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you</c><00:16:10.809><c> not</c><00:16:11.070><c> read</c><00:16:11.289><c> that</c><00:16:11.429><c> he</c> 00:16:11.590 --> 00:16:12.669 that<00:16:11.730><c> made</c><00:16:11.889><c> from</c><00:16:12.049><c> the</c><00:16:12.210><c> beginning</c><00:16:12.429><c> made</c> 00:16:12.669 --> 00:16:15.049 the<00:16:12.809><c> male</c><00:16:12.990><c> and</c><00:16:13.129><c> female?</c><00:16:13.370><c> We</c><00:16:13.549><c> read</c><00:16:13.769><c> that.</c><00:16:14.710><c> We're</c><00:16:14.809><c> not</c><00:16:14.889><c> to</c><00:16:15.009><c> put</c> 00:16:15.049 --> 00:16:16.509 one<00:16:15.269><c> asunder.</c> 00:16:20.289 --> 00:16:25.809 We're<00:16:21.009><c> not</c><00:16:21.269><c> to</c><00:16:21.529><c> let</c><00:16:21.950><c> anything</c><00:16:22.409><c> but</c><00:16:22.750><c> death</c><00:16:23.690><c> separate</c><00:16:24.330><c> us.</c><00:16:25.690><c> And</c> 00:16:25.809 --> 00:16:28.450 so<00:16:25.889><c> with</c><00:16:26.090><c> that</c><00:16:26.450><c> attitude,</c><00:16:26.909><c> that</c><00:16:27.169><c> permanence,</c> 00:16:28.509 --> 00:16:31.090 we're<00:16:28.970><c> going</c><00:16:29.049><c> to</c><00:16:29.149><c> make</c><00:16:29.289><c> the</c><00:16:29.409><c> marriage</c><00:16:29.610><c> work.</c><00:16:29.990><c> We</c><00:16:30.210><c> work</c><00:16:30.429><c> at</c><00:16:30.610><c> making</c><00:16:30.789><c> it</c> 00:16:31.090 --> 00:16:36.269 work<00:16:31.549><c> because</c><00:16:32.509><c> we</c><00:16:33.649><c> are</c><00:16:33.929><c> married</c><00:16:34.389><c> for</c><00:16:35.149><c> life.</c> 00:16:38.149 --> 00:16:41.289 And<00:16:38.549><c> when</c><00:16:38.710><c> you</c><00:16:38.990><c> married</c><00:16:39.409><c> your</c><00:16:39.850><c> mate,</c><00:16:40.350><c> you</c><00:16:40.570><c> married</c><00:16:40.809><c> someone</c> 00:16:41.289 --> 00:16:45.289 different<00:16:41.970><c> than</c><00:16:42.350><c> you</c><00:16:42.750><c> are.</c><00:16:43.629><c> God</c><00:16:44.090><c> made</c><00:16:44.370><c> us</c><00:16:44.730><c> all</c> 00:16:45.289 --> 00:16:51.409 different<00:16:45.730><c> on</c><00:16:46.149><c> purpose.</c><00:16:46.850><c> And</c><00:16:46.990><c> it's</c><00:16:47.129><c> interesting</c><00:16:47.490><c> how</c><00:16:48.450><c> opposites</c><00:16:48.950><c> attract</c><00:16:49.490><c> each</c><00:16:49.809><c> other.</c><00:16:50.850><c> I'm</c><00:16:51.269><c> a</c> 00:16:51.409 --> 00:16:51.950 morning<00:16:51.649><c> person,</c> 00:16:51.970 --> 00:16:55.850 my<00:16:52.149><c> wife</c><00:16:52.370><c> is</c><00:16:52.570><c> an</c><00:16:52.730><c> evening</c><00:16:53.070><c> person.</c><00:16:54.409><c> We</c><00:16:54.690><c> are</c><00:16:54.889><c> different</c><00:16:55.190><c> in</c><00:16:55.549><c> so</c> 00:16:55.850 --> 00:16:59.149 many<00:16:56.149><c> ways,</c><00:16:56.610><c> and</c><00:16:56.769><c> yet</c><00:16:56.970><c> we've</c><00:16:57.990><c> been</c><00:16:58.210><c> married</c><00:16:58.470><c> 53</c> 00:16:59.149 --> 00:17:03.830 years<00:16:59.809><c> this</c><00:17:00.250><c> month.</c><00:17:01.529><c> Our</c><00:17:01.690><c> 53rd</c><00:17:02.350><c> wedding</c><00:17:02.509><c> anniversary</c><00:17:02.950><c> is</c><00:17:03.129><c> coming</c><00:17:03.350><c> up</c> 00:17:03.830 --> 00:17:06.930 the<00:17:04.009><c> last</c><00:17:04.289><c> day</c><00:17:04.490><c> of</c><00:17:04.730><c> July.</c><00:17:06.210><c> But</c><00:17:06.490><c> she's</c><00:17:06.789><c> sure</c> 00:17:06.930 --> 00:17:09.730 different<00:17:07.210><c> from</c><00:17:07.450><c> me,</c><00:17:07.769><c> and</c><00:17:07.910><c> I'm</c><00:17:08.069><c> sure</c><00:17:08.250><c> you're</c><00:17:08.450><c> glad</c><00:17:08.670><c> of</c><00:17:08.930><c> that.</c> 00:17:09.769 --> 00:17:14.670 I'm<00:17:10.089><c> glad</c><00:17:10.329><c> of</c><00:17:10.529><c> that.</c><00:17:11.529><c> In</c><00:17:11.829><c> the</c><00:17:12.809><c> musical</c><00:17:13.329><c> My</c><00:17:13.769><c> Fair</c><00:17:14.089><c> Lady,</c> 00:17:14.670 --> 00:17:18.630 Professor<00:17:15.329><c> Higgins</c><00:17:15.710><c> says,</c><00:17:16.289><c> why</c><00:17:16.430><c> can't</c><00:17:16.829><c> a</c><00:17:17.069><c> woman</c><00:17:17.289><c> be</c><00:17:17.589><c> more</c><00:17:18.069><c> like</c><00:17:18.369><c> a</c> 00:17:18.630 --> 00:17:21.970 man?