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Your<00:12:10.340><c> wearing</c><00:12:10.600><c> of</c><00:12:10.820><c> a</c><00:12:10.940><c> hat</c><00:12:11.519><c> is</c><00:12:12.960><c> the</c><00:12:13.159><c> humbling</c><00:12:13.379><c> of</c><00:12:13.559><c> the</c><00:12:13.720><c> man.</c>

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It<00:12:21.460><c> has</c><00:12:21.759><c> nothing</c><00:12:22.120><c> to</c><00:12:22.440><c> do</c><00:12:23.100><c> with</c><00:12:24.440><c> the</c><00:12:24.580><c> fact</c><00:12:24.759><c> that</c><00:12:25.179><c> somehow</c><00:12:25.460><c> woman</c>

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It<00:12:28.580><c> is</c><00:12:28.919><c> man</c><00:12:29.480><c> who</c><00:12:29.759><c> at</c><00:12:29.919><c> that</c><00:12:30.179><c> moment</c><00:12:30.580><c> is</c><00:12:30.919><c> being</c><00:12:31.179><c> put</c><00:12:31.419><c> into</c><00:12:31.639><c> his</c>

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Our<00:12:41.139><c> world</c><00:12:41.399><c> wants</c><00:12:41.659><c> to</c><00:12:41.919><c> break</c><00:12:42.159><c> every</c><00:12:42.799><c> bound.</c>

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Of<00:12:43.600><c> course</c><00:12:43.879><c> it</c><00:12:44.200><c> does.</c>

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And<00:12:45.840><c> now</c><00:12:46.039><c> it</c><00:12:46.120><c> doesn't</c><00:12:46.360><c> know</c><00:12:46.600><c> where</c><00:12:46.879><c> it</c><00:12:47.139><c> is.</c>

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It's<00:12:47.580><c> got</c><00:12:48.100><c> holes</c><00:12:48.620><c> in</c><00:12:48.820><c> which</c><00:12:49.440><c> children</c><00:12:49.980><c> rampage</c><00:12:50.879><c> about</c><00:12:51.220><c> the</c><00:12:51.519><c> place,</c>

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do<00:12:51.980><c> exactly</c><00:12:52.600><c> what</c><00:12:52.779><c> they</c><00:12:53.059><c> like,</c><00:12:53.279><c> whenever</c><00:12:53.720><c> they</c><00:12:54.039><c> like.</c>

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And<00:12:55.279><c> they</c><00:12:55.419><c> are</c><00:12:55.559><c> taught</c><00:12:55.720><c> this</c><00:12:55.860><c> at</c><00:12:56.120><c> school,</c><00:12:56.639><c> that</c><00:12:56.779><c> that's</c><00:12:57.000><c> what</c>

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You've<00:12:58.840><c> got</c><00:12:58.940><c> to</c><00:12:59.039><c> look</c><00:12:59.240><c> after</c><00:12:59.440><c> yourself.</c>

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And<00:13:01.220><c> there</c><00:13:01.320><c> is</c><00:13:01.580><c> nobody</c><00:13:01.860><c> else</c><00:13:02.259><c> to</c><00:13:02.679><c> whom</c><00:13:02.840><c> you</c><00:13:03.019><c> are</c><00:13:03.179><c> responsible.</c>

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Now<00:13:04.440><c> that's</c><00:13:04.700><c> not</c><00:13:04.960><c> our</c><00:13:05.220><c> teaching.</c>

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And<00:13:05.799><c> Bible</c><00:13:06.200><c> teaching</c><00:13:06.620><c> is</c><00:13:07.139><c> that</c><00:13:07.279><c> we</c><00:13:07.460><c> are</c><00:13:07.799><c> a</c><00:13:08.080><c> family</c><00:13:08.700><c> unit.</c>

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We<00:13:10.600><c> lose</c><00:13:10.899><c> the</c><00:13:11.200><c> family</c><00:13:11.519><c> at</c><00:13:11.820><c> our</c><00:13:12.139><c> peril.</c>

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If<00:13:14.019><c> we</c><00:13:14.259><c> have</c><00:13:14.399><c> a</c><00:13:14.659><c> family</c><00:13:14.899><c> unit</c><00:13:15.179><c> with</c><00:13:15.399><c> the</c><00:13:15.580><c> Word</c><00:13:15.720><c> of</c><00:13:15.879><c> God</c><00:13:16.759><c> within</c>

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with<00:13:18.360><c> Christ</c><00:13:18.679><c> as</c><00:13:18.879><c> its</c><00:13:19.100><c> head</c><00:13:19.399><c> and</c><00:13:19.779><c> God</c><00:13:20.080><c> overlooking</c><00:13:20.539><c> us,</c>

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then<00:13:21.179><c> we</c><00:13:21.460><c> have</c><00:13:21.820><c> that</c><00:13:22.279><c> which</c><00:13:22.440><c> is</c><00:13:22.879><c> solid</c><00:13:23.179><c> and</c><00:13:23.580><c> stable</c><00:13:23.960><c> and</c><00:13:24.120><c> that</c>

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It's<00:13:26.039><c> a</c><00:13:26.139><c> refuge.</c>

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Or<00:13:28.580><c> as</c><00:13:28.700><c> a</c><00:13:28.779><c> little</c><00:13:28.960><c> girl</c><00:13:29.139><c> just</c><00:13:29.360><c> said</c><00:13:29.480><c> to</c><00:13:29.639><c> me</c><00:13:29.740><c> in</c><00:13:29.860><c> the</c><00:13:29.960><c> Sunday</c>

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She<00:13:34.899><c> said,</c><00:13:36.039><c> I'm</c><00:13:36.399><c> enjoying</c><00:13:36.600><c> it</c><00:13:36.759><c> very</c><00:13:37.059><c> well.</c>

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But<00:13:39.639><c> I'd</c><00:13:39.860><c> like</c><00:13:39.899><c> to</c><00:13:40.059><c> see</c><00:13:40.200><c> me</c><00:13:40.379><c> mum</c><00:13:40.500><c> and</c><00:13:40.639><c> dad.</c>

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But<00:13:43.039><c> of</c><00:13:43.240><c> course</c><00:13:43.360><c> she</c><00:13:43.620><c> would.</c>

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And<00:13:46.179><c> that</c><00:13:46.460><c> says,</c><00:13:46.879><c> I</c><00:13:46.879><c> said,</c><00:13:47.059><c> well,</c><00:13:47.159><c> that's</c><00:13:47.740><c> because</c><00:13:47.840><c> you</c><00:13:48.120><c> love</c><00:13:48.259><c> them.</c>

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And<00:13:48.659><c> she</c><00:13:48.779><c> said,</c><00:13:49.120><c> yes.</c>

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I've<00:13:55.120><c> forgotten</c><00:13:55.340><c> even</c><00:13:55.600><c> the</c><00:13:55.720><c> little</c><00:13:55.879><c> girl's</c><00:13:56.220><c> name</c><00:13:56.419><c> now,</c>

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or<00:13:57.500><c> who</c><00:13:57.659><c> her</c><00:13:57.840><c> parents</c><00:13:58.080><c> would</c><00:13:58.360><c> be.</c>

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So<00:13:59.759><c> here</c><00:14:00.120><c> in</c><00:14:00.259><c> the</c><00:14:00.419><c> beginning</c><00:14:00.639><c> then,</c>

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there<00:14:01.120><c> was</c><00:14:01.279><c> laid</c><00:14:01.580><c> down</c><00:14:02.179><c> this</c><00:14:02.580><c> matter</c><00:14:02.980><c> of</c><00:14:03.580><c> a</c><00:14:04.019><c> relationship.</c>

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And<00:14:07.279><c> so</c><00:14:08.340><c> when</c><00:14:09.960><c> Eve</c><00:14:11.500><c> spoke</c><00:14:12.120><c> to</c><00:14:12.460><c> Adam,</c>

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Adam<00:14:14.340><c> told</c><00:14:14.779><c> Eve</c><00:14:15.360><c> what</c><00:14:15.659><c> God</c><00:14:15.940><c> had</c><00:14:16.179><c> told</c><00:14:16.360><c> him.</c>

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thou<00:14:21.419><c> shalt</c><00:14:21.659><c> not</c><00:14:21.919><c> eat</c><00:14:22.840><c> of</c><00:14:23.480><c> the</c><00:14:23.679><c> fruit</c><00:14:23.820><c> of</c><00:14:23.980><c> the</c><00:14:24.200><c> tree</c>

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The<00:14:27.759><c> command</c><00:14:28.080><c> had</c><00:14:28.279><c> already</c><00:14:28.659><c> been</c><00:14:28.919><c> given</c><00:14:29.220><c> to</c><00:14:29.519><c> Adam,</c>

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and<00:14:30.080><c> Adam</c><00:14:30.299><c> gave</c><00:14:30.519><c> it</c><00:14:30.659><c> to</c><00:14:30.759><c> his</c><00:14:30.940><c> wife.</c>

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So<00:14:35.879><c> it</c><00:14:35.919><c> was</c><00:14:36.100><c> Adam</c><00:14:36.480><c> then</c><00:14:36.740><c> who</c><00:14:36.919><c> carried</c><00:14:37.200><c> the</c><00:14:37.519><c> responsibility</c>

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when<00:14:38.539><c> things</c><00:14:38.820><c> went</c><00:14:39.100><c> wrong.</c>

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There<00:14:41.460><c> was</c><00:14:41.700><c> a</c><00:14:42.019><c> sense</c><00:14:42.379><c> in</c><00:14:42.679><c> which</c><00:14:42.940><c> he</c><00:14:43.159><c> was</c><00:14:43.419><c> held</c><00:14:43.740><c> responsible.</c>

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He<00:14:46.080><c> was</c><00:14:46.320><c> responsible</c><00:14:46.820><c> more</c><00:14:47.080><c> than</c><00:14:47.279><c> Eve</c><00:14:47.519><c> was</c><00:14:47.740><c> responsible.</c>

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It<00:14:48.960><c> looks</c><00:14:49.200><c> as</c><00:14:49.360><c> though</c><00:14:49.480><c> Eve</c><00:14:49.779><c> brought</c><00:14:50.100><c> sin</c><00:14:50.259><c> into</c><00:14:50.480><c> the</c><00:14:50.700><c> world,</c>

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and<00:14:51.120><c> therefore</c><00:14:51.759><c> it</c><00:14:52.720><c> ought</c><00:14:52.899><c> to</c><00:14:53.039><c> be</c><00:14:53.220><c> in</c><00:14:53.320><c> Eve</c><00:14:53.820><c> all</c><00:14:54.379><c> die.</c>

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But<00:14:56.220><c> it's</c><00:14:56.460><c> in</c><00:14:56.659><c> Adam</c><00:14:56.899><c> that</c><00:14:57.179><c> all</c><00:14:57.360><c> die,</c>

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There<00:15:00.080><c> was</c><00:15:00.399><c> something</c><00:15:00.899><c> in</c><00:15:01.840><c> that</c><00:15:02.100><c> arrangement,</c>

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something<00:15:03.899><c> about</c><00:15:04.240><c> Adam</c><00:15:04.600><c> and</c><00:15:04.840><c> Eve</c>

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in<00:15:05.419><c> which</c><00:15:06.220><c> Adam</c><00:15:06.659><c> had</c><00:15:06.980><c> also</c><00:15:07.360><c> failed</c><00:15:07.919><c> when</c><00:15:08.639><c> Eve</c><00:15:08.940><c> fell.</c>

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He<00:15:10.320><c> was</c><00:15:10.679><c> bound</c><00:15:10.940><c> up</c><00:15:11.379><c> in</c><00:15:11.539><c> her</c><00:15:11.860><c> form.</c>

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It<00:15:13.659><c> was</c><00:15:13.799><c> something</c><00:15:14.039><c> that</c><00:15:14.860><c> was</c><00:15:15.220><c> lacking</c><00:15:15.440><c> in</c><00:15:15.679><c> him</c><00:15:15.940><c> also,</c>

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not<00:15:17.620><c> just</c><00:15:17.879><c> in</c><00:15:18.100><c> her.</c>

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She<00:15:20.139><c> was</c><00:15:20.440><c> deceived.</c>

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Adam<00:15:22.620><c> was</c><00:15:22.860><c> not</c><00:15:23.080><c> deceived.</c>

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That's<00:15:25.559><c> what</c><00:15:25.700><c> 1</c><00:15:25.899><c> Timothy</c><00:15:26.220><c> 2</c><00:15:26.679><c> says.</c>

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Eve<00:15:29.019><c> was</c><00:15:29.240><c> deceived.</c><00:15:29.820><c> She</c><00:15:30.000><c> was</c><00:15:30.360><c> beguiled.</c>

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The<00:15:32.340><c> man</c><00:15:32.500><c> was</c><00:15:32.740><c> not</c><00:15:32.919><c> beguiled.</c>

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He<00:15:34.139><c> was</c><00:15:34.299><c> not</c><00:15:34.539><c> deceived.</c>

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He<00:15:35.679><c> went</c><00:15:35.860><c> straight</c><00:15:36.179><c> in</c><00:15:36.299><c> with</c><00:15:36.419><c> his</c><00:15:36.580><c> eyes</c><00:15:36.799><c> wide</c><00:15:37.120><c> open.</c>

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That's<00:15:39.000><c> what</c><00:15:39.100><c> the</c><00:15:39.279><c> record</c><00:15:39.480><c> tells</c><00:15:39.779><c> us.</c>

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Now,<00:15:41.759><c> woman</c><00:15:41.960><c> is</c><00:15:42.519><c> made</c><00:15:43.500><c> not</c><00:15:44.259><c> to</c><00:15:44.740><c> be</c><00:15:44.940><c> deceived,</c>

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but<00:15:46.840><c> she</c><00:15:47.019><c> is</c><00:15:47.379><c> made</c><00:15:47.919><c> physically</c><00:15:48.679><c> and</c><00:15:49.360><c> mentally</c>

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She's<00:15:55.779><c> made</c><00:15:56.120><c> in</c><00:15:56.480><c> that</c><00:15:56.799><c> way,</c>

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and<00:15:59.820><c> that</c><00:16:00.419><c> is</c><00:16:00.700><c> part</c><00:16:01.000><c> of</c><00:16:01.179><c> our</c><00:16:01.460><c> nature,</c>

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as<00:16:03.200><c> sisters,</c><00:16:03.720><c> that</c><00:16:03.840><c> we</c><00:16:03.960><c> are</c><00:16:04.240><c> made</c><00:16:04.700><c> to</c><00:16:05.139><c> respond.</c>

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There<00:16:06.259><c> is</c><00:16:06.480><c> something</c><00:16:06.779><c> in</c><00:16:06.960><c> us</c><00:16:07.259><c> that</c><00:16:07.620><c> will</c><00:16:07.940><c> respond,</c>

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so<00:16:09.539><c> we</c><00:16:09.679><c> can</c><00:16:09.840><c> respond</c><00:16:10.159><c> to</c><00:16:10.299><c> how</c><00:16:10.659><c> a</c><00:16:10.820><c> man</c><00:16:10.980><c> talks</c><00:16:11.399><c> to</c><00:16:11.639><c> us,</c>

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and<00:16:13.559><c> we</c><00:16:13.700><c> are</c><00:16:13.860><c> aware</c><00:16:14.120><c> of</c><00:16:14.399><c> what</c><00:16:14.639><c> it</c><00:16:15.080><c> awakens</c><00:16:15.600><c> within</c><00:16:15.860><c> us,</c>

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of<00:16:17.200><c> the</c><00:16:17.360><c> kind</c><00:16:17.500><c> of</c><00:16:17.759><c> feelings</c><00:16:18.039><c> it</c><00:16:18.279><c> creates.</c>

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We<00:16:19.700><c> are</c><00:16:19.919><c> aware</c><00:16:20.100><c> of</c><00:16:20.240><c> what</c><00:16:20.580><c> his</c><00:16:20.820><c> eyes</c><00:16:21.159><c> mean</c><00:16:21.419><c> when</c><00:16:21.559><c> he</c><00:16:21.720><c> looks,</c>

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and<00:16:23.639><c> we</c><00:16:23.759><c> can</c><00:16:23.980><c> respond</c><00:16:24.620><c> to</c><00:16:24.779><c> that,</c>

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or<00:16:25.519><c> we</c><00:16:25.659><c> can</c><00:16:25.879><c> withhold</c><00:16:26.259><c> it</c><00:16:26.679><c> if</c><00:16:26.820><c> we</c><00:16:27.000><c> wish.</c>

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And<00:16:28.779><c> a</c><00:16:28.879><c> man</c><00:16:28.980><c> knows</c><00:16:29.379><c> when</c><00:16:29.580><c> it's</c><00:16:29.860><c> withheld,</c>

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but<00:16:31.340><c> there</c><00:16:31.659><c> is</c><00:16:31.799><c> the</c><00:16:31.980><c> time</c><00:16:32.179><c> when</c><00:16:32.340><c> there</c><00:16:32.500><c> is</c><00:16:32.639><c> a</c><00:16:32.740><c> response.</c>

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Without<00:16:34.559><c> word,</c><00:16:35.120><c> there</c><00:16:35.340><c> is</c><00:16:35.559><c> a</c><00:16:35.740><c> response.</c>

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There<00:16:36.600><c> is</c><00:16:36.860><c> something</c><00:16:37.279><c> that</c><00:16:37.960><c> I</c><00:16:38.419><c> say</c><00:16:38.879><c> as</c><00:16:39.580><c> a</c><00:16:39.799><c> woman</c>

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back<00:16:41.840><c> to</c><00:16:42.059><c> the</c><00:16:42.320><c> man</c><00:16:42.879><c> who</c><00:16:43.179><c> is</c><00:16:43.460><c> speaking</c><00:16:43.740><c> to</c><00:16:43.980><c> me</c>

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that<00:16:44.860><c> tells</c><00:16:45.299><c> him</c><00:16:45.840><c> that</c><00:16:46.299><c> I</c><00:16:46.419><c> find</c><00:16:46.740><c> what</c><00:16:46.919><c> you</c><00:16:47.259><c> are</c><00:16:47.279><c> saying</c>

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is<00:16:48.000><c> acceptable</c><00:16:48.620><c> to</c><00:16:48.919><c> me,</c><00:16:49.220><c> and</c><00:16:49.519><c> please</c><00:16:50.019><c> go</c><00:16:50.419><c> on.</c>

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Now,<00:16:51.620><c> we</c><00:16:51.779><c> are</c><00:16:52.019><c> aware</c><00:16:52.320><c> of</c><00:16:52.559><c> that.</c>

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Now,<00:16:53.679><c> you</c><00:16:53.759><c> can</c><00:16:53.919><c> see</c><00:16:54.059><c> how</c><00:16:54.360><c> dangerous</c><00:16:54.840><c> that</c><00:16:55.139><c> situation</c><00:16:55.659><c> is</c>

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if<00:16:56.980><c> that's</c><00:16:57.279><c> the</c><00:16:57.559><c> wrong</c><00:16:57.919><c> person,</c>

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because<00:16:59.940><c> he</c><00:17:00.120><c> may</c><00:17:00.360><c> say</c><00:17:00.679><c> things</c><00:17:00.960><c> to</c><00:17:01.179><c> us</c>

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that<00:17:01.580><c> are</c><00:17:01.820><c> just</c><00:17:02.059><c> the</c><00:17:02.340><c> things</c><00:17:02.600><c> that</c><00:17:02.799><c> the</c><00:17:02.980><c> right</c><00:17:03.299><c> person</c><00:17:03.700><c> would</c><00:17:03.960><c> say,</c>

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that<00:17:06.539><c> he</c><00:17:06.680><c> has</c><00:17:06.960><c> never</c><00:17:07.460><c> seen</c><00:17:07.880><c> anyone</c><00:17:08.359><c> quite</c><00:17:09.140><c> like</c><00:17:09.900><c> me,</c>

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and<00:17:12.059><c> that</c><00:17:12.200><c> he</c><00:17:12.380><c> finds</c><00:17:12.759><c> a</c><00:17:13.099><c> great</c><00:17:13.400><c> deal</c><00:17:13.759><c> of</c><00:17:14.079><c> satisfaction</c><00:17:14.660><c> in</c><00:17:15.019><c> my</c><00:17:15.259><c> company,</c>

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and<00:17:18.160><c> in</c><00:17:18.440><c> no</c><00:17:18.680><c> time,</c><00:17:19.339><c> there</c><00:17:19.640><c> is</c><00:17:20.519><c> a</c><00:17:20.940><c> response.</c>

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Now,<00:17:23.039><c> for</c><00:17:23.220><c> that</c><00:17:23.539><c> reason,</c><00:17:24.140><c> therefore,</c>

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we<00:17:24.640><c> have</c><00:17:24.799><c> to</c><00:17:24.940><c> be</c><00:17:25.240><c> careful</c><00:17:25.680><c> about</c><00:17:26.420><c> the</c><00:17:26.759><c> company</c><00:17:27.180><c> we</c><00:17:27.559><c> keep.</c>

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This<00:17:28.519><c> is</c><00:17:28.640><c> one</c><00:17:28.759><c> of</c><00:17:28.880><c> the</c><00:17:28.940><c> reasons</c><00:17:29.279><c> why</c><00:17:29.880><c> when</c><00:17:30.500><c> women</c><00:17:30.740><c> go</c><00:17:30.940><c> out</c><00:17:31.180><c> to</c><00:17:31.420><c> work,</c>

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there<00:17:32.200><c> is</c><00:17:32.400><c> a</c><00:17:32.559><c> great</c><00:17:32.819><c> element</c><00:17:33.220><c> of</c><00:17:33.500><c> danger.</c>

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Now,<00:17:35.119><c> I'm</c><00:17:35.200><c> not</c><00:17:35.380><c> dealing</c><00:17:35.619><c> with</c><00:17:35.819><c> the</c><00:17:36.059><c> economics</c><00:17:36.420><c> of</c><00:17:36.619><c> the</c><00:17:36.680><c> situation,</c>

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nor<00:17:37.880><c> saying</c><00:17:38.339><c> to</c><00:17:38.460><c> those</c><00:17:38.740><c> sisters</c><00:17:39.039><c> who</c><00:17:39.420><c> have</c><00:17:39.740><c> to</c><00:17:39.880><c> go</c><00:17:40.059><c> out</c><00:17:40.279><c> to</c><00:17:40.460><c> work,</c>

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if<00:17:41.200><c> we</c><00:17:41.400><c> are</c><00:17:41.420><c> going</c><00:17:41.599><c> out</c><00:17:41.839><c> to</c><00:17:41.980><c> work</c><00:17:42.319><c> only</c><00:17:43.039><c> just</c><00:17:43.740><c> to</c><00:17:45.339><c> make</c><00:17:46.339><c> even</c><00:17:46.640><c> higher</c>

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our<00:17:47.339><c> standard</c><00:17:47.640><c> of</c><00:17:47.839><c> living,</c><00:17:48.380><c> cut</c><00:17:48.599><c> it.</c>

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That's<00:17:50.259><c> pure</c><00:17:50.460><c> materialism,</c><00:17:51.619><c> pure</c><00:17:51.920><c> materialism.</c>

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If,<00:17:53.660><c> in</c><00:17:53.720><c> fact,</c><00:17:53.940><c> we</c><00:17:54.420><c> need</c><00:17:54.759><c> to</c><00:17:55.019><c> because</c><00:17:55.279><c> we've</c><00:17:55.559><c> got</c><00:17:55.680><c> to</c><00:17:55.839><c> get</c>

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things<00:17:56.299><c> going,</c>

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or<00:17:56.819><c> our</c><00:17:56.920><c> husband</c><00:17:57.259><c> is</c><00:17:57.720><c> ill,</c>

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or<00:17:59.220><c> in</c><00:17:59.440><c> some</c><00:17:59.700><c> circumstance</c><00:18:00.319><c> there</c><00:18:00.579><c> is</c><00:18:00.740><c> that</c><00:18:01.079><c> pressure</c><00:18:01.619><c> on</c><00:18:02.420><c> us,</c>

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then,<00:18:03.380><c> well,</c><00:18:03.559><c> let's</c><00:18:03.799><c> do</c><00:18:04.000><c> it.</c>

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But<00:18:04.599><c> otherwise,</c><00:18:05.720><c> the</c><00:18:05.880><c> right</c><00:18:06.220><c> place</c><00:18:06.700><c> is</c><00:18:07.220><c> the</c><00:18:07.420><c> place</c>

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where<00:18:08.660><c> the</c><00:18:08.859><c> whole</c><00:18:09.099><c> family</c><00:18:09.460><c> holds</c><00:18:09.740><c> together,</c><00:18:10.119><c> and</c><00:18:10.259><c> that</c><00:18:10.400><c> is</c><00:18:10.559><c> at</c><00:18:10.759><c> home.</c>

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Because<00:18:11.839><c> our</c><00:18:12.079><c> risk</c><00:18:12.319><c> when</c><00:18:12.440><c> we</c><00:18:12.519><c> go</c><00:18:12.680><c> out</c><00:18:12.819><c> to</c><00:18:12.920><c> these</c><00:18:13.099><c> other</c><00:18:13.299><c> places</c>

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is<00:18:14.140><c> that</c><00:18:14.259><c> we</c><00:18:14.400><c> should</c><00:18:14.519><c> be</c><00:18:14.700><c> found</c><00:18:14.859><c> attractive.</c>

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It<00:18:16.619><c> only</c><00:18:16.799><c> requires</c><00:18:17.240><c> just</c><00:18:17.599><c> a</c><00:18:17.859><c> little</c><00:18:18.160><c> unevenness</c><00:18:18.779><c> at</c><00:18:19.019><c> home,</c>

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when<00:18:19.299><c> we've</c><00:18:19.539><c> left</c><00:18:20.039><c> unevenly</c><00:18:20.720><c> at</c><00:18:20.900><c> home,</c>

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that<00:18:21.259><c> we</c><00:18:21.460><c> arrive</c><00:18:21.880><c> there</c><00:18:22.119><c> and</c><00:18:22.220><c> that</c><00:18:22.420><c> somebody</c><00:18:22.660><c> begins</c><00:18:23.140><c> to</c><00:18:23.420><c> say</c><00:18:23.559><c> things</c>

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that<00:18:24.880><c> seem,</c><00:18:25.619><c> oh,</c><00:18:26.099><c> so</c><00:18:26.359><c> beautiful</c><00:18:26.799><c> and</c><00:18:27.119><c> so</c><00:18:27.460><c> comforting,</c>

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and<00:18:28.059><c> that</c><00:18:28.259><c> person</c><00:18:28.599><c> would</c><00:18:29.059><c> surely</c><00:18:29.359><c> do</c><00:18:29.559><c> the</c><00:18:29.779><c> right</c><00:18:30.039><c> thing,</c>

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and<00:18:30.480><c> in</c><00:18:30.599><c> no</c><00:18:30.900><c> time,</c><00:18:31.500><c> we</c><00:18:31.660><c> have</c><00:18:31.900><c> begun</c><00:18:32.119><c> to</c><00:18:32.380><c> commit</c><00:18:32.559><c> ourselves.</c>

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And<00:18:33.500><c> it's</c><00:18:33.900><c> broken</c><00:18:34.480><c> marriages</c><00:18:35.339><c> in</c><00:18:35.859><c> the</c><00:18:36.180><c> truth.</c>

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It's<00:18:37.819><c> done</c><00:18:38.059><c> it.</c>

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So<00:18:40.220><c> we've</c><00:18:40.359><c> got</c><00:18:40.420><c> to</c><00:18:40.559><c> watch.</c>

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And<00:18:41.900><c> it's</c><00:18:42.019><c> for</c><00:18:42.119><c> that</c><00:18:42.299><c> reason</c><00:18:42.599><c> that</c><00:18:42.859><c> we</c><00:18:43.079><c> find</c><00:18:43.339><c> our</c><00:18:43.640><c> partner</c><00:18:44.019><c> in</c>

