration of 01:03:20.559 --> 01:03:21.829 align:start position:0% iteration of food 01:03:21.829 --> 01:03:21.839 align:start position:0% food 01:03:21.839 --> 01:03:23.270 align:start position:0% food to<01:03:22.240><c> to</c><01:03:22.400><c> me</c><01:03:22.559><c> as</c><01:03:22.720><c> i'm</c><01:03:22.799><c> doing</c><01:03:23.039><c> the</c><01:03:23.119><c> whole</c> 01:03:23.270 --> 01:03:23.280 align:start position:0% to to me as i'm doing the whole 01:03:23.280 --> 01:03:24.950 align:start position:0% to to me as i'm doing the whole renovations<01:03:23.920><c> like</c><01:03:24.079><c> nate</c><01:03:24.319><c> what</c><01:03:24.480><c> do</c><01:03:24.559><c> you</c><01:03:24.640><c> need</c> 01:03:24.950 --> 01:03:24.960 align:start position:0% renovations like nate what do you need 01:03:24.960 --> 01:03:27.829 align:start position:0% renovations like nate what do you need like<01:03:25.119><c> my</c><01:03:25.359><c> brother</c><01:03:25.599><c> was</c><01:03:25.760><c> like</c><01:03:26.319><c> wow</c><01:03:26.960><c> you</c><01:03:27.039><c> know</c> 01:03:27.829 --> 01:03:27.839 align:start position:0% like my brother was like wow you know 01:03:27.839 --> 01:03:31.430 align:start position:0% like my brother was like wow you know jim<01:03:28.079><c> like</c><01:03:28.720><c> it</c><01:03:28.799><c> was</c><01:03:29.119><c> for</c><01:03:29.359><c> him</c><01:03:30.319><c> um</c> 01:03:31.430 --> 01:03:31.440 align:start position:0% jim like it was for him um 01:03:31.440 --> 01:03:33.910 align:start position:0% jim like it was for him um that<01:03:31.599><c> was</c><01:03:31.839><c> such</c><01:03:32.079><c> a</c><01:03:32.240><c> tangible</c> 01:03:33.910 --> 01:03:33.920 align:start position:0% that was such a tangible 01:03:33.920 --> 01:03:36.390 align:start position:0% that was such a tangible expression<01:03:34.559><c> of</c><01:03:34.799><c> love</c><01:03:35.039><c> of</c><01:03:35.200><c> brotherly</c><01:03:35.599><c> love</c> 01:03:36.390 --> 01:03:36.400 align:start position:0% expression of love of brotherly love 01:03:36.400 --> 01:03:38.470 align:start position:0% expression of love of brotherly love that<01:03:36.720><c> my</c><01:03:37.119><c> brother</c><01:03:37.440><c> has</c><01:03:37.760><c> like</c><01:03:37.920><c> this</c><01:03:38.240><c> this</c> 01:03:38.470 --> 01:03:38.480 align:start position:0% that my brother has like this this 01:03:38.480 --> 01:03:41.029 align:start position:0% that my brother has like this this really<01:03:39.039><c> this</c><01:03:39.440><c> exceptional</c><01:03:39.920><c> respect</c><01:03:40.400><c> for</c><01:03:40.880><c> the</c> 01:03:41.029 --> 01:03:41.039 align:start position:0% really this exceptional respect for the 01:03:41.039 --> 01:03:42.950 align:start position:0% really this exceptional respect for the boy<01:03:41.280><c> because</c><01:03:41.440><c> he's</c><01:03:41.680><c> like</c><01:03:42.079><c> this</c><01:03:42.319><c> is</c><01:03:42.480><c> incredible</c> 01:03:42.950 --> 01:03:42.960 align:start position:0% boy because he's like this is incredible 01:03:42.960 --> 01:03:45.510 align:start position:0% boy because he's like this is incredible and<01:03:43.359><c> yeah</c><01:03:43.920><c> it</c><01:03:44.000><c> might</c><01:03:44.160><c> help</c><01:03:44.400><c> that</c><01:03:44.559><c> you</c><01:03:44.640><c> know</c> 01:03:45.510 --> 01:03:45.520 align:start position:0% and yeah it might help that you know 01:03:45.520 --> 01:03:47.430 align:start position:0% and yeah it might help that you know jim<01:03:45.760><c> shows</c><01:03:46.160><c> up</c><01:03:46.319><c> in</c><01:03:46.480><c> a</c><01:03:46.720><c> uh</c> 01:03:47.430 --> 01:03:47.440 align:start position:0% jim shows up in a uh 01:03:47.440 --> 01:03:49.349 align:start position:0% jim shows up in a uh in<01:03:47.599><c> a</c><01:03:47.920><c> motorcycle</c><01:03:48.640><c> and</c><01:03:48.799><c> you</c><01:03:48.960><c> know</c><01:03:49.119><c> does</c><01:03:49.280><c> a</c> 01:03:49.349 --> 01:03:49.359 align:start position:0% in a motorcycle and you know does a 01:03:49.359 --> 01:03:56.230 align:start position:0% in a motorcycle and you know does a couple<01:03:49.599><c> wheelies</c><01:03:50.000><c> on</c><01:03:50.079><c> his</c><01:03:50.240><c> way</c><01:03:50.480><c> out</c><01:03:51.119><c> um</c> 01:03:56.230 --> 01:03:56.240 