<00:17:20.210><c> They</c><00:17:20.609><c> never</c><00:17:20.990><c> will</c><00:17:21.490><c> be,</c> 00:17:21.970 --> 00:17:25.690 and<00:17:22.210><c> we're</c><00:17:22.490><c> thankful</c><00:17:22.930><c> for</c><00:17:23.230><c> that.</c><00:17:24.210><c> We're</c><00:17:24.390><c> not</c><00:17:24.789><c> widgets</c><00:17:25.269><c> coming</c> 00:17:25.690 --> 00:17:27.650 off<00:17:25.910><c> an</c><00:17:26.210><c> assembly</c><00:17:26.529><c> line.</c><00:17:26.869><c> We're</c><00:17:26.990><c> not</c><00:17:27.250><c> donuts</c> 00:17:27.650 --> 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troubles</c><00:18:17.670><c> between</c><00:18:18.529><c> fellowships</c><00:18:19.990><c> when</c><00:18:20.269><c> we</c> 00:18:20.549 --> 00:18:20.869 try<00:18:20.730><c> to</c> 00:18:20.869 --> 00:18:25.970 make<00:18:21.049><c> everyone</c><00:18:21.609><c> to</c><00:18:22.250><c> think</c><00:18:22.450><c> exactly</c><00:18:23.130><c> alike.</c><00:18:24.630><c> First</c><00:18:24.829><c> principles</c><00:18:25.289><c> cannot</c><00:18:25.650><c> be</c> 00:18:25.970 --> 00:18:27.890 compromised.<00:18:26.609><c> No</c><00:18:27.150><c> doubt</c><00:18:27.529><c> about</c> 00:18:27.890 --> 00:18:32.589 that.<00:18:28.970><c> But</c><00:18:29.410><c> let's</c><00:18:30.210><c> don't</c><00:18:30.509><c> try</c><00:18:30.710><c> to</c><00:18:30.869><c> make</c><00:18:31.109><c> everyone</c><00:18:31.690><c> think</c><00:18:32.109><c> just</c> 00:18:32.589 --> 00:18:37.250 like<00:18:33.609><c> I</c><00:18:34.750><c> think</c><00:18:35.029><c> or</c><00:18:35.289><c> you</c><00:18:35.569><c> think,</c><00:18:36.190><c> unless</c><00:18:36.450><c> it</c><00:18:36.710><c> is</c><00:18:37.029><c> a</c> 00:18:37.250 --> 00:18:42.769 principle.<00:18:38.869><c> Within</c><00:18:39.390><c> a</c><00:18:39.670><c> marriage,</c><00:18:41.490><c> realize</c><00:18:41.529><c> women</c><00:18:42.230><c> and</c><00:18:42.430><c> men</c> 00:18:42.769 --> 00:18:46.569 do<00:18:43.150><c> think</c><00:18:43.410><c> different,</c><00:18:44.990><c> and</c><00:18:45.089><c> I'm</c><00:18:45.269><c> glad</c><00:18:45.569><c> for</c><00:18:45.809><c> that.</c> 00:18:48.630 --> 00:18:53.910 It<00:18:49.150><c> requires</c><00:18:49.549><c> a</c><00:18:49.710><c> lot</c><00:18:49.950><c> of</c><00:18:50.349><c> patience.</c><00:18:52.150><c> To</c><00:18:52.390><c> be</c><00:18:52.690><c> married,</c><00:18:53.089><c> you</c><00:18:53.190><c> just</c><00:18:53.549><c> have</c><00:18:53.789><c> to</c> 00:18:53.910 --> 00:18:55.670 get<00:18:54.009><c> a</c><00:18:54.150><c> lot</c><00:18:54.390><c> of</c><00:18:54.730><c> patience.</c> 00:18:56.250 --> 00:18:58.910 Now,<00:18:56.410><c> I</c><00:18:56.470><c> have</c><00:18:56.630><c> a</c><00:18:56.690><c> lot</c><00:18:56.890><c> of</c><00:18:57.089><c> patience,</c><00:18:57.369><c> but</c><00:18:57.509><c> I</c><00:18:57.630><c> don't</c><00:18:57.750><c> like</c><00:18:57.910><c> to</c><00:18:58.230><c> spend</c><00:18:58.430><c> any</c><00:18:58.750><c> of</c> 00:18:58.910 --> 00:19:02.609 it.<00:19:00.650><c> But</c><00:19:00.849><c> patience</c><00:19:01.150><c> is</c><00:19:01.730><c> made</c><00:19:02.049><c> to</c><00:19:02.250><c> be</c> 00:19:02.609 --> 00:19:06.750 meant.<00:19:03.869><c> And</c><00:19:04.210><c> we</c><00:19:04.349><c> need</c><00:19:04.609><c> to</c><00:19:04.930><c> learn</c><00:19:05.210><c> to</c><00:19:05.490><c> be</c><00:19:05.710><c> patient</c><00:19:06.170><c> with</c><00:19:06.430><c> each</c> 00:19:06.750 --> 00:19:10.750 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young</c><00:19:19.710><c> couple.</c><00:19:20.549><c> Worldly,</c><00:19:21.150><c> but</c><00:19:21.210><c> as</c> 00:19:21.789 --> 00:19:22.329 the<00:19:21.930><c> world</c><00:19:22.049><c> goes,</c> 00:19:22.569 --> 00:19:26.369 nice<00:19:22.769><c> people.</c><00:19:23.869><c> And</c><00:19:24.069><c> one</c><00:19:24.210><c> day</c><00:19:24.329><c> they</c><00:19:24.430><c> announced</c><00:19:24.789><c> they</c><00:19:24.890><c> were</c><00:19:25.029><c> getting</c><00:19:25.190><c> divorced,</c><00:19:25.970><c> and</c> 00:19:26.369 --> 00:19:28.609 I<00:19:27.009><c> felt</c><00:19:27.230><c> so</c><00:19:27.869><c> sad</c><00:19:28.130><c> about</c><00:19:28.349><c> it.