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the<00:18:45.319><c> truth.</c>

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Otherwise,<00:18:47.240><c> as</c><00:18:47.359><c> Jesus</c><00:18:47.619><c> says</c><00:18:47.839><c> in</c><00:18:48.000><c> the</c><00:18:48.140><c> Sermon</c><00:18:48.339><c> on</c><00:18:48.519><c> the</c><00:18:48.700><c> Mount,</c>

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you<00:18:49.119><c> remember</c><00:18:49.400><c> His</c><00:18:49.619><c> words,</c>

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you<00:18:50.259><c> cannot</c><00:18:50.559><c> serve</c><00:18:50.900><c> God</c><00:18:51.160><c> and</c><00:18:51.359><c> mammon,</c><00:18:51.579><c> you</c><00:18:51.700><c> can't</c><00:18:52.079><c> serve</c><00:18:52.299><c> two</c><00:18:52.579><c> gods.</c>

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If<00:18:53.319><c> you</c><00:18:53.519><c> choose</c><00:18:53.720><c> a</c><00:18:53.960><c> partner</c><00:18:54.180><c> out</c><00:18:54.440><c> of</c><00:18:54.559><c> the</c><00:18:54.779><c> truth,</c>

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then<00:18:55.140><c> you're</c><00:18:55.380><c> trying</c><00:18:55.579><c> to</c><00:18:55.819><c> serve</c><00:18:55.980><c> two</c><00:18:56.259><c> gods.</c>

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By<00:18:58.900><c> definition,</c><00:19:00.400><c> that's</c><00:19:00.660><c> what</c><00:19:00.839><c> happens.</c>

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And<00:19:02.599><c> it's</c><00:19:03.039><c> mighty</c><00:19:03.440><c> hard</c><00:19:03.859><c> then.</c>

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And<00:19:04.680><c> that</c><00:19:04.799><c> doesn't</c><00:19:05.000><c> mean</c><00:19:05.099><c> we're</c><00:19:05.440><c> condemned</c><00:19:05.779><c> forever,</c>

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but<00:19:06.839><c> it</c><00:19:07.059><c> does</c><00:19:07.359><c> mean</c><00:19:07.539><c> that</c><00:19:07.680><c> we've</c><00:19:07.880><c> put</c><00:19:08.019><c> lead</c><00:19:08.240><c> weights</c><00:19:08.480><c> around</c>

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us<00:19:09.200><c> in</c><00:19:09.539><c> the</c><00:19:09.759><c> race,</c>

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and<00:19:10.920><c> we're</c><00:19:11.019><c> going</c><00:19:11.059><c> to</c><00:19:11.140><c> have</c><00:19:11.240><c> to</c><00:19:11.359><c> spend</c><00:19:11.539><c> part</c><00:19:11.880><c> of</c><00:19:12.039><c> our</c><00:19:12.240><c> time</c>

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satisfying<00:19:13.460><c> Him,</c>

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and<00:19:15.579><c> He</c><00:19:15.940><c> will</c><00:19:16.079><c> be</c><00:19:16.339><c> attractive,</c><00:19:16.720><c> He</c><00:19:16.859><c> must</c><00:19:17.119><c> be,</c><00:19:17.240><c> because</c><00:19:17.480><c> He's</c>

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attracted<00:19:18.619><c> us.</c>

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But<00:19:20.160><c> the</c><00:19:20.339><c> fact</c><00:19:20.539><c> is</c><00:19:20.940><c> that</c><00:19:21.099><c> we</c><00:19:21.259><c> have</c><00:19:21.440><c> made</c><00:19:21.599><c> it</c><00:19:21.880><c> difficult</c><00:19:22.220><c> for</c><00:19:22.480><c> ourselves.</c>

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Now<00:19:23.579><c> for</c><00:19:23.680><c> the</c><00:19:23.819><c> sister</c><00:19:24.019><c> who</c><00:19:24.140><c> says,</c><00:19:24.480><c> oh,</c><00:19:24.579><c> but</c><00:19:24.740><c> Brother</c><00:19:24.880><c> Harry,</c>

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what<00:19:25.240><c> about</c><00:19:25.460><c> me?</c>

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I<00:19:26.279><c> came</c><00:19:26.480><c> into</c><00:19:26.640><c> the</c><00:19:26.859><c> truth</c><00:19:27.039><c> after</c><00:19:27.519><c> we</c><00:19:27.900><c> were</c><00:19:28.059><c> married.</c>

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God<00:19:28.839><c> gives</c><00:19:29.039><c> you</c><00:19:29.200><c> a</c><00:19:29.339><c> special</c><00:19:29.619><c> blessing.</c>

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You<00:19:31.400><c> haven't</c><00:19:31.660><c> made</c><00:19:32.039><c> a</c><00:19:32.339><c> choice</c><00:19:32.920><c> to</c><00:19:33.599><c> do</c><00:19:33.799><c> that</c><00:19:34.079><c> which</c><00:19:34.259><c> is</c><00:19:34.500><c> not</c><00:19:34.759><c> convenient</c><00:19:35.299><c> or</c><00:19:35.720><c> right.</c>

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You<00:19:36.980><c> are</c><00:19:37.180><c> seeking</c><00:19:37.380><c> to</c><00:19:37.579><c> do</c><00:19:37.660><c> a</c><00:19:37.900><c> right</c><00:19:38.200><c> thing</c>

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out<00:19:39.059><c> of</c><00:19:39.200><c> a</c><00:19:39.359><c> situation</c><00:19:39.839><c> in</c><00:19:40.019><c> which</c><00:19:40.180><c> both</c><00:19:40.440><c> of</c><00:19:40.640><c> you</c><00:19:40.720><c> were</c><00:19:40.880><c> in</c><00:19:41.079><c> darkness.</c>

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Now<00:19:42.000><c> God</c><00:19:42.220><c> adds</c><00:19:42.420><c> a</c><00:19:42.619><c> blessing</c><00:19:42.859><c> to</c><00:19:43.079><c> that</c><00:19:43.240><c> situation</c>

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and<00:19:44.420><c> can</c><00:19:44.680><c> bless</c><00:19:44.900><c> you</c><00:19:45.099><c> in</c><00:19:45.259><c> your</c><00:19:45.460><c> home.</c>

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May<00:19:46.500><c> I</c><00:19:46.640><c> just</c><00:19:46.799><c> give</c><00:19:46.900><c> you</c><00:19:47.059><c> a</c><00:19:47.140><c> passage</c><00:19:47.319><c> of</c><00:19:47.519><c> Scripture</c><00:19:47.740><c> to</c><00:19:47.980><c> help</c><00:19:48.180><c> you,</c>

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if<00:19:48.700><c> you</c><00:19:48.920><c> are</c><00:19:49.059><c> in</c><00:19:49.200><c> that</c><00:19:49.480><c> situation.</c>

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1<00:19:50.700><c> Peter</c><00:19:51.039><c> chapter</c><00:19:51.400><c> 3.</c>

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There<00:19:54.000><c> are</c><00:19:54.200><c> always</c><00:19:54.480><c> some</c><00:19:54.859><c> who</c><00:19:55.039><c> are</c><00:19:55.140><c> in</c><00:19:55.279><c> this</c><00:19:55.420><c> situation.</c>

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Likewise,<00:19:58.680><c> ye</c><00:19:58.779><c> wives,</c><00:19:59.299><c> be</c><00:19:59.420><c> in</c><00:19:59.599><c> subjection</c><00:20:00.119><c> to</c><00:20:00.259><c> your</c><00:20:00.500><c> own</c><00:20:00.859><c> husbands,</c>

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and<00:20:03.559><c> you</c><00:20:03.660><c> will</c><00:20:03.980><c> find</c><00:20:04.500><c> in</c><00:20:05.039><c> Scripture</c><00:20:05.599><c> after</c><00:20:06.240><c> Scripture</c><00:20:06.920><c> after</c><00:20:07.460><c> Scripture</c>

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it<00:20:08.579><c> says</c><00:20:08.839><c> your</c><00:20:09.319><c> own</c><00:20:10.039><c> husbands,</c><00:20:10.740><c> and</c><00:20:11.220><c> it</c><00:20:11.519><c> keeps</c><00:20:11.920><c> on</c><00:20:12.680><c> saying</c><00:20:12.900><c> it,</c>

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and<00:20:13.680><c> that</c><00:20:13.960><c> is</c><00:20:14.220><c> only</c><00:20:14.740><c> underlying</c><00:20:15.480><c> the</c><00:20:15.859><c> fact</c>

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that<00:20:16.539><c> we</c><00:20:16.740><c> can</c><00:20:16.980><c> respond</c><00:20:17.539><c> to</c><00:20:17.740><c> people</c><00:20:18.079><c> who</c><00:20:18.400><c> are</c><00:20:18.740><c> not</c><00:20:18.980><c> our</c><00:20:19.279><c> husbands.</c>

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We<00:20:21.660><c> do</c><00:20:21.759><c> it</c><00:20:21.880><c> at</c><00:20:22.140><c> Bible</c><00:20:22.400><c> school,</c><00:20:23.259><c> and</c><00:20:23.460><c> we</c><00:20:23.720><c> are</c><00:20:23.839><c> not</c><00:20:24.059><c> to</c><00:20:24.240><c> do</c><00:20:24.420><c> it</c>

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and<00:20:26.240><c> we</c><00:20:26.299><c> all</c><00:20:26.599><c> know</c><00:20:26.799><c> how</c><00:20:27.099><c> to</c><00:20:27.319><c> do</c><00:20:27.440><c> it.</c>

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We<00:20:28.599><c> all</c><00:20:28.819><c> know</c><00:20:28.980><c> you</c><00:20:29.259><c> can</c><00:20:29.539><c> do</c><00:20:29.759><c> it</c><00:20:30.160><c> across</c><00:20:30.460><c> a</c><00:20:30.720><c> room</c>

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and<00:20:31.980><c> you</c><00:20:32.059><c> can</c><00:20:32.319><c> so</c><00:20:32.539><c> communicate</c><00:20:33.059><c> that</c><00:20:33.240><c> the</c><00:20:33.359><c> other</c><00:20:33.539><c> person</c><00:20:33.920><c> knows,</c>

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or<00:20:35.559><c> she</c><00:20:35.720><c> may</c><00:20:36.059><c> sit</c><00:20:36.420><c> in</c><00:20:36.680><c> such</c><00:20:36.880><c> a</c><00:20:37.099><c> way</c><00:20:37.339><c> as</c><00:20:37.619><c> to</c><00:20:37.759><c> make</c><00:20:37.900><c> you</c><00:20:38.200><c> look</c><00:20:38.559><c> in</c>

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that<00:20:39.140><c> direction.</c>

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And<00:20:41.220><c> though</c><00:20:41.339><c> her</c><00:20:41.619><c> back</c><00:20:41.759><c> is</c><00:20:42.059><c> turned</c><00:20:42.319><c> to</c><00:20:42.519><c> you,</c><00:20:42.740><c> she</c><00:20:43.039><c> knows</c>

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you're<00:20:43.660><c> looking.</c>

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And<00:20:45.599><c> we</c><00:20:45.700><c> are</c><00:20:45.940><c> not</c><00:20:46.180><c> to</c><00:20:46.380><c> do</c><00:20:46.539><c> it.</c>

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We<00:20:47.380><c> are</c><00:20:47.720><c> not</c><00:20:48.079><c> to</c><00:20:48.380><c> do</c><00:20:48.539><c> it</c><00:20:48.680><c> with</c><00:20:48.920><c> anyone</c><00:20:49.220><c> who</c><00:20:49.400><c> is</c><00:20:49.640><c> not</c><00:20:49.839><c> our</c><00:20:50.119><c> partner.</c>

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And<00:20:53.119><c> therefore</c><00:20:53.400><c> any</c><00:20:53.859><c> kind</c><00:20:54.279><c> of</c><00:20:56.359><c> intimacy,</c>

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and<00:20:57.480><c> I'm</c><00:20:57.599><c> not</c><00:20:57.859><c> talking</c><00:20:58.240><c> about</c><00:20:58.500><c> the</c><00:20:58.759><c> ultimate</c><00:20:59.180><c> intimacy,</c>

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I'm<00:21:00.000><c> talking</c><00:21:00.240><c> about</c><00:21:00.460><c> any</c><00:21:00.839><c> kind</c><00:21:01.119><c> of</c><00:21:01.480><c> intimacy</c><00:21:02.059><c> is</c><00:21:02.660><c> not</c><00:21:03.079><c> to</c><00:21:03.279><c> be</c><00:21:03.519><c> encouraged.</c>

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We<00:21:05.599><c> should</c><00:21:05.900><c> not</c><00:21:06.259><c> be</c><00:21:06.599><c> alone,</c><00:21:07.339><c> man</c><00:21:07.759><c> with</c><00:21:08.099><c> another</c><00:21:08.500><c> woman.</c>

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It<00:21:09.660><c> is</c><00:21:09.980><c> not</c><00:21:10.299><c> right.</c>

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I<00:21:11.599><c> just</c><00:21:11.859><c> cut</c><00:21:12.480><c> all</c><00:21:12.839><c> those</c><00:21:13.000><c> situations.</c>

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If<00:21:14.099><c> any</c><00:21:14.299><c> sister</c><00:21:14.559><c> asked</c><00:21:14.839><c> me</c><00:21:15.119><c> here,</c>

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could<00:21:15.980><c> I</c><00:21:16.160><c> have</c><00:21:16.400><c> a</c><00:21:16.579><c> word</c><00:21:16.700><c> in</c><00:21:16.960><c> private</c><00:21:17.160><c> with</c><00:21:17.339><c> you,</c><00:21:17.559><c> Brother</c><00:21:17.680><c> Harry?</c>

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I<00:21:18.059><c> would</c><00:21:18.240><c> say</c><00:21:18.460><c> certainly,</c><00:21:19.640><c> and</c><00:21:19.700><c> Sister</c><00:21:19.940><c> Bernice</c><00:21:20.240><c> will</c><00:21:20.400><c> be</c><00:21:20.559><c> there.</c>

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And<00:21:22.220><c> we</c><00:21:22.559><c> work</c><00:21:22.779><c> on</c><00:21:22.940><c> that</c><00:21:23.160><c> basis</c><00:21:23.460><c> and</c><00:21:23.740><c> have</c><00:21:24.019><c> always</c><00:21:24.440><c> worked</c><00:21:24.880><c> on</c><00:21:25.039><c> it.</c>

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There<00:21:25.380><c> is</c><00:21:25.700><c> no</c><00:21:26.000><c> point</c><00:21:26.519><c> in</c><00:21:27.759><c> creating</c><00:21:28.200><c> a</c><00:21:28.420><c> situation</c><00:21:28.960><c> where</c><00:21:29.819><c> evil</c>

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can<00:21:30.839><c> arise.</c>

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It<00:21:31.539><c> may</c><00:21:31.720><c> not</c><00:21:31.900><c> be</c><00:21:32.140><c> intended,</c><00:21:32.539><c> that's</c><00:21:32.799><c> not</c><00:21:32.940><c> the</c><00:21:33.140><c> point.</c>

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We<00:21:34.440><c> are</c><00:21:34.579><c> all</c><00:21:34.839><c> weak.</c>

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It<00:21:37.079><c> only</c><00:21:37.259><c> requires</c><00:21:37.700><c> the</c><00:21:37.920><c> sister</c><00:21:38.099><c> to</c><00:21:38.400><c> weep</c><00:21:38.640><c> in</c><00:21:38.819><c> my</c><00:21:39.099><c> presence,</c>

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but<00:21:40.880><c> then</c><00:21:41.079><c> I</c><00:21:41.380><c> want</c><00:21:41.559><c> to</c><00:21:41.759><c> do</c><00:21:42.039><c> something.</c>

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And<00:21:44.099><c> it</c><00:21:44.200><c> only</c><00:21:44.319><c> requires</c><00:21:44.660><c> just</c><00:21:44.880><c> a</c><00:21:45.079><c> protective</c><00:21:45.380><c> arm,</c>

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which<00:21:47.099><c> is</c><00:21:47.259><c> only</c><00:21:47.460><c> there</c><00:21:47.640><c> to</c><00:21:47.839><c> protect</c><00:21:48.099><c> for</c><00:21:48.339><c> that</c><00:21:48.720><c> reason</c><00:21:48.980><c> that</c>

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she<00:21:49.220><c> was</c><00:21:49.500><c> weeping,</c>

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to<00:21:51.720><c> which</c><00:21:51.819><c> she</c><00:21:52.059><c> responds.</c>

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And<00:21:53.380><c> in</c><00:21:53.500><c> no</c><00:21:53.779><c> time,</c><00:21:54.279><c> in</c><00:21:54.559><c> no</c><00:21:54.920><c> time</c><00:21:55.319><c> the</c><00:21:55.559><c> wrong</c><00:21:55.920><c> thing</c><00:21:56.460><c> can</c><00:21:56.839><c> take</c><00:21:57.180><c> place.</c>

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And<00:21:58.359><c> we</c><00:21:58.460><c> are</c><00:21:58.519><c> all</c><00:21:58.720><c> aware</c><00:21:58.980><c> of</c><00:21:59.180><c> this.</c>

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Therefore<00:21:59.720><c> we</c><00:22:00.279><c> really</c><00:22:00.680><c> must</c><00:22:01.160><c> make</c><00:22:01.559><c> sure,</c><00:22:02.200><c> and</c><00:22:02.339><c> with</c><00:22:02.500><c> our</c><00:22:02.720><c> children,</c>

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we<00:22:03.220><c> must</c><00:22:03.440><c> make</c><00:22:03.779><c> sure</c><00:22:04.440><c> that</c><00:22:04.819><c> we</c><00:22:05.319><c> behave</c><00:22:05.880><c> properly</c><00:22:06.539><c> always.</c>

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No<00:22:07.759><c> husband</c><00:22:08.339><c> should</c><00:22:09.220><c> appear</c><00:22:09.460><c> to</c><00:22:09.660><c> his</c><00:22:09.859><c> children</c><00:22:10.339><c> ever</c>

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to<00:22:11.480><c> have</c><00:22:11.619><c> any</c><00:22:11.980><c> kind</c><00:22:12.319><c> of</c><00:22:13.460><c> that</c><00:22:13.779><c> kind</c><00:22:14.180><c> of</c><00:22:14.440><c> affection</c><00:22:14.880><c> for</c><00:22:15.980><c> anybody</c><00:22:16.359><c> other</c>

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than<00:22:16.779><c> his</c><00:22:16.980><c> wife,</c>

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or<00:22:18.160><c> to</c><00:22:18.279><c> be</c><00:22:18.539><c> showing</c><00:22:18.799><c> it,</c>

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or<00:22:20.920><c> to</c><00:22:21.099><c> be</c><00:22:22.160><c> talking,</c><00:22:22.900><c> chatting</c><00:22:23.160><c> up</c><00:22:23.539><c> other</c><00:22:23.799><c> people</c><00:22:24.099><c> in</c><00:22:24.279><c> this</c><00:22:24.519><c> way.</c>

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It<00:22:24.980><c> is</c><00:22:25.259><c> not</c><00:22:25.500><c> right.</c>

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So<00:22:26.640><c> here</c><00:22:26.920><c> in</c><00:22:27.099><c> 1</c><00:22:27.299><c> Peter</c><00:22:27.539><c> 3</c><00:22:27.819><c> it</c><00:22:27.940><c> says,</c>

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Likewise<00:22:28.480><c> ye</c><00:22:28.859><c> wise,</c><00:22:29.140><c> be</c><00:22:29.339><c> in</c><00:22:29.519><c> subjection</c><00:22:29.920><c> to</c><00:22:30.019><c> your</c><00:22:30.319><c> own</c><00:22:30.599><c> husbands,</c>

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that<00:22:31.900><c> if</c><00:22:32.299><c> any</c><00:22:32.599><c> obey</c><00:22:32.960><c> not</c><00:22:33.240><c> the</c><00:22:33.480><c> word...</c>

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So<00:22:35.420><c> you've</c><00:22:35.619><c> got</c><00:22:35.740><c> a</c><00:22:35.900><c> husband</c><00:22:36.160><c> who's</c><00:22:36.339><c> not</c><00:22:36.480><c> in</c><00:22:36.599><c> the</c><00:22:36.819><c> truth,</c>

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and<00:22:37.160><c> he's</c><00:22:37.400><c> actually</c><00:22:37.720><c> dealing</c><00:22:37.980><c> with</c><00:22:38.160><c> that</c><00:22:38.380><c> here.</c>

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...that<00:22:40.180><c> if</c><00:22:40.380><c> any</c><00:22:40.720><c> obey</c><00:22:41.339><c> not</c><00:22:41.880><c> the</c><00:22:42.200><c> word,</c>

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they<00:22:44.759><c> also</c><00:22:45.720><c> may,</c><00:22:47.779><c> without</c><00:22:48.299><c> the</c><00:22:48.619><c> word,</c>

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be<00:22:50.440><c> won</c><00:22:50.859><c> by</c><00:22:51.619><c> the</c><00:22:51.859><c> behavior</c><00:22:52.640><c> of</c><00:22:54.240><c> the</c><00:22:54.440><c> wives.</c>

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All<00:22:57.039><c> right?</c>

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So<00:22:58.940><c> what</c><00:22:59.099><c> he's</c><00:22:59.240><c> actually</c><00:22:59.500><c> saying</c><00:22:59.799><c> is,</c>

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it<00:23:00.740><c> may</c><00:23:01.079><c> not</c><00:23:02.200><c> be</c><00:23:02.680><c> convenient</c><00:23:03.319><c> or</c><00:23:04.640><c> appropriate</c>

00:23:05.279 --> 00:23:09.500
that<00:23:05.839><c> you</c><00:23:05.940><c> actually</c><00:23:06.420><c> speak</c><00:23:06.940><c> to</c><00:23:07.160><c> your</c><00:23:07.339><c> husband</c><00:23:07.680><c> about</c><00:23:08.200><c> the</c><00:23:08.579><c> truth.</c>

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You<00:23:09.859><c> do</c><00:23:10.019><c> it</c><00:23:10.259><c> initially,</c>

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and<00:23:10.799><c> then</c><00:23:10.940><c> you</c><00:23:11.079><c> discover</c><00:23:11.380><c> maybe</c><00:23:11.779><c> that</c><00:23:12.019><c> after</c><00:23:12.259><c> that</c><00:23:12.740><c> there</c><00:23:13.140><c> is</c>

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a<00:23:13.420><c> barrier.</c>

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So<00:23:15.160><c> Peter</c><00:23:15.339><c> says</c><00:23:15.619><c> that</c><00:23:16.099><c> the</c><00:23:16.259><c> Spirit</c><00:23:16.480><c> understands</c><00:23:17.079><c> that.</c>

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And<00:23:18.140><c> what</c><00:23:18.259><c> it</c><00:23:18.380><c> now</c><00:23:18.599><c> tells</c><00:23:18.779><c> you</c><00:23:18.940><c> to</c><00:23:19.119><c> do</c><00:23:19.420><c> is</c><00:23:19.779><c> to</c><00:23:19.940><c> be</c><00:23:20.240><c> such</c><00:23:20.640><c> a</c><00:23:21.019><c> wife</c>

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to<00:23:22.720><c> your</c><00:23:23.160><c> husband</c>

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that<00:23:24.599><c> he</c><00:23:24.819><c> never</c><00:23:25.059><c> had</c><00:23:25.339><c> a</c><00:23:25.539><c> better</c><00:23:25.779><c> wife,</c>

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never<00:23:27.900><c> had</c><00:23:28.180><c> a</c><00:23:28.400><c> better</c><00:23:28.619><c> wife,</c>

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that<00:23:29.759><c> there</c><00:23:30.019><c> now</c><00:23:30.299><c> is</c><00:23:30.599><c> about</c><00:23:31.019><c> you</c><00:23:31.440><c> in</c><00:23:31.859><c> that</c><00:23:32.180><c> relationship,</c>

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you're<00:23:33.299><c> still</c><00:23:33.640><c> observing</c><00:23:34.180><c> the</c><00:23:34.460><c> man</c><00:23:34.819><c>-woman</c><00:23:35.099><c> relationship,</c>

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even<00:23:36.539><c> in</c><00:23:36.759><c> that</c><00:23:37.019><c> situation.</c>

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But<00:23:38.460><c> you</c><00:23:38.599><c> have</c><00:23:38.839><c> now,</c><00:23:39.140><c> for</c><00:23:39.420><c> your</c><00:23:39.759><c> part,</c><00:23:40.160><c> got</c><00:23:40.440><c> in</c><00:23:40.779><c> that</c><00:23:41.420><c> Christ.</c>

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And<00:23:44.099><c> that</c><00:23:44.240><c> your</c><00:23:44.400><c> husband</c><00:23:44.759><c> may</c><00:23:45.000><c> be</c><00:23:45.380><c> so</c><00:23:45.740><c> attracted</c><00:23:46.599><c> by</c><00:23:48.000><c> what's</c>

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happened<00:23:48.720><c> to</c><00:23:49.039><c> you</c>

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that<00:23:52.200><c> he</c><00:23:52.559><c> too</c><00:23:53.319><c> will</c><00:23:54.279><c> want</c><00:23:54.460><c> to</c><00:23:54.700><c> listen.</c>

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Now<00:23:55.619><c> this</c><00:23:55.720><c> doesn't</c><00:23:56.000><c> prevent</c><00:23:56.420><c> you.</c>

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Just<00:23:58.700><c> leaving,</c><00:23:59.759><c> by</c><00:24:00.059><c> chance,</c><00:24:01.000><c> that</c><00:24:01.240><c> little</c><00:24:01.599><c> booklet</c><00:24:02.059><c> lying</c><00:24:02.559><c> around,</c>

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he'll<00:24:04.259><c> always</c><00:24:04.440><c> have</c><00:24:04.619><c> a</c><00:24:04.680><c> look</c><00:24:04.819><c> at</c><00:24:04.920><c> it</c><00:24:05.000><c> when</c><00:24:05.119><c> you're</c><00:24:05.299><c> out.</c>

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He'll<00:24:07.319><c> read</c><00:24:07.480><c> it,</c>

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because<00:24:08.660><c> he</c><00:24:08.740><c> wants</c><00:24:08.940><c> to</c><00:24:09.099><c> know</c><00:24:09.180><c> what</c><00:24:09.359><c> it</c><00:24:09.559><c> is</c><00:24:09.680><c> that's</c><00:24:09.880><c> making</c><00:24:10.119><c> you</c><00:24:10.460><c> tick.</c>

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He<00:24:11.279><c> wants</c><00:24:11.500><c> to</c><00:24:11.720><c> find</c><00:24:11.960><c> out.</c>

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And<00:24:13.640><c> you've</c><00:24:13.819><c> got</c><00:24:13.900><c> to</c><00:24:14.079><c> sympathize</c><00:24:14.500><c> with</c><00:24:14.640><c> him</c>

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because<00:24:15.079><c> a</c><00:24:15.299><c> new</c><00:24:15.519><c> loyalty</c><00:24:15.920><c> has</c><00:24:16.240><c> entered</c><00:24:16.440><c> into</c><00:24:16.660><c> the</c><00:24:16.799><c> marriage,</c>

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which<00:24:17.259><c> is</c><00:24:17.380><c> very</c><00:24:17.599><c> difficult</c><00:24:17.880><c> for</c><00:24:18.079><c> him.</c>

00:24:19.059 --> 00:24:21.180
You<00:24:19.200><c> were</c><00:24:19.400><c> married</c><00:24:19.660><c> and</c><00:24:19.880><c> promised</c><00:24:20.079><c> loyalty</c><00:24:20.420><c> to</c><00:24:20.559><c> one</c><00:24:20.720><c> another,</c>

00:24:21.460 --> 00:24:24.960
and<00:24:21.599><c> now</c><00:24:21.799><c> somebody</c><00:24:22.119><c> higher</c><00:24:22.680><c> has</c><00:24:23.299><c> actually</c><00:24:23.700><c> caught</c><00:24:24.059><c> your</c><00:24:24.500><c> loyalty.</c>

