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years.</c> 00:18:47.380 --> 00:18:54.539 They<00:18:48.000><c> said</c><00:18:48.299><c> that</c><00:18:49.220><c> most</c><00:18:49.619><c> adults</c><00:18:50.200><c> think</c><00:18:51.359><c> of</c><00:18:51.599><c> themselves</c><00:18:52.339><c> as</c><00:18:54.059><c> seniors</c><00:18:54.380><c> in</c> 00:18:54.539 --> 00:18:55.660 high<00:18:54.700><c> school.</c> 00:18:57.759 --> 00:19:01.900 That's<00:18:58.279><c> the</c><00:18:58.359><c> problem</c><00:18:58.900><c> with</c><00:19:00.339><c> middle</c><00:19:00.980><c>-aged</c><00:19:01.140><c> crisis,</c> 00:19:02.720 --> 00:19:07.920 is<00:19:02.940><c> you</c><00:19:03.440><c> go</c><00:19:03.720><c> to</c><00:19:04.180><c> chase</c><00:19:04.400><c> a</c><00:19:04.599><c> ball</c><00:19:05.119><c> and</c><00:19:06.480><c> you're</c><00:19:07.200><c> out</c><00:19:07.299><c> of</c><00:19:07.420><c> breath.</c> 00:19:08.160 --> 00:19:10.359 And<00:19:08.380><c> you</c><00:19:08.420><c> look</c><00:19:08.599><c> down</c><00:19:08.859><c> and</c><00:19:08.980><c> you</c><00:19:09.059><c> see</c><00:19:09.119><c> that</c><00:19:09.240><c> big</c><00:19:09.440><c> pot</c><00:19:09.720><c> belly,</c><00:19:10.279><c> and</c> 00:19:10.359 --> 00:19:11.039 you<00:19:10.539><c> say,</c> 00:19:11.240 --> 00:19:13.579 Whoa,<00:19:11.980><c> I'm</c><00:19:12.220><c> not</c><00:19:12.400><c> 18</c><00:19:12.680><c> anymore.</c> 00:19:14.599 --> 00:19:18.240 And<00:19:14.740><c> it</c><00:19:14.740><c> gets</c><00:19:15.140><c> so</c><00:19:15.539><c> depressing,</c><00:19:16.640><c> because</c><00:19:17.140><c> you</c><00:19:17.539><c> didn't</c><00:19:17.740><c> evolve,</c> 00:19:18.500 --> 00:19:21.200 you<00:19:19.140><c> didn't</c><00:19:19.359><c> change</c><00:19:19.859><c> your</c><00:19:20.119><c> perception</c><00:19:20.519><c> of</c><00:19:20.799><c> life.</c> 00:19:21.460 --> 00:19:24.140 And<00:19:21.660><c> then</c><00:19:21.740><c> when</c><00:19:21.819><c> it</c><00:19:21.980><c> hits</c><00:19:22.180><c> you,</c><00:19:22.859><c> it</c><00:19:22.920><c> blows</c><00:19:23.059><c> you</c><00:19:23.279><c> apart.</c> 00:19:25.480 --> 00:19:28.119 So<00:19:25.880><c> our</c><00:19:26.059><c> perception</c><00:19:26.380><c> has</c><00:19:26.599><c> to</c><00:19:26.740><c> be</c><00:19:26.980><c> continually</c><00:19:27.259><c> redefined,</c> 00:19:28.559 --> 00:19:30.259 because<00:19:28.640><c> the</c><00:19:28.819><c> world</c><00:19:28.880><c> is</c><00:19:29.079><c> continually</c><00:19:29.400><c> changing.</c> 00:19:30.920 --> 00:19:33.140 We<00:19:31.140><c> form</c><00:19:31.299><c> our</c><00:19:31.539><c> beliefs</c><00:19:31.740><c> in</c><00:19:31.940><c> childhood,</c><00:19:32.319><c> for</c><00:19:32.519><c> example,</c><00:19:32.819><c> that</c> 00:19:33.140 --> 00:19:35.019 carry<00:19:33.480><c> into</c><00:19:33.740><c> the</c><00:19:33.859><c> rest</c><00:19:33.960><c> of</c><00:19:34.099><c> our</c><00:19:34.220><c> life.</c> 00:19:35.559 --> 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be</c><00:19:46.200><c> continually</c><00:19:46.460><c> redefined</c><00:19:46.940><c> as</c><00:19:47.079><c> you</c> 00:19:47.160 --> 00:19:48.259 grow<00:19:47.359><c> up.</c> 00:19:48.839 --> 00:19:50.440 I'll<00:19:49.079><c> give</c><00:19:49.119><c> you</c><00:19:49.259><c> a</c><00:19:49.319><c> bad</c><00:19:49.500><c> one.</c> 00:19:50.680 --> 00:19:58.039 A<00:19:51.119><c> little</c><00:19:51.339><c> boy,</c><00:19:52.880><c> he</c><00:19:54.059><c> wants</c><00:19:54.839><c> something,</c><00:19:56.420><c> a</c><00:19:56.539><c> toy</c><00:19:56.700><c> that</c><00:19:56.819><c> his</c><00:19:56.900><c> brother</c><00:19:57.019><c> has.</c> 00:19:58.759 --> 00:20:02.680 So<00:19:58.960><c> he</c><00:19:59.000><c> hits</c><00:19:59.200><c> his</c><00:19:59.420><c> brother,</c><00:20:01.160><c> and</c><00:20:01.259><c> he</c><00:20:01.380><c> takes</c><00:20:01.660><c> the</c><00:20:01.900><c> toy.</c> 00:20:04.779 --> 00:20:07.420 That's<00:20:05.240><c> bad,</c><00:20:06.420><c> right?</c> 00:20:07.779 --> 00:20:12.019 But<00:20:08.119><c> it</c><00:20:08.480><c> does</c><00:20:09.359><c> get</c><00:20:10.000><c> him</c><00:20:10.579><c> what</c><00:20:10.940><c> he</c><00:20:11.160><c> wants.</c> 00:20:13.819 --> 00:20:21.319 So<00:20:14.380><c> he</c><00:20:14.940><c> learns,</c><00:20:17.180><c> well,</c><00:20:18.059><c> if</c><00:20:18.359><c> you</c><00:20:18.559><c> want</c><00:20:18.740><c> something,</c><00:20:20.180><c> you</c><00:20:20.640><c> use</c> 00:20:21.319 --> 00:20:24.240 violence,<00:20:22.339><c> you</c><00:20:22.539><c> take</c><00:20:22.859><c> it.</c> 00:20:25.559 --> 00:20:31.119 Well,<00:20:26.700><c> if</c><00:20:26.900><c> that</c><00:20:27.160><c> person</c><00:20:27.500><c> doesn't</c><00:20:28.839><c> redefine,</c><00:20:30.039><c> he</c><00:20:30.039><c> doesn't</c><00:20:30.240><c> change,</c><00:20:30.559><c> those</c><00:20:30.720><c> are</c><00:20:30.880><c> glasses.</c> 00:20:31.420 --> 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his</c><00:20:42.099><c> whole</c><00:20:42.319><c> life</c><00:20:42.539><c> thinking</c><00:20:42.839><c> that.</c> 00:20:44.599 --> 00:20:49.180 And<00:20:44.779><c> then</c><00:20:44.880><c> he's</c><00:20:45.039><c> home</c><00:20:45.779><c> with</c><00:20:46.339><c> his</c><00:20:46.559><c> wife,</c><00:20:48.180><c> and</c><00:20:48.420><c> he</c><00:20:48.579><c> says,</c><00:20:48.799><c> I</c><00:20:48.960><c> want</c> 00:20:49.180 --> 00:20:50.059 to<00:20:49.299><c> do</c><00:20:49.480><c> this.</c> 00:20:50.500 --> 00:20:52.140 And<00:20:50.700><c> she</c><00:20:50.839><c> says,</c><00:20:51.259><c> no.</c> 00:20:52.500 --> 00:20:58.240 He<00:20:52.779><c> punches</c><00:20:53.059><c> her,</c><00:20:54.619><c> and</c><00:20:54.880><c> he</c><00:20:55.059><c> becomes</c><00:20:55.480><c> a</c><00:20:56.359><c> wife</c><00:20:56.680><c> abuser,</c> 00:20:58.519 --> 00:21:03.640 because<00:20:59.099><c> he</c><00:20:59.279><c> was</c><00:20:59.500><c> a</c><00:20:59.799><c> bully</c><00:21:00.319><c> as</c><00:21:01.019><c> a</c><00:21:01.279><c> kid,</c><00:21:01.720><c> and</c><00:21:02.359><c> it</c><00:21:02.619><c> worked.</c> 00:21:04.660 --> 00:21:07.920 And<00:21:05.259><c> he</c><00:21:05.660><c> didn't</c><00:21:05.980><c> ever</c><00:21:06.440><c> change</c><00:21:07.079><c> that</c><00:21:07.359><c> perception.</c> 00:21:07.920 --> 00:21:12.559 And<00:21:08.720><c> he</c><00:21:08.900><c> grew</c><00:21:09.079><c> up</c><00:21:09.220><c> to</c><00:21:09.319><c> be</c><00:21:09.460><c> an</c><00:21:09.680><c> adult,</c><00:21:10.599><c> and</c><00:21:10.799><c> it</c><00:21:11.119><c> still</c><00:21:11.339><c> works.</c> 00:21:15.180 --> 00:21:18.819 It's<00:21:15.839><c> something</c><00:21:16.119><c> bad</c><00:21:16.980><c> you</c><00:21:17.099><c> can</c><00:21:17.319><c> learn</c><00:21:17.480><c> as</c><00:21:17.640><c> a</c><00:21:17.819><c> child,</c> 00:21:18.880 --> 00:21:25.119 that<00:21:18.940><c> if</c><00:21:19.019><c> you</c><00:21:19.259><c> don't</c><00:21:19.619><c> adjust</c><00:21:20.420><c> as</c><00:21:21.319><c> an</c><00:21:21.599><c> adult,</c><00:21:23.259><c> it'll</c><00:21:23.599><c> doom</c><00:21:23.839><c> you.</c> 00:21:25.880 --> 00:21:30.380 Good<00:21:26.039><c> example,</c><00:21:26.500><c> someone</c><00:21:26.680><c> who's</c><00:21:27.279><c> dependent</c><00:21:27.799><c> on</c><00:21:28.460><c> their</c><00:21:28.680><c> parents</c><00:21:29.019><c> as</c><00:21:30.180><c> a</c> 00:21:30.380 --> 00:21:32.099 small<00:21:30.539><c> child,</c><00:21:31.079><c> right?</c> 00:21:32.140 --> 00:21:33.480 That's<00:21:32.500><c> good.</c> 00:21:34.900 --> 00:21:38.160 But<00:21:35.500><c> it</c><00:21:36.099><c> has</c><00:21:36.319><c> to</c><00:21:36.480><c> come</c><00:21:36.599><c> to</c><00:21:36.740><c> an</c><00:21:36.859><c> end.</c> 00:21:39.339 --> 00:21:45.140 At<00:21:39.579><c> some</c><00:21:39.920><c> point,</c><00:21:42.299><c> God</c><00:21:42.500><c> wants</c><00:21:42.799><c> us</c><00:21:43.000><c> to</c><00:21:43.279><c> leave</c><00:21:43.660><c> our</c><00:21:43.940><c> parents</c><00:21:44.299><c> and</c> 00:21:45.140 --> 00:21:47.160 to<00:21:45.500><c> cleave</c><00:21:45.859><c> to</c><00:21:46.079><c> a</c><00:21:46.220><c> wife.</c> 00:21:49.039 --> 00:21:53.720 This<00:21:49.519><c> boy</c><00:21:49.799><c> here,</c><00:21:50.460><c> he</c><00:21:50.839><c> grows</c><00:21:51.079><c> up</c><00:21:51.660><c> and</c><00:21:51.920><c> he's</c><00:21:52.180><c> tied</c><00:21:52.460><c> to</c><00:21:52.640><c> his</c><00:21:52.920><c> parents.</c> 00:21:53.900 --> 00:21:56.519 He's<00:21:54.200><c> incapable</c><00:21:54.680><c> of</c><00:21:55.019><c> standing</c><00:21:55.339><c> on</c><00:21:55.519><c> his</c><00:21:55.720><c> own.</c> 00:21:57.480 --> 00:22:00.539 He<00:21:57.819><c> developed</c><00:21:58.059><c> this</c><00:21:58.339><c> perception</c><00:21:58.960><c> of</c><00:21:59.480><c> life</c><00:21:59.759><c> 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older.</c> 00:22:34.940 --> 00:22:37.519 When<00:22:35.119><c> you're</c><00:22:35.599><c> a</c><00:22:35.640><c> child,</c><00:22:36.160><c> you</c><00:22:36.240><c> go</c><00:22:36.380><c> to</c><00:22:36.559><c> Sunday</c><00:22:36.660><c> school</c><00:22:37.039><c> every</c> 00:22:37.519 --> 00:22:38.700 single<00:22:37.839><c> Sunday,</c> 00:22:38.779 --> 00:22:41.059 whether<00:22:38.980><c> you</c><00:22:39.140><c> want</c><00:22:39.339><c> to</c><00:22:39.480><c> or</c><00:22:39.599><c> not.</c> 00:22:41.400 --> 00:22:42.680 You're<00:22:41.619><c> marched</c><00:22:41.799><c> off</c><00:22:41.960><c> to</c><00:22:42.059><c> Sunday</c><00:22:42.140><c> school</c><00:22:42.279><c> and</c><00:22:42.359><c> you</c><00:22:42.440><c> go</c><00:22:42.519><c> to</c> 00:22:42.680 --> 00:22:43.339 Sunday<00:22:42.819><c> school</c> 00:22:43.339 --> 00:22:45.039 and<00:22:43.799><c> you</c><00:22:43.920><c> sit</c><00:22:44.019><c> down</c><00:22:44.200><c> in</c><00:22:44.339><c> 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on</c><00:23:00.920><c> Sunday.</c> 00:23:01.660 --> 00:23:02.980 Okay,<00:23:01.880><c> I've</c><00:23:02.019><c> always</c><00:23:02.160><c> gone</c><00:23:02.299><c> to</c><00:23:02.359><c> church</c><00:23:02.579><c> on</c><00:23:02.779><c> Sunday.</c> 00:23:03.039 --> 00:23:04.579 I<00:23:03.119><c> go</c><00:23:03.259><c> to</c><00:23:03.400><c> church</c><00:23:03.619><c> on</c><00:23:03.839><c> Sunday.</c> 00:23:05.220 --> 00:23:14.160 That's<00:23:05.519><c> not</c><00:23:05.799><c> bad,</c><00:23:10.619><c> but</c><00:23:11.720><c> it's</c><00:23:11.859><c> not</c><00:23:12.000><c> as</c><00:23:12.240><c> good</c><00:23:12.359><c> as</c><00:23:12.480><c> it</c><00:23:12.700><c> could</c><00:23:12.859><c> be.</c> 00:23:18.740 --> 00:23:22.460 The<00:23:19.380><c> person</c><00:23:19.720><c> didn't</c><00:23:20.220><c> change</c><00:23:20.960><c> their</c><00:23:21.240><c> perception</c> 00:23:23.019 --> 00:23:26.859 to<00:23:23.660><c> realize</c><00:23:24.079><c> 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of</c><00:25:53.359><c> what</c> 00:25:53.500 --> 00:25:54.500 their<00:25:53.700><c> life</c><00:25:53.940><c> is.</c> 00:25:54.500 --> 00:25:59.319 And<00:25:55.460><c> it</c><00:25:55.579><c> requires</c><00:25:56.059><c> too</c><00:25:56.339><c> much</c><00:25:56.519><c> energy</c><00:25:57.000><c> to</c><00:25:57.460><c> redefine</c><00:25:58.000><c> your</c><00:25:58.380><c> perception.</c> 00:26:00.359 --> 00:26:03.859 So<00:26:00.400><c> many</c><00:26:00.559><c> people</c><00:26:00.759><c> will</c><00:26:00.960><c> spend</c><00:26:01.140><c> more</c><00:26:01.579><c> energy</c><00:26:02.920><c> defending</c><00:26:03.539><c> their</c> 00:26:03.859 --> 00:26:05.700 old<00:26:04.099><c> perception</c><00:26:04.500><c> of</c><00:26:05.200><c> thing</c> 00:26:05.940 --> 00:26:09.880 or<00:26:06.640><c> bending</c><00:26:07.000><c> reality</c><00:26:07.420><c> to</c><00:26:07.660><c> fit</c><00:26:07.799><c> their</c><00:26:08.079><c> perception</c><00:26:08.740><c> than</c><00:26:09.339><c> it</c><00:26:09.500><c> would</c><00:26:09.599><c> take</c><00:26:09.619><c> to</c> 00:26:09.880 --> 00:26:10.759 redefine<00:26:10.220><c> their</c><00:26:10.440><c> perception.</c> 00:26:11.119 --> 00:26:12.319 What? 00:26:13.599 --> 00:26:15.160 The<00:26:13.799><c> ugly</c><00:26:14.099><c> duckling.