</c><00:19:28.470><c> I</c> 00:19:28.609 --> 00:19:32.789 talked<00:19:28.910><c> to</c><00:19:29.109><c> the</c><00:19:29.849><c> wife</c><00:19:30.150><c> over</c><00:19:30.470><c> the</c><00:19:30.750><c> fence,</c><00:19:31.289><c> and</c><00:19:31.289><c> she</c><00:19:31.369><c> said,</c><00:19:31.549><c> well,</c><00:19:32.369><c> we</c> 00:19:32.789 --> 00:19:34.069 could<00:19:33.089><c> make</c><00:19:33.349><c> this</c><00:19:33.609><c> marriage</c><00:19:33.849><c> work,</c> 00:19:34.069 --> 00:19:38.970 but<00:19:34.210><c> I</c><00:19:34.450><c> just</c><00:19:34.630><c> don't</c><00:19:34.829><c> feel</c><00:19:35.150><c> committed.</c><00:19:36.730><c> And</c><00:19:36.970><c> it</c><00:19:37.609><c> didn't</c><00:19:37.910><c> work.</c> 00:19:39.589 --> 00:19:44.049 Commitment<00:19:40.210><c> has</c><00:19:40.609><c> to</c><00:19:40.849><c> be</c><00:19:41.549><c> the</c><00:19:41.829><c> answer</c><00:19:42.349><c> to</c><00:19:42.829><c> the</c><00:19:43.029><c> problem.</c> 00:19:48.670 --> 00:19:52.750 When<00:19:49.049><c> we're</c><00:19:49.390><c> married,</c><00:19:50.190><c> we</c><00:19:50.289><c> don't</c><00:19:50.569><c> look</c><00:19:50.890><c> at</c><00:19:51.150><c> anyone</c><00:19:51.509><c> else.</c> 00:19:55.170 --> 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the</c><00:20:28.849><c> price</c><00:20:29.589><c> of</c><00:20:30.589><c> sin</c><00:20:31.170><c> is</c><00:20:33.049><c> always</c><00:20:34.250><c> death.</c><00:20:37.609><c> Now,</c><00:20:39.230><c> you</c><00:20:39.329><c> may</c><00:20:39.529><c> have</c><00:20:39.630><c> heard</c><00:20:39.789><c> this</c><00:20:40.029><c> story</c><00:20:40.250><c> before,</c><00:20:40.849><c> but</c><00:20:41.049><c> I</c> 00:20:41.250 --> 00:20:41.509 want<00:20:41.390><c> to</c> 00:20:41.509 --> 00:20:47.210 hear<00:20:41.609><c> it</c><00:20:41.809><c> again.</c><00:20:43.529><c> It</c><00:20:43.789><c> has</c><00:20:44.029><c> to</c><00:20:44.230><c> do</c><00:20:44.349><c> with</c><00:20:44.789><c> a</c><00:20:45.250><c> shopping</c><00:20:45.549><c> mall.</c><00:20:47.109><c> And</c> 00:20:47.210 --> 00:20:50.470 in<00:20:47.329><c> the</c><00:20:47.509><c> shopping</c><00:20:47.750><c> mall,</c><00:20:48.769><c> you</c><00:20:48.890><c> ladies</c><00:20:49.170><c> love</c><00:20:49.430><c> to</c><00:20:49.650><c> shop.</c> 00:20:50.589 --> 00:20:57.970 Shop<00:20:51.150><c> till</c><00:20:51.329><c> you</c><00:20:51.450><c> drop.</c><00:20:52.950><c> You're</c><00:20:53.309><c> going</c><00:20:53.529><c> down</c><00:20:53.930><c> the</c><00:20:55.210><c> aisle</c><00:20:55.549><c> in</c><00:20:55.789><c> the</c><00:20:55.970><c> shopping</c><00:20:56.210><c> mall,</c><00:20:57.210><c> and</c><00:20:57.309><c> you</c><00:20:57.430><c> see</c><00:20:57.609><c> a</c> 00:20:57.970 --> 00:20:58.710 store<00:20:58.250><c> there,</c> 00:20:58.789 --> 00:21:02.730 and<00:20:58.970><c> it's</c><00:20:59.329><c> very</c><00:20:59.829><c> busy.</c><00:21:00.309><c> Lots</c><00:21:00.630><c> of</c><00:21:00.930><c> customers.</c><00:21:01.450><c> And</c><00:21:01.609><c> you</c><00:21:01.730><c> see</c><00:21:01.910><c> the</c><00:21:02.170><c> sign</c><00:21:02.349><c> above</c><00:21:02.529><c> it,</c><00:21:02.670><c> it</c> 00:21:02.730 --> 00:21:04.990 says,<00:21:03.650><c> sin</c><00:21:03.829><c> store.</c> 00:21:06.109 --> 00:21:09.369 That<00:21:06.430><c> does</c><00:21:06.849><c> look</c><00:21:07.130><c> interesting,</c><00:21:07.750><c> doesn't</c><00:21:08.109><c> it?</c><00:21:08.710><c> I</c><00:21:08.910><c> think</c><00:21:09.210><c> I'll</c> 00:21:09.369 --> 00:21:11.690 just<00:21:09.670><c> go</c><00:21:09.829><c> in</c><00:21:10.029><c> and</c><00:21:10.230><c> browse.</c><00:21:10.630><c> I'll</c><00:21:10.750><c> just</c><00:21:10.950><c> window</c><00:21:11.329><c> shop.</c> 00:21:11.869 --> 00:21:15.710 I<00:21:12.069><c> won't</c><00:21:12.289><c> buy</c><00:21:12.589><c> anything.