align:start position:0% 01:03:56.240 --> 01:03:58.309 align:start position:0% he<01:03:56.400><c> did</c><01:03:56.640><c> not</c><01:03:56.799><c> do</c><01:03:57.039><c> a</c><01:03:57.119><c> wheel</c><01:03:57.359><c> he</c><01:03:57.440><c> did</c><01:03:57.599><c> not</c><01:03:57.839><c> do</c> 01:03:58.309 --> 01:03:58.319 align:start position:0% he did not do a wheel he did not do 01:03:58.319 --> 01:04:01.510 align:start position:0% he did not do a wheel he did not do maybe<01:03:58.720><c> a</c><01:03:58.880><c> doughnut</c><01:03:59.280><c> or</c><01:03:59.359><c> so</c><01:03:59.680><c> but</c><01:03:59.920><c> um</c><01:04:00.720><c> no</c><01:04:00.960><c> it</c><01:04:01.200><c> was</c> 01:04:01.510 --> 01:04:01.520 align:start position:0% maybe a doughnut or so but um no it was 01:04:01.520 --> 01:04:03.510 align:start position:0% maybe a doughnut or so but um no it was it<01:04:01.680><c> was</c><01:04:01.839><c> that</c><01:04:02.079><c> actually</c><01:04:02.640><c> there's</c><01:04:02.960><c> there's</c><01:04:03.200><c> no</c> 01:04:03.510 --> 01:04:03.520 align:start position:0% it was that actually there's there's no 01:04:03.520 --> 01:04:05.910 align:start position:0% it was that actually there's there's no expiration<01:04:04.240><c> date</c><01:04:04.559><c> to</c><01:04:04.720><c> this</c><01:04:04.960><c> my</c><01:04:05.119><c> brother</c><01:04:05.440><c> 25</c> 01:04:05.910 --> 01:04:05.920 align:start position:0% expiration date to this my brother 25 01:04:05.920 --> 01:04:08.870 align:start position:0% expiration date to this my brother 25 years<01:04:06.160><c> old</c><01:04:06.559><c> he</c><01:04:07.119><c> was</c><01:04:07.280><c> just</c><01:04:07.920><c> so</c> 01:04:08.870 --> 01:04:08.880 align:start position:0% years old he was just so 01:04:08.880 --> 01:04:11.589 align:start position:0% years old he was just so uh<01:04:09.200><c> thrilled</c><01:04:09.680><c> to</c><01:04:09.839><c> see</c><01:04:10.160><c> that</c><01:04:10.480><c> and</c><01:04:10.720><c> i</c><01:04:10.880><c> could</c><01:04:11.280><c> tell</c> 01:04:11.589 --> 01:04:11.599 align:start position:0% uh thrilled to see that and i could tell 01:04:11.599 --> 01:04:21.190 align:start position:0% uh thrilled to see that and i could tell how<01:04:11.839><c> that</c><01:04:12.079><c> made</c><01:04:12.319><c> an</c><01:04:12.480><c> impact</c><01:04:12.960><c> on</c> 01:04:21.190 --> 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01:04:34.000 --> 01:04:35.510 align:start position:0% yes speaking<01:04:34.400><c> of</c><01:04:34.480><c> that</c><01:04:34.720><c> cara</c><01:04:35.039><c> sent</c><01:04:35.200><c> me</c><01:04:35.359><c> she</c> 01:04:35.510 --> 01:04:35.520 align:start position:0% speaking of that cara sent me she 01:04:35.520 --> 01:04:36.870 align:start position:0% speaking of that cara sent me she slipped<01:04:35.760><c> like</c><01:04:36.000><c> her</c><01:04:36.079><c> phone</c><01:04:36.480><c> she's</c><01:04:36.640><c> like</c><01:04:36.720><c> you're</c> 01:04:36.870 --> 01:04:36.880 align:start position:0% slipped like her phone she's like you're 01:04:36.880 --> 01:04:39.270 align:start position:0% slipped like her phone she's like you're 10<01:04:37.119><c> minutes</c><01:04:37.440><c> over</c><01:04:37.920><c> so</c><01:04:38.319><c> i</c><01:04:38.640><c> do</c><01:04:38.799><c> want</c><01:04:38.960><c> to</c><01:04:39.039><c> bring</c> 01:04:39.270 --> 01:04:39.280 align:start position:0% 10 minutes over so i do want to bring 01:04:39.280 --> 01:04:40.950 align:start position:0% 10 minutes over so i do want to bring this<01:04:39.440><c> to</c><01:04:39.680><c> a</c><01:04:39.920><c> close</c> 01:04:40.950 --> 01:04:40.960 align:start position:0% this to a close 01:04:40.960 --> 01:04:43.190 align:start position:0% this to a close he's<01:04:41.200><c> a</c><01:04:41.280><c> fantastic</c><01:04:42.079><c> uh</c> 01:04:43.190 --> 01:04:43.200 align:start position:0% he's a fantastic uh 01:04:43.200 --> 01:04:49.270 align:start position:0% he's a fantastic uh steward<01:04:43.680><c> of</c><01:04:43.760><c> the</c><01:04:43.920><c> time</c><01:04:44.240><c> in</c><01:04:44.319><c> that</c><01:04:44.640><c> sense</c> 01:04:49.270 --> 01:04:49.280 align:start position:0% 01:04:49.280 --> 01:04:52.160 align:start position:0% yeah<01:04:49.520><c> thank</c><01:04:49.680><c> you</c>