</c> 00:26:15.539 --> 00:26:16.480 Here's<00:26:15.900><c> my</c><00:26:15.980><c> favorite</c><00:26:16.240><c> story.</c> 00:26:16.660 --> 00:26:19.519 The<00:26:16.779><c> ugly</c><00:26:17.059><c> duckling</c><00:26:17.440><c> and</c><00:26:17.579><c> the</c><00:26:17.720><c> beautiful</c><00:26:18.220><c> swan.</c> 00:26:19.920 --> 00:26:21.759 Okay,<00:26:20.880><c> there's</c><00:26:21.119><c> a</c><00:26:21.299><c> girl.</c> 00:26:21.759 --> 00:26:26.660 Try<00:26:22.319><c> to</c><00:26:22.480><c> picture</c><00:26:22.700><c> a</c><00:26:22.880><c> girl</c><00:26:23.539><c> who's</c><00:26:24.299><c> young,</c><00:26:24.980><c> a</c><00:26:25.220><c> little</c><00:26:25.400><c> girl,</c><00:26:26.460><c> and</c> 00:26:26.660 --> 00:26:28.740 fat,<00:26:27.799><c> and</c><00:26:27.940><c> ugly.</c> 00:26:29.480 --> 00:26:32.059 Okay,<00:26:30.420><c> this</c><00:26:30.559><c> shouldn't</c><00:26:30.720><c> be</c><00:26:30.859><c> hard</c><00:26:30.960><c> for</c><00:26:31.059><c> us</c><00:26:31.180><c> to</c><00:26:31.299><c> visualize.</c> 00:26:33.319 --> 00:26:37.299 And<00:26:33.920><c> she</c><00:26:34.519><c> grows</c><00:26:34.799><c> up</c><00:26:35.039><c> and</c><00:26:35.299><c> she</c><00:26:35.480><c> has</c><00:26:35.680><c> this</c><00:26:35.920><c> real</c><00:26:36.200><c> bad</c><00:26:36.700><c> perception</c> 00:26:37.299 --> 00:26:38.299 of<00:26:37.519><c> herself,</c><00:26:37.900><c> right?</c> 00:26:38.759 --> 00:26:41.200 She<00:26:38.920><c> has</c><00:26:39.039><c> really</c><00:26:39.380><c> low</c><00:26:39.859><c> self</c><00:26:40.220><c>-esteem.</c> 00:26:41.460 --> 00:26:45.240 This<00:26:41.660><c> is</c><00:26:41.980><c> wrong,</c><00:26:43.319><c> but</c><00:26:43.500><c> nonetheless</c><00:26:43.759><c> is</c><00:26:43.940><c> what</c><00:26:44.059><c> she</c><00:26:44.319><c> develops.</c> 00:26:45.960 --> 00:26:47.660 I'm<00:26:46.559><c> worthless.</c> 00:26:48.099 --> 00:26:48.779 I'm<00:26:48.460><c> useless.</c> 00:26:48.779 --> 00:26:53.960 I'm<00:26:49.039><c> not</c><00:26:49.819><c> good</c><00:26:50.759><c>-looking</c><00:26:51.220><c> and</c><00:26:51.440><c> I'm</c><00:26:52.539><c> not</c><00:26:52.839><c> valuable.</c> 00:26:55.160 --> 00:26:56.640 Nobody's<00:26:55.539><c> going</c><00:26:55.700><c> to</c><00:26:55.859><c> care</c><00:26:56.059><c> about</c><00:26:56.380><c> me.</c> 00:26:56.759 --> 00:26:58.819 Nobody's<00:26:57.059><c> going</c><00:26:57.180><c> to</c><00:26:57.259><c> want</c><00:26:57.460><c> me.</c> 00:26:59.660 --> 00:27:00.940 That's<00:27:00.019><c> wrong.</c> 00:27:01.700 --> 00:27:03.680 That's<00:27:02.000><c> the</c><00:27:02.119><c> perception</c><00:27:02.599><c> she</c><00:27:03.359><c> develops.</c> 00:27:03.740 --> 00:27:04.940 That's<00:27:04.000><c> the</c><00:27:04.160><c> glasses</c><00:27:04.440><c> she</c><00:27:04.680><c> puts</c><00:27:04.880><c> on.</c> 00:27:04.960 --> 00:27:06.519 That's<00:27:05.119><c> how</c><00:27:05.200><c> she</c><00:27:05.319><c> looks</c><00:27:05.500><c> at</c><00:27:05.720><c> life.</c> 00:27:07.339 --> 00:27:08.160 You<00:27:07.440><c> know</c><00:27:07.539><c> what</c><00:27:07.539><c> often</c><00:27:07.880><c> happens?</c> 00:27:08.539 --> 00:27:09.660 It<00:27:08.980><c> happened</c><00:27:09.240><c> to</c><00:27:09.420><c> me.</c> 00:27:09.880 --> 00:27:10.619 Should<00:27:10.079><c> I</c><00:27:10.180><c> tell</c><00:27:10.259><c> this</c><00:27:10.420><c> story?</c> 00:27:10.700 --> 00:27:11.619 No,<00:27:10.859><c> I</c><00:27:10.880><c> won't</c><00:27:11.000><c> tell</c><00:27:11.119><c> this</c><00:27:11.279><c> story.</c> 00:27:12.039 --> 00:27:15.400 But<00:27:12.279><c> in</c><00:27:12.839><c> high</c><00:27:13.019><c> school,</c><00:27:14.000><c> I</c><00:27:14.440><c> will</c><00:27:14.579><c> tell</c><00:27:14.720><c> this</c><00:27:14.880><c> story,</c><00:27:15.079><c> sure.</c> 00:27:15.400 --> 00:27:19.640 There<00:27:16.319><c> was</c><00:27:16.559><c> this</c><00:27:16.799><c> girl</c><00:27:17.059><c> who</c><00:27:17.240><c> was</c><00:27:17.519><c> the</c><00:27:18.200><c> exact</c><00:27:18.460><c> thing.</c> 00:27:21.640 --> 00:27:26.000 And<00:27:22.140><c> she</c><00:27:22.640><c> was</c><00:27:23.000><c> just</c><00:27:23.660><c> not</c><00:27:23.799><c> that</c><00:27:24.960><c> pretty.</c> 00:27:26.940 --> 00:27:29.579 Her<00:27:27.119><c> oldest</c><00:27:27.400><c> sister</c><00:27:27.960><c> was</c><00:27:28.460><c> a</c><00:27:28.619><c> knockout.</c> 00:27:29.839 --> 00:27:32.359 And<00:27:29.980><c> I</c><00:27:30.059><c> remember</c><00:27:30.180><c> this</c><00:27:30.420><c> one</c><00:27:30.599><c> guy</c><00:27:30.839><c> in</c><00:27:30.940><c> our</c><00:27:31.180><c> class</c><00:27:31.460><c> said,</c><00:27:31.940><c> I'm</c><00:27:32.140><c> going</c><00:27:32.220><c> to</c> 00:27:32.359 --> 00:27:32.599 date<00:27:32.480><c> her.</c> 00:27:32.640 --> 00:27:34.460 And<00:27:32.720><c> we</c><00:27:32.799><c> all</c><00:27:32.960><c> went,</c><00:27:33.359><c> huh?</c> 00:27:34.519 --> 00:27:40.039 And<00:27:34.579><c> then</c><00:27:34.740><c> within</c><00:27:35.079><c> two</c><00:27:35.420><c> years,</c><00:27:36.980><c> that</c><00:27:38.819><c> caterpillar</c><00:27:39.900><c> turned</c> 00:27:40.039 --> 00:27:41.480 into<00:27:40.240><c> this</c><00:27:40.500><c> butterfly.</c> 00:27:41.680 --> 00:27:42.720 And<00:27:41.799><c> she</c><00:27:42.000><c> was</c><00:27:42.160><c> just</c><00:27:42.420><c> beautiful.</c> 00:27:42.720 --> 00:27:45.480 And<00:27:42.819><c> everyone's</c><00:27:43.119><c> like,</c><00:27:44.099><c> how</c><00:27:44.259><c> did</c><00:27:44.420><c> he</c><00:27:44.599><c> know?</c> 00:27:45.680 --> 00:27:46.400 So<00:27:45.859><c> it's</c><00:27:46.059><c> a</c><00:27:46.140><c> bad</c><00:27:46.240><c> story.</c> 00:27:46.460 --> 00:27:47.619 I<00:27:46.559><c> don't</c><00:27:46.599><c> forget</c><00:27:46.759><c> that</c><00:27:46.920><c> story.</c> 00:27:48.019 --> 00:27:55.500 But<00:27:48.140><c> my</c><00:27:48.980><c> point</c><00:27:49.180><c> is</c><00:27:50.180><c> that</c><00:27:51.900><c> what</c><00:27:53.440><c> often</c><00:27:53.759><c> happens</c><00:27:54.059><c> with</c><00:27:54.180><c> this</c><00:27:54.319><c> ugly</c><00:27:54.599><c> duckling,</c><00:27:55.359><c> she</c> 00:27:55.500 --> 00:27:57.039 develops<00:27:55.880><c> this</c><00:27:56.740><c> low</c> 00:27:57.039 --> 00:27:59.559 self<00:27:57.299><c>-esteem,</c><00:27:58.339><c> thinking,</c><00:27:58.859><c> I'm</c><00:27:59.240><c> useless.</c> 00:27:59.559 --> 00:28:00.400 I'm<00:27:59.819><c> valuable.</c> 00:28:00.740 --> 00:28:04.440 And<00:28:01.000><c> then</c><00:28:01.180><c> she</c><00:28:01.440><c> blossoms</c><00:28:01.900><c> and</c><00:28:02.180><c> becomes</c><00:28:02.519><c> a</c><00:28:03.460><c> regular</c><00:28:03.660><c> beautiful</c><00:28:04.000><c> woman.</c> 00:28:04.740 --> 00:28:07.220 And<00:28:05.019><c> what</c><00:28:05.319><c> happens</c><00:28:05.740><c> to</c><00:28:05.980><c> her?</c> 00:28:08.039 --> 00:28:12.339 If<00:28:08.519><c> she</c><00:28:08.839><c> doesn't,</c><00:28:09.700><c> if</c><00:28:09.880><c> she's</c><00:28:10.079><c> not</c><00:28:10.259><c> dedicated</c><00:28:10.660><c> to</c><00:28:10.960><c> truth,</c><00:28:12.240><c> if</c> 00:28:12.339 --> 00:28:14.700 she<00:28:12.480><c> doesn't</c><00:28:12.700><c> constantly</c><00:28:13.400><c> reevaluate</c> 00:28:14.700 --> 00:28:20.160 where<00:28:15.200><c> she</c><00:28:15.420><c> is</c><00:28:15.619><c> in</c><00:28:15.839><c> life</c><00:28:16.240><c> and</c><00:28:16.779><c> change</c><00:28:17.259><c> her</c><00:28:17.559><c> perception</c><00:28:18.019><c> of</c><00:28:18.259><c> herself,</c><00:28:20.099><c> you</c> 00:28:20.160 --> 00:28:21.259 know<00:28:20.220><c> what</c><00:28:20.279><c> happens?</c> 00:28:22.839 --> 00:28:24.420 Oh,<00:28:23.099><c> and</c><00:28:23.200><c> it</c><00:28:23.240><c> makes</c><00:28:23.319><c> me</c><00:28:23.519><c> cry</c><00:28:23.759><c> because</c><00:28:23.880><c> I've</c><00:28:24.039><c> seen</c><00:28:24.079><c> it</c><00:28:24.240><c> happen</c> 00:28:24.420 --> 00:28:25.519 too<00:28:24.660><c> many</c><00:28:24.859><c> times.</c> 00:28:25.519 --> 00:28:32.380 She<00:28:26.400><c> marries</c><00:28:27.339><c> the</c><00:28:27.980><c> first</c><00:28:28.440><c> bum</c><00:28:28.980><c> that</c><00:28:30.160><c> comes</c><00:28:30.440><c> along</c><00:28:31.079><c> and</c><00:28:32.220><c> pays</c> 00:28:32.380 --> 00:28:34.599 any<00:28:32.640><c> attention</c><00:28:33.039><c> to</c><00:28:33.240><c> her.</c> 00:28:37.200 --> 00:28:40.519 And<00:28:37.420><c> he</c><00:28:38.059><c> walks</c><00:28:38.579><c> all</c><00:28:38.880><c> over</c><00:28:39.059><c> her.</c> 00:28:40.880 --> 00:28:44.119 Her<00:28:41.119><c> life</c><00:28:41.640><c> just</c><00:28:41.980><c> becomes</c><00:28:42.339><c> this</c><00:28:42.799><c> living</c><00:28:43.019><c> hell.</c> 00:28:44.839 --> 00:28:47.200 And<00:28:44.839><c> it</c><00:28:45.579><c> ends</c><00:28:45.759><c> up</c><00:28:45.960><c> in</c><00:28:46.119><c> divorce.</c> 00:28:47.279 --> 00:28:48.839 And<00:28:47.440><c> it's</c><00:28:47.579><c> a</c><00:28:47.660><c> real</c><00:28:47.819><c> mess.</c> 00:28:50.559 --> 00:28:52.240 And<00:28:50.700><c> wouldn't</c><00:28:50.880><c> it</c><00:28:51.039><c> have</c><00:28:51.180><c> been</c><00:28:51.339><c> much</c><00:28:51.640><c> better?</c> 00:28:52.240 --> 00:28:57.559 Wouldn't<00:28:53.039><c> it</c><00:28:53.160><c> have</c><00:28:53.200><c> made</c><00:28:53.400><c> for</c><00:28:53.559><c> a</c><00:28:53.700><c> better</c><00:28:53.940><c> life</c><00:28:54.259><c> and</c><00:28:54.440><c> ultimately</c><00:28:55.180><c> a</c><00:28:55.440><c> much</c><00:28:55.680><c> easier</c><00:28:56.099><c> road</c><00:28:56.579><c> for</c><00:28:57.059><c> her</c><00:28:57.200><c> to</c><00:28:57.359><c> walk</c> 00:28:57.559 --> 00:29:03.920 on<00:28:58.039><c> if</c><00:28:59.359><c> she</c><00:28:59.960><c> would</c><00:29:00.200><c> just</c><00:29:01.839><c> reevaluate</c><00:29:02.799><c> herself,</c><00:29:03.220><c> take</c><00:29:03.440><c> a</c><00:29:03.779><c> look</c> 00:29:03.920 --> 00:29:05.980 at<00:29:04.059><c> herself,</c><00:29:04.359><c> if</c><00:29:04.400><c> she</c><00:29:04.539><c> was</c><00:29:05.039><c> dedicated</c><00:29:05.640><c> to</c> 00:29:05.980 --> 00:29:09.680 examining<00:29:06.359><c> her</c><00:29:06.579><c> life</c><00:29:06.720><c> and</c><00:29:06.900><c> saying,</c><00:29:07.279><c> wait</c><00:29:07.279><c> a</c><00:29:07.460><c> minute,</c><00:29:08.240><c> I'm</c><00:29:08.619><c> valuable.</c> 00:29:10.019 --> 00:29:12.200 I<00:29:10.359><c> have</c><00:29:10.759><c> great</c><00:29:11.160><c> qualities.</c> 00:29:12.880 --> 00:29:15.519 I<00:29:13.359><c> deserve</c><00:29:13.839><c> someone</c><00:29:14.519><c> better.</c> 00:29:16.599 --> 00:29:18.039 Now,<00:29:16.880><c> you</c><00:29:17.079><c> know</c><00:29:17.079><c> what</c><00:29:17.079><c> I</c><00:29:17.200><c> said</c><00:29:17.240><c> about</c><00:29:17.440><c> all</c><00:29:17.599><c> that</c><00:29:17.660><c> information</c> 00:29:18.039 --> 00:29:20.319 that<00:29:18.200><c> comes</c><00:29:18.400><c> in,</c><00:29:18.519><c> you</c><00:29:18.599><c> just</c><00:29:18.819><c> ignore,</c><00:29:19.779><c> right?</c> 00:29:20.319 --> 00:29:24.559 So<00:29:20.920><c> finally,</c><00:29:22.140><c> Melissa</c><00:29:22.240><c> gets</c><00:29:22.559><c> this</c><00:29:22.880><c> boy,</c><00:29:24.099><c> you</c><00:29:24.200><c> know,</c><00:29:24.519><c> first</c> 00:29:24.559 --> 00:29:27.460 time<00:29:24.779><c> ever,</c><00:29:26.380><c> and</c><00:29:26.400><c> oh,</c><00:29:26.680><c> she's</c><00:29:26.920><c> head</c><00:29:27.019><c> over</c><00:29:27.259><c> heels</c> 00:29:27.460 --> 00:29:29.519 and<00:29:27.559><c> they're</c><00:29:27.700><c> going</c><00:29:27.779><c> to</c><00:29:27.859><c> get</c><00:29:27.980><c> married,</c><00:29:28.519><c> right?</c> 00:29:29.920 --> 00:29:34.099 So,<00:29:30.200><c> you</c><00:29:30.220><c> know,</c><00:29:31.480><c> Slash,</c><00:29:32.240><c> who's</c><00:29:32.440><c> the</c><00:29:32.539><c> boy's</c><00:29:32.819><c> name,</c><00:29:33.279><c> you</c><00:29:33.319><c> know,</c> 00:29:34.599 --> 00:29:37.019 comes<00:29:34.960><c> in</c><00:29:35.279><c> to</c><00:29:35.559><c> visit</c><00:29:35.799><c> her</c><00:29:36.039><c> parents,</c><00:29:36.539><c> you</c><00:29:36.539><c> know,</c> 00:29:37.140 --> 00:29:38.339 what's<00:29:37.400><c> up,</c><00:29:37.559><c> right?