</c><00:21:13.430><c> But</c><00:21:13.569><c> so</c><00:21:13.809><c> you</c><00:21:14.549><c> wander</c><00:21:14.910><c> into</c><00:21:15.150><c> the</c><00:21:15.470><c> sin</c> 00:21:15.710 --> 00:21:18.950 store,<00:21:17.589><c> and</c><00:21:17.950><c> as</c><00:21:18.289><c> you</c><00:21:18.410><c> look</c><00:21:18.589><c> along,</c> 00:21:18.950 --> 00:21:23.049 all<00:21:19.470><c> the</c><00:21:19.730><c> sins</c><00:21:19.869><c> are</c><00:21:20.210><c> attractively</c><00:21:20.769><c> packaged</c><00:21:21.529><c> and</c><00:21:21.890><c> on</c><00:21:22.069><c> the</c><00:21:22.269><c> shelves.</c><00:21:22.930><c> You</c> 00:21:23.049 --> 00:21:25.049 see,<00:21:23.869><c> sin</c><00:21:24.029><c> is</c><00:21:24.450><c> attractive.</c><00:21:24.890><c> If</c><00:21:25.029><c> it</c> 00:21:25.049 --> 00:21:29.309 wasn't<00:21:25.369><c> attractive,</c><00:21:25.769><c> we</c><00:21:25.869><c> wouldn't</c><00:21:26.130><c> do</c><00:21:26.390><c> it.</c><00:21:27.170><c> Moses</c><00:21:27.430><c> is</c><00:21:27.670><c> totally</c><00:21:27.950><c> honest.</c><00:21:28.829><c> Sin</c><00:21:28.990><c> is</c> 00:21:29.309 --> 00:21:30.710 fun,<00:21:29.809><c> but</c><00:21:30.029><c> it</c><00:21:30.170><c> doesn't</c><00:21:30.349><c> last</c> 00:21:30.710 --> 00:21:37.529 very<00:21:31.150><c> long.</c><00:21:32.710><c> And</c><00:21:32.910><c> so</c><00:21:33.109><c> we</c><00:21:33.309><c> see</c><00:21:33.549><c> a</c><00:21:33.849><c> sin.</c><00:21:35.150><c> Oh,</c><00:21:35.750><c> did</c><00:21:35.910><c> you</c><00:21:36.190><c> see?</c><00:21:36.890><c> Doesn't</c><00:21:37.269><c> that</c> 00:21:37.529 --> 00:21:40.269 look<00:21:37.829><c> like</c><00:21:38.109><c> a,</c><00:21:38.750><c> oh,</c><00:21:39.309><c> wouldn't</c><00:21:39.609><c> that</c><00:21:39.869><c> be</c><00:21:40.130><c> fun?</c> 00:21:40.430 --> 00:21:45.690 I<00:21:40.690><c> just</c><00:21:40.990><c> think</c><00:21:41.130><c> I'll</c><00:21:41.470><c> check</c><00:21:41.730><c> the</c><00:21:42.049><c> price</c><00:21:42.309><c> out.</c><00:21:43.109><c> So</c><00:21:43.549><c> you</c><00:21:43.730><c> take</c><00:21:44.009><c> the</c><00:21:44.250><c> sin</c><00:21:44.390><c> down,</c><00:21:45.170><c> and</c><00:21:45.369><c> you</c><00:21:45.450><c> look</c><00:21:45.549><c> at</c> 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want</c><00:22:00.029><c> to</c><00:22:00.269><c> do</c><00:22:00.450><c> this.</c> 00:22:01.369 --> 00:22:04.569 We<00:22:01.849><c> have</c><00:22:02.269><c> to</c><00:22:02.529><c> fight</c><00:22:02.789><c> not</c><00:22:03.210><c> doing</c><00:22:03.450><c> what</c><00:22:03.609><c> we</c><00:22:03.849><c> want</c><00:22:03.990><c> to</c><00:22:04.150><c> do.</c><00:22:04.329><c> That's</c> 00:22:04.569 --> 00:22:07.589 the<00:22:04.670><c> problem</c><00:22:04.950><c> with</c><00:22:05.230><c> sin.</c><00:22:05.950><c> Oh,</c><00:22:06.650><c> I</c><00:22:06.710><c> just</c><00:22:07.109><c> check</c><00:22:07.309><c> it</c> 00:22:07.589 --> 00:22:12.930 out.<00:22:07.910><c> And</c><00:22:08.009><c> you</c><00:22:08.230><c> look</c><00:22:08.490><c> at</c><00:22:08.690><c> that,</c><00:22:09.589><c> death.</c><00:22:11.109><c> So</c><00:22:11.369><c> you</c><00:22:11.529><c> put</c><00:22:11.690><c> it</c><00:22:11.950><c> back.</c> 00:22:13.890 --> 00:22:15.890 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girl</c><00:23:11.809><c> is</c><00:23:12.049><c> the</c><00:23:12.190><c> bride,</c> 00:23:13.410 --> 00:23:15.410 and<00:23:13.529><c> another</c><00:23:13.690><c> little</c><00:23:13.910><c> boy's</c><00:23:14.210><c> playing</c><00:23:14.289><c> heaves</c><00:23:14.549><c> of</c><00:23:14.750><c> groom,</c><00:23:15.289><c> and</c> 00:23:15.410 --> 00:23:17.549 another<00:23:15.589><c> little</c><00:23:15.809><c> boy,</c><00:23:16.289><c> he</c><00:23:16.710><c> remembers</c><00:23:17.069><c> those</c><00:23:17.309><c> lines,</c> 00:23:17.609 --> 00:23:21.230 and<00:23:17.750><c> he</c><00:23:17.809><c> said</c><00:23:17.990><c> to</c><00:23:18.150><c> this</c><00:23:18.329><c> little</c><00:23:18.549><c> girl,</c><00:23:19.109><c> you</c><00:23:19.750><c> take</c><00:23:20.009><c> this</c><00:23:20.289><c> man</c><00:23:20.549><c> for</c><00:23:20.890><c> better</c><00:23:21.109><c> or</c> 00:23:21.230 --> 00:23:22.009 for<00:23:21.369><c> worse,</c><00:23:21.490><c> 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will</c><00:25:03.170><c> be</c><00:25:03.430><c> complete</c><00:25:03.809><c> without</c><00:25:04.190><c> us</c><00:25:04.509><c> looking</c><00:25:05.490><c> at</c> 00:25:06.049 --> 00:25:08.430 Ephesians<00:25:07.029><c> chapter</c><00:25:07.569><c> 5.