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And<00:24:25.200><c> he</c><00:24:25.460><c> wonders</c><00:24:25.940><c> whether</c><00:24:26.400><c> this</c><00:24:26.740><c> now</c><00:24:27.140><c> is</c><00:24:27.480><c> making</c><00:24:27.720><c> the</c>

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marriage<00:24:28.220><c> unstable.</c>

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And<00:24:30.599><c> Paul</c><00:24:30.759><c> writes</c><00:24:31.059><c> on</c><00:24:31.279><c> this</c><00:24:31.400><c> in</c><00:24:31.579><c> 1</c><00:24:31.759><c> Corinthians</c><00:24:32.059><c> 7</c>

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that<00:24:32.599><c> some</c><00:24:32.880><c> Huntsmen</c><00:24:33.160><c> can't</c><00:24:33.579><c> stand</c><00:24:33.859><c> it,</c><00:24:34.640><c> and</c><00:24:34.740><c> they</c><00:24:35.000><c> go.</c>

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But<00:24:36.559><c> we</c><00:24:36.700><c> are</c><00:24:36.779><c> not</c><00:24:36.900><c> to</c><00:24:37.059><c> go</c><00:24:37.180><c> from</c><00:24:37.440><c> them.</c>

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We<00:24:38.720><c> are</c><00:24:39.200><c> to</c><00:24:39.539><c> exercise</c><00:24:39.960><c> all</c><00:24:40.359><c> that</c><00:24:40.460><c> we</c><00:24:40.720><c> can.</c>

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And<00:24:42.440><c> so</c><00:24:42.599><c> now</c><00:24:43.039><c> we,</c><00:24:43.660><c> with</c><00:24:44.079><c> Christ</c><00:24:44.559><c>-likeness,</c>

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bring<00:24:46.519><c> all</c><00:24:47.019><c> our</c><00:24:47.500><c> qualities</c><00:24:47.880><c> of</c><00:24:48.240><c> womanhood</c><00:24:48.980><c> to</c><00:24:49.559><c> bear</c><00:24:49.960><c> in</c><00:24:50.299><c> the</c><00:24:50.480><c> home</c>

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so<00:24:52.579><c> that</c><00:24:52.779><c> he</c><00:24:53.099><c> not</c><00:24:53.460><c> only</c><00:24:53.619><c> has</c><00:24:53.799><c> no</c><00:24:54.019><c> complaints,</c>

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but<00:24:55.559><c> he</c><00:24:55.759><c> discovers</c><00:24:56.019><c> things</c><00:24:56.319><c> that</c><00:24:56.420><c> are</c><00:24:56.539><c> far</c><00:24:56.700><c> better</c><00:24:56.920><c> than</c><00:24:57.000><c> he</c>

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ever<00:24:57.299><c> knew</c><00:24:57.460><c> before.</c>

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I<00:25:00.420><c> became</c><00:25:00.599><c> aware</c><00:25:00.799><c> of</c><00:25:00.960><c> one</c><00:25:01.119><c> sister</c><00:25:01.480><c> who,</c><00:25:02.059><c> in</c><00:25:02.200><c> fact,</c>

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married<00:25:03.980><c> out</c><00:25:04.200><c> of</c><00:25:04.319><c> the</c><00:25:04.559><c> truth</c>

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and<00:25:06.819><c> stopped</c><00:25:07.000><c> going</c><00:25:07.200><c> to</c><00:25:07.319><c> the</c><00:25:07.440><c> meeting.</c>

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She<00:25:10.220><c> preferred</c><00:25:10.500><c> her</c><00:25:10.660><c> husband</c><00:25:10.960><c> to</c><00:25:11.220><c> Christ,</c>

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and<00:25:13.799><c> then</c><00:25:13.900><c> she</c><00:25:14.059><c> repented.</c>

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And<00:25:16.740><c> the</c><00:25:16.839><c> reason</c><00:25:16.940><c> she</c><00:25:17.140><c> preferred</c><00:25:17.440><c> her</c><00:25:17.579><c> husband</c><00:25:17.779><c> to</c><00:25:17.920><c> Christ</c>

00:25:18.160 --> 00:25:19.720
was<00:25:18.299><c> that</c><00:25:18.380><c> he</c><00:25:18.420><c> was</c><00:25:18.539><c> a</c><00:25:18.579><c> very</c><00:25:18.799><c> powerful</c><00:25:19.180><c> husband.</c>

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He<00:25:19.720><c> was</c><00:25:20.359><c> a</c><00:25:20.420><c> very</c><00:25:20.759><c> possessive</c><00:25:21.500><c> husband.</c>

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So<00:25:22.880><c> when</c><00:25:22.980><c> it</c><00:25:23.079><c> came</c><00:25:23.220><c> to</c><00:25:23.380><c> the</c><00:25:23.539><c> moment</c><00:25:23.779><c> that</c><00:25:23.960><c> she</c><00:25:24.440><c> repented</c>

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and<00:25:27.259><c> wanted</c><00:25:27.480><c> to</c><00:25:27.559><c> go</c><00:25:27.799><c> back</c><00:25:27.940><c> to</c><00:25:28.059><c> the</c><00:25:28.180><c> meeting,</c>

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he<00:25:30.099><c> said,</c>

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if<00:25:32.420><c> you</c><00:25:32.559><c> go</c><00:25:32.680><c> back</c><00:25:32.839><c> to</c><00:25:32.940><c> the</c><00:25:33.079><c> meeting,</c>

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I'll<00:25:36.259><c> leave</c><00:25:36.519><c> you.</c>

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She<00:25:40.380><c> said,</c><00:25:40.519><c> I'm</c><00:25:40.619><c> going</c><00:25:40.859><c> back.</c>

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He<00:25:44.680><c> said,</c>

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and<00:25:47.140><c> I'm</c><00:25:47.339><c> coming</c><00:25:47.500><c> with</c><00:25:47.759><c> you.</c>

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If<00:25:49.420><c> it</c><00:25:49.559><c> means</c><00:25:49.759><c> that</c><00:25:49.980><c> much</c><00:25:50.140><c> to</c><00:25:50.380><c> you,</c><00:25:50.619><c> it</c><00:25:50.839><c> must</c><00:25:51.119><c> be</c><00:25:51.299><c> something.</c>

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Now,<00:25:53.200><c> sister,</c><00:25:53.400><c> I</c><00:25:53.480><c> don't</c><00:25:53.599><c> know</c><00:25:53.640><c> what</c><00:25:53.759><c> you'd</c><00:25:53.960><c> have</c><00:25:54.000><c> done</c><00:25:54.119><c> at</c>

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that<00:25:54.380><c> critical</c><00:25:54.680><c> moment.</c>

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You<00:25:56.140><c> know,</c><00:25:56.400><c> it</c><00:25:56.480><c> was</c><00:25:56.640><c> a</c><00:25:56.839><c> great</c><00:25:56.980><c> moment.</c>

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That's<00:25:58.180><c> the</c><00:25:58.319><c> kind</c><00:25:58.460><c> of</c><00:25:58.599><c> Nehemiah</c><00:25:59.000><c> moment,</c><00:25:59.420><c> isn't</c><00:25:59.519><c> it?</c>

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I<00:26:01.799><c> prayed</c><00:26:02.000><c> unto</c><00:26:02.180><c> the</c><00:26:02.400><c> Lord,</c><00:26:02.619><c> and</c><00:26:02.759><c> I</c><00:26:03.000><c> said,</c>

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oh,<00:26:04.660><c> she</c><00:26:04.700><c> did</c><00:26:04.819><c> the</c><00:26:05.000><c> right</c><00:26:05.160><c> thing.</c>

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So<00:26:07.220><c> if,</c><00:26:07.619><c> in</c><00:26:07.779><c> fact,</c><00:26:07.880><c> we</c><00:26:08.039><c> have</c><00:26:08.160><c> come</c><00:26:08.319><c> into</c><00:26:08.420><c> the</c><00:26:08.680><c> truth</c><00:26:08.799><c> and</c><00:26:08.880><c> our</c>

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partner<00:26:09.380><c> hasn't,</c>

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then<00:26:09.920><c> let's</c><00:26:10.220><c> exercise</c><00:26:10.599><c> all</c><00:26:10.980><c> these</c><00:26:11.619><c> things</c><00:26:12.039><c> that</c><00:26:12.240><c> Peter</c><00:26:12.440><c> speaks</c><00:26:12.720><c> about</c><00:26:13.000><c> here,</c>

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and<00:26:13.900><c> we</c><00:26:14.019><c> should</c><00:26:14.140><c> discover,</c><00:26:14.460><c> in</c><00:26:14.740><c> fact,</c><00:26:15.480><c> that</c><00:26:15.539><c> we</c><00:26:15.720><c> should</c>

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receive<00:26:16.119><c> blessings.</c>

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We<00:26:17.599><c> may</c><00:26:17.799><c> have</c><00:26:17.940><c> to</c><00:26:18.059><c> wait</c><00:26:18.160><c> a</c><00:26:18.339><c> long</c><00:26:18.599><c> time,</c><00:26:19.359><c> maybe</c><00:26:19.700><c> 10</c><00:26:19.920><c> years,</c><00:26:20.460><c> maybe</c><00:26:20.680><c> 20,</c>

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maybe<00:26:21.839><c> 30.</c>

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I<00:26:23.079><c> know</c><00:26:23.240><c> a</c><00:26:23.339><c> sister</c><00:26:23.480><c> who's</c><00:26:23.619><c> waited</c><00:26:23.839><c> 40</c><00:26:24.319><c> years.</c>

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Then<00:26:26.619><c> he</c><00:26:26.720><c> was</c><00:26:26.880><c> baptized.</c>

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So<00:26:29.380><c> don't</c><00:26:29.579><c> give</c><00:26:29.779><c> up</c><00:26:30.619><c> and</c><00:26:31.019><c> continue</c><00:26:31.279><c> to</c><00:26:31.500><c> serve</c><00:26:31.680><c> the</c><00:26:31.799><c> Lord</c><00:26:32.000><c> Jesus</c><00:26:32.299><c> Christ.</c>

00:26:34.819 --> 00:26:39.400
So<00:26:35.099><c> then</c><00:26:35.400><c> there</c><00:26:35.599><c> is</c><00:26:35.960><c> our</c><00:26:37.700><c> choice</c><00:26:38.619><c> of</c><00:26:38.900><c> a</c><00:26:39.039><c> partner.</c>

00:26:39.500 --> 00:26:42.900
When<00:26:39.700><c> we</c><00:26:39.859><c> are</c><00:26:40.079><c> making</c><00:26:40.359><c> a</c><00:26:40.619><c> choice,</c><00:26:40.859><c> it's</c><00:26:41.000><c> in</c><00:26:41.160><c> the</c><00:26:41.460><c> right</c><00:26:41.819><c> place.</c>

00:26:42.900 --> 00:26:47.039
And<00:26:43.799><c> that</c><00:26:44.579><c> is</c><00:26:44.900><c> within</c><00:26:45.680><c> the</c><00:26:46.180><c> ecclesial</c><00:26:46.640><c> circle,</c>

00:26:47.119 --> 00:26:50.599
somebody<00:26:47.539><c> who</c><00:26:47.980><c> already</c><00:26:48.420><c> shares</c><00:26:48.900><c> what</c><00:26:49.180><c> we</c><00:26:49.619><c> share.</c>

00:26:51.079 --> 00:26:52.980
Now,<00:26:51.160><c> does</c><00:26:51.160><c> that</c><00:26:51.339><c> mean</c><00:26:51.519><c> that</c><00:26:51.700><c> any</c><00:26:51.960><c> brother</c><00:26:52.180><c> will</c><00:26:52.440><c> do</c><00:26:52.660><c> for</c><00:26:52.799><c> me</c>

00:26:52.980 --> 00:26:53.339
to<00:26:53.160><c> marry?</c>

00:26:53.380 --> 00:26:54.980
And<00:26:53.519><c> the</c><00:26:53.579><c> answer</c><00:26:53.779><c> is</c><00:26:53.940><c> no,</c><00:26:54.180><c> it</c><00:26:54.279><c> does</c><00:26:54.599><c> not,</c>

00:26:55.180 --> 00:26:56.839
because<00:26:55.400><c> that's</c><00:26:55.680><c> not</c><00:26:55.880><c> what</c><00:26:56.079><c> marriage</c><00:26:56.240><c> is</c><00:26:56.480><c> about.</c>

00:26:57.099 --> 00:27:02.039
There<00:26:57.259><c> has</c><00:26:57.559><c> got</c><00:26:57.759><c> to</c><00:26:58.019><c> be</c><00:26:58.400><c> mutual</c><00:26:59.000><c> attraction,</c><00:26:59.980><c> mutual</c><00:27:00.519><c> responsiveness.</c>

00:27:02.759 --> 00:27:06.759
And<00:27:03.059><c> so</c><00:27:03.299><c> it's</c><00:27:03.640><c> a</c><00:27:03.700><c> question</c><00:27:03.960><c> of</c><00:27:04.420><c> that</c><00:27:04.859><c> responsiveness</c><00:27:05.599><c> and</c><00:27:05.980><c> the</c><00:27:06.259><c> truth,</c>

00:27:07.240 --> 00:27:10.099
that<00:27:07.539><c> we</c><00:27:07.819><c> are</c><00:27:08.700><c> like</c><00:27:09.259><c> people,</c>

00:27:10.099 --> 00:27:15.140
or<00:27:10.980><c> we</c><00:27:11.140><c> are</c><00:27:11.700><c> complementary</c><00:27:12.700><c> people</c><00:27:13.559><c> that</c><00:27:14.380><c> we</c><00:27:14.779><c> fit,</c>

00:27:15.519 --> 00:27:18.400
even<00:27:15.720><c> though</c><00:27:16.319><c> we</c><00:27:16.740><c> are</c><00:27:16.880><c> not</c><00:27:17.059><c> the</c><00:27:17.319><c> same.</c>

00:27:19.619 --> 00:27:23.000
And<00:27:19.700><c> for</c><00:27:19.819><c> this</c><00:27:19.980><c> reason</c><00:27:20.200><c> we</c><00:27:20.279><c> have</c><00:27:20.440><c> to</c><00:27:20.579><c> take</c><00:27:20.819><c> time</c><00:27:21.359><c> in</c><00:27:21.640><c> our</c><00:27:21.880><c> choice.</c>

00:27:23.599 --> 00:27:25.519
The<00:27:23.740><c> idea</c><00:27:23.920><c> that</c><00:27:24.039><c> we</c><00:27:24.140><c> can</c><00:27:24.319><c> decide</c><00:27:24.619><c> it</c><00:27:24.799><c> all</c><00:27:24.900><c> in</c><00:27:25.059><c> three</c><00:27:25.240><c> months</c>

00:27:25.519 --> 00:27:26.859
and<00:27:25.700><c> all</c><00:27:25.859><c> get</c><00:27:26.039><c> married</c><00:27:26.299><c> in</c><00:27:26.480><c> three</c><00:27:26.680><c> months,</c>

00:27:26.940 --> 00:27:29.119
I<00:27:26.980><c> know</c><00:27:27.240><c> some</c><00:27:27.480><c> marriages</c><00:27:27.720><c> have</c><00:27:27.960><c> taken</c><00:27:28.140><c> place</c><00:27:28.400><c> in</c><00:27:28.559><c> that</c><00:27:28.799><c> time</c>

00:27:29.119 --> 00:27:30.259
and<00:27:29.420><c> they</c><00:27:29.599><c> have</c><00:27:29.960><c> stuck,</c>

00:27:30.380 --> 00:27:32.599
but<00:27:30.599><c> it's</c><00:27:30.839><c> a</c><00:27:31.079><c> great</c><00:27:31.480><c> risk.</c>

00:27:32.720 --> 00:27:34.819
We've<00:27:33.119><c> got</c><00:27:33.259><c> to</c><00:27:33.420><c> get</c><00:27:33.559><c> to</c><00:27:34.000><c> know</c><00:27:34.359><c> the</c><00:27:34.559><c> person.</c>

00:27:34.839 --> 00:27:38.799
As<00:27:35.019><c> we</c><00:27:35.220><c> learn</c><00:27:35.420><c> the</c><00:27:35.759><c> truth,</c><00:27:36.460><c> so</c><00:27:36.619><c> we</c><00:27:36.920><c> learn</c><00:27:37.279><c> our</c><00:27:37.480><c> husband</c><00:27:37.859><c> or</c><00:27:38.079><c> our</c><00:27:38.359><c> wife,</c>

00:27:38.799 --> 00:27:41.660
and<00:27:39.579><c> we</c><00:27:39.720><c> learn</c><00:27:40.460><c> by</c><00:27:41.220><c> talking.</c>

00:27:41.700 --> 00:27:43.380
And<00:27:41.859><c> if</c><00:27:41.940><c> we</c><00:27:42.059><c> live</c><00:27:42.240><c> a</c><00:27:42.380><c> thousand</c><00:27:42.640><c> miles</c><00:27:42.960><c> apart,</c>

00:27:43.559 --> 00:27:46.660
then<00:27:43.700><c> we</c><00:27:43.859><c> do</c><00:27:43.980><c> it</c><00:27:44.119><c> by</c><00:27:44.299><c> writing</c><00:27:44.900><c> and</c><00:27:45.539><c> asking</c><00:27:45.859><c> questions</c>

00:27:46.660 --> 00:27:50.500
and<00:27:47.200><c> opening</c><00:27:47.460><c> our</c><00:27:47.720><c> minds</c><00:27:47.980><c> out</c><00:27:48.279><c> in</c><00:27:49.220><c> the</c><00:27:49.440><c> letters</c><00:27:49.660><c> that</c><00:27:49.880><c> we</c><00:27:50.099><c> write,</c>

00:27:50.759 --> 00:27:54.180
until<00:27:51.019><c> everything</c><00:27:51.279><c> is</c><00:27:51.500><c> laid</c><00:27:51.759><c> out</c><00:27:52.319><c> and</c><00:27:52.579><c> we</c><00:27:52.759><c> know</c><00:27:53.039><c> one</c><00:27:53.259><c> another,</c>

00:27:54.380 --> 00:27:56.660
that<00:27:54.480><c> we</c><00:27:54.599><c> see</c><00:27:54.779><c> one</c><00:27:54.960><c> another</c><00:27:55.140><c> on</c><00:27:55.319><c> the</c><00:27:55.559><c> unguarded</c><00:27:56.119><c> moment,</c><00:27:56.460><c> the</c>

00:27:56.660 --> 00:27:57.259
off<00:27:56.920><c> moment,</c>

00:27:57.279 --> 00:28:00.119
how<00:27:57.480><c> we</c><00:27:57.680><c> behave</c><00:27:57.920><c> when</c><00:27:58.079><c> things</c><00:27:58.319><c> go</c><00:27:58.640><c> wrong</c><00:27:59.180><c> or</c><00:27:59.740><c> right,</c>

00:28:00.359 --> 00:28:04.000
what<00:28:00.539><c> our</c><00:28:00.839><c> tastes</c><00:28:01.200><c> are,</c><00:28:01.980><c> ordinary</c><00:28:02.380><c> tastes</c><00:28:02.960><c> are,</c>

00:28:04.000 --> 00:28:08.119
in<00:28:04.579><c> matters</c><00:28:04.859><c> just</c><00:28:05.160><c> ordinary</c><00:28:05.819><c> things</c><00:28:06.259><c> of</c><00:28:06.539><c> food</c><00:28:06.900><c> and</c><00:28:07.240><c> dress</c><00:28:07.640><c> and</c>

00:28:08.119 --> 00:28:09.599
habits<00:28:08.579><c> and</c><00:28:09.240><c> so</c><00:28:09.480><c> on.</c>

00:28:09.700 --> 00:28:11.160
We<00:28:09.720><c> need</c><00:28:09.900><c> to</c><00:28:10.039><c> know</c><00:28:10.160><c> all</c><00:28:10.500><c> these</c><00:28:10.779><c> things.</c>

00:28:11.259 --> 00:28:13.480
Now<00:28:11.359><c> you'll</c><00:28:11.579><c> find</c><00:28:11.759><c> them</c><00:28:11.920><c> all</c><00:28:12.059><c> out</c><00:28:12.220><c> later</c><00:28:12.539><c> on.</c>

00:28:14.019 --> 00:28:15.980
And<00:28:14.019><c> I've</c><00:28:14.539><c> been</c><00:28:14.660><c> where</c><00:28:14.900><c> marriage</c><00:28:15.160><c> had</c><00:28:15.339><c> broken</c><00:28:15.559><c> down</c><00:28:15.839><c> and</c>

00:28:15.980 --> 00:28:16.359
somebody<00:28:16.180><c> said,</c>

00:28:16.400 --> 00:28:18.220
well,<00:28:16.539><c> I</c><00:28:16.680><c> never</c><00:28:16.900><c> knew</c><00:28:17.180><c> he</c><00:28:17.359><c> was</c><00:28:17.539><c> like</c><00:28:17.880><c> this.</c>

00:28:18.559 --> 00:28:20.259
Now<00:28:18.740><c> that's</c><00:28:19.220><c> hopeless.</c>

00:28:21.099 --> 00:28:22.880
We've<00:28:21.460><c> got</c><00:28:21.660><c> to</c><00:28:21.920><c> know.</c>

00:28:22.920 --> 00:28:26.000
And<00:28:23.039><c> if</c><00:28:23.240><c> at</c><00:28:23.519><c> that</c><00:28:23.859><c> stage</c><00:28:24.099><c> before</c><00:28:24.460><c> we</c><00:28:24.700><c> are</c><00:28:24.700><c> married</c><00:28:24.940><c> our</c><00:28:25.240><c> partner</c>

00:28:26.000 --> 00:28:28.779
refuses<00:28:26.859><c> to</c><00:28:27.160><c> open</c><00:28:27.420><c> a</c><00:28:27.599><c> part</c><00:28:27.779><c> of</c><00:28:27.920><c> his</c><00:28:28.099><c> mind</c><00:28:28.380><c> to</c><00:28:28.559><c> us,</c>

00:28:28.880 --> 00:28:30.599
then<00:28:29.119><c> break</c><00:28:29.420><c> it</c><00:28:29.660><c> off</c><00:28:29.920><c> right</c><00:28:30.200><c> away.</c>

00:28:30.960 --> 00:28:32.000
That's<00:28:31.480><c> not</c><00:28:31.660><c> marriage.</c>

00:28:32.000 --> 00:28:35.220
Marriage<00:28:32.400><c> is</c><00:28:32.839><c> a</c><00:28:33.059><c> whole</c><00:28:33.319><c> mind</c><00:28:33.640><c> to</c><00:28:33.819><c> a</c><00:28:33.900><c> whole</c><00:28:34.160><c> mind.</c>

00:28:35.700 --> 00:28:39.279
Don't<00:28:35.819><c> be</c><00:28:36.000><c> so</c><00:28:36.339><c> desperate</c><00:28:36.799><c> that</c><00:28:37.819><c> at</c><00:28:38.180><c> last</c><00:28:38.420><c> I've</c><00:28:38.819><c> found</c><00:28:38.980><c> somebody.</c>

00:28:39.380 --> 00:28:43.559
I<00:28:39.440><c> hear</c><00:28:39.819><c> words</c><00:28:40.259><c> like,</c><00:28:41.220><c> you</c><00:28:41.460><c> know,</c><00:28:42.059><c> winning</c><00:28:42.400><c> your</c><00:28:42.920><c> man</c><00:28:43.359><c> and</c>

00:28:43.559 --> 00:28:44.259
things<00:28:43.819><c> like</c><00:28:44.119><c> this.</c>

00:28:44.279 --> 00:28:46.680
These<00:28:44.440><c> are</c><00:28:44.660><c> all</c><00:28:45.019><c> worldly</c><00:28:45.440><c> words.</c>

00:28:46.779 --> 00:28:49.940
Where<00:28:47.000><c> does</c><00:28:47.279><c> prayer</c><00:28:47.799><c> come</c><00:28:48.039><c> into</c><00:28:48.240><c> it</c><00:28:48.400><c> and</c><00:28:48.680><c> godliness?</c>

00:28:51.200 --> 00:28:55.160
Sisters,<00:28:51.779><c> we</c><00:28:51.940><c> have</c><00:28:52.140><c> our</c><00:28:52.480><c> own</c><00:28:52.839><c> attractiveness</c><00:28:53.359><c> as</c><00:28:53.700><c> sisters</c><00:28:54.099><c> in</c><00:28:54.420><c> Christ.</c>

00:28:55.500 --> 00:28:59.559
We<00:28:55.680><c> don't</c><00:28:55.920><c> have</c><00:28:56.279><c> to</c><00:28:56.440><c> go</c><00:28:56.640><c> hunting</c><00:28:57.180><c> for</c><00:28:58.480><c> soulmates</c><00:28:59.099><c> like</c><00:28:59.319><c> other</c>

00:28:59.559 --> 00:29:00.920
people<00:28:59.839><c> do.</c>

00:29:01.000 --> 00:29:05.539
And<00:29:01.519><c> brethren,</c><00:29:01.880><c> we're</c><00:29:01.940><c> not</c><00:29:02.539><c> just</c><00:29:02.799><c> looking</c><00:29:03.420><c> at</c><00:29:04.079><c> animals,</c><00:29:04.759><c> at</c><00:29:04.940><c> people,</c>

00:29:05.940 --> 00:29:09.059
at<00:29:06.099><c> things</c><00:29:06.259><c> that</c><00:29:06.420><c> are</c><00:29:06.559><c> just</c><00:29:07.039><c> attractive</c><00:29:07.859><c> outwards</c><00:29:08.460><c> at</c><00:29:08.759><c> all.</c>

00:29:09.180 --> 00:29:12.660
What<00:29:09.420><c> we</c><00:29:09.619><c> want</c><00:29:09.779><c> to</c><00:29:10.140><c> have</c><00:29:10.680><c> is</c><00:29:11.039><c> to</c><00:29:11.220><c> see</c><00:29:11.339><c> what</c><00:29:11.539><c> the</c><00:29:11.839><c> mind</c><00:29:12.160><c> is,</c>

00:29:12.759 --> 00:29:14.940
because<00:29:13.019><c> in</c><00:29:13.220><c> the</c><00:29:13.339><c> end</c><00:29:13.460><c> that's</c><00:29:13.680><c> what</c><00:29:13.799><c> we</c><00:29:14.099><c> marry.</c>

00:29:16.000 --> 00:29:18.759
I<00:29:16.160><c> know</c><00:29:16.319><c> at</c><00:29:16.519><c> first</c><00:29:16.759><c> it</c><00:29:16.940><c> seems</c><00:29:17.160><c> that</c><00:29:17.319><c> we</c><00:29:17.480><c> marry</c><00:29:17.720><c> the</c><00:29:18.119><c> golden</c><00:29:18.500><c> hair</c>

00:29:18.759 --> 00:29:22.819
and<00:29:19.220><c> the</c><00:29:19.440><c> glistening</c><00:29:19.799><c> white</c><00:29:20.440><c> teeth</c><00:29:20.759><c> and</c><00:29:21.599><c> the</c><00:29:21.839><c> shapely</c><00:29:22.299><c> figure</c>

00:29:22.819 --> 00:29:24.680
of<00:29:23.319><c> the</c><00:29:23.619><c> strong</c><00:29:24.019><c> man.</c>

00:29:25.140 --> 00:29:26.799
And<00:29:25.299><c> look</c><00:29:25.420><c> how</c><00:29:25.700><c> well</c><00:29:25.880><c> he</c><00:29:26.259><c> stands.</c>

00:29:26.799 --> 00:29:30.900
Well,<00:29:27.039><c> all</c><00:29:27.299><c> that</c><00:29:27.619><c> is</c><00:29:27.819><c> like</c><00:29:28.039><c> it</c><00:29:28.319><c> is</c><00:29:28.799><c> and</c><00:29:29.339><c> it</c><00:29:29.519><c> all</c><00:29:29.859><c> fades.</c>