</c> 00:29:39.059 --> 00:29:43.940 And<00:29:39.539><c> everyone</c><00:29:40.019><c> is</c><00:29:40.940><c> saying,</c><00:29:42.099><c> oh,</c><00:29:42.220><c> you</c><00:29:42.279><c> know,</c><00:29:42.960><c> the</c><00:29:43.099><c> sweet</c><00:29:43.279><c> little</c><00:29:43.420><c> sister</c><00:29:43.759><c> at</c> 00:29:43.940 --> 00:29:44.640 meetings,<00:29:44.140><c> she's</c><00:29:44.359><c> saying,</c> 00:29:45.019 --> 00:29:47.960 oh,<00:29:45.279><c> honey,</c><00:29:45.519><c> you</c><00:29:45.700><c> can</c><00:29:45.880><c> do</c><00:29:46.039><c> much</c><00:29:46.279><c> better,</c><00:29:46.880><c> you</c><00:29:47.079><c> know,</c><00:29:47.660><c> and</c><00:29:47.819><c> her</c> 00:29:47.960 --> 00:29:49.539 parents<00:29:48.099><c> are</c><00:29:48.279><c> saying,</c><00:29:48.559><c> oh,</c><00:29:48.900><c> we</c><00:29:48.960><c> don't</c><00:29:49.180><c> like</c><00:29:49.420><c> him.</c> 00:29:49.539 --> 00:29:50.619 Why<00:29:49.700><c> are</c><00:29:49.759><c> you</c><00:29:49.819><c> marrying</c><00:29:50.019><c> him,</c><00:29:50.299><c> right?</c> 00:29:50.799 --> 00:29:55.779 And<00:29:51.000><c> even</c><00:29:51.160><c> her</c><00:29:51.480><c> friends</c><00:29:52.079><c> at</c><00:29:53.039><c> school</c><00:29:53.460><c> are</c><00:29:53.960><c> saying,</c><00:29:55.339><c> oh,</c><00:29:55.579><c> he's</c> 00:29:55.779 --> 00:29:56.880 such<00:29:55.940><c> a,</c><00:29:56.019><c> you</c><00:29:56.559><c> know,</c><00:29:56.559><c> slime.</c> 00:29:56.980 --> 00:29:59.099 What<00:29:57.039><c> are</c><00:29:57.140><c> you</c><00:29:57.599><c> hanging</c><00:29:57.819><c> out</c><00:29:57.960><c> with</c><00:29:58.119><c> him</c><00:29:58.359><c> for,</c><00:29:58.759><c> right?</c> 00:29:59.579 --> 00:30:00.500 But<00:29:59.839><c> what</c><00:29:59.940><c> does</c><00:30:00.000><c> she</c><00:30:00.160><c> do?</c> 00:30:00.700 --> 00:30:03.859 Does<00:30:00.839><c> she</c><00:30:00.980><c> say,</c><00:30:01.539><c> oh,</c><00:30:02.240><c> that's</c><00:30:02.559><c> new</c><00:30:02.720><c> information</c><00:30:03.180><c> coming</c><00:30:03.460><c> in.</c> 00:30:03.859 --> 00:30:19.940 I'll<00:30:04.500><c> evaluate</c><00:30:05.140><c> life.</c> 00:30:20.420 --> 00:30:21.339 No. 00:30:21.380 --> 00:30:22.900 She,<00:30:21.579><c> like,</c><00:30:22.099><c> defends</c><00:30:22.460><c> him.</c> 00:30:23.240 --> 00:30:26.519 Oh,<00:30:23.839><c> you</c><00:30:23.960><c> guys</c><00:30:24.180><c> don't</c><00:30:24.400><c> know</c><00:30:24.539><c> him</c><00:30:24.660><c> as</c><00:30:24.880><c> well</c><00:30:25.019><c> as</c><00:30:25.220><c> I</c><00:30:25.480><c> do.</c> 00:30:27.319 --> 00:30:28.640 He's<00:30:27.880><c> really</c><00:30:28.240><c> wonderful.</c> 00:30:28.660 --> 00:30:30.359 He's<00:30:28.940><c> great.</c> 00:30:31.480 --> 00:30:34.900 Because<00:30:31.880><c> deep</c><00:30:32.279><c> inside,</c><00:30:33.619><c> when</c><00:30:33.740><c> she's</c><00:30:33.940><c> had</c><00:30:34.079><c> Mexican</c><00:30:34.500><c> food</c><00:30:34.740><c> and</c> 00:30:34.900 --> 00:30:37.460 she's<00:30:35.140><c> laying</c><00:30:35.259><c> in</c><00:30:35.480><c> bed</c><00:30:35.599><c> late</c><00:30:35.799><c> at</c><00:30:35.980><c> night</c><00:30:36.059><c> and</c><00:30:36.140><c> she</c><00:30:36.279><c> can't</c><00:30:36.519><c> sleep,</c> 00:30:37.859 --> 00:30:40.779 she<00:30:38.019><c> just</c><00:30:38.240><c> thinks</c><00:30:38.420><c> of</c><00:30:38.539><c> herself</c><00:30:38.819><c> as</c><00:30:40.359><c> worthless.</c> 00:30:41.240 --> 00:30:42.660 No<00:30:41.400><c> one's</c><00:30:41.559><c> ever</c><00:30:41.720><c> going</c><00:30:41.859><c> to</c><00:30:41.880><c> love</c><00:30:42.099><c> her.</c> 00:30:43.099 --> 00:30:45.319 No<00:30:43.240><c> one's</c><00:30:43.359><c> ever</c><00:30:43.519><c> going</c><00:30:43.640><c> to</c><00:30:43.779><c> care</c><00:30:43.960><c> about</c><00:30:44.200><c> her.</c> 00:30:45.759 --> 00:30:48.779 So<00:30:46.059><c> I</c><00:30:46.259><c> better</c><00:30:46.460><c> stick</c><00:30:46.779><c> with</c><00:30:46.940><c> this</c><00:30:47.200><c> guy</c><00:30:47.680><c> because</c><00:30:48.359><c> this</c><00:30:48.539><c> is</c><00:30:48.660><c> the</c> 00:30:48.779 --> 00:30:50.740 best<00:30:48.920><c> I'm</c><00:30:49.059><c> ever</c><00:30:49.259><c> going</c><00:30:49.420><c> to</c><00:30:49.559><c> get.</c> 00:30:54.119 --> 00:30:59.180 I<00:30:54.680><c> mean,</c><00:30:55.339><c> oh,</c><00:30:56.619><c> instead,</c><00:30:57.740><c> why</c><00:30:58.200><c> don't</c><00:30:58.279><c> you</c><00:30:58.420><c> just</c><00:30:58.539><c> say,</c><00:30:58.819><c> oh,</c><00:30:58.839><c> really?</c> 00:30:59.599 --> 00:31:00.880 Well,<00:30:59.759><c> that's</c><00:31:00.220><c> some</c><00:31:00.380><c> new</c><00:31:00.480><c> information.</c> 00:31:00.940 --> 00:31:02.119 Let<00:31:01.079><c> me</c><00:31:01.200><c> think</c><00:31:01.420><c> about</c><00:31:01.700><c> that.</c> 00:31:02.279 --> 00:31:03.339 Let<00:31:02.400><c> me</c><00:31:02.500><c> talk</c><00:31:02.680><c> about</c><00:31:02.920><c> that.</c> 00:31:03.539 --> 00:31:04.059 Let<00:31:03.660><c> me</c><00:31:03.779><c> look.</c> 00:31:04.359 --> 00:31:05.420 Hmm. 00:31:06.119 --> 00:31:07.819 Three<00:31:06.440><c> prior</c><00:31:06.740><c> convictions.</c> 00:31:10.660 --> 00:31:12.079 Constantly<00:31:11.220><c> drunk.</c> 00:31:12.680 --> 00:31:13.079 Hmm. 00:31:13.119 --> 00:31:15.359 Maybe<00:31:13.440><c> he's</c><00:31:13.640><c> not</c><00:31:13.880><c> the</c><00:31:14.059><c> best</c><00:31:14.319><c> choice.</c> 00:31:15.960 --> 00:31:17.759 Maybe<00:31:16.220><c> I</c><00:31:16.500><c> am</c><00:31:16.980><c> valuable.</c> 00:31:17.819 --> 00:31:19.640 Maybe<00:31:18.000><c> I</c><00:31:18.180><c> do</c><00:31:18.359><c> have</c><00:31:18.640><c> worth.</c> 00:31:22.039 --> 00:31:25.160 I<00:31:22.480><c> knew</c><00:31:22.640><c> a</c><00:31:22.779><c> guy</c><00:31:23.279><c> who</c><00:31:23.980><c> was</c><00:31:24.140><c> just</c><00:31:24.279><c> an</c><00:31:24.339><c> incredible</c><00:31:24.720><c> jerk.</c> 00:31:25.640 --> 00:31:28.779 You<00:31:25.640><c> know,</c><00:31:25.839><c> it's</c><00:31:25.940><c> just,</c><00:31:26.539><c> it's</c><00:31:26.880><c> like</c><00:31:27.079><c> his</c><00:31:27.339><c> DNA,</c><00:31:27.960><c> you</c><00:31:27.960><c> know,</c><00:31:28.559><c> jerk.</c> 00:31:28.940 --> 00:31:32.799 It<00:31:28.940><c> was</c><00:31:29.039><c> like,</c><00:31:30.279><c> it</c><00:31:30.339><c> was</c><00:31:30.460><c> just</c><00:31:30.940><c> part</c><00:31:31.119><c> of</c><00:31:31.299><c> his</c><00:31:31.720><c> character.</c> 00:31:33.299 --> 00:31:35.960 And<00:31:33.740><c> no</c><00:31:34.059><c> one</c><00:31:34.140><c> could</c><00:31:34.519><c> stand</c><00:31:34.940><c> being</c><00:31:35.180><c> with</c><00:31:35.400><c> him.</c> 00:31:36.200 --> 00:31:38.660 He<00:31:36.279><c> would</c><00:31:36.380><c> just</c><00:31:36.720><c> drive</c><00:31:37.099><c> all</c><00:31:37.299><c> of</c><00:31:37.400><c> his</c><00:31:37.519><c> friends</c><00:31:37.700><c> away.</c> 00:31:39.779 --> 00:31:41.980 And<00:31:40.000><c> he</c><00:31:40.099><c> thought,</c><00:31:40.299><c> oh,</c><00:31:40.680><c> man,</c><00:31:41.019><c> I</c><00:31:41.200><c> don't</c><00:31:41.259><c> have</c><00:31:41.339><c> any</c><00:31:41.480><c> friends.</c> 00:31:42.420 --> 00:31:43.619 So<00:31:42.579><c> what</c><00:31:42.660><c> do</c><00:31:42.799><c> you</c><00:31:42.819><c> do?</c> 00:31:44.059 --> 00:31:48.619 He'd<00:31:44.460><c> go</c><00:31:44.539><c> buy</c><00:31:44.720><c> a</c><00:31:44.839><c> cool</c><00:31:45.079><c> car,</c><00:31:46.119><c> buy</c><00:31:46.240><c> new</c><00:31:46.460><c> toys,</c><00:31:47.700><c> you</c><00:31:47.700><c> know,</c><00:31:48.279><c> buy</c> 00:31:48.619 --> 00:31:51.599 clothes,<00:31:49.960><c> do</c><00:31:50.079><c> his</c><00:31:50.339><c> hair,</c><00:31:51.420><c> you</c><00:31:51.440><c> know,</c> 00:31:51.599 --> 00:31:53.460 try<00:31:51.740><c> to</c><00:31:51.859><c> make</c><00:31:51.940><c> himself</c><00:31:52.319><c> as</c><00:31:52.599><c> cool</c><00:31:52.799><c> as</c><00:31:53.000><c> possible.</c> 00:31:53.740 --> 00:31:55.900 He'd<00:31:53.859><c> try</c><00:31:53.900><c> to</c><00:31:54.059><c> attract</c><00:31:54.440><c> as</c><00:31:54.640><c> many</c><00:31:54.839><c> friends</c><00:31:55.119><c> as</c><00:31:55.259><c> he</c><00:31:55.460><c> could.</c> 00:31:56.220 --> 00:31:57.500 Try<00:31:56.380><c> to</c><00:31:56.480><c> go</c><00:31:56.599><c> get</c><00:31:56.720><c> new</c><00:31:56.960><c> friends.</c> 00:31:57.960 --> 00:31:59.640 And<00:31:58.099><c> then</c><00:31:58.220><c> what</c><00:31:58.299><c> do</c><00:31:58.339><c> you</c><00:31:58.420><c> do</c><00:31:58.480><c> with</c><00:31:58.559><c> these</c><00:31:58.640><c> new</c><00:31:58.819><c> friends?</c> 00:32:00.140 --> 00:32:01.940 He'd<00:32:00.420><c> drive</c><00:32:00.759><c> them</c><00:32:00.960><c> crazy</c><00:32:01.339><c> too.</c> 00:32:02.279 --> 00:32:05.160 And<00:32:02.440><c> they'd</c><00:32:02.640><c> call</c><00:32:02.759><c> him</c><00:32:02.920><c> a</c><00:32:03.019><c> jerk</c><00:32:03.200><c> and</c><00:32:03.339><c> they'd</c><00:32:03.680><c> leave</c><00:32:03.960><c> him.</c> 00:32:05.200 --> 00:32:07.299 And<00:32:05.420><c> he'd</c><00:32:05.720><c> go</c><00:32:06.000><c> do</c><00:32:06.200><c> some</c><00:32:06.460><c> more,</c><00:32:06.859><c> you</c><00:32:07.039><c> know.</c> 00:32:07.420 --> 00:32:10.779 Oh,<00:32:07.779><c> it</c><00:32:07.799><c> must</c><00:32:07.960><c> be,</c><00:32:08.819><c> you</c><00:32:09.059><c> know,</c><00:32:09.779><c> this</c><00:32:10.000><c> attracts</c><00:32:10.420><c> friends.</c> 00:32:10.779 --> 00:32:14.220 So<00:32:11.220><c> I'll</c><00:32:11.619><c> get</c><00:32:11.740><c> a</c><00:32:11.859><c> better</c><00:32:12.059><c> stereo</c><00:32:12.460><c> and</c><00:32:12.579><c> I'll</c><00:32:12.819><c> track</c><00:32:12.980><c> more</c><00:32:13.240><c> friends.</c> 00:32:14.759 --> 00:32:16.140 And<00:32:15.019><c> he'd</c><00:32:15.059><c> drive</c><00:32:15.299><c> them</c><00:32:15.519><c> off.</c> 00:32:16.500 --> 00:32:20.759 And<00:32:16.579><c> he</c><00:32:16.640><c> spent</c><00:32:16.720><c> his</c><00:32:16.839><c> whole</c><00:32:17.099><c> life</c><00:32:17.339><c> being</c><00:32:17.980><c> sad</c><00:32:18.500><c> and</c><00:32:18.819><c> lonely</c><00:32:19.299><c> and</c><00:32:19.680><c> depressed.</c> 00:32:21.519 --> 00:32:25.920 And<00:32:21.799><c> hey,</c><00:32:22.400><c> wouldn't</c><00:32:22.599><c> it</c><00:32:22.700><c> have</c><00:32:22.779><c> been</c><00:32:22.880><c> a</c><00:32:23.000><c> lot</c><00:32:23.119><c> better</c><00:32:23.680><c> to</c><00:32:24.619><c> think,</c><00:32:25.079><c> hmm,</c> 00:32:26.420 --> 00:32:30.640 maybe<00:32:26.700><c> there's</c><00:32:26.960><c> a</c><00:32:27.200><c> reason</c><00:32:27.759><c> everyone</c><00:32:29.740><c> is</c><00:32:30.000><c> leaving</c><00:32:30.220><c> me.</c> 00:32:31.000 --> 00:32:34.000 If<00:32:31.160><c> he</c><00:32:31.259><c> was</c><00:32:31.480><c> dedicated</c><00:32:31.900><c> to</c><00:32:32.140><c> truth,</c><00:32:32.460><c> if</c><00:32:32.579><c> he</c><00:32:32.660><c> was</c><00:32:32.759><c> really</c><00:32:33.140><c> looking</c><00:32:33.420><c> at</c><00:32:33.579><c> his</c><00:32:33.819><c> life</c> 00:32:34.000 --> 00:32:37.839 and<00:32:34.180><c> looking</c><00:32:34.420><c> at</c><00:32:34.579><c> the</c><00:32:34.720><c> situation</c><00:32:35.019><c> around</c><00:32:35.259><c> him,</c><00:32:35.400><c> he'd</c><00:32:35.579><c> say,</c><00:32:37.319><c> hmm.</c> 00:32:40.079 --> 00:32:45.019 Maybe<00:32:40.559><c> I</c><00:32:40.680><c> should</c><00:32:41.220><c> address</c><00:32:41.720><c> this</c><00:32:42.019><c> problem</c><00:32:42.779><c> instead</c><00:32:44.740><c> of</c><00:32:44.880><c> just</c> 00:32:45.019 --> 00:32:46.579 letting<00:32:45.160><c> it</c><00:32:45.460><c> continue.</c> 00:32:48.200 --> 00:32:49.920 You<00:32:48.259><c> see,</c><00:32:48.339><c> that's</c><00:32:48.579><c> the</c><00:32:48.759><c> catch,</c><00:32:49.180><c> right?</c> 00:32:50.599 --> 00:32:54.460 Truth<00:32:51.079><c> is</c><00:32:51.559><c> avoided</c><00:32:52.079><c> because</c><00:32:53.200><c> it's</c><00:32:53.519><c> painful.</c> 00:32:56.799 --> 00:32:58.680 It's<00:32:57.079><c> hard</c><00:32:57.299><c> to</c><00:32:57.559><c> change.