</c> 00:25:08.589 --> 00:25:13.690 So,<00:25:08.690><c> if</c><00:25:08.690><c> you'd</c><00:25:09.029><c> like</c><00:25:09.029><c> to</c><00:25:09.269><c> turn</c><00:25:09.430><c> to</c><00:25:09.589><c> Ephesians</c><00:25:10.190><c> 5,</c><00:25:11.710><c> please,</c><00:25:13.170><c> we'll</c><00:25:13.430><c> listen</c><00:25:13.490><c> to</c> 00:25:13.690 --> 00:25:16.509 see<00:25:13.869><c> what</c><00:25:14.089><c> Paul</c><00:25:14.369><c> has</c><00:25:14.609><c> to</c><00:25:14.789><c> say</c><00:25:14.990><c> to</c><00:25:15.269><c> wives</c> 00:25:16.750 --> 00:25:24.349 and<00:25:17.309><c> to</c><00:25:17.569><c> husbands.</c><00:25:20.470><c> Ephesians</c><00:25:21.029><c> 5,</c><00:25:21.950><c> the</c><00:25:22.170><c> godly</c><00:25:22.869><c> wife</c><00:25:23.250><c> says,</c><00:25:23.569><c> Lord,</c><00:25:23.769><c> how</c><00:25:23.950><c> can</c><00:25:24.170><c> I</c> 00:25:24.349 --> 00:25:25.630 show<00:25:24.509><c> my</c><00:25:24.849><c> love</c><00:25:25.130><c> to</c><00:25:25.349><c> you</c> 00:25:25.630 --> 00:25:30.609 in<00:25:26.289><c> the</c><00:25:26.410><c> role</c><00:25:26.650><c> you've</c><00:25:27.009><c> called</c><00:25:27.150><c> me</c><00:25:27.430><c> to</c><00:25:28.109><c> fulfill?</c><00:25:29.210><c> And</c><00:25:29.309><c> the</c><00:25:29.430><c> Lord's</c><00:25:29.750><c> answer</c><00:25:30.029><c> is,</c> 00:25:30.849 --> 00:25:32.190 my<00:25:30.990><c> dear</c><00:25:31.250><c> child,</c> 00:25:32.890 --> 00:25:39.430 show<00:25:33.170><c> it</c><00:25:33.349><c> in</c><00:25:33.490><c> your</c><00:25:33.750><c> submissive</c><00:25:34.769><c> heart</c><00:25:35.589><c> towards</c><00:25:37.029><c> your</c><00:25:37.230><c> husband.</c><00:25:39.230><c> Verse</c> 00:25:39.430 --> 00:25:44.589 22,<00:25:40.509><c> wives,</c><00:25:42.630><c> submit</c><00:25:43.130><c> yourselves</c> 00:25:44.769 --> 00:25:50.690 to<00:25:45.369><c> your</c><00:25:45.609><c> husbands</c><00:25:46.109><c> as</c><00:25:47.329><c> to</c><00:25:47.509><c> the</c><00:25:47.730><c> Lord.</c><00:25:49.670><c> For</c><00:25:49.809><c> the</c><00:25:50.009><c> husband</c><00:25:50.329><c> is</c> 00:25:50.690 --> 00:25:53.190 the<00:25:50.950><c> head</c><00:25:51.049><c> of</c><00:25:51.230><c> the</c><00:25:51.390><c> wife,</c><00:25:51.869><c> as</c><00:25:52.049><c> Christ</c><00:25:52.430><c> is</c><00:25:52.690><c> the</c><00:25:52.829><c> head</c> 00:25:53.190 --> 00:25:57.750 of<00:25:53.390><c> the</c><00:25:53.650><c> Ecclesia,</c><00:25:54.509><c> his</c><00:25:54.809><c> body,</c><00:25:55.750><c> of</c><00:25:55.950><c> which</c><00:25:56.109><c> he</c><00:25:56.269><c> is</c><00:25:56.549><c> the</c><00:25:56.750><c> Savior.</c> 00:25:58.470 --> 00:26:01.490 Now,<00:25:58.670><c> as</c><00:25:58.970><c> the</c><00:25:59.269><c> Ecclesia</c><00:25:59.710><c> submits</c><00:26:00.190><c> to</c><00:26:00.450><c> Christ,</c> 00:26:01.609 --> 00:26:06.789 so<00:26:01.809><c> also</c><00:26:02.210><c> wives</c><00:26:02.490><c> should</c><00:26:02.789><c> submit</c><00:26:03.089><c> to</c><00:26:03.250><c> their</c><00:26:03.549><c> husbands</c><00:26:04.250><c> in</c><00:26:05.710><c> everything.</c> 00:26:08.970 --> 00:26:13.750 Is<00:26:09.309><c> the</c><00:26:09.569><c> Ecclesia</c><00:26:09.910><c> subject</c><00:26:10.250><c> to</c><00:26:10.450><c> Christ?</c><00:26:12.250><c> The</c><00:26:12.509><c> answer,</c><00:26:12.869><c> of</c><00:26:13.089><c> course,</c><00:26:13.509><c> is</c> 00:26:13.750 --> 00:26:16.670 yes.<00:26:15.329><c> Then</c><00:26:15.549><c> is</c><00:26:15.750><c> the</c><00:26:15.930><c> wife</c><00:26:16.089><c> subject</c><00:26:16.309><c> to</c><00:26:16.549><c> her</c> 00:26:16.670 --> 00:26:29.150 husband?<00:26:18.049><c> The</c><00:26:18.349><c> answer,</c><00:26:18.690><c> of</c><00:26:18.910><c> course,</c><00:26:20.490><c> is</c><00:26:20.730><c> yes.