00:29:31.400 --> 00:29:33.599
And<00:29:31.480><c> the</c><00:29:31.579><c> teeth</c><00:29:31.740><c> have</c><00:29:31.859><c> got</c><00:29:31.940><c> to</c><00:29:32.059><c> have</c><00:29:32.299><c> fillings</c><00:29:32.599><c> or</c><00:29:32.759><c> be</c><00:29:33.119><c> extracted.</c>

00:29:34.059 --> 00:29:37.079
The<00:29:34.240><c> golden</c><00:29:34.539><c> hair</c><00:29:34.779><c> becomes</c><00:29:35.720><c> grey</c><00:29:36.339><c> and</c><00:29:36.720><c> dry</c>

00:29:37.079 --> 00:29:39.119
and<00:29:37.279><c> we've</c><00:29:37.500><c> got</c><00:29:37.559><c> to</c><00:29:37.720><c> try</c><00:29:37.880><c> all</c><00:29:38.140><c> kinds</c><00:29:38.359><c> of</c><00:29:38.500><c> things</c><00:29:38.640><c> to</c><00:29:38.799><c> make</c><00:29:38.940><c> it</c>

00:29:39.119 --> 00:29:41.220
look<00:29:39.259><c> as</c><00:29:39.400><c> though</c><00:29:39.500><c> it's</c><00:29:39.700><c> going</c><00:29:39.779><c> to</c><00:29:39.900><c> be</c><00:29:40.039><c> any</c><00:29:40.279><c> good.</c>

00:29:42.559 --> 00:29:44.680
And<00:29:42.900><c> we</c><00:29:43.039><c> all</c><00:29:43.299><c> know</c><00:29:43.539><c> that,</c><00:29:44.019><c> you</c><00:29:44.299><c> know.</c>

00:29:44.980 --> 00:29:47.480
And<00:29:45.180><c> the</c><00:29:45.299><c> real</c><00:29:45.500><c> thing</c><00:29:45.700><c> is</c><00:29:45.940><c> that</c><00:29:46.119><c> that</c><00:29:46.299><c> which</c><00:29:46.500><c> remains</c><00:29:46.859><c> young</c>

00:29:47.480 --> 00:29:50.900
all<00:29:48.059><c> the</c><00:29:48.259><c> time</c><00:29:48.519><c> and</c><00:29:48.799><c> vibrant</c><00:29:49.460><c> all</c><00:29:50.099><c> the</c><00:29:50.440><c> time,</c>

00:29:51.160 --> 00:29:54.079
right<00:29:51.440><c> until</c><00:29:51.880><c> death,</c><00:29:52.640><c> is</c><00:29:52.759><c> the</c><00:29:53.039><c> mind.</c>

00:29:57.039 --> 00:30:01.819
To<00:29:57.559><c> know</c><00:29:57.759><c> the</c><00:29:57.940><c> other</c><00:29:58.119><c> person's</c><00:29:58.619><c> mind</c><00:29:59.079><c> and</c><00:30:00.059><c> take</c><00:30:00.500><c> time</c><00:30:00.880><c> about</c><00:30:01.200><c> it.</c>

00:30:01.940 --> 00:30:04.500
Courtship<00:30:02.460><c> is</c><00:30:02.680><c> not</c><00:30:02.880><c> an</c><00:30:03.140><c> enforced</c><00:30:03.579><c> waiting</c><00:30:04.000><c> time.</c>

00:30:04.819 --> 00:30:08.759
It's<00:30:05.119><c> a</c><00:30:05.259><c> time</c><00:30:05.440><c> of</c><00:30:05.779><c> learning,</c><00:30:06.660><c> of</c><00:30:07.000><c> seeking</c><00:30:07.180><c> to</c><00:30:07.500><c> understand.</c>

00:30:08.960 --> 00:30:10.900
If<00:30:09.099><c> only</c><00:30:09.240><c> we</c><00:30:09.359><c> could</c><00:30:09.480><c> get</c><00:30:09.599><c> this</c><00:30:09.819><c> over</c><00:30:09.940><c> to</c><00:30:10.119><c> our</c><00:30:10.279><c> young</c><00:30:10.480><c> people.</c>

00:30:11.240 --> 00:30:14.200
And<00:30:11.400><c> mothers,</c><00:30:11.799><c> don't</c><00:30:12.240><c> press</c><00:30:12.700><c> your</c><00:30:13.079><c> children</c><00:30:13.259><c> to</c><00:30:13.400><c> be</c><00:30:13.720><c> married</c>

00:30:14.200 --> 00:30:15.759
at<00:30:14.619><c> 18</c><00:30:14.980><c> and</c><00:30:15.200><c> 19</c>

00:30:15.759 --> 00:30:17.640
as<00:30:15.960><c> though</c><00:30:16.140><c> if</c><00:30:16.259><c> they're</c><00:30:16.460><c> not</c><00:30:16.700><c> married</c><00:30:16.839><c> at</c><00:30:17.059><c> that</c><00:30:17.220><c> age</c><00:30:17.420><c> then</c>

00:30:17.640 --> 00:30:19.440
something's<00:30:18.059><c> gone</c><00:30:18.339><c> wrong.</c>

00:30:19.680 --> 00:30:23.519
If<00:30:19.819><c> they're</c><00:30:20.019><c> not</c><00:30:20.220><c> married</c><00:30:20.339><c> at</c><00:30:20.700><c> 30,</c><00:30:21.420><c> something</c><00:30:21.740><c> hasn't</c><00:30:22.099><c> gone</c><00:30:22.380><c> wrong.</c>

00:30:23.960 --> 00:30:26.259
That's<00:30:24.400><c> our</c><00:30:24.680><c> world</c><00:30:24.980><c> that's</c><00:30:25.220><c> made</c><00:30:25.420><c> all</c><00:30:25.640><c> this</c><00:30:25.839><c> other</c><00:30:26.000><c> up.</c>

00:30:26.259 --> 00:30:29.500
And<00:30:26.440><c> so</c><00:30:26.619><c> our</c><00:30:26.819><c> young</c><00:30:27.019><c> people</c><00:30:27.440><c> are</c><00:30:27.900><c> losing</c><00:30:28.200><c> their</c><00:30:28.559><c> youth.</c>

00:30:29.900 --> 00:30:31.160
They're<00:30:30.000><c> getting</c><00:30:30.119><c> everything</c><00:30:30.500><c> compressed.</c>

00:30:31.339 --> 00:30:34.440
And<00:30:31.440><c> so</c><00:30:31.539><c> there's</c><00:30:32.039><c> a</c><00:30:32.180><c> mother</c><00:30:32.339><c> nursing</c><00:30:32.619><c> two</c><00:30:32.960><c> babies</c><00:30:33.220><c> at</c><00:30:33.400><c> 18.</c>

00:30:34.859 --> 00:30:36.680
She's<00:30:35.160><c> lost</c><00:30:35.519><c> young</c><00:30:36.039><c> years.</c>

00:30:37.160 --> 00:30:39.839
And<00:30:37.319><c> now</c><00:30:37.519><c> got</c><00:30:37.799><c> pressed</c><00:30:38.119><c> upon</c><00:30:38.420><c> her</c><00:30:38.599><c> those</c><00:30:38.859><c> things</c><00:30:39.079><c> that</c><00:30:39.299><c> normally</c><00:30:39.619><c> would</c>

00:30:39.839 --> 00:30:41.140
come<00:30:40.059><c> later.</c>

00:30:42.099 --> 00:30:46.759
Now<00:30:42.400><c> really</c><00:30:42.720><c> we</c><00:30:43.140><c> should</c><00:30:43.380><c> not</c><00:30:43.740><c> press</c><00:30:44.180><c> or</c><00:30:45.099><c> urge</c><00:30:45.640><c> along</c><00:30:45.960><c> those</c><00:30:46.299><c> lines.</c>

00:30:46.839 --> 00:30:49.819
If<00:30:46.940><c> only</c><00:30:47.059><c> we</c><00:30:47.200><c> just</c><00:30:47.400><c> had</c><00:30:47.500><c> the</c><00:30:47.660><c> kind</c><00:30:47.799><c> of</c><00:30:48.180><c> confidence</c><00:30:48.480><c> in</c><00:30:48.779><c> God</c>

00:30:50.359 --> 00:30:52.559
and<00:30:50.960><c> pray</c><00:30:51.319><c> to</c><00:30:51.500><c> Him</c>

00:30:53.160 --> 00:30:55.900
and<00:30:53.640><c> seek</c><00:30:54.099><c> and</c><00:30:54.299><c> say</c><00:30:54.519><c> before</c><00:30:54.900><c> God</c><00:30:55.200><c> in</c><00:30:55.400><c> our</c><00:30:55.599><c> prayers,</c>

00:30:55.960 --> 00:30:58.079
this<00:30:56.079><c> is</c><00:30:56.259><c> what</c><00:30:56.420><c> I</c><00:30:56.819><c> am</c><00:30:57.160><c> seeking,</c><00:30:57.839><c> Lord.</c>

00:30:58.140 --> 00:31:00.599
This<00:30:58.319><c> is</c><00:30:58.559><c> the</c><00:30:58.960><c> partner</c><00:30:59.200><c> I</c><00:30:59.339><c> would</c><00:30:59.640><c> like</c><00:30:59.859><c> to</c><00:31:00.140><c> have.</c>

00:31:00.660 --> 00:31:03.339
This<00:31:01.079><c> kind</c><00:31:01.460><c> of</c><00:31:01.700><c> person</c><00:31:02.039><c> and</c><00:31:02.420><c> leave</c><00:31:02.640><c> it</c><00:31:02.819><c> to</c><00:31:02.980><c> God.</c>

00:31:03.680 --> 00:31:07.180
If<00:31:03.859><c> the</c><00:31:04.019><c> answer</c><00:31:04.279><c> is</c><00:31:04.579><c> no,</c><00:31:05.200><c> that's</c><00:31:05.559><c> not</c><00:31:05.700><c> disaster.</c>

00:31:08.859 --> 00:31:11.019
Marriage<00:31:09.099><c> is</c><00:31:09.279><c> only</c><00:31:09.539><c> for</c><00:31:09.779><c> mortality.</c>

00:31:11.400 --> 00:31:13.640
It<00:31:11.640><c> doesn't</c><00:31:11.779><c> carry</c><00:31:12.099><c> on</c><00:31:12.319><c> into</c><00:31:12.500><c> the</c><00:31:12.720><c> kingdom.</c>

00:31:14.160 --> 00:31:16.940
Otherwise<00:31:14.579><c> spinsters</c><00:31:15.039><c> will</c><00:31:15.220><c> be</c><00:31:15.359><c> spinsters</c><00:31:15.680><c> in</c><00:31:15.859><c> the</c><00:31:16.019><c> kingdom.</c>

00:31:17.000 --> 00:31:18.619
And<00:31:17.180><c> that</c><00:31:17.299><c> can't</c><00:31:17.500><c> be</c><00:31:17.759><c> right.</c>

00:31:18.839 --> 00:31:20.480
I<00:31:18.859><c> know</c><00:31:19.039><c> those</c><00:31:19.619><c> of</c><00:31:19.700><c> us</c><00:31:19.799><c> who</c><00:31:19.940><c> are</c><00:31:19.960><c> happily</c><00:31:20.160><c> married</c>

00:31:20.480 --> 00:31:23.700
would<00:31:20.579><c> like</c><00:31:20.740><c> to</c><00:31:20.980><c> feel</c><00:31:21.220><c> that</c><00:31:21.539><c> this</c><00:31:22.079><c> will</c><00:31:22.460><c> continue.</c>

00:31:24.579 --> 00:31:27.859
What<00:31:24.779><c> will</c><00:31:25.059><c> continue</c><00:31:25.359><c> into</c><00:31:25.539><c> the</c><00:31:25.759><c> kingdom</c><00:31:25.980><c> is</c><00:31:26.240><c> a</c><00:31:26.500><c> higher</c><00:31:26.839><c> form,</c>

00:31:28.619 --> 00:31:31.440
a<00:31:28.819><c> higher</c><00:31:29.160><c> and</c><00:31:29.279><c> more</c><00:31:29.599><c> beautiful</c><00:31:30.000><c> form</c><00:31:30.259><c> of</c><00:31:30.519><c> fellowship</c><00:31:30.960><c> into</c>

00:31:31.440 --> 00:31:32.660
the<00:31:31.660><c> kingdom.</c>

00:31:33.339 --> 00:31:38.000
And<00:31:33.539><c> we</c><00:31:33.619><c> should</c><00:31:33.759><c> feel</c><00:31:33.940><c> no</c><00:31:34.319><c> lack</c><00:31:34.740><c> that</c><00:31:35.579><c> now</c><00:31:36.160><c> it</c><00:31:36.460><c> isn't</c><00:31:36.759><c> just</c><00:31:37.339><c> those</c><00:31:37.759><c> two</c>

00:31:38.000 --> 00:31:38.460
of<00:31:38.220><c> us</c>

00:31:38.460 --> 00:31:40.380
who<00:31:38.599><c> have</c><00:31:38.740><c> always</c><00:31:38.960><c> been</c><00:31:39.180><c> together</c>

00:31:40.480 --> 00:31:44.000
that<00:31:41.000><c> are</c><00:31:41.140><c> not</c><00:31:41.339><c> now</c><00:31:41.599><c> walking</c><00:31:41.920><c> hand</c><00:31:42.160><c> in</c><00:31:42.359><c> hand</c><00:31:42.720><c> in</c><00:31:42.960><c> the</c><00:31:43.160><c> kingdom.</c>

00:31:44.059 --> 00:31:47.200
We<00:31:44.259><c> shall</c><00:31:44.460><c> in</c><00:31:44.700><c> fact</c><00:31:44.880><c> have</c><00:31:45.299><c> a</c><00:31:45.700><c> relationship</c><00:31:46.220><c> that</c><00:31:46.400><c> is</c><00:31:46.700><c> beyond</c>

00:31:47.200 --> 00:31:48.480
the<00:31:47.480><c> mortal.</c>

00:31:49.559 --> 00:31:52.380
A<00:31:50.319><c> delightfully</c><00:31:51.079><c> spiritual</c><00:31:51.680><c> relationship</c>

00:31:52.380 --> 00:31:54.660
in<00:31:52.759><c> which</c><00:31:53.000><c> all</c><00:31:53.359><c> of</c><00:31:53.480><c> us</c><00:31:53.619><c> will</c><00:31:53.779><c> be</c><00:31:53.960><c> caught</c><00:31:54.160><c> up</c>

00:31:54.660 --> 00:31:57.259
and<00:31:55.039><c> nobody</c><00:31:55.359><c> will</c><00:31:55.579><c> be</c><00:31:55.720><c> left</c><00:31:55.900><c> behind.</c>

00:31:57.900 --> 00:31:59.720
And<00:31:57.960><c> there</c><00:31:58.059><c> will</c><00:31:58.099><c> be</c><00:31:58.180><c> no</c><00:31:58.359><c> breakdowns</c><00:31:58.980><c> in</c><00:31:59.099><c> the</c><00:31:59.259><c> relationship</c>

00:31:59.720 --> 00:32:01.240
at<00:32:00.019><c> all.</c>

00:32:02.220 --> 00:32:09.660
Now,<00:32:02.720><c> that</c><00:32:03.279><c> being</c><00:32:03.660><c> so,</c><00:32:04.720><c> what</c><00:32:04.740><c> would</c><00:32:05.480><c> you</c><00:32:08.460><c> think</c><00:32:09.099><c> Scripture</c>

00:32:09.660 --> 00:32:10.599
should<00:32:10.019><c> say</c>

00:32:10.599 --> 00:32:14.660
about<00:32:11.440><c> how</c><00:32:12.039><c> to</c><00:32:12.480><c> hold</c><00:32:12.900><c> a</c><00:32:13.259><c> marriage</c><00:32:13.779><c> together?</c>

00:32:15.160 --> 00:32:19.700
What<00:32:15.559><c> are</c><00:32:15.960><c> the</c><00:32:16.160><c> qualities</c><00:32:16.819><c> that</c><00:32:17.440><c> hold</c><00:32:17.960><c> a</c><00:32:18.259><c> marriage</c><00:32:18.579><c> together?</c>

00:32:21.240 --> 00:32:23.559
Well,<00:32:21.319><c> let's</c><00:32:21.480><c> first</c><00:32:21.640><c> of</c><00:32:21.759><c> all</c><00:32:21.859><c> just</c><00:32:22.160><c> clear</c><00:32:22.339><c> one</c><00:32:22.539><c> or</c><00:32:22.579><c> two</c><00:32:22.740><c> things</c><00:32:23.019><c> away.</c>

00:32:24.000 --> 00:32:27.819
You<00:32:24.099><c> don't</c><00:32:24.539><c> buy</c><00:32:25.000><c> the</c><00:32:25.339><c> marriage</c><00:32:25.980><c> complete.</c>

00:32:29.240 --> 00:32:30.299
See,<00:32:29.279><c> when</c><00:32:29.420><c> young</c><00:32:29.559><c> people</c><00:32:29.720><c> get</c><00:32:29.900><c> married</c><00:32:30.099><c> today,</c>

00:32:30.319 --> 00:32:32.519
they've<00:32:30.500><c> got</c><00:32:30.599><c> everything</c><00:32:31.000><c> when</c><00:32:31.180><c> they</c><00:32:31.359><c> get</c><00:32:31.500><c> married.</c>

00:32:33.019 --> 00:32:33.920
Now,<00:32:33.140><c> that</c><00:32:33.200><c> didn't</c><00:32:33.380><c> used</c><00:32:33.599><c> to</c><00:32:33.759><c> happen.</c>

00:32:33.940 --> 00:32:36.640
It<00:32:34.099><c> went</c><00:32:34.220><c> round</c><00:32:34.420><c> this</c><00:32:34.700><c> room</c><00:32:34.980><c> and</c><00:32:35.240><c> went</c><00:32:35.380><c> to</c><00:32:35.740><c> some</c><00:32:35.920><c> of</c><00:32:36.019><c> the</c><00:32:36.160><c> older</c><00:32:36.359><c> people</c>

00:32:36.640 --> 00:32:38.299
and<00:32:36.759><c> said,</c><00:32:36.900><c> did</c><00:32:37.000><c> you</c><00:32:37.160><c> have</c><00:32:37.299><c> everything</c><00:32:37.599><c> when</c><00:32:37.720><c> we</c><00:32:37.920><c> got</c><00:32:38.059><c> married?</c>

00:32:38.339 --> 00:32:41.799
You<00:32:38.460><c> would</c><00:32:38.599><c> discover</c><00:32:38.960><c> in</c><00:32:39.279><c> fact</c><00:32:39.559><c> they</c><00:32:40.039><c> probably</c><00:32:40.339><c> had</c><00:32:40.900><c> one</c><00:32:41.500><c> room,</c>

00:32:41.799 --> 00:32:46.119
maybe<00:32:42.279><c> two</c><00:32:42.539><c> rooms</c><00:32:42.819><c> furnished</c><00:32:44.519><c> in</c><00:32:45.640><c> accommodation</c>

00:32:46.119 --> 00:32:48.640
that<00:32:46.359><c> they</c><00:32:46.599><c> rented</c><00:32:47.000><c> at</c><00:32:48.099><c> that</c><00:32:48.319><c> time.</c>

00:32:48.660 --> 00:32:52.059
They<00:32:48.799><c> had</c><00:32:48.980><c> to</c><00:32:49.160><c> work</c><00:32:49.539><c> hard</c><00:32:50.119><c> in</c><00:32:50.460><c> order</c><00:32:50.799><c> just</c><00:32:51.039><c> to</c><00:32:51.259><c> establish</c><00:32:51.579><c> themselves</c>

00:32:52.059 --> 00:32:53.599
as<00:32:52.279><c> a</c><00:32:52.460><c> separate</c><00:32:52.859><c> little</c><00:32:53.220><c> unit.</c>

00:32:54.079 --> 00:32:57.059
Nowadays,<00:32:55.000><c> everybody</c><00:32:55.279><c> seems</c><00:32:55.539><c> to</c><00:32:55.740><c> have</c><00:32:56.019><c> everything</c><00:32:56.420><c> to</c><00:32:56.640><c> begin</c><00:32:56.839><c> with.</c>

00:32:57.099 --> 00:32:58.599
Well,<00:32:57.220><c> that's</c><00:32:57.519><c> the</c><00:32:57.680><c> world</c><00:32:57.839><c> we</c><00:32:58.119><c> live</c><00:32:58.299><c> in</c>

00:32:58.599 --> 00:33:01.319
and<00:32:59.099><c> in</c><00:32:59.279><c> some</c><00:32:59.420><c> ways</c><00:32:59.740><c> you</c><00:33:00.119><c> can't</c><00:33:00.460><c> break</c><00:33:00.819><c> that.</c>

00:33:01.460 --> 00:33:03.099
In<00:33:01.660><c> some</c><00:33:01.819><c> ways</c><00:33:01.920><c> you</c><00:33:02.059><c> can.</c>

00:33:03.500 --> 00:33:06.359
I<00:33:03.839><c> won't</c><00:33:04.000><c> go</c><00:33:04.200><c> into</c><00:33:04.380><c> that</c><00:33:04.640><c> because</c><00:33:04.940><c> that's</c><00:33:05.500><c> your</c><00:33:05.700><c> way</c><00:33:05.859><c> of</c><00:33:06.099><c> life</c>

00:33:06.359 --> 00:33:09.480
and<00:33:06.559><c> I</c><00:33:06.920><c> really</c><00:33:07.160><c> don't</c><00:33:07.380><c> want</c><00:33:07.539><c> to</c><00:33:08.039><c> enter</c><00:33:08.279><c> into</c><00:33:08.700><c> your</c><00:33:09.039><c> particular</c>

00:33:09.480 --> 00:33:10.200
way<00:33:09.680><c> of</c><00:33:09.900><c> life.</c>

00:33:10.200 --> 00:33:13.880
But<00:33:10.579><c> I</c><00:33:10.640><c> think</c><00:33:10.819><c> there</c><00:33:10.960><c> are</c><00:33:11.119><c> ways</c><00:33:11.420><c> in</c><00:33:11.559><c> which</c><00:33:11.720><c> we</c><00:33:11.980><c> can</c><00:33:12.359><c> alter</c><00:33:12.759><c> that.</c>

00:33:13.940 --> 00:33:17.880
But<00:33:14.240><c> the</c><00:33:14.599><c> great</c><00:33:14.839><c> thing</c><00:33:15.119><c> is</c><00:33:15.440><c> that</c><00:33:16.259><c> it's</c><00:33:17.119><c> not</c><00:33:17.339><c> those</c><00:33:17.619><c> things</c>

00:33:17.880 --> 00:33:20.339
that<00:33:18.119><c> hold</c><00:33:18.339><c> marriage</c><00:33:18.640><c> together</c><00:33:19.039><c> at</c><00:33:19.380><c> all.</c>

00:33:20.839 --> 00:33:22.519
These<00:33:21.099><c> are</c><00:33:21.319><c> the</c><00:33:21.460><c> qualities.</c>

00:33:23.119 --> 00:33:27.779
Assuming<00:33:23.680><c> that</c><00:33:24.240><c> the</c><00:33:24.480><c> partner</c><00:33:24.839><c> that</c><00:33:25.019><c> we</c><00:33:25.160><c> have</c><00:33:25.400><c> chosen</c><00:33:25.880><c> is</c><00:33:27.059><c> Christ</c><00:33:27.519><c>-like</c>

00:33:27.779 --> 00:33:29.640
and<00:33:28.059><c> we</c><00:33:28.240><c> are</c><00:33:28.460><c> seeking</c><00:33:28.720><c> to</c><00:33:28.920><c> be</c><00:33:29.119><c> Christ</c><00:33:29.440><c>-like,</c>

00:33:29.680 --> 00:33:31.339
taking<00:33:30.019><c> that</c><00:33:30.420><c> as</c><00:33:30.660><c> the</c><00:33:30.839><c> basis</c>

00:33:31.339 --> 00:33:34.519
and<00:33:31.920><c> that</c><00:33:32.039><c> we</c><00:33:32.140><c> have</c><00:33:32.259><c> been</c><00:33:32.539><c> married</c><00:33:32.859><c> on</c><00:33:33.099><c> that</c><00:33:33.400><c> basis,</c>

00:33:34.559 --> 00:33:37.440
then<00:33:34.859><c> what</c><00:33:35.220><c> is</c><00:33:35.480><c> it</c><00:33:36.039><c> that</c><00:33:36.319><c> keeps</c><00:33:36.559><c> the</c><00:33:36.799><c> marriage</c><00:33:36.960><c> together?</c>

00:33:37.440 --> 00:33:38.359
You<00:33:37.980><c> might</c><00:33:38.200><c> say,</c>

00:33:38.539 --> 00:33:40.859
well,<00:33:38.640><c> it</c><00:33:38.740><c> will</c><00:33:38.940><c> sure</c><00:33:39.140><c> to</c><00:33:39.279><c> hang</c><00:33:39.359><c> together</c><00:33:39.779><c> if</c><00:33:40.119><c> you're</c><00:33:40.599><c> both</c>

00:33:40.859 --> 00:33:42.099
Christ<00:33:41.200><c>-like.</c>

00:33:42.579 --> 00:33:44.440
Now,<00:33:42.819><c> don't</c><00:33:43.039><c> take</c><00:33:43.180><c> that</c><00:33:43.339><c> for</c><00:33:43.519><c> granted.</c>

00:33:45.240 --> 00:33:47.640
We<00:33:45.500><c> have</c><00:33:45.700><c> not</c><00:33:45.920><c> lived</c><00:33:46.160><c> in</c><00:33:46.339><c> a</c><00:33:46.460><c> marriage</c><00:33:46.680><c> situation</c><00:33:47.240><c> before.</c>

00:33:48.000 --> 00:33:50.880
We<00:33:48.140><c> are</c><00:33:48.259><c> under</c><00:33:48.960><c> entirely</c><00:33:49.420><c> new</c><00:33:49.660><c> conditions.</c>

00:33:51.420 --> 00:33:54.940
And<00:33:51.599><c> children</c><00:33:51.839><c> arrive</c><00:33:52.259><c> and</c><00:33:52.339><c> we've</c><00:33:52.559><c> got</c><00:33:52.740><c> entirely</c><00:33:53.400><c> new</c><00:33:53.720><c> conditions</c><00:33:54.160><c> in</c><00:33:54.400><c> our</c><00:33:54.599><c> home.</c>

00:33:55.240 --> 00:33:57.779
So<00:33:55.400><c> it's</c><00:33:55.539><c> no</c><00:33:55.640><c> use</c><00:33:56.019><c> being</c><00:33:56.680><c> cock</c><00:33:57.039><c>-sure</c><00:33:57.200><c> that</c><00:33:57.319><c> everything</c><00:33:57.480><c> is</c><00:33:57.579><c> going</c><00:33:57.680><c> to</c>

00:33:57.779 --> 00:33:59.039
be<00:33:58.019><c> right.</c>

00:33:59.119 --> 00:34:02.700
What<00:33:59.380><c> we</c><00:33:59.539><c> need</c><00:33:59.680><c> to</c><00:33:59.819><c> do</c><00:33:59.900><c> is</c><00:34:00.059><c> to</c><00:34:00.180><c> make</c><00:34:00.400><c> provisions</c><00:34:00.859><c> for</c><00:34:01.079><c> everything</c><00:34:01.380><c> to</c><00:34:01.539><c> be</c><00:34:01.799><c> right.</c>

00:34:03.900 --> 00:34:05.039
Now,<00:34:04.140><c> here</c><00:34:04.319><c> are</c><00:34:04.440><c> the</c><00:34:04.599><c> qualities.</c>