</c> 00:33:01.680 --> 00:33:03.859 You<00:33:01.720><c> don't</c><00:33:01.880><c> want</c><00:33:02.039><c> to,</c><00:33:02.480><c> this</c><00:33:02.759><c> girl</c><00:33:02.920><c> doesn't</c><00:33:03.099><c> want</c><00:33:03.339><c> to</c><00:33:03.599><c> accept</c> 00:33:03.859 --> 00:33:04.480 the<00:33:04.079><c> fact</c><00:33:04.259><c> that,</c> 00:33:04.700 --> 00:33:05.180 yeah,<00:33:04.700><c> everyone's</c><00:33:05.059><c> right.</c> 00:33:05.240 --> 00:33:07.019 This<00:33:05.420><c> guy,</c><00:33:05.759><c> this</c><00:33:06.039><c> slash,</c><00:33:06.319><c> he</c><00:33:06.500><c> is</c><00:33:06.660><c> a</c><00:33:06.819><c> jerk.</c> 00:33:07.019 --> 00:33:08.259 He<00:33:07.160><c> is</c><00:33:07.339><c> a</c><00:33:07.500><c> bum.</c> 00:33:08.380 --> 00:33:10.859 He<00:33:08.500><c> doesn't</c><00:33:08.579><c> want</c><00:33:08.700><c> to</c><00:33:08.819><c> accept</c><00:33:09.000><c> that</c><00:33:09.200><c> because</c><00:33:09.799><c> that</c><00:33:10.140><c> means</c><00:33:10.359><c> she's</c><00:33:10.680><c> going</c><00:33:10.740><c> to</c> 00:33:10.859 --> 00:33:12.299 have<00:33:11.039><c> to</c> 00:33:12.299 --> 00:33:17.019 maybe<00:33:12.480><c> be</c><00:33:13.039><c> lonely</c><00:33:13.400><c> again</c><00:33:14.000><c> and</c><00:33:14.920><c> not</c><00:33:15.160><c> have</c><00:33:15.339><c> anybody</c><00:33:15.619><c> to</c><00:33:15.839><c> hold</c><00:33:16.019><c> her</c><00:33:16.259><c> hand</c><00:33:16.460><c> in</c><00:33:16.640><c> public.</c> 00:33:17.400 --> 00:33:22.700 You<00:33:17.400><c> know,</c><00:33:18.000><c> gee,</c><00:33:18.160><c> I'd</c><00:33:18.259><c> really</c><00:33:18.460><c> rather</c><00:33:18.640><c> have</c><00:33:19.019><c> a</c><00:33:19.599><c> boyfriend</c><00:33:19.980><c> than</c><00:33:20.839><c> be</c><00:33:21.660><c> lonely.</c> 00:33:29.220 --> 00:33:35.599 So<00:33:29.720><c> we</c><00:33:30.220><c> have</c><00:33:30.380><c> to</c><00:33:30.539><c> hold</c><00:33:30.799><c> truth</c><00:33:31.720><c> above</c><00:33:33.019><c> our</c><00:33:34.039><c> own</c><00:33:34.259><c> personal</c><00:33:34.660><c> comfort.</c> 00:33:37.359 --> 00:33:38.940 I'll<00:33:37.799><c> say</c><00:33:37.940><c> it</c><00:33:38.039><c> again.</c> 00:33:39.660 --> 00:33:43.579 We<00:33:39.779><c> have</c><00:33:39.920><c> to</c><00:33:40.059><c> hold</c><00:33:40.259><c> truth</c><00:33:40.920><c> above</c><00:33:41.759><c> our</c><00:33:42.099><c> own</c><00:33:42.319><c> personal</c><00:33:42.660><c> comfort.</c> 00:33:44.079 --> 00:33:45.500 If<00:33:44.279><c> you're</c><00:33:44.440><c> going</c><00:33:44.440><c> to</c><00:33:44.500><c> be</c><00:33:44.740><c> dedicated</c><00:33:45.160><c> to</c><00:33:45.380><c> truth,</c> 00:33:45.599 --> 00:33:47.759 if<00:33:45.619><c> you're</c><00:33:45.759><c> really</c><00:33:46.019><c> going</c><00:33:46.140><c> to</c><00:33:46.299><c> find</c><00:33:46.519><c> out</c><00:33:46.960><c> who</c><00:33:47.299><c> you</c><00:33:47.519><c> are</c><00:33:47.680><c> and</c> 00:33:47.759 --> 00:33:48.460 what<00:33:47.940><c> you</c><00:33:48.180><c> are,</c> 00:33:48.680 --> 00:33:51.079 you've<00:33:48.920><c> got</c><00:33:48.980><c> to</c><00:33:49.079><c> be</c><00:33:49.160><c> willing</c><00:33:49.339><c> to</c><00:33:49.579><c> accept</c><00:33:49.880><c> the</c><00:33:50.140><c> fact</c><00:33:50.460><c> that</c><00:33:50.920><c> it</c> 00:33:51.079 --> 00:33:52.519 may<00:33:51.240><c> not</c><00:33:51.380><c> be</c><00:33:51.579><c> pretty.</c> 00:33:54.039 --> 00:33:55.359 It<00:33:54.339><c> may</c><00:33:54.559><c> not</c><00:33:54.759><c> be</c><00:33:55.000><c> comfortable.</c> 00:33:55.500 --> 00:33:57.319 It<00:33:55.720><c> may</c><00:33:55.960><c> not</c><00:33:56.200><c> be</c><00:33:56.420><c> fun.</c> 00:34:01.079 --> 00:34:03.460 When<00:34:01.240><c> does</c><00:34:01.440><c> this</c><00:34:02.059><c> story</c><00:34:02.440><c> come</c><00:34:02.700><c> up?</c> 00:34:04.940 --> 00:34:06.680 There<00:34:05.420><c> it</c><00:34:05.579><c> is.</c> 00:34:07.000 --> 00:34:08.860 So<00:34:07.180><c> I'll</c><00:34:07.220><c> make</c><00:34:07.299><c> sure</c><00:34:07.400><c> I</c><00:34:07.460><c> don't</c><00:34:07.539><c> miss</c><00:34:07.700><c> this</c><00:34:07.819><c> is</c><00:34:07.940><c> a</c><00:34:07.940><c> good</c><00:34:08.039><c> story.</c> 00:34:10.159 --> 00:34:12.920 Okay,<00:34:10.500><c> three</c><00:34:10.780><c> easy</c><00:34:10.940><c> steps</c><00:34:11.199><c> to</c><00:34:11.340><c> being</c><00:34:11.519><c> dedicated</c><00:34:11.960><c> to</c><00:34:12.199><c> truth.</c> 00:34:13.539 --> 00:34:14.400 Three<00:34:13.800><c> easy</c><00:34:14.039><c> steps.</c> 00:34:14.579 --> 00:34:21.280 Number<00:34:14.820><c> one,</c><00:34:16.920><c> live</c><00:34:17.019><c> a</c><00:34:17.219><c> life</c><00:34:17.820><c> of</c><00:34:18.360><c> continuous</c><00:34:19.400><c> self</c><00:34:19.960><c>-examination.</c> 00:34:23.280 --> 00:34:25.539 How<00:34:23.760><c> old</c><00:34:23.940><c> are</c><00:34:24.079><c> you?</c> 00:34:25.559 --> 00:34:28.659 Fifteen,<00:34:26.900><c> 52</c><00:34:27.119><c> weeks</c><00:34:27.380><c> in</c><00:34:27.519><c> the</c><00:34:27.639><c> year,</c> 00:34:32.539 --> 00:34:35.280 780<00:34:33.179><c> memorial</c><00:34:33.820><c> services</c><00:34:34.219><c> you've</c><00:34:34.480><c> been</c><00:34:34.679><c> to.</c> 00:34:35.440 --> 00:34:36.460 Subtract<00:34:35.760><c> the</c><00:34:35.900><c> ones</c><00:34:35.960><c> you're</c><00:34:36.219><c> six.</c> 00:34:36.519 --> 00:34:40.079 We'll<00:34:36.679><c> call</c><00:34:36.780><c> it</c><00:34:37.039><c> 750</c><00:34:37.719><c> times</c><00:34:38.559><c> you've</c><00:34:38.760><c> been</c><00:34:38.840><c> to</c><00:34:39.019><c> church.</c> 00:34:41.260 --> 00:34:46.480 You've<00:34:41.579><c> heard</c><00:34:42.019><c> 750</c><00:34:42.760><c> times</c><00:34:43.820><c> the</c><00:34:44.420><c> guys</c><00:34:44.659><c> say</c><00:34:45.199><c> what?</c> 00:34:48.199 --> 00:34:49.980 I'll<00:34:48.579><c> tell</c><00:34:48.739><c> you</c><00:34:48.880><c> what.</c> 00:34:50.199 --> 00:34:53.260 750<00:34:50.559><c> times</c><00:34:50.920><c> you've</c><00:34:51.119><c> heard</c><00:34:51.179><c> the</c><00:34:51.360><c> guys</c><00:34:51.500><c> say,</c><00:34:52.139><c> hmm,</c> 00:34:53.260 --> 00:34:55.239 If<00:34:53.559><c> I</c><00:34:53.619><c> received</c><00:34:53.940><c> the</c><00:34:54.079><c> Lord,</c><00:34:54.380><c> that</c><00:34:54.480><c> which</c><00:34:54.639><c> also</c><00:34:54.900><c> I</c><00:34:55.039><c> delivered</c> 00:34:55.239 --> 00:34:55.679 unto<00:34:55.460><c> you,</c> 00:34:55.699 --> 00:34:57.440 that<00:34:55.820><c> the</c><00:34:55.920><c> Lord</c><00:34:56.139><c> Jesus,</c><00:34:56.599><c> the</c><00:34:56.619><c> same</c><00:34:56.780><c> night</c><00:34:56.880><c> which</c><00:34:57.019><c> was</c><00:34:57.179><c> betrayed,</c> 00:34:57.440 --> 00:34:59.219 took<00:34:57.699><c> bread,</c><00:34:57.960><c> and</c><00:34:58.059><c> we</c><00:34:58.119><c> had</c><00:34:58.219><c> given</c><00:34:58.380><c> thanks,</c><00:34:58.659><c> he</c><00:34:58.800><c> break</c><00:34:59.059><c> it,</c> 00:34:59.239 --> 00:35:01.559 and<00:34:59.340><c> said,</c><00:34:59.940><c> take</c><00:35:00.119><c> eat</c><00:35:00.239><c> this</c><00:35:00.360><c> my</c><00:35:00.539><c> body,</c><00:35:00.840><c> which</c><00:35:00.960><c> is</c><00:35:01.079><c> broken</c><00:35:01.300><c> for</c><00:35:01.480><c> you,</c> 00:35:01.619 --> 00:35:02.420 do<00:35:01.679><c> this</c><00:35:01.800><c> in</c><00:35:01.860><c> remembrance</c><00:35:02.119><c> of</c><00:35:02.260><c> me.</c> 00:35:02.800 --> 00:35:03.960 After<00:35:02.920><c> saying</c><00:35:03.099><c> that,</c><00:35:03.280><c> I</c><00:35:03.360><c> also</c><00:35:03.460><c> took</c><00:35:03.619><c> the</c><00:35:03.840><c> cup,</c> 00:35:04.019 --> 00:35:05.440 when<00:35:04.099><c> he</c><00:35:04.199><c> had</c><00:35:04.340><c> stopped</c><00:35:04.480><c> saying,</c><00:35:04.739><c> this</c><00:35:04.860><c> cup</c><00:35:05.019><c> is</c><00:35:05.159><c> just</c><00:35:05.280><c> half</c><00:35:05.360><c> of</c> 00:35:05.440 --> 00:35:05.800 my<00:35:05.599><c> blood,</c> 00:35:05.900 --> 00:35:07.280 this<00:35:05.980><c> day</c><00:35:06.139><c> often</c><00:35:06.360><c> is</c><00:35:06.480><c> often</c><00:35:06.639><c> you</c><00:35:06.780><c> drink</c><00:35:06.940><c> it</c><00:35:07.039><c> in</c><00:35:07.039><c> remembrance</c> 00:35:07.280 --> 00:35:07.719 of<00:35:07.480><c> me.</c> 00:35:07.980 --> 00:35:10.059 For<00:35:08.079><c> as</c><00:35:08.219><c> often</c><00:35:08.320><c> as</c><00:35:08.360><c> you</c><00:35:08.360><c> eat</c><00:35:08.480><c> this</c><00:35:08.639><c> bread</c><00:35:08.820><c> and</c><00:35:08.900><c> drink</c><00:35:09.099><c> this</c><00:35:09.320><c> cup,</c> 00:35:10.260 --> 00:35:12.880 ye<00:35:10.360><c> do</c><00:35:10.440><c> show</c><00:35:10.579><c> the</c><00:35:10.699><c> Lord's</c><00:35:11.019><c> death</c><00:35:11.400><c> until</c><00:35:11.639><c> ye</c><00:35:11.780><c> come.</c> 00:35:12.920 --> 00:35:14.920 Wherefore<00:35:13.239><c> whosoever</c><00:35:13.559><c> shall</c><00:35:13.739><c> eat</c><00:35:14.039><c> this</c><00:35:14.260><c> bread</c><00:35:14.519><c> and</c><00:35:14.679><c> drink</c> 00:35:14.920 --> 00:35:16.760 this<00:35:15.179><c> cup</c><00:35:15.480><c> unworthily</c> 00:35:16.840 --> 00:35:19.239 shall<00:35:17.159><c> be</c><00:35:17.380><c> guilty</c><00:35:17.679><c> of</c><00:35:17.820><c> the</c><00:35:17.980><c> body</c><00:35:18.179><c> and</c><00:35:18.360><c> blood</c><00:35:18.480><c> of</c><00:35:18.639><c> the</c><00:35:18.780><c> Lord.</c> 00:35:19.239 --> 00:35:23.480 But<00:35:19.980><c> let</c><00:35:20.239><c> a</c><00:35:20.460><c> man</c><00:35:21.219><c> examine</c><00:35:22.000><c> himself,</c> 00:35:24.059 --> 00:35:27.519 and<00:35:24.139><c> so</c><00:35:24.280><c> let</c><00:35:24.340><c> him</c><00:35:24.480><c> eat</c><00:35:24.579><c> of</c><00:35:24.679><c> that</c><00:35:24.880><c> bread</c><00:35:25.179><c> and</c><00:35:26.119><c> drink</c><00:35:26.300><c> of</c><00:35:26.420><c> that</c><00:35:26.659><c> cup.</c> 00:35:29.019 --> 00:35:30.980 How<00:35:29.539><c> often</c><00:35:29.719><c> are</c><00:35:29.719><c> you</c><00:35:29.800><c> supposed</c><00:35:29.980><c> to</c><00:35:30.119><c> break</c><00:35:30.219><c> bread?</c> 00:35:33.900 --> 00:35:34.920 Right. 00:35:35.340 --> 00:35:39.019 As<00:35:35.599><c> often</c><00:35:35.960><c> as</c><00:35:36.179><c> you</c><00:35:36.320><c> meet</c><00:35:36.460><c> together,</c><00:35:37.880><c> break</c><00:35:38.099><c> bread.</c> 00:35:39.480 --> 00:35:43.039 The<00:35:39.619><c> apostles</c><00:35:39.840><c> broke</c><00:35:40.139><c> bread</c><00:35:40.400><c> daily</c><00:35:41.179><c> in</c><00:35:41.699><c> each</c><00:35:41.840><c> other's</c><00:35:42.139><c> house.</c> 00:35:44.099 --> 00:35:46.880 The<00:35:44.300><c> apostles</c><00:35:44.579><c> broke</c><00:35:44.800><c> bread</c><00:35:45.019><c> daily</c><00:35:45.500><c> in</c><00:35:45.639><c> each</c><00:35:45.739><c> other's</c><00:35:46.039><c> house,</c> 00:35:47.940 --> 00:35:52.559 and<00:35:48.840><c> whenever</c><00:35:49.579><c> you,</c><00:35:51.380><c> wherefore</c><00:35:51.639><c> whosoever</c><00:35:51.980><c> shall</c><00:35:52.079><c> eat</c><00:35:52.139><c> this</c><00:35:52.320><c> bread,</c> 00:35:52.920 --> 00:35:55.900 drink<00:35:53.059><c> this</c><00:35:53.280><c> cup,</c><00:35:53.699><c> let</c><00:35:53.880><c> a</c><00:35:54.000><c> man</c><00:35:54.139><c> examine</c><00:35:54.739><c> himself.</c> 00:35:56.980 --> 00:36:01.679 I<00:35:57.260><c> think</c><00:35:57.800><c> what</c><00:35:58.360><c> the</c><00:35:58.559><c> apostles,</c><00:35:59.079><c> what</c><00:35:59.519><c> Paul</c><00:36:00.099><c> is</c><00:36:00.639><c> trying</c><00:36:00.800><c> to</c><00:36:01.000><c> tell</c><00:36:01.119><c> us,</c> 00:36:02.179 --> 00:36:06.940 is<00:36:02.440><c> we</c><00:36:03.039><c> need</c><00:36:03.199><c> to</c><00:36:03.719><c> constantly</c><00:36:04.539><c> examine</c><00:36:05.639><c> ourselves.</c> 00:36:08.059 --> 00:36:11.739 Constantly<00:36:08.500><c> question</c><00:36:08.960><c> yourself</c><00:36:09.760><c> and</c><00:36:10.320><c> examine</c><00:36:10.639><c> yourself.