</c><00:26:23.490><c> Verse</c><00:26:23.730><c> 25,</c><00:26:26.210><c> husbands,</c><00:26:27.390><c> love</c><00:26:27.890><c> your</c><00:26:28.369><c> wives</c><00:26:28.849><c> as</c> 00:26:29.150 --> 00:26:30.230 Christ<00:26:29.650><c> loved</c> 00:26:30.230 --> 00:26:36.289 the<00:26:30.470><c> Ecclesia</c><00:26:30.950><c> and</c><00:26:31.069><c> gave</c><00:26:31.289><c> himself</c><00:26:31.750><c> for</c><00:26:32.210><c> her,</c><00:26:33.410><c> to</c><00:26:33.589><c> make</c><00:26:33.789><c> her</c><00:26:34.289><c> holy,</c><00:26:35.529><c> cleansing</c><00:26:35.789><c> her</c><00:26:36.069><c> by</c> 00:26:36.289 --> 00:26:37.690 the<00:26:36.529><c> washing</c><00:26:36.809><c> with</c><00:26:37.190><c> water</c> 00:26:37.690 --> 00:26:43.670 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know</c><00:27:13.049><c> that</c><00:27:13.430><c> Paul</c><00:27:13.650><c> told</c><00:27:13.890><c> us</c><00:27:14.049><c> in</c><00:27:14.170><c> Romans</c><00:27:14.470><c> that</c><00:27:14.690><c> Christ</c><00:27:15.049><c> did</c> 00:27:15.309 --> 00:27:17.109 not<00:27:15.509><c> please</c><00:27:15.730><c> himself,</c> 00:27:18.190 --> 00:27:22.109 and<00:27:18.289><c> so</c><00:27:18.910><c> marriage</c><00:27:19.269><c> life</c><00:27:19.589><c> is</c><00:27:19.869><c> not</c><00:27:20.069><c> always</c><00:27:20.549><c> pleasing</c><00:27:20.930><c> yourself.</c> 00:27:22.450 --> 00:27:25.710 You<00:27:22.609><c> have</c><00:27:23.009><c> someone</c><00:27:23.390><c> else</c><00:27:24.309><c> to</c><00:27:24.730><c> put</c><00:27:24.950><c> first,</c> 00:27:25.910 --> 00:27:30.190 your<00:27:26.210><c> mate,</c><00:27:26.730><c> and</c><00:27:26.950><c> then</c><00:27:27.170><c> your</c><00:27:27.450><c> children.</c><00:27:28.930><c> A</c><00:27:29.190><c> true</c><00:27:29.549><c> marriage</c><00:27:29.950><c> is</c> 00:27:30.190 --> 00:27:33.450 a<00:27:30.269><c> marriage</c><00:27:30.589><c> of</c><00:27:31.089><c> showing</c><00:27:31.970><c> unselfishness</c> 00:27:33.750 --> 00:27:38.869 towards<00:27:34.170><c> each</c><00:27:34.490><c> other.</c><00:27:35.069><c> Wives,</c><00:27:37.450><c> do</c><00:27:37.650><c> you</c><00:27:38.130><c> love</c><00:27:38.390><c> your</c><00:27:38.589><c> husband</c> 00:27:38.869 --> 00:27:42.190 enough<00:27:39.470><c> to</c><00:27:40.710><c> live</c><00:27:40.970><c> for</c><00:27:41.150><c> him?</c> 00:27:44.289 --> 00:27:51.549 Husbands,<00:27:46.190><c> do</c><00:27:46.390><c> you</c><00:27:46.529><c> love</c><00:27:46.750><c> your</c><00:27:47.109><c> wife</c><00:27:47.430><c> enough</c><00:27:47.730><c> to</c><00:27:48.089><c> die</c><00:27:48.430><c> for</c><00:27:48.650><c> her?</c><00:27:51.210><c> Not</c> 00:27:51.549 --> 00:27:53.529 popular<00:27:51.970><c> 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nor</c><00:28:44.069><c> Greek,</c><00:28:44.470><c> and</c><00:28:44.470><c> there</c><00:28:44.470><c> is</c><00:28:45.410><c> neither</c> 00:28:45.410 --> 00:28:50.950 male<00:28:45.650><c> nor</c><00:28:45.849><c> female</c><00:28:46.430><c> for</c><00:28:47.829><c> slave</c><00:28:48.289><c> or</c><00:28:48.730><c> free,</c><00:28:49.269><c> but</c><00:28:49.470><c> we're</c><00:28:49.730><c> all</c><00:28:50.250><c> one</c> 00:28:50.950 --> 00:28:53.609 in<00:28:51.910><c> Christ</c><00:28:52.309><c> Jesus.</c> 00:28:54.190 --> 00:28:58.009 So<00:28:54.769><c> Paul</c><00:28:55.049><c> says</c><00:28:55.349><c> in</c><00:28:55.529><c> 1</c><00:28:55.769><c> Corinthians</c><00:28:56.049><c> 11</c><00:28:56.549><c> and</c><00:28:56.789><c> 3,</c><00:28:57.470><c> I</c><00:28:57.470><c> want</c><00:28:57.650><c> you</c><00:28:57.789><c> to</c> 00:28:58.009 --> 00:29:02.690 realize<00:28:58.630><c> that</c><00:28:59.049><c> the</c><00:28:59.589><c> head</c><00:28:59.730><c> of</c><00:28:59.990><c> every</c><00:29:00.390><c> man</c><00:29:01.150><c> is</c><00:29:01.789><c> Christ.</c> 00:29:03.410 --> 00:29:07.109 Now,<00:29:03.670><c> none</c><00:29:04.289><c> of</c><00:29:04.470><c> us</c><00:29:04.710><c> dispute</c><00:29:05.170><c> that.</c><00:29:05.589><c> Not</c><00:29:05.789><c> even</c><00:29:06.269><c> the</c><00:29:06.630><c> apostate</c> 00:29:07.109 --> 00:29:10.109 churches<00:29:07.630><c> dispute</c><00:29:08.529><c> that,</c><00:29:08.950><c> that</c><00:29:09.990><c> the</c> 00:29:10.109 --> 00:29:13.769 head<00:29:10.509><c> of</c><00:29:10.670><c> the</c><00:29:10.930><c> man</c><00:29:11.210><c> is</c><00:29:11.509><c> Christ.