00:34:05.039 --> 00:34:07.119
Now,<00:34:05.500><c> you</c><00:34:05.519><c> may</c><00:34:05.759><c> think</c><00:34:05.980><c> that</c><00:34:06.140><c> the</c><00:34:06.240><c> first</c><00:34:06.420><c> thing</c><00:34:06.559><c> that</c><00:34:06.660><c> I</c><00:34:06.759><c> would</c><00:34:06.900><c> say</c>

00:34:07.119 --> 00:34:09.300
is<00:34:07.299><c> that</c><00:34:07.420><c> we</c><00:34:07.539><c> must</c><00:34:07.720><c> love</c><00:34:08.119><c> one</c><00:34:08.380><c> another.</c>

00:34:09.619 --> 00:34:12.420
Now,<00:34:09.900><c> that's</c><00:34:10.139><c> not</c><00:34:10.400><c> the</c><00:34:10.539><c> first</c><00:34:10.739><c> thing</c><00:34:11.000><c> that</c><00:34:11.119><c> I</c><00:34:11.300><c> would</c><00:34:11.519><c> say</c>

00:34:12.619 --> 00:34:14.639
because<00:34:13.139><c> that's</c><00:34:13.500><c> obvious.</c>

00:34:14.659 --> 00:34:16.719
These<00:34:14.940><c> are</c><00:34:15.139><c> things</c><00:34:15.320><c> that</c><00:34:15.500><c> we</c><00:34:15.760><c> need.</c>

00:34:17.380 --> 00:34:21.199
We<00:34:17.480><c> need</c><00:34:18.119><c> fidelity</c><00:34:19.099><c> of</c><00:34:19.860><c> mind,</c>

00:34:22.380 --> 00:34:26.079
faithfulness<00:34:22.900><c> in</c><00:34:23.420><c> our</c><00:34:23.820><c> minds</c><00:34:24.400><c> towards</c><00:34:24.860><c> each</c><00:34:25.159><c> other.</c>

00:34:26.659 --> 00:34:28.400
That's<00:34:27.179><c> what</c><00:34:27.219><c> we've</c><00:34:27.340><c> got</c><00:34:27.400><c> to</c><00:34:27.559><c> have.</c>

00:34:28.840 --> 00:34:32.500
We've<00:34:29.119><c> got</c><00:34:29.139><c> to</c><00:34:29.239><c> get</c><00:34:29.360><c> rid</c><00:34:29.519><c> of</c><00:34:29.679><c> any</c><00:34:29.900><c> thought</c><00:34:30.300><c> that</c><00:34:30.599><c> is</c><00:34:31.039><c> not</c><00:34:31.400><c> of</c><00:34:31.880><c> faith</c>

00:34:32.500 --> 00:34:34.940
regarding<00:34:33.460><c> our</c><00:34:33.699><c> marriage.</c>

00:34:35.880 --> 00:34:37.760
We've<00:34:35.980><c> got</c><00:34:36.199><c> to</c><00:34:36.440><c> let</c><00:34:36.440><c> other</c><00:34:36.780><c> things</c><00:34:37.159><c> come</c><00:34:37.440><c> in,</c>

00:34:37.800 --> 00:34:40.179
any<00:34:38.139><c> suggestive</c><00:34:38.840><c> ideas,</c>

00:34:40.320 --> 00:34:44.320
any<00:34:40.840><c> dissatisfactions</c><00:34:41.880><c> which</c><00:34:42.260><c> our</c><00:34:42.739><c> imaginations</c><00:34:43.300><c> then</c><00:34:43.739><c> exploit</c>

00:34:44.320 --> 00:34:48.880
and<00:34:44.840><c> say,</c><00:34:45.059><c> wouldn't</c><00:34:45.340><c> it</c><00:34:45.539><c> be</c><00:34:45.719><c> lovely</c><00:34:46.119><c> if...</c>

00:34:48.880 --> 00:34:51.079
Forget<00:34:49.219><c> it.</c><00:34:50.179><c> Get</c><00:34:50.380><c> rid</c><00:34:50.519><c> of</c><00:34:50.639><c> it.</c>

00:34:51.360 --> 00:34:56.880
Any<00:34:51.599><c> other</c><00:34:51.960><c> faith,</c><00:34:53.360><c> any</c><00:34:53.559><c> other</c><00:34:53.880><c> person,</c><00:34:55.380><c> get</c><00:34:55.579><c> rid</c><00:34:55.760><c> of</c><00:34:55.880><c> it.</c>

00:34:56.880 --> 00:35:03.840
Even<00:34:57.559><c> when</c><00:34:57.820><c> the</c><00:34:57.960><c> other</c><00:34:58.159><c> person</c><00:34:58.920><c> may</c><00:34:59.360><c> become</c><00:35:01.019><c> seeking</c><00:35:02.539><c> towards</c><00:35:03.480><c> us</c>

00:35:03.840 --> 00:35:05.719
and<00:35:03.980><c> we</c><00:35:04.159><c> feel</c><00:35:04.340><c> responsive,</c>

00:35:06.380 --> 00:35:07.719
we're<00:35:06.500><c> not</c><00:35:06.699><c> married</c><00:35:07.019><c> to</c><00:35:07.219><c> that</c><00:35:07.440><c> person.</c>

00:35:07.780 --> 00:35:10.980
Therefore,<00:35:08.079><c> cut</c><00:35:08.280><c> it</c><00:35:08.480><c> off</c><00:35:08.699><c> and</c><00:35:08.900><c> have</c><00:35:09.119><c> nothing</c><00:35:09.320><c> to</c><00:35:09.519><c> do</c><00:35:09.579><c> with</c><00:35:09.780><c> it.</c>

00:35:11.039 --> 00:35:13.360
And<00:35:11.480><c> don't</c><00:35:11.900><c> say,</c><00:35:12.239><c> well,</c><00:35:12.239><c> we</c><00:35:12.340><c> can</c><00:35:12.519><c> just</c><00:35:12.719><c> be</c><00:35:12.980><c> friends.</c>

00:35:13.380 --> 00:35:14.780
That<00:35:13.719><c> is</c><00:35:14.039><c> not</c><00:35:14.440><c> true.</c>

00:35:14.820 --> 00:35:17.260
There<00:35:14.980><c> are</c><00:35:15.260><c> no</c><00:35:15.480><c> such</c><00:35:15.739><c> things</c><00:35:16.199><c> between</c><00:35:16.679><c> men</c><00:35:16.880><c> and</c><00:35:17.059><c> women.</c>

00:35:17.260 --> 00:35:18.920
We're<00:35:17.500><c> just</c><00:35:17.800><c> friends.</c>

00:35:20.019 --> 00:35:21.360
They're<00:35:20.380><c> highly</c><00:35:20.800><c> difficult.</c>

00:35:21.639 --> 00:35:23.800
Only<00:35:21.820><c> in</c><00:35:21.980><c> the</c><00:35:22.119><c> same</c><00:35:22.300><c> family</c><00:35:22.659><c> do</c><00:35:22.800><c> you</c><00:35:22.900><c> get</c><00:35:23.039><c> that</c><00:35:23.340><c> kind</c><00:35:23.500><c> of</c><00:35:23.659><c> thing,</c>

00:35:23.920 --> 00:35:25.139
very<00:35:24.280><c> rarely</c><00:35:24.599><c> otherwise.</c>

00:35:25.139 --> 00:35:27.460
So<00:35:25.599><c> don't</c><00:35:25.780><c> go</c><00:35:26.000><c> down</c><00:35:26.179><c> that</c><00:35:26.400><c> risky</c><00:35:27.079><c> road.</c>

00:35:27.840 --> 00:35:33.119
So<00:35:28.199><c> faithfulness,</c><00:35:30.280><c> respect</c><00:35:31.139><c> one</c><00:35:31.980><c> for</c><00:35:32.260><c> another.</c>

00:35:33.320 --> 00:35:34.579
Respect.

00:35:34.860 --> 00:35:40.639
Learn<00:35:35.119><c> respect</c><00:35:35.900><c> for</c><00:35:37.380><c> the</c><00:35:37.679><c> mind</c><00:35:38.400><c> and</c><00:35:39.059><c> body</c><00:35:39.460><c> of</c><00:35:39.840><c> your</c><00:35:40.119><c> partner.</c>

00:35:41.099 --> 00:35:43.420
Learn<00:35:41.360><c> respect</c><00:35:42.199><c> for</c><00:35:42.579><c> it.</c>

00:35:44.179 --> 00:35:46.159
It<00:35:44.460><c> goes</c><00:35:44.699><c> a</c><00:35:44.940><c> long</c><00:35:45.119><c> way.</c>

00:35:46.780 --> 00:35:52.500
Just<00:35:47.300><c> treat</c><00:35:47.880><c> with</c><00:35:48.340><c> respect</c><00:35:49.139><c> your</c><00:35:49.519><c> partner,</c><00:35:50.139><c> husband,</c><00:35:51.099><c> your</c><00:35:51.400><c> wife.</c>

00:35:53.659 --> 00:35:54.679
Respect.

00:35:57.920 --> 00:36:03.219
Have<00:35:58.440><c> loyalty</c><00:35:58.960><c> in</c><00:35:59.960><c> conversation,</c><00:36:01.960><c> in</c><00:36:02.119><c> behaviour,</c>

00:36:03.579 --> 00:36:05.260
and<00:36:03.719><c> before</c><00:36:03.960><c> the</c><00:36:04.219><c> children.</c>

00:36:06.079 --> 00:36:09.780
Don't<00:36:06.420><c> let</c><00:36:06.639><c> one</c><00:36:06.840><c> another</c><00:36:07.099><c> down</c><00:36:07.480><c> in</c><00:36:07.639><c> the</c><00:36:07.780><c> presence</c><00:36:07.960><c> of</c><00:36:08.159><c> other</c><00:36:08.340><c> people.</c>

00:36:10.659 --> 00:36:12.340
So<00:36:10.820><c> that</c><00:36:10.900><c> when</c><00:36:11.000><c> somebody</c><00:36:11.280><c> says</c><00:36:11.539><c> something,</c><00:36:11.900><c> you</c><00:36:12.019><c> then</c><00:36:12.219><c> say,</c>

00:36:12.400 --> 00:36:15.460
well,<00:36:12.440><c> it's</c><00:36:12.619><c> always</c><00:36:12.820><c> like</c><00:36:13.099><c> that.</c><00:36:13.480><c> It's</c><00:36:13.619><c> always</c><00:36:13.920><c> like</c><00:36:14.179><c> that.</c>

00:36:17.119 --> 00:36:20.119
And<00:36:17.639><c> in</c><00:36:18.159><c> no</c><00:36:18.420><c> time,</c><00:36:18.920><c> because</c><00:36:18.920><c> afterwards</c><00:36:19.420><c> that</c><00:36:19.699><c> situation</c>

00:36:20.119 --> 00:36:21.960
has<00:36:20.179><c> got</c><00:36:20.300><c> to</c><00:36:20.400><c> be</c><00:36:20.500><c> put</c><00:36:20.619><c> right,</c><00:36:20.960><c> hasn't</c><00:36:21.059><c> it?</c>

00:36:22.400 --> 00:36:24.239
That<00:36:22.579><c> has</c><00:36:22.719><c> got</c><00:36:22.920><c> to</c><00:36:23.059><c> be</c><00:36:23.179><c> put</c><00:36:23.340><c> right</c><00:36:23.639><c> in</c><00:36:23.860><c> some</c><00:36:24.059><c> way.</c>

00:36:24.320 --> 00:36:26.079
We<00:36:24.460><c> can</c><00:36:24.760><c> greatly</c><00:36:25.119><c> hurt.</c>

00:36:26.219 --> 00:36:28.579
Sometimes<00:36:26.699><c> we</c><00:36:27.000><c> can</c><00:36:27.219><c> hurt</c><00:36:27.440><c> not</c><00:36:27.739><c> intending</c><00:36:28.079><c> it.</c>

00:36:28.960 --> 00:36:31.099
We<00:36:29.199><c> suddenly</c><00:36:29.519><c> become</c><00:36:29.800><c> aware</c><00:36:30.079><c> that</c><00:36:30.219><c> we've</c><00:36:30.599><c> exposed</c>

00:36:31.099 --> 00:36:33.659
the<00:36:31.360><c> part</c><00:36:31.539><c> of</c><00:36:31.980><c> tenderness</c><00:36:32.360><c> that</c><00:36:32.579><c> we</c><00:36:32.739><c> never</c><00:36:32.980><c> intended</c><00:36:33.340><c> to.</c>

00:36:33.820 --> 00:36:37.460
Oh,<00:36:33.980><c> just</c><00:36:34.199><c> repair</c><00:36:34.539><c> it</c><00:36:35.559><c> and</c><00:36:36.219><c> do</c><00:36:36.460><c> it.</c>

00:36:37.559 --> 00:36:40.380
And<00:36:37.860><c> never,</c><00:36:38.480><c> never</c><00:36:38.780><c> be</c><00:36:39.039><c> afraid</c><00:36:39.260><c> to</c><00:36:39.500><c> say,</c>

00:36:41.599 --> 00:36:45.260
I'm<00:36:41.780><c> sorry,</c><00:36:42.039><c> my</c><00:36:42.179><c> dear,</c><00:36:42.400><c> but</c><00:36:42.559><c> I</c><00:36:42.880><c> really</c><00:36:43.539><c> didn't</c><00:36:43.960><c> mean</c><00:36:44.239><c> that.</c>

00:36:45.639 --> 00:36:48.119
It<00:36:45.820><c> was</c><00:36:46.000><c> very</c><00:36:46.280><c> wrong</c><00:36:46.480><c> of</c><00:36:46.559><c> me</c><00:36:46.699><c> to</c><00:36:46.880><c> have</c><00:36:47.039><c> said</c><00:36:47.159><c> it.</c>

00:36:48.400 --> 00:36:50.179
You'll<00:36:48.920><c> find</c><00:36:49.019><c> you'll</c><00:36:49.179><c> get</c><00:36:49.480><c> further</c><00:36:49.780><c> with</c><00:36:50.019><c> that</c>

00:36:50.179 --> 00:36:54.400
than<00:36:50.380><c> arguing</c><00:36:50.639><c> anything</c><00:36:50.980><c> out</c><00:36:51.840><c> or</c><00:36:52.619><c> trying</c><00:36:52.800><c> to</c><00:36:53.039><c> explain</c><00:36:53.320><c> it</c><00:36:53.559><c> away.</c>

00:36:54.500 --> 00:36:57.159
If<00:36:54.599><c> it</c><00:36:54.679><c> was</c><00:36:54.960><c> wrong,</c><00:36:55.400><c> say</c><00:36:55.599><c> it</c><00:36:55.780><c> was</c><00:36:56.039><c> wrong.</c>

00:36:58.420 --> 00:37:00.760
And<00:36:58.719><c> so</c><00:36:58.800><c> if</c><00:36:58.880><c> we</c><00:36:58.980><c> have</c><00:36:59.340><c> faithfulness</c><00:37:00.139><c> and</c><00:37:00.400><c> loyalty</c>

00:37:00.760 --> 00:37:05.199
and<00:37:01.219><c> respect</c><00:37:01.880><c> one</c><00:37:02.280><c> for</c><00:37:02.480><c> another,</c><00:37:03.239><c> our</c><00:37:03.400><c> love</c><00:37:03.579><c> will</c><00:37:03.800><c> fit</c><00:37:04.079><c> in.</c>

00:37:05.760 --> 00:37:07.880
And<00:37:06.019><c> we</c><00:37:06.079><c> should</c><00:37:06.179><c> be</c><00:37:06.239><c> able</c><00:37:06.340><c> to</c><00:37:06.480><c> trust</c><00:37:06.760><c> one</c><00:37:06.960><c> another.</c>

00:37:08.880 --> 00:37:12.139
There<00:37:08.940><c> were</c><00:37:09.059><c> times</c><00:37:09.340><c> when</c><00:37:11.400><c> Sister</c><00:37:11.639><c> Bernice</c><00:37:11.920><c> and</c><00:37:12.079><c> I</c>

00:37:12.139 --> 00:37:14.480
were<00:37:12.380><c> separated</c><00:37:12.900><c> for</c><00:37:13.619><c> months</c><00:37:13.940><c> on</c><00:37:14.239><c> end.</c>

00:37:14.480 --> 00:37:19.400
We<00:37:14.599><c> might</c><00:37:14.840><c> see</c><00:37:15.059><c> each</c><00:37:15.260><c> other</c><00:37:15.480><c> just</c><00:37:16.719><c> infrequently</c><00:37:17.539><c> during</c><00:37:17.920><c> that</c><00:37:18.199><c> time.</c>

00:37:19.639 --> 00:37:22.400
Now,<00:37:19.880><c> that's</c><00:37:20.219><c> a</c><00:37:20.400><c> great</c><00:37:20.579><c> trial,</c><00:37:20.980><c> especially</c><00:37:21.239><c> if</c><00:37:21.360><c> you're</c><00:37:21.519><c> younger.</c>

00:37:22.800 --> 00:37:24.099
It's<00:37:22.960><c> a</c><00:37:23.039><c> great</c><00:37:23.219><c> trial</c><00:37:23.420><c> for</c><00:37:23.579><c> both</c><00:37:23.780><c> of</c><00:37:23.960><c> you.</c>

00:37:24.139 --> 00:37:28.679
She<00:37:24.300><c> had</c><00:37:24.480><c> to</c><00:37:24.619><c> trust</c><00:37:24.800><c> me,</c><00:37:25.119><c> I</c><00:37:25.320><c> was</c><00:37:25.519><c> away,</c><00:37:26.460><c> and</c><00:37:27.000><c> I</c><00:37:27.119><c> had</c><00:37:27.239><c> to</c><00:37:27.420><c> trust</c><00:37:27.579><c> her.</c>

00:37:29.659 --> 00:37:31.420
Now,<00:37:30.179><c> we've</c><00:37:30.360><c> got</c><00:37:30.420><c> to</c><00:37:30.519><c> learn</c><00:37:30.599><c> how</c><00:37:30.739><c> to</c><00:37:30.880><c> do</c><00:37:31.019><c> that</c>

00:37:31.420 --> 00:37:33.440
and<00:37:31.699><c> how</c><00:37:31.860><c> to</c><00:37:32.019><c> fill</c><00:37:32.119><c> in</c><00:37:32.280><c> that</c><00:37:32.480><c> gap.</c>

00:37:33.980 --> 00:37:36.880
And<00:37:34.139><c> so</c><00:37:34.239><c> I</c><00:37:34.340><c> wrote</c><00:37:34.500><c> a</c><00:37:34.639><c> letter</c><00:37:34.800><c> every</c><00:37:35.119><c> day</c><00:37:35.360><c> home,</c><00:37:36.159><c> every</c><00:37:36.599><c> day</c>

00:37:36.880 --> 00:37:37.579
without<00:37:37.239><c> fail,</c>

00:37:37.699 --> 00:37:40.880
seven<00:37:37.980><c> days</c><00:37:38.219><c> a</c><00:37:38.380><c> week,</c><00:37:39.400><c> just</c><00:37:39.679><c> wrote</c><00:37:39.960><c> home.</c>

00:37:40.980 --> 00:37:44.880
That<00:37:41.500><c> was</c><00:37:41.760><c> my</c><00:37:42.159><c> way</c><00:37:42.559><c> of</c><00:37:42.900><c> keeping</c><00:37:43.179><c> my</c><00:37:43.579><c> link</c><00:37:43.960><c> alive</c>

00:37:44.880 --> 00:37:49.019
and<00:37:45.880><c> making</c><00:37:46.099><c> sure</c><00:37:46.300><c> that</c><00:37:46.480><c> my</c><00:37:46.739><c> mind</c><00:37:47.079><c> was</c><00:37:47.460><c> turned</c><00:37:47.780><c> in</c><00:37:47.960><c> the</c><00:37:48.179><c> right</c><00:37:48.440><c> direction</c>

00:37:49.019 --> 00:37:51.139
and<00:37:49.159><c> not</c><00:37:49.280><c> in</c><00:37:49.420><c> any</c><00:37:49.659><c> other</c><00:37:49.960><c> direction.</c>

00:37:51.760 --> 00:37:54.420
So<00:37:51.860><c> these</c><00:37:52.119><c> are</c><00:37:52.400><c> some</c><00:37:52.599><c> of</c><00:37:52.760><c> the</c><00:37:52.940><c> essential</c><00:37:53.260><c> qualities.</c>

00:37:55.280 --> 00:37:56.820
Have<00:37:55.800><c> sympathy.</c>

00:37:56.940 --> 00:37:59.500
I<00:37:57.000><c> know</c><00:37:57.139><c> it's</c><00:37:57.719><c> probably</c><00:37:57.960><c> taken</c><00:37:58.239><c> out</c><00:37:58.420><c> of</c><00:37:58.539><c> some</c><00:37:58.739><c> old</c><00:37:59.099><c> song,</c>

00:37:59.539 --> 00:38:03.539
but<00:37:59.679><c> it</c><00:37:59.980><c> still</c><00:38:00.199><c> works,</c><00:38:00.599><c> and</c><00:38:00.780><c> that</c><00:38:00.960><c> is</c><00:38:01.500><c> try</c><00:38:02.039><c> a</c><00:38:02.159><c> little</c><00:38:02.400><c> tenderness.</c>

00:38:05.900 --> 00:38:08.519
Some<00:38:06.039><c> people,</c><00:38:06.699><c> after</c><00:38:06.940><c> they</c><00:38:07.059><c> got</c><00:38:07.179><c> married,</c><00:38:07.519><c> forget</c><00:38:07.719><c> all</c><00:38:07.960><c> those</c><00:38:08.199><c> things,</c>

00:38:08.519 --> 00:38:11.719
all<00:38:08.840><c> the</c><00:38:09.019><c> things</c><00:38:09.239><c> that</c><00:38:09.820><c> made</c><00:38:10.139><c> the</c><00:38:10.340><c> marriage</c><00:38:10.719><c> come</c><00:38:11.179><c> about,</c>

00:38:11.719 --> 00:38:14.380
they<00:38:12.000><c> then</c><00:38:12.300><c> dispose</c><00:38:12.639><c> of</c><00:38:12.840><c> as</c><00:38:12.960><c> though</c><00:38:13.119><c> they</c><00:38:13.260><c> are</c><00:38:13.420><c> trash.</c>

00:38:15.019 --> 00:38:17.039
We<00:38:15.340><c> still</c><00:38:15.500><c> require</c><00:38:15.900><c> them.</c>

00:38:17.739 --> 00:38:20.980
We<00:38:18.019><c> all</c><00:38:18.219><c> require</c><00:38:18.579><c> an</c><00:38:18.760><c> arm</c><00:38:18.860><c> around</c><00:38:19.139><c> us</c><00:38:19.320><c> from</c><00:38:19.519><c> time</c><00:38:19.679><c> to</c><00:38:19.840><c> time.</c>

00:38:21.360 --> 00:38:25.420
We<00:38:21.679><c> need</c><00:38:22.119><c> it,</c><00:38:23.380><c> man</c><00:38:23.559><c> and</c><00:38:23.780><c> woman,</c><00:38:23.900><c> we</c><00:38:24.199><c> need</c><00:38:24.739><c> it.</c>

00:38:25.420 --> 00:38:27.059
It's<00:38:25.659><c> what</c><00:38:25.780><c> we</c><00:38:26.079><c> require.</c>

00:38:27.619 --> 00:38:30.639
And<00:38:27.739><c> we</c><00:38:27.800><c> just</c><00:38:28.000><c> require</c><00:38:28.460><c> that</c><00:38:28.960><c> gentle</c><00:38:29.440><c> word,</c>

00:38:32.400 --> 00:38:35.280
so<00:38:32.599><c> that</c><00:38:33.460><c> at</c><00:38:33.900><c> whatever</c><00:38:34.119><c> age,</c>

00:38:35.559 --> 00:38:41.380
we<00:38:36.119><c> still</c><00:38:36.300><c> tell</c><00:38:36.719><c> our</c><00:38:37.119><c> partner</c><00:38:37.340><c> that</c><00:38:38.539><c> we</c><00:38:38.940><c> love</c><00:38:39.139><c> him</c><00:38:39.639><c> or</c><00:38:40.000><c> love</c><00:38:40.300><c> her.</c>

00:38:42.679 --> 00:38:44.500
We<00:38:43.239><c> still</c><00:38:43.500><c> do.</c>

00:38:45.440 --> 00:38:46.699
We<00:38:45.800><c> still</c><00:38:46.019><c> say</c><00:38:46.239><c> it.</c>

00:38:46.820 --> 00:38:49.239
I<00:38:47.079><c> say</c><00:38:47.280><c> it</c><00:38:47.820><c> every</c><00:38:48.159><c> day.</c>

00:38:50.559 --> 00:38:53.139
It's<00:38:50.900><c> true,</c><00:38:51.320><c> but</c><00:38:52.139><c> I</c><00:38:52.380><c> say</c><00:38:52.639><c> it.</c>

00:38:53.440 --> 00:38:55.260
There's<00:38:53.760><c> no</c><00:38:53.860><c> use</c><00:38:54.059><c> saying,</c><00:38:54.340><c> well,</c><00:38:54.539><c> you</c><00:38:54.639><c> know,</c><00:38:54.780><c> I</c><00:38:54.860><c> didn't</c><00:38:55.019><c> even</c>

00:38:55.260 --> 00:38:56.820
tell<00:38:55.360><c> you,</c><00:38:55.460><c> did</c><00:38:55.619><c> I?</c>

00:38:57.800 --> 00:38:59.619
Silent<00:38:58.159><c> love</c><00:38:58.420><c> is</c><00:38:59.000><c> very</c><00:38:59.219><c> difficult.</c>

00:38:59.880 --> 00:39:03.300
We've<00:39:00.159><c> got</c><00:39:00.260><c> to</c><00:39:00.440><c> have</c><00:39:00.699><c> just</c><00:39:00.980><c> that</c><00:39:01.260><c> that</c><00:39:01.880><c> communicates</c><00:39:02.639><c> as</c><00:39:02.880><c> well.</c>

00:39:03.300 --> 00:39:07.679
So<00:39:04.059><c> let's</c><00:39:04.340><c> learn,</c><00:39:05.079><c> and</c><00:39:05.159><c> just</c><00:39:05.340><c> remember</c><00:39:05.699><c> those</c><00:39:05.960><c> occasions</c><00:39:06.539><c> of</c><00:39:06.760><c> marriage,</c>

00:39:07.860 --> 00:39:09.760
the<00:39:07.940><c> anniversary</c><00:39:08.500><c> of</c><00:39:08.679><c> the</c><00:39:08.840><c> marriage.</c>

00:39:10.119 --> 00:39:12.159
I<00:39:10.159><c> know</c><00:39:10.300><c> it's</c><00:39:10.619><c> a</c><00:39:10.679><c> kind</c><00:39:10.900><c> of</c><00:39:11.039><c> old</c><00:39:11.239><c> joke</c><00:39:11.400><c> that</c><00:39:11.619><c> husbands</c><00:39:11.820><c> always</c>

00:39:12.159 --> 00:39:13.679
forget<00:39:12.480><c> the</c><00:39:12.599><c> anniversary.</c>

00:39:13.860 --> 00:39:16.000
They<00:39:14.300><c> don't</c><00:39:14.500><c> forget</c><00:39:14.679><c> other</c><00:39:14.920><c> things.</c>

00:39:16.579 --> 00:39:17.780
So<00:39:16.699><c> don't</c><00:39:16.880><c> forget</c><00:39:17.099><c> that</c><00:39:17.320><c> either.</c>

00:39:18.280 --> 00:39:22.519
Just<00:39:18.659><c> learn,</c><00:39:20.079><c> because</c><00:39:20.340><c> it</c><00:39:20.420><c> may</c><00:39:20.619><c> well</c><00:39:20.920><c> be</c><00:39:21.260><c> that</c><00:39:21.980><c> remembering</c>