</c> 00:36:12.599 --> 00:36:15.159 No<00:36:13.039><c> one</c><00:36:13.260><c> else</c><00:36:13.619><c> can</c><00:36:13.860><c> judge</c><00:36:14.119><c> motives.</c> 00:36:16.239 --> 00:36:17.619 Hm,<00:36:16.679><c> shouldn't</c><00:36:17.119><c> rephrase</c><00:36:17.400><c> that.</c> 00:36:17.800 --> 00:36:21.599 No<00:36:17.900><c> one</c><00:36:17.980><c> else</c><00:36:18.099><c> can</c><00:36:18.320><c> judge</c><00:36:18.519><c> your</c><00:36:18.900><c> motives</c><00:36:19.619><c> besides</c><00:36:20.659><c> you.</c> 00:36:22.739 --> 00:36:25.880 Ask<00:36:23.119><c> yourself,</c><00:36:23.940><c> why</c><00:36:24.139><c> did</c><00:36:24.280><c> I</c><00:36:24.539><c> say</c><00:36:24.900><c> that?</c> 00:36:26.179 --> 00:36:27.920 Why<00:36:26.440><c> did</c><00:36:26.579><c> I</c><00:36:26.739><c> do</c><00:36:26.940><c> that?</c> 00:36:29.019 --> 00:36:30.539 When<00:36:29.199><c> you're</c><00:36:29.360><c> laying</c><00:36:29.480><c> there</c><00:36:29.619><c> before</c><00:36:29.840><c> you</c><00:36:29.980><c> go</c><00:36:30.059><c> to</c><00:36:30.199><c> bed</c><00:36:30.300><c> at</c><00:36:30.400><c> night,</c> 00:36:30.539 --> 00:36:32.679 before<00:36:30.679><c> you</c><00:36:30.820><c> fall</c><00:36:30.960><c> asleep,</c><00:36:32.380><c> you're</c><00:36:32.480><c> thinking,</c> 00:36:32.860 --> 00:36:35.800 well,<00:36:33.179><c> you</c><00:36:33.480><c> know,</c><00:36:33.480><c> today</c><00:36:33.840><c> she</c><00:36:34.300><c> came</c><00:36:34.460><c> up</c><00:36:34.579><c> to</c><00:36:34.739><c> me,</c><00:36:34.980><c> she</c><00:36:35.159><c> gave</c><00:36:35.300><c> me</c><00:36:35.500><c> this,</c> 00:36:35.800 --> 00:36:40.039 and<00:36:36.119><c> I</c><00:36:36.219><c> said,</c><00:36:36.579><c> well,</c><00:36:37.739><c> why</c><00:36:37.739><c> did</c><00:36:38.199><c> I</c><00:36:38.420><c> say</c><00:36:38.639><c> that?</c> 00:36:41.980 --> 00:36:43.639 Look<00:36:42.159><c> around</c><00:36:42.380><c> you</c><00:36:42.500><c> to</c><00:36:42.659><c> determine</c><00:36:43.099><c> whether</c><00:36:43.559><c> or</c><00:36:43.639><c> not</c> 00:36:43.639 --> 00:36:46.920 you're<00:36:43.780><c> looking</c><00:36:44.000><c> at</c><00:36:44.300><c> life</c><00:36:44.820><c> and</c><00:36:45.659><c> yourself</c> 00:36:47.079 --> 00:36:49.639 through<00:36:47.639><c> the</c><00:36:47.900><c> proper</c><00:36:48.199><c> set</c><00:36:48.360><c> of</c><00:36:48.579><c> glasses.</c> 00:36:51.840 --> 00:36:53.679 And<00:36:52.300><c> here's</c><00:36:52.900><c> the</c><00:36:53.059><c> hard</c><00:36:53.260><c> part,</c> 00:36:54.000 --> 00:36:58.539 you<00:36:54.119><c> have</c><00:36:54.340><c> to</c><00:36:54.900><c> constantly</c><00:36:55.659><c> examine</c><00:36:56.679><c> the</c><00:36:57.360><c> examiner,</c> 00:36:59.519 --> 00:37:01.659 because<00:36:59.760><c> your</c><00:36:59.960><c> heart</c><00:37:00.079><c> is</c><00:37:00.280><c> deceitfully</c><00:37:00.699><c> wicked,</c> 00:37:02.000 --> 00:37:03.559 and<00:37:02.559><c> your</c><00:37:02.699><c> heart</c><00:37:02.820><c> wants</c><00:37:03.079><c> to</c><00:37:03.239><c> tell</c><00:37:03.360><c> you,</c> 00:37:03.559 --> 00:37:04.840 oh,<00:37:03.760><c> you're</c><00:37:03.920><c> really</c><00:37:04.139><c> doing</c><00:37:04.280><c> okay.</c> 00:37:05.219 --> 00:37:06.980 Oh,<00:37:05.500><c> you're</c><00:37:05.760><c> good,</c><00:37:06.239><c> good</c><00:37:06.519><c> enough.</c> 00:37:07.420 --> 00:37:09.460 Hey,<00:37:07.639><c> okay,</c><00:37:08.059><c> you're</c><00:37:08.280><c> doing</c><00:37:08.420><c> okay.</c> 00:37:09.599 --> 00:37:11.360 You've<00:37:09.780><c> got</c><00:37:09.840><c> to</c><00:37:10.059><c> constantly</c><00:37:10.440><c> say,</c> 00:37:11.900 --> 00:37:13.360 now,<00:37:12.280><c> am</c><00:37:12.420><c> I</c><00:37:12.599><c> tricking</c><00:37:12.940><c> myself?</c> 00:37:13.440 --> 00:37:14.880 Am<00:37:13.519><c> I</c><00:37:13.719><c> deceiving</c><00:37:14.079><c> myself?</c> 00:37:15.320 --> 00:37:17.579 Or<00:37:15.380><c> am</c><00:37:15.500><c> I</c><00:37:15.619><c> really</c><00:37:16.260><c> being</c><00:37:16.599><c> honest?</c> 00:37:18.400 --> 00:37:22.360 So<00:37:18.599><c> number</c><00:37:18.780><c> one,</c><00:37:19.400><c> live</c><00:37:19.599><c> a</c><00:37:19.739><c> life</c><00:37:19.920><c> of</c><00:37:20.380><c> constant</c><00:37:21.000><c> examination.</c> 00:37:22.420 --> 00:37:25.800 Number<00:37:22.780><c> two,</c><00:37:23.659><c> oh,</c><00:37:24.119><c> I</c><00:37:24.280><c> hate</c><00:37:24.340><c> number</c><00:37:24.559><c> two,</c> 00:37:26.739 --> 00:37:30.679 always<00:37:27.380><c> be</c><00:37:27.739><c> willing</c><00:37:28.059><c> to</c><00:37:28.460><c> be</c><00:37:28.900><c> personally</c><00:37:29.360><c> challenged.</c> 00:37:31.760 --> 00:37:36.679 Oh,<00:37:33.840><c> oh,</c><00:37:35.619><c> that's...</c> 00:37:37.500 --> 00:37:39.000 that<00:37:37.659><c> my</c><00:37:37.820><c> wife</c><00:37:37.920><c> will</c><00:37:38.059><c> tell</c><00:37:38.159><c> you</c><00:37:38.219><c> was</c><00:37:38.340><c> very</c><00:37:38.579><c> hard</c><00:37:38.679><c> for</c><00:37:38.820><c> me.</c> 00:37:39.179 --> 00:37:40.480 The<00:37:39.239><c> only</c><00:37:39.420><c> way</c><00:37:39.599><c> we</c><00:37:39.719><c> can</c><00:37:39.880><c> be</c><00:37:40.119><c> certain</c> 00:37:40.480 --> 00:37:43.159 that<00:37:40.940><c> our</c><00:37:41.559><c> perception</c><00:37:42.039><c> of</c><00:37:42.219><c> life</c><00:37:42.440><c> is</c><00:37:42.760><c> true</c> 00:37:43.159 --> 00:37:47.159 is<00:37:43.820><c> to</c><00:37:44.119><c> expose</c><00:37:44.579><c> it</c><00:37:45.059><c> to</c><00:37:45.239><c> the</c><00:37:45.519><c> criticism</c><00:37:45.980><c> of</c><00:37:46.239><c> others</c> 00:37:47.579 --> 00:37:51.679 and<00:37:48.179><c> evaluate</c><00:37:48.780><c> and</c><00:37:49.780><c> grow</c><00:37:50.139><c> from</c><00:37:50.599><c> their</c><00:37:50.739><c> criticism.</c> 00:37:52.480 --> 00:37:56.119 And<00:37:52.679><c> this</c><00:37:53.119><c> has</c><00:37:53.500><c> got</c><00:37:53.579><c> to</c><00:37:53.739><c> be</c><00:37:54.300><c> the</c><00:37:54.559><c> hardest</c><00:37:54.800><c> thing</c><00:37:55.019><c> to</c><00:37:55.219><c> do.</c> 00:37:56.920 --> 00:37:59.500 To<00:37:57.079><c> actually</c><00:37:57.380><c> listen</c><00:37:57.940><c> to</c><00:37:58.599><c> the</c><00:37:58.800><c> negative</c><00:37:59.159><c> things</c> 00:37:59.500 --> 00:38:01.039 that<00:37:59.739><c> people</c><00:37:59.739><c> are</c><00:37:59.920><c> saying</c><00:38:00.139><c> about</c><00:38:00.380><c> you</c> 00:38:01.039 --> 00:38:03.000 and<00:38:01.519><c> about</c><00:38:01.639><c> your</c><00:38:01.880><c> choices</c><00:38:02.159><c> in</c><00:38:02.400><c> life.</c> 00:38:03.300 --> 00:38:04.599 Instead<00:38:03.380><c> of</c><00:38:03.460><c> just</c><00:38:03.760><c> blowing</c><00:38:03.920><c> them</c><00:38:04.099><c> off,</c> 00:38:04.780 --> 00:38:06.840 instead<00:38:04.880><c> of</c><00:38:04.960><c> just</c><00:38:05.119><c> saying,</c><00:38:05.699><c> well,</c><00:38:05.719><c> consider</c><00:38:06.119><c> the</c><00:38:06.420><c> source.</c> 00:38:07.139 --> 00:38:09.280 I<00:38:07.260><c> mean,</c><00:38:07.360><c> this</c><00:38:07.559><c> person's</c><00:38:08.440><c> an</c><00:38:08.440><c> absolute</c><00:38:09.059><c> loser.</c> 00:38:09.340 --> 00:38:11.920 What<00:38:09.440><c> are</c><00:38:09.519><c> they</c><00:38:09.599><c> telling</c><00:38:09.760><c> me</c><00:38:10.000><c> about</c><00:38:10.159><c> how</c><00:38:10.320><c> I</c><00:38:10.460><c> should</c><00:38:10.559><c> live</c><00:38:10.719><c> my</c><00:38:11.039><c> life?</c> 00:38:12.900 --> 00:38:14.599 Instead<00:38:13.139><c> of</c><00:38:13.280><c> just</c><00:38:13.840><c> ignoring</c> 00:38:14.599 --> 00:38:17.960 whatever<00:38:15.400><c> anybody</c><00:38:15.739><c> says</c><00:38:16.099><c> negative</c><00:38:16.559><c> about</c><00:38:16.880><c> you,</c> 00:38:18.199 --> 00:38:21.739 to<00:38:18.340><c> actually</c><00:38:18.659><c> sit</c><00:38:19.300><c> and</c><00:38:20.000><c> think</c><00:38:20.199><c> about</c><00:38:20.440><c> it.</c> 00:38:22.260 --> 00:38:24.940 You<00:38:22.360><c> know</c><00:38:22.440><c> what</c><00:38:22.440><c> I</c><00:38:22.559><c> love</c><00:38:22.739><c> about</c><00:38:23.539><c> the</c><00:38:24.539><c> truth,</c> 00:38:24.940 --> 00:38:30.059 the<00:38:25.960><c> body</c><00:38:28.039><c> of</c><00:38:28.320><c> religious</c><00:38:28.639><c> beliefs</c><00:38:28.940><c> that</c><00:38:29.099><c> we</c><00:38:29.239><c> hold?</c> 00:38:30.480 --> 00:38:31.739 You<00:38:30.599><c> know</c><00:38:30.679><c> what</c><00:38:30.739><c> I</c><00:38:30.820><c> love</c><00:38:30.820><c> about</c><00:38:31.019><c> it?</c> 00:38:32.059 --> 00:38:37.760 Is<00:38:32.579><c> it</c><00:38:33.380><c> doesn't</c><00:38:33.659><c> matter</c><00:38:34.460><c> if</c><00:38:35.039><c> someone</c><00:38:35.199><c> wants</c><00:38:35.380><c> to</c><00:38:35.500><c> criticize</c><00:38:35.780><c> it.</c> 00:38:38.340 --> 00:38:43.099 Because<00:38:38.780><c> for</c><00:38:39.460><c> me,</c><00:38:41.239><c> the</c><00:38:41.579><c> truth</c><00:38:41.900><c> is</c><00:38:42.099><c> the</c><00:38:42.300><c> truth.</c> 00:38:44.460 --> 00:38:47.380 I<00:38:44.639><c> believe</c><00:38:45.139><c> that</c><00:38:45.639><c> the</c><00:38:45.739><c> Bible</c><00:38:46.000><c> teaches</c><00:38:46.420><c> these</c><00:38:46.760><c> things.</c> 00:38:47.639 --> 00:38:50.059 It's<00:38:48.280><c> important</c><00:38:48.739><c> to</c><00:38:49.460><c> designate</c><00:38:49.780><c> the</c><00:38:49.940><c> fact</c> 00:38:50.059 --> 00:38:52.139 I<00:38:50.199><c> don't</c><00:38:50.440><c> believe</c><00:38:50.639><c> what</c><00:38:50.800><c> Christadelphians</c><00:38:51.260><c> teach.</c> 00:38:52.739 --> 00:38:55.300 I<00:38:53.199><c> believe</c><00:38:53.619><c> that</c><00:38:54.239><c> what</c><00:38:54.460><c> Christadelphians</c><00:38:54.860><c> teach</c> 00:38:55.300 --> 00:38:57.559 is<00:38:55.900><c> the</c><00:38:56.000><c> same</c><00:38:56.079><c> as</c><00:38:56.139><c> what</c><00:38:56.260><c> the</c><00:38:56.340><c> Bible</c><00:38:56.480><c> teaches.</c> 00:38:58.820 --> 00:39:00.579 I<00:38:58.940><c> believe</c><00:38:59.079><c> what</c><00:38:59.199><c> the</c><00:38:59.280><c> Bible</c><00:38:59.519><c> teaches.</c> 00:39:01.019 --> 00:39:02.519 I<00:39:01.119><c> believe</c><00:39:01.260><c> Christadelphians</c><00:39:01.699><c> teach</c><00:39:01.920><c> the</c><00:39:02.039><c> same</c><00:39:02.260><c> thing.</c> 00:39:02.579 --> 00:39:05.739 So<00:39:02.719><c> yeah,</c><00:39:03.280><c> I'm</c><00:39:03.559><c> happy</c><00:39:03.780><c> to</c><00:39:03.920><c> be</c><00:39:04.159><c> considered</c><00:39:04.440><c> a</c><00:39:04.599><c> Christadelphian.</c> 00:39:06.440 --> 00:39:08.559 But<00:39:06.900><c> I</c><00:39:07.360><c> believe</c><00:39:07.440><c> what</c><00:39:07.559><c> the</c><00:39:07.679><c> Bible</c><00:39:07.980><c> teaches.</c> 00:39:08.980 --> 00:39:11.380 And<00:39:09.119><c> I'm</c><00:39:09.260><c> willing</c><00:39:09.460><c> to</c><00:39:09.719><c> expose</c><00:39:10.119><c> that</c><00:39:10.340><c> to</c><00:39:10.579><c> criticism.</c> 00:39:12.119 --> 00:39:13.480 You<00:39:12.579><c> think</c><00:39:12.800><c> it's</c><00:39:12.920><c> something</c><00:39:13.119><c> different?</c> 00:39:13.719 --> 00:39:15.940 Bring<00:39:13.960><c> it</c><00:39:14.179><c> on.</c><00:39:15.340><c> No</c><00:39:15.579><c> problem.</c> 00:39:16.300 --> 00:39:17.380 Let's<00:39:16.519><c> have</c><00:39:16.599><c> a</c><00:39:16.739><c> talk</c><00:39:16.880><c> about</c><00:39:17.139><c> it.</c> 00:39:17.619 --> 00:39:19.480 Open<00:39:17.840><c> it</c><00:39:17.980><c> up.</c><00:39:18.099><c> Show</c><00:39:18.320><c> me</c><00:39:18.420><c> the</c><00:39:18.599><c> verse.</c> 00:39:20.579 --> 00:39:24.019 If<00:39:21.019><c> you</c><00:39:21.460><c> can</c><00:39:21.679><c> prove</c><00:39:21.860><c> to</c><00:39:22.000><c> me</c><00:39:22.400><c> that</c><00:39:23.380><c> this</c><00:39:23.780><c> verse</c> 00:39:24.019 --> 00:39:26.320 says<00:39:24.219><c> something</c><00:39:24.519><c> different</c><00:39:24.920><c> than</c><00:39:25.099><c> the</c><00:39:25.199><c> way</c><00:39:25.320><c> I</c><00:39:25.619><c> believe</c><00:39:25.800><c> it,</c> 00:39:26.539 --> 00:39:27.780 I'm<00:39:26.719><c> willing</c><00:39:26.820><c> to</c><00:39:27.019><c> change.