</c><00:29:12.430><c> But</c><00:29:12.690><c> then</c><00:29:12.990><c> Paul</c><00:29:13.170><c> doesn't</c><00:29:13.549><c> put</c> 00:29:13.769 --> 00:29:15.549 a<00:29:14.009><c> period</c><00:29:14.309><c> there.</c><00:29:14.670><c> He</c><00:29:14.809><c> goes</c><00:29:15.069><c> on</c><00:29:15.369><c> 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marry</c><00:31:49.450><c> in</c><00:31:49.609><c> the</c><00:31:49.809><c> truth.</c><00:31:50.869><c> Very</c> 00:31:51.250 --> 00:31:52.970 difficult<00:31:51.710><c> for</c><00:31:52.069><c> a</c><00:31:52.529><c> young</c> 00:31:52.970 --> 00:31:57.049 sister<00:31:53.630><c> to</c><00:31:54.529><c> give</c><00:31:54.730><c> her</c><00:31:54.869><c> life</c><00:31:55.130><c> to</c><00:31:55.349><c> a</c><00:31:55.450><c> man</c><00:31:55.630><c> who</c><00:31:55.710><c> doesn't</c><00:31:55.970><c> even</c><00:31:56.410><c> believe</c><00:31:56.789><c> and</c> 00:31:57.049 --> 00:31:59.029 worship<00:31:57.349><c> the</c><00:31:57.549><c> God</c><00:31:57.730><c> that</c><00:31:57.869><c> she</c><00:31:58.109><c> worships.</c> 00:32:00.329 --> 00:32:05.210 That's<00:32:00.670><c> why</c><00:32:00.950><c> it's</c><00:32:01.230><c> so</c><00:32:01.609><c> important</c><00:32:02.230><c> to</c><00:32:02.869><c> marry</c><00:32:03.390><c> only</c><00:32:03.789><c> 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00:37:04.130 The<00:37:00.230><c> Abraham</c><00:37:00.570><c> Lincoln</c><00:37:00.989><c> once</c><00:37:01.429><c> was</c><00:37:01.730><c> asked</c><00:37:01.949><c> to</c><00:37:02.769><c> appoint</c><00:37:03.030><c> a</c><00:37:03.230><c> certain</c><00:37:03.449><c> man</c><00:37:03.750><c> to</c><00:37:03.969><c> a</c> 00:37:04.130 --> 00:37:05.429 post<00:37:04.369><c> and</c><00:37:04.530><c> he</c><00:37:04.670><c> says,</c><00:37:04.969><c> no</c><00:37:05.070><c> I</c><00:37:05.230><c> won't</c> 00:37:05.429 --> 00:37:07.690 because<00:37:05.650><c> I</c><00:37:05.809><c> don't</c><00:37:05.969><c> like</c><00:37:06.130><c> his</c><00:37:06.409><c> looks.</c><00:37:06.690><c> And</c><00:37:06.829><c> he</c><00:37:06.849><c> said,</c><00:37:07.110><c> oh</c><00:37:07.389><c> Mr.</c> 00:37:07.789 --> 00:37:09.929 Lincoln,<00:37:08.110><c> he</c><00:37:08.269><c> can't</c><00:37:08.530><c> help</c><00:37:08.750><c> his</c><00:37:09.090><c> looks.</c> 00:37:10.070 --> 00:37:16.170 He<00:37:10.550><c> said,</c><00:37:10.949><c> any</c><00:37:10.949><c> man</c><00:37:11.409><c> over</c><00:37:12.030><c> 40</c><00:37:12.590><c> is</c><00:37:13.070><c> responsible</c><00:37:13.989><c> for</c><00:37:14.849><c> his</c><00:37:15.210><c> looks.</c> 00:37:17.849 --> 00:37:21.530 As<00:37:18.070><c> when</c><00:37:18.409><c> you're</c><00:37:18.650><c> young,</c><00:37:19.090><c> God</c><00:37:19.329><c> makes</c><00:37:19.670><c> you</c><00:37:19.929><c> beautiful</c><00:37:20.349><c> and</c><00:37:20.909><c> attractive</c><00:37:21.230><c> and</c> 00:37:21.530 --> 00:37:22.849 handsome<00:37:21.849><c> to</c><00:37:22.110><c> attract</c><00:37:22.449><c> the</c><00:37:22.650><c> other</c> 00:37:22.849 --> 00:37:27.349 mate.<00:37:23.110><c> But</c><00:37:23.250><c> by</c><00:37:23.389><c> the</c><00:37:23.449><c> time</c><00:37:23.550><c> you</c><00:37:23.670><c> get</c><00:37:23.889><c> to</c><00:37:24.050><c> be</c><00:37:24.269><c> our</c><00:37:24.510><c> age,</c><00:37:25.769><c> it's</c><00:37:25.889><c> what's</c><00:37:26.329><c> inside</c><00:37:26.630><c> that</c><00:37:26.829><c> begins</c><00:37:27.050><c> to</c> 00:37:27.349 --> 00:37:28.250 come<00:37:27.510><c> out.</c> 00:37:28.949 --> 00:37:32.170 And<00:37:28.949><c> if</c><00:37:29.429><c> you</c><00:37:29.889><c> don't</c><00:37:30.110><c> really</c><00:37:30.429><c> change</c><00:37:30.710><c> your,</c><00:37:31.110><c> oh</c><00:37:31.389><c> people</c><00:37:31.630><c> nowadays</c><00:37:31.989><c> they</c> 00:37:32.170 --> 00:37:33.269 go<00:37:32.269><c> to</c><00:37:32.409><c> the</c><00:37:32.550><c> doctor</c><00:37:32.750><c> and</c><00:37:32.889><c> keep</c><00:37:33.010><c> getting</c> 00:37:33.269 --> 00:37:35.949 a<00:37:33.510><c> facelift.