00:39:22.519 --> 00:39:23.599
it<00:39:22.760><c> at</c><00:39:22.840><c> the</c><00:39:23.039><c> right</c><00:39:23.300><c> time</c>

00:39:23.599 --> 00:39:26.500
is<00:39:23.760><c> just</c><00:39:24.019><c> one</c><00:39:24.179><c> of</c><00:39:24.320><c> those</c><00:39:24.719><c> down</c><00:39:25.300><c> days.</c>

00:39:28.199 --> 00:39:31.280
And<00:39:28.300><c> there's</c><00:39:28.440><c> nothing</c><00:39:28.619><c> like</c><00:39:28.840><c> being</c><00:39:29.179><c> lifted</c><00:39:29.380><c> up</c><00:39:29.920><c> on</c><00:39:30.159><c> a</c><00:39:30.460><c> down</c><00:39:30.820><c> day.</c>

00:39:31.280 --> 00:39:34.400
And<00:39:31.960><c> they're</c><00:39:32.199><c> all</c><00:39:32.559><c> things</c><00:39:32.880><c> that</c><00:39:33.159><c> are</c><00:39:33.420><c> so</c><00:39:33.659><c> simple.</c>

00:39:34.699 --> 00:39:37.179
These,<00:39:35.139><c> coupled</c><00:39:35.260><c> with</c><00:39:35.519><c> our</c><00:39:35.719><c> Bible</c><00:39:36.039><c> reading</c><00:39:36.360><c> together,</c><00:39:36.980><c> our</c>

00:39:37.179 --> 00:39:38.039
talking<00:39:37.500><c> together,</c>

00:39:38.280 --> 00:39:41.460
making<00:39:38.480><c> sure</c><00:39:38.719><c> we</c><00:39:38.920><c> have</c><00:39:39.480><c> time</c><00:39:40.119><c> for</c><00:39:40.360><c> one</c><00:39:40.559><c> another.</c>

00:39:42.159 --> 00:39:44.820
Sister<00:39:42.300><c> Bernice</c><00:39:42.639><c> and</c><00:39:42.760><c> I</c><00:39:43.019><c> make</c><00:39:43.400><c> time</c><00:39:43.880><c> for</c><00:39:44.059><c> one</c><00:39:44.260><c> another</c><00:39:44.500><c> at</c>

00:39:44.820 --> 00:39:45.480
Bible<00:39:45.280><c> school.</c>

00:39:45.519 --> 00:39:51.460
We<00:39:45.639><c> make</c><00:39:45.960><c> time</c><00:39:46.679><c> so</c><00:39:47.559><c> that</c><00:39:47.699><c> we're</c><00:39:47.800><c> just</c><00:39:48.039><c> the</c><00:39:48.159><c> two</c><00:39:48.340><c> of</c><00:39:48.519><c> us</c><00:39:49.139><c> together,</c><00:39:49.980><c> just</c><00:39:50.300><c> to</c><00:39:50.559><c> talk.</c>

00:39:51.619 --> 00:39:53.199
And<00:39:51.780><c> sometimes</c><00:39:51.900><c> it's</c><00:39:52.079><c> just</c><00:39:52.360><c> small</c><00:39:52.659><c> talk.</c>

00:39:53.599 --> 00:39:56.159
But<00:39:53.679><c> the</c><00:39:53.800><c> fact</c><00:39:53.920><c> is,</c><00:39:54.159><c> it</c><00:39:54.260><c> is</c><00:39:54.500><c> us</c><00:39:54.960><c> talking.</c>

00:39:56.960 --> 00:39:58.739
And<00:39:57.099><c> you</c><00:39:57.119><c> can</c><00:39:57.260><c> do</c><00:39:57.320><c> it</c><00:39:57.480><c> in</c><00:39:57.599><c> a</c><00:39:57.719><c> busy</c><00:39:57.900><c> schedule.</c>

00:39:58.739 --> 00:40:00.719
You<00:39:58.940><c> can</c><00:39:59.139><c> do</c><00:39:59.320><c> it.</c><00:39:59.440><c> There's</c><00:39:59.599><c> no</c><00:39:59.840><c> problem.</c>

00:40:00.780 --> 00:40:03.639
It's<00:40:01.139><c> just</c><00:40:01.440><c> willing</c><00:40:01.699><c> yourself</c><00:40:02.079><c> to</c><00:40:02.300><c> do</c><00:40:02.460><c> it.</c>

00:40:03.900 --> 00:40:05.539
And<00:40:04.019><c> just</c><00:40:04.179><c> learning</c><00:40:04.559><c> to</c><00:40:05.039><c> communicate.</c>

00:40:05.760 --> 00:40:06.420
Go<00:40:05.900><c> on</c><00:40:06.079><c> talking.</c>

00:40:06.880 --> 00:40:10.739
And<00:40:07.000><c> as</c><00:40:07.079><c> you</c><00:40:07.219><c> know,</c><00:40:07.460><c> we</c><00:40:07.559><c> always</c><00:40:08.619><c> close</c><00:40:09.360><c> our</c><00:40:09.579><c> day</c><00:40:09.719><c> together</c><00:40:10.039><c> in</c><00:40:10.340><c> prayer.</c>

00:40:10.980 --> 00:40:13.000
And<00:40:11.099><c> that</c><00:40:11.199><c> makes</c><00:40:11.360><c> a</c><00:40:11.579><c> world</c><00:40:11.739><c> of</c><00:40:11.980><c> difference.</c>

00:40:13.659 --> 00:40:17.800
That<00:40:13.800><c> the</c><00:40:14.079><c> home,</c><00:40:14.539><c> when</c><00:40:14.699><c> we</c><00:40:14.860><c> are</c><00:40:15.000><c> married,</c><00:40:16.079><c> should</c><00:40:16.199><c> in</c><00:40:16.420><c> fact</c><00:40:16.820><c> be</c>

00:40:17.800 --> 00:40:19.400
a<00:40:18.019><c> little</c><00:40:18.239><c> ecclesia.</c>

00:40:20.699 --> 00:40:21.639
That's<00:40:20.920><c> what</c><00:40:20.920><c> it</c><00:40:21.059><c> should</c><00:40:21.239><c> be.</c>

00:40:22.059 --> 00:40:24.739
We<00:40:22.219><c> should</c><00:40:22.340><c> seek</c><00:40:22.519><c> to</c><00:40:22.780><c> make</c><00:40:22.940><c> it</c><00:40:23.119><c> a</c><00:40:23.159><c> little</c><00:40:23.440><c> ecclesia.</c>

00:40:25.639 --> 00:40:27.300
And<00:40:25.860><c> so</c><00:40:25.940><c> there</c><00:40:26.079><c> are</c><00:40:26.179><c> certain</c><00:40:26.320><c> things</c><00:40:26.480><c> we</c><00:40:26.659><c> have</c><00:40:26.800><c> in</c><00:40:26.960><c> our</c><00:40:27.139><c> home</c>

00:40:27.300 --> 00:40:28.739
and<00:40:27.440><c> certain</c><00:40:27.639><c> things</c><00:40:27.800><c> we</c><00:40:27.920><c> don't</c><00:40:28.159><c> want</c><00:40:28.300><c> in</c><00:40:28.480><c> our</c><00:40:28.619><c> home.</c>

00:40:28.739 --> 00:40:30.059
We<00:40:28.840><c> get</c><00:40:28.980><c> rid</c><00:40:29.219><c> of</c><00:40:29.500><c> them.</c>

00:40:30.300 --> 00:40:31.760
We<00:40:30.460><c> push</c><00:40:30.639><c> them</c><00:40:30.860><c> out.</c>

00:40:32.079 --> 00:40:33.119
But<00:40:32.139><c> make</c><00:40:32.280><c> it</c><00:40:32.420><c> a</c><00:40:32.500><c> little</c><00:40:32.719><c> ecclesia.</c>

00:40:33.260 --> 00:40:37.460
Regard<00:40:33.699><c> the</c><00:40:34.300><c> home</c><00:40:34.820><c> as</c><00:40:35.280><c> an</c><00:40:35.599><c> annex</c><00:40:35.920><c> of</c><00:40:36.159><c> the</c><00:40:36.360><c> ecclesia.</c>

00:40:38.420 --> 00:40:39.840
Now<00:40:38.480><c> if</c><00:40:38.559><c> you</c><00:40:38.679><c> just</c><00:40:38.900><c> regard</c><00:40:39.159><c> it</c><00:40:39.300><c> as</c><00:40:39.539><c> that,</c>

00:40:39.900 --> 00:40:42.159
then<00:40:40.039><c> you</c><00:40:40.179><c> understand</c><00:40:40.559><c> why</c><00:40:40.800><c> it</c><00:40:40.940><c> is</c><00:40:41.000><c> you</c><00:40:41.139><c> extend</c><00:40:41.480><c> hospitality.</c>

00:40:42.480 --> 00:40:45.440
You're<00:40:42.559><c> just</c><00:40:42.699><c> one</c><00:40:42.840><c> of</c><00:40:42.940><c> the</c><00:40:43.079><c> other</c><00:40:43.260><c> rooms</c><00:40:43.699><c> in</c><00:40:44.139><c> the</c><00:40:44.300><c> ecclesia.</c>

00:40:45.719 --> 00:40:47.860
And<00:40:46.000><c> you</c><00:40:46.159><c> learn</c><00:40:46.380><c> how</c><00:40:46.559><c> to</c><00:40:46.699><c> have</c><00:40:46.820><c> other</c><00:40:47.039><c> people</c><00:40:47.239><c> in</c><00:40:47.360><c> your</c><00:40:47.579><c> home.</c>

00:40:47.960 --> 00:40:50.380
Other<00:40:48.380><c> younger</c><00:40:48.739><c> people,</c><00:40:49.179><c> when</c><00:40:49.219><c> you're</c><00:40:49.639><c> newly</c><00:40:49.940><c> married,</c>

00:40:50.699 --> 00:40:54.139
have<00:40:51.139><c> the</c><00:40:51.500><c> unmarrieds</c><00:40:52.260><c> in</c><00:40:52.440><c> and</c><00:40:52.739><c> let</c><00:40:52.880><c> them</c><00:40:53.059><c> just</c><00:40:53.400><c> see</c><00:40:53.699><c> how</c><00:40:53.960><c> it</c>

00:40:54.139 --> 00:40:55.400
is<00:40:54.280><c> that</c><00:40:54.440><c> you're</c><00:40:54.659><c> getting</c><00:40:54.960><c> on.</c>

00:40:55.579 --> 00:40:57.940
And<00:40:55.699><c> they'll</c><00:40:55.900><c> want</c><00:40:56.000><c> to</c><00:40:56.280><c> talk</c><00:40:56.539><c> and</c><00:40:56.719><c> open</c><00:40:56.880><c> their</c><00:40:57.059><c> hearts</c><00:40:57.380><c> to</c><00:40:57.639><c> you.</c>

00:40:57.940 --> 00:41:00.119
And<00:40:58.340><c> it's</c><00:40:58.579><c> a</c><00:40:58.760><c> marvellous</c><00:40:59.219><c> thing.</c>

00:41:00.179 --> 00:41:02.340
And<00:41:00.260><c> then</c><00:41:00.360><c> the</c><00:41:00.500><c> older</c><00:41:00.699><c> ones</c><00:41:00.920><c> learn</c><00:41:01.300><c> just</c><00:41:01.539><c> to</c><00:41:01.699><c> keep</c><00:41:01.880><c> touch</c><00:41:02.139><c> with</c>

00:41:02.340 --> 00:41:03.260
all<00:41:02.539><c> the</c><00:41:02.739><c> generations.</c>

00:41:03.679 --> 00:41:05.840
Bible<00:41:03.820><c> school</c><00:41:04.039><c> is</c><00:41:04.400><c> marvellous</c><00:41:04.920><c> for</c><00:41:05.099><c> that,</c><00:41:05.360><c> isn't</c><00:41:05.460><c> it?</c>

00:41:05.980 --> 00:41:07.699
All<00:41:06.360><c> the</c><00:41:06.579><c> generations.</c>

00:41:07.860 --> 00:41:10.300
The<00:41:07.980><c> little</c><00:41:08.139><c> lad</c><00:41:08.300><c> who</c><00:41:08.519><c> comes</c><00:41:08.719><c> and</c><00:41:08.940><c> tugs</c><00:41:09.099><c> me</c><00:41:09.280><c> and</c><00:41:09.400><c> says,</c>

00:41:10.880 --> 00:41:12.179
Hello,<00:41:11.179><c> Uncle</c><00:41:11.320><c> Harry.</c>

00:41:12.940 --> 00:41:14.719
Because<00:41:13.380><c> he</c><00:41:13.480><c> wants</c><00:41:13.679><c> to</c><00:41:13.960><c> say</c><00:41:14.139><c> it.</c>

00:41:14.960 --> 00:41:15.739
Well,<00:41:15.139><c> that's</c><00:41:15.300><c> great.</c>

00:41:16.159 --> 00:41:18.099
I<00:41:16.400><c> wanted</c><00:41:16.639><c> to</c><00:41:16.900><c> say</c><00:41:17.119><c> it.</c>

00:41:18.219 --> 00:41:19.739
And<00:41:18.420><c> so</c><00:41:18.480><c> with</c><00:41:18.619><c> each</c><00:41:18.820><c> of</c><00:41:18.940><c> the</c><00:41:19.079><c> generations,</c>

00:41:19.940 --> 00:41:22.320
just<00:41:20.239><c> keep</c><00:41:20.460><c> in</c><00:41:20.699><c> touch</c><00:41:20.900><c> all</c><00:41:21.159><c> the</c><00:41:21.380><c> time.</c>

00:41:22.619 --> 00:41:25.139
And<00:41:23.079><c> mothers,</c><00:41:23.460><c> when</c><00:41:23.639><c> your</c><00:41:24.039><c> daughter</c><00:41:24.360><c> gets</c><00:41:24.739><c> married,</c>

00:41:25.260 --> 00:41:27.199
let<00:41:25.500><c> her</c><00:41:26.000><c> go.</c>

00:41:30.219 --> 00:41:32.059
You<00:41:30.260><c> know,</c><00:41:30.980><c> not</c><00:41:31.119><c> 7</c><00:41:31.280><c> o</c><00:41:31.400><c>'clock</c><00:41:31.420><c> in</c><00:41:31.539><c> the</c><00:41:31.599><c> morning</c><00:41:31.699><c> saying,</c>

00:41:32.320 --> 00:41:34.000
Jill,<00:41:32.599><c> how</c><00:41:32.760><c> are</c><00:41:32.780><c> you</c><00:41:32.820><c> getting</c><00:41:32.940><c> on?</c>

00:41:35.679 --> 00:41:36.860
That<00:41:35.800><c> is</c><00:41:35.920><c> breakfast.</c>

00:41:38.280 --> 00:41:39.159
What<00:41:38.460><c> she</c><00:41:38.539><c> said</c><00:41:38.639><c> to</c><00:41:38.840><c> you?</c>

00:41:39.460 --> 00:41:40.500
Oh,<00:41:39.659><c> I</c><00:41:39.739><c> wouldn't</c><00:41:39.940><c> do</c><00:41:40.159><c> that.</c>

00:41:40.719 --> 00:41:43.159
Oh,<00:41:41.199><c> no,</c><00:41:41.900><c> no,</c><00:41:42.500><c> no,</c><00:41:42.659><c> no,</c><00:41:42.719><c> no.</c>

00:41:43.260 --> 00:41:44.400
I'll<00:41:43.460><c> be</c><00:41:43.639><c> down.</c>

00:41:44.940 --> 00:41:46.360
I'm<00:41:45.400><c> coming.</c>

00:41:46.619 --> 00:41:48.579
And<00:41:46.739><c> then,</c><00:41:47.019><c> oh</c><00:41:47.500><c> dear</c><00:41:47.739><c> me.</c>

00:41:49.519 --> 00:41:52.000
So<00:41:50.000><c> it's</c><00:41:50.219><c> married</c><00:41:50.360><c> to</c><00:41:50.539><c> both</c><00:41:50.760><c> of</c><00:41:50.940><c> them.</c>

00:41:55.019 --> 00:41:57.000
And<00:41:55.119><c> we're</c><00:41:55.400><c> all</c><00:41:55.639><c> aware</c><00:41:55.880><c> of</c><00:41:56.000><c> it,</c><00:41:56.139><c> aren't</c><00:41:56.300><c> we?</c>

00:41:57.440 --> 00:41:58.239
You<00:41:57.460><c> know.</c>

00:41:58.699 --> 00:42:01.619
Sometimes<00:41:59.179><c> it's</c><00:41:59.420><c> the</c><00:41:59.480><c> other</c><00:41:59.619><c> way</c><00:41:59.760><c> round,</c><00:42:00.059><c> isn't</c><00:42:00.199><c> it?</c>

00:42:01.920 --> 00:42:03.659
Ron,<00:42:02.159><c> how</c><00:42:02.340><c> are</c><00:42:02.420><c> you</c><00:42:02.480><c> getting</c><00:42:02.719><c> on?</c>

00:42:05.199 --> 00:42:07.840
Does<00:42:05.679><c> she</c><00:42:05.900><c> make</c><00:42:06.280><c> puddings,</c><00:42:06.980><c> Ron?</c>

00:42:10.780 --> 00:42:13.039
Have<00:42:11.260><c> you</c><00:42:11.320><c> got</c><00:42:11.440><c> your</c><00:42:11.579><c> white</c><00:42:11.800><c> shirt</c><00:42:12.059><c> on?</c>

00:42:13.519 --> 00:42:14.980
And<00:42:13.760><c> all</c><00:42:13.940><c> the</c><00:42:14.059><c> buttons?</c>

00:42:15.699 --> 00:42:16.679
Oh.

00:42:18.019 --> 00:42:19.840
Nobody<00:42:18.440><c> can</c><00:42:18.659><c> do</c><00:42:18.820><c> it</c><00:42:18.920><c> like</c><00:42:19.179><c> Mum,</c><00:42:19.460><c> eh?</c>

00:42:20.079 --> 00:42:21.360
Well,<00:42:20.219><c> we've</c><00:42:20.360><c> got</c><00:42:20.480><c> to</c><00:42:20.659><c> learn</c><00:42:20.780><c> when</c><00:42:20.900><c> we</c><00:42:20.980><c> get</c><00:42:21.119><c> married,</c>

00:42:21.420 --> 00:42:22.920
we've<00:42:21.659><c> got</c><00:42:21.719><c> to</c><00:42:21.800><c> be</c><00:42:21.940><c> separate.</c>

00:42:23.239 --> 00:42:24.860
We're<00:42:23.320><c> in</c><00:42:23.420><c> our</c><00:42:23.639><c> own</c><00:42:23.860><c> home.</c>

00:42:25.400 --> 00:42:27.679
And<00:42:25.719><c> it's</c><00:42:25.880><c> got</c><00:42:26.000><c> to</c><00:42:26.119><c> be</c><00:42:26.260><c> a</c><00:42:26.440><c> place</c><00:42:26.659><c> where</c><00:42:26.840><c> we</c><00:42:26.940><c> can</c><00:42:27.159><c> make</c><00:42:27.320><c> up</c><00:42:27.500><c> our</c>

00:42:27.679 --> 00:42:28.880
own<00:42:27.900><c> minds.</c>

00:42:29.139 --> 00:42:30.539
We<00:42:29.280><c> should</c><00:42:29.480><c> have</c><00:42:29.639><c> our</c><00:42:29.920><c> parents</c><00:42:30.239><c> in,</c>

00:42:30.579 --> 00:42:32.260
and<00:42:30.719><c> we</c><00:42:30.840><c> shall</c><00:42:31.500><c> talk</c><00:42:31.960><c> to</c><00:42:32.119><c> them,</c>

00:42:32.300 --> 00:42:33.920
and<00:42:32.380><c> they'll</c><00:42:32.559><c> talk</c><00:42:32.800><c> to</c><00:42:32.960><c> us.</c>

00:42:34.300 --> 00:42:36.900
But<00:42:34.719><c> now</c><00:42:35.139><c> it's</c><00:42:35.500><c> something</c><00:42:35.820><c> new.</c>

00:42:38.059 --> 00:42:39.980
Ron<00:42:38.340><c> doesn't</c><00:42:38.599><c> just</c><00:42:38.920><c> say,</c>

00:42:40.039 --> 00:42:41.619
yeah,<00:42:40.239><c> I've</c><00:42:40.380><c> got</c><00:42:40.500><c> my</c><00:42:40.639><c> white</c><00:42:40.860><c> shirt</c><00:42:41.079><c> on,</c><00:42:41.420><c> Mum.</c>

00:42:41.960 --> 00:42:43.780
What<00:42:42.079><c> he</c><00:42:42.239><c> says</c><00:42:42.480><c> is,</c>

00:42:43.860 --> 00:42:46.139
Jill<00:42:44.340><c> looks</c><00:42:44.599><c> after</c><00:42:44.739><c> me</c><00:42:44.920><c> fine,</c><00:42:45.639><c> Mum.</c>

00:42:46.599 --> 00:42:48.599
Jill<00:42:46.739><c> and</c><00:42:46.920><c> I</c><00:42:47.000><c> get</c><00:42:47.119><c> on</c><00:42:47.380><c> well.</c>

00:42:49.500 --> 00:42:52.980
And<00:42:49.639><c> Mum</c><00:42:49.780><c> then</c><00:42:50.539><c> realises</c><00:42:51.099><c> that</c><00:42:51.840><c> he's</c><00:42:52.239><c> attached</c><00:42:52.440><c> to</c><00:42:52.679><c> Jill.</c>

00:42:53.380 --> 00:42:54.260
That's<00:42:53.719><c> fine.</c>

00:42:54.760 --> 00:42:56.400
And<00:42:54.960><c> that's</c><00:42:55.059><c> how</c><00:42:55.199><c> it</c><00:42:55.300><c> should</c><00:42:55.440><c> be.</c>

00:42:57.039 --> 00:42:58.800
Just<00:42:57.300><c> one</c><00:42:57.500><c> final</c><00:42:57.760><c> reference,</c><00:42:58.199><c> if</c><00:42:58.340><c> I</c><00:42:58.500><c> may.</c>

00:42:58.940 --> 00:43:00.739
Will<00:42:59.059><c> you</c><00:42:59.159><c> come</c><00:42:59.360><c> to</c><00:42:59.500><c> Ephesians</c><00:42:59.940><c> chapter</c><00:43:00.260><c> 5?</c>

00:43:00.780 --> 00:43:02.079
I've<00:43:00.960><c> only</c><00:43:01.179><c> touched</c><00:43:01.420><c> the</c><00:43:01.619><c> subject,</c>

00:43:02.460 --> 00:43:05.340
but<00:43:02.659><c> I</c><00:43:02.840><c> hope</c><00:43:02.980><c> some</c><00:43:03.219><c> of</c><00:43:03.320><c> the</c><00:43:03.460><c> things</c><00:43:03.579><c> have</c><00:43:03.739><c> been</c><00:43:03.860><c> helpful</c><00:43:04.179><c> to</c><00:43:04.360><c> you.</c>

00:43:05.360 --> 00:43:08.639
Just<00:43:05.639><c> come</c><00:43:05.820><c> to</c><00:43:05.960><c> Ephesians</c><00:43:06.460><c> chapter</c><00:43:06.820><c> 5.</c>

00:43:10.280 --> 00:43:12.900
That's<00:43:10.719><c> the</c><00:43:10.820><c> one</c><00:43:10.900><c> that</c><00:43:11.019><c> we</c><00:43:11.139><c> read</c><00:43:11.239><c> together.</c>

00:43:13.880 --> 00:43:14.679
Because<00:43:13.960><c> some</c><00:43:14.179><c> of</c><00:43:14.280><c> you</c><00:43:14.380><c> will</c><00:43:14.519><c> know</c>

00:43:14.679 --> 00:43:16.280
that<00:43:14.820><c> there</c><00:43:15.019><c> is</c><00:43:15.159><c> one</c><00:43:15.420><c> thing</c><00:43:15.579><c> in</c><00:43:15.739><c> this</c><00:43:15.940><c> chapter</c>

00:43:16.280 --> 00:43:22.000
that<00:43:16.440><c> I</c><00:43:16.719><c> find</c><00:43:17.699><c> is</c><00:43:19.260><c> the</c><00:43:19.460><c> key</c><00:43:19.920><c> to</c><00:43:20.400><c> a</c><00:43:20.539><c> happy</c><00:43:20.719><c> marriage.</c>

00:43:25.519 --> 00:43:28.219
It<00:43:25.739><c> says</c><00:43:25.940><c> there</c><00:43:26.239><c> in</c><00:43:26.400><c> verse</c><00:43:27.099><c> 21,</c>

00:43:28.579 --> 00:43:31.659
submitting<00:43:29.000><c> yourselves</c><00:43:29.840><c> one</c><00:43:30.139><c> to</c><00:43:30.380><c> another</c><00:43:30.679><c> in</c><00:43:30.860><c> the</c><00:43:31.079><c> fear</c><00:43:31.239><c> of</c><00:43:31.480><c> God.</c>

00:43:31.760 --> 00:43:34.420
That's<00:43:32.099><c> husband</c><00:43:32.320><c> to</c><00:43:32.559><c> wife</c><00:43:32.780><c> and</c><00:43:32.960><c> wife</c><00:43:33.219><c> to</c><00:43:33.380><c> husband.</c>

00:43:34.820 --> 00:43:36.300
And<00:43:35.059><c> so</c><00:43:35.239><c> throughout</c><00:43:35.500><c> ecclesial</c><00:43:35.960><c> life</c>

00:43:36.300 --> 00:43:38.460
we<00:43:36.519><c> learn</c><00:43:36.739><c> this</c><00:43:36.960><c> matter</c><00:43:37.179><c> of</c><00:43:37.440><c> submission.</c>

00:43:38.639 --> 00:43:42.920
There<00:43:38.679><c> is</c><00:43:39.079><c> nobody</c><00:43:39.579><c> who</c><00:43:40.420><c> doesn't</c><00:43:40.900><c> have</c><00:43:41.460><c> to</c><00:43:41.820><c> submit.</c>

00:43:43.699 --> 00:43:45.139
It<00:43:43.800><c> isn't</c><00:43:43.920><c> that</c><00:43:44.059><c> it's</c><00:43:44.179><c> a</c><00:43:44.300><c> one</c><00:43:44.559><c>-sided</c><00:43:44.800><c> matter.</c>

00:43:45.239 --> 00:43:46.199
There<00:43:45.360><c> is</c><00:43:45.739><c> nobody.</c>

00:43:46.539 --> 00:43:48.559
The<00:43:46.780><c> husband</c><00:43:47.239><c> submits</c><00:43:47.820><c> to</c><00:43:48.099><c> marriage,</c>

00:43:49.000 --> 00:43:50.460
so<00:43:49.199><c> does</c><00:43:49.340><c> the</c><00:43:49.519><c> wife.</c>

00:43:51.059 --> 00:43:52.940
Then<00:43:51.300><c> it</c><00:43:51.420><c> says,</c><00:43:51.659><c> wives,</c>

00:43:53.079 --> 00:43:54.860
submit<00:43:53.380><c> yourselves</c>

00:43:56.559 --> 00:43:58.199
unto<00:43:57.139><c> your</c><00:43:57.400><c> own</c><00:43:57.719><c> husbands.</c>

00:43:58.400 --> 00:44:00.440
That's<00:43:58.719><c> the</c><00:43:58.840><c> second</c><00:43:59.000><c> time.</c>

00:44:01.219 --> 00:44:02.860
There<00:44:01.320><c> must</c><00:44:01.539><c> be</c><00:44:01.760><c> a</c><00:44:01.820><c> reason</c><00:44:02.119><c> for</c><00:44:02.400><c> it.</c>

00:44:02.860 --> 00:44:06.059
The<00:44:03.519><c> spirit</c><00:44:03.699><c> is</c><00:44:04.000><c> touching</c><00:44:04.420><c> our</c><00:44:05.019><c> susceptibilities.</c>