</c> 00:39:28.199 --> 00:39:30.260 Because<00:39:28.380><c> I'm</c><00:39:28.559><c> dedicated</c><00:39:28.980><c> to</c><00:39:29.139><c> the</c><00:39:29.300><c> truth.</c> 00:39:31.980 --> 00:39:34.059 That's<00:39:32.400><c> the</c><00:39:32.559><c> great</c><00:39:32.719><c> thing</c><00:39:32.920><c> about</c><00:39:33.119><c> the</c><00:39:33.280><c> Bible.</c> 00:39:34.500 --> 00:39:37.940 It<00:39:34.599><c> doesn't</c><00:39:34.719><c> matter</c><00:39:35.139><c> Baptist,</c><00:39:36.119><c> Catholic,</c><00:39:37.159><c> Buddhist,</c><00:39:37.679><c> Hindu,</c> 00:39:38.239 --> 00:39:40.179 whoever<00:39:38.400><c> you're</c><00:39:38.599><c> talking</c><00:39:38.840><c> to,</c><00:39:38.980><c> it</c><00:39:39.039><c> doesn't</c><00:39:39.179><c> matter.</c> 00:39:40.880 --> 00:39:44.099 Bring<00:39:41.079><c> it</c><00:39:41.320><c> on.</c><00:39:41.679><c> You</c><00:39:41.800><c> can</c><00:39:42.340><c> challenge</c><00:39:42.739><c> me</c><00:39:42.920><c> all</c><00:39:43.119><c> you</c><00:39:43.340><c> want.</c> 00:39:44.460 --> 00:39:46.619 I'm<00:39:44.699><c> not</c><00:39:44.840><c> ashamed</c><00:39:45.079><c> of</c><00:39:45.199><c> the</c><00:39:45.340><c> Gospel</c><00:39:45.579><c> of</c><00:39:45.800><c> Christ.</c> 00:39:49.320 --> 00:39:52.639 But<00:39:49.880><c> when</c><00:39:50.019><c> it</c><00:39:50.159><c> comes</c><00:39:50.420><c> to</c><00:39:51.440><c> ourselves,</c> 00:39:53.340 --> 00:39:55.280 when<00:39:53.480><c> it</c><00:39:53.559><c> comes</c><00:39:53.739><c> to</c><00:39:53.940><c> that</c><00:39:54.519><c> small</c><00:39:55.039><c> t,</c> 00:39:55.400 --> 00:39:57.780 that<00:39:55.699><c> little</c><00:39:55.980><c> truth</c><00:39:56.360><c> in</c><00:39:56.739><c> our</c><00:39:56.960><c> heart,</c> 00:39:58.880 --> 00:40:01.400 well,<00:39:59.360><c> wait</c><00:39:59.639><c> a</c><00:39:59.760><c> minute,</c><00:39:59.880><c> that's</c><00:40:00.199><c> a</c><00:40:00.300><c> little</c><00:40:00.400><c> different.</c> 00:40:01.559 --> 00:40:03.320 Don't<00:40:01.780><c> start</c><00:40:02.079><c> criticizing</c><00:40:02.599><c> me.</c> 00:40:03.820 --> 00:40:05.300 Don't<00:40:04.000><c> start</c><00:40:04.320><c> talking</c><00:40:04.599><c> about</c><00:40:04.800><c> me.</c> 00:40:05.619 --> 00:40:07.440 You<00:40:05.739><c> should</c><00:40:05.840><c> go</c><00:40:06.199><c> pull</c><00:40:06.320><c> the</c><00:40:06.539><c> mode</c><00:40:06.659><c> out</c><00:40:06.820><c> of</c><00:40:06.980><c> your</c><00:40:07.099><c> own</c><00:40:07.260><c> eye</c> 00:40:07.440 --> 00:40:11.599 before<00:40:07.719><c> you</c><00:40:08.059><c> start</c><00:40:08.239><c> to</c><00:40:08.840><c> pick</c><00:40:08.980><c> the</c><00:40:09.219><c> thing</c><00:40:09.340><c> out</c><00:40:09.500><c> of</c><00:40:09.659><c> mine,</c><00:40:10.539><c> right?</c> 00:40:15.480 --> 00:40:17.440 But<00:40:16.039><c> that's</c><00:40:16.599><c> wrong.</c> 00:40:17.800 --> 00:40:20.099 Just<00:40:18.440><c> as</c><00:40:18.780><c> confident</c><00:40:19.119><c> as</c><00:40:19.239><c> we</c><00:40:19.300><c> are</c><00:40:19.460><c> that</c><00:40:19.599><c> we</c><00:40:19.679><c> should</c><00:40:19.820><c> be</c><00:40:19.960><c> able</c> 00:40:20.099 --> 00:40:24.440 to<00:40:20.699><c> have</c><00:40:21.239><c> anybody</c><00:40:21.559><c> challenge</c><00:40:22.159><c> us</c><00:40:22.820><c> about</c><00:40:22.960><c> what</c><00:40:23.079><c> we</c><00:40:23.400><c> believe,</c> 00:40:25.159 --> 00:40:27.420 we<00:40:25.400><c> should</c><00:40:25.539><c> also</c><00:40:25.739><c> be</c><00:40:25.940><c> open</c><00:40:26.539><c> to</c><00:40:26.940><c> have</c><00:40:27.159><c> anybody</c> 00:40:27.420 --> 00:40:30.460 challenge<00:40:28.079><c> us</c><00:40:28.780><c> about</c><00:40:29.099><c> who</c><00:40:29.300><c> we</c><00:40:29.519><c> are.</c> 00:40:32.360 --> 00:40:35.780 There's<00:40:32.940><c> an</c><00:40:33.079><c> old</c><00:40:33.239><c> Chinese</c><00:40:33.619><c> proverb</c><00:40:33.960><c> that</c><00:40:34.119><c> I</c><00:40:34.239><c> made</c><00:40:34.380><c> up.</c> 00:40:36.800 --> 00:40:38.739 And<00:40:37.440><c> it</c><00:40:37.659><c> says,</c> 00:40:39.619 --> 00:40:44.800 you<00:40:39.659><c> can</c><00:40:39.900><c> only</c><00:40:40.280><c> see</c><00:40:40.780><c> your</c><00:40:41.480><c> true</c><00:40:41.719><c> reflection</c><00:40:42.420><c> in</c><00:40:43.380><c> a</c><00:40:43.579><c> dirty</c><00:40:43.860><c> pool.</c> 00:40:46.380 --> 00:40:47.599 Sounds<00:40:46.820><c> pretty</c><00:40:47.079><c> good,</c><00:40:47.380><c> huh?</c> 00:40:47.659 --> 00:40:48.820 That's<00:40:47.860><c> pretty</c><00:40:48.039><c> deep.</c> 00:40:49.599 --> 00:40:53.199 You<00:40:49.619><c> can</c><00:40:49.739><c> only</c><00:40:49.900><c> see</c><00:40:50.179><c> your</c><00:40:50.380><c> true</c><00:40:50.539><c> reflection</c><00:40:50.860><c> in</c><00:40:51.639><c> a</c><00:40:51.719><c> dirty</c><00:40:51.900><c> pool.</c> 00:40:54.599 --> 00:40:57.920 Perfectly<00:40:55.039><c> clear</c><00:40:55.460><c> water,</c><00:40:56.820><c> Lake</c><00:40:57.039><c> Tahoe</c><00:40:57.460><c> is</c><00:40:57.619><c> famous,</c> 00:40:58.039 --> 00:41:01.039 Cradle<00:40:58.199><c> Lake,</c><00:40:58.599><c> famous</c><00:40:59.000><c> for</c><00:40:59.260><c> being</c><00:40:59.639><c> clear</c><00:40:59.980><c> water.</c> 00:41:02.360 --> 00:41:04.059 And<00:41:02.800><c> why</c><00:41:03.019><c> is</c><00:41:03.659><c> it</c><00:41:03.820><c> so</c><00:41:03.820><c> clear?</c> 00:41:04.320 --> 00:41:05.940 When<00:41:04.480><c> you</c><00:41:04.579><c> look</c><00:41:04.760><c> in,</c><00:41:04.860><c> what</c><00:41:04.960><c> do</c><00:41:05.019><c> you</c><00:41:05.139><c> see?</c> 00:41:06.539 --> 00:41:07.679 The<00:41:06.800><c> bottom.</c> 00:41:08.400 --> 00:41:09.280 You<00:41:08.579><c> can</c><00:41:08.659><c> see</c><00:41:08.739><c> the</c><00:41:08.920><c> bottom.</c> 00:41:09.699 --> 00:41:11.860 I'm<00:41:09.820><c> 45</c><00:41:10.179><c> feet</c><00:41:10.460><c> deep,</c><00:41:10.659><c> you</c><00:41:10.820><c> can</c><00:41:10.960><c> still</c><00:41:11.119><c> see</c><00:41:11.239><c> the</c><00:41:11.420><c> bottom.</c> 00:41:11.860 --> 00:41:13.159 Right? 00:41:13.860 --> 00:41:16.900 So<00:41:14.340><c> my</c><00:41:14.820><c> Chinese</c><00:41:15.119><c> proverb</c><00:41:15.360><c> goes</c><00:41:15.559><c> like</c><00:41:15.860><c> this.</c> 00:41:17.059 --> 00:41:21.460 When<00:41:17.199><c> you</c><00:41:17.360><c> hang</c><00:41:17.519><c> out</c><00:41:17.739><c> with</c><00:41:18.739><c> clear</c><00:41:19.199><c> people</c><00:41:20.000><c> who</c><00:41:20.860><c> tell</c><00:41:21.059><c> you,</c> 00:41:21.719 --> 00:41:23.400 oh<00:41:21.920><c> yeah,</c><00:41:22.039><c> you're</c><00:41:22.199><c> doing</c><00:41:22.360><c> fine,</c> 00:41:24.239 --> 00:41:26.280 you're<00:41:24.460><c> not</c><00:41:24.880><c> seeing</c><00:41:25.119><c> your</c><00:41:25.380><c> reflection.</c> 00:41:26.780 --> 00:41:30.880 You're<00:41:27.260><c> going</c><00:41:27.340><c> to</c><00:41:27.460><c> see</c><00:41:27.579><c> your</c><00:41:27.840><c> reflection</c><00:41:28.500><c> in</c><00:41:29.460><c> a</c><00:41:29.699><c> dirty</c><00:41:30.019><c> pool.</c> 00:41:31.860 --> 00:41:33.679 You're<00:41:32.079><c> going</c><00:41:32.099><c> to</c><00:41:32.159><c> see</c><00:41:32.280><c> reflection</c><00:41:32.719><c> in</c><00:41:32.900><c> the</c><00:41:33.039><c> person</c><00:41:33.239><c> who</c><00:41:33.460><c> says,</c> 00:41:33.940 --> 00:41:36.400 you<00:41:34.199><c> are</c><00:41:34.420><c> such</c><00:41:34.579><c> a</c><00:41:34.760><c> jerk,</c><00:41:35.119><c> you</c><00:41:35.280><c> think</c><00:41:35.480><c> you're</c><00:41:35.760><c> so</c><00:41:36.059><c> holy,</c> 00:41:36.619 --> 00:41:39.380 you<00:41:36.840><c> just</c><00:41:37.039><c> go</c><00:41:37.239><c> off</c><00:41:37.519><c> and</c><00:41:37.699><c> you</c><00:41:37.820><c> don't</c><00:41:37.980><c> even</c><00:41:38.260><c> care</c><00:41:38.519><c> about</c><00:41:38.760><c> anybody</c><00:41:39.039><c> else</c> 00:41:39.380 --> 00:41:42.340 and<00:41:39.739><c> your</c><00:41:39.960><c> religion</c><00:41:40.199><c> is</c><00:41:40.400><c> just</c><00:41:40.559><c> a</c><00:41:40.559><c> bunch</c><00:41:40.739><c> of</c><00:41:41.139><c> baloney.</c> 00:41:44.179 --> 00:41:47.159 And<00:41:44.559><c> you</c><00:41:44.719><c> go,</c><00:41:45.619><c> man,</c><00:41:46.420><c> they're</c><00:41:46.579><c> having</c><00:41:46.699><c> a</c><00:41:46.900><c> bad</c><00:41:47.039><c> day.</c> 00:41:47.199 --> 00:41:48.000 What's<00:41:47.400><c> their</c><00:41:47.639><c> problem?</c> 00:41:48.219 --> 00:41:50.219 Geez,<00:41:48.920><c> they're</c><00:41:49.440><c> totally</c><00:41:49.820><c> messed</c><00:41:50.119><c> up.</c> 00:41:50.260 --> 00:41:51.300 I<00:41:50.380><c> don't</c><00:41:50.460><c> know</c><00:41:50.539><c> what's</c><00:41:50.780><c> wrong</c><00:41:50.860><c> with</c><00:41:51.079><c> them.</c> 00:41:51.679 --> 00:41:54.239 Hey,<00:41:52.420><c> come</c><00:41:52.559><c> on,</c><00:41:52.960><c> let's</c><00:41:53.019><c> have</c><00:41:53.260><c> a</c><00:41:53.400><c> fun</c><00:41:53.519><c> time</c><00:41:53.760><c> together,</c><00:41:54.099><c> right?</c> 00:41:54.519 --> 00:41:56.159 You<00:41:54.679><c> just</c><00:41:54.820><c> ignore</c><00:41:55.039><c> them?</c> 00:41:56.659 --> 00:42:02.519 Or<00:41:56.780><c> do</c><00:41:56.920><c> you</c><00:41:57.039><c> say,</c><00:41:58.280><c> wow,</c><00:42:00.159><c> why</c><00:42:00.500><c> did</c><00:42:00.599><c> that</c><00:42:00.880><c> person</c><00:42:01.199><c> say</c><00:42:01.519><c> that?</c> 00:42:03.079 --> 00:42:05.440 What<00:42:03.360><c> am</c><00:42:03.559><c> I</c><00:42:03.860><c> presenting</c><00:42:04.400><c> in</c><00:42:04.860><c> my</c><00:42:05.139><c> life</c> 00:42:05.440 --> 00:42:09.280 that<00:42:05.820><c> would</c><00:42:06.159><c> cause</c><00:42:06.539><c> someone</c><00:42:06.800><c> to</c><00:42:07.099><c> think</c><00:42:07.280><c> that</c><00:42:07.460><c> about</c><00:42:07.739><c> me?</c> 00:42:11.000 --> 00:42:13.039 That<00:42:11.559><c> our</c><00:42:12.119><c> natural</c><00:42:12.460><c> reaction</c><00:42:12.840><c> is,</c> 00:42:13.039 --> 00:42:14.780 I<00:42:13.079><c> mean,</c><00:42:13.360><c> your</c><00:42:13.500><c> friends</c><00:42:13.659><c> don't</c><00:42:13.960><c> challenge</c><00:42:14.280><c> you.</c> 00:42:15.099 --> 00:42:17.579 A<00:42:15.360><c> good</c><00:42:15.579><c> friend</c><00:42:15.820><c> does,</c><00:42:16.340><c> right?</c> 00:42:18.340 --> 00:42:22.860 And<00:42:18.619><c> a</c><00:42:18.739><c> good</c><00:42:18.920><c> friend</c><00:42:19.179><c> is</c><00:42:19.400><c> harder</c><00:42:19.619><c> to</c><00:42:19.880><c> find</c><00:42:20.119><c> than</c><00:42:21.139><c> gold</c><00:42:21.639><c> and</c><00:42:21.860><c> rubies.</c> 00:42:23.219 --> 00:42:25.460 But<00:42:23.400><c> a</c><00:42:23.679><c> good</c><00:42:23.900><c> friend</c><00:42:24.119><c> challenges</c><00:42:24.559><c> you.</c> 00:42:25.900 --> 00:42:26.980 Steel<00:42:26.239><c> sharpens</c><00:42:26.659><c> steel.</c> 00:42:27.159 --> 00:42:31.360 A<00:42:27.280><c> good</c><00:42:27.460><c> friend</c><00:42:27.639><c> says,</c><00:42:28.320><c> hey,</c><00:42:28.820><c> buck</c><00:42:28.920><c> up,</c><00:42:29.320><c> weenie,</c><00:42:30.219><c> you're</c><00:42:30.639><c> blowing</c><00:42:30.840><c> it.</c> 00:42:31.679 --> 00:42:33.579 You've<00:42:32.039><c> got</c><00:42:32.039><c> to</c><00:42:32.179><c> address</c><00:42:32.400><c> this</c><00:42:32.739><c> area.</c> 00:42:34.039 --> 00:42:34.559 Right? 00:42:35.000 --> 00:42:37.860 But<00:42:35.440><c> how</c><00:42:36.460><c> many</c><00:42:36.559><c> of</c><00:42:36.619><c> us</c><00:42:36.739><c> have</c><00:42:36.880><c> good</c><00:42:37.079><c> friends?</c> 00:42:38.079 --> 00:42:40.199 How<00:42:38.219><c> many</c><00:42:38.320><c> of</c><00:42:38.400><c> us</c><00:42:38.820><c> dare</c><00:42:39.119><c> to</c><00:42:39.300><c> be</c><00:42:39.440><c> a</c><00:42:39.619><c> good</c><00:42:39.860><c> friend</c> 00:42:40.199 --> 00:42:42.559 and<00:42:40.760><c> say</c><00:42:41.000><c> something</c><00:42:41.239><c> like</c><00:42:41.440><c> that</c><00:42:41.579><c> to</c><00:42:41.719><c> somebody?</c> 00:42:43.539 --> 00:42:45.760 Where<00:42:43.719><c> the</c><00:42:44.059><c> challenges</c><00:42:44.460><c> tend</c><00:42:44.760><c> to</c><00:42:44.980><c> come</c><00:42:45.159><c> from</c> 00:42:45.760 --> 00:42:48.519 are<00:42:46.280><c> from</c><00:42:46.420><c> people</c><00:42:46.619><c> who</c><00:42:46.820><c> aren't</c><00:42:47.099><c> good</c><00:42:47.500><c> friends.