</c><00:37:33.949><c> I</c><00:37:34.030><c> heard</c><00:37:34.130><c> one</c><00:37:34.309><c> little</c><00:37:34.469><c> boy</c><00:37:34.650><c> say,</c><00:37:35.210><c> if</c><00:37:35.369><c> my</c><00:37:35.769><c> mother</c> 00:37:35.949 --> 00:37:37.909 gets<00:37:36.170><c> a</c><00:37:36.369><c> facelift</c><00:37:36.710><c> will</c><00:37:37.090><c> she</c><00:37:37.349><c> be</c><00:37:37.550><c> taller</c><00:37:37.789><c> than</c> 00:37:37.909 --> 00:37:43.289 my<00:37:38.230><c> daddy?</c><00:37:39.349><c> But</c><00:37:39.630><c> they</c><00:37:40.090><c> keep</c><00:37:40.349><c> lifting</c><00:37:40.610><c> them</c><00:37:40.829><c> up.</c><00:37:42.429><c> That's</c><00:37:42.989><c> stuff</c> 00:37:43.289 --> 00:37:46.909 we<00:37:43.449><c> don't</c><00:37:43.829><c> need.</c><00:37:45.510><c> Our</c><00:37:46.070><c> beauty</c><00:37:46.309><c> comes</c><00:37:46.550><c> from</c><00:37:46.769><c> the</c> 00:37:46.909 --> 00:37:50.730 inside<00:37:47.530><c> and</c><00:37:47.829><c> while</c><00:37:48.050><c> it</c><00:37:48.289><c> may</c><00:37:48.449><c> be</c><00:37:48.730><c> sagging</c><00:37:49.050><c> a</c><00:37:49.130><c> little</c><00:37:49.429><c> bit,</c><00:37:50.530><c> the</c> 00:37:50.730 --> 00:37:54.329 inside<00:37:51.070><c> begins</c><00:37:51.409><c> to</c><00:37:51.750><c> show</c><00:37:52.070><c> if</c><00:37:52.449><c> we</c><00:37:53.349><c> have</c><00:37:53.349><c> let</c><00:37:53.829><c> Christ</c> 00:37:54.329 --> 00:37:58.750 dwell<00:37:54.809><c> in</c><00:37:55.050><c> us</c><00:37:55.449><c> richly.</c><00:37:57.809><c> Now</c><00:37:57.989><c> some</c><00:37:58.110><c> wives</c><00:37:58.289><c> are</c><00:37:58.429><c> going</c><00:37:58.510><c> to</c><00:37:58.590><c> speak</c> 00:37:58.750 --> 00:38:07.889 up<00:37:58.949><c> and</c><00:37:59.070><c> say,</c><00:37:59.329><c> look</c><00:37:59.409><c> I'm</c><00:37:59.610><c> not</c><00:37:59.909><c> quiet</c><00:38:00.250><c> and</c><00:38:00.449><c> I'm</c><00:38:07.889><c> not</c> 00:38:07.889 --> 00:38:13.670 He<00:38:08.429><c> doesn't</c><00:38:08.590><c> want</c><00:38:08.769><c> you</c><00:38:08.869><c> to</c><00:38:08.969><c> be</c><00:38:09.170><c> a</c><00:38:09.289><c> doormat.</c><00:38:10.690><c> He's</c><00:38:10.849><c> talking</c><00:38:11.070><c> about</c><00:38:11.389><c> strength</c><00:38:11.829><c> of</c><00:38:12.309><c> characters,</c> 00:38:14.510 --> 00:38:20.090 self<00:38:14.769><c>-control,</c><00:38:16.349><c> quiet</c><00:38:16.650><c> elegance,</c><00:38:17.650><c> dignity,</c><00:38:18.929><c> not</c><00:38:19.329><c> shallow</c><00:38:19.710><c> or</c> 00:38:20.090 --> 00:38:26.230 cheap,<00:38:20.849><c> real</c><00:38:21.349><c> class.</c><00:38:25.949><c> So</c> 00:38:26.230 --> 00:38:31.250 Ephesians<00:38:26.590><c> 5,</c><00:38:28.090><c> we're</c><00:38:28.369><c> going</c><00:38:28.449><c> to</c><00:38:28.510><c> have</c><00:38:28.650><c> four</c><00:38:28.929><c> things</c><00:38:29.309><c> here</c><00:38:30.070><c> that</c><00:38:30.889><c> God</c> 00:38:31.250 --> 00:38:34.309 is<00:38:31.469><c> going</c><00:38:31.570><c> to</c><00:38:31.789><c> give</c><00:38:32.150><c> advice</c><00:38:32.769><c> to</c><00:38:33.590><c> the</c><00:38:33.829><c> ladies.</c> 00:38:34.309 --> 00:38:38.829 Number<00:38:35.010><c> one,</c><00:38:36.190><c> Ephesians</c><00:38:36.409><c> chapter</c><00:38:36.750><c> 5,</c><00:38:37.989><c> God</c><00:38:38.170><c> talks</c><00:38:38.489><c> to</c><00:38:38.650><c> you</c> 00:38:38.829 --> 00:38:40.829 sisters<00:38:39.070><c> about</c><00:38:39.449><c> your</c><00:38:39.690><c> behavior.</c> 00:38:41.329 --> 00:38:45.769 The<00:38:41.510><c> scene</c><00:38:41.710><c> Peter</c><00:38:42.010><c> painted</c><00:38:42.289><c> was</c><00:38:42.530><c> a</c><00:38:42.710><c> familiar</c><00:38:43.030><c> one.</c><00:38:44.150><c> An</c><00:38:44.349><c> ordinary</c><00:38:44.590><c> husband,</c><00:38:45.510><c> raspy,</c> 00:38:45.949 --> 00:38:46.829 irritable,<00:38:46.289><c> tough</c><00:38:46.489><c> to</c><00:38:46.610><c> live</c> 00:38:46.829 --> 00:38:50.710 with,<00:38:47.929><c> 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