00:44:06.099 --> 00:44:09.119
It's<00:44:06.559><c> not</c><00:44:06.699><c> that</c><00:44:06.820><c> we</c><00:44:07.039><c> are</c><00:44:07.539><c> weaker</c><00:44:08.039><c> than</c><00:44:08.619><c> our</c><00:44:08.860><c> husbands.</c>

00:44:09.139 --> 00:44:10.079
It's<00:44:09.300><c> not</c><00:44:09.460><c> that</c><00:44:09.639><c> at</c><00:44:09.840><c> all.</c>

00:44:10.260 --> 00:44:13.139
Or<00:44:10.260><c> that</c><00:44:11.099><c> Paul</c><00:44:11.440><c> is</c><00:44:11.739><c> getting</c><00:44:12.079><c> at</c><00:44:12.500><c> sisters</c>

00:44:13.139 --> 00:44:15.099
when<00:44:13.500><c> he</c><00:44:13.639><c> doesn't</c><00:44:13.900><c> have</c><00:44:14.159><c> to</c><00:44:14.400><c> get</c><00:44:14.639><c> at</c><00:44:14.860><c> brethren.</c>

00:44:15.119 --> 00:44:16.239
It's<00:44:15.300><c> not</c><00:44:15.500><c> that</c><00:44:15.639><c> at</c><00:44:15.860><c> all.</c>

00:44:16.539 --> 00:44:18.420
He's<00:44:16.980><c> offering</c><00:44:17.219><c> a</c><00:44:17.480><c> helping</c><00:44:17.719><c> hand</c><00:44:18.000><c> and</c><00:44:18.239><c> saying,</c>

00:44:18.719 --> 00:44:21.739
this<00:44:18.880><c> is</c><00:44:19.099><c> where</c><00:44:19.320><c> you</c><00:44:19.880><c> have</c><00:44:20.079><c> to</c><00:44:20.300><c> watch</c><00:44:20.519><c> it.</c>

00:44:21.920 --> 00:44:24.760
This<00:44:22.079><c> is</c><00:44:22.260><c> your</c><00:44:22.500><c> particular</c><00:44:23.059><c> area</c><00:44:23.579><c> of</c><00:44:23.920><c> watching.</c>

00:44:26.219 --> 00:44:27.619
For<00:44:26.320><c> the</c><00:44:26.440><c> husband</c><00:44:26.659><c> is</c><00:44:26.820><c> the</c><00:44:26.940><c> head</c><00:44:27.019><c> of</c><00:44:27.179><c> the</c><00:44:27.340><c> wife.</c>

00:44:28.119 --> 00:44:29.219
No,<00:44:28.300><c> it</c><00:44:28.320><c> doesn't</c><00:44:28.539><c> say</c><00:44:28.739><c> that,</c><00:44:28.940><c> does</c><00:44:29.079><c> it?</c>

00:44:29.219 --> 00:44:32.460
It<00:44:29.280><c> says,</c><00:44:29.840><c> wives,</c><00:44:30.000><c> submit</c><00:44:30.280><c> yourselves</c><00:44:30.780><c> unto</c><00:44:31.019><c> your</c><00:44:31.280><c> own</c><00:44:31.500><c> husbands</c>

00:44:32.760 --> 00:44:35.079
as<00:44:33.239><c> unto</c><00:44:33.480><c> the</c><00:44:33.699><c> Lord.</c>

00:44:37.159 --> 00:44:40.139
So<00:44:37.320><c> try</c><00:44:37.579><c> thinking</c><00:44:37.880><c> that</c><00:44:38.059><c> your</c><00:44:38.260><c> husband</c><00:44:38.559><c> is</c><00:44:38.900><c> Christ.</c>

00:44:41.480 --> 00:44:43.900
And<00:44:41.840><c> then</c><00:44:42.059><c> see</c><00:44:42.360><c> how</c><00:44:42.739><c> you</c><00:44:42.940><c> would</c><00:44:43.139><c> respond.</c>

00:44:44.039 --> 00:44:44.980
Because<00:44:44.260><c> that's</c><00:44:44.440><c> what</c><00:44:44.579><c> it</c><00:44:44.780><c> is.</c>

00:44:45.000 --> 00:44:46.420
That's<00:44:45.159><c> what</c><00:44:45.239><c> it's</c><00:44:45.480><c> saying.</c>

00:44:47.639 --> 00:44:50.380
Even<00:44:47.920><c> if</c><00:44:48.079><c> your</c><00:44:48.280><c> husband</c><00:44:48.619><c> is</c><00:44:48.860><c> not</c><00:44:49.099><c> baptized,</c>

00:44:50.400 --> 00:44:52.739
try<00:44:50.760><c> thinking</c><00:44:51.199><c> in</c><00:44:51.440><c> those</c><00:44:51.679><c> terms.</c>

00:44:53.239 --> 00:44:56.280
We<00:44:53.460><c> have</c><00:44:53.599><c> only</c><00:44:53.900><c> one</c><00:44:54.159><c> master</c><00:44:54.599><c> and</c><00:44:54.780><c> it</c><00:44:54.900><c> is</c><00:44:55.079><c> Christ</c><00:44:55.500><c> in</c><00:44:55.780><c> everything.</c>

00:44:56.679 --> 00:44:58.300
So<00:44:56.940><c> try</c><00:44:57.159><c> thinking</c><00:44:57.519><c> in</c><00:44:57.699><c> those</c><00:44:57.920><c> terms.</c>

00:44:58.300 --> 00:45:00.420
It<00:44:58.880><c> helps.</c>

00:45:01.340 --> 00:45:03.639
For<00:45:01.400><c> the</c><00:45:01.500><c> husband</c><00:45:01.780><c> is</c><00:45:01.940><c> the</c><00:45:02.059><c> head</c><00:45:02.139><c> of</c><00:45:02.320><c> the</c><00:45:02.420><c> wife,</c>

00:45:05.000 --> 00:45:08.159
even<00:45:05.219><c> as</c><00:45:05.440><c> Christ</c><00:45:05.880><c> is</c><00:45:06.159><c> the</c><00:45:06.320><c> head</c><00:45:06.420><c> of</c><00:45:06.639><c> the</c><00:45:06.739><c> ecclesia.</c>

00:45:10.480 --> 00:45:15.400
And<00:45:11.219><c> he</c><00:45:11.960><c> is</c><00:45:13.239><c> the</c><00:45:13.500><c> savior</c><00:45:13.820><c> of</c><00:45:14.019><c> the</c><00:45:14.159><c> body.</c>

00:45:17.920 --> 00:45:23.719
Now,<00:45:18.380><c> that</c><00:45:18.980><c> to</c><00:45:19.300><c> me</c><00:45:19.820><c> is</c><00:45:20.539><c> my</c><00:45:20.940><c> key</c><00:45:21.420><c> with</c><00:45:22.340><c> my</c><00:45:22.679><c> wife.</c>

00:45:24.960 --> 00:45:28.960
I<00:45:25.639><c> am</c><00:45:25.980><c> responsible</c><00:45:27.039><c> for</c><00:45:27.320><c> her</c><00:45:27.659><c> salvation.</c>

00:45:30.900 --> 00:45:34.940
I<00:45:31.579><c> have</c><00:45:32.000><c> got</c><00:45:32.440><c> to</c><00:45:32.699><c> set</c><00:45:32.880><c> about</c><00:45:33.440><c> as</c><00:45:33.900><c> a</c><00:45:34.159><c> husband</c>

00:45:34.940 --> 00:45:39.039
doing<00:45:35.639><c> those</c><00:45:36.199><c> things</c><00:45:36.840><c> that</c><00:45:37.260><c> will</c><00:45:37.500><c> ensure</c><00:45:38.079><c> her</c><00:45:38.460><c> salvation.</c>

00:45:39.119 --> 00:45:41.460
It<00:45:39.260><c> is</c><00:45:39.420><c> not</c><00:45:39.619><c> lecturing</c><00:45:40.099><c> her</c><00:45:40.500><c> and</c><00:45:40.920><c> finger</c><00:45:41.239><c>-wagging,</c>

00:45:41.480 --> 00:45:42.579
not<00:45:41.619><c> that</c><00:45:41.760><c> at</c><00:45:41.980><c> all.</c>

00:45:42.980 --> 00:45:45.739
It's<00:45:43.300><c> the</c><00:45:43.440><c> kind</c><00:45:43.579><c> of</c><00:45:43.679><c> thing</c><00:45:43.780><c> that</c><00:45:44.039><c> Christ</c><00:45:44.340><c> did</c><00:45:44.820><c> in</c><00:45:45.260><c> order</c><00:45:45.480><c> to</c>

00:45:45.739 --> 00:45:46.400
save<00:45:45.920><c> us.</c>

00:45:46.639 --> 00:45:50.000
I<00:45:46.860><c> have</c><00:45:46.980><c> got</c><00:45:47.099><c> the</c><00:45:47.440><c> support</c><00:45:48.159><c> and</c><00:45:48.739><c> to</c><00:45:48.940><c> help,</c>

00:45:50.559 --> 00:45:52.099
to<00:45:51.079><c> console,</c>

00:45:53.619 --> 00:45:55.960
to<00:45:53.679><c> find</c><00:45:53.840><c> response</c><00:45:54.460><c> in</c><00:45:54.780><c> myself.</c>

00:45:56.199 --> 00:45:58.320
Just<00:45:56.400><c> like</c><00:45:56.900><c> Christ</c><00:45:57.300><c> said</c><00:45:57.500><c> with</c><00:45:57.699><c> the</c><00:45:57.860><c> apostles,</c>

00:45:58.820 --> 00:46:00.920
He<00:45:58.880><c> said,</c><00:45:59.159><c> you</c><00:45:59.179><c> are</c><00:45:59.420><c> they</c><00:45:59.539><c> that</c><00:45:59.679><c> have</c><00:45:59.880><c> continued</c><00:46:00.239><c> with</c><00:46:00.500><c> me</c><00:46:00.719><c> in</c>

00:46:00.920 --> 00:46:01.800
my<00:46:01.179><c> temptations.</c>

00:46:01.940 --> 00:46:03.039
They<00:46:02.199><c> helped</c><00:46:02.500><c> him.</c>

00:46:03.400 --> 00:46:04.619
So<00:46:03.579><c> there's</c><00:46:03.760><c> something</c><00:46:04.059><c> mutual.</c>

00:46:04.880 --> 00:46:09.000
But<00:46:04.960><c> put</c><00:46:05.219><c> your</c><00:46:06.219><c> wife's</c><00:46:07.199><c> salvation</c><00:46:07.579><c> at</c><00:46:07.780><c> the</c><00:46:08.019><c> forefront,</c><00:46:08.480><c> brother.</c>

00:46:09.019 --> 00:46:11.219
It<00:46:09.539><c> will</c><00:46:09.719><c> transform</c><00:46:10.199><c> your</c><00:46:10.380><c> marriage.</c>

00:46:11.500 --> 00:46:13.619
You<00:46:11.679><c> won't</c><00:46:11.840><c> use</c><00:46:12.059><c> those</c><00:46:12.320><c> harsh</c><00:46:12.559><c> words.</c>

00:46:14.019 --> 00:46:15.719
You<00:46:14.239><c> won't</c><00:46:14.440><c> be</c><00:46:14.699><c> brutal</c><00:46:15.000><c> in</c><00:46:15.199><c> any</c><00:46:15.380><c> way.</c>

00:46:16.019 --> 00:46:17.639
You<00:46:16.139><c> won't</c><00:46:16.340><c> be</c><00:46:16.599><c> oppressive</c><00:46:17.000><c> in</c><00:46:17.219><c> any</c><00:46:17.420><c> way.</c>

00:46:17.639 --> 00:46:21.059
How<00:46:17.800><c> can</c><00:46:17.960><c> you</c><00:46:18.119><c> save</c><00:46:18.380><c> somebody</c><00:46:18.840><c> that</c><00:46:19.800><c> you</c><00:46:19.960><c> are</c><00:46:19.960><c> oppressing,</c>

00:46:22.900 --> 00:46:23.780
or<00:46:23.340><c> neglecting,</c>

00:46:24.139 --> 00:46:25.139
forgetting,

00:46:25.780 --> 00:46:26.639
hurting?

00:46:26.960 --> 00:46:28.579
How<00:46:27.159><c> can</c><00:46:27.460><c> we?</c>

00:46:28.920 --> 00:46:31.559
And<00:46:29.019><c> you</c><00:46:29.139><c> only</c><00:46:29.460><c> require</c><00:46:29.679><c> a</c><00:46:29.800><c> little</c><00:46:30.059><c> word</c><00:46:30.260><c> from</c><00:46:30.440><c> a</c><00:46:30.679><c> tongue,</c><00:46:31.039><c> you</c><00:46:31.079><c> know,</c>

00:46:31.659 --> 00:46:33.300
just<00:46:31.840><c> a</c><00:46:32.000><c> little</c><00:46:32.260><c> word.</c>

00:46:33.440 --> 00:46:34.679
You've<00:46:33.559><c> only</c><00:46:33.639><c> got</c><00:46:33.719><c> to</c><00:46:33.880><c> say</c><00:46:34.039><c> one</c><00:46:34.179><c> little</c><00:46:34.480><c> word,</c>

00:46:35.119 --> 00:46:37.599
and<00:46:35.559><c> a</c><00:46:35.820><c> person</c><00:46:36.079><c> is</c><00:46:36.340><c> totally</c><00:46:36.739><c> shattered.</c>

00:46:38.480 --> 00:46:40.139
You<00:46:38.639><c> may</c><00:46:38.840><c> say,</c><00:46:39.179><c> I</c><00:46:39.440><c> will,</c><00:46:39.699><c> you</c><00:46:39.880><c> like,</c>

00:46:40.239 --> 00:46:42.480
and<00:46:40.340><c> then</c><00:46:40.440><c> you</c><00:46:40.599><c> mention</c><00:46:40.800><c> somebody</c><00:46:41.099><c> else</c><00:46:41.280><c> in</c><00:46:41.400><c> the</c><00:46:41.559><c> family.</c>

00:46:42.840 --> 00:46:46.460
And<00:46:43.059><c> that</c><00:46:43.280><c> shatters</c><00:46:43.719><c> the</c><00:46:44.360><c> person,</c><00:46:44.739><c> husband</c><00:46:44.940><c> or</c><00:46:45.139><c> wife,</c><00:46:45.420><c> doesn't</c><00:46:45.619><c> it?</c>

00:46:46.460 --> 00:46:48.960
That's<00:46:47.059><c> the</c><00:46:47.139><c> thing</c><00:46:47.219><c> they</c><00:46:47.400><c> might</c><00:46:47.480><c> have</c><00:46:47.579><c> been</c><00:46:47.860><c> fearing.</c>

00:46:49.260 --> 00:46:50.860
And<00:46:49.420><c> now</c><00:46:49.559><c> you've</c><00:46:49.820><c> said</c><00:46:50.019><c> it.</c>

00:46:51.139 --> 00:46:52.659
And<00:46:51.320><c> all</c><00:46:51.519><c> the</c><00:46:51.739><c> bits</c><00:46:51.920><c> are</c><00:46:52.079><c> on</c><00:46:52.199><c> the</c><00:46:52.480><c> floor.</c>

00:46:52.679 --> 00:46:54.880
How<00:46:52.840><c> can</c><00:46:52.920><c> you</c><00:46:53.019><c> put</c><00:46:53.179><c> them</c><00:46:53.320><c> all</c><00:46:53.480><c> together</c><00:46:53.800><c> again?</c>

00:46:55.840 --> 00:46:57.320
We've<00:46:56.019><c> just</c><00:46:56.139><c> got</c><00:46:56.239><c> to</c><00:46:56.420><c> learn</c><00:46:56.659><c> how</c><00:46:56.920><c> to</c><00:46:57.179><c> hold.</c>

00:46:57.360 --> 00:46:58.940
We're<00:46:57.599><c> all</c><00:46:58.039><c> frail</c><00:46:58.460><c> vessels.</c>

00:46:59.139 --> 00:47:00.739
We<00:46:59.400><c> need</c><00:46:59.739><c> help.</c>

00:47:01.019 --> 00:47:02.739
Then<00:47:01.199><c> it's</c><00:47:01.420><c> the</c><00:47:01.579><c> salvation</c><00:47:02.079><c> of</c><00:47:02.320><c> one</c><00:47:02.500><c> another</c>

00:47:02.739 --> 00:47:04.360
that<00:47:02.900><c> we've</c><00:47:03.139><c> got</c><00:47:03.260><c> to</c><00:47:03.460><c> seek,</c><00:47:03.719><c> brother</c><00:47:03.860><c> and</c><00:47:04.099><c> sisters.</c>

00:47:04.579 --> 00:47:06.440
It<00:47:04.940><c> transforms</c><00:47:05.840><c> marriage</c>

00:47:06.440 --> 00:47:09.360
if<00:47:06.860><c> we</c><00:47:07.159><c> set</c><00:47:07.400><c> out</c><00:47:07.599><c> for</c><00:47:07.780><c> each</c><00:47:07.980><c> other's</c><00:47:08.440><c> salvation.</c>

00:47:10.780 --> 00:47:12.599
It<00:47:11.219><c> really</c><00:47:11.619><c> does.</c>

00:47:13.219 --> 00:47:14.739
And<00:47:13.380><c> so</c><00:47:13.500><c> husbands,</c>

00:47:15.199 --> 00:47:16.340
therefore<00:47:15.880><c> it</c><00:47:16.159><c> says,</c>

00:47:16.699 --> 00:47:18.880
as<00:47:16.699><c> the</c><00:47:17.300><c> Ecclesia</c><00:47:17.599><c> is</c><00:47:17.900><c> subject</c><00:47:18.099><c> to</c><00:47:18.400><c> Christ,</c>

00:47:19.000 --> 00:47:22.960
so<00:47:19.340><c> let</c><00:47:19.599><c> the</c><00:47:19.860><c> wives</c><00:47:20.079><c> be</c><00:47:20.440><c> to</c><00:47:20.679><c> their</c><00:47:21.000><c> own</c><00:47:21.380><c> husbands</c><00:47:21.780><c> in</c><00:47:22.059><c> everything.</c>

00:47:23.179 --> 00:47:26.519
And<00:47:23.300><c> husbands</c><00:47:23.760><c> love</c><00:47:24.840><c> your</c><00:47:25.179><c> wives.</c>

00:47:27.579 --> 00:47:31.659
How<00:47:27.960><c> even</c><00:47:28.380><c> as</c><00:47:28.599><c> Christ</c><00:47:29.239><c> also</c><00:47:29.940><c> loved</c><00:47:30.320><c> the</c><00:47:30.539><c> Ecclesia</c>

00:47:33.320 --> 00:47:35.579
and<00:47:34.000><c> gave</c><00:47:34.440><c> himself</c><00:47:35.000><c> for</c><00:47:35.340><c> it,</c>

00:47:35.659 --> 00:47:38.019
that's<00:47:35.960><c> what</c><00:47:36.139><c> the</c><00:47:36.340><c> husband's</c><00:47:36.639><c> got</c><00:47:36.760><c> to</c><00:47:36.960><c> do.</c>

00:47:39.460 --> 00:47:42.420
He's<00:47:39.719><c> got</c><00:47:39.820><c> to</c><00:47:40.199><c> give</c><00:47:40.480><c> himself</c><00:47:41.079><c> for</c><00:47:41.320><c> his</c><00:47:41.539><c> wife.</c>

00:47:44.659 --> 00:47:46.679
Now<00:47:45.019><c> these</c><00:47:45.280><c> are</c><00:47:45.420><c> the</c><00:47:45.480><c> ways</c><00:47:45.659><c> that</c><00:47:45.860><c> marriage</c><00:47:46.039><c> is</c><00:47:46.219><c> held</c><00:47:46.340><c> together.</c>

00:47:46.820 --> 00:47:49.559
All<00:47:47.099><c> the</c><00:47:47.219><c> things</c><00:47:47.440><c> that,</c><00:47:47.860><c> you</c><00:47:48.019><c> know,</c><00:47:48.559><c> knock</c><00:47:48.679><c> them</c><00:47:48.880><c> apart.</c>

00:47:49.880 --> 00:47:52.239
They<00:47:50.000><c> seem</c><00:47:50.139><c> to</c><00:47:50.219><c> be</c><00:47:50.380><c> miles</c><00:47:50.719><c> away</c><00:47:50.940><c> now,</c><00:47:51.179><c> don't</c><00:47:51.360><c> they?</c>

00:47:52.880 --> 00:47:53.599
And<00:47:53.000><c> they</c><00:47:53.219><c> are.</c>

00:47:53.639 --> 00:47:55.340
And<00:47:53.800><c> these</c><00:47:53.940><c> are</c><00:47:54.079><c> the</c><00:47:54.199><c> ways</c><00:47:54.420><c> to</c><00:47:54.579><c> hold</c><00:47:54.780><c> them</c><00:47:55.019><c> together.</c>

00:47:55.519 --> 00:47:58.699
This<00:47:55.639><c> is</c><00:47:55.780><c> how</c><00:47:55.960><c> marriage</c><00:47:56.440><c> is</c><00:47:56.860><c> held</c><00:47:57.059><c> together</c><00:47:57.420><c> in</c><00:47:57.599><c> the</c><00:47:57.860><c> truth.</c>

00:47:59.400 --> 00:48:02.460
It's<00:47:59.579><c> not</c><00:47:59.840><c> by,</c><00:48:00.400><c> what</c><00:48:00.519><c> am</c><00:48:00.699><c> I</c><00:48:00.780><c> going</c><00:48:00.940><c> to</c><00:48:01.039><c> get</c><00:48:01.159><c> out</c><00:48:01.380><c> of</c><00:48:01.500><c> it</c><00:48:01.659><c> then?</c>

00:48:03.380 --> 00:48:05.519
That's<00:48:03.739><c> the</c><00:48:04.019><c> breakdown</c><00:48:04.519><c> marriage,</c><00:48:04.940><c> isn't</c><00:48:05.119><c> it?</c>

00:48:05.880 --> 00:48:08.039
It's<00:48:06.019><c> what</c><00:48:06.079><c> am</c><00:48:06.239><c> I</c><00:48:06.320><c> going</c><00:48:06.420><c> to</c><00:48:06.539><c> put</c><00:48:06.639><c> into</c><00:48:06.940><c> it?</c>

00:48:08.519 --> 00:48:10.599
That's<00:48:08.860><c> the</c><00:48:08.980><c> marriage</c><00:48:09.099><c> that's</c><00:48:09.260><c> going</c><00:48:09.440><c> to</c><00:48:09.619><c> endure.</c>

00:48:11.139 --> 00:48:12.739
Every<00:48:11.659><c> marriage</c><00:48:12.039><c> has</c><00:48:12.320><c> problems.</c>

00:48:13.039 --> 00:48:16.340
Every<00:48:13.559><c> marriage</c><00:48:14.039><c> has</c><00:48:14.380><c> problems</c><00:48:14.699><c> because</c><00:48:15.019><c> we</c><00:48:15.219><c> are</c><00:48:15.340><c> human.</c>

00:48:16.599 --> 00:48:18.739
And<00:48:16.760><c> there</c><00:48:16.900><c> are</c><00:48:16.980><c> two</c><00:48:17.239><c> humans</c><00:48:17.599><c> together.</c>

00:48:18.780 --> 00:48:20.380
That's<00:48:19.119><c> twice</c><00:48:19.300><c> as</c><00:48:19.480><c> many.</c>

00:48:21.000 --> 00:48:22.619
And<00:48:21.199><c> so</c><00:48:21.300><c> now</c><00:48:21.559><c> we've</c><00:48:21.739><c> got</c><00:48:21.860><c> it</c><00:48:21.980><c> with</c><00:48:22.079><c> our</c><00:48:22.320><c> problems,</c>

00:48:22.679 --> 00:48:23.820
we've<00:48:22.800><c> got</c><00:48:22.860><c> to</c><00:48:23.079><c> overcome</c><00:48:23.440><c> them.</c>

00:48:23.880 --> 00:48:25.820
And<00:48:24.079><c> we</c><00:48:24.159><c> do</c><00:48:24.239><c> it</c><00:48:24.340><c> by</c><00:48:24.599><c> prayer</c><00:48:25.000><c> and</c><00:48:25.139><c> by</c><00:48:25.500><c> talking</c>

00:48:25.820 --> 00:48:28.639
and<00:48:25.980><c> by</c><00:48:26.260><c> understanding</c><00:48:26.860><c> and</c><00:48:27.059><c> by</c><00:48:27.340><c> working</c><00:48:27.639><c> out.</c>

00:48:29.099 --> 00:48:30.880
And<00:48:29.219><c> husbands'</c><00:48:30.019><c> wives</c><00:48:30.199><c> from</c><00:48:30.480><c> time</c><00:48:30.599><c> to</c><00:48:30.679><c> time</c>

00:48:30.880 --> 00:48:33.420
need<00:48:31.099><c> just</c><00:48:31.460><c> taking</c><00:48:31.699><c> out</c><00:48:32.119><c> of</c><00:48:32.280><c> the</c><00:48:32.480><c> home.</c>

00:48:33.739 --> 00:48:35.500
She's<00:48:34.039><c> been</c><00:48:34.440><c> there.</c>

00:48:35.920 --> 00:48:37.960
And<00:48:36.099><c> she</c><00:48:36.179><c> needs</c><00:48:36.380><c> taking</c><00:48:36.699><c> out</c><00:48:37.139><c> to</c><00:48:37.340><c> another</c><00:48:37.519><c> place</c>

00:48:37.960 --> 00:48:40.179
just<00:48:38.260><c> now</c><00:48:38.579><c> and</c><00:48:38.820><c> again</c><00:48:39.159><c> in</c><00:48:39.420><c> some</c><00:48:39.739><c> way</c>

00:48:40.179 --> 00:48:42.460
so<00:48:40.579><c> that</c><00:48:41.340><c> everything</c><00:48:41.579><c> is</c><00:48:41.940><c> changed.</c>

00:48:42.519 --> 00:48:44.360
We<00:48:42.679><c> all</c><00:48:43.000><c> need</c><00:48:43.280><c> it.</c>

00:48:44.380 --> 00:48:45.880
We<00:48:44.539><c> need</c><00:48:44.679><c> that</c><00:48:44.860><c> special</c><00:48:45.139><c> kind</c><00:48:45.440><c> of</c><00:48:45.679><c> love.</c>

00:48:46.280 --> 00:48:49.139
And<00:48:46.460><c> sisters</c><00:48:46.679><c> don't</c><00:48:47.199><c> think</c><00:48:47.719><c> that</c><00:48:48.000><c> if</c><00:48:48.099><c> you</c><00:48:48.239><c> are</c><00:48:48.400><c> a</c><00:48:48.539><c> sister</c>

00:48:49.139 --> 00:48:51.679
not<00:48:49.780><c> with</c><00:48:50.019><c> some</c><00:48:50.219><c> career,</c><00:48:51.300><c> you</c><00:48:51.659><c> know,</c>

00:48:51.679 --> 00:48:53.940
you're<00:48:52.159><c> not</c><00:48:52.519><c> there</c><00:48:52.880><c> in</c><00:48:53.260><c> the</c><00:48:53.380><c> office</c><00:48:53.679><c> now.</c>

00:48:53.960 --> 00:48:56.739
You're<00:48:54.219><c> managing</c><00:48:54.500><c> a</c><00:48:54.659><c> little</c><00:48:54.860><c> section</c><00:48:55.219><c> and</c><00:48:55.500><c> you're</c><00:48:56.099><c> a</c><00:48:56.320><c> career</c><00:48:56.559><c> woman.</c>

00:48:56.860 --> 00:48:58.440
You've<00:48:56.900><c> got</c><00:48:57.000><c> everything</c><00:48:57.340><c> going</c><00:48:57.639><c> for</c><00:48:57.820><c> you.</c>