</c> 00:42:49.639 --> 00:42:53.099 And<00:42:49.920><c> it's</c><00:42:50.079><c> just</c><00:42:50.280><c> so</c><00:42:50.460><c> easy</c><00:42:50.659><c> for</c><00:42:50.820><c> us</c><00:42:50.980><c> just</c><00:42:51.179><c> to</c><00:42:51.340><c> ignore</c><00:42:51.539><c> those,</c><00:42:52.599><c> right?</c> 00:42:56.619 --> 00:43:02.260 But<00:42:57.139><c> if</c><00:42:57.219><c> you're</c><00:42:57.539><c> confident</c><00:42:58.440><c> in</c><00:43:00.179><c> being</c><00:43:00.440><c> dedicated</c><00:43:00.940><c> to</c><00:43:01.219><c> truth,</c> 00:43:02.599 --> 00:43:04.519 bring<00:43:03.119><c> it</c><00:43:03.340><c> on.</c> 00:43:04.900 --> 00:43:06.219 Say<00:43:05.019><c> what</c><00:43:05.159><c> you</c><00:43:05.420><c> want.</c> 00:43:06.920 --> 00:43:08.679 I'll<00:43:07.099><c> lay</c><00:43:07.239><c> in</c><00:43:07.360><c> bed</c><00:43:07.460><c> tonight,</c><00:43:07.639><c> I'll</c><00:43:07.820><c> think</c><00:43:08.019><c> about</c><00:43:08.280><c> it,</c> 00:43:08.900 --> 00:43:13.099 I'll<00:43:09.159><c> pray</c><00:43:09.340><c> about</c><00:43:09.579><c> it,</c><00:43:10.639><c> and</c><00:43:11.239><c> I'll</c><00:43:11.800><c> change.</c> 00:43:14.840 --> 00:43:19.500 If<00:43:15.079><c> you're</c><00:43:15.159><c> really</c><00:43:15.599><c> striving</c><00:43:16.039><c> to</c><00:43:16.739><c> live</c><00:43:16.880><c> a</c><00:43:17.059><c> life</c><00:43:17.400><c> of</c><00:43:17.800><c> dedication</c><00:43:18.260><c> to</c><00:43:18.400><c> the</c><00:43:18.599><c> truth,</c> 00:43:19.639 --> 00:43:25.019 you<00:43:19.679><c> don't</c><00:43:19.940><c> mind</c><00:43:20.800><c> hearing</c><00:43:21.679><c> how</c><00:43:23.239><c> others</c><00:43:23.699><c> think</c><00:43:24.000><c> you're</c><00:43:24.179><c> doing.</c> 00:43:26.820 --> 00:43:31.039 If<00:43:27.340><c> you're</c><00:43:27.480><c> not</c><00:43:27.679><c> really</c><00:43:27.960><c> dedicated</c><00:43:28.500><c> to</c><00:43:28.699><c> living</c><00:43:28.900><c> a</c><00:43:29.139><c> life</c><00:43:29.320><c> of</c><00:43:30.280><c> truth,</c> 00:43:31.539 --> 00:43:35.099 then<00:43:31.940><c> you</c><00:43:32.039><c> don't</c><00:43:32.239><c> really</c><00:43:32.480><c> want</c><00:43:32.679><c> to</c><00:43:32.860><c> hear</c><00:43:33.059><c> what</c><00:43:33.239><c> everyone</c><00:43:33.559><c> else</c><00:43:34.219><c> thinks.</c> 00:43:35.159 --> 00:43:37.099 And<00:43:35.300><c> I'll</c><00:43:35.480><c> just</c><00:43:35.619><c> come</c><00:43:35.840><c> here</c><00:43:36.360><c> from</c><00:43:36.639><c> California,</c> 00:43:37.139 --> 00:43:38.159 you<00:43:37.219><c> don't</c><00:43:37.400><c> know</c><00:43:37.519><c> me</c><00:43:37.699><c> from</c><00:43:37.900><c> Adam,</c> 00:43:38.340 --> 00:43:40.460 and<00:43:38.480><c> I'll</c><00:43:38.599><c> stand</c><00:43:38.760><c> up</c><00:43:38.960><c> here</c><00:43:39.079><c> and</c><00:43:39.179><c> I'll</c><00:43:39.519><c> say</c><00:43:39.719><c> all</c><00:43:39.940><c> these</c><00:43:40.139><c> great</c> 00:43:40.460 --> 00:43:41.579 things,<00:43:41.179><c> right?</c> 00:43:42.019 --> 00:43:44.940 Then<00:43:42.159><c> I'll</c><00:43:42.320><c> go</c><00:43:42.579><c> back</c><00:43:42.840><c> home</c><00:43:43.079><c> and</c><00:43:43.219><c> I'll</c><00:43:43.659><c> rent</c><00:43:43.800><c> that</c><00:43:44.019><c> R</c><00:43:44.280><c>-rated</c><00:43:44.440><c> movie</c> 00:43:44.940 --> 00:43:48.179 and<00:43:45.500><c> I'll</c><00:43:45.699><c> sit</c><00:43:45.840><c> in</c><00:43:46.019><c> front</c><00:43:46.159><c> of</c><00:43:46.320><c> it</c><00:43:46.539><c> and</c><00:43:47.059><c> think</c><00:43:47.300><c> lustful</c><00:43:47.719><c> thoughts</c><00:43:47.980><c> about</c> 00:43:48.179 --> 00:43:49.260 the<00:43:48.400><c> actress.</c> 00:43:50.440 --> 00:43:53.179 Because<00:43:50.599><c> you</c><00:43:50.719><c> guys</c><00:43:50.920><c> don't,</c><00:43:51.539><c> you</c><00:43:51.780><c> don't</c><00:43:51.940><c> know</c><00:43:52.079><c> me.</c> 00:43:53.659 --> 00:43:57.500 And<00:43:53.800><c> you're</c><00:43:53.860><c> not</c><00:43:53.960><c> going</c><00:43:54.099><c> to</c><00:43:54.760><c> ask</c><00:43:55.059><c> me</c><00:43:55.900><c> those</c><00:43:56.139><c> tough</c><00:43:56.440><c> questions.</c> 00:43:59.420 --> 00:44:02.900 The<00:43:59.900><c> only</c><00:44:00.159><c> person</c><00:44:00.500><c> who's</c><00:44:00.820><c> going</c><00:44:01.000><c> to</c><00:44:01.239><c> is</c><00:44:01.659><c> myself.</c> 00:44:04.920 --> 00:44:08.000 And<00:44:04.980><c> if</c><00:44:05.099><c> I'm</c><00:44:05.280><c> going</c><00:44:05.420><c> to</c><00:44:05.519><c> succeed,</c><00:44:06.519><c> if</c><00:44:06.639><c> I'm</c><00:44:06.780><c> going</c><00:44:06.900><c> to</c><00:44:07.059><c> serve</c><00:44:07.280><c> God</c><00:44:07.599><c> the</c><00:44:07.760><c> way</c><00:44:07.860><c> I</c> 00:44:08.000 --> 00:44:08.539 want<00:44:08.199><c> to,</c> 00:44:08.900 --> 00:44:12.679 I've<00:44:09.139><c> got</c><00:44:09.159><c> to</c><00:44:09.239><c> be</c><00:44:09.320><c> willing</c><00:44:09.440><c> to</c><00:44:09.599><c> ask</c><00:44:09.860><c> those</c><00:44:10.119><c> questions</c><00:44:10.679><c> of</c><00:44:11.460><c> myself.</c> 00:44:14.539 --> 00:44:15.900 Put<00:44:14.860><c> it</c><00:44:15.000><c> up</c><00:44:15.119><c> for</c><00:44:15.320><c> anyone</c><00:44:15.500><c> else.</c> 00:44:16.179 --> 00:44:19.800 Hey,<00:44:17.579><c> I'll</c><00:44:18.320><c> go</c><00:44:18.460><c> ahead</c><00:44:18.619><c> and</c><00:44:18.639><c> say</c><00:44:18.760><c> it</c><00:44:18.800><c> right</c><00:44:18.960><c> now.</c> 00:44:20.280 --> 00:44:22.659 You<00:44:20.320><c> know,</c><00:44:20.920><c> come</c><00:44:21.239><c> talk</c><00:44:21.519><c> to</c><00:44:21.679><c> me.</c> 00:44:23.260 --> 00:44:26.199 If<00:44:23.420><c> you</c><00:44:23.619><c> think</c><00:44:23.820><c> there's</c><00:44:24.059><c> something</c><00:44:24.300><c> that's</c><00:44:24.579><c> wrong</c><00:44:24.920><c> about</c><00:44:25.619><c> me,</c> 00:44:26.199 --> 00:44:29.539 about<00:44:26.599><c> the</c><00:44:26.840><c> way</c><00:44:27.179><c> I'm</c><00:44:27.380><c> living,</c><00:44:27.579><c> the</c><00:44:27.699><c> thing</c><00:44:27.880><c> I'm</c><00:44:28.079><c> doing,</c><00:44:29.280><c> let's</c> 00:44:29.539 --> 00:44:30.280 hear<00:44:29.719><c> it.</c> 00:44:30.300 --> 00:44:30.880 Not<00:44:30.500><c> you.</c> 00:44:31.380 --> 00:44:34.380 I<00:44:31.519><c> get</c><00:44:31.699><c> enough</c><00:44:33.139><c> from</c><00:44:33.340><c> you.</c> 00:44:38.059 --> 00:44:39.579 Look<00:44:38.219><c> what</c><00:44:38.380><c> David</c><00:44:38.739><c> did.</c> 00:44:40.039 --> 00:44:42.340 David,<00:44:40.500><c> talk</c><00:44:40.820><c> about</c><00:44:41.320><c> guts.</c> 00:44:42.599 --> 00:44:44.500 Psalm<00:44:42.880><c> 139.</c> 00:44:45.480 --> 00:44:55.360 You<00:44:46.280><c> know,</c><00:44:47.420><c> I'll</c><00:44:47.539><c> let</c><00:44:47.619><c> one</c><00:44:47.840><c> of</c><00:44:48.119><c> you</c><00:44:49.300><c> imperfect,</c><00:44:52.059><c> blind</c><00:44:53.179><c> people</c> 00:44:55.360 --> 00:44:57.380 give<00:44:56.639><c> me</c><00:44:56.840><c> some</c><00:44:57.039><c> criticisms.</c> 00:44:57.420 --> 00:44:58.980 Okay,<00:44:57.940><c> I'll</c><00:44:58.260><c> handle</c><00:44:58.519><c> that.</c> 00:44:59.400 --> 00:45:01.219 Look<00:44:59.559><c> who</c><00:44:59.760><c> David</c><00:45:00.159><c> calls</c><00:45:00.559><c> down.</c> 00:45:01.639 --> 00:45:04.539 Psalm<00:45:01.840><c> 139,</c><00:45:02.639><c> 23</c><00:45:03.119><c> and</c><00:45:03.300><c> 24.</c> 00:45:05.880 --> 00:45:11.019 Search<00:45:06.139><c> me,</c><00:45:07.179><c> O</c><00:45:07.460><c> God,</c><00:45:09.380><c> and</c><00:45:09.579><c> know</c><00:45:09.760><c> my</c><00:45:10.059><c> heart.</c> 00:45:12.119 --> 00:45:15.539 Test<00:45:12.599><c> me</c><00:45:13.079><c> and</c><00:45:13.559><c> know</c><00:45:13.739><c> my</c><00:45:14.019><c> inner</c><00:45:14.320><c> thoughts.</c> 00:45:16.480 --> 00:45:19.380 See<00:45:16.599><c> if</c><00:45:16.739><c> there</c><00:45:16.900><c> is</c><00:45:17.019><c> any</c><00:45:17.179><c> offensive</c><00:45:17.599><c> way</c><00:45:17.820><c> in</c><00:45:18.039><c> me</c><00:45:18.480><c> and</c><00:45:19.019><c> lead</c><00:45:19.239><c> me</c> 00:45:19.380 --> 00:45:20.900 in<00:45:19.480><c> the</c><00:45:19.559><c> way</c><00:45:19.699><c> of</c><00:45:19.980><c> everlasting.</c> 00:45:21.360 --> 00:45:22.820 How<00:45:21.500><c> many</c><00:45:21.619><c> times</c><00:45:21.719><c> does</c><00:45:21.860><c> David</c><00:45:22.159><c> say</c><00:45:22.480><c> this?</c> 00:45:23.159 --> 00:45:25.119 Search<00:45:23.619><c> me,</c><00:45:23.980><c> O</c><00:45:24.179><c> God.</c> 00:45:25.739 --> 00:45:27.579 This<00:45:26.059><c> takes</c><00:45:26.500><c> guts.</c> 00:45:29.639 --> 00:45:34.079 Yeah,<00:45:29.880><c> I</c><00:45:29.940><c> mean,</c><00:45:31.940><c> you</c><00:45:32.119><c> guys</c><00:45:32.400><c> who</c><00:45:32.619><c> can't</c><00:45:33.099><c> see</c><00:45:33.480><c> what's</c><00:45:33.760><c> going</c><00:45:33.960><c> on</c> 00:45:34.079 --> 00:45:35.400 in<00:45:34.239><c> my</c><00:45:34.460><c> head,</c> 00:45:35.440 --> 00:45:37.820 all<00:45:35.599><c> you</c><00:45:35.760><c> can</c><00:45:35.900><c> see</c><00:45:36.019><c> is</c><00:45:36.159><c> the</c><00:45:36.320><c> things</c><00:45:36.480><c> I</c><00:45:36.739><c> say</c><00:45:36.880><c> and</c><00:45:37.000><c> the</c><00:45:37.159><c> actions</c><00:45:37.320><c> I</c><00:45:37.579><c> do.</c> 00:45:37.820 --> 00:45:41.400 Okay,<00:45:38.760><c> I'll</c><00:45:39.039><c> listen</c><00:45:39.239><c> to</c><00:45:39.300><c> what</c><00:45:39.400><c> you</c><00:45:39.639><c> say,</c><00:45:40.599><c> but</c><00:45:40.739><c> look</c><00:45:40.960><c> at</c><00:45:41.099><c> David.</c> 00:45:41.619 --> 00:45:46.199 He<00:45:41.619><c> says,</c><00:45:43.360><c> God,</c><00:45:43.880><c> who</c><00:45:44.119><c> knoweth</c><00:45:44.500><c> the</c><00:45:44.960><c> innermost</c><00:45:45.619><c> thoughts</c><00:45:46.019><c> of</c> 00:45:46.199 --> 00:45:47.360 my<00:45:46.420><c> heart.</c> 00:45:48.260 --> 00:45:49.699 Bring<00:45:48.480><c> it</c><00:45:48.659><c> on.</c> 00:45:50.500 --> 00:45:51.340 Bring<00:45:50.780><c> it</c><00:45:50.960><c> on,</c><00:45:51.119><c> God.</c> 00:45:51.420 --> 00:45:52.159 Take<00:45:51.679><c> a</c><00:45:51.880><c> look.</c> 00:45:52.480 --> 00:45:53.599 Look<00:45:52.800><c> inside</c><00:45:53.159><c> my</c><00:45:53.420><c> heart.</c> 00:45:53.739 --> 00:45:54.480 Search<00:45:54.079><c> me.</c> 00:45:54.679 --> 00:45:58.280 See<00:45:54.679><c> if</c><00:45:54.719><c> you</c><00:45:54.780><c> can</c><00:45:54.880><c> find</c><00:45:55.099><c> anything</c><00:45:55.619><c> wrong</c><00:45:56.480><c> within</c><00:45:56.920><c> me.</c> 00:45:59.639 --> 00:46:02.539 David<00:46:00.000><c> wasn't</c><00:46:00.219><c> afraid</c><00:46:00.400><c> to</c><00:46:00.519><c> be</c><00:46:00.880><c> personally</c><00:46:01.199><c> challenged.</c> 00:46:04.119 --> 00:46:08.099 Number<00:46:04.760><c> three,</c><00:46:06.219><c> says</c><00:46:06.400><c> easy,</c><00:46:06.980><c> does</c><00:46:07.059><c> hard.</c> 00:46:08.920 --> 00:46:13.380 Number<00:46:09.199><c> three,</c><00:46:10.199><c> live</c><00:46:10.320><c> a</c><00:46:10.500><c> life</c><00:46:11.280><c> of</c><00:46:11.840><c> total</c><00:46:12.219><c> honesty.</c> 00:46:16.639 --> 00:46:18.119 You<00:46:16.780><c> have</c><00:46:16.840><c> to</c><00:46:17.059><c> continually</c><00:46:17.260><c> examine</c><00:46:17.619><c> yourself.</c> 00:46:18.420 --> 00:46:20.739 You<00:46:18.440><c> have</c><00:46:18.539><c> to</c><00:46:18.699><c> always</c><00:46:18.880><c> be</c><00:46:19.019><c> willing</c><00:46:19.079><c> to</c><00:46:19.280><c> be</c><00:46:19.820><c> personally</c><00:46:20.139><c> challenged,</c> 00:46:21.119 --> 00:46:23.619 and<00:46:21.199><c> you</c><00:46:21.300><c> have</c><00:46:21.460><c> to</c><00:46:21.619><c> live</c><00:46:21.739><c> a</c><00:46:21.860><c> life</c><00:46:22.019><c> of</c><00:46:22.320><c> total</c><00:46:22.679><c> honesty.</c> 00:46:24.280 --> 00:46:25.400 You<00:46:24.420><c> know</c><00:46:24.519><c> why?</c> 00:46:26.760 --> 00:46:29.559 Because<00:46:27.400><c> lying</c><00:46:28.039><c> is</c><00:46:28.360><c> contagious.</c> 00:46:30.980 --> 00:46:37.460 If<00:46:31.480><c> you</c><00:46:31.739><c> lie</c><00:46:32.340><c> and</c><00:46:33.860><c> get</c><00:46:34.059><c> away</c><00:46:34.280><c> with</c><00:46:34.500><c> it,</c><00:46:35.739><c> you</c><00:46:36.260><c> think</c><00:46:36.400><c> it</c><00:46:36.579><c> works.</c> 00:46:38.780 --> 00:46:40.699 Who's<00:46:39.039><c> the</c><00:46:39.139><c> first</c><00:46:39.300><c> person</c><00:46:39.559><c> you</c><00:46:39.739><c> lie</c><00:46:39.920><c> to?</c> 00:46:41.639 --> 00:46:42.639 Yourself. 00:46:43.780 --> 00:46:44.079 You<00:46:43.920><c> cannot.</c> 00:46:44.179 --> 00:46:44.820 Isn't<00:46:44.260><c> that</c><00:46:44.460><c> weird?</c> 00:46:45.019 --> 00:46:45.699 Think<00:46:45.239><c> about</c><00:46:45.480><c> that.</c> 00:46:45.760 --> 00:46:47.219 Ooh,<00:46:46.260><c> ooh,</c><00:46:46.320><c> ooh,</c><00:46:46.480><c> deep.</c> 00:46:47.599 --> 00:46:51.239 You<00:46:47.800><c> cannot</c><00:46:48.119><c> lie</c><00:46:48.340><c> to</c><00:46:48.420><c> anyone</c><00:46:48.559><c> else</c><00:46:48.760><c> until</c><00:46:49.039><c> first</c><00:46:49.360><c> you</c><00:46:49.559><c> lie</c><00:46:49.880><c> to</c><00:46:50.079><c> yourself.</c> 00:46:52.280 --> 00:46:53.980 It's<00:46:52.699><c> absolutely</c><00:46:53.039><c> true.</c> 00:46:54.820 --> 00:46:59.619 See,<00:46:55.480><c> lying</c><00:46:55.719><c> is</c><00:46:56.360><c> an</c><00:46:56.480><c> attempt</c><00:46:57.000><c> to</c><00:46:57.719><c> circumvent</c><00:46:58.440><c> pain.</c> 00:47:01.760 --> 00:47:02.780 Smash. 00:47:04.139 --> 00:47:06.739 I<00:47:04.440><c> didn't</c><00:47:04.639><c> break</c><00:47:04.900><c> it.</c> 00:47:08.260 --> 00:47:12.619 Kid<00:47:08.400><c> is</c><00:47:08.699><c> lying</c><00:47:09.280><c> because</c><00:47:10.079><c> he</c><00:47:10.199><c> wants</c><00:47:10.340><c> to</c><00:47:10.579><c> circumvent</c><00:47:11.000><c> the</c><00:47:11.280><c> pain,</c><00:47:11.659><c> right?</c> 00:47:13.000 --> 00:47:16.260 He<00:47:13.300><c> doesn't</c><00:47:13.440><c> want</c><00:47:13.599><c> to</c><00:47:13.719><c> get</c><00:47:13.960><c> spanked,</c><00:47:14.699><c> so</c><00:47:14.780><c> I'm</c><00:47:14.860><c> going</c><00:47:14.980><c> to</c><00:47:15.079><c> lie.</c> 00:47:17.079 --> 00:47:19.360 And<00:47:17.260><c> it's</c><00:47:17.460><c> the</c><00:47:17.599><c> same</c><00:47:17.880><c> thing</c><00:47:18.139><c> in</c><00:47:18.300><c> our</c><00:47:18.500><c> lives.</c> 00:47:19.739 --> 00:47:22.440 Whenever<00:47:19.980><c> we're</c><00:47:20.340><c> lying,</c><00:47:21.340><c> if</c><00:47:21.480><c> you're</c><00:47:21.619><c> really</c><00:47:21.840><c> honest</c><00:47:22.059><c> with</c><00:47:22.179><c> yourself,</c> 00:47:22.440 --> 00:47:24.340 the<00:47:22.860><c> reason</c><00:47:23.019><c> why</c><00:47:23.199><c> you're</c><00:47:23.360><c> lying</c><00:47:23.500><c> is</c><00:47:23.739><c> because</c><00:47:23.900><c> you're</c><00:47:24.059><c> trying</c> 00:47:24.340 --> 00:47:26.500 to<00:47:24.579><c> avoid</c><00:47:25.039><c> some</c><00:47:25.380><c> pain.</c> 00:47:27.679 --> 00:47:29.760 Develop<00:47:27.940><c> good</c><00:47:28.219><c> habits</c><00:47:28.519><c> of</c><00:47:28.820><c> truth.</c> 00:47:31.380 --> 00:47:34.639 Live<00:47:31.519><c> a</c><00:47:31.679><c> life</c><00:47:32.380><c> of</c><00:47:32.960><c> complete</c><00:47:33.559><c> honesty.</c> 00:47:35.679 --> 00:47:37.460 You<00:47:35.780><c> know,</c><00:47:35.940><c> I</c><00:47:35.960><c> used</c><00:47:36.139><c> to</c><00:47:36.260><c> do</c><00:47:36.340><c> this.</c> 00:47:37.719 --> 00:47:38.019 Busy. 00:47:38.039 --> 00:47:39.280 I<00:47:38.139><c> have</c><00:47:38.159><c> two</c><00:47:38.340><c> phones</c><00:47:38.559><c> at</c><00:47:38.760><c> work.</c> 00:47:39.579 --> 00:47:41.079 I<00:47:39.719><c> have</c><00:47:39.980><c> two</c><00:47:40.199><c> computers.</c> 00:47:42.159 --> 00:47:45.099 And<00:47:42.239><c> bam,</c><00:47:43.019><c> bam,</c><00:47:43.280><c> bam,</c><00:47:43.559><c> bam,</c><00:47:43.940><c> moving,</c><00:47:44.139><c> moving,</c><00:47:44.460><c> moving.</c> 00:47:45.599 --> 00:47:46.679 Keep<00:47:45.840><c> things</c><00:47:45.980><c> going,</c><00:47:46.280><c> right?</c> 00:47:47.019 --> 00:47:47.840 This<00:47:47.179><c> guy's</c><00:47:47.340><c> on</c><00:47:47.400><c> the</c><00:47:47.559><c> phone.</c> 00:47:48.199 --> 00:47:49.480 Take<00:47:48.380><c> a</c><00:47:48.460><c> look</c><00:47:48.539><c> at</c><00:47:48.639><c> this.</c> 00:47:49.619 --> 00:47:49.960 Done. 00:47:50.380 --> 00:47:50.980 Hang<00:47:50.599><c> up.</c> 00:47:50.980 --> 00:47:52.260 This<00:47:51.440><c> guy's</c><00:47:51.639><c> on</c><00:47:51.760><c> the</c><00:47:51.760><c> phone.</c> 00:47:52.340 --> 00:47:53.280 In<00:47:52.739><c> the</c><00:47:52.960><c> mail.</c> 00:47:53.679 --> 00:47:54.460 Hang<00:47:53.900><c> up,</c><00:47:54.340><c> right?</c> 00:47:54.500 --> 00:47:55.960 You<00:47:54.619><c> know,</c><00:47:54.800><c> I'm</c><00:47:55.179><c> rolling.</c> 00:47:56.340 --> 00:47:56.980 Right? 00:47:57.860 --> 00:48:00.260 And<00:47:58.039><c> I</c><00:47:58.179><c> realized</c><00:47:58.400><c> one</c><00:47:58.579><c> day,</c><00:47:59.219><c> wait</c><00:47:59.380><c> a</c><00:47:59.519><c> minute.</c> 00:48:00.800 --> 00:48:02.820 I'm<00:48:01.199><c> not</c><00:48:01.599><c> done.</c> 00:48:03.860 --> 00:48:06.460 It's<00:48:04.119><c> not</c><00:48:04.260><c> really</c><00:48:04.860><c> in</c><00:48:05.300><c> the</c><00:48:05.480><c> mail.</c> 00:48:07.960 --> 00:48:08.659 Isn't<00:48:08.360><c> that</c><00:48:08.500><c> weird?</c> 00:48:08.679 --> 00:48:09.619 Isn't<00:48:08.739><c> that</c><00:48:08.920><c> petty?</c> 00:48:09.719 --> 00:48:12.300 But<00:48:09.940><c> it</c><00:48:10.199><c> just</c><00:48:10.440><c> struck</c><00:48:10.539><c> me</c><00:48:10.739><c> that</c><00:48:10.920><c> I</c><00:48:11.159><c> was</c><00:48:11.380><c> lying.</c> 00:48:13.380 --> 00:48:15.860 I<00:48:13.480><c> was</c><00:48:13.579><c> telling</c><00:48:13.739><c> this</c><00:48:13.920><c> person,</c><00:48:14.460><c> hey,</c><00:48:15.119><c> I've</c><00:48:15.380><c> taken</c><00:48:15.500><c> care</c><00:48:15.659><c> of</c><00:48:15.739><c> it.</c> 00:48:15.900 --> 00:48:16.679 It's<00:48:15.920><c> done.</c> 00:48:16.739 --> 00:48:19.000 I'm<00:48:16.900><c> telling</c><00:48:16.960><c> this</c><00:48:17.119><c> person,</c><00:48:17.599><c> hey,</c><00:48:17.800><c> it's</c><00:48:17.980><c> in</c><00:48:18.099><c> the</c><00:48:18.239><c> mail.</c> 00:48:19.420 --> 00:48:22.260 Well,<00:48:19.800><c> really</c><00:48:20.119><c> what</c><00:48:20.239><c> I</c><00:48:20.539><c> meant</c><00:48:20.739><c> was,</c><00:48:21.659><c> as</c><00:48:21.739><c> soon</c><00:48:21.820><c> as</c><00:48:21.900><c> I</c><00:48:22.019><c> hang</c><00:48:22.139><c> up</c> 00:48:22.260 --> 00:48:22.539 with<00:48:22.420><c> you,</c> 00:48:22.539 --> 00:48:23.780 I'm<00:48:22.679><c> going</c><00:48:22.760><c> to</c><00:48:22.880><c> type</c><00:48:23.099><c> it</c><00:48:23.340><c> up.</c> 00:48:24.139 --> 00:48:25.079 Then<00:48:24.280><c> I'm</c><00:48:24.320><c> going</c><00:48:24.460><c> to</c><00:48:24.579><c> print</c><00:48:24.739><c> it.</c> 00:48:25.079 --> 00:48:26.599 Then<00:48:25.219><c> I'm</c><00:48:25.260><c> going</c><00:48:25.380><c> to</c><00:48:25.500><c> fold</c><00:48:25.719><c> it</c><00:48:25.900><c> and</c><00:48:25.980><c> sign</c><00:48:26.239><c> it.</c> 00:48:26.699 --> 00:48:28.099 Stick<00:48:26.860><c> it</c><00:48:26.980><c> in</c><00:48:27.059><c> an</c><00:48:27.179><c> envelope.</c> 00:48:28.480 --> 00:48:28.980 Meter<00:48:28.659><c> it.</c> 00:48:29.000 --> 00:48:30.599 And<00:48:29.079><c> then</c><00:48:29.159><c> it'll</c><00:48:29.260><c> be</c><00:48:29.440><c> in</c><00:48:29.599><c> the</c><00:48:29.760><c> mail.</c> 00:48:31.519 --> 00:48:33.360 It's<00:48:31.840><c> not</c><00:48:31.960><c> really</c><00:48:32.320><c> done.</c> 00:48:33.780 --> 00:48:36.059 It's<00:48:33.980><c> just</c><00:48:34.119><c> a</c><00:48:34.219><c> silly</c><00:48:34.480><c> little</c><00:48:34.719><c> thing</c><00:48:35.119><c> that</c><00:48:35.539><c> I</c><00:48:35.639><c> found</c><00:48:35.739><c> myself</c> 00:48:36.059 --> 00:48:37.340 doing<00:48:36.380><c> and</c><00:48:36.679><c> saying.</c> 00:48:37.880 --> 00:48:40.440 How<00:48:38.019><c> much</c><00:48:38.119><c> easier</c><00:48:38.320><c> can</c><00:48:38.460><c> it</c><00:48:38.619><c> say,</c><00:48:39.199><c> it's</c><00:48:39.579><c> just</c><00:48:39.719><c> as</c><00:48:39.860><c> easy</c><00:48:40.019><c> to</c><00:48:40.199><c> say,</c> 00:48:40.659 --> 00:48:43.139 well,<00:48:41.280><c> I'll</c><00:48:41.480><c> do</c><00:48:41.619><c> that</c><00:48:41.760><c> right</c><00:48:41.940><c> now.</c> 00:48:43.460 --> 00:48:45.679 Or<00:48:43.780><c> I'll</c><00:48:44.099><c> mail</c><00:48:44.199><c> that</c><00:48:44.420><c> out</c><00:48:44.559><c> as</c><00:48:44.699><c> soon</c><00:48:44.800><c> as</c><00:48:44.920><c> today.</c> 00:48:46.179 --> 00:48:46.820 I'll<00:48:46.659><c> mail</c><00:48:46.699><c> it</c><00:48:46.800><c> out.</c> 00:48:46.840 --> 00:48:48.480 I'll<00:48:46.980><c> get</c><00:48:47.079><c> it</c><00:48:47.300><c> done.</c> 00:48:51.199 --> 00:48:55.639 How<00:48:51.320><c> can</c><00:48:51.460><c> you</c><00:48:51.679><c> possibly</c><00:48:52.119><c> be</c><00:48:52.519><c> honest</c><00:48:53.119><c> with</c><00:48:53.739><c> yourself</c><00:48:54.400><c> if</c><00:48:55.380><c> you're</c><00:48:55.519><c> not</c> 00:48:55.639 --> 00:48:55.980 even<00:48:55.800><c> being</c> 00:48:55.980 --> 00:48:58.980 honest<00:48:56.280><c> with</c><00:48:56.420><c> those</c><00:48:56.659><c> around</c><00:48:57.000><c> you?</c> 00:49:00.380 --> 00:49:05.059 To<00:49:00.599><c> live</c><00:49:00.739><c> a</c><00:49:00.940><c> life</c><00:49:01.800><c> that's</c><00:49:02.219><c> most</c><00:49:02.599><c> beneficial</c><00:49:03.420><c> to</c><00:49:03.960><c> us</c><00:49:04.280><c> and</c><00:49:04.619><c> most</c> 00:49:05.059 --> 00:49:05.760 pleasing<00:49:05.380><c> to</c><00:49:05.579><c> God,</c> 00:49:05.820 --> 00:49:08.219 we<00:49:05.960><c> have</c><00:49:06.179><c> to</c><00:49:06.360><c> be</c><00:49:06.719><c> honest</c><00:49:07.059><c> with</c><00:49:07.239><c> ourselves.</c> 00:49:09.099 --> 00:49:12.280 So<00:49:09.280><c> to</c><00:49:09.440><c> be</c><00:49:09.659><c> dedicated</c><00:49:10.059><c> to</c><00:49:10.320><c> truth</c><00:49:10.480><c> means</c><00:49:10.980><c> that</c><00:49:11.500><c> we're</c><00:49:11.699><c> always</c> 00:49:12.280 --> 00:49:12.980 willing<00:49:12.500><c> to</c><00:49:12.659><c> be</c> 00:49:12.980 --> 00:49:19.119 challenged<00:49:13.500><c> and</c><00:49:14.420><c> to</c><00:49:14.739><c> grow</c><00:49:15.199><c> no</c><00:49:16.760><c> matter</c><00:49:17.000><c> how</c><00:49:17.360><c> painful</c><00:49:17.739><c> the</c><00:49:18.000><c> process.</c> 00:49:20.420 --> 00:49:22.139 And<00:49:20.519><c> when</c><00:49:20.559><c> you're</c><00:49:20.820><c> honest</c><00:49:20.940><c> with</c><00:49:21.139><c> yourself,</c> 00:49:22.639 --> 00:49:25.119 when<00:49:22.760><c> you</c><00:49:22.920><c> live</c><00:49:23.059><c> a</c><00:49:23.199><c> life</c><00:49:23.420><c> dedicated</c><00:49:23.920><c> to</c><00:49:24.199><c> truth,</c> 00:49:25.880 --> 00:49:29.780 you<00:49:25.980><c> sometimes</c><00:49:26.500><c> find</c><00:49:27.380><c> that</c><00:49:27.760><c> your</c><00:49:27.920><c> life</c><00:49:28.059><c> is</c><00:49:28.280><c> out</c><00:49:28.400><c> of</c><00:49:28.599><c> balance.</c> 00:49:30.900 --> 00:49:32.920 That's<00:49:31.079><c> what</c><00:49:31.119><c> we're</c><00:49:31.260><c> going</c><00:49:31.260><c> to</c><00:49:31.320><c> talk</c><00:49:31.460><c> about</c><00:49:31.619><c> this</c><00:49:31.860><c> evening,</c> 00:49:33.340 --> 00:49:35.079 is<00:49:33.559><c> balancing</c><00:49:33.920><c> our</c><00:49:34.219><c> life.</c> 00:49:35.460 --> 00:49:39.219 And<00:49:35.739><c> I</c><00:49:35.780><c> have</c><00:49:36.000><c> four</c><00:49:36.340><c> friends</c><00:49:36.960><c> I</c><00:49:37.840><c> want</c><00:49:38.019><c> to</c><00:49:38.199><c> introduce</c><00:49:38.380><c> you</c><00:49:38.579><c> to</c><00:49:38.659><c> tonight.</c> 00:49:39.219 --> 00:49:42.099 Thanks.