00:48:58.579 --> 00:49:01.039
And<00:48:58.719><c> the</c><00:48:58.860><c> boss</c><00:48:59.059><c> says</c><00:48:59.239><c> you're</c><00:48:59.619><c> bright</c><00:48:59.820><c> moreover.</c>

00:49:01.099 --> 00:49:03.840
And<00:49:01.360><c> he</c><00:49:01.440><c> gives</c><00:49:01.500><c> you</c><00:49:01.639><c> that</c><00:49:01.860><c> kind</c><00:49:02.079><c> of</c><00:49:02.260><c> look</c><00:49:02.380><c> that</c><00:49:03.400><c> tells</c><00:49:03.659><c> you</c>

00:49:03.840 --> 00:49:04.780
that<00:49:03.960><c> he</c><00:49:04.079><c> thinks</c><00:49:04.199><c> you're</c><00:49:04.400><c> bright.</c>

00:49:04.780 --> 00:49:07.539
And<00:49:05.440><c> perhaps</c><00:49:05.679><c> a</c><00:49:05.820><c> little</c><00:49:06.000><c> more.</c>

00:49:10.619 --> 00:49:15.480
And<00:49:11.260><c> there</c><00:49:11.900><c> is</c><00:49:12.079><c> somebody</c><00:49:12.320><c> else</c><00:49:12.659><c> that's</c><00:49:14.099><c> at</c><00:49:14.280><c> home</c>

00:49:15.780 --> 00:49:18.780
just<00:49:16.239><c> with</c><00:49:17.079><c> two</c><00:49:17.340><c> children,</c>

00:49:19.539 --> 00:49:20.820
changing<00:49:19.659><c> diapers</c>

00:49:21.619 --> 00:49:24.400
and<00:49:22.260><c> a</c><00:49:22.539><c> stacker</c><00:49:22.880><c> washing</c><00:49:23.099><c> up.</c>

00:49:25.179 --> 00:49:27.460
And<00:49:25.300><c> the</c><00:49:25.420><c> floor</c><00:49:25.679><c> needs</c><00:49:25.920><c> cleaning,</c><00:49:26.420><c> all</c><00:49:26.699><c> these</c><00:49:27.000><c> menial...</c>

00:49:27.460 --> 00:49:29.960
And<00:49:28.420><c> my</c><00:49:28.599><c> sister's</c><00:49:29.000><c> there</c><00:49:29.199><c> in</c><00:49:29.360><c> this</c><00:49:29.519><c> office,</c>

00:49:30.199 --> 00:49:32.420
marvellous,<00:49:31.440><c> selling</c><00:49:31.860><c> and</c><00:49:32.219><c> doing.</c>

00:49:32.619 --> 00:49:33.280
It's<00:49:32.699><c> wonderful.</c>

00:49:33.280 --> 00:49:39.539
And<00:49:33.940><c> here</c><00:49:34.119><c> am</c><00:49:34.300><c> I</c><00:49:34.420><c> with</c><00:49:34.599><c> this</c><00:49:36.500><c> humdrum</c><00:49:37.159><c> menial</c><00:49:38.519><c> task.</c>

00:49:40.420 --> 00:49:42.440
Just<00:49:40.760><c> shake</c><00:49:40.920><c> it</c><00:49:41.099><c> out</c><00:49:41.179><c> of</c><00:49:41.300><c> your</c><00:49:41.480><c> head.</c>

00:49:43.659 --> 00:49:45.400
You've<00:49:43.880><c> got</c><00:49:44.000><c> the</c><00:49:44.119><c> better</c><00:49:44.300><c> job.</c>

00:49:48.239 --> 00:49:50.239
It<00:49:48.380><c> isn't</c><00:49:48.639><c> the</c><00:49:48.840><c> cups</c><00:49:49.039><c> and</c><00:49:49.280><c> sauces,</c><00:49:49.780><c> is</c><00:49:49.780><c> it?</c>

00:49:50.420 --> 00:49:51.539
And<00:49:50.639><c> it</c><00:49:50.639><c> isn't</c><00:49:50.820><c> the</c><00:49:51.079><c> diapers.</c>

00:49:51.980 --> 00:49:53.659
And<00:49:52.119><c> it's</c><00:49:52.280><c> not</c><00:49:52.420><c> the</c><00:49:52.679><c> floor.</c>

00:49:53.780 --> 00:49:55.519
It's<00:49:54.000><c> the</c><00:49:54.119><c> fact</c><00:49:54.260><c> that</c><00:49:54.400><c> these</c><00:49:54.619><c> are</c><00:49:54.760><c> your</c><00:49:55.039><c> children</c>

00:49:55.519 --> 00:49:58.079
by<00:49:56.000><c> your</c><00:49:56.280><c> husband,</c><00:49:57.039><c> in</c><00:49:57.280><c> your</c><00:49:57.599><c> home.</c>

00:49:58.500 --> 00:50:01.139
And<00:49:58.739><c> that</c><00:49:58.860><c> you</c><00:49:59.019><c> have</c><00:49:59.199><c> an</c><00:49:59.320><c> opportunity</c><00:49:59.840><c> to</c><00:50:00.039><c> talk</c><00:50:00.260><c> to</c><00:50:00.420><c> your</c><00:50:00.760><c> children</c>

00:50:01.139 --> 00:50:03.880
about<00:50:01.619><c> everlasting</c><00:50:02.559><c> life.</c>

00:50:03.940 --> 00:50:05.659
Your<00:50:04.019><c> sister</c><00:50:04.159><c> can't</c><00:50:04.460><c> do</c><00:50:04.619><c> that.</c>

00:50:06.519 --> 00:50:08.679
You've<00:50:06.679><c> got</c><00:50:06.800><c> this</c><00:50:07.179><c> marvellous</c><00:50:07.679><c> privilege.</c>

00:50:09.059 --> 00:50:10.440
And<00:50:09.179><c> moreover,</c><00:50:09.480><c> when</c><00:50:09.659><c> your</c><00:50:09.920><c> children</c><00:50:10.139><c> cry,</c>

00:50:10.559 --> 00:50:13.320
they<00:50:10.579><c> can</c><00:50:10.780><c> come</c><00:50:10.960><c> run</c><00:50:11.099><c> straight</c><00:50:11.400><c> in</c><00:50:11.559><c> and</c><00:50:11.719><c> there</c><00:50:11.900><c> you</c><00:50:12.179><c> are.</c>

00:50:14.360 --> 00:50:16.260
And<00:50:14.539><c> when</c><00:50:14.639><c> your</c><00:50:14.760><c> husband</c><00:50:14.980><c> comes,</c><00:50:15.199><c> there</c><00:50:15.420><c> you</c><00:50:15.719><c> are.</c>

00:50:16.760 --> 00:50:18.159
And<00:50:16.900><c> right</c><00:50:17.039><c> away</c><00:50:17.239><c> there's</c><00:50:17.460><c> a</c><00:50:17.599><c> response.</c>

00:50:18.440 --> 00:50:21.099
You're<00:50:18.699><c> the</c><00:50:19.000><c> centre</c><00:50:19.659><c> of</c><00:50:20.579><c> stability.</c>

00:50:21.219 --> 00:50:23.360
You've<00:50:21.619><c> made</c><00:50:21.880><c> that</c><00:50:22.159><c> house</c><00:50:22.519><c> into</c><00:50:22.800><c> a</c><00:50:23.000><c> home.</c>

00:50:23.699 --> 00:50:25.460
You've<00:50:23.860><c> made</c><00:50:23.980><c> it</c><00:50:24.139><c> your</c><00:50:24.400><c> nest.</c>

00:50:25.719 --> 00:50:28.500
And<00:50:25.860><c> there</c><00:50:26.000><c> are</c><00:50:26.119><c> rooms</c><00:50:26.340><c> in</c><00:50:26.500><c> it,</c><00:50:27.480><c> as</c><00:50:27.659><c> there</c><00:50:27.840><c> was</c><00:50:27.920><c> in</c><00:50:28.079><c> the</c><00:50:28.320><c> ark.</c>

00:50:28.619 --> 00:50:30.139
And<00:50:28.800><c> you</c><00:50:28.860><c> know</c><00:50:29.000><c> the</c><00:50:29.119><c> word</c><00:50:29.239><c> for</c><00:50:29.460><c> rooms</c><00:50:29.639><c> in</c><00:50:29.840><c> the</c><00:50:30.000><c> ark?</c>

00:50:30.139 --> 00:50:30.880
It's<00:50:30.360><c> nests.</c>

00:50:31.000 --> 00:50:32.639
It<00:50:31.119><c> is</c><00:50:31.340><c> the</c><00:50:31.460><c> word</c><00:50:31.639><c> nests</c><00:50:32.019><c> in</c><00:50:32.199><c> the</c><00:50:32.420><c> ark.</c>

00:50:32.820 --> 00:50:34.980
You<00:50:32.960><c> have</c><00:50:33.039><c> a</c><00:50:33.119><c> look</c><00:50:33.679><c> and</c><00:50:34.619><c> check</c><00:50:34.840><c> it.</c>

00:50:35.079 --> 00:50:36.760
Every<00:50:35.219><c> sister</c><00:50:35.519><c> is</c><00:50:35.719><c> able</c><00:50:35.880><c> to</c><00:50:36.019><c> do</c><00:50:36.099><c> that</c><00:50:36.280><c> with</c><00:50:36.460><c> a</c><00:50:36.599><c> home.</c>

00:50:36.760 --> 00:50:39.000
She<00:50:36.920><c> makes</c><00:50:37.139><c> nests</c><00:50:37.739><c> for</c><00:50:38.340><c> all</c><00:50:38.559><c> of</c><00:50:38.659><c> us.</c>

00:50:39.400 --> 00:50:40.820
And<00:50:39.619><c> they're</c><00:50:39.780><c> marvellous,</c><00:50:40.480><c> aren't</c><00:50:40.619><c> they?</c>

00:50:40.940 --> 00:50:41.579
Wonderful<00:50:41.320><c> things.</c>

00:50:41.739 --> 00:50:43.679
Husbands<00:50:41.820><c> are</c><00:50:42.019><c> hopeless</c><00:50:42.320><c> at</c><00:50:42.539><c> it.</c>

00:50:44.619 --> 00:50:45.059
You<00:50:44.760><c> know?</c>

00:50:45.260 --> 00:50:46.599
Absolutely<00:50:45.639><c> hopeless.</c>

00:50:47.159 --> 00:50:48.000
But<00:50:47.519><c> there</c><00:50:47.699><c> you</c><00:50:47.820><c> are.</c>

00:50:48.039 --> 00:50:49.920
Wives<00:50:48.239><c> are</c><00:50:48.420><c> able</c><00:50:48.500><c> to</c><00:50:48.639><c> do</c><00:50:48.800><c> this</c><00:50:49.199><c> marvellous</c><00:50:49.760><c> thing.</c>

00:50:49.980 --> 00:50:54.059
Well,<00:50:50.239><c> there's</c><00:50:51.019><c> our</c><00:50:51.340><c> time</c><00:50:51.920><c> almost</c><00:50:53.019><c> gone.</c>

00:50:55.099 --> 00:50:57.900
It<00:50:55.659><c> has</c><00:50:55.920><c> gone,</c><00:50:56.139><c> but</c><00:50:56.219><c> I</c><00:50:56.219><c> mean</c><00:50:56.320><c> it's</c><00:50:56.559><c> almost</c><00:50:56.820><c> gone.</c>

00:51:00.280 --> 00:51:06.260
And<00:51:00.360><c> so</c><00:51:00.519><c> it</c><00:51:00.659><c> says</c><00:51:01.059><c> that</c><00:51:01.340><c> he</c><00:51:01.460><c> might</c><00:51:01.760><c> sanctify</c><00:51:03.219><c> and</c><00:51:04.940><c> cleanse</c><00:51:05.559><c> it.</c>

00:51:06.400 --> 00:51:07.659
Notice<00:51:06.679><c> that.</c>

00:51:07.699 --> 00:51:10.019
That's<00:51:08.000><c> got</c><00:51:08.099><c> to</c><00:51:08.239><c> happen</c><00:51:08.360><c> to</c><00:51:08.559><c> every</c><00:51:08.760><c> marriage</c>

00:51:11.800 --> 00:51:14.400
with<00:51:12.360><c> the</c><00:51:12.559><c> washing</c><00:51:12.820><c> of</c><00:51:13.159><c> water</c><00:51:13.500><c> by</c><00:51:13.780><c> the</c><00:51:14.099><c> word.</c>

00:51:14.480 --> 00:51:17.059
Every<00:51:14.880><c> marriage</c><00:51:15.280><c> needs</c><00:51:15.659><c> cleansing.</c>

00:51:19.940 --> 00:51:22.139
And<00:51:20.139><c> Christ</c><00:51:20.340><c> is</c><00:51:20.599><c> doing</c><00:51:20.800><c> that</c><00:51:21.239><c> in</c><00:51:21.519><c> our</c><00:51:21.760><c> marriage.</c>

00:51:22.139 --> 00:51:25.019
If<00:51:22.300><c> we</c><00:51:22.500><c> ask</c><00:51:22.920><c> him</c><00:51:23.079><c> to</c><00:51:23.300><c> do</c><00:51:23.460><c> it</c><00:51:23.639><c> and</c><00:51:23.719><c> we've</c><00:51:24.000><c> got</c><00:51:24.139><c> the</c><00:51:24.400><c> word</c><00:51:24.659><c> of</c><00:51:24.880><c> God</c>

00:51:25.019 --> 00:51:25.820
at<00:51:25.199><c> the</c><00:51:25.420><c> centre</c>

00:51:25.820 --> 00:51:29.440
and<00:51:26.340><c> we</c><00:51:26.480><c> are</c><00:51:26.780><c> prayerful,</c><00:51:27.960><c> then</c><00:51:28.099><c> our</c><00:51:28.340><c> marriage</c><00:51:28.539><c> will</c><00:51:28.739><c> be</c><00:51:28.980><c> cleansed.</c>

00:51:29.480 --> 00:51:31.980
All<00:51:29.739><c> our</c><00:51:30.019><c> difficulties</c><00:51:30.440><c> will</c><00:51:30.780><c> go</c><00:51:31.199><c> away.</c>

00:51:32.440 --> 00:51:34.380
They'll<00:51:32.659><c> be</c><00:51:32.980><c> removed</c><00:51:33.460><c> by</c><00:51:33.699><c> the</c><00:51:33.940><c> process</c>

00:51:34.380 --> 00:51:39.139
which<00:51:34.639><c> is</c><00:51:35.719><c> absolutely</c><00:51:36.260><c> 100</c><00:51:36.619><c>%</c><00:51:37.119><c> certain</c><00:51:37.539><c> it's</c><00:51:38.519><c> Christ</c>

00:51:39.139 --> 00:51:42.380
that<00:51:39.619><c> he</c><00:51:39.760><c> might</c><00:51:40.019><c> present</c><00:51:40.400><c> it</c><00:51:41.480><c> to</c><00:51:41.840><c> himself</c>

00:51:42.380 --> 00:51:47.239
a<00:51:42.760><c> glorious</c><00:51:44.039><c> ecclesia,</c><00:51:45.139><c> not</c><00:51:45.380><c> having</c><00:51:45.719><c> spot</c><00:51:46.199><c> or</c><00:51:46.579><c> wrinkle</c><00:51:46.980><c> or</c>

00:51:47.239 --> 00:51:48.940
any<00:51:47.539><c> such</c><00:51:47.840><c> thing.</c>

00:51:49.860 --> 00:51:52.940
But<00:51:50.340><c> it</c><00:51:50.500><c> should</c><00:51:50.719><c> be</c><00:51:50.980><c> holy</c><00:51:51.199><c> and</c><00:51:51.840><c> without</c><00:51:52.179><c> blemish.</c>

00:51:53.219 --> 00:51:55.119
Now<00:51:53.360><c> every</c><00:51:53.500><c> husband</c><00:51:53.820><c> should</c><00:51:54.159><c> set</c><00:51:54.380><c> about</c>

00:51:55.219 --> 00:51:58.199
seeing<00:51:55.699><c> that</c><00:51:55.920><c> that's</c><00:51:56.099><c> what</c><00:51:56.159><c> he's</c><00:51:56.460><c> seeking</c><00:51:56.739><c> to</c><00:51:56.940><c> do</c><00:51:57.000><c> with</c><00:51:57.179><c> his</c><00:51:57.380><c> wife.</c>

00:51:58.340 --> 00:51:59.880
That<00:51:58.460><c> that's</c><00:51:58.639><c> how</c><00:51:58.800><c> he</c><00:51:59.019><c> regards</c><00:51:59.619><c> her.</c>

00:51:59.900 --> 00:52:02.119
That's<00:52:00.119><c> how</c><00:52:00.280><c> Christ</c><00:52:00.579><c> sees</c><00:52:00.840><c> the</c><00:52:01.079><c> ecclesia.</c>

00:52:03.199 --> 00:52:05.619
What<00:52:03.360><c> he's</c><00:52:03.539><c> doing</c><00:52:03.719><c> is</c><00:52:03.940><c> taking</c><00:52:04.159><c> it</c><00:52:04.340><c> to</c><00:52:04.519><c> that</c><00:52:04.820><c> condition,</c><00:52:05.340><c> that</c>

00:52:05.619 --> 00:52:06.539
moment<00:52:05.940><c> of</c><00:52:06.219><c> time.</c>

00:52:06.800 --> 00:52:08.519
Now<00:52:06.900><c> we</c><00:52:07.000><c> should</c><00:52:07.139><c> be</c><00:52:07.380><c> doing</c><00:52:07.599><c> that</c><00:52:07.739><c> in</c><00:52:07.960><c> our</c><00:52:08.159><c> marriage.</c>

00:52:08.900 --> 00:52:11.019
Each<00:52:09.179><c> of</c><00:52:09.320><c> us</c><00:52:09.440><c> should</c><00:52:09.599><c> be</c><00:52:09.860><c> contributing</c><00:52:10.199><c> this</c><00:52:10.539><c> way.</c>

00:52:11.280 --> 00:52:16.179
And<00:52:11.619><c> so</c><00:52:12.420><c> men</c><00:52:12.960><c> ought</c><00:52:13.199><c> to</c><00:52:13.380><c> love</c><00:52:13.519><c> their</c><00:52:13.800><c> wives</c><00:52:14.380><c> as</c><00:52:15.079><c> their</c><00:52:15.280><c> own</c><00:52:15.619><c> bodies.</c>

00:52:16.179 --> 00:52:19.340
He<00:52:16.820><c> that</c><00:52:17.059><c> loveth</c><00:52:17.300><c> his</c><00:52:18.039><c> wife</c><00:52:18.380><c> loveth</c><00:52:18.659><c> himself,</c>

00:52:19.519 --> 00:52:22.079
for<00:52:19.599><c> no</c><00:52:19.840><c> man</c><00:52:19.980><c> ever</c><00:52:20.219><c> yet</c><00:52:20.420><c> hated</c><00:52:20.679><c> his</c><00:52:20.900><c> own</c><00:52:21.139><c> flesh.</c>

00:52:22.139 --> 00:52:23.019
So<00:52:22.280><c> there's</c><00:52:22.579><c> the</c><00:52:22.760><c> set</c><00:52:22.920><c> up.</c>

00:52:23.079 --> 00:52:23.880
And<00:52:23.159><c> then</c><00:52:23.320><c> Paul</c><00:52:23.539><c> says,</c>

00:52:24.320 --> 00:52:27.019
and<00:52:24.320><c> you</c><00:52:24.599><c> thought</c><00:52:24.860><c> I</c><00:52:25.059><c> was</c><00:52:25.260><c> talking</c><00:52:25.579><c> about</c><00:52:25.920><c> marriage,</c><00:52:26.440><c> didn't</c><00:52:26.579><c> you?</c>

00:52:27.320 --> 00:52:29.440
And<00:52:27.480><c> I</c><00:52:27.619><c> wasn't.</c><00:52:27.960><c> He</c><00:52:28.039><c> said</c><00:52:28.159><c> I</c><00:52:28.239><c> was</c><00:52:28.460><c> talking</c><00:52:28.639><c> about</c><00:52:28.900><c> Christ</c><00:52:29.260><c> in</c>

00:52:29.440 --> 00:52:30.119
the<00:52:29.639><c> ecclesia.</c>

00:52:30.619 --> 00:52:32.460
That's<00:52:30.780><c> what</c><00:52:30.840><c> he</c><00:52:31.039><c> says,</c><00:52:31.300><c> isn't</c><00:52:31.420><c> it?</c>

00:52:33.420 --> 00:52:35.380
When<00:52:33.539><c> he</c><00:52:33.599><c> gets</c><00:52:33.760><c> down</c><00:52:33.940><c> to</c><00:52:34.039><c> verse</c><00:52:34.199><c> 32.</c>

00:52:36.519 --> 00:52:40.659
In<00:52:36.619><c> other</c><00:52:36.800><c> words,</c><00:52:37.099><c> marriage</c><00:52:37.739><c> is</c><00:52:38.599><c> modelled</c><00:52:39.000><c> on</c><00:52:39.199><c> the</c><00:52:39.440><c> ecclesia.</c>

00:52:41.079 --> 00:52:42.599
That's<00:52:41.559><c> where</c><00:52:41.659><c> it's</c><00:52:41.920><c> modelled.</c>

00:52:42.840 --> 00:52:45.260
So<00:52:43.119><c> that</c><00:52:43.239><c> whatever</c><00:52:43.460><c> our</c><00:52:43.860><c> parts</c><00:52:44.199><c> in</c><00:52:44.539><c> life</c><00:52:44.840><c> are</c>

00:52:45.260 --> 00:52:48.079
and<00:52:45.579><c> all</c><00:52:45.739><c> of</c><00:52:45.820><c> us</c><00:52:45.920><c> have</c><00:52:46.079><c> different</c><00:52:46.500><c> parts</c><00:52:46.900><c> in</c><00:52:47.199><c> life,</c>

00:52:48.159 --> 00:52:50.760
things<00:52:48.420><c> to</c><00:52:48.760><c> do</c><00:52:49.159><c> in</c><00:52:49.559><c> the</c><00:52:49.760><c> ecclesia</c><00:52:50.059><c> and</c><00:52:50.300><c> elsewhere,</c>

00:52:50.980 --> 00:52:54.320
we've<00:52:51.260><c> got</c><00:52:51.340><c> to</c><00:52:51.599><c> strike</c><00:52:51.780><c> a</c><00:52:52.059><c> balance</c><00:52:52.579><c> in</c><00:52:53.099><c> the</c><00:52:53.380><c> time</c><00:52:53.619><c> that</c><00:52:53.760><c> we</c><00:52:53.940><c> devote</c><00:52:54.119><c> to</c>

00:52:54.320 --> 00:52:54.900
our<00:52:54.500><c> family,</c>

00:52:55.139 --> 00:52:57.099
the<00:52:55.400><c> time</c><00:52:55.699><c> that</c><00:52:55.840><c> we</c><00:52:56.000><c> devote</c><00:52:56.219><c> to</c><00:52:56.400><c> the</c><00:52:56.579><c> ecclesia.</c>

00:52:57.260 --> 00:52:58.579
We've<00:52:57.599><c> got</c><00:52:57.699><c> to</c><00:52:57.920><c> strike</c><00:52:58.119><c> a</c><00:52:58.380><c> balance.</c>

00:52:58.659 --> 00:53:02.380
We<00:52:58.739><c> can't</c><00:52:58.980><c> escape</c><00:52:59.920><c> our</c><00:53:00.619><c> responsibilities,</c><00:53:01.579><c> either</c><00:53:01.900><c> of</c><00:53:02.179><c> them.</c>

00:53:02.400 --> 00:53:05.500
But<00:53:02.559><c> we've</c><00:53:02.659><c> got</c><00:53:02.739><c> to</c><00:53:02.980><c> strike</c><00:53:03.179><c> a</c><00:53:03.480><c> balance</c><00:53:03.880><c> as</c><00:53:04.539><c> married</c><00:53:04.880><c> people.</c>

00:53:05.780 --> 00:53:08.280
And<00:53:06.000><c> that</c><00:53:06.219><c> finally</c><00:53:06.480><c> when</c><00:53:06.659><c> the</c><00:53:06.840><c> Lord</c><00:53:07.039><c> comes,</c>

00:53:08.679 --> 00:53:12.139
He<00:53:08.940><c> may</c><00:53:09.159><c> welcome</c><00:53:09.420><c> us</c><00:53:10.199><c> with</c><00:53:11.239><c> that</c><00:53:11.559><c> tenderness</c>

00:53:12.139 --> 00:53:16.039
that<00:53:12.500><c> we</c><00:53:13.219><c> have</c><00:53:13.659><c> been</c><00:53:14.019><c> trying</c><00:53:14.260><c> to</c><00:53:14.460><c> show</c><00:53:14.619><c> for</c><00:53:14.820><c> one</c><00:53:14.980><c> another,</c>

00:53:17.380 --> 00:53:21.039
that<00:53:17.480><c> when</c><00:53:17.639><c> He</c><00:53:17.840><c> comes,</c><00:53:19.059><c> when</c><00:53:19.239><c> we</c><00:53:19.440><c> are</c><00:53:19.619><c> with</c><00:53:19.820><c> Him,</c>

00:53:21.300 --> 00:53:24.920
it<00:53:21.679><c> will</c><00:53:21.820><c> be</c><00:53:22.019><c> greater</c><00:53:22.619><c> than</c><00:53:23.199><c> when</c><00:53:23.960><c> we</c><00:53:24.139><c> have</c><00:53:24.219><c> been</c><00:53:24.400><c> apart,</c>

00:53:25.179 --> 00:53:26.739
like<00:53:25.400><c> every</c><00:53:25.679><c> marriage.</c>

00:53:26.780 --> 00:53:29.099
We<00:53:27.099><c> don't</c><00:53:27.300><c> just</c><00:53:27.599><c> add</c><00:53:27.780><c> one</c><00:53:28.039><c> and</c><00:53:28.239><c> one.</c>

00:53:29.679 --> 00:53:33.519
When<00:53:29.860><c> we</c><00:53:30.000><c> are</c><00:53:30.159><c> together,</c><00:53:30.539><c> we</c><00:53:30.659><c> are</c><00:53:30.920><c> larger</c><00:53:31.360><c> than</c><00:53:31.579><c> anything</c><00:53:31.980><c> that</c><00:53:32.119><c> was</c><00:53:32.320><c> before.</c>

00:53:33.739 --> 00:53:36.179
And<00:53:33.840><c> the</c><00:53:34.000><c> marriage</c><00:53:34.239><c> is</c><00:53:34.420><c> something</c><00:53:34.780><c> which</c><00:53:35.019><c> we</c><00:53:35.239><c> are</c><00:53:35.300><c> working</c><00:53:35.699><c> to,</c>

00:53:36.260 --> 00:53:39.440
as<00:53:36.500><c> Christ</c><00:53:36.820><c> is</c><00:53:37.679><c> with</c><00:53:38.139><c> His</c><00:53:38.360><c> bride.</c>

00:53:39.840 --> 00:53:46.539
And<00:53:40.559><c> it</c><00:53:40.679><c> will</c><00:53:40.840><c> be</c><00:53:41.019><c> finally</c><00:53:41.400><c> that</c><00:53:42.699><c> we</c><00:53:42.960><c> shall</c><00:53:43.099><c> be</c><00:53:43.360><c> saying</c><00:53:43.719><c> to</c><00:53:45.320><c> Him,</c>

00:53:48.099 --> 00:53:53.599
my<00:53:48.460><c> beloved</c><00:53:48.760><c> is</c><00:53:49.059><c> mine</c><00:53:50.039><c> and</c><00:53:52.260><c> I</c><00:53:52.539><c> am</c><00:53:52.719><c> His.</c>

00:54:08.940 --> 00:54:09.900
Amen.